[HN Gopher] Valve confirms credit card companies pressured it to...
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       Valve confirms credit card companies pressured it to delist certain
       adult games
        
       Author : freedomben
       Score  : 826 points
       Date   : 2025-07-18 15:54 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | timpera wrote:
       | Considering their volume, I find it hard to believe that Valve
       | couldn't find another, more lenient payment processor with
       | similar fees.
        
         | ranger_danger wrote:
         | My understanding is that it's not just the processor, but
         | Visa/Mastercard themselves have rules against certain types of
         | merchants/products... they really have a monopoly on credit
         | cards in general so you have to play by their rules.
        
           | jajuuka wrote:
           | Yep, they are a just a modern day mafia. "Would be a real
           | shame if you didn't take down these games. Then we couldn't
           | do business with you anymore."
        
           | Ancapistani wrote:
           | You're right, but it's slightly more complicated than that.
           | 
           | My understanding is that payment processors are obligated to
           | follow the policies of Visa/MasterCard, AmEx, and Discover,
           | but that those parties' policies don't _explicitly_ ban these
           | specific things for sale. Instead, they  "strongly encourage"
           | processors to ban them in their user agreements under the
           | implicit threat of their risk level being increased, which in
           | turn impacts the fees they pay to the credit card companies.
           | 
           | I've not been deep in this world since ~2014, but at that
           | time the only processor I could find that wasn't specific to
           | the porn industry, offered physical terminals, had reasonable
           | (if high) fees, and didn't ban legal transactions in their
           | user agreement was PAI ("Payment Alliance International"). A
           | quick look at their site today shows that they seem to have
           | been acquired by Brinks, so that may no longer be the case.
        
             | Mindwipe wrote:
             | MasterCard have a specific restricted list that bans an
             | awful lot of things in any adult context.
             | 
             | Some of how to interpret that is left up to the processor,
             | but it is broadly under MCs and to a lesser extent Visa's
             | control.
        
         | bobsmooth wrote:
         | There are no other payment processors.
        
           | slaw wrote:
           | There are national issuers like JCB or UnionPay.
        
             | latentsea wrote:
             | I'm getting a JCB card. Screw Visa.
        
           | vouaobrasil wrote:
           | In some countries there are other systems. It's high time the
           | modern world adopted something similar like Pix in Brazil.
        
           | raincole wrote:
           | There are no other payment processors that can replace
           | Visa/Mastercard*.
           | 
           | There are other payment processors in
           | India/Japan/China/Brazil/etc. But none of them is
           | internationally adopted like Visa/Mastercard.
        
             | jandrese wrote:
             | Is it the case the Mastercard/Visa will reject a site that
             | has such content even if you can only purchase it using
             | ValveBucks or PayPal or something? That seems plausible.
        
         | astura wrote:
         | Adult content has a high chargeback rate and high fraud rates
         | so payment processing for adult content has higher fees.
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | Which makes less sense when you consider Steam will refund
           | you game if you dont want it.
        
             | david38 wrote:
             | I don't think you understand what's being said. He's not
             | talking about the ability to refund
        
               | jowea wrote:
               | But is there a good reason to do a chargeback if you can
               | easily refund it? Yes if someone stole the CC and used it
               | buy something on Steam, but is that the concern or that
               | someone buys something with a CC on their own account,
               | and then chargebacks instead of refunding?
        
           | Dylan16807 wrote:
           | People say that a lot but I haven't seen actual statistics,
           | and sites that have established low chargeback rates face the
           | same issues.
           | 
           | Also that's not a reason to ban certain genres/kinks, which
           | is what's happening here.
        
           | AIPedant wrote:
           | The fact that these were specifically incest games makes me
           | think a title was somehow involved in distributing CSAM,
           | which is often why Visa/MC crack down on porn websites.
           | 
           | But it is possible that Visa sensibly and correctly said
           | "anyone who makes or purchases such a game is a despicable
           | scumbag, and we shouldn't assume the financial risk of
           | dealing with them."
        
             | Dylan16807 wrote:
             | That's a pretty wild idea for what someone would be putting
             | on steam as a visual novel. And why would they need to be
             | pressured into removing horrible illegal content?
             | 
             | Or you think one person did that and it made the credit
             | cards decide any story with incest would be the same? That
             | would be ridiculous on their part.
        
             | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
             | I think the government should be the one deciding what
             | makes someone qualify as a despicable scumbag, not a
             | private payment processor that is essentially acting as a
             | utility provider. For the same reason, I also don't think
             | an electric company should be allowed to shut cancel your
             | building's electricity if they don't like your mismatched
             | socks.
        
           | neuroelectron wrote:
           | You need to be more specific. Conflating "adult content" with
           | porn is both problematic is masks the real issue. A large
           | majority of games Valve sells are adult content. But as you
           | can imagine grand theft auto is not causing a lot of
           | political backlash, despite the objectionable content.
        
             | Am4TIfIsER0ppos wrote:
             | You say that but the same censors behind this also got GTA5
             | pulled from retail stores
        
         | gorwell wrote:
         | They could support a stablecoin like USDC and start pushing
         | people to that. No censorship and lower fees. Valve broke
         | ground with Steam, they could do it again.
        
           | edm0nd wrote:
           | nah. USDC funds can be frozen by Circle on demand/request.
        
             | drexlspivey wrote:
             | You wouldn't be buying or holding any USDC in your account.
             | It would be invisible to you
        
               | gs17 wrote:
               | Would you care to explain the process more? I'd be glad
               | to see a useful application of crypto.
        
               | wmf wrote:
               | The problem with that is that you usually end up using
               | traditional payment rails (e.g. a Visa debit card) to
               | "invisibly" buy the stablecoin and then you're subject to
               | their rules and fees again.
        
         | wmf wrote:
         | It complicates things to have some games that can be purchased
         | with credit cards and some games that can only be purchased
         | with crypto.
        
           | Hemospectrum wrote:
           | If they continued to carry _any_ of the games that were
           | singled out for removal by Visa and Mastercard, they would
           | not be able to accept credit card payments for _anything else
           | in their store_. This same drama has played out the same way
           | with countless other online services.
        
         | tencentshill wrote:
         | Controversial games being restricted to purchase only with
         | Steam Points. The credit card is only ever charged to buy
         | points, which can then be used to purchase items on the store.
         | Similar to fortnite.
        
           | devnullbrain wrote:
           | Or similar to DLSite and Fantia, where it didn't work.
        
       | ranger_danger wrote:
       | What can be done to loosen card companies' grip on this? It has
       | been a constant problem now for decades.
        
         | bobsmooth wrote:
         | Bitcoin was supposed to solve this.
        
           | gloryjulio wrote:
           | Exactly. It's really a tragedy that crypto becomes a
           | speculator's tool, and the real problem didn't even get
           | solved.
        
           | lawn wrote:
           | And you could indeed use Bitcoin on Steam for a while!
           | 
           | But then the blocks got full, fees and wait times
           | skyrocketed, and in response to the customer backlash Steam
           | removed Bitcoin.
           | 
           | Meanwhile Bitcoiners were (and still are) only focused on
           | number go up instead of other, more productive, use cases.
           | 
           | Such a waste.
        
             | kingo55 wrote:
             | There's now Ethereum, Base and Solana featuring US dollar
             | stablecoins and significantly cheaper fees. If you want to
             | go a step further and eliminate the stablecoin issuer's
             | counterparty risk you could even pay in the base asset of
             | ETH. Shopify allows payments from crypto now, so Steam
             | should try it again.
             | 
             | Good luck censoring purchases on ETH.
        
               | paulryanrogers wrote:
               | Even stablecoins aren't so great for the environment.
               | Proof of stake isn't as bad, but also doesn't offer much
               | beyond traditional systems once KYC is needed.
               | 
               | Am I missing something?
        
               | ETH_start wrote:
               | Stablecoins are great. The only way to be debanked is if
               | the stablecoin issuer explicitly blacklists your address,
               | which is a public act which they will be forced to
               | justify.
               | 
               | And Ethereum's Proof of Stake algorithm is highly
               | censorship resistant. That's why it took seven years to
               | design.
        
               | lawn wrote:
               | There are plenty of alternatives to Bitcoin payments in
               | the crypto space.
               | 
               | The problem isn't technical, the problem is getting
               | people to care.
        
             | swinglock wrote:
             | They built the lightning network, it's meant for this use
             | case.
        
               | lawn wrote:
               | Unfortunately it's shit at it. The user experience of
               | using another currency or hell even just Bitcoin is far
               | superior.
        
           | miohtama wrote:
           | You can get Pornhub subscription with Bitcoin, but not credit
           | card.
        
         | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
         | Likely nothing.
         | 
         | The simple fact is, Visa/MC don't want to deal with porn
         | because the number of chargebacks and fraud from porn purchases
         | is significant and a huge outlier compared to most other
         | charges. Their crusade against processing charges for adult
         | material isn't about purity, it's simply business.
        
           | blibble wrote:
           | I can't imagine people are risking their steam accounts to
           | ripoff a $5 adult game
        
           | mnmalst wrote:
           | Can you link a reliable source for this claim? I personally
           | couldn't find anything with substance.
        
           | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
           | I doubt it. If that were the case, I think they would only be
           | complaining to Valve about the number of chargebacks issued
           | from the Steam store. Not about genres-that-are-correlated-
           | with-chargebacks-in-other-contexts.
           | 
           | Given Valve's generous refund policies, and the fact that a
           | steam store purchase on your credit card statement looks
           | quite innocent, and that the credit card companies didn't
           | complain to Valve about chargebacks but about content, my
           | guess is there are hardly any chargebacks, and this is just
           | about moral purity.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | > Given Valve's generous refund policies,
             | 
             | Their generous refund policy, and more importantly their
             | very-non-generous chargeback policy. If you chargeback a
             | Steam purchase, your account is locked.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | I'm not sure I buy the chargeback angle. It's commonly
           | trotted out as a reason card companies would enforce
           | censorship, but it doesn't make sense with the actions they
           | take. Chargeback fees are paid by the merchant regardless of
           | the chargeback's success, and are supposed to cover the costs
           | of administering it (and then some). The very selective rules
           | applied here are pretty odd from that angle too, if adult
           | content chargebacks/fraud is the issue, then _all_ of it
           | should be the issue, not small niches.
           | 
           | Fraud is likely more realistic of an issue, but that's
           | probably an issue with games in general, not just adult
           | titles.
           | 
           | There are already high-risk merchant accounts with higher
           | fees and cash reserve requirements, but AFAIK companies like
           | Valve aren't being given any options other than comply or be
           | destroyed.
        
           | giraffe_lady wrote:
           | That's not true, anti-sex work and anti-porn activists have
           | specifically been pressuring payment processors to assume
           | these policies. The processors as the critical control point
           | of this whole thing was identified decades ago and
           | conservative christian think tanks have been pursuing this
           | path since then.
           | 
           | This is part of a long-term plan to de facto ban lgbtq
           | content without having to deal with first amendment
           | protections. First have the payment processors ban explicit
           | content, then have queer content categorized as explicit.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | Visa charge a fee for processing chargebacks, and this will
           | be a tiny fraction of Steam sales. I doubt it's their
           | concern.
        
         | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
         | in a word, regulation.
        
         | niemandhier wrote:
         | Regulation and anti cartel laws.
         | 
         | Adult business is legitimate business in many parts of the
         | world and companies using their monopoly to suppress it should
         | be a case for an Investigation.
        
         | lotsofpulp wrote:
         | Use ACH/Zelle/Paypal/etc.
         | 
         | The permanent solution is a federal government operated
         | electronic money system operated as a utility with
         | constitutionally protected rights.
        
           | majorchord wrote:
           | Those solutions might work for _some_ people in _some_
           | countries, but I would argue that it 's not acceptable for
           | the vast majority of customers, and they would lose a very
           | significant portion of revenue.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | PayPal has also been involved in this.
        
         | jowea wrote:
         | Instant payment systems that go direct from bank to bank,
         | assuming the banks, the government or any other intermediaries
         | don't also decide to not allow it.
         | 
         | Or cryptocurrency, I guess.
        
         | Symbiote wrote:
         | Denmark has seen a trend where their national card network
         | (Dankort, operating at the equivalent level to Visa and
         | Mastercard) is seeing reduced usage.
         | 
         | They're aiming to reverse that trend.
         | 
         | https://cphpost.dk/2025-06-28/general/new-political-agreemen...
         | 
         | Not all European countries still have these independent
         | networks.
        
           | herbstein wrote:
           | Seeing reduced use partially because only a few banks support
           | using it in Apple Pay. And Google Pay can't support it at all
           | currently
        
             | encom wrote:
             | Dane here, and I just don't see the point of using Apple or
             | Google pay. Aside from not wanting American tech
             | interfering in, or data harvesting, my finances, it's not
             | any easier to use. I just touch my card to the terminal and
             | payment happens. Some times, or if the amount is over some
             | limit, I have to enter a pin. I cringe every time I see
             | someone contorting their arm to pay with their watch. It's
             | tech for the sake of tech.
             | 
             | Sincerely, Ted K.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Choose a payment system by a company that is not as
         | opinionated. Apple pay, for example.
        
           | zanfr wrote:
           | AHA AHAHAAH AAHAHAAHA nice one
        
         | Integer wrote:
         | In Europe, Wero[1] has a chance to become the de-facto payment
         | system, once it's supported by more banks in more countries and
         | adds online payments functionality.
         | 
         | [1]https://wero-wallet.eu/
        
       | blibble wrote:
       | if I was doing a couple of billion a year in transactions then
       | the payment processor would be told where to shove it
        
         | maplant wrote:
         | Okay, then you'd go from a billion a year to zero.
         | Congratulations.
        
           | Der_Einzige wrote:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Un4p-6lzIpI
        
         | david38 wrote:
         | You clearly think in small terms then. Trillion dollar fish eat
         | billion dollar fish
        
         | IshKebab wrote:
         | A couple of billion is an insignificant fraction of the
         | $10000bn MasterCard processes every year.
        
           | blibble wrote:
           | which is relevant how exactly?
           | 
           | merchants don't deal with mastercard, they deal with an
           | acquiring bank
           | 
           | of which there are hundreds
           | 
           | no doubt one of which will be happy to take the business
        
             | IshKebab wrote:
             | Mastercard appears to be involved in the pressuring. You
             | can't avoid them.
        
               | blibble wrote:
               | certainly not explicitly mentioned in the article
               | 
               | and I very doubt it's the case, the card networks simply
               | don't care, given you can buy adult entertainment from
               | millions of websites
               | 
               | the acquirer will care if it pushes up their chargeback
               | rate, but this is normally solved by the merchant by
               | paying a couple of bps more
               | 
               | it's a negotiating tactic, nothing more
        
               | majorchord wrote:
               | https://nationwidepaymentsystems.com/mastercards-policy-
               | on-a...
        
       | kevingadd wrote:
       | It's interesting that Valve sort of put themselves in this
       | situation by opting not to police their store anymore.
       | 
       | I'm personally a fan of fewer restrictions on content in video
       | games and fewer "gatekeepers" but it's kind of inevitable that
       | people would get upset when you chose to allow people to sell
       | games like "Sex With Hitler" and "Pimp Life: Sex Simulator".
       | Deciding to allow that content on your store and simultaneously
       | not going to bat for it is weird, it's like they decided to just
       | get the porn money while they could as a short-term boost to
       | revenue.
       | 
       | Itch.io still has fewer restrictions but I assume they'll
       | eventually have to clamp down too once payment processors cut
       | them off - they don't have the financial resources to fight it
       | like Valve or Epic do.
       | 
       | Interestingly Nintendo has as of late relaxed their restrictions
       | too, you can find porn-adjacent shovelware on the Switch eShop
       | despite their history of being very censorious. I wonder if
       | payment processors will successfully push them around too or if
       | Nintendo is too big to get pushed around.
        
         | Dylan16807 wrote:
         | > it's kind of inevitable that people would get upset when you
         | chose to allow people to sell games like "Sex With Hitler" and
         | "Pimp Life: Sex Simulator".
         | 
         | The problem isn't some people being upset, it's that a single
         | digit number of companies effectively control the ability for
         | anyone else in the world to do business with them. Those
         | companies get lobbied as much as politicians but with no
         | accountability and any overreach being far less visible. And no
         | freedom of speech rules.
        
         | nottorp wrote:
         | The question is: has "kill in the name of Hitler" also been
         | banned, or is that okay with Visa/MC?
        
           | AraceliHarker wrote:
           | I don't need your 'what ifs' and 'could haves.' Indiana Jones
           | and the Great Circle is actually available on Steam, and
           | that's good enough.
        
             | nottorp wrote:
             | Looks to me like you read the opposite of what i wrote
             | though.
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | Most Japanese adult game publishers had (some of) their games
         | rejected from Steam.
         | 
         | Steam does police their store. It's just that Visa/Mastercard
         | don't approve of how they police it.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | What does "police" mean? They don't allow illegal content,
         | that's policing no? You want more policing like morality
         | police?
        
           | yupyupyups wrote:
           | Yes, people have other moral values than yours and will act
           | upon them.
        
       | arprocter wrote:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melinda_Tankard_Reist#Collecti...
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | > a "pro-life feminist"
         | 
         | What.
         | 
         | Seriously what? I thought pro-choice is a core tenet of
         | feminism?
        
           | Ancapistani wrote:
           | Why would it be?
           | 
           | I live in a red state in the South. I'd say about 2/3 of the
           | women I know well enough to be confident of their politics to
           | that degree of detail would describe themselves as both
           | feminists and anti-abortion/pro-life.
           | 
           | If you want to put a name to it, they're basically second-
           | wave feminists with a few third-wave beliefs tacked on.
           | 
           | The real lesson here is that politics are nuanced, and the US
           | party dichotomy doesn't come close to covering it.
           | 
           | I consider myself an AnCap (shocking given my username, I
           | know), but grew up here surrounded by Republicans. I fit in
           | well enough overall because this is where I developed my
           | "social mask" in the first place. I lived in a community with
           | nearly directly opposite politics (Charlottesville, VA) for a
           | few years and found that I fit in pretty well with that crowd
           | as well.
           | 
           | I share enough with both parties that I can have
           | conversations on things that I agree with them on and connect
           | to the point that they assume that I'm "one of them".
           | Invariably, once conversation turns to other topics I'm
           | accused of being a member of the other party. It's to the
           | point that it amuses me when it happens, and I frankly enjoy
           | being in a place where I can connect with most everyone and
           | serve as a sort of translator: I've spent enough time "in
           | enemy territory" from their perspectives that I can explain
           | the other side's position fairly and with empathy while
           | explicitly not holding that position. It makes for
           | stimulating conversation with little risk of offense.
        
             | pazimzadeh wrote:
             | Because "anti-abortion/pro-life" removes a right from
             | women. Trading the rights of a developed adult for the
             | rights of a hypothetical future person.
             | 
             | What does ancapistanism have to do with it? Is there a non-
             | religious reason to be against the right to choose abortion
             | up to 24 weeks of pregnancy?
        
               | dmix wrote:
               | Well social/religious conservatives often think the child
               | has rights even during pregnancy so it's not as simple as
               | the mothers rights.
               | 
               | The libertarian view tends to much more favour the
               | parents rights to make choices for their children if I
               | remember correctly, and obviously favour the option where
               | the government isn't deciding for them.
        
               | Ancapistani wrote:
               | Exactly.
               | 
               | My personal belief is that life begins at conception. As
               | a result, I'm opposed to abortion in all cases.
               | 
               | ... but I'm also an anarchist, and therefore believe it
               | is emphatically not the state's role to make these types
               | of decisions for people.
               | 
               | I don't think there is a "right answer" here in terms of
               | policy. Some large portion of the people will see it as a
               | violation of their rights no matter how extreme or
               | nuanced the line is drawn.
        
               | xcrunner529 wrote:
               | There is no unique dna at conception. I know this is fun
               | to repeat but it really shows you ignore science. .
        
               | pazimzadeh wrote:
               | Right, is there a non-religious reason to be against the
               | right to choose to abort early during pregnancy?
        
               | userbinator wrote:
               | If you want population growth.
        
               | pazimzadeh wrote:
               | a moral reason
        
               | bigstrat2003 wrote:
               | > Is there a non-religious reason to be against the right
               | to choose abortion up to 24 weeks of pregnancy?
               | 
               | Of course there is. It's not hard to construct an
               | argument to that effect either. For example: let's agree
               | for the sake of argument that a newborn has moral rights,
               | and that gametes do not. It doesn't make much sense to
               | give the fetus moral rights only based on its physical
               | location, therefore at some point between conception and
               | birth the fetus gains moral rights. No matter what point
               | n we choose, the objection "why is one day earlier any
               | better" seems pretty persuasive. Therefore, by induction,
               | the only point for assigning rights which can't be argued
               | against in that way is at conception. Thus, we should
               | disallow abortion so we aren't depriving the fetus of its
               | rights.
               | 
               | I'm not saying that's a bulletproof argument. Indeed the
               | argument doesn't even need to be correct for my point. My
               | point is that nothing about that argument requires any
               | religious belief whatsoever. So it is possible. I'm also
               | quite certain that a cleverer person than I could
               | construct a better argument which still doesn't require
               | any religious dogma. This is an _ethical_ topic, not a
               | religious one. Obviously religion has a lot to say on
               | ethics, but that 's no reason to believe that secular
               | arguments against abortion can't exist.
        
               | pazimzadeh wrote:
               | cool, then sperm and eggs have moral rights
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | > No matter what point n we choose, the objection "why is
               | one day earlier any better" seems pretty persuasive.
               | Therefore, by induction
               | 
               | That's not persuasive at all. It's not just not
               | "bulletproof", it's blatantly wrong. Also you can make
               | the same argument in the other direction.
               | 
               | > Indeed the argument doesn't even need to be correct for
               | my point. My point is that nothing about that argument
               | requires any religious belief whatsoever.
               | 
               | They wanted someone to give a _plausible_ argument that
               | isn 't religious.
               | 
               | > no reason to believe that secular arguments against
               | abortion can't exist
               | 
               | I care about the merits of positions that people actually
               | have, not theoretical positions.
               | 
               | And in the general case, if nobody can be found that has
               | a simple position, that _is_ a reason to believe it 's
               | not a coherent position.
        
               | kaibee wrote:
               | > Therefore, by induction,
               | 
               | One grain of sand is a small amount of sand. Two grains
               | of sand is a small amount of sand. Therefore, by
               | induction, any amount of grains of sand is a small amount
               | of sand. The Sahara contains a small amount of sand.
               | 
               | This is fun.
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | "For example: let's agree for the sake of argument that a
               | newborn has moral rights, and that gametes do not. It
               | doesn't make much sense to give the fetus moral rights
               | only based on its physical location, therefore at some
               | point between conception and birth the fetus gains moral
               | rights. No matter what point n we choose, the objection
               | "why is one day earlier any better" seems pretty
               | persuasive. Therefore, by induction, the only point for
               | assigning rights which can't be argued against in that
               | way is at conception. Thus, we should disallow abortion
               | so we aren't depriving the fetus of its rights."
               | 
               | That's roughly my position, as an atheist libertarian.
               | although I don't back it up all the way to conception,
               | just to a point in early pregnancy where it seems
               | overwhelmingly clear the fetus has no attributes which
               | could reasonably demand respect for rights.
               | 
               | Abortion has been conflated with feminism, like how, say,
               | tariffs are conflated with Republicans right now, but
               | there's no ideological necessity for that. Just cultural
               | trends.
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | > although I don't back it up all the way to conception,
               | just to a point in early pregnancy where it seems
               | overwhelmingly clear the fetus has no attributes which
               | could reasonably demand respect for rights.
               | 
               | Sounds like you're not actually using that deeply flawed
               | argument then. You're making the distinction that not
               | every day has the same effect.
               | 
               | And could you estimate how many weeks you put that point
               | at?
        
               | Ancapistani wrote:
               | > Because "anti-abortion/pro-life" removes a right from
               | women. Trading the rights of a developed adult for the
               | rights of a hypothetical future person.
               | 
               | Their perspective is that abortion is killing a human
               | being. Given that, it's entirely consistent.
               | 
               | > What does ancapistanism have to do with it?
               | 
               | Nothing, other than that I was providing some context on
               | where I'm coming from.
               | 
               | > Is there a non-religious reason to be against the right
               | to choose abortion up to 24 weeks of pregnancy?
               | 
               | While religion is certainly a factor for a lot of these
               | people, this question doesn't make sense to me. Is there
               | a non-religious reason to be against killing any person,
               | regardless of age?
               | 
               | The base difference in perspective is that the other side
               | here believes that the fetus is a human being, with all
               | the rights that come with it.
        
           | wavemode wrote:
           | You could have clicked the link embedded in the very text
           | you're quoting, to read an explanation:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-abortion_feminism
        
             | Der_Einzige wrote:
             | Peoples extremely poor understanding of ideology, the
             | mapping of it, and power in general is sad and leads to
             | radical evil time and time again.
             | 
             | Stuff like this is why Autism is probably the next form of
             | human evolution.
        
       | speeder wrote:
       | For those thinking is only related to chargebacks and fraud, it
       | is not.
       | 
       | VISA and Mastercard have been banning a lot of content that is
       | not porn but has political values that are disapproved by certain
       | billionaires and investors. There is a bunch of links I wanted to
       | post about, such as US billionaires bragging he personally called
       | VISA CEO to ban content on PH or japanese politicians mad at the
       | censorship of japanese art with certain values because of these
       | companies. But I am on phone walking home so if anyone else has
       | such links please post.
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | Of course it's not. Steam already has a very generous refund
         | policy. It's hard to imaging the chargeback rate would be
         | _that_ high even for nsfw games when you can simply refund.
         | Refund takes about 3~4 clicks on steam website; Chargeback
         | takes a phone call with your bank and can get your steam
         | account locked.
         | 
         | And people who laundry money out stolen cards won't do that
         | with nsfw games. They'll do that with CSGO knifes.
        
         | Ancapistani wrote:
         | Yep.
         | 
         | They've colluded with the US federal government in the past on
         | those issues as well. "Operation Choke Point" was ostensibly
         | about fraud, but included transactions related to firearms in
         | its scope. As a result, several major banks and payment
         | processors dropped legitimate firearms dealers. For a while it
         | got to the point that I was helping a couple of local gun
         | stores contract with "high risk" payment processors that also
         | serve the porn industry and get set up.
         | 
         | To this day if you're on a gun forum and mention that you use
         | Bank of America, people will pile on to tell you horror stories
         | of both companies and individuals having their accounts closed
         | and funds held for weeks or months after completely legal
         | transactions. In one case in particular, they claimed it
         | happened after buying a backpack at a gun store.
         | 
         | Again, these are 100% legitimate and legal businesses.
         | Federally licensed (FFL) gun stores had trouble for years even
         | keeping a working business account. It was clearly not about
         | fraud, at least not in practice.
         | 
         | Politics completely aside, the financial landscape for gun
         | stores today looks a lot like the cannabis industry: a few
         | institutions are quietly known in those communities to allow
         | them to operate, but many choose to do business only in cash
         | and most prefer it if given the option. The porn industry is
         | similar from what I can see.
        
           | benjiro wrote:
           | Unfortunately, cash is slowly getting phased out.
           | 
           | Try buying a second hand car and you want cash from the bank.
           | Used to be very easy, but now you need to declare what your
           | spending your money on.
           | 
           | You sold your car. O, its over 7 or 10k, well, this is
           | getting reported to the local IRS. Where is that cash coming
           | from, questions, questions?
           | 
           | Over here they are even cracking down on stuff like ebay,
           | amazon because some people run a business on those sites and
           | do not report the taxes. Result: If you make over 3k in the
           | year on ebay, you need to provided your tax number, or ebay
           | closes your account. And above 3k, it get reported to the
           | IRS.
           | 
           | But wait, what happens if your a foreign national from some
           | specific Asian countries and want to open a bank account?
           | Refused, refused, refused... But you need a bank account for
           | a lot of basic things. Well, tough luck. Lets not talk
           | account closing issues.
           | 
           | And that is the EU, and just normal people. Nothing tax
           | evasion, guns, or whatever. Just everybody putting up
           | umbrella's to be sure, not understanding that when everybody
           | does it, it really screws with people.
           | 
           | They are going crazy with this over regulation. Yes, i
           | understand you want to fight black money but the people who
           | get the big amounts will have ways to hide it. Your just
           | hurting the normal people wanting to know what everybody is
           | doing exactly with every cent.
           | 
           | You see this gradual effort to slowly phase out cash.
           | Cashless payment are getting encouraged, cash withdrawals
           | cost your money more and more, more questions regarding
           | origins (so you say f it, and use bank deposits with release
           | approvals).
           | 
           | Its not a surprise that we seen the increase in cryto usage
           | (and the efforts of governments to control that also).
        
             | moralestapia wrote:
             | >You sold your car. O, its over 7 or 10k, well, this is
             | getting reported to the local IRS. Where is that cash
             | coming from, questions, questions?
             | 
             | (I'm not in the US)
             | 
             | I'm curious about how does that happen. Do they reach out
             | to you? Your bank?
        
               | Ancapistani wrote:
               | In the US, it's a "Currency Transaction Report":
               | https://www.fdic.gov/news/financial-institution-
               | letters/2021...
               | 
               | The bank collects the information necessary to submit
               | that form at the time of transaction.
               | 
               | You're also required as an individual to file IRS Form
               | 8300 if you accept >$10k in payment:
               | https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-
               | employe...
        
               | zerocrates wrote:
               | Your bank will file a report with FinCEN that says that
               | you withdrew (or deposited, or transferred, or whatever)
               | the money. They can/will also separately report
               | suspicious transactions, including patterns of
               | transactions that seem designed to evade the reporting
               | requirements.
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | What if you cash your paychecks at the grocery store?
        
               | healsdata wrote:
               | What grocery store is cashing checks in the 7-10k range?
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | Not sure. Apparently walmart you can cash up to 7500 for
               | half the year and 5000 other half for tax return purposes
               | I guess. Still maybe you can get paid weekly instead of
               | biweekly.
        
               | benjiro wrote:
               | Also not in the US, i am using the term IRS because
               | people are very used to it on the internet.
               | 
               | Banks in the US and EU are legally required to report
               | large transactions. I know for a fact that in Europe,
               | that cash handeling over 10.000 euro gets reported.
               | 
               | That includes withdrawals and deposits. The later gets
               | even more questions asked regarding the "origins" of the
               | money.
               | 
               | There are other fun events that we have seen, like
               | transferring 15.000 euro from my wife to her brother
               | (between countries), that had the money blocked as the
               | bank needed to investigate the origin of the money. So
               | the bank starts calling you to figure out what the money
               | is, what is it used for, where does it come from, bla bla
               | bla...
               | 
               | Why are you giving 15.000 to your brother. Is it a
               | GIFT!!! Translation: Can we TAX it! I suspect that banks
               | in some EU countries get a cut from reported money that
               | can be taxed by the tax office (that is just my
               | speculation).
               | 
               | No, it was his money that he loaned to us for a house
               | buying, and that we returned, but they really tried to
               | push the "gift" narrative. Large money transfers (above
               | 10k), triggers investigations.
               | 
               | And as you can guess, large cash deposits or withdraws
               | get even more questions.
               | 
               | Here is a fun tip: Just transfer or deposited money in
               | small amounts, whenever you feel like it. Avoids the
               | questioning like your some kind of criminal.
               | 
               | So ironically, you perform actions like a criminal (will
               | do to avoid detection), just to avoid getting questioned
               | like your a criminal. Hahahaha...
               | 
               | I feel like we have no more privacy in our lives with
               | everything being monitored and checked. Your browser
               | spies on you, your OS spies on you (W11 Recall even
               | worse), your smartphone, you get tracked by Wifi signal
               | in the streets, your customer store card (that they push
               | and push) is to track your buying habits, the banks track
               | your every movement for the tax office, you can not even
               | freaking sell stuff on ebay and get reported.
               | 
               | Like 3000 Euro is nothing. You sell a few piece of PC
               | hardware and you hit that limit. And Amazon/Ebay/...
               | report your behind. And now its about backdoors in
               | encryption because you may be hiding something. What, you
               | do not want to share your talks on XYZ platform to your
               | wife, family. What are you saying, illegal stuff????
               | 
               | We are really moving to a dystopian world and have been
               | for a long time.
        
