[HN Gopher] Steam, Itch.io are pulling 'porn' games. Critics say...
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       Steam, Itch.io are pulling 'porn' games. Critics say it's a
       slippery slope
        
       Author : 6d6b73
       Score  : 567 points
       Date   : 2025-07-25 16:27 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | righthand wrote:
       | More caving to the ultra-religious pearl grippers who just have
       | nothing better to do than tell others how to live.
       | 
       | All the hate speech trash and troll talk on the Steam forums is
       | fine though. All the war games are fine though. Make sure people
       | can validate genocide and what not but not see titties.
        
         | cosmic_cheese wrote:
         | No problems with violent imagery in TV and cinema either. In
         | fact some of the most popular shows and movies are full of it.
         | 
         | Not that I agree with censoring that (I don't), but the double
         | standard is puzzling.
        
           | mango7283 wrote:
           | You answered your own question - if you go after shows with
           | the popularity of game of thrones or games with the
           | popularity of grand theft auto you will fail.
           | 
           | They have picked their battle.
        
         | gotoeleven wrote:
         | It seems to me that people are waking up to the fact that
         | tolerance seems to be a suckers game. The only way to maintain
         | the social capital you have is to go on offense because at
         | least recently it seems like the people screaming for tolerance
         | don't actually have any once they become culturally ascendant.
         | Though maybe it was always thus.
        
         | some_random wrote:
         | This is being pushed by an Australian Feminist organization,
         | not the American Religious Right.
        
           | righthand wrote:
           | You may want to take a look at how feminist that organization
           | actually is.
        
             | some_random wrote:
             | There is a huge sex-negative feminist school of thought,
             | just because you don't like it doesn't mean it doesn't
             | exist.
        
               | righthand wrote:
               | I never declared it doesn't exist?
               | 
               | Let me respond with your attacking-style:
               | 
               | Just because you like it doesn't mean it's representative
               | of feminism at large. It doesn't mean it's not a
               | conservative think tank hiding behind a veil of feminism.
        
               | bluescrn wrote:
               | These days there seems to be a fair bit of sex-
               | inconsistent feminism.
               | 
               | With something like OnlyFans, where there's money to be
               | made, the 'sex work is real work!' slogan comes out. And
               | there's a reluctance to criticise big porn sites even
               | after claims of links to sex trafficking etc.
               | 
               | But at the same time, scantily-clad videogame characters
               | designed to appeal to the male gaze are deemed
               | unacceptable/objectifying/regressive. And 'sex robots'
               | are seen as a horrifying prospect.
        
               | some_random wrote:
               | There's a range of views from a range of people, that's
               | no surprise. That said, the common perception of men who
               | pay for sex work (especially OF) is extremely negative,
               | they are marks who deserve it. Meanwhile there is no such
               | perception of men who pay for traditional media.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | > _There is a huge sex-negative feminist school of
               | thought, just because you don 't like it doesn't mean it
               | doesn't exist._
               | 
               | The specific organization we're discussing is not
               | feminist. It's religious conservative, using some of the
               | trappings of feminism.
        
               | some_random wrote:
               | Is it? The religious conservative organizations I've seen
               | are also wringing their hands over other media as well
               | such as smut or that shitty netflix show, while this one
               | appears to be ambivalent to supportive.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | > _Is it?_
               | 
               | Yes, it is.
               | 
               | Let me see: they seem to receive funding from evangelical
               | organizations; the founder speaks/writes at Christian
               | venues and is pro-life, anti-gay/trans; they are
               | targeting games because that's what they happen to focus
               | on right now. They've also campaigned against Rap music
               | and artists in the past. They managed to get articles
               | critical of them pulled from VICE, etc. Their modus
               | operandi is typical of religious conservatives.
        
           | cosmic_cheese wrote:
           | The group bills themselves as feminist, but aligns with the
           | religious right in most of their policies. They're directly
           | at odds with many things feminists have fought for.
        
             | some_random wrote:
             | I agree completely that they align with the religious right
             | in this aspect, but you can't pretend that sex-negativity
             | isn't a huge school of thought in feminism. Vague calls to
             | "stop the sexualization of women in media (aimed at
             | hetrosexual men)" have been a huge part of the casual
             | feminist suite of views for at least a decade.
        
               | sjsdaiuasgdia wrote:
               | It's interesting that you equate opposition to
               | sexualization of women in media with sex negativity. One
               | does not necessarily imply the other. You can be sex
               | positive and believe that media sexualizes women to a
               | problematic degree.
        
               | some_random wrote:
               | There's a reason I wrote "casual feminist suite of views"
               | because while they two are very closely linked they are
               | indeed separate.
        
               | Dweller1622 wrote:
               | Can you give me an example of this? As far as I
               | understand it sex positivity doesn't seem to be concerned
               | with "media sexualizing women" in and of itself.
               | Consequently I'm not sure what "media [that] sexualizes
               | women to a problematic degree" is or would even look
               | like.
        
               | nosignono wrote:
               | It has to do with agency, primarily. Is the character in
               | the media given the agency and depth necessary to support
               | their sexual appetites? Or are they treated like an
               | object by the camera, a 2 dimensional cutout whose
               | purpose is only to be an object.
               | 
               | Compare, for example, Sex and the City, where 4 women
               | were regularly engaged in a variety of sexual encounters
               | and say, background dancers in a music video or advert
               | that exist to appeal as objects to a male audience.
        
               | Dweller1622 wrote:
               | I've definitely seen people say it's about agency, though
               | exactly what they mean by that and why they think that
               | matters tends to vary. That said, I suspect your response
               | is in line with the person I was originally responding
               | to.
               | 
               | In a different context I might be more sympathetic to
               | this specific formulation of the concept since it's not
               | always clear how much agency the background dancers in a
               | music video or advert have. However, on the original
               | topic of video games, the notion of "character agency" is
               | rather pernicious.
        
               | nosignono wrote:
               | In a videogame, I can think of some examples.
               | 
               | In Kotor 2, there's a character called "The Handmaiden",
               | who will join your party if the player character is a
               | male. She talks at great length about her situation and
               | the decisions the player _should_ make. She 's depicted
               | as a chaste, virginal religious character. But one of the
               | very first things you can do with her when she joins your
               | party is spar with her. And she strips into black
               | lingerie to do so. Then she _stays_ in black lingerie on
               | your ship while you go and do other stuff.
               | 
               | She's clearly there as an object for the audience to
               | drool over. It's given a _very_ surface level
               | justification ( "we always spar with only our bodies"),
               | but that justification is provided the instant before the
               | player sees her in her undies. (Which, it's important to
               | note, aren't like modest undergarments one might expect
               | from a religious figure like this, but are specifically
               | sexy underwear.)
               | 
               | Compare this to another Star Wars game, Jedi: Fallen
               | Order, where the Night Sister Mirrin can becomes
               | romantically involved with the player character. She has
               | a well developed culture, and is given space to
               | articulate her personality, choices, and opinions in a
               | cogent way. She can be a romantic interest without being
               | an object. She is as complex as all the other characters,
               | and we don't see her positioned in sexy lingerie suddenly
               | out of the blue.
               | 
               | I can come up with other examples if those aren't
               | illustrative.
        
               | Dweller1622 wrote:
               | No, that's fine, since I think it's not only the case
               | that these are sufficient, but that I simply wasn't
               | explicit enough in my rejection.
               | 
               | What I'm disputing is any application of objectification
               | theory to media analysis wherein there are no actual
               | agents involved. Neither The Handmaiden nor Night Sister
               | Mirrin ever possessed any agency, nor were they deprived
               | of it. There is simply no moral valence in how one treats
               | or regards them.
               | 
               | The demand here is that they be treated as if they
               | possessed agency. I see no reason or obligation to do so.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | But the specific organization we're discussing is not
               | feminist, they only disguise themselves as such.
        
               | poszlem wrote:
               | No true feminist...
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | The "no true Scotsman" dismissal doesn't work when it's
               | actually _not_ a Scotsman.
               | 
               | Or, as in this case, it's not a feminist organization.
        
               | morkalork wrote:
               | You can't really say that, there are many variations; for
               | example, the women advocating for prohibition of alcohol
               | way back in the day were feminists. Socially, their views
               | would be more aligned with this Australian organization.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | But that'd be damning: these views (banning alcohol) of
               | _some_ of the early feminist movements are hopelessly
               | outdated. Alignment with them would make Collective Shout
               | conservative... and aligned with today 's religious
               | right, as I'm arguing all along.
        
               | nosignono wrote:
               | There exist sex-negative feminists, but it is wrong to
               | describe that as a feminist position.
               | 
               | For the better part of a decade feminists have been
               | wildly anti- _objectification_ , not anti-sex. It's an
               | important distinction.
               | 
               | For example, most modern feminists are pro sex-work, but
               | only under conditions that guarantee safety, autonomy,
               | and health care for the sex workers. That's very
               | different from how most sex work is done today. So a
               | modern feminist might say that we should be doing more to
               | protect the sex workers who are held in bondage by a
               | pimp, and forced to walk the streets while simultaneously
               | arguing in favor of well regulated, protected brothels or
               | private sex work.
        
           | numpad0 wrote:
           | I see Mormon(LDS) churches occasionally mentioned on these
           | topics. The Australian cult angle had only surfaced during
           | the last week or so.
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | I believe they get funding from evangelical orgs though
           | 
           | and you have to assume MasterCard is willing and cooperating
           | here to some extent
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | > _This is being pushed by an Australian Feminist
           | organization, not the American Religious Right._
           | 
           | The founder is Christian and writes and speaks in Christian
           | venues and publications.
           | 
           | She's not a "feminist" by any reasonable and modern
           | definition of the word.
        
             | BJones12 wrote:
             | Being Christian does not mean one is not feminist. This
             | person seems to advocate for a multitude of things
             | including ones that are historically feminist (of at least
             | one commonly accepted variety of feminism). Those
             | advocations make it reasonable to call her a feminist.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | I didn't mean that one cannot be a Christian and a
               | feminist.
               | 
               | I meant that this person chooses Christian venues to
               | voice her opinions, and shares with them non-feminist
               | values such as being "pro life", etc.
               | 
               | Hers is not a feminist organization, and Collective Shout
               | is perceived by some as a right-wing group seeking to
               | also ban LGTB+ depictions in videogames (which is not
               | standard feminist agenda). Like another commenter
               | mentioned, Collective Shout receives funding from
               | evangelical organizations. And really, you have to ask
               | yourself: since _when_ exactly payment processors paid
               | any attention to what genuine feminist organizations had
               | to say about _anything_?
               | 
               | At some point you cannot ignore the evidence anymore. At
               | best you can point the non-empty intersection of
               | conservative Christian groups and _some sex-negative_
               | feminists who both seek to ban pornography, but this
               | doesn 't make them the same thing.
               | 
               | TL;DR this is a variation of "will somebody think of the
               | children!?" pearl-clutching, and everyone should know by
               | now it doesn't lead to anything good.
        
           | baobabKoodaa wrote:
           | It's unfathomable that an Australian Feminist organization
           | wields this much power in the U.S. and globally. It seems
           | more likely that this is a front.
        
             | tumsfestival wrote:
             | You're not wrong. I read a couple days ago that this group
             | receives funding from evangelical organizations to do
             | stunts like this. I don't know if the intention is to false
             | flag feminists as responsible, but it sure seems like it.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | The processors had this bias for decades. Some calls that
             | already conform to what they want to do needs less nudging
             | than proper consumer rights.
        
         | tracker1 wrote:
         | It's not just mature content... there have been efforts to
         | reduce the ability to legally purchase firearms as well as
         | suppression of prominent social media figures. Not just the CC
         | companies, but even the larger payment processors like
         | Stripe/Paypal etc. are all doing it for different categories.
         | 
         | There is a reason you have to pay cash at dispensaries, etc.
        
           | alexjplant wrote:
           | > There is a reason you have to pay cash at dispensaries,
           | etc.
           | 
           | I used to work for a fintech. As new employee I had coffee
           | with a colleague who explained KYC, AML, and other compliance
           | topics to me. They mentioned that marijuana businesses can't
           | bank their money due to these considerations as it would make
           | banks knowing accomplices to the federal crime of trafficking
           | a controlled substance. This threat is material because
           | cannabis, unlike adult content, is actually illegal, so I
           | don't think it's a substantially similar example to what's
           | mentioned in this thread.
        
             | tracker1 wrote:
             | I understand that cannabis is slightly different, but my
             | other examples aren't.
        
       | magicmicah85 wrote:
       | This is an opportunity for an entrepreneur to create a
       | censorship-resistant platform, though, I don't know how you do it
       | profitably when CSAM and other potentially criminal content needs
       | to be reviewed.
        
         | FirmwareBurner wrote:
         | CSAM means material of actual kids, meaning actual victims from
         | the real world have been harmed/abused. Weird video games on
         | the porn side, are only fictional 3D models made of pixels, so
         | no humans are being harmed.
         | 
         | When I used to kill cops in GTA Vice City as a kid, 20 years
         | ago, I wasn't killing actual cops(duh!). Has society lost their
         | collective marbles since then, and can't differentiate what's a
         | real crime and what's manufactured fiction anymore? Should we
         | also ban all porn off the internet on the same logic?
         | 
         | None of the games banned by Valve in the Visa/Mastercard
         | scandal had any CSAM related stuff in them, they were just
         | weird/degenerate for puritans, however they were not illegal.
         | 
         | BTW, has anyone seen the female erotica book section in Barns &
         | Noble? If we banned those games for being too erotic, we should
         | also ban those books then, because in those books, women
         | subject themselves to a lot of degenerate smut and they love
         | reading that shit, yet nobody judges them or asks for that to
         | be censored.
         | 
         | So then why is society and the private sector bowing down to
         | some screeching harpies activist group who just want to ban all
         | stuff they dislike, even though it's all legal to the T and
         | nobody is being hurt?
         | 
         | Why isn't this activist group putting pressure to release the
         | Epstein files, since actual kids have been harmed there? Are
         | they going undercover with police officers into human
         | trafficking orgs to fight child abuse? NOOO, of course not,
         | it's much easier to claim you scored a victory for child abuse
         | by going after people's video games for having computer
         | generated pixels of kids. Get effed!
        
           | progbits wrote:
           | I think OP is saying someone should make a platform that
           | hasn't lost marbles and would allow this content, but you
           | would still want to block CSAM and that is not easy to do.
        
             | mostlysimilar wrote:
             | Itch hasn't lost its marbles, they're forced to remove this
             | content by payment processors. They're critical
             | infrastructure, they shouldn't be allowed to arbitrate on
             | behalf of an entire society. We need laws to require them
             | to carry payments for any legal transaction. Paying for
             | porn games is legal.
        
               | progbits wrote:
               | Nobody said anything about itch, this is about the whole
               | payment system. You are agreeing with both of us but
               | writing it as argument.
               | 
               | But the lack of reading comprehension on this site is
               | making me lose my marbles.
        
               | mostlysimilar wrote:
               | My apologies, my anger is at the payment processors, not
               | at you/not meant to be combative.
        
               | progbits wrote:
               | All good, I'm angry at the same.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I think the implication with saying "a company that
               | hasn't lost its marbles" is that Itch and Steam have lost
               | their marbles. You can argue that Steam should have
               | pushed back, but Itch definitely lacks the leverage to
               | refuse here.
        
           | magicmicah85 wrote:
           | IANAL, but I understand there are varying definitions of CSAM
           | which is also why I said "and other potentially criminal
           | content". I'm also not equating CSAM to the actual reasons
           | people are using financial censorship, I'm highlighting a
           | challenge of a censorship resistant platform.
        
           | numpad0 wrote:
           | > are only fictional 3D models made of pixels, so no humans
           | are being harmed
           | 
           | I'm beginning to wonder if that's exactly what these
           | religious cults are having issues with.
           | 
           | If we think about it, liberalism came to existence partly as
           | antithesis to medieval church ideologies. Maybe principles
           | such as freedom of speech and freedom of thought within
           | liberalism used to be specific reactionist smite against
           | whatever religious bigotry around back in 1400s-1600s, and
           | stressing what everyone thinks as the most liberalist,
           | neutral, and rational take on these topics is what they find
           | insulting.
           | 
           | Not that I necessarily care, but I do want to know if there's
           | any good ways to get them up to at least year 2000 and
           | beyond. It's 2025 after all.
        
             | LtWorf wrote:
             | > If we think about it, liberalism came to existence partly
             | as antithesis to medieval church ideologies.
             | 
             | Sounds news to me. Do you have any origin for this?
        
           | slillibri wrote:
           | > all legal to the T
           | 
           | You might want to check that because it's not so cut and
           | dried: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_status_of_fictiona
           | l_porn...
        
           | Nasrudith wrote:
           | > When I used to kill cops in GTA Vice City as a kid, 20
           | years ago, I wasn't killing actual cops(duh!). Has society
           | lost their collective marbles since then, and can't
           | differentiate what's a real crime and what's manufactured
           | fiction anymore?
           | 
           | I suspect the answer is unironically yes to that question. I
           | have seen far too many people citing fiction as 'evidence'
           | for their positions. I think media literacy in the bottom
           | half of the bell-curve has literally gotten so bad that
           | distinguishing fiction from reality is beyond the capability
           | of at least 10% of the population. In adults without any
           | diagnosed mental disability.
        
           | bitwize wrote:
           | U.S. law says otherwise:
           | 
           | https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/1466A
           | 
           | > (c)Nonrequired Element of Offense.-- It is not a required
           | element of any offense under this section that the minor
           | depicted actually exist.
        
         | righthand wrote:
         | The major problem is the payment processors though. Unless you
         | defeat that duopoly or only accept cash how do you stop this
         | exact situation?
         | 
         | There are the FedNow tokens and ACH which could help but it
         | still requires quite a bit of cost to begin even that route. My
         | customers are going to want to use their cards to pay too.
        
           | badsectoracula wrote:
           | Yeah and it isn't just you accepting cash. Let's say you
           | decide to go with cash (or, more realistically, manual bank
           | transfers) and even get some host like 1984 that'd go to the
           | court for you, but what stops Visa/MC to go directly at your
           | host and tell them to either drop your site or they'll drop
           | them?
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | In theory, if you went "full crypto", there's probably
             | options like Filecoin and web3 domains (I'm not in that
             | space enough to know what the current versions of these
             | are) that could make something "uncensorable" by Visa/MC,
             | but it also would limit its reach heavily.
        
           | magicmicah85 wrote:
           | Cryptocurrency is the only way I see this working.
        
             | Night_Thastus wrote:
             | Adding a broken, inefficient system to a problem just makes
             | 2 problems.
        
             | righthand wrote:
             | Cryptocurrency is a nice idea but there are and have always
             | been too many gas fees for anyone to sensibly use it. I
             | want to buy something not support everyone that get their
             | hands in my transaction chain.
             | 
             | The US government can break up the duopoly and open up
             | payments processing federally. That's worth the investment
             | than that pipe dream of a global, frictionless
             | cryptocurrency.
        
               | TheCraiggers wrote:
               | > The US government can break up the duopoly and open up
               | payments processing federally.
               | 
               | Between that and someone actually creating a viable Steam
               | competitor, I will say the government breaking them up
               | and rolling out their own solution would be even less
               | likely. You'd have fights on both sides of the isle _and_
               | from privacy groups. Not that we have much privacy now
               | under the current scheme, but there 's at least a tiny
               | bit of separation between V/MC and the government.
               | 
               | What should happen instead is regulation. They should be
               | held to the same standards as legal tender since they're
               | used in place as such. They shouldn't get to decide how
               | it's used, and that should be enforced.
        
               | righthand wrote:
               | Isn't regulation even less likely though than a split?
               | You yourself acknowledge the times and the current admin
               | is heavy anti-regulation.
        
               | TheCraiggers wrote:
               | Perhaps. You're right that it's currently unlikely, but I
               | still argue that it would be easier to legislate than
               | split up. It's not like the financial industry doesn't
               | already have an insane amount of rules and regulations at
               | both the state and federal level preventing them from
               | being _too_ nefarious. Having a rule that states  "You're
               | not allowed to cut off vendor foo just because they sell
               | bar" doesn't seem that much of a stretch, especially if
               | you look at credit as basically another form of legal
               | tender.
        
               | xur17 wrote:
               | This has mostly been solved. Bitcoin's lightning network,
               | ethereum layer 2 networks, etc all have sub-cent fees.
        
               | lynndotpy wrote:
               | Not sure about Ethereum's equivalent, but 'Lightning'
               | just reintroduces the problem of having one person act
               | like a payment processor.
        
               | xur17 wrote:
               | Not sure I follow.
        
               | righthand wrote:
               | V or MC perhaps?
        
               | 0x457 wrote:
               | >Cryptocurrency is a nice idea but there are and have
               | always been too many gas fees for anyone to sensibly use
               | it. I want to buy something not support everyone that get
               | their hands in my transaction chain.
               | 
               | But you're doing this with credit cards already?
               | Different amounts, but still supporting everyone in a
               | chain. If you want to "buy" something without supporting
               | intermediates, then barter is the only way to go.
               | Everything else requires common trust, and common trust
               | comes with operating cost.
        
               | bornfreddy wrote:
               | > Cryptocurrency is a nice idea but there are and have
               | always been too many gas fees for anyone to sensibly use
               | it.
               | 
               | That's not true, at least not in general. Polygon (and
               | USDT/USDC on Polygon) fees are near zero, Ethereum is
               | lately very cheap, and even Bitcoin fees are no longer
               | outrageous. EDIT: ...and Bitcoin Lightning is cheap.
               | 
               | A lot of p0rn payment processing is done in crypto for
               | exactly the censorship reasons. If you can't use the
               | payment processor, who cares what their fees are? (not
               | saying they are cheaper or more expensive than crypto - I
               | don't know)
        
             | xxs wrote:
             | So, you don't see it working at all.
        
             | logicchains wrote:
             | It already works; it's how people in China purchase adult
             | content online, which is illegal there. Usually with USDT
             | (which is also illegal there).
        
           | crooked-v wrote:
           | There's the Fair Access to Banking Act
           | (https://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/senate-
           | bill/401), currently stuck in committee, which would make it
           | illegal for various financial services, including payment
           | processors, to deny service for mere reputational reasons.
        
             | delecti wrote:
             | I wrongly assumed this was a D bill, and would die in
             | committee. Turns out it's actually an R bill, with
             | exclusively R sponsors, and now I'm wondering what awful
             | shit is hiding in it.
             | 
             | Though almost all of the sponsors are from almost 6 months
             | ago, so it might die in committee anyway.
        
               | crooked-v wrote:
               | The text is on there and is very straightforward. As far
               | as I can tell it's a basically good bill.
        
               | delecti wrote:
               | I agree that the text sounds good. I'm worried about the
               | consequences I might not think of. What legal services
               | are the Ds and Rs thinking of that currently have trouble
               | with payment processors, and which are causing a lot of
               | Rs to sponsor and no Ds? Because I'm sure it's not porn
               | and video games.
        
               | dlachausse wrote:
               | Operation Choke Point is referenced by the proposed
               | bill...
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Choke_Point
               | 
               | > Operation Choke Point was an initiative of the United
               | States Department of Justice beginning in 2013 which
               | investigated banks in the United States and the business
               | they did with firearm dealers, payday lenders, and other
               | companies that, while operating legally, were said to be
               | at a high risk for fraud and money laundering.
               | 
               | There's a whole list on the Wikipedia article of the
               | kinds of legal businesses that were targeted by this.
               | Some of them make sense, but others look like very
               | serious 1A and 2A violations.
        
               | metalcrow wrote:
               | Historically, payment processors were usually against
               | republicans, which is why you see them acting in support
               | of this.
        
               | AdmiralAsshat wrote:
               | > and now I'm wondering what awful shit is hiding in it.
               | 
               | Had to look into it a bit.
               | 
               | From looking at the text of the bill, it looks like the
               | sponsor did not like Operation Choke Point [0], which was
               | specifically targeting banks that did business with
               | Payday Lenders, Ponzi Schemes, and other shady vendors.
               | 
               | This also included pornography, but I'm willing to bet
               | that's not what Sen. Cramer was upset about. More likely,
               | he's simply serving the interest of his donors.
               | 
               | He also might have extremist "small business"
               | constituents that are perhaps selling
               | racist/sexist/homophobic merch, and they don't like being
               | told that their bank/credit card processors are refusing
               | to process payments on that swag.
               | 
               | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Choke_Point
        
               | vdqtp3 wrote:
               | That's disingenuous. There were plenty of legit business
               | types included also. Directly from your link:
               | ammunition sales              ATM operators
               | cable box de-scramblers              coin dealers
               | credit card schemes              credit repair services
               | dating services              debt consolidation scams
               | drug paraphernalia              escort services
               | firearms sales              fireworks sales
               | get rich products              government grants
               | home-based charities              lifetime guarantees
               | lifetime memberships              lottery sales
               | mailing lists/personal info              money transfer
               | networks              online gambling              pawn
               | shops              payday loans
               | pharmaceutical sales              Ponzi schemes
               | pornography[5]              pyramid-type sales
               | racist materials              surveillance equipment
               | telemarketing              tobacco sales
               | travel clubs
        
               | bigstrat2003 wrote:
               | > Turns out it's actually an R bill, with exclusively R
               | sponsors, and now I'm wondering what awful shit is hiding
               | in it.
               | 
               | It seems to me like if you thought something was good and
               | then switched to thinking it was bad based just on who
               | proposed it, you need to stop being prejudiced. Evaluate
               | ideas (or bills) for their merits, not based on who
               | originated them.
        
               | delecti wrote:
               | Being a member of a political party is cosigning their
               | platform, and based on a consistent 60+ years pattern of
               | behavior they do not deserve any benefit of the doubt.
               | It's not prejudice if it's based on observation. It's
               | entirely reasonable to wonder what ghoulish motives they
               | might have for an idea I initially thought sounded good.
        
               | zbentley wrote:
               | > Evaluate ideas (or bills) for their merits, not based
               | on who originated them.
               | 
               | Ideas? Sure. Bills? No.
               | 
               | So much of how a piece of legislation affects society has
               | to do with the agendas of the people behind it (no matter
               | what it says in text) and the means by which the
               | executive implements it (often hand-in-glove with the
               | agendas of the legislation's originators).
               | 
               | https://www.eatingpolicy.com/p/understanding-the-cascade-
               | of-...
        
               | perihelions wrote:
               | Debanking is a form of social deplatforming that (for
               | now) mostly targets right-wing causes. That's not _at
               | all_ to assert that the bill is _wrong_ or that
               | censorship is _right_ --I'm just clarifying why it's
               | Republicans on the side against censorship, in this
               | context, when in other contexts the roles are flipped.
               | 
               | You can read the bill's author (Kevin Cramer) discussing
               | that bill and his motives for writing it:
               | 
               | https://web.archive.org/web/20250715113010/https://fedsoc
               | .or... ( _" Debanking: The Newest Threat to Free Speech
               | and Religious Liberty?_) (2024)
               | 
               | > [Senator Kevin Cramer] _"...I 've heard that one from
               | some pretty big bank presidents - but they get a lot of
               | noise in their left ear and you have activist investors
               | and whatnot that are saying, hey, you know what? We don't
               | like coal. We don't like oil, we don't like natural gas.
               | We don't like private prisons, or we don't like
               | ammunition shops or gun manufacturers or whatever the
               | case might be, the entire category or industry and says,
               | "Well, so we're not going to bank them. We're going to
               | debank them. We're not going to bank them. You're
               | disqualified from getting money from us.", and they're
               | starving these industries out. And all this really is, in
               | my view, you guys is this is a political agenda where
               | they're utilizing the leverage of the financial services
               | sector to accomplish policy goals that they can't
               | accomplish any other way."_
        
           | kelseyfrog wrote:
           | Is it not possible to jawbone them into favoring free speech?
           | 
           | If they are easy to sway in one direction, why not the other?
           | Simply do what Collective Shout did, but in the opposite
           | direction?
        
         | mwill wrote:
         | These conservative groups aren't pressuring Steam and Itch
         | directly, they're targeting payment processors.
         | 
         | I don't think it's realistically viable to compete with Steam
         | (or Itch) without access to Mastercard and Visa.
         | 
         | (For anyone thinking crypto: we have a different idea of what
         | it means to be either "realistically viable" or to "compete
         | with Steam")
        
           | magicmicah85 wrote:
           | You don't need to compete with Steam or Itch for games that
           | they can't sell, you're in your own market.
        
             | josh_p wrote:
             | being discoverable on the existing markets is extremely
             | valuable.
        
             | MBCook wrote:
             | And as soon as people find out you exist, they get the
             | payment processors to shut you down too as part of their
             | crusade.
             | 
             | Now what?
             | 
             | If you're visible, you're a target. If you're not, you
             | don't matter.
        
               | creer wrote:
               | The suggestion is new start businesses that do not need
               | credit card processors.
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | We're back to chicken and egg.
               | 
               | If it's not a credit card, it's what debit? Different
               | countries do it differently, so that's a big hassle for
               | the storefront. Sure you can use a payment processor, but
               | look it's someone to pressure to prevent you from taking
               | money again.
               | 
               | Maybe Crypto? How do people buy that crypto? Probably
               | want to use credit cards. Oops. Or debit. See above. How
               | do you turn your crypto into currency to pay your
               | employees? That's an institution to pressure to block you
               | again.
               | 
               | If your new system interacts with the old system _at all_
               | there is an attack point. So unless you can bootstrap an
               | entire alternate financial system where people can live
               | without needing to access the old one you're in trouble.
               | 
               | And if you do succeed, the law and the same groups will
               | come knocking.
               | 
               | You can't get away from the banking system. The only
               | solution to this is regulation, and I don't see that
               | happening.
        
               | creer wrote:
               | > If your new system interacts with the old system at all
               | there is an attack point.
               | 
               | Yes but no. Currently the issue is that these two payment
               | systems - both credit/debit card networks - (1) have the
               | power to decide with impunity, because they have critical
               | mass. And (2) have visibility into who each vendor is and
               | what they are selling. If there is one case of abusing
               | market dominance, this is it - and for all we frequently
               | hear, this is REALLY not all that common. (And it's
               | "funny" that we hear a lot about Apple's app store - but
               | not about their anti-adult content rules!)
               | 
               | For example, right now a bank would have a VERY hard time
               | preventing you from paying for $OBJECTIONABLE_CONTENT
               | with crypto. That bank would have no visibility into who
               | you are paying with that crypto. There are other crypto
               | intermediaries but they are "diffuse". Nobody in there
               | has both visibility and power.
               | 
               | For example, right now some vendors accept gift cards as
               | payment. Buy a Home Depot gift card in cash at your local
               | store and use it to pay for $OBJECTIONABLE_CONTENT.
               | Obviously this is not a very efficient payment
               | infrastructure but it exists.
               | 
               | But yes of course, imposing to credit card networks to be
               | content-blind would be helpful and soooo much more
               | efficient.
        
             | chipsa wrote:
             | What you need for running a site that people might not
             | like: 1. Your own servers 2. Your own network 3. Your own
             | CDN 4. Your own payment processor
             | 
             | Step 4 gets you thrown in jail for violating AML.
        
             | creer wrote:
             | It's hard for the big companies which want to stay big -
             | and so feel that they can't live without credit cards. But
             | indeed that's not an issue for newcomers.
             | 
             | The problem with alternatives to things like OnlyFans is
             | that the performers who work through OnlyFans want to go
             | where people can find them. They can dumb down their acts -
             | and have lots of paying traffic, or they can do what they
             | would prefer - and have hardly any paying traffic. That's
             | tough.
        
           | hungmung wrote:
           | If we don't get a section 230 for payment processors we're
           | looking at serious consequences for 1A because everything
           | will be a civil suit away from getting blacklisted.
           | _Economist_ reported that adult performers are having trouble
           | keeping bank accounts open -- as soon as a bank or payment
           | processor finds out it 's porn-related it gets nuked. Now
           | that this is established practice, what's going to happen
           | when Visa/MC gets sued for handling payments to do with
           | disagreeable political speech? Our right to freedom of speech
           | is currently only as strong as what Visa/MC are willing to
           | defend in court, or you'd better be willing to live without
           | any access to the banking system -- even if you're a
           | gazillionaire who doesn't have to work, you've got to keep
           | your money somewhere (and satisfy KYC).
           | 
           | Even if somebody thinks certain speech should be censored, I
           | doubt they'd want what they consider unsavory speech being
           | driven to use a payment system like Bitcoin, and for that to
           | become the norm, it would open up much more potential for
           | abuse.
        
             | MBCook wrote:
             | This is not the administration to ask for that.
        
               | qball wrote:
               | Why not? Payment processors have done it to guns just as
               | much as they've done it to porn, both under the Obama
               | administration.
        
               | MBCook wrote:
               | I think they would be far more likely to support a gun
               | exception than a general "no moralizing" rule.
               | 
               | They seem totally fine with the age checks many states
               | are enacting for porn sites. The Republican Party loves
               | slagging pedophiles (real or imagined) and hating on
               | LGBTQIA+ people or trying to make their lives as
               | difficult/horrible as possible.
               | 
               | Yeah some games delisted were horrible. One of the main
               | offenders had already been pulled as soon as Steam (or
               | was it Itch) was notified. But they still used it as
               | evidence. The platforms were policing themselves well.
               | 
               | But not only did gratuitous porn games and abuse games
               | get delisted, lots of games on related to inclusiveness
               | of LGBTQIA+ did too from what I'm seeing from developers
               | on social media.
               | 
               | I suspect if anything the administration would be _happy_
               | to let people use this as yet another hammer in their
               | culture war against such people existing.
               | 
               | That's why.
        
               | atmavatar wrote:
               | Because one of the goals of project 2025 is to make porn
               | illegal.                   Pornography, manifested today
               | in the omnipresent propagation of transgender ideology
               | and sexualization of children, for instance, is not a
               | political Gordian knot inextricably binding up disparate
               | claims about free speech, property rights, sexual
               | liberation, and child welfare. It has no claim to First
               | Amendment protection. Its purveyors are child predators
               | and misogynistic exploiters of women. Their product is as
               | addictive as any illicit drug and as psychologically
               | destructive as any crime. Pornography should be outlawed.
               | The people who produce and distribute it should be
               | imprisoned. Educators and public librarians who purvey it
               | should be classed as registered sex offenders. And
               | telecommunications and technology firms that facilitate
               | its spread should be shuttered.
               | 
               | Bonus: it also aims to eliminate sex ed.
               | eliminate central promotion of abortion; comprehensive
               | sexuality education; and the new woke gender ideology
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | So they want to not have women abort children, but also
               | not have them aware of how their bodies and sex works.
               | Surely not a formula for a dysfunctional future
               | generation.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | That they really want is to eliminate any sort of ground
               | truth so that whoever holds the power can resolve related
               | issues by fiat. Less policy, more kissing the ring and
               | such.
               | 
               | This way, abusers can disagree about what constitutes
               | abuse in private, but can form a bloc in public, unifying
               | around the common ground that the boss's whims should be
               | respected in matters where the bandying about of facts is
               | taboo. Might makes right, etc.
        
