[HN Gopher] How to live on $432 a month in America
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       How to live on $432 a month in America
        
       Author : cactusplant7374
       Score  : 475 points
       Date   : 2025-05-23 16:40 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | xeromal wrote:
       | I've often felt this way about some of today's complaints. I grew
       | up in area like what was mentioned in this article and I long for
       | the day I can go back there. I would in a heartbeat if my partner
       | shared the same mentality as me.
       | 
       | I don't really see a point in living a big city with the remote
       | job I have and that many others have if I can live in a smaller
       | area that still has humans but much cheaper way of living.
       | Everyone claims it's about living in a city with available
       | services but I see those same people decry how much the food
       | costs and also that they have no friends and can't find someone
       | to date. My thoughts aren't as articulate as I'd like them to be
       | but I guess I'm ultimately trying to say is if I'm going to be
       | miserable, why not do it on my own land for a lot cheaper.
        
         | aaronbaugher wrote:
         | I've lived most of my life in (or outside of) small towns, and
         | some of it in a city. I've noticed that my small-town friends
         | who moved to the city would often talk about all the culture
         | and food choices, but when it comes right down to it, they
         | mostly eat at chain restaurants and go to the movies, same as
         | they could in a smallish town. They might occasionally go to a
         | pro baseball game or the zoo or something that's only available
         | in the city, but country people can make a day trip to do that
         | too.
         | 
         | I'm sure some city people do take advantage of all the diverse
         | options the city gives them, but it seems like a lot of them
         | ended up there for other reasons and then use that as a
         | rationalization for staying where everything costs so much
         | more.
        
           | keiferski wrote:
           | I agree with you for the most part, and think a lot of people
           | think they need to live in NYC/LA/London/etc. because of
           | unstated social pressure, not because they actually utilize
           | all of the megacity's amenities.
           | 
           | However - I do think there is a sweet spot. If you can get a
           | remote job that pays decently well and doesn't require an
           | excessive amount of time - and live in one of these cities -
           | you can actually manage to see and do everything.
           | 
           | For example - I lived in New York for a while doing exactly
           | this. I worked remotely and so could avoid rush hours on the
           | subway, at restaurants, etc. and I had enough time and pocket
           | money to explore the city.
        
             | trollbridge wrote:
             | I've never really been super confident with remote jobs - a
             | recession hits and you can't find another job.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | > remote jobs
               | 
               | > a recession hits and you can't find another job.
               | 
               | Suppose you avoid all remote work. You live in San
               | Francisco. If a recession hits and you're laid off, now
               | there are 10,000 local unemployed tech workers trying to
               | get 5,000 local jobs. Similar risk of unhappiness.
               | 
               | I don't believe that remote positions as a class are more
               | likely to be eliminated than any other, so I just think
               | of jobs located in "Remote" to be just like jobs in any
               | other city, "Remote" just happens to have more jobs than
               | any one city, and has unlimited housing for sale or rent
               | at every price point.
               | 
               | I went remote in 2018 and couldn't be happier with my
               | choice. I'm on my 3rd job, although Job #2 required me to
               | be onsite for about a year starting in 2019.
        
           | 7thaccount wrote:
           | I recently visited New York City for the first time and
           | honestly wasn't impressed. Outside of a few neat things like
           | visiting the cronut place, I could do nearly everything the
           | same back home.
           | 
           | The bagel places were indeed good, but not noticeably
           | different than the hipster bagel places in my city.
           | 
           | Wood fired pizza was good at several places, but again...none
           | were noticeably different than the wood fired oven fancy
           | places in my small city.
           | 
           | The game stores are much bigger in my city due to lower real
           | estate prices.
           | 
           | Times Square was the biggest disappointment. It's literally
           | just standard big box store crap like GAP and M&M store and
           | stuff like that. I guess that one's on me as it's a tourist
           | trap.
           | 
           | Central Park was cool, but not as good as the multiple large
           | parks in easy driving distance.
           | 
           | I could go on and on like that, but essentially I can own a
           | home for a fraction of the cost to rent there. The only real
           | difference is in a metropolis like NYC, you can meet up with
           | people for any interest you want practically. You want to
           | learn Klingon? I'm sure there's people doing that in NYC, but
           | not like a city of 150,000.
           | 
           | Edit: the tap water was superior to my towns.
        
             | keiferski wrote:
             | No one that lives in New York goes to Times Square, save
             | for the subway station.
             | 
             | The great thing about New York is the prevalence of
             | basically every nationality, with its own designated
             | neighborhood. Places like Flushing, Corona, Brighton Beach,
             | etc. These are also the areas that inexperienced tourists
             | don't visit.
             | 
             | If you visit again, definitely try to venture out to those
             | areas.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | I always found it kind of fun to wander through Times
               | Square in the evening, every now and again (on the order
               | of once every few months).
               | 
               | Pointing out that it's the same old big box stores
               | doesn't really connect to the draw of it. Most people
               | don't go to Times Square to shop, they go to _experience_
               | it, and its entertaining. But it's not the place you're
               | going to on a normal Saturday night with your friends.
        
               | 7thaccount wrote:
               | Thanks. Yeah, if I do go back it won't be in Manhattan. I
               | was alarmed by how every place was pretty much closed by
               | 6-8 PM near me. Again...my medium city has plenty of cool
               | stuff open much later -especially on a Friday/Saturday
               | night.
        
             | anon7000 wrote:
             | Sure, medium cities that aren't shitty and still have some
             | vibrancy are a solid middle ground. Bonus points for being
             | somewhere close to nice natural areas or outdoor
             | recreation.
             | 
             | But I grew up in a town of less than 5k in the Midwest. The
             | nearest cities and towns were all less than 50k population.
             | Rent is, of course, incredibly low. There are even dozens
             | of small universities in the area. The nearest city of 100k
             | plus is more than an hour away.
             | 
             | There are vanishingly few hipster spots in these places.
             | You get chains, more chains, suburbs, and a couple of mom &
             | pop restaurants. Some of which are decent, but most of
             | which are disappointing. The variety of cuisines is
             | extremely limited. To see any kind of major entertainment,
             | like comedy or concerts, is a two hour drive. The major
             | airports are two hours away. Your options for outdoor
             | recreation and activity are extremely limited: not enough
             | people for lots of recreational sports. Too much farmland
             | for beautiful parks. Too flat for winter activities. Too
             | few people to have a variety of cultural events or
             | festivals.
             | 
             | You can, of course, be very happy living here. But what you
             | get is _extremely_ different from city life.
             | 
             | Like you say, there are small cities that can check a lot
             | of boxes. But I'd go out on a limb and say that's not
             | typical for small town America, and not everyone is happy
             | in suburbia either, even if they have their own cookie-
             | cutter home!
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | When I lived in NYC, it was a given it would take at
               | least an hour to get to an airport, and then I'd budget
               | an extra hour for something to go wrong.
               | 
               | Driving to smaller airports - just arrive 50 minutes
               | before departure.
        
               | 7thaccount wrote:
               | Yep. My airport has less than 20 gates and is a 30 minute
               | drive and 10 minutes to get through security. You
               | frequently have to fly through hubs though.
        
               | onecommentman wrote:
               | This is my thesis about the size of where you live. There
               | are three types of people:
               | 
               | 1. People who like the mega cities/metastacities. They
               | genuinely enjoy the idea that they could never "fit into
               | their head" the city in which they live. It's just too
               | big. You can never possibly exhaust all the
               | possibilities, much less keep up with all of the changes.
               | They can be intensely loyal to their abstract city,
               | abstract because they can never physically/socially
               | experience the entire city, so it mostly exists only in
               | their head. But the endless horizon of that abstract city
               | is where they really live, and why they like it so much.
               | Never boring...of course neither is a war zone.
               | 
               | 2. Smaller right-sized cities, defined as cities/regions
               | that you can just about fit into your head. Big enough
               | that they are rarely boring, especially if you take
               | advantage of the third dimension of time/local history.
               | But small enough that you can experience the coziness and
               | stability of fully living in that one space...in other
               | words, a home.
               | 
               | 3. Smaller towns of which you can exhaust the
               | possibilities in just a few years. If you grok the place,
               | it is supremely cozy, and you can deepen the sense of
               | that by raising a family and becoming (an old phrase) a
               | pillar of the community. You go deep socially instead of
               | craning your neck across an endlessly broad horizon. You
               | also have the third dimension of time/local history. And
               | you have the additional option of defining your location
               | not just as the small town, but rather a whole
               | surrounding region as your actual home. For Americans
               | this is easily an area of 60-100 miles/100-160 km radius,
               | given our love affair with the automobile. That regional
               | view then gets you into the second level of a small city,
               | enough stimulation so it's rarely boring.
               | 
               | And there's always cyberspace. The small town life isn't
               | so _extremely_ different when that part that is online is
               | so similar for everyone, big city or small town.
               | 
               | For extremely different, try 19th Century Western life,
               | or 20th Century non-Western life.
        
             | chasd00 wrote:
             | i did the same but had my wife as a guide, she dated a
             | musician who lived there before we met and so she had been
             | a lot of times. The different neighborhoods and just the
             | scale of it all were pretty cool but, yeah, no desire to go
             | back or live there. Is it required by law to play that
             | Jay-Z/Alicia Keys "New York" song at all times everywhere
             | there?
        
             | RHSeeger wrote:
             | With the caveat that I've only really visited a dozen or so
             | states, and only lived in 2, my experience is pretty
             | different than yours.
             | 
             | NYC pizza (and even north of the city) is generally a step
             | above most other places. You can find similar quality pizza
             | most places if you look hard enough, but it's nice being
             | able to stop almost anywhere in NY and get good pizza,
             | better than the best you'll find without having to do real
             | research in most places. The common open-front place in NY
             | has great pizza. Where I am now (suburbs of another fairly
             | large city), I have yet to find a good NYC-style pizza.
             | 
             | Bagels in NY fall into a similar bucket. If you search, you
             | can find good ones elsewhere, but it's downright easy to
             | find good ones in NYC (though that's less true outside
             | NYC/Long Island than it is for pizza).
             | 
             | And man, the black-and-whites. To date, I've never found a
             | good one outside NYC.
             | 
             | Times Square is an experience, not a place you go to shop.
             | And not a place you go to wander around on an average
             | Saturday night. Yeah, it's a tourist trap, but that's the
             | experience it is. It's entertaining to walk around/through;
             | on a rare basis.
             | 
             | I loved working in NYC (I lived about 90 minutes north of
             | it at the time, but didn't need to go in every day, so the
             | commute was less of an issue) and I very much miss living
             | in NYS. Rarely, I'm there on a business trip (it's been
             | years) and I plan my time out so I can have pizza for
             | dinner.
        
               | 7thaccount wrote:
               | What did you find interesting about times square? I'm
               | asking seriously as there isn't anything to do other than
               | shop or ignore the annoying 50 people on every street
               | corner asking me to get a bus tour.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | The lights in every direction, the people interacting
               | with the performers and each other, the naked cowboy, the
               | hustle and bustle. It's just a very unique location. It's
               | like watching a human fish tank.
        
             | tacheiordache wrote:
             | Time Square is a tourist trap, an area I always avoided at
             | any cost.
        
             | yupitsme123 wrote:
             | NYC lives on the fumes of its former reputation. Corporate
             | chains have changed the city into basically a shopping
             | mall.
             | 
             | When I was a kid I was drawn to NYC by the little hole in
             | the wall restaurants, delis, coffee shops, funky stores.
             | All owned and frequented by colorful local people.
             | Technically these things still exist but they're mostly
             | corporate chain versions of what used to be there. The
             | unique experiences that the city still has to offer are too
             | expensive and exclusive to be accessible.
             | 
             | Ironically, if I want unique food or local weirdness
             | nowadays, I can find more of it in my lame hometown than I
             | can in most cities.
        
               | pempem wrote:
               | Name that town!! --
               | 
               | There is a growing divide and there are many towns (and
               | many parts of metropolises) where its a weird class
               | inverted food desert. There are _tons_ of boutiques and
               | vintage shops, and more tatoo shops than you 'd think is
               | necessary. Maybe there's a upvamped "bodega" with
               | fishwife tinned fish, and apples for .80 each. "Main
               | street"s that seems pulled out of Disney's imagination
               | and Rick Caruso's execution. Six coffee shops and a bunch
               | of restaurants but _no grocery_ without driving, no
               | affordable gas without driving, no public schools without
               | driving etc.
        
               | cschep wrote:
               | This isn't a good take. When was the last time you lived
               | in NYC? Surely maybe there were glory days at one point,
               | but there used to be a LOT more crime too. NYC is still
               | one of the all time great cities.
        
             | ryoshu wrote:
             | Food is next level in the NYC area compare to most other
             | places. It's not just pizza, it's Ethiopian, Afghani,
             | Iranian, real Chinese food (Szechuan, Hunan, etc.). The
             | music scene and clubs can't be beat outside of other major
             | cities, if you're into that sort of thing. The museums and
             | galleries too. It all exists if you want to find it.
             | 
             | You'll also find some of the most ambitious people in the
             | world.
             | 
             | Does the cost of rent justify it? Depends on what you are
             | looking to do.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | I guess my palette is just not sophisticated but I have
               | eaten many times in NYC, in other big cities famous for
               | food, in suburban places with one or two restaurants, and
               | in rural places with only Applebee's, and I honestly
               | don't see that much of a difference. To me, food is food.
               | You eat it, you're not hungry anymore. The only
               | difference I notice is the cost. I've had pizza in New
               | York, and I've had "New York style" pizza from a no name
               | pizzeria in upstate California and it tastes exactly the
               | same to me.
               | 
               | My wife, on the other hand goes bananas when we visit the
               | city and just can't get enough of the food. She'll eat
               | when she's not even hungry because she just wants to
               | experience this or that meal. I play along because I
               | think it's cute and we support each other's goofiness,
               | but I legit don't get it.
        
             | kjkjadksj wrote:
             | You can go bar to bar to bar to bar until 4am in nyc and
             | then find $2 pizza by the slice that is actual pizza and
             | not 7/11 pizza. You can't really do that anywhere else what
             | with how the busybodies regulate their liqour licenses and
             | the lack of density justifying many 24hr food
             | establishments. You can do all of this entirely on foot too
             | within a few blocks. Nowhere else in the US is like that
             | with such glaringly obvious economies of scale going on in
             | your favor.
        
               | nocoiner wrote:
               | I feel like on the surface this may seem like kind of a
               | facile comment, but this really gets at what makes NYC a
               | special place. There's a whole day-to-day experience that
               | may be technically replicable in other large cities in
               | the course of a day, but there's like 100 things to do in
               | New York every 200 feet. It's just a different
               | experience.
        
           | alexjplant wrote:
           | I've had the opposite experience. Having moved from the
           | boonies to a downtown in a Tier 2 US city has caused a lot of
           | my old friends and neighbors to point out that I could buy a
           | 27-bedroom house on a 100 acre lot in the country for what I
           | pay in rent in the city. They fail to realize that not having
           | to drive two hours each way to have fun is worth the 35%
           | premium in housing for me.
           | 
           | Before I moved I owned a house and justified living where I
           | did by saying stuff like
           | 
           | > country people can make a day trip to do that too.
           | 
           | ...but I was lying to myself. Rounding friends up to drive 90
           | minutes then hop on light rail for a half hour before even
           | getting in the vicinity of where you're going has a very real
           | chilling effect on planning fun time. Most people just end up
           | drinking Mai Tais that a bartender pours out of a plastic jug
           | at a riverside dock bar instead.
           | 
           | Different strokes for different folks, but I think everybody
           | should give each paradigm a shot and decide what they like.
        
             | xp84 wrote:
             | > give each paradigm a shot and decide what they like.
             | 
             | Hard agree. I think the article is right that most people
             | haven't even come close to trying the lifestyle he's
             | suggesting.
        
             | FeloniousHam wrote:
             | > ...but I was lying to myself. Rounding friends up to
             | drive 90 minutes then hop on light rail for a half hour
             | before even getting in the vicinity of where you're going
             | has a very real chilling effect on planning fun time.
             | 
             | 1000%. I would complain about driving the 12 minutes just
             | to get out of my subdivision (before moving into town).
             | Just what you say, there's a "chilling effect" when
             | everything you want to do is 30 mins away.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | A big part of it is how you want to find friends.
               | 
               | If you have a "friend profile" and you want people to
               | match it, a city is wonderful - more people, more
               | matches.
               | 
               | Thing: all friends within 5 years of my age, similar
               | jobs, education, etc. Go city! Or college maybe.
               | 
               | But if you're old country or old rural and want to be
               | friends with _those around you_ a suburban or rural area
               | can be fine. You end up making friends with the ten year
               | old next door, and his parents, along with the retirees
               | on the other side, etc.
        
             | rufus_foreman wrote:
             | >> my old friends and neighbors to point out that I could
             | buy a 27-bedroom house on a 100 acre lot in the country for
             | what I pay in rent in the city. They fail to realize that
             | not having to drive two hours each way to have fun is worth
             | the 35% premium in housing for me
             | 
             | Good point. There's no possible way to have fun in a
             | 27-bedroom house on a 100 acre lot.
        
           | Karrot_Kream wrote:
           | > but when it comes right down to it, they mostly eat at
           | chain restaurants and go to the movies, same as they could in
           | a smallish town. They might occasionally go to a pro baseball
           | game or the zoo or something that's only available in the
           | city, but country people can make a day trip to do that too.
           | 
           | This hasn't been my experience at all. I live in an urban
           | area and I haven't eaten at a chain restaurant outside of
           | road trips in years. I only eat at chains when I'm on a road
           | trip and need a bite in the middle of nowhere. Once I drop
           | into where I'm staying for vacation off the road trip, I'm
           | eating local restaurants or cooking for myself if I'm out in
           | nature. The fantastic food scene in my area is a huge factor
           | in why I live here.
           | 
           | FWIW one can make the same comment about large US suburban
           | home dwellers. Most of them just store stuff they rarely if
           | ever use. Most of their less frequently used things are in
           | varying states of disrepair and many of these folks would
           | probably be better served by using communal amenities kept in
           | good condition rather than storing sports equipment that they
           | use once every 5 years in a dusty, mothball filled storage
           | closet. Most folks in car-oriented US suburbs use their cars
           | as mobile living rooms and do all sorts of illegal things
           | (like makeup or doomscrolling their phone) in their car and
           | only incidentally use them as transportation vehicles. But
           | that doesn't stem the demand for folks who want to live in
           | these homes.
           | 
           | The fact is, aside from job considerations, there are people
           | who choose their density based on their actual preferences.
           | One set of preferences may seem silly coming from a different
           | set but that doesn't make them right or wrong; it just makes
           | them preferences.
        
             | JKCalhoun wrote:
             | Yeah, I haven't eaten fast food in -- I don't know how
             | long. Maybe it's an age thing? I ate at chains when I was
             | younger....
             | 
             | I grew up in Kansas City, lived 27 years in the Bay Area,
             | and now back in the midwest (in Omaha).
             | 
             | Guess what I miss most about the Bay Area? (It's not the
             | traffic and it's not In & Out.) It's all the amazing Asian
             | restaurants. C'mon Omaha!
             | 
             | Having said that, the wife and I have found a decent Asian
             | grocery store and figured out how to make some pretty good
             | bulgogi....
        
               | Karrot_Kream wrote:
               | > Having said that, the wife and I have found a decent
               | Asian grocery store and figured out how to make some
               | pretty good bulgogi....
               | 
               | This is the move. My partner and I are Asian and we
               | participate in Asian community things in the Bay. A lot
               | of asians that came from less urban areas made their own
               | food sourced from the high quality but unknown-outside-
               | the-community Asian grocery store!
        
             | bobthepanda wrote:
             | there is a huge market distortion in that dense, walkable
             | living is illegal to build in most of the country. i've
             | seen polling that suggests walkability is in demand for
             | about 40% of the population but there isn't 40% of
             | available homes in such a configuration, so there are also
             | a lot of people who get priced out of that and into
             | suburbia.
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | Most of the country by land area has no zoning and people
               | can build whatever they want. Despite that, where I live
               | the only thing anyone does is the SFH and the occasional
               | duplex.
        
               | woodruffw wrote:
               | That isn't especially surprising, given that there's no
               | point in raising (or using) the capital to build urban
               | infrastructure where none exists. It's a flywheel-shaped
               | problem; the fact that the average American lives in a
               | local optima of suburban sprawl doesn't itself indicate
               | the absence of a better optima.
        
               | ufmace wrote:
               | To be fair, my impression is most people have highly
               | contradictory desires along these lines.
               | 
               | They say they want to be able to walk to places more. But
               | they also want a big suburban-style house with bedrooms
               | for everyone and storage and garage and lawn etc, easy
               | parking for them, nice wide roads to drive everywhere on
               | and tons of free parking when they get there. This makes
               | it impossible for the area to be walkable unless everyone
               | else lives in small apartments and there's actually only
               | enough parking for just them to drive if they feel like
               | it.
               | 
               | In my opinion, it doesn't work that way. Yeah everyone
               | wants to be the special 1% like that, but only actually
               | 1% will be. If you really want to be walkable, you
               | personally will need to live like that too.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | My understanding of the issue is that while walkable
               | communities are in demand they are a minority and
               | generally speaking, also a minority that is less
               | politically active than single-family homeowners.
               | 
               | Pretty much everywhere has a political majority of
               | single-family homeowners, and if each locality decides on
               | its own it doesn't want to have multifamily housing, then
               | you wind up in a situation where almost nowhere actually
               | allows it.
        
               | mettamage wrote:
               | This is so weird to read. My cultural bias is showing:
               | I'm from the Netherlands. As most of you know,
               | walkability is the norm here. And while the country is
               | flat, so is the area described in this article.
        
             | tomcar288 wrote:
             | actually, i'm now noticing it may be cheaper for me to buy
             | used skis than to rent them. buying used i can get it
             | cheaper than even renting just once or twice
        
           | datavirtue wrote:
           | Cities wreck your finances and your health.
        
             | goatlover wrote:
             | People raise families and live generations in cities.
             | There's plenty of rural poverty and poor health outside of
             | cities.
        
         | bluefirebrand wrote:
         | > Everyone claims it's about living in a city with available
         | services
         | 
         | The reality is that it's mostly about living in a city with
         | available _jobs_
         | 
         | What's the job market like near this lovely little $432 per
         | month place described in the article? How am I going to pay for
         | it?
        
           | kemotep wrote:
           | They suggested working part time at a gas station or
           | seasonally somewhere else which is incredible.
           | 
           | I have had to travel across the country multiple times to
           | "live where the jobs are" so I find it hard to believe that
           | the whole time I could have not done that and just picked
           | some remote isolated corner and live like my great
           | grandparents homesteading?
        
             | DrillShopper wrote:
             | The real trade off here is cheap rural land but no ability
             | to ever retire.
             | 
             | Sure, I could live in the middle of goddamn nowhere, grow
             | my own food, make my own clothes, build my own house, etc,
             | etc, etc, but at the end of the day it's never over. I'll
             | be out in my 70s and 80s doing that until I die. Sure, that
             | might be an ideal life for someone, but that someone is not
             | me.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | What?
               | 
               | First of all, unless you're 18 you should, if you're
               | playing the game correctly, be saving for retirement
               | already, right? That money, which you get to bring with
               | you, will go a lot further in the country.
               | 
               | Plus, Social Security exists, and again, that check will
               | be the same amount regardless of where you live in
               | retirement, so that'll go a lot further there too. The
               | longer you've worked for "city money" already, the bigger
               | your SS check will be.
               | 
               | Even if you wait until you're just before retirement,
               | moving out of the expensive market is one of the best
               | ways to ensure a retirement secure from the worry of
               | having to keep being economically productive till death.
        
               | DrillShopper wrote:
               | > unless you're 18 you should, if you're playing the game
               | correctly, be saving for retirement already, right?
               | 
               | I think you underestimate the financial resources of
               | those who most need to take a route like this. They're
               | not likely to have _anything_ saved and likely have lot
               | of debt, too. Which leads into...
               | 
               | > Social Security exists, and again, that check will be
               | the same amount regardless of where you live in
               | retirement
               | 
               | That is no longer a guarantee, and my retirement planning
               | assumes that it will no longer exist in the near future.
               | I have spent the last 25 years paying for it money I
               | could have saved for retirement instead, and likely won't
               | see a dime in return because the Republicans want it
               | gone. We're realistically looking as a full elimination,
               | means testing to receiveh benefits, massive cuts to
               | benefits, or a work requirement (or some combination of
               | these) all in the name of giving massive tax cuts to the
               | group of people who will never have to work ever again in
               | their lives, and neither will their children,
               | grandchildren, and great grandchildren.
               | 
               | > moving out of the expensive market is one of the best
               | ways to ensure a retirement secure from the worry of
               | having to keep being economically productive till death
               | 
               | Let's constrain ourselves to just the location that the
               | author of the original post suggested. How far away is
               | the nearest hospital if I need treatment for cancer, a
               | heart attack, or a stroke? What are the healthcare
               | opportunities out there? Will friends and family be able
               | to get out there to visit?
               | 
               | The author is so disconnected from reality that its wild
               | that none of this crossed their minds. It just seems like
               | a "those damn millennial and their avocado toast and
               | Macbooks" instead of actually looking into what it means
               | to move out there
               | 
               | The author also commits what to my parents, would be a
               | cardinal sin - suggesting that the next generation have a
               | worse quality of life than their parents, which used to
               | be something that got you disqualified from running for
               | dog catcher in most of this country.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | > suggesting that the next generation have a worse
               | quality of life than their parents
               | 
               | To me, it's advocating that "number of dollars you earn
               | per year" and "number of dollars spent on luxuries" is
               | not so simply correlated with "quality of life." That's
               | one aspect, but "number of dollars it takes to satisfy
               | each level of Maslow's pyramid in the place you live" and
               | "number of hours you have to work" and "how stressful is
               | your work" are _huge_ contributors to whether you can be
               | happy (have a good QoL).
               | 
               | Many people work 40-60 hours per week and hate every
               | minute of it, despite earning six figures. Some of those
               | people might be much happier working 5 hours a week and
               | living in the country.
        
               | DrillShopper wrote:
               | > Some of those people might be much happier working 5
               | hours a week and living in the country.
               | 
               | Have you ever lived out in the country, grown your own
               | food, made your own clothes, and such? That's so much
               | more work than five hours a week, and at peak times, much
               | more than 40 hours a week for a harder life that you do
               | not get to retire from when you get old.
        
             | dmonitor wrote:
             | All of these articles need to come with an "About the
             | Author" section that describes how the author makes their
             | living. They claim to be living the outlined lifestyle, but
             | I doubt they are working part time at three gas stations.
        
               | kemotep wrote:
               | I could live in my hometown, rent a studio apartment,
               | have an iPhone and a car, and work at the pizza place
               | like I was 23 again.
               | 
               | Have more amenities, not live in a shack, and sure it
               | would cost 4x more per month but certainly not as
               | decadent as the author claims living in "the city" (read
               | city of 25,000 more than an hour away from anything
               | larger) is.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | With a partner, like he mentioned he had, each one could
               | easily be doing a part-time job + some minor side hustle
               | like Etsy, YouTube, etc. The living expenses are about
               | the same for 1 vs 2 other than food, and his food budget
               | was for 2.
        
             | onecommentman wrote:
             | This sort of writing has been popular in the US for over
             | 100 years. A historical review of the field (pun intended)
             | can be found in the book _Back to the Land_ , by Dona
             | Brown, University of Wisconsin Press, 2011.
        
           | codeplea wrote:
           | This is addressed directly in the article:
           | 
           | >And for those who might be quick to point out that there
           | could be a dearth of jobs there, note that when people say
           | "there are no jobs" in a given area, they generally mean that
           | there are no jobs that could produce a normal, upper-middle-
           | class lifestyle there. Which, even in Massena and Ogdensburg
           | isn't entirely true. But even if it were, the Stewart's gas
           | stations in both towns are actively hiring part-time cashiers
           | at $17/hr. These places will let you work just one day a week
           | if you like, and seem to be pretty good about flexible hours.
           | In this case, you could work just one ten-hour shift per
           | week, and in so doing, earn more than 30% of what you need to
           | live well at this particular house with just four days of
           | work per month.
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | And when those gas station jobs fill up but there's still
             | empty houses around?
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | Have you not read the article? The whole point of it is
               | once you get your costs down to this manageable a number,
               | you have a lot more options for "how you're going to
               | support yourself." You could clear $5,000-10,000 a year,
               | which I should remind you would be _tax free money_
               | simply due to the standard deduction, doing any number of
               | things either local or remote. Ideas I 'm just making up:
               | 
               | 1. Buy, repair, and flip MacBooks on eBay 2. Do stuff on
               | Fiverr 3. Mow lawns 4. Clean gutters 5. Set up a little
               | stand and sell baked goods or tamales 6. Make YouTube
               | videos or shorts about (insert your nerdy interest) 7. 3D
               | print something and sell it on Etsy
               | 
               | All these things are things I'm sure I could do
               | personally, but don't have time to do because I have to
               | work 40 hours a week to earn enough money to pay for my
               | mortgage in the expensive place I live. But all that goes
               | away when the only thing you need to shoot for is to
               | clear maybe $800 on a good month.
               | 
               | And also, if you have modest savings _for a city person_
               | you could do with far less earnings, as interest on
               | $200,000 = $10,000.
        
               | bryanlarsen wrote:
               | > 3. Mow lawns 4. Clean gutters 5. Set up a little stand
               | and sell baked goods or tamales
               | 
               | Those might pay well in the city, but nobody making
               | $17/hr is going to pay more than $10/hr for lawn mowing.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | That's fine, you don't need them to pay more than $10/hr.
               | You only even need to earn say, $800 a month (I'm
               | assuming you'd want a pickup truck to transport your
               | mower and get around, so padding the $432 a bit) so if
               | you worked 5 hours a week at the gas station for $340
               | then you need about 11 hours of $10 work per week for
               | another $440 and you're done. If you have any savings,
               | the current interest on $100,000 would alternatively give
               | you $416 so you could just not work at all.
        
               | skyyler wrote:
               | >1. Buy, repair, and flip MacBooks on eBay
               | 
               | No internet at the house in this scenario, so that's a
               | lot of trips to the library.
               | 
               | >2. Do stuff on Fiverr
               | 
               | See above.
               | 
               | >3. Mow lawns 4. Clean gutters
               | 
               | These are both viable in the summer, provided there is
               | some "landed elite" in the area that makes more than the
               | $17/hr the gas stations pay. I guess you could shovel
               | snow in the winter.
               | 
               | >5. Set up a little stand and sell baked goods or tamales
               | 
               | Doing that legally requires licenses and registration,
               | but good idea. Do the people of upstate New York enjoy
               | tamales?
               | 
               | >6. Make YouTube videos or shorts about (insert your
               | nerdy interest)
               | 
               | The first point again.
               | 
               | >7. 3D print something and sell it on Etsy
               | 
               | The first point again.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | My smartphone plan is $45 (happens to be same company as
               | article suggests, US Mobile) and supports 50GB of
               | tethering which is plenty. This doesn't appreciably
               | change the cost of living but yes, obviously you'd have
               | that as an expense. Who cares? Yes, it would enable like
               | half those work ideas. You could afford it. What's the
               | problem.
               | 
               | > licenses and stuff
               | 
               | What? No, nobody selling tamales outside in the country
               | (or probably the city either) has a formal license to do
               | so. Nobody cares unless they're trying to get you shut
               | down because you're being a jerk (say, selling them right
               | outside their restaurant). Also, what if I told you, you
               | could pick _whatever_ kind of food the people in the area
               | _do_ like, and teach yourself to make it?
        
               | skyyler wrote:
               | "Just break the law, it'll be fine"
               | 
               | Great financial advice happening on the orangesite.
               | 
               | Really good stuff.
        
               | potato3732842 wrote:
               | Ironically, I think this is a "blind squirrel finds a
               | nut" situation.
               | 
               | When you're at the absolute bottom, you're not gonna make
               | ends meet by playing by the rule and the enforcers
               | generally leave you alone because you can't get blood
               | from a stone. So for the people living on $400/mo running
               | an unlicensed tamale stand or parting out cars or
               | breeding pitbulls or whatever isn't as risky as it would
               | be for someone making real money.
               | 
               | But yeah, the advice here is generally out of touch.
        
               | AngryData wrote:
               | In my experience law enforcement in rural areas generally
               | are squeezing stones for blood, you think the local cops
               | or judge are going to be living on $20,000 a year? No.
               | And where do they get the money? By extorting poor people
               | that live in the area. Oh you literally can't afford
               | their fines? Well then you can spend the next month or
               | two in jail, now having a criminal record, likely losing
               | your job, and when you are released owe the courts and
               | jail a few thousand dollars on top of all that for the
               | mandatory minimum court and jail fees which will cost
               | just as much as the previous fine you couldn't pay and
               | got sent to jail for.
               | 
               | Sure you might get lucky if you keep your head low, but
               | maybe you won't get lucky and you lose the gamble and are
               | put in a WAY worse situation.
        
               | potato3732842 wrote:
               | The problem with these lifestyles is that when you have
               | it all finely tuned to live on $400/mo you have no
               | capacity to absorb a $400 water heater expense.
        
             | dmonitor wrote:
             | I love the stupid math in this paragraph. One 10hr shift is
             | ~30% of what you need. So multiply that by 3.3 and... oh
             | hey you're working nearly 40hrs a week to afford your
             | impoverished lifestyle in the middle of nowhere. Just like
             | everyone else in this country, only now you get to own a
             | shed. Also you have to take the bus, which runs from
             | 5am-6pm, so you need to beg your boss to not be an opener
             | or closer. Your coworkers will love you for that.
        
               | nkurz wrote:
               | > One 10hr shift is ~30% of what you need. So multiply
               | that by 3.3 and... oh hey you're working nearly 40hrs a
               | week to afford your impoverished lifestyle in the middle
               | of nowhere.
               | 
               | Are you possibly confusing "per week" with "per month"?
        
               | hyperpape wrote:
               | Honestly, this is the weirdest way the author could've
               | written that sentence.
               | 
               | He should've said either "one 10 hour shift per month
               | will make 30% of what you need to live here" or even "one
               | 10 hour shift per week will make more than what you need
               | to live here."
        
