[HN Gopher] On The Meaning of Ritual
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       On The Meaning of Ritual
        
       Author : jger15
       Score  : 52 points
       Date   : 2025-07-05 11:40 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | alganet wrote:
       | Over the years, I've seen many charlatans use eastern references
       | to manipulate western audiences.
       | 
       | These kinds of texts, therefore, must be taken with caution.
       | Which parts are "actual wisdom that I can apply to my life", and
       | which parts are my own mind playing a trick of "it's old, and
       | it's eastern, it's humble and it's philosophical, therefore is
       | wisdom I can apply to my life".
       | 
       | So, I'm not questioning whether there is wisdom there or not. I'm
       | questioning whether I can apply that wisdom to my life, through
       | western eyes.
       | 
       | This part is particularly troubling:
       | 
       | > The first four points are essential to any 21st century ruling
       | ideology that aims to be both moral and effective
       | 
       | Again, not saying that there isn't wisdom here. But should I
       | apply this kind of wisdom using western eyes? I, personally,
       | think I shouldn't.
        
         | t-3 wrote:
         | I don't really disagree with anything you said, but none of
         | this is even presented as "wisdom you can apply to your life".
         | It's discussing an ideology for the ruling class, by the ruling
         | class. The 0.01% and maybe people who aspire to join them are
         | the only audience.
        
           | alganet wrote:
           | That's precisely one of the tricks charlatans use.
           | 
           | Western culture likes to foster leadership. Everyone in the
           | west aspires to be that 0.01% ruling class, or to project it.
           | 
           | Again, how much this is actual wisdom you can apply to your
           | life, and how much this is your mind saying "I want to be a
           | leader, this is for leaders, so this is for me!!!"?
           | 
           | It doesn't need to be presented as wisdom per se. Like I
           | said, by being old, and being eastern, and being
           | philosophical, it suggests wisdom.
           | 
           | It's like Haagen-Dazs. It sounds scandinavian, but it's not.
           | It's never presented as "true scandinavian ice cream", but
           | people fell for it for a while.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/H%C3%A4agen-
           | Dazs#Origin_of_bra...
        
             | TimorousBestie wrote:
             | > Western culture likes to foster leadership. Everyone in
             | the west aspires to be that 0.01% ruling class, or to
             | project it.
             | 
             | Is this a problem you have? You couldn't pay me enough to
             | join the "ruling class." The best seem to be misguided,
             | idealistic fools; the worst are responsible for thousands
             | or millions of deaths, depending on what one feels like
             | counting.
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | > Is this a problem you have?
               | 
               | Maybe I do to a certain level. It is an awareness of the
               | environment in which I grew up.
               | 
               | > You couldn't pay me enough to join the "ruling class."
               | 
               | Yeah, you seek to replace these unfit rulers. Sounds
               | familiar?
        
               | TimorousBestie wrote:
               | > Yeah, you seek to replace these unfit rulers. Sounds
               | familiar?
               | 
               | Clever rhetoric, but false.
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | Why is it false?
               | 
               | Please focus on the context. We're discussing an
               | ideological text for supposed aspiring leaders (the text
               | self-describes as it, which I highlighted).
               | 
               | What compelled you to criticize the ruling class in this
               | discussion?
               | 
               | More specifically, what compelled you to talk about
               | leadership in contrast to the more analytical objection
               | that I raised (skepticism towards the intended
               | interpretation of the text)?
        
           | zdragnar wrote:
           | > "Ritual" also covers the comportment of people in their
           | individual relationships, particularly unequal ones such as
           | parent/child and lord/minister, where each side has their own
           | particular obligation to the other.
           | 
           | These writings, like those from kongzi (Confucius), mengzi
           | (Mencius) and others of the period are tailored to the ruling
           | class, because it was a time of turmoil, but were for the
           | purpose of fostering a harmonious and peaceful society. As
           | such, the philosophy covers everyone in scope, at least in
           | parts.
           | 
           | We have unstated, uncodified rituals everywhere in our lives.
           | When you go to work, you wear more formal clothing than in
           | your daily life. You act respectfully towards your boss, and
           | use less profane or vulgar language. This is less true among
           | hip SWEs but is generally true in most cultures.
           | 
           | Unlike xunzi's original audience, we won't get much out of
           | the writings on ruling, as we don't have the means or culture
           | to enforce behavior. We can and do order our own lives,
           | however. Some go to church once in awhile out of habit, and
           | some revolve their entire lives around their faith such as
           | the Amish. Others find more of a middle ground.
        
