[HN Gopher] I deleted my second brain
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       I deleted my second brain
        
       Author : MrVandemar
       Score  : 477 points
       Date   : 2025-06-28 05:27 UTC (17 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (www.joanwestenberg.com)
 (TXT) w3m dump (www.joanwestenberg.com)
        
       | spencerflem wrote:
       | Don't mean at all to discredit what the author's done - it's
       | their life and seems to have been helpful to them and for that
       | I'm very glad.
       | 
       | But this would make me so sad -
       | 
       | Its not that the notes are useful but every few months I love
       | nostalgia tripping on old notes. Like looking at old photos but
       | instead of places and people its thoughts. Like, "oh yeah, I did
       | care about that back then!"
        
         | system2 wrote:
         | That's what I feel after finding "Desktop" backup folders from
         | years ago after refreshing my Windows installations. Each
         | computer had their unique desktop and documents folder with
         | bunch of software, games, half written plugins / codes.
        
         | kstrauser wrote:
         | That's very nicely put and I'd feel the same way. I like seeing
         | what mattered to me a while back.
        
         | socalgal2 wrote:
         | I know what you mean. It's not just notes. I had shelves full
         | of trinkets and books that I never looked at. I threw them all
         | way to "unclutter my life". I realize now, even though I never
         | picked them up or read the books they triggered memories. When
         | I bought them, what I was into at the time, things like that. I
         | don't know how much I wish I still had them all.
         | 
         | I'm going though something kind of similar now in that there
         | are several boxes of stuff of mine in my parent's storage. I
         | haven't looked in them in 20+ years. I basically told them to
         | just chuck them in the trash. I haven't seen them, I don't want
         | to see them. If I see them I'll just end up keeping them for
         | another 20+ years without looking at them.
         | 
         | Yes, they will trigger memories. Things I made in high school,
         | elementary school, college, etc.... There's at least 3
         | journals. But, do I really care? If they had just thrown them
         | away with out telling me or if the storage and burnt down I'd
         | have no idea what was in them and I certainly don't miss the
         | contents or even think about them except when my parents
         | mention, "you know, we still have your boxes in our storage"
         | 
         | I don't know how to choose between keeping them and getting rid
         | of a pile of trash haha. I'm choosing to throw them away. I'd
         | prefer not to know what's in them so I don't know what I don't
         | know. I guess partly I just want to detach from the past.
         | Others certainly make different choices.
        
         | imhoguy wrote:
         | This. IANAD but I think there maybe something deeper the author
         | might be fighting, some hoarding and OCD.
         | 
         | Balanced amount of personal and family archive is nice when
         | revisited.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | > Like looking at old photos
         | 
         | Many years ago I realised I never do that. I find no enjoyment
         | in going through old photos, so I stopped taking and storing
         | them.
         | 
         | But like you, I don't discredit the people who do it. More
         | power to you if it makes you happy.
        
       | k310 wrote:
       | I always used and use paper notes. Computer files are mostly
       | downloads, and saved articles for better search (ahem) than DDG
       | or Google because their results are almost entirely name matches
       | with movies or shit to buy.
       | 
       | And stuff disappears. Hopefully saved at IA, but not always.
       | 
       | That said, I have all my old note books with great ideas :-)
       | whose time may come yet, etc.
       | 
       | The only notes I tossed were from years just prior to a divorce.
       | Nothing useful, just griping. The other ideas are still
       | interesting to review.
       | 
       | For example, lists of questions for games, and unusual names,
       | such as Ebenezer and Florence, aka Ebb and Flo.
       | 
       | Photos are always saved, including ones I scanned from parents'
       | prints and daughter's growing up prints. (Film days) A few old
       | slides have been scanned, but I keep the originals. One more
       | adapter ring, and those will also be scanned. My brother and I
       | have Dad's original paintings and good quality photos (from the
       | digital camera age) for showing off.
        
       | aryehof wrote:
       | It's surely a question of perspective. View entries as (perhaps)
       | things to do, or just as historical record.
       | 
       | The former is likely a mental burden, the latter not?
        
       | wiseowise wrote:
       | Is that a hipster thing?
       | 
       | Like the same person would write completely opposite in the same
       | style ten years ago, but now that PKM are all the rage they need
       | to reassert themselves as "not-like-the-other" by burning
       | everything to the ground?
        
         | bravesoul2 wrote:
         | I'd think so but then the mention of sobriety makes me think
         | there are other reasons behind the note taking.
        
           | sandspar wrote:
           | And instead of just logging off, the dramatic deletion. He
           | frames this as the end of a phase but I suspect he's still in
           | the middle of something. I wish him luck and strength.
        
             | MrVandemar wrote:
             | Wrong pronoun. Joan Westenberg so "she".
        
               | grugagag wrote:
               | It's both
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joan_(given_name)
        
         | robertlutece wrote:
         | people change, people grow
         | 
         | I myself threw out about 3000 notes last year
        
           | wiseowise wrote:
           | Throwing notes away is not growing. Growing is understanding
           | that inanimate things don't have control over your life.
           | 
           | This whole "philosophical" article that basically says "I've
           | removed my notes because they were giving me anxiety" is a
           | confirmation that this is just yet another phase in author's
           | life.
        
             | latexr wrote:
             | > Throwing notes away is not growing.
             | 
             | You don't get to define that. The author does, it's their
             | life.
             | 
             | The action taken here was not just the deletion, it was the
             | reflecting, the identification of a problem, the thinking
             | of a solution, the courage to follow through with something
             | irreversible, the willingness to try something.
        
         | navane wrote:
         | I think it's a phase he had to go through. The point is not to
         | not have notes, but maybe it's time to reassess having them.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | That is a judgemental and bad faith argument.
         | 
         | Do you know that this person was writing the opposite ten years
         | ago? And even if they did, people can't try something and then
         | change their mind? Is that worthy of ridicule now?
         | 
         | Frankly, making fun of someone for being "hipster" says more
         | about the person doing the comment than the target of it. It's
         | a basic, meaningless insult.
        
       | exitnode wrote:
       | I don't take long-term notes at all, only quick notes on paper of
       | thing I need to do. I tried to collect all thoughts, notes etc.
       | but I would never read them again. Most of it would be outdated
       | anyways. So I understand that these kind of notes might feel like
       | ballast and might be a reason to not be able to close with
       | things.
       | 
       | Everything that is worth keeping is on my website as properliy
       | written posts which I enjoy to re-read from time to time. You
       | could also look at it this way: anything that doesn't make it
       | onto the website - i.e. is published - isn't worth saving either.
        
       | ErrorNoBrain wrote:
       | the thing with such a system is keeping it up to date
       | 
       | you have to spend SO MUCH time writing notes... and since you
       | might put in everything you've thought to do, in there, you also
       | have to go back and read it again, to find it?
       | 
       | seems like a very time consuming process
       | 
       | i personally write down details for a few topics, in my notes,
       | and then i tend to forget the small details, and use my brain to
       | remember the big scope(s). then i can return to my notes for tiny
       | details later, if needed.
       | 
       | most of the time though, i tend to never return.
       | 
       | and so i ended up just not writing notes anymore. it ends up
       | being too much to look through, or too much to be worth the time.
       | 
       | gotta find that sweet spot i guess, but thats not easy either.
        
       | runjake wrote:
       | I can't count the number of times my notes have saved me or my
       | team some serious grief. I don't have to keep everything in my
       | head. I can offload my brain into notes.
       | 
       | Godspeed, but there's no way I'd give any of that up.
        
         | thom wrote:
         | Why do you keep what is clearly critical project documentation
         | in your personal notes though?
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | Possibly because a large number of organisations don't really
           | have a good system for capturing somethings as "messy" as
           | notes.
           | 
           | I'm not big on note taking myself, but when I do, the things
           | I capture is very different from the version I put into the
           | official documentation.
           | 
           | There is a good article: A rational design process, how and
           | why to fake it.[1] Basically how we reach our goal and how we
           | present them are two different things. The personal notes
           | have the details on failures, wrong turns and alternative
           | ideas, the official documentation won't have that.
           | 
           | 1) https://www.cs.tufts.edu/~nr/cs257/archive/david-
           | parnas/fake...
        
             | motorest wrote:
             | > Possibly because a large number of organisations don't
             | really have a good system for capturing somethings as
             | "messy" as notes.
             | 
             | To build upon this point, there's a problem that writing
             | docs is a thankless job: those who benefit from it do so
             | silently, whereas those who selflessly shared notes later
             | can find themselves involved in issues they have no
             | involvement.
             | 
             | It's a lose-lose situation.
        
             | XorNot wrote:
             | I'd posit a simpler explanation: most large orgs buy
             | Confluence, and you cannot find _anything_ in Confluence.
        
               | mrweasel wrote:
               | Confluence search is very good.... At finding stuff in
               | PDFs. Search in Confluence is bonkers. Super easy to
               | locate term, know to only exist in one document, and
               | Confluence will return that one PDF that someone
               | uploaded, which for some reason also have that term. It's
               | odd that the search is so poor at searching Confluence
               | pages, yet so good at searching PDFs.
        
           | navane wrote:
           | Because it's less friction to put it there? Because only he
           | can find it in the sparse context it lives in? Because he can
           | use it then for multiple projects, and might he change,
           | multiple companies? Because that way it's his and not the
           | companies? Imagine leaving a job and all you learned stays at
           | that job instead of with you?
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > Why do you keep what is clearly critical project
           | documentation in your personal notes though?
           | 
           | a) how can you tell some random note you took today is
           | critical project documentation?
           | 
           | b) why do you believe people read through project
           | documentation?
        
           | wiseowise wrote:
           | Because then it spares you the maintenance of bullshit? The
           | moment you put something public, there are 10 wise-asses that
           | will start bikeshedding about MD flavor, where to put it, who
           | maintains it, can we automate it, can you update this, can we
           | expand it, etc.
        
           | al_borland wrote:
           | I started doing this, because my company goes through too
           | many re-orgs and tool changes. If I capture it in my personal
           | notes, I don't have to worry about re-doing everything when
           | the org changes, or losing something I may need if I'm moves
           | away from the area where those notes were kept.
           | 
           | I'd love to have a universal shared notes system for the
           | whole team, but it's proven unrealistic when seeing how
           | things work over decades.
           | 
           | With my former team I wrote 90% of the documentation. A while
           | after I left they had to migrate their docs to a new system,
           | and used it as an opportunity to clean up. I went back to try
           | and reference a 20 page doc I wrote, going very in depth on a
           | topic during a period where I was deep into it. Gone. I wish
           | I had kept my own copies instead of relying on the shared
           | platform. There was still a lot of good and relevant
           | information in that document, but the people going through it
           | lacked the knowledge and context to see it. There have been
           | many examples like this.
           | 
           | There are also things that don't seem like they deserve a
           | note in a formal system. One day thing X broke and we found
           | out we had to talk to person Y to fix it. No one else thought
           | to write it down, but I did. It broke again yesterday, and I
           | was able to quickly bring up the name of who to talk to,
           | while everyone else just tried to remember and hunted through
           | their chat history. Search of my local notes (in Obsidian)
           | works much better than Confluence. The low friction also
           | means it's easy to drop stuff in, even if it might not be
           | that useful. The friction on Confluence is higher. I tried
           | keeping all my notes in there once, so I could easily share
           | them with others if/when needed, but it was too much effort,
           | and only a matter of time before it goes away and we move to
           | something else (that's happening to some degree right now).
        
         | 4ndrewl wrote:
         | Where do people draw the line between a PKM (which is yours)
         | and team documentation (which belongs, presumably to your team
         | to which you have a transient relationship with)?
        
           | dudinax wrote:
           | personal notes become cryptic team notes when you leave. If
           | something ought to be team knowledge before that, it needs to
           | get translated into a form that more people can easily read.
        
           | bentinata wrote:
           | Product focused (plans, documentation, snippets) notes for
           | team, people focused (1-on-1, performance review, birthday)
           | notes for personal.
        
       | tetris11 wrote:
       | I use org-roam for looking up a topic, adding a note, and then
       | forgetting about it.
       | 
       | Yeah I might link one topic to another, but it's so seldom used
       | because if I did it properly I'd have to link everything to
       | everything else or create some maddening time-consuming thought
       | hierarchy, like I believe the poster did.
       | 
       | I also dont use my notes to think... they just exist to roughly
       | categorize my updates on a project or topic, and once that
       | project is over I seldom look at it again, or, I simply archive
       | it.
       | 
       | Having this virtual briefcase full of hastily tagged and indexed
       | notes sounds chaotic, but it is immensely useful in unburdening
       | my brain and uncluttering my desktop (firefox has maybe 5 tabs
       | open).
       | 
       | I dont understand the need for thorough organization and
       | consistent structure. Nor do I understand cradling every thought
       | or whim like it's untapped genius.
       | 
       | Life is seldom like this, and an impossible ideal to enact.
       | Linnaeus himself must have questioned his sanity when he saw a
       | Platypus.
        
         | VariousPrograms wrote:
         | Linking notes enables note-taking to become a full-time hobby.
         | It's effortless to waste hours in Notion, Obsidian, Vimwiki,
         | etc. creating MOCs, unused links, nice little home pages, and
         | creating and recreating structures and systems.
         | 
         | I switched to a directory of unlinked, tagged notes and I've
         | yet to have an issue just searching for a specific note. I
         | spend a fraction of the time I used to thinking about notes at
         | all.
         | 
         | Everyone has different needs and things that work for them, but
         | some of these productivity gurus have 100,000s atomic notes,
         | each note being like a single quote from a book, and you
         | realize that taking and organizing notes is the only thing they
         | do.
        
           | nchmy wrote:
           | I was elated when obsidian came out, because it brought to
           | reality exactly what I thought I had wanted for a few years
           | prior - ability to link, especially graphically, all of my
           | notes.
           | 
           | But I quickly realised what you described - it's a futile
           | effort to maintain such a thing, and that the only people who
           | do it are absolute slaves to the systems they've created.
           | 
           | Worse, they surely don't really generate truly unique
           | insights from it all because the insights don't really come
           | from addition and interconnection, but instead from
           | subtraction and refinement. The cultivation of wisdom, in
           | other words - which is the opposite of accumulation. I've
           | seen various versions of this chart and I think it summarizes
           | the situation well - though I'd go further and be culling the
           | noise from it all. https://magniapartners.com/wp-
           | content/uploads/2023/08/Magnia...
           | 
           | I still use obisidan, as it's just great software. And
           | mybnotes could absolutely benefit from better structure and
           | discipline in filing them - I do almost none of what I
           | mentioned above. Though, perhaps I'm just mentally doing the
           | culling and just focusing on what actually matters. Full text
           | search usually finds me what I need quickly enough.
        
       | timeonecom wrote:
       | I would have zipped it and put it into long term storage. Now
       | that I can run llms locally and train them with my notes, I'd
       | never have to organize or revisit old notes and could still get
       | value out of them.
        
       | Pursuit1782 wrote:
       | Great post, it captures a lot of feelings that I myself share
       | about "PKM"!
        
       | tonijn wrote:
       | Reminds me of stories people tell after they lost all their
       | belongings in a fire. Pain but also relieve
        
       | tolerance wrote:
       | If it wasn't for the compulsive authoring, storing, organizing,
       | accessing, discarding, archiving, indexing and retrieving of
       | notes and related data I wouldn't know what a computer was good
       | for.
       | 
       | But the whole "second brain" trend always made my stomach turn
       | and the surrounding culture of productivity/personal knowledge
       | management is a tarpit.
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | For porn.
        
       | imhoguy wrote:
       | I keep mine but archived as git history. I don't return to it but
       | in critical moment I can come back to some obscure information I
       | recorded years ago - useful for legal or insurance.
       | 
       | And my "second brain" is just handful list of current stuff, some
       | home technical or financial details my family would need in case
       | I am in coma, etc. I would call it Snapshot of Presence notes.
        
       | ricksunny wrote:
       | > Markdown files in nested folders.
       | 
       | I'm debating whether nested folders should be used at all in my
       | PKMs. I'm starting to think everything should be in the root
       | folder. Less likely to render searchability incomplete due to
       | some function or widget breaking.
        
       | raincole wrote:
       | > I started reading to extract. Listening to summarize
       | 
       | I resonate with this a lot. But in the opposite way of what the
       | author implies here.
       | 
       | Since I've start 'reading to extract', my attention span improved
       | a lot. I feel my reading pattern is like that of the pre-social-
       | media self again. Simply knowing that I'm going to write some
       | notes down makes reading a much more engaging experience for me.
       | 
       | By the way, this is what I wrote into Obsidian after reading this
       | article:
       | 
       | > [url]: The author deleted their Obsidian database of 10,000
       | notes. I do not agree on this approach, but they raised some
       | interesting issues. Quote:
       | 
       | > > The more my system grew, the more I deferred the work of
       | thought to some future self who would sort, tag, distill, and
       | extract the gold.
       | 
       | > > That self never arrived.
       | 
       | > I am probably making the same mistake, and should be reviewing
       | my notes more often. Perhaps I can delete some outdated ones
       | every once in a while, instead of deleting the whole database
       | like the author did?
        
       | fjfaase wrote:
       | My personal website acts as my second brain in the sense that it
       | helps me remember important events in my life and tracks my
       | personal projects. I started it around 1995.
        
         | yard2010 wrote:
         | https://www.iwriteiam.nl
        
         | MrGilbert wrote:
         | That is pretty impressive. I skimmed through the site, and was
         | wondering what your thought process was when putting your life
         | in the open vs. keeping it on a local disk?
        
           | fjfaase wrote:
           | Good question. Through the years, I have become more
           | restrictive about what I write especially with respect to
           | others. I am aware of the fact that I am more open to share
           | about my personal life than many people around me. Maybe it
           | is related to fact that I want to have some, hopefully
           | positive, effect on the world. (Maybe one day in the future
           | it might become material for some historic research.)
           | 
           | There is also a lot, I do not share. I keep a personal diary
           | and since 2010, I am recording my daily activities in
           | Moleskin daily planners (the only planners I have found that
           | have the same space for Saturdays and Sundays as for working
           | days).
        
       | mtts wrote:
       | Of course if you store "7000 notes" in a PKM you should expect
       | most of them to be useless, unless you're doing science and most
       | of them are literature notes or something (remember the guy who
       | "invented" zettelkasten worked as a researcher). Ordinary mortals
       | can get by with a lot less.
       | 
       | I have maybe a few hundred notes on the handful of topics that
       | matter to me and that's it.
        