               | burnhamup wrote:
               | > Here is a fun tip: Just transfer or deposited money in
               | small amounts, whenever you feel like it. Avoids the
               | questioning like your some kind of criminal.
               | 
               | Breaking up deposits into smaller amounts is a crime
               | called structuring.
               | 
               | I wouldn't recommend doing this as an alternative to
               | dealing with the reports and scrutiny on larger
               | transactions.
        
         | miohtama wrote:
         | Visa/MasterCard porn ban was driven by American extremist
         | Christian organisation called Exodus Cry, which is also anti-
         | gay, etc.
         | 
         | https://screenshot-media.com/politics/human-rights/pornhub-p...
         | 
         | Exodus Cry leader was later fired for sexual misconduct
         | 
         | https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-commentary/anti...
         | 
         | Trump changed banking regulations so that "reputation" can no
         | longer be a reason for banks to "derisk" customers after crypto
         | industry outcry, but the reason to exit customers must be
         | factual money laundering or similar reason. But the change does
         | concern cards, as payments are not under FDIC surveillance.
        
       | swiftcoder wrote:
       | I guess Gabe's commitment to freedom of speech on his platform
       | extended as far as nazis, but not as far as porn...
        
         | freedomben wrote:
         | well, something like this can't be fixed overnight. I think
         | Valve have more than earned a benefit of the doubt with this
         | kind of stuff. I don't know if they are thinking on ways around
         | this issue or not, but I would bet highly that they are.
         | Problem is the credit card companies have them (and everyone
         | else) by the balls because any attempt to continue hosting
         | those gmaes but accept alternative payments for them would be
         | retaliated against and MC et al might cut them off entirely,
         | which would be devastating. I'm not sure there is a good
         | solution to this that doesn't involve change of law/regulation
         | i.e. lobbying
        
           | swiftcoder wrote:
           | In the early 2000's kink.com put together a coalition and
           | told the credit card companies to stick their censorship
           | rules where the sun don't shine, and they are still taking
           | credit card payments... The video game industry is plenty big
           | enough to wield similar influence.
        
       | neogodless wrote:
       | Simulated "immoral" activity could be considered a moral gray
       | area. If nothing else, morality is subjective.
       | 
       | So I think it's reasonable to argue for private, individual
       | consumption of morally subjective material (not least of which is
       | the logistical difficulty of preventing such things), as well as
       | the right to create and sell such things. (You or I might approve
       | of or oppose those things, but that's a different argument from
       | what I make below.)
       | 
       | Aside from that, I don't think Valve or a payment processor is
       | _obligated_ to be a neutral party. Whether it might come from
       | collective consumer backlash or whoever makes decisions for an
       | organization deciding what they will or will not allow to flow
       | through their system, I think they too should have the right to
       | allow or ban things. If publishers and consumers want their
       | morally gray content, so be it, but don 't feel entitled to have
       | Steam and VISA along for the ride if they don't want to be.
       | 
       | Hypothetically, Valve might prefer Steam be neutral, because
       | money. But then they have the option to fight their payment
       | processor or look for alternatives, rather than "forcing" their
       | payment processor to be a part of something that the payment
       | processor opposes.
       | 
       | TL;DR when a morally subjective issue involves a lot of parties,
       | every party should have the right to "opt out" if they are
       | morally opposed. (in my opinion)
        
         | knome wrote:
         | Payment processors banning companies from using them for
         | anything other than illegal use or fraud issues seems like
         | pretty egregious overreach to me.
         | 
         | They shouldn't be able to leverage their nigh monopoly on
         | modern payment processing to choose winners and losers in the
         | marketplace.
         | 
         | They are using pornography as a wedge issue to establish that
         | they get to dictate what companies are allowed to exist in the
         | modern distributed market.
         | 
         | It would be entirely reasonable to legally require them to act
         | blindly towards retailers, with restrictions needing to be
         | based on universally applied financial criteria.
         | 
         | Card payments have become inseparable from modern life.
         | 
         | Regulate them as a financial utility. The electric company or
         | water company can't refuse to hook up a business just because
         | the owner doesn't like that business.
        
         | Ruthalas wrote:
         | I think the trouble here stems from the lack of alternatives to
         | the small group of payment processors. The near-monopoly allows
         | their choices to override the choice of all the other involved
         | groups, and almost no viable alternatives exist for Valve to
         | move to if they disagree.
        
       | throwaway071625 wrote:
       | The article calls out "certain adult games" which is vague. It is
       | interesting to note that most of the delisted games were themed
       | specifically around incest.
       | 
       | https://bsky.app/profile/steamdb.info/post/3lu32vdlsmg27
       | 
       | Wondering if this will be a slippery slope towards pulling more
       | anodyne stuff.
        
         | eddythompson80 wrote:
         | Specifically incest, rape, and child abuse-themed games.
        
           | superkuh wrote:
           | Ah, like a video game version of "Game of Thrones"? None of
           | the payment processors had any issues with taking money for
           | that series. And that was live action.
        
             | eddythompson80 wrote:
             | Yep, those games were exactly the same thing as Game of
             | Thrones.
        
               | ggoo wrote:
               | I mean by the content they were yeah. Precisely the
               | problem with rules declaring what content is and isn't
               | acceptable.
        
               | eddythompson80 wrote:
               | Exactly. By content, here is a book on Amazon[1] where
               | the author openly tells stories of rape and incest and
               | somehow it's all Ok. Pretty much the same as Game of
               | Thrones and those Steam games.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-
               | Trauma/dp/01...
        
               | ggoo wrote:
               | Seems like we're in agreement - I read your prior comment
               | differently
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | You are not in agreement. The person you are replying to
               | is being sarcastic. They feel that a HBO produced tv show
               | with incest is art that needs to be protected while an
               | indie dev game with incest is trash that needs to be
               | censored.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | The fact of the matter is you will find more people
               | willing to publicly bat for GOT than you will find people
               | willing to bat for an "indie incest non-con game". And
               | it's not like GOT has not received criticism for its
               | content or that people haven't tried.
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | The movements here (the pro-censorship movement & the
               | anti-sexuality movement) are mainly driven by religious
               | beliefs, and as such, it comes as no surprise that they
               | do not want to apply censorship in a fair or even
               | logically consistent way; they merely want to ban things
               | they personally do not like.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | As I pointed out earlier, it's also valid that they are
               | savvy enough to pick their battles and divide and conquer
               | - you can't take down a critical mainstream success like
               | GOT or GTA, but you can go after fringe games with
               | content most people would be uncomfortable publicly
               | defending.
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | Sure, I can see that being part of it (I didn't see this
               | implication in your earlier post)
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | Ah sorry I meant elsewhere in the thread
        
               | choo-t wrote:
               | The very same group did try to take down GTA V : https://
               | www.collectiveshout.org/prostitution_survivors_call_...
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | Sure, but GTA is still on steam.
        
           | monkeyelite wrote:
           | Games/hentai about these topics are not illegal, even if they
           | are in bad taste.
           | 
           | And I'm willing to bet some content removed does not fall in
           | these categories
        
             | Jolter wrote:
             | That's exactly the point: getting Valve to remove illegal
             | content would not have caused any headlines. These themes
             | go against common moral standards and so Visa et al don't
             | want to be seen selling them.
             | 
             | You can find the list of removed titles if you go looking
             | for it. Feel free to point out which ones you think are
             | collateral damage. I'm not looking at that list with my
             | eyeballs though. I need them for later.
        
         | UltraSane wrote:
         | Visa and Mastercard generally don't like anything with incest,
         | rape, and/or underage participants.
        
           | Diti wrote:
           | But they are strangely okay with murder.
        
             | baobabKoodaa wrote:
             | That's american values for you.
        
           | superkuh wrote:
           | Unless it's a TV show depicting it with live action. Then
           | it's fine.
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | > The article calls out "certain adult games" which is vague.
         | 
         | A Quick Look at the list has me wishing I hadn't thought to
         | look at the list.
         | 
         | I suspect the vague "certain adult games" was chosen because it
         | makes it sound more controversial. If the headline was "Valve
         | removed incest-themed games under pressure" there would be a
         | lesser reaction.
        
         | yieldcrv wrote:
         | Payment processors should be regulated like utilities.
         | Permissionless and agnostic to anything you do.
        
         | j_timberlake wrote:
         | Nekopara and Sabbat of the Witch are safe... for now.
         | 
         | Hopefully they don't know about the little-sister route in
         | Making Lovers.
        
         | healsdata wrote:
         | Collective Shout, the group behind this petition, has
         | previously gone after more mainstream games, like Detroit
         | Becomes Human, for spurious reasons. I have no doubt they'll
         | use this win and mealy-mouthed language to push for more
         | censorship.
        
         | jokoon wrote:
         | Yes, I don't know if selling those games is legal or not.
         | 
         | Thus I can imagine that they don't want to become criminally
         | responsible if that's illegal.
        
       | bji9jhff wrote:
       | It is sad that in 2025 this needs to be repeated: fiction is not
       | real.
       | 
       | This statement imply that:
       | 
       | * Simulated violence is not violence.
       | 
       | * Simulated sex is not sex.
       | 
       | * Simulated sorcery is not sorcery
        
         | nkrisc wrote:
         | And yet it is possible to make simulations extreme enough I
         | would not opposed to banning them. There are some things that
         | should not be normalized in society.
         | 
         | It shouldn't be payment processors doing it unilaterally, I'll
         | grant that. But I'm not (and I'm sure a great many more of a
         | silent majority) wholly opposed to the outcome.
        
           | Hizonner wrote:
           | > There are some things that should not be normalized in
           | society.
           | 
           | That attitude has recently become normalized, and I find it
           | Concerning(TM).
        
             | miningape wrote:
             | Yeah, who gets to decide whats too far?
             | 
             | There's a similar issue with free speech - the moment you
             | ban certain speech the door to banning your political
             | opposition opens.
        
               | encom wrote:
               | From what I can tell, only one country in the world has
               | free speech. Actual free speech. USA.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | I don't know what your definition of "actual" free speech
               | is but there are certainly limits to free speech even in
               | the US[0].
               | 
               | And those are just explicit limits. Try supporting
               | Palestine on a college campus or mentioning women or gay
               | people in any government funded scientific publication,
               | or finding a book portraying pro-LGBT content in a
               | library or a school curriculum that portrays slavery in a
               | way that "makes white people feel victimized" in the
               | South.
               | 
               | [0]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_free_speec
               | h_exce...
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | Supporting Palestine would get you deported to El
               | Salvador (or worse) :)
        
               | josephcsible wrote:
               | Isn't freedom of speech just "you're allowed to say
               | whatever you want", and not "you're entitled to the use
               | of taxpayer dollars to help distribute your message" or
               | "you're entitled to have the government force children to
               | read your message"?
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | having a green card or visa stripped because you said
               | something is not "having the government force children to
               | read your message"
        
               | encom wrote:
               | The limits to speech (in USA) depends (roughly) on if
               | it's intended to incite imminent lawless action and is
               | likely to do so.
               | 
               | Actual speech is communicating ideas or opinions, even
               | distasteful or unpopular ones. The fact that university
               | morons throw a riot if anyone disagrees with them (many
               | such cases), does not affect your right to do so.
               | 
               | Denmark passed a law in 2023 that makes public burning,
               | tearing, stepping on, or defiling holy texts illegal.
               | It's informally called the Quran Law, because everyone
               | knows who doesn't tolerate any criticism of their
               | religion at all. This is one of _many_ limits on speech
               | in Denmark. In my view, speech is either free or it isn
               | 't, hence my argument that only USA has free speech.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | thats a historical view, but not the most useful now that
               | the second american revolution has happened.
               | 
               | things that lightly annoyed the president is now the
               | decider between legal and illegal speech in the US, and
               | the punishment is death, because nothing the president
               | does that could be part of their regular responsibilities
               | like talking to secret service assasins, can be
               | considered in court proceedings.
        
               | encom wrote:
               | Are the assassins in the room with us right now?
        
               | 1970-01-01 wrote:
               | Its dying fast. The Late Show was just cancelled because
               | it was a massive thorn to the POTUS.
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | I love a good "POTUS" conspiracy as much as the next guy
               | but The Late Show cancelation is a simple money game, the
               | show was bleeeding money. If the show was profitable the
               | chance of it being cancelled are same as me dating
               | Beyonce
        
               | 1970-01-01 wrote:
               | Technically yes, but the money game was CBS losing a
               | massive lawsuit to POTUS.
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | I would agree with this if this was factual, the money
               | cbs paid via 60 minutes nonsense is same if you were
               | fined a dime for something you did today. so not
               | "massive" but whatever is the exact opposite of massive
               | 
               | The show itself was losing viewership cause who the F
               | watches late night TV these days?
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | is said late night TV actually expensive though? they
               | have a payong audience, and the whole thing is an ad for
               | whoever is selling a book or movie release.
               | 
               | whats gonna replace that slot that people are gonna
               | watch? a blank screen?
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | if you have a car that is a money pit you and your family
               | keep bleeding money on to make repairs, would you keep
               | making repairs or get another car? all of TV is a simple
               | money game, shows get canceled, new ones spruce up, they
               | get canceled, some are super successful but run their
               | course, others stink from the get-go. what is going to
               | replace the late show? not sure but whatever it does it
               | better make money for cbs or the same faith awaits it
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | Interesting, do you have a source for that claim? Mallen
               | Baker [1] says it was gaining viewers.
               | 
               | [1]: https://youtu.be/KMLZAE4okWs
        
               | ipaddr wrote:
               | It's both. A merger is happening in two weeks and this
               | helps. It was going off of the air in a year or two
               | anyways. Easy way to give Trump a win.
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | Thanks for this mate, REALLY needed this laugh on this
               | fine end-of-grinding-workweek... Fantastic!!
        
               | seanclayton wrote:
               | > Yeah, who gets to decide whats too far?
               | 
               | The ruling ethnic group, of course, as is tradition.
        
               | freddie_mercury wrote:
               | > There's a similar issue with free speech - the moment
               | you ban certain speech the door to banning your political
               | opposition opens.
               | 
               | There is TONS of speech that is banned, even in America.
               | There isn't a single place on the planet that has no
               | limits on speech.
        
               | nkrisc wrote:
               | That's the tricky bit.
        
             | FeepingCreature wrote:
             | You should make a petition. Maybe we can exclude pro-
             | exclusion websites from payment processors.
             | 
             | This is not okay, and we need to take a strong moral stance
             | here. Some views should not be acceptable in a society.
        
             | Thorrez wrote:
             | Recently? Hasn't society always topics they thought
             | shouldn't be normalized?
        
             | nkrisc wrote:
             | Recently? Such a sentiment has existed since the dawn of
             | human society.
        
           | krustyburger wrote:
           | The term "silent majority" has a very specific political
           | meaning.
           | 
           | But, in what way do you think those opposing "extreme"
           | content being consumed by their fellow citizens are silent?
           | State governments across the country are clamoring to censor
           | all sorts of things, presumably to satisfy their
           | constituents.
        
           | cool_dude85 wrote:
           | For the people who disagree: would you really be interested
           | in seeing Child Grooming Simulator 25 on steam? I think we
           | can almost all reasonably agree that at least this sort of
           | content should not be sold on there.
        
             | krustyburger wrote:
             | Won't somebody _please_ think of the children?
        
               | cool_dude85 wrote:
               | When we start saying "no content restrictions besides
               | illegal stuff", your hyperbolic question becomes
               | legitimate in a way that it's not when we're talking
               | about Doom.
        
               | Dracophoenix wrote:
               | Correction: Won't somebody _please_ think of the pixels?
        
             | Shekelphile wrote:
             | there are already hundreds, if not thousands of anime
             | lolicon porn games on steam.
             | 
             | the people making a stink about this know this but are
             | pretending that they don't because it would overtly out
             | them as pedophiles.
        
               | Thorrez wrote:
               | Are you saying the people who are petitioning Steam to
               | remove porn games are playing the porn games themselves
               | and simultaneously pretending porn games don't exist on
               | Steam?
               | 
               | That doesn't make sense.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | It's possible he means people saying steam should not
               | delist anything due to pressure from activists are
               | tacitly condoning sketchy lolicon games.
        
               | baobabKoodaa wrote:
               | Nothing you said here is true.
        
             | uamgeoalsk wrote:
             | I don't have to be "interested" in seeing something on
             | steam to disagree with nkrisc. I don't care about 99.9%+ of
             | the games on steam, that doesn't mean I want them gone.
        
             | Levitz wrote:
             | >would you really be interested in seeing Child Grooming
             | Simulator 25 on steam?
             | 
             | If we are going down this path there's a lot of literature
             | popular with women about to be banned
        
           | lxgr wrote:
           | Personally, I won't miss these games either, but it just
           | seems like such a slippery slope to normalize achieving
           | societal/political goals through exerting pressure on
           | infrastructure companies instead of through democratic means.
           | 
           | I totally support this type of pressure being exerted on
           | companies involved in editorializing and providing an
           | audience (e.g. I don't think Valve should be required by law
           | to carry any form of content, just like a publisher can't be
           | forced to print any content it doesn't agree with). But
           | infrastructure, due to being both fundamental to doing
           | business and generally living in a society and very often
           | being at least regionally monopolistic in nature, should be
           | open to anybody that's acting within the law.
           | 
           | And conversely, if something seems ethically or morally
           | unacceptable to a rule-based society, what ought to change is
           | the law.
           | 
           | That's all assuming a functioning democratic and political
           | process, of course, but it generally seems to be possible
           | even in the US, with its strong protections of speech, to
           | limit certain types of speech under obscenity laws, so I
           | don't really get the desire to outsource this inherently
           | political process to private corporations.
        
             | martin-t wrote:
             | > ethically or morally unacceptable
             | 
             | What does that mean?
             | 
             | For example if something can be shown to cause actual harm
             | to innocent individuals, i find it morally unacceptable.
             | 
             | But some people will tell you anything banned by their
             | favorite fairytale or their upbringing is morally
             | unacceptable.
        
               | lxgr wrote:
               | That's a complicated question I'd like to see settled via
               | legislation and in courts interpreting (and sometimes
               | overturning) these laws rather than in a private
               | corporation's compliance and/or PR department.
        
               | martin-t wrote:
               | It definitely should not be determined by corporations
               | because they not elected and almost untouchable by the
               | individuals affected.
               | 
               | The state is a less bad alternative but bad
               | (unintentionally harmful) and malicious (intentionally
               | harmful) decisions are generally not punished either.
               | 
               | When people set rules which affect others, they should
               | also be held accountable.
               | 
               | And in general, rules limiting a person's behavior should
               | only exist when that behavior can be _proven_ to be
               | harmful.
               | 
               | They should be determined by individuals capable of
               | critical and logical thinking and without anything
               | personal to gain from the rules.
               | 
               | They should not be determined by individuals who have
               | antisocial traits or who are indoctrinated into various
               | belief systems which are founded on preferential
               | treatment (such as religion).
        
           | Dilettante_ wrote:
           | There is a _world_ of nuance separating  "normalizing" and
           | "banning" something though, that's simply a false dichotomy.
           | 
           | I'd wager most "normal" people would recoil at the idea of
           | eating excrement and, for all my open-mindedness, it's
           | probably not something I'd actively endorse. But banning it
           | is on a whole other leaf. Things can and should be allowed to
           | exist on the fringe.
           | 
           | Otherwise we're moving towards the subject of the T.S. Eliot
           | quote where "everything that is not forbidden will be
           | compulsory, and everything not compulsory will be forbidden."
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | Normalization is a fake argument that sounds fancy, not a
           | real thing.
        
         | 1970-01-01 wrote:
         | It's a slippery slope. It's not real but can certainly, by
         | definition, create a situation that mimics reality to the point
         | of assisting someone at committing a real crime that they
         | couldn't possibly commit without the simulation.
        
           | voxl wrote:
           | The slippery slope is in banning speech. If you want to make
           | the claim that simulated sex leads to crimes we have been
           | over this a thousand times with violence in games. There is
           | no connection, you are without a leg to stand on except your
           | own religious indoctrination.
        
             | 1970-01-01 wrote:
             | >There is no connection, you are without a leg to stand on
             | except your own religious indoctrination.
             | 
             | Flagging my reply is gross (you state that, not me!) and
             | grounds for ban. I'll just leave this 2nd rebuttal here as
             | I take back both my legs to stand on and yours as well :P
             | 
             | https://www.pcmag.com/news/take-it-down-act-deepfake-
             | revenge...
        
           | layer8 wrote:
           | Should also ban GTA then. /s
        
             | dandellion wrote:
             | And all Hollywood studios as well.
        
             | mango7283 wrote:
             | You say this like they haven't already tried.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | Violence is still considered ok in games, last time I checked.
         | 
         | Which is possibly because violence is not as awkward to watch
         | with your family as sex is.
        
           | 8note wrote:
           | i think peoppe would probably have much better sex in general
           | if it wasnt so taboo, and so people could get outside
           | feedback on how theyre doing
        
             | Dilettante_ wrote:
             | I could do without Jeff from accounting showing off his
             | latest proud performance with the wife to the coworkers
             | like it's his golf swing.
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | Something tells me Jeff from accounting can still freely
               | show photos of him "hunting" with some dead wild animals
               | and few will consider it gross.
        
           | const_cast wrote:
           | Violence has no religious morality baggage - religions were
           | extremely violent. Sex, however, has all the baggage from all
           | the angles. Even if we aren't religious, it doesn't matter,
           | religion still dictates huge chunks of our lives and our
           | mindsets. It has thousands of years of inertia.
        
             | 0dayz wrote:
             | Abrahamic religion is prudish about sex none of the pagan
             | or Buddhism is prudish.
        
               | phyzix5761 wrote:
               | Buddhism literally teaches celibacy. Mostly for monks but
               | if you get serious about your practice the advice is
               | always to become celibate in order to make progress. It
               | makes sense as you're trying to remove your desires.
        
       | eddythompson80 wrote:
       | Link for the petition and its signers.
       | 
       | https://www.collectiveshout.org/open-letter-to-payment-proce...
       | 
       | https://www.heise.de/en/news/Steam-Payment-providers-force-V...
        
         | FeepingCreature wrote:
         | Reverse petition where?
        
           | eddythompson80 wrote:
           | All eyes on you.
        
             | bigyabai wrote:
             | Agree or disagree, it won't matter. When you let gamers
             | vote with their wallets, the answer speaks for itself.
        
               | eddythompson80 wrote:
               | I wonder what else we should just keep to voting on with
               | our wallets?
        
               | bigyabai wrote:
               | Probably most matters of free speech, here in America.
        
           | maxlin wrote:
           | Seconded.
           | 
           | Regards: Game dev who cares about conservation and doesn't
           | like chilling effects.
        
           | Jolter wrote:
           | Go ahead! I dare you. In your own real name.
        
         | mango7283 wrote:
         | From heise
         | 
         | "In 2020, following a complaint from the Hamburg/Schleswig-
         | Holstein Media Authority, Valve blocked all titles that were
         | labeled as "adult" and did not have an age rating. To be able
         | to offer them, the US company would have to integrate a
         | reliable age verification system into Steam in Germany. Because
         | Valve has not yet implemented such a system, sex games remain
         | blocked in Germany."
         | 
         | So, I hear Europe doesn't have these problems about puritanical
         | censorship in games......
        
       | egypturnash wrote:
       | Okay so is Steam enough of a money printer for Valve to say "well
       | fuck you guys, we'll make our own credit card with hookers and
       | bingo"? And hold out Half-Life 3 (only purchasable with the
       | ValveCard) as a carrot?
        
         | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
         | I am genuinely curious who can actually threaten Visa (I do not
         | think it is Valve).
         | 
         | Amazon, Walmart, Target and then increasingly unsure.
        
           | nipponese wrote:
           | Likely Apple currently has the deepest finance industry
           | roots.
        
             | xyst wrote:
             | If you consider the minutiae of percentage apple shaves off
             | transactions with Apple Pay. Sure.
             | 
             | But they have partnered with GS and MC. Far from any sort
             | of "finance industry roots".
             | 
             | They essentially offer a fancy UI on top of GS products and
             | other traditional banks.
             | 
             | Apple Cash -> Green Dot or some other no name bank
             | 
             | Apple Card -> Goldman Sachs
             | 
             | Apple Pay -> some very small percentage of the bank and
             | network fees charged to merchants
        
             | Razengan wrote:
             | Honestly, with how prevalent iPhones and Androids are
             | today, specially among newer humans, if Apple and Google
             | made a payment system that just transferred money between
             | iPhone/Android, it could practically replace cash & cards
             | for a lot of people.
             | 
             | In some countries the vast majority of payments are done
             | via phone apps for national payment systems already,
             | bypassing Visa/Mastercard etc. entirely. Even kids pay for
             | candy by phone.
        
             | AdieuToLogic wrote:
             | >> I am genuinely curious who can actually threaten Visa (I
             | do not think it is Valve).
             | 
             | > Likely Apple currently has the deepest finance industry
             | roots.
             | 
             | Apple used a very large bank headquartered in the US for
             | its credit card processing as of about ten years ago. Given
             | that the cost of change is significant once these processes
             | are put in place, it is likely this remains the case.
             | 
             | Note that this is not the same as what Apple Pay supports.
        
           | carlosjobim wrote:
           | Mastercard?
        
           | kabdib wrote:
           | IBM was not able to. Story from a friend-who-claimed-to-be-
           | there:
           | 
           | In days of yore, Visa did processing on IBM iron. The iron in
           | question took a while to boot, and time is very definitely
           | money to Visa and they wanted to speed up reboots (e.g.,
           | after a crash). Saving seconds = $$$.
           | 
           | Visa to IBM: "Please give us the source code for the <boot
           | path stuff>, it's costing us money."
           | 
           | IBM: LOL
           | 
           | Visa to some big banks: "Please tell IBM to give us the
           | source code for this, it's costing you money."
           | 
           | IBM, a little later: "Here's a tape. Need any help?"
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | > I am genuinely curious who can actually threaten Visa (I do
           | not think it is Valve).
           | 
           | Visa is a clearing house whose members are banks. Think of it
           | like a payment router between issuers (banks) and processors
           | (banks).
           | 
           | Only sponsored organizations can directly use the "Visa
           | rails", where "sponsor" is defined as a bank, a bank
           | subsidiary, or an entity previously sponsored by one of the
           | other two.
           | 
           | This is also the case for MasterCard and Discover.
           | "Traditional" American Express is different though.
           | 
           | > Amazon, Walmart, Target and then increasingly unsure.
           | 
           | Those merchants use banks or one of their subsidiaries for
           | processing credit card transactions. Most large merchants do
           | as well in order to minimize their discount rate as well as
           | other transaction fees. Smaller merchants often use ISO's or
           | VAR's for business specific reason, knowing both ultimately
           | transact with a bank or one of a bank's subsidiaries.
        
             | manwe150 wrote:
             | I thought Venmo was trying the most with their card offers,
             | as well as PayPal, Cash, Google Pay and several others too
        
               | AdieuToLogic wrote:
               | > I thought Venmo was trying the most with their card
               | offers, as well as PayPal, Cash, Google Pay and several
               | others too
               | 
               | I know at least two of the above used to use a specific
               | US bank for the credit card transactions backing their
               | payment services. For others, if service usage requires a
               | verified credit card or debit card backed by a credit
               | card network, they too use a processor owned/operated by
               | a bank, bank subsidiary, or an entity sponsored by same.
               | 
               | EDIT:
               | 
               | For payment services which do not require a credit card
               | or debit card backed by a credit card network, they
               | almost certainly use the ACH[0] network. This is a more
               | intimate financial relationship and best used with a
               | dedicated bank account not linked to any others, as fund
               | transfers can be bidirectional.
               | 
               | 0 - https://www.sofi.com/learn/content/ach-vs-check/
        
               | pests wrote:
               | Cashapp cards for me, for example, are backed by Sutton
               | Bank Ltd out of Chicago.
        
               | manwe150 wrote:
               | That seems an overly fine line to draw, when a check is
               | basically just a plain piece of paper with your ACH
               | number printed on it, and anyone with your ACH number can
               | go get checks printed. A credit card is also
               | bidirectional, so the question was just if alternatives
               | exist to VISA processing, not if you necessarily would
               | use them. I meant to mention Zelle and Plaid too, since
               | they integrate with many (most?) banks already to allow
               | transfers via your online account login authentication
               | credentials instead of traditional ACH
        
           | loeg wrote:
           | Only the USG.
        
           | fendy3002 wrote:
           | Though unpopular, I'd say China is able to
        
             | lmz wrote:
             | 1) They already have that (Unionpay). 2) I don't think they
             | are less prone to censoring things.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c056nle2drno
               | 
               | China would never! /s
        
           | ijk wrote:
           | Other payment processors, mostly. So other credit card
           | companies (e.g. JCB [1]), government run payment services
           | like Pix in Brazil [2], theoretically crypto, etc.
           | 
           | [1] as a random example:
           | https://archive.kyivpost.com/technology/japanese-payment-
           | sys...
           | 
           | [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pix_(payment_system)
        
           | TkTech wrote:
           | Any coalition of banks can. Replacing Visa is a daunting
           | task, but rolling out PoS support and the technical
           | challenges are peanuts compared to actually getting banks
           | onboard. Visa itself was started by a single bank, and
           | Mastercard was started by a coalition of banks. They can do
           | it again.
           | 
           | Interac[1] is Canada's debit system, originally created as a
           | non-profit by our largest banks way back in '84, and these
           | days is supported everywhere. The large banks are already
           | used to bullying their way through political or bureaucratic
           | challenges, and a single Canadian bank typically has
           | trillion(s) in managed assets - they _can_ bully Visa.
           | 
           | Zelle[2] (2016) is a limited (etransfer only) clone for the
           | American market, UPI (2016) in India, UnionPay (2002) in
           | China, carte Bleue (1967) in France, etc etc. What's missing
           | is cooperation between national systems like these, as well
           | as lending as they typically only do debit instead of credit.
           | 
           | Any cooperation between these systems would likely get spun
           | out as a separate entity, which would eventually just turn
           | into a new Visa or Mastercard - but 3 choices is better than
           | 2.
           | 
           | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interac [2]:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zelle [3]
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unified_Payments_Interface
        
             | FireBeyond wrote:
             | Zelle won't become that. Zelle was designed to offload
             | liability onto consumers using the carrot of instant
             | transfers.
        
           | zhivota wrote:
           | It will be an ID number based payment service built on top of
           | FedNow. In other countries similar services are used with QR
           | codes to do easy payments.
        
           | nottorp wrote:
           | > Amazon, Walmart, Target
           | 
           | Those are all US companies so subject to the same puritan
           | pressures. Their cards would still be good for buying ultra
           | violent games but not sex games...
        
             | jabroni_salad wrote:
             | Walmart was very supportive of fedNow for the express
             | purpose of removing MasterCard from cashless purchases. And
             | for a long time the only way to pay by phone was to allow
             | them to debit via ACH. out of all of them they get it the
             | most.
             | 
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=36012866
             | 
             | And really, even banking isn't a safe harbor. I am pretty
             | sure they were at the forefront of the rise in neobanks and
             | products like green dot cards.
        
         | petermcneeley wrote:
         | I mean a bank is literally a money printer.
        
           | elcritch wrote:
           | On a serious side note, only certain banks get to print
           | money.
        
             | HPsquared wrote:
             | They don't physically print the notes, but they do
             | magically add money to a person's account when they take a
             | loan. That kind of thing is where most "money" (in banks,
             | anyway) comes from.
             | 
             | It's just like matter and antimatter being created at the
             | same time, money and anti-money (debt) are created at the
             | same time and when they meet, they cancel each other out.
             | 
             | So borrowing literally creates money (and debt), and
             | repaying debts literally deletes money (and debt).
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | How does interest fit in here? Isn't that what creates
               | money AKA inflation?
        
