[HN Gopher] I decided to pay off a school's lunch debt
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       I decided to pay off a school's lunch debt
        
       Author : dredmorbius
       Score  : 515 points
       Date   : 2025-05-04 07:13 UTC (2 days ago)
        
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       | dredmorbius wrote:
       | NB: Title from HTML source due to clickbait. The story stands on
       | its own without such tactics.
        
       | pragmatic wrote:
       | " families who qualify but don't complete the paperwork for
       | various reasons, ranging from language barriers to pride to
       | bureaucratic overwhelm."
       | 
       | Fear of legal action against them.
       | 
       | Giving all kids a hot meal is a no brainer eat win for society.
       | We gave it to them, then took it back.
        
       | M3L0NM4N wrote:
       | Is the overhead in deciding who gets free lunch and who doesn't
       | and then managing the debt really saving more money than just
       | giving all public school kids free lunches with no strings
       | attached?
        
         | monkpit wrote:
         | Incentivized because it's privatized
        
         | dsr_ wrote:
         | If you throw in the effects on school attendance and
         | participation, yes.
         | 
         | Massachusetts extended the free school lunch (and breakfast)
         | program to all students in 2023. Here's the report on 2024:
         | 
         | https://www.mass.gov/doc/universal-free-school-mealsfinal070...
         | 
         | It's nominally 20 pages but the first five are boilerplate and
         | ToC and the last ten are a listing of how much each school
         | district received, so you could reasonably read all the actual
         | report.
        
         | klodolph wrote:
         | You can look at stats from NYC:
         | 
         | https://www.ibo.nyc.ny.us/iboreports/if-no-student-pays-cost...
         | 
         | The report used 2014-2015 numbers, where the cost of lunches
         | for elementary students was $102 million and the participation
         | rate was 57%. It estimates that universal free lunch would cost
         | the city an additional $5.2 million. Part of the costs would be
         | offset by federal reimbursements, so the full estimate is
         | higher than $5.2... the details are in the report.
         | 
         | So yes, it would cost more to make it free for everyone. I
         | still think it _should_ be free for everyone, but it is hard to
         | argue that you can save money that way.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | So maybe $5M on a NY state education budget of nearly $40B,
           | or less than two hundredths of one percent. Isn't it weird
           | that we pay for everything else but keep the food in a
           | separate accounting budget?
        
             | klodolph wrote:
             | You're comparing the NY state education budget against a
             | program for elementary school students in NYC using numbers
             | from different decades.
             | 
             | If you want better numbers, a good place to start would be
             | to take total cost per student for a given year and the
             | cost per lunch for the same year, and multiply cost per
             | lunch by number of days and some participation rate %.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | Which decades? Are you saying the $5M number is too small
               | because this article was from 2017, and I used budget
               | from 2024? Okay, the NY state budget in 2017 was a bit
               | over $25B. That actually still leaves the answer at two
               | hundredths of one percent, since I rounded up and left
               | lots of room for error. ;)
               | 
               | I was more or less trying to do what you suggest, but
               | without getting stuck doing research until next week. I
               | could be off by a factor of 10 or even 100 without the
               | point having a significantly different summary, right?
               | Even if we did exactly what you suggest, and even if the
               | numbers were more accurate, the outcome doesn't change:
               | it's weird to account for lunch outside of the rest of
               | the system, when lunch is such a tiny minuscule cost, it
               | could be funded without blinking.
        