             | alganet wrote:
             | That's not the point.
             | 
             | Why should I take citations from an old text in a blog post
             | on how to apply it to the 21st century at face value?
             | 
             | The answer is: I shouldn't.
        
               | zdragnar wrote:
               | Ah, if that's the case, then I suggest instead that (as
               | we are in the age of AI) you should take absolutely
               | nothing you see on the Internet at face value.
        
         | alicemaz wrote:
         | for me, the value of the xunzi isn't that it's old or that it's
         | eastern, but that it's a sophisticated text which describes a
         | system of morality, statecraft, and international relations
         | which I largely (but don't entirely) agree with
         | 
         | the period he came from was extremely intellectually fertile,
         | and you can find advocates for everything from rational
         | totalitarianism to postmodern anarchism, ethical egoism, hippie
         | utilitarianism, and jeffersonian pastoralism. I think an "east
         | vs west" lens doesn't really capture it well, because the
         | codification of what we would consider "eastern" took place
         | long after this period, over the course of many centuries
         | 
         | there are things xunzi gets wrong, and after I finish writing
         | commentaries on the essays by him I think are most important,
         | I'll probably write a critique on that. I think of him more as
         | a starting point than an ending point
        
           | alganet wrote:
           | How do I even know if the blog post represents this Xunzi
           | faithfully? I don't even know how to properly read the source
           | material in chinese.
        
         | titanomachian wrote:
         | [deleted]
        
           | alganet wrote:
           | > should always be respect
           | 
           | How do you know if you're being respectful to a culture you
           | don't know?
           | 
           | > Constant studying is the key, don't you think? "Walk softly
           | and carry a big book"
           | 
           | If the Buddha thought books were the key, he would have left
           | scripture.
           | 
           | Also, if you meet the Buddha, kill him.
           | 
           | I'm not buddhist by the way. I'm repeating old sayings that I
           | believe are less prone to being charlatanized.
        
             | titanomachian wrote:
             | [deleted]
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | Knowledge can be a trap. Do I need this knowledge?
               | 
               | I have a limited life. There's only so many books I can
               | read. Why should I guide my attention using a random
               | substack post?
        
               | titanomachian wrote:
               | It seems like I have offended you. Sorry, that wasn't my
               | intention. I'll take down my messages as soon as I figure
               | out how to.
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | I'm not offended at all.
               | 
               | Perhaps you have good intentions, but some people don't.
               | Overselling material is typical of charlatans ("you
               | should read more, and go through me to interpret it").
               | 
               | I'm just providing a general skeptical counterpoint to
               | the idea that reading a lot is always good. Many have
               | done that before me (Buddha, Schopenhauer, etc).
               | 
               | It is kind of ironical that I'm name dropping old
               | thinkers here, and providing my interpretation on how to
               | read it. There's no way out of this paradox.
        
               | titanomachian wrote:
               | "General" skepticism can be a good attitude to have.
               | However, take a look again at what you wrote to me. "Why
               | should I guide my attention using a random substack
               | post?" That was the point we both were making. We both
               | know you shouldn't take internet posts as advice for life
               | right out of the box, there's no need to be a cynic about
               | it. I was agreeing with you all along. I even corrected
               | myself about the book thing and tried to make a joke
               | about it, but you doubled down. You didn't act like a
               | skeptic -- you acted like a bully.
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | Looks like you got offended then. Calling skeptics
               | bullies is very common, I am used to it.
               | 
               | I stated my intentions from the very beginning, I'm not
               | challenging the wisdom, I'm challenging potentially
               | charlatan ways of applying it. If you're not doing that,
               | there's no reason to get offended.
               | 
               | Also, there was no reason to erase your posts. Now people
               | will never know if you were being playful and agreeable
               | or not.
        
