[HN Gopher] Using Home Assistant, adguard home and an $8 smart o...
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       Using Home Assistant, adguard home and an $8 smart outlet to avoid
       brain rot
        
       Author : remuskaos
       Score  : 350 points
       Date   : 2025-06-22 20:26 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | remuskaos wrote:
       | Neil Chen just posted this genius idea to disable internet
       | filters for social media addicts:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44346450
       | 
       | I've used his idea and make a home assistant automation that
       | temporarily disables adguard home to do the same thing.
        
         | NWChen wrote:
         | Amazing work & thanks for the shoutout Roman!
        
       | FrankPetrilli wrote:
       | Seeing this, I had the initial idea of using AdGuard logs to
       | trigger a power-down of your device if you try and visit brainrot
       | content. I think I like it that way more.
        
       | stavros wrote:
       | Why is this using a plug rather than a Zigbee button? I don't
       | understand the plug bit.
        
         | rcarmo wrote:
         | The plug has a button, and thus sends out an event when it is
         | manually turned on.
        
           | stavros wrote:
           | Yes, but so does a button, no?
        
             | taude wrote:
             | I think this button is powered by the outlet.
        
               | ryukoposting wrote:
               | Zigbee buttons can last for years on a single coin cell.
               | 
               | I think the smart plug may add a layer of inconvenience,
               | since you have to lean down to the outlet to press it.
               | The inconvenience is a feature in this case, though.
        
             | nomel wrote:
             | It's literally a button, with some extra stuff attached to
             | it. The only requirement for a button is that if it's
             | accessible to the person trying to press it (no pictures
             | posted of that, feel free to assume). But, there's
             | intentional _inaccessibility_ built into this project, so
             | that may be an intentional _goal_.
             | 
             | Thats's the great part about home assistant
             | though...anything that can change states, with
             | intent/meaning, is waiting to be tied to an automation.
        
             | florbo wrote:
             | I'm guessing they already had the plug (I myself have a
             | small stockpile of extra Z-wave/wifi/Zigbee devices for
             | when I inevitably need/want to hook something up), so there
             | wasn't a need to buy something else.
        
             | 0x457 wrote:
             | OP had a socket with a button and decided to use it as a
             | button. Yes button works, but you don't have it, like OP,
             | then socket like that will do. As a bonus, you can put a
             | light bulb that indicates the state.
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | I just had the plug laying around, and since it has a button,
         | it does the job.
         | 
         | But it actually has an advantage: I can plug a small lamp into
         | it. After 14 minutes, the plug switches on and off every 2
         | seconds, indicating that the time runs out, adding a little
         | drama.
        
       | urbandw311er wrote:
       | Nice idea. But it needs to be harder for me to reverse. I think I
       | would very quickly develop the reflex of disabling WiFi on my
       | phone so it loads the site via mobile data.
        
         | mingus88 wrote:
         | Like any addiction, the addict needs to first _want_ to stop
        
           | yunwal wrote:
           | Having the addiction mere seconds away ensures that any
           | addict will not stop, no matter how much they want it. There
           | needs to be enough separation between you and the thing that
           | your rational brain kicks in.
        
         | magarnicle wrote:
         | The trouble I have with all tech-based attempts I've set up to
         | stop myself getting distracted is that it is me versus a much-
         | more-motivated me.
         | 
         | We have the same technical skills but one of us is not going to
         | stop until he wins.
        
         | j45 wrote:
         | You can run a VPN no matter the data connection. And delete the
         | apps and have to reinstall them, or login via web.
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | Yeah, thats just how it was when I completely blocked those
         | services on my network.
         | 
         | My hope is that this gentle nuding towards "come on, you've had
         | 15 minutes, now just wait another 45, please?" is enough of a
         | hurdle. I think it's a moderation tool.
        
         | mikehotel wrote:
         | If you don't mind supervised mode, this can help prevent this
         | bypass: https://www.techlockdown.com/blog/prevent-turning-off-
         | wifi-i...
        
       | suprjami wrote:
       | Glad to see GL-iNet get a mention.
       | 
       | Their routers are OpenWrt compatible by design, the factory
       | firmware is based on owrt or you can flash upstream for a "pure"
       | image. I've used them for many years and they're great.
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | I really like them too. Not only are they OpenWRT compatible,
         | they run more or less stock OpenWRT with a custom UI. They do
         | also expose the standard LuCi for advanced settings too.
        
       | p1necone wrote:
       | I don't know if this'll help anyone else or if it's just specific
       | to me but I'll throw it out there anyway.
       | 
       | Drop the idea that short form content like youtube shorts or tik
       | toks or whatever is somehow ignoble and worthy of scorn.
       | Recognize it's just a fun way to kill some time.
       | 
       | Internalized that? Cool.
       | 
       | Now find a comfy place to sit or lie down and binge that shit.
       | For hours. Do it for as long as it brings you joy. Had your fill?
       | Cool.
       | 
       | Keep doing this, whenever you've got some free time and there
       | isn't something else you want to do more binge that short form
       | "brainrot" content. Do not let the thought that you're somehow
       | "wasting" your time enter your mind. You're having fun, and
       | that's all that matters.
       | 
       | If you're anything like me once you've internalized the idea that
       | it's just dumb short videos for fun and you've watched hours of
       | them, you'll just get bored of it. Maybe you'll spend 20 minutes
       | scrolling occasionally but your brain aint gonna rot.
        
         | OtomotO wrote:
         | That's me circa 2010 when 9gag became really popular.
         | 
         | I used to watch memes and images for hours upon end. Until at
         | some point I just stopped and never did it again.
         | 
         | Over the years people would send some links. I looked at the
         | picture, maybe laughed, and closed the tab.
        
         | markerz wrote:
         | I kind of agree, but the cost is high for young people. I see
         | similar problems between brain rot and junkie snack foods.
         | Older people grew up without this instant gratification and
         | arent used to it the same way young kids are. I grew up with
         | snacks and crave them regularly, but all my older friends don't
         | even think about snacks the same way I do. I think the
         | addictive this fades with the development of your brain around
         | 25 years old, as well as increased life experiences, but the
         | addiction to short form entertainment is strong enough to
         | prevent you from getting other forms of life experiences that
         | would eventually make that content boring and feel
         | unfulfilling.
         | 
         | As an example, I used to watch a lot of dance videos. Recently
         | I started taking dance classes and the videos just hit
         | different now. The bar is so much higher for me to feel
         | impressed because I'm digesting the content much more
         | efficiently now and so much content is just repetition with
         | slight variation.
        
         | Centigonal wrote:
         | oh, I wish. I have spent multiple 16 hour days watching just
         | minecraft youtube videos. I'm an adult with responsibilities
         | and many sources of joy and fulfillment outside of youtube. My
         | personal appetite for mindless internet content appears to be
         | infinite.
        
