[HN Gopher] Dystopian tales of that time when I sold out to Google
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       Dystopian tales of that time when I sold out to Google
        
       Author : stego-tech
       Score  : 201 points
       Date   : 2025-06-06 13:36 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | nickdothutton wrote:
       | > It did not even occur to me that it was all a scam, that
       | everyone else knew it was all a scam and the actual point was to
       | get rich.
       | 
       | I feel that as a GenX'er I should now dispense some wisdom to
       | Millenials and Zoomers about life, but I just don't have the
       | energy. Read Gaetano Mosca.
        
         | usrnm wrote:
         | Millenials are not young anymore, haven't been for some time.
         | We know.
        
           | officeplant wrote:
           | >Millennials are not young anymore
           | 
           | As a middle of the pack Millennial (late 30s) Its wild to
           | think I'm older than my Dad was when he introduced me to
           | Slashdot as a young teen.
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | Some of us are in our 40s. We know how shit works. Almost
         | everyone can fall into the trap of telling yourself that "it's
         | not that bad", "this is how it's suppose to work" or "If it was
         | that bad it would be illegal/have been shutdown", only to later
         | get wiser and see it scam, fraud or just the darker side of how
         | some companies operate.
        
         | rdlw wrote:
         | Thank you o wise one, may you rest and gather enough mana to
         | dispense your wisdom next time you comment.
        
       | udev4096 wrote:
       | > What is crypto mining if not a textbook Captain Planet villain
       | scheme--to kill and raze and destroy for nothing but imaginary
       | tokens proving that you did lots of killing and razing and
       | destroying?
       | 
       | Are you serious? You complain about the 2008 crisis and
       | capitalism and yet completely neglect the true purpose of crypto?
       | No wonder you drank the Google kool-aid
        
         | waterlaw wrote:
         | What's the true purpose of crypto? It can be used to escape the
         | banking system?
        
           | roenxi wrote:
           | Asset that can't be involuntarily taken away or printed by a
           | government.
        
             | ecshafer wrote:
             | It seems like Crypto _can_ be taken away by the government.
             | If the government orders you to give up your crypto they
             | will just throw you in a cell until you comply. Or as it
             | happening more and more often, a guy with a wrench
             | persuades you to give it up.
        
               | axus wrote:
               | Only if you are "legible" to them.
        
               | koolala wrote:
               | It blew my mind they did that with Gold in the US. It's
               | really scary what were are capable of.
        
               | zzo38computer wrote:
               | Maybe barter should be better, then.
        
             | ceejayoz wrote:
             | Sure it can.
             | 
             | https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdny/pr/us-attorney-
             | announces-h...
             | 
             | > On November 9, 2021, pursuant to a judicially authorized
             | premises search warrant of ZHONG's Gainesville, Georgia,
             | house, law enforcement seized approximately 50,676.17851897
             | Bitcoin, then valued at over $3.36 billion. This seizure
             | was then the largest cryptocurrency seizure in the history
             | of the U.S. Department of Justice and today remains the
             | Department's second largest financial seizure ever.
             | 
             | Having you physically within their jurisdiction (and/or
             | drone strike reach) permits quite a bit of leverage. As the
             | XKCD comic notes... https://xkcd.com/538/
        
         | oldjim69 wrote:
         | >the true purpose of crypt
         | 
         | Fraud?
        
           | udev4096 wrote:
           | Clearly there are way too many bad actors now which makes it
           | seem like a fraud to anyone from the outside
        
             | jjulius wrote:
             | You've essentially just backed up the quote from your first
             | post with this comment.
        
             | jvanderbot wrote:
             | A system that enables a proliferation of fraudsters _might_
             | have an inherent flaw that needs addressing.
        
               | udev4096 wrote:
               | As if the banking system is any better. How can any
               | legitimate payment system which has no cryptographic
               | operations, is highly centralized, where the money can be
               | printed out of thin air and way too many other reasons,
               | be taken seriously?
        
               | rjbwork wrote:
               | Somehow 99.999% of the world's economy takes place upon
               | it. Is all economic activity from the advent of banks to
               | now not to be taken seriously?
        
               | derektank wrote:
               | Because it works, and we've developed massive
               | institutions (the federal reserve, FDIC, SWIFT, credit
               | rating agencies, and other financial market utilities) to
               | keep it working in a way that benefits the vast majority
               | of people that use money
        
               | jvanderbot wrote:
               | I'm so glad to witness the evolution from "Revolutionize
               | finance" to "No worse than banking _most of the time_ ,
               | right?"
        
           | x0x0 wrote:
           | But what about theft?
        
           | praptak wrote:
           | Fraud is a tiny sliver and it would be unfair to judge crypto
           | on that alone. There's also ransomware, extortion, payments
           | for drugs and theft by North Korea hackers.
        
             | oldjim69 wrote:
             | Touche! They have gotten so innovative with it
        
             | kjs3 wrote:
             | You missed arms dealing, human trafficking and sanctions
             | avoidance, but then there seems to be a lot of cryptobros
             | who would think those are features not bugs.
        
         | mmsc wrote:
         | >the true purpose of crypto
         | 
         | What's the latest version of this one these days?
        
           | Filligree wrote:
           | "Enabling the Dark Economy" is one I've heard.
        
         | jes5199 wrote:
         | avoiding monetary control policies?
        