               | titanomachian wrote:
               | Yes, since you were just needlessly acting out your
               | skeptic points with someone agreeing with you, I did get
               | offended. I believe it's a common thing to feel offended
               | when I engage people in good faith and get attacked. I
               | feel specially offended when I try to make ammends and
               | get attacked again. Anyways, this could have been a great
               | conversation. I hope you're happy knowing you have been
               | right along. Or have you? Oh, no! But you're a skeptic!
               | How can we know now? Tun-dun-duuuuun Bye-bye
        
               | alganet wrote:
               | You're putting up a show for others to read.
               | 
               | So am I. Mine is designed to discourage people from
               | trusting charlatans. I said it from the very beginning,
               | quite honestly.
               | 
               | I don't need to be right, and people don't need to follow
               | my example. They just need to think "wait, why am I
               | reading this thing? why does it feel compelling? am I
               | being tricked?".
               | 
               | Maybe you're not used to skepticism in your life, and you
               | usually get the things you want by putting up a show.
               | That's actually not bad, but I'm not going to apologize
               | for attempting to increase awareness of how charlatans
               | work.
        
         | jhedwards wrote:
         | I've read quite a bit of classical Chinese philosophy, and in
         | my opinion that major piece that is directly translatable to
         | Western concerns is the discussion of management principles.
         | Confucian and legalist scholars recognized that statecraft was
         | fundamentally a management problem, and they included a lot of
         | wisdom about that sort of thing in their writings. This
         | includes:
         | 
         | - One of the most important jobs of a leader is to find the
         | talented people and give them work worthy of their talents
         | 
         | - Large projects start by laying a foundation which will
         | facilitate later work
         | 
         | - Resource and disaster management are central problems of
         | government
         | 
         | - If someone makes a bad decision, it is probably because they
         | didn't see the value of the better decision. Instead of
         | criticizing the path they chose, show them the superior value
         | of the one they overlooked.
        
           | alganet wrote:
           | We brazillians have a popular saying: "muito cacique pra
           | pouco indio" (a rough translation would be "too many shamans
           | for too few tribesmen"). It's used as a criticism when too
           | many people want to be at the helm.
           | 
           | I can related to that wisdom much more than I can relate to
           | some old chinese (or old anything) text. I _lived it_ , many
           | times.
           | 
           | Maybe there are some important leadership advice in the text.
           | But should you really apply it in the 21st century?
        
             | whism wrote:
             | I think upon reflection you may discover that indeed many
             | generations have _lived it_ many times before you as well
        
             | aspenmayer wrote:
             | > We brazillians have a popular saying: "muito cacique pra
             | pouco indio" (a rough translation would be "too many
             | shamans for too few tribesmen"). It's used as a criticism
             | when too many people want to be at the helm.
             | 
             | https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/too_many_chiefs_and_not_enou
             | g...
             | 
             | We have that in English too, but considering that the first
             | to misidentify native people as Indians spoke Portuguese
             | and Spanish primarily(?), the original version of this
             | phrase may indeed be something like the one you're familiar
             | with. I'm not sure myself, but the history of America is
             | much older than the history of the United States, and that
             | is probably still something that I need to brush up on
             | myself.
        
         | rawgabbit wrote:
         | "Ritual" is part of Xun Zi's interpretation of Confucianism.
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xunzi_(philosopher)
         | 
         | Confucianism itself was attacked during the Cultural
         | Revolution.
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticize_Lin,_Criticize_Con...
         | 
         | Now, it appears Confucianism is being pushed by the Chinese
         | government. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confucius_Institute
        
           | alganet wrote:
           | Thanks for the interesting historical additions.
           | 
           | I am not, however, approaching this from a political
           | perspective.
           | 
           | What I said applies to Indian, Japanese, Native American,
           | even Abrahamic and possibly many others. All of these have
           | been used in the past by charlatans of various kinds.
           | 
           | The kinds of charlatans I'm referring to are not strictly
           | political. Honestly, I was thinking of cheap cults and
           | schemes (like I previously illustrated by my Haagen-Dazs
           | comparison in another comment).
        