               | evan_ wrote:
               | It's not a contradiction at all, they want women to get
               | knocked up as early as possible because (the thought is)
               | that makes them easier to control. That's what all this
               | "tradwife" propaganda is about.
        
           | jacobsimon wrote:
           | Maybe a silly idea, but here's a solution to prevent
           | financial censorship: make the game free. Or monetize via
           | another way--ads, subscriptions, credits. There's actually a
           | lot of options for Steam if they aren't being pressured
           | directly to remove the content.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | > if they aren't being pressured directly to remove the
             | content.
             | 
             | The problem is that they aren't being told "we won't let
             | people buy this through us", they're told "this needs to go
             | entirely or no more credit cards for you".
        
               | jacobsimon wrote:
               | Fair enough - so in reality they _are_ being pressured
               | directly to remove the content and it has nothing to do
               | with selling the products. A slippery slope indeed!
        
               | gs17 wrote:
               | And it proves that it's not about these games having high
               | risks of fraud and chargebacks.
        
             | pfisch wrote:
             | F2P games are very different in design from regular
             | games(and far worse imo)
             | 
             | You can't even realistically have a F2P game that requires
             | a high spec machine because of how the market works.
        
               | zer0tonin wrote:
               | There's quite a few F2P games requiring high spec
               | machines, Throne & Liberty for example.
        
             | jandrese wrote:
             | > Or monetize via another way--ads, subscriptions, credits
             | 
             | That don't use Visa/Mastercard? The bans aren't coming from
             | the platforms but from the payment processors.
        
             | WorldMaker wrote:
             | Most of the games that have been deindexed on itch.io and
             | some of the ones that were banned/removed were free or Pay-
             | What-You-Want/Donation-Ware (some even via Patreon or
             | SubscribeStar rather than itch.io's own payment
             | processing).
             | 
             | The problem isn't just "the Payment Processor doesn't want
             | to support this game" but also "this game shows Guilt-By-
             | Association that your platform's money might go to
             | 'criminals' or 'sinners'."
             | 
             | Guilt-By-Association is real gross, but a large part of the
             | current fight, too, especially looking at itch.io's payment
             | processor-required actions, not just Steam's.
        
             | gqgs wrote:
             | >Or monetize via another way--ads, subscriptions, credits.
             | 
             | All of those are still prone to censorship if the attacking
             | group is motivated enough. Even crypto, which should be the
             | ideal solution to this problem, is not ideal because most
             | transactions are performed through centralized exchanges
             | which can easily blacklist whatever transactions they want.
        
             | axus wrote:
             | "Citizen's United" wasn't _wrong_ about money being a type
             | of speech, that shouldn't be censored. Only wrong about who
             | the first amendment is for.
        
           | madaxe_again wrote:
           | Just get people to mail you cash. Sounds stupid, but that's
           | how I built my first ecommerce business in the 90's, and it
           | was a pretty normal way to pay for stuff online. Cash, money
           | order, bank cheque, whatever.
        
             | TulliusCicero wrote:
             | > Just get people to mail you cash.
             | 
             | > (For anyone thinking crypto: we have a different idea of
             | what it means to be either "realistically viable" or to
             | "compete with Steam")
             | 
             | Wow, not crypto, but GP fucking nailed it.
        
             | FranchuFranchu wrote:
             | You can't realistically target anyone outside the US with
             | this.
        
               | TulliusCicero wrote:
               | You can't even realistically target people inside the US
               | with this. How many people are gonna mail cash to buy
               | digital games? Gimme a fucking break.
               | 
               | Yes, a small business in the 90s may have been able to
               | make it work, but it's not the 90s anymore.
        
               | TimorousBestie wrote:
               | You can't realistically target anyone inside the US with
               | it either. USPS is allowed to seize cash in packages if
               | it believes it's being used for illegal purposes.
        
               | veeti wrote:
               | Back in the days we used to mail cash in an envelope all
               | the way to Britain just for some RuneScape membership
               | time.
        
               | efskap wrote:
               | It worked for Amazon.com in 1995!
               | 
               | > Bezos: We got an order from somebody in Bulgaria, and
               | this person sent us cash through the mail to pay for
               | their order. And they sent us two crisp $100 bills. And
               | they put these two $100 bills inside a floppy disk. And
               | then they put a note on the cover of the floppy disk, and
               | they mailed this whole thing to us. And the note on the
               | cover of the floppy disk said, "The money is inside the
               | floppy disk. The customs inspectors steal the money, but
               | they don't read English." That shows you the effort to
               | which people will go to be able to buy things.
        
           | the8472 wrote:
           | > I don't think it's realistically viable to compete with
           | Steam (or Itch) without access to Mastercard and Visa.
           | 
           | They could not allow those games to be sold through those
           | particular payment processors and require wire transfers
           | instead. More cumbersome payment method, but better than
           | outright banning them.
           | 
           | If the payment processors try to dictate what content these
           | sites may host even when it involves competing processors
           | that sounds quite anti-competitive practice.
        
             | mywittyname wrote:
             | The impression I get is allowing them to be purchased _at
             | all_ is grounds for the payment processor to suspend their
             | account. So this solution is a no-go.
             | 
             | Probably the only way around it is to spin up a completely
             | different corporate entity which only allows for payments
             | via wire transfer, ACH, or perhaps some of the various
             | payment apps available.
        
               | the8472 wrote:
               | Like I said, that smell like anti-competitive behavior.
               | It basically means the payment processor denies
               | competitors a business opportunity for cases they don't
               | want to service.
        
           | jimbob45 wrote:
           | _they 're targeting payment processors_
           | 
           | They're not "targeting" payment processors. Payment
           | processors have to deal with significantly more problems due
           | to the nature of porn games and chargebacks. Fix those
           | problems and the payment processors won't have a reason
           | anymore to ban porn (or anything). What's the point of a
           | capitalist economy if not for startups to target market needs
           | like these?
        
             | jdasdf wrote:
             | Those problems are artificially created by regulation.
             | There is nothing inherent to these topics that makes
             | servicing them physically impossible.
             | 
             | Charge backs, etc... can be effectively solved by
             | appropriately pricing in such risks (or not offering those
             | services at all).
             | 
             | This isn't a payment processor issue, it's a political
             | choice.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | > Payment processors have to deal with significantly more
             | problems due to the nature of porn games and chargebacks.
             | 
             | This is commonly repeated, but doesn't hold up. Chargeback
             | fees (especially for card-not-present transactions) are
             | paid by the merchant and are simply increased (with
             | reserves required) for high-risk accounts. It also wouldn't
             | make sense to target hyper-specific niches if it were
             | really about chargebacks, they would go after all of it,
             | and go after things like the CS marketplace.
             | 
             | But the biggest giveaway IMO is that they do not allow,
             | e.g., Steam selling these games crypto-only. It's either
             | remove them entirely or remove credit cards entirely. If it
             | was really about specific titles having high
             | fraud/chargeback rates, selling them some other way would
             | be fine.
        
           | zahlman wrote:
           | Most of the people I've seen advocating for this kind of
           | pressure, for the purpose of suppressing this sort of content
           | in video games, would describe themselves as very much the
           | opposite of "conservative". But perhaps it's for the better
           | that they are recognized as such. Because it really is a
           | conservative instinct, no matter what American party politics
           | might currently be dictating.
        
           | leptons wrote:
           | >These conservative groups aren't pressuring Steam and Itch
           | directly
           | 
           | Pretty soon (in the U.S.) all porn and sexual-adjacent
           | content is going to be illegal. The christo-fascists
           | currently in power said they were going to do it, and they
           | will.
        
         | BoxFour wrote:
         | Even if you manage to sidestep the issues with payment
         | processors mentioned elsewhere, you don't end up as a "popular
         | platform that just happens to take a principled stance and also
         | hosts some controversial material."
         | 
         | Instead, you become the hub for that kind of material -- and
         | that reputation drives away more mainstream creators who won't
         | want their work associated with it. See also: Kick, Parlor,
         | etc.
         | 
         | Rather than building a principled broad competitor to something
         | like Steam, you end up cornering yourself into a narrow, highly
         | specific market segment.
        
           | magicmicah85 wrote:
           | >Rather than building a principled broad competitor to
           | something like Steam, you end up cornering yourself into a
           | narrow, highly specific market segment.
           | 
           | Yes, that's the point. Not everyone cares about financial
           | censorship, but the few that do will be your customers.
        
             | BoxFour wrote:
             | when you start talking about a business for serving "the
             | few", you've already removed the incentive for most
             | entrepreneurs (unless those "few" are the extremely wealthy
             | and you can charge them exorbitantly).
        
           | hyghjiyhu wrote:
           | I've watched hikaru on kick and the only offensive thing
           | about his stream is how he repeats himself. I don't really
           | like how he says the same thing over and over. Chat, it's
           | kinda starting to bother me how he repeats himself. Yeah I'm
           | starting to think he repeats himself a bit too much for my
           | taste.
        
             | topato wrote:
             | After the third sentence, I was like, what's wrong with
             | this guy? After the fourth, I was like, Oh. Lol.
        
               | hyghjiyhu wrote:
               | I guess from the down votes I'm getting that people don't
               | have the full context here and won't seek it out on their
               | own - something I should have foreseen.
               | 
               | I'm speaking of Hikaru Nakamura, who is one of the best
               | chess players in the world. He is also a streamer on
               | kick, and actually talks in the way I demonstrated. It's
               | not an exaggeration, he actually repeats the same thought
               | ~5 times in the regular.
               | 
               | He is the only kick streamer I know, so that's what I
               | think of when I hear kick.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | One thing that might be a possibility for attracting
           | developers of non-banned games is focusing on having lower
           | fees than Steam's 30% or Epic's 12%, but Itch.io already does
           | that (you can choose the split from 0 to 100%).
        
         | nemomarx wrote:
         | create a good censorship resistant payment network (stripe
         | replacement) and these platforms would probably just be your
         | customers?
        
         | beeflet wrote:
         | I think that the decentralized mechanisms used for censorship
         | resistance would also make it difficult to monetize
        
         | nurettin wrote:
         | Oh be realistic. Hosting smut isn't exactly respectable at this
         | day and age. Your choice for sponsors dwindles to illegal
         | gambling sites and shady dating sites who scrape monthly fees
         | from lonely men. Maybe an MLM scheme if you are lucky.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | Looking at this US administration, I don't think
           | "respectable" is much of a metric these days.
           | 
           | And yes, you need a lot of private capital to pull this off.
        
         | jajuuka wrote:
         | The spirit of Visa/Mastercard isn't wrong. If a platform is
         | doing something illegal they will break ties or give them a
         | chance to course correct. When Pornhub was exposed for hosting
         | lots of revenge porn and illegal porn Visa/Mastercard pulled
         | back, Pornhub cleaned house and put up new stronger barriers to
         | prevent that kind of material being uploaded. But instead of
         | doing business again they said "just kidding" and did not come
         | back.
         | 
         | In this case with Steam and Itch.io they are targeting legal
         | games and is just 100% in the wrong. There is a checkered
         | history of Visa/Mastercard dropping legitimate causes because
         | it's hot politically. Which is also in the wrong.
         | 
         | Bitcoin/crypto was supposed to be the way around this kind of
         | censorship, but that's basically a ponzi scheme so that's not
         | the way forward. Unfortunately Visa/Mastercard have a monopoly
         | on the market and they use it regularly to keep out
         | competition. Regulation/investigations need to be done to fix
         | this, but that sure as hell isn't happening under this
         | presidency.
        
           | axus wrote:
           | How would you feel about a US Central Bank Digital Currency?
           | 
           | https://www.federalreserve.gov/central-bank-digital-
           | currency...
        
         | scythe wrote:
         | Seems like a good place to repost my comment from earlier:
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44676726
         | 
         | > I think the root of the problem is that it's just extremely
         | unpleasant to moderate user-generated adult content. It's
         | already difficult to moderate content on a somewhat serious
         | online forum like Hacker News. Facebook moderators have been in
         | the news and on South Park due to the emotional drain of the
         | task. Who's going to sign up to pore over everyone else's
         | weirdest thoughts given form? Certainly not me.
         | 
         | > So this results in websites that allow people to upload
         | pornography having lapses of moderation where something bad
         | gets through every now and then. One day some creepy clip goes
         | viral among some social conservatives and they try to make
         | legal threats against the site and anyone they consider
         | "affiliated". This creates problems, credit card companies are
         | very protective of their reputations, and they usually decide
         | the conservatives seem less bad.
         | 
         | > Then someone sets up a new site that allows user-generated
         | adult content and the cycle repeats.
         | 
         | Anyway, a truly censorship-resistant platform is not going to
         | be able to control child porn or anything else, by definition.
         | Censorship occurs at the level of bits, and pornography doesn't
         | exist at the level of bits.
         | 
         | What you need is something like Section 230 but tailored for
         | the situation facing user-generated adult content. Strict
         | liability is not a good framework for criminalizing the
         | possession of any digital material, be it a schematic for
         | thermonuclear weapons or whatever else.
        
         | littlecranky67 wrote:
         | It is already here, it is called Bitcoin (with Lightning
         | possibly). And this is not fantasy, the _exact_ same story
         | happened to Pornhub in 2018 - in which they got banned from
         | Visa /MC and purged 60% of their content. They are banned to
         | this day, and now accept Bitcoin/Crypto Payments as well as
         | SEPA transfers in the EU.
        
       | misterbishop wrote:
       | It is alarming for credit card companies to take on a politically
       | censorious role that supersedes legal activity. This really
       | kicked off in 2021 when MasterCard started imposing restrictive
       | rules on sex sites like OnlyFans. The ACLU has a campaign against
       | it: https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/how-mastercards-
       | new-p...
        
         | mirashii wrote:
         | I strongly disagree about this being a recent thing, this has
         | been happening for decades at this point.
         | 
         | 2015 article that starts "For nearly a decade, PayPal, JPMorgan
         | Chase, Visa/MasterCard, and now Square, have systematically
         | denied or closed accounts of small businesses, artists and
         | independent contractors whose business happens to be about
         | sex."
         | 
         | https://www.engadget.com/2015-12-02-paypal-square-and-big-ba...
        
         | jfyi wrote:
         | OnlyFans did manage to figure it out though. Maybe this is an
         | opportunity for them to start a gaming division.
        
           | colinwilyb wrote:
           | Or a credit card processor.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | The thing they figured out was "people can fight back and the
           | credit cards will back down". Onlyfans is a lot of people's
           | income, so they will naturally fight harder than a consumer
           | market like games to keep the lights on.
        
             | jfyi wrote:
             | They found another processor, CCBill. That's what they
             | figured out.
        
         | _trampeltier wrote:
         | From 2017 .. (Fetlife, a fetish Platform)
         | 
         | Last Tuesday we got a notice that one of our merchant accounts
         | was shutting us down. One of the card companies contacted them
         | directly and told the bank to stop processing for us. The bank
         | asked for more information, but the only thing they could get
         | from the card company was that part of it had to do with
         | "blood, needles, and vampirism."
         | 
         | https://pastebin.com/FFSQUML9
         | 
         | https://mascherari.press/financial-censorship-when-banks-dec...
        
         | TulliusCicero wrote:
         | Yeah, it's a problem because there aren't really realistic
         | alternatives, and starting an alternative payment processor
         | would be impractically difficult.
         | 
         | Feels like we really need something like India's UPI that
         | doesn't have a central company imposing beyond-the-law level
         | rules.
        
         | yahoozoo wrote:
         | Even before that, after Charlottesville, these payment
         | processors were banning far-right wing people such as Andrew
         | Anglin and Nick Fuentes. Same thing, really. Pressure from
         | outside groups.
        
       | some_random wrote:
       | It's not a slippery slope, they're targeting non-porn games
       | literally right now. Detroit Become Human, a very well reviewed
       | cinematic/adventure game especially among non-gamers was one of
       | their targets.
        
         | neonate wrote:
         | From the subhed: "Even games that have nothing to do with sex
         | or abuse have been caught in the dragnet."
        
           | some_random wrote:
           | Yeah that's exactly the kind of framing that I am against.
           | "caught in the dragnet" implies that there was some kind of
           | mistake. Surely they didn't mean to argue for banning these
           | ones, they just want to target 'porn' games. Nevermind that
           | this started as just targeting 'extreme porn', we'll continue
           | to say that the critics criticizing them for doing the thing
           | that they are doing right now as arguing slippery slope.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | Detroit: Become Human has abuse as significant element to its
           | story. It came under attack from the "National Association of
           | People Abused in Childhood" when it came out, and also from
           | Collective Shout.
        
             | libraryatnight wrote:
             | This amuses me, as my wife deals with trauma from childhood
             | abuse, and she absolutely loved that game.
        
               | AtheistOfFail wrote:
               | It was such a masterpiece right up there with The Last Of
               | Us.
        
               | mywittyname wrote:
               | Much like some people with drug addictions love Disco
               | Elysium, specifically because of the authenticity it has
               | regarding substance abuse.
        
               | moate wrote:
               | That was part of it, as well as the idea of an RPG that
               | represents skills as essentially "shadow work". Very much
               | helped me on my mental health journey!
               | 
               | My pro-fascist brother-in-law with massive social anxiety
               | hated it for some reason..
        
             | madaxe_again wrote:
             | By their own logic that association should disband, as
             | their existence could remind people of their traumatic
             | childhood experiences.
        
             | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
             | Should we only tell stories about good people respecting
             | their fellows and living happy, wholesome, conflict-free
             | lives?
        
             | morkalork wrote:
             | They might want to take a look in mirror and see what
             | institutions have been involved in many such abuse cases in
             | the past. Hint, it's not video game companies.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | The theme is about androids being abused by society, so I
             | suppose answering that question gives insight into your
             | views on what may happen decades from now in this pursuit
             | of General AI.
        
         | imglorp wrote:
         | Same slope, also slippery: this thing is not limited to
         | opinions of moral minorities, because payment processors are a
         | weak point for government pressure. We already started:
         | pressuring CBS to fire Colbert for political speech, pressuring
         | Columbia to curb anti-genocide speech, etc etc. So wait until
         | this same route -- pressuring visa/mc -- is used on any product
         | or creator that's not doubleplus good newspeaking.
         | 
         | The government doesn't need to touch you to ruin you, if they
         | can yank your payments.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | [dupe] Discussions:
       | 
       |  _Itch.io: Update on NSFW Content_
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44667667
       | 
       |  _Australian anti-porn group claims responsibility for Steams new
       | censorship rules_
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44636369
       | 
       |  _Against the censorship of adult content by payment processors_
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44679406
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | > _Violence and dehumanization of women should not be acceptable
       | outcomes of free speech. We also have to consider whose voices
       | are being heard, and whose are being silenced. Does free speech
       | apply to women, to survivors of rape and sexual assault? Do we
       | have a right to object to speech that promotes and normalizes
       | violence against us?_
       | 
       | Every time someone insists on an escape hatch, it is immediately
       | abused. One could have seen this coming.
        
         | TulliusCicero wrote:
         | > Do we have a right to object to speech that promotes and
         | normalizes violence against us?
         | 
         | I mean this sounds reasonable until you also consider that
         | shows like Game of Thrones would then also be banned, and
         | probably plenty of popular books.
         | 
         | Hell, you could use the same reasoning to target most video
         | games, since most video games use some level of violence.
        
         | some_random wrote:
         | >Do we have a right to object to speech that promotes and
         | normalizes violence against us?
         | 
         | Worth pointing out that their definition of "right to object"
         | is evidentially identical to "right to censor".
        
           | renewiltord wrote:
           | Well, that's not precise. They are simply objecting. Others
           | are listening to them. I have a right to tell you to go eat a
           | pile of dung[0], for instance. Should you then go eat the
           | dung, it is not that I exercised my right to make you eat
           | dung.
           | 
           | They are simply participating in the once-maligned "cancel
           | culture" which was protected as "freedom of speech is not
           | freedom from consequences". These kinds of escape hatches
           | always have these results because one's enemies find a way to
           | use them as well.
           | 
           | 0: Just for the sake of argument. I'm not actually insulting
           | you.
        
             | some_random wrote:
             | I am absolutely against the concept of "freedom of speech
             | is not freedom from consequences" in the same way I am
             | against Soviet "freedom of speech but not freedom after
             | speech".
        
               | wredcoll wrote:
               | That makes no sense. Frequently the "consequences" of
               | speech is other speech. Are you going to try to argue
               | that the original speech should be privileged over the
               | response?
        
               | some_random wrote:
               | I do not give a shit about people responding to speech
               | with speech. I am arguing that responding to speech by
               | using your authority over the speaker to hurt them, or by
               | lobbying an authority to do so is something different
               | than speech. Did you see the context for this thread?
               | This is the rhetorical question I responded to: "Do we
               | have a right to object to speech that promotes and
               | normalizes violence against us?". I hold that they
               | absolutely do have a right to object to such speech, any
               | speech in fact, but "objecting" is not the same as
               | lobbying Visa/Mastercard to ban speech they believe
               | "promotes and normalizes violence against us".
        
               | moate wrote:
               | >>"objecting" is not the same as lobbying Visa/Mastercard
               | to ban speech they believe "promotes and normalizes
               | violence against us"
               | 
               | Why not? Like, I'm a full on anarchist, but how do you
               | create any sort of functioning society without out people
               | being able to say "we as a group don't like that shit and
               | are going to do things to stop it from happening"? Like
               | if burger king comes out and says "We sell dogs here now"
               | am i not allowed to say "fuck this, I'm allergic to dogs
               | but I loved whoppers, I'm going to picket outside BK
               | until the king fixes this travesty of hamburgers?"
               | 
               | Again, I'm an anarchist so I have weird views on a lot of
               | topics, but isn't this a problem that "the capital class
               | wants to continue to have profit go up and to the right
               | on their charts, they're cowardly and uncreative so they
               | fear anything that destabilizes this movement on their
               | charts, and large networks of people are the only thing
               | that can utilize this fear to cause them to change their
               | behaviors"?
        
               | some_random wrote:
               | If the shit that you don't like is people talking and
               | that causes your society to stop functioning, your
               | society should not exist.
        
               | wredcoll wrote:
               | > lobbying an authority to do so is something different
               | than speech
               | 
               | Really? How is it different, specifically?
               | 
               | If you're a guest in my house and you say something
               | racist and I ask you to leave...
               | 
               | Or you're a customer in my restaurant...
               | 
               | Or you work for the company I'm a ceo of...
               | 
               | Which one of those freedoms should I be disallowed from
               | using?
               | 
               | (The actual issue here is that mastercard/visa are
               | effectively a duopoly with no competition. The only
               | reasonable way to have a monopoly provider of a vital
               | service is to make it part of a democratic government)
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | Remember how the homicide rate exploded after violent video
         | games became popular?
         | 
         | They know this logic doesn't make sense. People are
         | unfortunately happy to lie about it, despite decades of
         | evidence to the contrary.
         | 
         | They insisted rock and roll, jazz, and dancing they didn't like
         | were going to harm women too. Somehow that didn't seem to
         | happen either.
        
           | morkalork wrote:
           | Don't forget the D&D satanic panic! I also remember my local
           | Baptist youth group burning Harry Potter books back when they
           | came out. These people are unreasonable, they don't care
           | about logic. They care about imposing their views and morals
           | on those around them.
        
             | burnt-resistor wrote:
             | No, no, no. You're both wrong. It was heavy metal.
             | 
             | RIP Ozzy.
        
             | justanotherjoe wrote:
             | They have a religion whose identity is in being oppressed
             | in a world where they are the de facto ruler.
        
         | qball wrote:
         | >Do we have a right to object to speech that promotes and
         | normalizes violence against us?
         | 
         | If men don't, then neither should women, who are murdered at
         | 1/10th the rate men are.
        
           | nosignono wrote:
           | Murder is not the only violent crime. Please don't construct
           | such obviously poor strawmen. Both men and women suffer
           | similar rates of violence, albeit typically different
           | violence.
           | 
           | Trans people suffer a wildly higher rate of violent crime
           | than either cis gender.
        
       | 8f2ab37a-ed6c wrote:
       | What sort of leverage can a group like this realistically have on
       | Visa and Mastercard? Can they really make a dent in their top
       | line?
        
         | spicymaki wrote:
         | Ideological alignment with the party in control of the US
         | executive, legislative, and judicial branches gives groups like
         | these quite a bit of leverage.
        
         | jandrese wrote:
         | From what I understand it was more that they found a
         | sympathetic ear in the management suite at Mastercard and Visa.
         | They've been wanting to do this for some time but needed
         | political cover.
        
         | WorldMaker wrote:
         | Weaponized complaints to legal departments asking to enforce
         | existing Terms & Conditions of Visa and Mastercard. It's a
         | "squeaky wheel" problem.
        
         | npteljes wrote:
         | My guess is none, and that they are only used as a front for
         | this. It really doesn't add up that a "grassroots org" from
         | Australia that doesn't even have its own Wikipedia page can
         | pressure Mastercard / Visa to pressure Steam to remove games.
         | Makes zero sense.
         | 
         | EDIT: I invite downvoters to voice their point
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Related. Others?
       | 
       |  _Against the censorship of adult content by payment processors_
       | - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44679406 - July 2025 (189
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Games: No sex, please. we 're credit card companies_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44675697 - July 2025 (51
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Itch.io: Update on NSFW Content_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44667667 - July 2025 (306
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Australian anti-porn group claims responsibility for Steams new
       | censorship rules_ - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44636369
       | - July 2025 (162 comments)
        
       | garyHL wrote:
       | Same as it ever was...
       | 
       | https://americansongwriter.com/remember-the-filthy-fifteen-4...
       | 
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction_of_the_Innocent
       | 
       | https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-26328105
       | 
       | https://www.nytimes.com/1997/02/27/business/job-insecurity-o...
       | 
       | Modern neuroscience provides enough evidence to argue older
       | generations "synced" early on to ideals of the past. They
       | memorized some modern syntax and semantics but still align as
       | individuals with puritanical social and tyrannical political
       | practices of old. Not entirely their fault, it's biology.
       | 
       | Not something the next generations have to tolerate however.
       | Physics is clearly ageist.
        
       | mvieira38 wrote:
       | It's unfortunate because there really isn't anything anyone can
       | do except wait for regulation or try raising awareness/usage of
       | crypto payments or cash by mail
        
         | sketchysandwich wrote:
         | how do all these other adult sites get away with charging
         | premium subscriptions?
        
           | Calavar wrote:
           | Porn sites use smaller special purpose payment processors
           | that have higher fees. It makes sense for porn sites because
           | they only sell sexual content. If Valve and itch used those
           | same payment processors, they'd be paying the higher premiums
           | on _all_ transactions, including those for nonsexual content
           | (i.e. that vast majority of their transactions). It just
           | doesn 't make sense for them from a financial perspective.
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | My free speech red line is criticism of govt and leaders. Ban all
       | the porn games ya want, I don't think they're very valuable.
       | 
       | When did pornography become protected speech?
        
         | sketchysandwich wrote:
         | In what world is artistic expression not free speech? Just
         | because you don't like it doesn't mean its not protected.
        
         | vegadw wrote:
         | That's already happening though. There's a bunch of quid pro
         | quo for speech curtailment in the media right now. Hell, just
         | this week Colbert lost his spot to appease the administration
         | for the Paramount + Skydance merger. Even if it's not direct to
         | the little guys and it's just quid-pro-quo, it's just them
         | being smart enough to make it seem more palatable. It's the
         | same thing.
        
         | pdntspa wrote:
         | Since when has protected speech required being valuable? And
         | who made you the pronouncer of said value?
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | > Since when has protected speech required being valuable?
           | 
           | For this specific topic in the US, it's necessary. The third
           | prong of the Miller Test is "Whether the work, taken as a
           | whole, lacks serious literary, artistic, political, or
           | scientific value."
        
             | pdntspa wrote:
             | The three-pronged Miller test is for examining if something
             | is obscene, which is a considerably narrower criteria than
             | whether or not a given piece of free speech is worthy of
             | protection. Speech does not need to be 'valuable' to be
             | worthy of protection, it needs to have a specific lack of
             | value as determined by the Miller test to _not_ be
             | protected. Big difference.
        
         | krapp wrote:
         | >When did pornography become protected speech?
         | 
         | A Book Named "John Cleland's Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure" v.
         | Attorney General of Massachusetts, 1966 (https://scholar.google
         | .com/scholar_case?case=101895573599950...)
         | 
         | Miller v. California, 1973 (https://scholar.google.com/scholar_
         | case?case=287180442152313...)
         | 
         | Jenkins v. Georgia, 1974 (https://scholar.google.com/scholar_ca
         | se?case=106399862265120...)
         | 
         | -- https://reason.com/2019/10/04/pornography-is-protected-by-
         | th...
        
         | TulliusCicero wrote:
         | Strictly speaking this isn't a conventional free speech issue
         | since the government isn't involved here, just private
         | businesses.
         | 
         | That said, there's a de facto duopoly on payment processing
         | that gives these companies near government-level power to
         | dictate terms. Realistic alternatives don't exist and would be
         | insanely hard to start.
        
         | bluescrn wrote:
         | Text is fairly comparable with speech, so it's be reasonable to
         | argue that a pornographic novel is 'speech'.
         | 
         | Not so sure about 4K video footage, though. Or videogames.
         | That's more a 'freedom of art' issue.
        
         | elijahdl wrote:
         | Pornography is the canary in the coalmine of protected speech.
         | When you give a group the ability to censor content on the
         | basis of "obscenity", then that group and other groups can use
         | this to label other subjects they don't like as obscene. LGBTQ+
         | interest topics are especially vulnerable to this, as it is
         | often made the case that being gay or trans is only about sex.
         | You don't have to consume pornography yourself in order to
         | benefit from a society that allows it.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | > LGBTQ+ interest topics are especially vulnerable to this,
           | 
           | Exactly, the Heritage Foundation doesn't define porn the same
           | way a reasonable person might. From Project 2025's Mandate
           | for Leadership: "Pornography, manifested today in the
           | omnipresent propagation of transgender ideology and
           | sexualization of children".
        
             | jeffbee wrote:
             | Yeah it's easy to see that Heritage would just ban Celeste,
             | or any allegory about LGBT existence.
        
           | unclad5968 wrote:
           | I don't think LBGTQ+ are too harmed by the removal of "Sex
           | adventures Incest Family" or "Interactive Sex Mother Son
           | Incest BDSM" or "Reincarnation adventure going to rape all
           | NPCS VR" front he steam store. I don't think too many LGBTQ
           | like to include rapists or incest adventures into their
           | group. I could be wrong though.
        
             | elijahdl wrote:
             | I agree with you in that most LGBTQ+ folks don't like being
             | grouped in with incest-promoting games, but that's exactly
             | what MasterCard and Visa are doing by forcing platforms to
             | indiscriminately remove adult content.
             | 
             | It should be up to individual platforms to moderate this
             | content on a case by case basis, not the payment
             | processors.
        
             | TimorousBestie wrote:
             | It doesn't matter how much entirely non-porn queer content
             | there is. The folks behind the payment processor pressure
             | campaigns view Heartstopper and Pride Puppy! as just as
             | immoral and depraved as the stuff you mentioned.
        
         | the_af wrote:
         | > _Ban all the porn games ya want, I don 't think they're very
         | valuable._
         | 
         | Ban all the games, I don't think videogames are very valuable.
         | 
         | Ban all TV shows, I don't think TV shows are very valuable.
         | 
         | Ban all televised sports, I think sports are very boring and
         | not very valuable.
         | 
         | In fact, ban all the things I don't particularly find valuable.
        
         | edm0nd wrote:
         | >My free speech red line is criticism of govt and leaders.
         | 
         | Doesn't sound like you support free speech at all then if this
         | is your red line. Criticism of politicians is needed to keep
         | them in line. Being about to criticize the US government is
         | true freedom.
        
       | kelseyfrog wrote:
       | The bitter truth is that the tech world's libertarian allergy to
       | collective action is exactly why stuff like this keeps happening.
       | 
       | Predictably, we get another round of "free speech on the internet
       | is sacred!" polemics. Hate to break it to HN, but Visa and
       | MasterCard aren't reading Hacker News, and they don't care about
       | constitutional takes or appeals to values or consistency. Legal
       | arguments won't do squat here. There is one way to reverse this
       | and it's leverage and pressure, period.
       | 
       | If you want to fix this, you actually have to organize and go
       | after the payment processors, because it's not going to be solved
       | by writing essays in the comments or waiting for Steam to
       | suddenly develop a spine. That means collective action,
       | campaigns, actual activism. Exactly the stuff that makes tech
       | people itchy and nervous.
       | 
       | It's the same reason tech unions never get traction. Everyone
       | wants to be a cowboy and nobody wants to be part of a posse. If
       | you're serious about reversing this kind of censorship, you'll
       | have to do the one thing that feels worse: banding together,
       | working as a group, and aiming your outrage at the folks actually
       | making the calls.
       | 
       | Or keep writing little op-ed comments and maintain the losing
       | streak, because Visa and MasterCard will keep steamrolling as
       | long as nobody pushes back.
       | 
       | Sorry, but that's the game. Arguing that the rules aren't fair or
       | trying to play out the same losing tactic isn't a winning
       | strategy. Plan an actual demonstration. Visa and MasterCard
       | conveniently have offices in SF and NYC. All it takes is working
       | together.
        
         | beeflet wrote:
         | The libertarian solution has been to use cryptocurrency for
         | payments. The problem is that only libertarians want to use
         | cryptocurrency, and most people don't care.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | >If you want to fix this, you actually have to organize and go
         | after the payment processors, because it's not going to be
         | solved by writing essays in the comments or waiting for Steam
         | to suddenly develop a spine.
         | 
         | Okay. If you have any wisdom or ideas, I'd love to hear them.
         | But as is, this comment is about as effective as mine on
         | fighting Visa/Mastercard. "Just come together and yell at
         | Steam!"
         | 
         | I'm not opposed to activism, I'm ignorant of it. The big issue
         | of the internet is that we are all scattered very wide and that
         | makes it harder to collect ourselvves under one goal. And as of
         | now, I'm a laid off tech worker (who doesn't live in SF) who
         | has no real capital to contribute to such a cause. I feel
         | powerless.
        
           | kelseyfrog wrote:
           | I don't want to sound patronizing, but how would you break
           | the task of forming an activist group down into manageable
           | chunks?
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | That's what I was essentially asking. I'd want to start
             | with small actions that feel realistic. I know it's not
             | gonna just pop up overnight, so more reason to break it
             | down.
             | 
             | If none of us know, then the next alternative is "can we
             | point to any existing organizations to throw support at"?
             | Or at the very least, an adjacent organization who can tell
             | us steps to take?
        