         | chc4 wrote:
         | It does seem slightly silly that a through-line of the article
         | is disgust at societal power dynamics and surveillance, and
         | then not recognize that Bitcoin and other proto-
         | cryptocurrencies were invented by anarchist cypherpunks as a
         | solution to the same thing in the monetary system.
        
           | mavhc wrote:
           | Did it work?
        
             | chc4 wrote:
             | "Privacycoins" exist and lots of anarchist cypherpunks are
             | able to use them to buy drugs, so I'm liable to say yes
        
             | udev4096 wrote:
             | Not for you. Come to think of it, a monetary system which
             | is designed on cryptographic operations would never be
             | truly understood by people who love being oppressed and
             | thrive under the mass surveillance of the banking system.
             | You are just a stupid pawn
        
               | monooso wrote:
               | If only we were all as smart and enlightened as you.
        
           | windowshopping wrote:
           | The author of this article is not slamming the authors of the
           | protocol. They're criticizing what it became and what it's
           | used for now. There's a difference.
           | 
           | You can not seriously claim that this modern incarnation of
           | Bitcoin is what was originally intended. That would be
           | ridiculous.
        
       | meesles wrote:
       | Very well-written. My main takeaway and constant reminder is that
       | our privilege, no matter the size, usually comes at someone's
       | expense.
        
         | oulipo wrote:
         | Exactly, and it's funny because here everytime we discuss the
         | impact of AI on vulnerable population, be it for taking jobs /
         | increasing CO2 consumption / destabilizing politics, there's
         | always a rich white guy with his cushy programmer job saying
         | "but I don't understand, to me all this AI stuff is nice, I can
         | work even more comfortably"...
        
           | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
           | I don't think I have ever seen someone on HN dismiss concerns
           | about AI's impact on other people by saying it's good for
           | them personally. I think you have a stereotype of a white guy
           | with a cushy programmer job in your head, and you hear him
           | saying this when other people of various races say other
           | things.
        
             | wizardforhire wrote:
             | Oh my friend, you are visiting a different hn than a lot of
             | us. I nearly got in a flame war yesterday with a noob and
             | had to step back because of the density, caught my self
             | being bated by a potential troll. Their argument was
             | exactly what you're claiming to have not seen.
             | 
             | To be fair I never stereotyped them even in my mind. But
             | the audacity and dismissal of others was very bating.
             | 
             | I did my best but still a very poor job of arguing and had
             | to step away.
        
           | MisterTea wrote:
           | > there's always a rich white guy with his cushy programmer
           | job saying "but I don't understand, to me all this AI stuff
           | is nice, I can work even more comfortably"...
           | 
           | How do you know they are white?
        
       | jes5199 wrote:
       | > Like most employees I blamed myself for not working hard enough
       | to get good compensation
       | 
       | ohh. I feel like I understanding something about my peers now
       | that I had not caught onto before
        
       | dunkelheit wrote:
       | I just love how John Patience became Dzhona Peishensa, like it is
       | some exotic slavic woman's name.
        
         | selimthegrim wrote:
         | Wait until you hear how USSR VLKSM used to denounce the "KLESh"
         | in posters.
        
       | Aeroi wrote:
       | hmm, disagree with many of the takes in here, although some
       | sentences of insight and truth.
        
         | fsflover wrote:
         | Can you elaborate?
        
       | sa-code wrote:
       | > You cannot make people work for you and hoard all the profits
       | while they are stuck with fixed salaries, without in the process
       | developing strong feelings on why you're entitled to do that and
       | how they deserve it actually.
       | 
       | I wonder why we don't see more software engineering co ops?
        
         | pclmulqdq wrote:
         | Because people don't like risk and if they can make a boat load
         | of money without risk they would rather do that than make 10
         | boat loads of money with risk.
        
         | rjbwork wrote:
         | A combination of a persistent strain of rugged individualist
         | libertarian attitudes and ego. Everyone thinking we're better
         | than everyone else and if only we could be in charge everything
         | would be better than if those other idiots were prevents the
         | kind of solidarity needed to do co-ops or professional
         | associations or partnerships like lawyers.
        
         | cj wrote:
         | Code doesn't make engineers money.
         | 
         | Selling the code does.
         | 
         | Engineers typically aren't very good sales people.
        
           | teaearlgraycold wrote:
           | Why not have a marketer at the co-op?
        
         | roenxi wrote:
         | That is how a lot of software engineering firms run in practice
         | - the good engineers have buy in through stock options.
         | 
         | A lot of engineers are replaceable though. They get less stock.
        
           | neves wrote:
           | Meritocracy
        
             | Zardoz84 wrote:
             | the myth of
        
         | ujkhsjkdhf234 wrote:
         | Co-ops amplify the people problems and you are now locked in a
         | room with people who know how to code but don't know how to
         | make money.
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | Annoyingly this is a hard concept to search because co-op is
         | also another word for, basically, an internship.
        
         | tomrod wrote:
         | I believe Spain does this.
        
         | JackFr wrote:
         | Because someone has to put up the money. And the people who put
         | up the money want a return on it, or they will put their money
         | somewhere else.
        
         | jeffbee wrote:
         | Imagine having 2 or more of the OP in the same organization,
         | raging at each other about a tiny, perceived difference in
         | outlook. You can easily have software engineering partnership
         | but it's clear that a person like the OP would destroy _any_
         | organization, no matter the structure, which is probably why
         | they describe themselves as an anarchist (i.e. a person with a
         | life-long inability to adapt to any give context).
        