       | winkelwagen wrote:
       | This resonates with me, I've never considered knowledge as
       | something you can live.
       | 
       | But comparing it with photography, it influences how you
       | experience the world. Sometimes it makes you feel like an
       | outsider documenting instead of being in the moment.
       | 
       | I always cringe a bit when people take endless videos of
       | fireworks or concerts. There is a fine line between wanting te
       | remember a feeling or moment and just brainlessly recording.
       | 
       | I'm wouldn't be surprised if this second brain movement is
       | similarly lacking its connection with "reality" and when lacking
       | clear intention.
        
       | ZYZ64738 wrote:
       | I used Obsidian 2 yrs. ago for almost 2 weeks and I quit. I did
       | not know why - until this post. I felt missing s.th. or left
       | myself behind by not using s PKMs. Now I feel calm after reading
       | this post. It seems that my subconsciousness alredy knew, that
       | (to me) a PKM would never reach a break even point...
        
       | barrkel wrote:
       | I understand what the author deleted and why.
       | 
       | I would never delete my own archive of notes, because it contains
       | a different kind of information: howtos for things I do
       | infrequently, current state for personal projects I rotate in and
       | out of over years, maintenance logs for my vehicles,
       | identification details for every important account (account
       | numbers, insurance expiry details etc).
       | 
       | When I'm doing something complex, I narrate what I'm doing in my
       | notes. Most of these logs are write only. They can help as a kind
       | of written rubber duck. And about 1 in 100 turn out to be
       | extremely useful when I want to remember how I did something 10
       | years ago.
       | 
       | I use the same app (of my own design) with a different storage at
       | work, and there I use it to remind myself what I did for
       | performance reviews. Every edit is logged with a timestamp and I
       | have a different tool which puts all the edits into chronological
       | order.
       | 
       | For the author, their system served as a way of dealing with
       | anxiety over self-improvement, it seems. But it turned into an
       | anxiety of its own when the weight of unexplored ambition became
       | manifest. It wasn't really a second brain IMO.
        
         | tommica wrote:
         | I'd hate to lose the ability of just going back 20 years later
         | and read my own thoughts and ideas, to meet the person I was at
         | that point.
         | 
         | I have a project/idea journal that I've had for over 10 years,
         | and going through it sometimes is really fun. I remember being
         | so proud about my code-generation tool that allowed me to
         | quickly start a new html+css project that I was doing that work
         | as a freelancer. Seeing that page in my journal brings up a
         | smile.
        
           | diggan wrote:
           | > I'd hate to lose the ability of just going back 20 years
           | later and read my own thoughts and ideas, to meet the person
           | I was at that point.
           | 
           | Yeah, my "second-brain" doubles as a journal too, and I have
           | written notebooks from when I first arrived in my "real home
           | country" with basically nothing, and it's always a pleasure
           | to go back to read through and realize (again) how different
           | my life is now.
           | 
           | It's really easy to lose track of our own progress day-to-
           | day, and being able to analyze your past perspectives and
           | situations is like a hack to instant happiness.
        
           | chuckadams wrote:
           | > I'd hate to lose the ability of just going back 20 years
           | later and read my own thoughts and ideas, to meet the person
           | I was at that point.
           | 
           | The author mentions being sober for 6 years. Chances are
           | she's not terribly interested in meeting her past self.
        
             | wonger_ wrote:
             | Sometimes it's nice to remind yourself how far you've come.
        
           | jhbadger wrote:
           | I have an archive of all my email going back to 1992.
           | (Granted, this is more accessible prior to 2000 or so when
           | things went unnecessarily to HTML). It is a wonderful
           | resource, not only for practical reasons but also it's like
           | my own personal Pepys diary -- I can tell you what I was
           | doing in 1992 and later on any date. I love reading it, even
           | if I encounter sad messages from mentors who have since
           | passed or significant others decades since the breakup.
        
         | motorest wrote:
         | > I would never delete my own archive of notes, because it
         | contains a different kind of information: howtos for things I
         | do infrequently, current state for personal projects I rotate
         | in and out of over years, maintenance logs for my vehicles,
         | identification details for every important account (account
         | numbers, insurance expiry details etc).
         | 
         | It struck me as odd how the blog post waxed lyrical about
         | "second brains" but the description of the notes seemed to
         | point at mostly to-do lists. That's not what I would call a
         | second brain. The definition of "second brain" is in line with
         | the old tradition of engineering logs, where engineers write
         | down things they did, measurements they took, and observations
         | they did. On the other hand, to-do lists is just work you
         | assign to yourself.
         | 
         | No wonder those notes caused anxiety. I would also be anxious
         | if I was faced with a log with 7-years worth of chores that are
         | both late and stale.
         | 
         | Logs are logs. You write down what you feel is important, and
         | forget about them. After some time, you can delete them without
         | a second thought. You write down stuff today because you feel
         | it will help you in the future. If what you wrote down today is
         | not a present from your past to your present, and instead is
         | causing you grief, then just remove it from your notes.
         | 
         | As all things in life, you need to preserve the things that
         | cause joy and push away those that cause grief. Your second
         | brain is no different.
        
         | keysdev wrote:
         | I recently recovered about 3TB of data from over 15 years ago.
         | It was just on a hard drive with a friend that we thought was
         | lost. I dont really miss the data, but oh it was nice to see
         | some old photos and notes!!
         | 
         | So what I recoomend is put on a hd and hide it some where. Go
         | check it in 15 years
        
           | thfuran wrote:
           | An HDD (or tape if you _really_ want want it to stick
           | around), not an SSD.
        
             | zahlman wrote:
             | TIL that tape storage exists with density competitive with
             | HDDs: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Linear_Tape-Open
             | 
             | but I still don't understand what supposedly makes it more
             | reliable long-term as storage.
        
               | datameta wrote:
               | I believe it is cost per unit density that allows
               | magnetic tape to be more suitable for archival storage
               | than HDD, which surpasses it in I/O speeds. Magnetic tape
               | storage is still usually in RAID-like configurations and
               | while tape only survives for 15-30 years, data survival
               | by migration is typically done well before medium
               | degradation.
        
               | kstrauser wrote:
               | LTO-9 drives are expensive, but the media is around $90
               | for an 18TB (pre-compression) tape. That's a pretty good
               | price if you make lots of backups for work. They also
               | offer append-only mode, which is awesome for archives
               | where you want it to be essentially impossible to delete
               | a backup without physical access.
               | 
               | But the tape itself has a great reputation for being
               | physically robust. There are fewer parts to break than in
               | an HDD, too. If your tape drive dies, you can replace it
               | and keep using the same media. That'd be like having hard
               | drive platters you could swap into another HDD later on.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | Tape media doesn't last forever. I suppose that tapes
               | specifically meant for archiving are better, but I have
               | old audio tapes from the 1970s and 80s that are just
               | falling apart.
        
               | projektfu wrote:
               | Mylar audio tape of that vintage had longevity problems.
               | I remember reading about an audio archive that thought
               | they had done the right thing by preserving onto high
               | quality tape of the time and then they found their
               | archives disintegrating. I think they got lucky and moved
               | things to new media before losing everything.
               | 
               | This is always the risk. Longevity testing is often done
               | at high temperatures or other artificial means but cannot
               | exactly simulate 30-50 years of storage. If something is
               | important, it's best to use two different media, and
               | check them over the years.
        
               | ta988 wrote:
               | It is a question of failure mode. If your hard drive
               | motor dies, if the heads fail, if the electronics fail,
               | if the sealing fail (in some cases it can be repaired by
               | specialists but that's not easy and much more expensive
               | than a tape reader)... lots of things can go wrong that
               | are not related with the media itself. The advantage of
               | tape is that the device that reads it is separate from
               | the mechanically simple tape. It comes at a cost but
               | that's for hedging against a different risk.
        
         | zahlman wrote:
         | > current state for personal projects I rotate in and out of
         | over years
         | 
         | How do you get yourself to rotate back in?
        
           | kaashif wrote:
           | Personally, I don't "get myself" to do anything, I just do it
           | for fun.
           | 
           | The usual cycle is that I start hacking on some fun thing
           | like an implementation of rules for a board game or trying to
           | work out how some library I use works. Eventually I write
           | down where I am then stop, maybe because I got bored or it
           | was too hard.
           | 
           | Then I forget that the project was hard, become convinced
           | that it was easy, then spend an evening hacking away again.
           | 
           | It's just leisure. Like putting a bookmark in a novel.
        
           | michaelbarton wrote:
           | Somewhat related I have a little script that shows me three
           | notes at random everyday. If they're stale or no longer
           | needed I delete the note. This helps keep it relatively fresh
           | over time.
           | 
           | I have a tag "#noreview" for notes that are evergreen that
           | don't need to be reviewed. Example of that might which bus to
           | take from Heathrow when visiting friends in London
        
         | ZunarJ5 wrote:
         | I also follow this philosophy. I also have an anxious brain,
         | though. To manage the clutter, I zip up old notes & projects by
         | date and put them in an archive folder. They're always there if
         | I need to reference them, but I have a clean workspace too. I
         | include file trees in those archives for easy reference. Very
         | easy to script with a cron job.
        
         | Willingham wrote:
         | I took some blurbs from your comment and added it to
         | my...life/career notes. (:
        
         | BrtByte wrote:
         | What you've built sounds more like an external memory
         | prosthetic than a second brain - grounded, functional, and
         | geared toward real-world utility, not aspirational insight-
         | hoarding. I think that's the key difference: your system serves
         | your life, not the other way around
        
           | dawnofdusk wrote:
           | This comment you wrote sounds a lot like an LLM, FYI. Not
           | saying you are
        
             | Capricorn2481 wrote:
             | I've used AI a lot and completely disagree.
        
             | bckr wrote:
             | It's the last sentence that makes it sound like Claude, to
             | me
        
           | barrkel wrote:
           | That voice - antithesis - is straight out of ChatGPT, like
           | the sibling comment says.
        
             | dhdaadhd wrote:
             | It's funny how ChatGPT writes like a first-year in an MFA
             | writing program. Its style is often too elegant for its
             | substance.
             | 
             | OpenAI is not good at matching form to function in text or
             | voice.
        
       | isolatedsystem wrote:
       | This article is visibly, annoyingly, _distractingly_ in threes.
       | 
       | > It promises clarity. Control. Mental leverage.
       | 
       | > but to keep it alive, replayed, and reworked.
       | 
       | > A dusty collection of old selves, old interests, old
       | compulsions...
       | 
       | > A quote would spark an insight, I'd clip it, tag it, link it...
       | 
       | > There is a guilt that accompanies unread books, articles and
       | blog posts
       | 
       | > The belief that by naming a goal, you are closer to achieving
       | it. That by storing a thought, you have understood it. That by
       | filing a fact, you have earned the right to deploy it.
       | 
       | > ...the fear of losing track, of forgetting, of not being caught
       | up.
       | 
       | > Nietzsche burned early drafts. Michelangelo destroyed sketches.
       | Leonardo left thousands of pages unfinished.
        
         | tolerance wrote:
         | I'm starting to notice this style a lot. Apparently there's a
         | formal term for it, but I didn't begin to notice it until I
         | started using ChatGPT regularly.
         | 
         | Granted, there are people who didn't notice the utility of the
         | em dash until it became apparent in ChatGPT's responses, but
         | aside from either device there is a certain vibe I'm starting
         | to pick up from a lot of writing online that mirrors AI writing
         | although you can't just call it that, especially if people
         | enjoy it.
         | 
         | A kind of abstract solipsism that only resonates unless you
         | consent to a platonic relationship with the author through
         | their writing. About as close as you can get to reading
         | something written with the aid of AI, I'd imagine.
        
           | alwa wrote:
           | I choose to think optimistically, in the same way as I did
           | when smartphones put a camera in everyone's pocket: suddenly,
           | "bokeh" is a term with purchase in the mainstream! "Portrait
           | mode" for every adorable baby pic! A ring light in every
           | makeshift bedroom-dresser studio!
           | 
           | Everybody's _participating_ now, and taking pride in using
           | more of the visual language of photography for themselves.
           | That makes us all richer!
           | 
           | Now, then, that the language-bots have sensitized our
           | collective ear to the hypnotic rhythm of a parallel-
           | constructed triplet, the drama of a "--", and the muscular
           | power of a strong active voice (...that's three,
           | right?)--aren't we all richer for it?
        
             | tolerance wrote:
             | > Now, then, that the language-bots have sensitized our
             | collective ear to the hypnotic rhythm of a parallel-
             | constructed triplet, the drama of a "--", and the muscular
             | power of a strong active voice (...that's three,
             | right?)--aren't we all richer for it?
             | 
             | That is yet be proven, comrade.
        
             | eertami wrote:
             | I think you raise a valid point, but I would argue that in
             | your photography example, the content is very much still
             | human - portrait mode and ring lights are tools that
             | improve the output but a human framed the picture, and
             | pressed the button.
             | 
             | LLM generated writing doesn't quite feel the same for me,
             | the words are the content but they lack human touch,
             | context, intention. The equivalent would be the
             | photographer uploading their photo to ChatGPT and asking it
             | to regenerate the image. The output wouldn't feel right, it
             | is more like losing something than gaining.
        
             | yapyap wrote:
             | I feel that your optimism is great but that the example you
             | provided is not the same.
             | 
             | Everyone had the ability to write before chatgpt, they had
             | the ability to get their thoughts across if they so wished,
             | whereas with photography it lessened the burden of having
             | to buy an entirely seperate device.
             | 
             | if I move myself into the shoes of a photographer or
             | someone with an affinity towards photographing I kind of
             | get that when taking pictures is a big part of your life
             | the camera starts to get ingrained with that but for others
             | it wasnt just a step from camera to more frictionless
             | camera it was a step from nothing to camera.
             | 
             | Whereas everyone has a brain to think things and to try to
             | communicate what they are thinking and feeling, large
             | language models did not enable that, they did however
             | enable lazy people to swap out the work with a robots
             | response or malicious people to spam the internet
        
         | XiphiasX wrote:
         | That's because it's LLM.
        
           | Veen wrote:
           | The rule of threes is a widely known rhetorical guideline.
           | Some people do take it a bit far, though.
        
           | crtified wrote:
           | Verbose, literate writers wrote like LLMs long before LLMs
           | existed.
           | 
           |  _We_ taught _them_.
           | 
           | One irony now being that that form of skilled writing is
           | inevitably and sometimes falsely accused of being machine-
           | written.
        
             | paulluuk wrote:
             | > "I would have written a shorter letter, but I did not
             | have the time." - Blaise Pascal
             | 
             | It takes much more skill to write concise than verbose.
        
               | latexr wrote:
               | That quote doesn't apply at all. Verbose writing doesn't
               | immediately indicate a lack of skill, otherwise every
               | fiction book would've been reduced to a pamphlet of a
               | summary.
               | 
               | If you are writing to explain, being concise is a useful
               | asset. If you are writing to entertain, or for pleasure,
               | verbosity and flair can be better.
               | 
               | I don't get the feeling the author is trying to convince
               | anyone of doing anything. They are sharing their
               | experience, probably writing for themselves above
               | everyone else. They should do it however they prefer.
        
         | gjm11 wrote:
         | On the other hand:
         | 
         | > Every note in Obsidian. Every half-baked atomic thought,
         | every Zettelkasten slip, every carefully linked concept map.
         | (4, though I suppose you could argue it's 1 + 3)
         | 
         | > But over time, my second brain became a mausoleum. A dusty
         | collection of old selves, old interests, old compulsions, piled
         | on top of each other like geological strata. (2, albeit with a
         | 3 inside)
         | 
         | > Instead of accelerating my thinking, it began to replace it.
         | Instead of aiding memory, it froze my curiosity into static
         | categories. (2)
         | 
         | > The inhabitants of the library, cursed to wander it forever,
         | descend into despair, madness, and nihilism. (2 with a 3 inside
         | again)
         | 
         | > It is associative, embodied, contextual, emotional. We do not
         | think in folders. We do not retrieve meaning through backlinks.
         | Our minds are improvisational. They forget on purpose. (4, 2,
         | 2)
         | 
         | I think the author (either in person, or via some LLM that did
         | much of the actual writing) is just fond of this sort of
         | rhetorical repetition, and it happens that if you're doing that
         | then 3 is often the best number. (Because 2 may not be enough
         | to establish the rhythm, and 4 may be enough to feel overdone.)
         | 
         | I _do_ think there 's too much of it here, and specifically too
         | many threes, but I think the underlying fault is "too much
         | parallelism" and the too-many-threes are a symptom.
        
         | StefanBatory wrote:
         | I don't understand why people are saying it's LLM.
         | 
         | To me it's more of a stream of consciousness style of writing.
        
           | gwern wrote:
           | I'm fascinated by all these comments I see on HN and
           | elsewhere where people will deny that a blatantly LLM-written
           | article was not LLM-written, including cases where people
           | praise it for _not_ being LLM-written (eg.
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44384138 ). Like, leave
           | aside the issue of whether it's a good or bad thing (I've
           | been doing generative text NNs since 2015, so I'm mostly for
           | it, when done well), I'm just interested in the inability to
           | notice.
           | 
           | Skimming your comments, you, for example, do not seem to be
           | illiterate or a bad writer at all despite being ESL (although
           | you overuse the double-sentence structure in your comments),
           | but you describe this as being 'stream of consciousness' (it
           | is not even close to that, look at an actual example like
           | Joyce) and seem to think it is fine.
           | 
           | So I'm puzzled how. Why isn't it obvious to you that the
           | style is so mode-collapsed (
           | https://gwern.net/doc/reinforcement-learning/preference-
           | lear... )? Do you also not notice how all the ChatGPT images
           | are cat-urine yellow? (I've been asking people in person
           | whether they have noticed this in the Bay Area and I'd say
           | <20% of enthusiastic generative AI users have noticed.) What
           | are you thinking when you read OP? Does it all just round off
           | to 'content', and you don't notice the repetition because you
           | treat it all as a single author? Are you just skimming and
           | not reading it?
        
         | warpspin wrote:
         | If she tended to have that rhythm in her notes, too, no wonder
         | it was two-thirds hoarded junk.
         | 
         | SCNR
        
         | jtwoodhouse wrote:
         | It's called the Rule of Three. It's a good writing practice,
         | but it can be overdone.
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rule_of_three_(writing)
        
       | cornfieldlabs wrote:
       | I deleted all my bookmarks since I was hoarding unhealthy amount
       | of them. A lot of them were in "to read" folder. It was so
       | freeing to "let go"
        
         | sunaookami wrote:
         | Ha did the same a few years ago with over 2000 bookmarks! A lot
         | of links were already dead anyway.
        