               | kelseyfrog wrote:
               | It's something anyone can teach themselves.
               | 
               | The basic sequence is simple:
               | 
               | Set up a Discord. Market it to attract a handful of early
               | adopters. Run a book club using Organizing for Social
               | Change[1] or Beautiful Trouble[2]. Along the way, you
               | build shared language and alignment. People start to get
               | a feel for tactics: collective letter campaigns, pressure
               | targeting, framing, etc.
               | 
               | By the time you wrap the first book, you'll have a core
               | group with a working vocabulary and some trust. You'll
               | know how to set up a continuous recruitment and
               | onboarding loop. You'll be ready for a second round of
               | action. For example, something sharper, louder, more
               | public-facing. From there, it's just iteration after
               | iteration.
               | 
               | The most important seed is a vision holder, someone whose
               | primary job is building solid relationships and gradually
               | offloading the core functions: facilitation, comms,
               | outreach, tech, and education. Don't worry. You don't
               | need money and you don't need credentials. You need
               | consistency above all, social fluency, emotional and
               | logistical endurance, and a bit of luck.
               | 
               | Trust me when I say it's not easy, but the overhead is
               | basically zero. The only real cost is showing up (again
               | and again and again).
               | 
               | 1. https://www.amazon.com/Organizing-Social-Change-Bobo-
               | Kendall...
               | 
               | 2. https://orbooks.mybigcommerce.com/beautiful-trouble-
               | paperbac...
        
         | phendrenad2 wrote:
         | Protesting only works when the media is on your side. I doubt
         | the media would take your side on this one.
        
       | uncircle wrote:
       | I know people here love to hate it, and it's a very very
       | controversial topic, but this here, is a good use case for
       | Bitcoin [1]
       | 
       | Now that we have Lightning and hyperfast micropayments, can we
       | have a good plug-and-play payment processor that uses it? The few
       | services that allow Bitcoin payments still require an on-chain
       | transaction, which is very user-unfriendly.
       | 
       | In any case, despite what the haters say, this is the value
       | proposition of cryptos. If it's not the government deciding what
       | you can purchase or not, it's the payment processor cartel.
       | 
       | 1: Other cryptos are just piggybacking on the popularity of the
       | main one so I don't care about them.
        
         | fmbb wrote:
         | Bitcoin existing is not going to make Itch.io not want to
         | accept payments via Visa.
         | 
         | Porn is a tiny market. It's not worth it losing the payment
         | processors everyone is on to serve porn game buyers.
        
           | uncircle wrote:
           | > Porn is a tiny market.
           | 
           | I'm not sure I agree. In the context of gaming, perhaps, but
           | most of the Internet traffic is basically pornography.
        
             | fmbb wrote:
             | When I say market here I mean something people pay for,
             | where producers can convince people to spend money.
             | 
             | I'm quite sure there is not a lot of people paying for
             | porn. The money people are making surely comes from ads and
             | data hoarding.
        
           | beeflet wrote:
           | >Porn is a tiny market. It's not worth it losing the payment
           | processors everyone is on to serve porn game buyers.
           | 
           | I agree with this point but I don't agree with the premise. I
           | don't really care about the censorship of porn, but it is a
           | slippery slope to censorship in general. If you give them an
           | inch they will take a mile.
           | 
           | I think there is sometimes a business justification of
           | putting your foot in the ground, even if the short term
           | consequences are harsh.
        
             | fmbb wrote:
             | I'm not making a value judgement here. Just looking at it
             | from the point of view of a business.
        
         | odo1242 wrote:
         | Don't you have to create a distinct payment channel (on-chain
         | transaction) for every person you pay over Lightning? Or am I
         | misunderstanding things?
        
           | uncircle wrote:
           | Third-parties take care of this bureaucracy for you. Check
           | out the Phoenix wallet, for example.
           | 
           | (Unaffiliated, I hold some pocket money on there not to run a
           | Lightning node myself)
           | 
           | The on-chain transaction is just to "fund" a channel between
           | two parties. These two parties can then make unlimited
           | trasnfers between each other instantaneously for free. These
           | nodes are organised in a network and can relay payment from
           | other nodes as well. It's a bit like the Internet. You don't
           | need to peer with everybody, you just need a path from A to
           | B.
           | 
           | If you and I have a channel funded with 100 sat, we can move
           | these around as many times as we wish, even on behalf of
           | others, but if you need to transfer more than you have on
           | your side, you need to fund the channel with another on-chain
           | transaction. That's where the Phoenix 1% fee comes from, as
           | they deal with this exact problem for you, so you don't have
           | to worry about it.
        
             | beeflet wrote:
             | >Third-parties take care of this bureaucracy for you. Check
             | out the Phoenix wallet, for example.
             | 
             | Sort of defeats the purpose then, doesn't it? Why not just
             | make lightning payments directly from your bitcoin
             | exchange?
        
               | littlecranky67 wrote:
               | In the case of Phoenix, you have semi-custody - i.e.
               | control over your coin, and it can't be taken from you.
               | There are other non-custodial wallets (Wallet of Satoshi)
               | which are like an exchange - so they can rug pull you
               | anytime just as Paypal can.
        
           | xur17 wrote:
           | No. You can route through other people on the network, so you
           | just need a path to the person through others.
        
         | nonameiguess wrote:
         | It's not in this case. The payment processors were going to
         | drop _all_ support to these platforms if they didn 't remove
         | these games. Bitcoin could allow them to keep operating, but at
         | the cost that now all users who want any games at all have to
         | use Bitcoin. Mainstream platforms accepting Bitcoin as an
         | option is fine and great, but few if any are going to want to
         | _only_ accept Bitcoin.
        
           | KronisLV wrote:
           | > Mainstream platforms accepting Bitcoin as an option is fine
           | and great, but few if any are going to want to only accept
           | Bitcoin.
           | 
           | For all of the talk (hype) about how crypto has the potential
           | to avoid the exact type of meddling and manipulation and
           | pressuring we're seeing now, it surprises me that no
           | equivalents to PayPal have really popped up - that best that
           | can be done is apparently something along the lines of what
           | Linux was on the desktop a decade or two ago. Basically,
           | before Valve and others picked up the slack and worked on
           | things your average person actually cares about - notably,
           | gaming and simple(r) to use desktop environments and software
           | stores.
           | 
           | Where's the flagship platform for payments that's built on
           | crypto but lets you ignore the technical details, that's
           | trivial to implement as a merchant and is a download away on
           | app stores? If there are a few of those, why would anyone
           | bother with these puritan payment processors?
        
             | bornfreddy wrote:
             | There are many actually, some extremely simple to use. The
             | problem is that payers also need to use crypto and many
             | people don't know how, but are instead used to paying with
             | credit cards.
        
             | barbazoo wrote:
             | Isn't that what Monero is trying to do? Why can't I pay
             | with Monero at the grocery store? Presumably because some
             | gatekeeper that's in between me and the business has to
             | decide whether it makes financial sense _to them_ whether
             | to add Monero to the exclusive list of supported payment
             | methods.
        
           | beeflet wrote:
           | Using cryptocurrency would give them leverage in a future
           | negotiation. The goal would not be to replace payments
           | entirely with cryptocurrencies (they are pretty inefficient),
           | but to reduce the monopolistic power of conventional payment
           | processors and strike a better deal.
           | 
           | I would argue it's worth investing infrastructure into it,
           | for the same reason that valve has invested infrastructure
           | into linux to gain leverage over microsoft. Without leverage,
           | negotiations get ugly: see the Epic vs Apple saga.
        
         | egypturnash wrote:
         | Random thoughts:
         | 
         | * anything using proof-of-work is still gonna be a hard sell *
         | good luck figuring out how to get the user experience on both
         | ends appear to be in USD without ever having to give a shit
         | about the constantly-fluctuating value of BTC * fun times ahead
         | when you get big enough for the government to notice you and
         | start requiring you to comply with all kinds of arcane
         | regulations
        
           | uncircle wrote:
           | 1. Proof-of-work is a feature.
           | 
           | 2. Just do the conversion at the time of sale.
           | 
           | 3. Government prohibition and restriction of our rights is a
           | terrible problem and it's why Bitcoin was invented in the
           | first place. It's a necessary fight if only to keep
           | government power in check, unless one really believes the
           | State is always right and always has our best interest in
           | mind. I don't.
        
             | egypturnash wrote:
             | The colossal amount of energy burnt by proof-of-work is one
             | of the reasons people who are not cryptobros loathe crypto.
        
           | beeflet wrote:
           | >good luck figuring out how to get the user experience on
           | both ends appear to be in USD
           | 
           | I think it works out fine with fixed/float exchanges. These
           | are exchanges that let you agree on a fixed exchange rate for
           | a small (<=%1 fee) or trade at a floating exchange rate. The
           | fee covers the price risk
        
         | burkaman wrote:
         | If Steam dropped Visa and Mastercard and successfully got most
         | of their customers to use a Bitcoin payment processor instead,
         | wouldn't these organizations just pressure that processor? I
         | don't see how it would be any different. If the problem you're
         | trying to solve is that private payment processors can deny
         | service to anyone they don't like, the underlying technology
         | the processor uses is irrelevant.
        
           | beeflet wrote:
           | Well I think the advantage is that the cryptocurrency payment
           | processors are interchangeable. But your point mostly stands
        
           | mkleczek wrote:
           | Bitcoin does not require any payment processor. That's its
           | whole point: censorship-resistant, permissionless, p2p
           | payment system.
        
             | vel0city wrote:
             | Bitcoin won't require a payment processor, but companies
             | wanting to effectively handle Bitcoin will want a payment
             | processor or else they will have to become one themselves.
             | 
             | Even companies working in large amounts of cash end up
             | hiring companies to handle the cash logistics and all the
             | other complications in dealing with it.
        
               | mkleczek wrote:
               | I am not sure why any middle man is needed to
               | "effectively" handle Bitcoin.
               | 
               | It is a very liquid asset - easy to move and easy to
               | sell.
        
               | Fargren wrote:
               | You want to handle refunds, fraud, money laundering,
               | chargebacks... That stuff is really hard, and if it's not
               | your main line of business, you really don't want to do
               | it. And if you don't have a payment processor do it, and
               | you don't do it yourself, criminals will scam your
               | customers and use your platform to commit fraud and
               | launder money and you will get in hot water with the law.
               | 
               | Bitcoin can be used as currency for occasional
               | transactions between individuals. But you don't want your
               | business to depend on it. It doesn't scale, not due to
               | technological reasons, but because of legal issues and
               | customer experience expectation.
        
               | mkleczek wrote:
               | Sure - you can (and probably should) outsource your non-
               | core business like accounting, accounts receivables etc.
               | but it is not payment processing.
               | 
               | Bitcoin adoption is a chicken and egg problem. But my
               | guess is that censoring porn creates a very big incentive
               | for people to start using it.
        
               | udev4096 wrote:
               | Using a payment processor for a decentralized p2p
               | currency is laughable. Please don't spread FUD. You are
               | the reason bitcoin is full of centralized exchanges,
               | losing it's true ideology
        
         | rustystump wrote:
         | The fact that the majority of validators caved to sanctions
         | from us means bitcoin is not gonna cut it esp if uncle sam gets
         | involved. Pro crypto folks want to stay on the up and up due to
         | trying to change the negative view of it.
         | 
         | I personally worked in the crypto payment processing space and
         | we had to say no to many very well known porn companies for
         | this reason.
        
       | dv_dt wrote:
       | Its too bad that the old school anti-trust provisions against
       | restraint of trade are no longer of interest to enforcers. This
       | isn't a case where visa/mc are against a specific game/publisher
       | transactions is where they are saying we will stop processing
       | payments for your entire platform because of a few games we
       | object to. And its worse because the pmt processors aren't really
       | specific about their objections in public at least.
        
       | can16358p wrote:
       | What is wrong with these people who try to block certain content?
       | 
       | Don't like porn? Don't buy it. Simple as that. No one, including
       | governments or payment processors, should be in the position to
       | decide whether a platform can sell something or not.
       | 
       | I wish there was a payment processor who was brave enough to say
       | a big fucking NO to censorship.
        
         | bryceacc wrote:
         | If you think (insert thing here) is genuinely evil, you might
         | be inclined to rid the world of it. It may even make you seem
         | like a better person (to god, to others in the same camp)
         | because you are "cleansing" or "healing" the world through
         | those efforts. It's self righteous
        
         | RankingMember wrote:
         | The Puritanical origins of the US reverberate to this day.
         | While coming for "freedom of religion" sounds like a noble
         | origin story, the context was that they wanted the freedom to
         | practice a much stricter, restrictive form of religion than
         | that allowed by the Church of England.
        
           | dzonga wrote:
           | are you saying the puritans were the taliban equivalent of
           | christianity.
           | 
           | & want to bring back laws that sex would only be used to
           | 'recreate' not recreation.
        
             | kingkawn wrote:
             | Yes that's exactly what they were and are today
        
             | potato3732842 wrote:
             | Well not equivalent, they taught their women to read after
             | all.
             | 
             | But let's be real here, they were a bunch of jerks. There's
             | a reason it took no time flat for Rhode Island to exist.
        
           | matthewrobertso wrote:
           | This is the result of campaigning by an Australian group
        
           | teaearlgraycold wrote:
           | Quakers also came to the US early on to practice a peaceful
           | an anarchistic form of Christianity.
        
           | IncreasePosts wrote:
           | This sounds like a just so story. There were all sorts of
           | groups who set up shop in America, and all contributed to its
           | success and influenced the culture.
           | 
           | Virginia was the most populous colony during the revolution,
           | did English planter society just disappear and the Puritans
           | made it all the way down to the South?
           | 
           | What about the Quakers in Pennsylvania?
           | 
           | Dutch society in New York?
           | 
           | Poor Scots in Appalachia?
           | 
           | And, in any case, this campaign started in Australia. Were
           | there a lot of Puritans there?
        
           | huslage wrote:
           | The actors in this are Australian, by the way.
        
           | gspencley wrote:
           | I'm not so sure you can point the finger at the USA for this.
           | 
           | I ran an online porn website for almost 20 years. For 15
           | years it was my primary source of income.
           | 
           | I'm in Canada which, compared to the USA is _extremely_
           | progressive.
           | 
           | In 2022, after a decade of doing business with a certain bank
           | as this business, never having hidden anything about what we
           | did, my wife and I received an urgent, signature required,
           | overnighted letter from our bank informing us that they were
           | terminating our accounts and that we had one month until we
           | would no longer have access to any funds.
           | 
           | The way this played out was that we had an incoming wire
           | transfer get flagged and they phoned us to ask us questions
           | about the wire. We answered everything on the phone honestly
           | and transparently. We were doing nothing wrong.
           | 
           | A few months later we get another phone call from our branch
           | asking us to come in in person, urgently, and do an "extreme
           | due diligence" check. During this process we had to answer an
           | insane amount of questions about our business activities.
           | They saw a credit card transaction from JetBrains, for
           | example, and asked us to explain who JetBrains was and why we
           | were doing business with them etc.
           | 
           | A couple of weeks later we were informed about the
           | termination with a brief letter explaining that we fell
           | outside of their "risk appetite."
           | 
           | We managed to get an extension on the closure, and for two
           | months we tried in vain to find any banking in Canada that
           | would take us... and we ultimately ended up shutting down a
           | business that represented two decades of our lives.
           | 
           | During that time we reached out to industry insiders, some of
           | which we happened to know were in Canada. They all told us
           | that they bank in the USA.
           | 
           | One branch manager at a bank we met with was extremely
           | empathetic but obviously couldn't put her own job on the
           | line, and she explained exactly what was going on.
           | 
           | The issue is "Know Your Customer" regulations that are coming
           | into effect that are meant to target things like money
           | laundering. These regulations force banks to ask questions
           | that they never really cared about before. This branch
           | manager explained that a local strip club used to say they
           | were a "banquet hall", and everyone at the branch knew
           | exactly what they were but it was "don't ask / don't tell."
           | 
           | But once they start digging into these details because the
           | government is forcing them to, then these things get to their
           | compliance departments. And the policies exist because
           | they're afraid of things like human trafficking and other
           | things.
           | 
           | And our major banks have foreign investors from all around
           | the world. Including from countries where porn is actually
           | illegal.
           | 
           | While you point the finger at puritanism in the USA ...
           | consider that in countries like Iceland, producing porn can
           | land you in jail. Now consider MAJOR investments originating
           | in countries like Saudi Arabia etc. and consider how that
           | might impact your bottom line if they all pull out due to
           | nonsense morality conflicts.
        
             | azalemeth wrote:
             | I'm amazed that producing porn in Iceland can lead to gaol.
             | Can you expand upon that further?
        
               | gspencley wrote:
               | It's in Article 210 of the Icelandic penal code and, from
               | what I gather, this follows a pattern typically referred
               | to as "The Nordic Model" where it is not illegal to
               | consume pornography, but it is illegal to produce and/or
               | distribute it.
               | 
               | Here is an article from the Reykjavik Grapevine that deep
               | dives on it better than I could:
               | https://grapevine.is/mag/2021/05/07/ask-an-expert-why-is-
               | por...
               | 
               | And for a broader overview, see "Pornography laws by
               | region" on Wikipedia:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography_laws_by_region
        
               | decimalenough wrote:
               | The "Swedish Model" is about prostitution, specifically
               | making it legal to sell sex but not to buy it.
               | 
               | There are ongoing debates about how this applies to
               | Onlyfans etc, with one faction claiming all sex work is
               | abuse even if you're doing it solo in the privacy of your
               | own home, so payments to Onlyfans should be banned.
        
               | orthoxerox wrote:
               | > even if you're doing it solo in the privacy of your own
               | home
               | 
               | The frame the problem as being vulnerable to escalating
               | customer demands if you make custom content. Like,
               | "insert this object and take a photo, insert this larger
               | object and take a photo, insert this uncomfortably large
               | object and take a photo, insert this painfully large
               | object and take a photo, insert this clearly damaging
               | object and take a photo".
        
             | dandellion wrote:
             | All this makes me think of war on drugs and other similar
             | failed attempts at regulation, and of the article "the
             | optimal amount of fraud is non-zero". The stronger the zeal
             | to prevent porn the more expensive it gets to do so, and
             | the more they cause legit companies like yours to close,
             | the more profitable it gets to do it illegally. Just
             | cranking on the symptoms without looking at the cause often
             | has the opposite effect to the one desired, not that the
             | people pushing for this probably care.
        
               | solumos wrote:
               | Yep, similar to how banning Juul led to the proliferation
               | of foreign-made vapes[0]
               | 
               | [0] - https://apnews.com/article/fda-vapes-vaping-elf-
               | bar-juul-80b...
        
             | fc417fc802 wrote:
             | I'd suggest that foreign investors dictating domestic
             | policy is a huge problem. For a core institution like
             | banking there ought to be a law forbidding them from
             | discriminating against otherwise legal activities except in
             | the case that a different law permits or requires them to
             | do so. That would also absolve them of any PR concerns
             | because "everyone has to; legally speaking we don't have
             | any choice".
        
             | derefr wrote:
             | > we fell outside of their "risk appetite."
             | 
             | If you take that statement at face value (not sure if you
             | should), it's fascinating to think that your business was
             | able to operate for two decades with what I assume are the
             | standard problems people in the porn industry face (e.g.
             | chargebacks from customers unwilling to admit they
             | subscribed in their SO's presence and so pretending it was
             | a scam, etc.)
             | 
             | And yet seemingly none of the bank's risk heuristics based
             | on actual transaction profiling ever went off.
             | 
             | Wouldn't that mean that, _in practice_ , being in the porn
             | industry isn't as high-risk as banks / payment processors
             | think it is?
             | 
             | And would this not then suggest a gap in the market, for an
             | (ideally vertically-integrated) bank + payment processor +
             | card issuer + KYC provider, who is willing to
             | 
             | 1. evaluate risk on a customer-by-customer basis (through
             | e.g. continuous dynamic network analysis of transaction
             | flow, with txs annotated with their KYC info) rather than
             | by actuarial categorization; and
             | 
             | 2. avoid seeking any investment (at any remove) by parties
             | who would insist they avoid these types of customers?
        
               | potato3732842 wrote:
               | The risk they're talking about is risk of government
               | interest in them, which is never cheap when you run a
               | business.
        
             | phendrenad2 wrote:
             | Thank you for your story. I like to try to imagine what
             | conversations happened behind the scenes. The fact that the
             | suddenly hauled you into the branch, and still decided that
             | you were too "risky" (clearly a made-up excuse) says a lot.
             | Whatever force is behind this is _powerful_ and it 's not
             | even remotely explained by a coalition of angry activists.
        
             | bfg_9k wrote:
             | What aggravates me the most about stories like yours is
             | that banks are effectively public utilities. They are
             | regulated as such, are broadly considered too big to fail
             | (especially in Canada - believe it or not at a _domestic_
             | scale, their banks are far more important than any US bank
             | is to the American economy) and thus receive an implicit
             | tax payer underwriting, yet are able to act like this when
             | you 're not doing any illegal activities.
             | 
             | I understand the risk tolerance aspect from a bank, they
             | wouldn't want to give a massive loan to a property
             | developer or oil driller going under water. But when it
             | comes to basic deposit services where nobody is asking them
             | to risk their own money, they should be forced to allow any
             | customer who isn't breaking any laws, such as in your case.
        
             | mettamage wrote:
             | While I'm not big on crypto. This is, in part, why Bitcoin
             | exists and why it was created.
             | 
             | I'm not sure if Bitcoin is the right answer due to the 51%
             | attack vulnerability. And a network of miners where
             | everyone can join in principle sounds pretty yolo, but it
             | seems the be the one of the few organizations that exist
             | outside of government? At least, it does in principle, the
             | fact that the whole crypto industry is a mix of scams and
             | recreation of the actual finance industry isn't helping
             | that case, but a part of it definitely still exists outside
             | of it.
             | 
             | We need more digital systems that exist outside of
             | governments. I'm not sure if it's feasible, but stuff like
             | this is egregious.
             | 
             | I wonder what our view on all of this is in a 1000 years.
             | People in the future probably look at us in disbelief with
             | how we practiced our ethics.
        
               | gspencley wrote:
               | Maybe one day crypto will get there, but in 2022 we
               | couldn't pay bills, taxes or payroll with crypto. At the
               | end of the day it still needs to be converted into legal
               | tender in order to be useful, and you need a bank account
               | for that to do anything in the offline world, like pay
               | for utilities or employees.
        
           | bko wrote:
           | I don't think you have to be Puritanical or particularly
           | religious to realize that some content is generally not good
           | for people. I've seen this destroy lives, drive addiction and
           | lead to other forms of destructive behavior.
           | 
           | Religion and taboo often exist for a reason, because endless
           | self gratification does not lead to flourishing.
           | 
           | You don't have to agree that it should be banned, but you can
           | at least concede it's not entirely arbitrary content like say
           | a sitcom.
        
             | johnnyanmac wrote:
             | I'll take the hard stance on this. I don't see how Sex is
             | anymore harmful, addicting, or dangerous as any other
             | number of socialties. Including Alcohol, fast food,
             | gambling, and simply getting to into any given hobby (be it
             | video games or playing guitar).
             | 
             | A habit I've noticed is that a person vulnerable to being
             | addicted to X is more prone to fall back on Y, Z, etc. even
             | when X is fixed. So I only see "this hurts certain people"
             | as a scapegoat. Stairs probably hurt more people in any
             | given day than many activities, we don't base law purely on
             | harm and potential harm.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | Alcohol and gambling are commonly restricted if not
               | outright banned in various localities though, and most
               | people would consider those and fast food to be harmful.
               | So you seem to be agreeing with GP that while you may not
               | think it should be banned, you find it comparable to
               | things that are widely recognized as "generally not good
               | for people".
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | Porn is also typically restricted. Just as many
               | jurisdictions permit neither public consumption nor
               | intoxication, everywhere I've lived had laws against
               | publicly displaying "obscene" content.
               | 
               | The issue with GGP is that in context it appears to be an
               | argument in favor of increasing restrictions (ie in favor
               | of the events that the article is talking about) despite
               | disclaiming that "You don't have to agree that it should
               | be banned". That's analogous to a loaded question.
               | Expressing agreement with the literal wording of GGP
               | seems to also carry an implication of agreement with some
               | rather different things as well.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | My read was that they were merely saying that it's not
               | helpful to characterize desire for such restrictions as
               | fundamentally coming from some religious angle. There are
               | entirely secular reasons to consider restrictions even if
               | you e.g. weigh personal autonomy as more important than
               | those reasons and therefore believe there should not be
               | restrictions.
               | 
               | It's perfectly fine to say "I think porn is generally
               | unhealthy and would suggest people not partake, but I
               | think they ought to be able if they'd like". It's also
               | reasonable to say "I think things like porn, alcohol,
               | cigarettes, violence, and/or gambling should be
               | accessible to adults, but they should not be able to
               | advertise in spaces where children are likely to visit
               | (like an online video game store), and stores should
               | check ID to purchase those things, and 'paying via
               | advertising' should not act as a loophole for those ID
               | checks." There's a wide range of reasonable positions to
               | debate that are entirely shut down by basically implying
               | that people are unreasonable to disagree.
        
             | FirmwareBurner wrote:
             | _> Religion and taboo often exist for a reason, because
             | endless self gratification does not lead to flourishing.
             | 
             | _
             | 
             | So then why aren't those activists going after Instagram,
             | TicTok, X/Twitter, etc. you know, the OG spyware, brain rot
             | and anxiety inducing companies, because that would actually
             | benefit society and not too many people would mourn their
             | loss.
             | 
             | Why are they instead going after a dozen random horny video
             | games nobody heard of? Oh that's right, because those
             | random game devs don't have the power to fight back in
             | court, unlike Meta/X, so it's an easy win for them to
             | collect brownie points, for performative nonsense.
        
               | pbhjpbhj wrote:
               | It sounds more strategic than performative. Surely if
               | they can set precedents against weaker opponents then
               | they stand more chance against stronger opponents.
               | 
               | Though Steam is not weak. But small-time game devs
               | probably don't care to fight unless they're making bank.
        
               | FirmwareBurner wrote:
               | Those companies have been alive for a long time. Where's
               | the proof they're going after them?
        
               | reaperducer wrote:
               | _So then why aren 't those activists going after
               | Instagram, TicTok, X/Twitter, etc. you know, the OG
               | spyware, brain rot and anxiety inducing companies_
               | 
               | What makes you think they aren't? Because it hasn't been
               | discussed in the HN bubble?
        
               | FirmwareBurner wrote:
               | _> What makes you think they aren't? Because it hasn't
               | been discussed in the HN bubble?
               | 
               | _
               | 
               | Maybe post some proof that they are if you wanna make
               | this argument.
        
             | knappe wrote:
             | And I've seen video games cause people to destroy their
             | lives.
             | 
             | What else should we arbitrarily ban based on this criteria?
             | It doesn't seem to hold up to much scrutiny.
        
               | bko wrote:
               | I'm not saying we should ban anything.
               | 
               | Sure video games can be unhealthy. Maybe I'm weird but I
               | would much rather prefer my son plays video games 8 hours
               | a day than watches adult content 8 hours a day. Let's
               | stop pretending like they're comparable.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | > Maybe I'm weird but I would much rather prefer my son
               | plays video games 8 hours a day than watches adult
               | content 8 hours a day.
               | 
               | Isn't it the end result that matters? Presumably you'd
               | like your son to become a functional adult. Neither of
               | the scenarios you describe there sound like that to me
               | (excepting perhaps "professional competitive gamer" but
               | somehow I suspect most parents don't really approve of
               | that outcome either).
        
               | mgaunard wrote:
               | I don't see how playing a lot of video games prevents
               | being a functional adult.
               | 
               | It's no worse than reading a lot of books or watching a
               | lot of TV shows, activities that are not disparaged as
               | much.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | I guess it comes down to time allocation. If you're
               | spending "a lot" of time on it but not so much that it
               | precludes conducting the rest of your life in a
               | functional manner then why would spending the same amount
               | of time on porn (or any other supposedly degenerate
               | activity) be any different?
        
               | kavok wrote:
               | Is it the public's job to police what your son does or is
               | it your job?
        
               | deathanatos wrote:
               | > _I 'm not saying we should ban anything._
               | 
               | That's the context of this entire discussion though, that
               | these things _are_ being banned...
        
             | Mawr wrote:
             | I'd have an easier time with this argument if it got
             | equally applied to violence. It's ridiculous that exposure
             | to sex is considered worse than to violence.
        
               | bko wrote:
               | I'd feel more comfortable showing a 12 year old a violent
               | movie than I would an adult movie.
               | 
               | Or maybe put another way, if my child was at a neighbors
               | house and one of the parents watched an adult movie with
               | my child I would have a huge issue. If they watched
               | Terminator or something similar, I would have much less
               | of an issue.
               | 
               | They're not even close to the same thing.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | I think your analogy is a bit off. The "watched it with"
               | really changes the dynamic. There are quite a few
               | activities that I'd take issue with adult neighbors doing
               | with someone else's child. That's an entirely different
               | question from a child doing things on his own or with
               | other children.
        
               | cookie_monsta wrote:
               | Not defending the ratings system here, but there is a big
               | gap between M and R/X or whatever your country uses.
               | 
               | A better question would be if you would be more
               | comfortable with your child being shown porn or snuff
               | movies. For me the answer would be neither, in about an
               | equal measure
        
               | mpalmer wrote:
               | They're different things, yep.
               | 
               | I think parent comment is asking you to consider why you
               | think young children watching violent movies is way less
               | of a problem. E.g. "Terminator or similar" - why draw the
               | line there?
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _you can at least concede it 's not entirely arbitrary
             | content like say a sitcom_
             | 
             | I'd actually hypothesise that if you locked three sets of
             | teenage boys in rooms, one with only porn games, one with
             | only social media and one with only sitcoms, that the first
             | group would likely emerge the healthiest of the three. I'm
             | basing this on my bias towards activity and that nobody
             | seems to have bothered with actually doing research on porn
             | games, the organisation pushing for these bans included
             | [1], instead proxying research on porn as a whole for this
             | specific category.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.collectiveshout.org/research
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | What do you consider "healhty", though? It's a very broad
               | term that doesn't actually mean much on its own.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _What do you consider "healhty", though?_
               | 
               | Whatever you want. Substance abuse rates. Marriage or
               | long-term partnership rates. Employment. Income. Wealth.
               | Serum cortisol.
               | 
               | My assumption is someone actively participating in
               | something, even something unhealthy, is going to maintain
               | cognitive and executive function above someone simply
               | observing. (To the degree these games may be destructive,
               | I'd argue it's in its game mechanics.)
               | 
               | We have no evidence pornography causes negative outcomes
               | across population. (Versus among a vulnerable subset.) We
               | have _lots_ of evidence for social media addiction
               | causing broad psychological issues, particularly in
               | children.
        
             | vunderba wrote:
             | IMHO the creation of organized religion has led to far more
             | injustice in the world than a stray nipple (outside of
             | Helen of Troy).
        
             | rishav_sharan wrote:
             | Not sure if you are talking about religion or porn games..
        
             | Carlseymanh wrote:
             | I really hope you don't like alcohol or any kind of spice
             | because historically those are coming next
        
           | bloqs wrote:
           | the group behind this, collective shout are Aussies
        
             | dandellion wrote:
             | The groups behind are two US companies. Some random group
             | of weirdos from Australia are just a good excuse, at best.
        
           | trothamel wrote:
           | Collective Shout, which organized this, claims to be an
           | Australian feminist organization. (Admittedly, this may be an
           | act.)
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _laims to be an Australian feminist organization_
             | 
             | I'm genuinely curious to see how this plays out in the
             | American partisan landscape.
        
               | dr-detroit wrote:
               | there's a big push to classify fleshlights and dolls as
               | rape because the extreme right won every battle there is
               | to fight they need more battles. porn is next.
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | They are however influenced by the American discourse soup
             | of lies and talking points, in the same way that the NZ
             | mosque shooter was.
             | 
             | Conservatives around the world talk to each other.
        
               | swiftcoder wrote:
               | Also Murdoch's conservative media empire has had a strong
               | influence in both Australia and the US
        
             | anonym29 wrote:
             | "Protecting women" is an incoherent excuse for pressuring
             | websites to pull romantic games that feature consensual,
             | loving, respectful homosexual male-male relationships, with
             | no women even present in the game.
             | 
             | The real motivations seemingly have nothing to do with
             | protecting women, which appears to simply be a palatable
             | facade for the true intention to suppress all depictions of
             | sexuality, including the depictions that offer good-faith
             | representation of historically marginalized groups.
        
               | t-writescode wrote:
               | Ironically, isn't most MfM smut written by and for women?
        
               | UltraSane wrote:
               | yep
        
               | akshitgaur2005 wrote:
               | wait what?
        
               | tmtvl wrote:
               | Gay male porn is the second most watched genre of porn
               | among women: https://www.garrettschlichte.com/female-
               | gaze/2019/10/22/the-...
        
             | t-writescode wrote:
             | The irony is that many if not most of the porn ARTISTS I
             | have know or known of are women, in a subculture that skews
             | male *heavily*.
             | 
             | And video games are just art.
             | 
             | So, women, drawing and writing stuff they like, being
             | banned and losing an income stream.
             | 
             | I don't think drawing or writing porn is exploitative at
             | all.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | One of the best porn web comics (which I recommend,
               | though like all web comics it has its highs and lows) is
               | Oglaf [1], and the artist drawing the sexy pictures is
               | Trudy Cooper... a woman.
               | 
               | If somehow the puritanical mob banned stuff like that,
               | I'd be genuinely sad.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.oglaf.com
        
           | pyuser583 wrote:
           | No this isn't just American. Most of the world is very anti-
           | porn. The BRICS countries mostly outlaw porn. Even Nordic
           | countries, which are very socially liberal, discourage it (at
           | least production).
           | 
           | There's a tendency for social liberals to see their view as
           | the only legitimate one. Sometimes they are right. But this
           | is an area where there is lots of international push back
           | from undeveloped, developing, and even many developed
           | socially liberal countries.
        
