[HN Gopher] The Power and Beauty of Incrementalism
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       The Power and Beauty of Incrementalism
        
       Author : surprisetalk
       Score  : 77 points
       Date   : 2025-06-27 12:39 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | puttycat wrote:
       | That's also the beauty of evolution-there's no goal in that
       | search algorithm, just open-ended incremental exploration which
       | eventually grows beautiful things.
       | 
       | See Kenneth Stanley's book Why Greatness Cannot Be Planned: The
       | Myth of the Objective:
       | 
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25670869-why-greatness-c...
        
         | lovestory wrote:
         | This is the second time someone has recommended this book on HN
         | so for sure it can't be a bad read. I will be starting it
         | tonight
        
           | michaelsbradley wrote:
           | The book may be a good read or bad one, I am unfamiliar with
           | it. However, terrible recommendations are made on HN all the
           | time, as well good ones, so I'd caution against "recommended
           | a few times on HN" (on its own!) as an indicator of much
           | anything.
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | EDIT: changed wording from "multiple times" to "a few times"
           | to be more clear.
        
             | nine_k wrote:
             | It may be an indicator of popularity / mindshare of certain
             | ideas. It says little about the ideas' substance, but may
             | still be very important in practice, if you deal with
             | people.
        
               | michaelsbradley wrote:
               | The git cli tool is mentioned countless times over many
               | years on HN, surely an indicator that it's in popular use
               | by the commentatorship here.
               | 
               | I've seen many (seemingly informed) mentions of the jj
               | cli tool in the last year -- not unreasonable to conclude
               | interest in it is growing among folks here, and enough to
               | pique my curiosity.
               | 
               | I responded to:                  This is the second time
               | [I've seen that] someone has recommended this book on HN
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | I've always found that an "evolutionary" approach to design is
         | important[0].
         | 
         | [0] https://littlegreenviper.com/evolutionary-design-
         | specificati...
        
         | ants_everywhere wrote:
         | > That's also the beauty of evolution-there's no goal in that
         | search algorithm,
         | 
         | Yes there is, there's a fitness function, both in biological
         | evolution and evolutionary algorithms
        
           | IAmBroom wrote:
           | That is not a goal. It is an adaptive strategy to meet
           | changing constraints.
        
             | layer8 wrote:
             | I'd argue it isn't a strategy either. You can't _not_ be
             | subject to it.
        
           | layer8 wrote:
           | There's no goal in biological evolution. Being subject to
           | natural selection based on the present environment is an
           | inevitability.
           | 
           | You could argue that mutation isn't inevitable, but its
           | presence and degree is subject to natural selection as well.
        
         | _lex wrote:
         | Incorrect. The search algo has a goal: to find out. You just
         | think it has no goal because you didnt think in quantum.
        
       | jacknews wrote:
       | woah this seems like tribalism run riot.
       | 
       | How about just living, and learning to deal with, the rest of
       | society.
        
         | bogwog wrote:
         | Yeah, it seems easier (and healthier?) to make friends with
         | your current neighbors than to try to build a concentration
         | camp of friends.
        
           | IAmBroom wrote:
           | In this age, is living next to "10 besties" really needed?
           | 
           | I have one neighbor that I'm really close to - yay! I can
           | borrow their wheelbarrow, or they can borrow my sprinkler
           | attachment, without asking, and return it promptly (to remain
           | friends!). We watch each other's dogs on vacation. All of
           | this is much easier than if I had to use a farther-away
           | friend.
           | 
           | But my other neighbors are just ... small-f friends.
           | Friendly. I would even consider asking them to borrow a cup
           | of sugar.
           | 
           | But as nice as it would be to have ALL my besties nearby, we
           | do just fine with phone calls, texts, social media, and
           | seeing each other at events.
           | 
           | I do agree with the advantage of incremental change. I suck
           | at completing big tasks. But if I view each step as a small
           | task, I can get there.
        
             | neighman wrote:
             | How many of them would you trust to watch your 8mo old
             | while you go out with your spouse for a few hours? Or would
             | be willing to take your kids to school? Or help you repair
             | the rotted subfloor in your bathroom?
             | 
             | I don't understand why most comments here are perversely
             | interpreting the goals of the article. Obviously you have
             | different life and relationship philosophies, no need to
             | knock people doing it the way they want.
        
               | IAmBroom wrote:
               | I'm not knocking anyone. I'm asking if this is as
               | important as it used to be.
               | 
               | Also, I'm the one who watches my closest-friend
               | neighbor's kids in emergency sitations. I've pointed out
               | that physically+emotionally close relationship ARE
               | important.
        
             | mgfist wrote:
             | > But as nice as it would be to have ALL my besties nearby,
             | we do just fine with phone calls, texts, social media, and
             | seeing each other at events.
             | 
             | I don't recall the article, but I remember reading an
             | anecdotal piece where someone talked about how they met up
             | with either their close friend or sibling like 10x more
             | once they moved from 20 minutes away to a few houses down
             | the street. It was like once every day or 2 vs once every
             | two weeks.
        