               | klodolph wrote:
               | 2010s and 2020s are the two different decades.
               | 
               | I found $23,884 expenditure per child in 2014-2015, which
               | is when the $4.30 school lunch cost is from. With 180
               | instructional days, lunch would be $4.30/day x
               | 180day/year / $23884/year = 3.2%.
               | 
               | > I was more or less trying to do what you suggest, but
               | without getting stuck doing research until next week. I
               | could be off by a factor of 10 or even 100 without the
               | point having a significantly different summary, right?
               | 
               | You were off by a factor of 150, about. Kinda big. I
               | guess you could be stuck here doing research until next
               | week. I searched "nyc cost per student school 2014" and
               | plugged some numbers into a calculator. I made sure to
               | put all my numbers up there with units in case you
               | disagree with the numbers or disagree with the formula.
               | If you want to use newer numbers you can do that, but I
               | think it's important to use numbers from the same time,
               | more or less.
               | 
               | These "off by 3x, 2x, 4x" errors add up to orders of
               | magnitude if you make enough errors like that. I was
               | disagreeing with your estimate because there were too
               | many errors. Just kind of a gut feeling.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | I see the problem is I used your $5M number which is NYC,
               | and divided by the state budget. However, I don't think
               | the $5M number is referring to the total cost of
               | providing lunch, and that's what you're comparing it to
               | in your calculation. Apples, oranges. Because the schools
               | are already providing free and subsidized lunches, the
               | additional cost isn't that much and I'm not off by a
               | factor of 150. I am wrong, but not by that much. And I
               | still stand by what I said - even if the total addition
               | cost is 3%, which it's not, and even if I was off by
               | 150x, which I'm not, the outcome still points at lunch
               | being cheap in the big picture. And even if it does cost
               | more, it doesn't explain why we've decided to make
               | families pay directly for lunch when we provide all the
               | rest, right? I am agreeing with your top point that we
               | (the US) _ought_ to just provide the lunch as part of the
               | elementary school education.
        
               | klodolph wrote:
               | I was replying to an "it pays for itself" comment and
               | looking for the most favorable possible numbers for the
               | most limited incremental change to the program, to show
               | that even then, it doesn't pay for itself. That's where
               | the $5M comes from--it's the incremental cost, to the
               | city, of providing free lunches to an additional 35,000
               | elementary school students, after the federal government
               | reimburses $3.24 per lunch, using data from 2015.
               | 
               | I think the comment I was replying to believed that some
               | big chunk of the cost was due figuring out which students
               | deserve free lunches or not. That's untrue.
               | 
               | The lunch program is substantial and can't really be
               | hidden by burying it in some much larger budget.
               | 
               | I get the argument "this is valuable, we should do this"
               | but I don't buy the argument "this cost is small".
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | I agree with you that the cost of lunch food adds up and
               | is more than the cost of accounting. Substantial is a
               | subjective word but true if looking at the number by
               | itself, and feeding 2 million kids in NY state will
               | obviously be a big number compared to most people's
               | salaries, which is why it seems substantial. But it's
               | still a small fraction of the cost of education, and food
               | is a single line item in a much much bigger budget. We
               | can't actually separate the lunch costs, when you include
               | the cafeteria. It seems very strange that we don't ask
               | families to pay for books or bus rides but do ask them to
               | pay for lunch. It very much feels like a conscious choice
               | to ensure the poor kids are identified.
               | 
               | There was a scandal in the neighborhood I live in because
               | one school tired of lunch debt was making the hot
               | lunches, letting the kids pick them up, and then taking
               | them away and throwing them in the trash, to make a big
               | show of parents not paying their lunch bills. That saved
               | no dollars and punished the children for what the parents
               | did, poor children disproportionately. Even though most
               | of the kids' families could afford the lunches, that's
               | just a shitty thing to do.
               | 
               | The cost actually is small, in the big picture. The truth
               | is that the U.S. can easily afford to pay not just for
               | lunch but for all of education, both elementary and
               | higher education, and it pays for itself many times over,
               | if we look at the extra income tax people with degrees
               | pay over people who don't have any higher education. We
               | are choosing to not give our kids college degrees by
               | default, and we are _choosing_ to withhold hot lunches
               | from elementary school kids, and it is not because it
               | costs a lot, it would be trivial to fund (and we already
               | proved that during COVID.) It's because we have politics
               | and a social belief system that is allergic to the idea
               | of free lunch, regardless of the costs.
        
           | snarf21 wrote:
           | In the current moment, I agree that "the state" can't save
           | money by making it free for everyone. However, it is a lot
           | harder to quantify how much other savings are realized by
           | having healthier kids and reduced healthcare costs. Plus we
           | know kids do better in school when fed well and that long
           | term taxable income, better colleges, business job
           | generation, etc. could eventually pay for itself. Obviously
           | this is a much more complicated thing to calculate and
           | quantify.
        