             | anonym29 wrote:
             | Several of the BRICS (& other "global south" / non-
             | neoliberal / non-western) countries also imprison
             | journalists and nonviolent political opposition groups, and
             | some even have the death penalty for minor cannabis
             | possession. "Everyone else does things this way" isn't a
             | legitimate justification.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | A justification of what, though? It isn't a cohesive
               | argument on it's own but it is important perspective. If
               | a significant fraction of societies have arrived at
               | policies that contradict your worldview I think that
               | ought to give you pause. (Note that I say that as someone
               | who holds far more extreme views about legal freedom of
               | expression than the vast majority of people out there.)
               | 
               | That's getting somewhat off topic though. In the context
               | of this thread it's merely the observation that
               | attributing this to "puritans" or "christianity" or "US
               | history" is rather misguided. The US and western Europe
               | are very much the outliers here.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | Are you defending the morality of authoritarian states
               | imprisoning journalists and nonviolent political
               | opposition groups?
               | 
               | It's one thing to recognize that it happens, another to
               | recognize the practice as legitimate, virtuous, or even
               | desirable.
               | 
               | To be clear, I'm not accusing you of promoting these
               | practices, just asking you to clarify your position.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | I am expressing neither support nor opposition to any
               | particular policy position in that comment, merely
               | putting forth the general principle that any time you
               | find yourself to be an outlier you should very carefully
               | examine how that came to be. It's a natural extension of
               | Chesterton's fence.
               | 
               | I think it also follows from such a principle that in
               | general the relevant reasoning should be explicitly
               | articulated when discussing the topic.
               | 
               | > It's one thing to recognize that it happens, another to
               | recognize the practice as legitimate, virtuous, or even
               | desirable.
               | 
               | Suppose that a thing is explicitly chosen by the majority
               | of the world's population, or dictated by the majority of
               | governments, or imposed by the majority of cultural
               | norms. I am suggesting that dismissing it in favor of
               | your own reasoning is fine, but that doing so lightly is
               | arrogant and misguided.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | What gives you the impression that I might be offering my
               | critiques lightly or arrogantly, as opposed to only after
               | arriving at them through extensive, careful, and
               | deliberate thought?
               | 
               | Humans engaged in tribalistic groupthink committing moral
               | atrocities is a tale as old as time.
               | 
               | It is never wise to accept a majority or status quo
               | position reflexively without thoroughly interrogating the
               | ideas held within. A great deal of majority positions are
               | morally reprehensible and ethically indefensible, and
               | that has always been the case throughout human history.
               | 
               | Human sacrifices of the innocent were not a "different
               | culture", they were barbaric murders that were always
               | wrong. They were also normative in much of the world for
               | much of human history.
               | 
               | The values espoused (but not always upheld) by western
               | societies that many of us take for granted today are the
               | exception to the rules throughout human history - rules
               | that promoted needless bloodshed, widespread suffering,
               | and persecution of the innocent.
               | 
               | It is not arrogant to assert that loss of innocent human
               | life is reprehensible and the societies that normalize it
               | should be condemned. To assert otherwise isn't simply
               | innocuously defending pluralism, it's defending
               | atrocities.
               | 
               | All life is inherently valuable and I will not apologize
               | for asserting that, no matter how many billions of people
               | disagree for tribalistic, persecutory reasons.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | > What gives you the impression that I might be offering
               | my critiques lightly or arrogantly, as opposed to only
               | after arriving at them through extensive, careful, and
               | deliberate thought?
               | 
               | Perhaps the fact that you made a claim without bothering
               | to explain this supposed "extensive, careful, and
               | deliberate thought" of yours? Also the fact that your
               | tone generally comes across as ideologically charged; in
               | my experience zealots rarely engage in patient critical
               | thinking.
               | 
               | Certainly I don't suggest that one should blindly favor
               | the status quo when given the chance to think things
               | through. However absent careful thought the status quo is
               | the obvious default. When in Rome and all that. There is
               | nearly always a reason that things are done the way they
               | are done although often the particulars will be quite
               | convoluted.
               | 
               | > It is not arrogant to assert that loss of innocent
               | human life is reprehensible and the societies that
               | normalize it should be condemned.
               | 
               | Is it really your intent to imply that I have called for
               | such? That is quite the wild leap. I feel compelled to
               | object that the turn this exchange has taken does not
               | come across as being one of good faith.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | >Is it really your intent to imply that I have called for
               | such? That is quite the wild leap. I feel compelled to
               | object that the turn this exchange has taken does not
               | come across as being one of good faith.
               | 
               | No, that was not my intention. You are right to object
               | here. I allowed myself to get worked up by inadvertently
               | framing your more methodological perspective as a moral
               | perspective, and your perception that I came on too
               | aggressively in response to that is correct. I'm
               | sincerely sorry. This wasn't an attempt to attack you or
               | your character, but it did come out looking like that,
               | and that was my fault. My bad on this one.
        
               | fc417fc802 wrote:
               | For what it's worth I myself am actually quite opposed to
               | the status quo when it comes to freedom of expression.
               | Most people, notably even most US nationals, seem to feel
               | that the US permits too much. In contrast I favor compete
               | abolishment of the obscenity carveouts.
               | 
               | However that isn't a free standing view on my part. I
               | acknowledge that the conservatives raise a number of hard
               | hitting points about corrosion of the social fabric, but
               | observe that even jurisdictions with far stricter laws
               | than the US still appear to suffer the same ills (in
               | addition to those caused by the laws themselves).
               | 
               | My view is that this is due to modern technology having
               | fundamentally changed the social dynamic. Continually
               | eroding civil liberties in a doomed attempt to regain
               | some imagined ideal of the past strikes me as nothing
               | more than an obscene parallel to the war on drugs.
               | 
               | Given that we clearly recognize that certain activities
               | are detrimental to society when flaunted in public surely
               | we could apply the same principle to various forms of
               | expression? It's not much of a leap - you'll already land
               | yourself in trouble if you go around shouting your head
               | off or intimidating people for example. Analogous to
               | alcohol consumption, I'd much prefer a clear distinction
               | between standards for public displays, secluded public
               | business establishments, and private gatherings than the
               | bizarre scenarios that the current obscenity laws
               | inevitably give rise to.
        
               | gosteinao wrote:
               | People look at the "corrosion of the social fabric", and
               | they point at the most inconsequential stuff. It's quite
               | funny.
               | 
               | We live in a world where technology made everyone live in
               | their own bubbles, only consume and reinforce what they
               | already believe, create narrow identities with strict
               | rules enforced by groupthink, and lose track of the
               | things and people that we actually interact and have to
               | deal with on a day-to-day basis.
               | 
               | Yet, people think this small stuff that has been around
               | forever, that are tiny parts of our society or lives,
               | that this stuff is the problem with everything today.
        
               | MSFT_Edging wrote:
               | Not to whatabout but the US isn't free from punishing
               | journalists.
               | 
               | See the Steven Donziger[1] case. It was just done more
               | Americanly. Private corporation threw their full weight
               | at a lawyer defending an indigenous population who had
               | their water supply poisoned. Chevron hired a private
               | prosecutor who had him locked up on house arrest for
               | years.
               | 
               | Similar to this porn case, the censorship and suppression
               | is coming from market interests rather than government,
               | but they're nearly equally untouchable and even more
               | difficult to hold accountable. You can't vote out the
               | leadership of mastercard or chevron.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steven_Donziger
        
               | pyuser583 wrote:
               | Steven Donziger isn't a journalist. He was a lawyer who
               | was suing Chevron.
               | 
               | I've been following the case closely. This is the first
               | time anybody has claimed he's a journalist, AFAIK.
               | 
               | Am I missing something?
               | 
               | Edit: according to Wikipedia he worked as a journalist
               | for three years before attending law school. So I guess
               | he's an ex-journalist, and ex-lawyer for that matter.
               | 
               | But calling the persecution of journalists is false.
               | Maybe persecution of environmental lawyers, but lawyers,
               | unlike journalists, are heavily regulated, and face much
               | higher liability for bad acts.
        
             | phendrenad2 wrote:
             | When I finally got around to reading Fukuyama, I had an
             | "aha" moment where I realized... oh, this is how liberal
             | democracy thinks. They think they've perfected society and
             | everyone agrees with them, except for a few weird
             | superstitious cults.
             | 
             | Then I realized that it was all wrong, countries accept
             | western liberal democracy only as long as the free aid
             | keeps flowing. And the libdems were in for a rude awakening
             | if they ever ran out of kibble.
        
               | gonzobonzo wrote:
               | The very strange thing I've found about liberal
               | democracies is not just the amount of people who believe
               | the entire world believes in the value of liberal
               | democracies. It' the amount of people who believe, for
               | some strange reason, that other countries support the
               | values of liberal democracies even more than liberal
               | democracies themselves.
               | 
               | Hence comments about the U.S. being extremely
               | puritanical, when anyone can look at laws throughout the
               | world and see that the U.S. is more open on most of these
               | issues than the vast majority of countries.
               | 
               | It's a very strange form of self-loathing. I've discussed
               | it with a lot of people from non-Western countries, and
               | they find this behavior extremely confusing.
        
           | pnw wrote:
           | The Collective Shout group pushing for the censorship is
           | Australian, not American.
           | 
           | Most people are unaware of Australia's long history of
           | censorship which continues to this day.
        
             | ronsor wrote:
             | Australia was a prison colony, after all.
        
           | reaperducer wrote:
           | _The Puritanical origins of the US_
           | 
           | Like slavery, smallpox, and tipping, Puritanism was Europe's
           | gift to the new world.
        
             | lupusreal wrote:
             | Also penicillin, trains, and the Haber-Bosch process.
        
           | potato3732842 wrote:
           | A couple of the groups that founded what would become US
           | states were decent. Of course those decent groups got
           | outcompeted by the authoritarian weirdos because live and let
           | lives types and insular communities don't see the need to
           | grab state power.
        
           | UltraSane wrote:
           | You do know that porn is legal to produce and view in the US
           | and the US produces a LOT of porn? This hardly seems
           | puritanical.
        
           | phyzix5761 wrote:
           | Weren't the Pilgrims, also known as Separatists, being jailed
           | if they didn't attend Church of England services per the Act
           | of Uniformity of 1559? And weren't they jailed without trial
           | if they tried to have their own religious services in private
           | homes?
        
             | unnamed76ri wrote:
             | Shh don't bring facts in here.
        
           | pdonis wrote:
           | Exactly. The Puritans didn't leave England because the church
           | there was too intolerant. They left because it wasn't
           | intolerant _enough_.
        
         | kelseyfrog wrote:
         | Presumably, the belief of Collective Shout is that there is a
         | causal link between acting out incest, rape, and sexual
         | violence in games and acting on those behaviors in real life.
         | 
         | What would you do if you harbored that belief?
        
           | evilduck wrote:
           | Empirically prove it.
        
             | throwawayoldie wrote:
             | You say that, but history shows that people are much more
             | likely to move based on what _feels_ true to them.
        
             | kelseyfrog wrote:
             | Making sure I get this straight. You're saying that if you
             | shared that believe, you would go out in search of evidence
             | to prove it? I hate to break the news, but if we read the
             | literature published by members of Collective Shout, they
             | _have_ in fact done this. The evidence they have supports
             | their claims. Let 's be clear, the evidence they have is
             | independent of the veracity of the claims, but they _have_
             | done with you suggested. However, it had the effect of
             | confirming their beliefs.
             | 
             | I hate to ask the question again, but if you believed the
             | same thing and felt like you empirically proved it, how
             | would you behave?
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _if we read the literature published by members of
               | Collective Shout, they have in fact done this_
               | 
               | Granted, I've skimmed, but I'm genuinely not seeing it
               | [1].
               | 
               | The closest is this study [2], which counted how many
               | times thirty-eight women "who self-identified as having
               | experienced unwanted or non-consensual sexual experiences
               | in relationships" and were "recruited via social media,"
               | when "given the opportunity to reflect on their
               | experiences of [intimate partner sexual violence], with
               | prompting to speculate about their partner's motivations
               | or any underlying causes for the violence" mentioned
               | pornography. That's...that's not a study.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.collectiveshout.org/research
               | 
               | [2] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1077801
               | 2209713...
        
               | Negitivefrags wrote:
               | You kind of missed the point. It doesn't matter if what
               | they did is or isn't real science. They believe it is,
               | and so as far as they are concerned, it's proven.
               | 
               | So then what? Since they really believe what they said,
               | how can you blame them for their actions?
               | 
               | You might argue that since they are wrong, their beliefs
               | should be changed. Well sure, maybe they should.
               | 
               | You could commission a study to confirm that, then try to
               | persaude people. Perhaps form a collective to persuade
               | others of that belief. Oh wait....
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _they have in fact done this. The evidence they have
               | supports their claims_
               | 
               | >> _It doesn 't matter if what they did is or isn't real
               | science. They believe it is, and so as far as they are
               | concerned, it's proven_
               | 
               | There is a massive gap between someone having done
               | something and their (wrongly) believing they've done it.
        
               | rpdillon wrote:
               | You asked a question about what I would do if I had a
               | belief that somebody was harming society.
               | 
               | Historically, my observation is that some of the most
               | evil things ever perpetrated by humans were done in the
               | name of trying to make society better. So I'm pretty
               | hesitant to enforce my views on other people or even
               | attempt to. If they were acting in good faith, this would
               | be sort of like a Black Lives Matter type of approach
               | that is trying to raise public awareness around an issue.
               | But they're not acting in good faith in trying to get
               | society to see their point of view. Instead, they are
               | trying to go after the fulcrums of society and enforce
               | their view using backroom deals. It's a transparent power
               | play, and it's not in good faith: real good faith actors
               | look at both sides of the issue, both the values and the
               | harm, and they try to develop a balanced response. This
               | is not what's happening here.
        
           | tremon wrote:
           | We have seen time and time again that a lot of such
           | reprehensible behaviour comes from a puritanical stance on
           | sex. So it's likely that they already act out those
           | behaviours in real life.
           | 
           | They just want to hide behind "those games made me do it"
           | when they eventually get caught.
        
           | codedokode wrote:
           | Why they don't go after alcohol? I am not an expert, but I
           | guess most such crimes happen due to alcohol usage.
        
           | creer wrote:
           | The issue is not with Collective Shout, who are rightly free
           | to argue whatever they want. The issue is with payment
           | processor - who fall all over themselves and invoke all sorts
           | of random claims, to use their extreme power to ban content.
        
             | bfg_9k wrote:
             | They're Australian. So no.. not really. There's no freedom
             | of speech in Australia.
        
         | fossgeller wrote:
         | Well maybe they are bothered by its sexist content. People all
         | are about free speech when it comes to censorship in media, but
         | not that many talk about how objectification of women is still
         | very common in it.
         | 
         | I'm sure that there are dating sims that are just fine, but
         | let's be honest here, these platforms are filled with much
         | weirder stuff . Some of them even enter the morally grey areas
         | imo.
        
           | baobabKoodaa wrote:
           | Oh no, weird stuff in games? Or even... morally grey actions
           | in games? How awful!
        
             | fossgeller wrote:
             | Well yes, one could argue that if games like GTA don't turn
             | people into criminals than these games are also harmless.
             | Imo it's a bit different in this case, as a more natural
             | instinct (sexuality) is affected.
             | 
             | Sure, games can be beneficial for living out fantasies, but
             | how will it affect your view on women if you frequently
             | consume highly sexist content? The bottom line of my point
             | is that I think this type of content is too easily
             | available nowadays, and especially too much of it.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >Imo it's a bit different in this case, as a more natural
               | instinct (sexuality) is affected.
               | 
               | I personally don't see the difference. Violence is a
               | primal instinct and studies on video games and violence
               | only concluded short term increases in aggression. Why
               | would a similar conclusion with yet another primal
               | instinct not conclude with short term increased arousal?
               | I don't see arousal as inherently dangerous.
               | 
               | >how will it affect your view on women if you frequently
               | consume highly sexist content?
               | 
               | Do you feel that people just find "sexist content" from
               | some algorithm, or that already sexist people seek out
               | content to conform to their views? I have my criticisms
               | of Steam, but I am glad they are one of the few bastions
               | left that aren't driven by "engagment boosting"
               | algorithms. Just a simple tag system recommending other
               | content with similar tags and good ratings.
               | 
               | I agree with the undertone that we need better sex
               | education. Those early years where we don't sell content
               | to 10 year olds should be used to talk about the dangers
               | before sending them off. Too bad such groups also go for
               | an all-abstinence approach.
        
               | caconym_ wrote:
               | If you start down this road, policing which media people
               | have access to based on your own totally subjective moral
               | standards and interpretations, you will end up with
               | pervasive censorship that severely stunts cultural
               | development. Because who is "you", anyway? The answer is,
               | of course, whichever monstrous nutjob chooses to devote a
               | huge chunk of their time and money to seizing the levers
               | of power so that they can impose their monstrous
               | nutjobbery on everyone else.
               | 
               | Seriously, outside of special, clearly delineated cases
               | with indisputable negative externalities (especially on
               | the production side), when has [effectively] banning
               | certain [types of] media been a net good? Seems to me
               | that all it's good for is political repression and
               | fueling moral panics.
        
             | broof wrote:
             | Child rape is morally grey now?
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | Not my words. Look upthread.
        
           | everdrive wrote:
           | "Objectification" is just a clinical and negative way to
           | describe normal male sexuality. ie, that physically beautiful
           | women are sexually attractive.
        
             | fossgeller wrote:
             | In my book objectification means presenting women as
             | walking sexual organs, bodies of flesh that one needs to
             | conquer, nothing more. Many of pornographic content
             | nowadays do this. Sexuality is not a problem, sexism is.
        
               | jjaksic wrote:
               | How would you make porn that isn't "objectifying"? Would
               | you add an hour of prologue showing actors going to work,
               | hanging out with friends, having hobbies etc, to show
               | they are aren't just "sex objects"? I don't know if such
               | porn would be very popular, leave alone cost-effective to
               | produce.
               | 
               | Also, I don't see how women in porn are any more
               | objectified than men. In the porn that I've seen, men are
               | 100% objectified and portrayed as only good for "one
               | thing".
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | I mean your last point is fine, the problem is when the
             | Overton window of what "normal male sexuality" is shifts
             | towards violating other people's boundaries, or diminishing
             | them as people beyond how it affects men's arousal.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | >Well maybe they are bothered by its sexist content.
           | 
           | several Otome and BL content was hit by this as well. I don't
           | think this is about protecting the women and children.
           | 
           | >not that many talk about how objectification of women is
           | still very common in it.
           | 
           | It's not 2005 anymore. Show me any modern AAA game still
           | doing this.
           | 
           | in terms of porn... well, yes. Your reward is sexual
           | gratification with your chosen mate in any given game. Porn
           | is inherently objectifying. I don't think you're seen enough
           | of the porn market if you think porn is focused
           | onobjectifying women, though.
           | 
           | >but let's be honest here, these platforms are filled with
           | much weirder stuff .
           | 
           | We're on Hacker News. I really hope we had enough background
           | growing up to not wish for "weird" to be illegal.
        
           | Levitz wrote:
           | Where would books like Twilight or 50 shades of grey rank on
           | this "weirdness" scale? Sexism? Those two books had orders of
           | magnitude more of an impact on society, where is the outrage?
        
         | _trampeltier wrote:
         | That is what happens, if we give public functions to private
         | companies. Noboy say you have to use Mastercard.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | I remember checking out llama when it first came out. (meta's
         | published LLM model)
         | 
         | "what is the best sex position?"
         | 
         | [blah, blah, ... non-answer]
         | 
         | "How do you get a sex change?"
         | 
         | [long detailed answer]
        
           | isaacdl wrote:
           | Well, those are somewhat different types of questions. One is
           | subjective opinion, and the other is a bit more
           | factual/straightforward.
           | 
           | I'm also not entirely sure what this has to do with the
           | comment you're replying to.
        
             | m463 wrote:
             | any sex questions led to non answers.
             | 
             | the point was that content is blocked almost by default
             | nowadays
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | But the LLM gave you a detailed answer on another sex
               | question. I'm a bit confused why that example was used.
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | Not entirely; the one question was sex and interpersonal
               | relationships, the other was medical / scientific.
        
               | MSFT_Edging wrote:
               | Intercourse vs sexuality. Not the same thing.
        
           | baobabKoodaa wrote:
           | the first version of llama was uncensored, so this story is
           | not factual
        
             | m463 wrote:
             | It was llama-7b
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | that was uncensored
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | What is meant by uncensored though? Did it have for
               | example the complete unfiltered human knowledge, or was
               | its dataset filtered to exclude e.g. 4chan?
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | It was uncensored enough to a point where I can
               | confidently say that the parent's story is not true.
        
         | bongodongobob wrote:
         | Don't like porn? Don't sell it in your store, simple as that.
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | When the Steam removals came up on HN, several people linked
         | the list of games pulled. It looked more like they were
         | targeting incest games (which is a genre I didn't know existed)
         | rather than the generic "porn games" that keeps showing up in
         | headlines. There could be more developments or a different
         | story for Itch.io, but last time this story was circulating it
         | appeared that journalists were avoiding talking about specifics
         | because people were much more sensitive about removing "porn
         | games" in general whereas as "incest games" is a different
         | story.
        
           | badgersnake wrote:
           | So what? Why does that make any difference?
        
           | simion314 wrote:
           | Those games are legal, also in some USA states you canmary
           | your cousin so why the fuck don\t this puritans do not go for
           | incest inreal life first then handle virtual stuff.
        
             | broof wrote:
             | One of the example games that was banned was "daddy twins
             | incest BDSM" and similar titles.
        
               | simion314 wrote:
               | >One of the example games that was banned was "daddy
               | twins incest BDSM" and similar titles.
               | 
               | Next you will ban games where you are killing people
               | instead of focusing on real killers? I would prefer we
               | have laws for what is legal and not let religious
               | extremists decide what music we are allowed to listen,
               | what type of books and games should we play, I guess
               | there is no evidence they can bring to ban this content
               | so they push their FUD around.
               | 
               | So please either make it illegal or stop focusing on
               | virtual crimes, maybe focus on real crimes or use those
               | money religious people have on helping real people.
        
         | ardit33 wrote:
         | Next is a Superman videogame being blocked because it goes
         | against the 'policies/interests' of a country that manages to
         | lobby a lot here.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | You seem to be sarcastic but there's plenty of countries that
           | have stringent laws on what games are and aren't allowed.
        
           | DSingularity wrote:
           | Well you know Superman shouldn't fight against genocidal
           | maniacs and instead should fight for them. Then we wouldn't
           | have to ban him and infect we can all celebrate him.
        
         | o11c wrote:
         | There's a lot of dishonesty relating to this. This _really_ isn
         | 't about Puritanism, unless you're redefining Puritanism to
         | mean having _any_ morality at all.
         | 
         | Do you really want to compel selling access to pedo games?
         | 
         | Do you really want to compel selling access to rape games?
         | 
         | Do you really want to compel selling access to incest games?
         | 
         | Do you really want to compel selling access to domestic
         | violence games? [this is the only addition that I wasn't aware
         | of from previous investigations, but I still don't think it's
         | valid to call it a "slippery slope" yet]
         | 
         | A lot of customers don't _want_ to be shown such games in the
         | first place (keep in mind that most tag systems are pretty bad
         | at negative filtering, either due to platform limitations or
         | due to not being used in practice).
         | 
         | We can argue about whether "it's better to sell pedos fake
         | content rather than real content" etc. (keep in mind that some
         | of these things are actually illegal in many countries even
         | when no real people are involved), but if so we should be
         | explicit that that is our argument, and not falsely claiming
         | this is some attack on sex in general. (Also keep in mind that
         | free games are immune to payment processor decisions.)
        
           | MegaButts wrote:
           | > Do you really want to compel selling access to pedo games?
           | 
           | > Do you really want to compel selling access to rape games?
           | 
           | > Do you really want to compel selling access to incest
           | games?
           | 
           | So ban the things you believe are the problem instead of
           | blanket banning everything.
        
             | o11c wrote:
             | Are they actually banning "everything" though? From what I
             | can see, that's entirely clickbait fraud.
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | The group behind this censorship attack is not just
               | against porn games. It's also attacked games like
               | Detroit: Become Human.
               | 
               | So they want to censor far more than just porn.
        
               | o11c wrote:
               | I didn't mention "porn", and there's a reason I included
               | domestic violence simulations in list of specific things
               | they're targeting; when phrased like that it sounds like
               | a reasonable category to ban. I haven't played that
               | specific game but it certainly sounds close enough that
               | it could be caught even if not intended (and maybe it is
               | intended - even if I trust what people say on the
               | internet and the game is well-meaning, that doesn't mean
               | it is actually healthy or sane).
               | 
               | If it really is an example of a rare false positive, a
               | manual fix for _that one specific game_ is a reasonable
               | thing to seek, without giving the pedos their heyday like
               | most of the comments here suggest.
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | You might disagree with me and others here and even want
               | censorship for games. But don't you think it's should be
               | regulated by your local government for your specific
               | country or by whatever regulator there is where you live?
               | 
               | Do you really think Visa and MasterCard should be making
               | decisions what is acceptable for like everyone?
               | 
               | Otherwise any random weirdos from UK or Australia will
               | censor what are you allowed to watch or play in the US.
               | 
               | And China can also put pretty good pressure on payment
               | processors too. They'll certainly want many games gone
               | since they are worse than pedos for CCP.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | >Do you really want to compel selling access to pedo games?
           | 
           | Games that are pedophilia is very different form games that
           | appeal to potential pedophiles. The first one is not only not
           | allowed on Steam but outright illegal overall. Steam doesn't
           | even want you using adult models in their games for this very
           | reason; they don't want to need to verify ages.
           | 
           | For the latter: I guess so? It's really hard to determine
           | what triggers someone to commit crime. I don't think any but
           | the most blatant cases are as simple as "play video game with
           | teenagers in it -> I want to have sex with a real teenager".
           | This is why it's better to focus on who's victmized instead
           | of who may or may not be influenced.
           | 
           | >Do you really want to compel selling access to rape games?
           | 
           | there are 1000 games released on steam every month. A game's
           | existence isn't a compelling factor to buy it.
           | 
           | With that in mind for all subsequent answers: yes, I dont
           | mind games with rape being sold. I will not buy it, but if
           | they find a market: so be it.
           | 
           | >Do you really want to compel selling access to incest games?
           | 
           | Sure. Maybe this is a hot take, but I never had a stronger
           | attraction to my mom because I watched porn of someone else
           | banging their "stepmother". I'm into it because it's other
           | people doing forbidden acts (or toeing the line with the
           | "step" aspects), not because I'm interested in doing the
           | forbidden act myself. This goes all the way back to Romeo and
           | Juliet; people are engaged by romance fighting against
           | societal norms.
           | 
           | >Do you really want to compel selling access to domestic
           | violence games?
           | 
           | GTA has been a thing for some 30 years now. I think this boat
           | has set sail. But yes.
           | 
           | >keep in mind that most tag systems are pretty bad at
           | negative filtering, either due to platform limitations or due
           | to not being used in practice
           | 
           | okay. So how about we fix that instead of just banning
           | content we don't like. Steam is already too strong for my
           | liking, but they very much can enforce a system where an
           | account is suspended for too many clearly bad tags.
           | 
           | >keep in mind that free games are immune to payment processor
           | decisions
           | 
           | Itch has a donation system on all game pages. So that's not
           | quite the case here. Also, pressurign payment processors will
           | endanger the entire store, even if every NSFW game is free.
        
           | crooked-v wrote:
           | The same group driving this has attempted to get games like
           | Detroit: Become Human banned because they include even the
           | basic _concept_ of mistreatment against women as part of the
           | dramatic narrative. Not glorifying it, just having it exist,
           | even when explicitly framed as a negative thing the narrative
           | explores the consequences of.
        
           | Dylan16807 wrote:
           | I don't want to compel any stores to sell anything, but I do
           | want to compel monopoly/duopoly money processors to process
           | money for legitimate transactions for legal goods.
           | 
           | And the list of games targeted and affected here is really
           | expansive.
        
         | nlawalker wrote:
         | I don't really disagree with you, but to play devil's advocate
         | - when you see something that you think is harmful to society,
         | what determines whether or not it's moral and appropriate to
         | advocate for and work towards its abolition in what you see as
         | the best interest of everyone?
         | 
         | Is "Don't like X? Don't buy it" as far as we should go with...
         | AI-produced child porn? Rolling coal and other egregious
         | pollution? Online gambling? Abortion? Fentanyl?
        
           | goosedragons wrote:
           | Laws.
        
           | RenThraysk wrote:
           | It's not what, it's how is the problem.
           | 
           | Side stepping local country government, and applying pressure
           | to payment processors to enforce your own rules globally
           | should not be able to happen. Even a government should not be
           | able to dictate what other countries do.
        
             | miohtama wrote:
             | The advocate group who do this believe they are exercising
             | the will of God and do not need to mess with things like
             | laws
        
           | martin-t wrote:
           | If somebody things he knows better, he shouldn't be allowed
           | to push his views on others from his position of power. All
           | public policies should be subject to public scrutiny.
           | 
           | Nobody has any right to dictate other people's lives. For his
           | view to be even considered, he should be required to prove
           | beyond reasonable doubt, that whatever he is against is
           | actually harmful. And after that, only after that, should the
           | voting whether this finding should influence public policy
           | begin.
           | 
           | People should be allowed to harm themselves when they are
           | informed about the consequences. Similarly, society should be
           | allowed to harm itself because not everything has to be a
           | race to the bottom of productivity and strength.
           | 
           | Do abortions lower the birth rate and are more populous
           | societies stronger? Even _if_ the answers are yes to both, I
           | don't see why any society should optimize this metric to the
           | extreme. And theological arguments quickly fall apart in the
           | first step of proving harm.
        
             | kelseyfrog wrote:
             | > Nobody has any right to dictate other people's lives.
             | 
             | The pragmatics of activism prove contrary to this ideal.
             | The reality is that this is a failed argument and it will
             | continue to fail regardless of how often it's repeated. I
             | hate to say it, but the only way to counter is to win at
             | the activism game rather than complain about the rules.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | Nothing failed. People always did things they had no
               | right to, as long as they were allowed to do them.
        
             | Saline9515 wrote:
             | Your propositions are contradictory. If "society" decides
             | to harm itself, and I'm part of it, I'll have to suffer
             | from the choices taken by others.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | Are you, personally, harmed by someone having an
               | abortion?
               | 
               | Are you, personally, harmed by someone watching porn?
               | 
               | Maybe it makes society as a whole weaker compared to
               | other societies but that doesn't mean your society
               | actually loses anything. Countries have nuclear weapons
               | and multi-national defense pacts now. Just because China
               | has several times the population of the US and could win
               | a conventional war, doesn't mean it's gonna invade.
               | 
               | We don't live in tribes of a few hundred people who are
               | constantly on the brink of starvation and/or genocide
               | anymore. But many people are still governed by instincts
               | from that environment.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | The issues you are talking about are not "society-wide"
               | issues requiring compliance of others.
               | 
               | A better example would be to consider that pre-op
               | transgender people, namely MtF, can share the same spaces
               | that were reserved to biological women. For instance in
               | sport. If I'm a woman and now I have to compete with a
               | biological man in MMA because society chose that it's the
               | new normal, yes, I'm going to suffer from it.
               | 
               | If society decides that it's fair to feed Tiktok to
               | toddlers who end up having their neurons fried, I'm going
               | to suffer from it as well when they grew up as they won't
               | be able to do their job well. If society decides that
               | it's fair to allow CSAM everywhere, I guess that a few
               | children are going to suffer as it becomes mainstream.
               | 
               | We don't live in a vacuum.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | I agree with the trans example because 1) it's a great
               | example of one individual being allowed to do something
               | that directly harms another individual; 2) it's fairly
               | easy to prove that someone who grew up with male bone and
               | muscle structure does not suddenly get the female
               | structure because of a reassignment surgery or hormones.
               | I am all for letting people do what they want with their
               | bodies but their freedom stops at interacting with other
               | people's bodies.
               | 
               | I cannot agree with the toddlers example: 1) it's
               | possible it does some damage but as I said, to even
               | consider it, we need proof; 2) even if they are bad at
               | life, it doesn't automatically harm another individual -
               | don't hire incompetents and they won't harm your
               | business. They might harm society in general but society
               | does not IMO have any right to force people to optimize
               | for society's goals. The balance might change if this was
               | true and happened on such a scale that society measurably
               | declined but then I am still of the opinion that we
               | should have mechanisms how a group of people should be
               | able to get together separate themselves from others. We
               | have no right to force the Amish to start using modern
               | tech, even if a few more able bodies would probably be
               | beneficial on some scale. Similarly, if the majority feed
               | TikTok to their toddlers and a minority does not, they
               | should be able and allowed to form their own society with
               | its own rules, as long as everyone participates
               | willingly.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | The problem with this kind of pure hedonistic thinking is
               | that it negates that societies exist because of
               | cooperation of individuals and not just as an aggregate
               | of humans.
               | 
               | According to your thinking, no one can "force" medical
               | faculties to say that now anyone can buy a surgical
               | doctor degree for 10$, that said if you have to get
               | urgent surgery you'll pay for the consequences as the
               | "doctor" who'll operate won't be qualified.
               | 
               | This is why we need basic rules, norms and constraints
               | that allows us to reach a better optimum than the free-
               | for-all that you recommend. It's also a question of
               | personal values: I value more living in a CSAM-free
               | society, than one where pedos can watch it freely.
               | Amishes value being in a highly religious and low-tech
               | society than giving birth without pain or having air
               | conditioning.
               | 
               | I agree that leaving the society should be possible
               | (emigration, for instance, as the Amishes did). But each
               | society has its local optimum, so you'll have to choose
               | with different constraints. You can for instance go to
               | Russia where it's legal to own and watch CSAM, but with
               | other constraints.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | > According to your thinking, no one can "force" medical
               | faculties to say that now anyone can buy a surgical
               | doctor degree for 10$, that said if you have to get
               | urgent surgery you'll pay for the consequences as the
               | "doctor" who'll operate won't be qualified.
               | 
               | I have trouble parsing that sentence, did you mean
               | "prevent" instead of "force"?
               | 
               | If yes, then it doesn't follow from my thinking at all.
               | Lying is an offensive action by which the liar gains an
               | advantage at someone else's expense. There are
               | expectations of minimum quality standards for doctors,
               | both informal (people's expectations) and formal (state
               | exams / certification). Somebody claiming to be a doctor
               | without fulfilling these expectations is clearly directly
               | harming other people (whether actual harm is done - even
               | if he somehow through sheer luck managed to perform one
               | surgery successfully, the expected outcome is still harm
               | and expected outcome should absolutely factor into his
               | punishment).
               | 
               | > This is why we need basic rules, norms and constraints
               | 
               | I never said we didn't. I said we only need them when
               | other people are harmed provably and directly; not when
               | somebody thinks he "knows better".
        