           | Ylpertnodi wrote:
           | >OP would destroy any organization, no matter the structure,
           | which is probably why they describe themselves as an
           | anarchist (i.e. a person with a life-long inability to adapt
           | to any give context).
           | 
           | Hardly 'anarchist'.
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | Because people who would support a coop and write posts like
         | these usually end up being disastrous company leads. Then add
         | multiple of them and committees.
        
       | arolihas wrote:
       | Oh yeah the horror of not being able to go behind your boss's
       | back in a company email. The tragedy of being ignored when
       | bringing up office equipment in a discussion about saving costs
       | in a tech platform. The inhumanity of having workers hired to
       | make food and do dishes on a Friday. The absolute gall to be
       | asked a question about the identity you are proud and obnoxiously
       | open about. What a dystopia, Brazil would have been better off
       | without Google definitely, if only they had polyamorous
       | anarchists running things.
        
         | the_cat_kittles wrote:
         | all the instances they discussed highlight the contrast between
         | what google presented itself as, vs what it actually was. i
         | dont think this person is asking for sympathy, i think they
         | hate google for trying to pretend its anything different than
         | any other big profit seeking enterprise. sounds like you are
         | well on your way to the hostility the author very succinctly
         | describes
        
           | kurthr wrote:
           | And yet, there are much more pernicious elements to dystopia
           | Google has become and ways that it perpetuates them through
           | the efforts of people just like this so that they can
           | literally have a "free lunch". These are the type of
           | complaints that minimize the actual failure of "don't be
           | evil" as implemented by their very efforts. Personnel minutia
           | distract from the Orwellian prize.
        
             | calcifer wrote:
             | > Personnel minutia distract from the Orwellian prize.
             | 
             | The "minutiae" you so casually refer to are _people_. The
             | OP understands that:
             | 
             | > The "campus" was pretty open and my then-wife visited it
             | a few times; it creeped the Fuck out of her, the
             | distinction between people and non-people.
        
               | kurthr wrote:
               | Actually, no. Anyone can be "creeped the Fuck out" about
               | anything anywhere. It's their right. That's "just like
               | uh, your opinion, man". One can be annoyed by business
               | processes, vaguely offended by decor, or the stiffness of
               | the uniforms at Dachau, and it's kind of irrelevant.
               | 
               | I'll try to be more clear. This reads like reality TV
               | drama when there are bigger things going on. It misses
               | the dark forest for the brown weeds.
               | 
               | To me the bigger point really IS the corporate
               | dehumanization, but the details (other than the white
               | gringos laughing about layoffs) distract from the deeper
               | issues and sound more like gripes of a coddled coder than
               | real criticism. When an individual is more concerned with
               | their own personal jokes/disses than the work they're
               | doing, you get folks at Enron joking about turning off
               | "GrandMa Millie's" electricity in profitable, but
               | unnecessary rolling blackouts.
               | 
               | They actually sold out.
        
           | arolihas wrote:
           | Thank you :)
        
             | redczar wrote:
             | The "obnoxiously open about" part of your post says much
             | about you. Your post would have been much better without
             | that part.
             | 
             | Google was "obnoxiously open about" do no evil and the
             | other stuff described in the blog post. It's natural for
             | people who bought into those lies to react accordingly.
             | Nothing in the blog post suggests a belief that polyamorous
             | anarchists would be better at running things.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | Yeah it says that I think she sounds obnoxious. Google's
               | PR was also annoying. Considering she calls it a dystopia
               | and her usage of Marxist terms I do think she believes
               | that she has better ideas about how society should work.
               | Saying nothing in the blog could suggest that is absurd.
        
               | ranyume wrote:
               | It's easier to know how things "should not work", and
               | that's a good thing. At least knowing what is not right
               | you're allowed to do a quarter of a step in the right
               | direction. Being an anarchist herself, I don't think
               | she'd know how things should be, only how it should not
               | be.
        
               | redczar wrote:
               | You didn't say she sounds obnoxious. You said she is
               | obnoxiously open about her identity. The phrasing you
               | used says much about you.
               | 
               | Nothing in the post suggests that polyamorous anarchists
               | would be better at running things. The post suggests that
               | there are things Google didn't live up to in terms of
               | what it claimed about itself. You should try to analyze
               | things unemotionally. Perhaps then you wouldn't make such
               | obviously bad conclusions.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | Well let me be clear, I think she sounds obnoxious in
               | general too. What does that say about me?
               | 
               | I think pretty much every example given in this story is
               | pretty typical and in line with the expectations a sane
               | person should have when deciding to work at a large
               | corporation. Clearly the author didn't like it, and I
               | think it's fairly obvious that the author thinks Google
               | should have done things differently. If that reads as too
               | emotional on my end for you I am sorry but I can't help
               | but be a human being.
        
               | redczar wrote:
               | You do have a capacity to misread and draw the wrong
               | conclusion. The emotional part of your original response
               | refers to the "obnoxiously open" about her identity
               | statement and your ending sentence regarding polyamorous
               | anarchists being better about things. Your biases
               | interfered with your interpretation of what she wrote.
               | Your original post would have been much better had you
               | kept these parts out of your response.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | All interpretations are biased, thanks for letting me
               | know what you like and dislike about my post.
        