               | theendisney wrote:
               | It doesn't seem to be caused by his lifestyle as the
               | posters above also cant divide by $7 per hour. Its 62
               | hours or 11 shifts.
               | 
               | I think he means one should do all kinds of small
               | projects.
        
               | dghlsakjg wrote:
               | $17/hr is the rate
        
               | theendisney wrote:
               | That makes it even more funny. No wonder we cant find a
               | cheap place to live.
               | 
               | $17 x 26 h = EUR442
               | 
               | One 10 h shift per week is to much apparently.
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | 432/17 is 25 hours, or otherwise stated one 8 hour shift
               | every week or two.
        
               | hyperpape wrote:
               | Right, which is why it's extremely confusing that the
               | author wrote:
               | 
               | > In this case, you could work just one ten-hour shift
               | per week, and in so doing, earn more than 30% of what you
               | need to live well at this particular house with just four
               | days of work per month.
               | 
               | What he probably did was write that one shift is more
               | than 30% of what you need, then switched gears to write
               | about four days of work per month, but forgot to remove
               | the 30% number.
        
               | nocoiner wrote:
               | I read that sentence three times. Pretty sure he was
               | trying to hide the ball, but still not sure where he was
               | hiding it or what exactly the ball was, to be honest.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | One 10 hour shift is ~30% of what you need _per month_
               | 
               | 40 hours _per month_ is much less than 40 hours _per
               | week_
        
             | viccis wrote:
             | Well yes, it's not a brilliant observation that in the US
             | you are given the option to work at around $15-30k a year
             | ($17/hr part time is going to wind up around there) and use
             | that money to fund an impoverished lifestyle.
             | 
             | "Why aren't more kids embracing a life of poverty? How dare
             | they ask for anything better in a country that produces
             | more wealth than any other?"
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | "impoverished lifestyle"
               | 
               | "live of poverty"
               | 
               | You're really doing a great job exemplifying the attitude
               | which guarantees misery.
               | 
               | The whole point is that living a simple life in the
               | country, with minimal amount of time spent working (thus
               | maximum free time) is arguably a much richer and more
               | fulfilling life than, say, a life where you and your
               | spouse each earn $200,000 working 40-50 hours a week at a
               | Very Important Job that you drive to in your Range Rover
               | and BMW, and getting to spend 1 hour most nights with
               | your family before falling exhausted into bed in a house
               | that cost $2 million, just to wake up and do it again
               | tomorrow.
        
               | hyperpape wrote:
               | I think you've arguably left out some interesting options
               | in the middle.
        
               | goatlover wrote:
               | One wonders why anyone ever left the country to move to
               | the city then. Maybe not everyone wants to live a simple
               | life in the country. Maybe that's considering boring and
               | socially isolating. Maybe some people want more kinds of
               | experiences and even things. Maybe they want a kind of
               | community that's a lot harder to find in the country, or
               | is even discriminated against.
        
               | pempem wrote:
               | YES! this is the question.
               | 
               | How are we the homes of the largest economies in the
               | world, cities known not just by name but by brand, around
               | the world and: - day care worker can't make enough to
               | move beyond improverished and day care is expensive -
               | teacher can't make enough to move beyond lower middle
               | class and school (even public once you add in all the
               | trips, certs, childcare for non-school days) don't make
               | enough - your burger is $15! but the person making it
               | apparently should live in a wifi-less shed.
               | 
               | Not very long ago at all, this economy was about finding
               | opportunity. Now it seems to be about aiming to
               | reintroduce feudalism.
        
           | pavel_lishin wrote:
           | I think it goes beyond that. A city offers a lot more
           | _possibilities_. If you like plays, museums, going to the
           | movies, being able to find more than three people to play
           | Dungeons and Dragons, or Settlers of Catan with (without
           | driving 1.5 hours) - then being somewhere really rural is
           | going to be unpleasant.
        
             | xeromal wrote:
             | I agree with the possibility but many people just end up
             | staying home due to traffic, money, or being an introvert
        
               | pavel_lishin wrote:
               | That's true! And many don't!
        
           | tacheiordache wrote:
           | I agree. With no jobs in the area $432 may as well require to
           | work a lot more for lower pay, whatever is available in the
           | area.
        
             | rufus_foreman wrote:
             | >> With no jobs in the area $432 may as well require to
             | work a lot more for lower pay
             | 
             | >> the Stewart's gas stations in both towns are actively
             | hiring part-time cashiers at $17/hr. These places will let
             | you work just one day a week if you like, and seem to be
             | pretty good about flexible hours
             | 
             | 432 / 17 = 25.4 hours a month. A few more hours than that
             | to pay social security, but no income taxes and they would
             | get the Earned Income Tax Credit.
        
           | aaronbaugher wrote:
           | The thing about places with more jobs is that they also tend
           | to have more job-seekers. The two tend to vary proportional
           | to the population. It's really the ratio of jobs to job-
           | seekers that matters.
           | 
           | Of course, it depends a lot on the job. Some jobs only exist
           | in cities, while others are almost exclusively rural.
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | The type of place being talked about in this article is a
             | place with more houses than people. It's the sort of place
             | that children move away from as they mature because there
             | are few opportunities to build a life there
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | > few opportunities to build a life
               | 
               | for certain values of "a life" of course. The article
               | alludes to our 'great-grandparents' and indeed, we
               | wouldn't be here if the majority of people 100 years ago
               | didn't build "a life" in rural areas without any of the
               | things most of GenZ (and if i'm honest, millennials too)
               | think "a life" requires.
               | 
               | But the word "build" you used is telling. I think you
               | mean "buy a life" -- that's what pursuing only the City
               | Life is doing. In the country you would indeed have to
               | build a life. To figure out what would make you happy and
               | build it, whether that's a club of fellow board game
               | enthusiasts, or a restaurant that you open, or a small
               | chicken farm, etc.
               | 
               | I don't blame the young people, they've only ever been
               | shown a fashionable, extreme-consumption-based narrative
               | of what "a life" should be. Expensive vacations, designer
               | handbags, luxury cars, kitchens bigger than that whole
               | $29,000 house (and that cost $100k for the kitchen
               | alone). That's what we've been told happy people need.
               | 
               | I'm just deeply unconvinced that any of that
               | automatically brings happiness, and I am very convinced
               | that the amount of work it takes to pay for all that is
               | 100% bad for those of us who weren't just born into
               | wealth.
        
               | financltravsty wrote:
               | Buddy, the entire world is being hollowed out by
               | globalism and a financial race to the bottom vis-a-vis
               | labor costs. Your entire way of life is predicated upon
               | no one invading the country, global supply chains
               | remaining intact and usable, and a lack of war -- as soon
               | as that changes your way of life disappears.
               | 
               | That gas station in the article? Gone once the
               | corporation that owns it deems it a frivolous expense no
               | longer worth the upkeep. Now what are you going to do?
               | Find a job at the diner? Ok, how sustainable is that --
               | the town is not growing, the economy is dying, and the
               | incomes are stagnating.
               | 
               | The author made his way by hitchhiking and vagabonding
               | after leaving his folks' home. Guess what, surviving like
               | that relies on civilization's infrastructure remaining
               | viable and maintained -- it's leeching off others work
               | and toil to selfishly sustain oneself without giving
               | anything back.
               | 
               | And what about how the author currently sustains himself?
               | Is it by humbly working at the gas station? No, he
               | maintains a substack and social media presence to pay all
               | his bills. He's an entertainer larping as an outbacker.
               | He's an older Christopher McCandless -- developmentally
               | arrested and antisocial.
               | 
               | It's not about fashion or luxury or "buying a life," it's
               | about securing a means of self-sustainability, managing
               | risk, and being a part of the growing world around you --
               | and not recoiling from it, shutting one's eyes, and
               | pretending everything will be alright (tell that to
               | anyone whose nation transitioned into communism -- hah!).
        
               | goatlover wrote:
               | Young people might also recognize that there's a lot more
               | going on in big cities, a whole lot more to do and
               | experience. And attitudes tend to be more excepting of
               | differences. They tend to be more cosmopolitan.
        
         | abhiyerra wrote:
         | I moved from SF to smaller towns around California. I so much
         | more enjoy the smaller towns. When I lived in SF I ended up
         | going to the same 5 restaurants or cafes and while it was fund
         | in my 20s to be around a lot of people my age as I got older
         | and now have a family having more space is nice. Plus, I still
         | go to the same five places in the smaller town I live in and
         | don't have to usually wait in lines.
        
         | RHSeeger wrote:
         | Living in a city (or other high COL location) also means you
         | can save more. Sure, you're spending more, but that 5-10% of
         | your earnings you put into saving is a lot more when you're
         | making city money vs not. And when it comes time to retire,
         | having saved 5% of $50-150,000/year every year adds up to a
         | much higher amount to retire on.
        
         | nurettin wrote:
         | Also small towns attract less serial killers.
        
           | bryanlarsen wrote:
           | Murder rates are higher in rural Canada than they are in
           | urban Canada, and Massena is basically Canada.
        
           | aaronbaugher wrote:
           | Don't tell people that. The common belief that small towns
           | are some cross between _Deliverance_ and _Children of the
           | Corn_ is one of the things that keeps small towns nice.
        
         | titanomachy wrote:
         | > Everyone claims it's about living in a city with available
         | services but I see those same people decry how much the food
         | costs and also that they have no friends and can't find someone
         | to date.
         | 
         | It sounds like they'd find a way to be miserable anywhere. I
         | live in a medium-density neighborhood of a large US city. I
         | have multiple close friends within a five-minute walk, and I'm
         | constantly meeting new people who share my interests. The music
         | venues, restaurants, and yoga studios are nice too, but having
         | so many potential friends in close proximity is what really
         | makes the city great for me.
         | 
         | It's not necessarily easy to start making friends though, it
         | definitely doesn't happen automatically. Maybe in small towns,
         | people are more likely to notice you and spend time with you,
         | because they also have fewer people to choose from.
         | 
         | When I've lived in small towns I found dating almost
         | impossible, though.
         | 
         | > if I'm going to be miserable, why not do it on my own land
         | for a lot cheaper
         | 
         | Bro. Please go make some friends, or find a hobby or vocation
         | you like, or get religion, or something! You don't have to be
         | miserable, at least not all the time. Renouncing society will
         | probably just make things worse.
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | Small towns can be great if you fit the mold.
         | 
         | They're terrible if you don't. There's inherently less
         | diversity within a smaller population.
         | 
         | I grew up in a small town. (4000 people, largest nearby was
         | about 15 miles away and 20k. The nearest "city" was 100k and
         | 80+ miles away. Maybe visited that city region once a year.
         | Major city (500k) that was 180 mi away I never even saw growing
         | up.) Even being a straight cismale nerd was considered the bane
         | of my existence. There wasn't anyone else I met who shared my
         | level of interests. I saw how people who were gay were treated
         | and it was quite grim. Imagine now you're adding in multiple
         | facets like race, politics, etc.
         | 
         | These small places work well for those who fit a certain mold.
         | You're not gonna have an easier time dating either if you have
         | any modest requirements either like education, income, beliefs,
         | etc.
         | 
         | The main issues with cities is that they're very competitive.
         | If you're not a competitive person or don't have whatever
         | attributes the market rewards, it will be very challenging.
         | Especially with dating as the pool to most people feels
         | "unlimited" and therefore people will keep looking than settle
         | for someone who is ugly or whatever issue you have.
        
         | scarface_74 wrote:
         | > _I would in a heartbeat if my partner shared the same
         | mentality as me._
         | 
         | And what are the chances you would find an acceptable partner
         | for you in the small town if you didn't already have one?
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | It makes a certain amount of sense and I myself bought a little
       | place way out in the hinterlands of Michigan for similar economic
       | reasons ... but I live in Berkeley because subjecting your
       | children to life without opportunities for art, culture,
       | education, sports, friends, etc is cruel. So if you're white, or
       | just don't care that your ethnicity is absent, and if you have no
       | children, and also don't mind living in a car-dependent place
       | where the public transit to the nearest major city is a minimum
       | of 15 hours with 3-4 transfers, then sure Massena NY is dope.
        
         | rahimnathwani wrote:
         | If someone were buying a place in Michigan today (as a second
         | home) what would be some towns (villages?) to consider?
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | No idea honestly. I had some family connections near the
           | place I acquired.
        
         | seabird wrote:
         | Is there no culture, or no "culture"?
         | 
         | When you talk to people from a major metropolitan area about
         | culture outside of a major metropolitan area, they're very
         | often not talking about culture. They're talking about
         | entertainment, and a specific kind of it.
         | 
         | I live in semi-rural Michigan and the idea that there's no
         | culture here is just kind of absurd. The culture just doesn't
         | consist of having a constant stream of touring musicians and
         | restaurants for you to spend money on.
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | I admit the possibility that _your_ idea of culture is a
           | barren plain of consumerism. If that 's the case, it's your
           | problem and only you can fix it.
           | 
           | Agglomeration effects are real and there are centers of dance
           | and music around the country that exist in self-reinforcing
           | cycles of training and performance. These scenes come and go
           | but they don't arise by themselves in isolated dying towns.
        
             | seabird wrote:
             | Where in my comment did you get that I think culture is a
             | barren plain of consumerism?
             | 
             |  _Some_ styles of dance and music, which are a _component_
             | of an overall culture, are totally centered in large
             | cities. Music is a bizarre thing to bring up -- bumfuck
             | nowhere Midwest smalltown is the origin and inspiration for
             | plenty of music that is listened to well outside of the
             | geographical region it 's from. Hardcore punk has plenty of
             | representation from gutted Rust Belt locales, and Midwest
             | emo is straight-up named after it. They _do_ arise and
             | perpetuate themselves in isolated locations, all around the
             | world.
             | 
             | Of course there are cultural aspects that large cities will
             | have and more rural areas won't, as well as the other way
             | around. Neither are lacking culture by virtue of lacking
             | the other's culture.
        
               | quesera wrote:
               | Large cities have _vastly_ more cultural opportunities
               | than rural areas.
               | 
               | More different kinds of culture (diversity), more
               | examples of each kind (quantity), and _usually_ better
               | examples of any cultural component which is available in
               | both (quality).
               | 
               | Rural areas certainly have cultures of their own. It is
               | not binary.
               | 
               | But you cannot reasonably compare the cultural
               | opportunities of urban vs rural and assert that rural is
               | not lacking, unless you are thinking of your personal
               | preferences only, and the rural area you're using for
               | comparison happens to match up very well with your own
               | preferences.
        
           | occamsrazorwit wrote:
           | How would you describe the local cultural opportunities in
           | your area?
        
             | seabird wrote:
             | Different than what's in a city, and generally not as
             | enjoyable if you're just passively consuming it. Lots of
             | motorsport (auto manufacturing was huge in the area, very
             | long tradition of it), fishing/hunting, local music (some
             | styles represented better than others, but that goes for
             | everywhere), hobbyist heavy industry. There's definitely
             | plenty of other stuff going on that I just haven't heard
             | about. Pretty often I run into situations where I'm talking
             | to somebody about a new interest and they say "yeah,
             | there's actually plenty of that going on, look into/talk to
             | X, Y, or Z". Not so much culinary or visual/fine arts stuff
             | happening, so if you're looking to participate/collaborate
             | as far as that goes, I can tell you off the top of my head
             | that the area would be a bad fit.
             | 
             | If you're looking to be involved in culture for just a few
             | hours at a time by going to a restaurant or show and not
             | being involved much past that, you're going to be painfully
             | bored here. I don't think doing that is a moral shortcoming
             | or anything like that, but there are a lot of people that
             | are doing that, don't realize it, and misinterpret the lack
             | of opportunities to do so outside of a large city as that
             | place just not having any culture at all.
        
       | ydlr wrote:
       | There is a little bit of a sleight of hand going on in this
       | article by claiming the lifestyle of boomers is within reach, but
       | then actually using boomers' parents and grand-parents as the
       | standard. It would be more honest to say "Most of us can't have
       | the relative wealth of our grand parents, but with some
       | sacrifices and creativity, the lifestyle of our great-grand
       | parents is attainable."
       | 
       | Even that is only true in a very narrow sense. My great-grand
       | parents built a 600sqft house in a small town and lived their
       | most of their lives. But they built that house right next to
       | their parents. They lived within 5 miles of their combined 9
       | siblings. They were within half a mile of their church and half
       | mile from the my great-grandfather's union hall. The town was
       | small, but thriving, with multiple department stores downtown. My
       | great-grandmother worked in two of them.
       | 
       | They did not isolate themselves into a dying town with few
       | opportunities far away from their friends and family.
       | 
       | What millinials and zoomers are really struggling with is the
       | hallowing out of the social and economic institutions that
       | supported our collective wealth and well-being. These struggles
       | may manifest as complaints about the individual ability to afford
       | housing, healthcare, education, etc. But there are not individual
       | solutions to these problems. They are structural.
        
         | jeffbee wrote:
         | Starting now you can also get the diseases your great-
         | grandparents enjoyed.
        
         | yupitsme123 wrote:
         | The communities that they lived in were more self-sufficient
         | and probably lived outside of the influence of large government
         | or corporations or lobbying groups.
         | 
         | The flourishing town probably grew that way organically, not
         | because of government support or because some company opened a
         | big facility there.
         | 
         | It's true that land is more expensive now, but even if you
         | could buy your own town and settle people on it, organic growth
         | is basically illegal or impossible nowadays.
        
           | ydlr wrote:
           | Actually, the town basically existed because of the TVA. It
           | was a major employer and profits went to fund the schools and
           | library.
        
             | nkurz wrote:
             | Coincidentally, there was an interesting article about the
             | relationship between Massena and their power company here a
             | few months ago:
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42992032
             | 
             | They have a publicly operated utility that seems to be
             | working well for them. It's a good story! Direct link:
             | https://nysfocus.com/2023/06/21/public-power-utility-
             | massena...
        
         | joaopscaa wrote:
         | > What millinials and zoomers are really struggling with is the
         | hallowing out of the social and economic institutions that
         | supported our collective wealth and well-being.
         | 
         | It's multi-dimensional, not even limited to just that. We are
         | living in a world of increased scarcity. The deleterious
         | effects of an increasing population are very real. From a labor
         | point of view, it's not just increased labor supply resulting
         | in devaluation of said labor. There are tighter margins in the
         | managerial and corporate level of things as well. Modern
         | societies are complex things that attempt to cover all of their
         | bases by inventing whole portions of economy through
         | structured, financial support from the top down. This means
         | that on a fundamental level, additional capital must be
         | appropriated by the organizational arms of society, including
         | the cost of labor to organize and implement such a thing to
         | begin with, which further reduces margins for the managerial
         | class and for the labor class. On top of that, these can be
         | counted on to compound the effects of increased competition at
         | all levels in the relevant industry through artificial flow of
         | capital sustaining said competition that otherwise wouldn't
         | exist. The idea is that more people, more labor, more value,
         | win/win/win. But in practice, we're already burning a mind-
         | boggling amount of entropy attempting to establish some
         | sensible bare-minimum degree of equity. More labor just means a
         | greater degree of a fake and "manually" structured economy to
         | stop whole swaths of society from collapsing in on itself. It's
         | not to say these systems of equity are bad, but they prop up an
         | inflated population number and THAT reduces the relative
         | importance (and thus power) of everyone as a result.
         | 
         | We also have to account for changing climates. Celestial
         | systems aren't static in the slightest, and the status quo
         | changes quite radically and quite frequently. We're currently
         | living in an ice age. During a hot house period, the
         | overwhelming majority of earth's surface ends up being about as
         | habitable as mercury. Even without anthropogenic climate change
         | (which probably just tipped the scales), the fact of the matter
         | is that the climate changes by itself too. It wasn't that long
         | ago that MENA was a lush, green paradise. Only 8000 years or so
         | which is an infinitesimal drop in the bucket. At some point, we
         | were going to enter another hot house period where only a
         | couple coasts are habitable. Wanna guess what that's going to
         | do to scarcity?
         | 
         | Of course, to whatever degree these things exist have no
         | linear, predictable relationship with some single-value macro
         | (or even micro) economic KPI. The highly chaotic system of
         | society is full of nth degree causal feedback loops which are
         | completely beyond prediction. There are nigh infinite more
         | problematic effects of growing populations as a result, I can't
         | hope to be exhaustive about it, or asterisk every permutation
         | of these abstract causes and effects.
         | 
         | There's a lot of rhetoric to be found which assures and
         | assuages that thermodynamics isn't real. There is no
         | relationship between population and scarcity, or if it does
         | exist, it's very minimal. We're not operating efficiently, and
         | we need to do that before we start to examine the relationship
         | between population numbers and quality of life. The convenient
         | part that they leave out is what a society built around
         | "efficiency" (in the sense that they mean) actually looks like.
         | We already have places where humans live according to extreme
         | principles of efficiency: Submarines. It really is efficient to
         | live in bunk beds and eat in cafeterias. Not sure many people
         | want to live like that though, so why the fuck are we trying to
         | build such a world?
        
         | sn9 wrote:
         | I thought this piece was satire.
         | 
         | Like even the framing showed how a ridiculous premise it was.
        
       | AndrewOMartin wrote:
       | Just make sure you don't get sick.
        
         | SoftTalker wrote:
         | Do like your great grandfather did, eat some hot chicken soup
         | and go to bed.
        
           | mrguyorama wrote:
           | Just a couple generations back my family members were dying
           | of preventable illness. Like I'm not joking, we have the
           | records.
        
         | Goronmon wrote:
         | Also, you just need to continually scavenge for "free" water
         | and heat.
         | 
         | Don't forget the free fishing rod/equipment.
        
           | jocaal wrote:
           | In the article he mentions there is a well at the house. Also
           | blankets and wood fires are free heat.
        
             | jeffbee wrote:
             | In what way is wood free? To heat even a tiny home purpose-
             | built for high efficiency you'd need several acres of woods
             | to sustainably harvest. For a falling-apart $30k hovel in
             | upstate NY you'd probably need more like 15 acres, and you
             | don't get a 15-acre stand of woods in the deal for that
             | price.
        
               | aaronbaugher wrote:
               | I heat my two-story, not-very-efficient house with wood.
               | I'm not in upstate NY, but not much further south in the
               | Midwest, where we get some sub-zero weather. For
               | firewood, I cut dead or fallen trees that need to be
               | removed on a neighboring farm, so they're "free" (not
               | counting the cost of saw, chains, gas, oil...).
               | 
               | So yeah, you do have to have some timber available. But
               | if you live in the kind of place he's talking about,
               | there's more than enough to go around. Most of the land
               | where I live is in crops, but there are enough trees
               | along the creeks and in rough areas that all the people
               | burning wood don't make a dent in them.
        
               | michpoch wrote:
               | At these electricity prices bothering with wood might not
               | be worth it. If you get some, that's nice, but otherwise
               | just insulate the house well and you're golden.
        
               | justinrubek wrote:
               | Who said anything about sustainability?
               | 
               | My parents would heat their home this way. Actually, I
               | think they still do. They'd gather all sorts of wood from
               | fallen trees on other peoples' land as a sort of
               | "service" aka- they haul it away and you don't deal with
               | it. Is it worth the cost savings? I highly doubt it.
               | They're just not good with managing time/money.
        
               | BenjiWiebe wrote:
               | There's a guy around here (central Kansas) that charges
               | money to clean up unwanted trees or hedge rows (tree row
               | between fields). He then turns around and sells the
               | firewood.
               | 
               | From what I can tell both of his services are pretty
               | popular.
        
               | dmurray wrote:
               | 15 acres? It should take far less than an acre. The house
               | isn't well insulated, but it's also small. A few big
               | trees, say 40-year Sitka spruce, should last the whole
               | winter, and you can plant a thousand of those on an acre.
               | 
               | Of course it depends on the land and the house. But
               | here's some Reddit comments also estimating the need at <
               | 1 acre
               | 
               | https://www.reddit.com/r/homestead/comments/1jnpbug/how_m
               | uch...
        
               | jeffbee wrote:
               | Perhaps you will be surprised by the lack of Sitka spruce
               | in St. Lawrence County, NY. I think you are significantly
               | overstating the volume of timber that can be harvested
               | from that kind of forest.
        
               | AngryData wrote:
               | As someone who has been burning wood for heat for 35
               | years, those people are out of their damn mind if they
               | think 1 acre will supply them their fire wood. 1 acre
               | will absolutely not grow enough wood to heat your home
               | unless you are cutting it all down and moving away in a
               | few years. It takes a decade of growth just to get a tree
               | to the point where it is growing at a reasonable rate, it
               | needs a root system built up before it can grow
               | efficiently, and that root system is destroyed when you
               | cut the tree down and the next set of trees needs to
               | regrow it.
               | 
               | And even with a well managed rotating stock of trees, you
               | are going to at best get just over half a cord per acre.
               | And in my area which is as close to the same weather as
               | Northern New York as it gets, I would expect they would
               | need atleast full 3 cords of wood to make it through a
               | mild winter, more if it is a colder winter or if no snow
               | builds up to help insulate or if you live on an open plot
               | where wind can blow over your house.
               | 
               | I wouldn't even consider trying to survive on my own tree
               | wood unless I had at least 10 acres to harvest off of,
               | and it would still depend on the type of trees growing
               | there and is still kind of straddling the edge of
               | sustainable long term.
               | 
               | Maybe if you went full 16th century and started coppicing
               | the woods and maintaining bare minimum heating you could
               | do better, but coppiced woods also takes a decade to
               | initial establish and maintain and nobody has coppiced
               | woods just sitting around waiting to be utilized.
        
               | jeffbee wrote:
               | There's also the small matter that the guy to whom you
               | replied was suggesting that "free wood" means burning
               | trees worth thousands of dollars each.
        
             | Goronmon wrote:
             | _In the article he mentions there is a well at the house._
             | 
             | Wells are not "free water" unless you never have to worry
             | about any sort of repair or maintenance.
        
           | hollerith wrote:
           | The OP says that electricity there "presently sells for just
           | $0.04/kwh". If it were just me living there, I'd heat one
           | room with electricity just for the sheer convenience (and
           | lack of toxicity from combustion products) and keep the rest
           | of the house unheated. (Yes, I'd probably have to make
           | alterations to make sure the pipes don't freeze.)
           | 
           | And I'd use a heated vest.
        
             | johnisgood wrote:
             | Just dress up well, cozily.
        
         | exhilaration wrote:
         | At that income level and in a blue state, there might actually
         | be pretty good health coverage.
         | 
         | I've got a relative who lost his job last year, his wife gave
         | birth in Long Island soon after and they paid pretty close to
         | nothing.
        
           | AngryData wrote:
           | "Pretty close to nothing" can still an absolutely massive
           | expense when you are living on 1/4 the pay as others in more
           | urban and prosperous areas though.
        
       | Taikonerd wrote:
       | > _any American could live an earlier iteration of the American
       | Dream -- and could be living so cheaply, they've got their
       | expatriate buddies down in Mexico beat._
       | 
       | Their expatriate buddies down in Mexico probably aren't shivering
       | through an upstate New York winter with nothing but a wood-
       | burning stove for warmth, the way this guy proposes.
        
         | Goronmon wrote:
         | Yeah, leaving the "heat" part of the list just blank is pretty
         | telling as far as how much thought went into this.
        
           | ruste wrote:
           | I've been following this guy for a while on X. He does live
           | this way. This isn't a hypothetical. He lives on his writing
           | and has plenty of free time to chop all the wood he'd ever
           | need.
        
             | Goronmon wrote:
             | That's not what the article says.
             | 
             |  _Considering that the property has a well on-site, water
             | is free, and as far as heat goes, well, one could either
             | pay a little extra in electric for that -- or they could
             | have the Amish deliver their scrap wood from their sawmills
             | to burn in a wood stove, very cheaply._
             | 
             | Maybe "a little bit of electricity" or "very cheap scrap
             | wood" appear to be the vague plans for how to handle heat.
        
               | sgerenser wrote:
               | Apparently electricity is 4c/KWh there, so it really is
               | only a "little bit extra" even if you're heating with
               | resistance heat (at least for a 600sf house).
        
             | Taikonerd wrote:
             | Sure, I think a certain rare type of guy can really thrive
             | like this. But _most_ people don 't want to live like this,
             | for understandable reasons.
        
           | michpoch wrote:
           | At 4 cents per 1kWh heating will not be an issue, even with
           | regular resistive heater. It's almost free electricity.
           | 
           | You could run a 1.5 kW heater 24/7 for roughly 40 USD a
           | month. Just make sure the space is well insulated and not too
           | large - but we're talking about basic living, so that should
           | be easy.
        
             | rconti wrote:
             | It seems like you'd need more than 1.5kW of heat in upstate
             | new york, even for a small place (which is more than half
             | the size of my suburban home). Also, while I agree that $40
             | is cheap to me, it's also an additional 10% on their
             | budget.
        
               | michpoch wrote:
               | > Also, while I agree that $40 is cheap to me, it's also
               | an additional 10% on their budget.
               | 
               | They already have 30 USD per month for electricity in
               | their budget. All year long.
               | 
               | > which is more than half the size of my suburban home)
               | 
               | How much space you need for a single person? 30-40 sqm
               | (300-400 sqft)? That's more than you need.
               | 
               | Sure, middle of winter night you might need a bit more
               | heat, but then in June you'll be using close to none.
        
               | rconti wrote:
               | Of course it's more space than I need. My point was that
               | heating 600sqft doesn't strike me as a trivial task,
               | given my context of heating a house that's less than
               | double the size in a temperate climate.
               | 
               | Not to argue (?) that their house is too small (??)
               | 
               | And their $30 electric budget explicitly excluded heat.
        
             | ryoshu wrote:
             | So > 10% of your budget goes to heat in cold months.
        
               | michpoch wrote:
               | Yes, that's seems rather low even? Plus that is basically
               | almost included in their budget - 30 USD for electricity
               | is already there.
        
             | y-curious wrote:
             | It's not about heating your house, it's about being able to
             | leave it comfortably.
             | 
             | Sincerely, someone who moved from Buffalo NY to Northern
             | California and has never once regretted it.
        
       | Goronmon wrote:
       | I enjoy the part about "Heat? Well...I'm sure something will
       | happen allowing me to have heat. No need for concrete plans
       | there."
        
         | diogocp wrote:
         | You mean this part?
         | 
         | > as far as heat goes, well, one could either pay a little
         | extra in electric for that -- or they could have the Amish
         | deliver their scrap wood from their sawmills to burn in a wood
         | stove, very cheaply.
        
           | Goronmon wrote:
           | Those are both vague and completely different ways to handle
           | heating.
           | 
           | Also, conveniently, neither appear to have an associated cost
           | so we don't have to worry about whether the financial math
           | works out.
        
             | celestialcheese wrote:
             | It's because when you live rural like this, wood stoves are
             | common, and wood is free.
             | 
             | I live in the northwest, so I can't speak to upstate NY,
             | but downed trees on state and federal land near roads is
             | free to take. Every day there's people posting rounds of
             | wood for free to take.
             | 
             | It's hard work, but it's good exercise and rewarding.
             | 
             | There's some upfront investment: $200 chainsaw, an old
             | maul, and an old pickup truck, but those amortized over a
             | decade is practically speaking $0 heat.
        
               | Goronmon wrote:
               | If that's what you do in this situation, why didn't the
               | author write that instead?
               | 
               |  _There 's some upfront investment: $200 chainsaw, an old
               | maul, and an old pickup truck, but those amortized over a
               | decade is practically speaking $0 heat._
               | 
               | I feel like this is really stretching the definition of
               | "$0".
        
               | kemotep wrote:
               | Well water being free also means amortizing the potential
               | maintenance costs of the pump, filters, and testing to
               | make sure you aren't drinking arsenic or lead.
        
               | smileysteve wrote:
               | And yeah, a truck costs money, whether for maintenance
               | and gas, or bare bones insurance.
               | 
               | .. a cargo bike might be a better choice
        
               | Karrot_Kream wrote:
               | To add to the sibling comment, collecting this wood takes
               | time. I've collected wood the forest service takes down
               | for use in a stove I use but processing all that wood
               | takes time. You bring it home, cut it into small bits,
               | keep it in a dry area to make sure the green wood dries
               | out, and then you meticulously rotate older and newer
               | stock to make sure you use the driest stuff for heating.
               | 
               | If you're living on $432 / month and working 30-40 hours
               | at this cashier job then using your off days to grab and
               | process wood is honestly pretty miserable. There are
               | slums in developing countries with higher standards of
               | living because they can heat their "house" (read: tent or
               | hut) with oil.
        
               | fullStackOasis wrote:
               | Well, minimum wage in NY state is $15.50/hour.
               | ($432/mo)/($15.50/h) is about 28 hours per month, i.e. 7
               | hours per week. https://dol.ny.gov/minimum-wage-0
               | 
               | He also mentions other forms of employment, like raising
               | rare herbs, so maybe he's got a little homegrown
               | operation going that doesn't take much time.
        
               | Karrot_Kream wrote:
               | Good catch on the hourly rates there.
               | 
               | Other than that, again, not sure how different it is from
               | living slums in underdeveloped countries. Me, I'd rather
               | just save up and buy some oil.
        
               | bigjimmyk3 wrote:
               | I grew up in a 1300sf wood heated house, so I have
               | relevant experience here. It does take time to buck,
               | split, load, unload, and stack the wood. It goes faster
               | if you have a small child (me) to help!
               | 
               | We cut wood for our own use and also sold it, so it
               | didn't require 100% of our time to keep the heat on.
        
               | hyperpape wrote:
               | The author makes a big deal out of not having a car, and
               | the math gets a heck of a lot worse if you add a truck.
        