               | JoshTriplett wrote:
               | The dangerous thing is that there are some busybodies who
               | will believe they _are_ harmed by such things, and so you
               | have to take the argument a step further and precisely
               | define harm to confirm that they have no case. It would
               | be easier if people had a common definition of  "if it
               | doesn't involve you then it's not your business".
               | 
               | And the difficult thing about _that_ is that
               | externalities do exist for some things. Pollution affects
               | everyone, for instance, and those externalities need to
               | be accounted for. It 's not a trivial definitional
               | problem to distinguish valid externalities from
               | spurious/invalid claims, unfortunately.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | Both points are true. I chose these examples in response
               | because they are relatively simple, clear cut examples of
               | "not your business", yet people still try to dictate
               | other people's lives around them.
               | 
               | These people are on one end of the authoritarian
               | spectrum. The other are anarchists, usually ancaps in
               | places I frequent, and they are just as wrong because
               | they are ignoring how people in the real world will
               | actually behave. Negative externalities are precisely the
               | thing that they ignore, minimize, or try to redirect your
               | attention by linking you to a 2 hour video which is
               | supposed to address it but doesn't.
               | 
               | Well, at least they do generally get out of other
               | people's lives though. But it's a system which doesn't
               | work and when it fails, leads to the rise of
               | authoritarians. I wish people were able to understand
               | that policy is a multi-dimensional spectrum and extremes
               | on any one axis are unlikely to lead to stability.
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | It all depends on how much power a company has, and so how
           | easy it is to find alternatives.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | >whether or not it's moral and appropriate to advocate for
           | and work towards its abolition in what you see as the best
           | interest of everyone?
           | 
           | That lines creates justification for anything and even
           | everyone to be banned, sadly.
           | 
           | >Is "Don't like X? Don't buy it" as far as we should go
           | with... AI-produced child porn?
           | 
           | My line is "is there a victim harmed with the action".
           | Shooting a gun? Yes, someone is often harmed and killed. We
           | should and do regulate gun usage.
           | 
           | simulated CSAM is repulsive but does not have a victim, in
           | theory. The jury is out on how you train such content, so I
           | won't saw "AI porn has no victim", but the animated stuff
           | within Steam definitely has no victim (and Steam pretty much
           | forbids live actors of any form for such content. They dealt
           | with such a case in 2023)
        
             | Saline9515 wrote:
             | The problem with simulated CSAM is that there is a risk
             | that the viewer develops a fetish for such repulsive
             | practices. It has then destructive consequences for the
             | viewer and, should he try to perform it, his victims.
             | 
             | Either way, I don't see the harm of forbidding it. The web
             | doesn't lack regular pornography alternatives, free or
             | paid.
        
               | true_religion wrote:
               | Gay conversion therapy, which has an entire society
               | backing it, failed consistently despite trying pairing it
               | with torture and social ostracism.
               | 
               | This seems to suggest that broad sexual preferences are
               | remarkably stable.
        
               | drdeca wrote:
               | I would imagine that it is probably easier to make
               | someone find something sexually exciting than to make
               | them no longer find a thing sexually exciting?
               | 
               | When a river had carved a canyon, it is hard to redirect
               | it. That doesn't mean the canyon was always there.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | Why is the pornography served to each generation more
               | violent then? It's one thing to be homosexual, it's
               | another to be into the most extreme acts that some
               | homosexuals perform. Do we really need porn that
               | scenarizes incest?
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | This is the same "violence in video games" argument, no?
               | I'm open to reading studies on the issue, but I haven't
               | seen anything to suggest that simulated CSAM "converts"
               | people who otherwise is not attracted to children.
        
               | drdeca wrote:
               | I don't know how you would study that specifically, but
               | it seems like there's a lot of evidence that sexual
               | experiences can contribute to formation of fetishes. Iirc
               | there was an experiment on mice or rats or something
               | where they had them wear some sort of structure the first
               | times they mated and then later on they uh, mated more
               | strongly when wearing the thing than when not wearing it
               | (and I think when not wearing it, produced less emissions
               | than rats or mice that had never been made to wear the
               | thing).
               | 
               | I mean, this seems to be a pattern people have seen in
               | many cases?
               | 
               | I seem to recall something about people in the military
               | developing scat fetishes after repeatedly masturbating in
               | restrooms that smell of feces, due to a lack of other
               | private places?
               | 
               | The phrase "fetish fuel" is a fairly standard phrase I
               | think.
               | 
               | Generally, it's pretty clear that some fetishes come from
               | somewhere. Like, the "woman turns into a giant blueberry"
               | one seems to pretty clearly trace back to someone's
               | experience with the scene in "Charlie and the Chocolate
               | Factory".
               | 
               | And, like, if someone starts out looking at/for breast
               | expansion porn, they're probably going to be exposed to a
               | far bit of lactation porn as well, and I think there's a
               | fair chance that they'll start seeking that out as well?
               | For example.
               | 
               | Why would we expect this pattern to not apply in the case
               | of CP/CSAM?
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | Violence in video games is quite different from
               | paraphilias. While they usually have an origin deep
               | buried in the psyche, exposure to specific types of porn
               | can act as a trigger and reinforcement to it.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I fail to see how. We have entire sections of our brain
               | dedicated to aggression and adrenaline management.
               | Knowing how to recognize a threat, fight, and flight is
               | every bit as base as knowing how to breed.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11757-020-0060
               | 7-y
               | 
               | End of page 3, the author does a litterature review and
               | finds that current studies show that exposure to CSAM
               | increases probability of offending for those with
               | predispositions.
        
               | akoboldfrying wrote:
               | Haven't read this yet, but I'm going to take a wild stab
               | and guess that none of those "current studies" mentioned
               | in the literature review were RCTs, because an RCT would
               | entail deliberately exposing people with a predisposition
               | towards paedophilia to CSAM, and that doesn't seem like
               | the kind of thing that would ever be allowed by an ethics
               | board.
               | 
               | If that's the case, then all these studies were
               | observational studies, which lack the ability to infer
               | causality. They can at best hint at directions to pursue
               | for studies that _can_ infer causality.
               | 
               | As a concrete example of the way that observational
               | studies can go wrong despite good intentions: It was
               | believed for a long time that paedophiles have lower
               | average IQs than the general population. This was based
               | on the observation that a larger fraction than would be
               | expected of those caught and sentenced for sexual crimes
               | involving children were of low IQ. Of course, a better
               | explanation of this observation is that paedophiles with
               | higher IQs are better at covering their tracks and
               | evading suspicion.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | There are many publications studying how porn exposure
               | shapes sexuality and our vision of the human body,
               | especially in the young age, but not only.
               | 
               | By your logic, CSAM consumers would be "magically"
               | unaffected by viewing this porn subcategory.
               | 
               | How convienient.
        
               | trothamel wrote:
               | Two arguments I can think of:
               | 
               | The first is that you're banning free expression, and
               | banning free expression is inherently harmful.
               | 
               | There's also the displacement theory - with the legal
               | content being much more accessible and regulated to
               | ensure minors aren't involved in production, it displaces
               | illegal content that does harm minors.
        
               | Saline9515 wrote:
               | I don't think the theory behind "free expression" covers
               | things such as CSAM or incest porn. It's ok to say that
               | content that aim to excite the viewer about minor abuse
               | should be forbidden.
        
               | trothamel wrote:
               | Murder is illegal, but games and stories about murder are
               | protected free expression. None of the games in question
               | involve actual people, let alone people being harmed, and
               | so why wouldn't they be treated the same way?
        
             | kelseyfrog wrote:
             | The assumption they're making is "interactive incest and
             | sexual exploitation games influence people's real life
             | behavior".
             | 
             | In purely hypothetical terms, what would we if there was
             | evidence for this? I can see some folks standing by their
             | ideals and concluding that even if this was true, we
             | shouldn't ban these games, while others would conclude that
             | there is a moral obligation to future victims to ban them.
             | 
             | How would you behave if you shared the belief that incest
             | and sexual exploitation games influence people's real life
             | behavior?
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | That's your line, but others have other lines; violence in
             | games was a big thing twenty years ago, and some pearl
             | clutchers tried to have all violent video games banned.
             | 
             | Thing is though, if violent video games caused people to
             | become violent, Columbine wouldn't have been a rare
             | incident.
             | 
             | But it's a difficult one. People play video games but for
             | most people it doesn't change their moral compass; it
             | doesn't make them think ripping out people's spines is
             | normal or acceptable. It desensitizes them to a point I
             | suppose.
             | 
             | Does porn, porn games or simulated CSAM make people
             | normalize objectification and violence towards people and
             | children? I can't answer that, and I don't know if there's
             | been any studies towards especially CSAM since it's such a
             | taboo. N=1, but 20+ years of porn on occasion hasn't turned
             | me into some rampant sex addict.
        
           | JumpCrisscross wrote:
           | > _when you see something that you think is harmful to
           | society, what determines whether or not it 's moral and
           | appropriate to advocate for and work towards its abolition_
           | 
           | Evidence. If you think something is harmful to society, you
           | have a hypothesis. The next step is to test it. Not assume
           | it's true and ban everything.
           | 
           | I have seen zero evidence that any of these games are
           | harmful. If I had to hazard a guess, and this is again just a
           | hypothesis, I'd actually suspect that a teenager exposed to
           | porn games is less likely to suffer mental-health issues than
           | one on algorithmic social media or forming intimate
           | connections with chatbots.
        
             | kreco wrote:
             | This is not the correct way.
             | 
             | If cigarette was banned from the beginning, we would still
             | see people getting mad without much evidence.
             | 
             | The truth is the evidence is coming half a century after
             | when everyone got cancer.
             | 
             | Precautionary principle should always prevail.
             | 
             | That's why we just don't go full GMO, and you would still
             | not wait for any proof that "it's harmless".
             | 
             | You also don't use a random pesticide, unless you have a
             | full proof that's it's harmless.
             | 
             | Additionally, without cigarette, without GMO and without
             | pesticide humanity would still be fine, and maybe better
             | without (if we stick with the cigarette).
             | 
             | TL;DR: You actually need a proof, but it's a proof that
             | it's harmless and not the other way around.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _the evidence is coming half a century after when
               | everyone got cancer_
               | 
               | Yes. Then the evidence was suppressed for decades more.
               | We have no analogy here.
               | 
               | > _Precautionary principle should always prevail_
               | 
               | Why? Why assume the _status quo_ is perfect? Also, what
               | part of pornography _isn 't_ embedded into the human
               | _status quo_?
               | 
               | > _don 't use a random pesticide, unless you have a full
               | proof that's it's harmless_
               | 
               | There is no such thing as "full proof."
               | 
               | > _without cigarette, without GMO and without pesticide
               | humanity would still be fine, and maybe better without
               | (if we stick with the cigarette)_
               | 
               | Now do vaccines, antibiotics, filtered water, the
               | agricultural revolution and every other life-saving
               | invention.
        
               | kreco wrote:
               | > Why? Why assume the status quo is perfect? Also, what
               | part of pornography isn't embedded into the human status
               | quo?
               | 
               | No one said that. But you should fool yourself saying
               | that absence of evidence is evidence of absence.
               | 
               | Here is your own quote:
               | 
               | > I have seen zero evidence that any of these games are
               | harmful.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _No one said that_
               | 
               | If the precautionary principle should _always_ prevail,
               | then yes, that 's what's being said.
               | 
               | In this case, it's difficult to even disentangle what the
               | _status quo_ is. Pornography, this group 's bogeyman, is
               | millenia old. Computer games, decades. The combination is
               | a bit novel, but it's also more precedented than these
               | bans.
               | 
               | > _I have seen zero evidence that any of these games are
               | harmful_
               | 
               | Yeah. I see evidence they're demanded by the people who
               | we're putatively protecting, however. And I see lots of
               | evidence of other harmful things that _aren 't_ banned.
               | Herego, why the fuck are we kneejerking on this?
        
               | rpdillon wrote:
               | There's probably a fundamental political question
               | underlying a lot of these discussions: do you default to
               | letting people do things or not?
               | 
               | My long-held belief is that there's a certain hubris to
               | saying that you know best for everyone. So I default to
               | letting people do things, since preventing them is
               | exerting power over them. With that framing, you would
               | need evidence that something is harmful if you're going
               | to exert power over other people to prevent them from
               | doing it.
        
               | jrflowers wrote:
               | > Precautionary principle should always prevail.
               | 
               | This makes sense. If anybody at any point thinks that
               | something might be bad, it should immediately and
               | permanently be prohibited for everyone. We don't need a
               | mechanism to check this because people are never mistaken
               | or misled, and there is no such thing as a bad actor.
               | 
               | Since the principle should _always_ prevail, it applies
               | to people as well. If anybody thinks that another person
               | could do harm in the future, they should be allowed to
               | kill them in order to protect society from harm.
               | 
               | A system where the only rule is "every person gets to
               | make the rules for everyone else" isn't the stupidest
               | imaginable thing because
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | But things like pesticides _are_ being tested and
               | approved first. With the knowledge they were able to get
               | at the time, they were approved. It was only later, when
               | long term and large scale usage of certain pesticides
               | were shown to have a negative impact on the ecosystem
               | that they looked at them again.
               | 
               | Of course, these things don't live in a vacuum; the
               | manufacturers of e.g. pesticides have a vested financial
               | interest in selling their product, because money. They
               | pay for scientific studies in favor of their product,
               | they schmooze (= bribe) with decision makers and
               | politicians, they overwhelm the system, they take their
               | product global and sell it to whoever is buying, etc.
               | 
               | Same with cigarettes or asbestos or lead paint; it's part
               | "we didn't know" because it's long-term effects or the
               | science wasn't there yet, but part "shut up and buy my
               | product" too.
               | 
               | Anyway, proof that it's harmless is not easy to get in
               | certain cases, not when the effects only show up long-
               | term or when the science doesn't yet know how to test.
               | Was science at a point where they could test for the
               | presence and endocrine effects of microplastics in the
               | human body?
        
               | tomrod wrote:
               | I disagree, the precautionary principle (Chesterton's
               | fence) is heavily overused, often as a bludgeon and for
               | power maintenance.
               | 
               | This is sort of like Jordan Peterson's claim that
               | something is true if it improves evolutionary fit - a
               | claim that seems reasonable on the surface but is rotten
               | nonsense inside.
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | Thing is, with things like these, they only need one or a
             | handful of cases. With everything, there is always a
             | handful of cases - porn addicts, gambling addicts, revenge
             | porn victims, trans women in women's spaces and sports,
             | etc. The fundamentalists and right-wing media will
             | hyperfocus and signal boost these statistically
             | insignificant cases to push their own agenda.
             | 
             | For them, n=1 is enough evidence. For their moral compass
             | or larger scale goals, n=1 is one too many.
             | 
             | There will always be some people - teenagers or otherwise -
             | that develop mental health issues from e.g. porn games. But
             | there's people developing mental health issues from
             | Farmville or ChatGPT supposedly turning sentient and
             | sharing the infinite Truth of the universe too. Somehow
             | those aren't an issue.
             | 
             | It's not about preventing mental health issues. It's not
             | about protecting women.
        
           | can16358p wrote:
           | Governments should educate people instead of outright banning
           | things.
           | 
           | And in the case of addiction like drugs or gambling, instead
           | of stigmatizing the victims, they should be there to support
           | them.
           | 
           | Let people make their own decisions, not the government.
        
         | b00ty4breakfast wrote:
         | I agree with your sentiment, but declaring that a company
         | shouldn't be free to decide who they can and can't do business
         | with isn't the solution to this problem and I am no friend of
         | the business world.
         | 
         | It seems fine now when it's something you don't like but what
         | happens when it's a situation that isn't so agreeable? like
         | being legally oblidged to do business with South Africa during
         | apartheid or working with a chocolate company that (allegedly)
         | used child slave labor to farm it's cocoa??
        
           | aezart wrote:
           | A payment processor should be treated like a utility. They
           | just let the money flow and skim profit off the top without
           | caring who's at either end.
        
         | ben_w wrote:
         | > Don't like porn? Don't buy it. Simple as that.
         | 
         | The claim isn't "we don't like it", the claim is "this is
         | damaging to society".
         | 
         | I don't agree with such things in many cases (and many people
         | disagree with me when I'm the one saying something is damaging
         | to society), but it's important to note the difference or you
         | will always be arguing against something other than their
         | claim.
         | 
         | > No one, including governments or payment processors, should
         | be in the position to decide whether a platform can sell
         | something or not.
         | 
         | It's kinda the job of the government to decide such things; but
         | an automatic extension of that is, it's _not_ the job of the
         | payment processors... and I think they should be banned from
         | doing so because it 's damaging to society to let them take on
         | this role.
        
           | pstuart wrote:
           | > the claim is "this is damaging to society"
           | 
           | There is _some_ truth to that, but if one were to operate at
           | that level then Facebook would be illegal.
           | 
           | Porn is a convenient thing to weaponize anger in your
           | constituents (just like babies not being born). It pushes
           | emotional triggers and riles people up and then they're
           | waiting to be told what to hate/attack next.
        
             | bobthepanda wrote:
             | The real debate is which is worse to society, its existence
             | or attempting to ban it.
             | 
             | Banning porn is not going to do a whole lot. Pornography is
             | illegal in South Korea and if anything they have some of
             | the _worst_ gender toxicity.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | > Banning porn is not going to do a whole lot.
               | Pornography is illegal in South Korea
               | 
               | Yet, there's a lot of porn there too. A whole lot of
               | voyeur porn too. As well as prostitution, which is also
               | illegal.
               | 
               | Making something legal or illegal is just signaling. The
               | real part is how it actually is implemented in practice.
               | And as you imply, things are pretty complex. We really
               | need to be careful about our own tendencies to want
               | things to be simple. It always backfires...
        
               | simplify wrote:
               | Not being 100% effective isn't backfiring. No law is ever
               | absolutely effective. But making something illegal
               | objectively makes it more difficult to obtain, and is
               | certainly effective at reducing access, even if it's not
               | 100%.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | You're the only one who asserted a percentage. So allow
               | me to clarify, when I wrote that comment I had no belief
               | that a law need be 100% effective for it to be a useful
               | law. I also believe there's a lot of room between 100%
               | effective and "backfiring". I don't believe this is a
               | binary situation but there's a spectrum (that isn't one
               | dimensional)
               | 
               | I hope with this added context that my previous comment
               | will make much more sense and you can interpret it closer
               | to what I intended.
               | 
               | I'll just add, I don't think most people work in those
               | absolutes. So I'd be wary of jumping to the extreme
               | interpretation. People might interpret you as being
               | disingenuous and using the logical fallacy "logical
               | extreme" or "reductio ad absurdum". But I'm pretty sure
               | you're not doing that because then I'd be grossly
               | misinterpreting you, right?
        
               | vunderba wrote:
               | In many cases, bans can have unintended side effects
               | which might make the _means_ of acquiring
               | /distributing/producing "banned X" far worse (aka the
               | cure is worse than the disease).
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | At least in the case of South Korea, _all_ porn is
               | treated equally illegally, so the country has a really
               | high incidence of secret cameras peeping in places like
               | women's bathrooms, because that's just as illegal as a
               | scripted porn film.
        
               | gitt67887yt7bg wrote:
               | The real debate has nothing to do with porn. The only
               | reason this started with porn, is because they knew they
               | would get away with taking over the world while everybody
               | is distracted by an unrelated debate.
               | 
               | The debate is weather or not credit card providers should
               | ever be able to blackmail independent companies, for any
               | reason they feel like.
               | 
               | I say no.
        
               | omarspira wrote:
               | Should the government be able to blackmail credit card
               | companies? Do you really think the credit card companies
               | care where you spend your money? All they want you to do
               | is spend more. They are trying to get out ahead of your
               | own fellow citizens (and their government) who agree with
               | more "censorship" and, at least in this regard, more
               | state control. Unless you have a solution for this strain
               | of American politics focusing on credit card companies
               | is, in this situation, missing the point.
        
               | FirmwareBurner wrote:
               | _> Should the government be able to blackmail credit card
               | companies? _
               | 
               | It's called regulations, not blackmail, and yest the
               | government should, because it's accountable to its
               | people, meanwhile CC companies are not. Everything all
               | companies are allowed to to is regulated by the
               | government. Companies only exist at the mercy of the
               | government, otherwise angry mobs can break in and ransack
               | the place.
               | 
               |  _> Do you really think the credit card companies care
               | where you spend your money?_
               | 
               | Obviously they do care, when you see their rulings on
               | this matter they care very much(did you not read the
               | articles before commenting?), otherwise they wouldn't be
               | pushing censorship rules on sellers. Or more specific
               | they care about activists complaining how CC companies
               | let you spend your money.
        
               | pstuart wrote:
               | My comment about _some_ truth was to specifically about:
               | * It models unrealistic and possibly unhealthy notions
               | about sexuality       * It can be exploitive of its
               | subjects (yes, sometimes empowering too)
               | 
               | That's kind of it. I don't think it should be banned _at
               | all_.
               | 
               | I believe that "free speech" is critical to a well
               | functioning society, but we need to recognize that it can
               | have negative impacts. A key example is the right-wing
               | Hate Industrial Complex: decades of right wing propaganda
               | have conditioned tens of millions of Americans to
               | consider their fellow citizens as _non human_.
               | 
               | I don't have an answer for how to address this, but you
               | can't fix a problem until you recognize the problem and
               | that it needs fixing.
        
             | Lerc wrote:
             | You then have to ask, "In what way is it damaging?" Some
             | porn is exploitative, but also so are other things. Why is
             | the attack being made upon porn and not exploitation?
             | 
             | If the things being criticised appear in many areas, it is
             | hard not to draw the conclusion that they chose their
             | target because it involves sex, and that is what they have
             | a problem with.
        
               | mystraline wrote:
               | > Some porn is exploitative, but also so are other
               | things. Why is the attack being made upon porn and not
               | exploitation?
               | 
               | If we are to talk about exploitation, then capitalism
               | itself is subject to be attacked and prohibited.
               | 
               | If we work for a living, we sell our bodies to someone
               | else for a time (40h a week or more). Does it really
               | matter if we work on a factory floor doing parts, sitting
               | and coding at a desk, or having sex in front of a camera?
               | Labor is labor.
               | 
               | Sure its the christian 'sex is bad' in various stripes
               | (puritanical to catholic to baptist etc). But in reality,
               | its just different labor.
               | 
               | Now, capitalism in exploitive in that you generate X
               | value, and you get a small percentage of your labor's
               | output. Some owner is who collects the surplus.
               | 
               | So if exploitation is the problem, then its time to start
               | looking at worker cooperatives, unions, banning shows
               | like Shark Tank, and all the capitalist propaganda.
               | 
               | But no, its just 'sex icky'. We won't actually look at
               | the root of exploitation.
        
               | simplify wrote:
               | You're framing of "sex icky" is a common reductionist
               | approach to remove all humanity from the topic and try
               | and make it purely logical. But that's always been a
               | ridiculous way to argue.
               | 
               | The human experience has never been pure reason. A
               | picture of a naked person will have wildly different
               | effects than a picture of a dog, even though you could
               | technically say they're both "just pixels on a screen".
               | Reductionism doesn't get an argument anywhere; it's too
               | commonly an intellectually lazy defense of the vulgar.
        
               | mystraline wrote:
               | Remember, that the SCOTUS judgement of what obscenity is
               | defined as, is "I'll know it when I see it".
               | 
               | I prefer reductionist rather than the current standard of
               | 'whatever 9 fucks think of it'.
        
             | throwaway_l33t wrote:
             | > one were to operate at that level then Facebook would be
             | illegal.
             | 
             | This shows a fairly low level of engagement with the sorts
             | of people that are pushing to ban porn. It's not uncommon
             | for them to be anti-screens, social media, etc. for similar
             | reasons. The movement is often as much an attempt to get
             | kids outsides and reduce the influence of smartphones and
             | the internet on society as it is an attempt to ban porn.
        
             | simplify wrote:
             | > if one were to operate at that level then Facebook would
             | be illegal.
             | 
             | Sounds great, where do I sign?
             | 
             | Sure ban porn, but IMO ban social media first. Or at the
             | very least, mandate educational materials on it. Kids grow
             | up thinking it's important and it ruins their lives.
             | Brainrot content deadens their sensory inputs. Same thing
             | needs to happen with AI; we seriously need some required
             | education in these spaces.
        
               | Nasrudith wrote:
               | I would rather we ban censors from positions of power.
        
           | godelski wrote:
           | > it's important to note the difference or you will always be
           | arguing against something other than their claim.
           | 
           | I think this is critical insight and applies to a lot of
           | topics. I think it is true for pretty much every heated
           | topic.
           | 
           | The mistake we often make is that we believe that the other
           | side is not optimizing correctly. Instead, it is often that
           | they are optimizing but under differing constraints. If we
           | don't pay attention to these differing constraints we'll just
           | end up with infuriating arguments as it will ,, _sound like_
           | '' we're talking about the same thing, but actually aren't.
           | It's one of the major difficulties of communication: we have
           | to make a lot of assumptions to interpret the other person.
           | 
           | Importantly, there's no way to convince the other person that
           | they're wrong unless you are able to understand their model.
           | It's easy to assume you do, but if your model boils down to
           | "they're dumb" or "they're evil" then all you can do is
           | fight. You have to understand your enemy and all that...[0]
           | 
           | [0] https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/17976-if-you-know-the-
           | enemy...
        
             | stevenAthompson wrote:
             | > they are optimizing but under differing constraints
             | 
             | Most often this doesn't happen because one side fails to
             | understand the other, it happens because one side is
             | dishonest about their motivations or goals.
             | 
             | In this case, the censors would like you to believe that
             | they think pornography is harmful. The reality is that
             | they're religious zealots who feel the need to prevent
             | other people from making their own choices about something
             | their religious leaders have told them is evil. They can't
             | admit their real goal though, or people will realize it's
             | just westernized Sharia law and stop taking them seriously.
        
               | godelski wrote:
               | IME it doesn't help to villainize the other side, it only
               | escalates things. You're right that there are bad actors,
               | but I don't think this is accurate for the majority of
               | people. You need to differentiate the people leading a
               | group from the people within a group. Leaders may be
               | highly manipulative bad actors, but that doesn't mean
               | that the people that they duped are.
               | 
               | It may not be good logic, or even self-consistent, but
               | everyone is always using some logic. I'm saying "find it
               | if you want to convince them." Very few people see
               | themselves as evil, or more accurately intentionally
               | choosing evil. And I say this as someone who was once a
               | member of a religion that has its own state. You're not
               | going to pull people out of that by acting like they're
               | evil. They're trying very hard to be good, just
               | misguided.
               | 
               | There's an saying that I believe was popularized during
               | the Cold War. I think you should consider it.
               | The difference between you and me is smaller than the
               | difference between us and our respective leaders.
        
           | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
           | It's pretty wild that people think that porn is more damaging
           | to society than censorship.
        
             | ivape wrote:
             | One can make a very strong argument that the manosphere
             | stuff is rooted in poor sexual attitudes of men that only
             | got worse with tons of porn.
             | 
             | You only need to type any random sexual thing and find any
             | explicit subreddit you want, that's how pervasive the porn
             | is on even an allegedly non-porn platform. Every other game
             | has basically stripper-level female characters now days.
             | We've literally gone crazy.
             | 
             | Holistically, you're talking about a hyper sexualized
             | society where the content and ideology are available at
             | high density and velocity from a pretty early age until the
             | day you die.
             | 
             | It's a problem. The truth is one side is not wrong forever.
             | The Christian right is wrong about so much, but the
             | progression of our society has finally made them mostly
             | correct on this issue.
             | 
             | People need to take a deep hard look at what hip hop did to
             | a generation of youth (both the violence and sexuality
             | permeated deep into the culture). None of this shit is a
             | joke, the kids end up fucked up.
        
               | ants_everywhere wrote:
               | > that the manosphere stuff is rooted in poor sexual
               | attitudes of men that only got worse with tons of
               | porn.... The Christian right is wrong about so much, but
               | the progression of our society has finally made them
               | mostly correct on this issue.
               | 
               | I have news for you my friend, the Christian right is
               | fucking people up way more than porn.
               | 
               | So is the NoFap/incel movement.
               | 
               | There are some pretty fucked up people who see women as
               | breeding machines. This is tied pretty closely to the
               | great replacement conspiracy theory and similar white
               | nationalist conspiracy theories.
               | 
               | People who believe this junk promote the idea that porn
               | is bad because they want young men desperately horny so
               | they breed with women either with or without their
               | consent. This is the same reason it was a major priority
               | for them to deny women's rights to their own bodies.
        
               | dontlaugh wrote:
               | I was with you until the last two paragraphs.
               | 
               | There's nothing inherently wrong with hip hop.
        
               | redpill12345 wrote:
               | In the original days of TheRedPill one of the first
               | things recommended was to drop porn IIRC (also workout
               | and get paid more)
               | 
               | The manosphere is probably a very large umbrella of all
               | kinds of views only united by one common trait - being a
               | man.
               | 
               | Although you're not wrong that society is hyper
               | sexualised and dating has become increasingly
               | transactional
        
               | ivape wrote:
               | Recommending one drops porn indicates porn a problem for
               | one.
        
               | southernplaces7 wrote:
               | Take a good look at the world around us, and note
               | especially how the countries in which sexual expression
               | and by extension porn are heavily censored also
               | coincidentally have some of the most sexually repressive
               | and hostile attitudes towards women and consensual
               | intimacy between adults of any kind in real life. People
               | being allowed to express sexuality in sometimes crude and
               | commercialized ways is not what you should be pointing at
               | if you want to mention a dangerous progression of society
               | toward violent attitudes around sex.
        
               | ivape wrote:
               | There are many paths to a fallen society. I'm not
               | disagreeing with anything you said. The answer is always
               | in the middle. I think we've gone pretty far with the
               | proliferation of commercialized sex in the West, and they
               | have gone pretty far with regards to repression in the
               | East. AI is the first time as far as I can remember where
               | just about everyone is considering the ethical and
               | societal implications of it. We really didn't do that for
               | porn, video games, and social media. We're late to the
               | discussion, but a discussion about "how much sex
               | exactly?" is always a discussion that needs to be had.
               | I'd say the same for "how much money exactly?". How much
               | comfort, how much wealth, how much power, how much, how
               | much, how much?
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | Your characterization of hip hop shoots the messenger.
               | It's the stories of an oppressed people, if you don't
               | like the violence in their stories, blame their
               | oppressor.
               | 
               | It's the same with porn and the Christian Right. If
               | people feel incomplete and try to fill that gap with a
               | porn habit, the porn is an indicator of a problem, not
               | the problem itself. Filling that gap with right wing
               | propaganda doesn't address the problem, it just changes
               | it into something that can be used for political
               | advantage.
               | 
               | You're missing the root causes here.
        
             | patmcc wrote:
             | They may both be damaging, but currently we have a lot more
             | porn than censorship, so it looks like it's causing more
             | damage. If we flip to having a lot more censorship we'll
             | feel that damage more clearly. Or we won't, depending how
             | successful the censorship is.
        
               | jennyholzer wrote:
               | > we have a lot more porn than censorship
               | 
               | How do you know what you're missing? IMO media platforms
               | are heavily censored in comparison to ~10 years ago, to
               | the severe detriment of American pop culture.
        
               | _bent wrote:
               | > it looks like it's causing more damage
               | 
               | what damage is it causing?
        
               | drdeca wrote:
               | I can say that I think my past use of pornography has
               | harmed me. I haven't used it in over 2 years, but I still
               | on a daily basis observe the effects it had on me. Others
               | might argue that it is only because of my views that the
               | effects are "harmful", but I think they are wrong.
        
               | cortesoft wrote:
               | What were the effects?
        
               | supplied_demand wrote:
               | Can you clarify how it "harmed" you? You didn't quite
               | answer that question.
        
               | drdeca wrote:
               | https://xkcd.com/598/
               | 
               | (Except, remove the last panel)
        
               | justanotherjoe wrote:
               | I would say all knowledge have that effect on us. Kinda
               | the inherent drawback of it. Lessens enjoyments somewhat.
        
               | toomanyrichies wrote:
               | It sounds like you're saying porn either "gave" you a
               | fetish, or uncovered a latent fetish you didn't know you
               | had (and /or preferred not to know about). If that's an
               | accurate read, can I ask what harm it causes you to have
               | a fetish? Provided it doesn't harm anyone else, what's
               | wrong with liking what you like?
        
               | drdeca wrote:
               | I don't buy the "revealed a latent fetish" explanation. I
               | don't think people are born with a fetish baked into
               | their soul.
               | 
               | Like, the people with the "blueberry expansion" one, you
               | really think they were born with that? No, of course not,
               | that would be dumb.
               | 
               | I think the main reason people put forth the "latent
               | fetish" explanation is in order to argue that pornography
               | is harmless.
               | 
               | As for why it harms me?
               | 
               | The purpose of sexuality is for relations with one's
               | spouse. On average, I expect it to be counterproductive
               | in that regards. Most women wouldn't find it appealing,
               | and looking for specifically women who would find the
               | idea appealing would substantially restrict the pool to
               | search among. Also, most of the versions of the fantasy I
               | have violated conservation of energy, and therefore
               | cannot be physically achieved. Why would I want to want
               | something impossible?
               | 
               | And, generally, lust promotes lust.
        
               | gosteinao wrote:
               | > The purpose of sexuality is for relations with one's
               | spouse.
               | 
               | Says who?
        
               | mandmandam wrote:
               | > The purpose of sexuality is for relations with one's
               | spouse
               | 
               | That's not actually true.
               | 
               | That doctrine has been used to guilt-trip people and
               | control their lives for many hundreds of years - but it
               | isn't true. People are complex. We're not self-
               | replicating machines whose sole purpose is to breed.
        
               | toomanyrichies wrote:
               | > I don't buy the "revealed a latent fetish" explanation.
               | I don't think people are born with a fetish baked into
               | their soul.
               | 
               | There's a 3rd explanation: fetishes aren't inborn, but
               | they're not instilled by porn either. Instead, they
               | develop through a complex interaction of psychological,
               | developmental, neurological, and cultural factors.
               | 
               | One theory is that, if a person repeatedly experiences
               | sexual arousal in the presence of a specific object or
               | situation (even coincidentally), the brain may begin to
               | link that stimulus with arousal (classical conditioning).
               | Or if the experience isn't repeated but it is intense, it
               | can become imprinted as erotically significant. In both
               | cases, the fetish can be considered "latent" in the sense
               | that it existed prior to one's encounter with porn
               | related to that fetish. Porn simply revealed what was
               | already there (and showed the viewer there are others out
               | there like them, too!).
               | 
               | So-called "normal" sexual behavior is just the median of
               | millions of data points. There is not one person who fits
               | that median in all respects. Even if you can't find a
               | partner who finds your specific fetish "appealing", there
               | are plenty of women out there who won't specifically
               | _judge_ you for it either. Failing that, just enjoy the
               | fetish in your own mind and don't divulge it to your
               | partner. You're entitled to an inner life, after all.
               | 
               | Just as we have a biological imperative to procreate, we
               | also have one to eat. But I'd disqualify any potential
               | partner who thought less of me for liking tacos. Again,
               | as long as one's fetish doesn't harm others, why should
               | sex be any different?
        