           | cornfieldlabs wrote:
           | Sometimes I remember a particular line from a particular
           | article and wish I had kept the links. But I have learnt that
           | things should go away permanently and it's normal to never
           | get to read it again. "Life is like that"
           | 
           | I had around 3.8k collected over the span of 4 years
        
       | doesnt_know wrote:
       | > But what got me sober, what got me through the first one, two,
       | three hard years - none of it was in those notes.
       | 
       | > It hit me: what got me here won't get me where I need to be
       | next.
       | 
       | Where was it, or, what was it that did?
       | 
       | I believe the author when they went through their system of notes
       | and effectively found nothing that contributed to the most
       | important parts of themselves, but I was also sort of waiting for
       | the alternative answer that I thought was supposed to be
       | coming...
        
       | kkfx wrote:
       | The main problem of notes is that most tools are bad, Emacs/org-
       | mode outshine the others, still having it's own hiccups (for
       | instance a very limited transclusion support so far with org-
       | transclusion and delve at the best).
       | 
       | Nevertheless for me it's my main digital life, I have all in
       | notes (org-mode) and the result is another level of computer help
       | in my physical life!
        
       | urbandw311er wrote:
       | I can't help but wonder if it was the journaling, the act itself
       | of creating and keeping a second brain, that ultimately was
       | useful for the author.
        
       | winter_blue wrote:
       | _> The more I wrote into my vault, the less I felt. A quote would
       | spark an insight, I'd clip it, tag it, link it - and move on. But
       | the insight was never lived. It was stored. Like food vacuum-
       | sealed and never eaten, while any nutritional value slips away._
       | 
       | The better answer here would have been to make some time to go
       | back and reflect and write more.
       | 
       | Not necessarily to throw it all away.
       | 
       | The goal should have been to reflect deeply, and write more on
       | the most interesting topics therein.
       | 
       |  _> Worse, the architecture began to shape my attention. I
       | started reading to extract. Listening to summarize. Thinking in
       | formats I could file. Every experience became fodder. I stopped
       | wondering and started processing._
       | 
       | Summarization could now be done by LLMs.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | I don't understand why so many people on this thread feel the
         | need to prescribe to the author what would've been better for
         | them.
         | 
         | You don't know the author, don't know their mind, and clearly
         | do not understand their thought process.
         | 
         | This post is a personal reflection. The author's actions affect
         | exactly one person: themselves. The "better answer" is
         | unambiguously the one which works out best for the author.
         | Period. They are better equipped than any of us to know what
         | that is.
        
       | atoav wrote:
       | Having went through similar deletions before the important
       | takeaway is that the reason the author felt relief is that
       | _deleted things that were weighing them down_.
       | 
       | A common mistake is to keep stuff you won't need (or worse stuff
       | actively keeping up mental space). If you're really worried about
       | losing something you can still keep those old notes somewhere
       | where it doesn't bother you, but the real useful notes.
        
       | BeetleB wrote:
       | I'd like to believe there is a happy medium.
       | 
       | The problem likely is an obsession with any of the following:
       | 
       | Trying to keep your notes accurate.
       | 
       | Trying to have a "good" organizational scheme (categories?
       | folders? tags?)
       | 
       | Trying not to have your notes on a topic fragmented. (Didn't I
       | write about this before? Let me find my earlier note and add to
       | it. Oh, and let me find the appropriate places _within_ a note to
       | add the new info).
       | 
       | I've suffered from all of the above. Late last year I decided to
       | start afresh. I use org mode + capture. All notes go in one org
       | file. I don't try to find a prior note on the same topic. I just
       | tag the new note (hopefully with the same tag as before), and
       | start writing. I don't check if I've written some thought before.
       | 
       | I then have a function that takes a tag as an input, and creates
       | a new (temporary) org file with only the entries from that note.
       | It's in the same format as my blog's publishing SW, so if I want,
       | I can output to HTML and view it in the browser - with each note
       | being a blog post.
       | 
       | 6 months in, though, I've never needed that function.
       | 
       | What I like about this:
       | 
       | I enter freely without worrying about how it should be organized
       | - I tag it with whatever comes to mind at the moment.
       | 
       | I rely on basic search when looking for something. It's not
       | great, but I'll live with it.
       | 
       | If I ever do work on a long term project where I can work only
       | very sporadically, that export function will be handy.
       | 
       | I never randomly browse. The fact that the file has X notes not
       | acted on - doesn't bother me. That it's all in one file - is
       | surprisingly nice. Since it's in Org mode, I can always do
       | queries on it (but haven't so far).
        
         | ParetoOptimal wrote:
         | I like howm for this because it's designed around "writing
         | notes fragmentarily". Or as their tagline says:
         | 
         | > Write fragmentarily and read collectively.
         | 
         | I felt a lot lighter just writing things without thinking about
         | organization too heavily and howm gave nice tools to find/see
         | what I needed.
         | 
         | https://github.com/kaorahi/howm/
        
       | gabrieledarrigo wrote:
       | Well done.
       | 
       | I also think that mental clarity comes from a lean, blank sheet
       | of paper, instead of a useless pile of accumulated knowledge. I'm
       | still familiar with the act of deleting, which is liberatory:
       | destroying drawings, writings, trashing things from the past,
       | pictures, and deleting graffiti.
       | 
       | I don't want to be productive, I don't care about being able to
       | access a thought from 7 years ago to do...what? I don't want to
       | summarize, I don't want a stupid LLM to dictate my knowledge. I'm
       | a human being, I change, I forget, I can fail, I'll die, and
       | that's it.
        
       | notsydonia wrote:
       | I enjoyed reading this but it also made me think I must be a bit
       | weird. Depending on what I'm working on and where I'm at, I keep
       | notes in Apple notes or obsidian, extended descriptions on
       | bookmarks, physical sticky notes, an actual journal and pages
       | files on desktop - barely any of it is tagged and I'd call it
       | 'notes' rather than a 2nd brain but i go through it all every
       | eight-12 weeks, cull what now seems irrelevant and try to act on
       | the rest of it. I should probably learn how to actually use
       | obsidian properly but I still don't get the 'second brain'
       | terminology.
        
       | yard2010 wrote:
       | I think this is not the time to delete an old archive of personal
       | data, it feels like someone who deleted his bitcoin in 2010..
       | Data is eating the world.
        
       | 1dom wrote:
       | I don't really like this. I think the author let their own
       | personal issues lead to the destruction of knowledge. I relate to
       | the issues, but the nuclear option seems extreme.
       | 
       | They could have just left their library for a bit, there was no
       | need to burn it to the ground.
       | 
       | "I've just lobotomised myself and I look forward to having to
       | relearn everything and doing it all again".
       | 
       | If nothing else, in 7 years time, they'll regret not being able
       | to compare how their new manifestation of internal knowledge
       | anxiety compares to their previous.
       | 
       | There was no need to do this. Please anyone, if you're
       | considering this, just zip them up and put them on a usb or cloud
       | storage somewhere out of the way - that's a lot harder to regret.
        
         | manmal wrote:
         | The problem with hoarding is that, on the whole, the hoarded
         | items are worthless. There's too much noise and too little
         | signal. Finding the gems takes an active effort, which author
         | found daunting. Hoarders usually need help from the outside,
         | and if they don't get that help, it's IMO fair to throw it all
         | out.
        
           | noisy_boy wrote:
           | > Finding the gems takes an active effort, which author found
           | daunting.
           | 
           | Who knows what are gems are what are not? I scan tons of
           | stuff related to my children's school/activities etc. One day
           | when I'm gone, maybe they will enjoy going through them and
           | find some things they will call gems and lots of other junk.
           | Or maybe they will consider it all junk and just get rid of
           | it. But I can't be the judge of that now, I can only be the
           | custodian.
        
             | manmal wrote:
             | You are perfectly describing the issue when sorting out a
             | hoarder's stuff. There's no way of knowing what's precious
             | and what not for most of the things. There might be some
             | obvious things (wooden furniture / ISO documents that are
             | still relevant), but the rest goes in the trash usually.
             | 
             | > One day when I'm gone, maybe they will enjoy going
             | through them
             | 
             | My mother used to say the same thing. But I'm not looking
             | at that old stuff, ever. Maybe your kids will. It's your
             | decision whether it's worse to be false negative or false
             | positive here. If the stuff is not taking up too much
             | space, it's probably a good idea to keep it. Hoarding is
             | something else though.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | I'll take my chances on the off chance that my child will
               | see their primary 2 report card scan after many years and
               | say "oh my god I can't believe it..."
        
               | sanswork wrote:
               | My mom kept everything like that. The structured stuff
               | like baby books and photo albums with labels and stories
               | are great. The boxes of report cards from when I was 7
               | were a momentary amusement before they were recycled. The
               | school work and random other things were just annoying to
               | have to sort through.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | I would have been stoked to see the evidence of her
               | sentimentality if that was my mother (my dad kept my
               | stuff and I liked that very much). I guess we are all
               | different people will different emotional reactions. Also
               | I know nothing about you or your life so maybe your
               | reaction is totally warranted.
        
               | astura wrote:
               | Of course you would have been m stoked, hoarders enjoy
               | hoards. It's a tautology.
               | 
               | What you fail to understand is the vast majority of
               | people are not hoarders and don't enjoy hoards.
        
               | kaashif wrote:
               | I would enjoy a digital hoard of stuff like that, but not
               | a physical hoard. I have since digitized all of the stuff
               | my parents hoarded and got rid of a lot of the physical
               | items.
               | 
               | It doesn't really cost me anything on an ongoing basis to
               | have this huge digital dump of files sitting around. It
               | was a one time effort to scan everything. If my parents
               | had done that and just left a huge archive of digital
               | files, that would be fine.
               | 
               | If people feel neutrally about digital hoards, that makes
               | sense.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | It is amazing how things can be interpreted that
               | differently. How heartless you have to be to not even
               | spare a kind thought about the moments she lovingly put
               | away the things for her loved child. If the person is a
               | hoarder, they will do that for each and everything, not
               | just for things that remind one of the memories of the
               | loved ones.
               | 
               | Just wow.
        
               | achierius wrote:
               | What you fail to understand is that the vast majority of
               | non-hoarders are still happy to get those "brief moments"
               | of joy, memory, nostalgia -- connections to the past that
               | could otherwise be totally gone. The cost is so low, the
               | benefits -- perhaps not life-changing, but of a
               | particular and hard-to-replicate quality that I think
               | makes them worth it nevertheless.
        
               | latexr wrote:
               | If it were me, I would indeed think "oh my god I can't
               | believe it", followed immediately by "why did my parents
               | save this worthless junk? I have no interest in this. How
               | much more garbage is in here? I'm definitely not going to
               | look through it all to find two important things buried
               | in hundreds of trivialities. And now I have to go through
               | the trouble of throwing it away myself. I'd rather be
               | doing anything else".
               | 
               | Maybe your kids will enjoy it, though. But that feeling
               | is far from universal.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | > If it were me, I would indeed think "oh my god I can't
               | believe it", followed immediately by "why did my parents
               | save this worthless junk? I have no interest in this. How
               | much more garbage is in here? I'm definitely not going to
               | look through it all to find two important things buried
               | in hundreds of trivialities. And now I have to go through
               | the trouble of throwing it away myself. I'd rather be
               | doing anything else".
               | 
               | Sure, we are all different people. I was super happy to
               | find my childhood class photo and marksheets that my dad
               | had saved - it just underlined what I already knew, that
               | he cared. I shared it with my children and we bonded over
               | the exams where I didn't fare well.
               | 
               | > But that feeling is far from universal.
               | 
               | I know that the level of sentimentality isn't a universal
               | thing.
               | 
               | I'm not going to hold them to cherishing this stuff and
               | ask them to explain themselves if they just delete it. I
               | just want them to have a chance at looking at small parts
               | of their childhood. It is done without expecting
               | gratitude or reciprocal emotions in return, which I
               | guess, is part of being a parent.
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | It's a hundred times easier to search a digital hoard and
               | you can fit a very big one inside a single hard drive.
               | 
               | So the idea that most of it is worthless is far far less
               | justification to toss the entire pile. The cost to
               | benefit ratio is shifted by more than 1000x.
               | 
               | And even then, while cleaning out a physical hoard you'll
               | take time to look through things.
        
               | manmal wrote:
               | Discarding the hoard has mainly psychological upsides in
               | this case.
        
             | dist-epoch wrote:
             | Realistically they will use an AI to find the gems.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | I'll be happy if they atleast try, AI or no AI :) And if
               | they don't, thats ok too!
        
             | michaelt wrote:
             | _> Who knows what are gems are what are not?_
             | 
             | In this case, the author wrote the notes. If they say it
             | has no value, they probably know what they're talking
             | about.
        
               | diggan wrote:
               | > In this case, the author wrote the notes. If they say
               | it has no value, they probably know what they're talking
               | about.
               | 
               | Well, yeah, if they say it has no value, then obviously
               | it has no value _to them_ , no one could claim otherwise.
               | 
               | I guess the context in this thread kind of shifted to it
               | might still be valuable to _someone_ , even if it isn't
               | valuable to them. There been a lot of cases in history
               | where very smart people judged their own journals to not
               | be very valuable (to them) so they think nothing of it,
               | then 100 years later someone discovers the journal
               | together with a ton of valuable (to the world) nuggets in
               | it.
        
             | al_borland wrote:
             | You can ask your kids what those gems are. My dad ask me
             | this a few months ago. I brought up some knick knacks he
             | had in his office when I was growing up. I'm not sure if he
             | still has them or not, but if he does, if he ever goes
             | through his hoard, he'll know to send those my way instead
             | of getting rid of them.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | > You can ask your kids what those gems are. My dad ask
               | me this a few months ago. I brought up some knick knacks
               | he had in his office when I was growing up. I'm not sure
               | if he still has them or not, but if he does, if he ever
               | goes through his hoard, he'll know to send those my way
               | instead of getting rid of them.
               | 
               | He can't give them to you if he threw it away. Also, he
               | can ask that question to you because your choices and
               | preferences are, to a large extent, set.
               | 
               | The same stuff, that my child would throw away without
               | hesitation few years ago, is now "precious memories" and
               | not to be disturbed. The emotional value of things
               | doesn't follow much logic and has massive volatility
               | until adulthood.
               | 
               | I mean I totally understand that me keeping bunch of
               | stuff isn't a guarantee that they will find what they
               | value at that point of time. Maybe the lego-shaped eraser
               | would be the most interesting piece of stationary they
               | will remember; doesn't mean I can hoard every piece of
               | stationary. Digital stuff is different though - my SSD
               | doesn't bulge just because I'm putting more files holding
               | snippets of life on it.
        
               | al_borland wrote:
               | My dad has kept a lot of stuff. If he kept what I
               | mentioned, I don't know. But I do hope he goes through
               | his stuff and pairs down before he passes, and if he
               | does, I'm glad he asked. But you're right, they the kids
               | need to be grown before that question becomes valuable.
               | 
               | I've known several people who had to go through their
               | parent's entire lifetime of accumulated stuff and it was
               | quite the job. Dumpsters were rented. It was a big burden
               | to leave the kids.
               | 
               | Digital stuff will also be a lot to go through. My dad
               | has hundreds of thousands of photos, backed up in
               | triplicate. I was helping him clean the basement once and
               | found 5 1/4 inch floppy disks labeled "backup" from the
               | 80s. He's kept all digital files. Many of them are locked
               | into various proprietary apps as well. So I'll likely
               | need to spend months going through it all, while
               | everything is still working, to see what is worth saving,
               | and migrating it into a format I can manage. It will be a
               | massive project, on top of the physical stuff. I'm hoping
               | I can talk the rest of the family into an estate sale for
               | the physical stuff, but the digital stuff is arguably the
               | bigger job, with no way to outsource it.
               | 
               | There is also the question of corruption, or simply being
               | able to read older files. I grabbed some documents I had
               | saved on his computer back in high school about 15 years
               | later. I had saved them as rtf files at the time so they
               | would be more portable. I tried off and on for a week or
               | two to read them in more modern times and it was a no-go.
               | I could get sections, but not the whole thing. I don't
               | know if the rtf standard changed or the files were simply
               | corrupt, but they were basically trash. I'm sure I'll run
               | into a lot of that as well.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | OMG, this is so dumb, your children don't want your hoard;
             | at least admit your hoarding for yourself, not them.
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | Speak for yourself and stop projecting your opinions on
               | others. You don't speak for me or my children.
        
               | achierius wrote:
               | I want my parent's hoard :)
               | 
               | Does that make me a... vicarious hoarder? What point are
               | you trying to make? If you keep knick-knacks for the sake
               | of others, you're a hoarder and should admit it's
               | actually just for yourself -- if you enjoy someone else's
               | knick-knacks which they saved for you, you're also a
               | hoarder?
        
             | sotix wrote:
             | > I scan tons of stuff related to my children's
             | school/activities etc. One day when I'm gone, maybe they
             | will enjoy going through them and find some things they
             | will call gems and lots of other junk.
             | 
             | My sister and I have an agreement to trash my mom's hoard
             | of our school stuff she refuses to get rid of that we don't
             | want. All it does is bring us stress. If they made physical
             | art like clay pots in a kiln, keep it for yourself if they
             | don't want it. If it's something you can scan, I doubt it's
             | worth keeping and makes it much harder to find signal in
             | the noise when too much is scanned.
        
               | SoftTalker wrote:
               | When my mother passed and we had to clean out my parent's
               | house, she had boxes of the same kinds of things. Old
               | report cards, drawings and school work from 40+ years
               | ago. It was nice to see that she cared to save it but it
               | was of no interest beyond that. And it was pretty clear
               | that she herself never looked at it, as the boxes were
               | packed away in closets and obviously hadn't been touched
               | since they were put there.
               | 
               | Stuff causes stress. It's really true. Even if it's
               | mostly out of the way, every time you see it it will
               | cause some stress about whether it should be moved,
               | reorganized, saved, or thrown away. The house I grew up
               | in was always cluttered and I'm bad about it myself.
               | Every once in a while I will order a roll-off dumpster to
               | the house and get rid of things that have accumulated
               | over the past 10 years or so. It's a relief but then it
               | starts over again.
               | 
               | If there's one habit I wish I had it would be to
               | regularly and ruthlessly get rid of stuff that I don't
               | use anymore.
        
           | KHRZ wrote:
           | We just entered the era where LLMs could mine his gems for
           | him though.
        
             | alternatex wrote:
             | I find it wild to suggest an LLM would be better at
             | scouring data for gems than the person who wrote them. LLMs
             | are better than us at going through large amounts of data,
             | and that's it. They have no idea what is valuable there.
        