             | klodolph wrote:
             | I agree... and yet "it's cheap, it's the right thing to do,
             | and provides massive benefits" is a different argument from
             | "it pays for itself".
        
               | ctkhn wrote:
               | the problem is that "it pays for itself" is true in the
               | overall societal sense, where a few more kids don't end
               | up in jail or psych wards or something, but there's no
               | way for the school to capture that value when deciding
               | "do we want to feed kids at school?" and so we usually
               | don't do it :/
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | It is worth keeping in mind that the broader effects
               | might still be positive. But, I think the original poster
               | was just asking about the direct cost of determining who
               | gets the free lunches (that's why they frame it in terms
               | of the overhead).
               | 
               | While I agree that a full analyst of the social benefit
               | would be better, and I bet it would almost certainly end
               | up being a net positive (and also, the possibility that
               | kids are just not getting fed because of record-keeping
               | screw-ups, missed paperwork, or incomplete programs is
               | just unconscionable), the question the asked about the
               | overhead _does_ have the benefit of being a lot more
               | answerable and direct.
        
               | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
               | Not quite. The argument then becomes about pointing out
               | that our accounting systems are stupid, brutish and
               | terrible at modelling second order consequences - social,
               | economic, even moral.
               | 
               | In fact they seem designed to hide these consequences,
               | both good and bad. The features we tag profits and losses
               | are right out front, while other important features are
               | labelled "externalities" and essentially ignored.
               | 
               | This is very obvious in the differences between US and
               | other Western attitudes to infrastructure spending. In
               | the EU, public transport is heavily subsidised. It isn't
               | expected to be profitable because it provides both direct
               | and indirect returns.
               | 
               | No one rational - who isn't a chef - expects their fridge
               | or cooker to be a profit source. Big public infra
               | projects are no different. They're a kind of giant public
               | appliance. You buy them to provide a service.
               | 
               | In the US and UK, the goal of infrastructure spending is
               | usually to create private profits. This certainly creates
               | returns for a small class of people, but it only seems
               | rational because it's pretending other kinds of returns
               | don't exist.
        
               | klodolph wrote:
               | > Not quite. The argument then becomes about pointing out
               | that our accounting systems are stupid, brutish and
               | terrible at modelling second order consequences - social,
               | economic, even moral.
               | 
               | Are you disagreeing with me, or just reframing the
               | discussion? Pick one mode of discussion, please, I find
               | it hard to follow if you start off disagreeing but then
               | switch gears and decide to reframe the discussion.
               | 
               | I encourage you to speak as much as you want about the
               | fact that our accounting system sucks at dealing with
               | externalities. However, we are still slaves to
               | accounting, somewhat. Nobody rational expects a fridge to
               | be a profit source. But if you take taxes, people expect
               | an accounting of how the taxes are spent. "This program
               | costs money but has benefits that outweigh the cost" is
               | pretty easy to understand. The program doesn't _pay for
               | itself_ because we don't have a way to put better
               | outcomes on the books.
               | 
               | We also don't have an accounting system that lets me show
               | a net positive for buying a movie ticket.
        
           | insane_dreamer wrote:
           | > it would cost more to make it free for everyone
           | 
           | That's assuming everyone would sign up for the free lunch. We
           | have 2 kids in public schools and pack their lunches even
           | though we could sign them up for free lunch (our state makes
           | it available to all families). We're not alone in that
           | either. (We're also not rich, but we put a high priority on
           | healthy food.)
        