               | wormius wrote:
               | Sex is an older institution for marriage. Or are there
               | all these lizard weddings I've never seen. "Sexually
               | reproducing animals, plants, fungi and protists "
               | 
               | Man, I can't wait to get invited to the next fungus
               | wedding, seeing a little penis shaped mushroom with a
               | little tophat, and the brides dress, why it must be a
               | literal carpet on the forest floor so long and stretchy.
               | 
               | LOL this doesn't harm you int he slightest.
               | 
               | You should like, read a(actually man, from diverse
               | positions, and not just your little right-wing fundie)
               | psychology book and get out of your bible-thumping
               | bubble.
        
               | fipar wrote:
               | I'm against censorship, well, except for stuff that would
               | already be illegal.
               | 
               | But as to the potential harm, I recommend "Homemade" by
               | Sebadoh.
               | 
               | Example verse: "There's still pictures in my mind. I've
               | been addicted all this time. It taught me everything I
               | know. Tell me girl, did it leave me cold?"
               | 
               | We don't need to ban porn. We need better sex ed, ideally
               | starting at home.
        
               | throwaway283185 wrote:
               | for me it really hurts life satisfaction. my porn tastes
               | are basic. i like beautiful women in their 20s. when i
               | was in my 20s that seemed fine, but i got older and my
               | tastes did not change. coincidentally, my wife also got
               | older.
               | 
               | she is awesome, and very responsive in the bedroom, but
               | she is no longer a beautiful woman in her 20s. if i've
               | been watching porn in the last month or so, my
               | satisfaction with our sex is much lower. if i haven't,
               | i'm happy.
               | 
               | there is also a lot of stuff that seems default in porn,
               | like choking or anal. when i watch porn, i want those
               | things. when i do not watch porn, i don't. my wife does
               | not enjoy those things, but will do them if i ask. but
               | they honestly do not make the sex any better for me.
               | 
               | you will say, "well don't watch porn then." but it isn't
               | easy to not watch it. it has a powerful draw. i enjoy
               | watching it in the moment. and it is always just a few
               | taps away on the phone. it takes willpower not to watch
               | it. if all the tube sites were banned, my life would be
               | better.
               | 
               | the damage to me is small. i do not have an addictive
               | personality. i do have a lot of willpower. other people
               | might not be as lucky.
        
               | overfeed wrote:
               | > it takes willpower not to watch it. if all the tube
               | sites were banned, my life would be better.
               | 
               | Now imagine if this was done for different proclivities:
               | alcoholics, speadfreaks, over-eaters, game-addicts. Do
               | you want the government limiting those activities for
               | everyone because a minority lacks self-control?
        
               | throwaway283185 wrote:
               | regulating drugs, highly processed foods, and addictive
               | games sounds good to me. they all exploit vulnerabilities
               | in the human brain. if your product triggers a dump of
               | dopamine, it is suspect.
        
               | winrid wrote:
               | It raises your dopamine tolerance - part of why people
               | tend to get into more and more crazy types of porn to get
               | the same fix (see randy in south park :) ).
               | 
               | Also, since your dopamine tolerance is higher, you enjoy
               | real life less, which is bad mkay
        
               | gitt67887yt7bg wrote:
               | I would say we are already pretty severely censored. We
               | no longer have social tools to vet misinformation. We
               | can't publicly insult dumb people and their wrong ideas
               | to their faces. There are people -professional trolls-
               | who, while they should not be deplatformed, should have
               | their ideas publicly scrutinized and yes, humiliated. But
               | we can't do that, because it's cyber bullying, or
               | whatever.
               | 
               | Irl, if a crazy person gets on a soapbox and starts
               | shouting at everybody, then people can shout back.
               | Online, anybody who flamebaits is protected by the
               | platforms and can censor the responses. They delete
               | opposing comments, shadowban users, harsh language
               | usually gets automatically deleted by the platform - and
               | all that shouting-down is actually just counted as
               | "engagement" which algorithmically boosts and spreads the
               | bad idea further. The argument just directly profits the
               | person with the bad idea, and incentivizes them to come
               | up with even worse ideas to make everybody even madder.
               | 
               | This kind of censorship is causing a whole lot of
               | problems right now.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | I don't think there's a good way to compare the amounts
               | of these things. I think the best you could do is ask how
               | many bits would be flipped/added/removed had the thing
               | not existed/happened.
               | 
               | Porn might involve large media files which gives it an
               | up-front advantage re: "more", but it doesn't create
               | shockwaves the way censorship does. Remove a porn video
               | and the world stays largely unchanged. Undo an act of
               | censorship and, well, maybe the world stays unchanged, or
               | maybe everything is different.
        
             | roenxi wrote:
             | I think the issue would be more that people don't accept
             | this is censorship - the surface level here looks like
             | companies negotiating who they will and won't do business
             | with which is actually encouraged. If companies have a
             | moral objection to something then they don't have to be
             | involved. In theory stopping a flow of money takes a lot
             | more than some crazy from Australia getting upset.
             | 
             | The real censorship here is that a system has been
             | constructed where payments must be funnelled through a
             | small number of blessed companies and it has been set up
             | that way to ... promote censorship. Authoritarianism in
             | general, really. If it wasn't for anticompetitive
             | regulations one of these game devs could just branch into
             | banking. We've actually seen that dynamic play out in most
             | of our lifetimes - in the early phase of crypto it was
             | mtgox.com [0] that triggered the transition from cool nerd
             | curio in the internet backwaters to a billion dollar
             | market. So we know the pipeline there would work fine in
             | the absence of KYC regulation.
             | 
             | [0] Magic The Gathering Online eXchange
        
             | vitaflo wrote:
             | You can't have a free market without censorship. It's one
             | or the other.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | Maybe that's true of intellectual property, but are you
               | claiming something more general?
        
             | MangoToupe wrote:
             | Tbh I lost track of what people thought "censorship" is,
             | especially as a pejorative, many years ago. Not only is
             | censorship good, but information is more free than it has
             | been at any point in history. Just pirate the games ffs.
        
             | innocentoldguy wrote:
             | In some ways, porn is more damaging, isn't it? For example,
             | there's a lot of sex trafficking going on in the porn
             | industry, but not so much in the censorship industry.
             | 
             | I strongly oppose censorship and believe that payment
             | processors and banks should be prohibited from engaging in
             | it. Still, I have to admit that porn can be extremely
             | destructive.
        
               | __loam wrote:
               | There's no evidence in actual psychological literature
               | that porn is harmful to people beyond making some
               | religious folks feel a little more shame than normal.
               | Porn addiction isn't an actual psychological condition.
               | 
               | I question the bit about sex trafficking. From my
               | perspective a lot of consenting adults are making a lot
               | of money by willingly participating in the industry. If
               | someone is abusing that and forcing someone to
               | participate, that's already a crime that should be
               | prosecuted. It's not an excuse to shut down commerce
               | between consenting adults.
        
               | swiftcoder wrote:
               | > there's a lot of sex trafficking going on in the porn
               | industry, but not so much in the censorship industry
               | 
               | [citation needed]
               | 
               | I'll grant that there is sex trafficking going on at
               | least in the fringes of the porn industry - but that's at
               | least in part because of censorship. If porn production
               | was widely legal and appropriately regulated, there'd be
               | significantly less market for the edgy stuff filmed in
               | Eastern European basements (i.e. the exact same argument
               | as for marijuana legalisation).
               | 
               | There are also a bunch of regimes around the world who
               | love censorship, and also engage in a bunch of human
               | trafficking. For example, the UAE is notorious for both
               | widespread censorship, and an entire class of foreign
               | workers in various forms of indentured servitude (which
               | for women is often prostitution)...
        
             | anonzzzies wrote:
             | Or guns. Or payday loans. Or credit card debt. Or credit
             | score. Etc.
        
             | dahart wrote:
             | _Some_ people think porn is worse than censorship. Some of
             | those people even feel that censorship is good, not
             | damaging at all, and should be mandatory. I'm not one of
             | those, though it does seem like there's a possibility that
             | some of the things we're doing a lot of in society today,
             | like porn and also social media and AI, are changing
             | society in ways we don't understand yet and don't have
             | control over. I don't think it's wrong to have fears about
             | that.
             | 
             | Anyway, some people wouldn't even call it censorship if
             | private businesses disagree and decide not to do business,
             | for any reason, even if it's public pressure. Should
             | private payment processors be free to choose whose money
             | they process? If not, why not? Be really careful with your
             | answer, because taking away their freedom to choose is a
             | type of censorship, and possibly a worse one because it
             | would be a public/government censorship and not a private
             | transaction censorship. Steam and Itch.io do still have the
             | right to ship all these games, they're choosing not to.
             | They also still have the right to use other payment
             | processors, and/or create their own.
             | 
             | I'd be willing to bet the payment processors in question
             | would rather not be forced to cut off business, and do not
             | care whether people pay for porn. They are simply trying to
             | avoid public backlash and avoid being blacklisted by a
             | large number of people who happen to believe porn is
             | damaging.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | > Should private payment processors be free to choose
               | whose money they process?
               | 
               | We shouldn't have private payment processors. Access to
               | the economy should not itself be a product that you have
               | to buy and then worry about whether you own it or it owns
               | you.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | What's the alternative? How do you propose to fix it?
        
               | haneefmubarak wrote:
               | Notionally, opening new banks and/or buying an existing
               | one that lacks current customers is feasible. Presumably
               | once you do that, you could easily plug into
               | FedWire/FedACH/FedNow, which would allow you to process
               | electronic payments on behalf of whomever you choose to
               | bank, as long as you comply with all the KYC/AML and
               | other finance regs. You might not be able to process visa
               | and mastercard, but virtually any of your customers'
               | customers presumably still have financial accounts that
               | are enabled on Fed rails, which will not be as likely to
               | discriminate. Requiring end-customers to initiate payment
               | (push) as opposed to doing pull, would also reduce
               | transaction reversal risk.
               | 
               | I don't really the ultimate purpose of the position taken
               | by either side here, but it does seem to me that there's
               | a path by which both can coexist, even if difficult.
        
               | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
               | I don't think blockchains are the way forward, but I do
               | think the crypto people had one thing right: The
               | incentive towards providing storage/compute/connectivity
               | for transaction settlement should be built into the
               | protocol, not provided by some corruptible institution.
               | The idea that coins would be mined by the people
               | providing the compute has unacceptable consequences, but
               | it did solve the problem that it set out to solve. So we
               | need something like that, but better.
               | 
               | If I were to take a stab such a protocol, it would live
               | on a web of trust that kept track of interpersonal debts.
               | So if Alice owes Bob, and Bob owes Charlie, then Charlie
               | can "pay" Alice by instructing Bob to cancel both of
               | those debts. In this case Bob is the clearinghouse, so
               | the transaction can only go through if he's on the same
               | network partition as Charlie. We incentivize him to be
               | available for that by creating a new debt, this time one
               | where Alice and Charlie owe Bob for having been the
               | transaction processor.
               | 
               | If Bob didn't want to act in this capacity, he wouldn't
               | have trusted Charlie to begin with. Charlie would then
               | need to find a different path to Alice if he wanted to
               | use the network to pay her. (Presumably they don't trust
               | each other directly, otherwise they'd be creating new
               | debts instead of cancelling transitive ones). In this
               | scenario I suppose Bob would be acting as "censor" but
               | his capacity to do so is not greater than any other user
               | of the network. For Charlie to be fully denied the
               | ability to pay Alice, one of them would have to be
               | behaving so badly that _everyone_ refuses to trust them.
               | That 's a desirable outcome, if we must have something
               | like censorship, it should not depend on the feeling of
               | some guy who owns a bank but is otherwise unconnected
               | with the parties of the transaction. It should be decided
               | by the people who are near to Alice and Bob on the trust
               | graph and therefore have to deal with the consequences of
               | Alice and Bob's behavior. If they want to _collectively_
               | prevent those two from participating in the economy, that
               | 's their right.
               | 
               | One imagines this featuring in cases where some rich
               | foreigner wants to set up mining operations that would
               | poison the well. The locals can collectively prevent that
               | foreign money from buying local groceries, thereby
               | limiting the ability of the foreign actor to do harm.
               | 
               | So that's _my_ harebrained idea. But I 'm not making up
               | fictions and asking people to treat them like money. The
               | people involved with USD are. If they want us to continue
               | participating in _their_ harebrained idea, they should
               | recognize that giving us a system with problematic
               | properties represents a risk that they might lose their
               | privileged position. My point is just that it 's on them,
               | the designers of the system, to figure it out how to make
               | it all work--we need only accept or reject it.
        
           | melagonster wrote:
           | They are talking about games, right? Somebody drew/built all
           | of them, unlike porn.
        
           | willis936 wrote:
           | We regulate speech based on its damage to society? Well,
           | sounds like a certain canidae TV network ought to be
           | regulated out of existence.
        
             | mouse_ wrote:
             | yeah but that network benefits the rich and powerful people
             | who orchestrate our society
        
             | FabHK wrote:
             | Not to mention Facebook and YouTube.
        
           | fenomas wrote:
           | > The claim isn't "we don't like it", the claim is "this is
           | damaging to society"
           | 
           | That's their _framing_ , it's not what they actually do.
           | 
           | If Collective Shout was a group that studied which things
           | caused harm, and then campaigned against those things, then
           | the point you're trying to make could stand.
           | 
           | They're not. They've campaigned to ban rap artists, GTA 5,
           | "50 Shades", lingerie ads, whatever random thing is around at
           | the time - always under the pretext that it harms someone,
           | but never with any evidence or substantial arguments that it
           | does.
           | 
           | In practice groups like this campaign against whatever they
           | don't like, so it's correct to refute them on those grounds.
        
             | phire wrote:
             | That's not what they mean by "this is damaging to society".
             | 
             | They aren't talking about actual harm to individuals within
             | that society. Porn is a useful lever to them, because it is
             | documented to cause some harm to some individuals, and they
             | can gather support from the general public on that basis.
             | But it's not their primary concern.
             | 
             | Their primary concern is that consumption/tolerance of such
             | media damages society as a whole, dragging it further from
             | their puritan western-christian centric view of what
             | society should be.
             | 
             | They don't give a shit about individuals, just society as a
             | whole.
        
               | throwawaysoxjje wrote:
               | > They don't give a shit about individuals, just society
               | as a whole.
               | 
               | No they _say_ they give a snot about society a whole.
               | 
               | I can say a lot of things too.
        
               | fenomas wrote:
               | ...ok? My comment didn't say anything about the
               | distinction you're drawing here.
        
               | phire wrote:
               | My point is that it's not just a framing, an excuse to
               | push their likes and dislikes on everyone.
               | 
               | If anything, it's actually the other way around. Their
               | puritan views of what makes a healthy society is what
               | informs their likes/dislikes.
               | 
               | They are legitimately fighting for what they legitimately
               | think will make a healthier society. If you assume
               | otherwise, you will misjudge them.
        
               | fenomas wrote:
               | It's an imagined difference. Picture two people, each
               | working to get a particular book banned. One is a petty
               | moralizer trying to impose his likes and dislikes on
               | everyone, and the other is legitimately fighting for what
               | he believes will make society healthier. How do I tell
               | which is which when their actions are identical?
        
               | ben_w wrote:
               | > petty moralizer
               | 
               | This defines them as identical. Morals are what people
               | think makes society better, and their absence worse.
               | 
               | There's lots of other ways to dislike something besides
               | morals.
               | 
               | For example, I don't like spectator sports. It's not a
               | moral issue, just taste, so me not watching sport is
               | genuinely sufficient.
               | 
               | Conversely, I think analytics tracking is harmful to
               | society _even though I also find it interesting to see
               | the results_ , and should be banned. Me simply not using
               | it isn't enough.
               | 
               | Anti-porn people? I disagree with them. If they are
               | motivated by religious fundamentalism, then I disagree
               | with the foundation of their worldview. But this is how
               | it is not simply enough to respond with "if you don't
               | like it, don't buy it".
        
               | jMyles wrote:
               | > They are legitimately fighting for what they
               | legitimately think
               | 
               | You've indicated two things here which you assert are
               | legitimate:
               | 
               | * Their fight for their goals
               | 
               | * The thinking underlying these goals
               | 
               | On the latter: Nobody except the people doing the
               | thinking can (at least with current technology) truly
               | know. And it may be entirely unimportant. My best guess
               | is that u/fenomas has it about right; their aesthetic
               | seems to have informed a manufactured narrative about
               | societal impact. It may be that these people have
               | personal unresolved sexual trauma which is activated by
               | these subjects. Surely no matter their reasons, they
               | deserve to be treated with compassion. But I don't think
               | that u/fenomas is being illogical here, or failing to
               | steelman their position; I think that it's perfectly
               | reasonable to question someone's basis for advocacy of
               | censorship.
               | 
               | However, on the former, I more strongly disagree with
               | your use of the word "legitimately". Using the heavy hand
               | of the state (including the unfortunate configuration in
               | which payment processors need its anointment and good
               | graces and are thus vulnerable to political pressure) to
               | censor the internet - a resource characterized chiefly by
               | its cross-cultural and cross-political availability and
               | unity - is not a legitimate tactic. The internet does not
               | seem to tolerate this variety of censorship; in every
               | instance, the Streisand Effect, May 35, and similar
               | phenomena have quickly and decisively punctured the
               | erected walls.
               | 
               | Whether these people truly view these materials as likely
               | to harm society or not, their legitimate avenue of change
               | is through voluntarily persuasion, not censorship by way
               | of force.
        
               | jajko wrote:
               | Its their opinion, nothing more, nothing less. Opinions
               | are like farts or some related body parts - everybody has
               | them, so what? Just that I and bunch of folks around have
               | some opinion doesn't mean we have the right to push it to
               | the rest of society.
               | 
               | That's inferiority complex pushed into moral superiority
               | feeling. All just emotions of unbalanced/uneducated
               | people who should know better but clearly don't. No place
               | for such behavior in truly democratic society, their
               | rights to decide what should be happening and what
               | shouldn't generally end at the door of their house (and
               | even that just within legal framework).
               | 
               | Otherwise lets give some room for neonazis too for
               | example, they certainly have a vision about how the
               | society should look like and behave. They are at the end
               | just bunch of folks who want to change society for what
               | they consider a better one, right?
        
               | gchamonlive wrote:
               | > They don't give a shit about individuals, just society
               | as a whole.
               | 
               | That's naive. They don't give a shit about individuals
               | _or_ society. They only care about electing specific
               | individuals that they believe will maximise their
               | quarterly profits. In the current landscape, that 's the
               | extreme rightwing that has sequestered the otherwise
               | valid debate of freedom of speech to carry their puritan
               | agenda, just because it's a very powerful tool to capture
               | votes that will elect these individuals. All this just to
               | make the extremely rich extremely richer.
        
             | calf wrote:
             | If a special interest group is acting in bad faith, then it
             | is still incorrect and confusing to frame it as "they just
             | don't like that thing". We should just be saying they are
             | acting in bad faith, weaponizing arguments, etc. Why they
             | are against something also is explainable, so ideally we
             | could also state their real motivations (they are racist,
             | fascist, reactionary, etc.)
        
               | fenomas wrote:
               | It's a description, not a claim. If a group tries to ban
               | a thing, it obviously follows that they don't like the
               | thing in some sense. Referring to them as "trying to ban
               | stuff they don't like" describes their behavior, it's not
               | a claim about what their motivations are or aren't.
        
             | GoblinSlayer wrote:
             | The root cause looks more like financial oligopolies abuse
             | Steam, because it's easier for them.
        
             | wormius wrote:
             | Ganging up to enforce your political will is only bad when
             | it's "the woke mob" but totally cool when it's _my_ mob.
             | 
             | And idiots eat that shit up thinking fighting the woke mind
             | virus is the real censorship, jumping straight into the
             | arms of moralistic fascists like this.
             | 
             | I wish I knew how we failed. (I am "woke" but I disagree
             | with mob tactics, and think it's done more harm than good,
             | and there are a lot of disingenuous abusers of said
             | ideology to boost their personal cred, chasing online clout
             | over any substance. And plenty of the right-wingers will
             | notice this, and "fight it" but fail to notice the same
             | thing in their own side; because to them it's not about a
             | principle it's about "punishing the bad guys" who don't
             | like what I like).
             | 
             | "Cancel culture is bad akshully unless I'm the one
             | cancelling you (c.f. bud light, etc...)"
        
           | globalnode wrote:
           | Even if thats their claim, I doubt it has evidence. What if
           | its actually beneficial to society?
        
           | Rapzid wrote:
           | > and I think they should be banned from doing so
           | 
           | In general though outside protected classes business can, and
           | should IMHO, have a lot of discretion over who they choose to
           | do business with and how they do business.
           | 
           | Unless we want a carve out for payment processors. Treat them
           | as a utility of sorts? Sounds like an interesting idea TBH.
           | 
           | To me it's critical though that society has room to moderate
           | itself where the government can not and should not. Something
           | we've lost with social media is the ability to collectively
           | ignore the guy at the bar nobody likes talking to. All the
           | guys from all the bars are on the internet now being very
           | loud.
        
             | sitharus wrote:
             | > Unless we want a carve out for payment processors. Treat
             | them as a utility of sorts?
             | 
             | Given that there are two payment processors that have about
             | 90% global market share (excluding China) and your bank
             | chooses the payment processor for the most part, yes we
             | should regulate them and force them to process payment for
             | any legal business.
             | 
             | They have the ability to effectively determine what we can
             | spend our money on when we can't get cash to the vendor in
             | person, and almost every alternative processor has to deal
             | with them and is also subject to their rules.
             | 
             | The only way around this is via informal networks.
             | Cryptocurrency isn't an option for many as it's very hard
             | to obtain, due to the duopoly coercing banks and
             | governments to keep people on their systems.
             | 
             | I don't live in the US, and where I live has a local
             | electronic non-credit card payment system which has been
             | around since the 80s. It's less popular now because only
             | the card networks support contactless payments instead of
             | swipe/chip and pin. All the systems support contactless
             | use, but banks won't enable it because it has no
             | interchange fees.
        
               | xvector wrote:
               | > yes we should regulate them and force them to process
               | payment for any legal business.
               | 
               | There is actually a bipartisan bill proposing precisely
               | that: https://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/house-
               | bill/987
        
               | Rapzid wrote:
               | > yes we should regulate them and force them to process
               | payment for any legal business
               | 
               | I like that idea. The USA actually used to trust bust :|
        
           | themaninthedark wrote:
           | This is the exact claim of "hate speech" as well.
           | 
           | Often both sexual content and hate speech get added to the
           | same clause.
        
             | spixy wrote:
             | Except having virtual sex and threatening to kill/hurt
             | someone in real life are two different things.
        
           | lofaszvanitt wrote:
           | No, this is killing revenue streams for people. You should be
           | under a company to earn money. The problem is, more stupid
           | the general populace is, more stricter rules will be
           | introduced, otherwise you cannot keep the herd together.
        
           | Telemakhos wrote:
           | > It's kinda the job of the government to decide such things;
           | 
           | In some countries, maybe. In the US, there were concerted
           | attempts (like the First Amendment to the Constitution) to
           | prevent that from being the government's job, because of the
           | fear that government would use that job to suppress dissent
           | and coerce opinions.
           | 
           | If payment processors are picking up that job, and doing so
           | in a coordinated manner that doesn't allow porn companies to
           | simply say "use these payment rails to do business with us,
           | not those ones," it is not unreasonable to suspect that they
           | are doing so not for their own business interests but as a
           | proxy for powers that the government is denied. Someone
           | should be taking a long look at whether the US-based payment
           | processors are becoming a tool of censorship and, if so, how
           | that censorship is being coordinated. It's not like Visa and
           | Mastercard come up with these things independently and on a
           | whim.
        
             | wutwutwat wrote:
             | > that government would use that job to suppress dissent
             | and coerce opinions.
             | 
             | Thank baby jebus that this sort of thing never happens. Can
             | you imagine if our government were to, for instance,
             | threaten to deport our own citizens, publicly, for
             | disagreeing with the government. That would be a fucking
             | shit show! Thank you, first amendment!
        
           | docmars wrote:
           | The other common (valid) argument is that it's easy for
           | children to access this content because they're already using
           | Steam and unless they have mature content filters enabled,
           | it's already trivial to bypass age gates by lying.
           | 
           | That said, I don't agree with censorship and especially by
           | payment processors of all groups. The slippery slope is very
           | concerning for adults who would enjoy any other category of
           | content that are targeted by activist groups. Collective
           | Shout has a history attacking media falling outside the porn
           | bubble.
        
         | fsckboy wrote:
         | > _Don 't like porn? Don't buy it. Simple as that._
         | 
         | don't like porn? run a for-pay pornsite, bleeding revenue from
         | the other porn sites, which you will spend fighting porn; also,
         | you'll have better targeted customer lists. extremely effective
         | altruism.
        
         | JumpCrisscross wrote:
         | Anger and outrage are our most viral emotions. Given ad-driven
         | social media rewards attention, it also--by proxy--rewards
         | those go generate anger and outrage. This is a market signal
         | and entrepreneurial incentive as potent as any.
         | 
         | As a result, you get collections of fuckwits like this one [1]
         | finding the 2% of the internet who will give them money to get
         | upset about an imaginary problem, a problem so imaginary that
         | nobody is on the other side of the issue because the entire
         | issue was made up for clicks.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.collectiveshout.org/our_team
        
         | throw50928 wrote:
         | IMO, in addition to, the shaky belief that rape games promote
         | rape in real life to the audience, etc., maybe there is the
         | belief attacking the creators like, "there is a person/group of
         | people we _know_ profit off the fictional depictions of rape
         | /see concept of rape itself as good for cash flow. Because
         | these people went through all the trouble and effort creating,
         | publishing this work focused on rape in gratuitous detail - so
         | its significantly more likely they hold beliefs outside the
         | safe norms society upholds, than someone whose only conception
         | of rape is 'its horrible' and doesn't need to _think_ about
         | implementation, writing graphic scenes, going out of their way
         | to create and market  'a rape simulator', and so on. As
         | punishment for perception of being immoral people their income
         | source needs to be shut down."
        
         | Reason077 wrote:
         | > _"I wish there was a payment processor who was brave enough
         | to say a big fucking NO to censorship."_
         | 
         | Perhaps we could develop some form of secure digital currency
         | that is not reliant on central authorities such as banks,
         | payment processors, or governments?
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | That was a great theory, but in practice it became an
           | asset/investment; nobody pays with BTC because its value is
           | too volatile.
           | 
           | One would expect stablecoins to be more popular but I haven't
           | seen them as valid payment options anywhere except crypto
           | exchanges. That's just me though.
        
           | creer wrote:
           | That is underway, with adult content providers (for example)
           | now generally accepting payment methods that do not rely on
           | credit card companies. All the way to accepting Home Depot
           | gift cards that can be bought for cash.
           | 
           | The issue is that for now, and for a long time ahead, all
           | these content providers feel that most of their clients would
           | prefer to use a credit card. So they need all of their
           | content to be acceptable to these people. Which comes with
           | lots and lots of lowest common denominator rules. Even if
           | some people do not use credit cards.
        
         | swayvil wrote:
         | In the game of politics we split one group away from another
         | and get them to fight. This achieves several effects.
        
         | ninetyninenine wrote:
         | You know. I used to be all about what you're going for. But I
         | realized that porn to a certain extent is like cocaine. It's
         | possibly one of the drivers for world wide declining
         | population. Tons of dudes satisfying themselves without the
         | urge to go out and do the real thing. There's growing science
         | about this too.
         | 
         | I don't like the conservative angle which is to be "proper" or
         | it's against god, but from the scientific side this stuff is
         | bad.
         | 
         | Now I also agree that censorship is bad too and on a moral
         | level this stuff doesn't harm anyone morally.
         | 
         | I'm still a staunch 90s liberal, but over time I'm starting to
         | realize that there's an evolutionary reason why conservative
         | values exist. Humans weren't designed to live in a world of
         | only fans where every girl who's slightly hot can gain so much
         | power over hundreds of men. Like there are 4th - 10th order
         | effects here that go past morality.
         | 
         | I mentioned the population problem right, that's just one
         | example. We have no idea wtf is causing it. But we do know that
         | the population issue correlates with so many changes in
         | society, and it's a big freaking deal.
         | 
         | Another thing is rising womens power. I'm all for it. It's
         | moral and right to give women equal rights and equal power, but
         | humanity has never encountered such a scenario. It's always the
         | men that lead the hunt and the family and they were the bread
         | winners for millions of years. Were humans evolved to support
         | such changes? Like if we satisfy every moral imperative in our
         | primitive brains and build a utopia but human biology was never
         | meant for utopia is it right?
         | 
         | That's the problem. The population is declining. We don't know
         | why. But we do know everything is different.
         | 
         | So I know I got off on a huge tangent here. But i feel porn is
         | one of these things. It's right to keep it open and free, but
         | it's causing unexpected side effects. Most of us were not meant
         | to deal with that level of extreme hedonism.
        
           | jjaksic wrote:
           | I don't know if porn really affects population growth. There
           | are so many other factors that do that to a much greater
           | extent, such as: 1) gender equality and women working, 2)
           | education, 3) contraception, 4) lower child mortality, 5) the
           | fact that 200 years ago kids were an asset (free labor on the
           | farm and support in old age) but today they're just a huge
           | expense, 6) the fact that even a few decades ago child care
           | consumed much less time as kids could be left to play
           | outside, but today you have to supervise them 24/7 at least
           | until they're 12. Etc etc. people don't have kids for a long
           | list of reasons, none of which has to do with men watching so
           | much porn they can't have sex even once.
           | 
           | But even if that was true, who's to say that population has
           | to keep growing? There's 8 billion of us, isn't that enough?
           | Housing prices are through the roof and most young people
           | can't even hope to be able to afford a house. Human
           | population has doubled about 4 times in the last 100 years.
           | If it doubles yet again there's going to be 16 billion of us.
           | Do you think the world and humanity can sustain infinite
           | exponential growth? I don't think so. The only reasons to
           | want population growth is because the pension system is a
           | Ponzi scheme, but that's a completely different problem.
           | 
           | I also find it interesting that on one hand the argument
           | against porn is, "porn is bad because it encourages X
           | behavior in real life", but then another is "porn is bad
           | because it discourages sex in real life".
        
             | ninetyninenine wrote:
             | >But even if that was true, who's to say that population
             | has to keep growing?
             | 
             | The issue is bigger then that. It's weird though. First for
             | context, when population grows, that growth is compounding
             | usually. There's an acceleration.
             | 
             | Now that the population is in freefall, the freefall is
             | also compounding. Like there are structural impacts that
             | will effect most of the asian countries (where this problem
             | will hit first) that will effect them economically.
        
           | DSingularity wrote:
           | Population is declining for some societies but not others.
           | 
           | The older I get the more I start to believe that
           | industrialization and pervasive technological adoption have
           | come with a cost to humanity that maybe we don't want to
           | bear.
        
             | Aerroon wrote:
             | I think it's declining across the board. Some societies
             | just haven't caught up to the decline yet. This is why
             | immigration will never solve the problem either.
        
           | Aerroon wrote:
           | > _It 's possibly one of the drivers for world wide declining
           | population._
           | 
           | Porn is illegal in South Korea, yet it's the country with the
           | lowest fertility rate. If anything, this suggests a reverse
           | of the correlation.
        
         | ahmeneeroe-v2 wrote:
         | Similarly, if you don't like something, you shouldn't have to
         | sell it. Or host it. Or process payments for it.
        
           | creer wrote:
           | > you shouldn't have to sell it [etc]
           | 
           | Until you abuse your market power. See Apple store vs adult
           | content, see credit card companies vs an endless list of
           | obsessions.
        
             | Aerroon wrote:
             | And if you do, your monopoly gets broken apart.
        
         | godelski wrote:
         | I agree with you, but I think we need to be a bit more careful
         | about that argument.
         | 
         | The problem is actually the slippery slope happened earlier,
         | with advertisers. The slippery slope was advertisers not
         | wanting to advertise on porn sites and adult content. It is the
         | same thing we see with the creation of Algospeak and self-
         | censorship. As the article points out, it is also very hard to
         | accurately classify this information. I mean even on YouTube
         | the other day I got a video in my shorts feed that was flagged
         | for sensitive topic. The video? About a veteran who was wearing
         | a shirt that said "Do not give in to the war within. End
         | veteran suicide." Here's the vid, it still has the content
         | warning[0]. What about this video is sensitive? That it
         | mentions the word "suicide?" (Twice?) There's not even options
         | in the settings and YouTube definitely knows I'm in my 30's....
         | How do I even say "this was improperly flagged?" We're just
         | letting algorithms shape our culture in a way we clearly don't
         | want. We wouldn't have Algospeak if we wanted it... Sure,
         | covert speech has formed in the past but mostly under duress
         | and the current form allows for a much more rapid iteration and
         | I really don't think that's good for society. It comes with the
         | best intentions, but I guess we all know the old clique, right?
         | The road to Hell is paved with good intentions. As much as it
         | sucks to admit, a lot of "evil" is created by "good" people
         | trying to do "good" things (quotes to let you define good and
         | evil however you want)
         | 
         | The reason I point out the argument is we can modify "Don't
         | like porn? Don't buy it." can be modified to "Don't like porn?
         | Don't advertise on those sites."
         | 
         | But I think payment systems should have a different regulation.
         | Similar to internet, common carrier. I'm actually surprised
         | this isn't already a rule (it has to be, right?). As long as it
         | is legal, they should be compelled to perform the transaction.
         | Anything else seems like it is actually holding your money
         | ransomed.
         | 
         | I'll admit I'm biased and I think payments should be private
         | and we should try to make the system so that digital
         | transactions are as similar to cash transactions as possible,
         | but I'm not convinced either party is in favor of that, nor the
         | banks themselves which would like to make money on that
         | information.
         | 
         | [0] https://www.youtube.com/shorts/x6WzOx01Tws
        
         | Shekelphile wrote:
         | They're being forced to remove games that are essentially anime
         | CSAM. Payment processors shouldn't need to be stepping up, but
         | these platforms don't bother to curate or moderate content so
         | their hands are being forced.
        
           | davikr wrote:
           | Not only that, but also furry content has been targeted in
           | the past in other websites.
        
             | Shekelphile wrote:
             | Which is just as bad as CSAM and should have never been a
             | thing on any mainstream platform.
        
               | thunderfork wrote:
               | Elaborate on this?
        
               | vunderba wrote:
               | Sounds like somebody drinks from the same crazy well as
               | Greg Abbott.
               | 
               | https://www.houstonpublicmedia.org/articles/education/202
               | 5/0...
        