               | redczar wrote:
               | Yes all interpretations are biased. Not all elucidations
               | expose those biases to the reader. You had the right
               | amount of sarcasm for most of your post but then brought
               | in references to gender identity that were not germain to
               | your points. They were needless digs that detracted from
               | your main points.
               | 
               | Yes, she did bring up the part about being asked for
               | terms her community uses. She came across as irrational
               | in this part. It's best to just leave it alone or mention
               | how she came across irrational without saying she is
               | "obvious" about her identity. That line took away some of
               | your credibility. At least to me. I could be wrong.
        
               | dingnuts wrote:
               | Your comments tell me you're pretty obnoxious in general
        
           | hattmall wrote:
           | There's a quote, at least from the movie, where Zuckerberg
           | calls people "dumb fucks." I honestly have to think the same
           | about anyone that seriously bought into a corporation putting
           | "do no evil" in a mission statement.
           | 
           | It is simply not possible to extract billions of dollars
           | unless you have ascended above the idea of not fucking people
           | over.
        
         | axus wrote:
         | Radical transparency doesn't mean you get to say negative
         | things!
        
           | JackFr wrote:
           | I believe what he likely meant (though not what he said), was
           | that radical transparency shouldn't be taken as a license to
           | be an asshole.
           | 
           | I say that as a manager of narcissistic assholes who are
           | always "brutally honest" and feel that their honesty excuses
           | their brutality.
        
           | Aunche wrote:
           | You can't have radical transparency without a blameless
           | culture. Calling someone out in the open is in bad taste
           | anywhere. It's also common sense. As Omar says, "If you come
           | at the king, you best not miss." It's possible that the
           | author really did just write an innocuous post criticizing
           | recruiting practices, but I don't see why their the manager
           | would single out the boss if that were the case.
        
             | dsr_ wrote:
             | The negative thing being described was the inability of 95%
             | of the engineers to use the 20% time which was being
             | described by the company as a general perk.
             | 
             | "The company is deceiving people and should reconsider
             | messaging to reflect reality" is not a personal attack;
             | even in a "blameless" culture, you are expected to note
             | that the causal chain includes "Dave hit the wrong button,
             | which should not have happened because we should have
             | safeguards on the button and reviews to make sure we have
             | safeguards on all the expensive/dangerous buttons." Sorry,
             | Dave.
        
               | jeffbee wrote:
               | 20% time was always for the high performers who can do
               | 100% of their work in 80% of the time.
        
               | Aunche wrote:
               | That's what she portrayed it as, but it doesn't pass the
               | smell test. Why would a manager be yelled at for company
               | wide statistics? This and all the other aggressive
               | framing suggests to me that she's not a reliable
               | narrator. If everywhere you go smells like shit, maybe
               | it's time to check your shoes.
        
         | jplusequalt wrote:
         | >The absolute gall to be asked a question about the identity
         | you are proud and obnoxiously open about
         | 
         | >if only they had polyamorous anarchists running things
         | 
         | This comment comes off as highly reactionary.
        
           | bigstrat2003 wrote:
           | Using "reactionary" as a boo light is not a substantive
           | comment. If you think he's wrong, argue why rather than just
           | going "ew, right wing".
        
             | Supermancho wrote:
             | > if only they had polyamorous anarchists running things
             | 
             | The straw man is obvious. There was no coherent argument to
             | be made against a constructed absurdity.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | She says she is a polyamorous anarchist...
        
               | margalabargala wrote:
               | That she is one, is fact. That she claimed she or people
               | like her should be running things, is an imagined
               | strawman.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | Not really. She clearly thought that Google was doing
               | things wrong and that her suggestions to make them better
               | and correct them weren't sufficiently heard.
        
               | margalabargala wrote:
               | Yeah, because Google at that time claimed to be the sort
               | of company that _would_ listen to complaints. Being upset
               | with a company for not following their own publicly
               | stated policies, e.g. the bait and switch of  "20% time"
               | plus "we're assigning you at least 40 hours work per
               | week" is entirely reasonable and not an implied "and I
               | should be running things".
               | 
               | Some people are able to point out problems without saying
               | "and I am the solution".
               | 
               | Others are not capable of seeing a problem pointed out
               | without assuming the speaker is holding themselves up as
               | a paragon of what ought be.
        
               | arolihas wrote:
               | Literally everyone can complain about problems. You can
               | see in the post she has different ideas of how things
               | should be done, how she should be working on different
               | things, how she should be allowed to go to Japan, how
               | they shouldn't use air purifiers, how people should act
               | when a layoff is about to happen, how temp workers should
               | be treated and on and on. I'm not even saying all of
               | these ideas she had are all wrong or bad. But she clearly
               | has solutions and a vision of how Google should operate.
        
             | dsr_ wrote:
             | It's only a "boo light" if you think that it's a bad thing.
             | 
             | Do you think that being reactionary is a bad thing?
        
               | ecshafer wrote:
               | The GP obviously used reactionary as a negative term to
               | dismiss their arguments, and this line of thinking does
               | not answer the arguments.
        
               | jplusequalt wrote:
               | What arguments did they even make? All they did was make
               | a snarky comment against the "vibe" of the article.
               | That's why I called it "reactionary"
        
             | jplusequalt wrote:
             | >If you think he's wrong, argue why rather than just going
             | "ew, right wing".
             | 
             | I'd rather save my energy. Not every comment you see online
             | is deserving of respect or a thoughtful response. It's
             | clear they weren't willing to actually engage with the
             | article and provide a meaningful comment, and I pointed
             | that out before disengaging.
        