               | AngryData wrote:
               | Wood is not free, and you have to consider the time and
               | gas and tools to cut it, also this guy doesn't even have
               | a car not to mention a truck to haul it, and he is living
               | on a lot, not a wooded acreage. 90% of wood people want
               | to get rid of for free is pine or fir which takes 4 times
               | as much to match hardwood heating, and takes more careful
               | stone pipe maintenance to not build up creosote and get a
               | chimney fire, a lot of people exclusively burn hardwood
               | just because of the risks of burning softwood and causing
               | a fire from buildup. Even myself being "lucky" to have
               | Emerald Ash Bore which has killed 95% of ash trees and
               | given me "free" dead hardwood for the last 25 years
               | wouldn't consider it free.
               | 
               | Say you do have a wooded plot, the first year or two it
               | might not be so bad, lots of wood near the edges where
               | you can drive up to to load and move, but what about
               | after that when you have to go deeper into the woods? You
               | need to get in there, it may not be accessible by truck
               | or get swampy where you will get stuck, and now you are
               | considering a tractor or other vehicle, a decent expense
               | to obtain, in order to not have to carry all your wood an
               | armload at a time through the woods longer and longer
               | distances. Chains and gas and oil for cutting it aren't
               | expensive but not free, nor is maintaining a gas chainsaw
               | if you seriously use it for all your heating wood, doubly
               | so if you aren't already mechanically inclined enough to
               | repair engines. And then you still have to split it.
               | There are cheap splitters, but cheap spliters will only
               | split the wood that took little effort to split with an
               | axe, and less than half the wood you cut is going to be
               | that easy to split straight grain wood, so you are either
               | going to need more for a splitter or to be physically fit
               | and capable enough to split a lot of gnarly wood by hand.
               | Some people enjoy it for the exercise, I do, but not
               | everyone is up to it, and it is such a hard physical
               | activity that you need to be in good health to maintain
               | it.
               | 
               | Also splitting mauls are a gimmick, they take far more
               | effort than a long handled axe and are only a good option
               | if you are otherwise incapable of using an axe. Speed
               | applies more kinetic energy than mass, kinetic energy is
               | half of the mass times velocity squared, so doubling the
               | mass you are throwing around is far less effective at
               | applying force into splitting than trying to double your
               | swing speed. And that is the biggest "trick" to a good
               | axe split, swing speed, which is why you want a long
               | handle. Mauls are far slower than an axe, take more
               | energy than an axe to lift and swing, and are far less
               | capable of splitting more gnarly wood as the more
               | aggressive edge angle has a much harder time splitting
               | into and separating the grain as much of the energy
               | merely crushes wood fibers before it bites in and starts
               | wedging. If an axe can't do it, a maul won't do it even
               | more, and then you are getting into a sledge hammer and
               | steel wedges anyways, and a wedge and sledge are easier
               | to set and more maneuverable than a maul with a big ass
               | handle on it.
               | 
               | Burning wood is a decent way to heat a house if someone
               | is always at the house in regular 8 hour intervals or
               | more, but it has a lot of caveats and is not what I would
               | call free. More like subsidizing a portion of the cost of
               | with hard physical labor.
        
         | guerrilla wrote:
         | Seems like a tongue in cheek way of implying that climate
         | change will solve that eventually, no?
        
       | keiferski wrote:
       | Existing on the living standards of say, 1945, or even 1960, is
       | very possible and allows you to make less money and presumably
       | work on what you truly care about.
       | 
       | But that means you don't get the latest iPhone, cook basic foods
       | at home and rarely eat out, repair your own appliances, and so
       | on. The hardest part, I think, would be dealing with the social
       | expectations of society at large. 1960 living standards were
       | universal in 1960, but nowadays you're fighting the entirety of
       | Western marketing machine.
        
         | NegativeK wrote:
         | I think the author is very comfortable fighting the Western
         | marketing machine. I also don't think they are capable of
         | understanding why other people have other needs.
        
         | kemotep wrote:
         | Do you forgo modern medicine?
        
         | giraffe_lady wrote:
         | You would not be able to afford any kind of property insurance
         | or medical care with this budget. You won't be able to have a
         | well dug or a septic system maintained either. We're going back
         | a few decades farther than 1945 to make this work I think.
        
         | jedimastert wrote:
         | > 1960 living standards were universal in 1960
         | 
         | Universal for whom?
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Civil_Rights_Act_of_1964
        
           | keiferski wrote:
           | I wrote that to imply that the living standards of 1960 were
           | normal in 1960, but wouldn't be normal today. Don't over-
           | focus on the word _universal_ and miss the point I was
           | making.
        
             | jedimastert wrote:
             | And don't miss the point that I'm making, which is that the
             | standards of living in 1960 for some people was built on
             | the back of exploiting others.
        
               | keiferski wrote:
               | Sigh. Again, that has nothing to do with my comment. My
               | point was that living standards at X point in the past
               | were normal for the time but aren't normal for today.
               | 1960 was a random year I picked. The point is that if one
               | can manage to live "behind the times" materially, life is
               | cheaper.
        
         | dmonitor wrote:
         | > that means you don't get the latest iPhone
         | 
         | Why do people always have to call out "the latest iPhone". Most
         | people can't afford the latest iPhone, nor do they try. You
         | might as well say a Lamborghini. Why can't you be honest and
         | just say "a smartphone".
        
           | kemotep wrote:
           | Even a brand new iPhone 16 is "only" $800. Plans for
           | unlimited internet can be had for less than $40 a month.
           | 
           | Using that phone for 5 years would only add like $60 to their
           | total monthly expenses. Is that truly unattainable? Is that
           | really what is keeping people from buying a house?
        
             | smileysteve wrote:
             | $60 is ~14% of the monthly budget, so yeah, I think that
             | would make an impact.
        
             | AngryData wrote:
             | That is a shit ton of money for someone living in a poor
             | rural area living on the bare minimum. It is only cheap if
             | you are living in a city where you are earning far more
             | money.
        
             | MinimalAction wrote:
             | I do believe that's a privilege to throw an extra $60 per
             | month at something for five years straight. It's not truly
             | stopping us from buying a house, but this mentality that
             | everything could be bought on credit, this consumerism is
             | where we are hurt.
        
         | danans wrote:
         | > But that means you don't get the latest iPhone, cook basic
         | foods at home and rarely eat out, repair your own appliances,
         | and so on.
         | 
         | You can save quite a bit of money by living this way even in
         | high CoL areas. That's how a lot of people without high incomes
         | in those areas get by - by getting handy and resourceful.
         | Through that, they often develop/discover talents and skills,
         | and save a lot of expenses.
         | 
         | For my part, I've done all my own landscaping,
         | installed/repaired/maintained my home appliances, built my
         | kitchen cabinetry and other furniture, etc. I estimate these
         | efforts have saved me at least 100k over the years, probably
         | much more.
         | 
         | I don't think it's nearly enough to offset the housing,
         | education and healthcare unaffordability crises, but it's a way
         | in which regular workers get by.
         | 
         | However, the call-Uber/Doordash/Handyman for everything
         | lifestyle isn't something that works unless you are highly paid
         | and have no kids.
        
         | insane_dreamer wrote:
         | The point is that you don't need many of those things to have
         | good quality of life. Not having a TV or being on social media
         | would help a lot with resisting the relentless consumerist
         | pressure.
        
       | egypturnash wrote:
       | _they'd need to leave behind the idea that snow, overcast, wind,
       | rain, and long winters are all that bad to contend with, because
       | in all truth, they're actually great._
       | 
       | I am glad people like this exist because that means there is less
       | competition for the climate zones I can live in without having to
       | perpetually struggle with the urge to kill myself on a daily
       | basis. I am from the Gulf Coast and the years I lived in Seattle
       | were a constant fight with seasonal depression. Once I left for
       | sunnier climes again all of that just _vanished_.
        
         | pavel_lishin wrote:
         | That's exactly how I feel about hot climates - the idea of
         | moving to Texas instantly makes me flash back to being
         | constantly sweaty (alternating, of course, with freezing
         | anywhere indoors as people crank the AC down to somewhere in
         | the 50s), and to the dreary winters whose palette is washed out
         | browns and dirty greys.
         | 
         | Every time I visit the beach, I remember: wow, I really hate
         | this!
        
         | speuleralert wrote:
         | Definitely a different strokes for different folks situation. I
         | am also from the Gulf Coast and I genuinely love the cool rainy
         | Seattle weather. In fact, I was just lamenting having to squint
         | to see in the "hot" (65 F) sunny day this morning in Seattle.
        
         | Supermancho wrote:
         | Heating a space is easier and cheaper than cooling one. I find
         | the midwest is plenty dry and plenty warm, even with multi-
         | month snowy winters.
        
           | triceratops wrote:
           | > Heating a space is easier and cheaper than cooling one.
           | 
           | Not really no. Cooling always uses heat pumps (air
           | conditioning) while heating only sometimes uses heat pumps.
           | And cooling usually has a smaller temperature delta than
           | heating. It comes down to the relative costs of natural gas
           | and electricity where you live.
        
           | rconti wrote:
           | It's not though. Even though fuel to heat is vastly cheaper
           | than electricity to cool, the winter thermal difference in a
           | cold climate is an order of magnitude more than the summer
           | thermal difference in a hot climate.
           | 
           | https://www.scienceabc.com/eyeopeners/why-does-it-take-
           | more-...
        
           | munificent wrote:
           | The way Seattle affects some people isn't about temperature.
           | It's the long dark.
           | 
           | I also grew up along the Gulf Coast and live in Seattle now.
           | I've had a bunch of other friends and family who have moved
           | to the Pacific Northwest. Some love it and are still here and
           | some lose the will to live and wilt like sunflowers in the
           | dark. I don't know of any way to predict how the gloom will
           | affect you. You just have to come here for a year and see how
           | it goes.
        
           | AngryData wrote:
           | If you are living near New York im not sure how dry you can
           | consider it. You are East of the Great Lakes which makes it
           | rain. In the middle of summer it might be dry, but both the
           | spring and fall i expect to be very wet and humid, and unless
           | the Great Lakes freeze over in the winter, which is happening
           | less and less by the year, you will have a wet slushy winter.
        
       | chasd00 wrote:
       | Living in rural areas is probably very different now with
       | connectivity options like cell phones and Starlink. I went to HS
       | in a small town ( pop. < 1k ), it has advantages and
       | disadvantages just like going to HS in a big city. However,
       | entertainment in a small town was vastly different then vs today.
       | It's probably a lot easier to live out in the middle of nowhere
       | now without going crazy as long as you have power and something
       | like Starlink.
        
       | joshstrange wrote:
       | So many problems with this, including "Live like a boomer" ->
       | "Actually, live like their parents or their grandparents" but
       | this one:
       | 
       | > Internet: Use library
       | 
       | Ok, funny joke. As if it's actually _reasonable_ to live without
       | a smartphone or the internet in 2025 (or 2015 for that matter).
       | Can you do it? Sure, I guess, why would you? I'm not on
       | TikTok/IG/<insert social network here other than HN>, that's not
       | what I'm talking about here, but it seems almost criminal to not
       | have access to the internet, it would be akin to parents refusing
       | to take a kid to the doctor. Why would you proudly be ignorant
       | and cut yourself from such a valuable resource?
        
       | NegativeK wrote:
       | > Yes, startling as it could be to many "Zoomers" and
       | "Milennials," it just so happens that if you really want to
       | become a member of the landed gentry, it's really not so far out
       | of reach just the moment you decide that you like the snow, don't
       | need access to the hottest clubs and the biggest cities, and can
       | be more than happy with getting cozy in a smaller house.
       | 
       | This is strawman to the point of rhetoric and reminds me of the
       | "you can afford a house if you'd just stop eating avocado toast
       | all the time." I'm actually not sure if the article is meant to
       | be rhetoric with a pitch for small town America or if it's an
       | actual argument that happens to have a lot of bad faith claims.
       | 
       | I hope OP is enjoying where they live. I also hope they visit
       | small towns where skilled tradespeople are losing their jobs and
       | businesses due to shifts in America. I don't think telling them
       | to work at a gas station would go over well.
        
       | kemotep wrote:
       | Trailers in trailer parks in my rural census designated
       | micropolitan statistical area of Ohio go for 60k at the minimum
       | so there certainly is a lot of modern amenities you would have to
       | accept to live without in the house described in the article. And
       | by modern amenities I mean heat and potentially running water.
       | 
       | This reminds me of a hunting cabin in Alaska you could rent for
       | 100 bucks a month. One room. Wood fire stove. Outhouse. Only an
       | hour outside of Fort Wainwright. Good luck is all I have to say.
        
       | viccis wrote:
       | This almost seemed like it was going to be a Modest Proposal
       | style tongue-in-cheek skewering of this "old man yells at cloud"
       | style of curmudgeonly generational finger wagging. The breakdown
       | of that $432 itself was almost enough to be a farce. But no, the
       | author really does believe this. (Please correct if I'm wrong, as
       | it still seems hard to believe such a fatuous piece could be
       | written and submitted here)
       | 
       | >At the end of it, most people don't want to live this way.
       | That's OK -- I'm not here to judge them. But I am here to tell
       | anyone who is fed up with the housing market, tired of living the
       | "4HL," and sick of seeing our country's heartland regions
       | continue to crumble that there are actionable solutions to their
       | problems. They could do it today. They could make the change if
       | they wished.
       | 
       | No one is angry that they can't buy a piece of shit shack in
       | middle America where they will have to walk an hour each way to
       | work at their (as suggested by the author) gas station cashier
       | job in the deep snow all winter.
       | 
       | They are angry that in much of the latter 20th century, when the
       | actual "boomers" (rather than the previous generations that the
       | author is disingenuously using in their place) could afford a
       | home that was near jobs and community without being in the top
       | 10-20 percentile of earners. They're angry that this is no longer
       | the case for a number of reasons depending on whom you ask, to
       | include housing as speculation, generational wealth destroyed by
       | medical debt, onerous zoning and regulations preventing housing
       | development, selfish older generations selling their homes (and
       | therefore much of their generational wealth) to fund either
       | lavish retirements or more medical treatments, etc, etc.
       | 
       | Yeah you can live a 1910s rural lifestyle on the cheap, sure.
       | Hell, get a tent and a backpack and you can live the hobo life in
       | any of our major US cities today! But this is ignoring the
       | obvious question, which is: If the productivity of our nation has
       | exploded so tremendously since that time, where has all of the
       | wealth gone that one would even dare suggest that we live a life
       | of sufficient poverty to be suspended in that century-old way of
       | life?
        
         | xp84 wrote:
         | You seem really certain that the older 'way of life' is
         | categorically bad, but you seem very unhappy and angry in the
         | life that you reject it in favor of.
         | 
         | Also, you can make any number of easy tweaks to his formula to
         | allow you to have conveniences that would make your life orders
         | of magnitude richer than the true 1910s were. For instance, a
         | $3,000 car, Internet access, etc. Also, anyone coming into this
         | experiment with savings from a few years of "big city work" has
         | a huge amount of capital to play with to set themselves up.
         | $200,000 in savings would give you $10k a year in interest
         | income to live on at current rates, for instance.
         | 
         | The whole point is mainly one about being honest about WHY we
         | have to work 40-60 hours a week so we can stretch to afford a
         | million-dollar starter home, two luxury cars, designer clothes,
         | and IG-worthy vacations. Some people would arguably be happier
         | working little to not-at-all, or working for themselves to make
         | $10k a year and devoting the rest of their time to whatever
         | makes them happy. Why is that so offensive an idea?
        
           | xwiz wrote:
           | > The whole point is mainly one about being honest about WHY
           | we have to work 40-60 hours a week so we can stretch to
           | afford a million-dollar starter home, two luxury cars,
           | designer clothes, and IG-worthy vacations.
           | 
           | I have never met a single person of my generation for which
           | this holds true. If this is the perspective that the author
           | is trying to refute, fine, but I cannot say that it is a
           | common one.
           | 
           | > $200,000 in savings would give you $10k a year in interest
           | income to live on at current rates, for instance.
           | 
           | Come on. Most Americans will never see $200K in their life.
           | [1]
           | 
           | [1] https://www.economicpolicyresearch.org/resource-
           | library/rese...
        
             | xp84 wrote:
             | Okay, but we are reading this on HN. Anyone working for the
             | past 10 years in tech should have that much saved up
             | easily. If for the past 10 years you put just $400 a month
             | into SPY and did nothing else, you'd have about $95,000.
             | About 126k for QQQ. [0]
             | 
             | And I don't think most people can't afford to save $400 a
             | month. Lots of people save that much.
             | 
             | [0]: https://dqydj.com/etf-return-calculator/
        
               | johnny22 wrote:
               | Why would you assume people are talking about themselves
               | just because it's on HN? I'm reading these comments much
               | more broadly.
        
               | xp84 wrote:
               | I didn't mean to assume anything about the whole world,
               | but _we_ are talking about _ourselves_ here, so our
               | situations matter to us. I read the article as a thought
               | experiment that is available to me personally and many
               | others, even if it isn 't practical for literally every
               | human being.
        
           | triceratops wrote:
           | > so we can stretch to afford a million-dollar starter home,
           | two luxury cars, designer clothes, and IG-worthy vacations
           | 
           | Only one of those we have control over. If starter homes cost
           | a million what can you do?
        
             | sgerenser wrote:
             | Move to a place where starter homes are cheaper?
        
         | walleeee wrote:
         | If you're so concerned about class warfare, as I agree we ought
         | to be, you need to get along with the people from middle
         | America or anywhere else who consider this a perfectly
         | respectable way of life. Many of them are equally fed up with
         | things.
        
           | hyperpape wrote:
           | Huh? My in-laws came from industrial maintenance/construction
           | companies in rural North Carolina. They vote for Trump,
           | majority of them go to Southern Baptist churches. I spent two
           | years living out there and working for one of their
           | industrial maintenance companies.
           | 
           | This is not what they aspire to, or what 95% percent of the
           | people living there aspire to.
           | 
           | Sure, the fishing sounds good, and the country living, but
           | living without a car? No TV? Never eating out? That's weird,
           | man.
           | 
           | This guy's life is no more representative of how most people
           | in red states live than any blue state office worker who idly
           | talks about going to live on a commune is representative of
           | how people in NYC live.
           | 
           | Sure, lots of folks from any culture have a dream of getting
           | back to the simple life. But it's an idle fantasy for almost
           | everyone.
        
         | fullStackOasis wrote:
         | > They're angry that ... selfish older generations selling
         | their homes (and therefore much of their generational wealth)
         | to fund either lavish retirements or more medical treatments,
         | etc, etc.
         | 
         | Wait, so they're angry because people are spending their money
         | on themselves for fun stuff at the end of their lives? Or maybe
         | even using it for un-fun medical care? Rather than handing it
         | over to their kids? I don't know what to say. Except that I'm
         | glad I never had kids.
        
       | pgwhalen wrote:
       | There are a lot of specifics HN can and will nitpick in this
       | piece, but the perspective is useful and not invalidated by these
       | specifics. Personally I would never choose this lifestyle, but I
       | like that OP highlights how clearly it can exist.
        
       | kens wrote:
       | The article mentions that the Moses-Saunders International Power
       | Dam is nearby. A bit of a tangent, but this was built by Robert
       | Moses, who isn't as well known as he should be. Moses built a
       | huge number of projects that reshaped New York City: the state
       | parkway, lots of bridges including the TriBorough and Verrazzano-
       | Narrows, multiple NYC expressways, Jones Beach, Shea Stadium,
       | Lincoln Center, United Nations headquarters, large public housing
       | projects, and so forth.
       | 
       | If you like very long books, you should read "The Power Broker",
       | a biography of Moses that explains how he used his job as state
       | park commissioner to become one of the most powerful (and
       | controversial) people in New York.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | > _Massena is one of the poorest, least-desirable places not only
       | in New York State, but in the United States at large. [...] on
       | the flip-side, it's within very close distance of two major
       | Canadian cities, [...]_
       | 
       | Coincidentally, recently thinking of Handmaid's Tale for some
       | reason... I was clicking on towns on Google Maps, on either side
       | of the NE US border with Canada, and was struck by many of the
       | _featured photos_ of these places being abandoned-rural-decay.
       | 
       | Probably because overgrown abandoned human activity is
       | interesting to photographers. And maybe that constitutes the
       | majority of photos from those places being shared with Google
       | Maps.
       | 
       | But I also had an idle thought of what-if there was a conscious
       | effort to discourage people from going there, like a town that's
       | kept off of maps. So I started looking around for hints of
       | sensitive government facilities, developers buying up large
       | swaths of land, etc. The first thing I found was an industrial
       | marijuana-growing operation.
       | 
       | I didn't know what to make of it, other than that land might be
       | affordable, and hopefully Amazon delivers.
        
       | kayodelycaon wrote:
       | You definitely have to be a certain type of person to do this.
       | Not everyone is physically and mentally capable and has a
       | "socially-acceptable morality" to live that kind of lifestyle.
       | 
       | Access to healthcare is also a serious problem. Also the people
       | may be hostile to anyone who is "a liberal" or "woke". I wouldn't
       | recommend being openly transgender in one of these places.
        
       | DrillShopper wrote:
       | > Taxes: $41
       | 
       | > Electric: ~$30
       | 
       | > Water: $0
       | 
       | > Heat: (no, it's really blank)
       | 
       | > Transit: $53 for a 30-ride pass for each person living there,
       | assuming you go to town 3x per week at $2/trip. Multiple options
       | to take the bus to town each day from this location.
       | 
       | > Food: ~$300/mo.
       | 
       | > Telephone: $8/mo
       | 
       | > Entertainment: Fishing and library, free
       | 
       | > Internet: Use library
       | 
       | This author cannot be coming at this from a serious point of view
       | with this absolute embarrassment of a cost breakdown. There is no
       | accounting here for _heat_ (which is sort of important in the
       | middle of  "American Siberia"), property taxes, homeowner's
       | insurance, healthcare, or saving for retirement.
       | 
       | > I've known men who grow rare Chinese medicinal herbs in
       | greenhouses on a tenth of an acre to sell via the mail; or my
       | uncle, who takes lumber from old barns and crafts it into shelves
       | to sell online.
       | 
       | Damn, I be that would be a lot easier with an Internet connection
       | at home and a smartphone.
        
         | qingcharles wrote:
         | He overpriced the phone. Good2Go have a 1GB data plan for $5/mo
         | that I use. I only need data when I'm outside the house. You
         | can buy a half-decent Android phone off eBay for $30-50. But,
         | you still need some sort of Internet. If you can't get wired,
         | then that means having to fork out for Starlink or Hughes.
         | 
         | I'm in literally the middle of nowhere in a one-horse town and
         | it has 1Gbps wired to my house and they just put in a second
         | company with 5Gbps the other day, which is wild.
        
           | junar wrote:
           | I'd expect 5G home internet to be cheaper than satellite,
           | though probably still more expensive than an ultra-low-cost
           | cellular plan.
        
             | qingcharles wrote:
             | True. Verizon and T-Mobile both had really awesome 5G home
             | Internet plans for $25/mo. I had the T-Mobile one for a
             | while in 2022 and was getting 800Mbps which was wild.
        
         | cricketsandmops wrote:
         | Perhaps the author heats with a wood stove. You have to get
         | wood through your labor or buying it though, so it's not truly
         | 0$. Plus the time and effort to keep it going.
        
       | distantsounds wrote:
       | this dude _literally_ wrote about a neighboring town that's dying
       | and the government isn't helping them out.
       | https://shagbark.substack.com/p/obituaryland
       | 
       | Convincing people to move to a remote area while at the same time
       | seeing literal ghost towns develop, is not something I would
       | recommend. What happens when the public utilities fail? The roads
       | need repairing? One of the _many_ blizzard-like seasons can knock
       | out critical infrastructure.
        
       | 999900000999 wrote:
       | >Though I and my wife do not presently live in Massena, we live
       | nearby, and we're doing exactly this -- we do not have an
       | automobile, nor do we want one. We use the rural county transit
       | bus, which we have found to be extremely cheap and quite
       | reliable; and it has certainly saved us thousands and thousands
       | of dollars by liberating us from the onerous expense of keeping a
       | car.
       | 
       | This part has me screaming shenanigans. Unless you basically
       | don't leave the house, you need a car outside of like 8 American
       | cities. More believable would be a pair of used bikes.
        
         | fzeroracer wrote:
         | Agreed, looking at the map of Massena this seems like bullshit.
         | I've lived without a car for my entire life across multiple
         | states and it is incredibly onerous in even mildly dense areas.
        
           | monroeclinton wrote:
           | https://www.slcnypublictransit.com/transit-schedules
           | 
           | It seems like they have a good number of routes and do route
           | deviation within 3/4 of a mile of the bus stop.
        
             | fzeroracer wrote:
             | Frequency is often as important as the route from
             | experience; because a route that's reasonably distant from
             | your location can be walked to/biked to etc but a low-
             | frequency route means it's something you need to plan your
             | entire day around. And if you miss any bus then you're
             | stranded (which, given that they don't have internet I'm
             | curious how they manage...)
             | 
             | Most of the bus routes here seem to run maybe twice a day,
             | once early in the morning and then once late in the
             | afternoon. There's a few more frequent ones that run on the
             | hour but it looks to be closer to the denser cores.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | Rural bus routes used to be very common - they commute in
               | in the morning and out in the afternoon.
               | 
               | You change your schedule to handle that, and they usually
               | will drive the van (barely a bus) up to your door.
        
               | fullStackOasis wrote:
               | > a low-frequency route means it's something you need to
               | plan your entire day around.
               | 
               | Okay but the dude is making $5K/y which means he
               | basically has no job and he sits around in his house all
               | week or goes hiking etc. His most exciting day of
               | adventure will literally consist of taking the bus to the
               | library to check out a book, and bringing it back home
               | (while reading it on the bus, perhaps). He can totally
               | afford to plan his entire day around the event.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | That's obviously not true, if you change what you "have" to go
         | to.
         | 
         | There are thousands of American towns that are about 10k
         | population - large enough to have a Walmart and other stores,
         | small enough to walk across in an hour or so.
        
           | cozzyd wrote:
           | While such towns may have walkable cores, often places like
           | Walmart are a huge pain to walk to.
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | If you need only $400 a month, you have a _looot_ of time
             | to spend walking to Walmart.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | It's not the distance, but hostile roads with no safe
               | crossings.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | My admittedly unscientific survey of small Midwestern
               | towns with Walmarts (that are NOT suburbs!) is that you
               | can walk to the Walmart on sidewalks. At most, you have
               | half a block to the nearest sidewalk, or have to cross
               | the street.
               | 
               | Some of the middling-old sections only have one sidewalk.
               | The oldest have them on both sides of the street, and the
               | newest developments have them also, usually.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | The two smallish towns I've spent significant time in
               | (Tomah WI and Palestine TX) both have difficult to walk
               | to Walmarts. But glad to hear it's not universal!
               | 
               | I see from Google maps that here in Illinois the
               | situation seems to be a bit better... (E.g. Morris,
               | Rantoul and even Du Quoin). Du Quoin seems very
               | inexpensive and seems like it would make a better
               | argument than somewhere truly rural (it even has Amtrak
               | service)
        
               | macNchz wrote:
               | The Walmart in the area from this article is separated
               | from the main town by a four lane road with no sidewalks,
               | across which the nearest crosswalks are more than half a
               | mile away in either direction--so you're either playing
               | high stakes Frogger, or, depending on your starting
               | location, you might conceivably have to walk nearly two
               | hours out of your way round trip along the shoulder of
               | this road to use a crosswalk. They also get five feet of
               | snow per year, so a good part of the year that walk is
               | extra dangerous and miserable.
               | 
               | I can't say for sure, but I think this is much more
               | typical of American Walmarts than it is to be able to
               | easily walk to them.
               | 
               | Streetview of your opponent as a pedestrian trying to
               | access the Massena Walmart:
               | https://maps.app.goo.gl/ufTWTHxHCReFP8VA9
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | We're talking about towns of 10k. Traffic in these towns
               | is pretty sparse and easily navigable as a pedestrian.
        
           | 999900000999 wrote:
           | Once it gets cold you won't be walking much anywhere. I guess
           | grocery delivery from Walmart can mitigate this, but that
           | fundamentally changes the situation.
        
             | cozzyd wrote:
             | Why not? You can walk plenty in the cold with the right
             | equipment. I walked 2+ km a day at the south pole ...
        
               | 999900000999 wrote:
               | It's really dangerous if you don't know what your doing.
               | I'm about .5 km from the closest supermarket.
               | 
               | If it's snowing or just cold out I'm still ordering food.
               | 
               | If I'm mildly sick, ordering food.
               | 
               | I'm going to guess that you're a really good shape that a
               | 2 km walk isn't a big deal, but I don't think most
               | Americans can do that.
        
               | xyzzy123 wrote:
               | One way (not the only way and I get this won't work well
               | for people with medical needs or kids) to handle this is
               | stock up on rice, beans, nonperishables and have a good
               | first aid kit. You go out to get your "freshies" but it's
               | not an issue to be stuck at home for a week except in the
               | most dire circumstances.
        
               | coolcase wrote:
               | > I'm going to guess that you're a really good shape that
               | a 2 km walk isn't a big deal, but I don't think most
               | Americans can do that.
               | 
               | Shit that's horrifying.
               | 
               | I have health issues and walking 2km a day to try to help
               | fix. So I see 2km a day as basic. 6-10km run a day would
               | be "fit" IMO. things as humans are designed to walk.
               | 
               | Living in suburbia means I have to walk "for the sake of
               | it" although I cam make it useful e.g. get some milk!
               | 
               | As for cold. Anything above minus 5 should be OK just
               | wear stuff like skiiers wear which can be got cheap off
               | brand.
        
               | 999900000999 wrote:
               | 77% percent of young Americans aren't fit for service.
               | 
               | 2 km of walking in a day, even in great weather is
               | exceptional for me. I probably average 1km or less.
               | 
               | And I'm not a car owner. My family members will literally
               | hop in a car and drive 30 minutes over walking .5 km to
               | the grocery store. They like the other one more they say.
        
               | bcraven wrote:
               | This is just utterly astonishing to me. I've just checked
               | a map and it's ~0.5 km between where I park at work and
               | my office!
        
               | 999900000999 wrote:
               | Your going to have to walk both ways, in the rain/snow,
               | etc ?
               | 
               | Like a lot of comments have already mentioned these towns
               | don't even have sidewalks. You'll be walking on the side
               | of the street risking an accident
        
               | oblio wrote:
               | Is there a lot of traffic in places with 10k residents?
        
               | esrauch wrote:
               | Are you sure you mean .5km? That's only 0.3 miles, 1500
               | feet. That is the distance if you drive to a Walmart
               | supercenter and park in the center of the parking lot and
               | walk to the door.
        
               | harvey9 wrote:
               | I am 50 years old and don't think I'd pass fit for
               | service either, but I can still easily walk a few Kms.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | 0.5km is like, 6 minutes of walking?
               | 
               | How? It just doesn't compute to me that someone would
               | ever see that as onerous.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | Surely you walk that much inside any reasonably sized
               | grocery store.
        
               | npodbielski wrote:
               | In IKEA you probably walk around about 1km for just one
               | visit considering how they design their space.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | Huh? I'm not in great shape but I get 2km of walking a
               | day just with my commute. According to my watch I've
               | averaged 13k steps a day this week (something like 9-10
               | km a day, I think?). Ironically the days I walk the least
               | are when I decide to bike to work instead of taking the
               | train...
        
               | xboxnolifes wrote:
               | > I'm going to guess that you're a really good shape that
               | a 2 km walk isn't a big deal, but I don't think most
               | Americans can do that.
               | 
               | Most Americans would be able to do it if it became a
               | regular occurrence for them. 2km of _walking_ is not much
               | even if you sit around 24 hours a day.
        
               | npodbielski wrote:
               | I am sitting in front of PC probably around 10hours a day
               | and drink and sit rest of my day (excluding sleep) and
               | still it is not a big deal for me to have a 7km walk to
               | the city or back is not a big deal.
               | 
               | I think in US it just cultural. "You are walking?! With
               | your feet?! How?!". Unless you more likely to get shot
               | walking via some neighbourhood I can't understand that.
        
               | Lionga wrote:
               | You need to be in good shape to fucking walk 2km? WTF is
               | wrong with people in murica? Well is guess they are just
               | ordering fast food all day
        
               | npodbielski wrote:
               | 500 hundred metres? This is long for you? If there is
               | snow you can't walk? Why? Snow is much beteer than rain.
               | And still it is just a couple of minutes. You most
               | probably would not get wet with proper clothes. Are you
               | from US by the chance?
        
               | tshaddox wrote:
               | 47 people died in a blizzard in Buffalo, New York in
               | 2022.
        
               | andriamanitra wrote:
               | ..in what National Weather Service described as "once-in-
               | a-generation storm". Walking 2 km on a normal winter day
               | (or even a mild blizzard) is not dangerous.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | And to be clear, driving in a blizzard is very dangerous
               | too. But blizzards happen a minority of the time.
        
               | mattnewton wrote:
               | There are no sidewalks, so you are walking in a street in
               | the snow asking to become a statistic.
        
               | davidcbc wrote:
               | What are you buying this equipment with in this scenario?
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | Right, I mean obviously the scenario in the article is
               | unrealistic budget wise (and good winter equipment is
               | going to be at least several hundred dollars), but I'm
               | pushing back against the idea you can't walk when it's
               | cold ...
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Let's not pretend that the cold regions of the world were
             | uninhabitable before the invention of the car.
        
               | danbolt wrote:
               | They weren't, but they were zoned and organized a lot
               | differently compared to our post-war world of today.
        
               | rufus_foreman wrote:
               | This is true. I recently read that the real reason that
               | the Vikings left North America was that the Native
               | American authorities informed them that their site on
               | L'Anse aux Meadows was not zoned for boat repair and
               | construction.
        
             | testing22321 wrote:
             | Gimme a break. I walked and biked year round in the Yukon.
             | Past -40 I had to keep moving, but it was fun
        
         | potato3732842 wrote:
         | Might be a slight of hand? Maybe he has a moped like the DUI
         | people do.
        
         | xp84 wrote:
         | I agree that his deliberate deletion of a car and Internet
         | access from the example budget undermines his point, but adding
         | $200 to support the cost of owning a cheap car and $45 for a
         | prepaid cellphone plan with ample tethering doesn't change the
         | overall equation significantly.
        