         | JackFr wrote:
         | > Don't like porn? Don't buy it.
         | 
         | Ok.
         | 
         | Don't like porn? Don't sell it.
         | 
         | "CENSORSHIP! PURITAN NAZIS!"
        
         | imachine1980_ wrote:
         | It's not just porn, it's depictions of rape, from what I've
         | read. So I don't know if it's really good for people to consume
         | that kind of content. Real-life safe sex involves consent,
         | which is obviously not the objective of this game. I believe
         | this type of material can be genuinely harmful to our brains.
         | 
         | Even though I'm against using payment processing restrictions,
         | I do believe we need laws to prohibit this kind of content.
         | There's data suggesting that it impacts real people's behavior
         | during sex and shapes harmful social expectations.
        
         | quantummagic wrote:
         | I suspect that a lot of people who object to this censorship,
         | would be perfectly fine with a game being pulled because say it
         | glorified owning slaves, or if gameplay was explicitly anti-
         | homosexual. Then they would see the harms, employ their
         | empathy, and support the censorship. Not everyone, of course,
         | but a lot of the people who are outraged about this article.
         | 
         | Seems like everyone is pro-censorship, when they disagree with
         | those being targeted. Most people supported censorship for
         | anti-vaxers during Covid for instance. So in most cases it
         | really just comes down to how many people are anti-porn, rather
         | than any stance on censorship in general.
        
         | MangoToupe wrote:
         | I wish we didn't have payment processors. But if wishes were
         | fishes there would be no room for water.
        
         | swiftcoder wrote:
         | > What is wrong with these people who try to block certain
         | content?
         | 
         | Porn is just the thin end of the wedge (as was "violence in
         | video games" a generation ago) - porn is something society
         | considers as distasteful, so politicians are less likely to go
         | on record as supporting porn. Once the porn bans go into
         | effect, they'll move onto the next target in the conservative
         | playbook: gay marriage, birth control/abortion access, etc.
        
         | NoahZuniga wrote:
         | What if said game is a realistic CP simulation?
        
         | blensor wrote:
         | Would this really help though.
         | 
         | Let's assume there is a payment processor where anything goes,
         | the company utilizing it would still be punished by the other
         | payment processors.
         | 
         | I don't think Visa/Mastercard would care that you only sell the
         | things they don't want through other payment processors, they
         | still would threaten to cut you off entirely for having the
         | content they don't like
        
         | jackdoe wrote:
         | I guess you can also ask "don't like gambling, don't gamble".
         | 
         | It goes even further.
         | 
         | What was wrong with those people poisoning Socrates? For what?
         | Don't like what he says, do not listen to him.
         | 
         | You know how in higher dimensional space everything is almost
         | orthogonal? I think people are like that, some like porn, some
         | are afraid of it, some want to be impregnated by aliens, some
         | hate aliens.
         | 
         | Through good intentions democracy can be just as tyrannical as
         | any tyrant; a pinch of incompetence and good intentions and it
         | can not be stopped.
         | 
         | When should others "save" you? When it is absolutely obvious
         | some people need saving.
        
           | Longhanks wrote:
           | > When should others "save" you? When it is absolutely
           | obvious some people need saving.
           | 
           | Who gave anyone the right to judge who needs or needs not to
           | be saved? What if people don't want to be saved?
        
             | jhrmnn wrote:
             | I think it comes down to how much society is an entity in
             | its own right vs just a collection of individuals.
             | Proportionaly, saving society may be worth restricting the
             | absolute freedom of individuals to some degree.
        
         | constantcrying wrote:
         | >No one, including governments or payment processors, should be
         | in the position to decide whether a platform can sell something
         | or not.
         | 
         | Obviously the government _should_ make selling certain things
         | illegal. And I think that many of the games sold their, should
         | be made illegal.
         | 
         | What should _not_ happen is payment processors being the ones
         | who decide what is okay to sell. If selling something is legal,
         | payment processors should be forced to make that transaction.
         | 
         | >I wish there was a payment processor who was brave enough to
         | say a big fucking NO to censorship.
         | 
         | I do not. I do not want legal financial transactions being
         | dependent on the whims of how "brave" some company is.
        
         | lofaszvanitt wrote:
         | The explanation is simple: they don't want easy revenue streams
         | for people. You want to earn some side income, go F yourself.
         | If you look around, and want to earn a few dollars, what can
         | you do? Literally nothing. And this keeps continuing.
        
         | rayiner wrote:
         | > Don't like porn? Don't buy it. Simple as that
         | 
         | Except we live in a society and what goes into it affects all
         | of us. Why does Germany ban Nazi content? Why do governments
         | have minimum wages?
        
         | lumpysnake wrote:
         | These are private companies and you better believe they have a
         | say in what they make available on their own platform.
         | 
         | They do not have to host your game that they don't like and
         | that doesn't make it censorship.
        
       | the_af wrote:
       | In discussions about this topic, in almost every place I see
       | them, lots of people (against this censorship) are going "I don't
       | play this kind of games" or "I don't personally care about
       | tentacle fetish" (or whatever).
       | 
       | I don't get this. Let's say it openly: what's the problem with
       | sex and nudity in games? Why is it so unacceptable -- that even
       | people against the censorship must loudly proclaim it's not
       | "their thing" -- but violence, guns, war, etc are not? Or not
       | enough to pull from the stores, anyway?
       | 
       | What I don't care about are the finer points of whether this
       | technically counts as "censorship", because in pratice it is.
       | There SHOULD be a place to buy games which depict nudity and sex.
       | The quality of those games is not and should not be the focus of
       | conversation (e.g. "they are AI slop" or "badly made", etc),
       | because that's NOT what bothers the people doing the censorship
       | -- they'd also be against the best, AAA made, high quality games
       | with sex and nudity.
       | 
       | Again, I ask: what is wrong with sex and nudity in games, that
       | makes it worse than gore, violence and war? Why cannot whatever
       | age-restriction measures taken for the purchase of violent games
       | be also applied to sex games?
       | 
       | Finally: we all know they are not going to stop at this, right?
        
         | akomtu wrote:
         | That's because people recognise that their self-control with
         | regard to violence is solid, they know where the line is and
         | won't have an urge to cross it, but with sex the story is
         | different. Making this type of content mainstream will start a
         | wildfire in our society. I believe this is the main reason why
         | all religions are strict about sex, while at the same time very
         | lax about violence (holy wars, the image of warrior, etc.)
        
           | bloqs wrote:
           | after how many decades of freely available pornography will
           | you accept this is just not based in reality?
        
           | justanotherjoe wrote:
           | Prostitution was legal and regulated by the catholic church
           | as necessary and understandable evil for centuries, until
           | 15th century. Even Thomas Aquinas (huge stickler) agreed. And
           | why wouldn't it be? It was what common sense would tell you.
           | Learned christians would understand sexual sins are far from
           | the worst ones.
           | 
           | Also additional context, before the 12th century priests were
           | allowed to marry and have children. It was taken away, to
           | consolidate the church's property.
        
         | zahlman wrote:
         | Nothing is wrong with it.
         | 
         | People are just accustomed to being insulted for willingly
         | associating themselves with it, on the basis of imputed
         | perversion, bad taste etc.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | I think the main point is showing solidarity, even for content
         | that does not directly benefit them. There's nothing wrong with
         | sex and nudity, but everyone will have different personal lines
         | in their day to day life.
         | 
         | >must loudly proclaim it's not "their thing" -- but violence,
         | guns, war, etc are not?
         | 
         | I don't think war or violence is most people's thing to begin
         | with.
         | 
         | Guns, that's definitely a thorny issue. Especially in the US.
         | I'm personalyl fine with much stricter gun control
         | 
         | >we all know they are not going to stop at this, right?
         | 
         | indeed. It's not the first wave, it won't be the last. Gotta do
         | the same thing either way and push back.
        
         | rustystump wrote:
         | It isnt sex and nudity in games but the other "content" people
         | gloss over that is bundle in.
         | 
         | The other context is that global companies must cater to
         | multiple countries cultures which conflict so they take the
         | path of least resistance.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | To be honest, the "other content" seems to be an excuse.
           | 
           | I don't buy the "multiple countries' cultures" excuse because
           | this seems to be spearheaded by conservative groups from the
           | Christian anglosphere, the same culture that produces these
           | same games to begin with; and also: other cultures forbid
           | depictions of explicit violence, alcohol, women without their
           | heads covered or publicly disagreeing with their husbands,
           | etc. I don't see a push to ban games which depict alcohol
           | consumption or independent women, do you?
           | 
           | Let's call a spade a spade, and recognize this for what it
           | is.
           | 
           | Also: there's absolutely _nothing wrong_ with erotica in
           | games. Just place it behind the same safety checks as violent
           | games. If those don 't work, then they also don't work for
           | violent games, in which case: shall we ban all games with
           | violence?
        
       | slowhadoken wrote:
       | Porn games on Steam and itch are tacky af but they don't push
       | them on me and I sort of just ignore them. That being said they
       | should probably sell them on different website.
        
         | nosignono wrote:
         | > That being said they should probably sell them on different
         | website.
         | 
         | Why? (Genuinely)
         | 
         | Why are filters not sufficient? If I enjoy adult games and non-
         | adult games, why should I have to manage two storefronts?
        
           | rustystump wrote:
           | Because filters do not work well at all and because these
           | platforms want to make parents feel like it is ok for kids to
           | be on them. Imagine if youtube had an "onlyfans" creator
           | filter. That would never work.
           | 
           | The reality is you are not the only customer or market. While
           | you may find it to work well enough for you, myself along
           | with many others do not.
        
             | nosignono wrote:
             | They absolutely work. I'm a parent, my kid plays games. I
             | have yet to have any concerning close calls with NSFW
             | content. People who make adult games (by and large) don't
             | want kids to play their games.
             | 
             | If the platform doesn't want kids to see them, and the
             | creators don't want kids to see them, it's pretty easy for
             | kids to not see them.
             | 
             | If creators, platforms, and users all say, I would prefer
             | to not see the content, it's pretty easy to make that
             | happen.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | Itch has been "that different website" for pretty much all its
         | existence. If itch isn't safe, I don't know who is. Epic
         | doesn't really allow any of that, and GOG is still pretty picky
         | on any submission.
         | 
         | DLSite is another good site but that was hit last year by this.
        
       | crinkly wrote:
       | The very idea of a store front for software needs to die. It's a
       | single strangle point that serves only to concentrate power and
       | create a legal or regulatory target.
       | 
       | There should be no platform to "abuse". There should be no
       | control point.
        
         | bongodongobob wrote:
         | Everyone is free to build their own website to market and
         | distribute their games.
        
         | qualeed wrote:
         | I'm curious, what do you imagine as the better alternative?
         | 
         | I guess every publisher could just sell direct to customers on
         | their own website, but that wouldn't address this issue at all
         | (it would make it even easier for payment processors to abuse
         | their duopoly), while also severely damaging the
         | discoverability of games.
         | 
         | And, considering that companies can _already_ do this if they
         | want but still choose to sell via a platform, I 'm guessing
         | there are several benefits beyond discoverability that I'm not
         | thinking of.
        
           | crinkly wrote:
           | Well we have a couple of problems on the table at the moment.
           | Stop Killing Games is a good exemplar of one so I won't go
           | there. But the other is "what happens if Steam goes evil?".
           | Remember Google's old motto?
           | 
           | The only solution is you download stuff and it remains
           | runnable and usable without any connection or authorisation
           | to any service. The distribution of it can remain wherever
           | and you can go via a side channel if you want. But being tied
           | to a platform is utterly wrong.
           | 
           | If the payment processor shuts your revenue down you can move
           | elsewhere. With Stream as the distributor, you can't. It's a
           | single point of failure.
        
             | qualeed wrote:
             | > _The only solution is you download stuff and it remains
             | runnable and usable without any connection or authorisation
             | to any service._
             | 
             | I agree, but that could still be done even when using a
             | centralized distribution platform. I would say those are
             | two separate issues. I think (not positive) that's the
             | whole premise of GOG, isn't it?
             | 
             | > _If the payment processor shuts your revenue down you can
             | move elsewhere._
             | 
             | Not really, though. If the payment processor stops doing
             | business with your company, your shit out of luck. Instead
             | of pressuring steam or whoever, they just pressure you
             | directly. The single (well, double) point of failure always
             | chains up to the payment processors.
        
             | burnt-resistor wrote:
             | How exactly does an independent developer have more choice
             | or power against credit card processors alone? That's not
             | how it works. Mega platforms have more power and still get
             | pushed around. Indies are completely beholden to the whims
             | of the payment platforms unless they opt out and accept
             | crypto instead. Mega platforms could also accept crypto for
             | controversial or all content too.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | I guess the GP's plan is a scatter approach. 1 indie has
               | no power, but if for every banned indie you have 10 more
               | setting up payment, it becomes financially untenable to
               | go after them all. Compared to, say, making one or two
               | calls to Gabe. Turning it from a game of corruption to
               | one of whack-a-mole.
        
         | wredcoll wrote:
         | It's not the store, it's the cc companies.
        
       | djoldman wrote:
       | The decision to provide or not some services or products should
       | be free from considering downstream use.
       | 
       | It would be ridiculous to deny a water supply hookup or
       | electrical mains to a church because the water or electrical
       | companies are opposed to those beliefs.
       | 
       | Analogously, legislation should be passed to prohibit considering
       | downstream use for all financial transactions.
       | 
       | If the government wants to go after criminals, it can do it by
       | itself.
        
       | csours wrote:
       | The problem with slippery slopes is that the world is made of
       | them. You can't leave the slippery slope, at BEST you can choose
       | which slope you're sliding down.
       | 
       | Another way to think of this is 'long tail risk'. Some subset of
       | people out there will develop real life problems from: porn, sex
       | work, alcohol, weed, drugs, gambling, other 'moral' issues. It is
       | difficult to meaningfully address both the median user and the
       | problematic user.
       | 
       | See also decrim.
        
         | armchairhacker wrote:
         | IMO the difference is whether the "slope" is emotional or
         | physical.
         | 
         | Exhibit A - emotional: the government has outlawed violent
         | crime and wants to outlaw intimidation. Argument "once they
         | outlaw intimidation, next they'll outlaw regular insults, next
         | they'll outlaw criticism". This is a bad slippery slope
         | argument because (I'm assuming) intimidation should be
         | outlawed. Insults and criticism should not, but are not. If the
         | government votes in evil-gov or you encounter evil-cop, it's as
         | easy for them to harass you for insults and criticism, as it
         | would be had intimidation never been outlawed.
         | 
         | Exhibit B - physical: the government wants to give every
         | citizen a brain implant that can be remotely activated to stun
         | them. This would _significantly_ prevent crime. However, it
         | would also be a terrible idea, because now if you get evil-gov
         | or evil-cop, it's significantly easier for them to remotely
         | stun you for non-crime.
         | 
         | The key is that in Exhibit A, evil-gov and evil-cop face equal
         | resistance for punishing insults and criticism regardless of
         | whether intimidation is outlawed, because either way, people
         | understand that intimidation should be outlawed and insults and
         | criticism should not. More generally, _moving the Overton
         | Window to contain a "good" thing doesn't make it contain a
         | "bad" thing, at least not enough so that the "good" thing isn't
         | worth it_. But in Exhibit B, evil-gov and evil-cop face
         | ineffective resistance for stunning people for insults and
         | criticism, because people allowed good-gov and good-cop to give
         | them stun implants for punishing crime; whereas if evil-gov or
         | evil-cop stepped up and said "alright, we're going to give
         | everyone stun implants to punish insults and criticism", they
         | would face effective resistance.
         | 
         | ---
         | 
         | Put into perspective: Visa and Mastercard using their Monopoly
         | to effectively prevent payment for depictions of incest and
         | rape, assuming you think that is OK, is Exhibit A. However,
         | Visa and Mastercard having a monopoly in the first place is
         | Exhibit B. My argument is "we should break the Visa and
         | Mastercard monopoly (or popularize crypto) to prevent them from
         | restricting LGBTQ and firearms etc. in the future" (this
         | argument still applies if they're restricting some of that
         | now). A counter-argument is "this will allow incest depictions,
         | hate speech, and moreover actual drug and sex trafficking*,
         | etc." and my counter is "those things are bad, but are they bad
         | enough to leave us vulnerable to power shifts restricting good
         | content in the future?" I support free speech with a similar
         | argument**.
         | 
         | It's an argument that relies on the uncertain future, but
         | nonetheless the change here clearly and significantly decreases
         | the probability of a bad future, because bad-gov or bad-cop
         | must acquire power _then_ revert the monopoly breakup; whereas
         | the emotional example can't even rely on the future, because if
         | bad-gov or bad-cop acquire enough power to cause the bad thing,
         | they would've just as likely acquired enough power had we not
         | avoided causing the good thing.
         | 
         | * Also note these things are already exchanged with real money,
         | and breaking up the Visa/Mastercard monopoly won't make them
         | legal nor stop law enforcement from tracking and prosecuting
         | them. The more general argument is that it's better for society
         | to make it hard for law enforcement to prosecute crime then
         | give them the resources to do so, but also make it hard for
         | them to prosecute non-crime; then make it easy for law-
         | enforcement to prosecute crime so they need less resources, but
         | also make it easy for them to prosecute non-crime. The
         | justification is that we spend extra resources and let some
         | crimes avoid prosecution, in exchange for decreased risk of
         | non-crime prosecution now and in the future.
         | 
         | ** and that speech is mild enough, sans confidential
         | information etc., that it shouldn't be blocked simply to
         | content whoever says it. But even confidential information
         | doesn't warrant e.g. a universal backdoor and filter that could
         | be stolen and exploited by a bad actor.
        
         | npteljes wrote:
         | I completely agree. One could frame not banning these games as
         | another slippery slope - which I'm sure they do.
         | 
         | I think many of these slippery slopes are defined in hindsight.
         | What all of these represent are simply struggles for power.
        
       | ajdude wrote:
       | I recently got a notification from Flickr: You must now have the
       | paid account (around $8 per month) to view 18+ content. I wonder
       | if it's related.
        
       | nosignono wrote:
       | This is absolutely a wedge to censor LGBTQ+ content. If you can
       | separately argue that adult content should be blocked and LGBTQ+
       | themes are for adults, then you can block queer content online en
       | masse.
       | 
       | Visa and Mastercard have too much power, and are too willing to
       | capitulate.
        
         | Tadpole9181 wrote:
         | The group responsible also want to ban _Detroit: Become Human_
         | , for context.
         | 
         | That game advocates staunchly for civil rights and the autonomy
         | of women, children, and other minorities. The Holocaust
         | allegory is so on the nose you can't even call it veiled. It
         | says domestic abuse is unforgivably, undeniably wrong.
         | 
         | They don't even care about marginalized groups or even women
         | themselves. Any piece of content that gives them the heeby
         | jeebies, any media that has conflict: banned. Doesn't matter if
         | it even supports their purported agenda.
        
           | adamrezich wrote:
           | This is why it is so tiring to see everyone reduce what is
           | happening here to "they're trying to ban [specific thing I
           | care about]!" rather than take the objective facts of the
           | situation in total.
        
         | rustystump wrote:
         | Does LGBTQ+ content include incest porn? I dont think it does
         | but that is being bundle in right now which makes it hard for
         | me to stand with you.
        
           | nulld3v wrote:
           | LGBTQ+ treats incest no differently than how everyone else
           | treats it. It's still generally taboo, and since it's not a
           | sexual minority suffering from unjust
           | persecution/discrimination, it is not offered any special
           | protections.
        
           | Nasrudith wrote:
           | Have you been living under a rock? Conservatives have been
           | telegraphing their despicable moves like usual by calling
           | LGBTQ anything 'pornographic'. Now they are working to
           | normalize banning 'pornographic' while at the same time
           | lumping LGBTQ with it.
        
             | rustystump wrote:
             | Let's take a step back from political knee jerk reactions
             | and look at the nuance.
             | 
             | Say 50% of the queer content on itch is innocuous dating
             | sim games much which may not have any pornographic images
             | at all.
             | 
             | There is another chunk, idk the amount, that is clearly not
             | nice and what dishonest groups bundle that 50% into.
             | 
             | There is seemingly little interest even acknowledging that
             | other chunk of content as being a problem though. I dont
             | want queer dating sims to be banned but they are gonna be
             | if no one is honest about what shows up next to them in
             | places where they exist.
        
               | healsdata wrote:
               | What data or evidence do you have to suggest that there's
               | a significantly larger amount pornographic LGBT content
               | than there is pornographic straight content on these
               | sites?
               | 
               | Why does an LGBT creator that makes a game exploring how
               | the Matrix is a transgender allegory have to actively
               | distance themselves from bisexual dating simulators when
               | I don't recall seeing anything from "Enter the Matrix"
               | distancing themselves from straight anime girl dating
               | simulators?
        
               | rustystump wrote:
               | Sigh. You completely miss the point. Oh well. For what it
               | is worth, i am against banning innocuous queer content.
               | Cheers.
        
               | furgot wrote:
               | That's a lazy and intellectually dishonest way of
               | responding to criticism of your ideas. You made a claim
               | and were asked for evidence. It's your choice whether or
               | not you provide it, but you were in fact understood, and
               | to pretend otherwise is dishonest.
        
               | rustystump wrote:
               | Read the article. What i am saying is exactly what is
               | happening. Totally normal stuff is being bundled with the
               | nasty and the baby is being thrown out with the bath
               | water. Again, i dont want that to happen but people keep
               | defending the gross with the normal which is a losing
               | position. Idk what to tell you. :(
        
           | BriggyDwiggs42 wrote:
           | No, nobody likes incest porn and most want to ban it, which
           | is why it's a smart strategy as a person who wants to censor
           | things most people don't find disagreeable to take actions
           | against incest porn which conveniently just so happen to also
           | affect lgbt stuff.
        
         | benrutter wrote:
         | Yes, I think this is 100% the take we should come away with.
         | 
         | I don't have strong feelings around wether steam or itch sell
         | adult content, but its the fact that a duopoly and using their
         | power to exert political influence.
        
       | scyclow wrote:
       | There are a lot of people mentioning crypto as a possible
       | solution to this, and a lot of people responding that crypto is a
       | ponzi scheme, and they're not interested. But congress recently
       | passed stablecoin legislation that could possibly fix this
       | problem. Recipients would have a straightforward way of receiving
       | money, and they wouldn't need to gamble on the price of bitcoin.
       | Most people would probably still use a third part payment
       | processor to handle the rough edges of managing money on the
       | blockchain. But if any of them try to pull something like this it
       | would be incredibly easy spin up a new processor and migrate
       | accounts.
        
         | nurumaik wrote:
         | All stablecoins (at least popular ones) has the same underlying
         | problem -- it's regulated and controlling entity can freeze any
         | funds because it wants so
        
           | scyclow wrote:
           | Yeah, but so can PayPal and Visa and Mastercard. The issue
           | here is that payments is essentially a duopoly. Itch doesn't
           | have any alternatives because they're locked into traditional
           | payment rails. Stablecoins at least let someone else decide
           | "Hey, you know what, I'm going to create a coin that can be
           | used as payment for porn games." And executing on that is
           | fairly straightforward.
        
       | nosignono wrote:
       | Weirdly, Amazon sells TONS of porn and NSFW content, and yet
       | doesn't lose their Visa/Mastercard processing.
       | 
       | Game of Thrones, both the books and the show, contain content
       | much, much more explicit than many of these games. Yet Itch and
       | Steam have to pull stuff or their very existence is threatened.
        
         | Beijinger wrote:
         | Isn't this American culture? You can watch soft porn as long as
         | you can claim it is not porn? The Spartacus Series comes to
         | mind. Gore and Porn. But sure, it is "history"
        
           | nosignono wrote:
           | There's plenty of hard core material on Amazon as well, fwiw.
        
           | williamscales wrote:
           | A lot of the moralizing pressure groups are also against
           | sexual content on TV (at least historically they have been).
           | 
           | One of the slippery slopes here would be that initially they
           | go after smaller players and then work their way up. Would
           | they ultimately go after Amazon or Warner Bros? It's not
           | totally clear to me that they wouldn't.
        
             | mango7283 wrote:
             | I said this on the other thread, it's obvious they don't
             | yet have the clout to go after big titles like GoT or GTA
             | yet, and it would be a losing strategy for them to do so.
             | Hence why they are going after battles they can win first.
        
         | mrbonner wrote:
         | It's art. Not porn!
        
       | derbOac wrote:
       | Why isn't there another counter group putting pressure on them to
       | not pull this kind of thing?
        
         | burnt-resistor wrote:
         | The anti-capitalist left is disorganized and under-funded a
         | priori.
        
           | warkdarrior wrote:
           | Part of the left sees porn as abuse, so at a minimum they do
           | not care about porn or may even support banning porn.
        
         | mywittyname wrote:
         | Because it's slightly/majority embarrassing. The groups backing
         | this ban will find the worst of the worst thing, and paint you
         | as a massive supporter. And their militant zealots will
         | endanger your life if you become significant enough.
         | 
         | It takes a certain kind of person to stand up for pornography.
         | And most are not that kind of person.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | "The trouble with fighting for human freedom is that one
           | spends most of one's time defending scoundrels. For it is
           | against scoundrels that oppressive laws are first aimed, and
           | oppression must be stopped at the beginning if it is to be
           | stopped at all."
           | 
           | -- Commonly attributed to H. L. Mencken (1880-1956)
        
           | rustystump wrote:
           | You can defend porn while not defending incest.
           | 
           | Keep all the porn that is great. But there has to be a line
           | somewhere and even the most accepting countries have a line.
           | 
           | Often the groups defending porn are defending the most
           | egregious stuff which makes it hard for people to support.
        
       | tryauuum wrote:
       | hello from Russia, which was disconnected from the rest of the
       | world by our overloads Visa and Mastercard
       | 
       | There's a whole buisness model of russians paying to a company in
       | Kazahstan so that they buy a steam game and gift it to a russian
       | user
        
         | codedokode wrote:
         | In Russia many of those games would be illegal: LGBT is
         | illegal, propaganda against having children is illegal, etc.
        
       | danielvaughn wrote:
       | imo nothing wrong with a platform deciding what content it wants
       | to host.
       | 
       | But there's also nothing wrong with allowing this type of
       | content. Who wants to help me build an uncensored game
       | distribution platform? We could call it Steamy.
        
         | SirYandi wrote:
         | Yes, but it's not the platform really making the decision in
         | this case. It's their payment processor
        
         | flumpcakes wrote:
         | Incest rape simulators, zoophilia, lolicon?
         | 
         | I think this stuff has no place on 'normal' store fronts like
         | Steam and Itch. It should be on an 18+ only store front at the
         | very least.
        
           | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
           | The movie rental stores, back when they existed, used to have
           | a room behind a curtain that adults could access.
        
             | flumpcakes wrote:
             | And they wouldn't be selling zoophilia/lolicon/incest
             | pornography.
        
         | _Algernon_ wrote:
         | The mistake is thinking about payment processors as a
         | "platform". They're not. They're critical infrastructure
         | operating in an environment with low competition, and them
         | denying service -- beyond what is illegal within a certain
         | jurisdiction -- is more a kin to your electricity company
         | denying service because they don't like that you use their
         | electricity to power a device to watch porn. I think everyone
         | would agree that to be crazy.
        
       | bloqs wrote:
       | where are mid-00s Anonymous when you need them
        
       | SilverElfin wrote:
       | Regulate Visa and MasterCard and the rest. As utility services,
       | they should not have the ability to ban or deny service to any
       | payment that is not clearly illegal. Or we should create a public
       | alternative with private transactions.
        
         | xlii wrote:
         | There is no "the rest". All the payment processors or
         | aggregators ultimately talk to Visa or MasterCard. Even if
         | there are alternative payment methods that include direct
         | transfer etc. they still might get kicked off if they don't
         | follow their rules.
        
         | danschuller wrote:
         | It feels they should be a neutral payment system. They're
         | implementing global policy otherwise due the monopoly they
         | have, that's something that should handled at government/state
         | level.
        
         | citrin_ru wrote:
         | I'm afraid regulators are happy with the current situation when
         | they can make a phone call and Visa/MC will block whatever
         | people in government don't like (e. g. porn), in exchange state
         | allows Visa/MC to rake up fees.
        
       | true_religion wrote:
       | Although it's been tried before, we should all follow this bill,
       | the Interstate Obscenity Definition Act which will criminalize
       | lewd sexual material.
       | 
       | In the current atmosphere, it might just pass.
       | 
       | https://www.congress.gov/bill/119th-congress/senate-bill/167...
        
       | pyuser583 wrote:
       | I read from a fairly reputable source that money laundering is a
       | huge problem in online sex industry.
       | 
       | Which makes sense - you have buyers and sellers who insist on
       | anonymity, services that leave no trace once rendered, buyers and
       | sellers lying to family and friends about what they're doing,
       | etc.
       | 
       | There's often no "normal" amount of consumption, for example,
       | some sellers receive million dollar tips.
       | 
       | Money laundering is a massive problem, and it enables some really
       | terrible things.
       | 
       | I suspect the fact that American banks are so anti-porn comes
       | from the fact that the American financial sector has such strong
       | anti-money laundering regs (as opposed to, say, the American real
       | estate sector, or the UK financial sector).
       | 
       | One of the reasons OF is doing well is because they insist on
       | following know your customer laws. Not many porn platforms could
       | function that way.
        
         | gs17 wrote:
         | If it was about potential for money laundering, they'd have
         | gone after the Steam item marketplace way before random adult
         | games. Valve has had to take action against it in the past:
         | https://www.rockpapershotgun.com/valve-block-counter-strike-...
         | , but AFAIK it's hard to actually solve.
        
           | pyuser583 wrote:
           | Not so much the potential for money laundering, as actual
           | money laundering. Is there actual money laundering going on
           | in Steam's item marketplace?
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | Yes, at least back in 2019, from the link:
             | 
             | > However, worldwide fraud networks have recently shifted
             | to using CS:GO keys to liquidate their gains. At this
             | point, nearly all key purchases that end up being traded or
             | sold on the marketplace are believed to be fraud-sourced.
             | As a result we have decided that newly purchased keys will
             | not be tradeable or marketable.
             | 
             | Many users still suspect it happens, although it's hard to
             | prove.
        
         | ActorNightly wrote:
         | Don't kid yourself. Has nothing to do with laundering. Payment
         | processors want more transaction volume. The only time they
         | start doing this is if they get legal pressure.
         | 
         | The initial regulation also didn't suppress content, it just
         | made you have to go through age verification, which everyone
         | knows doesn't work.
        
         | onlyfansfakes wrote:
         | >One of the reasons OF is doing well is because they insist on
         | following know your customer laws
         | 
         | You'd think so, but nope. Using a throwaway account for obvious
         | reasons.
         | 
         | I ended up subscribing to someone who's catfishing. All their
         | pics on OnlyFans and other socials were just stolen from random
         | Instagram models. I reported it to OF, but got no response.
         | 
         | Whatever verification system OF has, it's bypassable. It
         | doesn't matter much when it's just regular subscribers - nobody
         | really cares about consumer rights in the adult content space.
         | That's why so many creators can get away with pretending
         | they're the ones replying to messages. But I'm betting there's
         | going to be a CSEM scandal linked to this in the next few
         | years.
        
         | doctor_blood wrote:
         | That doesn't explain why Visa/Mastercard have gone after
         | written erotica (gumroad, patreon, etc), Japanese
         | manga/doujinshi distributors (DLsite), and video games.
        
           | 7moritz7 wrote:
           | I assume they just decided that the whole industry, even if
           | run legitimately in some cases, has too high of a legal risk
           | and hence don't decide on a case-by-case basis. With how
           | often NSFW content gets reuploaded and the source becoming
           | unclear, they probably see the biggest risk with undetected
           | child porn on regular porn sites. If you are involved with
           | that as a payment processor that's obviously a huge problem.
        
       | flumpcakes wrote:
       | They are targeting incest/rape games. I wouldn't call that
       | 'LGBTQ' like some people seem to imply. If Itch and Steam don't
       | want to police their store fronts _before_ the law gets involved,
       | then I am not surprised that other businesses such as payment
       | providers will choose not to work with them.
       | 
       | Visa and MasterCard are in the business of making money, they're
       | not doing this for fun.
        
         | shevis wrote:
         | The problem is that they are opting to ban all games labeled
         | "NSFW", not just rape/incest games.
        
           | flumpcakes wrote:
           | Itch is only doing this in the short term as they don't have
           | enough time to go through all of the NSFW games on their
           | platform.
        
             | devnullbrain wrote:
             | And 4chan is only introducing the Captcha until the spam
             | stops
        
               | guy_5676 wrote:
               | Porn is a massive cash cow for itch, they are very
               | incentivised to get the NSFW stuff up again asap
        
         | gs17 wrote:
         | > _before_ the law gets involved
         | 
         | There's no law (as of now). If there was a law, Valve would
         | happily de-list these things. For example, a recent custom map
         | for Mount and Blade that was banned in South Korea:
         | https://automaton-media.com/en/news/valve-cooperates-in-bann...
        
           | flumpcakes wrote:
           | This is my entire point: Valve and Itch do not police their
           | store fronts (Itch actually does, it won't allow any games it
           | thinks are 'hatred' but other content is OK) and now the
           | payment processors think the risk is too great.
           | 
           | I think one solution for Valve/Itch to continue with the 'no
           | policing policy' is for governments to step in and say all
           | video games needed classification like films do.
           | 
           | I think a _few_ of these video games that are sold would be
           | found to breaking some law if anyone cared to test it.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | Steam's storefront is actually policed somewhat, their
             | rules are simply not the same as the ones you want them to
             | have.
             | 
             | > governments to step in and say all video games needed
             | classification like films do.
             | 
             | Valve and (I believe) Itch are both US companies. In the
             | US, films are not required to get a rating anymore.
        
         | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
         | I think I missed the part where Valve or these games were in
         | violation of any laws.
        
           | flumpcakes wrote:
           | MasterCard/VISA clearly think the risk is there.
        
         | rahkiin wrote:
         | They should consider banning sale of the Bible and Game of
         | Thrones from Amazon as well
        
         | crooked-v wrote:
         | Collective Shout also actively targets games like Detroit:
         | Become Human that are hardly 'incest/rape games'.
        
           | flumpcakes wrote:
           | And that game is still available. Hardly evidence that
           | payment providers are targeting all 'NSFW' or adult games.
        