           | mavhc wrote:
           | Spend time examining your own brain to find out why
        
         | j_bum wrote:
         | I think this is dangerous rhetoric.
         | 
         | I'm glad that _you_ had an experience where you found the
         | corner of your internet to be boring. I do not think this is
         | the common experience.
         | 
         | And simply because _you_ didn't feel impacted by it, does not
         | mean that it's not bad. This is obviously hyperbolic, but your
         | comment reads to me like someone saying, "I used narcotics all
         | of the time when I was younger, and I'm fine now. So everybody
         | chill out." That doesn't mean narcotics are ok.
         | 
         | Social media _does_ change your brain. It doesn't take much to
         | find research on this, but here's an example of a longitudinal
         | study of US adolescents [0].
         | 
         | This type of online content is a form of a non-pharmacological
         | "drug", so to say, as it can dramatically impact reward system
         | connectivity.
         | 
         | [0] https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9857400/
        
         | garrettjoecox wrote:
         | Dopamine receptors fried. Maybe fine for you, but I wouldn't
         | recommend it to anyone, kids especially
        
         | loveiswork wrote:
         | There are helpful nuggets of wisdom here. Also let's
         | acknowledge some people are prone to watch hours of short form
         | content a day, every day, at the expense of everything else in
         | their lives, for a very long consecutive time (of course I know
         | him -- he's me). They really are addicting!
        
         | kaashif wrote:
         | Actually, I've already tried that and found it boring from the
         | start, not just after a few hours. I found context switching
         | between videos to be exhausting, not worth it given the low
         | amount of content per switch, and I prefer vegging out in front
         | of a movie, documentary, or even 30 min YouTube video to be
         | lower effort. This is independent of any consideration of
         | nobility or scorn.
         | 
         | I think the fact that people are scrolling through this stuff
         | and NOT getting bored or tired is interesting, people are
         | different to me in some way I don't understand.
        
           | HeWhoLurksLate wrote:
           | This is probably in the same vein as people finding out they
           | have ADHD by taking drugs at a party and being able to focus
           | for the first time in their lives; you might consider getting
           | a psych eval
        
             | kaashif wrote:
             | You're saying that because I like long form content,
             | movies, and documentaries, I need a psych eval?
             | 
             | I realize that my comment may have been written poorly and
             | I'm sorry. If it was unclear, I meant that I find watching
             | long videos to be lower effort than watching many short
             | videos, one after the other.
             | 
             | Now that that's clear, I will refuse the psych eval and
             | continue with my day.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | I may be wrong, but I think the person who mentioned ADHD
               | is suggesting that you should get checked if you are
               | neurodivergent because you are talking as if your
               | experience is typical but what you describe seems like a
               | pretty big outlier
        
               | kaashif wrote:
               | I don't think anything I have described warrants being
               | evaluated for neurodivergence.
               | 
               | Can we not just say different people are different and
               | call it there?
               | 
               | I know a lot of people that can't stand tiktok and insta
               | reels.
        
               | aaronbaugher wrote:
               | I remember discovering Beavis and Butthead in the 90s and
               | showing it to my parents, and their being more confused
               | than offended by the short (for the time) and scattered
               | 15-minute episodes. I'm pretty sure if you went back 50
               | years and showed TikTok to people who were used to things
               | like Columbo and Loveboat, they'd just be confused and
               | wonder what the point is.
               | 
               | If anything, I'd say the people who enjoy absorbing
               | entertainment in 7-second chunks have been reprogrammed
               | and desensitized in a way that's not normal, though I
               | wouldn't slap any psych labels on them either.
        
         | II2II wrote:
         | For some people, that approach may work. If it does work, it's
         | great since it avoids the mental anguish of beating yourself up
         | (which is damaging in it's own right). That said, I can see two
         | scenarios where it won't work: (a) those who have been dealing
         | with the problem for an extended period of time, and (b) those
         | who replace one counter productive habit with another. At the
         | end of the day, we must face the reality that these products
         | are designed to gain and hold people's attention. They are
         | intended to be psychologically difficult to escape from.
        
           | j45 wrote:
           | Another thing is it can be easier to remove the junk food
           | from the pantry than try to build the discipline and
           | resistance to not eat it sitting there.
           | 
           | That energy can go towards other things.
        
         | spauldo wrote:
         | Perhaps it's just the ones people keep sending me links to, but
         | I've seen nothing to indicate that short-form videos are not
         | worthy of scorn. At best you get a moderately funny joke, but
         | most I've seen either breeze through a topic that deserves a
         | longer format or they present extremely one-sided views of
         | complex topics. The fact they're often used to further drive
         | the political divide that's destroying my country just makes it
         | worse.
         | 
         | Want me to instantly lower my opinion of you? Send me a link to
         | a Tik-Tok.
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | It seems you're already down voted, but I'd like to respond to
         | this comment anyway. Also, I'll rephrase it slightly:
         | 
         | "Drop the idea that drinking alcohol like shots or beer or
         | whatever is somehow ignoble and worthy of scorn. Recognize it's
         | just a fun way to kill some time (and brain cells).
         | 
         | Internalized that? Cool.
         | 
         | Now find a comfy place to sit or lie down and binge that shit.
         | For hours. Do it for as long as it brings you joy. Had your
         | fill? Cool."
         | 
         | The key is moderation.
         | 
         | I'm not against drinking and I'm not against using Youtube,
         | Reddit, Instagram, Hacker News. But I get sucked into it way
         | more that I want, and this is my way of having a nice old lady
         | ask "haven't you had enough, honey?".
         | 
         | Damn, I've spent days on Youtube, not even on "silly" stuff.
         | There's a limitless supply of educational videos, PBS Space
         | Time, Stumpy Nubs, Phil Salmony, DIY Perks.... But I still have
         | a limited amount of hours in a day. Also I have shared
         | responsibility of several humans and animals in this house, I
         | can't just sit idly behind a screen all day (except for the
         | eight hours I get paid to do it).
        
       | userbinator wrote:
       | Distracting yourself from distractions by building an overly
       | complex system to help you do that, and writing an article about
       | it, is certainly a very HN-ish thing to do.
        
         | gerdesj wrote:
         | It is possible that OP has made some parts of the story up or
         | at least sexed it up a bit to jibe with the HN mindset
         | (whatever that is).
         | 
         | I found the article refreshingly short and to the point whilst
         | being jolly amusing and informative. The bloke is German so
         | English is a second language - very good skills.
         | 
         | That's a skilled technical writer, that is.
         | 
         | Bookmarked. More please!
        
           | remuskaos wrote:
           | Thank you, I really appreciate this!
           | 
           | Alas, none of it is made up - honestly. My wife and I kept
           | finding ourselves in the garden on a beautiful day scrolling
           | reddit and instagram for up to an hour, on several occasions.
           | We kind of know we're wasting our time, and we kind of want
           | to, too. It's kind of a constant struggle of uber-me against
           | animal-me and I really hope this moderation tool works how I
           | image it.
           | 
           | After I read Neils post I've completed the entire setup -
           | including blog post - in maybe three hours. So if this keeps
           | me from doom scrolling for an hour at least three times, I've
           | gained some time back.
        
         | cainxinth wrote:
         | We want technological solutions to problems created by
         | technology, and structured approaches to recovering from over-
         | structuring our lives.
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | There is a word for those who believe they cannot live
           | without something, go to whatever means necessary in order to
           | obtain it, even knowing it is harmful, only to find what was
           | once thought an escape is now a prison.
        
             | remuskaos wrote:
             | We prefer the term 'addict', thank you very much.
        
               | xattt wrote:
               | Is there a difference between addiction and compulsion?
        
           | BrenBarn wrote:
           | More flour more water. More water more flour.
        
             | fud101 wrote:
             | More sugar, more salt.
        
           | arcanemachiner wrote:
           | Ted Kaczynski would be proud.
        