           | 999900000999 wrote:
           | It's less click bait-ish. The max SSI payment is 967$.
           | 
           | https://www.ssa.gov/ssi/amount
           | 
           | So you have a ton of people trying to make it off that.
           | 
           | The cold weather is really the red flag for me.
           | 
           | >Considering that the property has a well on-site, water is
           | free, and as far as heat goes, well, one could either pay a
           | little extra in electric for that -- or they could have the
           | Amish deliver their scrap wood from their sawmills to burn in
           | a wood stove, very cheaply.
           | 
           | He glosses over heating, but for a full house that can easily
           | be 200 or 300$ dollars.
           | 
           | Snow tends to cause problems. Now if he wrote this living in
           | Florida or something it would be more practical. No risk of
           | freezing. Walking or biking is possible year round.
           | 
           | I'd actually love to see a bike first city, but outside of a
           | few college towns I don't think it exists in the states
        
             | firesteelrain wrote:
             | You can bike year round in Florida and bike or walk to work
             | if you are in vicinity. Even go to grocery store or in some
             | cases use a golf cart. At least one car is still
             | preferable.
        
             | testing22321 wrote:
             | I biked year round in the Yukon. -40 and beyond is a fun
             | challenge.
        
       | silisili wrote:
       | Higher income employees would pay way more than that in taxes
       | alone. This is why properties in low and no income tax states
       | skyrocketed.
       | 
       | Assuming it's not high income but a real scrounger, this is
       | leaving out way too much. Out of pocket health insurance will
       | easily quadruple that number. Utilities could too, depending.
        
         | K0balt wrote:
         | Out of pocket health insurance 1400 a month? Really? It that's
         | true, that is criminally ridiculous. Why do people accept that,
         | when even in developing nations basic health care is free, and
         | there are plenty of private choices. Decent health insurance
         | costs about 150-300 a month the world over, except in the USA
         | where it is ten times that for no reason whatsoever besides
         | greed and the fact that healthcare is a basic need that puts
         | people under duress. Get your shit together , Americans, you're
         | getting piped over a barrel six ways to Sunday and you just
         | take it like it was mandatory. What gives?
        
           | returningfory2 wrote:
           | The main reason is that the government isn't funding it, like
           | in other countries. I do agree the healthcare system in the
           | US should be reformed. But the cost isn't going to go all
           | away - it's just going to be shifted to higher taxes. Which
           | is fine.
        
             | K0balt wrote:
             | Sure, but I'm having a hard time understanding how
             | developing nations the world over can afford to do this,
             | but the USA cannot lol. I've used the healthcare systems in
             | many developing nations, and while it's not really fun, it
             | is adequate and free for 80 percent of the issues that a
             | person encounters.
             | 
             | For the other 20 percent, it's best to go to a private
             | clinic, where the care is as good if not better than many
             | US clinics but at 10-20 percent of the cost.
             | 
             | And the private clinics are not subsidized.
             | 
             | My wife just got an MRI at a private, fully for profit
             | imaging clinic. The total cost was $217 USD for a study
             | with and without contrast on a 2023 Siemens scanner. Labs
             | for the contrast approval were $6.
             | 
             | What people pay in the USA is in no way justified by
             | equipment or facility costs. Runaway liability and
             | profiteering, perhaps. But not because of the "quality" of
             | the healthcare or the equipment.
        
               | returningfory2 wrote:
               | I think there's a bunch of different things going on in
               | the US healthcare system. I think for sure part of it is
               | inefficiency.
               | 
               | But I don't really buy the argument that healthcare
               | quality is the same elsewhere. Like, do you really think
               | you're going to get the same care for, say, long term
               | multiple sclerosis in the United States versus Guatemala?
               | I feel a lot of the "the care is the same" comes from
               | younger people who have had relatively easy interactions
               | with the healthcare system. When you're over 70 it's a
               | totally different ball game.
        
             | insane_dreamer wrote:
             | The actual cost of health care in the US is considerably
             | higher than any other developed country.
        
           | silisili wrote:
           | I don't know what a healthy young person pays these days. 20
           | years ago I paid 80/mo for basic catastrophe coverage.
           | 
           | All I know is that it's gone up tremendously since then, and
           | my family plan costs about $2100 a month.
        
           | wredcoll wrote:
           | Because fox news has convinced people they deserve it is
           | about 90% of it.
        
       | aeturnum wrote:
       | Some of the claims here are pretty intense, but I do think his
       | closing statement is true enough:
       | 
       | > _there's never been a better time to try to "make it" in
       | America and live the older version of the American Dream. If we
       | can't see that now, it doesn't necessarily mean that things have
       | gotten bad -- it might mean that our perception has become
       | grossly skewed by an era of hyperabundance, marketing, reality
       | TV, and social media comparison syndrome._
       | 
       | With an extremely strong emphasis on "older version." This vision
       | of life is not the life that most "black pilled" people were
       | raised to expect or plan for. It is very accessible and is
       | extremely discoverable thanks to the internet (with electricity
       | costs like that I'm surprised crypto miners haven't moved in) -
       | but it's a level of self-dependence and isolation that most
       | people do not want. However it's absolutely true that it's never
       | been easier to live a "frontier" lifestyle, only now with 3d
       | printing and amazon and other bountiful resources to fill in
       | traditional gaps.
        
         | weard_beard wrote:
         | What I don't understand is the authors antagonistic framing.
         | The complaints about moving backward because of boomer greed
         | aren't any less valid just because caves exist, fire remains
         | "discovered", and we can clone wooly mammoths.
        
           | serf wrote:
           | the complaints aren't less valid, but having a constant axe
           | to grind that you blame for all UN-success isn't a good
           | strategy.
        
         | sweeter wrote:
         | I think it's absurd. I work full time in the richest country on
         | Earth and I can't afford an apartment and healthcare. The
         | problem is clearly not advertising.
         | 
         | Real "billionaire goes homeless for one night to prove the
         | stupid poors are lazy and stupid and need to hedge their
         | expectations" type of energy
        
           | digianarchist wrote:
           | We're all being asked to sacrifice the living standards our
           | parents grew up with because the utter failure of local,
           | state and federal government to provide housing, public
           | transit, education and healthcare, something most of the
           | Western world manages to pull off without issue.
           | 
           | We have never been more productive in this country's history
           | and yet we cannot even meet a bar set in the 1950s.
           | 
           | It's frankly ridiculous as is this piece.
        
             | andrekandre wrote:
             | > utter failure of local, state and federal government to
             | provide housing, public transit, education and healthcare
             | 
             | i guess the expectation in the (for lack of a better word)
             | neoliberal era was these would be provided by the private
             | sector?
        
             | istjohn wrote:
             | Median disposable household income is higher in the US than
             | anywhere else in the world [0]. Real median personal income
             | has increased 50% since the 1970s [1].
             | 
             | 0. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disposable_household_and
             | _per...
             | 
             | 1. https://www.noahpinion.blog/p/globalization-did-not-
             | hollow-o...
        
               | digianarchist wrote:
               | What's your point? All of the things I listed have far
               | outpaced income and disposable income.
        
               | levocardia wrote:
               | "disposable" income means "subtracting necessities like
               | housing" so if disposable income is going up, by
               | definition your claim cannot be correct
        
               | digianarchist wrote:
               | That's not correct.
               | 
               | From the article:
               | 
               | > Note that this includes taxes and transfers, including
               | in-kind transfers like government-provided health care.
               | 
               | So excluding housing, health insurance and student loan
               | repayments etc.
        
               | ianburrell wrote:
               | Officially, disposable income means income minus taxes.
               | Lots of people assume it means minus necessities like
               | housing and food, but that is discretionary income.
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | I don't think it's similar to the billionaire thing, this guy
           | is apparently living the way he describes full-time.
           | 
           | And he does sort of have a point. You could probably afford
           | an apartment _somewhere_, just not in any of the places you
           | consider desirable.
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | I think the problem that most millenials have is that their
             | parents _could_ afford a house, for a pittance, in those
             | desireable areas.
        
           | aeturnum wrote:
           | Good news - his plan also includes not being able to afford
           | healthcare and housing while working full time! Are you
           | interested in doing what you do now but different? It just
           | cuts corners in different places than other people do to
           | achieve a result that doesn't seem that interesting to most
           | people but is also bad in interesting ways.
           | 
           | I don't think that this approach is "scalable" and I don't
           | think it's a good idea for most people (perhaps not for
           | anyone). I do think it usefully focuses attention on how so
           | much of cost of living is not exactly one line item, but the
           | massive interconnection of modern life. Living in a place
           | where you can have access to the networks (literal, social,
           | medical, etc) you need for the rest of your plan.
           | 
           | I wouldn't want to live like this! But the fact that one
           | could until one got sick (a common limitation on many
           | creative ways of living the modern US I find) is interesting.
           | I think the fact that there are similarities to traditional
           | frontier living (wood stove heating included!) makes it a
           | particularly interesting.
           | 
           | Edit: Arguably, I think the problem is that the USA achieved
           | the original "American Dream" and simply stopped thinking
           | about how the world was changing and what a modern re-
           | envisioning of that dream should be. Pointing out that you
           | can be an impossibly good frontier pioneer in 2025 could be a
           | way of pointing out to people that we need to move on and
           | stop imagining a thing we can active as the pinnacle. We need
           | to imagine living in a world where everyone who works full
           | time can afford housing and healthcare, where performance is
           | rewarded but isn't required to simply live and where we can
           | let living in the woods safely fade into history as a thing
           | we can certainly do if we prefer but should stop idealizing.
        
           | _zoltan_ wrote:
           | Of course you could afford an apartment, or even a house! You
           | just don't want to move there.
           | 
           | I don't judge you - I also live in a VHCOL area and my wife
           | wouldn't even want to move 30km where the housing prices are
           | half of where we are now. Such is live.
           | 
           | But saying you couldn't afford it is false - you can't afford
           | it where you'd want to live, is more accurate.
        
       | potato3732842 wrote:
       | If I wanted to be a jerk I could spew the same opinions the
       | author is, but I'm not, so I'm disagreeing with him.
       | 
       | I don't buy lunch. I don't eat "nice" food. I don't drive nice
       | cars. I don't eat out often and have never in my life run up a
       | bar tab over $30. I have under $20/mo in streaming services, buy
       | used/free furniture etc, etc. If I did to all those things the
       | monthly cost would not even make up the ~1k/mo difference between
       | my "got in early" mortgage and what rent on a shitty 1-2 bedroom
       | costs these days. I live in a 1200sf house (in a post-industrial
       | town with an industry more or less killed by globalization, so
       | not like it's somewhere nice) and have the biggest house of
       | anyone I know under 50. This is not a "people won't settle"
       | problem.
       | 
       | Don't get me wrong, I absolutely am "making it" in that I'm
       | hitting milestones like home ownership, retirement contribution,
       | etc (at the expensive of day to day material conditions, of
       | course) but if everyone behaved like I do to do it the economy
       | would collapse.
       | 
       | There's a discussion to be had about laws, codes, zoning, etc.
       | and how they've done the same things for housing that the same
       | people's regulatory legacy has done for cars.
       | 
       | And to address rural New York specifically, it is a goddamn dump.
       | You think coal country is bad? You think a bad part of Detroit or
       | St. Louis is bad? it ain't got nothing on <shuffles cards>
       | Oneonta. We're talking boarded up to occupied houses ratios one
       | step short of abandoned mining town. You either work on a farm or
       | live off welfare up there. Oh, and the property taxes are pretty
       | crushing in NY, you'll be better off in a comparably crappy town
       | in just about any other state.
        
       | energywut wrote:
       | > any American could live an earlier iteration of the American
       | Dream
       | 
       | If (and only if) you aren't socially different from the
       | communities you'd be moving to. Being gay or trans, for instance,
       | might mark you out as a target in a lot of the places where you
       | _could_ live this cheaply. Plenty of race, religions, or
       | political beliefs that would make it untenable.
       | 
       | It's hard to claim that _any_ American can achieve this.
        
         | nkurz wrote:
         | Maybe you have more direct experience with this than I do, but
         | I'm not sure I agree. I don't follow the lifestyle the author
         | describes, but I do live in an economically and culturally
         | comparable town in Vermont that's much smaller than Massena.
         | The town is full of gay and lesbian couples, and it really
         | doesn't seem to be an issue. The few racial minorities seem to
         | be well accepted. Religion is a surprisingly small factor.
         | 
         | Political beliefs do divide the town, but national politics are
         | actually less divisive than I've experienced in larger places.
         | Trans folk do have it harder, but we seem to judge the few we
         | have as individuals. I'm sure there are other towns where these
         | things are much less true, but I wouldn't automatically assume
         | it couldn't work in Massena for anyone with the right attitude.
         | I think it would come down to the individual.
        
           | energywut wrote:
           | I think Vermont is, in my experience, perhaps more accepting
           | of different identities. I've lived in small towns, and spent
           | plenty of time in small towns. Some have a "don't ask/don't
           | tell" or "live and let live" sense to them. As long as you
           | aren't _loud_ about your identity, you 'll be left alone.
           | 
           | But plenty of places will absolutely run you out of town for
           | having the wrong religion, race, or sexual preferences.
        
           | riffraff wrote:
           | I experienced something similar and would posit that small
           | communities accommodate diversity more easily, because you
           | get to know the people, it's no longer "the homosexuals" or
           | "the immigrants" or "the jews", it's "John who works at the
           | coffee shop ".
           | 
           | Clearly this breaks down at a certain size, and it may still
           | suck for people on the minority side tho.
        
             | cmptrnerd6 wrote:
             | This is not true, in my experience, in rural Indiana. I
             | hear the n word a lot for an area that I have yet to meet a
             | black person. One neighbor was complaining about the
             | California family that moved to town and brought all the
             | drug problems with them, despite our county having been the
             | meth capital of Indiana for years before they moved here.
             | Somehow my first conversation with a friend's mom I met
             | while visiting their rural farm involved how there were no
             | black people in the area. But this is why all anecdotal
             | data should be taken with a grain of salt.
        
               | throwawaymb wrote:
               | Indiana is known for this though...not every rural area
               | is comparable
        
           | shagmin wrote:
           | Guess it comes down to the individual's attitude either way
           | and what they're willing to tolerate but I wouldn't
           | underestimate the aggressive ignorance you can find out
           | there. Vermont is a short drive from the so-called lesbian
           | capital of the world, one of the few parts of the country
           | where democrats consistently win a majority of rural voters,
           | and is in the most secular corner of the country. It's almost
           | the complete opposite of the rest of rural America.
        
           | kimfc wrote:
           | Yeah as a trans woman who lived in Vermont for awhile this
           | lines up with my experience. The worst bigotry I encountered
           | was teenagers calling me the f-slur, which is like fine,
           | whatever. I think people dont have a sense of just how
           | massive America is and how different states are culturally.
           | 
           | Honestly it still sucked to be trans in Vermont, it's
           | extremely isolating especially if you dont have a car or live
           | in Burlington/Brattleboro. The reason why so many queer
           | people move to cities is that cities are really the only
           | place queer people can have a semi-normal social life, and
           | not because they're fleeing Westboro Baptist Church style
           | bigotry
        
         | tshaddox wrote:
         | > It's hard to claim that any American can achieve this.
         | 
         | Not only that, but there certainly aren't enough cheap houses
         | in cheap areas like this to meaningfully make a dent in the
         | large number of Americans struggling to afford housing.
        
         | FireSquid2006 wrote:
         | I would argue is that what we _need_ for healing and
         | understanding is more brave trans and gay people in these
         | spaces.
         | 
         | It's a lot harder to hate a group when your kind neighbor is
         | one of them. Debate and rational arguments dont actually
         | convince most humans. Kindness without the expectation of
         | anything in return and possibly even hate does.
        
           | FireBeyond wrote:
           | > It's a lot harder to hate a group when your kind neighbor
           | is one of them.
           | 
           | "He/she is one of the good ones..." is a fairly common turn
           | of phrase.
        
           | StefanBatory wrote:
           | > I would argue is that what we need for healing and
           | understanding is more brave trans and gay people in these
           | spaces.
           | 
           | It is right, but - if you were one of them, would you risk
           | your life to maybe bring in some change?
        
         | kimfc wrote:
         | I mean as a trans woman who lived pretty close to how the
         | article author described their life (rural town, no car, shitty
         | housing, very low income), it's definitely possible to live
         | without too much trouble. In the northeast there is definitely
         | bigotry, but it is very uncommon for anyone to say anything.
         | People keep to themselves, and your biggest issue is social
         | isolation. Though when I lived like that in the south I got
         | called slurs and threatened physically by complete strangers
         | pretty often, so your point stands. I'd imagine its pretty
         | similar for most other minority groups.
        
       | fzeroracer wrote:
       | There's so many issues with this article. Ignoring the real costs
       | of living in declining rural areas (poor health services,
       | vanishing community), they also fail to account that you also
       | cannot raise a family there properly. Schooling is often poor and
       | the infrastructure poorer and you're fucking over your kids
       | future so you can play pretend boomer while ignoring the biggest
       | things they benefited from.
        
       | thisisnotauser wrote:
       | Could not get past the multiple paragraphs of strawman nonsense.
       | Here, let me summarize:
       | 
       | The counts of the indictment are luxury, bad manners, contempt
       | for authority, disrespect to elders, and a love for chatter in
       | place of exercise. ...
       | 
       | Children began to be the tyrants, not the slaves, of their
       | households. They no longer rose from their seats when an elder
       | entered the room; they contradicted their parents, chattered
       | before company, gobbled up the dainties at table, and committed
       | various offences against Hellenic tastes, such as crossing their
       | legs. They tyrannised over the paidagogoi and schoolmasters.
        
         | aorloff wrote:
         | This guy lives in Amish country, yet is not Amish, but drives a
         | hard bargain.
         | 
         | I'm nearly sold, but I haven't sat on the furniture yet to see
         | if it will be hard enough.
        
       | peterburkimsher wrote:
       | In many countries around the world, $432 is more than enough.
       | 
       | BeWelcome.org is free accomodation for travellers, so if you need
       | somewhere for just a couple of nights, you can stay. It's safe;
       | there's an entire safety team dedicated to handling complaints.
       | 
       | If you settle down for too long though, it is recommended to
       | share in paying the rent or utilities, out of politeness.
        
       | eugenekolo wrote:
       | Confused by his portrayal of Massena, NY. I don't live there and
       | have never driven through, but looking on Google Maps it doesn't
       | seem that bad or depressing as the author (and I guess
       | commentators) make it out to be.
       | 
       | It has a Walmart, Home Depot, BJs (similar to Costco), a main
       | street with several businesses. A walkable grid with sidewalks in
       | that main town area....
       | 
       | Feels like reaching that this place is so desolate and
       | depressing.
        
         | fullStackOasis wrote:
         | Also what I was thinking! I saw the Home Depot on the map, and
         | an International Airport (with daily flights to Boston no
         | less), and thought, "Wait a sec, is this guy pulling our
         | collective legs?". https://flymassena.com/
        
         | loeber wrote:
         | Agreed! I'm randomly Google Street View-ing through town, and
         | it looks... modest but actually quite nice?
         | 
         | Check out these pleasant-looking houses in the summer:
         | https://www.google.com/maps/place/Massena,+NY+13662/@44.9264...
         | 
         | Edit: I've spent a few more minutes on Street View. This is not
         | at all the podunk backwater that the author makes it out to be.
         | They've got plenty of commercial streets, and big blocks of
         | houses with nicely trimmed lawns.
         | 
         | I suppose this actually makes the author's point more strongly
         | -- even if you have very little money, you can live pretty
         | nicely in Massena!
        
         | firesteelrain wrote:
         | It's got three elementary schools, one junior high and one high
         | school. My hometown had two public elementary schools, few pre
         | K options, two religious options for K-8, one middle school and
         | one high school at 25k residents. And we don't have an
         | international airport (we do one hour away and in the same
         | county though)
         | 
         | Massena is small but not that desolate/small
        
         | aqrit wrote:
         | Alcoa (Aluminum Smelter, *cheap electricity*) was the major
         | industry in the area. Massena plant now produces 85% less
         | aluminum compared to ~15 years ago (AFAICT), leading to
         | something of a ghost town (and cheap housing).
        
       | TrackerFF wrote:
       | I looked through those numbers, and immediately thought to myself
       | - hope you don't need to see a doctor for anything serious, or go
       | to a dentist for that mater.
       | 
       | FWIW, I grew up in rural nowhere (population 150, nearest town 45
       | miles away) - and I honestly don't know how anyone can live out
       | in the boonies without a car. Taking the bus that goes 3 times a
       | day is one thing, needing to move stuff is another thing. I mean,
       | obviously there are plenty of people that do manage - but sooner
       | or later you'll become completely dependent on others for certain
       | types of transportation.
       | 
       | Also, there's clothes, house maintenance, and lots of other
       | things.
        
         | Loughla wrote:
         | What small town even has a bus? The closest bus line to me is
         | in the closest large town (40k) about an hour away.
         | 
         | Are there bus lines in the middle of nowhere?
        
           | wombat-man wrote:
           | If you're around or on the way to a popular hike I've seen
           | buses run out to some more remote spots. But probably really
           | depends on the county.
        
           | cozzyd wrote:
           | Rural transit exists in some places but certainly is not
           | common in the US like it is in e.g. eastern Europe
        
           | II2II wrote:
           | Granted, this was 20 years ago, but I remember taking the
           | Greyhound and people were getting on or off the bus in the
           | middle of nowhere. By nowhere, I mean the nowhere in the
           | literal sense: at the intersection of two highways in the
           | northern Ontario with no other development in sight. Of
           | course, they also serviced the other types of nowhere: the
           | lone gas station or the tiny village.
           | 
           | The author is being somewhat misleading in the sense that
           | this is not the type of bus service that one would use for
           | your weekly commute to that 10 hour shift at the gas station,
           | never mind the three or four times per week that you would
           | need to cover the bills. It may be fine doing errands in
           | town, where the arrival time and departure time don't much
           | matter. It may also be fine for spending a day or two in the
           | city, assuming you have the budget to stay over night.
           | 
           | I'm not saying that the type of lifestyle alluded to is
           | impossible, but it is not going to be the type of lifestyle
           | accessible to young people. Then there is the question about
           | whether they are equipped to live that type of lifestyle.
        
             | xp84 wrote:
             | I agree that the bus in the scenario is implausible for
             | most. But in real life, most rural people would simply own
             | a car. The author describes car ownership's costs
             | hyperbolically, but unless you're doing long-distance
             | commuting, driving a $5000 car wouldn't add more than $200
             | to his monthly budget, which wouldn't change the math
             | dramatically, while I'd argue it would improve quality of
             | life tremendously, especially because rural America of 2025
             | most definitely assumes car ownership in a way that it
             | didn't 100 years ago.
        
               | prmoustache wrote:
               | What about cycling? If amishes are fine leaving there
               | with horse carts as vehicles, there is no reason you
               | can't manage using a bicycle.
               | 
               | Even Ottawa is not out of reach at only 80miles.
        
               | II2II wrote:
               | That would depend upon the roads and, given that winter
               | was mentioned as a feature, maintenance during the winter
               | months.
               | 
               | I've done some riding on rural roads with no shoulders,
               | and it can be as scary as heck. At least on winding roads
               | in wooded areas. That's from the perspective of someone
               | who is fine riding on fast and busy urban roads during
               | all seasons. Winter maintenance is also a huge issue if
               | you are riding to work. If you're doing seasonal work,
               | that's fine. You just wait until everything is plowed for
               | winter forays. If you're working all seasons, you cannot
               | maintain a job when you cannot reliably reach the job
               | site.
        
               | prmoustache wrote:
               | My experience when I was commuting by bicycle all year in
               | Switzerland, is that drivers had a more complicated time
               | than I had when it was snowing and roads were icy. I had
               | a dedicated bicycle for these kind of situation with
               | studded tires.
               | 
               | More often than not people are put off cycling by weather
               | conditions not because it is that hard, but because they
               | haven't put enough thoughts and preparation. Most people
               | ride bicycle with subpar or no lightning, fenders, and
               | more often than not have the wrong tires and protective
               | gears for the job. This require a wee bit of investment
               | but totally negligible compared to the money that is
               | usually spent on a car.
        
               | palmfacehn wrote:
               | I lived like this when I was younger and single. Most
               | here, even the self-identified cyclists would scoff at
               | it. It isn't for everyone. There are definite advantages
               | in terms of health and overall robustness. If you are
               | acclimatized to pedaling around in freezing weather and
               | hauling in all of your supplies, you probably won't have
               | a problem with wood heating.
               | 
               | That said, I don't think it would be fair to expect my
               | wife to enjoy that lifestyle. I cannot imagine taking a
               | child to a dental appointment under those circumstances.
        
               | johnmaguire wrote:
               | A $200 cost is a nearly 50% increase to the budget.
        
           | stevenwoo wrote:
           | Some times, Boulder Creek is in the mountains between Santa
           | Cruz and San Jose (it's more remote than it sounds I
           | think)and it gets regular bus service on winding two lane
           | roads and there's a stop at Big Basin State Park where
           | there's no cell service in wide swaths of valleys and
           | mountain sides.
        
           | maxerickson wrote:
           | A lot of smaller counties have a publicly operated demand
           | response service that includes small buses, or at least some
           | vehicle that is able to transport someone in a wheelchair.
           | 
           | So not a regular service schedule, but you can call and
           | schedule a ride and it won't cost a lot.
        
           | projektfu wrote:
           | St. Lawrence County does offer several shuttles that run only
           | 1-4 times per day in each direction. It is probably better to
           | add a bike or e-bike to the list.
           | 
           | I think when people write these articles, they should have
           | lived the life instead of just totaling a few expenses. It is
           | very hard to live without at least a few unforeseen expenses
           | above the base budget. The life proposed here is like a 19th
           | century life, waiting for the stagecoach to take you to where
           | you can pay your property taxes, and then spending the day in
           | town because the next stagecoach out doesn't come for hours.
        
         | skyyler wrote:
         | The lack of a budget for heating in an article that uses the
         | term "American Siberia" is so hilariously out of touch that it
         | makes the rest of the article farcical.
        
           | rconti wrote:
           | Apparently it's "free Amish wood" or "a little extra in
           | electricity"... which, as someone who lives in a temperate
           | area, is a stunningly low price to imagine for electric heat
           | in somewhere cold.
        
             | garciasn wrote:
             | It's a 600 ft home with electricity at 0.04kWh. As someone
             | who owns a 400 sq ft uninsulated cabin in MN, with rates
             | closer to 4x that, I can tell you it's about $100/month to
             | heat it with electricity.
             | 
             | I guess, if the math holds, you would be paying around
             | $50/month to heat it in the winter months.
             | 
             | E: changed kW/h to kWh per the nice commenter who suggested
             | as much below.
        
               | jaapz wrote:
               | Fyi it's kWh not kW/h
        
           | tomcar288 wrote:
           | you could get a wood burning stove heater. as long as you
           | have enough trees to be sustainable, burning firewood is a
           | great way to go. and with the clean burning filters they have
           | now a days, you'll much much better off than from the days
           | when they used to burn fires inside a house with no
           | container/stove/filters or even a chiminey at all! (just a
           | hole in the roof if you were lucky.)
        
             | lostlogin wrote:
             | You can get by with a woodburner without buying wood in a
             | fairly large city if you collected the odd car load during
             | the year.
             | 
             | That said, it might be a better use of time to work, then
             | get the wood delivered.
        
           | xp84 wrote:
           | Literally mentioned in the article. Their electricity is
           | literally less than 0.1x what I pay in California.
        
             | coolcase wrote:
             | Should be budgeted though right.
        
               | lesuorac wrote:
               | It's mentioned as the article as free from using waste
               | wood.
        
               | shlant wrote:
               | so people are just delivering free wood to anyone who
               | chooses to move out to the boonies? Seems like a bad
               | assumption to be making
        
               | lesuorac wrote:
               | well, specific people are delivering free _waste_ wood to
               | people specifically near them.
               | 
               | Kinda like those people that got free _waste_ oil from
               | restaurants to run their vans. It's not something you can
               | replicate literally anywhere but it does exist.
               | Industrial waste has to be disposed of somehow and often
               | people are happy for you to accept it for free.
        
             | lolinder wrote:
             | Heat is mentioned in passing with literally no attempt at
             | quantifying the cost:
             | 
             | > as far as heat goes, well, one could either pay a little
             | extra in electric for that -- or they could have the Amish
             | deliver their scrap wood from their sawmills to burn in a
             | wood stove, very cheaply.
             | 
             | That's it. The line in the budget for heat is there and was
             | left intentionally blank:
             | 
             | > Heat:
             | 
             | You can't just hand-wave away the cost of electric heating
             | at the temperatures they get in upstate NY, even if the
             | 0.04 number is accurate year-round (which it almost
             | certainly isn't), and wood-burning stoves use _way_ more
             | wood than the author appears to be imagining with their
             | "scrap wood" comment.
             | 
             | [0] https://www.usclimatedata.com/climate/massena/new-
             | york/unite...
        
           | bregma wrote:
           | I live just over an hour north of this place. Until recently
           | I heated my log cabin exclusively with wood.
           | 
           | It takes somewhere between 7 and 9 cubic metres of wood a
           | year to heat about 800 square feet of house. It costs about
           | CAD 1500 for a tandem load of sawlogs plus the cost of fuel
           | and maintenance of the chainsaw and hydraulic splitter plus
           | about 100 hours of labour bucking, splitting, hauling, and
           | stacking. And still there are mornings when I had to break
           | the ice on the dog's water bowl in the kitchen when it's been
           | below -30 C for several days in a row.
           | 
           | You're not going to survive a winter in that part of North
           | America with just "a few scraps of wood" for heat. "A few
           | carloads" is maybe going to take you to Christmas and they'll
           | simply find your thawed corpse during a warm spell in March.
        
             | nkurz wrote:
             | Good points. I also heat with wood in a northern clime, and
             | this seems accurate. I'm a little confused by the units and
             | the costs, though. I cut my own, so I'm not sure how much a
             | tandem truck holds, but am I right that your $1500 CDN load
             | of sawlogs ($1100 USD) is enough for several years of
             | heating? My quick search suggests that a tandem load might
             | be around 12 full cords (44 m^3), and thus be enough for 5
             | years for you. Is this about right?
        
         | dangus wrote:
         | I will say, at this income level you're on Medicaid. It would
         | be more than nothing but very basic, and if you're using
         | government assistance than you aren't really "escaping"
         | modernity, you're actually living off of the economic surplus
         | of all the people working hard in the rat race. (Don't
         | misinterpret me as saying that social safety nets are bad, I am
         | all for them, but I'm just saying - if the author of this
         | article gets cancer I bet they'll want to visit a hospital
         | where doctors are working 12 hour shifts grinding out the era
         | of "overabundance.")
         | 
         | But it is extremely important to point out that the American
         | "rat race" cities subsidize areas like this. There would be no
         | road in front of this house without those subsidies. These
         | areas are net negative economic contributors that depend on
         | federal and state funding to exist, including that bus transit
         | that this person is relying on (not to mention the American
         | factory workers who grind out their shifts in urban centers to
         | make those buses).
         | 
         | The author claims to be living the life of great-grandparents,
         | but it's not like he's a subsistence farmer or something. As a
         | metaphor it's kind of like claiming you're a wild animal living
         | out in the wilderness living a simple life of virtue when in
         | reality this existence is more similar to a raccoon living out
         | of the dumpster of modern society's surplus.
         | 
         | Why bother building a self-sufficient community like the Amish
         | where they build their own homes and grow their own food and
         | build their own buggies, clothes, furniture, and breed their
         | own horses when you can survive in a cheap depreciated house
         | someone else built, use the library and transportation that
         | other working people pay for, and the roads that were built by
         | the workers who actually work some significant hours?
         | 
         | I am sure it works on some level but it doesn't seem to me to
         | be a very positive alternative to a lot of other lifestyles.
         | 
         | Apart from all that, there are so many flaws with this article.
         | 
         | The budget didn't include mortgage/housing cost, I guess it's
         | just assuming you're paying cash? How does a person with this
         | kind of lack of gainful employment come up with $29k?
         | 
         | Water is $0? Even well water requires some level of upkeep and
         | potentially replacement and re-drilling.
         | 
         | Most rural towns in the US absolutely do not have this transit
         | available. You'll need a working maintained car plus insurance
         | almost everywhere that looks like this.
         | 
         | Internet, use library - again, with what car? Aren't a lot of
         | the methods available to make income dependent on internet
         | access?
         | 
         | The heat budget is just blank which makes no sense, heat in
         | upstate new york is not cheap as you need a lot of it.
         | 
         | Education for your kids? How is that going to look out there?
         | Are they going to be trapped here? Will they even have the
         | option to opt out of this lifestyle? How easy will it be to do
         | homework at home with no internet? You'll rely on a rural bus
         | schedule and use the library during open hours only?
         | 
         | I might also point out that a lot of modern society lifestyles
         | that aren't so far on this side of extreme of frugality are
         | really easy and comfortable lives. Not all of them, a lot of
         | people live difficult modern lives, but at the same time the
         | "most people" who left the farm to get a job in the city did so
         | for a reason.
         | 
         | I guess you could say that the extremes of society can make for
         | some interesting reading.
        
           | ars wrote:
           | > But it is extremely important to point out that the
           | American "rat race" cities 100% subsidize areas like this.
           | 
           | It's even more important to point out that places like this
           | grow the food and do the manufacturing that those "cities"
           | you like would collapse without.
        
             | titanomachy wrote:
             | Yeah, but the farmers and factory workers are working more
             | than one ten-hour shift per week.
        
               | harvey9 wrote:
               | Which implies the public roads have a positive economic
               | value - the earlier post did refer to the area not to the
               | people like the author of the blog post
        
             | dangus wrote:
             | Don't mistake my comment as being pro-city at the expense
             | of rural areas.
             | 
             | The author isn't growing any food, they're just living
             | adjacent to those people.
             | 
             | Most manufacturing happens in close proximity to major
             | cities.
        