             | Nevermark wrote:
             | > In this age, is living next to "10 besties" really
             | needed?
             | 
             | When did "need" become a pre-requisite for doing something
             | you "love"?
             | 
             | In this case, hanging out as adults in a way that reflects
             | many happy childhoods. Where your best friends were all
             | walking distance. Where you could do things spontaneously
             | with them. Spontaneously and regularly do nothing with them
             | (i.e. hang out while doing whatever each of you were going
             | to do anyway).
             | 
             | Look up Ikigai. It's often visualized with a Venn diagram.
             | The point being, the more positive facets that cover your
             | work or life, the more profoundly happy/satisfied you are
             | likely to be. There is no reason to stop adding facets such
             | as "live my daily life with my best friends".
        
           | rockostrich wrote:
           | This comparison feels like it's in _very_ poor taste. The
           | article doesn 't promote any kind of ostracizing and
           | certainly isn't promoting that anyone in the community is
           | forced to be there. Making friends, especially with people
           | who already probably have their own social lives, tends to be
           | a lot harder than maintaining friends. It's completely valid
           | for people who are already in each other's social circles to
           | plan to live close to each other.
           | 
           | My partner and I moved into a house on a pretty secluded
           | street of a very suburban township. There are 5 houses on the
           | block. We're friendly with everyone but we're all in very
           | different periods of our lives. Two of the houses have
           | younger kids, one has older kids, and one is empty nesters.
           | They're all super nice and we're friendly, but none of them
           | are coming over to lift heavy weights in the garage while
           | Creed is blasting.
        
             | all2 wrote:
             | > They're all super nice and we're friendly, but none of
             | them are coming over to lift heavy weights in the garage
             | while Creed is blasting.
             | 
             | Tell me when and where, I'll bring the pre-workout.
        
         | neighman wrote:
         | How can this be interpreted as "tribalism"?
         | 
         | This is simply a response to a lack of resources (time, energy,
         | etc) to develop deep relationships during the stage of life
         | when one can afford permanent housing. Modernity has made this
         | harder than ever before.
         | 
         | If this doesn't apply to you, consider yourself truly
         | privileged.
        
           | jacknews wrote:
           | How can it not be, where you want to build an enclave of
           | 'like' people (alike in friend connections, education,
           | outlook, not only race, which is what you seem to assume).
           | 
           | It's a stage of life where you should be branching out and
           | meeting 'other' people, not just surrounding yourself with
           | college buddies, and further cloistering yourself in that
           | bubble.
        
             | mgfist wrote:
             | > How can it not be, where you want to build an enclave of
             | 'like' people (alike in friend connections, education,
             | outlook, not only race, which is what you seem to assume).
             | 
             | There's a strong implicit assumption here that stranger
             | neighbors are not 'like' people. For the most part, this is
             | not correct. If you buy a $2m home, your neighbor likely
             | also has a $2m home, is also well educated, also has a
             | high-paying job (probably in a similar field to you) and
             | more likely to be the same race as you.
             | 
             | Same if you buy a $100,000 home.
        
             | neighman2 wrote:
             | You're doing way too much assuming on who with, when, and
             | why folks are doing this.
        
           | deadbabe wrote:
           | Friend compounds are typically the ultimate echo chambers. It
           | sounds fun, until you have a vastly controversial opinion.
           | Suddenly, you are no longer a friend, you no longer feel
           | welcome in the very place that you live.
           | 
           | The less you know about your neighbors, the better. They
           | could be whoever you want them to be.
        
         | LightBug1 wrote:
         | Not sure why you're down-voted. This idea, while good hearted,
         | seems nuts.
         | 
         | Venture out into the world, and stay in touch with good
         | friends. Simple?
        
         | javier123454321 wrote:
         | This is a bad take for a few reasons. You are implying that
         | moving close to friends is not 'Living and learning to deal
         | with the rest of society'. That is a false premise.
         | 
         | Second, living in community of close friends is a massive
         | improvement in quality of life for everyone involved. This is
         | as much biological as it is spiritual. You can either do that
         | by becoming close to strangers that live nearby or living
         | nearby people that are already close to you. Given that the
         | average adult from the US moves over 11 times[1] in their life,
         | the solution is self evident.
         | 
         | Lastly, using tribalism here is misguided. That implies a in
         | and out group. Why use that word instead of 'communalism' which
         | implies helping each other.
         | 
         | 1. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/how-many-times-the-
         | aver...
        
       | mgfist wrote:
       | In a time when people are becoming less social and more isolated,
       | I think creating communities like this is super cool.
        
       | atemerev wrote:
       | I am in awe how people can talk about buying 1.8 million homes
       | like it's nothing big.
        
         | Jtsummers wrote:
         | Per the table, that was 4 homes and 5 adults. That's $450k/home
         | and $360k/person.
        
       | tolerance wrote:
       | The people appalled by this practice have good reason to be and I
       | don't think the people who support it are considering the
       | consequences, which aren't necessarily bad but subject to one's
       | own political ideology. And by that I mean the general ideals
       | that a person has on how people should materially cooperate and
       | not some popular label imposed by a two-party system, for
       | example.
       | 
       | I wonder what the responses would be if you asked the people in
       | this "bestie row", their raw opinions on concepts like
       | "diversity", "inclusivity", or whatever.
        
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