         | internetter wrote:
         | Without reading into lunch specifically, I'd very much be
         | inclined to say yes.
         | 
         | The reason is, I spent many hours researching the fair
         | structure of my transit agency. Fares that have, obviously,
         | been in the news for being harming to low income citizens. What
         | I found was that the city spent almost 1 billion on upgrading
         | their collection systems, whereas the yearly revenue from those
         | same systems amounted to 1/10th of that. It is very likely that
         | these new systems will actually _reduce_ revenue, as the agency
         | has admitted. Not to mention the operational overhead of
         | waiting for people to tap as they get on.
         | 
         | I strongly believe in social democracies, but our governments
         | are awful at spending our money.
         | 
         | https://boehs.org/node/free-the-t
        
           | mjevans wrote:
           | I suspect the only real benefit is a change in behavior of
           | some passengers. They _paid_ for a thing and therefore feel
           | more respectful towards it.
           | 
           | Which would be related to the other symptomatic reasons such
           | a barrier might be sought. As a society my country (USA)
           | sadly has low respect for the commons generally. There's a
           | lack of investment (not none, but not enough), a sense of
           | 'me-ism' entitlement in the population (as if sharing and
           | consideration of others shouldn't mutually be the priority
           | for a public space), and unwillingness to address national
           | scale issues that lead to blights upon the commons (mostly
           | thinking of people society has failed).
           | 
           | None of those are easy enough to fix that a reasonably sized
           | reply could even begin to adequately cover a solution, but
           | those problems are some reasons why a gated access to a
           | public resource might be sought other than as a form of
           | funding.
        
             | internetter wrote:
             | While I do not deny that this might very well be a problem,
             | it feels fallacious on the part of the American public.
             | 
             | One, they are indirectly paying for it already by way of
             | taxation. Two, I'd argue it is much better to be respectful
             | towards things you _didn 't_ pay for.
        
               | mjevans wrote:
               | We agree. Including to not respect things someone
               | (indirectly) paid for through taxation. Part of the me-
               | ism issue I called out in the larger post.
        
               | internetter wrote:
               | Yes, 100%. Another 'me-ism' I've been thinking a lot
               | about recently is the collective unwillingness to ensure
               | short term pain in exchange for long term prosperity, for
               | instance in regard to climate policy. Likewise, there is
               | no intuitive fix, especially when such prosperity will
               | mostly extend to future generations.
               | 
               | "I Don't Know How To Explain To You That You Should Care
               | About Other People" --
               | https://www.huffpost.com/entry/i-dont-know-how-to-
               | explain-to...
               | 
               | Such is the tragedy of the commons.
        
             | sitkack wrote:
             | Disrespect of the commons has been a 50 year effort on the
             | right to normalize ripping off the government to make it
             | nonfunctional and illegitimate.
             | 
             | We are to celebrate those who get out of paying taxes by
             | any means and looking the other way when others take from
             | the commons.
        
               | ReptileMan wrote:
               | At some point we have to face the truth that the only
               | well organized and ran country in the world is Singapore.
               | European governments had barely any right influence and
               | they manage to evolve their own disfunction quite well.
               | It seems that for some reasons the states after WWII just
               | lost their capacity to build things. If you watch
               | Oppenheimer - one of the things in the background is how
               | staggeringly competent were the administrative guys.
               | There is no such things now. Any government project both
               | big and small is expected to be cost overrun, delayed and
               | if ever finished is a cointoss if it will make things
               | better or worse. It is a global malaise.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | Schools seem amazing at spending on lunches, when they can
           | feed people for less than $5 a meal. I can't eat for that
           | amount, even when cooking at home these days. I'm not seeing
           | clearly what your transit agency's payment system upgrade has
           | to do with school lunches or why that somehow supports the
           | idea that they're not spending prudently.
        
             | internetter wrote:
             | The question was asking if making them free actually saved
             | the government money. I provided an anecdote suggesting
             | that this might very well be the case, by providing an
             | example of a place where the government is burning money in
             | order to collect less money than they burned.
        