               | bfg_9k wrote:
               | What the poster you're replying to is talking about is
               | called fractional reserve banking. That's how they
               | "create" money.
        
               | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
               | No, interest is a typical zero-sum transaction where the
               | borrower spends and the lender earns. The loan itself
               | represents a temporary net increase in the money supply,
               | appearing from nothing and then vanishing when it is paid
               | back.
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | I'm a bit unsure what happens when a borrower defaults on
               | their loan. The money that was borrowed remains out in
               | circulation, but what happens to the debt (anti-money)?
               | 
               | Does the bank itself use its own money to pay off the
               | debt (deleting some of their own money), or do they
               | simply delete the debt?
        
               | kaibee wrote:
               | I'm commiting the faux paus of providing a chat-gpt
               | answer, but I've worked in fintech (annuities though) and
               | I can confirm that this answer is broadly correct. https:
               | //chatgpt.com/share/687bbde1-4ba8-800c-92e5-93edd49b01...
               | 
               | In principle, it is 'the bank uses its own money to pay
               | off the debt', as long as you accept that the bank's own
               | 'credit worthiness reputation' and other assets count as
               | 'money'. The hit is _ultimately_ taken by the capital
               | shareholders in the bank, which is the important part.
        
         | benoau wrote:
         | That's basically what gift cards are isn't it?
         | 
         | > Leaked internal slides peg Steam's net revenue last fiscal
         | year at just under $10 billion
         | 
         | https://www.simplymac.com/games/3-5m-per-employee-how-valve-...
        
           | xyst wrote:
           | Steam gift cards are funded by traditional banking products
           | and partnerships. They can't live without the invisible hand
           | of the banking and credit card industry.
        
             | mulmen wrote:
             | I like this (ab)use of the invisible hand meme. But in
             | economics the "invisible hand" is more of a benevolent
             | deity than a predictable mechanism. I propose "hidden hand"
             | for what credit (card and rating) companies do.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | it really is the same invisible hand. the economics
               | invisible hand is doing whatever the capital owners want
               | the economy to do. weighing influence by capital is what
               | makes visa have that power
        
         | xyst wrote:
         | Nope. Even a company such as valve would be intimidated by the
         | regulation of setting up their own company payment network
         | outside the traditional banking system.
         | 
         | Maybe crypto is an option but I haven't seen use in retail.
         | Only speculation instrument.
         | 
         | Apple tried. Failed. Google tried. Failed. Only thing that
         | works is partnering up with existing bank
        
           | ujkhsjkdhf234 wrote:
           | Did Apple try? I don't recall.
           | 
           | > Only thing that works is partnering up with existing bank
           | 
           | Could Visa just reject payments from this bank and kill your
           | whole thing?
        
           | SJC_Hacker wrote:
           | I have seen crypto used for payments, particularly if its
           | overseas companies
        
         | soared wrote:
         | The problem is if visa/etc say no, valve instantly loses ~70%
         | of their sales. So it's a bet they won't win
        
           | echelon wrote:
           | Visa needs to be broken up.
        
             | socalgal2 wrote:
             | trying: https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/justice-
             | department-s...
        
         | itsthecourier wrote:
         | oh yes
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | Practically impossible.
         | 
         | To replace visa/mastercard you need to have thousands of banks
         | support ValveCard across the world. It's hard to imagine how
         | it's going to happen. Players will not switch to another
         | (probably foreign) bank just to buy Half-Life 3. They'll pirate
         | it.
         | 
         | By the way, Gabe has a very famous quote:
         | 
         | > Piracy is a service problem.
         | 
         | He knows it very well that if it's hard for players to buy
         | something they'll just get it free anyway. You can say he's
         | probably the first person in the world who realized this idea
         | profoundly enough to turn it into a business. It's very risky
         | for Steam to make buying games even slightly harder.
        
           | mulmen wrote:
           | Why does ValveCard need to work anywhere other than Steam?
           | Privacy.com manages to issue card numbers somehow. How does
           | that work?
        
             | bhaney wrote:
             | > Privacy.com manages to issue card numbers somehow. How
             | does that work?
             | 
             | Through Visa and Mastercard
        
             | IlikeKitties wrote:
             | By not working outside the US.
        
             | devmor wrote:
             | Privacy.com issues cards from the Visa and Mastercard
             | networks.
             | 
             | You can't run your own card network easily because you
             | would have to convince all of the merchant banks that take
             | card transactions to do business with you.
             | 
             | Digital money movement requires an operating agreement
             | between at least two financial entities - but most of the
             | time there's a lot more. Depending on the type of
             | transaction you may have two or more gateways,
             | facilitators, processors, issuers and underlying banks
             | involved.
             | 
             | It's a very fragmented system that relies on many, many
             | different entities all having agreements and contracts with
             | eachother.
        
             | p_l wrote:
             | They work with Visa and MasterCard to issue cards in
             | systems run by both of them.
        
             | raincole wrote:
             | It needs to work with banks in different countries. It
             | doesn't need to work everywhere, like being able to pay
             | your dinner with it, obviously.
        
             | tmcz26 wrote:
             | Visa and Mastercard are called card _networks_ for a
             | reason. Wherever you are in the world, or in any site
             | anywhere, if your card says Visa and the merchant's POS
             | machine (or payment gateway) take Visa, both parties know
             | the transaction is good. The merchant gets his money and
             | you get the product.
             | 
             | You get your card from your issuing bank, so the consumer's
             | last mile is the bank's problem. The merchant get their
             | POS/gateway from the acquirers. Your bank and the merchants
             | acquirer don't know each other.
             | 
             | Visa and Mastercard are intermediaries. There's no way a
             | NatWest card in the UK is connected to whatever POS is in
             | Chile or whatever. They all route through the card brands.
             | 
             | This is why it's so tough to break this monopoly.
        
             | numpad0 wrote:
             | You have to offset negative ValveCard balances with USD in
             | everyone's banks, and there's a convenient middleman called
             | Visa who does exactly that by tying store accounts to bank
             | accounts through the universally accepted membership card
             | they issue.
        
           | kjkjadksj wrote:
           | What if you used your mastercard to buy valvebucks you spend
           | on whatever the hell you want in the steam store?
        
             | raincole wrote:
             | You can do that currently. Steam already supports the exact
             | process you described: top up your steam wallet and buy
             | games with steam wallet balance. Actually, there are things
             | you can only buy this way (some in-game items, not sure if
             | it's to workaround gambling accusation or just coded so for
             | no reason).
             | 
             | The issue is Visa/Mastercard/whoever is pressuring Valve
             | isn't happy about the very existence of incest games. They
             | don't want to be associated with incest/rape even
             | indirectly.
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | So are they banning erotic fiction books too or what? I
               | guess the tradwifes actually secretly read that stuff
               | though...
        
               | 0dayz wrote:
               | If you read the founder of the "feminist" group she
               | thinks that 50 shades is the equivalent of the book of
               | Satan but about raping women.
        
               | junon wrote:
               | There's a book of Satan?
        
               | 93po wrote:
               | if there is, im buying it
        
               | nottorp wrote:
               | So she read it? I tried but stopped at 10% or so :)
        
               | Jolter wrote:
               | If there was a prominent online marketplace for homegrown
               | literature, I would bet there would be corporate pushback
               | against selling incest themed porn on it. But I don't
               | think there is such a marketplace so it's a very
               | hypothetical question.
               | 
               | If a book publisher was selling erotic fiction about
               | children online, you could bet your ass they would have a
               | hard time with payment processors.
               | 
               | I'm not sure you have a case with this argument.
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | Entirely possible if you're JP Morgan Chase. They're big
           | enough to have both merchants and consumers in their
           | ecosystem, and they tried it, and Visa put a stop to that.
        
         | devnullbrain wrote:
         | My first thought is: obviously not. But if 10 years ago you'd
         | asked me if Valve would be able to turn Linux into a serious
         | gaming platform, I'd have answered the same.
         | 
         | All that stemmed from an unlikely but existential fear that
         | Microsoft could lock-down software distribution on Windows. My
         | suspicion is that SteamOS sales and Steam Decks aren't actually
         | profitable, they're just too valuable as a bargaining chip not
         | to invest in. And Valve _can_ invest in them, because they 're
         | rich and private.
         | 
         | While Valve bigwigs probably aren't losing sleep over the
         | missed revenue from incest games, having the rest of their
         | revenue stream threatened might make them seek another form of
         | insurance.
        
         | airstrike wrote:
         | I mean, if there's one company that I believe could pull that
         | off is Valve. And maybe Amazon. Maybe the two together. It
         | would be one hell of a JV for both parties.
        
         | Aeolun wrote:
         | I'm fairly certain they _could_ but it wouldn't exactly be fun
         | right?
        
       | xyst wrote:
       | credit card companies (Mc?) did the same with mindgeek. No due
       | process. Just revoked their access to CC networks.
       | 
       | mindgeek then wiped all _unconfirmed_ content regardless of
       | whether it was revenge porn or not.
        
         | o11c wrote:
         | That one must be defended, since it was abuse of _real people_
         | happening at scale and with full knowledge thereof, and PornHub
         | 's status-quo response was _at best_ "do nothing and hope it
         | goes away". Mind, the Justice Department _also_ went after them
         | (and won), so we can 't even resort to "CC networks shouldn't
         | be the ones enforcing this." At what stage of a court case is
         | it appropriate to expect third parties to start breaking their
         | business relationships with the defendant?
         | 
         | The weird part about the first-world sexual liberation mindset
         | (usually said about feminism, but not limited thereto) is that
         | it actively ignores how massively abusive sexual liberties very
         | often and easily become.
        
       | itsthecourier wrote:
       | Visa and Mastercard are the defacto world judges of the limits of
       | porn.
       | 
       | they have their own banned topics lists and if you fuck up you
       | lose your income
        
         | xyst wrote:
         | yup, the traditional banking system as a whole really
        
       | ujkhsjkdhf234 wrote:
       | Avoiding this was the initial promise of crypto and crypto
       | pundits abandoned all their principals because line goes up.
        
       | phendrenad2 wrote:
       | Related to this, here's an ACLU filing with the FTC that lays out
       | the content that the credit card companies don't like and how
       | they pressure companies to remove it.
       | 
       | https://www.aclu.org/documents/federal-trade-commission-comp...
        
       | maxbond wrote:
       | Why do payment processors do stuff like this? Is there some
       | regulation that requires them to? I get that they don't want to
       | process fraudulent transactions, but I'd think the response to a
       | higher percentage of fraud from some industry would be to charge
       | them more. It doesn't make sense to me why they would be
       | concerned about the content of games, as long as everything is
       | legal and the parties concerned aren't subject to sanctions.
       | 
       | Some of these games seem completely abhorrent, and probably
       | illegal in more restrictive jurisdictions, but not the United
       | States. And I've not seen any suggestion they're funding
       | terrorism or something. So I'm perplexed.
        
         | ls612 wrote:
         | This is one of the ways the government can censor people
         | despite the first amendment. It's absolutely by design. The
         | regulators "express concern" about certain financial activity
         | and then the companies remove it.
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | this is such small potatoes compared to the results of
           | everything going on right now though
        
             | sneak wrote:
             | No institutionalized censorship of harmless content is
             | small potatoes.
        
               | fragmede wrote:
               | the other potatoes are _really_ big
        
             | AngryData wrote:
             | I don't think so, it is death by a thousand cuts which is
             | why we are in such a shitty place right now. Out rights
             | have been attacked on all side for decades, little by
             | little, but all together it is a huge loss.
        
               | fragmede wrote:
               | the problem of Visa and Mastercard being against porn
               | just seems like a such a small cut next to the US
               | President forcing a comedian off the air for making
               | critical remarks
        
             | herbst wrote:
             | This is a long ongoing issue tho and one of the main
             | reasons many European sex stores don't take credit card at
             | all. Visa and master do enforce irrational morals
        
         | Sniffnoy wrote:
         | At least at one time, part of the answer would have been
         | Operation Choke Point:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Choke_Point
         | 
         | However, that's clearly not all that's going on -- it doesn't
         | seem like the government is still doing this.
        
         | ijk wrote:
         | One factor is the ongoing campaigns from number of moral
         | crusading groups who lobby them to cut off payment processing
         | for things they don't approve of. NCOSE has been working for
         | decades on the project, and targeting credit card companies has
         | been a successful tactic for them for a decade or so.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2020/12/visa-and-mastercard-
         | ar...
         | 
         | [2] https://www.newsweek.com/why-visa-mastercard-being-blamed-
         | on...
         | 
         | [3]
         | https://scholarworks.iu.edu/dspace/bitstreams/761eb6c3-9377-...
        
           | devmor wrote:
           | Another factor is the board members and other investors of
           | the institutions themselves.
           | 
           | I have been privy to two specific instances where pressure to
           | either ban or reject providing support for specific content
           | was handed down from beyond the executive level at a major
           | financial network player that my client was doing business
           | with.
        
           | SJC_Hacker wrote:
           | They tried to do the same to OnlyFans, but lost that battle
        
             | terminalshort wrote:
             | Onlyfans actually made financial sense, though, because
             | chargeback rates are very high. This move makes no
             | financial sense at all.
        
             | morkalork wrote:
             | Didn't onlyfans severely limit the type of content creators
             | could make and distribute through the platform, just like
             | valve here?
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > Didn't onlyfans severely limit the type of content
               | creators could make and distribute through the platform,
               | just like valve here?
               | 
               | Well, this coverage identifies two restrictions that
               | Valve is enforcing:
               | 
               | (1) No video footage of humans. Animation only.
               | 
               | (2) No incest.
               | 
               | Onlyfans clearly hasn't implemented restriction (1).
               | 
               | If they've implemented (2), that seems like much less of
               | a problem as applied to onlyfans than to animated content
               | on Steam. But even in the case of Steam, there just isn't
               | a constituency for being pro-incest. This is the _last_
               | political fight you 'd want to get into.
        
               | aleph_minus_one wrote:
               | > But even in the case of Steam, there just isn't a
               | constituency for being pro-incest. This is the last
               | political fight you'd want to get into.
               | 
               | Of course the constituency that is openly pro-incest is
               | small. On the other hand, I believe the constituency for
               | a quite encompassing freedom of speech has to be taken
               | seriously.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | I think the matter here is the activists are being
               | strategic now and chipping away by targeting very
               | specific content to get delisted. As you rightly said,
               | most people are not going to sign their name to defend a
               | incest/non-con fringe game specifically, so the counter
               | petition is necessarily going to be on a broad ideal and
               | therefore diffuse
        
               | LorenPechtel wrote:
               | Yeah. I find sex games have basically zero appeal to me,
               | period. But either show me the victim or leave them
               | legal.
        
               | wtfwhateven wrote:
               | Yep. Even showing lactation gets you banned now.
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | Any animal or just human?
        
               | wtfwhateven wrote:
               | I would hope using animals in OF content is illegal and
               | banned anyway
               | 
               | I was talking about human lactation. OF was forced to ban
               | it because these same groups perceived it as "obscene"
               | which is truly nonsensical
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | So as a farmer I wouldn't be allowed to be on OF showing
               | how to milk a cow?
        
               | wtfwhateven wrote:
               | Haha, dunno, someone will have to find out
        
               | tempaccount420 wrote:
               | That's a weird thing to ban.
        
           | mapt wrote:
           | Targeting them with what?
           | 
           | What could possibly hold enough leverage that Visa would
           | jeopardize their sweet gig as an ideology-neutral, essential
           | piece of American infrastructure siphoning 1-2% off of every
           | dollar of consumer spending?
        
             | cogman10 wrote:
             | Threats of exposure and boycotting/blacklisting the card
             | making room for competitors.
             | 
             | Plenty of religious groups have the money to be able to
             | start the "holy card". And there's plenty of businesses
             | that'd be giddy to accept Jesus card.
             | 
             | Consider, for example, companies like hobby lobby or Chick-
             | fil-A banning visa and promoting Jesus card.
             | 
             | It also wouldn't take much for such a card to advertise
             | itself as kid friendly.
             | 
             | Thinking about it, I'm a little surprised this hasn't
             | happened already.
        
               | kwanbix wrote:
               | What competitors? You mean a "Jesus Card" issued by Visa
               | or Mastercard? At this point, it's basically an
               | oligopoly. The only other real player is Amex, and
               | they're a very distant third.
        
               | lxgr wrote:
               | Amex isn't really a competitor, since they're both card
               | issuer and network in one. (I believe they have a few
               | third party issued cards these days, but it's not a
               | significant part of their business. The same goes for
               | Discover.)
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | Let's be real, Chick-fil-A banning Visa would likely
               | result in its bankruptcy.
               | 
               | Starting a holy card that doesn't work at gas stations
               | etc is an extremely uphill battle.
        
               | aetherson wrote:
               | Yeah, 30 years ago this might've been able to get off the
               | ground. Today? Not a prayer.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | > would likely result in its bankruptcy.
               | 
               | Maybe? Depends on how customers are sold on the mission.
               | If it's sold as protecting children I could see a number
               | of people ditching their cards.
               | 
               | > Starting a holy card that doesn't work at gas stations
               | etc is an extremely uphill battle.
               | 
               | True. It'd take a large amount of initial capital and
               | would likely need a targeted and regional rollout with
               | some nice incentives to the merchants.
        
               | AlexandrB wrote:
               | Don't know about that. Costco banned Mastercard and
               | they're doing fine.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | They wouldn't need to create a new payment processor if
               | they could just swap to Mastercard. Thus it was also
               | implicitly excluded by Chick-fil-A in their proposal.
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | I looked this up, they still accept visa. So not quite
               | the same
        
               | FpUser wrote:
               | I use my debit card at gas stations
        
               | erikerikson wrote:
               | Do you mean like Greenlight?
        
             | terminalshort wrote:
             | The leverage is that the activists will potentially be able
             | to draw the ire of the government. Visa and MC get away
             | with absolute murder in terms of the size of the fees that
             | they charge in the US. Most developed countries don't allow
             | that. The US government could easily regulate them (as they
             | already do with debit card fees) or use anti-trust law
             | against the obvious duopoly charging exorbitant prices.
             | Because of this situation, Visa and MC have a very strong
             | incentive to crack down on things the government doesn't
             | like.
             | 
             | The unspoken arrangement is that the government allows them
             | to keep charging a de facto sales tax on a massive portion
             | of the economy as long as they cooperate and de facto ban
             | things that the government wants banned but can't ban
             | themselves due to that pesky constitution.
        
               | lxgr wrote:
               | The Durbin amendment (regulating debit interchange in the
               | US) and its EU equivalent aren't regulating Visa and
               | Mastercard scheme fees, but rather interchange fees,
               | which Visa and Mastercard set, but issuing banks earn.
               | 
               | Of course scheme fees are ultimately at least partially
               | paid from interchange, but lower interchange is primarily
               | a problem for issuing banks, not the networks.
               | 
               | The Durbin amendment in particular was also supposed to
               | foster competition between networks (by mandating each
               | debit issuer to support at least two unaffiliated
               | networks per card), but given that only very few places
               | accept only debit cards, that didn't work out quite as
               | well as intended in terms of bringing down both
               | interchange and scheme fees via market forces.
        
               | p0w3n3d wrote:
               | Tbh that's quite alarming what you've just said, and I'm
               | not saying about government. I'm saying about an
               | additional huge sales tax. I understand that wiring money
               | or sending them in an envelope is the thing of past, but
               | e.g. in my country and in whole EU the digital payment is
               | promoted as the only righteous, because "cash is only
               | used by gangsters and human traffickers" etc. And this is
               | really playing against us and pushing us to the duopoly
               | you've mentioned
        
               | sigmoid10 wrote:
               | Credit cards are much less heavily relied on in Europe
               | than in the USA. Europe basically runs on debit cards
               | that every kid can have and where the fees are minuscule.
               | There are countless banks providing the service and
               | everything is highly regulated. On top of that, Europe
               | still curbed Visa and Mastercard several times for
               | antitrust behaviour. And the idea that physical money
               | primarily aids social fraud, money laundering and other
               | illegal activities is pretty well established. They even
               | killed the 500EUR bank note, because it was almost
               | exclusively used by criminals and most normal people
               | never even touched one, much less used one for legit
               | transactions.
        
               | johnisgood wrote:
               | Where may I read about anything supporting your statement
               | "cash is primarily used for illegal activities"? I highly
               | doubt that this is the case, unless there are more
               | illegal activities out there than legal ones.
        
               | sigmoid10 wrote:
               | Here for example: https://www.europol.europa.eu/media-
               | press/newsroom/news/cash...
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | I would assume the metric isn't number of transactions,
               | but total transaction value. It's really uncommon to pay
               | for really expensive things (e.g., houses, cars, boats)
               | in cash, and doing so almost always means that the duffel
               | bag of cash came from shady means.
        
               | johnisgood wrote:
               | OK, but look at the original statement, that cash is
               | mainly used for illegal activities. I do not think that
               | is true.
               | 
               | Now, check this out:
               | 
               | > Cash was the most frequently used payment method at the
               | POS in the euro area and was used in 52% (59%) of
               | transactions, but the share of cash payments has
               | declined.
               | 
               | > Cash was the most frequently used payment method for
               | small-value payments at the POS, in line with previous
               | surveys. For payments over EUR50, cards were the most
               | frequently used payment method.
               | 
               | > Cash was the dominant means of payment in P2P
               | transactions, accounting for 41% of such payments. Cards
               | and mobile apps were used for 33%, credit transfers for
               | 9% and instant payments for 6% of P2P transactions.
               | 
               | https://www.ecb.europa.eu/stats/ecb_surveys/space/html/ec
               | b.s...
               | 
               | This is to be expected though:
               | 
               | > The most frequently used instrument for online payments
               | was cards, representing 48% (51%) of transactions. The
               | share of e-payment solutions, i.e. payment wallets and
               | mobile apps, was 29% (26%).
               | 
               | > The large majority of recurring payments were made
               | using direct debit, with credit transfers ranking in
               | second place.
               | 
               | Regarding privacy:
               | 
               | > A majority of euro area consumers (58%) said they were
               | concerned about their privacy when performing digital
               | payments or other banking activities.
               | 
               | I think they genuinely care about privacy and are not
               | thugs.
        
               | vladms wrote:
               | Not sure if "mainly" means in terms of total value,
               | number of transactions or people using it. If I would be
               | to guess it would be total value.
               | 
               | Now, these guys might be biased, but to quote: "The EUR
               | 500 note alone accounts for over 30% of the value of all
               | banknotes in circulation (1)."
               | (https://www.europol.europa.eu/media-
               | press/newsroom/news/cash...).
               | 
               | That would suggest to me that at least 30% of the value
               | of cash is used for "shady" stuff (I mean I don't know
               | anybody that would use 500 eur bills).
               | 
               | The fact that cash would be used mostly for illegal
               | activities by value (I don't know if it is really the
               | case), does not imply that "people that use cash use if
               | for illegal activities".
        
               | johnisgood wrote:
               | I do not pretend that I know either, to be honest.
               | 
               | That said, there is "For payments over EUR50, cards were
               | the most frequently used payment method.", which means
               | they primarily use cash below 50 EUR, and you cannot do
               | much illegal purchases with 50 EUR, it is such a small
               | amount.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | Technically they said,
               | 
               | > And _the idea_ that physical money primarily aids
               | social fraud, money laundering and other illegal
               | activities is pretty well established.
               | 
               | Another plausible reading could be that this is just a
               | widely believed incorrect thing (or most exactly, they
               | are just saying it is widely believed, and not anything
               | about the underlying truthfulness of the belief). This
               | seems easy for somebody to observe about the society
               | around them (although I bet it is a regional thing, or
               | something like that) and less likely for there to be hard
               | data on. Perception is also more likely than actual facts
               | to drive behavior, right?
               | 
               | > They even killed the 500EUR bank note, because it was
               | almost exclusively used by criminals and most normal
               | people never even touched one, much less used one for
               | legit transactions.
               | 
               | This, on the other hand, seems like a specific action
               | taken by the government to solve a specific problem, so
               | I'd expect it to be well documented...
        
               | williamdclt wrote:
               | > the idea that physical money primarily aids social
               | fraud, money washing and other illegal activities is
               | pretty well established
               | 
               | I think that's very hyperbolic. In france most people I
               | know carry cash and use it regularly (not as much as
               | cards), the gen X and older tend to find it strange to
               | pay for small sums (eg bread) with card. Germany is
               | infamously almost cash-only. In many Central Europe
               | countries, shops taking card is not a given (Bulgaria,
               | Hungary).
        
               | Tainnor wrote:
               | > Germany is infamously almost cash-only.
               | 
               | Let's not exaggerate. While I am often enough exasperated
               | at how often certain restaurants or bars will still only
               | accept cash (or sometimes EC card), I'm still able to do
               | about 90% of my transactions by card.
        
               | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
               | In the US, cash-only businesses usually attract auditors
               | from the IRS (or did, until they gutted the agency).
        
               | williamdclt wrote:
               | Interesting! As a tourist, almost all my transactions had
               | to be cash: but ofc a tourist and a resident don't have
               | the same spending patterns (mostly bars and restaurant
               | for me)
        
               | Tainnor wrote:
               | Supermarkets and most stores where you'd buy everyday
               | stuff (clothes, electronics, books, ...), especially if
               | they're chains, will take card. It's really mostly
               | independently owned kiosks, bars and restaurants that are
               | holdouts, and even there the card acceptance rate is
               | increasing.
        
               | johannes1234321 wrote:
               | > Germany is infamously almost cash-only.
               | 
               | COVID caused a major boost in shops adding card payments.
               | Most shops now accept them even for small payments.
               | 
               | There are places which don't take cards, many of them
               | also don't print receipts without asking, which might
               | indicate than an tax audit might give interesting results
               | ...
               | 
               | Some shops try to go towards "card only"
        
               | aleph_minus_one wrote:
               | > And the idea that physical money primarily aids social
               | fraud, money washing and other illegal activities is
               | pretty well established. They even killed the 500EUR bank
               | note, because it was almost exclusively used by criminals
               | and most normal people never even touched one, much less
               | used one for legit transactions.
               | 
               | At least in Germany in particular older people prefer to
               | pay cash if possible - this gives the banks also less
               | leverage with respect to abhorent fees. Since many people
               | in Germany neither trust the banks nor the government
               | anymore, acting this way is very rational.
               | 
               | Also the arguments concerning cash restrictions are seen
               | very differently by the population: since there existed
               | two oppressive regimes on German soil in the 20th
               | century, a lot of people realize that the restrictions on
               | cash are just another step towards restrictions of the
               | citizen's freedoms (thus I am honestly surprised all the
               | time that a lot of US-Americans who are so freedom-loving
               | and distrust the government concerning the restrictions
               | of civil rights are not in love of cash).
               | 
               | Thus, in Germany there exists the saying "Bargeld ist
               | gelebte Freiheit" [cash is lived freedom].
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | > Since many people in Germany neither trust the banks
               | nor the government anymore, acting this way is very
               | rational.
               | 
               | Speak for yourself, this is either heavily overstated or
               | a fringe opinion, luckily. Most people definitely do
               | trust both government and banks to a sensible degree,
               | even if they don't like some decisions.
               | 
               | Some people like you apparently also don't appreciate the
               | immense freedom of SEPA transactions. Sure it's good to
               | have cash as an escape hatch for the occasional
               | transaction off the record, but for almost everything
               | else bank transfers are safe, inaccessible to third
               | parties, free from fees, and easy to use. And above all
               | else, we have a working democracy and not an oppressive
               | regime? This whole debate often feels very disconnected
               | and overblown in Germany.
        
               | richrichardsson wrote:
               | Croatian banks didn't get the memo about SEPA; I get
               | charged to _receive_ a SEPA transfer!
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | I'm from Croatia but I don't send money abroad, I only
               | use credit cards and banks locally. As far as I can see
               | from our local banks' websites, they implement SEPA
               | standards. There must be some sort of misunderstanding or
               | error.
        
               | richrichardsson wrote:
               | Perhaps is because it's a payment to an OBRT account?
               | 
               | Banking in Croatia is like UK banking 40 years ago, or at
               | least it is with Erste. Charged even just to have the
               | account.
               | 
               | They even charge me to send me an email to tell me I
               | logged in to the online banking.
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | They charge for pretty much everything, even for running
               | your bank account. But now they will not be allowed by
               | law to charge you "bank account operating cost fees" for
               | bank accounts that are used for receiving salary and/or
               | pension.
        
               | legacynl wrote:
               | > And above all else, we have a working democracy and not
               | an oppressive regime? This whole debate often feels very
               | disconnected and overblown in Germany.
               | 
               | Well as you can see from the US currently, a country that
               | is now free and democratic, might not continue to do so
               | in the future. But once you've given up the ability to
               | use cash because you didn't need it then, how are you
               | going to get it back when you do need it?
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | Not a single western democracy has really turned yet, so
               | I'm not convinced this is imminent danger.
               | 
               | Besides, I'm not advocating for the abolishment of cash,
               | but against dramatic claims of an evil scheme to control
               | and spy on citizens. That's a right-wing narrative in
               | Germany, but nonsense nonetheless.
        
               | achierius wrote:
               | Germany, Italy, Japan, Spain, Brazil, Chile, Argentina --
               | most within living memory.
               | 
               | Hell even France, everyone's just lucky that de Gaulle
               | wasn't much into dictatorship.
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | Germany, Spain, and Italy were no western democracies in
               | any sense of the word before the rise of fascism, Japan,
               | Brazil, and Chile are no western democracies per
               | definition.
               | 
               | I'm talking about the post-WW2 order, which has been
               | remarkably solid. Until Trump showed up, that is. But
               | even the USA are still a working democracy, despite all
               | the fear of an authoritarian regime. So I would at least
               | argue for a bit of calm and reason before proclaiming the
               | end of freedom due to discontinued 500EUR notes.
        
               | fwn wrote:
               | > Most people [in Germany] definitely do trust both
               | government and banks to a sensible degree, even if they
               | don't like some decisions.
               | 
               | The major far-right fundamentalist opposition party has
               | built its unprecedented success on a narrative of low
               | government trust, and has been gaining ground in both
               | polls and elections for years and years now.
               | 
               | So perhaps we shouldn't dismiss the parents' perspective
               | entirely.
               | 
               | > Some people like you apparently also don't appreciate
               | the immense freedom of SEPA transactions.
               | 
               | If you include the wrong words in the transaction
               | description, your account will almost certainly be
               | cancelled. In a truly free payment system that safeguards
               | democratic freedoms, these descriptions would be
               | encrypted from end to end. (Just in the same way all
               | personal communication should be protected.) This will,
               | of course, never happen.
               | 
               | > And above all else, we have a working democracy and not
               | an oppressive regime? This whole debate often feels very
               | disconnected and overblown in Germany.
               | 
               | Any data we collect will probably be misused at some
               | point in the future. Why take a risk with German
               | institutions if we don't have to?
               | 
               | Germany recently experimented with greater financial
               | control over some parts of the population, and it wasn't
               | a total disaster in terms of control. In terms of
               | freedom, however, it is a disaster.
               | 
               | Unfortunately, the source is German-language:
               | https://netzpolitik.org/2024/faq-was-bezahlkarten-fuer-
               | geflu...
               | 
               | Despite cash being a pillar of freedom and democracy in
               | an open society, there is still no good anonymous
               | alternative to it that is usable by normal people on a
               | daily basis.
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | > The major far-right fundamentalist opposition party has
               | built its unprecedented success on a narrative of low
               | government trust, and has been gaining ground in both
               | polls and elections for years and years now.
               | 
               | And yet, that is very far from the majority.
               | 
               | > If you include the wrong words in the transaction
               | description, your account will almost certainly be
               | cancelled.
               | 
               | That isn't true. If you put "murder contract + 2kg
               | heroin" in the description, at most a bank clerk will
               | call to ask you to avoid that. The description is
               | reviewed to detect fraud, and protects a lot of people
               | from illicit transactions. We have that for the same
               | reason we have KYC regulations; you may disagree with it,
               | but it protects a lot of people, right now. If you need
               | to obfuscate the description, you're free to use an
               | encrypted string or a numeric reference without any
               | trouble.
               | 
               | > Any data we collect will probably be misused at some
               | point in the future. Why take a risk with German
               | institutions if we don't have to?
               | 
               | There are valid arguments against widespread cash usage;
               | money handling is one of the top expenses in retail, for
               | example. There also is fraud potential actively being
               | used for sure. Yet, I don't hear anyone working on
               | completely abolishing cash, which is just not going to
               | happen. Still, even Germans could benefit from
               | questioning our ways from time to time.
        