               | diggan wrote:
               | > I find it wild to suggest an LLM would be better at
               | scouring data for gems than the person who wrote them
               | 
               | I mean, "an out there" idea sure, but wild? There are
               | plenty of cases where people underestimated their own
               | worth and value, and the potential impact of their ideas.
               | 
               | Sometimes it's valuable to have outsiders perspective on
               | things. Old war veterans might not think twice about
               | their love-letters between them and their partner, but
               | taken together with a large collection of letters,
               | historians can build new perspectives that we weren't
               | able to see before.
               | 
               | > They have no idea what is valuable there.
               | 
               | Of course an LLM wouldn't know what is "valuable". It
               | would require a person to have an idea of what could be
               | valuable, and program the LLM to surface based on that,
               | together with more things.
               | 
               | For example, I could imagine if I setup an LLM with the
               | prompt "Highlight perspectives that you think are
               | conflicting with other stated perspectives" to go through
               | my own second-brain, it could reveal something I haven't
               | considered before, granted it'll be able to freely query
               | the db and so on.
        
               | sotix wrote:
               | Agreed. LLMs have no taste.
        
           | tareqak wrote:
           | With respect to knowledge and notes, I would say that the
           | knowledge (gems) may not be worthless in an absolute sense
           | but its relevance may no longer be worth the cost of keeping
           | said knowledge organized under a given person's organization
           | scheme.
           | 
           | For what it is worth, I still find it frustrating when I
           | cannot find a certain piece of information that I am looking
           | for but I know exists because I came across it before but
           | didn't record it at the time. However, I also appreciate
           | being able to forget distressing events that would find ways
           | to remind me about their existence.
           | 
           | I guess all of this may depend on the exact definitions of
           | knowledge, data, and memory, and how an individual reckons
           | with acquiring, organizing, and forgetting information.
        
           | qwertox wrote:
           | That's an effort that can be handled by an AI.
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > The problem with hoarding is that, on the whole, the
           | hoarded items are worthless. There's too much noise and too
           | little signal.
           | 
           | I don't think that's a problem. What turns logs into a
           | problem is misplaced expectations on what is their purpose
           | and how you should use them.
           | 
           | Logs are collected with the express purpose of being ignored,
           | and as a safeguard in case in the future you need to check an
           | audit trail of what you were doing. After a while, once the
           | odds of those logs providing any value drops enough, you can
           | safely delete them.
           | 
           | Your tool is only as good as you make it out to be.
        
           | 1dom wrote:
           | I don't disagree with anything you're saying apart from the
           | last few words.
           | 
           | The solution to this problem is the same it has been for
           | literally centuries: archiving.
           | 
           | The whole point of an archive is that it's out of the way and
           | takes no effort, even more so a digital one. But if you
           | have/need/want the time/space, you or someone else can check
           | it, and find a gem.
        
             | layer8 wrote:
             | As someone who by now has decades of nested digital
             | archives of archives, those still have a psychological
             | weight that sometimes surfaces when I am reminded of their
             | existence. It's not clear to me they really constitute a
             | net benefit.
        
           | deadbabe wrote:
           | If they're worthless then give them away
        
           | zahlman wrote:
           | Counterpoint: data hoarding is not like physical hoarding (or
           | at least, it hasn't been up to this point), because we've
           | lived through an era of exponentially increasing storage
           | capacity (with file sizes to match, in many cases).
           | 
           | I still have a folder full of notes from several of my
           | university courses, grouped by course. Some of it is source
           | code (either the lecturer's or my own); some is assignment
           | text (in a mixture of plain text, PDF, legacy .doc, etc.).
           | There aren't any repositories because this was many years
           | before Git existed and professors back then apparently didn't
           | think we needed to be taught about the systems that did
           | exist.
           | 
           | But why not keep it? The whole collection is smaller than,
           | say, the OpenBLAS shared library that comes with a NumPy
           | installation. It's maybe 1% of the size of the ISO for a
           | modern desktop Linux distribution.
           | 
           | It's part of a folder with even older stuff - all the way
           | back to toy Turing programs I wrote as a child. There are
           | countless random files that are probably poorly organized
           | internally, that I'll likely never revisit with any good
           | reason. But the whole thing is less data than I'd likely end
           | up downloading if I spent an hour on YouTube or Twitch. The
           | ability to store it permanently costs me literally pennies,
           | amortized over the cost of the drive.
           | 
           | ... And yet, the size of modern applications still bothers
           | me. It feels almost disrespectful, somehow. Old habits die
           | hard, I guess.
        
             | achierius wrote:
             | > And yet, the size of modern applications still bothers
             | me. It feels almost disrespectful, somehow. Old habits die
             | hard, I guess.
             | 
             | Data size != memory size, and even memory size != binary
             | size. It's totally fair to rail against the program text,
             | and associated application data, that have to be loaded
             | onto your machine in order for you to do something as
             | simple as send a message on Slack -- RAM, unlike cold
             | storage space, has not grown quite so exponentially, and
             | wasting that space is expensive. And of course, the larger
             | the binary, the slower the program, and the worse your
             | programs will interface with other ones on the system.
        
         | johanneskanybal wrote:
         | I mean most of us don't keep any organized notes and are fine.
         | I can giggle sometimes when I find old notepads from the past
         | but nothing I'd miss.
         | 
         | Sounds like the author for sure made an obvious choice even if
         | that doesen't mean you have to do the same.
        
         | Veen wrote:
         | It's not knowledge unless they actually know it. It's just a
         | collection of information.
        
         | qwertox wrote:
         | Let alone the fact that he could have fed an assistant with
         | that information in 3 or 5 years, and would never have had to
         | bother with that information again, but would be able to talk
         | about it and ask in huge detail about things that were once
         | relevant. The AI would have enough information on how he wants
         | the data to be structured, it could have kept doing it for him.
        
           | jen729w wrote:
           | Her. Her name is in the goddamn URL. Joan.
        
             | N7lo4nl34akaoSN wrote:
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joan_(given_name)
        
         | alganet wrote:
         | It's a commitment. Note that the author also struggled with
         | sobriety.
         | 
         | Likely, this whole "library" was causing unhealthy behavior.
         | 
         | Commitments are important.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | > I think the author let their own personal issues lead to the
         | destruction of knowledge.
         | 
         | Conversely, I think you're letting your own personal views
         | stand in the way of empathy and recognising what is best for
         | another.
         | 
         | There was no "destruction of knowledge". It was a collection of
         | notes which was never going to be looked at again and was
         | causing stress to the author. Written knowledge which isn't
         | read is as useless at that which isn't written in the first
         | place. Would you also decry someone for not having written the
         | note in the first place?
         | 
         | > They could have just left their library for a bit, there was
         | no need to burn it to the ground.
         | 
         | It was not a library. I bet that for the author it felt closer
         | a hoarder's house with stacks of scattered newspapers.
         | 
         | > "I've just lobotomised myself and I look forward to having to
         | relearn everything and doing it all again".
         | 
         | Absurd. Deleting written notes does not make you immediately
         | forget everything that was written on them. The lessons they
         | needed, they internalised. The ones they didn't weren't
         | important anyway. Sure, there may have been _some_ good notes
         | in there, but not in enough quantity and quality to warrant
         | wading though them all and justify the extra anxiety the
         | existence of these lists caused.
         | 
         | > If nothing else, in 7 years time, they'll regret
         | 
         | No, they will not. Signed, someone who learned to delete
         | relentlessly and is much happier for it.
         | 
         | Maybe _you_ would regret it. That says nothing about other
         | people. If anything, I'd regret the years when I didn't delete
         | stuff.
         | 
         | > There was no need to do this.
         | 
         | Yes, there was. The author needed it for their mental well-
         | being and development. Let them be. Everyone copes with life in
         | different ways. We're all going to die, all your notes will be
         | meaningless in the end.
         | 
         | > Please anyone, if you're considering this, just zip them up
         | and put them on a usb or cloud storage somewhere out of the way
         | - that's a lot harder to regret.
         | 
         | No, everyone should do what makes sense for them personally.
         | 
         | Having the thing "out of the way" is not the same as having it
         | gone. It's a very different feeling, like saving a memento from
         | an unhealthy relationship VS throwing it away. There is freedom
         | in _deciding to let go_ without recourse.
         | 
         | I for one applaud the author and wish them the best. I'm sure
         | they struggled with the decision and it took some courage to go
         | through with it. They did the right thing for themselves and
         | that's what matters.
        
           | 1dom wrote:
           | We're not going to agree here, we're going to descend into
           | stupid walls of texts. I'll give you one more, but I probably
           | wont respond. It's not personal, it's just not valuable for
           | either of us.
           | 
           | > There was no "destruction of knowledge". It was a
           | collection of notes which was never going to be looked at
           | again and was causing stress to the author. Written knowledge
           | which isn't read is as useless at that which isn't written in
           | the first place. Would you also decry someone for not having
           | written the note in the first place?
           | 
           | I disagree that there was no destruction of knowledge. Even
           | if the author is just copy/pasting from random sources, the
           | link and choice of putting those 2 copies in the same folder
           | is a bit of knowledge, a link solidified with an action. We
           | have different ideas of what constitutes knowledge, I think
           | you know you're being ridiculous if you're sincerely trying
           | to argue that 7 years worth of notes doesn't have a single
           | new contribution of any value to anything or anyone at all.
           | 
           | I do decry people who don't take personal notes.
           | 
           | > It was not a library. I bet that for the author it felt
           | closer a hoarder's house with stacks of scattered newspapers.
           | 
           | I totally agree that's how the author felt - they let their
           | own negative feelings towards what they've created destroy
           | something which could be valuable to others.
           | 
           | > Absurd. Deleting written notes does not make you
           | immediately forget everything that was written on them. The
           | lessons they needed, they internalised. The ones they didn't
           | weren't important anyway. Sure, there may have been some good
           | notes in there, but not in enough quantity and quality to
           | warrant wading though them all and justify the extra anxiety
           | the existence of these lists caused.
           | 
           | What's even your point here? You start saying how notes
           | aren't even needed and are pointless to be written down, then
           | you argue that maybe there is some value in them written
           | down, and then come back to support my argument that the
           | author's own personal feelings have lead to the destruction
           | of something valuable.
           | 
           | > No, they will not. Signed, someone who learned to delete
           | relentlessly and is much happier for it.
           | 
           | > Maybe you would regret it. That says nothing about other
           | people. If anything, I'd regret the years when I didn't
           | delete stuff.
           | 
           | Ignorance is bliss: you can't get upset about the things you
           | don't know any more. Knowledge is hard.
           | 
           | Your position about not regretting throwing away potential
           | personal knowledge and memories isn't a position I've heard
           | from anyone over (*edited typo) the age of 50. You don't
           | regret it just like the author doesn't, I think you have a
           | future of denial or upset.
           | 
           | > Yes, there was. The author needed it for their mental well-
           | being and development. Let them be. Everyone copes with life
           | in different ways. We're all going to die, all your notes
           | will be meaningless in the end.
           | 
           | There's other ways to deal with information overload, like
           | proper archiving. We're all going to die, and the only reason
           | why have a culture or knowledge as a species is because
           | everyone else hasn't done what this person is doing.
           | 
           | > No, everyone should do what makes sense for them
           | personally.
           | 
           | > Having the thing "out of the way" is not the same as having
           | it gone. It's a very different feeling, like saving a memento
           | from an unhealthy relationship VS throwing it away. There is
           | freedom in deciding to let go without recourse.
           | 
           | Congratulations with the individualism, you made yourself
           | feel free by burning books. If that makes you happy - you do
           | you, I don't care - but don't act like it's benefit anyone
           | else other than the person struggling with the feeling of
           | information overload.
        
             | latexr wrote:
             | > I'll give you one more, but I probably wont respond. It's
             | not personal, it's just not valuable for either of us.
             | 
             | Then why did you bother responding in the first place, and
             | why should anyone bother reading beyond that point? If
             | you're not interested in discussing, don't. Throwing a
             | bunch of words at someone and then going closing your ears
             | singing "la la la" is worse than not being valuable, it has
             | _negative_ value for the discussion.
             | 
             | Frankly, that made me only skim the rest of your post
             | instead of engaging properly. It was still pretty obvious
             | you lack real empathy for the author, their needs, and are
             | unable to understand people who have a different view of
             | the issue than you do.
             | 
             | Here's the thing: The author isn't making a general
             | commentary or recommendation, they are recounting their own
             | _personal_ experience. Pretending you know what makes sense
             | _for them_ is arrogant and misguided. That you are unable
             | to understand other people have different needs and ways of
             | approaching life is a you problem.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | I guess sometimes people just need to get a thought out.
               | At least that note saved us the time of reading the
               | comment in full.
        
               | 1dom wrote:
               | > Then why did you bother responding in the first place,
               | and why should anyone bother reading beyond that point?
               | If you're not interested in discussing, don't. Throwing a
               | bunch of words at someone and then going closing your
               | ears singing "la la la" is worse than not being valuable,
               | it has negative value for the discussion.
               | 
               | I didn't mean to imply I wasn't going to read, it's just
               | that disagreeing so vehemently on a sentence by sentence
               | basis - like we're both clearly prone to do - isn't
               | always fun or productive. Neither of us is going to
               | change our mind with the depth and detail at which we're
               | disagreeing. You're completely fair to see it as me
               | sticking my fingers in my ears, sorry, because that's
               | disrespectful of me.
               | 
               | My intent was to give you the respect of responding in a
               | similar level of detail to address your points, since you
               | gave the time for me, but prevent the need for either of
               | us to have to keep doing it...
               | 
               | > Here's the thing: The author isn't making a general
               | commentary or recommendation, they are recounting their
               | own personal experience. Pretending you know what makes
               | sense for them is arrogant and misguided. That you are
               | unable to understand other people have different needs
               | and ways of approaching life is a you problem.
               | 
               | I never claimed to know what's best for them, I would
               | even go as far as saying I don't care what's best for
               | them, I was speaking from a position of what I think's
               | best for human knowledge. Fundamentally, if you agree
               | burning books - metaphorically - is a bad thing, then you
               | agree deleting second brains instead of just archiving is
               | a bad thing.
               | 
               | Here's the thing: I'm not making a general commentary or
               | recommendation, I'm recounting my own _personal_ view of
               | what's best for human knowledge and what I think of the
               | authors article. Pretending that me having a different
               | view is "absurd", is arrogant and misguided. That you are
               | unable to understand that I have different needs and ways
               | of approaching life is - apparently - a problem...:P
        
               | latexr wrote:
               | > I didn't mean to imply (...) but prevent the need for
               | either of us to have to keep doing it...
               | 
               | Alright, fair! Thank you for clarifying.
               | 
               | > I never claimed to know what's best for them (...) I
               | was speaking from a position of what I think's best for
               | human knowledge
               | 
               | Even rereading your original post, it still feels like
               | some parts are a direct prescription for the author. But
               | I believe you if you say that wasn't your intention. I
               | guess my argument would then be that I still support the
               | author in their deletion, for several reasons, including
               | but not limited to:
               | 
               | * We don't actually know what was "lost". Let's be real:
               | most of what any of us writes is irrelevant and
               | inconsequential and wouldn't truly contribute to human
               | knowledge as a whole.
               | 
               | * I don't think it's fair for the author to suffer in any
               | way, even if it's "just" anxiety, for the dubious benefit
               | of human knowledge. Even if they did have valuable
               | insights in their texts, they are still their texts and
               | they should have the final say regarding what happens to
               | them. If they want to burn them and doing so will help
               | them get their life back on track, they should. I would
               | argue that without that purge, they could actually be
               | doing more harm to human knowledge in the long run, by
               | not letting them "get back on their feet" and be free for
               | all the new and more valuable insights they'll have but
               | wouldn't otherwise.
               | 
               | > Fundamentally, if you agree burning books -
               | metaphorically - is a bad thing, then you agree deleting
               | second brains instead of just archiving is a bad thing.
               | 
               | I agree burning books is bad on principle, but disagree
               | that what the author did was comparable. They didn't take
               | away from human knowledge, like book burning does. They
               | deleted _personal notes no one else was ever probably
               | going to read anyway_. The difference is massive.
               | 
               | > Pretending that me having a different view is "absurd"
               | 
               | To be perfectly clear, the only thing I found absurd what
               | that specific quote in relation to what the author did.
               | I.e. I found it to be hyperbolic beyond the realm of
               | reasonable argument. Everything else I found reasonable
               | as a personal opinion _as long as it's not prescribed as
               | the solution for everyone_.
               | 
               | > That you are unable to understand that I have different
               | needs and ways of approaching life is - apparently - a
               | problem
               | 
               | Again, that is perfectly fine and valid. But in your
               | original posts you explicitly asked for everyone to act a
               | certain way and my primary goal as to point out that no,
               | I don't think that should apply to everyone. _Many_
               | people, sure, but there is definitely a large section of
               | the population for whom I don't think it would be the
               | right approach. For their own sake, which in this
               | situation trumps "human knowledge".
        
               | 1dom wrote:
               | > I agree burning books is bad on principle, but disagree
               | that what the author did was comparable. They didn't take
               | away from human knowledge, like book burning does. They
               | deleted personal notes no one else was ever probably
               | going to read anyway. The difference is massive.
               | 
               | There's so much we know about the world from personal
               | notes the author never knew or intended to be read.
               | There's no way of knowing if your personal notes will be
               | valuable to inconceivable futures. We all have to endure
               | a little struggle to maintain society's knowledge. I
               | respect and understand that you disagree with me in
               | various nuanced ways. We're not going to agree, not for
               | any reasons other than we just have fundamentally
               | different views on the world, or one of us is disagreeing
               | for the sake of disagreeing, possibly without realising.
               | 
               | I'm sorry, to anyone who's read this far. Instead of my
               | "... I'll give you one more, but I probably wont
               | respond...." I should have just said "let's just agree to
               | disagree" and stopped there. I don't think either of us
               | have added much valuable at all since.
               | 
               | Sincerely, apologies for any offence caused or time
               | wasted in frustration.
        
             | subjectsigma wrote:
             | That's a lot of words to say "I know what's best for you
             | and you don't."
        
         | crsv wrote:
         | It's the thought organization equivalent of the Britany Spears
         | head shaving. It's a mental breakdown and the person suffering
         | from the mental health issue at its root is processing their
         | behavior by writing about it. It's mental illness.
        
           | jen729w wrote:
           | Deleting notes to mental illness is quite the leap.
        
             | crsv wrote:
             | So you didn't actually take the time to read the article.
        