               | autobodie wrote:
               | Wrong. The question asked the opposite; it asked if the
               | means testing saved the government money.
               | 
               | You answered "yes" in your original comment, but your
               | supporting arguments imply "no" so I can see why people
               | are confused.
               | 
               | Read the original question again:
               | 
               | > _Is the overhead in deciding who gets free lunch and
               | who doesn 't and then managing the debt really saving
               | more money than just giving all public school kids free
               | lunches with no strings attached?_
        
               | internetter wrote:
               | Oh, that's my bad
        
               | autobodie wrote:
               | I was going to be shocked if your case study actually
               | found means testing worthwhile, so I read your entire
               | comment, both others might not.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | The specific problem is that the alternative in the case
               | of school lunches does not involve upgrading the payment
               | system. Just because transit might benefit in the short
               | term from not upgrading doesn't mean school lunches
               | would.
               | 
               | TBH I'm a little skeptical of the payment system story,
               | it sounds oversimplified and might be agenda driven. All
               | our transit systems need payment system maintenance and
               | upgrades over time. Riders want & demand tap to pay, for
               | example. All costs cut into and balance against incomes,
               | but that doesn't mean they can opt out, nor that it will
               | save taxpayers in the long run. Keeping the old payment
               | system might have rising costs and lead to reduced
               | ridership over time, costs which may not have been
               | assumed in the story you shared. I doubt the payment
               | system is very significant compared to train cars, rails,
               | crossing lights & gates, employees, etc.
               | 
               | We tend to cherry-pick and arm-chair debate individual
               | budget items without seeing the big picture, in order to
               | justify the preconceived claim that governments are bad
               | at spending. Making families pay for school lunches is
               | pretty funny when taxpayers pay for the building, books,
               | teachers, and janitorial and food staff, the sum of which
               | is literally thousands of times more than lunch. Debating
               | the funding of school lunches is missing the forest for
               | the trees, right?
        
               | internetter wrote:
               | Hi, your last point makes me think that we're in
               | agreement that it's not worth making students pay for
               | lunch.
               | 
               | As for your other points, without annualizing it's
               | actually a fairly significant line item -- their budget
               | is about 3 billion. Annualized it's not as bad, but that
               | is hardly relevant as the fact of the matter is it costed
               | 934 billion. Why did cost that much? My best answer is
               | that a bid was held and cubic transportation systems won.
               | This does not mean that the price was reasonable, only
               | that cubic won. As for the new income, yes, that's true.
               | Trains will run slightly faster as people can board on
               | many doors above ground (free system also does this).
               | Ridership may increase thanks to tap to pay. I discuss
               | this. But they also have, on numerous occasions,
               | drastically overestimated the new revenue. Newer
               | estimates show that the systems enable more fare evasion
               | than before, cutting into profits.
               | 
               | My best guess as to why is mismanagement. After this was
               | approved the MBTA's management was overhauled for being a
               | circus.
               | 
               | If you want to write a data driven counter argument, I
               | would be more than happy to link to it at the top of my
               | piece and offer rebuttals
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | One of the "don't say the quiet part out loud" with transit
           | fares (which would NOT apply to school lunches) is that
           | transit fares are a convenient way to remove unwanted transit
           | enjoyers.
           | 
           | It is somewhat hard to define "being disruptive on the
           | subway" but it's easy to define "doesn't have a ticket".
        
             | jaggederest wrote:
             | We need votekick, but in real life. Clearly this is a
             | concept that could have no practical downsides...
        
               | 0max wrote:
               | You're reminding me of Team Fortress 2 server nightmares
               | from last year with all the hackers and bots
        
               | gs17 wrote:
               | Even before the bots, I remember MvM being unplayable if
               | you weren't with enough friends to make votekick
               | impossible (and that wouldn't stop them from trying, but
               | they'd ragequit themselves when no one votes yes, and
               | leave you down a player).
        
               | lmz wrote:
               | Don't you already have that? They get kicked to El
               | Salvador IIRC.
        
               | inetknght wrote:
               | That's not VoteKick, that's AdminBan.
        
             | mylesp wrote:
             | A solution that I have seen implemented and discussed is a
             | flat, very low fare. High enough to keep people off public
             | transit that are disrespectful of it, but low enough to
             | allow almost anyone to take it thus increasing ridership.
             | An added bonus is when using a transit card to tap on and
             | off, the statistics of ridership are still readily
             | available for governments to better plan infrastructure.
             | 
             | If you pick a low enough price you even decrease the number
             | of fare dodgers, which means that enforcing is not as
             | important or costly.
        