               | yorwba wrote:
               | > At least in Germany in particular older people prefer
               | to pay cash if possible
               | 
               | Sure, but that's for small, everyday amounts. For values
               | upwards of 500EUR, I think the familiarity of paying cash
               | would be swamped by the nervousness of carrying way too
               | much money with you, what if it gets stolen?
               | 
               | > this gives the banks also less leverage with respect to
               | abhorent fees
               | 
               | The only time my bank has ever charged me a per-
               | transaction fee was, ironically, when I withdrew cash
               | abroad using my credit card.
        
               | mr_mitm wrote:
               | When I bought a piece of furniture in Germany, I had to
               | pay 1/3 right there in the store. They accepted various
               | cards. When it was delivered, I had to pay the remaining
               | balance (four digits) in cash. No other option.
               | 
               | Also, I believe when buying used cars and such, most
               | people still prefer cash transactions.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | That's pretty common in the US too though the cash
               | balance is usually in the form of a check. Historically
               | you'd often get a cashier's check from your bank but I
               | was surprised the dealership accepted a regular personal
               | check a couple years ago. I guess there are control
               | systems in place these days that provide assurances for
               | places like dealerships.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | For a dealership I feel like there's less risk; they can
               | do a quick background/credit check on you before
               | accepting the personal check, and it's probably easier
               | for them to track down someone who gives them a bad
               | check. They also have better ability to absorb the loss,
               | in the worst case. I'm sure they've modeled everything
               | and have decided that taking personal checks is worth it
               | financially to them.
               | 
               | (I remember reading long ago that if if a potential
               | customer has to leave the dealership to go secure the
               | proper form of payment, a significant percent just don't
               | come back at all. They want to keep you there until you
               | buy something, fairly standard sales tactic.)
               | 
               | But for a regular person just trying to sell their own
               | car directly to someone else, they're absolutely going to
               | want a cashier's check or cash. (Even the cashier's check
               | can be risky; I doubt your average person is an expert in
               | detecting a fraudulent one.)
        
               | harrison_clarke wrote:
               | and even if you do want to carry that much cash, surely
               | you'd want a fatter wad with smaller bills, right?
        
               | nix0n wrote:
               | The Euro uses larger bills for larger amounts, so if
               | showing off the cash is actually something you want, a
               | single EUR500 note would have worked well.
        
               | harrison_clarke wrote:
               | there's a psychological bonus for heftier things
               | 
               | maybe if it was larger, thicker, and a more dense
               | material. most of those matter more to the person holding
               | it, rather than an observer, though
        
               | atq2119 wrote:
               | > I am honestly surprised all the time that a lot of US-
               | Americans who are so freedom-loving and distrust the
               | government concerning the restrictions of civil rights
               | are not in love of cash
               | 
               | I suspect it's a combination of factors, one of them
               | being that US cash has absolutely awful usability
               | compared to the Euro.
        
               | devilbunny wrote:
               | > absolutely awful usability compared to the Euro
               | 
               | In what way? One unpleasant discovery I made in Portugal
               | (and also saw to some extent in Spain) was that ATM's -
               | every one I could find, including those that were bank-
               | owned at physical branches - had a limit of EUR200 per
               | transaction regardless of my own bank limit (at
               | USD1000/day, that should have been at least EUR800).
               | 
               | And while convenience stores, fast food, etc., won't take
               | a bill over $20 (which is understandable but really a
               | trifling sum when you consider inflation - it's a fast-
               | food breakfast for three people), many other businesses
               | are happy to do so. Nothing above $100 is in circulation
               | anymore, and inflation means that $100 in 1980 is worth
               | over $400 in today's money even by government figures. A
               | $20 bill 45 years ago was worth almost $100 in today's
               | money. And, of course, cash declaration rules have not
               | updated the amounts to reflect this.
        
               | rodrigodlu wrote:
               | I went last year to Lisbon and Barcelona, from Brazil
               | with 0 cash in any currency.
               | 
               | I had a debit card with some hundreds of EUR already
               | charged, but I ended up using it with an NFC enabled
               | smartphone.
               | 
               | No issues at all, even going in far places outside
               | Barcelona. Everyone very receptive in BCN.
               | 
               | I looked at ATM terminals and they seemed full of rules
               | and complications. I tried to get some cash just to
               | collect the notes as a souvenir, but I gave up.
               | 
               | Again, everyone accepted my NFC enabled smartphone, I
               | tested my debit NFC card and my local bank CC NFC card as
               | well
               | 
               | So I think ATMs present a lot of friction for sure.
        
               | vladgur wrote:
               | Same this year - I went through Spain, France, and
               | Portugal last month and did not have to take money out of
               | ATM for anything including eating, shopping for
               | groceries, paying for gas or sightseeing.
               | 
               | ApplePay connected to my no forex transaction credit card
               | earning 3% cashback covered 95% of these transactions and
               | a few times I had to use that credit card directly.
        
               | Oreb wrote:
               | How did you manage without cash in France? Many places
               | here don't accept anything but cash for amounts less than
               | 5 or 10 Euros. If I just want to buy a coffee or a
               | baguette, I often need cash.
        
               | vladgur wrote:
               | I spent a few days in French Basque Country and
               | restaurants and fresh markets all accepted credit cards
               | and Apple Pay.
               | 
               | I was traveling with family so spending limits were
               | higher than 5 euros
        
               | devilbunny wrote:
               | Okay, but OP specifically said that USD are inferior to
               | EUR for cash. Never had issues spending with card in PT
               | or ES.
        
               | johannes1234321 wrote:
               | > that US cash has absolutely awful usability compared to
               | the Euro.
               | 
               | Euro bills differ clearly in color and size, which means
               | they are quickly identified.
               | 
               | Also the Euro coins differ in shape and size quite a lot,
               | which is easy to identify blind even when handled
               | individually. More than U.S. coins which are more
               | similar.
               | 
               | I don't know about an objective difference caused by the
               | fact that 1EUR and 2EUR are coins and bills start only at
               | 5EUR whereas the one dollar coin isn't much used in favor
               | of the one dollar bill.
        
               | natbobc wrote:
               | A vocal minority are freedom loving. A significant number
               | are hooked on consumer debt. I feel like any sweeping
               | generalization is going to be wrong... especially when
               | referencing the USA which is basically 50 countries and
               | has a population exceeding all of Western Europe.
        
               | generic92034 wrote:
               | > especially when referencing the USA which is basically
               | 50 countries and has a population exceeding all of
               | Western Europe.
               | 
               | So, you compare the whole USA to only a part of Europe?
               | Why is that?
        
               | hansvm wrote:
               | And they counted an even lower percentage of Eurasia. It
               | might matter for a given conversation. It might not.
               | What's your point (i.e., what are you actually trying to
               | ask)?
        
               | seth123456 wrote:
               | The Bafin (german banking regulator) seems to want to
               | restrict that freedom. I have worked for a company where
               | the business model is related to cash and the Bafin tries
               | to find reasons to make it harder every couple of years,
               | stating that the money could come from anywhere and
               | because people are not fully KYCed (as it is only legally
               | required for payments of 1000 EUR or more within 24h)
               | there is no way to know. The business model is legal, but
               | they can also make it harder to operate by putting more
               | pressure and scrutiny to banks the company worked with.
        
               | hnbad wrote:
               | It's not so much that only criminals use cash, it's more
               | that crash makes it incredibly easy to evade taxes. The
               | archetype is a cash-only restaurant: it's trivial to both
               | launder money by claiming more sales than you actually
               | made and to evade taxes by reporting fewer sales. This is
               | why many countries have strict laws about paper trails
               | for cash sales.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | > _thus I am honestly surprised all the time that a lot
               | of US-Americans who are so freedom-loving and distrust
               | the government concerning the restrictions of civil
               | rights are not in love of cash_
               | 
               | I think there _are_ a lot of Americans who distrust
               | government /banks and try to deal in cash as much as they
               | can. And there are a lot of people here who have bad
               | credit and can't get a credit card, and quite a few
               | unbanked lower-income folks who don't have bank accounts
               | or debit cards.
               | 
               | But I think maybe as someone from another country you're
               | misinterpreting the whole "individual freedom" thing that
               | a lot of Americans push. I don't think cash vs. credit
               | cards is really a big part of that, for whatever reason.
               | While it is more common in some places in the US these
               | days for some businesses to not take cash at all, still
               | the vast majority of businesses _do_ take cash, and
               | everyone has a choice in how they 'll pay.
               | 
               | There's also a financial engineering component, as most
               | credit cards in the US offer some kind of rewards program
               | or cash back for purchases made. For example, a credit
               | card I have, when used for Lyft rides, gives me the
               | equivalent of 7.5% off (I have to use the savings for
               | travel costs through the credit card's travel site, but
               | that's fine and worth it for me). Some cards are simple
               | and just offer 1% or 2% back and that's it, but some have
               | categories (like "3% cash back for gasoline purchases"),
               | and some people get into the "game" of trying to match a
               | credit card with a purchase to get the most cash back.
               | 
               | And even for people who don't get into the "game", they
               | certainly won't mind a "free" 1% or 2% discount on
               | everything just for using a credit card. Some businesses
               | offer a discount for paying cash, or a surcharge for
               | using a credit card, but many do not, so if you pay with
               | cash, you're essentially overpaying, since the cost of
               | credit card fees is built into the prices. (This is of
               | course another way that poor people who can't get credit
               | cards get screwed.)
               | 
               | I guess often enough, convenience and saving money wins
               | over the whole "freedom" thing for people here.
               | 
               | Finally, I think there's also a bit of separation. Many
               | credit cards don't even feel like they're associated with
               | a bank. Many larger retail stores offer a branded credit
               | card that of course has a Visa or MasterCard logo on it,
               | but you have to dig to find mention of an actual bank. So
               | even Americans who might distrust government and banks
               | just don't see a strong association there when it comes
               | to credit cards.
               | 
               | I also just don't think there's _that_ much bank distrust
               | going on in the US. Sure, people are still sore about the
               | financial crisis of 2008, but also consider that was 17
               | years ago. We haven 't had big bank issues in the US
               | where banks devalue currency, or follow government orders
               | to across-the-board steal money from citizens, at least
               | not in widespread ways. People generally love to rag on
               | banks when it comes to fees and penalties and hidden
               | costs and crap like that, but many of those things have
               | been made illegal, and, again, even for a bank-issued
               | credit card, I think many people just don't make that
               | association. It's just an easier way to make payments,
               | without the risk of carrying cash around (and with
               | protection if the card gets stolen and used), and
               | sometimes you get discounts and cash back... what's not
               | to like?
        
               | Asraelite wrote:
               | > And the idea that physical money primarily aids social
               | fraud, money laundering and other illegal activities is
               | pretty well established.
               | 
               | I'd rather have that than a complete loss of privacy.
        
               | altairprime wrote:
               | The U.S. consumer economy functions primarily on debt
               | from start to end these days, complete with debt
               | collectors who buy it pennies on the dollar and then con
               | grieving relatives into voluntarily accepting duty
               | towards those debts that would otherwise have been
               | discharged by death. So there are quite a lot of people
               | these days who couldn't use the European debit methods
               | because they don't have the cash and likely never will,
               | what with one quarter of the country's households unable
               | to afford housing on effectively poverty wages. The
               | federal government can't crack down on this because
               | they'd have to replace that consumer debt with public
               | assistance. The puritanical / religious orgs control
               | majority voting blocs that haven't aged out as they used
               | to and so are a continued threat to elected officials. So
               | the threat those groups are holding over Visa/MC is
               | triple-pronged: not only will they boycott (they can
               | afford to), they can also leverage politicians (enforce
               | our will or get ejected from office) and threaten
               | capitalism (better economic armageddon than unpalatable
               | sexual expressions). Valve can't hold a candle to that
               | kind of leverage, not without giving up the neutral-
               | apolitical stance that most tech corporations prefer.
               | They would essentially have to promote a counter-bloc of
               | voters to counter-pressure the U.S. House and Senate into
               | passing payment provider neutrality laws through
               | elections. Valve is vanishingly unlikely to do this, and
               | so their only choice is to prostrate to Visa/MC (or stop
               | accepting USD) until the puritan bloc ages out in two or
               | three decades. They can certainly afford to wait,
               | especially given that these incremental religious bans
               | advance slower than their revenues.
        
               | redeeman wrote:
               | > because it was almost exclusively used by criminals and
               | most normal people never even touched one, much less used
               | one for legit transactions.
               | 
               | thats BS. most people have indeed had such, and while not
               | frequent, it was fully legit.
               | 
               | The real reason they want to do away with cash is so they
               | can monitor everything you buy, and in time, perhaps more
        
               | eloisant wrote:
               | I'm not sure which European country you're talking about,
               | but in France most transaction are now done by card. Yes
               | it's mostly debit cards, but they're still handled almost
               | exclusively by Visa and Mastercard.
               | 
               | Many banks have tried to start other electronic payments
               | independent from those 2 (for example Wero) but it
               | doesn't really get any traction.
               | 
               | So I don't see how the duopoly is any less powerful here.
        
               | nebul wrote:
               | I think France is a bit of an exception because there's
               | the CB network[1]. Most cards here are either
               | CB/Mastercard or CB/Visa and a lot of stuff uses CB by
               | default if I understand it correctly. According to their
               | website the network accounts for 65% percent of national
               | transactions[2] but I'm not sure of how to interpret
               | their wording.
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CB_Bank_Card_Group
               | 
               | [2] https://www.cartes-bancaires.com/cb/chiffres/
        
               | vladms wrote:
               | Cards and transfers are different things though. What I
               | have seen from Wero (released to the public) are Peer to
               | Peer transfers, so if you don't need to transfer money to
               | a person, Wero will not help you for now.
               | 
               | Some card fees are capped by the EU:
               | https://www.visa.co.uk/about-visa/visa-in-europe/fees-
               | and-in..., quoting "From 9 December 2015, European
               | regulation on interchange fees (Regulation (EU) 2015/751
               | of the European Parliament and of the European Council of
               | 29 April 2015 on interchange fees for card-based
               | transactions, "the IFR") imposes interchange fee caps on
               | most product types within the European Economic Area
               | (EEA).".
               | 
               | It is true though that French banks have huge fees even
               | for debit (0.20%) compared to, for example The
               | Netherlands (0.02 eur).
               | 
               | So the doupoly is not as powerful everywhere, but I have
               | no clue why the difference.
        
               | high_na_euv wrote:
               | In Poland there is Blik which got huge traction
        
               | wat10000 wrote:
               | Debit cards are really common in the US as well. Pretty
               | much every bank gives you one with a checking account and
               | they're accepted everywhere. You'll have no problem never
               | getting a credit card, aside from a couple of very
               | specific cases such as renting a car where they'll
               | require a substantial deposit if you don't use a credit
               | card.
               | 
               | But it's irrelevant to this issue, because the debit
               | cards are still handled by Visa or Mastercard.
        
               | denkmoon wrote:
               | sounds like the fix is counter activism to remove the
               | leverage these interest groups have
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | The fix is legislation that ensures that payment
               | processors aren't allowed to extra-legally moderate
               | transactions based on "I don't like it". They need to be
               | forced to process all legal transactions. Because these
               | entities are nearly irreplaceable and are the cornerstone
               | of many consumer industries, it seems like a reasonable
               | compromise to me.
               | 
               | Just pushing back is neither guaranteed to succeed nor
               | last for any serious amount of time. The ideological
               | crazies can throw their entire existence at ensuring the
               | fact that the "impure, corrupting filth" is squashed.
               | People who oppose it might like the things that get
               | censored, but none are religiously attached to the cause,
               | not to an extent that would lead to a serious amount of
               | organizing, anyway.
        
               | LorenPechtel wrote:
               | The problem comes from "legal transactions".
               | 
               | The Pornhub problem came from going after the payment
               | processors for facilitating supposedly illegal
               | transactions--namely, underage porn. The crusaders (in
               | every direction) keep looking for ways to undermine the
               | protections (Section 230 in this case) and all too often
               | the government doesn't fight back.
               | 
               | As for keeping it in the family games--we still have
               | "obscenity" on the books and such games fall afoul of it.
               | I find the concept of "obscenity" bonkers amongst
               | consenting adults.
        
               | vintermann wrote:
               | Yes - and Japanese gay porn games are an easy soft target
               | before they go on to ban things they _really_ want to
               | ban. We 've been through this before in the 70s-90s.
        
               | staunton wrote:
               | > We've been through this before in the 70s-90s.
               | 
               | What do you mean?
        
               | hakfoo wrote:
               | I always found this principle odd because it offends
               | across the political spectrum.
               | 
               | Every hassle the porn industry gets, the gun industry
               | gets too, and that obviously has a very different
               | political footprint. I'd also expect some industries with
               | politically powerful friends (supplements, MLMs in
               | general) to be offended by policies that put some
               | merchants into higher risk/higher cost/higher rejection
               | categories.
               | 
               | I had hoped something like FedNow would take off-- a
               | government-backed payment rail with a formal mandate to
               | service any legal business, so neither side could
               | complain about being deplatformed.
        
             | octoberfranklin wrote:
             | Because Visa's revenue is not dependent upon ideological
             | neutrality.
             | 
             | They're half of a duopoly.
        
             | ijk wrote:
             | > Targeting them with what?
             | 
             | > What could possibly hold enough leverage that Visa would
             | jeopardize their sweet gig as an ideology-neutral,
             | essential piece of American infrastructure siphoning 1-2%
             | off of every dollar of consumer spending?
             | 
             | The US courts.
             | 
             | Visa was specifically pulled into the lawsuit against
             | PornHub; here's Visa's official statement on the matter:
             | https://corporate.visa.com/en/sites/visa-
             | perspectives/compan...
             | 
             | The lawsuit is still ongoing.
        
             | rtpg wrote:
             | Pressure campaigns could lead to laws regulating the card
             | industry, self regulation prevents some of that (see movies
             | and games ratings agencies, which avoid government ratings
             | coming in and potentially connecting an 18+ rating with
             | outright bans like we've seen in the UK and Australia in
             | the past)
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2022/08/01/visa-
           | mind...
           | 
           | Visa being responsible for CSAM isn't a theoretical lawsuit
           | they're afraid about. (2022)
        
           | cornholio wrote:
           | It's easy to dismiss all such campaigns as religious prudes
           | and moral crusaders, especially on a site with the
           | demographics and political leanings of YC News.
           | 
           | But often time such campaigns are waged by former victims of
           | trafficking. It's well documented that trafficking,
           | prostitution and pornography are closely interlinked - this
           | modern notion of a fully liberated "sexual worker"
           | controlling their careers, choices and finance is
           | substantially a fiction of the pornographic industry. So
           | there is real merit in the anti porn stance.
           | 
           | Of course, once the camping is set in motion, it takes a life
           | of its own, that has nothing to do with the concerns of the
           | victims and more with prudishness; the religious circus will
           | join hands and demand the removal of synthetic pornography
           | etc.
        
             | fn-mote wrote:
             | I'm willing to listen if you're willing to provide sources.
             | 
             | Otherwise, your claims run counter to more credible sources
             | I have read. (Which I am not willing to search up for this
             | post.)
        
           | atemerev wrote:
           | The US obsession with sex (both positive and negative) is
           | something else.
           | 
           | Here in Europe, sex is a normal part of human life. Not a
           | center of everything, nor a sin to be avoided. Sex art is
           | normal. Sex games are fine. There are no moral crusaders
           | here, because sex is moral. We tell sex jokes at work and
           | nobody faints. We are constantly perplexed why American
           | culture is so different from other Western cultures in that
           | regard.
           | 
           | People keep saying "Puritans" like it answers all questions,
           | but Puritans were hundreds of years ago. We had our own share
           | of people with peculiar attitudes back then. Today is 2025,
           | not 1785.
        
             | Jimerty wrote:
             | >Here in Europe
             | 
             | No, Europe is not a monolithic bloc, stop treating it as
             | such, stop saying here in Europe or European here. You'd
             | get annoyed if a yank generalised all of europe with a not
             | take so don't do it yourself. State what country/countries
             | you're talking about because social attitudes and norms
             | vary massively across this continent!
        
               | atemerev wrote:
               | They sure do, just like there are different states in the
               | US with vastly different attitudes to life and
               | everything.
               | 
               | And yet, you can take an averaged vector of all US states
               | and all European countries and meaningfully compare
               | those. Or extract some things that are common through all
               | Europe as compared through all US.
               | 
               | I had a privilege of living for some time in Italy,
               | Denmark, Spain and Switzerland (I still live in
               | Switzerland). They are all really different, and yet
               | there is something common compared to the US.
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | Of course, it doesn't help anyone to generalise. Europe
               | has a wide demographic. But, one thing that doesn't
               | happen is its attitude to sex affecting worldwide
               | commerce or other worldwide issues.
               | 
               | Here in the UK religion and sex are not part of the
               | national conversation. A politician mentioning their love
               | of god would seem weird to us. The only way it enters the
               | national conversation are when right-wing religious
               | zealots, from the US, try to affect our laws: I'm
               | thinking of abortion laws and trans rights. These are
               | entirely imported issues from US religious hangups. It's
               | quite tedious, because mostly we were on a path of
               | reasonable discourse with relation to sex, sexuality,
               | relationships (marriage), etc. but with the advent of
               | social media you see pockets of society being dragged
               | into it.
               | 
               | I have friends in much of Europe (Sweden, Norway, France,
               | Spain, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Italy, Croatia,
               | Slovakia, Poland, Romania, Greece) and have travelled to
               | those destinations extensively. I still can't speak for
               | all of Europe, but I think when it comes to sex and
               | religion we're kinda similar. The only one that stands
               | out to me was the Greek Orthodox church used to have an
               | out-sized role, but even that doesn't seem to be the case
               | any more (I just came back from visiting friends in
               | Greece a few weeks back and we discussed this).
               | 
               | So whilst we can't say all of Europe is the same, we can
               | say that it's not causing global problems due to its
               | sexual and religious hangups.
        
               | ses1984 wrote:
               | Religion is a factor in Polish politics.
        
               | throwaway2037 wrote:
               | Absolutely. Italy too. I think a better way to phrase it:
               | There are _many_ countries in Europe where a right wing
               | party uses the rise of Islam due to immigrants as a
               | political issue.
        
               | ChickeNES wrote:
               | Yeah when I went to the UK and tried to view adult
               | content using a prepaid SIM, it was blocked and required
               | verifying that I was an adult, and this was done at the
               | ISP level. And I know for a fact that the UK has much
               | stricter limits on kink and BDSM in adult content as
               | well. What gives with people claiming it's just the US?
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | > required verifying that I was an adult
               | 
               | Log in to your account and toggle the "I want porn"
               | option? It's annoying, but not onerous.
               | 
               | > And I know for a fact that the UK has much stricter
               | limits on kink and BDSM in adult content as well.
               | 
               | I know what you're referring to, but don't know the full
               | details. I believe it's around violent porn (rape, etc).
               | We certainly have a "think of the children" brigade. I
               | still think the discourse is significantly more civilised
               | than that of the US, which feels like it's approaching
               | virtual civil war levels. When these subjects are
               | debated, it's usually in parliament and doesn't turn into
               | some societal ideological divide.
               | 
               | I think some of the policies you mention are more
               | artefacts of the politicians not understanding the
               | technological future we're in, rather than ideology. Many
               | of them think they can make the internet a safe space for
               | kids through policy. It's naive, for sure, but usually
               | not dogmatic.
               | 
               | > What gives with people claiming it's just the US?
               | 
               | It's not just the US, but when the people standing
               | outside of UK abortion clinics harassing women are funded
               | by US 'pro life' religious groups then you know there's a
               | problem. Puritanism is a US export.
               | 
               | The vitriolic political divisions in the US, which leads
               | to all sorts of fringe issues becoming mainstream (trans
               | rights, for example), is leaking out into the rest of the
               | western democracies, poisoning the debate everywhere.
               | 
               | The Visa issue is just one more of these puritanical US
               | exports.
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | > It's annoying, but not onerous.
               | 
               | So government regulating stuff like that does go against
               | much of the thing you said in the comment above?
               | 
               | > doesn't turn into some societal ideological divide.
               | 
               | When governments try to introduce mass surveillance of
               | personal communications to "protect the children" liek
               | ChatControl maybe it should turn into one. Instead of
               | everyone just handwaving and ignoring it...
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | >> It's annoying, but not onerous.
               | 
               | > So government regulating stuff like that does go
               | against much of the thing you said in the comment above?
               | 
               | It isn't law. But even if it was, that doesn't contradict
               | what I am talking about. I'm talking about the export of
               | puritanism. If you think having to turn the porn button
               | from 'off' to 'on' in your phone contract's options is
               | the same, then I don't know what to say.
               | 
               | > When governments try to introduce mass surveillance of
               | personal communications to "protect the children" liek
               | ChatControl maybe it should turn into one.
               | 
               | Yeah maybe, but that's not the topic of conversation
               | here. The topic was about puritanical beliefs in the US
               | and how its export affects the world (like the Visa
               | issue).
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | > I'm talking about the export of puritanism
               | 
               | Sure, technically its government imposed domestic
               | puritanism which isn't exported. I agree its a completely
               | different thing.
               | 
               | > The topic was about puritanical beliefs in the US and
               | how its export affects the world
               | 
               | Yes, US has its quirks but it's not that exceptional as
               | you are implying. e.g. when it comes to banning/regulated
               | video games Australia is inarguable much more
               | restrictive.
               | 
               | Germany also has a history of banning violent video games
               | and its again much worse than the US e.g. https://old.red
               | dit.com/r/Steam/comments/ki12if/steam_now_reg...
               | 
               | Post "Online Safety Act" UK is not that much better
               | either.
               | 
               | US is very tame and less "puritanical" by your definition
               | than those countries. The core difference being that the
               | government can't really regulate it directly so credit
               | card companies might be acting as some sort of a proxy.
               | 
               | Or are you implying that US somehow turned Germany and
               | Australia more "puritanical" than itself and there would
               | be no domestic support for censorship there otherwise?
        
               | vladms wrote:
               | So how does the US deal with age restricted games? I find
               | this much more related to actually willing to implement a
               | rule, rather than having rules for the sake of it (like
               | the US buying alcohol rule - it is forbidden for people
               | under 21 to drink but 40% of the people between 18 and 21
               | drink ?! source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcohol_co
               | nsumption_by_youth_i...).
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | Not sure I get it. And it's different in Europe?
               | 
               | e.g. 20% of all 15 year old in the UK have at least one
               | drink each week:
               | 
               | https://digital.nhs.uk/data-and-
               | information/publications/sta...
               | 
               | Despite the legal age being 18.
               | 
               | Also what does this have to do with anything? e.g. adult-
               | only games are simply unavailable on Steam in Germany. It
               | doesn't matter at all how old you are.
        
               | aaaja wrote:
               | > trans rights. These are entirely imported issues from
               | US religious hangups.
               | 
               | No, in the UK it was left-wing feminists who led the
               | opposition to gender identity policies long before any
               | conservatives got involved, on the basis of this being
               | harmful to women's rights.
               | 
               | Just look at the recent For Women Scotland win in the
               | Supreme Court, it's nothing to do with US religious
               | groups at all, and everything to do with protecting sex-
               | based rights and sexual orientation in law.
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | That was waaaay after it had become an 'issue' in the US
               | and exported. I also doubt they would describe themselves
               | as "left-wing feminists". That language is incorrect at
               | best and inflammatory at worst.
               | 
               | In 2014, Time magazine declared trans rights as
               | "America's next civil rights frontier" [1]. For Women
               | Scotland was formed in 2018 [2].
               | 
               | (Just looked at your comment history. Just, wow... is the
               | trans issue the only one you care about?)
               | 
               | [1] https://time.com/135480/transgender-tipping-point/
               | 
               | [2] https://forwomen.scot/about/
        
               | aaaja wrote:
               | For Women Scotland wasn't the start of the opposition to
               | gender identity policy in the UK. It was founded, by four
               | women who met on Mumsnet, specifically to address policy
               | in Scotland.
               | 
               | Feminist women opposed to the Tory government's plans to
               | introduce "gender self-id" law and similar policy had
               | already started organising by this point. Groups like
               | Woman's Place UK and Fair Play For Women. This had
               | nothing whatsoever to do with religious arguments from
               | the US.
               | 
               | There's also significant liberal opposition to all this
               | in the US, again not linked to religion but, like the UK,
               | on the basis of women's rights.
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | Keep moving those goalposts!
               | 
               | Look, you have the right to believe whatever you want,
               | but making every single discussion you have on here about
               | how much you hate trans people is not really something I
               | want to get involved with. Good day.
        
               | aaaja wrote:
               | You really don't like having your misinformation
               | corrected, do you.
               | 
               | I recommend you go look up the feminist groups I
               | mentioned and educate yourself on what's actually been
               | happening in the UK on this.
               | 
               | Here's an article to get you started:
               | https://morningstaronline.co.uk/article/f/hundreds-women-
               | gat...
        
               | coffee_am wrote:
               | Of course one can generalize using the colloquial "Here
               | in Europe". And generalization is useful -- one cannot go
               | into all the complexity and details all the time, at some
               | point one has to summarize/generalize an argument.
               | 
               | Yes, Europe is not a monolithic bloc, but there is a
               | large fraction that is less sex focused, it's a fair
               | generalization and comment to express that.
        
               | Keyframe wrote:
               | Eh? Not really. There's a gradient between North and
               | South and East and West, and then there's UK, but some
               | things are more or less in-common. What GP is saying is
               | one of those things.
        
             | 0dayz wrote:
             | It's due to the difference in Christian values, the US has
             | a hard on for believing that ignorance is a virtue when it
             | comes to sin or adult topics.
             | 
             | Like for instance the outrage if you have a sign on your
             | lawn stating that x president is a rapist to the economy,
             | people will say that children should not be "exposed" to
             | such words.
        
             | louthy wrote:
             | > People keep saying "Puritans" like it answers all
             | questions, but Puritans were hundreds of years ago. We had
             | our own share of people with peculiar attitudes back then.
             | 
             | We literally had Puritans in Europe [1]
             | 
             |  _" The Puritans were English Protestants in the 16th and
             | 17th centuries who sought to rid the Church of England of
             | what they considered to be Roman Catholic practices,
             | maintaining that the Church of England had not been fully
             | reformed and should become more Protestant.[1] Puritanism
             | played a significant role in English and early American
             | history, especially in the Protectorate in Great Britain,
             | and the earlier settlement of New England."_
             | 
             | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puritans
        
               | saghm wrote:
               | Yeah, and then most of them left and came here, which the
               | article cites as having caused a "radical" divergence:
               | 
               | > Almost all Puritan clergy left the Church of England
               | after the restoration of the monarchy in 1660 and the Act
               | of Uniformity 1662. Many continued to practise their
               | faith in nonconformist denominations, especially in
               | Congregationalist and Presbyterian churches.[2] The
               | nature of the Puritan movement in England changed
               | radically. In New England, it retained its character for
               | a longer period.
               | 
               | It's not crazy to think that this could have had an
               | outsized influence on the US given how influential New
               | England was in the early days. Even 120-130 years after
               | the point that the quoted section mentions, when the
               | colonies were transitioning into what's now the United
               | States, close to a third of them were part of New
               | England.
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | > Church of England
               | 
               | Doesn't mean that continental Europe wasn't full of
               | puritanical nutjobs.
               | 
               | Calvin himself ran a dystopian theocratic state\hellhole
               | in Geneva yet hardly anyone references that when talking
               | about conservativism in Switzerland.
               | 
               | > Even 120-130 years after the point
               | 
               | There was a significant generational backlash towards
               | puritanism and a push towards pluralism/secularism by the
               | late 1700s. IMHO Second/Third "Great Awakenings" had a
               | much bigger impact than a handful of Puritans inhabiting
               | New England in the 1600s.
        