         | wgjordan wrote:
         | _Be kind. Don 't be snarky._
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html#comments
        
         | JohnMakin wrote:
         | found one
        
         | 1oooqooq wrote:
         | you read the whole thing taking notes and ignored the main
         | theme? that's some bootlicking good dedication. I'm impressed.
        
           | arolihas wrote:
           | I didn't need to take notes. I didn't need to ignore the
           | theme
        
       | constantcrying wrote:
       | What a terribly written article. I do not understand at all why
       | you wouldn't start out by saying that you worked in Brazil for
       | Google, instead the reader has to discover that half way in,
       | suggesting you were in Phoenix was a really nice move to make
       | sure that essential detail was hard to extract. There was "tea"
       | promised but the story is literally "I was an obvious nuisance
       | because I was the only one who believed corporate propaganda and
       | got fired for it", how absolutely uninteresting and I do not
       | understand why it would take this amount of space to write down.
        
         | arolihas wrote:
         | Didn't even get fired for it, they were laid off because of
         | 2008!
        
           | constantcrying wrote:
           | Yes, although being on the "annoyed me" list of the boss
           | likely played part in whom to fire.
        
             | arolihas wrote:
             | They shut down the boss's office in Arizona too
        
         | monooso wrote:
         | I experienced no such confusion.
        
         | rdlw wrote:
         | It does start out by saying they worked in Brazil for Google.
         | 
         | > The fact that Google fired me...
         | 
         | Normally you have to work somewhere to get fired. I suppose
         | that's an assumption I made upon reading that part.
         | 
         | > let us go back in time and space, and journey to tropical
         | Brazil in the distant time of 2007...
         | 
         | This article is set in Brazil, in 2007. Did you skip the
         | introduction and then complain about the lack of an
         | introduction?
        
         | blindriver wrote:
         | I feel exactly the same as you. The entire thing is horribly
         | written and feels like they think were victimized when I can't
         | see where they were.
        
           | breppp wrote:
           | This kind of literary genre is popular these days and it
           | always ends with being surprised that actions have
           | consequences
        
         | throwaway0123_5 wrote:
         | From the second paragraph before any mention of Phoenix or
         | Arizona:
         | 
         | > let us go back in time and space, and journey to tropical
         | Brazil in the distant time of 2007
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | Man, "bring your whole self to work" was well intentioned but
       | ultimately a mistake. Just bring the part that knows how to
       | program computers, and leave whatever part this is turned off
       | from 9-5.
        
         | constantcrying wrote:
         | Obviously. And I do believe the same type of person who wants
         | to "bring your whole self to work" also is the most disgusted
         | by seeing it implemented. If there had been a culture of
         | professionalism you obviously do not ask some random other
         | employees about gay slang.
         | 
         | Ultimately work is a give and take. And it gets easier when it
         | is clearly defined what is given and what is taken. That is
         | what "professionalism" in a work environment is about.
         | Pretending that work is some great family adventure can only
         | lead to terrible results when conflict inevitably arises.
        
         | cobertos wrote:
         | What kind of life is that? To be a sterile, subservient entity
         | for the majority of your existence.
         | 
         | Being authentic in the working world helps in so many ways. And
         | it works when your goals and the goals of the company align.
         | The advice to just shut up and code leads to no good outcomes
         | for anyone.
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | Good ways to bring your unique perspective to a professional
           | context: intervening to avoid making some users feel offended
           | or excluded, before a project ships to those users.
           | 
           | Bad ways: just yammering about how you are poly, bi, trans,
           | and a revolutionary anarchist while we are trying to finalize
           | OKRs for the quarter.
        
           | JackFr wrote:
           | Your authenticity is not everyone's authenticity.
        
             | cobertos wrote:
             | And the opposite is true. There's a balance. For some that
             | authenticity really works for them at work (those with a
             | general curiosity, an interest in how groups interact and
             | work, who are workaholics) and it aligns. For others it
             | does not and is unfortunate in its requirement of more
             | energy to suppress and lack of natural culture-fit.
        
           | ecshafer wrote:
           | Are there parts of your whole self that are not always
           | appropriate to bring up? I sure think so. If one team mates
           | whole self includes their support for Israel and another
           | whole self is their support for Palestine, maybe we can leave
           | some of these whole selfs at home, and just talk about work,
           | and maybe how our camping trip this weekend was. People
           | shouldn't have to be proselytized by any other people's
           | extreme religious or political views at work.
        
             | cobertos wrote:
             | Very true, there is a balance to be found. The suggestion
             | from OP to leave it all at home, to focus purely on skill
             | and merit is too black/white.
        
           | pnathan wrote:
           | This isn't how people really are.
           | 
           | People have different presentations for different social
           | contexts. That's typical and normal. For a working example,
           | the social context of the marital bedroom is not the social
           | context of the city playground where you mind your kids.
           | Differences in clothing, actions, words.
           | 
           | This spans into most areas of life.
           | 
           | You don't have to sterilize your work life - but you do have
           | to have _boundaries_.
        