           | lm28469 wrote:
           | Hey that's what we do with climate change too! Just one more
           | lanes guys, it's going to solve everything I promise
        
         | nsgi wrote:
         | Sometimes this is the distraction you need - building something
         | just for the sake of it can be oddly grounding
        
         | elric wrote:
         | Modern problems require modern solutions.
         | 
         | But on a more serious note, distraction and focus are difficult
         | topics. When I'm highly motivated, I'm utterly indistractible.
         | When I have to do boring toil, absolutely anything & everything
         | can distract me.
        
           | frereubu wrote:
           | I have recently discovered that hardcore punk (like the album
           | Feel The Darkness by Poison Idea) played at high volume in
           | some headphones really helps me when I have to do those kinds
           | of tasks. My hunch is that is translates my ennui into
           | cathartic anger that I have to do this studpid f__king task,
           | which generates motivation to show it who's boss and I plough
           | through it. YMMV obviously - relies on you enjoying hardcore
           | punk!
        
             | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
             | I call it giving the boredom monkey something to do. As
             | long as he's in the corner enthusiastically banging his
             | little drum I can get stuff done.
        
           | drvhali wrote:
           | Hyperfocus is a defining trait of some types of ADHD and
           | Autism spectrum.
           | 
           | But, don't discount addiction in-general. Social media,
           | internet use, and gaming are some of the things that can
           | provide quick dopamine hits, which is the problem being
           | addressed here.
           | 
           | Adding a button to turn it off for a short-time is like
           | heating just a tiny spoon of heroin and injecting it. No AA
           | sponsor should ever say, "Yeah, it's ok to dip your tongue in
           | that whiskey." That's nonsense.
        
           | anal_reactor wrote:
           | Why aren't you motivated then? Is it because you're aware
           | that most of your work is utterly pointless?
        
           | sigbottle wrote:
           | For me, the issue is, I always know that once I actually get
           | into it it will be fine, but getting started even _for that
           | day_ is a toil.
           | 
           | For all my progress up there both intellectually and as a
           | person, I'm still someone who will just sit in bed for 1 hour
           | before work and watch brainrot instead of getting up and
           | getting ready for work. Or sit in bed reading reddit for a
           | few hours on a weekend before making myself breakfast.
           | 
           | Once I get into it, it's fine, but the thought of spending
           | ~30-45 minutes getting up and properly starting the day is
           | enough to make me procrastinate hours away :(
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | The "problem" is self-regulation, vs having someone else -
             | a parent, a boss with a clipboard and your clock-in thingy,
             | a military commander, etc - tell you what to do when. Self-
             | discipline is hard and requires willpower, and I've always
             | been of the opinion that willpower is a resource, but
             | someone else telling you what to do when doesn't cost as
             | much willpower as motivating yourself.
             | 
             | Blue collar work is better in that regard; you clock in
             | every day at the same time, do a job that doesn't involve
             | computers, often optimized for output so you don't have
             | many lulls of activity, take breaks when the bell goes, and
             | clock out and shut work off completely once you're done.
             | 
             | Meanwhile IT white collar work, especially WFH, requires a
             | lot more self-direction, and since for most people in IT
             | their entertainment is also digital, the boundary blurs by
             | a lot.
             | 
             | Part of me wants a blue collar job.
        
               | denim_vampire wrote:
               | Completely agree. I worked in a factory for a while, and
               | while it was worse in many ways than my current tech job,
               | it was so much easier to just show up and _do_ the work.
        
               | avgDev wrote:
               | I also worked at a factory before transitioning to
               | programming, and can relate to everything you have said.
               | 
               | My research resulted in me getting an ADHD diagnosis. My
               | brain is screwed up. It just has a weird relationship
               | with dopamine and motivation.
               | 
               | Not sure if this would work for you but a low dose
               | Adderall really helps me focus and feel good doing
               | "slower" tasks like work. I would certainly speak to a
               | physician if you haven't already.
               | 
               | I have a child, who is brilliant, and performing great at
               | school but he is already presenting similar symptoms as
               | myself, hopefully I can help him set healthy limits and
               | cope without meds.
        
           | BrandoElFollito wrote:
           | I code for fun and when I have an idea it is difficult for me
           | to start.
           | 
           | The weird thing is that this is for fun, I have no pressure
           | but still need some time to just start. Once I started I can
           | go for a line time.
        
         | dirkc wrote:
         | Distracting yourself by reading and commenting about someone
         | distracting themselves from distractions by building an overly
         | complex system is the ultimate HN thing to do ;P
        
         | _Algernon_ wrote:
         | If you identify a problem behavior then putting extrinsic
         | constraints to manage that behavior seems like a reasonable
         | thing to do. This comment reads like disparaging an ex-smoker
         | for not still walking around with cigarettes in their pocket.
        
           | conductr wrote:
           | I read the article as if it was written by a smoker, that
           | wanted to quit so badly, he engineered a complex machine that
           | would only dispense him a cigarette on a defined and spaced
           | out schedule. Thereby, not quitting at all.
        
         | illiac786 wrote:
         | Much simpler is using nextDNS as ad filter.
         | 
         | But, even AdGuard isn't that complex, I think it's a one time
         | distraction with some maintenance, compared to endless ads
         | eating away at your brain, hours after hours. Worth it I say =)
        
         | smileysteve wrote:
         | Especially when nextdns has a free tier.
        
         | s3p wrote:
         | I love it though!! These kinds of projects are fun to do and
         | attack a real life use case for the creator. I bet he and his
         | girlfriend get good use out of it. If my roommate wasn't so
         | insistent on unfettered access to internet, I'd try to do
         | similar DNS filtering for our apartment.
        
       | polivier wrote:
       | I love Home Assistant.
       | 
       | Many years ago we gave our then-toddler an old digital camera to
       | play with. Some time later, we looked at the pictures he took. We
       | were horrified to find out that he took pictures of the outside
       | of the house at night. As in, our toddler would unlock and open
       | the front door, go outside (at night!), take pictures of the
       | house, go back in, close and lock the door, and go back into his
       | bed. I bought some wireless door sensors and created an
       | automation where if the sensors are triggered between 10pm and
       | 6am, the lights in our room would turn on to wake us up.
       | 
       | I expanded this later and today we have sensors on all
       | doors/windows that kids can use to leave the house (we have 4
       | young kids). As it happens, these are the same doors/windows that
       | burglars can use to enter the house, so this doubles as an alarm
       | system (that we can activate when we leave the house and will
       | notify us remotely if the sensors are triggered).
       | 
       | The best part is that with Home Assistant you are not locked into
       | an app/ecosystem. Our door/window sensors are of a different
       | brand than our lightbulbs, and we control everything from a
       | single app.
        
         | mcgrath_sh wrote:
         | What door/window sensors did you use?
        
           | polivier wrote:
           | I almost went for the Ikea ones, but in the end I went with
           | Aqara. More expensive, but very small/reliable, and the
           | battery holds up very well.
        
             | gerdesj wrote:
             | I put Zwave window sensors on all windows at work (40 of
             | them). These devices have two AAA cells. One of the gent's
             | window sensors used to "die" far quicker than any of the
             | others and eventually stopped working. I should explain:
             | "gent's" := men's toilet.
             | 
             | The sensors are quite large and simple and the gent's
             | windows tend to be left open more often than the other
             | windows. One of the two gent's sit down toilets is
             | generally preferred to the other for very minor reasons but
             | it is preferred.
             | 
             | So, the battery terminals were getting slightly corroded on
             | that window sensor because it was open more often to the
             | outside environment.
             | 
             | I've rubbed a bit of silicone sealant into the crack
             | between the two parts of the sensor and expect that it will
             | survive better now.
        