               | I-M-S wrote:
               | Even a very low fare still needs a huge and costly
               | infrastructure around to enforce it
        
               | ViscountPenguin wrote:
               | Here in Queensland we just paid $400 million for a
               | ticketing system that is now used entirely for 50c
               | tickets. The marketing line is that the fee is necessary
               | for analytics, but the cynic in me says that it's
               | probably a combination of secret contract negotiations
               | with a pay-per-tap component, and sunk cost fallacy.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | I liked it when the ticketing systems were the simple
               | ticket dispensers and maybe some transit cops checking
               | for your ticket.
               | 
               | Millions and millions for apps and taps and other
               | worthless junk is annoying, and the recovery barely pays
               | for the machines, let alone the lines.
        
             | kerkeslager wrote:
             | I've not been in a place with a functional transit system
             | where fares were high enough to prevent disruptive people
             | from boarding. I've seen rich people get onto Acela trains
             | obnoxiously drunk.
             | 
             | I have, on the other hand, seen transit operators (bus
             | drivers, mainly) kick people _who had paid fares_ off for
             | being disruptive. The definition of  "being disruptive on
             | the subway" does not seem to be the barrier you think it
             | is.
        
               | throwaway2037 wrote:
               | > I've seen rich people get onto Acela trains obnoxiously
               | drunk.
               | 
               | Were they disruptive?
        
             | Suppafly wrote:
             | It'd probably be cheaper to pay for guards to remove
             | disruptive passengers than it would be to implement a
             | ticketing system.
        
           | freehorse wrote:
           | Maybe I am too sick right now to understand your comment, but
           | isn't this an argument for actually making public transit
           | free or sth? If merely upgrading the system costs 10 times
           | the revenue? Isn't it what is actually argued about for
           | school lunches?
        
           | beng-nl wrote:
           | Pardon my nitpick, but the "fair" -> "fare" typo is in this
           | context more confusing than the average typo, so I thought
           | I'd let you know :-)
        
           | two_handfuls wrote:
           | Did you mean no? The question was about whether the
           | bureaucracy was worth it and you said yes, then show an
           | example where bureaucracy is not justified.
        
           | timewizard wrote:
           | > but our governments are awful at spending our money.
           | 
           | No. They're really good at it. There's a lot of kick backs,
           | deal making, and free tickets behind that purchase. You know
           | how hard it is, from the inside, to push through a billion
           | dollar long shot like that? Nearly impossible. Whoever did
           | this pulled a miracle to make that happen.
           | 
           | Our governments are bad at punishing corruption and graft.
        
           | gamblor956 wrote:
           | LA is upgrading its fare collection systems because the
           | alternative is for the rail cars to become homeless hotels.
           | 
           | Objectively speaking, the past several years (especially post
           | lockdowns) have demonstrated the folly of a fare-free system.
           | It only takes one homeless person misbehaving once to
           | permanently dissuade dozens or hundreds of other people from
           | ever using public transportation again.
           | 
           | In the past few months since LA has upgraded fare equipment
           | and begun checking for valid fares, drug use and property
           | crimes has fallen by over 3/4th. People have begun riding the
           | Metro again now that the homeless aren't using it to shoot
           | up. It has worked so well that they're expanding it to the
           | entire rail system over the next several years and trying to
           | figure out how they can do something similar with the buses.
        
         | tantalor wrote:
         | Pittsburgh Public Schools started doing this (free breakfast &
         | lunch) in 2014: https://www.pghschools.org/departments/food-
         | services/free-me...
         | 
         | This program replaces free & reduced-price lunch for qualifying
         | kids, with "free for everybody".
         | 
         | They directly cite reasons like increased participation and
         | better service (faster lines). It also cuts down on
         | administrative overhead (don't need to separately qualify each
         | kid). Another benefit is kids are not shamed for getting free
         | lunch, since everybody gets a free lunch.
         | 
         | It is a USDA program: https://www.fns.usda.gov/cn/cep
         | 
         | I'm genuinely worried the current administration will decide it
         | is a waste of money, or woke, or some other BS.
        