             | cobertos wrote:
             | But this is how people really are. Being authentic is
             | easier for some because the corporate world more closely
             | aligns with the dominant culture. Take the casual ignorance
             | of an employee PC background of a sexy woman, because
             | that's just how the boys are. Or how women are meant to
             | breastfeed out of sight.
             | 
             | People do present differently in different contexts. But it
             | is a requirement to file off all your sharp edges to
             | participate effectively in the workplace. Intentionally
             | limiting yourself, your output, to cater to the social
             | conformity of others seems to be an anti-goal. But it is
             | what we do.
        
           | Palomides wrote:
           | >be a sterile, subservient entity for the majority of your
           | existence
           | 
           | yeah, having a job sucks shit, we know
           | 
           | most people don't have the luxury of working a job that's
           | worth aligning with
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | To be honest, I don't even know what "bring your whole self to
         | work" means. If it means that I need to mix my personal life
         | with my work life or a rejection of behaving as a mature
         | professional, then I object strongly to the idea.
        
         | tomatotomato37 wrote:
         | I always assumed "bring your whole self to work" was just a
         | nice way to lead into "you don't need work/life balance because
         | your work is your life"
        
         | foldr wrote:
         | This misses the point. Certain groups of people have always
         | been able to bring their whole selves to work. For example, if
         | you're straight and married with kids, there's never been a
         | problem about casually mentioning these things to your
         | colleagues.
         | 
         | In another post, you mention
         | 
         | >Bad ways [to bring your whole self to work]: just yammering
         | about how you are poly, bi, trans, and a revolutionary
         | anarchist while we are trying to finalize OKRs for the quarter.
         | 
         | Do you know who 'yammers' most about their personal lives?
         | Straight people with kids! It's not even close. I _wish_ the
         | majority of people doing the yammering were poly, bi and trans.
         | It might be a touch less boring.
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | See, you have improperly conflated reproductive preference
           | with sexual orientation and gender expression. That's
           | exclusionary!
        
             | foldr wrote:
             | No, I haven't. I'm just saying that straight people with
             | kids often talk about their personal lives at work (which
             | is fine), whereas other groups of people don't always feel
             | as free to do the same thing. If we were making a list of
             | "kinds of people who are likely to talk lots about their
             | personal lives in a work environment", then bi trans poly
             | folks would not be at the top of it. If you genuinely
             | disagree with any of those points then we can have a
             | discussion about it. But I can't really connect your
             | sarcastic response with what I originally said.
        
       | lanyard-textile wrote:
       | My manager at Google wanted me to change my personal "about me"
       | snippet in the introductory email he was about to send out: It
       | needed some information about where I previously worked (which I
       | intentionally left out -- who cares?? I'm here now!)
       | 
       | I never really thought much of it at the time. Internalized that
       | as "oh, I misunderstood the purpose of the email." But it tracks
       | with elements of OP's story; the exposition of your identity is
       | curated.
        
       | fsflover wrote:
       | > Today, the concept of "spyware" has been obsoleted because
       | every software is spyware
       | 
       | This is not true. Free software is not.
        
         | krapp wrote:
         | It can be. Ubuntu is spyware according to RMS[0].
         | 
         | [0]https://www.fsf.org/blogs/rms/ubuntu-spyware-what-to-do
        
           | fsflover wrote:
           | Of course, it can be, but it's so easy to fix by forking that
           | it doesn't matter, unlike with non-free software. AFAIK
           | Pop!_OS based on Ubuntu is not spyware.
           | 
           | Also, Ubuntu is not free software. Only some parts of it are
           | free.
        
           | moritonal wrote:
           | Just a small caveat, that article was from 2012 (13 years
           | ago). Things may have changed for the better or worse since
           | then.
        
           | axus wrote:
           | Mmm. Every time I download an ISO image or clone a Git
           | repository, _there is a record_
        
             | fsflover wrote:
             | So you are talking about the software running on the
             | server.
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | > Free software is not.
         | 
         | A lot of free software is.
        
           | fsflover wrote:
           | Give me examples not containing proprietary bits.
        
             | etothepii wrote:
             | You are disagreeing about the meaning of the word free.
        
               | fsflover wrote:
               | No, the definition is settled and based on the license.
        
             | SSLy wrote:
             | self built chromium
        
       | bluedevilzn wrote:
       | > And all that with wages well below even the local market in our
       | crumbling Third World economy. With no exciting research
       | positions nor self-managed time nor compensation, what was the
       | advantage over a high-paying job at Microsoft or IBM?
       | 
       | When did Google pay less than Microsoft/IBM?
        
         | esprehn wrote:
         | I think the author is taking about Brazil? It wasn't clear to
         | me until later in the article.
        
           | rdlw wrote:
           | The two-paragraph introduction explicitly places this article
           | in Brazil in 2007
        
             | blindriver wrote:
             | This entire blog post is so poorly written that I was
             | confused as well. They mention Brazil, but they also
             | mention Arizona. And for some reason the person who asked
             | them about gay lingo wasn't Brazilian so were they in the
             | US? It was a very tough read.
        