         | BLKNSLVR wrote:
         | This, for me, is the most interesting part of your comment:
         | 
         | > our toddler would unlock and open the front door, go outside
         | (at night!), take pictures of the house, go back in, close and
         | lock the door, and go back into his bed.
         | 
         | Did you ever ask your toddler why they did this? The thought
         | process, for a toddler, to do that, to want a photo of the
         | outside of the house at night enough to do that. That's some
         | high level curiosity, worth fostering.
         | 
         | One of mine at that age would have had that level of
         | quirkiness, but probably would have been too scared of "the
         | dark" (also, our house already had a security system installed
         | when we bought it, which we still set off accidentally every
         | now and then, so the kids would probably have known that as
         | well).
        
           | litmus-pit-git wrote:
           | Result might not be as expected ;-)
           | 
           | A much younger cousin used to do that -- sans the camera or
           | photo taking part in my village. He could barely talk. When
           | asked around that time and a bit later as well, because it
           | continued, he said something that spooked some in the family.
           | He let us know that she was playing with someone in the large
           | courtyard. Some women in the family (at night after dinner
           | they would all socialise away from work and male intervention
           | relaxed; a very South Asian thing) would remark the way he
           | would sometimes play away in a corner in the gigantic
           | courtyard in the evening (evenings in the city -- in a lot of
           | villages 7-8pm is quite the night) - as if he was playing
           | with someone. Something, at least two more toddlers in the
           | family had attested to before him. They all were teens/adults
           | later at that time. Even the description matched. I was a
           | teen, who stayed in boarding schools, and had been bullied
           | too much and sadly bullied others too much in the guise of
           | ghosts and what not so I didn't believe it, I don't believe
           | it now. But it was weird. I think it is some kind of family
           | memory or shit. My later explanation is/was -- someone scared
           | those kids with such stories so that they won't wander around
           | alone at night and they kind of started living it.
        
           | interloxia wrote:
           | Mine has perfectly sensible reasons from their point of view
           | for a three year old.
           | 
           | Fortunately the problem door has an old security chain held
           | in by by time and wishful thinking but good enough to keep
           | her in for now.
        
           | polivier wrote:
           | I don't recall if we asked him why he did this, but we did
           | make it clear that he should never leave the house alone at
           | his age. Curiosity-wise, however, we generally let our kids
           | explore the world on their own terms as long as it's not
           | dangerous. And "dangerous", in our view, is understood to be
           | "lasting permanent damage" (doing something that can lead to
           | losing an eye is dangerous, doing something that can lead to
           | breaking a finger is not dangerous).
        
         | russdill wrote:
         | you...uh, are not alone
         | https://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2020/09/richard.html
        
           | ljf wrote:
           | What an excellent story! I need to explore the rest of that
           | site now, cheers for the introduction.
        
       | awaymazdacx5 wrote:
       | rasberry pi-5 for HDMI virtualization on a Wayland windows
       | manager column should serve adguard assistance
        
       | tmhrtly wrote:
       | The one thing I've found that works for me on my phone is the
       | OneSec app. It hooks into shortcuts (for apps) and a Safari
       | extension (for websites) to prompt you with a small task to do
       | (eg a 20sec breathing exercise) before you access the softblocked
       | content. The time delay + task is enough for me to remind myself
       | that this isn't what I want to be doing. And in the instances
       | where I actually do consciously want to visit XYZ platform, I can
       | just do the exercise and be granted access.
       | 
       | The only downside is that the Safari extension is granted full
       | access to my web browsing in order to facilitate the website
       | blocking. They say they don't capture any data and at this point
       | do trust them (you may feel differently). For blocking apps, no
       | private data sharing is required.
        
         | johncole wrote:
         | Could I use a shortcut on iPhone to do something similar?
        
         | AdieuToLogic wrote:
         | > The one thing I've found that works for me on my phone is the
         | OneSec app.
         | 
         | Sometimes the simplest solution is the Luddite one; put the
         | phone down and step away from it.
         | 
         | If this appears to be an insurmountable ask, or otherwise
         | infeasible, I humbly suggest there is a greater concern to be
         | addressed than what yet another app on the phone which cannot
         | be distanced may remedy.
        
           | nkrisc wrote:
           | It's too true. If your problem is your phone, the solution
           | won't be found on your phone.
        
           | tmhrtly wrote:
           | I agree, this is the pathway. For me, this is the tool I've
           | found that works to nudge me down that pathway by adding
           | extra friction to the routes to cheap, crap dopamine. Often
           | an interruption from this app is accompanied by my brain
           | going "huh, so what do you really want to use this time
           | for?".
        
         | dsauerbrun wrote:
         | how do you and others get past all the permissions that onesec
         | needs? They say everything remains on device; however, it's a
         | closed source application so there's not really any way to
         | confirm that besides looking at the packets that are going out
         | of your phone.
        
           | atommclain wrote:
           | I don't have this app installed, but I would use the App
           | Privacy Report in settings to inspect the App Network
           | Activity to see what domains it connects to and how often.
           | While not conclusive, I think it could provide some level of
           | insight to whether it's handing off your information or not.
           | Ideally it wouldn't make any network connections.
        
       | varenc wrote:
       | I do something similar but with a global keyboard shortcut on my
       | Mac managed with Alfred. When I hit the shortcut it just changes
       | my system's DNS resolver to 1.1.1.1 and reset the macOS DNS
       | cache. And then automatically switches back in 1 minute or 10
       | minutes depending on the shortcut.
       | 
       | Quite easy, but doesn't help anyone but me. Though I like that it
       | only disables blocking on my device and not my entire network.
        
       | gerdesj wrote:
       | When I specify smart home stuff, I have several criteria. Things
       | like controls must be mains powered or on UPS or both.
       | 
       | If it is important, then if wifi/ethernet out then it should
       | still work. So my doorbell used to have a link to a mechanical
       | chime (Doorbird), the current Reolink jobbie does not but it is
       | PoE and all my switches have UPS. The Reolink does have a
       | separate chime that plugs into a power socket and a way better
       | camera.
       | 
       | Oh and none of my home things ever get unfettered access to the
       | internet. I have two VLANs for IoT: things is for most devices
       | and sewer is for those that scare me somewhat.
       | 
       | I treat the whole thing the same way I do corporate IT and I do
       | point Nessus at it. I have several Home Assistants that I look
       | after - home and work and several customer ones too.
       | 
       | The OP's choice of smart plug is clearly designed to be mildly
       | inconvenient to get at but also reliable. I'll put money on there
       | being a monitoring function too.
       | 
       | That's a nerd that does things "proper like".
        