           | fullStackOasis wrote:
           | I think most of your points are fair ones. I also feel that
           | it's rather cynical to drop out of the "rat race" by relying
           | on the participation of lots of other people to pay for your
           | Medicaid expense and so on. However, on average, there are
           | just so few people doing this type of thing that I don't
           | think we have to worry about free riders damaging the system.
           | Most people who complain about the rat race aren't willing to
           | take the extreme steps that this guy is suggesting in order
           | to get out of it.
           | 
           | > The budget didn't include mortgage/housing cost
           | 
           | True, but I don't think you can get a mortgage for a $29K
           | house. I'm guessing the guy is saving up for his house by
           | sticking in the rat race until he's got his $29K saved up
           | (presumably made easier with his wife?). Then, he shops
           | around for a house on a bus route. I suspect it is possible,
           | especially in a state like NY.
           | 
           | > if the author of this article gets cancer I bet they'll
           | want to visit a hospital where doctors are working 12 hour
           | shifts grinding out the era of "overabundance."
           | 
           | This is one point where I disagree. I'd really rather that
           | doctors were working shorter hours. I don't want someone
           | taking care of me if they're at the end of a 12 hour shift.
           | Forget about the fact that it's so bad for her, it's also bad
           | for me and the level of care that I get.
           | 
           | > Water is $0? Even well water requires some level of upkeep
           | 
           | Oh yeah, we just paid $800 to replace our pressure tank. His
           | roof will need to be replaced one day, the gutters will leak,
           | etc.
           | 
           | I actually think I detect a bit of tongue-in-cheek in the
           | article. I think this guy will do this for a while, enjoy his
           | adventure, and then go do something else.
        
             | nkrisc wrote:
             | > I think most of your points are fair ones. I also feel
             | that it's rather cynical to drop out of the "rat race" by
             | relying on the participation of lots of other people to pay
             | for your Medicaid expense and so on. However, on average,
             | there are just so few people doing this type of thing that
             | I don't think we have to worry about free riders damaging
             | the system.
             | 
             | It's one of those cases where the "freeloading" is more
             | miserable than just working, which is why abuse isn't
             | rampant.
        
             | wanderingbit wrote:
             | The author mentions putting 20% down and getting a
             | mortgage. Even with insurance, for a 10 year mortgage 29k
             | is 430 per month. Or you live with your parents and save on
             | $1500 rent for 2 years, bam you can buy it with cash.
        
               | dangus wrote:
               | Then the author proceeded to not include that cost in the
               | example budget. They even had the gall to mention having
               | a 700 credit score to buy such a house.
               | 
               | Not a lot of people with this kind of low budget have a
               | 700 credit score.
        
             | harvey9 wrote:
             | Slight digression but shorter clinical shifts mean more
             | handovers, and those carry their own risk of error.
        
           | iammrpayments wrote:
           | I'm not sure if the "rat race" actually produces real wealth
           | to subsidize this.
           | 
           | If anything you could say we're able to subsidize this
           | despite the "rat race".
        
             | margalabargala wrote:
             | The "rat race" refers to the economic engine that is
             | American society.
        
           | hasbot wrote:
           | I was on Medicaid for three or four years and had much better
           | healthcare than when I was on an employer plan. Employer Plan
           | w/ a shoulder injury: no MRI until three months of PT
           | (physical therapy without knowing what the issue is????).
           | Medicaid w/ a foot injury: MRI, physical therapy, option for
           | surgery.
        
             | scarface_74 wrote:
             | I see a couple of specialist that explicitly state they
             | aren't taking any more Medicaid patients. I'm not on
             | Medicaid. But I assume if you have any type of need for
             | more than just a GP, you're going to find your choices more
             | limited.
        
               | hasbot wrote:
               | Oh definitely there are fewer provider options with
               | Medicaid and Medicare, again, in my experience, I
               | received better _healthcare_ than I did with an employer
               | _insurance_ plan.
        
           | antisthenes wrote:
           | > you're actually living off of the economic surplus of all
           | the people working hard in the rat race.
           | 
           | That's one way to look at it.
           | 
           | Another way is that you're living off of the economic surplus
           | you were producing while working a highly paid 9-5 job that
           | paid a shitload of taxes. Now it's your time to live off the
           | surplus you produced and take it easier.
           | 
           | > I am sure it works on some level but it doesn't seem to me
           | to be a very positive alternative to a lot of other
           | lifestyles.
           | 
           | It's not a very positive lifestyle from the standpoint of
           | increasing the GDP to some maximum amount, yeah.
        
         | fullStackOasis wrote:
         | > hope you don't need to see a doctor for anything serious, or
         | go to a dentist for that mater.
         | 
         | That's the first thing I thought about.
         | 
         | His budget of $432/mo doesn't include health insurance. But
         | $5K/y probably gets him Medicaid eligibility. Let's assume he's
         | on Medicaid, then. In NY state, that covers quite a lot of
         | dental care, if you believe this:
         | https://www.health.ny.gov/health_care/medicaid/program/denta...
         | Not saying it's a good option, but it's there.
         | 
         | > Taking the bus that goes 3 times a day is one thing, needing
         | to move stuff is another thing.
         | 
         | What kind of things do you think he might be moving? He
         | probably has just about no possessions with that budget (and a
         | 600 sq ft house). In a pinch, perhaps he can rent a truck from
         | Home Depot. Apparently, there _is_ a Home Depot in Massena, NY,
         | so maybe it 's not quite so far out in the boonies as it seems.
         | 
         | Personally, I wouldn't do it - the lack of choice would get
         | very unpleasant very fast. But it could work for some.
        
           | 8bitsrule wrote:
           | Yep, it could work for some. And I think that's his point.
           | Depending on how much meatspace socializing / culture one
           | wants/needs. Library internet, meh ... but working 3 more
           | hours at Stewart's would take care of that ... and access to
           | a hyuge amount of entertainment, news, online spaces.
           | Readers, writers, painters, DIYers. At $0.04 per kWh, keeping
           | a small room warm in the winter is trivial ... could be
           | worse!
        
             | fifilura wrote:
             | > but working 3 more hours at Stewart's
             | 
             | And working 5 more hours would get him a some better garden
             | tools, and 20 more he could support a family of 3 And if he
             | just got a higher paying job, he could even get a car!
        
               | fifilura wrote:
               | (This was obviously a image of the slippery-slope most of
               | us fall into)
        
           | sandworm101 wrote:
           | >> But $5K/y probably gets him Medicaid eligibility. Let's
           | assume he's on Medicaid, then.
           | 
           | If he is on medicaid then he isn't "living" on 432/month.
           | That would be living on 432/month PLUS whatever medicaid is
           | worth, likely well north of another 500/month.
           | 
           | Then the kids need schooling, either in-person or remote.
           | that is another 10k/year/kid. And you need some sort of local
           | police/justice system to ensure nobody boots you off your
           | homestead. But even once you account for all those local
           | costs, there are things like national security. Living a
           | peaceful life on a remote farm is only possible because the
           | country is ringed by police and armed forces. Those things
           | may be a thousand miles away, but someone still has to pay
           | for them.
        
             | RajT88 wrote:
             | > That would be living on 432/month PLUS whatever medicaid
             | is worth, likely well north of another 500/month.
             | 
             | Well, not for long at this rate.
        
             | Diesel555 wrote:
             | That's a fun topic. The US government pays just over 19k
             | per person. This means you need to make 100-150k (I came up
             | with 126 with a standard deduction and normal credits) to
             | "break even."
        
         | s09dfhks wrote:
         | In the comments on the article, the author says "we treat what
         | we can at home, otherwise we go to Mexico and pay cash"
         | 
         | Oy vey
        
           | antisthenes wrote:
           | That says a lot more about the dysfunctional US healthcare
           | system than it does about the author.
        
         | RajT88 wrote:
         | You read articles like this every so often, sure. Maybe ~13
         | years back I read about an indie game dev who lived in a carbon
         | neutral home in the middle of nowhere Arizona or something.
         | Beautiful house, hand built. Talked about how you really don't
         | need all that much money to live - they were living on less
         | than 20k a year from his game sales.
         | 
         | Him and his wife were also in their 20's, and their kids I
         | think were already a few years old when they moved to the
         | boonies. All healthy.
         | 
         | It's an extreme example, but this is a good read:
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lykov_family
        
           | gyomu wrote:
           | For anyone curious, the game dev is Jason Rohrer:
           | 
           | https://hcsoftware.sourceforge.net/jason-
           | rohrer/simpleLife.h...
           | 
           | Things have changed since:
           | 
           | "In October of 2011, we moved from Las Cruces, NM to Davis,
           | CA. Along with all the good things listed below about Las
           | Cruces came bad things. Vicious dogs loose on the streets
           | (one bit my wife while biking) and in parks (I came close to
           | getting myself shot during a confrontation with a dog owner).
           | Crime (the little old lady next door got burgled twice in one
           | year, once at 3 in the afternoon through her front door).
           | After living in extremely cheap places for 8 years, I came to
           | realize that these places are extremely cheap for a reason
           | (because people don't want to live there if they can avoid
           | it)."
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | Zillow says the average house in Davis costs $890k. Looks
             | like they've pretty much given up on the "life cheaply"
             | thing.
        
               | gyomu wrote:
               | The main page of his website now says New Hampshire
               | 
               | https://hcsoftware.sourceforge.net/jason-rohrer/
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | Reminds me of that past HN story [1] about that guy who
             | moved to the least expensive rural town he could find to
             | start a cheap business, and had nothing but trouble.
             | Between burglary after burglary, locals that hate his guts,
             | local government stopping him from doing anything, and just
             | the general shittiness and malaise of living in a depressed
             | town. The guy kept doubling down, too, buying property
             | after property and ended up owning 75 or so properties,
             | while his problems kept multiplying.
             | 
             | 1: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39802157
        
         | noisy_boy wrote:
         | These are "young people" things. The older you get, the more
         | dependent you are on the society and it's benefits.
        
           | Barrin92 wrote:
           | Not close from my parents home is a small farm collective of
           | mostly ex hippies who have been living there communally for
           | decades with people well into their 80s now. It was so
           | successful that the city, taking that as inspiration, ran
           | trials of creating more autonomous senior communities that
           | are largely self supervised, including even people with
           | dementia.
           | 
           | From what I heard it works extremely well, not the least
           | because it's more dignified and keeps people engaged, active,
           | and self reliant. The modern notion of the drooling,
           | dependent nursing home patient is a product of our
           | (artificially!) atomized system.
        
         | jader201 wrote:
         | > _I honestly don 't know how anyone can live out in the
         | boonies without a car._
         | 
         | Why would you want to live out in the boonies without owning a
         | car?
         | 
         | Just get a car.
         | 
         | They're not _that_ expensive, you can get a used beater for not
         | much more than an iPhone. If you don't want a beater, you can
         | probably afford to spend a little more with the money you save
         | from living out in the boonies.
         | 
         | Most people who live in the boonies owns a car.
        
       | sandspar wrote:
       | Interesting how the author says that people tend to react
       | bitterly when he says stuff like this. And sure enough, the
       | HackerNews comments are mostly people reacting bitterly.
        
         | nkurz wrote:
         | Even beyond the comments, this article was immediately flagged
         | dead despite many upvotes. Then enough people vouched for it to
         | bring it back. I don't find it controversial or inappropriate,
         | but many people apparently do.
         | 
         | If you (generic you, not parent) happen to be one of those who
         | flagged it, maybe you could explain why?
        
       | poopsmithe wrote:
       | How do you find a property like that? Is there a Zillow for cheap
       | rural land?
        
         | aaronbaugher wrote:
         | My cheap rural place is on Zillow, so you can probably just use
         | that. Pull up a map, identify a couple of large cities (St.
         | Louis and Kansas City, for instance), find a point between
         | them, and zoom in. Repeat until you find a spot you like. It's
         | a really, really big country and most of it isn't urban, so
         | there are lots of places to choose from, with a wide variety of
         | weather conditions, population densities, and other aspects.
        
       | theendisney wrote:
       | An expert told me there are places to earn and places to spend in
       | the world. In the cheap places to spend you might want a fun job
       | with very little pay and few hours. You for example earn 400 and
       | spend 600 per month. In the places to earn you should try not to
       | live at all. Ideal is to work 84 hour weeks for 15-20 bucks, rent
       | a bunk bed with a shared kitchen and bathroom and eat whatever
       | cheap crap you can stomach. 50 for the bed 100 for food, save
       | something like 1400. Every week not living like that buys 6-7
       | MONTHS in the afordable location. Two weeks is a year. Clearly
       | you dont actually need to live. You do 2 to 12 weeks of pure
       | work, enough to slightly burn out. This will make the 1 to 6 year
       | vacation all the more enjoyable.
       | 
       | You also have money in the bank so if you feel the need to burn a
       | few thousand on something you can. It will shorten the vacation
       | but who needs 6 years seriously?
        
       | ianferrel wrote:
       | I like this article. I think it's a little unrealistic in many
       | ways, but it's good to consider that a life does not require
       | extravagance. However:
       | 
       | >often enough, the "boomers" are the scapegoat; the ones who
       | lived their American Dreams and, as the allegations go, pulled up
       | the ladder behind them as they tasted their successes.
       | 
       | >They'd merely need to content themselves with a manner of living
       | that would be more in line with that of their own great-
       | grandfathers
       | 
       | The problem isn't that we can affordably live like our great-
       | grandparents. It's that we _can 't_ affordably live like our
       | parents and grandparents did.
        
       | shusaku wrote:
       | Hold up. You don't need a car due to a robust transportation
       | system. You don't work too much because of a high minimum wage.
       | Health care is free. Retirement is handled by someone else.
       | Education expenses are free. Child raising expenses free! You are
       | provided free entertainment, news, etc at the library. The author
       | forgot about how they were going to pay for clothing, etc, but
       | there's food stamps on the other side of the balance. Your taxes
       | are zero, paid by richer people. The 29k payment for your house
       | is taken from a homesteading fund.
       | 
       | Somehow I think grandpa would be suspicious of this tale of
       | bootstrapping just being socialism. But why not? I think people
       | in the left have been insisting that if we gave people a robust
       | baseline for free (by taxing the rich), we could revive this sort
       | of lifestyle.
        
       | chachacharge wrote:
       | yes, Massena and Ogensburg. Plagues of flies and mosquitos.
       | Frozen car batteries. Snow plows. Rust.
        
       | eraviloi wrote:
       | So many folks bashing the author. The message is clear, most
       | people are not willing to alter their lives to live more
       | comfortably.
       | 
       | Whether that is giving up living in comfort or making small
       | changes to their habits.
       | 
       | I think the relevant commentary here is to look at what happiness
       | looks like for you. For a lot of folks they are just going to
       | mentally masturbate to alternative ways in life. For the select
       | few that make those changes content like this is critical.
       | 
       | Thanks for spreading the seeds.
        
       | probably_wrong wrote:
       | I think the author is arguing against their own point with the
       | illustration they chose. The very last picture can be found in
       | the Wikipedia page for the Homestead Act and, two jumps later,
       | one can find themselves in the Dutch version of "Sod house" [1]
       | which has this to say:
       | 
       | > _The living conditions there were miserable. Due to the
       | construction method, the room was difficult to heat, it was damp
       | and teeming with vermin. (...) The Housing Act of 1901 prohibited
       | living in sod huts._
       | 
       | If the author says "you can live like your grandparents" to mean
       | "in conditions that were already considered miserable for the
       | standards of 1901", that's not a great selling point. And while I
       | sympathize with the underlying message to a point, I would argue
       | against romanticizing the past. Sure, my grandfather lived in a
       | cheap house he built himself, but he also came back home every
       | day with bleeding fingers that my grandmother would treat.
       | 
       | [1] https://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plaggenhut
        
         | tantalor wrote:
         | The point could be taken in the other way, as in "hey at least
         | you don't have to live in a house made of dirt, right?"
         | Comparably you are much better off, so there is no point in
         | complaining. They made it work. Sure it wasn't great, but we're
         | all passed that now, standards are _much_ better.
        
           | onecommentman wrote:
           | Adobe (dried mud) homes in Santa Fe go for well north of a
           | million dollars US. I'll take a couple of those myself.
        
             | Centigonal wrote:
             | adobe and sod are very different materials, and the
             | climates they are built in are very different, too.
             | Technically, a brick manor is made of dirt, too.
        
         | titanomachy wrote:
         | I don't know why they chose that picture, but it's also not
         | really related to the argument of the essay.
        
         | jvanderbot wrote:
         | It's sure ironic that they chose those photos, to be sure, but
         | I don't think it detracts from the words, which describe
         | conditions much better than that.
        
         | testing22321 wrote:
         | I lived in a place purely heated by a wood stove in the Yukon.
         | It was glorious, easily best heat and nicest feel ever. When it
         | was past -40 I'd get up at 1am to put in more wood, otherwise
         | I'd have to spend 30 minutes in the morning lighting it again.
         | 
         | Places heated with wood stoves are NOT damp or miserable. I
         | loved it. Working on doing it again.
        
           | oneshotpez wrote:
           | Wow tending a fire 24/7 so I don't die. Living the life, yo.
        
             | testing22321 wrote:
             | I Put wood in it twice a day in winter three when it was
             | proper cold. Never in summer. New ones that have a
             | catalytic combustor go 24 hours without touching them easy.
             | 
             | Also you miss the point. For tending the wood stove a few
             | times a day in winter I got to not go to work 30 hours a
             | week.
        
         | righthand wrote:
         | My father is the son of homesteaders and while he didn't live
         | in the original homesteader shack. He lived in the version
         | after it. Eventually they built a nice house for themselves. He
         | recalled having a weird enjoyment burning down the old crappy
         | tarpaper childhood home.
        
       | orzig wrote:
       | The author mentions they're just about to have a baby, and it's
       | notable that they don't talk about the quality of the schools.
       | Even if they homeschooled, I imagine they want their kids to have
       | some friends, and they didn't talk about how that would work
       | without a car. Once they get a car, they might get a little bit
       | unlucky and live an hour away from their kid's closest peer. I
       | hope they get along!
        
         | fullStackOasis wrote:
         | > Even if they homeschooled, I imagine they want their kids to
         | have some friends, and they didn't talk about how that would
         | work without a car.
         | 
         | Why do you assume that they are no kids in the neighborhood?
         | 
         | I suppose another option is that they don't actually care if
         | their kids have friends. Perhaps parents are enough, in their
         | view.
        
         | wredcoll wrote:
         | Where are they going to go if the birth is complicated? Just
         | bleed out on the floor of their hut?
        
           | tokai wrote:
           | <<My wife took down and died upon the cabin floor / And I
           | ain't got no home in this world anymore>>
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUgzXJACXzs
        
             | FireBeyond wrote:
             | Even more recently: https://genius.com/Phil-collins-the-
             | roof-is-leaking-lyrics
             | 
             | "My wife's expecting, but I hope she can wait. 'Cause this
             | winter looks like it's gonna be another bad one"
             | 
             | "The roof is leaking and the wind is howling, Kids are
             | crying 'cause the sheets are so cold. Woke this morning,
             | found my hands were frozen, I've tried to fix the fire, but
             | you know, the damn thing's too old."
        
         | zachlatta wrote:
         | I checked and the quality of schools there are fine! 75% of
         | students in high school at grade level in math and reading.
         | Pretty normal.
        
       | omosubi wrote:
       | I think think is doable, but how would you find a partner that is
       | willing to do it? how many men or women are interested in this
       | that are also the kind of people that read substack regularly?
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | Plenty of retvrn types that are terminally online. You're not
         | likely finding them in person though in a major city. They're
         | probably barely scrapping by in a MCOL and don't go out - thus,
         | find them online.
        
       | cozzyd wrote:
       | Is this the place? https://redf.in/UXIUBi
        
       | datavirtue wrote:
       | The US is packed with vacant infrastructure over hundreds of
       | dying cities where you can get a nice home that has electricity,
       | water and sewer and trash removal and schools etc...for dirt
       | cheap.
       | 
       | You could make the payment trading options with an almost meager
       | portfolio. Evil stock market and corporations could buy you a
       | free house.
        
       | lwansbrough wrote:
       | In the 4th paragraph the author suggests that the economic
       | backbone of the country - young people - simply desert economic
       | centres of growth and prosperity and to instead assume a life of
       | poverty in a rural teardown. A life substantially worse than
       | their parents live, simply because their parents don't want more
       | homes near their own home.
       | 
       | I didn't bother to check if the article gets any more serious
       | from there.
        
       | tomcar288 wrote:
       | I think a lot of people are taking it as a precise prescription.
       | Rather, I think it's the main idea that counts: you can downsize
       | and reduce your expenses by quite a bit. I think this will become
       | ever more important going into the future as the standard of
       | living continues to erode, as it has done for the last 27 years.
        
       | jppope wrote:
       | I think a lot of people are missing the larger point. Yes its
       | very possible to live quite inexpensively in the American
       | Siberia... thats not what the author is really getting at. The
       | Author is pointing out that there is a HUGE opportunity for young
       | americans to live in places that aren't a handful of large Metros
       | with outrageous housing costs lots of these places are the
       | heartland, where it is socially unacceptable now for costal
       | middle class adults go.
       | 
       | The authors point resinates for me, and I've seen a different but
       | related model by friends - A couple (Dentist and small business
       | owner) living in semi-rural Kansas (city pop ~40K). Their
       | contention was that normal people in a normal week eat some food,
       | go to work, do kid stuff (school, practices, etc), workout, watch
       | some TV, and sleep a bunch... And theres really nothing about
       | that that is needs to be in a major metro, so they moved to a
       | place where college educated adults from the coasts dare not go-
       | Kansas. The recognize the useful stuff from the metros are the
       | food, culture, etc... and what they did was take a trip one a
       | month to live like kings...
       | 
       | Can you imagine how much more fun you can have with ~400K of
       | disposable income (after living expenses)? Seeing the trips
       | they've taken and the adventures they were able to afford because
       | their 7 bedroom 5 bath house cost ~400K (movie theater and
       | all)... was mind boggling to me. It was all for the small cost of
       | not being able to get access to the metros during the week. Seems
       | worth it to me...
        
         | lfowles wrote:
         | > The recognize the useful stuff from the metros are the food,
         | culture, etc...
         | 
         | Probably most importantly, a thriving job market
        
       | giancarlostoro wrote:
       | I sometimes wonder how much Amish have to spend a month.
        
       | jebarker wrote:
       | > At the end of it, most people don't want to live this way.
       | That's OK -- I'm not here to judge them.
       | 
       | What would you judge them for even if you were here for that?
        
       | tinyplanets wrote:
       | I think the author's main argument is interesting, and despite
       | the good counter arguments already made in this thread (health
       | care, car dependency, social isolation), it does make me think a
       | bit about where I could possibly retire. I live in a smallish,
       | highly-desirable city just north of Seattle that - while being
       | pleasant to live in - is becoming extremely expensive.
       | 
       | For me, one of the biggest issues with living out in a small
       | rural town like this is the culture. From my experience, the
       | majority of rural areas in the United States are now extremely
       | politically conservative. Going anywhere outside of the Puget
       | Sound metroplex always reminds me of this reality... lots of MAGA
       | and confederate flags, billboards promoting the latest ultra
       | right wing candidate, etc.
        
       | CommenterPerson wrote:
       | Worse than a Boomer who got his and pulled up the ladder is a
       | Boomer who got his, pulled up the ladder, and lectures a
       | youngster to go live in a miserable cold place in the middle of
       | nowhere with no heat.
        
       | 6stringmerc wrote:
       | My main takeaway from the article is that I agree it benefits the
       | younger generation of Americans to consider moving abroad if they
       | are comfortable with a different lifestyle where consumerism is
       | secondary to adaptation. Personally I'm looking forward to
       | traveling to places where being a Blues Guitarist from Texas
       | might be a curiosity rather than a liability (such as in Texas).
       | The biggest export, decade after decade, the US can cite is
       | "culture" and "what is cool" and though other countries do have
       | significantly different political / authority structures, I'm
       | interested in exploring them. Nepal, Panama, Albania, and Vietnam
       | are all on my list.
       | 
       | Going into the armpit forgotten realms of the US is, however, not
       | appealing in the least despite its financial practicality on
       | limited means.
        
       | fencepost wrote:
       | So, it's a stationary alternative to the "van life" trend that
       | floats around sometimes.
       | 
       | Massena's about the size of the town we moved my parents from
       | after my father had a stroke, though it's a lot poorer (in 2013
       | nearly a third of the population was below the poverty line, and
       | that's before Alcoa closed a chunk of operations there). It does
       | have a hospital (25 beds, not-for-profit) and given the
       | demographics I'm 100% positive that it's one of those hospitals
       | that *needs* Medicaid to survive.
       | 
       | I'm pretty sure that doing this really would feel a lot like
       | going back and living like your grandparents or great-
       | grandparents did - all the joys of the 1950s.
       | 
       | I wouldn't be surprised if there was data center work available
       | though - with cheap power there's probably someone there doing
       | cryptomining or maybe even hosting AI processing.
        
         | sgerenser wrote:
         | Yep, they already thought of the cryptoming angle:
         | https://www.nccs.one/
        
       | Jackson__ wrote:
       | >Taxes: $41
       | 
       | >Electric: ~$30
       | 
       | >Water: $0
       | 
       | >Transit: $53 for a 30-ride pass for each person living there
       | 
       | >Food: ~$300/mo.
       | 
       | >Telephone: $8/mo
       | 
       | >Entertainment: Fishing and library, free
       | 
       | >Internet: Use library
       | 
       | >Medical costs in case a moose kicks you in the nuts while
       | fishing: ~$500000
       | 
       | Someone help me manage my budget, my family is dying.
        
         | y-curious wrote:
         | Also your offspring need to go to schools paid for by local
         | taxes. Ruhroh.
        
       | xp84 wrote:
       | I've commented (probably too much) to argue with the harshest
       | critics of this piece, but I am surprised to not have seen much
       | this criticism which is my main one:
       | 
       | Supposing I've made peace with the main gist of this: Cut living
       | expenses to a point where you can work 1/4 or so of the time most
       | of us spend working by living somewhere cheap and not being so
       | materialistic.
       | 
       | The missing piece here is social connections. Family and friends.
       | If I could take my in-laws and my 2 best friends and their
       | families with me, I'd sign up to move to a rural place like this
       | tomorrow. But it's impractical for nearly everyone in the whole
       | country to make such a thing happen. This limits its appeal. This
       | place is 90 minutes or so from the Montreal airport, which is
       | actually not bad for rural places, but flights are not cheap,
       | certainly not accessible on the budget described here, so for you
       | to have contact with _anyone_ outside this town, they 're likely
       | going to have to drop about $500 per person, per visit, and will
       | be staying at the Super 8 since you probably don't have a guest
       | room). So, implied but not acknowledged in this piece is the
       | assumption that you are almost definitely going to only see your
       | family and friends a few more times (maybe once a year each, if
       | you're super lucky) for the rest of your life.
       | 
       | And unlike questions of money; food, entertainment, family and
       | friends aren't fungible. You can start over and hope to make new
       | friends out there, but you can't replace people. This is what
       | would make this life untenable to me, and I'm not even all that
       | extraverted.
        
         | jvanderbot wrote:
         | Any discussion of staying near family and friends on a forum
         | predominated by startups out of the bay area is completely
         | disingenuous.
         | 
         | But that aside, I suggest this is front page and meaningful not
         | because it brings up a third option (to stay home, move to a
         | city, or move to rural NY), but instead because it advocates
         | accidentally for just _staying home_. Your family probably
         | already lives in an area that is more affordable than SF
         | /NYC/Paris, and they are there waiting. It's entertaining as an
         | extreme data point but motivating for other reasons
         | 
         | This article is most interesting to me because I tried moving
         | to the big city to be a big shot techie, and have been
         | substantially happier living outside a major city in Minnesota.
         | 
         | Absolutely nobody that I knew in those cities lived near their
         | family, absolutely all of them moved away to chase fortune and
         | fame.
        
           | lesuorac wrote:
           | Eh, perhaps a curious administrator can share the data but I
           | really suspect just through sheer numbers most people on this
           | forum do not live in the bay area.
           | 
           | The NYC metro area is 23 million [1] which is about 7% of the
           | country (23/300). There's a good chance somebody who works in
           | NYC grew up nearby.
           | 
           | That said, if you chase fortune and fame for a decade and
           | then retire to Minnesota you still come out ahead... Even if
           | rent is twice as expensive in SF, if your salary is twice
           | that then your savings are also twice as much which will go a
           | longer way anywhere but SF.
           | 
           | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_metropolitan_area
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | People aren't simply moving into the city locally the
             | numbers just don't work.
             | 
             | The demographics of NYC require and support the idea of a
             | huge and constant flux of people from distant areas moving
             | into and out of the city which matches people's
             | observations. Even the gender divide is abnormal, the
             | largest age group is 25-29 for women and 30-34 for men
             | despite more men being born vs women living longer.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_New_York_City
        
               | barry-cotter wrote:
               | The metro area, not the city. That extends into New
               | Jersey and Connecticut.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | I'm saying the "local metro area" just doesn't have the
               | population to support that kind of migration pattern on
               | its own.
               | 
               | Sure plenty of locals move into the city just as with any
               | city, what sets NYC apart is it draws in people from much
               | longer distances before most of them leave. The elderly
               | population in NYC being relatively tiny.
        
             | sandworm101 wrote:
             | >> if you chase fortune and fame for a decade and then
             | retire to Minnesota you still come out ahead
             | 
             | And the locals start to hate you for buying up land and
             | generally raising prices enough that working folk are
             | squeezed out of the market. Some areas are starting to
             | enact laws to prevent productive farmland becoming condos
             | and hobby farms for retiring city people.
        
               | vitaflo wrote:
               | Not in MN. Nobody is moving here to retire. And there's
               | plenty of rural land to go around.
        
               | sandworm101 wrote:
               | The land is part of the equation, but more so the impact
               | on government services. More retirees is more burden on
               | local healthcare and emergency response. They may
               | contribute to the local tax base, but the turnaround
               | between increased population and new hospitals/firehalls
               | is often measured in decades. Have a look at how long it
               | takes to get a new firetruck these days, let alone the
               | people to run it.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | For a while we were looking to move out to a more rural
               | State and work remotely. More than one realtor let us
               | know that the seller's price was ~10-20% more for us than
               | the advertised list price because we are from California.
               | I guess we have a reputation or something. Or it's just
               | plain old price discrimination. Ok. I won't make an offer
               | and buy your house that you are trying to sell, then. Is
               | that what you want, smart guy?
        
             | yodsanklai wrote:
             | A lot of people in this forum don't even live in the US (if
             | not most).
        
           | tbihl wrote:
           | "Disingenuous" is a bridge too far (and worth mentioning
           | because it impugns intent.) It's easy to get drawn to the
           | cities with friends and high pay, then feel like path
           | dependency precludes one from returning to the lower COL
           | hometown. You tell your story in the third and fourth
           | paragraphs because you find it worthy of mention.
        
             | jvanderbot wrote:
             | You're right, bad word choice.
             | 
             | But yeah, this lifestyle is mostly madness. I watched
             | others stay at home and they have decades of memories,
             | families, and paid off houses. Grass is greener.
        
               | 0x445442 wrote:
               | A real issue until recently, with remote work as an
               | option, was the lack of opportunity to pursue more
               | intellectual forms of work in a small rural area. I grew
               | up raising cattle and a number of my extended family
               | members were loggers. However, I had an aptitude for
               | science and math and was bitten by the programming bug
               | when I was a teenager. I didn't leave my rural community
               | for fame and fortune but for work that was more
               | interesting to me.
               | 
               | That said, now that I'm near the end of my career I've
               | taken full advantage of remote work by moving to a rural
               | area while maintaining similar pay. Honestly I don't know
               | why more people haven't taken advantage of this
               | significant arbitrage opportunity. To each his own.
        
               | bruce511 wrote:
               | I was born in the suburbs, of a moderately large city
               | (think low millions) and have lived here all my life. We
               | often spend weekends out in the countryside in the quiet
               | rural towns.
               | 
               | These towns are somewhat popular with retirees, rural and
               | quiet enough but within 2 to 3 hours of the city,
               | international Airport, and so on.
               | 
               | Getting closer to my own retirement, discussions about
               | "where" have occurred.
               | 
               | Thing is, I actively _don 't_ want to retire there.
               | Frankly because there's nothing to do.
               | 
               | As I'm slowly gaining more free time, I want to learn new
               | things (music, ceramics, etc) go out more, play more golf
               | etc. Small towns with their small shops are lovely to
               | unwind in, but personally, not for me full-time.
               | 
               | So yeah, to each his own. Which is great, we are all
               | different, with different circumstances, different
               | opportunities, different goals.
               | 
               | And yes, high speed internet removes a huge part of "have
               | to leave" (or at least adds a big part of "can come
               | back") to the equation. Plus remote work can pump
               | significant revenue into a small-town economy.
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | Not everyone has a home to go to. Broken families, dead
           | families, there may no longer be room at a home, etc.
           | Everyone's circumstances are different.
           | 
           | And honestly, based on some cultures, home isn't free either.
           | The moment I got back home, I was given a few months to find
           | work, but had to pay rent in 3 months no matter what. I was
           | doing temp work for one month while interviews finished
        
             | geodel wrote:
             | Good point. IME it is quite common all over the world for
             | grownups to chip in towards family expense if they are
             | staying more than a few weeks back home. If not cash it
             | could be some other way.
        
             | bruce511 wrote:
             | Of course you are right, not everyone has the option to
             | move back in either their parents, and of course that
             | option (when available) is often not rent free (nor should
             | it be.)
             | 
             | However I don't think that's what the parent poster meant.
             | I think he meant "home" is the "home town" sense.
             | 
             | There's a perception that young people (for probably 60
             | years now) see "getting out of this town" as a major life
             | goal. Small towns find it hard to hold on to folk in their
             | 20s as they head off into the world seeking the excitement
             | of a bigger city, industry location, or indeed just the
             | option of choosing from a list of more than 2 places to
             | eat.
             | 
             | The parent poster is suggesting that after experiencing
             | that, and discovering the negatives (high housing cost
             | being one), if you have a job which can be done remotely,
             | then Starlink allows you to do that from your home town.
             | 
             | Of course this is a viable option for some, and likely not
             | for most.
        