         | bovermyer wrote:
         | This sounds like it came from a place of fear. This is not an
         | indictment, incidentally; just an observation. You choose
         | language like "nuclear" and "destruction" and "lobotomise" and
         | end with a plea to not make similar choices.
         | 
         | I'm in my forties. I have gone through multiple cycles of
         | collecting and purging. How that feels has changed over the
         | years. Sometimes I have regretted getting rid of some things,
         | but that frequency is far, far lower than the number of times I
         | haven't cared or even noticed. And those times I have regretted
         | it have not resulted in obsessive thinking about what I've lost
         | or what might have been.
         | 
         | Further, having a "reset" has proven valuable on more than one
         | occasion, as it opens up new pathways that I might otherwise
         | have not even considered. You speak of relearning everything as
         | if it's forcing yourself to repeat the same path all over
         | again, with no new learning and just a pointless sacrifice of
         | what little time we have. In my experience, "relearning"
         | usually entails discovering entirely new experiences and paths
         | to knowledge along a general set of guidelines through half-
         | memories.
         | 
         | To put it another way, starting over is not guaranteed
         | suffering, it's an opportunity to discover new things.
        
       | keizo wrote:
       | i like this. complexity bad, delete it! Most pkm, tools for
       | thought, second brain apps confuse me. I drank the coolade with
       | roam research but it drove me kinda nuts I've spent almost 3
       | years making my own tool. I mostly use it as a paste-bin, todos,
       | lists -- and for the only thing i would never delete, voice notes
       | on funny sayings or interactions with my 3 y/o daughter. my
       | project is over at https://grugnotes.com if anyone else fits the
       | anti note app vibe i'm kinda leaning into.
        
       | 2pie wrote:
       | >It hit me: what got me here won't get me where I need to be
       | next.
       | 
       | This resonates a lot. I always have this feeling when I am
       | browsing old notes.
        
       | lawgimenez wrote:
       | I've been sober for over 19 years, the first few years are the
       | most difficult transition if I remember. I think the author is
       | overreacting.
       | 
       | You can't really deny the past, it's part of you.
        
       | Ezhik wrote:
       | I don't know about everyone, but I found the whole PKM/second
       | brain "industry" a bit much, I was never able to stick to complex
       | rules and things like atomic notes.
       | 
       | Instead I mostly just write notes with hyperlinks:
       | https://ezhik.jp/hypertext-maximalism/
       | 
       | I like hoarding my notes. I don't actually have to come back to
       | the notes I write unless I need them. Because I keep my system
       | very simple, having lots of notes doesn't weigh on my mind.
       | 
       | My notes _are_ glimpses of my old selves and old interests, but I
       | like being able to trace a line between my old self and my
       | present self. At the same time, I 'm not really at odds with my
       | past self - but we all have different relationships with time.
        
         | motorest wrote:
         | > I don't know about everyone, but I found the whole PKM/second
         | brain "industry" a bit much, I was never able to stick to
         | complex rules and things like atomic notes.
         | 
         | I agree. I think that ultimately their product is not a note-
         | taking tool but a vague promise of structure that solves
         | whatever issues the user has in keeping something organized.
        
       | melvinroest wrote:
       | So...
       | 
       | I just use Apple Notes and almost never reread my notes. The
       | search functionality is almost always enough to find what I'm
       | looking for. If I really need to dive deep/search deep, then I
       | just open up the SQLite db that's somewhere on my Mac to find a
       | very particular note. That's only needed if I have 100s of notes
       | to sift through.
       | 
       | I guess I don't need to know all the link between what I know?
       | 
       | The reason I write my experience is: I never got it. Why make
       | things so complicated? How do you write stuff up if you're
       | severely sleep deprived but still have a fun thought? I just
       | become a mess of old habits and even can't be bothered to open my
       | Apple Notes so I just WhatsApp my thoughts to myself, to sort it
       | out later what to do with them when I'm not sleep deprived.
       | 
       | Can anyone relate and did they make the switch to something like
       | Obsidian? If so, I'm curious what I'm missing out on or what it
       | is that I'm not understanding.
       | 
       | I'm currently around 2500 notes, I started 2 years ago. I wanted
       | a note taking habit for years, none ever stuck. The Apple Notes
       | habit is the only one that really stuck. It's a very KISS-style
       | approach, on purpose. When it becomes more complicated I can only
       | follow through 50% of the time. Now I can follow through 98% of
       | the time.
        
         | SirHumphrey wrote:
         | One senior researcher I know, though an extremely early user of
         | computers and Emacs, still uses basic paper notebooks for
         | writing things down. The system is not searchable, not
         | hyperlinked - but he still finds things almost effortlessly
         | even though he hasn't been young for a long time.
         | 
         | So if the only habit that sticks is Apple notes - keep doing
         | that. At least in my experience hyperlinking was never that
         | useful, because the act of remembering what to hyperlink where
         | was about as difficult as just remembering the what other notes
         | exist - in which case, what do I need hyperlinking for? I also
         | find hyperlinked text hard to read because you end up in
         | Wikipedia style 3 pages deep hyperlink hell - a fun way to
         | spend an afternoon, a terrible way to work and understand.
        
           | xeonmc wrote:
           | The act of physically writing things down commits the event
           | to incidental memory. The more effort it took to concert all
           | your neurons into outputting an action, the less easily it
           | fades from your impression.
        
           | al_borland wrote:
           | I find with physical objects I can better remember where it
           | was spatially. I know that note was about 3/4 of the way
           | through the green notebook, on the right-side of the spread,
           | near the bottom of the page. Or something to that effect. I
           | find the same thing with physical books over ebooks.
        
         | al_borland wrote:
         | My solution is to make various capture methods. I use Apple
         | Notes for personal notes and Obsidian at work.
         | 
         | With Apple Notes, I used the Shortcuts app to append some text
         | with a timestamp to a note where I log those random thoughts. I
         | use this shortcut on my phone to type stuff, I use it with Siri
         | via CarPlay to capture stuff while driving, and it works
         | decently well. I have a list in Reminders I can easily throw
         | stuff into as well, via Siri or whatever else. It looks like
         | iOS 26 will make some of this better as well.
         | 
         | With Obsidian, I do something similar. I currently also do it
         | with Shortcuts, but have made similar solutions in bash,
         | Hammerspoon (lua), and AppleScript. I have a daily note in
         | Obsidian, and while I always have that open, I also have a
         | keyboard shortcut (and desktop widget) where I can quickly
         | bring up a text prompt, write something, and have it go into my
         | daily note (or a shared log like I do with Apple Notes). I
         | mostly use this to keep track of what I actually did each day
         | so I have a record of it. I need that to be low friction or I
         | won't do it.
         | 
         | It actually works a little better with Obsidian, because it's
         | simply appending to a text file, so I can use markdown really
         | easily to format things. I'm hoping the better markdown support
         | in Tahoe will allow for me to add some better formatting to
         | Apple Notes. Shortcuts has a markdown to rich text converter in
         | it already, but it didn't work for what I was trying to do (or
         | I did something wrong). Shortcuts has a way to add to a list in
         | Apple Notes, so that way can look a little cleaner than raw
         | text, given there is no formatting. I swear I got formatting to
         | work once before, but I deleted the Shortcut, so I don't
         | know... maybe it was in Obsidian and I migrated the note back
         | to Apple... I spent way too long messing with it.
         | 
         | Apple Notes also has various other capture methods, live OCR
         | from the cameras, speech to text, etc. I don't use this that
         | often, but I try to remember they exist for when they would be
         | useful.
         | 
         | I've gone back and forth between Apple Notes and Obsidian for
         | personal notes, and I've told myself I'm going to stop this.
         | The draw of Obsidian is having plain text notes that are
         | effectively future proof. However, dealing with media is very
         | annoying. I don't have a lot of images in my notes, but with
         | Apple Notes it's easy to just drop something in (and I can
         | search/copy text in the images). With Obsidian I usually end up
         | trying to distill whatever information was in the image into
         | text, so I can search it, and I also don't have to deal with
         | coming up with a system to manage how and where images are
         | stored, so they can be referenced, that won't be a nightmare in
         | the future. These are things I don't need to think about in
         | Apple Notes.
         | 
         | If Apple Notes works for you and has been the only thing that
         | has stuck, stick with it. Getting into the game of trying to
         | find the "perfect" note app will send you on a path to madness.
         | The perfect app doesn't exist; they are all a collection of
         | trade offs. I once watched an Ali Abdaal video on his note
         | taking system and it was insane. He convinced himself that it
         | was a good idea to have 4 different apps for 4 different kinds
         | of notes, or something to that effect. This is not a place
         | anyone really wants to end up.
        
         | jjice wrote:
         | I use Obsidian for two reasons - I'm across OSs and I like it
         | as plain files. That said, the Apple Notes UX (especially
         | search) is absolutely incredible. If I was all Apple, I'd use
         | it in a heart beat
        
       | coldblues wrote:
       | Digital notes take an insignificant amount of space, you can just
       | keep them and ignore them, use them when you need to. Deleting
       | them seems to me like neuroticism. Some kind of symbolic gesture
       | for emotional relief. There are a lot of productivity gurus
       | online that will try to sell you a course on the best way to take
       | notes, and perhaps the author has fallen into one of those traps,
       | taking notes of things they don't have interest in. in a way that
       | does not feel natural and satisfying. I only take notes when I am
       | compelled to. It's a gut feeling that I rely on. It's effortless
       | for me to take notes because of it. It provides me comfort and
       | relief knowing that my memories are accessible, and I gladly
       | write them. The author makes some grandiose assumptions that we
       | have to forget. You don't have to, and neither do you have a
       | choice in it. It's some kind of idealist way of thinking to
       | justify the author's actions. Seems misguided. Memorization plays
       | an extremely important role in learning, but for those of us with
       | executive function problems, using our notes augments our life
       | for the better. Just as the author talks about how memories work,
       | my notes are just like my thoughts, webs of interlinked notes
       | strung together. A lot of times, I just remember what tags and
       | backlinks I can use to find the information I am looking for in
       | my notes.
        
         | junon wrote:
         | > Some kind of symbolic gesture for emotional relief.
         | 
         | Calling someone neurotic and insinuating they are doing this
         | for symbolism instead of having a real, tangible effect on
         | their life is rather narcissistic, don't you think?
         | 
         | These sort of comments always baffled me; they read as if
         | you've never taken the time to talk to someone who lives or
         | operates differently than you, and don't consider any way but
         | yours a valid worldview and lifestyle.
        
           | StefanBatory wrote:
           | I feel like someone who never struggled with mental health
           | will never get someone who did.
           | 
           | I dealt with anxiety, it certainly sounds like something I'd
           | do. It's not that it's digital notes, that I can leave - no,
           | my mind would be occupied with them. When I was younger, I
           | would throw my stuff away, hoping that it will help me get
           | more disciplined.
        
           | Dylan16807 wrote:
           | > Calling someone neurotic and insinuating they are doing
           | this for symbolism instead of having a real, tangible effect
           | on their life is rather narcissistic, don't you think?
           | 
           | No? Even if you think it's wrong I don't see what's self-
           | important about that claim. _Maybe_ there 's lack of empathy
           | but that's only a small part of narcissism. And saying
           | something is done for emotional relief doesn't sound like
           | lack of empathy to me.
        
       | eviks wrote:
       | What if you change your mind again a year later? Couldn't you
       | achieve exactly the same by simply archiving everything and
       | starting from scratch without big data loss?
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | > Couldn't you achieve exactly the same by simply archiving
         | everything and starting from scratch without big data loss?
         | 
         | No. The act of irreversible deletion is meaningful and has a
         | real effect, archiving is not at all the same thing. It's like
         | moving houses and carrying all the junk you had in your attic
         | to a new garage: all the crap is still there, you still think
         | about it, getting rid of it is liberating. Even if you discover
         | you needed something you threw away, having to redo it from
         | scratch will require doing it differently, with fresh insights.
        
           | eviks wrote:
           | The analogy doesn't make sense since you can't avoid physical
           | things you moved, they still take space and you see it every
           | time you visit the garage.
           | 
           | > has a real effect
           | 
           | Sure, and I've mentioned one such effect - inability to
           | access knowledge when you change your mind later.
           | 
           | And redoing doesn't require doing anything differently, you
           | could end up doing exactly the same thing finding that useful
           | info, just wasting more time in the process.
        
             | latexr wrote:
             | > they still take space and you see it every time you visit
             | the garage.
             | 
             | And the digital things take space in your disk and, more
             | importantly, the mind.
             | 
             | > inability to access knowledge when you change your mind
             | later.
             | 
             |  _If_ you change your mind later. I'm an avid deleter, have
             | been for years, and have never regretted it. It won't
             | happen, the upside of deletion is just too good.
             | 
             | That regret is a you thing (shared by many others), not a
             | universal human characteristic. You're not the author of
             | the post, so your feelings don't apply to them and their
             | decision.
             | 
             | > you could end up doing exactly the same thing finding
             | that useful info
             | 
             | Yes, you could. That is extremely unlikely, but you could.
             | 
             | > just wasting more time in the process.
             | 
             | And it still wouldn't have been a waste of time. Not only
             | would you have confirmed everything, which is extremely
             | useful, it is very unlikely you wouldn't have thought of
             | new ideas or gained new insights in the process.
        
               | eviks wrote:
               | > take space in your disk and, more importantly, the
               | mind.
               | 
               | They don't, your mind isn't big enough to worry about
               | everything you store digitally. You need to at least try
               | to state the actual issues with just knowing that your
               | archive exists. The article at least established personal
               | issues with maintaining the notes, but you failed to even
               | try!
               | 
               | > I'm an avid deleter, have been for years, and have
               | never regretted it.
               | 
               | How is it relevant when "your feelings don't apply to
               | them and their decision."?
               | 
               | > It won't happen, the upside of deletion is just too
               | good.
               | 
               | What crystal ball with the perfect visibility into the
               | rest of your life have you glanced this certainty from?
               | 
               | > That regret is a you thing (shared by many others)
               | 
               | No, that's just an ~ad hominem you've made up. I didn't
               | talk about regret. The issue could just be a waste of
               | time later without any feeling of regret involved.
               | 
               | > Not only would you have confirmed everything
               | 
               | You don't have the old version, so you wouldn't know
               | whether you've confirmed or rejected anything.
               | 
               | > which is extremely useful
               | 
               | Don't stop here, what's the usefulness?
               | 
               | > it is very unlikely you wouldn't have thought of new
               | ideas or gained new insights in the process.
               | 
               | You could say exactly the same thing about reading your
               | old notes since new insight isn't banned there. The only
               | more certain difference is the extra effort required to
               | recreate.
        
               | latexr wrote:
               | > They don't, your mind isn't big enough to worry about
               | everything you store digitally.
               | 
               | Patently incorrect. I did worry. Not about _the contents_
               | of every little thing, but the fact that they existed.
               | Some unmanaged, some improperly categorised, some
               | perfectly triaged but no longer useful...
               | 
               | > The article at least established personal issues with
               | maintaining the notes, but you failed to even try!
               | 
               | What does that even mean, "failed to even try"? Did you
               | fail to even try to give me a recipe for chocolate cake?
               | I didn't think that would be relevant, so I didn't
               | mention it. But alright, I gave you some details in the
               | rest of the post. All you had to do was ask, no need to
               | criticise others for not doing something they didn't even
               | knew you wanted.
               | 
               | > How is it relevant when "your feelings don't apply to
               | them and their decision."?
               | 
               | That's not the jab you seem to think it is. It is
               | relevant _precisely as way of example_ of something
               | _similar_ to the author. It is precisely so I don't speak
               | for them that I gave you a personal example that is close
               | enough. It presents "the other side" (people who delete)
               | in a way we can engage without assuming anything about
               | the author.
               | 
               | First you complain that I "failed to even try" to talk
               | about my experience, then you complain when I talked
               | about my experience in that very same post. Please make
               | up your mind.
               | 
               | > What crystal ball with the perfect visibility into the
               | rest of your life have you glanced this certainty from?
               | 
               | Do you not see how this counter argument is counter
               | productive? By the same token, I could ask you by what
               | crystal ball do you know neither I nor the author are
               | better off by the deletion of material. The answer is:
               | you don't. And maybe I can't know for certainty either,
               | but I sure as hell know myself better than you know me.
               | And I do know what I threw away in the past, and the
               | things I lost accidentally (tangential issue), and I know
               | what my attitude and life repercussions have been. And
               | for that, I can say with certainty I prefer things as
               | they are, with the deletion.
               | 
               | > I didn't talk about regret.
               | 
               | Changing your mind about something you did isn't regret?
               | Alright then, let's forget the word, replace it instead
               | of "that feeling of wasted time". Doesn't really change
               | the argument (because, crucially, that's not what an ad
               | hominem is).
               | 
               | > You don't have the old version, so you wouldn't know
               | whether you've confirmed or rejected anything.
               | 
               | Deleting a digital file doesn't erase your memory. But
               | either way, I meant confirmation in the sense of
               | reasserting the research. Doesn't matter what the old
               | version said, only that the new one is correct. Also,
               | crucially, if in your scenario you can't be sure of what
               | the old version said, then you also don't know if the
               | time was wasted or not.
               | 
               | > Don't stop here, what's the usefulness?
               | 
               | It's in that exact same sentence you quoted. It's
               | literally all the rest of it that you cut from the quote.
               | 
               | > You could say exactly the same thing about reading your
               | old notes
               | 
               | With the monumental difference that in this case the old
               | notes were a cause of stress. In hundreds of notes, maybe
               | you'll have to recreate one or two. Or maybe none. Yet
               | not having all the other cruft is absolutely worth the
               | trade off. Maybe not for you, but certainly for me, and
               | probably the author of the post.
        