           | dzdt wrote:
           | Indeed universal free lunch programs are on the chopping
           | block. To my understanding the cuts are still at the proposal
           | stage though.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.chalkbeat.org/2025/03/12/house-republican-
           | budget...
        
             | tantalor wrote:
             | Thanks, I hate it
        
         | Kapura wrote:
         | I feel like there's the administrative overhead, but also every
         | child having food when they are learning is sure to be a
         | profound positive externality. The only outcome of having kids
         | to go to school hungry or receive substandard education is
         | keeping the poorer classes of society "in their place." This is
         | very gross.
        
           | piva00 wrote:
           | The issue is that the positive externality is _really hard_
           | to measure, and penny-pinching policies only care about what
           | is easily measured, it 's just another instance of the
           | McNamara fallacy.
           | 
           | As a non-American, reading about the welfare rules in the USA
           | feels absurd, there are so many overlapping programs with
           | distinct qualifications, rules, payouts, it simply cannot be
           | efficient to keep track of all of that for recipients. It
           | feels like the design is to make it as hard as possible to
           | keep track of what one is eligible to, it's designed to be
           | painful and unreliable.
           | 
           | There is a cultural thing in the USA about punishing poor
           | people, as if it's only through their own failure of
           | character that they are poor, instead of trying to help lift
           | the less fortunate ones the approach seems to be to punish
           | them in the hopes that will force them out of their
           | precarious position through some heroic individual action. It
           | simply isn't reasonable or has any basis in reality, probably
           | some weird cultural leftover from the religious nuts who
           | founded the country.
        
             | Kapura wrote:
             | You shouldn't have to measure the fact that feeding
             | children does good, and you should push back against
             | anybody who thinks you should (because they clearly don't
             | want all children to eat, a strong signal of fucked up
             | morality).
        
               | horacemorace wrote:
               | This so much. My HCOL area uses a hybrid approach: kids
               | can always eat regardless and can run up huge $$$ tabs.
               | The parents get pestered once it gets over a few hundred.
        
               | piva00 wrote:
               | I absolutely agree, I cannot comprehend why there's even
               | a discussion in the USA for not providing free hot meals
               | for students. Running tabs, pestering parents, all of
               | that sounds absurd for a very simple moral answer: yes,
               | kids should have access to food in schools, no matter
               | their wealth status. I don't even care about richer
               | parents getting free food for their kids at school, all
               | kids should be treated the same.
        
             | OneDeuxTriSeiGo wrote:
             | > It feels like the design is to make it as hard as
             | possible to keep track of what one is eligible to, it's
             | designed to be painful and unreliable.
             | 
             | This is an understatement. Florida's unemployment system
             | for example was designed intentionally to fail when too
             | many people tried to file for benefits to prevent them from
             | having to pay out. This of course blew up into a whole
             | scandal during covid when a bunch of people were suddenly
             | unemployed and all tried filing at the same time which is
             | how it officially came out that the system was designed
             | from the start to function like this.
             | 
             | https://www.npr.org/sections/coronavirus-live-
             | updates/2020/0...
        
           | FireBeyond wrote:
           | To make it worse, I believe that there have been incidences
           | where people have tried to do similar (pay off school lunch
           | debt) and the School District has refused, citing reasons
           | from "processing overhead" to "privacy".
        
         | insane_dreamer wrote:
         | I would say yes. In our state all public school kids are
         | eligible for free lunch by just signing up. What's the worst
         | that can happen? Some parents who could afford lunch get it for
         | free? I'd rather my tax dollars go to that than going to a
         | whole bureaucracy designed to ensure that only those who
         | "deserve" it get it.
         | 
         | As far as "rich people are getting free lunches!!!" argument.
         | 1) rich people for the most part send their kids to private,
         | not public schools. 2) rich people who can afford better
         | lunches than the school lunch are going to send their kid to
         | school with a lunch.
        