               | TacticalCoder wrote:
               | There are many parents who allow their kids to live rent
               | free. First job can then DCA the near entire salary and
               | what you save early on compounds like crazy for life.
               | 
               | Parents telling kids in this world to "go work 24/7 on
               | the treadmill without being able to save" should wonder
               | if having kids wasn't something selfish they did like
               | having a pet.
               | 
               | I was always welcome at my mother's home and she told me
               | there would always be shelter and food for me, whenever
               | I'd come.
               | 
               | The selfish people who kick their kids out of their home
               | at 18 y/o are people best let out of my life.
               | 
               | If a kid is working, I see no reason why parents
               | shouldn't let them
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >Parents telling kids in this world to "go work 24/7 on
               | the treadmill without being able to save" should wonder
               | if having kids wasn't something selfish they did like
               | having a pet.
               | 
               | Like I said, it's cultural. Some parents literally need
               | extra income just to keep the roof over their heads, and
               | having an adult dependent at home is still an expense. .
               | Some parents simply don't want to facilitate a full on
               | NEET lifestyle and want to encourage a proper work ethic.
               | 
               | I agree that a kid won't just figure everything out the
               | moment they turn 18, but I can empathize with a child
               | also needed to leave their nest one day. Uniersity was
               | the perfect environment for that transition, but we
               | decided to cut funding for decades and move the costs to
               | the 18YO's with no financial sense. A "party school" just
               | doesn't make sense anymmore so if we don't treat it as a
               | vocational school, you may as well have saved money and
               | let them be a NEET for 4 years.
        
               | bruce511 wrote:
               | I've no objection to my kids living at home, and there'll
               | always be a place for them here.
               | 
               | I charge them rent though - 33% of their gross pay. Not
               | cause I need the money but because it allows them to
               | afford to move out one day. In other words their
               | lifestyle has "rent" built into it.
               | 
               | In other words I'm happy to offer a backstop. I'm less
               | happy for them to simply ignore "becoming self sufficient
               | adults" just because it's cheaper to live at home.
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | How about the "rent" going into a savings pot which they
               | can use for a downpayment or otherwise reclaim (maybe
               | partially) when they move out?
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | >There's a perception that young people (for probably 60
               | years now) see "getting out of this town" as a major life
               | goal.
               | 
               | It sort of is. Opportunities in the small towns is
               | limited compared to urban areas. As well as other social
               | aspects like night life, entertainment, the culture of
               | the residents, etc. The people argument of being
               | irreplaceable works both ways; you're simply going to get
               | more options when you're around more people.
               | 
               | > if you have a job which can be done remotely, then
               | Starlink allows you to do that from your home town.
               | 
               | Perhaps. Both Starlink and jobs in general really don't
               | want us to have such options, as seen in the last few
               | years of layoffs and crashouts. Add in the cable
               | monopolies and you see how WFH really isn't stable right
               | now without a good connection.
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | Does anyone actually like nightlife though? Same for
               | local entertainments, sure they're a nice extra sometimes
               | but nothing worth sacrificing for.
               | 
               | It's all some variation of "crowded into a dark room with
               | hundreds of strangers with deafening music, can't see
               | anything, can't hear anything".
        
               | fnimick wrote:
               | "nobody wants to go there anymore, it's too crowded"
        
           | Robotbeat wrote:
           | Yeah, Minnesota is awesome, particularly near the Twin
           | Cities.
        
           | kiba wrote:
           | I am substantially happier that I moved into the big city
           | because I built social connections and I don't want to live
           | with my parents anymore. Driving down there is insane and I
           | wish there was decent transportation option.
           | 
           | I can use electric scooter to move around most days. It's a
           | lot more fun than driving my car.
           | 
           | Really, what these places really need is major policy reform
           | to make them more livable. There's a reason why these places
           | are where people want to live after all.
           | 
           | To help make this happen, I donate to two non-profit that
           | works to improve transportation and housing accessibility
           | respectively.
        
             | npodbielski wrote:
             | Try to use scooter to drive the kids to school at freezing
             | temperatures.
             | 
             | > I donate to two non-profit that works to improve
             | transportation and housing accessibility respectively.
             | 
             | Most of those are just leeches or just straight political
             | agendas or tools for foreign power disruption. You can't
             | improve city civil planning outside of city system. At best
             | you can beg, bribe officials.
             | 
             | You seem young and naive.
        
               | Hnrobert42 wrote:
               | Wow! Name-calling. Baseless accusations. Whataboutism.
               | You're really going for it, huh?
        
             | troupo wrote:
             | > donate to two non-profit that works to improve
             | transportation
             | 
             | Unless those nonprofits work with local government to
             | improve transportation, you're donating to scammers
        
           | npodbielski wrote:
           | Yes, if you plan to have kids having parents or other family
           | near is a big help. Big cities are fine when you are 18-25
           | and want to have fun. Near 30 and older you are just tired by
           | the noise and other people being around ;)
        
         | drewg123 wrote:
         | The problem is that its across an international border from the
         | Montreal airport. So you'd need to cross a border twice to fly
         | to a domestic US destination and twice more on your return.
         | Crossing a border is always an unknown in terms of delays, so I
         | question the practicality. I'd personally feel like I needed to
         | leave way more than 90 minutes to ge to the airport.
         | 
         | FWIW, I've crossed the border at both Cornwall and Ogdensburg
         | when driving to Ottawa, and they were quiet when I crossed.
         | Going from the US side to Canada was fast and easy, but the
         | reverse wasn't true, and that was several years ago when
         | crossing the border was quite a bit less stressful.
        
           | jmb99 wrote:
           | Oddly enough, I always spend more time crossing into Canada
           | than the US at Ogdensburg, even though I'm a Canadian citizen
           | and travelling on a Canadian passport. Had my car searched
           | last time. As always, your mileage may vary.
        
             | kotaKat wrote:
             | Same crossing, different experience: American citizen (with
             | NY Enhanced Drivers License), Canadian First Nations (with
             | Secure Certificate of Indian Status). They look at my
             | native card and just wave me through.
             | 
             | The single time I got pulled in to go pay tax on a gift for
             | someone ($150 USD) they looked at my card and went "I'm not
             | dealing with the tax paperwork on that (due to some native
             | exemptions)" and waved me back out.
             | 
             | As for local air travel: you'd have to go 30 minutes from
             | Massena anyways for 'proper' air travel - Ogdensburg now
             | has once-a-day service to DC via Breeze. Traveling to
             | Shmoocon was hilarious for only $30 roundtrip.
        
           | xp84 wrote:
           | Indeed, though you could probably do pretty well by getting a
           | NEXUS membership for this use case. At least for now, though
           | obviously US-Canada relations are getting stupider by the
           | week so who knows how many dumb roadblocks will end up being
           | thrown up.
           | 
           | I just noticed that Syracuse has an airport with passenger
           | service, only 2 1/2 hours away, so that's another option, if
           | the "international flight" hassle plus border crossing
           | actually burns an hour.
        
             | kotaKat wrote:
             | Begrudgingly, neither the Ogdensburg nor Massena crossings
             | support NEXUS. Closest ones with lanes are up in
             | Plattsburgh or Alexandria Bay, and to get a NEXUS interview
             | you have to travel the 2 or so hours to central NY.
             | 
             | OGS-IAD flights are great though.
        
           | tangjurine wrote:
           | Massena, the place in the article, has an airport. An
           | international airport.
           | 
           | Just checked flights from sfo to there, 500 bucks. I don't
           | get how this is different than moving to another state for
           | work.
        
             | permo-w wrote:
             | also, if you have a social "thing" like tennis or climbing
             | or drugs or whatever thing you like that tends to have an
             | active and welcoming social community that you're willing
             | to engage with, then the social issue can be dampened
             | somewhat
        
               | troupo wrote:
               | > if you have a social "thing" like tennis or climbing
               | 
               | Then you wouldn't be able to cut down expenses to
               | "nothing"/month.
               | 
               | Social thing assumes expenses. Hobbies assume expenses.
        
               | AStonesThrow wrote:
               | > Social thing assumes expenses. Hobbies assume expenses.
               | 
               | Entertainment is a line item in the budget: Library +
               | Fishing = "Free"
               | 
               | Libraries can be amazingly social, for eggheads. Lots of
               | groups and events meet there in my town. It's a full-
               | fledged Third Space.
               | 
               | [Neither the library access nor fishing gear is without
               | cost, but at least they already account for taxes.]
               | 
               | By the way, anyone who benefits from free stuff, for
               | example installing ad blockers, and earns $17/hr, should
               | seriously consider tithing 5-10% to tax-deductible
               | donations. It's a matter of economic justice.
        
               | bpicolo wrote:
               | Fishing licenses aren't actually free but at least
               | they're cheap
        
               | troupo wrote:
               | Fishing equipment isn't free, and you will have recurring
               | (though small) costs in hooks and line, at least.
        
               | mauvehaus wrote:
               | Libraries are highly dependent on the town you're in.
               | Ours is open six (6) hours a week. The one in. The town
               | we were renting in before we bought was open reasonable
               | hours and the librarians were great.
        
               | AStonesThrow wrote:
               | It can be exceedingly difficult to fund and staff a
               | library system, especially considering that libraries are
               | no longer big rooms with moldy books on the shelves.
               | 
               | Libraries are high-tech and high-maintenance. If the
               | community prioritizes their mission and invests in them,
               | it works out. Sometimes, not so good.
        
               | pastage wrote:
               | Social things are free! You just have to understand that
               | being social is what you pay with.
        
               | troupo wrote:
               | Even hosting friends at your house incurs a cost, however
               | small: for extra food and drinks.
               | 
               | Literally every human activity incurs a cost. Well, you
               | can become a Hikikomori, so your only expenses will be
               | electircity and internet.
        
               | pastage wrote:
               | If you equate a good time with spending money it is
               | always going to cost money. I do almost nothing with my
               | time that cost money, I have a lot of perks paid by work
               | that I do not use because I just see no use for them.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | Just find npc sims friends who like to walk on sidewalks
               | and turn around when they experience interactions with
               | animals.
        
               | os2warpman wrote:
               | A tennis racket is $13 at Goodwill and tennis balls are
               | $1.30/ea. In the case of living in Massena, NY like the
               | author you can play at Alcoa Park for $0.00.
               | 
               | As for climbing, you don't need a $200 climbing harness
               | you can tie your own Swiss seat out of rope ($2/ft.) and
               | buy a couple of snap links ($4-10/ea.). I would buy a
               | lower-end harness for $30 though.
               | 
               | Spread out over several seasons that is as close to
               | "nothing" as you can get, and is well within reach of any
               | person with a pulse.
               | 
               | 35 years ago I played DnD with a single AD&D 2e player's
               | handbook and DM's guide shared among us all, campaigns
               | and items out of Dungeon Magazine and Dragon Magazine
               | hand-copied from issues at the library, and a player
               | miniature made out of a film roll canister that I used
               | whiteout to paint a design on. Our greatest individual
               | expense was dice and I think those were less than $10 for
               | a set.
               | 
               | Hobbies are only expensive if you let them or want them
               | to be.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | Have you ever tried to do those sports with cheapest
               | equipment? Because I did and it ended up the same as
               | everyone else who tried it in a cheapest possible way -
               | you stop because it is not fun nor pleasure and equipment
               | limits you.
               | 
               | That being said, for tenista you need to pay entry. For
               | climbing, you will be kicked out of gym on top of it
               | being uncomfortable. Climbing gym don't want you injured
               | due to badly made seat - it makes other guests feeling
               | bad.
        
               | fragmede wrote:
               | > Hobbies are only expensive if you let them or want them
               | to be.
               | 
               | Climbing gyms aren't cheap. Climbing rocks outdoors is
               | fairly cheap.
        
               | nativeit wrote:
               | Now we're back to the point where you've saved so much
               | money by not carrying health insurance.
        
               | troupo wrote:
               | Not available in winter and rain. Requires equipment
               | (crash pads and shoes at least)
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | You need more equipment to make them safe. You need
               | literally more then you need in climbing gym, you need to
               | know what you are doing too.
               | 
               | And you need to travel to the place where that climbing
               | suitable rock is.
        
               | ZeroTalent wrote:
               | wait... drugs? I don't get it. the dark net is a thing.
               | or do you mean doing them with other people?
        
               | specproc wrote:
               | A very social activity if done right
        
               | mauvehaus wrote:
               | Your social "things" adapt somewhat to the environment.
               | Since moving to rural Vermont, my wife and I have taken
               | up hunting, and she has gotten back into fishing. There's
               | a group of (mostly older) people who get together
               | Wednesday mornings and shoot muzzleloaders and have
               | coffee. I join them when work allows.
               | 
               | As a happy side-effect, it let me get into muzzleloader
               | season with some support from people with a lot of
               | experience. In Vermont, muzzleloader season falls during
               | the damnable month between Thanksgiving and New Year's
               | when the days just keep getting shorter, and there isn't
               | usually enough snow (where we live) for snowshoeing.
               | Having a reason to get out in the woods and be really
               | present and observing nature when I otherwise would have
               | trouble is outstanding for my mental health during that
               | month.
               | 
               | That's not to say there aren't opportunities to climb. A
               | rock gym just opened near-enoughish-by and I have friends
               | who climb outside weekly at a nearby crag.
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | Massena's airport serves exactly one destination, Boston,
             | and even that is possible only through federal subsidies.
             | It's "international" because they can muster up somebody to
             | stamp your passport if you fly in via general aviation.
        
         | cjbarber wrote:
         | The network effects/moats of places! There needs to be a
         | Kickstarter for coordinating groups of people to move to the
         | same place all at the same time.
        
           | RajT88 wrote:
           | Good luck getting people to agree not to compete for the best
           | cheap houses.
        
             | s1artibartfast wrote:
             | doesn't seems to be a problem currently.
        
           | pyuser583 wrote:
           | Then the value of the place would go up fast.
           | 
           | This is one way gentrification happens.
        
             | jefftk wrote:
             | That seems to be pretty good for the group of newcomers!
             | They all buy together at lowish prices, then prices go up
             | enough that they ~make their money back on housing
             | appreciation. And it's not bad for existing homeowners
             | either, since they get the appreciation too.
        
               | johnnyanmac wrote:
               | Is someone Penny pinching $400/month really going to have
               | the funds necessary to flip housing?
        
               | pyuser583 wrote:
               | Some penny pinching so they can flip houses would.
        
               | kiba wrote:
               | Or you could just invest the difference in your stock
               | portfolio and institute a land value tax instead. Stock
               | are more a lot more liquid than real estate and less
               | risky as well. Whereas the value of a home is pretty much
               | stuck in the property until you convert it to liquid cash
               | by selling it, but then you need to move elsewhere.
        
               | renewiltord wrote:
               | Indeed you could either go through the arduous task of
               | convincing your friends to move somewhere with you or
               | just get enough political support for a land value tax
               | instead. No brainer to go for the tax. Way easier to
               | achieve.
        
               | HPsquared wrote:
               | Ah, path dependence.
        
               | diggan wrote:
               | > And it's not bad for existing homeowners either, since
               | they get the appreciation too.
               | 
               | Assuming everyone is only out after appreciating house
               | prices. While the locals who lived there before you might
               | like that the house gains in value, depending on how
               | large the group is and what the culture is, they might
               | not like it at all. There is a reason some rural people
               | continue living in rural areas, and bringing parts of the
               | city to them might not be ideal for those people.
        
               | thatguy0900 wrote:
               | Exactly what rural people want, enough city people all
               | moving in at once to noticably change the local
               | culture(their whole goal) and also price the locals out
               | of their own city
        
             | Dylan16807 wrote:
             | I'm sure there's a way to have more than 20 but less than
             | 2000 people move to the same general area.
             | 
             | Also if your primary goal is a cheap lifestyle, you're much
             | less likely to gentrify anything.
        
           | renewiltord wrote:
           | It was pretty easy for me. We got enough friends to move to
           | one neighborhood of SF. Once you get a few, the numbers start
           | going up and the gravity of the network draws more.
        
             | JCharante wrote:
             | that's what pieter levels did in portugal
        
           | ludicrousdispla wrote:
           | Seems like you could call it Cultstarter
        
           | herbst wrote:
           | Organized gentrification. Nice
        
           | flicken wrote:
           | The Free State Project[1] had 20k libertarians pledge to move
           | to New Hampshire, talking 15 years to reach the total number.
           | 
           | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_State_Project
        
             | littlestymaar wrote:
             | Only to fail to address the problem of bears because it
             | requires the kind of public action that libertarians
             | rejects for religious reasons.
        
               | os2warpman wrote:
               | A libertarian solving a problem is like me performing
               | brain surgery.
               | 
               | They ain't got no clue, and will almost certainly make
               | things worse.
        
             | m0llusk wrote:
             | This has turned out to be a really interesting failure. To
             | point out just one aspect, back in the 1970s there were
             | hints that New Hampshire was leaning toward legalization of
             | cannabis. Libertarian party meetups often focused on
             | legalization of cannabis. This trend seemed to be solid and
             | strongly linked to Libertarian influence in the state.
             | 
             | Then the Free State Project happened and the intense
             | liberty seeking of the Libertarian party kept everyone
             | occupied with arguments about bears and taxation. Meanwhile
             | the rest of New England legalized cannabis while New
             | Hampshire remained in a strange state of suspension. The
             | influence of Libertarians has been so chaotic and
             | unpredictable that what was considered the most likely
             | result of Libertarian influence now seems completely out of
             | reach.
             | 
             | This powerfully demonstrates how seemingly minor or
             | irrelevant factors like political networks, tone, and tempo
             | can end up being as important as core political issues and
             | their direct consequences. Metaphors like piloting the ship
             | of state through stormy waters take on additional meaning
             | in this context.
        
               | amluto wrote:
               | Forget cannabis. I always found it hilarious that NH is
               | supposedly libertarian but bans privately run businesses
               | from selling bottles of alcohol.
        
               | hiatus wrote:
               | I found it surprising that they allow at least one
               | private sale license. https://web.archive.org/web/2017102
               | 8042531/http://info.nhpr....
        
         | KennyBlanken wrote:
         | Rural living also looks cheaper because most people do not even
         | remotely consider the costs of transportation.
         | 
         | The IRS estimates per-mile deduction at well over 60 cents per
         | mile. If you have to drive 15 miles to the grocery store and
         | back, your grocery bill goes up $18/trip. If you need to drive
         | 15 miles to work and back, take $90/week out of your paycheck.
         | 
         | Then there's the fact that whoever is The Employer in that
         | region - if you lose your job there, you're fucked. So The
         | Employer gets to abuse every rule in th book because who's
         | going to complain and risk losing their job? If The Employer
         | decideds to drop everyone's pay by 25 cents/hour, what are you
         | all going to do? Answer: nothing.
         | 
         | Meanwhile in the city you can go anywhere you want within a 500
         | square mile area (or more) for well under $100/month and
         | commuter rail will take you even further for not a lot more.
         | And you can do other things while using said transportation. No
         | "self driving car" needed.
         | 
         | As a sidenote: the same author complains about the "loss of the
         | $50 motel room" and laments they're 3x more expensive now. Days
         | after complaining that housing isn't actually that expensive.
         | The guy has to be a troll...
         | 
         | Oh, and also not factored in: almost every aspect of rural life
         | is _heavily_ subsidized, and I don 't just mean direct
         | assistance. I mean literally everything you stare at when you
         | roll through a rural town was subsidized in some way by the
         | federal government, and most of them either don't know or will
         | never admit it.
         | 
         | For fucks sakes the government actually runs a program to
         | subsidize rural Americans getting to fly around on barely-
         | occupied turboprop planes. But heaven forbid a city get some
         | federal funding for electric or hybrid transit busses that will
         | serve several thousand people a day.
        
           | no_wizard wrote:
           | About the bit regarding funding:
           | 
           | It's because rural voters are both active and reliable
           | regardless of their party affiliation, they get out the vote.
           | This in turn for the fact that many rural counties account
           | for a great many house seats and can swing senate elections,
           | they have more power than numbers suggest.
           | 
           | If urban voters were as persistent and consistent as rural
           | ones they could easily flip the narrative, but in my
           | experience (and by looking at a lot of election statistics) a
           | huge chunk of apathetic eligible to vote voters live in urban
           | areas, so you don't have the same en masse consistency and
           | persistence
        
           | throw27263w wrote:
           | I also noticed the author's budget did not include health
           | insurance.
           | 
           | I also wonder how close it is to the nearest hospital or
           | urgent care.
        
             | throwaway2037 wrote:
             | Hello stranger! No need for a throwaway account for such an
             | insightful comment. I thought exactly the same when I read
             | the article.
             | 
             | Yeah, it is a bullshit/clickbait article. No healthcare?
             | Yeah, let's see how long his wife will put up with that.
             | And, literally, there is zero cost for heat. Do you know
             | how cold that place is in the winter? Here is what he
             | wrote:                   > as far as heat goes, well, one
             | could either pay a little extra in electric for that -- or
             | they could have the Amish deliver their scrap wood from
             | their sawmills to burn in a wood stove, very cheaply.
             | 
             | To be clear: That's not zero. Another lie.
             | 
             | Still: This person should setup a YouTube channel to
             | document their life. It would be like the boring/suffering
             | version of people who sail around the world on a yacht.
        
               | amluto wrote:
               | To be fair, at $0.04/kWh, even at very low outdoor
               | temperature, a heat pump at COP only a little bit above 1
               | or even an electric resistance heater is not very
               | expensive to operate. If you have anything resembling
               | decent insulation and you heat only a small space, heat
               | can be very inexpensive. Even in an old, uninsulated,
               | drafty house, you can fudge it cheaply with window
               | insulating film and by hanging fabric on the walls.
               | (Those cheap cut-to-size cellular window shades sold at
               | many home improvement stores also have excellent thermal
               | performance.)
               | 
               | It gets tricky if you want a civilized humidity level,
               | though. You need to control leakage to achieve decent
               | humidity and you need to control condensation to avoid
               | damaging the window trim or other parts of the structure
               | and to avoid growing mold.
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | I live in a pretty rural area. We have a hospital and
             | urgent care 12 minutes away, though for anything that isn't
             | immediately life threatening I'd be driving an hour for
             | much better hospital care in a larger city.
        
               | SpaceNoodled wrote:
               | That honestly doesn't sound very rural at all.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | There are definitely more rural areas, that just depends
               | on where you draw the line on what is considered "rural".
               | 
               | This area is unincorporated and the nearest towns all
               | have a few thousand people or less.
               | 
               | When we moved here I was actually surprised that we had a
               | hospital in one of those small towns. Its part of a
               | larger network that and the city an hour away has a big
               | training hospital and med school, I assume that's why
               | there's a smaller hospital in our area.
               | 
               | For reference, our only "grocery stores" withing 45
               | minutes are Walmarts and Dollar Generals.
        
           | stavros wrote:
           | Wait wait, how much does fuel cost that a 50km trip is $18?
           | Even my diesel car does that for 4 EUR.
        
             | nimih wrote:
             | The IRS is also presumably factoring in increased wear and
             | tear on the vehicle and increased insurance costs.
        
               | tonyedgecombe wrote:
               | The last time I did the maths on that fuel was half the
               | cost of running our car.
        
             | quickthrowman wrote:
             | The IRS reimbursement rate includes maintenance and
             | depreciation along with fuel and insurance costs. I get
             | back around $500 a month at $0.75 a mile for expensing my
             | work-related mileage.
        
             | rascul wrote:
             | The IRS mile rate does not actually reflect real world
             | costs. Even including maintenance, insurance, etc, it's
             | quite inflated, unless you barely drive it.
        
           | ivm wrote:
           | Exactly, as someone who moved to a rural area (in Chile) a
           | year ago, I can say that you basically pay a shipping tax on
           | _everything_ you need, starting with construction materials
           | themselves.
           | 
           | It's basically that ancap meme of building your own
           | infrastructure: water, electricity, access roads, clearing
           | the vegetation that constantly tries to reclaim your
           | property. I've never owned so many things in my life until I
           | moved here, many of them just to be able to tend the
           | wilderness around me.
           | 
           | But shoveling and cutting things has been an eye-opening
           | experience in terms of how many processes the high-energy
           | urban civilization hides from us. Even with steel/power
           | tools, it's brutal out there.
        
           | xp84 wrote:
           | > drive 15 miles to the grocery store and back,
           | 
           | Okay, but you're inventing a strawman there, since there are
           | millions of places to live that are far closer than 15 miles
           | away from basic services. The outskirts of Massena for
           | instance, are about 2 miles from Walmart.
           | 
           | > whoever is The Employer in that region - if you lose your
           | job there, you're fucked
           | 
           | The article is specifically about how with a low cost of
           | living you don't even need full time work. It's not about
           | moving to a company town to work a 9-5 at a factory.
           | 
           | > a city get some federal funding for electric or hybrid
           | transit busses that will serve several thousand people a day
           | 
           | I mean, they most definitely _do_ get that federal funding --
           | this fiscal year there is $1.5 billion available. Here 's[0]
           | last fiscal year's winners. But I assume the meaning of your
           | comment is that it bothers you that someone somewhere
           | complained about that fact? I doubt it's the rural folks
           | complaining, probably car drivers in the city complaining
           | that the money didn't all go to fixing the potholes, the same
           | cranks who complain about bike lanes, etc.
           | 
           | It is interesting how this proposal that people even just
           | consider rural living as a thought experiment seems to have
           | triggered a lot of people. If you love the city yet
           | simultaneously think it's too expensive, other people opening
           | their minds to living somewhere else is good for you. It
           | doesn't have to be _for you_ for it to be an okay idea.
           | 
           | [0] https://www.transit.dot.gov/funding/grants/fy24-fta-bus-
           | and-...
        
           | Ray20 wrote:
           | >The IRS estimates per-mile deduction at well over 60 cents
           | per mile.
           | 
           | I think you are manipulating and substituting concepts, and
           | these calculations of the cost of the trip include expensive
           | cars of highly paid city workers. And if you recalculate the
           | cost of the trip taking into account cars that are used
           | outside the city, then the amount will be several times
           | lower. Probably 5 or more times lower if people are
           | interested in the maximum reduction in the cost of travel.
           | 
           | >almost every aspect of rural life is heavily subsidized
           | 
           | I don't know, show me the data. Maybe the city guys are just
           | saying that it's all subsidized, while they themselves are
           | completely stealing all the allocated funds, taking advantage
           | of the lack of control. I recently watched a program about
           | how government-funded projects were costing 10 or 20 times
           | more. So, without credible evidence to the contrary, let's
           | assume that what we see around us in rural areas has roughly
           | zero subsidies, and all allocated funds have been completely
           | appropriated by contractors.
           | 
           | >But heaven forbid a city get some federal funding for
           | electric or hybrid transit busses that will serve several
           | thousand people a day.
           | 
           | This is blatant hypocrisy. We have already sorted out how
           | rural areas are "subsidized". And under these conditions, we
           | are asking rural residents to pay for the transport of
           | pompous urban asses? If this transport really moves so many
           | thousands people as you said, why don't these city people pay
           | for it themselves from their huge city salaries? Why do you
           | want to put your fat fingers in the pockets of the rural
           | guys?
        
             | pcdoodle wrote:
             | Nobody is using the public transport anymore as they've
             | become moving toilets and drugs dens.
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | Whereas driving a personal vehicle on public roadways is
               | a daily dance with death that snuffs out 40,000+ lives a
               | year.
               | 
               | Who in their right mind would put their lives at such
               | risk?
        
           | herbst wrote:
           | I don't know about America. But for me here in Switzerland
           | additional transportation cost is actually cheaper in a rural
           | area than parking costs in any city. A standard parking space
           | about 100$ a month (not including going anywhere and park
           | there, which is also es expensive closer to the city).
           | 
           | Every round trip ads maybe $5 right now. We don't have to
           | drive to the city every second day.
        
           | LunaSea wrote:
           | > Oh, and also not factored in: almost every aspect of rural
           | life is heavily subsidized, and I don't just mean direct
           | assistance.
           | 
           | Couldn't you say the same for cities since they live on food
           | produced outside of cities, energy from the Gulf and products
           | imported from China?
        
             | spicyusername wrote:
             | It doesn't matter where the thing comes from, it matters
             | who's paying for it.
        
           | amluto wrote:
           | You can drive for a lot less than $0.60c/mi. At $0.04/kWh,
           | evergy to propel an EV costs 1-2 cents per mile. If you buy a
           | $35k car and drive it 200k miles while spending very little
           | on maintenance (tires might be the major expense), add maybe
           | $0.20/mi, for a total of $0.21/mi or so. Insurance isn't all
           | that expensive and doesn't vary that much with mileage. If
           | you buy a BYD car (oh wait, not in the US), it's even
           | cheaper.
        
           | bitcurious wrote:
           | >Oh, and also not factored in: almost every aspect of rural
           | life is heavily subsidized, and I don't just mean direct
           | assistance. I mean literally everything you stare at when you
           | roll through a rural town was subsidized in some way by the
           | federal government, and most of them either don't know or
           | will never admit it.
           | 
           | This is pretty naive. Farmers aren't subsidized so that
           | _farmers_ have cheap food, they are subsidized so that the
           | city you're hyping doesn't riot because they run out of food.
           | Farm subsidies exist for everyone who's not a farmer.
        
           | rwyinuse wrote:
           | "Oh, and also not factored in: almost every aspect of rural
           | life is heavily subsidized, and I don't just mean direct
           | assistance. I mean literally everything you stare at when you
           | roll through a rural town was subsidized in some way by the
           | federal government, and most of them either don't know or
           | will never admit it."
           | 
           | Things like farming, forestry and so on aren't possible
           | without basic local infrastructure. It's also reasonable that
           | farmers can buy groceries, their kids can go to school, and
           | they have access to healthcare services.
           | 
           | Without farming city folks would starve to death, so I
           | wouldn't complain about things being subsidized. Feds fund
           | lots of less important things.
        
         | nobodywillobsrv wrote:
         | To be fair, leaving everyone behind and not seeing them again
         | was kind of what people did in the great grandfather era
         | mentioned in the article. Even not that long ago. I was talking
         | to someone only perhaps grandma age the other day who said
         | their brother's family moved to BC and they didn't see them for
         | 25 years.
         | 
         | Your comment does focus in on the interesting point in that
         | connected places have perhaps not scaled as well. Or perhaps
         | there is some pareto front of locations on cost vs
         | connectedness we need to imagine in our heads. Very
         | interesting.
        
           | hshdhdhj4444 wrote:
           | > what people did in the great grandfather era
           | 
           | Unfortunately the appeal to ancestry fallacy is always a
           | terrible idea.
           | 
           | You see this in the nutrition space where "influencers" go on
           | and on about how our ancestors ate, forgetting that our
           | ancestors died extremely early relative to modern humans.
           | 
           | Similarly, our grandparents lived pretty terrible lives in
           | many ways.
           | 
           | The reason to complain about the high cost of living is that
           | the U.S. has an incredibly high GDP and yet Americans live
           | highly precarious lives, not that in certain very specific
           | ways our ancestors had it slightly better, which as you point
           | out leads to all sorts of issues.
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | Cost of living is always a somewhat distorted metric
             | because it ignores tradeoffs. If I was living on
             | ~500$/month in that area I'd spend way more on technology
             | and far less on food.
             | 
             | Starlink and a local grocery store means the vast majority
             | of the US is able to support a lifestyle most of humanity
             | could only dream of until fairly recently without actually
             | being that expensive. Year round bananas for dollars per
             | pound is a fucking miracle of logistics.
             | 
             | Not that long ago one of my coworkers was effectively
             | living in minimum wage in a major US city and tossing
             | everything else into savings. Excessive number of
             | roommates, no car, cooking simple vegetarian meals at home
             | etc. At the other end if he had a major medical condition,
             | drug addiction, etc he'd have been "fucked," except for the
             | fact modern medicine simply wasn't available at any price
             | again until recently so should we assume it's normal.
        
             | nazgulnarsil wrote:
             | >our ancestors died extremely early
             | 
             | No they didn't, stop using averages.
        
               | karafso wrote:
               | https://ourworldindata.org/its-not-just-about-child-
               | mortalit...
               | 
               | Childhood mortality is only one factor, and I think at
               | this point we're all aware that the "life expectancy was
               | 40 years" statistic has a huge asterisk next to it. But
               | yes, our ancestors really did die much, much younger than
               | us.
        
               | keybored wrote:
               | > Childhood mortality is only one factor, and I think at
               | this point we're all aware that the "life expectancy was
               | 40 years" statistic has a huge asterisk next to it.
               | 
               | No, people who say that they "died extremely early
               | relative to modern humans" mean the bunk dying at 40 due
               | to old age myth. Not dying at 65 rather than 80.
               | 
               | Your link seems to show graphs going up but not why.[1]
               | The medical breakthroughs have been, like first of
               | discovering hygiene, vaccines and antibiotics. Which does
               | exactly nothing to debunk what the OP[2] called "appeal
               | to ancestry fallacy". That we know medicine now (like
               | hygiene, antiobitics) do not discredit claims like, you
               | should eat like a hunter-gatherer or something like that.
               | 
               | [1] This seems typical of "data" outlets.
               | 
               | [2] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44078093
        
               | antonvs wrote:
               | You're still focusing on averages, which is the error
               | inherent in the myth.
               | 
               | While it's true that _average_ life expectancy has
               | increased, the point is that it was absolutely routine
               | for people to live into their 60s, and not uncommon for
               | them to live into their 70s or 80s.
               | 
               | See e.g. https://www.sapiens.org/biology/human-lifespan-
               | history/
        
               | eloisant wrote:
               | The average still means something. Yes a lot of people
               | were living to 60s, 70s or 80s, but way more people than
               | today were dying at a younger age because of a disease
               | that can now be cured, hygiene not as good, etc.
        
             | yardie wrote:
             | When I look at some of my favourite writers, philosophers,
             | and scientists from past eras quite a few of them died in
             | their 60s and 70s. Medicine and nutrition was poorly
             | understood for that time. What they had in common was
             | wealth and professions that wasn't backbreaking labor.
             | Child mortality was high and that is what really drags the
             | average age down.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Our marginal increase in understanding of nutrition has
               | had no detectible benefit in terms of population health
               | or lifespan. People in past eras pretty much knew what to
               | eat. Mostly the problem was that poor people simply
               | couldn't afford enough high quality food.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | It was not just child mortality. It was adults dying from
               | diseases and infectiona we don't die of anymore too.
        