       | sixpackpg wrote:
       | A poor workman blames their tools.
       | 
       | My notes are basically like Smeegol's precious ring, and to burn
       | them is unfathomable. But initially these notes they were
       | garbage, I initially got into all these PKM systems and used a
       | stripped down Zettelkasten, but then realised that I was focused
       | on creating the system not the outcome. My wonderfully linked
       | notes were never being seen, the notes I was taking was not
       | connected to my current focuses. They were virtually all "maybe
       | I'll use this in the next 10 years" type notes.
       | 
       | I changed my goal away from following a system to focusing on
       | getting meaningful changes in understanding from notes. This
       | means having the ability to recall information, not rely on a
       | second brain. I spent a fair chunk of time reducing my inputs to
       | notes which are focused on my current goals: metacognition,
       | mental health and business. If the note does not fall in these
       | category it is not noted, I still read things for pleasure just
       | noteless. The value of applying what I read in the short-term
       | outweighs notes for possible futures. As possible futures are
       | everchanging and so the likely value of these notes are heavily
       | weighted down. I do have troves of notes which will be
       | transformed when I need them, but these notes have a very high
       | chance of being seen and are related to my goals, but not
       | applicable currently. I delayed transforming these troves until I
       | am applying them, as I will get the most value out of my notes
       | when they are being applied Not someday dreams, but in reality
       | never to seen again notes of yesteryear.
       | 
       | Relying on a second brain is not the same as understanding
       | concepts and applicable learning. An example: When you read an
       | article and come across a word you don't know it stops your train
       | of thought, going to you PKM to find the definition doesn't help.
       | When you know the word it allows you to chunk info and think
       | deeper thoughts about said article. That requires understanding,
       | which you won't get from these PKM systems which focus on input
       | with little concern for output. By having deeper understanding it
       | reveals further planes of thought previously impossible.
       | 
       | Adding a note feels good, it feels like work but it really isn't.
       | PKM has sprung up about making feel good systems but have rarely
       | leads to any meaningful changes or outcomes, such as this blog.
       | To get to deeper thought requires way more than creating a note
       | which is literally one of the first parts in my understanding
       | chain. PKM systems focus on this, but spend very little on the
       | other end- meaningful output.
       | 
       | My "learning stack" - fleeting ideas go into Todoist, ideas are
       | encoded/transformed and go to into Obsidian, at the same time
       | these ideas go into Anki, which I go through multiple times a
       | week. These ideas are further elaborated on and changed in Anki.
       | My pkm is a single step in developing understanding not the
       | destination.
       | 
       | for further anki learning:
       | https://augmentingcognition.com/ltm.html
        
       | DavidPiper wrote:
       | I'm in a similar spot to the author. I have a stack of notes
       | curated over years. Got hooked on the whole Second Brain thing.
       | But I think it's time to trash the lot.
       | 
       | I'll probably keep some of the how-tos and syntax reminders for
       | various tools -- looking at you, ffmpeg and defaults -- but most
       | of it, even many of the curated notes from books, is just junk
       | that I carry now carry around, with the added bonus of that
       | little voice saying "hey, you haven't reviewed me in a while,
       | maybe you should because _this time_ there'll be some
       | productivity hack or life-changing insight you'll glean from it".
       | 
       | When I look at the physical hoarding tendencies of some people
       | close to me, it looks scarily similar.
       | 
       | A long time ago someone told me that you should always be wary of
       | the difference between what you know and what you can look up.
       | Trying to merge those things seems to have been a mistake for me.
        
         | rwnspace wrote:
         | Intentionally wiping almost all of my obsidian vaults and
         | accidentally wiping my 2TB HDD was the most freeing thing.
         | 
         | I'd amassed so many books and papers and notes and half-
         | finished projects over a frenzied couple of years where the
         | main drivers were stimulant abuse and low self-worth.
         | 
         | It turns out that the excitement of finding some resource
         | that's perfectly fit for your requirements is it's own rare
         | pleasure, and it can be harmful to make them a demand on
         | yourself in their own right, and especially harmful to try and
         | catch'em all
         | 
         | I think I'd decided to grind my way out of my situation and
         | channelled that energy into the most elaborate resource-
         | hoarding and procrastination. I did genuinely learn a lot but
         | very, very inefficiently, and in such a way I was sick of
         | computers and self-motivated learning for a couple years.
         | 
         | Second-brain culture definitely provides an open door to
         | hoarding (and stimulant users). I still like using obsidian but
         | I don't care for the various "methods", I just do what makes
         | sense. It turns out when I enjoy the process of doing/learning
         | things, I remember stuff about them pretty well.
        
         | dist-epoch wrote:
         | > I'll probably keep some of the how-tos and syntax reminders
         | for various tools -- looking at you, ffmpeg and defaults
         | 
         | or maybe just ask an LLM for the exact command each time you
         | need it.
        
           | skydhash wrote:
           | > _or maybe just ask an LLM for the exact command each time
           | you need it._
           | 
           | And deal with slow response, a copious anount of verbiage,
           | and possibly wrong answers?
           | 
           | I backup my etc folder, my bash history and write small
           | scripts for the snippets to not hunt for answers again.
        
         | BrtByte wrote:
         | That "little voice" you mention is so real
        
       | aucisson_masque wrote:
       | i will just give a fresh counterargument I encountered yesterday.
       | when trying to reset my Passat service warning, you got to press
       | a combination of button, hold a few seconds, etc.
       | 
       | I spent about an hour yesterday looking for the right
       | combination, for the right model of Passat produced in the right
       | year. A freaking hour of wasted time.
       | 
       | Been doing that every 2 year or something for the past decade.
       | 
       | You have no idea how many times I angered if only I had taken 30
       | seconds the last time to put the right YouTube link in an
       | obsidian note.
       | 
       | Even if the second brain is messy, it's still your mess. Internet
       | is even a bigger mess than that.
       | 
       | And to that, I'd add that a second brain should behave like a
       | real brain in the way that our brain get rid of (what it thinks)
       | is useless.
       | 
       | Your note should reflect on that and be cleaned up once a while
       | for things that are not relevant anymore and should be
       | disregarded, it doesn't negate the advantage of the second brain
       | tho which is that it's able to retain much more information and
       | even file. Good luck embedding a pdf or a tax report in your
       | brain.
        
       | KronisLV wrote:
       | I don't really use any PKM tools outside of an instance of
       | Kanboard and OpenProject for tracking the stuff I want to do in
       | the future, but because of my mTLS setup and limited hardware in
       | my homelab, using them ends up feeling slow and sluggish
       | (Kanboard is okay except for mTLS, whereas OpenProject is just
       | unbearably slow all the time).
       | 
       | I did consider having a personal Wiki a while back where I'd jot
       | down the solutions to various problems that I encounter over the
       | years, but instead opted for just writing the occasional blog
       | post on my blog, which also ends up feeling even higher friction,
       | because I still need what I write to have some sort of a
       | structure and the expectation is that it will mostly make sense
       | to a reader that stumbles upon it, not just me.
       | 
       | Maybe that was a mistake. It would actually be immensely cool to
       | be able to reference solutions to a particular problem that I had
       | 2 years ago, once I encounter it again but what I did back then
       | has slipped my mind. Only as long as there is really good search
       | (maybe even semantic search and automatic tagging) and it's easy
       | to use. If nothing else, I can easily imagine that being another
       | side project to work on, for the fun of it, a software package
       | that I customize to my own needs and control.
        
       | ecocentrik wrote:
       | Why not just start a new notebook/vault? Notetaking systems are
       | all imperfect and it's best not to throw a fit every time you run
       | into those imperfections.
        
       | tasuki wrote:
       | > I still love Obsidian. And I'm planning on using it again. From
       | scratch. And with a deeper level of curation and care - not as a
       | second brain, but as a workspace for the one I already have.
       | 
       | Different, but reminds me of something I have regrettably
       | witnessed at several of my workplaces: "Our knowledge base is in
       | disarray. It's disorganised, full of out of date information, and
       | it's hard to find the things you need. Let's discard it and
       | create a better one!" Then the new one quickly falls into
       | disarray just the same. Now you have to search two badly-
       | organized, partially out of date knowledge bases.
       | 
       | I wonder why people are so resistant to organising whatever they
       | have already. I'm surely never deleting my personal knowledge
       | base. I might rework parts of it in the future...
        
         | recursivecaveat wrote:
         | Organizing your stuff means starting a big unpleasant task
         | today. Starting a new knowledge base lets you have fun today,
         | and you cross your fingers that future you will eat their
         | vegetables and diligently keep it up to date forever.
        
         | Dylan16807 wrote:
         | > Let's discard it and create a better one!" Then the new one
         | quickly falls into disarray just the same. Now you have to
         | search two badly-organized, partially out of date knowledge
         | bases.
         | 
         | I could blame the idea of moving to a new knowledge base here,
         | or say it was a waste of time, but instead I'm going to blame a
         | stark refusal to make a schedule for a simple job and then
         | follow it. "Discard it and create a better one" is very easy to
         | understand. If you still have two after a few weeks you failed
         | at a fundamental level. The problem wasn't the idea.
        
           | tasuki wrote:
           | > The problem wasn't the idea.
           | 
           | I'll double down: yes, the initial idea is the problem. In a
           | large organization, you can never discard the old knowledge
           | base because you do not understand it well enough. No one
           | does. No one knows which pieces of the old knowledge base are
           | useful to whom. So it sticks around indefinitely.
           | 
           | The best you can do as an individual is to gradually improve
           | your corner of the knowledge base. The idea that "we'll
           | create a new one and it'll be up-to-date forever" is
           | unrealistic, it's wishful thinking. If we weren't able to do
           | it with the old one, why think we'll be able to do it with
           | the new one?
        
             | Dylan16807 wrote:
             | > yes, the initial idea is the problem. In a large
             | organization, you can never discard the old knowledge base
             | because you do not understand it well enough. No one does.
             | No one knows which pieces of the old knowledge base are
             | useful to whom. So it sticks around indefinitely.
             | 
             | If you don't understand an entry you can always copy it.
             | It's not a very difficult task to make sure the new system
             | starts with the same information as the old one.
             | 
             | > The idea that "we'll create a new one and it'll be up-to-
             | date forever" is unrealistic, it's wishful thinking. If we
             | weren't able to do it with the old one, why think we'll be
             | able to do it with the new one?
             | 
             | This is a flaw with the actual idea, and a pretty big one,
             | but it's a totally different flaw from failing to delete
             | the old knowledge base.
        
         | aDyslecticCrow wrote:
         | I spent half of last week updating an old guide and
         | dokumentation page for an internal product. 20 people have used
         | this guide and noticed the factual errors. Nobody wanted to
         | make the edits.
        
       | admiralrohan wrote:
       | I only keep my own thoughts in my 2nd brain, mostly daily
       | journals. To see how my thinking evolves over time. Helped me to
       | develop my unique theory on human behavior.
        
       | kashunstva wrote:
       | Part of the problem with these collections of notes, whether you
       | call them Zettelkasten, Second Brain, PKM or whatever, is the
       | expectation that something unique, amazing, or earth-shattering
       | emerge from the process of using it. The expectation is strongest
       | in the Zettelkasten community where they trot out the story of
       | some academic sociologist of old who invented the system and
       | cranked out tons of publications. Never mind that those
       | publications have practically zero impact on the field currently.
       | There is also the apparent expectation that you follow a specific
       | and arcane method, with specific types of notes that evolve in a
       | certain prescribed way. I'm a reasonably smart person and the ZK
       | ontology perpetually escapes me. Maybe because it's needlessly
       | reductive. Yes maybe Luhmann used the system to generate a lot of
       | publications. But the academics I know have never even heard of
       | this. My spouse has a few hundred published papers and her
       | process is nothing like this.
       | 
       | Anyway, I don't see the point in destroying one's notes. It seems
       | performatively symbolic; and if that helps you get past a block
       | of some sort, more power to you. My own notes are half-organized,
       | half-chaotic. Vestiges of a dozen different systems live on in
       | it. It shows that I suffer from collector's fallacy. I don't
       | care.
        
         | Tomte wrote:
         | > some academic sociologist of old
         | 
         | > Never mind that those publications have practically zero
         | impact on the field currently
         | 
         | You're so cool and edgy.
         | 
         | Luhmann is still one of the most cited, grappled-with and
         | thought-about sociologist across a number of disciplines.
        
           | warpspin wrote:
           | > Luhmann is still one of the most cited, grappled-with and
           | thought-about sociologist across a number of disciplines.
           | 
           | Unfortunately (though I think this is a regional thing also -
           | Luhmann's still pretty strong in Europe, especially in
           | Germany where "systems theory" has become synonymous with
           | Luhmann's systems theory, but not so much in the USA, I
           | think).
           | 
           | One of the problems with Luhmann stems directly from his
           | Zettelkasten: His tendency to tear citations out of their
           | original contexts and name drop witnesses for his own point
           | of views where the original text did not support his view at
           | all.
           | 
           | You can see the system at work actually: He truly made a lot
           | of stuff his own in ways never intended by the original
           | authors - boon and bane at same time.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | > It seems performatively symbolic
         | 
         | Performances and symbols are meaningful; the way you act
         | influences the way you think. It is pretty well known that an
         | effective way to enact change in your life is to act as if your
         | goal was already true and it will change your mindset to
         | actually make it so. As a small example, forcing (i.e.
         | performing) a smile can improve your mood.
         | 
         | > I don't see the point in destroying one's notes. (...) if
         | that helps you get past a block of some sort, more power to
         | you.
         | 
         | Looks to me like you _do_ see the point. Maybe it's not
         | something you'd need personally, but everyone is different.
        
         | BrtByte wrote:
         | Most people I know doing meaningful work have cobbled-together
         | systems that reflect how they actually think, not some
         | idealized process
        
         | achierius wrote:
         | You may not like Zettelkasten (same here), and you may not like
         | Luhmann, but saying "those publications have practically zero
         | impact on the field currently" is just uninformed. He was one
         | of the most influential continental sociologists of the last
         | century. Sure, he's no Durkheim, but he still managed to
         | surpass a level of international relevance that 99.9% of
         | humanity will never even reach.
        
           | Tomte wrote:
           | Jurgen Habermas had this to say about Luhmann's theory: "All
           | of it is wrong, but it's got quality."
        
       | tucnak wrote:
       | > Sorry, you have been blocked You are unable to access
       | beehiiv.com
       | 
       | Well
        
       | kmarc wrote:
       | I find it interesting, that some (many? most?) people develop
       | anxiety about the stash of never-read but captured content in
       | their note-taking apps.
       | 
       | I would think I am normally this guy. The one, who gets anxious
       | over exactly this kind of matter. However, the (almost-)never-
       | read captured content induces two substantially different
       | emotions in me:
       | 
       | * safety
       | 
       | * joy
       | 
       | Safety, because I know the content is there, in case i ever want
       | to search for it (I do daily worklog, I capture web pages for
       | later reads, I also draft my own blog posts / etc before posting
       | it on intranet, and so on).
       | 
       | And joy! Sometimes, accidentally I find a snippet, a piece of
       | knowledge, something I quickly jotted down during a guided tour 4
       | years ago somewhere in the Andes. I know that at that time I
       | thought it's so, so super important to research the topic later.
       | Even with zero connectivity, probably freezing and bothered by
       | the wind, I went through the trouble of grabbing my phone and
       | taking the misspelled note. Looking at this kind of notes brings
       | back memories. A joyful experience.
        
       | rsanek wrote:
       | >Worse, the architecture began to shape my attention. I started
       | reading to extract. Listening to summarize. Thinking in formats I
       | could file. Every experience became fodder. I stopped wondering
       | and started processing.
       | 
       | This sort of experience is what I've seen pop up consistently in
       | folks that feel relief in letting go of some sort of knowledge
       | management system. The trick might lie in one's ability to avoid
       | (or get past) this sort of feeling. I think I agree that it's
       | better to trash the whole thing than to be stuck in this kind of
       | mindset.
       | 
       | For me, the mindset took 1~2 years to take hold after I started
       | using Anki. Probably 3~4 years after that until I was able to
       | dispose of it. Now, it's fun again.
        
       | kristjank wrote:
       | When people discard something and Chesterton's fence doesn't come
       | around to bite them in the back, I assume that the something was
       | a bunch of rubbish in the first place.
        
       | dirkc wrote:
       | I'd like a digital reset - like starting a new play-through in a
       | game.
       | 
       | I don't know how exactly? Buy a new PC, maybe I should jump
       | platforms, a new email address, no past bookmarks, some
       | deliberate avoidance of things I know by memory.
       | 
       | The old stuff will always be there, but I feel like a fresh
       | opportunity to explore the digital world could be nice. Or maybe
       | not?
        
       | M0r13n wrote:
       | I can absolutely relate to this. I had similar feelings for the
       | last year or so - although I couldn't express these thoughts as
       | well as the author did.
       | 
       | I've developed this weird addiction to making notes in Obsidian.
       | It wasn't really about learning or understanding anything. I
       | bought into the illusion that having notes in my PKM meant I had
       | actual knowledge. Bigger graph = smarter me, or so I thought. I
       | even started reading books just to feed the system: Look at me
       | with my 3,587 notes this year - aren't I clever!"
       | 
       | Currently, I am just taking notes where it really matters:
       | Readme, documentation and some loosely organised markdown files
        
       | barrnell3 wrote:
       | Word of advice: don't do what the author has done. He has gone
       | from one extreme (categorizing all notes obsessively) to the
       | other extreme (wiping all notes, to start fresh).
       | 
       | The answer, as usual, is in the middle: keep all notes, archived.
       | Feel free to restart old projects/ideas by archiving old projects
       | to old/2024/legacy, and starting with a fresh page/folder,
       | occasionally looking back at archived notes, if needed.
        
         | gtsop wrote:
         | > He has gone from one extreme (categorizing all notes
         | obsessively) to the other extreme (wiping all notes, to start
         | fresh).
         | 
         | No, he went from extreme to "in the middle", if you find
         | yourself in their place you should do EXACTLY what he did.
         | 
         | > I'm planning on using it again. From scratch. And with a
         | deeper level of curation and care - not as a second brain, but
         | as a workspace for the one I already have.
         | 
         | You can't categorize a gazillion notes you obsessively picked
         | up over years. Do anything required to become functional again,
         | in this case, delete it all if it is psychologically weighing
         | on you
        
       | kelvinjps10 wrote:
       | I don't delete them but I put them in a archive folder and kn the
       | main folder I only maintain the current version of the files
        
       | bilvar wrote:
       | I'm not sure I can relate to the author. My Zettelkasten is not a
       | todo list or project binder or whatever personal life management
       | function they use it for.
       | 
       | Mine is for consolidation of knowledge. For instance, when I
       | study math and I write a pen and paper proof as an exercise I
       | then write a clean note from scratch and link to other theorems
       | or corollary notes I have etc. Similar stuff for computer science
       | or programming. I find out that this process solidifies the work
       | I'd already done and make it less likely to forget.
       | 
       | I also think people get a bit too dogmatic about the ways to use
       | technology to help improve your life. Like, what the heck complex
       | rules about Zettelkasten? I don't know what kind of expectations
       | they have going into this. Do these "influencers" telling you how
       | to use it sell the promise of the ultra-intelligent god from the
       | popular meme? Just open the damn editor and write, you will find
       | what works for you through tinkering and iteration.
        
         | kaashif wrote:
         | Yeah, it seems like they were writing massive volumes of
         | useless ephemeral to-do lists and throwing them away was easy.
         | 
         | Maybe they were doing it wrong and should've been writing down
         | durable knowledge that has lasting value.
         | 
         | I write down guides to do things, explanations of how things
         | work that make sense to me, information that I know will be
         | useful at some time but will be accessed infrequently (e.g.
         | information about people or projects).
         | 
         | A 7,000 book reading list seems useless if your goal is to read
         | all of them. But if it's just a bank of interesting books to
         | pull from when you want something to read on the beach or on a
         | sunny weekend, that doesn't cause me stress at least. I'm
         | adding to the bank, not adding items to do. Like my list of
         | board games to try.
        