               | louthy wrote:
               | > Doesn't mean that continental Europe wasn't full of
               | puritanical nutjobs.
               | 
               | I believe English puritans were also in Holland and
               | France for a while.
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | Yes the Pilgrims for instance emigrated from Holland and
               | not England. Of course the Plymouth Colony was quite
               | "progressive" compared to the oppressive theocracy in
               | Massachusetts. At least they weren't hanging quakers,
               | dissenters and didn't burn a single witch during the
               | panic..
               | 
               | Anyway I don't think that the English Puritans/etc. were
               | somehow particularly exceptional (besides the fact that
               | they emigrated to North America) compared to other
               | similar groups in Europe.
        
               | saghm wrote:
               | > Calvin himself ran a dystopian theocratic
               | state\hellhole in Geneva yet hardly anyone references
               | that when talking about conservativism in Switzerland.
               | 
               | I'm not familiar with Swiss politics, but if there's a
               | significant Christian element to it, it seems like it
               | would be pretty reasonable to wonder about whether the
               | historical basis for this is related to Calvinism. If
               | it's not significantly Christian, then it's not
               | surprising it doesn't get mentioned.
               | 
               | > There was a significant generational backlash towards
               | puritanism and a push towards pluralism/secularism by the
               | late 1700s. IMHO Second/Third "Great Awakenings" had a
               | much bigger impact than a handful of Puritans inhabiting
               | New England in the 1600s.
               | 
               | Sure, but those those were backlashes themselves to the
               | backlash to the secularism that you mentioned happened
               | beforehand. I'm not saying that there weren't Puritan-
               | like influences elsewhere, or that there were no other
               | developments in between the Puritans and modern Christian
               | conservatism in the US, but there's a clear historical
               | tradition of Christian conservatism in US politics, so I
               | don't know why you don't think it's unreasonable to
               | recognize how that has influenced what we see today.
               | 
               | To explain at a higher level where I'm coming from: I
               | don't see historical analysis as making claims about the
               | state we're in today as being a deterministic outcome
               | based on the events that happen in the past because
               | that's not any more possible than predicting exactly what
               | will happen in the future based on the knowledge we have
               | today. The most we can do to explain why things are the
               | way they are now is to look at what things in the past
               | have influenced where we are today.
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | Not inherently disagreeing with you at all. I'm not just
               | sure whether we should look as far back as the 1600s. Yes
               | some American colonies were founded by religious
               | extremists.
               | 
               | But the divergence between US and Europe didn't happen
               | until the late 1800s if not the early 1900s.
               | 
               | e.g. according to the census of 1851 ~40% of people in
               | Britain were regularly attending religious services. No
               | hard figures for the US from the time but from what I can
               | find the proportion in the US was comparable. Except
               | while mid 1800s was pretty much the peak in Britain in US
               | it kept rising and reached its highest point in the 1950s
               | while in UK religious participation had almost reached
               | current levels by then.
               | 
               | IMHO the rise of political secularism, socialiam and the
               | near societal collapse across much of Europe during and
               | after WW1 and WW2 had a much bigger impact than whatever
               | happened 400 years ago.
        
               | parpfish wrote:
               | If you're looking at the geographical distribution of
               | their influence, isn't it weird that the place where the
               | puritans settled ("New England") is arguably the _least_
               | puritanical region of the US?
        
               | saghm wrote:
               | Nowadays, sure, but keep in mind that the "US" didn't
               | extend beyond the east coast when the Puritans first
               | settled here. You might be able to make an argument that
               | there's no cultural influence from the colonial days that
               | lasted until today (although I'd disagree with that
               | sentiment), but otherwise, where would you expect any
               | cultural influence in the rest of the US to have come
               | from?
               | 
               | (To be clear, I'm not saying that there weren't existing
               | cultures there before the US expanded out further west,
               | but I imagine most people would agree that the US today
               | isn't culturally as influenced by them as much as from
               | the the colonies and pre-expansion US.)
        
               | hollerith wrote:
               | New England is perceived as less religious than the
               | South, but one reason for that is that New England's
               | moral perceptions had a strong influence on US political
               | beliefs. In other words, the Puritans morphed into the
               | Congregationalists who morphed into the Unitarians, who
               | basically took over (in the 19th Century) US political
               | thinking (or at least the Left side of it), giving the
               | appearance that New England does not having any
               | particular or special moral or religious beliefs (at
               | least to those on the Left half of the US political
               | divide).
               | 
               | I grew up in New England and have lived in the South and
               | in California, and IMHO morality is a bigger determinant
               | of the behavior of the average person in New England than
               | it is in the other places I've lived (all in the US). The
               | South and California are more pragmatic, less moralistic.
        
               | saghm wrote:
               | That's a good point. When something is within the usual
               | for someone's experience, it's not going to be as
               | obvious, so it becomes the baseline that's used to
               | compare other things to. For stuff like religion, it's
               | easy to assume that your amount is normal, and having
               | more (if you don't feel like you have much) or less (if
               | you do feel like you have a lot) is unusual.
               | 
               | I don't have any experience living outside of the
               | northeast (although not New England specifically since
               | high school), but I definitely agree that there's
               | certainly more religion in New England than might be
               | obvious from the outside (more Catholic than the rest of
               | the country, which also might explain some of the
               | differences).
        
             | jibe wrote:
             | This boycott was run by Collective Shout, an Australian
             | non-profit.
             | 
             | They aren't targeting all sex games on Steam, they were
             | targeting rape, incest, and child abuse.
        
               | actualwitch wrote:
               | Its ridiculous that your comment that has factual
               | information is downvoted while on top of you there's a
               | bunch of comments going on random tangents not based at
               | all on reality.
        
               | hegstal wrote:
               | One of the games they are also going after is Detroit:
               | Become Human, and they have gone after things like GTA in
               | the past. Just because they claim they are going after
               | things for those reasons doesn't mean that's actually an
               | accurate claim as to what they are trying to go after.
               | Though it's good to point out who is actually
               | (supposedly) responsible.
        
               | like_any_other wrote:
               | > They aren't targeting all sex games on Steam, they were
               | targeting rape, incest, and child abuse.
               | 
               | https://www.collectiveshout.org/campaigns includes a
               | number of campaigns against porn in general, so yes, they
               | absolutely are targeting all sex games - simulated rape,
               | incest, and child abuse are merely their first victory.
        
             | cess11 wrote:
             | The US is largely theocratic and has in part because of
             | this managed to resist socialism and other forms of
             | scientific governance to a much larger degree.
             | 
             | Using religious leaders as power brokers is a clever
             | strategy, they'll never budge due to the better argument or
             | scientific reason, hence making it almost impossible for
             | non-violent progressive movements to having an effect at
             | the macro level.
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | Are you sure it's a good thing to be so small minded that
               | reason won't reach you, just because you happened to
               | avoid those big ideas that turned out to not work?
        
               | Geee wrote:
               | Lmao. Socialism is pseudo-scientific bollocks, like flat
               | earth theory.
        
               | alphager wrote:
               | My healthcare, pension and workers protection proves you
               | wrong.
        
               | fortyseven wrote:
               | Any not just pull off the bandaid and tell us you don't
               | really understand what socialism is.
        
             | mango7283 wrote:
             | https://www.heise.de/en/news/Steam-Payment-providers-
             | force-V...
             | 
             | Please explain.
             | 
             | "In 2020, following a complaint from the Hamburg/Schleswig-
             | Holstein Media Authority, Valve blocked all titles that
             | were labeled as "adult" and did not have an age rating. To
             | be able to offer them, the US company would have to
             | integrate a reliable age verification system into Steam in
             | Germany. Because Valve has not yet implemented such a
             | system, sex games remain blocked in Germany. "
        
               | atemerev wrote:
               | Hm. Okay, you are right. Worse than I thought.
        
           | irusensei wrote:
           | One thing to notice is the group that claims responsibility
           | for this is some kind of funky radfem puritan mixture from
           | Australia. They campaigned against titles like GTA V, Detroit
           | Become Human _AND_ abortion pills.
           | 
           | Since they ran a campaign to ban GTA V from stores I can say
           | for sure they are not stopping on fringe content like eroge
           | porn shovelware.
        
           | littlestymaar wrote:
           | As usual, the actual "cancel culture" comes from the
           | conservatives.
        
             | docmars wrote:
             | Collective Shout (who pushed for this) is not a
             | conservative group, but rather a feminist activist group
             | based in Australia.
             | 
             | They're responsible for numerous other calls for bans
             | against games like Detroit: Become Human, GTA, etc.
        
               | littlestymaar wrote:
               | This ban has nothing to do with the call to ban incestual
               | rape games (which is what you refer to), but comes from
               | MasterCard, which has a long story of puritan censorship.
               | 
               | (It's clear in the article, btw).
        
               | docmars wrote:
               | Collective Shout is the activist group that put pressure
               | on MasterCard to make this decision. They're claiming and
               | celebrating the work they did to make this happen on
               | their own X account.
        
           | MangoToupe wrote:
           | To be clear, these campaigns seem to be grounded in fear, not
           | any sense of morality.
        
           | krick wrote:
           | I wonder how this type of pressuring can be made illegal. To
           | be clear: I certainly think this has to be made illegal, and
           | even attempt to coerce a payment network to force a business
           | to do something should be a serious crime. If the product is
           | not illegal, you can sell it, either on your platform, or on
           | a third party platform (Steam), if the platfrom is ok with
           | selling your product. It's arguable, but perfectly reasonable
           | to say that Steam can also choose to not sell it if it
           | doesn't want to. But then, of course, it doesn't seem like a
           | huge leap to say that a payment network can choose to not
           | handle transactions for some type of business if it doesn't
           | want to. Sure, you can appeal to it being a de-facto
           | monopoly, but isn't Steam a de-facto monopoly as well? I
           | mean, I have some trouble formally drawing a line here, yet
           | it clearly seems not right to me, that a payment network can
           | choose at all if they want to handle this or not.
           | 
           | And, as I said, attempt to apply pressure on a payment
           | network, in order to apply pressure on its customer, in order
           | to apply pressure on their customers... well, I think it's
           | pretty obvious why this is a problem, and that things are not
           | supposed to work this way.
        
             | wat10000 wrote:
             | I don't think it should be made illegal, it should be made
             | impractical.
             | 
             | One way would be to ensure proper competition in the
             | payments space. If there were dozens of options then some
             | of them would decide that it's a competitive advantage to
             | ignore the busybodies and cater to people who want to buy
             | this stuff. We see this at work with hosting. There's a
             | multitude of options and it doesn't seem like adult sites
             | have much trouble finding a host that will allow them, even
             | if others might reject them.
             | 
             | Another would be to regulate payment processors like common
             | carriers and require them to serve everyone equally
             | regardless. We see this model with the Post Office. As long
             | as you're not sending something that will compromise the
             | safety of the workers, they'll ship it.
        
               | slt2021 wrote:
               | VISA/MC duopoly have like 60% margins, they are
               | essentially a rent seeking feudal lord on the entirety
               | global commerce.
               | 
               | Pure leeches, that are now engaged in censorship
        
               | bgnn wrote:
               | It shouldn't ve hard to replace them but any other new
               | service (like Wise) end up issuing a Visa/MC card. Why
               | can't we have an open protocol which works between any
               | machine with NFC?
        
               | wat10000 wrote:
               | The trouble is that you either need cryptocurrency or you
               | need some prearranged entity that both parties trust.
               | With current credit cards, that prearranged entity is
               | Visa/MC/Amex/Discover. I don't see cryptocurrency being
               | practical for this use, or ever widely accepted even if
               | somehow practical. Maybe the new FedNow could serve as
               | that foundation with card processing built on top.
               | 
               | But then you have issues like, what about disputes and
               | fraud? With existing credit cards, buyer and seller have
               | both agreed in advance to abide by certain rules. With an
               | open standard, I as a buyer could stand up my own service
               | that makes the payment and then retracts it, or if FedNow
               | doesn't allow retracting payments then I as a seller
               | could make one that refuses to refund the money and I can
               | just not give the buyer their item. (And yeah, this is
               | already illegal, but we see plenty of nefarious activity
               | like this online anyway.)
        
               | krick wrote:
               | It would be great if it was impractical, but I still
               | think it _has_ to be made illegal. I think it is not only
               | "bad" because it's bad for Valve of whoever wants to sell
               | or buy these games, this is "bad" on its own, because it
               | is simply another elaborate form of blackmail. It is as
               | close as it gets to violence without actually beating one
               | up: you are forced to do something not because you are
               | required by law or by nature, but because I want you do
               | that, and I have power over you. This isn't a unique
               | situation in that sense, of course, this pattern appears
               | a lot in life. This one is unique only in that sense that
               | it targets a very narrow bottleneck. If you have power to
               | influence a payment system, and it has legal right to
               | choose to write regulations like that, then you have
               | power over virtually anyone and everyone. Lobbying a
               | policy clause for Mastercard is basically as good (or
               | maybe even better) than lobbying a law. Which, yes, is a
               | problem on its own, but this problem is rather "an
               | unfortunate situation" than a malicious act.
               | 
               | Also, on the matter of the latter problem -- fixing that
               | is much easier said than done. Cryptocurrencies in a way
               | were an attempt to fix that, but governments around the
               | world do not want _this_ problem to be fixed. And of
               | course they don 't. The field is highly regulated,
               | because, as I've said, having control over the payment
               | network is not that very much different from having a
               | physical army to physically beat you up.
               | 
               | As an aside, I was especially surprised by:
               | 
               | > We see this at work with hosting.
               | 
               | Do we, though? It's another topic of course, but I
               | actually share the sentiment that the current trend is
               | the opposite one: good old days of the Free Web are gone,
               | and the reality is that in the days of Gmail (and other
               | major mail providers), Cloudflare (and other major CDNs)
               | the Internet is inherently not a decentralized structure
               | anymore. It takes a few powerful friends to reach an
               | agreement with each other, and everyone else has to
               | follow.
               | 
               | So, anyway, what I had in mind was exactly that:
               | 
               | > to regulate payment processors like common carriers and
               | require them to serve everyone equally regardless
               | 
               | But, as I've said, I don't quite see how to draw the line
               | here. After all, it _would_ be somewhat unfair to payment
               | networks to trip them from making any choices. Both
               | because formally they _are_ just a business, not a
               | commodity (which may actually be the root of the problem,
               | I think), and they should have some right to choose how
               | they want to operate; and also because different
               | customers and products objectively carry different risks.
               | So they _have_ to be able to produce some policies, these
               | policies just have to... to be restricted to what 's
               | necessary somehow.
        
               | wat10000 wrote:
               | Hosting is a very different landscape. Cloudflare and AWS
               | and such are enormous and can exert a lot of control. But
               | you can still ignore them and just do your own thing and
               | it works fine. There are plenty of smaller cloud
               | providers you can use instead. You can still colocate
               | your own hardware in a data center. If nobody in your
               | country wants your money, you can host your service in
               | some other country that doesn't care so much about
               | whatever morality is at issue.
               | 
               | This demonstrably works. There are plenty of porn sites
               | out there, plenty of pirate sites, plenty of places
               | selling illegal stuff, even Wikileaks is still up.
               | 
               | To your last paragraph, I think we can draw the line at
               | "allow any transaction that you reasonably believe is
               | actually authorized by the people who own the accounts."
               | I don't care about being fair to payment networks. If
               | we're going the regulatory route then we've decided that
               | this stuff is critical infrastructure and the needs of
               | the many etc. If individual people at the company don't
               | like handling transaction for porn or whatever, they're
               | free to find a new job. Different risks do make it
               | trickier, but I think we can add some language to allow
               | holding on to money for a certain period before paying it
               | out, or requiring deposits, with some limits on what
               | criteria they can use to make those determinations and
               | how long/large the period/deposit can be.
        
               | marcosdumay wrote:
               | Unfairness would be something to care about if it was a
               | rich market with several small companies competing in it.
               | It's not something to care about corporate monopolies.
               | 
               | No, they should not have the right to choose how they
               | want to operate. All those risks you mention only exist
               | because they choose to keep them around as an excuse to
               | why they are necessary. They refuse to modernize their
               | systems so it works, and they should not be allowed to
               | keep that option.
               | 
               | (Honestly, IMO they should just be terminated and
               | replaced by some public service. But if you want to keep
               | them, they shouldn't have that kind of freedom.)
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | The pressure all counts under free speech. I don't think
             | making it illegal to criticize a company for its customers
             | is a good idea.
        
         | markdown wrote:
         | It's not just games.
         | 
         | Payment processors ban many things that are completely legal,
         | even foods and dietary supplements. It's ridiculous. They have
         | too much power.
        
           | tptacek wrote:
           | I have no trouble seeing why a payment processor would want
           | to avoid doing business with dietary supplement companies.
        
             | maxbond wrote:
             | I mean I wouldn't do business with them, I think the
             | supplements industry is infrastructure for grifters,
             | quacks, and pyramid schemes to fleece the desperate, but
             | what's the problem for Visa? Is it a brand safety thing? My
             | presumption would be that payment processors are amoral and
             | have no problem processing payments for Consolidated Baby
             | Kickers if it were legal to do so, is that a misconception?
        
               | cperciva wrote:
               | "Not as advertised" chargebacks. That industry is also
               | full of subscription scams (e.g. someone thinks they're
               | ordering a supplement for $5.99, but they're actually
               | getting signed up for $39.99/month...).
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Also the products don't work!
        
               | cperciva wrote:
               | I don't think the credit card networks would care about
               | that if it weren't for the risk of chargebacks. Credit
               | card networks have no problem with processing payments
               | for churches!
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Right, no, I'm just saying: that drives a lot of
               | chargebacks.
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | > That industry is also full of subscription scams
               | 
               | Visa / MC are the ones who enable subscription scams and
               | benefit from them. They implemented "convinience" option
               | of "updating" your credit card data with replacement
               | card. So even if you cancel and replace card charges
               | continue to pass.
               | 
               | They also totally able to see all the places where your
               | card been tokenised, but they dont push banks to expose
               | this to you.
        
               | cperciva wrote:
               | In Canada at least, you can opt out of having your new
               | card number shared when you replace a card.
        
             | kjkjadksj wrote:
             | No issues buying Marlboro reds with the credit card of
             | course.
        
               | akerl_ wrote:
               | Cigarette purchasers aren't filing chargebacks when their
               | partner checks the billing history, claiming their card
               | got stolen.
        
               | FireBeyond wrote:
               | Are dietary supplement purchasers doing so?
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Extremely, infamously, yes.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | Have you ever returned a pack of cigarettes? They
               | basically do what you expect them to do.
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | I figured the reason was not wanting to support something
               | harmful to the customer like a fake diet pill. Call me
               | naive for letting that assumption of even a glimmer of
               | empathy affect my guestimation. I should have known it
               | was pure greed all the way down and due to something like
               | this instead.
        
               | spauldo wrote:
               | I would take pure greed over a company imposing its
               | morals on me.
        
           | herbst wrote:
           | There are or have been rules about which colours a dildo can
           | have.
           | 
           | It definitely sounds like Christian morals being forced on
           | us.
        
         | fimdomeio wrote:
         | If I remember correct from the hot money podcast
         | https://www.ft.com/content/762e4648-06d7-4abd-8d1e-ccefb74b3...
         | part of the problem for the credit card companies is figuring
         | what are the boundaries of legality. Countries have very
         | different laws. Things like representing homosexuality or age
         | of consent are very different and credit cards feel that it is
         | a risky business because of that.
        
           | GenerocUsername wrote:
           | This makes little sense with even the tiniest amount of
           | probing.
           | 
           | This is a solvable geo regulation issue, solvable like many
           | other geo regulatory issues
        
         | noduerme wrote:
         | My guess is it's simply a chargeback risk. It's the reason
         | casinos and adult sites have trouble getting credit card
         | processing and are charged much higher basic rates, even under
         | the best of circumstances when the casino or adult site is
         | operating entirely within the law in the jurisdictions it
         | allows.
         | 
         | Punters run a lot of chargebacks on casinos, and people whose
         | spouses catch a XXX video or game on their card statement will
         | lie and run chargebacks too.
         | 
         | In the case of Valve, a lot of chargebacks would drastically
         | increase the processing rates demanded by the payment providers
         | for all transactions across the board, not just those related
         | to adult games.
         | 
         | There's probably a great market opportunity here for a game
         | store focused on adult games and willing to take on that risk.
        
           | atomicnumber3 wrote:
           | That's the problem though. The risk means the market for
           | those riskier credit transactions is literally categorically
           | not a great market. You think JP Morgan gives a shit about
           | Japanese titty games? Hah. No. They care that these games get
           | charged back way more often.
           | 
           | If there is a market opportunity, it's probably in a
           | processor for debit-based transactions that are harder to
           | reverse. But then that makes fraud harder to combat, and one
           | of the reasons everyone loves credit cards so much is because
           | consumers are far more confident to buy from random shops if
           | they know they can always get their money back if the shop
           | scams them.
           | 
           | So - this whole system's lucratively is entirely predicated
           | on easy credit and low risk meaning low fees. Anyone who
           | wants to play in the mud that's leftover by these companies
           | taking the good business are inherently playing a low margin
           | risky game.
        
             | nerdsniper wrote:
             | With the CFPB under threat, there may be room for payment
             | processors which don't protect consumers from fraud.
             | (Regulation is only as strong as its enforcement)
        
               | mafuy wrote:
               | Might be a good idea. This is so curious.
               | 
               | The US has a weird fetish with privatizing things that
               | the government should handle, like consumer protection.
               | If there were a reasonably robust infrastructure for this
               | outside of payment processors in the US, there would be
               | far less pressure on porn providers to comply with fucked
               | up morals about porn. What we have here is an instance of
               | late stage capitalism, and half the people are too
               | narrowminded to see how it hurts their freedom.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | I'm not sure about that. Late stage capitalism would
               | involve the government bailing out credit card companies
               | if there were fraud. I kind of prefer for them to deal
               | with it themselves. And whether they deal with fraud
               | themselves _or_ the government does, they 're going to
               | classify certain types of transactions as riskier than
               | others. My point was that this is probably not a "moral"
               | decision, just a business decision. It would be a lot
               | worse if it were the government mandating it, and worse
               | still if they were mandating it because it conflicted
               | with the moral code of some plurality of voters. That's
               | not the case here, and I'm glad it's not. I wouldn't want
               | the government to control consumer protection to the
               | degree that voters in Texas could decide whether to
               | protect certain consumers or not.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Not a wise business model. Enforcement can return at any
               | time if the political winds shift.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | Yes, and it's been tried before. LibertyCoin, I think.
               | 
               | Write a Steam knockoff platform that's trustworthy enough
               | for people to download, and load it up with dirty games.
               | Put the premium on the customers if they want to use
               | credit card transactions, otherwise push them towards
               | crypto payments. Maybe you won't be an oligarch, but
               | you'll probably end up with a reasonably sized yacht.
               | 
               | [edit] hell, in a few years if the winds shift you might
               | be DraftKings.
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | >Write a Steam knockoff platform that's trustworthy
               | enough for people to download, and load it up with dirty
               | games. Put the premium on the customers if they want to
               | use credit card transactions, otherwise push them towards
               | crypto payments.
               | 
               | Easier said than done. It is hard to earn trust....you
               | would probably need to jumpstart the platform with quite
               | a few indie devs so people start trusting the site and
               | using it.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | I remember having to redo all the art for a game because
               | Apple's store rejected it. Six months. It would have been
               | more fun with the original art. I'm sure there's many an
               | indie dev in the same position who'd love a gray market
               | for putting up games like that.
        
             | noduerme wrote:
             | I wouldn't scoff at the leftovers. You're talking about
             | maybe a trillion dollar industry that struggles to find
             | payment solutions. This is why I gave up on credit card
             | processing for my startup casino in 2010 and just went to
             | taking Bitcoin and other crypto. I originally planned to
             | just take Visa. I wasn't looking to skirt the law. Card
             | companies are looking out for themselves, and they don't
             | really even need regulatory capture to shaft anyone running
             | a business that the public could consider shady or immoral.
             | There's plenty of demand out there, and in my opinion
             | they're leaving money on the table. But their business
             | model makes it difficult to take on the risk, _especially_
             | in the case of something like Valve where they can 't pick
             | each transaction apart and evaluate the risk separately. So
             | yeah... a globally accepted porn and gambling card? That
             | would be a home run if the bills showed up never to
             | someone's spouse, and it won't happen. Using a combination
             | of crypto and higher CC fees to sell the content, though,
             | there's a lot of pent-up demand.
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | >This is why I gave up on credit card processing for my
               | startup casino in 2010 and just went to taking Bitcoin
               | and other crypto.
               | 
               | And how many customers you lost in 2010 because of that?
               | Probably more than 90%. Even now people are reluctant to
               | use crypto but tbh crypto crowd is so big that you can
               | perhaps succeed in opening crypto only business.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | Yes, about 90%. I would have had maybe the 6th or 7th
               | biggest online casino in the world - let's say that my
               | software was about 5th (somewhere between Galewind and
               | Microgaming) - but I ended up being one which catered
               | only to early adopters of cryptocurrency, who were not
               | necessarily gamblers on roulette or blackjack but had
               | nothing better to do with their coins. It was an
               | interesting experience, and it didn't leave me as wealthy
               | as I could have been if the barriers to entering the
               | larger market hadn't already been negotiated between CC
               | companies and governments. That said, at least I'm not in
               | prison like a lot of people who followed and tried to do
               | what I did.
        
           | jhanschoo wrote:
           | Does Valve actually have a high risk of chargebacks? I was
           | under the impression that moreso than other platforms, most
           | Valve customers would rather go through Valve's own refund
           | system. I understand that chargebacks is supposedly the
           | reason for adult-only platforms.
        
             | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
             | The owner of a stolen number is going to use a chargeback.
        
             | Arrowmaster wrote:
             | Chargebacks of legitimate purchases on most large platforms
             | are extremely rare. Most will be from stolen cards. On most
             | large platforms, if you start a chargeback you can expect
             | your account to get locked. Do you want to give up your
             | entire account just for a refund on one purchase? Luckily
             | these large platforms typically have their own refund
             | process.
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | >Chargebacks of legitimate purchases on most large
               | platforms are extremely rare. Most will be from stolen
               | cards.
               | 
               | I never used ecommerce back in the day on the internet
               | but I can imagine that ecommerce fraud was widespread.
               | And that's why excluding other reasons Satoshi invented
               | Bitcoin[0].
               | 
               | I wonder if cryptocurrencies didn't exist would someone
               | nowadays burn the midnight oil to figure out P2P crypto
               | coin since modern payment solutions are fairly good.
               | 
               | Tbh I think Satoshi invented technology around which he
               | wanted to build products unlike Steve Jobs who said that
               | you first need to figure out the product then build
               | technology.
               | 
               | [0] "Completely non-reversible transactions are not
               | really possible, since financial institutions cannot
               | avoid mediating disputes. The cost of mediation increases
               | transaction costs, limiting the minimum practical
               | transaction size and cutting off the possibility for
               | small casual transactions, and there is a broader cost in
               | the loss of ability to make non-reversible payments for
               | nonreversible services. With the possibility of reversal,
               | the need for trust spreads. Merchants must be wary of
               | their customers, hassling them for more information than
               | they would otherwise need. A certain percentage of fraud
               | is accepted as unavoidable. These costs and payment
               | uncertainties can be avoided in person by using physical
               | currency, but no mechanism exists to make payments over a
               | communications channel without a trusted party"
               | https://bitcoin.org/bitcoin.pdf
        
               | Levitz wrote:
               | I don't see how this makes any sense. A reason _for_ the
               | creation of Bitcoin was offering _less_ service than
               | traditional methods?
               | 
               | "Financial institutions cannot avoid mediating disputes"
               | is nonsense, they "can't" because it's constantly
               | demanded by their clients, attempting to sell that as a
               | bug rather than a feature is preposterous.
        
               | mrkramer wrote:
               | Satoshi wanted to bypass banks and make P2P direct
               | payments with no trusted party besides Bitcoin protocol
               | hence >no mechanism exists to make payments over a
               | communications channel without a trusted party
               | 
               | And crypto community speculated that Satoshi or team
               | behind Bitcoin worked at the internet gambling industry
               | and what use to happen is that angry customers would
               | chargeback the money they lost at the internet casino and
               | cause numerous problems for "merchants" or in this case
               | internet entrepreneurs.
        
             | supertrope wrote:
             | Yes. Steam used to have card declines if your address did
             | not match exactly.
             | 
             | Card not present was and still is higher risk than in
             | person shopping. Now that most US customers have chip cards
             | in their wallets fraud has shifted from in person to CNP.
             | Digital goods are high risk because a customer could
             | theoretically download and enjoy the digital good or save a
             | copy and then chargeback. There's no shipping tracking
             | number to prove delivery. Or a fraudster could go on a
             | spending spree from the comfort of their home in another
             | country. Adult-only games are even higher risk because a
             | customer might have to explain to a spouse what the Steam
             | charges were for.
             | 
             | Of course copy protection and the prospect of a ban of
             | their whole Steam account blunts the most obvious customer
             | cheating of keeping a copy and charging back. Steam games
             | cannot be resold. Digital goods that can be easily resold
             | are magnets for fraud. Such as cloud GPUs or international
             | long distance calls.
        
             | jhanschoo wrote:
             | Sorry, I should clarify my question: does Valve actually
             | face a significantly increased risk of chargebacks if it
             | should be more liberal in its adult game rules.
             | 
             | I suppose that if consumer behavior is to have their adult
             | game purchases and conventional game purchases on separate
             | accounts, and the Steam platform allows for that, then that
             | may be so.
        
               | Hamuko wrote:
               | These days Steam allows hiding games from your public
               | profile by marking them as "private", meaning that people
               | can't see that you own the game and can't see that you
               | are playing the game (which is presumably what you would
               | want if you were a fan of "Sex Adventures - Incest Family
               | - Episode 9"). I imagine this is good enough for people
               | so that they won't bother having a separate Steam account
               | just for porn games, as having a single account is more
               | convenient. There's a reason why people hate having
               | multiple game launchers on PC.
               | 
               | https://help.steampowered.com/en/faqs/view/1150-C06F-4D62
               | -49...
        
           | thaumasiotes wrote:
           | Often it's because of secret government requirements.
           | 
           | Compare https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Choke_Point .
           | 
           | Somehow, it's forbidden for the government to oppress
           | pornographers directly, but it's perfectly fine to impose
           | legal sanctions on banks who maintain business relationships
           | with them.
        
           | thallium205 wrote:
           | This is the correct answer. There are many merchant
           | categories, adult being just one of them, that are
           | susceptible to high chargeback rates which result in payment
           | processors banning them.
        
             | kergonath wrote:
             | This is nonsense. If you want us to believe this you need
             | to show that Steam with erotic games is more of a risk than
             | Steam without them. Comparing Steam with things like "adult
             | merchants" like Onlyfans or a porn streaming service does
             | not sound very appropriate.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | It's not nonsense. I've hosted, moderated and managed
               | sites that were only obliquely related to porn or
               | gambling, and you wouldn't believe the level of rejection
               | for running ads or getting payment processing that they
               | are faced with. And I _ran a casino_ for 4 years. I coded
               | it and I ran it 24 /7, and believe me, I did everything
               | by the book. The CC companies do not give a shit as long
               | as they make money. Chargebacks cost them a lot in time
               | more than in actual cash, and they have categories of
               | risk for every merchant who may expose them to that risk.
               | The highest categories of risk are porn and gambling.
               | 
               |  _Any_ entity that uses a CC gateway and has _any_
               | exposure to either of those risks is exposing itself to
               | _all_ the risk. The CC companies almost certainly told
               | Valve that they would be considered a porn site and face
               | a 1.5%-2% higher processing fee for every transaction.
               | 
               | No nonsense involved, that's how it works.
        