         | phil21 wrote:
         | > The Reolink does have a separate chime that plugs into a
         | power socket and a way better camera
         | 
         | I started using PoE to DC power adapters for most of these use-
         | cases. It lets me centralize my UPS to the utility closet, and
         | offer a ton of runtime that way. My router + switching setup
         | now powers my entire house including remote switches (PoE++
         | powered) and access points. Security cameras (and slowly now -
         | security floodlights) are PoE powered as well. I have probably
         | 12-14 hours of runtime off a large stack of UPS batteries, and
         | could add a few days to that if I wheel my "whole home" UPS I
         | never had the time to hardwire into the house yet into the
         | room.
         | 
         | Items like the fiber NIU and cable modem are powered via PoE
         | splitters into 9/12/24V outputs they require. I still have a
         | few random bridges and other various devices I should convert
         | as well, but I've been lazy lately.
         | 
         | I went with two lower port count "core" switches vs. one so I
         | have redundancy there, so one going out will only take out half
         | my network and I can still operate in a degraded mode - my AP
         | density is such that it works fine, and I can re-patch the in-
         | wall and PoE powered switches for workstations.
         | 
         | The only issue is that it kind of grows with a mind of it's
         | own... I am up to an absurd number of devices on the network
         | now.
        
           | gerdesj wrote:
           | I live in a UK sticks n bricks two storey roof and a half
           | building. It looks like a bungalow with three bedrooms in the
           | roof on floor one (second floor for the US and other one
           | based countries).
           | 
           | I have two switches in my attic above those bedrooms and most
           | of the rest of IT.
           | 
           | That means I can easily run cable drops along my attic and
           | then under the roof to the outer walls of my house. I've run
           | four Cat 5e to my garage and four to my sitting room.
           | 
           | Basically, I think we are both doing it right.
           | 
           | The biggest criticism of IoT is insecure and unreliable. If
           | you buy any old tat and wire it up to Alexa well that's fine
           | if it hangs together and it mostly does these days. If you
           | squint hard enough, you can forget about Alexa being a bit of
           | a security ... quandry.
           | 
           | There is no such thing as absurd when it comes to automation.
        
       | ricardobeat wrote:
       | Unfortunately there is no way to block websites at the network
       | level (that I know of) as browsers and mobile phones have started
       | using hardcoded DNS resolvers, so the utility of this is limited.
        
         | AdieuToLogic wrote:
         | > Unfortunately there is no way to block websites at the
         | network level (that I know of) as browsers and mobile phones
         | have started using hardcoded DNS resolvers, so the utility of
         | this is limited.
         | 
         | Any network traffic which goes through a gateway under your
         | control can be controlled. DNSSEC[0] can make this more
         | difficult, true, but not impossible as content ultimately
         | originates from an IPv4/IPv6 address and can be dropped by
         | upstream network devices.
         | 
         | 0 -
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domain_Name_System_Security_Ex...
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | I thought I commented on this from my phone, but it seems it
         | didn't go through, so I'll try again.
         | 
         | Most apps I've tried (and browsers too) can be blocked just
         | fine via DNS. The gli.net interface allows "Override DNS
         | Settings of All Clients" and "DNS Rebinding Attack Protection".
         | This way, the router itself is the only resolver actually
         | reachable. Even if I try some manual `dig google.com @1.1.1.1`,
         | I still get the routers result.
         | 
         | The only thing it can't block is DNS over Https. I think that's
         | by design, it seems it's impossible to block that.
        
         | elric wrote:
         | > browsers and mobile phones have started using hardcoded DNS
         | resolvers, so the utility of this is limited
         | 
         | Got a source for that? No phone or browser that I'm aware of
         | uses "hardcoded DNS resolvers". They all use the OS DNS servers
         | which the OS gets from DHCP.
        
           | brynx97 wrote:
           | https://support.mozilla.org/en-US/kb/firefox-dns-over-https
           | 
           | By extension, any application or device could rely on DoH
           | instead of OS-provided or network-provider DNS servers. It is
           | controversial, since it both helps individuals combat ISP or
           | government censorship and also helps bad actors do bad things
           | [1].
           | 
           | [1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNS_over_HTTPS#Analysis_of_D
           | NS...
        
             | elric wrote:
             | DoH in Firefox is off by default (at least in every FF I've
             | ever installed). And it's not hardcoded to any specific DNS
             | server, you can use whichever provider you like.
        
         | ethan_smith wrote:
         | You can still block at network level by configuring your router
         | to intercept all port 53 traffic, redirect DNS-over-HTTPS using
         | firewall rules for known DoH providers, and employ TLS
         | inspection on your gateway for complete control.
        
       | jz10 wrote:
       | NextDNS Privacy and Parental control features works really well
       | for me
        
         | day_visit wrote:
         | I do the same but I'm embarrassed to say sometimes I go into
         | the parental settings and change them to "get my fix". I
         | haven't found an option to "lock" the settings from being
         | changed when I need them most.
        
       | AdieuToLogic wrote:
       | Here is a gradated set of exercises to determine one's phone
       | addiction, if any, in increasing levels of potential difficulty.
       | 1 - on an off day, with no reason to require phone use,
       | put your phone in a dresser drawer for the day and         do not
       | use or look at it.            2 - on an off day, with no reason
       | to require phone use,         put your phone in a dresser drawer
       | for the day and         leave your residence for at least one
       | hour.            3 - leave your phone at home when either meeting
       | friends,         getting lunch, or going to the grocery store.
       | 4 - leave your phone at home when going into the office
       | for one day.            5 - leave your phone in a dresser drawer
       | for an entire         weekend.            6 - leave your phone at
       | home when traveling for more         than a day (vacation,
       | visiting family, etc.).
        
         | myself248 wrote:
         | These are very good. I take phone-free walks around the
         | neighborhood, to the store, downtown for a festival. It feels
         | weird at first, then it's nice.
         | 
         | I took an internet-free vacation last spring, and it was
         | lovely.
         | 
         | While planning the trip, I made sure my old TomTom's built-in
         | maps seemed accurate to what I was seeing online; there wasn't
         | a lot of road-building activity there in the last decade or
         | two. Then I turned off my phone and locked it in the glovebox,
         | there in case of emergency.
         | 
         | Then I took a deep breath, started the car, and headed north.
         | 
         | It was _awesome_ just knowing there was no way a notification
         | could ding, nobody could call me, no news headline could pop up
         | and harsh my mellow. Even if those things didn 't actually
         | happen constantly, simply existing in a state where they
         | _could_ was stressful, apparently, and turning the damn thing
         | off was remarkably cathartic.
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | Reading your story brings joy to my heart, not for any reason
           | other than I can see in my mind's eye what you describe. And
           | it rocks!
           | 
           | Freedom is a gift, not from without, but found from within.
           | 
           | We set ourself free by our choices. And we shackle ourselves
           | by same.
        
           | rrr_oh_man wrote:
           | If you haven't done it, yet: Turn notifications off. All of
           | them. It will improve your life.
        
         | thi2 wrote:
         | The hardest challenge is not using your phone when sitting on
         | the toilet
        
           | zargon wrote:
           | If you sit on the toilet long enough to have time to look at
           | your phone, you should probably address that.
        
             | tapland wrote:
             | If you never do, you'd hopefully be aware that it's
             | exceptional.
        
             | eCa wrote:
             | As an always-sitter, it's always long enough.
        
           | syabro wrote:
           | Old good air freshener label reading
        
             | zikduruqe wrote:
             | Dr. Bronner's soap is good also.
             | 
             | DILUTE! DILUTE! OK!
        
         | mwidell wrote:
         | I also recommend getting an Apple Watch with cellular - that
         | way you can still be reached for emergencies, while not having
         | access to any social media or other distractions. Since I got
         | an apple watch I find myself leaving the phone at home more
         | often.
        