       | kelvinjps10 wrote:
       | I maintain a very simple system a folder my ideas, another for my
       | projects and one for thoughts I think that with the current
       | search tools at our disposal there is no need to set up a complex
       | system
        
       | metalman wrote:
       | ,.............the ancient greeks, correctly identified nostalgia
       | as a disease.That said ,deap personal memories do serve a central
       | place is familial and tribal/cultural knowledge, but the
       | ......."insignificant bits (and bobs)" are poison this is
       | something that I have experienced on a number of occasions when
       | knowledge keepers have......inserted, very short statements that
       | serve to turn a great deal of other myth and trivia into a
       | cohearant whole containing actionable instructions. a list can
       | never,ever, serve this function
        
       | gtsop wrote:
       | > I don't want to manage knowledge. I want to live it.
       | 
       | This is the essence!
       | 
       | Very good post. I think the nuclear action was perfect, it was
       | neede to get out of the loop.
       | 
       | You should write your thoughts, not copy paste others'. This way
       | you help reorganise your brain to adapt to the subject. Some
       | thoughts should be written as a tool and then thrown away, others
       | (more important) should be kept
        
       | Havoc wrote:
       | These types of impulsive grand swings ("Remember everything ->
       | Delete everything") are in my experience always mistakes in the
       | long run.
       | 
       | Would have been better to figure out how to prune 50% in a way
       | that hits the right spots.
        
       | igiveup wrote:
       | I don't get this. I have a megabyte or two of plain-text notes,
       | and going through them and maintaining them and extending them is
       | fun (apologize to the person who doesn't like threes). There are
       | notes for a novel, ideas for future personal projects (way too
       | many to do in my remaining lifetime), attempts at capturing my
       | understanding of great scientific and philosophical problems,
       | weird things I invented in my dreams, various ideas which didn't
       | fit anywhere else. Guess what, the novel will probably never get
       | written, projects will never get done, I will not make a
       | philosophical breakthrough. So what?
       | 
       | Some ideas on how am I supposed to start hating my notes:
       | 
       | * They grow to 100MB, then it starts to be a burden
       | 
       | * I switch from notepad.exe to a dedicated application which
       | somehow exploits my hobby of writing notes
       | 
       | * I develop OCD or something else
       | 
       | None of this seems very relatable. At this point, I might be
       | writing a new note with these ideas, updating it when I get more
       | ideas or when the one, most plausible explanation jumps out at
       | me. Then I would read it years later and have something to think
       | about before bed and have a good feeling that I didn't lose
       | something and I am not left with thougths about the last episode
       | of a TV show. Or is that supposed to be a bad feeling?
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | > I don't get this.
         | 
         | I'll try to help.
         | 
         | > going through them and maintaining them and extending them is
         | fun
         | 
         | It's fun _for you_ , not for everyone else. There, it's as
         | simple as that. All you need to understand is different people
         | enjoy different things.
         | 
         | > Or is that supposed to be a bad feeling?
         | 
         | It's not "supposed" to be anything. It will be good for some,
         | bad for others, neutral for others still. There's no objective
         | right answer. If you enjoy something and it doesn't harm
         | anyone, do it. If you don't enjoy it and it isn't necessary,
         | don't do it. Other people will have different preferences.
        
           | igiveup wrote:
           | Oh, the OP pretty much told me that they didn't like taking
           | notes. I am trying to understand why, what is the mechanism?
           | Is it like burning out? Can it happen to me and my notes when
           | I start doing something wrong? Why is "just do less of it"
           | not a solution? Why is "just expect less from it" not a
           | solution? Am I an exception? If so, why?
           | 
           | "All you need to understand" is for insects.
        
       | edem wrote:
       | I started building the second brain a while ago but I quickly
       | started to feel like I was trying to dance while wearing a
       | straitjacket so I stopped doing it.
        
       | nkrisc wrote:
       | Notes should be for things you can't remember. How long did I
       | bake that loaf of bread that turned out great? I'm not carrying
       | that detail around in my mind with me unless I'm a baker and
       | baking thirty loaves a day. Only then does become a permanent
       | resident in my brain through pure repetition.
       | 
       | Thinking and processing and making connections is a dynamic and
       | amorphous experience that can't be put into static notes. It's
       | always changing, based on your mood, recent experiences, and new
       | knowledge acquired.
       | 
       | Write down things you can't remember, but keep the thinking in
       | your head.
        
       | alabhyajindal wrote:
       | This matches my experience as well. I have been journalling on
       | and off for 4-5 years. It's a way for me to process my thoughts.
       | But I never look back it, I don't feel the need to. The writing
       | is the important bit, not the resulting output.
        
       | jbs789 wrote:
       | This whole Second Brain idea is new to me. Sounds like a lot of
       | work relative to what you get in return.
        
         | al_borland wrote:
         | It's effectively a really intense form of procrastination.
        
       | UltraSane wrote:
       | What an incredibly stupid thing to do.
        
       | emadda wrote:
       | I think the speed at which you can open previous notes matters.
       | 
       | If it takes you 1 minute of scrambling in a GUI to find a
       | previous note, you are less likely to read previous notes.
       | 
       | And also less likely to write new ones as you know you'll never
       | visit it again.
       | 
       | I have an app built on the fzy CLI and Ghostty terminal for Apple
       | Notes. It is working well for me:
       | 
       | https://github.com/emadda/hot-notes
        
       | johnplatte wrote:
       | I remember reading the compendium of human-interface writings
       | Apple put together in the 1990s. There was an exploration of ways
       | to show age in software. They were changing the color and adding
       | other aging effects to old files in the Finder.
       | 
       | I think part of that thought has stuck with me. I like storing
       | things in directories by year. It is a structural reminder that a
       | lot of the value of what I'm doing is tied to this moment in
       | time. I can search back through "over the years" to find things,
       | and it addresses this question of guilt.
        
       | birriel wrote:
       | It's baffling to me that anyone would do this in the age of LLMs.
       | All of the author's concerns could've been solved or greatly
       | mitigated by loading her PKM into a model as context. The article
       | doesn't mention that she even considered this as an option. I
       | hope the files can be recovered when she realizes this
       | possibility.
        
         | Barrin92 wrote:
         | >All of the author's concerns could've been solved or greatly
         | mitigated by loading her PKM into a model as context
         | 
         | No, because the correctly identified concern by the author is
         | much deeper. Knowledge isn't some repository of data, or some
         | solipsistic LLM simulacrum of it, it's practiced, social,
         | contextual. A real brain, unlike the "second brain",
         | _intentionally forgets_.
         | 
         | To have agency is to purposefully erase, cut through BS, and
         | start from a clean slate. Any person who has done anything
         | meaningful starts with an empty sheet of paper. There's a
         | reason all these note taking gurus have exactly zero actual
         | work to their name, it's just productivity LARPing. Every
         | single time you see one of these "productivity" advocates you
         | try to look up if they've build something that has helped even
         | one person with all their productivity, nothing. They just keep
         | yapping about their notes.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | Sounds like Hoarder's Syndrome, but digitally.
       | 
       | I'm a cable hoarder. It's pretty bad. I have cables for tech
       | that's been dead for a couple of decades. "Just in case." Need a
       | FireWire 400 hub? Got you covered. Even better, how about SCSI?
       | 
       | Every now and then, I go through them, and toss out a few, but
       | many remain.
       | 
       | I've also been in Recovery for a while. Suspect the Venn diagram
       | overlaps a bit.
        
       | roxolotl wrote:
       | > I delete what I don't need. I don't capture everything. I don't
       | try to. I read what I feel like. I think in conversation, in
       | movement, in context. I don't build a second brain. I inhabit the
       | first.
       | 
       | This is a really important insight especially today. There is a
       | ton of pressure to move faster, produce, consume, be the absolute
       | best. Use AI to do things you'd never be able to before. Build a
       | zettlekasten that insights will fall out of. Give up your
       | attention to the next big thing.
       | 
       | For some I'm sure that's fulfilling and I do not mean to say to
       | stop. But for those whom it brings anxiety, a feeling they can
       | never have or be enough, that meaning is just around the corner
       | this is an important insight.
       | 
       | It reminds me of a favorite quote of mine from Emerson's Self
       | Reliance: Life only avails, not the having lived. Power ceases in
       | the instant of repose; it resides in the moment of transition
       | from a past to a new state, in the shooting of the gulf, in the
       | darting to an aim. This one fact the world hates, that the soul
       | becomes; for that for ever degrades the past, turns all riches to
       | poverty, all reputation to a shame, confounds the saint with the
       | rogue, shoves Jesus and Judas equally aside.
        
       | jbmny wrote:
       | What a well-written piece.
       | 
       | It reminded me of my own habit of logging my pour-over coffee
       | brews. For months I saved every variable about every cup,
       | imagining that one day I'd analyze that data and arrive at the
       | perfect recipe.
       | 
       | I never once looked at the data. Eventually I realized that I'd
       | rather learn by just paying close attention to this cup, and
       | using it to change my approach for the next cup.
       | 
       | It feels like a more human, living knowledge.
        
         | Fade_Dance wrote:
         | Overanalyzing everything loses some of the "magic". I drink
         | tea, but I assume there's a similar sort of zen-like ritual to
         | the whole process. That's somewhat it odds with turning the
         | whole thing into a science experiment.
         | 
         | Granted, some of that is a projection of positivity onto what
         | is just another simply addictive substance, but I digress.
         | 
         | A lot of tasks in life have elements of this though, including
         | creative thinking and flow-state work which continually logging
         | and categorizing can somewhat interrupt.
         | 
         | In your case I'd consider doing a 1-off analysis of "the
         | perfect cup", with full data collection for a couple of weeks.
         | Then analyze it, distill it down, and extract the lesson and
         | conclusions. Then go back to the more organic method, and
         | hopefully the cup is a little better. Win win.
         | 
         | As some other comments have mentioned, there's a streak of
         | obsessiveness and anxiety in the original piece. _Everything_
         | doesn 't need to be extensively logged, and it doesn't
         | necessarily need to be something you do everyday. A lot of the
         | "burden" aspect seems to be from some internal issues that the
         | author needs to work on.
         | 
         | All of these approaches are just tools. They can be used with a
         | light touch approach (maybe only very complex projects need a
         | vigorously searchable and indexed "second brain", and most of
         | the time a .txt file in a simple daily log that takes no more
         | than 2 minutes per day is more than enough, etc). And I know,
         | those two approaches don't perfectly interface with one
         | another, but creating an all-encompassing perfect system is an
         | exercise and futility, and if that's the goal, then no wonder
         | it's a massive cause of anxiety.
        
       | melodyogonna wrote:
       | I have a simple philosophy in how I approach everything: Too much
       | of anything is bad.
       | 
       | When I started taking notes with obsidian I almost fell into this
       | trap of over-analysing everything in terms of what should go into
       | a note, making folders and sub-folders. It became quickly obvious
       | to me that the mental burden of this can accumulate quickly.
       | 
       | These days I store most of my notes in one folder. The only times
       | I now make a note are: 1. When I'm reading. 2. Very rare these
       | days, but sometimes I still have nagging thoughts that wants to
       | be written down. 3. When I have important information that needs
       | to be stored, like IP address, things like this.
       | 
       | I've found that not thinking about notes obsessively like this
       | helps me better, most thoughts are useless and fleeting, they're
       | not worth writing down imo. Best to be in your mind in those.
       | 
       | The outcome of this is that my vault has remained simple and
       | small even after a year, and when I search it for information it
       | is almost always for some important detail I knew I wrote down, I
       | don't get overloaded with junk.
       | 
       | To keep my notes space clean I also regularly move things to
       | archive, which I rarely check.
        
         | chrbr wrote:
         | I've also struggled with over-analyzing where stuff should go.
         | I've restarted a new Obsidian vault based on PARA [1], and am
         | experimenting with using LLMs (both Cursor and Claude Code) to
         | help me decide where stuff should go. Been a big help so far.
         | 
         | [1] https://fortelabs.com/blog/para/
        
           | sothatsit wrote:
           | I've started seeing a number of people talk about using
           | Claude Code for searching, writing, and organising text
           | documents. It is an interesting trend to me. I tried it out
           | with my non-technical girlfriend and she really liked using
           | it for helping with analysing interview transcripts. It seems
           | like that agentic workflow is really effective outside of
           | coding as well.
           | 
           | I just hope non-technical people that pick this up also pick
           | up version control. Or, is there a better alternative to
           | Claude Code that can accomplish a similar thing while being
           | more friendly to non-technical people?
        
           | rkwz wrote:
           | > am experimenting with using LLMs (both Cursor and Claude
           | Code) to help me decide where stuff should go.
           | 
           | Can you elaborate on this?
        
         | wavemode wrote:
         | My notetaking has devolved in much the same way. Nowadays I
         | pretty much just have one big "Work" note, and then occasional
         | smaller temporary notes for specific things (planning a trip,
         | shopping list, etc).
         | 
         | PKM can often turn into a form of procrastination (it's more
         | fun to make lists and folders and grand archives, than to work
         | on your actual projects). I decided to cut all that off and do
         | the bare minimum instead.
        
         | lqet wrote:
         | > I have a simple philosophy in how I approach everything: Too
         | much of anything is bad.
         | 
         | This. Everything in moderation, including moderation.
        
         | aDyslecticCrow wrote:
         | My mother found a pike of letters from 30 years ago. Mondane
         | conversations that we today would carry out over message apps.
         | 
         | It made her very emotional and nostaligic. Ended up much more
         | precious than she thought when she wrote them.
        
           | colelyman wrote:
           | Interesting to think about if finding a database dump of
           | messages 30 years from now would bring back the same
           | nostalgia. I would think that the tangible aspect would have
           | a more profound impact.
        
             | aDyslecticCrow wrote:
             | I also think the format of letters lends itself a bit
             | better to being re-read. A single message talking about the
             | "last little while" rather than atomic thoughts and
             | reactions. More context about the snapshot of life it
             | describes. Like a page from a diary that was shared with
             | someone.
        
         | achierius wrote:
         | > most thoughts are useless and fleeting
         | 
         | While I can't disagree with your own analysis of your own
         | thoughts, I would push back on generalizing this to what other
         | people think. One's own thoughts have an intrinsic value, and
         | to seize on them and let them flourish is one of my personal
         | greatest joys. As a thinking being, how could I call my
         | thoughts "useless"? Sure, I don't record every thought of every
         | day, but I sure hope I continue at least having one or two
         | interesting and, indeed, noteworthy thoughts a week or so
         | through till my old age.
        
           | melodyogonna wrote:
           | Hi, I may not have written that well.
           | 
           | I meant that most thoughts are not important enough to write
           | down, not that they're not important. For those I prefer to
           | just let myself think. Most times the thought just goes away,
           | some other times I just subconsciously refine it until it
           | becomes pretty obvious this is something I want to write
           | down. Said another way, I don't write them every thought I
           | have
        
         | _kidlike wrote:
         | "pan metron ariston"
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_mean_(philosophy)
        
       | pugdev7 wrote:
       | Who needs two brains anyway?
        
       | somewhatrandom9 wrote:
       | I enjoyed the piece, but wonder if the author could have found
       | some benefit if they used the corpus to train an (ideally
       | locally-run (for privacy)) ai - so that questions could be asked
       | of it and some value extracted..
        
       | bee_rider wrote:
       | This seems like a particular curse of having an indexable, easily
       | searchable journal.
       | 
       | I use a paper notebook, which comes with the built in assumption
       | that most of your notes are going to be permanently put on the
       | shelf and forgotten. A couple pages can be marked somehow or
       | another if anything really useful somehow ends up on them.
       | 
       | Writing things out is an important part of the process... I'd be
       | a bit worried about obtaining a default assumption where those
       | notes become anything other than ephemera.
        
       | blindriver wrote:
       | I deleted all my gchats over 10 Years ago and it was the most
       | freeing thing I did in my digital life.
       | 
       | I realized they were absolutely useless but carried a weird
       | weight for me.
       | 
       | "What if I need something important from them?" Nope. If there's
       | something important then I can ask whomever again.
       | 
       | "What if I want to go through them?" Nope. Never even thought
       | about it since I deleted them. Not even the first times I chatted
       | with my now-wife.
       | 
       | Once I realized they were useless it helped me never save my
       | WhatsApp messages and I turned on disappearing messages as soon
       | as the feature appeared. I have another friend I've known for 20+
       | years, we set messages to 8 hours disappearing. If we miss a
       | message or forget what we talked about, so be it.
       | 
       | It's all so freeing, I never realized what a burden it could be,
       | worrying about what if I lost something. I delete everything now
       | except my photos which have more value.
        
         | kaashif wrote:
         | This is interesting. I guess I have all of my Whatsapp and
         | Facebook messenger chats saved and have never thought about it.
         | 
         | I have never even thought about this being a burden in any way.
         | 
         | It's interesting that people have such different perspectives
         | on this.
        
           | blindriver wrote:
           | Why do you keep them? Why don't you just delete them?
        
       | iamsanteri wrote:
       | Very nice article as I've felt the same.
       | 
       | Throughout my 20's I've accumulated a huge amount of mental
       | models, diary entries, ambitions, goals, knowledge, thoughts,
       | interests and everything in-between.
       | 
       | It helped me a lot and truly let me excel in some things -
       | surprisingly enough.
       | 
       | Since I turned 30 last year I've almost sort of been afraid to
       | look into that repository whatsoever. It's a mix of amusement and
       | anxiety. What felt like unlimited potential and a nearing of the
       | "apex", my motivation is still there somewhere in my head, but
       | I've suppressed it and opened my eyes to almost half of my life
       | being lived.
       | 
       | Sometimes I'm even afraid to stop and think deeply like I tended
       | to do before. I distract myself.
       | 
       | Was that a some sort of a religion carrying me week by week month
       | to month?
       | 
       | I take it step-by-step, day by day now and try to worry less
       | while bringing back the focus of what I'd want to achieve. I calm
       | myself down and work on things more gradually, cutting myself
       | some slack.
       | 
       | Nonetheless, I wouldn't just delete it all.
       | 
       | Instead I'm just using it less and less, only adding some truly
       | profound things and thoughts when I come across them. My reading
       | list keeps filling up... I fulfill some of my ambitions, but also
       | leave many of them undone by the time I thought I should've been
       | done with them trying not to not feel bad about it.
       | 
       | This techno-masochistic models-oriented mega-productive way of
       | living is already perhaps disillusioning a lot of people out
       | there, and we are entering the next stage.
       | 
       | Feels like end of an era, at least for me personally.
        