               | rdlw wrote:
               | > Today, for us Latinx to even briefly step in the USA,
               | if we don't have an always-on handheld device with
               | spyware "social media", its absence is taken as proof of
               | criminality. I will never visit Arizona again
               | 
               | This part is talking about VISITING ARIZONA. As in, they
               | are not from nor do they live in Arizona.
               | 
               | > One day one of the AdSense people asked me for a little
               | meeting. They sat right by my desk, all sleek and
               | confident, and said that they had heard I was a
               | Gaygler(tm) and were wondering if I could help with one
               | of their clients. "Can you tell me some words that the
               | Brazilian gay community uses? like slang, popular media
               | you like, names of parties, that kind of thing?"
               | 
               | Nowhere does it say that they're not Brazilian. Is this
               | because they asked for Brazilian gay slang specifically?
               | I assume they just wanted to be specific, to get terms
               | used in Brazil. If I ask someone to name some Canadian
               | foods, that doesn't mean I'm not Canadian.
               | 
               | I'm not in love with this article or anything but I am
               | baffled by the number of people on this website, who I
               | assume have rudimentary reading comprehension, getting
               | confused by the fact that a different location is
               | _mentioned_ , even though the article opens by specifying
               | exactly where and when it's set.
        
             | mrisoli wrote:
             | Which confused me, as someone from Belo Horizonte who
             | started uni just around that time. As far as I knew, Google
             | was generally known one of the highest paying companies by
             | far back then. It's benefits were unmatched because the SV-
             | style of office with all the perks were not commonplace in
             | the region, and employee turnover was low to non-existent.
             | Even getting an interview if you didn't have a masters or
             | phd was pretty difficult if not impossible(without
             | connections).
        
       | matthewaveryusa wrote:
       | Peter Thiel said it better: https://youtu.be/gQPlhycLmMk?t=415
        
       | tomrod wrote:
       | > Today, the concept of "spyware" has been obsoleted because
       | every software is spyware. Google's "organising the information
       | of the world" turned out to be indexing which Gaza families to
       | bomb, children and all; "making money in the free market to
       | invest in social change" was about bankrolling literal, textbook
       | fascism. Today, for us Latinx to even briefly step in the USA, if
       | we don't have an always-on handheld device with spyware "social
       | media", its absence is taken as proof of criminality. I will
       | never visit Arizona again, and my kids will never know a world
       | that's not like this; but for me I saw this world being forged up
       | close and personal, deep in Mordor where the shadows lie.
       | 
       | This hits home.
        
         | mm263 wrote:
         | Seems overly dramatic
        
           | JohnMakin wrote:
           | From a place of privilege, it might seem so!
        
           | JKCalhoun wrote:
           | Sure, to make a point though.
        
           | ranyume wrote:
           | Dark times when people can become "overly dramatic" for
           | things that are essential. A relaxation, and forgotten
           | fundamental rights. "It is what it is"
        
         | Aunche wrote:
         | > indexing which Gaza families to bomb
         | 
         | Wtf does this even mean? If Hamas used Google docs to plan
         | their attack, does that make Google guilty of killing Israeli
         | families? Coincidentally, this sort of hyperbole always seems
         | to end at the critic's own actions in the chain of complicity
         | of evil. I've never heard an activist call claim that they were
         | personally funding genocide by paying taxes.
        
           | ranyume wrote:
           | Israel has many ties with corporations and governments. This
           | might be why, but I'm also not sure what the author's talking
           | about. It would be nice to have some context.
        
             | dingnuts wrote:
             | the author is grandstanding from an unprincipled stance.
             | Israel can choose which families are harboring Hamas
             | members and decide which houses to bomb or just bomb
             | everything.
             | 
             | Hamas could also surrender after losing the war they
             | started, at any time, and stand trial for starting a war.
             | Hamas can choose to stop using their children as shields at
             | any time. Hamas is to blame for everything.
        
               | ranyume wrote:
               | I understand your confusion. The author wrote this
               | article for an audience that has the same background as
               | her, ignoring that not everyone has the same information.
               | So it ended up confusing for a lot of people.
        
               | catlikesshrimp wrote:
               | If a murderer hides in your home, or not, when you and
               | your children are inside, whether you like it or not, you
               | can be bombed, if said house is in Gaza.
               | 
               | If you live in the US or Israel, you would have hundreds
               | of effectives for every house, instead of killing people
               | in a ratio of 60 to 1 (and counting)
        
               | dttze wrote:
               | They haven't lost the war though. Israel hasn't won. Why
               | do you think the IDF are still suffering military losses
               | and needing to mobilize?
               | 
               | Also the human shield argument is so 2023 and makes no
               | sense at all. If someone still slaughters those supposed
               | shields, why would you bother to use them? Why would
               | those people allow themselves to be used like that? If
               | your enemy has human shields and you go ahead and
               | slaughter women and children, you are just as bad if not
               | worse than the person doing that. So no, Israel is
               | directly responsible for those deaths.
               | 
               | Also the only documented cases of human shields are by
               | the IDF using kidnapped Palestinians to clear tunnels for
               | boobytraps.
               | 
               | See: https://www.haaretz.com/middle-east-
               | news/2025-05-24/ty-artic...
               | 
               | This also just ignores the fact that Israel is forcing
               | starvation on the entire population. And ignores that
               | Israel would still continue the genocide even if Hamas
               | laid down all arms and surrendered.
        