             | mango7283 wrote:
             | I think what that tells you is that there are still limits
             | to what collective shout is able to do, hence why GTA is
             | still for sale but the fringe porn games aren't
        
         | superkuh wrote:
         | Have you heard of a television show called "Game of Thrones".
         | It featured live actors, real humans with human bodies, acting
         | out representations of incest and rape. And positive
         | representations at that. It was a worldwide phenomenon and
         | hundreds of millions of people probably watched it. It's still
         | available to buy and sell GoT and related merchandise and
         | payment providers don't bat an eye.
         | 
         | Video games don't even involve actual human bodies like GoT
         | does. It's crazy that "Collective Shout" thinks this is worth
         | invoking violence and violating peoples volition for. Certainly
         | not consistent with all other aspects of entertainment in
         | society. Makes me think there are probably other fame, power
         | and money motivations behind their behavior. But it doesn't
         | explain people agreeing with them. That's the weirdest part of
         | this.
        
           | mango7283 wrote:
           | "It was a worldwide phenomenon and hundreds of millions of
           | people probably watched it." - this is what explains why GOT
           | is not the one getting taken down. Collective Shout is
           | picking battles it can win.
        
       | rustystump wrote:
       | I have always found it odd that whenever pornography comes up the
       | degree to which people defend it in all forms. It is
       | uncomfortably telling but also completely misses why this is
       | happening.
       | 
       | Itch.io is heavily saturated with anime porn games along with
       | steam to the point I find both difficult to navigate even with
       | nsfw filters turned on. Turning those filters off and it is
       | pretty egregious the volume of it all let alone subject matter. I
       | dont care about porn but the platforms have done a piss poor job
       | for the majority of people who are not looking for porn games but
       | find games like cyberpunk totally acceptable. How can i see
       | cyberpunk but not hentai?
       | 
       | This is happening because it was too easy for someone to pull up
       | the home page on said platforms and point to several incest porn
       | games. Using payment processors is not a solution i favor but
       | people cannot find that experience acceptable.
       | 
       | On a personal note, i dont want to live in a society that deems
       | it acceptable to have a "no incest" filter for games. That is
       | line for me and not for religion but because I find incest
       | disgusting.
        
         | SXX wrote:
         | > How can i see cyberpunk but not hentai?
         | 
         | There are filter by tags too. Works pretty well to filter out
         | like all anime or hentai games.
        
           | rustystump wrote:
           | I like my game platforms how I like my streaming platforms.
           | One for explicitly porn, and another for explicitly not porn.
           | GoT on netflix while spicy is not porn. The issue is mixing
           | porn with not porn. I shouldnt have to go click a bunch of
           | special porn tags to not see that shit on the home page. I
           | like anime games but cant seem to keep them without the
           | hentai. Poor experience.
           | 
           | The fact the default is porn games in your home page IS the
           | issue. It gives all this ammunition for xyz group to do
           | whatever.
           | 
           | The politics of payment processors being the bad guys is
           | nonsense. They have to bow down to too many governments to
           | play ball so will always take the politically expedient
           | option. Almost all bitcoin validators bowed down to us
           | sanctions banning wallet addresses for example. That cat has
           | been out of the bag for years.
        
             | SXX wrote:
             | Porn games are never ever visible by default on Steam. They
             | were always opt-in.
             | 
             | And no, Steam don't mess them up with Cyberpunk.
        
               | rustystump wrote:
               | That is not true. Very often i find porn games not
               | filtered out so does my partner. Which is once again, why
               | having distinct store fronts would have solved this. No
               | system is perfect in tag this tag that so it is better to
               | be explicit with it so things do not leak. This is what
               | happens when you mix it. The xyz groups get ammunition.
               | 
               | Can you imagine if youtube launched an onlyfans like
               | filter to allow nsfw content?
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | Are you absolutely sure you and your partner not changed
               | default content filtering preferances on Steam?
               | 
               | Because Steam literally have settings in "Home > Account
               | -> Store preferences -> Mature Content Preferences" with
               | following options:
               | 
               | > Some Nudity or Sexual Content. Games or content that
               | contain some nudity or sexual themes, but not as the
               | primary focus.
               | 
               | This is where basically 99.9% of your normal games belong
               | even if they have sex in them.
               | 
               | > Frequent Nudity or Sexual Content. Games or content
               | that primarily feature nudity or sexual themes. By
               | ticking this box you affirm that you are at least
               | eighteen years old.
               | 
               | This is where all the sex VN slop belong.
               | 
               | > Adult Only Sexual Content. Games or content that are
               | sexually explicit or graphic and are intended for adults
               | only. By ticking this box you affirm that you are at
               | least eighteen years old.
               | 
               | And this is porn.
               | 
               | I'm absolutely sure that "Adult Only Sexual Content" is
               | disabled by default and pretty sure "Frequent Nudity or
               | Sexual Content" disabled too.
        
         | thierrydamiba wrote:
         | Few questions I think we need to address at some point.
         | 
         | Why is there so much demand for these games?
         | 
         | Why do we think government intervention is the solution in this
         | domain but not others?
         | 
         | Why is there so much demand for these games???
         | 
         | To the point where the only way to stop people from playing
         | them is making them illegal.
         | 
         | Is anyone else worried about this??? I am!
        
       | braebo wrote:
       | The Trump admin wants to ban porn outright so this is just an
       | appetizer.
        
       | codedokode wrote:
       | How do porn sites accept money then? Steam should just make a
       | separate company for adult games and use the same payment methods
       | as porn sites.
       | 
       | Also this reminds me of Apple that for example demanded Telegram
       | to block adult channels (including non-porn channels where
       | authors blog about their sex life) from AppStore's Telegram
       | version.
       | 
       | Also if cryptocurrency were more popular and widespread, then
       | banks would have less leverage to do this.
        
       | amelius wrote:
       | Don't we have something like net neutrality but for money
       | transfers?
       | 
       | And besides, why do payment processors even know/care what their
       | customers use their money for as long as it's legal?
       | 
       | If you want to ban porn, fine, but do it through the law, and
       | don't let every company make their own laws. Especially if they
       | are a quasi monopoly (have power).
        
       | Taylor_OD wrote:
       | The slippery slope is the one the payment processors have been
       | sliding down for a while. Steam and itch dont want to pull these
       | games. They dont have a choice.
        
       | Jzush wrote:
       | What I would like to know is why is it any business of VESA or
       | any other payment processor, what I am buying with my own money.
       | vESA has no business knowing what game I'm specifically buying.
       | They just have to give money to Steam in my behalf and that's it.
        
       | jackdawipper wrote:
       | I see what you did there
        
       | mixologist wrote:
       | This actually took longer than I thought. It is really weird that
       | for all my adult content I have to go to a dedicated adult store,
       | yet for games I can find them on Steam and gog where kids shop
       | for games.
       | 
       | You don't get porn movies on Netflix or Disney stream. You don't
       | get adult toys in your local grocery store. Why do we sell porn
       | on Steam?
       | 
       | Why haven't game stores just spin off separate store front for
       | porn content? It is basically free, since they already have the
       | infrasructure.
       | 
       | While being removed from general stores, porn has become very
       | visible on big gaming platforms which majority of customers don't
       | associate with porn. Backlash is inevitable.
       | 
       | I think we can expect a bigger push against porn in general as
       | pendulum swings back on the other side.
        
         | garciansmith wrote:
         | Bookstores sell kids books and adult material just fine. The
         | adult stuff might be behind the counter or in a certain area,
         | same as stores like Steam where you have to actively seek it
         | out.
        
           | lupusreal wrote:
           | Video rental stores, when those were still a thing, were the
           | same way. They'd have a room in the back with a curtain to
           | section it off.
        
           | gitt67887yt7bg wrote:
           | Dedicated porn sites are also being forced by the card
           | companies to pull down porn. Also Steam/itch aren't where
           | this started, they're in the third wave of companies getting
           | held hostage over this. Digital tip jars and direct-payment
           | creator services were hit weeks ago.
           | 
           | But the problem isn't porn. That's the low hanging fruit for
           | a massive power grab The problem is that card companies
           | can/will/did blackmail multiple companies into changing, and
           | in some small cases shut-down their entire businesses.
           | 
           | In a post-cash world, this is completely unacceptable, and a
           | blatant power grab. If the payment processors are allowed to
           | set this precedent, then there will be nothing to stop these
           | for-profit companies from blocking anybody, anywhere from
           | buying anything - for any or no reason.
           | 
           | People are blaming a specific protest group. Personally I
           | believe they are being scapegoated. And honestly if a tiny
           | group from a tiny economy are so easily able to control
           | international macroeconomics, then the root cause is still
           | that the card services are vulnerable to such an attack.
           | 
           | The only appropriate response is swift and severe regulation
           | of these critically necessary card and banking services, up
           | to and including the dissolution of both Visa and MasterCard
           | - and in the US strict caps on card fees, as well as an
           | amendment to the Constitution ensure that our right to own
           | property permanently includes the right to _buy_ property.
           | 
           | Are the payment providers going to weaponize their de facto
           | control over all purchases to target guns next? Churches?
           | Birth control? Inner-City hospitals? Which apps or social
           | music companies do you think they'll allow to live, or die?
           | Will they blackmail the Internet service providers? Political
           | parties? Entire countries? Which side of which wars do you
           | think Visa will force us to support? Is a company called
           | "MasterCard" for or against letting people with your skin
           | color buy food? You don't know. Nobody knows. Nobody should
           | have to know.
           | 
           | It doesn't matter where you land politically, the point is
           | that these companies cannot be allowed to wield this kind of
           | control. Our society really does depend on it. ...Because we
           | can't go back to cash anymore, and they very much know it.
        
             | omarspira wrote:
             | I do like bringing up the potential for dissolution. I
             | would add just the general ways in which they profit off
             | distorting the economy for massive private gains, often to
             | the ruin of many individuals.
             | 
             | Credit has become ubiquitous, in a manner that belies its
             | supposed purpose, at least as was originally practiced
             | before consumers were offered and employed credit for
             | absolutely everything.
             | 
             | Then again, governments and "regulated" entities are also
             | capable of blackmail. I'm not sure these private companies
             | would ever have an incentive to care about what you spend
             | their money on unless governments gave them a reason to -
             | which is why this is happening. At the end of the day you
             | run into the same perpetual problem - you want x, some mob
             | wants y. Good luck.
        
             | RajT88 wrote:
             | > But the problem isn't porn. That's the low hanging fruit
             | for a massive power grab
             | 
             | I mostly agree with this. There are legitimate issues with
             | even the biggest and most respected porn sites being very
             | lax with taking down underage and nonconsensual content.
             | The card companies AFAICT aren't being pressured to reform
             | because of this kind of content, but more the LGBT content
             | which is harming nobody.
        
             | dcow wrote:
             | Maybe this will end the crypto winter.
        
           | aprilthird2021 wrote:
           | It's not the same as an online store. There is a way for
           | people to know kids are in a place they shouldn't be or to
           | deny them access to adult content in real life. In Steam,
           | there isn't
        
             | esseph wrote:
             | Adult content on steam is marked as such very clearly.
             | 
             | Under Community Content Preferences, you'll see an option
             | for Mature Content and Adult-Only Sexual Content.
             | 
             | You'll also be preventing from accessing mature content
             | depending on the filters in your account settings, and in
             | the Family Management section of steam, for Family Shared
             | Libraries.
        
               | rustystump wrote:
               | Next you'll tell us that all facebook users are over the
               | age of 16 just like marky mark promises us.
        
               | aprilthird2021 wrote:
               | So what? A kid can still go get adult content without
               | anyone else knowing or seeing. Most parents aren't able
               | to set the family settings on Steam or even know their
               | kid knows what Steam is.
        
             | plaguuuuuu wrote:
             | If kids are on steam they're also on... ya know... the
             | internet.
             | 
             | It's not complicated to realise that this achieves none of
             | the stated objectives
        
               | aprilthird2021 wrote:
               | Yes that's my point. The Internet does not have the kind
               | of separation or age-checking that real life has, and
               | maybe that hasn't been good for kids or adults
        
           | BobaFloutist wrote:
           | Also grocery stores sell alcohol, and I'm personally more
           | fine with children getting access to porn than to liquor.
        
             | MrGilbert wrote:
             | I would not agree on this one. Both is detrimental on
             | children's health.
        
               | BobaFloutist wrote:
               | One is more likely to directly cause a child's death than
               | the other.
        
               | MrGilbert wrote:
               | I'm not arguing against that, but I'd like to point out
               | that ,,death" as a baseline is a pretty krass statement.
               | Just my two cents.
        
             | slashdev wrote:
             | Depends what country you're in. In most of Canada grocery
             | stores do not sell liquor.
             | 
             | But at any rate, they're going to ask for ID when you buy
             | it. Children can't access it.
        
               | zbentley wrote:
               | It's a lot easier to ID-gate food based on whether it
               | contains some amount of a substance (alcohol) than it is
               | to ID-gate media.
               | 
               | For extremely explicit stuff, sure, the adults-only line
               | might be clear for a lot of folks. But other stuff is not
               | as clear cut: if media describes sex at all, is it adult?
               | Even Supreme Court justices have trouble defining in this
               | area.
               | 
               | ...and all of that is ignoring the elephants in the room:
               | whether or not explicit media even _should_ be restricted
               | for non-adults, the fact that there are highly variable
               | and localized levels of people's preparedness for adult
               | media (even more variable and subjective than
               | developmental cutoffs for alcohol sale), and the abundant
               | historical evidence that attempts to draw an
               | acceptability /adults-only line in subjective areas like
               | this are inevitably extended to provide cover for
               | political agendas (e.g. homophobia).
        
         | Loughla wrote:
         | Grocery stores absolutely sell sex toys now. Wal-Mart carries
         | them as well.
         | 
         | I'm no prude, but it's really weird to me.
        
           | jpgvm wrote:
           | I was in Belgrade aiport duty-free a few days ago and there
           | was a Lelo stand in amongst the usual cosmetics. "Fly in
           | Pleasure", definitely got a laugh out of me.
           | 
           | Personally I think this is a good thing.
        
           | makeitdouble wrote:
           | I'm curious how do you define "prude". My definition of it
           | would be to be highly sensitive to sexual things, which is
           | basically why you'd be weirded at seeing them in a daily
           | place, for better or worse.
           | 
           | On their presence in the first place, I'd say if a shop is
           | going to sell condoms and lubricant, also holding basic sex
           | tools isn't a big stretch.
        
           | healsdata wrote:
           | Why? Those same stores have sold lube, condoms, and Trojan's
           | vibrators since the 90's. Walmart has sold lingerie since
           | they existed.
        
             | djur wrote:
             | They've also sold personal massagers that were used as (and
             | sometimes quietly designed as) sex toys for many years,
             | too.
        
           | jajko wrote:
           | Seems like you are a bit of prude :) No shame there, you are
           | fully entitled to your opinion in democracy
        
           | isatty wrote:
           | Why? Why is it weird that large box stores like Walmart and
           | target that literally sell everything, also sells vibrators?
        
         | rpdillon wrote:
         | > You don't get porn movies on Netflix or Disney stream. You
         | don't get adult toys in your local grocery store.
         | 
         | I'd be more interested in questioning these than why porn is
         | available on Steam. I mean, Disney is essentially an anti-porn
         | product, so I get that, but Netflix is a perfectly reasonable
         | platform for porn. I don't see any reason adult toys can't be
         | sold in Walmart or whatever.
         | 
         | > Backlash is inevitable.
         | 
         | I don't know. This doesn't seem like a grassroots movement.
        
           | paulddraper wrote:
           | Walmart does sell them. Next to pharmacy.
        
             | orbisvicis wrote:
             | Same. Some Targets.
        
             | netule wrote:
             | And that's a good thing. There are too many stories of
             | unsafe insertion of household objects ending up in the ER.
        
               | jajko wrote:
               | Lol I don't think that the reason for that is lack of
               | vibrators in nearest walmart
        
         | sexy_seedbox wrote:
         | Don Don Donki in Asia sell sex toys, the section is just behind
         | a curtain.
        
         | ramesh31 wrote:
         | >Why haven't game stores just spin off separate store front for
         | porn content? It is basically free, since they already have the
         | infrasructure.
         | 
         | Because the payment processing is unreliable and prohibitively
         | expensive. For all the whining about "moral pearl clutching",
         | the reality is that adult oriented businesses deal with
         | massively higher rates of fraud and charge-backs. Visa and
         | Mastercard couldn't care less about the ethical issues, it's
         | simply a risk calculation for their business.
        
           | IcyWindows wrote:
           | That's the clause in the agreement they use to justify the
           | increase in rates, but it's unclear it's actually "risky"
           | when it's a large company like Valve.
        
             | ramesh31 wrote:
             | >That's the clause in the agreement they use to justify the
             | increase in rates, but it's unclear it's actually "risky"
             | when it's a large company like Valve.
             | 
             | The risk is not from Valve; disputes pass through to the
             | processor. This is the same problem dating sites, gambling,
             | etc. all deal with. Any sufficiently large adult oriented
             | business becomes a de-facto payment processor, where their
             | entire core business function is in managing this risk, not
             | whatever they actually do for the end user. It's either
             | that, or charge the exorbitant fees that come with using a
             | niche provider who takes on that risk.
        
               | pfisch wrote:
               | Steam has been selling these games for years without ever
               | saying there was a problem with this. So has itch.
        
               | ramesh31 wrote:
               | >Steam has been selling these games for years without
               | ever saying there was a problem with this. So has itch.
               | 
               | Until now, when they did.
        
               | zbentley wrote:
               | So why did this happen now as opposed to 5-10 years ago?
               | What changed?
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | Actually they don't, visa heavily restricts those business
           | and the amount of chargebacks they are allowed to have, other
           | industries have much higher rates of chargeback.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | > the reality is that adult oriented businesses deal with
           | massively higher rates of fraud and charge-backs
           | 
           | This gets repeated, but it's not the real reason. If it were,
           | Visa/MasterCard would be fine with a store like Steam
           | offering those games as e.g. crypto-only purchases.
        
           | zbentley wrote:
           | Even if that's true (and it gets repeated as a very general
           | statement without general data to back it up, so I'm not
           | sure), then why couldn't payment processors either a) charge
           | retailers in high-risk segments a higher transaction fee, b)
           | charge merchants penalty fees if the number of chargebacks
           | from their transactions exceeds some threshold, or c) compete
           | with each other to serve higher-risk markets?
           | 
           | The answer is, I think, monopoly environments: they contain
           | poor incentive structures for competitive differentiation,
           | and encourage extreme risk aversion by the monopolists. Add
           | to that the "it's not really about chargebacks, it's a
           | culture war" agenda (which isn't just lobbying pressure on
           | payment processors; plenty of the calls are coming from
           | inside the house there), and the outcome of de facto
           | censorship is likely.
        
         | RajT88 wrote:
         | > You don't get adult toys in your local grocery store
         | 
         | In the US at least the classier vibrators have been starting to
         | be sold first at shops like Sharper Image, and now, indeed,
         | grocery stores. The packaging of course would not raise any
         | questions from kids, and they are sold in the same aisles as
         | condoms and lubricant. "Sexual health" is the umbrella term
         | which feels like it is in play.
        
           | zbentley wrote:
           | There is also a thriving wink-and-nod category of "personal
           | massager" tools which are sold in many department stores in
           | the US. They're usually not in supermarkets, but I get the
           | impression that's mostly due to supermarkets not having many
           | electronics/appliances in general, not because supermarkets
           | are more family-friendly than, say, Target.
        
         | gsich wrote:
         | >You don't get porn movies on Netflix or Disney stream. You
         | don't get adult toys in your local grocery store. Why do we
         | sell porn on Steam?
         | 
         | Why not? One shouldn't confuse games with real life.
        
         | trashface wrote:
         | I'm not sure is "very visible", there is some streisand-effect
         | going on with this issue. I've been a subscriber to steam
         | since...the beginning. Signed up for Steam to play half life 2
         | at its launch. And I didn't know there were porn games on steam
         | until this issue with mastercard/visa came up in the last week.
        
         | kulahan wrote:
         | Back in my day, we went to the blockbuster, and you had to
         | muster up the courage to walk back into the adults only
         | section!
        
         | sedatk wrote:
         | I've been using Steam as an adult for the last two decades. I
         | have hundreds of games in my library. I've never seen one porn
         | title recommended to me or while browsing the site.
         | 
         | Steam also has extensive parental controls:
         | https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/054C-3167-DD7F-49...
        
           | shepherdjerred wrote:
           | They popped up for me a few times without any prompting. It
           | was weird.
        
         | healsdata wrote:
         | Your own examples show the slippery slope this is. Walmart,
         | Netflix, and Disney all DO carry content that some people want
         | banned+. No matter what you're talking about, someone is going
         | to take offense and want the content removed entirely.
         | 
         | Collective Shout, the group behind this latest censorship push,
         | also wanted Detroit Become Human to be banned because the story
         | depicted someone abusing a child. If we're banning that, why
         | not ban memoirs of child abuse survivors or "James and the
         | Giant Peach"?
         | 
         | You suggest it would be easy for Steam and Itch to run
         | alternative storefronts. Given that they removed content that
         | was offensive to their payment processors, they'd need to
         | engage with high-risk payment processors to power these new
         | store fronts. To say nothing of the technical work involved,
         | those high-risk payment processors certainly charge more for
         | their services. That'd raise the already high 30% that Valve
         | takes on most transaction.
         | 
         | Additionally, if a games journalism website also has
         | relationships with payment processors, are they allowed to
         | review adult games even if those reviews don't include
         | pictures? Or are they going to be equally punished for giving
         | adult content a positive rating?
         | 
         | This all limits the options available of responsible adult
         | consumers and costs creators of LEGAL content revenue.
         | 
         | ===
         | 
         | +Here's a longer look at your examples:
         | 
         | Define adult toys. I assume you mean dildos. Walmart doesn't
         | sell those in physical stores, but they do sell them online.
         | Additionally they, like most other stores, do sell lube,
         | condoms, and vibrating rings in their brick and mortar store.
         | Every clothing store that sells underwear sells something many
         | would describe as lingerie. Target has an entire lineup of
         | "after dark" board games stocked right next to Candyland.
         | 
         | "After Netflix published a marketing poster showing the [11
         | year old girls] twerking in revealing cheerleading outfits
         | without any context, an online petition calling for the
         | cancellation of the US release received more than 140 thousand
         | signatures."
         | 
         | 'According to a source close to the production, Pixar's next
         | feature film, "Lightyear" does feature a significant female
         | character, Hawthorne, who is in a meaningful relationship with
         | another woman. While the fact of that relationship was never in
         | question at the studio, a kiss between the characters had been
         | cut from the film. Following the uproar surrounding the Pixar
         | employees' statement and Disney CEO Bob Chapek's handling of
         | the "Don't Say Gay" bill, however, the kiss was reinstated into
         | the movie last week.'
        
         | aiisjustanif wrote:
         | CVS and Walgreens in the USA sell adult toys.
         | 
         | Bookstores have adult book with images and kids books.
         | 
         | Walmart also sells some adult toys, lubricant, and condoms.
         | They also sell magazines with nudity.
         | 
         | ESPN did The Body Issue magazine in stores for a decade [1]
         | 
         | If a kid has access to steam, do they not have access to the
         | internet? If you are parental blocking the internet, then why
         | not steam?
         | 
         | [1]: https://www.espn.com/espn/feature/story/_/id/27400369/the-
         | bo...
        
       | j_timberlake wrote:
       | All the real hentai trash is on DLsite anyway. These people
       | probably have no idea, and even if they did, they're powerless to
       | change Japan. They'd definitely give up after encountering Kanji.
        
         | VerdisQuo5678 wrote:
         | ...sweet summer child visa is hitting DLSite hard
         | https://cs.dlsite.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500002888202-What-p...
         | actually it seems all the major western credit card players
         | have already blocked them. i remember seeing pay with crypto so
         | i guess thats what you need to use in the west
        
           | npteljes wrote:
           | Another framing of this: Mastercard / Visa, and by extension
           | whomever had them to do the crackdown, are now powerless to
           | change DLSite.
           | 
           | Googling for news, it seems like the story between DLSite and
           | M/V is a push and pull. Many articles turn up that say they
           | have an agreement, then a disagreement, then an agreement
           | again, then a suspension, then they bring it back again etc.
           | 
           | My point here is that their relationship with M/V seems to
           | have failed to actually change them, so, the point "they're
           | powerless to change Japan" stands.
        
           | j_timberlake wrote:
           | No shit, people just use a different credit card, instead of
           | the site pulling a game or shuttering, because these groups
           | have no power beyond pestering Visa.
           | 
           | Not that anyone saying "sweet summer child" ever had anything
           | smart to say.
           | 
           | "i remember seeing pay with crypto so i guess thats what you
           | need to use in the west"
           | 
           | In other words you know nothing and couldn't be bothered to
           | look it up before posting.
        
       | mkzetta wrote:
       | I'm assuming this is driven by stakeholders in the legacy porn
       | business prompted to anticompetitive action by generative AI
       | tools seriously threatening their monopoly on sexual content for
       | the first time. There has always been a huge barrier to entry
       | into porn for non-seedy, non-abusive, and mentally stable people.
       | Art-based content like games are both much easier to create
       | without a human trafficking network and are usually far more
       | wholesome than the prevalent legacy porn tropes, which often
       | center around incest, coercion, chauvinistic infidelity or
       | miscegenation, and other disgusting themes. I am hoping there are
       | people archiving this content for future sociological study.
        
       | fl1pper wrote:
       | For your kids, you can set up a child account where you can block
       | content they can see, adult content included. Actually, it works
       | for basic accounts as well, you can filter out adult content and
       | don't have this kind of problem :)
        
       | TeeMassive wrote:
       | The fact that we can let a duopoly of payment processors dictate
       | the morals of our societies based on the morals of a few militant
       | cluster B "concerned moms" is very very scary.
        
       | darqis wrote:
       | what's so bad about human sexuality that it always needs to be
       | censored?
        
       | aussieguy1234 wrote:
       | For those who think this is about just banning adult content,
       | think again. What's actually happening is any content disliked by
       | certain billionaires is being flagged by payment providers under
       | their influence.
       | 
       | Some examples, like this one are for porn but the same approach
       | could be used for anything even remotely controversial.
       | 
       | Anyway, maybe Witcher 3 could be next. Great game, but it happens
       | to have some sex scenes, so....
        
       | hnpolicestate wrote:
       | The solution to those who would like to play porn games is not
       | relying on developers to make them or Steam to host them but
       | using an LLM to build them for you, and your SSD to host them.
        
       | cherioo wrote:
       | On July 29 2022, Judge Cormac Carney of the U.S. District Court
       | for the Central District of California held that Brown Rudnick
       | had adequately alleged facts in the Fleites v. MindGeek case that
       | Visa engaged in a criminal conspiracy with MindGeek to monetize
       | child pornography. Judge Carney also granted the plaintiff
       | discovery that will reveal the relationships between the hundreds
       | of allegedly sham organizations and the secret owners behind this
       | alleged criminal trafficking internet platform.
        
       | snvzz wrote:
       | https://archive.is/enjt7
        
       | jjaksic wrote:
       | This is somewhat tangential: people are debating a lot whether
       | porn has negative effects, but has anyone thought about or
       | studied positive effects? I personally think it's more likely for
       | porn to have positive effects and that it's preferable to sexual
       | deprivation. Horny and sexually deprived people tend to sometimes
       | do awful things like sexual harassment or even rape, but if they
       | have access to porn, they're much less likely to do those things.
        
         | password54321 wrote:
         | You just described the problem. You want men to be pacified
         | through their screen rather than engaging with real women.
         | 
         | You aren't the only one who seems to think this way though, we
         | have more things than ever to pacify men and even increase
         | estrogen and decrease testosterone probably because some
         | believe that men are inherently dangerous.
        
       | stuaxo wrote:
       | This is one (of many) reasons why moving away from cash is bad.
       | 
       | We shouldn't be privatising money.
        
       | cgio wrote:
       | I find the overall discussion on this topic interesting, but it
       | feels like we could emphasise a bit more how this is related with
       | the transition of discourse from freedom to righteousness. In
       | this context, arguing the fairness of being free is just an
       | admission that freedom is now a secondary line of argumentation.
       | As an outsider to the US, it also seems a bit ironic to my
       | uninformed eyes that a heavily liberal part of the society
       | effectively and efficiently co opted the fairness, equality,
       | morality vector to drive an agenda of less liberalism in the
       | interest of winning against non liberal movements.
        
       | linuxhansl wrote:
       | Why do you people always presume they know what is best for
       | _other_ people?
       | 
       | Don't like porn? Cool, don't buy it or avert your eyes! As if
       | this would stop anybody from getting access to pornographic
       | content.
        
         | npteljes wrote:
         | Some people actually care for the whole, or for the
         | wholesomeness of a specific subset. This includes (on the face)
         | most people who participate in public life. Which is a lot of
         | people!
         | 
         | >Don't like porn? Cool, don't buy it or avert your eyes!
         | 
         | Why do _you_ then tell others how to live their lives? Is
         | really leaving everyone to their own devices the good idea?
         | 
         | >As if this would stop anybody from getting access to
         | pornographic content.
         | 
         | There is a good difference between something being generally
         | available to access (and getting promoted even), and being
         | technically available to some. There _is_ material worthy of
         | being suppressed, hate speech and calls for violence being some
         | of them. Did this censorship stop anybody to access Mein Kampf
         | or other such vile stuff? Not really, but it helps a lot that
         | these are not in the front and center.
         | 
         | EDIT: I invite downvoters to voice their point
        
           | simoncion wrote:
           | I'm not a downvoter, but I have a few minutes to kill, so
           | sure, I'll bite.
           | 
           | > Why do you then tell others how to live their lives?
           | 
           | In all reasonably-free societies, the default stance is "Mind
           | your damn business, and everyone else will mind theirs.".
           | Deviations from that default veer into "telling other people
           | how to live their lives" territory. Sometimes it's right and
           | proper to actively interfere in the lives of others. It is
           | occasionally even _extremely_ important to do this. But -the
           | majority of the time- the folks doing this are nothing more
           | than busybodies sticking their noses in other people 's
           | business.
           | 
           | You might think that US-based businesses should not be
           | permitted to accept payments tendered by the two major credit
           | and debit card processors for the sale of more-extreme
           | pornographic content. I think it's none of those processors'
           | business _what_ legal goods consenting adults purchase using
           | their systems.
           | 
           | Given Visa and MasterCard's enormous size, I think it's
           | absolutely _essential_ that they not be permitted to refuse
           | any legal purchase for any reason other than credible
           | suspicion of fraud. You may feel differently. You 're totally
           | entitled to that opinion.
        
             | npteljes wrote:
             | I definitely agree on the payment processor situation. In
             | my opinion, businesses should also be free to refuse
             | business for whatever reason, but, with the very important
             | caveat that when they so large that to be considered a
             | utility, they can't refuse legal business, like in this
             | case Mastercard and Visa. There is not exactly an
             | alternative to them.
             | 
             | The point I'm more interested in here is the "Why do you
             | people always presume they know what is best for other
             | people?". To which my answer is that many people make it
             | their job to care about what people are exposed to. Often
             | it's rooted in extensive experience and literature. I don't
             | think it's a good notion to outright disregard everyone who
             | seems to have a better idea on how people should live.
             | Among other things, not everyone needs to make the same
             | mistakes over and over again, like falling into an
             | addiction, just because "they can't tell me to not fall
             | into this addiction".
             | 
             | And yeah, there will be a lot of busybodies as well. When
             | there's power, there will be abuse as well.
        
       | eps wrote:
       | Here's the list of removed games. It's worth a look.
       | 
       | https://bannedgames.netlify.app/
        
       | marcjensen wrote:
       | In many countries, the sale of alcohol is restricted because the
       | majority agrees that it is harmful to society. The same should be
       | done with pornographic content. However, we are only beginning to
       | learn how to efficiently limit it. Things like this will happen,
       | but it will improve over time. Overall, I see positive progress
       | here.
        
         | animal531 wrote:
         | That's to stop children from accessing it while this stops
         | anyone from doing so. The two aren't equivalent.
        
       | myflash13 wrote:
       | I don't understand people who defend porn access. Porn is an
       | addictive behavior with measurable effects on the brain similar
       | to hard drugs. We regulate gambling, paid access to porn is
       | worse. Furthermore it is fraught with misogyny and exploitation
       | and objectification of women. Would you defend ISIS games on
       | Steam promoting Taliban-style patriarchy? Porn is worse.
        
         | jMyles wrote:
         | > Porn is an addictive behavior with measurable effects on the
         | brain similar to hard drugs.
         | 
         | This comparison alone soundly defeats your argument.
         | Prohibition of hard drugs has been a spectacular failure,
         | directly resulting in increased rates of death, disease, and
         | crime, and elevating drug cartels to enormous international
         | influence.
         | 
         | The danger of porn as an addictive substance - which is very
         | real as you point out - is a great argument against its
         | prohibition.
        
       | lousken wrote:
       | EU introduced their own solution, but I still don't see it
        
       | zanfr wrote:
       | payment processors shouldn't even be a thing; it should between
       | the store and the customer. period.
        
         | 6c696e7578 wrote:
         | I don't particularly like bitcoin, but isn't that one route for
         | them?
        
       | heisenbit wrote:
       | Based on https://blog.osum.com/steam-market-share/ (no idea how
       | accurate) Steam holds 75% market share. One could make an
       | argument that it may be a gatekeeper to the market and should be
       | more closely regulated for commercial and free speech reasons.
        
       | mlboss wrote:
       | We need cash payment as a service
        
       | dyauspitr wrote:
       | With graphics being so realistic now I've always wanted a "AAA"
       | porn game. Why don't we have one yet? It can't be lack of demand.
       | Hell build a light RPG around it and it will sell in the
       | millions.
        
       | Razengan wrote:
       | So, wait, Apple is bad, is abusing a monopoly etc., if Apple
       | disallows certain things on their platform
       | 
       | But Visa & Mastercard can get away with it for decades with
       | abandon?? Dictating EVERYTHING in EVERY economy and on EVERY
       | store?!
        
       | wormius wrote:
       | Just closed my dev acct (only had an old 2015 puzzle game I made,
       | 2 sales, no huge deal personally), but decided to put my 4.57
       | where my mouth is (no payout, waaaaaaah, cuz 5 dollar minimum).
       | And told them exactly why I am doing so.
       | 
       | Money talks, and it's one of the few ways I have to show my
       | opposition. I hope others will do the same. It's sad, because
       | itch is kinda one of the last few places for "indie" as a thing
       | with the vibe of indies, at least (I mean they aren't Steam or
       | the other big publishers). I'm surprised Epic didn't buy them out
       | yet just like they did with Bandcamp. Probably next on the block.
        
       | wormius wrote:
       | Also - like... I absolutely hate cryptocurrency, but if this is
       | what it comes to, then make that a payment option, and leave up
       | the "bad naughty legal stuff" for us consenting adults to decide
       | (but I know, it won't be legal for long as these reactionaries
       | keep pummeling away at free speech while using the rhetoric of
       | 'Free Speech' to gain further control of communication systems).
        
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