           | shreezus wrote:
           | Agreed - I disabled all non-essential notifications (I don't
           | need Slack pinging my wrist) and have found my watch actually
           | helps me ditch the phone more easily.
           | 
           | I'm still "reachable", but the watch UX is annoying enough
           | that I won't find myself scrolling X etc on it.
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | > I also recommend getting an Apple Watch with cellular -
           | that way you can still be reached for emergencies ...
           | 
           | For people who realistically could require emergency contact
           | (parents of minor children, family members with health risks,
           | etc.) this is a wise recommendation.
           | 
           | However, for those not having these very genuine concerns, an
           | Apple Watch with cellular connectivity (or equivalent device)
           | could engender a placebo effect and mask withdrawal.
        
           | gattilorenz wrote:
           | Wouldn't a dumbphone work better for a fraction of the price?
        
             | jen729w wrote:
             | Your dumbphone can't have your actual phone number as that
             | SIM is in your iPhone, so it's no good for emergency
             | notifications. The reality is that the vast majority of
             | people can't actually use a dumbphone as their daily
             | driver. Society has pushed us past that point.
        
               | eemil wrote:
               | This simply isn't true. Where I live every major operator
               | offers multisim i.e. two (e)sims with the same number.
               | It's primarily used for smartwatches, but they support
               | phones as well.
        
             | mwidell wrote:
             | A dumbphone does not have imessage, dictation, voice memos,
             | timer, and other small things that makes life more
             | convenient. That's why I prefer apple watch.
        
               | bravesoul2 wrote:
               | You could get a few of those with a HN style Rube
               | Goldberg where you set up a VoIP you can call that will
               | do voice to sms, call back timer, etc.
        
         | stiray wrote:
         | Very nice, will use it on my child, but this doesn't cover my
         | case.
         | 
         | I have it as a wallet (those flip cases) so it is always with
         | me. But it can stay in backpack for days without using it,
         | except maybe for calls (to talk with parents after I don't call
         | for weeks :D) and to pay for public transit (huge mess to
         | charge nfc cards). I don't use social networks, chat software
         | (sms excluded) at all, never even registered to fb, cant even
         | remember when was the last time I installed any app.
         | 
         | I consider this a very sane use of phone. It is not addiction,
         | rather satisfying addicted society that is pressuring me to use
         | it.
        
           | j45 wrote:
           | Paying with a watch is a nice alternative too.
           | 
           | Beyond not having the phone with you, I think the real
           | measure is the number of times it's picked up and/or
           | unlocked.
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | > Very nice, will use it on my child, but this doesn't cover
           | my case.
           | 
           | Thanks for sharing your perspective. I need to point out what
           | I originally stated was:                 ... exercises to
           | determine one's phone addiction, if any ...
           | 
           | Note the "if any" qualifier.
           | 
           | You express having no phone addiction and I have no reason to
           | think otherwise. More importantly, I am not going to
           | adjudicate as to yourself or anyone else.
        
             | stiray wrote:
             | Yes, sure, as i said, will practice it on my 15 years
             | old... he probably cant do anything of stated :D
        
         | CGMthrowaway wrote:
         | How does this work when you need a phone for 2fa?
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | > How does this work when you need a phone for 2fa?
           | 
           | See the stipulation of:                 on an off day, with
           | no reason to require phone use
           | 
           | If you "need a phone for 2fa" then that qualifies as a
           | "reason to require phone use."
        
           | AdieuToLogic wrote:
           | > How does this work when you need a phone for 2fa?
           | 
           | Just out of curiosity, suppose you are not on-call for work
           | and it is an observed holiday. Do you foresee the need for
           | two factor authentication for non-work activities?
           | 
           | In other words, is 2fa a requirement for daily life?
        
             | eCa wrote:
             | One example would be Github for personal projects. There
             | are several other use cases where the phone is a factor for
             | logging into services.
        
               | em500 wrote:
               | Git pull a day before, git push a day later? Have we
               | forgotten to do anything without a persistent internet
               | connection 24/7? Or why we'd use a _distributed_ version
               | control system in the first place.
        
               | eCa wrote:
               | It was an example of a use case familiar to many here.
               | Some people use Github for more than just git.
        
               | 0x457 wrote:
               | We also conditioned to make small feature branches. Even
               | my hobby projects force me to go through PR process.
        
             | LeafItAlone wrote:
             | >In other words, is 2fa a requirement for daily life?
             | 
             | I never stay logged into accounts in browsers on my
             | personal devices. And work requires daily auto. So in
             | general if I need to do anything with any accounts, I need
             | 2fa access. And for the phone apps I do stay logged in to,
             | well, they are on my phone.
        
             | timerol wrote:
             | Level 4 is going into the office for a day, so anyone
             | requiring 2fa at work cannot pass that point
        
               | ecb_penguin wrote:
               | There's no need to overcomplicate a silly exercise with
               | rigid rules.
               | 
               | Focus on the intent of the exercise. If you really
               | mentally cannot get past 2FA, then get a hardware token,
               | or a TOTP client on your desktop. Lots of solutions if
               | this is really the hangup.
        
           | rrr_oh_man wrote:
           | 1Password?
        
           | ecb_penguin wrote:
           | You work around it
           | 
           | 1. Get a hardware token
           | 
           | 2. Install a TOTP desktop client
           | 
           | 3. Only use the phone for 2FA
           | 
           | 4. You understand the spirit of the exercise and don't get
           | bogged down by silly rules.
        
         | jskherman wrote:
         | Looks like I just inadvertently skipped to level 4 every
         | workday, due to working inside of a restricted area with lots
         | of proprietary industrial stuff.
        
         | annie_muss wrote:
         | The problem is I know that I am completely addicted, but I
         | cannot stop. I feel like I'm the alcoholic drinking a bottle of
         | vodka a day. I have tried to give up many times but I just
         | can't crack it. Every time I have a good day the next day just
         | slides right back into addiction. I probably average around
         | 5-10 hours of pointless screen time a day (scrolling random
         | youtube clips. Researching items I will never buy. Fantasizing
         | about jobs I can never get. )
         | 
         | I have tried all kinds of blocking software and strategies.
         | Blocking software, however elaborate, never seems to make a
         | different. You find one way or another to get around the block
         | and then after a while turning off the block just becomes part
         | of your muscle memory. The most extreme thing I tried was
         | cutting off the internet to my house and going back to a
         | dumbphone for 6 months. For sure, I probably had less screen
         | time. But I also spent many hours sitting in the station using
         | the public wifi or watching hours and hours of pointless
         | television.
         | 
         | This is a really tough nut to crack. I think there is probably
         | no technological solution to it.
        
           | kolinko wrote:
           | Did you check yourself for adhd?
        
             | annie_muss wrote:
             | I was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago as an adult. I
             | take medication for it and try my best to apply strategies
             | but it is hard going. I wrote down some simple todos at 9am
             | this morning but it's the end of the day now and I've done
             | maybe 30 minutes of focused work and the rest browsing the
             | internet.
             | 
             | The confusing thing is sometimes I have days when I do
             | manage to do work, but I can never see what I do
             | differently on those days to other days.
        
               | kolinko wrote:
               | Did you discuss this with psychiatrist/therapist?
               | 
               | At least for me this is the pattern I had before I had a
               | good enough dose of meds.
        