               | fn-mote wrote:
               | 1. Thank you for the first hand experience post.
               | 
               | 2. I think the argument being made is that the credit
               | card companies are not actually experiencing higher risk
               | (from Steam). Not that they have any qualms about putting
               | a business into a "high risk" classification.
               | 
               | In this case, I suppose the argument is that Steam is a
               | large enough entity that they should be able to "self-
               | insure". If the US had a relatively open way to become a
               | payment processor, the free market would take care of
               | this. Unfortunately that isn't the case and also is very
               | unlikely to change.
        
               | pqtyw wrote:
               | > that's how it works. On Steam specifically? But nothing
               | you said shows proves that.
               | 
               | Valve already has a very generous refund policy and a
               | chargeback would likely result in your account being
               | banned.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | > I've hosted, moderated and managed sites that were only
               | obliquely related to porn or gambling, and you wouldn't
               | believe the level of rejection for running ads or getting
               | payment processing that they are faced with. And I ran a
               | casino for 4 years. I coded it and I ran it 24/7, and
               | believe me, I did everything by the book. The CC
               | companies do not give a shit as long as they make money.
               | 
               | It is not really comparable. Steam is not a casino, and
               | it is largely the same platform with or without perfectly
               | legal porn. The presence of a few (not even that popular)
               | adult games does not change the overall demographics that
               | much, or the risk profile. I am not even ready to accept
               | without proof that the risks are higher than with all the
               | other, non-porn shovelware.
               | 
               | Sure, if Steam turned into an adult-only platform, then
               | the risk profile could change significantly. But that is
               | not what happened.
               | 
               | Also, as many people pointed out, Steam really does not
               | incentive customers to ask for chargebacks. All the
               | available information points to Valve managing its
               | platform quite well for everyone involved.
        
           | delusional wrote:
           | Isn't it a little odd that Visa/Master isn't out there making
           | that argument? Why would we assume them having the best of
           | intentions of they aren't even willing to argue those
           | intentions themselves?
        
             | noduerme wrote:
             | They don't need to make an argument for anything. They tell
             | Valve: "Hey, if 1% of your transactions are for smut and
             | incur smut-level-chargebacks, we're going to just treat all
             | your transactions as smut", and Valve says, "no problem,
             | we'll pull those games." It's not like Valve stands to
             | profit by holding the line for free speech here or
             | something. Valve gives as little a shit about an indie porn
             | game as it does about anything else. Honestly, why should
             | they pay the extra percentage across the board to defend it
             | anyway? This is why I'm saying a separate X-rated platform
             | would get a lot of traction.
        
               | soysaucy wrote:
               | But can't they just block buying those games with visa/mc
               | and only allow using steam wallet credit? Some Japanese
               | sites have been having these issues for a while and
               | that's what they ended up doing (or just closing shop
               | entirely).
        
               | alexp2021 wrote:
               | That would be a nice solution.
        
               | noduerme wrote:
               | I guess that would be the logical thing to do. There's
               | probably some synergy at work. If these games could be
               | widely promoted, maybe their average value to Valve would
               | be $10k each or something. Instead, they probably net
               | 1/10th of that before they drop off the radar completely.
               | Building in a sub-system that guarantees that certain
               | games can only be bought with certain methods of payment
               | seems like a pain in the ass. However, they could do it.
               | And that sort of argues against the idea that you'd be
               | building yourself any kind of moat by setting up a game
               | platform for just the XXX stuff.
        
               | delusional wrote:
               | How would Visa/Master know? Steam doesn't include
               | information about which games are purchased in the
               | receipt (at least as far as I know). Unless they have
               | some sort of back-channel they wouldn't know what's being
               | charged back.
               | 
               | If Valve was getting a complaint from Visa/Master about
               | charge back rates of certain games, I believe they'd be
               | more forthcoming with that information. What we're seeing
               | here is more consistent with Visa/Master taking offense
               | with what the platform offers.
               | 
               | In either case, I find the lack of communication from
               | Visa/Master deafening. If Visa/Master was seeing high
               | chargeback rates from incest games on steam. Why would
               | they not eagerly offer that data?
        
           | bloqs wrote:
           | itch.io already serves this purpose no?
        
             | noduerme wrote:
             | I guess so. I haven't spent that much time checking out the
             | darker corners of it. I wonder what their situation is with
             | the credit card companies.
        
           | londons_explore wrote:
           | Visa/MC still make a decent amount of money on chargebacks -
           | the fee is $15 or so, of which the platform keeps a big
           | chunk.
        
         | jimbob45 wrote:
         | I suspect Valve is blaming the credit card companies for
         | something they really wanted for themselves. Steam is a big
         | store open to everyone and you're going to scare away a big
         | chunk of seniors, Christians, etc with stuff like incest,
         | ageplay, and rape just so that a small minority uses you
         | instead of...itch.io? Better to keep the big safe names like
         | Being a Dik and Eternum on Steam and flush the rest so that you
         | can have the best of both worlds.
        
           | maxbond wrote:
           | I think that for better or worse Valve is genuinely committed
           | to lassies faire moderation, they have historically been very
           | hesitant to remove really heinous games. I don't think
           | they're using this as cover.
        
             | Dracophoenix wrote:
             | That changed with Hatred in 2015. There have been a number
             | of them since. It seems that anything that gives Valve bad
             | press is on its shit list, even if the premise theme has
             | been done before by a bigger or more well-known company
             | stateside. If the upcoming Grand Theft Auto game has full
             | frontal nudity and realistically depicted sex scenes, I
             | doubt Valve would give it a second look.
        
               | maxbond wrote:
               | That was ten years ago, there have been tons of really
               | objectionable games on Steam in recent years. Eg I just
               | checked and the game where you roleplay as Kyle
               | Rittenhouse shooting protestors is still on Steam.
               | 
               | Per Wikipedia:
               | 
               | > [ _Hatred_ ] was shortly removed by Valve from their
               | Steam Greenlight service due to its extremely violent
               | content but was later brought back with a personal
               | apology from [Valve's co-founder] Gabe Newell.
        
           | daedrdev wrote:
           | Valve made the conscious choice to allow porn games in the
           | first place, they knew what they were getting into imo
        
           | theshackleford wrote:
           | > I suspect
           | 
           | Based upon what evidence?
        
         | presentation wrote:
         | The USA is extremely litigious, rules are decided not by the
         | legislature usually but instead by people suing each other to
         | establish case law, and anyone with a bone to pick could sink
         | you in legal fees and proceedings at a whim. So probably people
         | who don't like the idea of adult content can use the courts to
         | make payment processors' lives painful and they decide to just
         | forgo that business.
         | 
         | US courts are too easy to use as a tool of abuse.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | This is an oft-repeated misconception. Germany is almost
           | twice as litigious as the US. Sweden and Austria are also
           | more litigious than the US.
           | 
           | > anyone with a bone to pick could sink you in legal fees and
           | proceedings at a whim
           | 
           | This is FUD, not reality. While it's "possible" for anyone in
           | any country to try to sue, it simply doesn't happen in the US
           | more often than elsewhere. The relatively high number of US
           | lawsuits are filled with corporate litigation, contract
           | disputes, bankruptcy filings, car accidents, and appeals,
           | among many other things, and not people suing each other for
           | minor grievances.
           | 
           | "Coffee spills, Pokemon class actions, tobacco settlements.
           | American courts have made a name for themselves as a wild
           | lottery and a money machine for lucky few lawyers. At least
           | in part, however, the reputation is unfounded. American
           | courts seem to handle routine contract and tort disputes as
           | well as their peers in other wealthy democracies.
           | 
           | "More generally, Americans do not file an unusually high
           | number of law suits. They do not employ large numbers of
           | judges or lawyers. They do not pay more than people in
           | comparable countries to enforce contracts. And they do not
           | pay unusually high prices for insurance against routine
           | torts.
           | 
           | "Instead, American courts have made the bad name for
           | themselves by mishandling a few peculiar categories of law
           | suits. In this article, we use securities class actions and
           | mass torts to illustrate the phenomenon, but anyone who reads
           | a newspaper could suggest alternatives.
           | 
           | "The implications for reform are straightforward: focus not
           | on the litigation as a whole; focus on the specifically
           | mishandled types of suits."
           | 
           | http://www.law.harvard.edu/programs/olin_center/papers/pdf/R.
           | ..
        
         | guidedlight wrote:
         | Another factor is that credit providers (i.e. banks) are
         | increasingly using customer transaction data to assess customer
         | behaviour as part of its risk scoring.
         | 
         | If a customer is regularly purchasing adult material that would
         | be definitely be a red flag.
        
           | chao- wrote:
           | A red flag of what?
        
             | supertrope wrote:
             | Defaulting on their credit card bill. Or the account ends
             | up having been started by an identity fraudster. Which also
             | ends in default.
        
               | jrflowers wrote:
               | That seems backward. The people I've known that spend a
               | lot of money on adult entertainment are _exactly_ the
               | group that pays their bills.
        
               | SXX wrote:
               | This. I dont know who do you need to be in order to pay
               | for the porn that you can pirate for free. In case of
               | games or music or movies there is collecting and
               | convinience, but porn is pretty much opposite.
               | 
               | But at the same time chance of "oops it's not mine"
               | charbacks likely much higher compared to other spending.
        
               | globular-toast wrote:
               | Then why would they want to stop getting these red flags?
        
           | LorenPechtel wrote:
           | Red flag for what?
           | 
           | A regular purchaser of adult entertainment almost certainly
           | has enough cash flow to pay their bills. And they'll have a
           | hard time claiming it's not them when it matches their
           | previous activity. Having an interest in sex doesn't in the
           | slightest suggest a person is bad--if anything, the apparent
           | lack of interest would be more worrisome. (Not that purchase
           | history can be used to discern this.) Some of the ones who
           | don't are asexuals, but some are those who are repressing
           | their sexuality--and that's more likely to show up in
           | unacceptable ways.
           | 
           | A first time purchaser of adult entertainment is another
           | matter--that's going to have a lot of spouse-found-out
           | chargebacks.
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | It could be a holdover from Operation Choke Point, an Obama-
         | administration arm-twisting initiative that would subject banks
         | to more regulatory scrutiny and possible disciplinary action if
         | they did business with certain "high-risk businesses" including
         | firearm and pornography sellers. Ostensibly the initiative was
         | ended in 2017, but banks are probably still afraid to be handed
         | the black spot for doing business with the "wrong" sorts of
         | people.
        
         | nullc wrote:
         | > Why do payment processors do stuff like this? Is there some
         | regulation that requires them to?
         | 
         | Generally no, but they exist in a regulatory morass where it's
         | impossible to do what they do without arguably or perhaps
         | technically being in violation of hundreds of regulations at
         | any given time.
         | 
         | The US government then uses their power to selectively enforce
         | the voluminous mess of bad regulations to coerce parties to
         | undertake actions which it would be flatly illegal for the
         | government to perform directly such as cutting off sexually
         | explicit content from payment rails.
         | 
         | e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Choke_Point
         | 
         | The practice isn't limited to payment processors but they're a
         | particularly good vector given the level of regulation they're
         | subjected to. Choke Point (and Choke point 2) are just specific
         | examples of a general tactic to end run around the public's
         | rights that has been used by the US government for decades. In
         | most cases the abuse isn't so well organized that it has a
         | project name you can point at.
         | 
         | Congress and the whitehouse leaning on social media companies
         | to suppress lawful opinions on covid policy is another example
         | of that kind of abuse that has received some public scrutiny.
         | Most cases, however, go without notice particularly since the
         | ultimate victims of the actions generally have no way to know
         | the cause.
        
         | kwar13 wrote:
         | See Bill Ackman and his crusade against PornHub.
        
         | herbst wrote:
         | Just one of the ways the US forces it's weird morals onto the
         | world.
        
           | PicassoCTs wrote:
           | Sexual self-denial always was the driving force behind the
           | western cultural success. You can not have hyper-
           | specialization and rule of law, without some members of
           | society sacrificing a "normal" life.
           | 
           | From the monk in the monastry to Turing hyper-focused on an
           | enigma there is clear line. Its a ugly recipe, but its
           | working, unlike all those other societies out there, who are
           | currently eating themselves. A judge doesn't dress like a
           | priest for no reason.
           | 
           | Sexual caste slavery or anarchy- thats the choices.
        
             | sapphicsnail wrote:
             | > You can not have hyper-specialization and rule of law,
             | without some members of society sacrificing a "normal"
             | life.
             | 
             | Sex freaks hyper specialize in things all the time. Monks
             | and priests also had reputations as horny perverts in
             | Medieval literature. Also, there are plenty of non-Western
             | countries that have been functional. This is such an out of
             | touch, ahistorical take.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | > Also, there are plenty of non-Western countries that
               | have been functional.
               | 
               | And there are plenty of western countries that do not
               | work like that, as well.
        
             | kergonath wrote:
             | > Sexual self-denial always was the driving force behind
             | the western cultural success.
             | 
             | It is a feature of a subset of the culture in some
             | countries. It is far less universal as you say.
             | 
             | > You can not have hyper-specialization and rule of law,
             | without some members of society sacrificing a "normal"
             | life.
             | 
             | This really does not follow. How does the existence of laws
             | prevent someone to live a normal life? In a liberal
             | democracy, laws fundamentally guarantee that we can do so,
             | as long as someone's fundamental individual freedom does
             | not cause unacceptable harm to someone else. In that
             | framework, what we do in private with consenting adults is
             | absolutely nobody's business. Rule of law does not change
             | this.
             | 
             | > From the monk in the monastry to Turing hyper-focused on
             | an enigma there is clear line.
             | 
             | What line is this? In which way was Turing's persecution a
             | requirement for him being a genius? How do we benefit from
             | him killing himself instead of leaving him be and make
             | other contributions to our intellectual development?
             | 
             | > It's an ugly recipe, but it's working, unlike all those
             | other societies out there, who are currently eating
             | themselves.
             | 
             | It is not. What you are advocating is a theocracy and there
             | are many examples in History and around the world that show
             | that it is a terrible idea.
             | 
             | > A judge doesn't dress like a priest for no reason.
             | 
             | All I can say is LOL. Ceremonial clothing is more nuanced
             | than that.
             | 
             | > Sexual caste slavery or anarchy- thats the choices.
             | 
             | The fact that you only see these possibilities says a lot
             | more about you than the way human beings work.
        
             | rendall wrote:
             | It's fun when posters inadvertently reveal far more about
             | themselves than whatever they are discussing, such as
             | "Western cultural success" as here.
        
             | grues-dinner wrote:
             | > Turing hyper-focused on an enigma
             | 
             | I don't know if he had major active relationships
             | specifically while working on Enigma (other than the short
             | engagement to Joan Clarke in 1941), but Turing famously
             | _did_ have sexual relationships since the discovery of one
             | eventually led to criminal prosecution of both him and his
             | partner, his chemical castration and eventually possibly
             | suicide.
             | 
             | Paul Erdos might be a better example, though I don't think
             | he was deliberately self-denying and more just a huge
             | oddball. Newton also never showed much interest,
             | apparently, though an engagement was rumoured.
             | 
             | Many of the biggest and best-known brains in maths,
             | engineering, physics and computing did marry: as a quick
             | random survey: Euler, Chandrasekhar, Faraday, Maxwell,
             | Watt, Babbage, Einstein, Dijkstra, Wiles, Hopper, Hamilton,
             | Knuth, even Ramanujan and the Woz (4 times, even).
        
             | Der_Einzige wrote:
             | This BTW is 100% the reason why americans still perform
             | circumcison and still radically cling to it.
             | 
             | Men must have their sexuality attacked and stymed from the
             | very beginning of birth, or else they will waste their
             | brain power on promiscuity. That's the only thinking anyway
             | that explains why over half this country still circumcises.
             | 
             | Kant and I think Newton were famously virgins and a whole
             | lot of moral crusaders in this world get extremely angry at
             | the idea that people in this world have enjoyable sexual
             | relations. A lot of people want a lot more sexual
             | frustration to exist in this world, as it's good for
             | capitalist exploitation.
        
               | spauldo wrote:
               | That's absolutely not the reason. It started out that
               | way, sure, but it's not why it's done now.
               | 
               | It's done now out of basic tradition (father is
               | circumcised, so son is too), conformity (his peers are
               | all circumcised, we don't want him made fun of), doctor
               | advice (fewer infections, easier to keep clean), and
               | plain old cultural inertia. It's slowly dying out but I
               | expect it to stick around another several decades.
        
           | docmars wrote:
           | This originated from an Australian-based feminist activist
           | group called "Collective Shout", who put pressure on the
           | payment processors to censor digital content.
           | 
           | They claimed it as their own victory on X this week.
        
         | globular-toast wrote:
         | Control. People get a kick out of controlling others and
         | stopping them doing things that don't effect them in any way.
         | It's like how being a practising gay was illegal or how using
         | certain drugs still is.
        
           | johnisgood wrote:
           | So true. People love meddling into other people's lives,
           | control their actions, etc.
        
         | irusensei wrote:
         | I think the biggest issue here is that somewhere down the line
         | we gave payment processors the responsibility of policing for
         | crime and terrorism. Our governments and regulators punish
         | those institutions for "not doing enough" to prevent such
         | things from happening.
         | 
         | You might think I'm defending the multibillion company but here
         | comes the catch: all of this is expensive so when you are doing
         | something funky even though not illegal they just cut you out.
         | You are a small dev or merchant and it's not worth running a
         | whole monitoring apparatus over your activities.
         | 
         | Then we get into this situation where borderline cartel
         | activity like this happens and we have a sort of shadow
         | government enacting their own regulations. This raises some
         | eyebrows dont you think? It will probably continue until
         | governments realize this is happening.
        
           | peanut-walrus wrote:
           | The responsibility ended up with payment processors and other
           | financial institutions because otherwise they would be forced
           | to give access to all their customer / transaction data to
           | governments and law enforcement.
           | 
           | I really wish we had a push for payment neutrality. Financial
           | transactions are infrastructure and infrastructure should be
           | dumb and neutral. Why does everyone have to suffer slow and
           | expensive transfers just to maybe occasionally catch some bad
           | guys (and they're not actually caught, just mildly
           | inconvenienced)? And of course once you're already doing it,
           | there's inevitably overreach, as evidenced by Visa here.
           | 
           | And before someone chimes in about how crypto will solve
           | this: yes, crypto has already solved this for the criminal
           | class. But most of the rest of people still have to suffer
           | all the fincrime policing every time they move money or pay
           | for something.
        
             | irusensei wrote:
             | > and they're not actually caught, just mildly
             | inconvenienced
             | 
             | I read somewhere that criminal organizations and
             | individuals love KYC and AML because they have the
             | resources to go around it and it makes their operations
             | look legit.
        
           | wood_spirit wrote:
           | As a generalisation it seems sensible that it should be
           | illegal to knowingly handle illegal things and the proceeds
           | of illegal things.
           | 
           | It's hard to say that it's ok to profit from someone else's
           | crime.
           | 
           | If I sell you a bike cheap, no questions asked, then you
           | ought be as culpable as me as you don't have reasonable doubt
           | that it's stolen. Etc.
           | 
           | This can be weaponised. The lobbies go after visa and
           | Mastercard etc by giving the company "proof" that same
           | transactions are very illegal, eg leaks or underage or duress
           | etc. This forces them in the position of being complicit
           | which means they have to step back.
        
             | LorenPechtel wrote:
             | Yeah, but there should be a concept of what level of
             | scrutiny is warranted. Pornhub had a legitimate problem in
             | that in permitting user content they made it extremely hard
             | to keep their system from being used for improper purposes
             | (underage, revenge.) But neither would I expect any system
             | to be 100%. Should you have known? If so, you're wrong.
             | Things look reasonable? No fault.
        
               | irusensei wrote:
               | Pornhub issue involved real exploitation of real people.
               | Gaming characters are not real. I would think this is as
               | reasonable as it can be.
               | 
               | The content might be illegal in some countries and thats
               | fair if we can assume the people who pushed for these
               | rules were voted for. No one voted for Visa and
               | Mastercard.
        
           | schappim wrote:
           | > we gave payment processors the responsibility of policing
           | for crime and terrorism
           | 
           | Mirrors what Marc Andreessen said on Lex's podcast.
           | 
           | The problem isn't just regulatory overreach, it's delegated
           | enforcement w/out accountability.
           | 
           | Financial institutions are now playing judge and jury, not
           | because they want to, but because the cost of scrutiny or
           | punishment is too high.
           | 
           | It's soft censorship by infrastructure...
        
           | xcf_seetan wrote:
           | >we gave payment processors the responsibility of policing
           | for crime and terrorism
           | 
           | Maybe is time to do a reboot of the economy, what about
           | everyone goes to the bank and withdraw all their money, and
           | when everybody has his money, we put the money back in the
           | bank? Would be funny to see how banks would react :)
        
             | jgilias wrote:
             | That's literally impossible. There's not enough cash in the
             | system for that.
        
         | stuaxo wrote:
         | Who runs Mastercard, are they linked to some American prudes?
        
         | WhyNotHugo wrote:
         | > Is there some regulation that requires them to?
         | 
         | There isn't. Even worse, there's no legislation prohibited them
         | from doing so.
         | 
         | Payment processors (eg: Mastercard, Visa) are the ultimate
         | deciders of whether you can sell something online or not,
         | regardless of whether it is legal.
         | 
         | They haven't just blocked adult content, they've also blocked
         | non-profits with which they disagree in the past.
         | 
         | We need much stronger legislation around this. Private entities
         | shouldn't be capable of deciding that a given organisation
         | can't charge online. Only institutions which represent the
         | public's interests should have this level of influence.
        
         | Al-Khwarizmi wrote:
         | > Some of these games seem completely abhorrent
         | 
         | Why would you consider those abhorrent while games where you
         | can slaughter people, or commit all kinds of crimes like any
         | random GTA, are widely considered normal?
         | 
         | I'll never understand American morals. What's clear is that we
         | need non-US payment processors so that the values of a given
         | culture aren't imposed worldwide.
        
           | bornfreddy wrote:
           | Say what you want about crypto, but it does solve this
           | problem at least.
        
             | munksbeer wrote:
             | Yes, stable-coins do. But if you have a crypto where the
             | entire point seems to be "it should be worth more tomorrow
             | than today", then it is stupid to use it to transact in
             | rather than to hoard.
             | 
             | On the other hand, stable-coins suffer the same problems as
             | visa. They're centralised, and subject to zealous
             | regulations.
        
               | mritterhoff wrote:
               | I expect my index funds to be worth more tomorrow than
               | today (on average), but still manage to pay for things
               | with USD.
               | 
               | If buying, selling and transacting fees are low enough, I
               | don't see why bitcoin's (to pick one) value changes would
               | matter much.
        
               | boredhedgehog wrote:
               | > They're centralised, and subject to zealous
               | regulations.
               | 
               | The currency wouldn't have to meet any particular
               | definition of a stablecoin as long as it is inflationary.
               | It could be exactly like Bitcoin but with a different
               | mining algorithm.
        
             | aprilthird2021 wrote:
             | It doesn't "solve" the problem, it's just not regulated the
             | same way. If governments decided to extend the same
             | regulations to crypto transactions, what recourse would a
             | person have?
        
               | tavavex wrote:
               | I'm not some crypto evangelist, but as far as I know,
               | crypto at its foundation is a lot less "watertight" in
               | terms of ascertaining who is who. Your government could
               | pass laws to pressure your local money-to-crypto exchange
               | service into complying with whatever regulation is
               | needed. But they can't force the entire network of crpyto
               | transactions to have real names tied to accounts, demand
               | reasons for payment, discriminate based on what's being
               | paid for, etc. So, circumventing payment processors'
               | "grassroots" self-moderation requires finding a way to
               | bypass basically the entire payment pipeline.
               | Circumventing a hypothetical highly-regulated crypto
               | environment just requires finding a way to sneak your
               | money into the system. And there will probably be foreign
               | or grey market services that don't care about what your
               | specific country thinks.
        
           | AnonymousPlanet wrote:
           | Europeans thought they had finally gotten rid of the Puritans
           | when the Mayflower set sail. But four centuries later their
           | overzealous character still haunts them.
        
         | docmars wrote:
         | Get this - they power the payments infrastructure for OnlyFans,
         | which to many people is arguably more degenerate than a few
         | adult-themed games.
         | 
         | People can also buy TV shows and movies in which their content
         | is far more grusome and disturbing than the video-games
         | targeted by the activist groups putting pressure on payment
         | processors.
         | 
         | I noticed someone else posted a list of other groups, but
         | another one is called "Collective Shout", who censors their own
         | ads because their subject matter is considered harmful.
        
         | canibal wrote:
         | Aside from the moral clamor, if something has a higher
         | likelihood of fraud, there's a direct relationship with the
         | increase of its cost. Both legal fees and labor cost to deal
         | with these claims could add up more than we outsiders may
         | realize. It's very possible that some risk-averse analyst "ran
         | the numbers", and decided this wasn't worth it. I would also
         | speculate that there may be a certain hidden coat of false
         | fraud claims. Certain folks buying something in the moment,
         | then shamefully claiming they didn't after the fact, which in
         | turn could carry the costs associated with processing a new
         | card & number or conversely fighting false claims.
         | 
         | As for the morality angle though, while I definitely agree that
         | these companies' main motivation has to be increasing revenue
         | and profit, and that their only reason for doing anything is
         | cost-driven; you never know what middle-manager who is swayed
         | by what belief is actually making these decisions. So as much
         | as the monolithic goal of the organization is more money, there
         | are still emotional (and financially fallible) people pulling
         | the levers.
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | The fraud thing explains why they might avoid an entirely
           | adult storefront for it, but for steam? who has their own
           | refund policies and support system that presumably shields
           | the payment processor from charge backs most of the time?
           | 
           | There are also large anti porn lobbying groups applying
           | pressure to the payment processors, so that angle creates
           | costs in a different way.
        
             | bitmasher9 wrote:
             | Steam's refund policy and support system doesn't eliminate
             | the possibility of someone buying on steam with their CC
             | and then calling their CC and claiming fraud.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | I think they'd rather overcorrect than risk reputational damage
        
         | Krasnol wrote:
         | The Thielesque climate in the US will grow even more of those
         | scams while simultaneously destroying the justice apparatus.
         | 
         | Cyberpunk is coming for us.
        
         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | The US government has deputized payment processors to impose
         | restrictions on commerce when it suits them.
        
         | LorenPechtel wrote:
         | "Completely abhorrent" is subjective. If you want it banned,
         | show me the victims that would be saved. Otherwise, what
         | happens behind closed doors is none of our business.
         | 
         | And the legality of them--we still have obscenity statutes on
         | the books. Garbage as far as I'm concerned, but they're still
         | there.
        
         | t0lo wrote:
         | How can you not see the pattern yet? They've been putting the
         | industry into deliberate managed decline for the last 2 years.
         | Simply because it made people happy and that is a threat to the
         | valueless deeducated world that they are trying to impose.
        
       | Covingtastic wrote:
       | Honestly, this whole Visa/Mastercard control thing feels a lot
       | like realizing you've been following rules that don't really fit
       | you. It's tough to break out of it. But FedNow is an interesting
       | option. It lets banks move money instantly, 24/7, with no card
       | networks involved, so less hassle with the content policing. It's
       | not a magic fix (still early days, only works in the US), but it
       | shows there's another way if you're willing to step outside the
       | old patterns. Sometimes that's what you need to actually move
       | forward. And no I'm not a Fednow shill. Has anyone tried Kagi
       | btw? ;)
        
       | miiiiiike wrote:
       | Look. Ignore the content. Why the fuck do we allow credit card
       | companies have a say in how we spend our money?
       | 
       | Fraud? Abuse? Fine, let me put cash onto a card and if that card
       | gets stolen, oh well, my loss. Mastercard should have no say in
       | what what speech is considered acceptable outside of their
       | offices. We don't care what execs at a water company think? Why
       | do we care about the people at Mastercard?
        
         | hungmung wrote:
         | It's because Visa got sued, lost, and it was found out they
         | knowingly processed payments for illegal adult content, so they
         | basically avoid the sector entirely now. _Economist_ had an
         | article about it maybe two years ago and came to much the same
         | conclusion you did. IIRC, the failure in their mind was
         | government not stepping in to make a law so things are less
         | ambiguous in the future. Now payment processing cos get to gate
         | keep people 's speech, which means everything is basically a
         | civil suit away from getting blacklisted.
        
           | braiamp wrote:
           | > It's because Visa got sued, lost, and it was found out they
           | knowingly processed payments for illegal adult content
           | 
           | Got any source for that? What they got sued for? Aiding human
           | trafficking?
        
             | driscoll42 wrote:
             | It's not quite that specific, but close enough:
             | 
             | https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/01/business/dealbook/pornhu
             | b...
             | 
             | https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2022/08/california-
             | court...
             | 
             | >This week, US District Judge Cormac Carney of the US
             | District Court of the Central District of California
             | decided that there's reason to believe that Visa knowingly
             | processed payments that allowed MindGeek to monetize "a
             | substantial amount of child porn." To decide, the court
             | wants to know much more about Visa's involvement, calling
             | for more evidence of legal harms caused during a
             | jurisdictional discovery process extended through December
             | 30, 2022.
             | 
             | According to Court Listener, the case is still ongoing -
             | https://www.courtlistener.com/docket/59992265/serena-
             | fleites...
        
           | aranelsurion wrote:
           | I wonder what are the odds of Visa being succesfully sued for
           | processing payments to such a huge brand like Steam.
           | 
           | Steam has its virtual wallet and marketplace as well, so Visa
           | is twice removed from where the money will actually go once
           | it enters Steam ecosystem.
           | 
           | Even as an abundance of caution, this doesn't make sense to
           | me.
        
           | moffkalast wrote:
           | Seems rather weird that Visa out of all the parties involved
           | got hit by this, that's like suing the national bank for
           | printing cash currency that gets used in illegal ways? Or
           | suing the pavement for allowing a heist getaway car to drive
           | away. Or the gas station where they last filled it up.
        
         | SJC_Hacker wrote:
         | Because they are on the hook for fraudulent transactions, until
         | they get to merchant to refund. Otherwise they wouldn't care.
         | 
         | Which is why some merchants get effectively blacklisted if they
         | have too many fraudulent transactions
        
           | jjeaff wrote:
           | that wouldn't apply in this case, because the vendor, Valve,
           | would be on the hook for fraudulent purchases and they would
           | definitely have the deep pockets to pay out. The cc companies
           | only have to worry about the small, fly by night companies
           | that might disappear after a bunch of fraud.
        
           | lxgr wrote:
           | The card networks are never on the hook for fraudulent
           | transactions (nor for any other type of chargeback for that
           | matter). If anything, it's the merchant's payment service
           | provider/card acquirer that absorbs the loss if the merchant
           | can't pay.
        
             | zhivota wrote:
             | True until the acquiring (merchant side) bank is insolvent.
             | Then the network pays. Source: worked at Visa for years.
             | 
             | It's why it's so hard to become an acquiring bank on the
             | network.
        
               | lxgr wrote:
               | True - I was debating whether I should mention that edge
               | case :)
               | 
               | I think the general idea is that acquiring banks are
               | hopefully large enough to absorb any single merchant
               | insolvency, but there are obviously limits to that.
               | Airlines and event tickets are notorious example of that,
               | since they usually take payment weeks or months ahead of
               | providing the underlying service but want to get paid
               | immediately.
        
           | miiiiiike wrote:
           | No, I get it. Give me a "Freedom Card" or whatever that
           | generates a one-time use number/cvv combo, backed by cash,
           | that I'm fully responsible for. If I give a guy on the corner
           | $5 cash and he walks off with it, that's between me and him.
           | We don't need to resort to crypto. I don't care if there's a
           | paper trail, I don't need to be anonymous. I just don't want
           | money people to have any say in how people choose to spend
           | their money.
        
             | xboxnolifes wrote:
             | Thats not exactly a credit card at that point. And with a
             | credit card, you're explicitly _not_ spending _your_ money.
             | 
             | Though i agree with the idea of a debit card that doesn't
             | allow chargebacks, but without so many annoying
             | restrictions.
        