               | dreamcompiler wrote:
               | And smoking. Everybody in my parents' generation smoked
               | and most of them died young.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | And drinking. And drinking while engaged in physical
               | activities with potential for injury.
        
             | oceanplexian wrote:
             | > Similarly, our grandparents lived pretty terrible lives
             | in many ways.
             | 
             | Our ancestors also had more children, less rates of
             | depression and mental illness and the modern rates of
             | socialization, marriage, etc are all in steep decline.
             | 
             | Therefore maybe the cardboard box apartment, transient
             | friends, and access to all that nightlife isn't all it's
             | cracked up to be. While we're a lot richer and more well
             | off it doesn't seem like people are happier.
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | > Similarly, our grandparents lived pretty terrible lives
             | in many ways.
             | 
             | That's entirely subjective. My grandparents are no longer
             | alive but I'm confident they would find many aspects of the
             | average life today to be terrible.
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | > our ancestors died extremely early relative to modern
             | humans
             | 
             | As others pointed out these claims are often skewed by high
             | childhood mortality rates.
             | 
             | Beyond that, though, I'm curious why you consider the
             | number of years lived to be a primary concern?
             | 
             | I'd rather live 50 good years than 80 miserable ones. I'd
             | also rather live to 65 than make it to 80 with the last
             | 30-40 years spent increasingly propped up with medications,
             | doctors appointments, and invasive treatments.
        
             | antonvs wrote:
             | > forgetting that our ancestors died extremely early
             | relative to modern humans.
             | 
             | While it's true that average life expectancy has increased,
             | it's not really accurate to say that "our ancestors died
             | extremely early". See "Did Ancient People Die Young?" at
             | https://www.sapiens.org/biology/human-lifespan-history/ :
             | 
             | > Mortality rates in traditional populations are high
             | during infancy, before decreasing sharply to remain
             | constant till about 40 years, then mortality rises to peak
             | at about 70. Most individuals remain healthy and vigorous
             | right through their 60s or beyond, until senescence sets
             | in, which is the physical decline where if one cause fails
             | to kill, another will soon strike the mortal blow.
        
           | xp84 wrote:
           | This is very true, that is definitely a sacrifice that they
           | were much more willing to make than most of us today.
           | 
           | They would move 1,000 miles or more, or even across the sea
           | and then send back and forth letters every few months. "Alice
           | had a baby, she named him Robert Joseph. I have secured work
           | at the textile mill, and am saving to buy a plot of land. The
           | weather here is cold in winter, but the summers are somewhat
           | more tolerable."
           | 
           | The interesting thing is, I feel like they moved back then
           | mainly because there wasn't sufficient land or jobs where
           | they came from. Today, the urban dwellers this article is
           | talking about has an equal dearth of land and jobs available
           | to them in the city, but they don't feel like the countryside
           | has anything to offer them either.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | Most people stayed with the family.
        
         | starkparker wrote:
         | That's the other unspoken side of the boomer-emulation
         | argument, too. People's access to the world when boomers were
         | buying houses and raising families was much less. Their
         | families and friends were already close because few, if any, of
         | them left where they were from (except to get drafted into
         | wars). In some of those who left, they did so to enable the
         | rest to follow.
         | 
         | These things just don't happen anymore. To find better work
         | (especially outside of tech), people move, some constantly.
         | Siblings wind up across the country or further from each other
         | and where they grew up. Elders are either left behind or move
         | into retirement homes.
         | 
         | There are exceptions, and those who keep some of that support
         | network find the real boomer superpowers of sharing costs
         | (financial, time, and labor alike) and inheriting wealth. But
         | the ease with which people could leave home for good is one of
         | many factors that make emulating boomers difficult, if not
         | impossible: that rural cheap house isn't 10 minutes from the
         | rest of your family, your childhood friends, and your co-
         | workers anymore.
        
           | barry-cotter wrote:
           | > Their families and friends were already close because few,
           | if any, of them left where they were from (except to get
           | drafted into wars)
           | 
           | Your original text, edited for sequence and clarity while
           | preserving your voice:
           | 
           | This doesn't apply to the U.S. or Canada, nor has it ever
           | since their foundings, possibly excepting some natives. The
           | American frontier was declared closed by 1890, long before
           | the post-WW2 population surge to California. Before that, New
           | Englanders left farmland to settle the Midwest. Later came
           | the Great Migration of mostly Black Southerners to northern
           | cities. Anglophone North America has never been a peasant
           | society where families remained rooted for generations.
        
             | sandworm101 wrote:
             | >> peasant society where families remained rooted for
             | generations.
             | 
             | I'd hazard that a few parts of Appalachia remained relative
             | stable, and poor, across more than a couple generations.
        
         | rubitxxx15 wrote:
         | As an introvert, I believe I could live in a remote location
         | without problem. I often wish I could switch off my hearing to
         | just enjoy silence, and dream of getting a chance to spend time
         | in an isolation chamber.
         | 
         | That said, I don't know if I'd want to live in a depressing
         | small town, unless it had a good diner.
        
           | s1artibartfast wrote:
           | Seems like that low bar you should be able to meet somewhere?
        
           | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
           | If you get a sense of relief from silence, I recommend Peltor
           | ear defenders. The more expensive/better ones.
           | 
           | Seriously. I don't wear them a lot, but when I do the lack of
           | stimulation is instantly relaxing.
           | 
           | Only downside is you can't sleep in them.
        
             | mettamage wrote:
             | I sometimes sleep with them, especially while traveling.
             | Paper thin walls? Hostels? Not a problem. It takes some
             | getting used to.
        
             | nathan_compton wrote:
             | My ears get hot. Do they make cooled ones or something?
        
           | projektfu wrote:
           | Rural NY isn't just for introverts. Most people are social
           | and are somewhat active. Like most areas, an outsider will
           | probably feel like an outsider, but if one allows themselves
           | to be curious about the things people are into doing, I think
           | it would be fine for typically social people.
           | 
           | One who sneers at rural people and habits will probably not
           | get along. And if you take too much offense at rural people
           | sneering about urban things, likewise.
           | 
           | Unfortunately, there is a lot of racism in upstate NY. I do
           | know rural NY black people, and they do fine, but I'm not
           | sure they appreciate the way insults are thrown about
           | "present company excluded". It's those attitudes that kept me
           | from wanting to stay.
        
             | fullstop wrote:
             | > Unfortunately, there is a lot of racism in upstate NY. I
             | do know rural NY black people, and they do fine, but I'm
             | not sure they appreciate the way insults are thrown about
             | "present company excluded". It's those attitudes that kept
             | me from wanting to stay.
             | 
             | This is so heartbreaking.
             | 
             | I live in a suburban area, and have friends and neighbors
             | from around the world -- Trinidad, Sri Lanka, Korea,
             | Canada, and I _love_ that aspect of where I live. As I get
             | older, I don't like the din of lawnmowers and leaf blowers.
             | Many of my neighbors have lawn services, and the ZTRs and
             | backpack leaf blowers are even louder than what your
             | average joe would have to do the same job.
             | 
             | On top of that, since there is land by me, the local
             | government's zoning board has approved of more and more
             | warehouses. As such, semi truck traffic has increased
             | significantly, and somehow they all seem to have unmuffled
             | straight pipe exhausts. I've contacted my representatives,
             | but none of them seem to care. The state rep passes it off
             | to the district rep, who passes it off to the township, who
             | passes it back off to the state. The only winning move is
             | to leave.
             | 
             | The point of my tangent here, is that a place like rural NY
             | seems idyllic to escape the noise. Anecdotes like yours,
             | though, steer me away. I understand that it's a self-
             | fulfilling prophecy in that regard.
        
               | projektfu wrote:
               | Yeah, it will hopefully improve with more exposure. Even
               | suburban NY was highly racist in the 80s, maybe by the
               | 2040s with more diversity it will be better in rural NY.
               | But one thing I noticed as a young man road tripping
               | through the South in the 90s was that the racism was a
               | different species from Northern racism. In Birmingham,
               | AL, I found people relating to each other like normal
               | people. Birmingham, where they used water cannon and dogs
               | against marchers and blew up a church in the 60s. In
               | rural Ohio, a black friend of mine walked into a
               | breakfast restaurant with me and had dozens of pairs of
               | eyes staring at him like he had just announced he's
               | robbing the place. It wasn't until I learned the history
               | of sundown towns that I understood the racism of the
               | North and its place in Segregated America.
        
               | fullstop wrote:
               | With the direction things seem to be going, I'm not as
               | confident about your 2040 hopes.
               | 
               | On a return trip from Florida we booked a room in
               | Florence, SC for the night. Everybody was staring at me,
               | but I was exhausted and figured that it was just in my
               | head. We ate breakfast there the next morning and that's
               | when I realized that we were the only white people there.
               | About 50% of the population of Florence is black.
               | 
               | It was an interesting experience, and it gave me the
               | opportunity to understand a fraction of how it would feel
               | if the roles were reversed. And this was with friendly
               | people with no malicious intent or fear!
        
           | gosub100 wrote:
           | the winters up there would be brutal if you're not used to
           | them. It's not just the cold, its the prolonged absence of
           | the sun due to short days and cloud cover.
        
         | rufus_foreman wrote:
         | >> The missing piece here is social connections. Family and
         | friends
         | 
         | Silicon Valley is not populated by people who are there for
         | family and friends. Silicon Valley is populated by people who
         | left their family and friends to go participate in a gold rush.
         | 
         | Silicon Valley is populated by people from other continents who
         | came to participate in the gold rush, family and friends be
         | damned.
         | 
         | I really don't understand the antipathy towards the fact that
         | you can live on $432 a month in America. I just really don't.
         | With some tradeoffs, you can live on $432 a month in America,
         | and this fact makes some Hacker News commentators very very
         | angry.
        
           | trchek wrote:
           | So I think some of us have done it out of having no other
           | choice and found it lacking.
           | 
           | From the time I had to live a year going to paycheck advance
           | every month because of an unexpected auto repair bill
           | (leaving that cheap typically requires a used beat up car).
           | 
           | Or the time I woke up with an excruciating pain in my side
           | and went to ER which resulted in bills that lead to years of
           | payments.
           | 
           | People do this experiment every day in the USA and the
           | experience is pretty bad.
           | 
           | EDIT I'll grant this is all a fine trade off for some people.
           | But having lived it, I can definitely say no thank you.
        
           | npodbielski wrote:
           | I am not angry. I am barely cementator here even. But I find
           | this article radicoulous. For example author mentioned
           | raising family at the beginning. And then mentions no car.
           | How are you suppose to transport kids to school/preschool?
           | 'You can take the bus' - yeah, drive with the bus to one
           | place (kindergarten), then the second (school), then the
           | third (job). In the winter, rain, storm or heat. Yes that is
           | doable but would be very annoying and time consuming. No
           | mention to hearing kids complaining that they want to
           | eat/drink/poop at the bus or bus stop.
           | 
           | And if you and you spouse have jobs and kids you probably
           | need two cars, and school is another cost so I would say 400$
           | is pure fantasy unless you want to live insolitude, fishing
           | in forest.
           | 
           | Normal people need near school/preschool/highschool/job/store
           | etc. And this is why you have cities. It is cheaper for
           | society to concentrate population around those buildings.
        
             | johnisgood wrote:
             | What you described is what my parents have done with me.
             | They took me to the kindergarden, on foot. But then again,
             | I live in Europe and it is dense enough here, the
             | kindergarden was about 3-5 km away. You can definitely take
             | the bus, which many people do around here.
        
               | oblio wrote:
               | The article is about the US and in most places they can't
               | do that.
        
               | cozzyd wrote:
               | Especially not in a rural area. (We are raising our
               | daughter without a car but we live in the downtown of a
               | big city...)
        
           | eloisant wrote:
           | People working in Silicon Valley can afford to take a plane
           | to visit friends or family as often as they want.
           | 
           | The article describe a life of low spending/low revenue, so
           | suddenly buying a plane ticket becomes a huge expense.
           | 
           | There is no antipathy against the $432 a month life, just
           | comments that people have valid reasons not to choose this
           | life.
        
         | loandbehold wrote:
         | Professionals move from city to city all the time due to jobs.
         | In the modern world it's easier to keep in touch with family
         | and friends with Internet and cheap (by historical standards)
         | flights.
        
           | a_wild_dandan wrote:
           | That's using a mighty broad brush to paint folks'
           | circumstantial situations.
        
           | xp84 wrote:
           | I have 3 close friends - they live about an hour away, about
           | 8 hours drive away (or about an hour of flying + 1-2 hours
           | driving), and one on the other side of the country.
           | 
           | "Keeping in touch via Internet" for me is a pale imitation of
           | what I want from a friendship. We text a few times a week. I
           | visit each of them 1-2 times a year. I miss them a lot.
           | 
           | This isn't to claim it's impossible to do better. But I have
           | a feeling that especially those on the "urban" side of the
           | friendship just have a hard time making time for say, a Zoom
           | call with you on the same frequency as they may have gone out
           | with you for dinner or drinks. Especially group dynamics
           | don't allow this: If you were part of a group of 5 friends
           | that hung out together, they'll just start hanging out
           | without you, and no time will be opening up in all of their
           | schedules to devote to tele-friendship. Those friendships
           | will suffer.
           | 
           | And remember, the "low cost of living, low earning" thesis
           | we're discussing does mostly rule out even those "cheap"
           | flights (which stop being cheap really quick once you have a
           | family, so multiply all prices by 2, 3, 4...)
        
           | estebank wrote:
           | Americans have been moving less and less, and that trend
           | hasn't reverted.
           | 
           | https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2022/03/united-
           | states...
        
           | alabastervlog wrote:
           | A small set of professionals do, yes. A lot more stay near
           | family and friends instead.
        
         | supermatt wrote:
         | This is an example of a place. There are likely many such
         | places all over the USA within a few hours drive of where your
         | friends and family live.
        
           | _dark_matter_ wrote:
           | So now you have to have a car? So yes this post is still
           | unrealistic
        
             | shlant wrote:
             | yea you either need to see people very rarely, see them
             | often by spending a lot of time and money traveling, or see
             | them often by spending multiple days away (which again, how
             | are you paying for this? and what's the point of buying a
             | house far away if you won't be there half the time?)
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | Having a reliable car can be cheap, it just requires
             | skipping more modern convenience features and being willing
             | to work on it yourself.
        
         | littlestymaar wrote:
         | This!
         | 
         | Ans it's also why there are homeless people un big cities when
         | from a material point of view they could be living a half-
         | decent life in a rural place instead.
         | 
         | Humans are social animals, and most of our behavior are shaped
         | by this characteristic, even if some people don't seem to
         | realize that.
        
         | rightbyte wrote:
         | It is quite cheap to build a small prefab guest house. Room for
         | guests is not a concern I think.
         | 
         | Rather, the friction is making them endure the travel time is,
         | I would say .
        
         | polishdude20 wrote:
         | The family and friends part is what gets me. I'd love to move
         | somewhere 4 hours away in a rural town but nobody else will
         | follow me there.
        
         | throwaway31131 wrote:
         | My problem is I mostly agree with the piece, it's very possible
         | to live cheaply when everything goes smoothly and most things
         | are routine. The problem is things very often don't go
         | smoothly, especially once you have a family.
         | 
         | For example, my daughter took a small fall on a jungle gym, so
         | small that I didn't even think she really got hurt but she
         | landed really unlucky and broke her arm. We went to urgent care
         | but she needed surgery to put pins in. Modern medicine is
         | amazing. Totally healed, not even scares from the pin, but it
         | is not cheap. Expect to pay at least $17K [1] for this w/o
         | insurance, our was significantly more. And with insurance,
         | you're not living on $400/month anymore...
         | 
         | Cars break down, pipes back up, etc. etc. etc.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.talktomira.com/post/how-much-does-a-broken-
         | bone-...
        
           | sarchertech wrote:
           | In New York you could make 5x the amount of money the article
           | is talking about and still qualify for free healthcare.
        
             | hnfever wrote:
             | You'd qualify based on income but probably be excluded for
             | having too many assets. The limit in New York is $32,396.
        
               | sarchertech wrote:
               | Looks like that goes up to $44k for a couple, a vehicle
               | is exempt, and home equity is exempt up to a million and
               | change.
               | 
               | There's also ACA credits that don't have an asset test.
        
               | laurencerowe wrote:
               | MAGI based Medicare doesn't have asset limits.
        
         | osigurdson wrote:
         | The other issue with "living somewhere cheap" early in life is
         | it limits your options incredibly if you ever want to go
         | anywhere else. Maybe fine as a retirement move however.
        
           | andrei_says_ wrote:
           | Fine if defining living as being able to breathe, eat and
           | have shelter and nothing more.
        
           | eloisant wrote:
           | Exactly, I've had this exact discussion with a friend who
           | bought a house in a cheaper town.
           | 
           | Fake numbers but for the sake of arguments: he bought a $100k
           | house, I bought a $300k house in a more expensive city. Real
           | estate did a 2x, his house is worth $200k and now he can't
           | afford to move to a $600k place like mine - while I can move
           | to an area with a similar cost of living as where I live now.
           | 
           | The gap is even bigger because prices go up faster in big
           | cities.
        
           | sethammons wrote:
           | We had to move back from nowhere Montana to society so our
           | kids could more easily get jobs / careers. So far so good,
           | oldest is killing it in IT at a bank.
        
       | labrador wrote:
       | Nobody wants a Breaking Bad ending like Walter White hiding out
       | in a New Hampshire cabin or Ted Kaczynski scribbling his
       | manifesto on cold winter nights.
        
         | quesera wrote:
         | ... that's not how Breaking Bad ended. :)
        
           | labrador wrote:
           | I assume that buying a machine gun to single handedly murder
           | a biker gang is outside the scope of most of our experiences
           | so not worth mentioning. The real end for me was him alone in
           | a cabin with a barrel of cash. To me that was a more
           | realistic ending.
           | 
           | If anything, your correction proves my point. Most people
           | don't want living alone in a cabin as their ending.
        
             | quesera wrote:
             | Actually, I'd forgotten about the New Hampshire hideaway
             | episode. The (actual) final episode was much more
             | memorable.
             | 
             | And I'll agree that "living alone in a cabin" ... _while
             | you are the object of a nationwide manhunt_ ... is not how
             | people want to live!
        
               | labrador wrote:
               | It was forgettable because it was unspeakably depressing.
               | My great-grandfathers had to live like that but they
               | worked hard to provide their descendents with better
               | opportunities. I'm retired, old, on a fixed income and
               | live alone so I've made my peace with it. I wouldn't
               | recommend it for people trying to have a dating life!
        
       | dyauspitr wrote:
       | >they'd need to leave behind the idea that snow, overcast, wind,
       | rain, and long winters are all that bad to contend with, because
       | in all truth, they're actually great.
       | 
       | You lost me here. Weather is probably _the_ most important thing
       | to me. Cold weather gets into my bones and leaves me low and
       | uncomfortable. My body physiology is such that even if I wear
       | appropriate clothing, I end up sweating under them and
       | paradoxically get even colder. Winters for me just mean being
       | cold, wet and uncomfortable and is not worth it for me.
        
       | 1024core wrote:
       | Such cheap homes all across America: https://tinyurl.com/hnlink
        
       | 1024core wrote:
       | I don't think living in the boonies is for everyone.
       | 
       | I was in South-Eastern California just visiting desolate areas.
       | One place I stayed at had absolutely nothing: the nearest place
       | to get food or gas was Bishop, CA, a 50-minute drive. Coming from
       | a big city the desolation is appealing at first, but gets tiring
       | pretty soon.
        
       | geoka9 wrote:
       | > They'd need to disabuse themselves of the idea that they ought
       | to abscond to some kind of a tropical Shangri-La; and moreover,
       | they'd need to leave behind the idea that snow, overcast, wind,
       | rain, and long winters are all that bad to contend with, because
       | in all truth, they're actually great.
       | 
       | New Mexico, Arizona, even Florida if you're into tropics - have
       | pretty amazing weather, no? And there must be low COL locations
       | there. Now, imagine living in Canada. The warmest place in all of
       | the country is south-western BC and it rains most of the time
       | (the nature is amazing though).
        
       | markvdb wrote:
       | I've seen better publicity for a simpler life. Jacob Lund
       | Fisker[0]'s ERE comes to mind.
       | 
       | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacob_Lund_Fisker
        
       | don-code wrote:
       | There were several years (late 2015 to mid 2017) where I did a
       | much less extreme version of this. I stopped because, as many
       | commenters have noted, I was (to quote this one:
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44077097) "living off the
       | economic surplus of [others]", and perhaps even taking
       | opportunities away from those who needed them much more than I
       | did.
       | 
       | Some anecdotes from that time:
       | 
       | I had a $30/mo phone plan that got me 100 minutes, and 5GB of
       | data at HSPA+ speeds. I basically never worked from home, even if
       | that had been an option, because one too many `npm install`s or
       | video conferences would've set me over the edge. I brought my
       | personal laptop to the office to install OS updates, and took
       | downloads back home on a flash drive. And if I had an unexpected
       | call to a 1-800 support hotline - one that I knew would take an
       | hour - I'd literally go find a payphone, where you could call it
       | for free (although it's a much higher charge to the recipient).
       | 
       | I developed a strong love of free-to-me media and entertainment.
       | I was a voracious reader of library books, got my news off
       | broadcast TV, listened to FM radio for music (to be fair, I'd
       | always - and still - done that), and so on. I was attending one
       | or two tech meetups a week.
       | 
       | I didn't have a car. Being a 15-minute walk from a train station
       | helped drastically, but I wasn't as close to the city as most of
       | my colleagues were (maybe 20min over others' average). Visiting
       | my parents took 115 minutes (30 minutes by car) and I did it
       | every other week. Twice a week, I'd take a commuter rail train
       | south of the city, then walk 20 minutes to get where I was going.
       | Most of the time I'd bum a ride back to the station with someone
       | else there. All said, it was probably two extra hours of
       | commuting whenever I did this. There were even times where I'd
       | carry odd things home from Home Depot on the train.
       | 
       | And then, as we got older, many of my friends started to move far
       | out of the city, to places unserved by our transit system. I was
       | totally dependent on my friends still in the city to carpool,
       | even though I was almost certainly making more than they were. I
       | wish - truly I wish - that I could say that this was the straw
       | that broke the camel's back, what made me snap out of it.
       | 
       | Sadly, that honor went mostly to both my work changing (much more
       | teleconferencing / Zoom), and my family situation changing
       | (needing to commute out to the burbs regularly, sometimes with
       | little notice).
       | 
       | I still remember some of the jibes I'd get while doing this -
       | "why do you make life so hard on yourself?" and "you don't know
       | how to have money".
       | 
       | I look back on that time and do think it was an interesting
       | experiment, and to an extent, I'm glad I did it for the
       | perspective. But really, I was naive. I wasn't doing something
       | that somehow made me more independent, or less wasteful. I was
       | dependent on much of other's output, and really only wasting my
       | own ability to be productive.
        
       | owenversteeg wrote:
       | Like other people here, I have my quibbles with the exact math.
       | But the general premise is true: yes, you can live in rural
       | poverty for cheap. The problem is the vibes. A hundred years ago,
       | you would have a community, a place in society, and all of your
       | family and friends nearby. In 2025, the only actual local job the
       | author of the piece can come up with is at a gas station.
       | 
       | Top ten occupations, 1920: Farmers, farm laborers, clerks,
       | salespeople, servants (bellboys, butlers, cooks), textile
       | workers, machinists, carpenters, and teachers. All of those jobs,
       | even the less respected ones, had infinitely more societal
       | respect than the common jobs hiring in rural America today - such
       | as stocking shelves at Walmart or working at a gas station. You
       | could be a simple farm laborer and have a wife and kids and a
       | place in society. Today, though, a young man working at a Walmart
       | or a gas station will struggle to attract a stable partner or the
       | respect of the world around him.
        
         | AstroBen wrote:
         | Not saying I agree with the premise of the article at all but
         | making life decisions based on how much others will respect it
         | is a terrible way to live
        
           | weregiraffe wrote:
           | Humans are a social species. Your happiness absolutely
           | depends on what other people think about you.
        
             | AstroBen wrote:
             | Good luck making everyone like you
        
           | tonyedgecombe wrote:
           | Yes, it seems the only thing the world around me respects is
           | conspicuous consumption. It's better for your own wellbeing
           | if you can avoid indulging that.
        
           | andrewrn wrote:
           | We're wired to yield to social pressures, it is what allowed
           | us to create civilization. You're right, the energy spent to
           | overcome it is well spent, but its not as trivial as you make
           | it sound to be low-status and feel fulfilled.
        
             | AstroBen wrote:
             | Status is relative to who's doing the judging.. and
             | everyone views things differently. I'd argue you don't have
             | much of a choice whether you're low or high status in some
             | people's eyes. Whether you feel it regularly heavily
             | depends on who you surround yourself with
             | 
             | Your career = your social status is a very American point
             | of view
             | 
             | Eat meat and vegans will look down on you
             | 
             | Ride a bike for transport in America and you're poor, do it
             | in Europe and it's normal
             | 
             | Nomads will judge you on your experiences and travel, not
             | your career. Wealthy CEO thats invested everything in their
             | work but never left their home country? Low status
             | 
             | Go out on your own and take a risk of starting a business
             | in Asia and people will be confused why you'd do that vs
             | the safe path
             | 
             | Invest a tonne of energy into making money and anti-
             | consumerist folk will laugh
             | 
             | Skinny? Better bulk up lest the bodybuilders see you as low
             | status.. but wait, if you bulk up people will judge you for
             | being vain. Shit
             | 
             | The status game isn't winnable. Best thing you can do is
             | surround yourself with people of similar values
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | Letting go of social pressures, "status" and not worrying
               | about what other people think of me was the single
               | biggest quality-of-life improvement I ever made.
        
               | andrewrn wrote:
               | "Surround yourself with people of similar values"... so
               | in other words, you mean find a group where you're of
               | similar status. We're not in disagreement.
        
         | kingstoned wrote:
         | "Today, though, a young man working at a Walmart or a gas
         | station will struggle to attract a stable partner or the
         | respect of the world around him."
         | 
         | True if they are not good looking. If a guy is really handsome,
         | he could attract a partner easily and people will like him due
         | to halo effect.
        
         | icameron wrote:
         | I think you'll meet most of the community and could gain some
         | standing working at the town gas station actually, especially
         | if you try to be even a little bit friendly with the locals.
        
         | tuna74 wrote:
         | "You could be a simple farm laborer and have a wife and kids
         | and a place in society."
         | 
         | You could not afford a good life as a farm laborer.
        
           | wyclif wrote:
           | I don't think the OP was suggesting it would be a good life
           | if by "good" you mean a life of relative comfort. I think his
           | claim was much more modest. The point is that at that time a
           | farm laborer was valued by the local community.
        
             | tuna74 wrote:
             | Farm laborers were probably at the bottom of the social
             | ladder for working rural people. They were usually fully
             | dependent on the owner of the farm that they worked on.
             | Think of the cowboys in the bunkhouse in "Yellowstone"
             | except way worse.
        
         | testing22321 wrote:
         | > _a young man working at a Walmart or a gas station will
         | struggle to attract a stable partner or the respect of the
         | world around him._
         | 
         | From personal experience I can tell you confidently you are
         | wrong.
         | 
         | The part you are missing is you only need to work 10-20 hours a
         | week MAX. That means you have an enormous Amount of leisure
         | time to do what you want with your life. Trust me when I say
         | plenty of young women love the idea of not working a lot and
         | instead having wilderness adventures.
         | 
         | Want to see it for yourself? Go spend a summer in the Yukon. If
         | you love it, stay the winter. It's nothing short of epic.
        
           | dangus wrote:
           | Wilderness adventures will be the only option within your
           | budget.
        
             | aziaziazi wrote:
             | Lest's say you are serious and it's only a lack of
             | imagination [edit: or _taste_ obviously but as the article
             | author points out: it 's only on you to choose what you
             | like]:
             | 
             | - learn music instruments, perhaps join a local band or
             | share samples on the net with enthusiasts
             | 
             | - draw, paint, sculpt, all of which has many options of
             | techniques and cheap materials. As with music, the only
             | limit is yourself and the the expense of your instrument
             | but you don't need to use expensive techniques to enjoy
             | 
             | - make a year-round vegetable garden, thats' often time
             | consuming and you won't need much terrain
             | 
             | - read tons of books, learn philosophie, math, history,
             | whatever makes you find interesting. And in 2025 there's
             | the option to read blogs for those that feels like it.
             | watch movies, listen podcasts.
             | 
             | - cook whatever you eat, get creative and share the food
             | with your neighbor or the receipt with the internet users
             | 
             | - do more sport. 1.5h/day practice of yoga, tai chi, swim
             | or whatever will influence the rest of your day
             | 
             | - participate in local NGO or crate the one you want to,
             | from homeless shelter to business and startups free
             | guidance, animals caring and astronomy enthusiasts.
             | 
             | - to support your cheap live, learn to like the chores:
             | hand wash your dishes and clothes. Sounds super boring, but
             | how boring is an Amazon warehouse job ? I'd choose the
             | dishwashing+podcast.
             | 
             | - use the bus or walk or bike to the wilderness, you got
             | time. You don't need to get to the super-far-and-wild spot
             | to enjoy the nature anyway.
             | 
             | - in the wilderness you can: walk, run, off-road
             | exploration, climb trees (yes, that's still a hobby),
             | listen and learn to recognize birds, mushrooms (beware),
             | plants, insects, draw (that you can do anywhere), get
             | aromates for cooking or leaves for tea, sleep in a tent,
             | collect fossils and minerals. Become a local guide.
             | 
             | - get a cheap computer and play (not that) old games. Bonus
             | if you live somewhere where internet is cheap, try some
             | MMORPG (ok not too long to stay sane). Here in France
             | unlimited 1Gb connection is 25EUR/month.
             | 
             | - learn to knit, wave, sew. Some people find those fun, and
             | make extra money on local handmade shops.
        
       | selimthegrim wrote:
       | I am sure people are managing it in New Orleans.
        
       | alexpotato wrote:
       | I remember reading about a family with 4 kids who lived in a one
       | bedroom house.
       | 
       | The kids slept in two sets of bunk beds in the bedroom. The
       | parents slept on a pull out couch in the living room.
       | 
       | I'm not saying I want to live that way. Just pointing out that
       | people have lived that way before.
        
       | yibg wrote:
       | The other version of this is the whole FIRE movement. Instead of
       | living cheap, which also affords the ability to not work much,
       | work as normal (or more than normal) for a shorter time while
       | living cheap, so eventually you can live cheaply forever without
       | working.
       | 
       | Especially tenable for the tech crowd, where salaries are high
       | and potentially scales well with more effort put in, even if for
       | a short duration.
        
       | aeblyve wrote:
       | The book "Hinterland" by Phil Neel comes to mind.
        
       | shipscode wrote:
       | It's actually possible to live pretty cheaply in America if you
       | can save up enough to buy a house or condo in cash. This article
       | harps on ultra rural America, but there are plenty of closer knit
       | communities that are quite affordable as well.
       | 
       | Lots of HOA communities exist with condos or townhouses. Example
       | prices would be $175k for 3 bed, 2 bath condos. These can be
       | found all over the country. Add a little more on top of it, say
       | $250k-$300k and you've bumped up to a 3 bed 2 bath townhouse with
       | a garage. For the price of a downpayment for a dump in a major
       | metropolitan area, you can own a 20-30 year old construction
       | fully paid off. And that's a mid-case scenario.
       | 
       | In a low tax area a place that's paid off like that might cost
       | you $400-500/mo between taxes, homeowners insurance, and HOA
       | fees. The big "GOTCHA" everybody comes up with is health
       | insurance. Well between medicaid and Obamacare you can get
       | sizeable tax credits up to fairly high incomes. If you're making
       | around $50k/yr in my state PA, you can get around $1500/mo in
       | credits with a family of 3, and end up paying ~$1200 in premiums
       | per year.
       | 
       | There's literally nothing blackpill about this lifestyle. It's as
       | walkable as any suburb, with the same CHATGPT-style standard of
       | care healthcare that exists across the country, and it's actually
       | more convenient to get from point A to point B in a car than in
       | most major cities or in high density suburban areas. Fiber
       | internet is likely more accessible and reliable too, unlike how
       | it would be in decrepit city buildings.
       | 
       | A lot of pros, and not many cons - sure it isn't $432/month, but
       | you can make situations like this work for $2-3k, which opens up
       | an endless number of careers, projects, and opportunities to live
       | off of.
        
       | dbg31415 wrote:
       | Missing healthcare costs.
        
         | refurb wrote:
         | at that income level Medicaid is an option in many states.
        
           | FireBeyond wrote:
           | Same with education and such. "How to live on $432 a month",
           | "... with society subsidizing a bunch of the important
           | parts."
        
       | bmenrigh wrote:
       | "Internet: Use library" says all you need to hear about this
       | wonderful bargain of a location.
        
       | hysan wrote:
       | I flagged this article and later saw it dead, so I'm quite
       | surprised it came back. I found the content extremely shallow and
       | lacking nuance. Others have mentioned, but it leaves out huge
       | caveats because it would destroy the the conclusion - the cost of
       | moving to the place in the first place, social connections,
       | health (even worse for those with disabilities), emergency
       | services, retirement, etc etc. The list of obvious hurdles that
       | immediately disqualify most people is a glaring omission and I
       | really don't understand why this article garnered upvotes aside
       | from affirming confirmation bias. This is the first time I've
       | been greatly soured by the response from the HN community. What
       | substance are people finding in this article?
        
         | an_guy wrote:
         | > the cost of moving to the place in the first place, social
         | connections, health (even worse for those with disabilities),
         | emergency services, retirement, etc etc
         | 
         | Anyone moving to bay area for a higher income job would have
         | most of these issues.
         | 
         | A forum full of people willing to migrate for better income and
         | lifestyle should not be criticizing "cost of moving", "social
         | connections", "health disabilities" and "retirement".
        