               | annie_muss wrote:
               | I have spoken to a few therapists. I usually felt pretty
               | good after speaking to them, maybe for a week or so but
               | slip back into my old habits. Unfortunately, where I live
               | therapy is not covered by health insurance so it's hard
               | to afford.
        
               | kolinko wrote:
               | Did they specialise in adhd? The ones that don't often
               | give recomendations that are counter productive.
               | 
               | Also, a good idea is to explain what you're experiencing
               | to the paychiatrist - he may recommend different meds or
               | increasing the dosage.
        
           | omikun wrote:
           | Addiction is not the problem. It is a (poor) solution to a
           | problem. Figure what your underlying problem is and address
           | it first. Without doing that, you are only taking away one
           | solution with no alternative.
           | 
           | For me, I noticed I have no compulsion to surf after hanging
           | out with friends where I have their attention and curiosity
           | and they have mine. It is like an oxytocin surge that
           | depletes overtime and needs recharging. Scrolling is like
           | junk food in that it feels like a recharge but empties as
           | soon as I stop.
           | 
           | I now call up a friend or arrange a hangout if I feel like
           | I'm running low and it's amazing how many friends are
           | delighted to hear from me but then never reach out.
        
             | annie_muss wrote:
             | I think this is a helpful reframing, and I have spent time
             | in my life trying to eliminate any possible issues:
             | Improving nutrition, exercise, socialization etc. But my
             | ability stay focused and work on tasks seems essentially
             | random.
        
             | thomastjeffery wrote:
             | Even if there isn't an underlying problem, the only real
             | way to change a habit is to replace it with a new one.
             | 
             | I have noticed that usually people who make it their
             | mission to _stop_ doing a thing are replacing that thing
             | with the mission itself. This strategy is always bound for
             | failure, because the moment it starts to work for them is
             | the moment they end the mission. This is when, instead of
             | reevaluating their strategy, they punish themselves for the
             | failure to _not do_. The cycle repeats, and the person
             | spirals into rumination about their stress.
             | 
             | I didn't just stop biting my nails. I started trimming them
             | instead.
        
             | conductr wrote:
             | Generally, I think it's boredom. Specifically, many people
             | haven't learned it is a life skill to deal with boredom,
             | instead they constantly find a way be entertained and a
             | phone always within reach offers a great solution to that
             | problem. I say, force yourself to be bored without a phone.
             | Pick up a book, pick up a hobby, go outside, talk to people
             | (meat space), gardening, exercise, etc.
             | 
             | Even people older, like me, who grew up without these
             | things for a good portion of their life. They lost the
             | ability to be bored and need to relearn it.
             | 
             | I personally have always refused to get sucked into the
             | phone. Never turned notifications on, never cared about
             | social media, etc. I don't like video'ing the concert I'm
             | attending. I like being present and I love being bored.
        
           | rightbyte wrote:
           | Have you tried mounting the phone to a wall or something when
           | at home?
           | 
           | I figure the accessibility of phones are what makes the
           | mindless scrooling habit so dangerous.
           | 
           | I mean I keep my beer in the garage to not drink as much.
        
           | abyssin wrote:
           | One solution to how easy it is to get around self-inflicted
           | blocks could be to find someone that agrees to manage your
           | phone using the parental features. Personally I haven't found
           | someone who I feel I could trust with such a power over me.
           | Maybe a solution would be to pay somebody.
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | > watching hours and hours of pointless television
           | 
           | This is the thing; the brain is not actually comfortable just
           | sitting idle with the reins slack. There's got to be some
           | stimulus. I don't think there's any real solution other than
           | finding a displacement activity. I know somebody who weaned
           | themselves off smoking by developing a Gameboy Tetris
           | addiction instead.
           | 
           | Other than going out and trying to be social, there's a whole
           | range of "something to do with your hands" activities. If you
           | take up knitting then at least at the end of it you have a
           | scarf. Myself, I'm trying to train myself to open one of the
           | language learning apps every time I think I'm spending time
           | scrolling.
        
           | wltr wrote:
           | My solution to this was substitute one thing for another.
           | E.g. instead of visiting Facebook, I visit hacker news. But
           | since I just hate most of the posts, comments, ycombinator
           | and dang personally, I tend to spend much less time here.
           | It's less engaging than flashy Instagram, Facebook, or real
           | news websites, so I'm less addicted. Over time, it's easier
           | to fight the smaller addiction. Given this HN example, I
           | still can spend hours reading comments to some active topic,
           | but when I see some sheer stupidity, I realise 'hey, I'm just
           | wasting my time here!' And it's easier to close the tab and
           | go back to the real world.
        
           | littlecranky67 wrote:
           | Try to parental software and put the code into a time-lock
           | like lockmeout.online - there is no way to bypass that or
           | circumvent your way around it if you do it right in the first
           | place.
        
         | leokennis wrote:
         | This is a good one. My phone is my memory. If I ever need to be
         | without a phone, I 100% need to carry a notebook and pen. And
         | likely a camera.
        
           | rrr_oh_man wrote:
           | > If I ever need to be without a phone, I 100% need to carry
           | a notebook and pen. And likely a camera.
           | 
           | Try it once a week. It will improve your life immeasurably.
        
         | franga2000 wrote:
         | I guess it's a good test for something, but I wouldn't call
         | that something "phone addiction". I think wanting to be
         | reachable by friends and family is fine and "addiction" starts
         | when you start compulsively _using_ your phone, like if you 're
         | scrolling through [insert social media here].
         | 
         | And phones are much more than content consumption machines - I
         | like having a little pocket camera with me in case a see a new
         | cat in the neighbourhood or something, and looking up bus
         | schedules, renting city bikes, calling a cab, etc. are things I
         | all but need to be able to do when I'm out.
         | 
         | My trick to almost never looking at my phone has been, somewhat
         | ironically, having a smartwatch, as well as carefully curating
         | the notifications I get on my phone. If I know I can't miss an
         | important notification, I'll never even look at my phone, so
         | there's no chance I even see one of those time wasting apps.
         | And when a notification buzzes on my wrist, I can see in a
         | fraction of a second if it's something really important or if
         | it can wait.
        
           | jszymborski wrote:
           | Smartwatches similarly have had the same effect for me and I
           | can anecdotally recommend it.
           | 
           | I think another thing to consider is having ways for people
           | to reach you _without_ your cell phone. For instance, I have
           | a home phone, and calling my cell also rings that home phone.
           | You could set up something similar if you have an office
           | phone, or using a softphone on your desktop. That leaves you
           | with instances where you leave home or the office, which are
           | honestly cases where I'm personally least likely to look at
           | my phone because I'm usually doing things that occupy my full
           | attention (unless I'm commuting where I'm often reading a
           | book on my phone).
        
           | Ajedi32 wrote:
           | Yeah, this feels to me a bit like trying to find out if
           | you're addicted to indoor plumbing by committing to not
           | flushing your toilet for a week.
           | 
           | Maybe if we were talking about social media or some other
           | non-essential service _on_ my phone, but the phone itself is
           | hard to do without because of its practical utility, not
           | because of addiction.
        
         | bravesoul2 wrote:
         | 7. Keep your Nokia 3210 with you at all times
        
         | blitzar wrote:
         | > in increasing levels of potential difficulty
         | 
         | Level 0 or 100 depending on the person: take your phone with
         | you and just don't a) look at it every 5 minutes, b) reply to
         | incoming messages instantly or c) check in to see what some
         | pointless celebrity posted in the last 3 minutes.
        