               | miiiiiike wrote:
               | Yeah, a "Freedom Card". Our money, they move it, no
               | moralizing. We don't need crypto to fix this, just common
               | sense legislation.
               | 
               | No company or individual should be denied the right to
               | receive funds digitally without due process.
               | 
               | Companies should be free to transact with or exclude
               | anyone, but there should be neutral infrastructure that
               | facilitates the flow of money, with multiple players each
               | with differing rules and risk profiles setup to help
               | people and companies access it.
               | 
               | No one financial institution should be able to dictate
               | the speech allowed on a platform.
               | 
               | What's the status of FedNow?
        
               | healsjnr1 wrote:
               | The problem that seems to be being missed here is that
               | while fraud is one reason Visa has say over what they
               | accept, the much much much bigger issue is ATF, Money
               | laundering and Sanctions.
               | 
               | Cards like the Freedom card will never fly with either
               | the Networks or the Issuing Banks as these kinds of
               | payment instruments are immediately used to wash illicit
               | funds.
               | 
               | Visa's stance with Steam is bollocks, and it is another
               | example of the monopoly they hold over payment
               | processing. They shouldn't have the ability to impact a
               | legit merchants catalogue.
               | 
               | But the idea that we can have a Freedom card also doesn't
               | checkout. The less known about what the money is spent on
               | the higher the risk. And cost of complying with
               | Suspicious Activity Reports regulations is really high
               | (as the costs of you breach the requirements), so any
               | attempts to create / run this kind of thing often don't
               | stack up.
        
               | miiiiiike wrote:
               | You can still look for suspicious activity without having
               | any leverage over what legitimate merchants offer.
        
               | welshwelsh wrote:
               | You think that common sense legislation is a more
               | realistic solution than crypto?
               | 
               | You can never rely on governments or corporations to have
               | reasonable policies. Any payment system that is centrally
               | controlled will inevitably be corrupted.
        
               | gimmeThaBeet wrote:
               | That's really at this point that's back to where I am
               | with crypto. Through all the speculation and cruft, there
               | is still a shot at owning our own payments, or rather no
               | one owning them.
               | 
               | The payment networks have power, and if you can twist the
               | arm of the gatekeepers, people subvert that power.
               | 
               | The only thing I don't know about these days is with the
               | stablecoins, how do you avoid the government sinking
               | their claws into you if you intrinsically (esp. if
               | successful) have to hold that much in cash or short-term
               | instruments? Or you have something like tether, which
               | leaving aside anything else, you can definitely say is
               | comically opaque for an entity that is nominally running
               | $160B.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | > Thats not exactly a credit card at that point. And with
               | a credit card, you're explicitly not spending your money.
               | 
               | That point is not the problem though. They could just
               | pressure Valve to refuse credit cards for all or some
               | games. The financial aspect simply does not make sense,
               | regardless of how you look at it (and many people had
               | different takes in this thread).
               | 
               | The only angles that make sense are an ideological
               | crusade and the risk of being sued. The first is
               | unacceptable and the second is an utter failure on the
               | part of the legal system.
        
           | nulbyte wrote:
           | No they aren't. Fraudulent card not present transactions are
           | fully on the backs of merchants. The networks and banks don't
           | lose a dime of them. In fact, they make more money now,
           | charging additional fees when disputes are filed, and
           | additional fees when they are challenged.
        
         | nullc wrote:
         | Well your comment tells us why-- as is the law in the US is
         | that credit card companies are almost entirely responsible for
         | fraud. It's part of why they and their dubiously usurious
         | practices are allowed to exist in the US at all.
         | 
         | If it were the case that the payment rail censorship were
         | limited just to cases where there was an obvious elevated fraud
         | risk-- then that would be the whole of the story. -- and there
         | would be an obvious answer: use a payment mechanism where the
         | fraud responsibility is entirely on the user, such as Bitcoin.
         | 
         | But their censorship exists where no such elevated fraud risk
         | exists too, due to abusive conduct by the government to
         | indirectly suppress activity that would be plainly unlawful for
         | them to directly suppress. And the governments out of control
         | abuse of its regulatory power is not limited to fraud-
         | responsible payment rails, and get applied just as or even more
         | extensively on Bitcoin payment processors.
        
           | miiiiiike wrote:
           | No, I get it. Give me a "Freedom Card" or whatever that
           | generates a one-time use number/cvv combo, backed by cash,
           | that I'm fully responsible for. If I give a guy on the corner
           | $5 cash and he walks off with it, that's between me and him.
        
         | globular-toast wrote:
         | Well, credit is not really "your money". The danger of course
         | is if this gets extended to debit cards and they become the
         | only option (ie. no cash). Every time you use your card you are
         | giving them the power to do this.
        
           | abcd_f wrote:
           | > credit is not really "your money"
           | 
           | Unless it's a prepaid credit card or a debit card, both of
           | which are serviced by MC and Visa and fairly common in
           | Europe.
        
             | globular-toast wrote:
             | Yes, I mentioned debit cards in the second of the three
             | sentences in my comment.
             | 
             | It's an important distinction to make. Credit is very much
             | not something you should feel entitled to and issuer can
             | and should be selective about who and what they issue
             | credit for. Or course the credit industry itself is
             | disgusting, but that's another issue (this was covered
             | almost 20 years ago in a documentary _Maxed Out_ ).
             | 
             | This shouldn't be conflated with payments in general which
             | is (imo) a much bigger problem. You should be entitled to
             | spend the money you earn on exactly what you want, and to
             | do it anonymously.
             | 
             | You can fight back: don't spend on credit and refuse to use
             | a card when cash would suffice. We are losing, though. For
             | stuff like Steam you have no other option (as far as I
             | know).
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | > Why the fuck do we allow credit card companies have a say in
         | how we spend our money?
         | 
         | Because sadly 80% of people are sheep. Same reason we allow a
         | company to decide what we can and cannot install on our
         | smartphones.
        
           | 9dev wrote:
           | No, don't follow the underdog fallacy. What are _you_ doing
           | against it? How are you different from the other sheep?
           | Merely complaining doesn't make you any better.
        
             | 93po wrote:
             | youre allowed to be critical of things while still using
             | said things. i have 8 million things going on in my life
             | and the hill i die on isnt going to be the working
             | conditions of humans that make iphones
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | Sure you are, but don't call others out for being
               | complacent then.
        
               | pixl97 wrote:
               | Why not? Being hypocritical doesn't mean you're wrong...
        
           | kergonath wrote:
           | When I buy an iPhone I am dealing with Apple. I know what I
           | am buying and what I can or cannot do with the device. And if
           | I am not happy there are alternatives.
           | 
           | When I buy stuff on Steam I am in no way making a contract
           | with Visa. When Visa strong arms Valve to delist games I lose
           | even if I never had any relation with Visa ever.
           | 
           | It really is not comparable.
        
             | amelius wrote:
             | Following your argument ... then don't choose Steam, there
             | are plenty of alternatives! /s
             | 
             | https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/logicalfallacies/Traito
             | r...
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | No, you misread. I have a commercial relation with Steam
               | and I am happy for them to chose what game they sell and
               | what game they don't (and as a matter of fact I buy more
               | games on gog than on Steam). I don't have a relation with
               | Visa and I object to them exercising any control over
               | what I can or cannot buy.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | When I buy an Apple phone, it is my phone and Apple
               | should not be able to exercise any control over who I do
               | business with on said phone.
               | 
               | However, I get the eerie feeling that I didn't buy a
               | product even though I paid for it and I subscribed to
               | some service instead.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | Again, that is not the point I am making. I am not even
               | necessarily disagreeing with you on that point. I am
               | merely pointing out that I am perfectly able to make a
               | rational compromise and that it does not mean that I
               | accept a random company interfering with my life. If you
               | have something to say on that, fine. Otherwise, what is
               | the point?
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Nobody voted for them, there's no accountability, and yet here
         | we are
        
       | smittywerben wrote:
       | Valve should also delete its chat app. You can send a game if
       | it's that important.
        
       | abetancort wrote:
       | It should be unlawful in every developed country, it's an assault
       | on the freedom of speech and freedom of information by Visa.
        
       | yieldcrv wrote:
       | > It's not a great precedent, that's for sure.
       | 
       | It's not a precedent, its been the status quo for half a century
        
       | j_timberlake wrote:
       | They went after no-name games instead of Summer Memories or
       | Treasure Hunter Claire? Weak.
       | 
       | They should have at least aimed at Living With Sister: Monochrome
       | Fantasy.
        
         | Jackson__ wrote:
         | Hey, Summer Memories got an official shout out on their twitter
         | once, someone must have a real weak spot for that one at valve.
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | They went after incest and non-con (for now).
         | 
         | But I don't know about the last game you mentioned... the
         | "sister" part sounds sus.
        
         | optionalsquid wrote:
         | It looks like the affected games are all rated "Adult Only" on
         | Steam.
         | 
         | The games you mention are all sold without adult content on
         | Steam, and the customer has to visit the publisher's website to
         | download a patch restoring said content
        
       | Shekelphile wrote:
       | It is a shame that it takes payment processors to get Valve to do
       | even the bare minimum curation of their store. IMO the thousands
       | of outright bad games and ai slop asset flips and weirdo porn
       | that verges on outright illegal content in many countries should
       | have never been allowed in the first place. All of this leads
       | back to various executives at Valve essentially doing no actual
       | work and refusing to hire anybody because a huge part of their
       | corporate culture is to keep headcount low while chasing constant
       | growth.
        
       | strangescript wrote:
       | Does valve even leak the game titles you purchase to card
       | processors? Don't they have some plausible deniability here?
        
         | lxgr wrote:
         | Doesn't matter if anyone actually buys content or products the
         | networks object to per their policies. If it's being offered
         | and payment is accepted on a checkout that shows the networks'
         | logos, merchants and their payment service providers can get
         | into trouble.
        
       | willjp wrote:
       | Without a horse in this race, this precedent makes me deeply
       | uncomfortable.
        
       | urda wrote:
       | Honestly glad to see this has sparked larger talks about this
       | again. Surprised to see Valve is just now getting impacted by
       | this.
        
       | Aeolun wrote:
       | I think it's hilarious we allow stuff like Postal or Soldier of
       | Fortune without a question, where the whole focus is on going
       | crazy and murdering a whole bunch of people.
       | 
       | But try to show a sensual human body, instead of one that's
       | ripped into small pieces, and oh my god, this is going too far!
        
         | deadbabe wrote:
         | I think this is a bit of a strawman. The market for people who
         | get addicted to gruesome gore and are willing to pay money to
         | see it is several orders of magnitude smaller than people
         | willing to pay to see porn or OnlyFans. There is simply far
         | more risk with adult content as a result and a lot more
         | chargebacks from disatisfied customers with a post nut clarity.
        
           | edoceo wrote:
           | Are you saying porn buyers regret and that gore buyers do
           | not? (As a broad generalization). Are you also asserting
           | that's built in to risk-profole that payment gateways have?
        
             | johnebgd wrote:
             | I don't have time for o look at the stats and provide
             | quotes / cite sources but it does seem from what I've read
             | on the topic that the more people play gore games the less
             | violence there is in society.
             | 
             | If that's true, maybe it's also true that the more people
             | have access to adult content the less babies we create as a
             | society.
             | 
             | A society shrinking causes a number of issues.
        
           | Nevermark wrote:
           | So grotesque violence appeals to fewer people, but banning
           | gets focused on material more people find acceptable, even
           | desirable?
           | 
           | This really is a culture/posture driven issue.
           | 
           | It is not as if many people think (emphasis on "think", as in
           | being honest, reasoning carefully and being scientific about
           | evidence) that banning sexy curves in a video game is going
           | to impact the prevalence of sexy curve imagery, or "save"
           | anyone from anything.
           | 
           | Imagine if financial companies required their employees to
           | sign a legal statement committing to not "use porn, escorts,
           | blow ... or spicy video games!" So strange that they don't do
           | that!!
           | 
           | Financial companies like to make a show of having "high
           | standards" when it comes to "controversial" segments of the
           | market, or unfortunate individuals who don't fit the mold,
           | when that gets them a lot of showy theatre for being hard
           | asses to their audience of regulators.
           | 
           | While keeping very quiet, and not looking into things too
           | hard, when it comes to tens of billions of sketchy dollars
           | going through their systems associated with very high net
           | worth criminal actors, organizations and corrupt governments.
           | 
           | Epstein did not lack for financial services.
        
             | deadbabe wrote:
             | What a gross endorsement of Jeffery Epstein.
        
           | simpaticoder wrote:
           | The GP highlights a classic observation: America's nearly
           | unique cultural contradiction, where nudity and sex are
           | considered highly offensive, while gore and violence are
           | widely accepted.
        
             | winchester6788 wrote:
             | This holds true in most other countries as well. Gore/
             | chopping of appendages is happily accepted and enjoyed (in
             | movies, games etc) by all of India, whilst a simple kiss
             | can be a taboo/ issue.
        
               | Jach wrote:
               | Japan has some of the weirdest/inconsistent rules around
               | this stuff. Black lines or mozaic partial censorship of
               | genitals, incest/stuff with minors widely available, and
               | then you have some pretty violent uncensored movies,
               | manga/anime, and games (though while it's mostly a China
               | thing, sometimes the blood gets censored to be white
               | instead of red which doesn't actually make it better
               | (also sometimes done for urine)), GTA5 is as popular
               | there as anywhere, but game franchises like Mortal Kombat
               | are banned.
               | 
               | And of course, even in America, we tend to like our
               | violence and gore more over-the-top and simulated. Most
               | people didn't care for liveleak type content, even fewer
               | for not so hard to find footage from ongoing wars.
        
               | numpad0 wrote:
               | Japan runs custom scratch-built implementation of ethics
               | reverse engineered from Western cultures. That's all.
               | Consistence is key, but it's consistent only with itself,
               | and nothing else, and explicitly not aligned to Christian
               | religious scripts. Nothing Japanese is compatible with
               | anything unless and until it is the sole dominant
               | standard, like Sony storage media or Apple hardware.
               | Always has been.
        
             | arrowsmith wrote:
             | This really isn't unique to America.
        
               | legacynl wrote:
               | In the "western" world it is.
        
           | zulban wrote:
           | You must be American if you think very violent games are not
           | extremely popular.
        
             | thfuran wrote:
             | They're extremely popular in America.
        
             | hervature wrote:
             | I think they are referring to actual gore. For example,
             | bull fighting.
        
           | the_af wrote:
           | > _There is simply far more risk with adult content as a
           | result and a lot more chargebacks from disatisfied customers
           | with a post nut clarity._
           | 
           | Do you have any evidence to back this wild claim? I've never
           | heard this argument about chargebacks made before.
           | 
           | I don't think it's about this at all. I think it's about
           | policing content, but then the observation of GP's comment
           | applies: why is violence ok, but sex is not?
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | You could just ask, "why do payment processors pressure content
         | vendors not to offer this kind of content". You're starting
         | from the premise that there's some weird puritan thing
         | happening, but there's really nothing puritan about American
         | business culture. There are other explanations!
         | 
         | You can get a long ways just by assuming that the people
         | involved in these transactions are _utterly amoral_.
        
           | dilyevsky wrote:
           | If by "people involved" you mean folks who consume this kind
           | of content then id totally agree. As soon as you offer crypto
           | or even mildly sexual content your cc abuse rate goes through
           | the roof. Which i suspect is the sole reason for processors
           | getting upset in this case
        
             | Ayesh wrote:
             | Is that not a similar or higher percentage for games with
             | loot boxes or other sorts of gambling?
        
               | dilyevsky wrote:
               | I bet it has higher chargeback percentage too and they
               | probably pay higher fees. iirc if merchant is getting
               | close to 2% fraud to sales ratio, they can get banned for
               | life. It's probably different rules when you're the size
               | of Valve though...
        
             | bryanrasmussen wrote:
             | OK well this is interesting information, what are the
             | connections between crypto or even mildly sexual content
             | exactly that create this phenomenon? I mean they do not
             | seem to be related - if you said crypto or drawings of
             | currency I would say huh, well they are sort of related,
             | but the graph connection between crypto and even mildly
             | sexual content would seem to me to be about as tenuous as
             | that between crypto and meat eating.
             | 
             | So why do these two things cause credit card abuse to go
             | through the roof?
             | 
             | Furthermore if it caused the credit card abuse to go
             | through the roof wouldn't Valve just remove it of their own
             | accord - at some point the abuse would mean money was taken
             | away from Valve right?
             | 
             | Finally the article doesn't give this as a reason why it
             | was removed - it said "violate the rules and standards set
             | forth by our payment processors" - which sure, that may
             | mean "high rates of credit card abuse were reported", but I
             | doubt it.
             | 
             | Anyway, a link to studies of this phenomenon?
             | 
             | ps: I would probably believe credit card abuse increase
             | under crypto, due no doubt to my innate prejudices.
        
           | stale2002 wrote:
           | > You're starting from the premise that there's some weird
           | puritan thing happening
           | 
           | Credit card processors don't have to be puritanical. Instead,
           | puritanical people simply have to be smart enough to figure
           | out that the best way to deplatform content that they
           | disagree with is by putting pressure on their payment
           | processor monopolistic vendors.
           | 
           | Giving in to a pressure campaign by ideological people can be
           | a completely amoral and smart business decision.
        
             | chii wrote:
             | > puritanical people ... deplatform content that they
             | disagree
             | 
             | so that begs the question - what if the non-puritanical
             | people also pressure the credit payment processors to stop
             | curtailing to those puritanicals? Why is it effective one
             | way, but not the other?
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | Probably because people are willing to put their real
               | names on the "We're against incest/rape simulators"
               | petition while most people are not going to be quite so
               | fortright on the "Valve should reinstate the incest/rape
               | simulators" petition.
        
               | creer wrote:
               | See cryptocurrency payments. So the good news in this
               | direction is that bitcoin et al are very much making
               | progress at these businesses. As far as I can see, many -
               | perhaps even most - such businesses now accept 2-5 forms
               | of cryptocurrencies as payment. That took long enough but
               | we are finally getting there.
               | 
               | The bad news is that essentially ALL such businesses
               | still believe that it is essential for them to accept
               | credit card payments - and that means they must still
               | implement whatever agenda these are pushing. On their
               | entire customer base, even if paying by crypto. For now.
               | 
               | Hopefully this progress continues.
        
           | Ygg2 wrote:
           | > You can get a long ways just by assuming that the people
           | involved in these transactions are utterly amoral.
           | 
           | Which begs the question. Why would amoral people decline
           | cash?
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | Because, in expectation, they're going to _lose_ money.
        
               | Ygg2 wrote:
               | Sure, but why?
        
               | wglb wrote:
               | Disputed charges by the user. I know of one payment
               | processor that specifically seeks out these high-risk
               | businesses. Consider one of many possible scenarios would
               | be that of a spouse who is alarmed at a charge to a
               | clearly risque service and says "What the heck is that??"
               | and the offender says "What the heck I don't know. Cancel
               | the charge!"
        
           | pasc1878 wrote:
           | Or I suspect in this case there are Puritans with a lot of
           | money who will sue the payment providers if the providers
           | don't block things they think are bad.
           | 
           | Yes the payment provider is making a simple money based
           | business decision, or possibly there is a threat of sanctions
           | against the directors so a personal decision as well.
        
           | lmm wrote:
           | > You could just ask, "why do payment processors pressure
           | content vendors not to offer this kind of content". You're
           | starting from the premise that there's some weird puritan
           | thing happening, but there's really nothing puritan about
           | American business culture. There are other explanations!
           | 
           | Someone, somewhere is making a choice to pressure content
           | vendors to not offer this kind of content, and _not_ to
           | pressure them to not offer other kinds of content. It may be
           | upstream of the payment processors but there is absolutely a
           | weird puritan American thing going on somewhere, and it 's
           | much more interesting to get to the bottom of that since
           | that's the point where change could happen. If everyone
           | involved was amoral, these profitable games would continue
           | being sold.
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | Your premise is that they are, for the payment processors,
             | profitable. They very probably are not.
        
           | creer wrote:
           | > there's really nothing puritan about American business
           | culture. [...] utterly amoral.
           | 
           | What? Puritanism is not about some kind of blanket purity to
           | be recognized or expressed from any angle, perspective or
           | religion. And in American business is both extreme and
           | extremely selective.
           | 
           | It's also very much about appearances and image projected.
           | You have to accept a difference between anybody's personal
           | values (in so far as these can show through the mess of
           | corporate decisions), and the image that businesses believe
           | they much display.
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | You're talking about a culture that freely and
             | enthusiastically sold opiates for decades. If they're
             | cracking down on porn, it's because porn is costing them
             | money, probably because people are disputing charges.
        
               | creer wrote:
               | The history of the US and "adult materials" goes so much
               | further than potential disputed credit card charges.
        
         | thallium205 wrote:
         | Adult content is considered a high risk merchant category -
         | meaning it is susceptible to high chargeback and fraud rates.
         | This is because after someone pays for and consumes adult
         | content, a certain level of "clarity" overcomes them resulting
         | in the execution of chargebacks against the merchant.
         | 
         | It has nothing to do with any sort of puritanical premise.
        
           | boredatoms wrote:
           | They should instead charge a higher transaction fee on those
           | items to cover that risk
        
           | delusional wrote:
           | That sounds like a reasonable argument. We should force them
           | to make it publicly with data. Maybe even force them to
           | release aggregate statistics every quarter going forward.
        
           | GrantMoyer wrote:
           | I don't think that can explain why they're only targeting
           | certain sub-categories of porn, and it's also contradictory
           | to the public statements by Valve:
           | 
           | > We were recently notified that certain games on Steam may
           | violate the rules and standards set forth by our payment
           | processors and their related card networks and banks
           | 
           | Individual games violating "rules and standards" doesn't
           | really fit with prohibiting a category because of high rates
           | of fraud.
        
           | creer wrote:
           | That seems disingenuous. (1) in this case, this is a not a
           | tiny fly-by-night wannabe game company. (2) which is good for
           | paying back (or never seeing) the money of chargebacks.
           | 
           | For a new company, the risk of chargebacks might rest on a
           | credit card company (for a little while anyway). But not for
           | a long established one.
        
             | JimDabell wrote:
             | > That seems disingenuous.
             | 
             | Why are you assuming bad faith? There's no indication
             | parent is being insincere at all.
        
               | creer wrote:
               | > Adult content is considered a high risk merchant
               | category
               | 
               | > It has nothing to do with any sort of puritanical
               | premise.
               | 
               | But I have no problem with the parent poster. I'm here
               | hoping for conversation. The argument though is one we
               | hear now and then and like I point out, how can it make
               | sense? Like many things, it looks more like a vaguely
               | possible, plausible explanation or chain of arguments...
               | which on closer look doesn't fly. How can Valve, a long
               | established, apparently solid merchant, be a serious risk
               | for the credit card infrastructure? Should there be
               | chargebacks, they can handle chargebacks. This is not
               | limited to Valve. Many of us have run into the issue. The
               | credit card infrastructure goes out of its way to refuse
               | solid business.
        
           | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
           | Do you think this happened because Valve was getting lots of
           | chargebacks? I don't.
        
           | _345 wrote:
           | Just plain wrong and a puritanical group already claimed
           | responsibility for this
        
         | tempodox wrote:
         | Same with movies. Piles of dead bodies are OK for children to
         | watch but naked skin would be highly damaging.
        
           | scott_w wrote:
           | I mean, these films usually get rated 15 or 18 in the UK, so
           | I'd not say it's "OK for children to watch."
        
             | k1t wrote:
             | I think that's the classic US/UK culture split though.
             | 
             | US is strict on language and nudity, but comparatively lax
             | on violence (except blood).
             | 
             | UK is lax on nudity and language (comparatively), but very
             | strict on violence.
             | 
             | UK being the country that considered the word "ninja" too
             | violent for children, for example.
        
               | ashoeafoot wrote:
               | Violence is pretty okay in the middle east, which makes
               | it socially acceptable by inheritance in the uk.
        
               | scott_w wrote:
               | I'm pretty sure GTA has never been rated below M which,
               | as I recall, is 17+. Not a massive difference between
               | that and BBFC's 18 rating...
        
         | lofaszvanitt wrote:
         | Mastercard and Visa needs some serious competition. How come a
         | payment company decides who to partner with and dictates what
         | people use their system for. Ridiculous bullshite.
         | 
         | At the same time those "games" that were affected, well, who on
         | earth pays for that seriously fucked up crap? People need to
         | get a grip. I'd rather send a psycho team to evaluate people
         | who pay for these games...
         | 
         | note: PCGAMER the epitome of games journalism. They didn't even
         | checked which were the affected banned games.
        
         | oatmeal1 wrote:
         | Gender of who is murdered has a lot to do with it too. I don't
         | think you'll find a video game where you predominantly kill
         | women. The most infamous scene of murder in video games is the
         | Call of Duty mission "No Russian" where you optionally commit
         | terrorism at an airport. If you pay attention you'll notice
         | they kill much more men than women, and made sure that despite
         | pleasant weather none of the women were wearing dresses or
         | skirts. Murder of men is a lot more digestible.
        
           | bfg_9k wrote:
           | This genuinely baffles me. Who cares! It's a video game. It's
           | pixels on a screen. True crime podcasts and movies are a-okay
           | but when its a video game that's where the line is drawn?
        
             | josephg wrote:
             | I suspect all new frontiers are like this. There was
             | probably a similar outcry over violence in films. And maybe
             | violence in fictional books too. Both long lost from living
             | memory.
             | 
             | It does feel different in a video game, because you're the
             | one pulling the trigger. I played that CoD mission when the
             | game came out, and I felt a bit sick in my stomach playing
             | that mission out. But I'd probably have exactly the same
             | feeling from violence in films if I wasn't so desensitised
             | to it after growing up watching american movies and tv
             | shows.
             | 
             | Its just new.
        
               | ashoeafoot wrote:
               | Now i imagine control concerned mothers rallying against
               | papyrus which ruins the youth for healthy outdoor
               | activities like warfare, sieges and murder.
        
             | 0xcafefood wrote:
             | There are still taboos even for pixels on a screen, even
             | for video games. It's a good thing. There should be.
             | 
             | Perhaps you're just saying that you're mostly comfortable
             | with the depiction of some forms of violence in some
             | contexts. But what about other scenarios though? Would you
             | feel the same about a game where the player runs around
             | raping women, or capturing and lynching escaped slaves?
             | It's just pixels!
        
               | roenxi wrote:
               | > Would you feel the same about a game where the player
               | runs around raping women, or capturing and lynching
               | escaped slaves? It's just pixels!
               | 
               | Yeah. Same thing. Should be ignored. If someone feels an
               | urge to run around raping women and lynching slaves, I'd
               | much rather they were sitting around at home playing
               | videogames than doing anything else in their spare time.
               | What do you want them to be doing, the traditional creep
               | move of figuring out how to get into positions of power
               | and influence?
               | 
               | In addition taxpayers shouldn't be footing the bill in
               | the war on pixels; if the banks are taking a firm moral
               | stand then clearly the government is involved and that
               | means they're probably spending money on expunging
               | victimless non-crimes which is a low.
        
               | vunderba wrote:
               | What if it's a story but with very detailed descriptions?
               | What if that short story is adapted into a video game but
               | it's only a text adventure? What if we add artwork to it,
               | but it's just pixel art? etc etc.
               | 
               | The ability and the freedom to explore the darkest parts
               | of our psyche in a safe, controlled, and fictitious
               | environment _IS_ important. Even if we find certain
               | aspects or fetishes repugnant and distasteful.
               | 
               | I find the idea that payment processors have enough power
               | to dictate the morality of a game market concerning.
               | Given the number of other NSFW fetishistic stuff that is
               | still being permitted on Steam I don't buy the
               | "chargeback" rational _AT ALL_.
        
               | ErrorNoBrain wrote:
               | I disagree. there shouldnt be any taboos for pixels on a
               | screen
               | 
               | i mean, i can understand a child porn game would be
               | disallowed but we already have anime games where
               | characters that look like children are nearly naked
        
               | Levitz wrote:
               | >But what about other scenarios though? Would you feel
               | the same about a game where the player runs around raping
               | women, or capturing and lynching escaped slaves?
               | 
               | Yes and yes. We have worse stuff in literature already.
        
               | ThrowawayR2 wrote:
               | What do you think is occurring when a player defeats one
               | of the other cultures in Civilization by conquering their
               | last city or conducts orbital bombardment on a enemy
               | planet in Master of Orion until the population is zero?
               | That's genocide as gameplay.
               | 
               | It _is_ just pixels.
        
             | ronjakoi wrote:
             | I think it's about the simulation and agency that video
             | games afford the consumer.
        
             | Mikhail_Edoshin wrote:
             | But your heart is not pixels.
        
             | whycome wrote:
             | You're risking potential revenue.
        
             | kelseyfrog wrote:
             | The people who care signed their names[1]. It's not a
             | secret or anything.
             | 
             | Most of the signatories are associated with Australian anti
             | sex trafficking and exploitation groups, although there are
             | several UK signatories and a couple Americans.
             | 
             | A publication[2] by one of the signatories connects the
             | dots. It's driven by the core idea:
             | 
             | "Pornography Use Shapes and Changes Sexual Tastes"[3] which
             | is supported by "In a survey of men involved in online
             | sexual activities, 47% reported being involved in practice
             | or seeing pornography which previously was not interesting
             | to or even disgusted them."[4]
             | 
             | I'm trying to steelman when I say I believe that the
             | authors would agree that this also applies to games with
             | sexual content.
             | 
             | To address your comment specifically, while I see the
             | appeal of consistent moral framework. I personally believe
             | that moral frameworks trade consistency for completeness
             | and rarely accomplish either. You have to assume the value-
             | perspective of the other in order to understand why
             | consistency might take a back seat to some other value we
             | could only speculate on.
             | 
             | 1. https://www.collectiveshout.org/open-letter-to-payment-
             | proce...
             | 
             | 2. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/391732869_Not_A
             | _Fan...
             | 
             | 3. ibid. pg 30
             | 
             | 4. ibid
        
               | mango7283 wrote:
               | It really should be obvious that the natural objection to
               | "if they banned this then why not X" is "they haven't
               | gotten around to it yet" and that the reason they can be
               | more successful is also that they have put their money
               | where their mouth is and also named themselves, something
               | a counter petition will probably struggle with.
        
               | kelseyfrog wrote:
               | Trying to connect the dots here. GP mentioned also
               | banning true-crime podcasts and you comment to that was
               | "they haven't gotten around to it yet"?
               | 
               | How defensible do you feel this position is?
        
               | hulitu wrote:
               | > 47% reported being involved in practice or seeing
               | pornography which previously was not interesting to or
               | even disgusted them
               | 
               | Yeah, right.
        
               | kelseyfrog wrote:
               | The source[1] for the statistic is referenced. Was there
               | a particular part of it that you found incorrect?
               | 
               | 1. https://www.academia.edu/27521992/Online_sexual_activi
               | ties_A...
        
           | jojobas wrote:
           | Then you have an open world game where you can do all sorts
           | of insane stuff, but everyone loses their shit specifically
           | over feeding suffragettes to alligators.
        
           | b00ty4breakfast wrote:
           | GTA, Elder Scrolls and Fallout series all allow for violence
           | against women and not just the mutual violence of combat or
           | whatever. One small example in one game from a long-ass time
           | ago isn't really a broader trend (not to say that society at
           | large doesn't view violence against men and women differently
           | in different contexts)
        
           | ErrorNoBrain wrote:
           | and never children.
        
         | northhnbesthn wrote:
         | To be fair, Postal and SOF haven't been relevant in almost 20
         | years, though your point stands.
         | 
         | I wonder how a modern implementation of these two games would
         | look given the vast visual improvements since then. I assume
         | UE5 or 6 already comes with a Ghoul-esque framework ready to
         | go. Though I hope they would feature a curmudgeon caricature of
         | Jack Thompson.
        
         | masklinn wrote:
         | TBF that's US media culture going back several decades.
        
         | philwelch wrote:
         | This isn't about "trying to show a sensual human body", it
         | seems to be about incest porn specifically. There are still
         | plenty of pornographic games available on Steam, even absurdly
         | offensive ones such as the multi-part "Sex with Hitler" series.
        