           | hysan wrote:
           | I might be misreading your reply, but what you're keying in
           | on and singling out is a tiny fraction of the audience the
           | article is arguing for. My problem is with how shallow this
           | article is and how it throws a wide net that doesn't cover a
           | ton of situations that prevent people from doing what he
           | claims is possible for just about anyone if they change their
           | mindset. If the argument were just for the subset of users
           | you're using as an example, then sure? But that's isn't as
           | clickbaity and certainly doesn't support the claim that any
           | young person can just up and do what the writer claims.
        
         | nkurz wrote:
         | Thank you for posting your reasons for flagging it! I'm on the
         | exact opposite side. I thought it was a decent article, flawed
         | but worthy of discussion. I was surprised to see it flagged
         | dead, so I vouched for it. When this didn't bring it back
         | alive, I emailed Dan to see if he could resuscitate it. He said
         | that it was already alive due to enough other people having
         | vouched for it.
         | 
         | Your criticisms are all reasonable, but they are exactly the
         | sort of things I'd hope to see discussed in the comments. And
         | they are! I think the article is a good starting point for a
         | discussion on what's possible. I'm nowhere near as extreme as
         | the author of the piece, but I live a life much closer to what
         | he describes than most people here.
         | 
         | Rather than being soured by the response, I'm glad to see both
         | the pros and the cons being discussed. Yes, there are lots of
         | ethical issues about living the way he suggests. There are lots
         | of things you'll be doing without. But there are also lots of
         | upsides about living in a way that you have time to do things
         | besides just work and sleep. Which parts of the response did
         | you find souring?
        
       | dbbljack wrote:
       | i'd have to do a lot of research to find a cheap rural area that
       | I would be able to exist in after sundown.
        
       | rendall wrote:
       | > _A long and mostly endless stream of "blackpills" about the
       | cost of housing can be readily found on any social media platform
       | -- and often enough, the "boomers" are the scapegoat; the ones
       | who lived their American Dreams and, as the allegations go,
       | pulled up the ladder behind them as they tasted their successes._
       | 
       | I've often heard the criticism that Boomers lived unsustainably
       | and then pulled the ladder up behind them, making life harder for
       | future generations. But what I don't often hear is a breakdown of
       | the specific policy decisions that led to this. What were they?
        
       | jillesvangurp wrote:
       | I've been thinking a lot about this in my personal context. I'm
       | not super wealthy and thinking about the inevitable moment when I
       | will work less and need to live on what I've scraped together by
       | then. I currently live in Berlin in a gentrified area which is
       | nice to be in but also getting more expensive rapidly. It's
       | convenient for me to be here. But I wouldn't mind being in a much
       | cheaper place otherwise.
       | 
       | I see a few technical trends that would enable me to live quite
       | far away from Berlin mid term that could be a lot more
       | affordable.
       | 
       | - Starlink provides good enough internet pretty much anywhere.
       | Rural Germany is famous for its lack of connectivity. I could
       | live anywhere in Germany and have a decent connectivity and be
       | able to work remotely. Complete science fiction until recently.
       | But now feasible. I expect there will be competitors in a few
       | years.
       | 
       | - Improved modes of transport to remote locations via autonomous
       | driving electrical cars, mini buses, drones etc. could unlock
       | rural destinations. Electrical means cost per mile/km is
       | expressed in kwh. About 2-4 km/kwh. Autonomous means there is no
       | driver to pay or tiring driving to do. Even at Germany's high-ish
       | grid prices, a 50 km commute becomes quite affordable (a cup of
       | coffee worth of energy). And you can take a nap, relax, or work
       | while you move and be quite comfortable while being moved. There
       | are a lot of affordable housing options starting from about 10km
       | away from where I currently live. 50km, we are talking rural
       | Brandenburg which has depopulated significantly since the fall of
       | the wall. Ghost villages, lack of employment, etc. I know several
       | people that moved to the edge of Berlin or beyond and have a
       | great standard of living there.
       | 
       | - Tiny/prefab housing means the current cost of constructing
       | houses is increasingly complete bullshit. I don't need a
       | artisanally crafted house at great expense. I just need a small
       | amount of space that is comfortable. That shouldn't cost me north
       | of half a million and put me in debt for decades. And modern
       | materials means such a place could be well insulated and
       | relatively cheap to heat.
       | 
       | - Low cost, renewable energy is starting to dominate. Germany has
       | really high energy prices. But it's investing to fix that. Those
       | investments might pay off in a few decades and lower the cost of
       | energy. That's good news if I'm heating with a heatpump, and am
       | being moved around electrically.
       | 
       | So, I need some land reasonably close to where the action is
       | (Berlin in my case) but not in the middle of it. An affordable &
       | comfortable way to get to Berlin when I need to. And some housing
       | that won't break the bank. I think all of those are well in reach
       | for well below 100K and next to nothing in monthly cost. All I
       | need is some kwh of power and water. And the usual insurances,
       | taxes, and what not. And food, which I might even grow some
       | myself if I had enough room for a garden. And being far away from
       | all the hipster areas in Berlin, probably means local shops are
       | going to be relatively cheap.
       | 
       | Of course this being Germany, the obstacle to this is going to be
       | immense bureaucratic inertia. You can't just plonk down a tiny
       | house anywhere you want. There are rules! Designed to frustrate
       | anything entirely reasonable like that.
       | 
       | But I imagine similar things are going to be true everywhere and
       | there is going to be fierce competition between depopulated
       | regions to attract people and their money. And when push comes to
       | shove, I'm not German and could be persuaded to move elsewhere.
       | Also, if you extrapolate to autonomous RVs, you could just live
       | in those and let them drive you to some remote parking space at
       | night and to charging and water points for access to the
       | essentials. Be in nature when you want to be, drive up to a city
       | when you need to. Move south in the winter, north in the summer,
       | etc.
        
       | eagsalazar2 wrote:
       | Two words: "Health Insurance"
        
       | yodsanklai wrote:
       | No mention of health expenses. This is often underestimated in
       | all these "Retire Early" scenarios.
        
         | sgerenser wrote:
         | At this income level health is covered 100% by Medicaid.
         | Depending on where you live, that can be perfectly fine or
         | pretty bad.
        
       | w10-1 wrote:
       | Jobs and crime: What value can you add, and what value can be
       | taken from you?
       | 
       | Stressed communities like Massena are defensive: outsiders
       | (particularly relatively wealthy ones) are typically a target,
       | and are unlikely to get a plum job that goes by word of mouth.
       | That effect is amplified when people don't have the assets or
       | kind of life they want to protect for themselves, so they have
       | little to lose and a big chip on the shoulder.
       | 
       | To me the sweet spot for young people would be the in-law unit in
       | a great neighborhood where you could do professional work. Learn
       | from the best, and deal with people more interested in a clean,
       | secure transaction than extracting every advantage they need
       | (e.g., buy good engineering used from someone who loved their
       | car). Even wealthy people aspire to pare down to what they really
       | need, because the simplicity restores irreplaceable time.
       | 
       | If there are thousands of ways to do wrong and few to do right,
       | give yourself your best opportunities. Make yourself not only
       | useful but reliable and graceful. Anyone under 30 (or anyone at
       | all?) should be budgeting 30% on making the future selves they
       | really want to be.
        
       | fullstackchris wrote:
       | Great article, yes, its the classic "I want to not work AND keep
       | my current lifestyle" I dont know if it was social media,
       | bitterness at boomers, or whatever, that made most zoomers behold
       | this pipe dream.
       | 
       | Loved the Massena example, but I went to school near there
       | (Clarkson) and the winters are pretty rough. Summer / fall is
       | beautiful though!
        
       | pqs wrote:
       | I like this proposition, but the article didn't mention health
       | services in the area. I'm European and I don't fully understand
       | the US health sector but I want to know what would happen in case
       | of severe illness, living this way.
        
         | AngryData wrote:
         | There are some little emergency clinics around in rural places,
         | but its generally like the bare minimum where if you make it
         | there they can give you a bag of blood and an oxygen tank, but
         | I would expect atleast a 45 minute travel time to an actual
         | hospital that can treat you for anything, and it would cost
         | $2,000 for the ambulance trip alone, not to mention the actual
         | hospital bills..
         | 
         | The hospital will have to take you in if you need emergency
         | treatment, provided you make it that far, however they only
         | guarantee the minimum treatment to "stabilize" you, and at that
         | point they are going to expect either an insurance policy be
         | given to them, or your agreement to take on additional medical
         | debt beyond what you already incurred to receive additional
         | treatment. Like if you have a heart attack, they will take you
         | in, give you some nitroglycerin, and try to get it so that they
         | aren't worried about you keeling over within the next 2 hours,
         | but if your heart is still in a lower level of afib and you
         | can't afford treatment? They will give you the boot and tell
         | you to go see a doctor but it ain't an absolute emergency any
         | more.
         | 
         | Or say you crash your car and your leg is crushed. They will
         | stabilize you, but then you or someone else will have to make a
         | financial decision for you or give your insurance. Will you be
         | able to afford the costs of multiple surgeries to pin your
         | shattered leg bones back together and all the rehabilitation?
         | Sure they can do that. Can you already not afford the costs you
         | incurred and certainly can't afford all the additional
         | surgeries and rehabilitation later? Well they will "save" you
         | from all those costs you can't afford by chopping off your leg,
         | knowing that without those other surgeries they will end up
         | cutting it off 6 months later anyway.
        
         | aqrit wrote:
         | > health services in the area
         | 
         | Massena Hospital is a 25-bed hospital. Might have to go to
         | Canton or Ogdensburg for a family doctor (45 minutes by car).
         | Most things serious get referred to Syracuse or Burlington (3
         | hours away by car).
         | 
         | AFAIK, Cost[1] is "theoretically" nothing if annual income is
         | less than the federal poverty line ($15,650 for an
         | individuality). And might as well be free for an income up to
         | $39,125.
         | 
         | [1] https://info.nystateofhealth.ny.gov/EssentialPlan
        
       | Coffeewine wrote:
       | This is bizarre to me - my extended family live in the towns
       | surrounding Massena, NY, and have for about four generations now.
       | The area certainly has its perks, it can be very pretty and there
       | is plenty of room for hunting, fishing and other such pursuits if
       | one is so inclined. Houses are extremely inexpensive, as is a
       | surprising amount of land if that's what you want. Though the set
       | who are actually farming has declined precipitously over the
       | generations.
       | 
       | The article however rather oversells the economic opportunities
       | of the area - the two best employers are a nearby Indian casino
       | and the prison system, both of which have their drawbacks.
       | Otherwise there is a reason why all the local farmland is slowly
       | being occupied by the Amish, they're a group that doesn't care
       | much about the lack of opportunity.
       | 
       | As you can guess, this has led to a big divergence in outcomes.
       | My relatives who have found remote work are living like kings,
       | and the ones who haven't are really struggling.
       | 
       | I dunno why I'm writing this. I guess it's just funny to see
       | Massena written about. And Massena is the big city compared to
       | the surrounding towns.
        
       | davedx wrote:
       | What happens when you get sick?
        
       | Version467 wrote:
       | This is one of those articles where the comments are really
       | interesting to read through. I see a bunch of comments who don't
       | agree with the exact math, which might be warranted, but it seems
       | at least directionally correct to me. However there's also a
       | bunch of people commenting that this lifestyle isn't viable for
       | some reason or another, that mainly just boils down to a personal
       | preference those commenters don't want to live without.
       | 
       | But having read through most of the objections I still find
       | myself enticed by this. If I mentally place myself in this
       | position I think I could quite happily live a few decades without
       | talking to anyone for weeks or even months at a time. I'd still
       | have my pets to give me companionship. Load my kindle up with a
       | thousand books I want to read and just work my way through it.
       | Pick up writing as a hobby and spend the rest of the time working
       | at a gas station and fixing up the house and/or grow some food to
       | offset the reduced income.
       | 
       | Healthcare is an issue. Doesn't seem like a viable place to grow
       | old. Once you become too frail for physical work it's probably
       | just time to die, which isn't great.
        
         | discordance wrote:
         | You might also like a documentary called Alone in the
         | Wilderness, which tells the story of Dick Proenneke, a man who
         | moved to the remote Twin Lakes region of Alaska in 1968 and
         | lived alone in the wilderness for 30 years.
         | 
         | Proenneke built his own log cabin entirely by hand, using only
         | simple tools (many of which he made himself), and filmed his
         | daily life, including hunting, fishing, foraging, and crafting
         | everything from scratch
        
           | MichaelRo wrote:
           | Man, I don't wanna see someone going to live as a hermit in
           | the woods and shit in the bushes for $400. I've got plenty of
           | examples of people living in mud huts in Africa for much
           | less.
           | 
           | I wanna see how it's possible to live a decent life in
           | civilized conditions (roof over your head, running water and
           | sewage system, electricity, heating) on $400.
        
         | zamadatix wrote:
         | > However there's also a bunch of people commenting that this
         | lifestyle isn't viable for some reason or another, that mainly
         | just boils down to a personal preference those commenters don't
         | want to live without.
         | 
         | Given humans are also just animals that had lifestyles before
         | money and modern society was invented, this doesn't seem like a
         | useful distinction. Either you're talking about your personal
         | preferences you don't want to lice without or money isn't even
         | part of the picture in the first place. Where that line is
         | personally drawn is just as arbitrary to this point at $1 as
         | $1,000,000.
         | 
         | Overall though I agree the article sheds light where we don't
         | normally tend to think. At the same time it crosses points too
         | often to make that those focus of conversation. That is to say
         | it makes a good point with just a little too much PoV twist
         | inserted so people who don't agree will think about that
         | statement instead. E.g. don't complain about not having the
         | home prospects of a boomer because you can live like your great
         | grandparent - which would be something ~40 years prior to the
         | boomer comparison, even for a zoomer (-> driving pushback
         | against the idea owning a house at all is the same as the
         | lifestyle the article laments hearing about -> driving
         | conversation like the above paragraph).
        
         | mattlondon wrote:
         | I think a lot of the complaint I see is people want to have
         | 100% of everything they want, within a 10 minute walk, with
         | zero compromise. I.e. they have unreasonable expectations.
         | 
         | I see people come to London from other parts of the world and
         | ask where they can live that is nice and a 5-10 minute walk
         | from the office and I usually laugh in their faces. If you can
         | afford to live that close in central London (even before you
         | think about "nice"), then you don't need to work. Even single
         | car parking spaces in central London cost more than family
         | houses elsewhere in the UK.
         | 
         | When I got my first place it was on the outskirts of London,
         | cost 20x the average UK salary (and for which I obviously took
         | out a huge mortgage for that basically took 75-80% of my salary
         | at the time to pay), and took over an hour on public transport
         | (which was also not cheap - walking is free but probably about
         | 4 hours each way) to get to central London. And this was just
         | in the 2008-era - it's _never_ been cheap (or even reasonable)
         | to own nice property in the center of a large global metropolis
         | like London where you are 10 minutes walk from your office AND
         | transport AND entertainment AND everything else unless you are
         | ultra wealthy.
         | 
         | People need to lower expectations about locality/proximity and
         | affordability before things become viable. This isn't a new
         | problem.
        
         | api wrote:
         | You can go to not quite as extreme levels. There are thousands
         | of small towns all through Appalachia, the Midwest, and the
         | Northeast with a bit of interesting local culture and a low
         | cost of living. Not this low but they also have hospitals and
         | often colleges and other things.
         | 
         | If you are a minority concerned about the culture of red
         | America, the 2016 and 2024 elections both provide excellent
         | county by county color coded maps for you.
         | 
         | Telework is what really unlocks this if you're a developer.
         | 
         | The Midwest also has many medium sized cities. Not as cheap as
         | small towns but not as expensive as the coastal real estate
         | cost traps. I live in Cincinnati, which has three universities,
         | four Fortune 500 companies, a small startup scene, and over a
         | dozen small neighborhoods with walkable streets (overall you'd
         | want a car but you could get away with not using it every day).
         | 
         | At some point the only economically rational decision is to
         | leave very high cost of living cities. I tell people for cities
         | like SF that it might be good to go there to launch your career
         | but look at it like a college. If by 30 you are not making --
         | for SF I'd say over $300k -- then leave. You will never get
         | above real estate in those places unless you are approaching
         | mid six figures.
         | 
         | It also negatively impacts what you can do. Even if you can
         | earn that, it might be with golden handcuffs to a FAANG. Think
         | about that. If you want to start a startup, one that is not
         | lavishly funded enough to pay that, then leave. If you just
         | don't want to be golden handcuffed to a monster mortgage,
         | leave.
        
       | kristianc wrote:
       | > Moreover, the vision that I am going to postulate here would
       | not even require very much in the way of work. I say this because
       | by all I have seen, many young people today find the idea of
       | indefinite wage labor to be a dismal one. They seem to prefer a
       | "low-work lifestyle," but very often, the manner of living that
       | such a lifestyle would require is completely foreign to them.
       | Because of this, right alongside the many social media posts on
       | the topic of the awful expense of buying a home -- there are just
       | as many posts, it seems, complaining about "life in the 4HL," or
       | pining for remote work, or (rightfully) bemoaning the scam-
       | infested, difficult-to-navigate, often cynical and fake job
       | market that they've encountered.
       | 
       | It's cheeky because it frames itself as rejecting the status quo,
       | when actually what it is doing is saying "accept the status quo
       | wholesale and just move to somewhere the status quo hasn't
       | reached yet." And of course, if enough people do that, no one
       | will be around to fight against the status quo anymore. The main
       | difference between this and Thoreau's cabin in the woods is that
       | Thoreau could have chosen to do differently.
        
         | tonyedgecombe wrote:
         | It seems a fairly pragmatic solution to me. Yes, at a societal
         | level things are pretty messed up for lower earners but there
         | is next to nothing they can do about that. However from an
         | individual perspective there are options and they aren't all as
         | extreme as this.
        
       | brokegrammer wrote:
       | I think living in rural areas sucks because you'll end up feeling
       | very lonely. And I'm speaking as a hardcore introvert who didn't
       | feel lonely at all during the lock-down. But after extended
       | periods of isolation, human connection becomes important,
       | especially if you're young.
       | 
       | I'm currently living below my means in a small village in
       | Mauritius, but I'm planning on moving to a big city in a big
       | country ASAP because while living like this is good for my bank
       | account, my mental health is taking a heavy toll. Not to mention
       | how challenging it is to find a date.
       | 
       | As a young person, IMO the best thing to do is move to a place
       | where you can make some good lifelong friends, and build a solid
       | network for employment opportunities. Saving money while living
       | frugally only served to dampen my social muscles.
        
         | rwyinuse wrote:
         | Yeah, it really depends on your life situation. When I was
         | reaching 20's I felt like you, and moving to city was great for
         | my mental health. Now I'm in my 30's, my parents and my spouses
         | parents live in rural area. We have small kids, and due to that
         | we have barely any time to socialize. At this life stage,
         | cheaper housing, quiet and proximity to our family in the
         | countryside is really becoming attractive. City life with kids
         | sucks when there's no family nearby, and you can't afford a big
         | enough apartment.
        
       | ada1981 wrote:
       | I sold a small import export business I stood up during Covid and
       | after living in NYC for 13 years, decided to get a "fancy
       | instagram bus" after a voice in my head told me to do so.
       | 
       | The _next day_ a friend called, who I hadn't seen since we got
       | shipwrecked in the gulf of Panama, and told me he had been
       | building out a "fancy instagram School bus" for the last year and
       | between his wife and his pot farm in CA he realized he'd have no
       | time for it.
       | 
       | "I figure you were the guy to buy it from me."
       | 
       | I said yes and bought a 1 way ticket to Santa Cruz.
       | 
       | I sublet my place in park slope for $3,600 a month furnished
       | which was $1k more a month than the base rent.
       | 
       | I thought I'd spend a few months driving around, go on Phish
       | Tour, and flip the bus for $50k.
       | 
       | That was about 4 years ago.
       | 
       | The bus cost me $36k and within 10 months paid for itself.
       | 
       | I let the place in nyc go entirely after that and for one months
       | rent could drive back and forth across the US.
       | 
       | A $89 parks pass gets me into all the national parks and I can
       | stay on BLM land in the most beautiful places for free.
       | 
       | I soon realized many people have at least 1 home and love having
       | a self contained guest for a week or two. I visited friends,
       | family and clients (I still maintain a high end high performance
       | coaching business working with founders of companies like Asana,
       | Bombas and other interesting folks).
       | 
       | I also run a remote AI research lab for the last 4 years.
       | 
       | I shop at farmers markets or wholefoods.
       | 
       | I love ultimate frisbee and am pretty good, having been a former
       | world games invitee, and any city usually has a game and within
       | an afternoon I can make a dozen or so new friends and be invited
       | to all sorts of things. (pickupultimate.com).
       | 
       | Last year on the eclipse I met a woman in hot springs, Arkansas
       | and fell in love - and she lives in Kansas City so I've spent a
       | lot of time here with her the last year.
       | 
       | The creative freedom of having a bus and living in beautiful
       | spaces is unmatched. And knowing if I lose all money, I can buy a
       | 50lb bag of rice and beans, fill up on water, and use my cell
       | phone and solar for a month to figure out the next move, is very
       | comforting.
       | 
       | Of course there have been problems like breakdowns, a friend
       | filling my diesel tank with reg gas, a break in in nyc, and
       | getting hassled for parking legally by house dwellers in Santa
       | Monica, but it's been a great investment.
       | 
       | So much of "middle class lifestyle" is a trap marketed to you
       | people by the upper classes to get you to opt in to being a
       | modern day share cropper. Taking a couple vacations a year,
       | retiring out of shape and unable to really enjoy life and nature,
       | and coping with pills and drugs and tv and consumption that are
       | primarily part of the problem.
       | 
       | Ps we host an ai / philosophy / founder meetup every Wednesday,
       | come as my vip! Http://earthpilot.ai/play
        
       | smeeger wrote:
       | living outside of society is not viable. but its true that the
       | economic system that we all live inside of is not serving us well
       | because of corruption. everything is much more expensive than it
       | should be. i think the best solution is for people to make their
       | own little societies, bring back towns, and instead of a walmart
       | and box stores put people to work growing food and making things.
       | its the only way to live affordably without moving to another
       | country.
        
       | andrewrn wrote:
       | I've spent time in upstate New York, and the communities I
       | visited were not welcoming to newcomers. I had a few beers in a
       | bar in Tupper Lake and I may as well have been a green alien.
       | Unless you're religious and can lean on a church community, this
       | life seems absolutely lonely.
        
       | dsalzman wrote:
       | Surprised that there isn't a kibbutz trend in the US with this
       | sentiment.
        
         | Barrin92 wrote:
         | A lot of kibbutzim are run collectively. As a joke in the TV
         | show The Americans went, from an Israeli to a Soviet spy: "if
         | you like socialism so much, defect to Israel, we do it better".
         | 
         | That kind of thing isn't in the American DNA. You'd have people
         | demand a lawn and a fence after a month.
        
       | thrance wrote:
       | Disregard systemic problems, place the blame entirely on younger
       | generation using too much tiktok/uber/doordash/netflix/whatever.
       | You should live like it's 1899 out in the fields and basically
       | enjoy none of the good sides of modern life. This is part of the
       | reason why "OK boomer" is so popular.
       | 
       | (Also, living that far from urban centers when you're not a
       | farmer is a burden on society. You require much more road, water
       | pipes and power line maintenance than someone that lives in the
       | city.)
        
       | AngryData wrote:
       | It sounds nice, atleast until non-daily tasks and costs start to
       | pile up. Goods are not cheaper in a rural area, you don't get an
       | Amazon or Walmart discount for living in the middle of nowhere,
       | medical and dental are not cheaper, general services are far more
       | expensive so I hope you can fix or install most all of your own
       | appliances and plumbing systems and roof, it will cost you a lot
       | more to have wood delivered than cut it yourself for heating and
       | using sawmill cutoffs is not a great material for maintaining a
       | fire overnight. Friends and family are farther and fewer. Law
       | enforcement in these places basically only exist to extort people
       | because that's how they fund themselves and real crime is so
       | uncommon, but of course they still need to pay for maintenance on
       | their MRAPs and Humvees and such and think they are better than
       | the local "yokels". Fire service may or may not cost you money to
       | pay into, or may simply not exist for anything other than making
       | sure it doesn't spread after your house is gone. And of course
       | you are living outside of modern society and being left behind
       | technologically, which isn't a problem for a few years, but after
       | 10+ years you start to become out of touch.
       | 
       | This kind of thing might sound nice from the outside, but if poor
       | rural community living was as nice and cheap as claimed, these
       | kind of areas wouldn't be so cheap or abandoned. These kind of
       | articles always seem like a "grass is greener" type escapist
       | fantasies. Yeah sure there are a handful of unusually better
       | spots, maybe this place is one of them, but 95% of poor rural
       | areas are just... poor rural areas with little to offer. Hope you
       | don't have kids because the schools will be garbage. Hope you
       | don't like going to bars or being super social because 90% of the
       | clientele are the same handful of drunks you see every time.
       | 
       | Just because you can eek out a few cheap years in a place like
       | this in your 20s or 30s doesn't mean it is a great place to
       | actually live. Say you work a decent amount to "save" money for
       | 10 or 15 years, what will you walk away from there financially?
       | You weren't saving city wages that will afford you to move
       | wherever you want, you saved poor rural wages which will afford
       | you.... another slightly less poor rural area or maybe living
       | like a 20 year old in a more prosperous place for a year, your
       | house might be worth less later than what you paid for it, your
       | job might just disappear one day without warning and no viable
       | replacement except for a desperation job at just a bit above
       | minimum wage.
       | 
       | Ive lived in rural areas, mostly poorer areas, my whole life. And
       | yeah sure there are some hippies around surviving, some Amish
       | dudes surviving, a few people are doing a bit better with long-
       | distance traveling jobs like truckers or seasonal work farther
       | away. But 90% of people are just barely surviving, watching their
       | health slowly fail away faster and faster because they can't
       | afford the care to maintain it. Hopefully you can live until you
       | are 60+ without any health problems, but that is a big gamble. If
       | you get sick a single hospital visit can wipe out a decade or
       | more of careful savings. Break an arm or an ankle? There is an
       | entire year's savings or more. You get to watch those few still
       | around you struggling day after day living in shacks or 30 year
       | old decaying mobile homes. Poor rural areas are not some hidden
       | grove of wonder and peace, if it was these places wouldn't have
       | been abandoned to start with.
        
       | losvedir wrote:
       | > _In this case, you could work just one ten-hour shift per week,
       | and in so doing, earn more than 30% of what you need to live well
       | at this particular house_
       | 
       | Am I missing something or is this implying that you need to work
       | 34 hours a week at the gas station to live there. That's....
       | basically a normal, full-time job, right? It's a strange way of
       | putting it.
        
         | sgerenser wrote:
         | No, it's saying one 10 hour shift a week gets you 30% of what
         | you need to live for a month. So doing 3 or 4 of those a
         | _month_ is sufficient to live on, assuming the posted costs are
         | remotely accurate and aren't missing anything important (big
         | assumption).
        
         | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
         | The expenses are monthly so if you did that shift every week,
         | you'll have an income surplus.
        
       | 0n0n0m0uz wrote:
       | Only way you could live on $500 a month is in a paid off vehicle
       | on public lands in western states where you only drove to buy
       | food. I know because I do it.
        
         | rufus_foreman wrote:
         | What happens if you need to go to a museum or the opera?
        
       | byronic wrote:
       | An incredible strategy for getting the article to break
       | containment. I won't share it unless you pay me $7100, which is
       | how much it costs me to live in America with dependents
        
       | timcobb wrote:
       | > In fact, were it to be that any of those who seek a simpler,
       | more straightforward, more affordable way of life matched
       | themselves up with the various regions in which that kind of a
       | life is on offer in spades -- it just might make our country
       | better.
       | 
       | I think this all the time too. Would be interesting to try to
       | start a colony like this.
        
         | tallanvor wrote:
         | People have tried it plenty of times. There might be a few
         | still sort of running, but most of them fail.
        
       | stickfigure wrote:
       | On one hand I agree with the general _premise_ of the article,
       | which is that you can live a lot cheaper than you choose to.
       | Homes in the passably-cute downtown of Massena are under $100k;
       | you could live on $40k /yr comfortably and if you're here on HN
       | you can probably earn at least than that with a remote job.
       | Cutting it to $5k/yr is just trying to prove something.
       | 
       | The missing thing is health care. If you're young and immortal
       | and willing to take risks, sure. This attitude won't last into
       | middle age. My wife had cancer, and without health insurance I'd
       | be a single parent right now. Maybe you can lean on public
       | assistance like Medicaid (if it continues to exist), but this
       | isn't really a scalable solution for "we can all live cheaper".
       | It only works if enough people stay in the rat race to pay for
       | it.
       | 
       | "Cheap" health insurance for a youngish small family is
       | >$1000/mo. That really isn't optional in the US.
        
         | MarceColl wrote:
         | That's insane, my dad had cancer 3 years ago, and here in Spain
         | we didn't even think about it (beyond of course the terrible
         | situation). If you also want private insurance it will cost a
         | youngish small family (like mine) 150EUR/month.
        
           | 999900000999 wrote:
           | This is America.
           | 
           | We don't have any money to treat sick people, we need to make
           | sure the networth of billionaires continues to grow.
           | 
           | We need to fund military bases all over the world and
           | conflicts in places most of us can't find on maps.
           | 
           | You find how truly alone you are when you can't afford your
           | medicine. No longer an "American" you're a freeloader, a
           | parasite. Perhaps God himself hates you.
           | 
           | And Blessed are the Billionaires for God gave them so much.
        
           | hajile wrote:
           | The problem with US healthcare is bloat.
           | 
           | According to Google, person in Spain spends on average $4,432
           | per person per year with some $3,113 of that being paid by
           | the government.
           | 
           | The US government pays out $6,000 per person per year or
           | nearly TWICE as much.
           | 
           | The problem is that $6000 is still less than half of the
           | $14,570 per person per year (2023) healthcare costs in the
           | US.
           | 
           | And of course, the US government payments don't cover
           | everyone equally. They only cover the elderly and some subset
           | of the very poor (mostly kids).
           | 
           | The only fix is reducing US healthcare costs to something
           | more like the rest of the world, but that requires sharing
           | drug R&D costs evenly with other countries (raising your
           | costs), reigning in insurance companies, eliminating over-
           | credentializing of doctors and other medical professionals,
           | fixing school cost/debt, and reducing/eliminating the massive
           | amounts of unnecessary bureaucracy/paperwork (allowing
           | doctors to reduce staff and see more patients per day which
           | reduces overall medical costs).
        
         | projektfu wrote:
         | If your income is $5k/yr you are on medicaid in NY.
        
         | axiomdata316 wrote:
         | Is that Massena NY or Massena Iowa?
        
           | stickfigure wrote:
           | The article focuses on Massena NY.
        
         | rufus_foreman wrote:
         | >> It only works if enough people stay in the rat race to pay
         | for it.
         | 
         | Given the reaction to the article by the commenters here, I
         | don't think we need to worry about a mass movement of people
         | wanting to live like dirty hippies in the Massenas of the
         | country.
         | 
         | The article is just saying, "Here's one of the things you are
         | allowed to do". There are trade-offs, the same as there are
         | trade-offs for the people moving from India to Silicon Valley
         | to make money, but who won't see their families more than once
         | every year or two or three.
        
         | insane_dreamer wrote:
         | This works if you're young and healthy. Which is possible. I
         | didn't have health insurance for the first 45+ years of my life
         | and saw a doctor maybe 4-5 times before my mid-50s. Must not
         | have spent more than $5k total on medical in 30 years including
         | dental. If you live a healthy lifestyle (much easier out there
         | than in the city) and are relatively lucky genetically then
         | lack of health insurance isn't the bugaboo that most Americans
         | seem to make it.
        
       | stackedinserter wrote:
       | If you're ready to move to frozen salty belt to live bare
       | minimum, why not move to a cheap country, work as English tutor
       | for 10x quality of life?
       | 
       | Don't live in this area, it sucks. You'll have 8 months of
       | miserable, not enjoyable winter with winds and freezing rains, 2
       | months if suffocating humid summer with mosquitos and ticks, and
       | maybe relatively enjoyable September. Ask me how I know.
        
       | kixiQu wrote:
       | I think we should all just calibrate what kind of project we
       | believe the author to be engaged in from the following quote from
       | a linked post:
       | 
       | > After all, constant sunshine is the weather of the dullard. The
       | lover of hot, lazy days and breezy, cloudless skies fancies
       | himself a lordling -- he insists that the earth be his womb-like
       | chamber of easy, saccharine delights. He is the same man who
       | enjoys sugary-sweet sodas, on-the-nose political commentary,
       | prefers his novels to be cheap and gutless, and his women botoxed
       | and spray-tanned.
       | 
       | No very close reading is required, I believe.
        
       | rayiner wrote:
       | > By the standards of our great-grandfathers
       | 
       | Not even great grandfathers. My wife's dad grew up in a 600-700
       | square foot modular home with three siblings. Mom was a waitress,
       | step-dad never had a W2 job (hunted, did handyman work, etc).
        
       | Derawk wrote:
       | I suspect there is also something in between the big city and
       | rural Massena. Just a couple hours east of Seattle you've got a a
       | full fledged city (Yakima) with lots of infrastructure and plenty
       | of 3-4 bdrm houses going for ~33% the cost (~350k).
        
       | insane_dreamer wrote:
       | Ok so the math is off by a factor of 2, but the basic premise
       | still holds. Harder to do if you have school age kids though or
       | are generally in poor health. But otherwise doable. Not for
       | everyone, but for some it's a much better life, qualitatively.
       | 
       | I wonder at what point we'll see this become a trend as young-ish
       | people realize that the trade off is worth it for them. Will we
       | see a reverse migration from the cities at some point? We did
       | some of that during Covid but I haven't seen any numbers on much
       | of it "stuck" post-COVID especially with RTO. Anyone seen any
       | stats on this?
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | This is why I love the idea of remote work. The wealth of these
       | companies doesn't need to stay trapped in a handful of rich
       | enclaves. We could have millions of Americans living in these
       | sorts of places "sharing" the wealth.
        
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