         | theoreticalmal wrote:
         | I feel like I always "need" my phone, as it is my car key,
         | workout tracker, garage door opener, baby monitor, and HVAC
         | controller. Obviously I could have separate physical devices
         | for all those tasks, but the whole reason I run my homelab is
         | so that I can control them from one portable item that's always
         | on me
        
         | BeFlatXIII wrote:
         | Interestingly, I'd find #1 to be significantly harder than 2
         | and about half the scenarios in 3 [waiting for friends and
         | would make me nervous without real time updates].
         | 
         | The temptation is too great to get bored and check my phone
         | when I'm in the house with it.
        
           | littlecranky67 wrote:
           | You can set the phone unlock code to a very long combination
           | and put the unlock code into a time-lock [0]. No temptation
           | there, yet you can still take calls and make outgoing calls
           | (using Siri or Assistant), use the camera etc.
           | 
           | [0]: lockmeout.online
        
         | ec109685 wrote:
         | I don't think addiction is the right way to look at it.
         | 
         | I think most people can easily do all the way through #6 if
         | they put their mind to it. It's not a physical addiction.
         | 
         | The real cost is when you're not intentionally trying to
         | deprive yourself. Do you gravitate back to unhealthy (at least
         | the way you define it) behaviors?
        
         | noisy_boy wrote:
         | Most of the time, I don't carry a wallet so I just use my phone
         | to tap and pay at the store. To get to the store, I use my
         | phone on the bus to tap and buy ticket. To get back into my
         | residence, I need to use the app on my phone to open the main
         | gate as well as access the lift.
         | 
         | I can still do the first two without the phone but my housing
         | society has eliminated physical cards with basically zero
         | consultation.
         | 
         | It is basically a losing battle.
        
         | Exoristos wrote:
         | Your tests may work on plebs, but I have a smartwatch.
        
         | wildpeaks wrote:
         | A good compromise is to set apps to use only wifi and disable
         | data mode of the SIM card, this way you don't receive
         | notifications when you're outside without sacrificing the
         | ability to call for support in case of emergency or simply take
         | photos to capture a fleeting moment.
        
         | subscribed wrote:
         | 7: don't have breakdown when travelling to your family without
         | phone.
        
           | moffkalast wrote:
           | Yeah if there's a thing I could advise anyone is do not leave
           | the one thing that combines literally everything one could
           | need in an emergency and everyone relies on and expects you
           | to have, at home.
           | 
           | If there's every a solid reason to use a phone it's when
           | travelling.
        
       | weq wrote:
       | Modern day methadone maintainence plan. So many people in this
       | world need this button! Goodluck on your journey!
       | 
       | I quite tech at home when i started working as a software
       | engineer over 20yrs ago. Hobbies are a great way to break free,
       | and quitting news fullstop is another good way to avoid social
       | media. You dont even need to delete your accounts, just turn off
       | all notifications of every app and avoid coupling your life to
       | them in any way.
        
       | cdg007 wrote:
       | I'm down with innovations
        
       | alkonaut wrote:
       | I'm sure there's no amount of ads or social media that will rot
       | your brain faster than trying to do programming in YAML.
        
         | tigrezno wrote:
         | With homeassistant you don't need yaml for 99% of automations.
         | I'm sure OP posted the source code of the automation but used
         | the graphical UI to make it.
         | 
         | You also have the possibility to use Node-Red for that.
        
           | alkonaut wrote:
           | I have used HA quite a bit and been burned. I think in the
           | choice between graphical "no code" or "low code" and yaml, I
           | choose yaml. But to do imperative logic there is just one
           | useful way: a proper programming language.
           | 
           | This is just like when writing CI scripts for GitHub actions
           | or Azure pipelines: the right amount of yaml (if it must be
           | used at all) is to just invoke a program in some more
           | expressive language than yaml.
        
             | bmicraft wrote:
             | Depending on when that was, it might make sense to try it
             | again. I've got 25+ actively used automations and none of
             | them need custom yaml anymore. Things really are
             | continuously improving with every passing year.
             | 
             | I do use the (jinja) value templates in some places though.
        
       | cess11 wrote:
       | Conditioning oneself like some kind of lab rodent is unlikely to
       | avoid brain damage.
       | 
       | Shame has a better and longer track record.
        
       | roscas wrote:
       | "The internet is the bane of my existence. Ads, distractions,
       | sponsored content, bad news, bad ideas, more ads, social media,
       | antisocial media, even more ads." that is call for Pi-Hole on a
       | Raspberry PI install. Wide block of ads and dns firewall all in
       | one, without any "free trial" from AdGuard. I wonder what is
       | their default "white list"...
        
       | baggachipz wrote:
       | This is so much easier to accomplish with a pi-hole and the
       | pihole remote app[1]. Block requests out to forbidden sites at
       | the network level, disable the pihole for an amount of time when
       | you want to slum it.
       | 
       | [1] https://apps.apple.com/us/app/pi-hole-remote/id1515445551
        
         | remuskaos wrote:
         | Well the inconvenience is kind of the point. I don't want
         | another app on my phone to allow me to indulge.
         | 
         | The point is that I have to walk, physically move, to the
         | corner where the plug is, push the button and be allowed to
         | procrastinate. That is the design hurdle, not so high as to
         | block completely, but just high enough that I don't get sucked
         | into the endless feed each time I'm bored.
         | 
         | Edit: Also I want the granularity. Ads should always - without
         | exception - be blocked. Social media should be allowed on
         | demand and within the rules.
        
       | hydrogen7800 wrote:
       | I did something more low tech, but much more expensive. Not that
       | I have the tech chops to do anything more sophisticated than
       | install pihole (with help), though. I bought a 2001 E39 BMW that
       | requires some work. I still doomscroll too much, but half is now
       | about this car and car repair in general.
        
       | neurostimulant wrote:
       | An ikea tradfri on/off switch seems better for this purpose. I
       | think the one with just on/off switches is discontinued as it's
       | no longer listed in their website, and it has steep discount in
       | their brick and mortar stores, cost <$8 the last time I grabbed
       | one.
        
       | orsenthil wrote:
       | Does anyone know how to block ads in Amazon Prime Videos?
        
         | e40 wrote:
         | My serious answer to this is to torrent the content.
        
       | rlue wrote:
       | Great concept. But author, if you're reading this: a piece like
       | this could be so much better with a quick summary of what it does
       | somewhere in the first two paragraphs. Something like:
       | 
       | "I've leveraged my home automation system to limit my access to
       | social media to 15 minutes at a time, no more than once an hour.
       | Using the built-in adblock feature, my router black-holes DNS
       | queries to social media by default--which I can now disable
       | temporarily by pushing the button on any one of several smart
       | outlets around my house."
        
       | BrandoElFollito wrote:
       | I must have missed something, but why not just using a zigbee
       | button to trigger the 15 min of open internet?
        
       | guluarte wrote:
       | I have found that the problem with smart home automation is that
       | it suddenly stops working after an update, and fixing it becomes
       | annoying, and when you have multiple triggers and routines you
       | lose track of what activated what.
        
         | bmicraft wrote:
         | That's not really true with home assistant. The two exceptions
         | are devices which                 - require third party cloud
         | services       - use custom integrations (because they aren't
         | natively supported by HA)
         | 
         | Which is also why everybody and their dog recommend getting
         | devices which support local control.
        
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