         | PaulHoule wrote:
         | In the past you had organized shysters from India who took
         | their business to the West like
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prem_Rawat
         | 
         | Today you have more interest in the literature of the East. I'm
         | somewhat surprised at how little important Chinese literature
         | is available in translation.
         | 
         | In a time when many people are cut off from the ancient history
         | of the West for various reasons (look at the 'bro veneration of
         | Rome and the knee-jerk anti-Romanism it engenders) I think we
         | need as large a cultural database to work from.
         | 
         | Educated-but-ignorant progressives find most of the people who
         | ever lived are dead to them because they don't accept 100% of
         | the ideas that were fashionable in the last 30 seconds. Go to
         | India and the sinosphere and they might find something that
         | bypasses their defenses.
         | 
         | Cultural conservatives need to realize they'll hit a ceiling so
         | long as they remain stuck on a book that claims God made the
         | world 6000 years ago (God is not great!) and cares about a few
         | people on a postage stamp in the Middle East more than the rest
         | of us -- Confucius could put them on a rational basis that
         | people will listen to.
        
           | cindyllm wrote:
           | God _is_ great.
           | 
           | Time Cops, arrest this man!
        
         | toasterlovin wrote:
         | > "it's old, and it's eastern"
         | 
         | Somewhat of a tangent, but an interesting thought if one is
         | inclined toward the old and Eastern: Christianity is old and
         | Eastern.
         | 
         | And yet you can find a Christian community practicing very
         | ancient rituals right here in the United States. You can
         | celebrate those rituals in English, or various ancient
         | languages, or a combination of both. Rituals are available
         | every day, but the most elaborate and meaningful ones are saved
         | for the most convenient day of the week: Sunday.
        
       | buntsai wrote:
       | I agree with the author on the centrality of ritual in Xun Zi .
       | But I find the author's suggestion that we should invent new
       | rituals hubristic and naive.
       | 
       | We Chinese have lost the ritualistic practices that undergirded
       | society 2500 years ago. Let us therefore just come up with a new
       | set?
       | 
       | Who have been the most successful at inventing new rituals for
       | our age? The Axis Powers starting with the 1936 Olympics. Hmm.
       | 
       | The author needs to read the first few pages of Alasdair
       | MacIntyre's After Virtue
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/After_Virtue
        
         | sandspar wrote:
         | I think we still have rituals. Rituals are often invisible to
         | the participants, so it wouldn't surprise me if ours were
         | invisible to us. I can't think of strong ones off the top of my
         | head. Perhaps social media rituals, like posting certain
         | content to "appeal to the algorithm".
        
           | UncleOxidant wrote:
           | I definitely think we have rituals that are somewhat
           | invisible to us. There are ritualistic aspects to
           | consumerism, for example.
        
         | zdragnar wrote:
         | Fraternal societies (everything from "greek" societies in
         | universities to the Masons and elk lodges) did this quite well
         | until recently, collapsing membership along with other communal
         | organizations.
        
         | TimorousBestie wrote:
         | > Let us therefore just come up with a new set?
         | 
         | This is one of the purposes of Zhong Guo Shi Xian Dai Hua .
        
         | Anon84 wrote:
         | There is an argument to be made that the current loss of a
         | sense of community and the meaninglessness epidemic can (at
         | least in part) be attributed to a lack of shared rituals. S.
         | Junger (https://amzn.to/4nSaxfY) and M. P. Some
         | (https://amzn.to/4eB5sUW) do a great job of making this point
         | from somewhat different (and non-eastern) perspectives.
        
         | justonceokay wrote:
         | After virtue is definitely going on my reading list. The idea
         | that we use moral language vacuously because we don't share the
         | same worldview as the people who invented it is fascinating.
         | 
         | I'm concerned about theories that state that a larger society-
         | wide effort has to be made to bring ethics back to life though.
         | This is because I'm gay and historically societies haven't
         | always had a great outlook on me. Maybe I could live in a world
         | that had a coherent telos for gay men that didn't involve them
         | being stoned to death.
        