       | QuiEgo wrote:
       | I think it's important to acknowledge everyone's mind works
       | differently, and something different works for everyone.
       | 
       | For me, I've found once I start trying to follow a system, like
       | PARA or zettelkasten or whatever else, it just becomes tedious
       | and time consuming and I feel like a slave to the system.
       | 
       | After going through 3-4 cycles of this, I came to feel like the
       | main point of these systems is to sell books to people like me,
       | who's brain craves structure yet struggles to create it :).
       | 
       | I also came to realize most of my notes are write once, read
       | never.
       | 
       | I now just make quick and dirty notes and throw them in an
       | "archive" folder once they are not active (one "inbox" folder for
       | active ones), and rely on search.
       | 
       | No system, no curation.
       | 
       | Same strategy for email.
       | 
       | I do find the notes useful to keep; e.x. "when was the last time
       | I got bloodwork done at the doctor" or "what command did I run to
       | get the debugger to hit the right symbol server for that old old
       | project", but I spend basically 0 thought cycles on them now.
       | 
       | I also find plaintext or markdown to be the ideal format for
       | these notes.
       | 
       | There's a whole other category of notes, where you want to share
       | information with others or teach. This is documentation. It is
       | best suited to a wiki format with rich text.
       | 
       | I think a lot of people end up making wiki-style notes, but
       | really they are never going to look at them again or share them
       | and they could have just hacked up a quick text file and then
       | archived it, instead of making something pretty no one will ever
       | care about afterwords (including themselves). It's really hard to
       | admit this though.
        
         | aDyslecticCrow wrote:
         | started with PARA, and ended up in PR.
         | 
         | I have one note per topic. I write down in summary when I'm
         | activity studying something. Most of it i end up remembering
         | but its nice knowing where to look when i forget. (Especially a
         | link to what i used to study it last time). Some of them could
         | probably be printed as a compendium at this point.
         | 
         | I have one note per project, running as a log of quick paste
         | dump or thoughts when i leave for the day. Usually never
         | revisited.
         | 
         | I have some journal notes. But they're rare and only written
         | for larger events (trips, holidays).
         | 
         | I was all-in on backlings and atomic notes for a while, but it
         | ended up being unsearhable. The current method could survive
         | without backlings at all.
        
         | kilroy123 wrote:
         | I agree. I have come to this conclusion PARA and zettelkasten
         | are just forms of procrastination.
        
       | zkmon wrote:
       | I interpret this as humanity's struggle to get back to its
       | habitat, real world and fall back to keep pace with much slower
       | biological evolution. Tools - all the way from stone tools used
       | for hunting, to the AI assistants - are compensation for the
       | desired extra pace in evolution. We can't grow horns over night
       | and grow large in size to rule the jungle, so we got our hunting
       | tools.
       | 
       | But then we let the tools and thought dictate the biological
       | human. Mind has always been a slave of the body, serving just
       | enough intelligence as commanded by the body. But then mind grew
       | to be the master, commanding the body and demanding faster
       | evolution. When body could not deliver to the demands, mind went
       | ahead and created artificial extensions to the body using tools,
       | technologies and science. Mind no longer responds to the body
       | signals leading to suppressed senses, unmet bodily needs, lack of
       | intimacy with the ongoings of the body and total lack of basic
       | understanding of purpose and function of body.
        
       | NalNezumi wrote:
       | Thanks for sharing, it was an interesting read that made me
       | introspect on my usage of Obsidian too.
       | 
       | I think there's a couple of points during his journey the author
       | could've came to a more balanced conclusion than deleting his
       | "second brain" (obsidian folder).
       | 
       | First is ofc the tool-creep that he mention. It was supposed to
       | be a support tool, to make you reach a goal or solve a problem.
       | Yet it become a goal in itself. A classic Goodhart's law. This
       | should've led him to realize that he need to _limit_ what context
       | the Second brain idea is applied to. Luhmann, the Zettlekasten
       | guy kept in his physical office, segregating his  "thinking &
       | writing, work" with the rest of his life. The authors case is the
       | classic "Todolist trap". If he could've identified that early, he
       | could've maybe siloed it better to the useful part.
       | 
       | Second, The "Unread list". One of the first things even in the
       | Zettlekasten ideal (which spanned the entire second brain idea)
       | is to _never put in anything unprocessed_. Everything, new idea
       | to new reading, should be first processed, thought of, and then
       | written down _in your own word_. When you break this principle,
       | your second brain is not a brain, it 's a todo list.
       | 
       | The third is to humanize it. This also affect point 2. If you
       | properly review your second brain, you'll notice that great
       | insight or ideas you wrote down doesn't seem so great anymore, or
       | lacking. It's also hard to recount _why_ you considered this
       | thing great, or worth writing down. That 's when you realize that
       | sometimes, the detail of the idea doesn't matter as much as
       | why/when and how you came up with it. You more often can come up
       | with same idea, hopefully even more refined, if you just remember
       | the context of it.
       | 
       | This should transform your "second brain" from not merely being a
       | list of connected ideas, but with contexts. Who did you share
       | that idea with? Where you sad/mad/angry? what did you do the day
       | you got that idea? Those are all ques your brain can use to
       | reconstruct the entire picture, wayyy better than just words.
       | People that wrote diaries have known this since forever. It's not
       | the ideas you want to keep, but the _mental state_ that reached
       | you to that idea. New, future you, can take that idea way way
       | further, given the same mental state. This insight alone should
       | delete _all_ unread lists. At best it should be delegated to a
       | reference /archive "folder" disconnected from your second brain.
       | 
       | Second brain is not an archive, it's a process. When you
       | misunderstand that, often because you're attached (ego) to the
       | ideas you generate, you fall for the trap the author did.
       | 
       | Edit: I realized that the author is from the rationalist
       | movement. That kinda figures.
        
       | scuol wrote:
       | I understand the sentiment, but disagree with the solution. PKMs
       | can be overwhelming if someone nerdy enough to use one ends up
       | using it ineffectively.
       | 
       | The way I do it that I find works well is to have the following:
       | 
       | 1. each day, have a journal page for a given day. Content only
       | happens in the journal pages
       | 
       | 2. have a series of topics that you tag. This system is up to
       | you, but I usually find something with a hierarchy that is <=3
       | levels deep is best, e.g. I have "Job Search/2025/Company"
       | 
       | 3. for each of the relevant tag pages, have those have some sort
       | of "query" that will pull in all relevant tasks from all the
       | journal pages, sort them by priority / state / deadline so you
       | can see this all in one place (e.g. "What's the next step I have
       | to do for my Nvidia application?" -> easy to answer with this
       | system). Depending on your PKM, the hierarchy enables you to
       | easily answer that question at a higher level, e.g. "What's the
       | next steps I have to do for ALL of my applications?".
       | 
       | In each journal page, you can also write down a "task backlog" so
       | minor tasks that you remember don't take up headspace while you
       | intend to work on other major tasks (e.g. write down "get back to
       | Joel about the Nvidia referral").
       | 
       | Regarding a point other folks have made: treat the journal and
       | these tags as more of a "stream" of things you're doing in your
       | life, instead of a collection of every-expanding obligations or a
       | mausoleum of unexplored ambition.
       | 
       | I built this in Logseq, which seems to be the only one that has
       | an advanced-enough query language to do this in that is possible
       | to do local-only (no mandatory cloud data) in text files. If
       | anyone knows how to build such a system in a different
       | application, I'd be happy to learn! Logseq has been stale for a
       | year or 2 as the authors are working on a much needed near-total
       | rewrite which I'm not sure is ever going to arrive at this point.
        
       | goosejuice wrote:
       | This is like the personal version of shapeup's reasoning to get
       | rid of backlogs and there's a little nod to it. But yes, a
       | backlog is a list of tasks not a second brain.
       | 
       | https://basecamp.com/shapeup/2.1-chapter-07
        
         | StochasticLi wrote:
         | For a similar reason I kill all my unpinned tabs automatically
         | every 24 hours. If I didn't do/read it, it means there are more
         | important issues.
        
           | aDyslecticCrow wrote:
           | I delete my tabs at shutdown. If its an important resource ut
           | should be in the documentation for the project.
        
             | StochasticLi wrote:
             | I'm running a company so it's more than a project.
        
           | goosejuice wrote:
           | I never understood the large browser tab list. Though I am
           | the kind of person that typically keeps only one to two
           | buffers open in my editor. I must have a mild allergy to
           | visual noise or something.
        
             | SoftTalker wrote:
             | Very much the same. I almost never have more than half a
             | dozen browser tabs open. They are always ephemeral. I don't
             | save browser history or cookies either. Dispite all
             | technology advances, a person's short-term memory can still
             | only actively handle to four to seven things at a time. I'm
             | probably on the low side of that. Having 30 browser tabs
             | open is utterly pointless as I won't have any idea what 25
             | of them are for.
        
       | hombre_fatal wrote:
       | Damn. My notes over the years are the only that gives me insight
       | into who I was and what I cared about back then.
       | 
       | Every once in a while I boot up a 15 year old Evernote archive or
       | scroll through my Notes.app to get a new glimpse into the things
       | my younger me was up to. It's often endearing, and it also
       | reminds me of how much I will forget about myself in another 10
       | years, yet these were the things that I spent my free time doing,
       | and this person used to exist. I feel like an archaeologist into
       | my own life.
       | 
       | Even my most technical notes are laced with the residue of my
       | character that I can see myself in.
       | 
       | I'm super sentimental though. I could scroll back to an ancient
       | journal entry and probably make myself tear up if I consider it
       | long enough.
        
         | kaashif wrote:
         | I feel like this too. I remember one time I came across a stack
         | of notes (the throwaway kind I just write to help me learn)
         | from school and I read through them, it made me very nostalgic.
         | Especially reading homework set by teachers who have since
         | died.
         | 
         | It actually did make me tear up a bit.
         | 
         | I even feel nostalgic and tearful looking at random doodles on
         | a piece of paper that I did during my first job many years ago.
        
         | BrtByte wrote:
         | That feeling of being an archaeologist in your own life really
         | resonates, like rediscovering forgotten versions of yourself,
         | preserved in the syntax of old thoughts
        
       | BrtByte wrote:
       | Kinda ironic how tools meant to externalize thinking can end up
       | stifling it. Might be time to clean house
        
       | ChaoPrayaWave wrote:
       | There's something freeing about admitting that you won't capture
       | everything. I still write stuff down, but I stopped trying to
       | build the "perfect" system. Life's messy. Notes can be, too.
        
       | gtpedrosa wrote:
       | That was an interesting read. Even more if you take a look into
       | another of the author's text on the decline of personal thought
       | [1]. I believe the author is engaging with very interesting
       | questions: what is knowledge? How can I achieve it? How does it
       | feel during the pursuit?
       | 
       | Of course the answer is deeply personal. My take is that I agree
       | with the author on that knowledge should be inhabited, as I
       | quoted Arendt on a former blog entry of mine [2] "For memory and
       | depth are the same, or rather depth can only be reached by man
       | through remembrance.".
       | 
       | If your journey using whatever tool du jour helps you, more power
       | to you! But if it feels like a burden, drop it and adapt. In my
       | process, I tried many different methods of note taking, but the
       | one I haven't dropped is pen and paper. The act of writing is
       | thinking to me. I do not have a plan to go through what I have
       | written and treat them as a fortuitous encounter rather than
       | having a procedure/method in place. But I still find the idea of
       | having digital notes somewhat appealing, luring even.
       | 
       | [1]https://www.joanwestenberg.com/p/cognitive-offshoring-and-
       | th... [2]https://gtpedrosa.github.io/blog/on-taking-notes-and-
       | learnin...
        
       | basisword wrote:
       | I understand this and I have done similar a few times (e.g.
       | deleting all old emails, deleting all notes, deleting a tonne of
       | old files etc.). It's quite freeing. We do hoard a lot of digital
       | stuff that we really don't need. Saying that, there are a few
       | times over the years I've needed somethings, realised I deleted
       | it and regretted it. That feeling passed quickly though and I
       | soon realised it probably didn't matter.
        
       | nprateem wrote:
       | The futile craving for permanence.
        
       | _aleph2c_ wrote:
       | This post is a masterpiece
        
       | scop wrote:
       | I did the same thing recently, excluding quotes from books. Every
       | other note, How To, and To Do gone. It provided tremendous
       | relief. The vast majority of the stuff may as well have been
       | written by a complete stranger. But, again, I kept my book quotes
       | and notes as that is something I reference regularly. I guess the
       | main thing was the realization that I literally don't access 90%
       | of my notes and they were of no value other than making me _feel_
       | something about myself.
        
       | colelyman wrote:
       | I have been enamored with developing a second brain and other
       | productivity hacks, but have recently been turned off to them,
       | because I believe the benefits are over-promised. Similar to OP,
       | I haven't been able to achieve the clarity of mind and creative
       | thoughts that are promised by a second brain.
       | 
       | While I do think that deleting the whole thing is extreme, I can
       | imagine that there is a level of catharsis experienced by that.
       | 
       | Lately I have subscribed to Oliver Burkeman's (author of "4,000
       | Weeks") line of thinking where life, and subsequently thoughts,
       | are more meant to be experience rather than optimized. For me, I
       | have seen a negative drop in "life enjoyment" when I have tried
       | to capture everything, and have yet to realize the results and
       | even stick with it consistently (which may be the reason for not
       | seeing the positives).
        
       | precompute wrote:
       | Sounds like the author never really had any use for it, and was
       | undergoing informational bankruptcy. Most people don't delete
       | theirs, though, they just keep it apart and never re-arrange it.
        
       | lowleveldesign wrote:
       | I understand the burden that too much notes may take on you. I am
       | a software troubleshooter and I used to keep my raw notes of all
       | the interesting cases I encountered. However, with time, this set
       | became hard to navigate. Additionally, when I was rereading my
       | notes, they seemed chaotic and hard to follow. I now prefer to
       | create a succinct summary of a closed case, explaining the taken
       | steps, my thinking, and the solution, so that my future self
       | could understand it :)
        
       | godot wrote:
       | I realize I must be in the minority of software engineers/tech
       | circles, I do not keep a "personal knowledge management" base.
       | 
       | I do have a personal Notion, but the things I keep in it are like
       | list of restaurants we want to try and haven't yet, list of
       | travel destinations we want to go at some point, the trash
       | collection schedule, things like that. Basically
       | references/bookmarks.
       | 
       | I don't keep reading lists, knowledge I learned, or anything like
       | that in an archive. I rely completely on my own memory in my
       | brain for those. (I also don't open up tabs with intentions of
       | "I'll read this later". Either I read it and close it, or don't.
       | If it feels semi-interesting but long, I just skim it, then close
       | it.)
       | 
       | If anything interesting comes up, I talk about it, typically in a
       | group chat (I have about half a dozen group chats with various
       | friend groups or ex-coworkers groups that are active). If a
       | discussion took place about something, I will likely remember it.
       | If I remember some key points, if something comes up in the
       | future about it, I will remember enough to look it up, whether by
       | Google or by LLM. *
       | 
       | I've lived this way for decades professionally and never found
       | myself missing a piece of knowledge in any context that I wish I
       | had. In other words I don't find a use to keep a personal
       | knowledge base.
       | 
       | For those reading this, maybe it helps you think about whether
       | you need one like this as well. Perhaps like the article author
       | here, you might feel more relieved not having one.
       | 
       | * I also want to note that I operate this way at work / in
       | meetings as well. I find that if I try to take notes during
       | meetings, I can't pay attention fully, and can't digest the
       | information being discussed. It works much better if I don't take
       | any notes at all, pay attention in the meeting, and if there's
       | anything important from the meeting, I try to write it down
       | afterwards (typically in a Slack message) from memory. 99% of the
       | time it works fine and once in a long while I might miss
       | something (but someone else who reads my Slack message would fill
       | out what I missed).
        
         | gen220 wrote:
         | You do have a personal knowledge management base, it's all your
         | friends and coworkers :)
         | 
         | I've heard this concept described as the "external brain". If I
         | don't talk about something or write it down, it's more likely
         | than not getting flushed out of my brain. My friends or
         | calendar app or sparingly few notes will be there to remind me
         | if it's actually important! I only write to make/check-in on
         | longer term plans
        
       | Vegenoid wrote:
       | My "second brain" is almost entirely technical information and
       | learnings. I can see why someone who uses it more like a fancy
       | personal journal, for mental reflection and creative work, would
       | delete it - but I would be devastated if I lost my notes, because
       | they are key to my ability to quickly navigate technology and
       | systems.
        
       | Moosdijk wrote:
       | Not even my bookmarks get trashed. It's like a treasure trove.
        
       | sedatk wrote:
       | One of the few decisions I absolutely regret in my life was to
       | throw away my old notebook that I used to keep notes in when I
       | was learning programming in the 80's. I had pretty much the same
       | kind of thinking as the author: the nostaliga was dragging me
       | back, cluttering my mind, and I simply had to move on.
       | 
       | But, the thing is, those notes actually highlighted a part, or
       | more aptly, an era of my existence that had no longer existed. I
       | basically destroyed a part of me, similar to destroying
       | photographs or any other memento that related to my "former
       | self".
       | 
       | Not only are those kinds of mementos endearing, but they are
       | anchoring in a sense too. They let you draw an unbroken line over
       | all versions of yourself to get the whole picture. They also have
       | the potential to trigger certain parts of your mind, motivate you
       | in ways that you can't imagine.
       | 
       | So, the stuff the author had thrown away might be useless as a
       | tool, but I think they would certainly be useful in an
       | introspective archeological sense. I strongly urge anyone to
       | consider that before performing a similar infocide.
       | 
       | I'd at least suggest archiving them in a hard to reach place,
       | instead of completely destroying them because you might regret it
       | later.
        
       | 11235813213455 wrote:
       | The second brain is more generally refered as the guts tho, he
       | should have said third brain
        
       | il-b wrote:
       | I still use nvAlt (formerly Notational Velocity) for note taking.
       | It is synced to a Dropbox folder. I can use the native Dropbox
       | app to search, view, and edit the files. What I really like is
       | the speed of note taking and searching in the nvAlt app. All my
       | notes have a title in a loose format such as "project_name
       | keyword ... keyword". It takes a second to find the note I need.
       | Therefore, nvAlt serves as a bookmark manager as well. Obsidian
       | feels clunky and slow, and I couldn't get it to switch to the
       | .txt file extension (which is possible to edit via Dropbox on an
       | iPhone).
        
       | molszanski wrote:
       | If you don't do regular forest fires, one day you will need to
       | nuke everything
        
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