         | pipes wrote:
         | The difference I see is that the player is getting sexual
         | pleasure from what is being simulated in porn type games. I.e.
         | they are trying to simulate the feeling of doing that in real
         | life.
         | 
         | Where as in violent games like soldier of fortune I doubt most
         | players are trying to achieve the feeling of brutally killing
         | another human being.
        
           | aaaja wrote:
           | Yes and often with pornography it involves the abuse of women
           | and girls, and depicting this as a positive action. It's
           | probably not the main reason why payment processors are
           | banning and restricting purchases, but it should be.
        
         | hulitu wrote:
         | I also find it hilarious. Killing people in movies and video
         | games get a lower age rating than sex.
         | 
         | And religious groups talking about protecting children (while
         | raping them) is hypocrisy at its finest.
        
         | martin-t wrote:
         | I agree with the fact there is hypocricy. I disagree that
         | either should be banned. (Maybe you didn't mean it that way but
         | somebody with us the argument that way)
         | 
         | If group A wants to control group or person B, they should
         | prove with very high certainty that group B's behavior is
         | harmful to someone who is not B.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | It's like we've collectively decided that digital gore is fine
         | for teens, but a boob requires a Senate hearing. The irony is,
         | one actually mirrors real-world trauma a lot more closely than
         | the other
        
       | jaimex2 wrote:
       | Bring back crypto payments Valve.
       | 
       | I'm not sure why the payment processors can't just be excluded
       | for the offending games during checkout instead.
        
       | warabe wrote:
       | Just get JCB cards. Done.
        
         | lxgr wrote:
         | Does Steam offer different types of content to customers
         | depending on their payment card brand?
        
           | raincole wrote:
           | No.
        
       | yunesj wrote:
       | If Valve limited credit card purchases to PG games, but let
       | customers purchase other games via crypto, then payment
       | processors couldn't complain about alleged high chargeback rates
       | or association with adult content.
       | 
       | I imagine payment processors wouldn't love this solution, but at
       | that point they're just asking for full editorial control, and we
       | should resist.
        
         | maxlin wrote:
         | Not necessary. They could just keep almost everything as-is
         | with normal credit card processors, but for adult stuff, just
         | use the same kind of processors other adult sites use. Those
         | have a lot worse rates from what I hear, but still way more
         | accessible than crypto
        
       | AraceliHarker wrote:
       | The games that got banned this time, even before considering
       | their depiction of incest, are often of such poor quality that
       | it's difficult to even call them 'games.' Valve itself should
       | have removed them from Steam long before payment processors had
       | to step in. Defending these kinds of games is like equating Blue
       | is the Warmest Color with a random PornHub video, simply because
       | they both contain sexual acts. If Baldur's Gate 3 ever gets
       | banned, then you can truly make a fuss.
        
         | maxlin wrote:
         | Removing and having something exist with the whatever amount of
         | visibility it is able to earn with its quality are entirely
         | different.
        
         | jncfhnb wrote:
         | I can't tell what your argument is here.
         | 
         | BG3 does feature an incest sex scene. You can fuck the drow
         | twins.
         | 
         | Are you saying that BG3 should be ok because it's a good game?
         | Or BG3 is only ok because it doesn't show much of the incest
         | sex?
        
       | kwar13 wrote:
       | The good old USA, when you can show someone bashing someone
       | else's head with brain spilling out and it might get an R rating.
       | But show a nipple and holy shit we have crossed the line.
        
       | Abishek_Muthian wrote:
       | Payment processors(Visa, Master) , payment gateways(Stripe,
       | Paypal...) and payment hosts (Patreon, Gumroad...) are a huge
       | pain to deal with even when you're selling something which is
       | legal and risk free just because their algorithm or employees are
       | often overcautious, anything out of mundane they'll ban first and
       | then ask questions(if you're lucky).
       | 
       | I have a FOSS project called Open Payment Host[1] which removes
       | the payment hosts from the equation and removes the technical
       | hassle of integrating multiple payment gateways but it does not
       | solve the pain of having to deal with the payment gateways and by
       | extension payment processors and banks.
       | 
       | My long term plan is to integrate direct banking API where ever
       | it's available.
       | 
       | Is there any bank from any country which provides direct banking
       | API to end customers for plain savings bank account (I've seen
       | some provide for current accounts).
       | 
       | [1] https://github.com/abishekmuthian/open-payment-host
        
         | flimflamm wrote:
         | Have you looked in to "PSD2 and Open Banking regulation in
         | Europe" ?
        
           | Abishek_Muthian wrote:
           | I haven't, I will definitely explore it. Quick read on it
           | seems very promising.
           | 
           | Have you or anyone here any API in EU for getting payments
           | directly to your bank account? I have started a discussion on
           | this on OPH[1], I welcome any information on direct banking
           | API in Europe in that discussion.
           | 
           | [1] https://github.com/abishekmuthian/open-payment-
           | host/discussi...
        
             | Msurrow wrote:
             | Lunar Bank.
             | 
             | I don't have any experience integrating to their API myself
             | but Lunar is a relatively new Danish (so EU) 100% digital
             | bank. See https://www.lunar.app/en/personal/what-is-lunar
             | 
             | They have an Open API:
             | https://developer.openbanking.prod.lunar.app/home
             | 
             | Edit: "new" in finance terms - started 2015.
        
             | asmor wrote:
             | It sounds like you're about to reinvent Sofort, a (now
             | defunct, or sold off at least) payment system that first
             | worked on reverse engineered online banking and then PSD2
             | to mutually verify direct bank transfers.
        
         | herbst wrote:
         | I built a cool tool the last week's. I spent more time on
         | evaluating payment processor than the code itself.
         | 
         | I have ~5 projects in my shelf I did never launch because I
         | didn't find a payment solution.
         | 
         | Got instantly banned with all of them, had to write them an
         | email wait for days to get some response.
         | 
         | I usually just use crypto whenever it makes sense. And still
         | have a hard time to believe that I can move as much as crypto
         | as I want but a single payment from a Dubai account can get my
         | bank account frozen for days ...
        
           | jimjimwii wrote:
           | This is what i settled on as well. I maintain a side project
           | that is completely legal and above board but i refuse to go
           | through the nonsense i was forced to go through the last time
           | i had to integrate with a credit card payment gateway
           | (another side project that went belly up).
           | 
           | If someone wants to buy something from me badly enough,
           | they'll figure out how to get some bitcoin.
           | 
           | I don't have the time and energy to deal with their arbitrary
           | bullshit anymore.
        
             | herbst wrote:
             | Exactly. Same boat here, fully legal normal business. My
             | main issue is literally having customers from middle east.
             | I've had bank accounts frozen, PayPal reverting my business
             | account to personal without notice, fees, crazy amount of
             | fees everywhere ... So much pain for no benefit compared to
             | crypto.
        
         | brikym wrote:
         | I use Ko-fi but 95% of the fees go to Stripe and their
         | processors (Visa etc).
        
       | johnb231 wrote:
       | They blacklisted games that feature incest. Good riddance. This
       | trash should never have been allowed on Steam.
        
         | bigyabai wrote:
         | Clearly Steam disagreed. I don't see any publishers who were
         | angry.
        
       | ETH_start wrote:
       | The monetary layer is not the one where bad behavior should be
       | policed. Being able to send and receive money is a basic utility
       | that no government or bank should be able to deprive someone of.
       | That's why I support cryptocurrency.
        
       | throw7 wrote:
       | If I'm going to be gracious to payment processors, what they need
       | to do is lobby congress for a "DMCA-like safe harbor" for
       | themselves.
        
       | phyphy wrote:
       | Does anyone know if UPI solves this problem?
        
       | lrvick wrote:
       | If there was ever an argument for the need of cryptocurrency, it
       | is this.
       | 
       | Dethrone the payment processors or they get to decide what is and
       | is not allowed to be sold.
        
         | Hamuko wrote:
         | Seems like this could be easily solved with legislation without
         | having to invent new currencies. Just make it a law that
         | payment processors are not allowed to discriminate between
         | legitimate goods and services. If the government thinks that
         | sugary water or porn magazines are fine to buy and sell, why
         | should MasterCard have anything to say about it? Payment
         | processors are basically natural monopolies, so they should be
         | able to be regulated.
        
           | donatj wrote:
           | If the last decade is proof of anything, legislation is far
           | too fluid to be a reliable source of any sort of protection
           | for anything.
           | 
           | We need _real protections_ , that don't and can't change with
           | the winds of political power.
        
       | tiku wrote:
       | So why don't they make a second company, SteamyAdult? There is a
       | market for it, so it seems.
        
       | sammy2255 wrote:
       | This is why crypto needs to rule the world
        
       | Culonavirus wrote:
       | Over 15 years from the Bitcoin Pizza Day, yet we're still dealing
       | with this shit. What was the point.
        
       | dostick wrote:
       | Is it really a fact that porn transactions attract higher amount
       | of fraud?
        
       | WhereIsTheTruth wrote:
       | you can start to gamble NFTs on Steam starting from age 13
       | 
       | but they'll tell you that they got pressured to ban "adult
       | content" from steam
       | 
       | HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
       | 
       | Who's kid is obsessed with microtransactions and cs:go cases
       | gamba on steam?
       | 
       | Psyop and propaganda, calling them out gets you a ban
        
       | irusensei wrote:
       | You can track the list of banned games here:
       | https://bannedgames.netlify.app
        
       | ninalanyon wrote:
       | It's about time that credit cards were treated like money and
       | this kind of behaviour forbidden. When you pay with cash the
       | notes and coins don't refuse to be handed over because the
       | issuing bank has an opinion about what you are buying, it should
       | be the same for all payment methods.
        
       | Affric wrote:
       | Payments companies successfully got valve to stop purveying
       | weapons grade incest/child-porn/rape themed smut that is barely a
       | game?
       | 
       | Nabokov was a great author and Lolita was the work of a great
       | author who turned his pen/typewriter to a detestable subject
       | leading to innumerable questions about art.
       | 
       | These guys are just z-graders who get off on non-consensual
       | sexual interactions involving children.
       | 
       | Valve absolutely should not be publishing this stuff.
        
         | 9dev wrote:
         | Even if I agree that this stuff shouldn't be sold, it's wrong
         | that Visa has the power to force Valve to. The end _does never_
         | justify the means.
        
         | bluescrn wrote:
         | I don't know how bad these specific games were, but meanwhile,
         | OnlyFans pornographers continue to use sites like Twitch to
         | advertise their work to teens, and Pornhub continues to
         | operate, despite claims that they profit from sex trafficking
         | amongst other things (https://traffickinghubpetition.com/)
         | 
         | Seems strange to go after obscure videogames (which presumably
         | don't feature real human beings) in this way. Unless they
         | really are unusually extreme?
        
       | BiteCode_dev wrote:
       | Tangent, but each of those events should be a reminder of why we
       | must fight to never, ever live in a cashless society.
       | 
       | Because once big entities control the pipeline of what you can
       | buy and you have no alternative, they basically can dictate what
       | you can and can't do.
       | 
       | We saw that during the wikileak story when visa prevented
       | Europeans to give to the org despite the fact it was perfectly
       | legal to do so on their soil.
       | 
       | Just like data handled by an Apple device is not really your data
       | since they can prevent you from doing what you want with it,
       | money handled by Visa is only your money until they don't like
       | what you do with it.
        
       | gethly wrote:
       | This is not an issue oof payment processors. It is an issue of
       | Visa and Mastercard duopoly, whom use payment processors as
       | middlemen in order to be able to push their own "rules" onto
       | businesses and get away clean.
        
       | Neil44 wrote:
       | The discussion seems to be mostly about the moral issues, but it
       | seems likely that the titles being a 'magnet for scams and
       | chargebacks' is more likely the cause.
        
         | Am4TIfIsER0ppos wrote:
         | Nice excuse but we can see who censors behind this are and how
         | they are gloating. https://xcancel.com/CollectiveShout
        
         | ACCount36 wrote:
         | No. That's an often-repeated bullshit excuse.
         | 
         | Payment processors have ways of passing some of the chargeback
         | risks onto the stores, and it's not like Steam itself is
         | chargeback central. If you just want free games, pirating them
         | is extremely easy, and trying to abuse chargebacks gets you
         | banned.
        
           | Neil44 wrote:
           | It's not as straightforward as that. It's more like scammers
           | getting other people to buy gift cards which are redeemed in
           | steam and other games then the value getting moved around as
           | in-game currency between game accounts (game-bucks, special
           | items) before being cashed out again to make tracing very
           | hard. Essentially laundering. I assume certain titles attract
           | scammers because people will not want to pursue the claims
           | due to embarrassment. Why would Mastercard give a hoot that a
           | game has boobs in it? They care about loosing money.
        
             | raincole wrote:
             | The obscure porn games Valve delisted have no in-game items
             | or currencies, and have zero second market value.
             | 
             | People launder money in the way you describe do that via
             | extremely popular titles (so they can sell the whole
             | account later) or rare items in online games like CSGO or
             | Dota. Not "Incest Simulator 2023".
        
       | mrkramer wrote:
       | Maybe now is the time to rethink accepting crypto again? But this
       | time stablecoins not volatile coins like BTC and ETH.
        
       | greatgib wrote:
       | Just a reminder that when still using cash, you are allowed to
       | buy whatever you want that is legal without asshole bankers or
       | institutions deciding for you!
        
       | pmarreck wrote:
       | So, just to review the hypocrisy here:
       | 
       | Full-on murder simulators: OK.
       | 
       | Exchanging consensual pleasure with the wrong person: NOT OK.
        
       | globalnode wrote:
       | the global game industry is mostly corrupt, they could close
       | valve down and we'd likely be better off.
        
       | gverrilla wrote:
       | Sorry but ancaps are not allowed to complain - it's a 'free
       | market' and the credit card companies are bigger than gabe newell
       | - end of story, cry is free.
       | 
       | In ancap logic I think the fault here is all on gabe for not
       | lobbying the government enough and/or for not having been able to
       | gather enough force to fight against those companies somehow.
        
       | can16358p wrote:
       | I'll never understand what is these payment processors' problem
       | with adult content.
       | 
       | If someone wants to sell something and someone else wants to buy
       | something, it should be nobody else's business to police it as
       | long as two parties are settled.
       | 
       | That's why I want to see crypto take over and get rid of the
       | middleman and regulators.
        
         | harrison_clarke wrote:
         | i think it's a mix of conservative/religious lobbying (getting
         | them ire from the government), and chargebacks by embarrassed
         | customers with post-nut clarity being common
        
         | nicce wrote:
         | The only viable end-game in scale for crypto is what happens in
         | China. I am not sure if I want that.
        
       | SV_BubbleTime wrote:
       | Part of the coalition directing ESG which direct BlackRock and
       | Vanguard which then threaten Visa/Mastercard... has been
       | extremely successful in making people believe this is a crusade
       | only by Visa/Mastercard.
       | 
       | It's the S. And so very few people have any idea. Visa/MC doesn't
       | actually hate money.
       | 
       | They have better argument fiduciary defense accept porn money
       | than deny it - unless they don't and no one asks or thinks about
       | it.
        
       | gmd63 wrote:
       | If you don't like it, start another payment processor that
       | doesn't cave to pressure. Where are all the free market
       | proselytizers at?
       | 
       | I expect all of you complaining about this to never once complain
       | on legal grounds about Apple's 30% tax in the app store or when a
       | bakery refuses to sell a cake to a gay person.
       | 
       | This is what unrestricted freedom for every entity looks like.
       | 
       | And this is why we need laws and regulations that are actually
       | enforced. Because companies and larger organisms do not
       | necessarily operate on timescales that are able to be reasonably
       | responded to within a human lifespan.
        
         | gjsman-1000 wrote:
         | Okay. I walk into a Jewish bakery and want a red cake with a
         | Nazi flag on it.
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > Okay. I walk into a Jewish bakery and want a red cake with
           | a Nazi flag on it.
           | 
           | This isn't a very good comparison, as this involves a payment
           | processing company. An apt comparison would be the payment
           | processor company demanding that you stop doing business with
           | a Jewish store because that goes against their Nazi values.
        
             | gjsman-1000 wrote:
             | It's a perfectly good comparison. Nazi wants cake. Store
             | owner is refusing to transact based on his own personal
             | moral code. Just like any other business.
             | 
             | Contrary wise, consider a Jewish payment processor who
             | wants to knock off a Nazi store. You can't have it both
             | ways.
        
               | aranelsurion wrote:
               | Payment processor is the infrastructure, not the merchant
               | itself. They neither make cakes nor eat them.
               | 
               | Bigger problem is that for most real world problems who
               | is Nazi and who is Jewish depends on who you ask. Sucks
               | to be Jewish in a Nazi world where even payment
               | processors hate you.
        
               | gmd63 wrote:
               | We can, via laws. In the US, there are anti
               | discrimination laws for protected classes in some areas.
               | You won't find that Nazis are a protected class, but if
               | you would like them to be you can run for office and try
               | to pass a bill and see how the free market plays that one
               | out for you.
        
               | motorest wrote:
               | > It's a perfectly good comparison. Nazi wants cake.
               | Store owner is refusing to transact based on his own
               | personal moral code.
               | 
               | It's clearly not the case at all. Valve wants to sell
               | third party games. Third party game developers want to
               | sell their games. Customers want to buy third party games
               | through Valve. Do you understand this bit?
               | 
               | A payment processor company is far excluded from the
               | process. Users want to pay Valve money. Valve wants to
               | receive the user's money. All fine, right? Except a
               | payment company somehow feels entitled to tell Valve
               | which products in their product line they can sell. WTF?
               | 
               | Going back to your far-fetched example, it would be like
               | a supermarket selling all sorts of products their
               | customers want to buy, but the Nazi bank somehow feels
               | entitled to tell the supermarket they should not sell any
               | product related with Jews. Does that make sense to you?
        
           | azangru wrote:
           | At least in your example there are some bakers to empathize
           | with. They would have to manually bake the cake.
           | 
           | Now imagine your phone refuses to take a picture of the Nazi
           | flag, because the owners of the phone manufacturing company
           | have a certain moral code.
        
             | gjsman-1000 wrote:
             | In that case, I don't buy a phone from that manufacturing
             | company. Maybe I want that on purpose in a different way,
             | to prevent my kids from taking nudes.
        
             | LorenPechtel wrote:
             | Exactly. With the bakers we have competing interests of the
             | guy who wants the Nazi cake and the baker who doesn't want
             | to make one. Personally, I come down on the side of whether
             | it requires any creative effort on the part of the baker.
             | "Print this .jpeg on a cake"--content doesn't matter. "Draw
             | me a Nazi flag on the cake"--content matters.
             | 
             | There's no human looking at each transaction, there's
             | nobody to be bothered about the content of the game, and no
             | justification for not processing offensive stuff.
        
         | martin-t wrote:
         | IME people who propose absolute freedom in any regard (speech,
         | use of power, use of money,...) fundamentally don't understand
         | the difference of power between individuals, let alone
         | individuals and organizations.
         | 
         | This is why anarcho- anything can't work. Some people
         | specialize in building thing, since in providing a service,
         | some specialize in making money and grabbing power. When the
         | builders and providers don't unite to hold them back (like...
         | forming a government) those people end up forming a mafia. Of
         | course the state is a mafia too. You gotta pick your evils.
        
           | ninalanyon wrote:
           | > fundamentally don't understand the difference of power
           | between individuals,
           | 
           | Or they really do understand and are of the opinion that they
           | will be the beneficiaries. That they are in a position to
           | exploit this difference.
        
             | martin-t wrote:
             | Absolutely. Some are really just sympathizers. I've known
             | people who weren't rich by any means but acted and
             | pretended to be and they supported greater inequality, less
             | consumer protections, etc.
             | 
             | Same goes with abusive individuals and flying monkeys. Some
             | people wanna be like those strong successful abusers so
             | they take their side.
        
           | idiotsecant wrote:
           | Absolute freedom can be achieved - as long as you're the one
           | holding the gun. Other than that, it's social contracts all
           | the way down (which are more or less letting someone else
           | hold the gun)
        
         | vips7L wrote:
         | > proselytizers
         | 
         | Off topic: I heard this word for the first time last night and
         | now I'm seeing it here. Funny how that works sometimes.
        
           | jjice wrote:
           | Baader-Meinhof if you want to find more about this
           | phenomenon.
           | 
           | Off topic, but when I was looking at cars when my old one
           | died, I started noticing way more of the models I had been
           | considering on the road. Funny how the mind works.
        
         | throwaway494932 wrote:
         | > If you don't like it, start another payment processor that
         | doesn't cave to pressure.
         | 
         | Or, gosh, use bitcoin et al.
         | 
         | It's interesting that when people ask "what's the use case for
         | cryptos?", "being an alternative to Visa and Mastercard" is not
         | often mentioned. That alone is a good enough reason to support
         | it.
         | 
         | Civitai has been recently forced by payment processors to crack
         | down on AI-generated porn. Since then, given that the
         | processors told them that they may want do restrict them even
         | more, they have added ability to use cryptos to pay for their
         | services.
        
           | idiotsecant wrote:
           | I have been a crypto evangelist since it was a weird nerd
           | hobby nobody knew about for this exact reason. It should be
           | nobody's business who I transfer value to or why. The corpo-
           | state has had control of the levers and dials of currency for
           | way too long. They can still enforce laws, and if I'm causing
           | some illegal event to occur by paying money to someone, that
           | event is still illegal. Arrest me for that. But get rid of
           | the rent seeking and monetary policy that seems to just make
           | the whole problem worse.
        
             | gmd63 wrote:
             | I don't understand this assumption that crypto transactions
             | are nobody's business. That's a feature of cash payments,
             | which from what I understand can only be emulated in crypto
             | by transferring control over a non-custodial wallet, which
             | is cumbersome to the average person.
             | 
             | If you're crypto banking with a third party that muddles
             | your wallet's transactions you've already added one of the
             | institutions you claim to be against.
             | 
             | If you transact on the blockchain, you're broadcasting who
             | your wallet transacts with on levels that are far more
             | publicly transparent than how fiat is traded via
             | institutions.
        
               | boldlybold wrote:
               | We need to change this perception. Setting up a hot
               | wallet on a phone only takes a few minutes and is perfect
               | for holding a small amount of crypto.
               | 
               | Projects like monero (https://www.getmonero.org/) ensure
               | privacy and fungibility of the crypto you hold.
               | 
               | It should still be easier, but let's not pretend this is
               | technology only available to those with deep tech
               | experience.
        
               | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
               | The Monero download page requires me to choose my system
               | architecture to get an installer, and insists that I
               | absolutely must "verify the hashes" of the "archive".
               | When I ran the installer, it first identified as "monero-
               | gui-install-win-x64-v0.18.4.0" published by "Unknown",
               | then as "Monero Fluorine Fermi GUI Wallet", and about 3/4
               | of the way through the setup my antivirus popped up to
               | block it.
               | 
               | I don't think this is effectively available to anyone
               | without deep tech experience, and any non-technical user
               | who's willing to click through this kind of thing is
               | definitely drowning in malware that will steal their
               | crypto.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Payment processors aren't some plucky startups
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | > I expect all of you complaining about this to never once
         | complain on legal grounds about Apple's 30% tax in the app
         | store
         | 
         | People complain that 24/7. The absolute majority of HN comments
         | sided with Epic when they challenged that.
         | 
         | > or when a bakery refuses to sell a cake to a gay person.
         | 
         | It didn't happen. What happened was the bakery refused to
         | _make_ a cake for gay wedding. It 's established that you can't
         | refuse to sell something existing to someone just because of
         | their sexuality.
        
       | ErigmolCt wrote:
       | Valve clearly doesn't want to play content cop, but when the
       | payment processors start squeezing, they have no real choice.
       | What's wild is how much unaccountable power Visa and Mastercard
       | wield over digital expression
        
       | rabid-zubat wrote:
       | The day I will be informed that Valve delisted anything after
       | being pressured by a credit card company is the last day I buy a
       | game on it. Personally I pay with my own country's payment system
       | that's unrelated to these companies.
        
         | yapyap wrote:
         | so.. today?
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | You mean yesterday? Valve already did that.
        
       | zanfr wrote:
       | well well well
       | 
       | there are 2 solutions to this: 1. steam accepts eth and other
       | cryptos; most people associate btc with crypto because it is the
       | original but it is now technically vastly inferior. 2. the seven
       | seas (nobody ever turns your free transaction down and you get to
       | keep whatever it is forever with no fancy license/tos/eulas
       | attached)
        
       | j_m_b wrote:
       | So funny how people think this is a moral crusade. You should
       | read articles around the tech stack for payment processing at any
       | adult site. People try to do chargebacks all of the time on these
       | kind of services. "Hunny what is this transaction on our account
       | for BigBussomsCom?" .. "Oh must be some kind of fraud" "then
       | let's call the bank and straighten it out". It's variations of
       | this, over and over that lead to the high chargeback rates. I
       | seem to recall that chargebacks are an order of magnitude higher
       | for adult-oriented transactions. Unless you have a system of
       | countering this with a team devoted to it, you will have a lot of
       | successful chargebacks. I doubt Valve has the specialized team
       | needed to deal with the amount of chargebacks, this the CC
       | companies trying to avoid the headache.
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | It's so funny that people think it's about chargeback.
         | 
         | If you buy smut game on Steam, your bank statement won't show
         | the name of the game. It looks exactly like any other
         | transaction you make on Steam.
         | 
         | > "Hunny what is this transaction on our account for
         | BigBussomsCom?" .. "Oh must be some kind of fraud" "then let's
         | call the bank and straighten it out"
         | 
         | This is a scenario that literally can't happen in the Steam
         | case. It could happen with Pornhub but not with Steam.
         | 
         | And Steam has a very generous refund policy. If your playtime
         | is less than 2hr you can ask for a refund with a few mouse
         | clicks. No phone call or email needed. Actually in my
         | experience if your playtime is just over 2hr for a bit they'll
         | still refund you.
         | 
         | If you chargeback you can get your whole steam account
         | suspended.
        
           | Arch485 wrote:
           | To add: AFAIK most adult content websites bill under a
           | different, innocuous name as well. You don't get a charge on
           | your credit card from BigBussomsCom, you get a charge from
           | SuperCard or something like that. (uh... I know because of a
           | friend...)
        
             | LorenPechtel wrote:
             | Yeah. Never dealt with an adult content website, but in my
             | admittedly limited experience adult products always come in
             | innocent packaging and generally bill under innocuous
             | names.
        
         | martini333 wrote:
         | You actually believe this yourself?
        
         | nodja wrote:
         | If what you said were true then they would ban all porn and not
         | just rape/incest/bestiality porn. They're banning specific
         | genres of porn which makes it an obvious morality issue.
         | 
         | I can't back this up with facts but the chargeback myth smells
         | of an old astroturfing campaign to justify the moral policing
         | on porn in general. But nowadays porn is more commonly accepted
         | so they're shifting to more specific genres.
         | 
         | The new myth seems to be that payment processors can he held
         | legally liable for facilitating illegal transactions, but the
         | only lawsuits vs payment processors I can find is about child
         | pornography, which has always been banned on steam.
         | 
         | When added that there was an advocacy group that sent an open
         | letter to payment processors a week ago for this same exact
         | issue[1], then the chargeback excuse has zero merit.
         | 
         | So yeah, it's 100% a moral crusade. Which side you sit on the
         | crusade it up to you.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.collectiveshout.org/open-letter-to-payment-
         | proce...
        
       | jncfhnb wrote:
       | So the outlast trials latest villain is a pair of incestuous
       | elderly conjoined twins. The game features intense violence, lots
       | of genitals, kills via explicit mutilation of those genitals,
       | lots of rape threats. One guy in particular gets turned into a
       | human sex toy via mutilation and wax.
       | 
       | Why is that above the bar then?
        
       | gitt67887yt7bg wrote:
       | The ISPs, web services, payment services, and advertisers are all
       | in a Mexican standoff right now - with every small move for
       | domination throwing a volley of bullets at the customer from all
       | sides.
       | 
       | The card companies are cutting off all the low hanging fruit to
       | establish precedence (steam is not the only one affected). One
       | it's established that they can ban certain things, then they've
       | established they get to control the purchase of literally any
       | idea, cause, or product they want. The card companies want to
       | control and starve anything or anybody they don't like -
       | especially their competition and regulators. They'll control the
       | spice.
       | 
       | Net neutrality regulation would have prevented this and forced
       | them to play nice with each other, with the side effect of a net
       | benefit to society instead of tearing it apart.
       | 
       | We all warned you the free and open Internet, and by extension
       | irl, as we knew it would unravel. Fundamental property rights are
       | now dead; we just watched it happen.
       | 
       | You gave up the fight. You voted for it. Twice.
        
       | Nifty3929 wrote:
       | Let's just remember that this is a ballot-box issue, not a
       | payment-type issue.
       | 
       | A lot of folks I'm sure will say this is what crypto is for, but
       | if that ever gained enough traction then (the US) congress would
       | clamp down on it. They'd probably call it "money laundering" or
       | something like that. Remember the guy that went to jail for
       | exchanging crypto for fiat?
       | 
       | Are you mad at Visa/Mastercard? They don't care about porn, they
       | care about not having congress smash them.
       | 
       | You want regulations that would prevent MC/Visa from doing this?
       | You've got it backwards. Regulation is on the side of
       | surveillance and morality police.
        
       | pipes wrote:
       | Given the pc gamer article mentions "keep it in the family", I
       | think they mean incest. Why on earth did valve have this on their
       | platform on in the first place?
        
         | Andrew_nenakhov wrote:
         | > I think they mean incest.
         | 
         | Oh god they delisted Crusader Kings???!
        
       | entropyneur wrote:
       | Can someone please explain why we still have chargebacks in 2025?
       | Don't accept cards without 3DS, problem solved. If not, why not?
       | Are some important consumer segments still stuck with cards that
       | don't have it?
        
         | TheDong wrote:
         | Chargebacks aren't just for stolen credit cards, but also
         | fraudulent merchants.
         | 
         | If I buy a physical good with a credit card, and the merchant
         | either never sends me anything, or sends me an empty box and
         | ignores my emails, well, that's a use-case for chargebacks. 3DS
         | doesn't help with that.
        
           | eurleif wrote:
           | Also for merchants that are just too dysfunctional to do the
           | right thing. A while back, I ordered a phone online from Best
           | Buy, and they shipped me a different model from what I
           | ordered. I contacted their customer service, who told me to
           | mail the phone back for a refund. I did so, and then they
           | mailed it right back to me with a note saying they couldn't
           | accept the return because I'd sent them a different item from
           | the one I ordered. (No shit: that's why I needed to return
           | it!) They didn't have fraudulent intent, I'm sure; one hand
           | just didn't know what the other was doing. A chargeback
           | resolved that situation, and I'm very glad I had the option.
        
         | HeavenFox wrote:
         | Chargeback is not just for when your card is stolen. It's also
         | for e.g. when you never received your order, or your order is
         | substantially different from what's promised. It's basically a
         | last resort customer service option.
        
       | johndhi wrote:
       | Similar pressures are placed on: porn, cannabis, and gun
       | industries. Not only by payment processors but also, for example,
       | by text message carriers.
        
       | gigatexal wrote:
       | This is the kind of thing that crypto gets around. Surely the CC
       | companies will allow folks to use their cards to buy crypto then
       | in the same 1 minute that newly bought crypto could be used to
       | buy the game and valve if they converted the btc to usd at the
       | same day or very quick could mitigate the volatility of the asset
        
       | chmod775 wrote:
       | Why not just make it not purchasable with that payment
       | option/store credit?
       | 
       | In many countries Steam supports plenty of alternative payment
       | options that do not use VISA or mastercard.
       | 
       | Thinking about it, if a platform as enormous as Steam just
       | completely stopped accepting VISA and mastercard, they'd a)
       | probably still be fine b) VISA and mastercard would probably cave
       | - few companies will prioritize outworn politics over literally
       | billions of revenue. In fact I'd expect these two to be the last
       | to do that. Valve would be more the type to put principles first.
       | Too bad they didn't this time.
        
       | namuol wrote:
       | The puritanical elites in America have been ruining everyone's
       | fun for decades. So tired of their double standards and
       | overreach.
        
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