       | indiebat wrote:
       | Something I learned over the years, claims of ancient grandeur
       | about some esoteric ritual or mythology doesn't make it
       | automatically great.
       | 
       | As general idea of rituals go, it doesn't take a genius to figure
       | out that (any) ritual gives cravings of certainty of that rigid
       | states of mind and that delicious centrality to our passing being
       | here on earth (as opposed to cold indifferent randomness of
       | life),
       | 
       | It's more fulfilling ritual wise and to fill your ancient wisdom
       | shaped hole, if you make a habit to read Shakespeare or Montaigne
       | or someone you know and understand (as you can retroactively
       | read, question and speak to the author in your head)
       | 
       | I'm having a bit of bad trip for sometime now, having realized
       | ancient Indian mythologies are just (different versions of)
       | Ancient Greek Homeric myths. That made me question assumptions of
       | grandeur we make about "ancient" texts without giving it much
       | thought.
       | 
       | P.S : To my fellow western geeks, Marcus Aurelius and Greek and
       | western canon is the way if you're searching for ancient wisdom,
       | largely speaking eastern philosophy is not that thought provoking
       | as "content writers" or Steve Jobs make it to be (evidently),
       | it's just that esoteric or exotic to you!
        
         | card_zero wrote:
         | Greco-Buddhism relevant?
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greco-Buddhism
         | 
         | Possibly important to Western philosophy for inspiring cynicism
         | and skepticism.
        
       | eszed wrote:
       | I think the other top-level posters (at the moment) are missing
       | the meaning "ritual" as defined in the article. (I'm not familiar
       | with Xunzi, so can't comment on its overall accuracy to his
       | philosophy.)
       | 
       | In the article, "ritual" is almost ridiculously capacious: it
       | seems to be any social action or societal assumption that
       | conditions our unreflective behavior in any way.
       | 
       | Cross the street against the light when no cars are coming (even
       | though there aren't police around)? That's "ritual", by this
       | definition - and, anyone who's traveled can tell you that
       | behavior varies _widely_ , even amongst superficially-similar
       | regions and cultures.
       | 
       | I think it's a useful concept, and it's a pity that discussion
       | seems to be being led astray by a confusion with the (mutch
       | narrower) conventional definition of the word. Is there a
       | similarly pithy term that might apply instead?
        
         | brazzy wrote:
         | I think there is actually a large amount of overlap with
         | "culture" itself.
        
       | polivier wrote:
       | It is hard to explain, but there is something soothing about
       | rituals, whatever they may be. Like watching a movie that you
       | love for the n-th time, feeling safe in knowing how things will
       | play out.
       | 
       | About 20 years ago I bought an expensive bottle of cognac on a
       | whim. But then I wasn't sure when to drink it, or under what
       | circumstances. After some thought I decided to drink from it only
       | on notable occasions. Note that I'm not talking about "special
       | occasions" (birthdays, New Year's Eve, etc), although there is
       | some overlap between notable and special occasions.
       | 
       | I have defined a notable occasion as being a life-altering event:
       | the birth of a child, the purchase of a house, retiring, etc. But
       | a notable occasion can also be sad: the death of a parent or a
       | friend, a bad medical diagnosis, and so on. I don't drink from it
       | every year, and the bottle is still about 2/3 full. Although I've
       | mostly drank from it due to the notable occasions being happy,
       | some were sad. It turns out that (for me) the mere sight of the
       | bottle gives me a feeling of peace. It helps me accept the past,
       | but it also helps me dream of the future.
        
       | pessimizer wrote:
       | Ritual is an actual waste of resources that demonstrates
       | commitment. Someone wastes time, effort, comfort and/or security
       | in order to play out a ritual that is explicitly dedicated to a
       | particular principle or goal, a ritual often involving symbolic
       | rehearsal of the behaviors expected of initiated adherents.
       | 
       | The senseless destruction of one's own resources is a
       | demonstration that they will be willing to make the sacrifices
       | expected of the initiated. Destroying resources senselessly
       | during the process of articulating and rehearsing a set of values
       | shown as deserving of sacrifice is a signal of dedication.
       | 
       | Expensive rituals discourage multiple commitments.
       | 
       | Also, sunk cost fallacy is a real motivator. Initiation rituals
       | involve spending big before you see any benefit from a thing.
       | They make it more likely that you will last until you see
       | benefits, which is important for groups that also have to invest
       | in initiates. Checkpoint and daily rituals are maintenance of
       | that sunk cost.
        
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