       | pnathan wrote:
       | I was a teen in the 90s, in my circles it was Understood that the
       | data was not private.
       | 
       | Some of this in any case sounds like the usual "did not grow up
       | in white collar society, got white collar job, got in trouble for
       | violating white collar norms" that class-changers go through.
       | Lots of !!fun!!.
       | 
       | I too get troubled when the operations staff get "invisible'd" -
       | they are members of society too and should be treated with
       | dignity. But in a tolerably decent situation, they are recognized
       | and respected in their field as well. Even if its the evening
       | shift to do the janitorial work. There's nothing _immoral_ about
       | having a party and hiring some people to clean up. It's treating
       | them as _lower_ than you that is the failure.
       | 
       | Anyway. There's an - as far as I know - as yet unwritten story
       | around those of us who came from non-white collar backgrounds and
       | found this new world confusing.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | As another poster[1] put it, it's important to remember that
         | these white collar people's privilege often comes at the
         | expense of others, and to _not_ treat them like they are
         | furniture in the background--they are people and deserve to be
         | recognized and treated as people.
         | 
         | And this is true all the way up to the top! For each of the
         | many rungs on the socio-economic totem pole, there are many
         | people on that rung who treat everyone on rungs below them as
         | if they're invisible robotic servants.
         | 
         | 1: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44201256
        
       | JohnMakin wrote:
       | > Google back then prided itself on broadcasting its Best Place
       | To Work award, won year after year after year. Younger people
       | will have trouble picturing this, but Google used to nurture an
       | image of being the "good one" among megacorps;
       | 
       | It's crazy to think about now. Google's image was a big driver in
       | my choice to go back to school and start a tech career, my end
       | and pretty much only goal was to work at google. I made it
       | through several rounds of interviews and got rejected pretty
       | late. It hurt really bad at that time, but looking back now, I
       | think it was one of the best things that could have happened to
       | me.
        
         | kens wrote:
         | I was curious about Google's current Best Place to Work rating.
         | Forbes puts Alphabet at #2, but there are competing lists and
         | Google is #6 on some others.
         | 
         | https://www.forbes.com/lists/worlds-best-employers/
        
       | webdoodle wrote:
       | I never sold out. When I sold off the last of my web sites and
       | domains (mostly ad driven), I only sold the web sites, and not
       | the code that ran them. I had built a very complicated spider
       | that scraped all the main social media sites looking for my
       | articles, that would suggest places they weren't found that might
       | do well. I never built an auto submit bot, but could have easily.
       | I submitted them manually to each site, so as not to break there
       | TOS. I'd then track the newly submitted articles and see how they
       | would spread on social media. I built a basic visualization tool
       | that allowed 'seeing' the way information flows in an intuitive
       | way.
       | 
       | What I learned about memetics and the way information flows was
       | incalculable, and I realized it was like holding a weapon of mass
       | destruction. The last thing I wanted to do was allow others to
       | understand how it worked, or how to build one. I essentially
       | burnt what I built because I didn't want it to fall in the wrong
       | hands.
       | 
       | Could someone build it themselves? Probably, but I put 15 years
       | of my life into building it, and I did so when the Internet was
       | still useful. I only put enough of my thought process about the
       | system online to allude to the fact that I had built it, not
       | enough for someone to reconstruct it. When I sold the last of the
       | sites, I took the code offline and unplugged the hard drive and
       | hid it.
       | 
       | It's been almost 6 years since then and the only companies to
       | come close are wasting there time with LLM. I do not think the
       | current iteration of A.I. is even close thankfully, but at some
       | point someone is going to crack it, probably even better than I
       | did (I had a limited budget, slow internet, and was working
       | mostly by myself).
        
         | normie3000 wrote:
         | I love this so mysterious.
        
         | meindnoch wrote:
         | Can't tell if schizo or not.
        
       | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
       | > Google, if you remember, was the Best Place To Work. It was
       | very important that every promising young engineer thought of
       | Google as the dream job where everyone is happy. Unhappiness
       | isn't allowed. My manager was severely scolded by his manager for
       | having dissatisfaction (gasp) within his team.
       | 
       | Gotta love the pure distilled dystopia concentrate here, complete
       | with totalitarianism vibes!
        
       | QuercusMax wrote:
       | The dictbot story's interpretation of why TVCs (that's what they
       | were called when I was at Google; never heard "temps, part-
       | timers, and contractors") need to be treated like second-class
       | citizens is incorrect.
       | 
       | It's not because they wanted Engineers to feel like golden gods
       | to build their egos - it's because they don't want the TVCs to be
       | treated as employees under employment law. There was a guy who
       | worked in the kitchens who got added to access the music room
       | storage closet in PDX so he could keep his guitar there, and we
       | were told he had to be removed since he was a TVC. That closet is
       | apparently "FTEs and interns only", because if we treat our
       | kitchen staff too well they might have to be given the same
       | benefits as the rest of us.
       | 
       | It used to be possible for somebody to work their way up from the
       | mailroom to the executive suite. This path has been deliberately
       | destroyed because the owning class wants to divide employees into
       | different classes.
       | 
       | No war but class war.
        
       | neves wrote:
       | The article is better than I expected. I'm about of the same age
       | of the author and Brazilian, and I can relate to the feeling that
       | Internet companies would improve the world
       | 
       | My only nitpick it to charge Google of the invisibility of maids
       | and servants in Brazil. Brazil is one of the most unequal
       | countries in the world and this is part of the country culture.
       | Google is not guilty here.
       | 
       | At least we are improving. Nobody with a brain still think that
       | techno companies and billionaires are anything more than comic
       | book super villains.
        
       | m0llusk wrote:
       | Started off naive and then transitioned to considering Google to
       | be representative of all Capitalist enterprises. Progress?
        
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