         | AzzyHN wrote:
         | Cruelty is the point sometimes as well
        
           | reassess_blind wrote:
           | Who's cruelty, and what's the motivation?
        
         | petesergeant wrote:
         | Yes, but that's Socialism, and son, this is an America.
        
         | tmpz22 wrote:
         | While we bicker this inane question a much vaster sum is being
         | transferred to the ultra wealthy from the public coffers.
         | 
         | Penny Rich Dollar Poor.
        
         | scotty79 wrote:
         | Food is way cheaper than any work. But the way it is today more
         | people can sit in their bullshit jobs and use them as excuse to
         | get money.
        
       | thinkingtoilet wrote:
       | It's astonishing this is a thing. I'm thankful to live in
       | Massachusetts where all kids can get lunch for free with no
       | questions asked. Where I live, kids can get breakfast too,
       | however I've heard that isn't universal in the state.
       | 
       | The article points out another issue that is so widespread. Often
       | times, being right above or below a cut off line can make a huge
       | difference and it's kids just above the cut off line here that
       | are suffering. I have a brother with disabilities and there are
       | "lines" drawn all the time with funding that are either all or
       | nothing. If you cross a line, you lose funding. It encourages
       | them to work less, save less money, and be more reliant on state
       | funding. Why haven't we figured out gradients yet? For example,
       | above this line you get 90% of costs covered. Above this line
       | 80%. Above this line 70%. etc... etc... etc...
        
         | candiddevmike wrote:
         | During COVID, school lunch was free, and most school served
         | free bag lunches over the summer too. That ended in June 2022.
         | Congress could've kept it going for a pittance, but alas...
        
           | thinkingtoilet wrote:
           | That's what happened in MA. It was COVID that started the
           | program and then we kept it up because we're decent people.
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | A lot of the country, majorities in many states, are not
             | decent people.
        
           | humanrebar wrote:
           | State government, local government, and local philanthropy
           | (like the chamber of commerce, etc.) could also buy lunch.
           | 
           | I'd rather keep the dysfunction of national politics away
           | from my kids' food, personally. At least I can reasonably
           | move if local dysfunction goes past tolerable levels.
        
           | tecirpinslime wrote:
           | My significant other work at a school during Covid where they
           | were giving free breakfasts and lunches. The waste I
           | witnessed from it all was atrocious, due to the fluctuations
           | from day-to-day how many students would come in. The staff
           | always wanted to err on the side of caution, because they
           | didn't want any kids to miss out. We're talking sometimes
           | over 200 lunches that were discarded in a day. Some things
           | could be reused, but a lot was thrown away. It was against
           | the rules to do anything but either give them to a student,
           | or throw them away.
        
             | mjevans wrote:
             | It sounds like there were a few problems identified.
             | 
             | * Against the rules to hand them out to non-students (even
             | after some priority window)
             | 
             | * Operating in an unusual context where relative load is
             | highly unpredictable
             | 
             | * No system of reservation to try to forecast load
             | 
             | There's also a bunch of data that's absent, like any
             | potential causes for the variable load. Plausibly it might
             | have been weather related, or related to families
             | participating in a cultural event that's special even if
             | they were celebrating in quarantine at home.
        
               | zdragnar wrote:
               | These problems aren't easy to solve.
               | 
               | The first is food regulation and safety law; the same
               | applies to restaurants who serve buffet style as well.
               | 
               | The second isn't going away. Attendance is spotty at best
               | in underperforming schools, in particular the ones that
               | need free lunch the most. Many kids also won't eat some
               | foods. The amount of waste just gets shifted from "too
               | much prepared" to "not enough served food was eaten".
               | 
               | The third is just an attempt to solve the second, but if
               | there was a system of reservation in place, it would
               | still be part of the problem- after all, what we're
               | trying to solve is that parents aren't utilizing the
               | already available free lunch programs because going
               | through the means testing is too much effort for them.
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | >The first is food regulation and safety law; the same
               | applies to restaurants who serve buffet style as well.
               | 
               | This, food waste is built into the system. It'd be nice
               | if it wasn't but every restaurant and cafeteria throws
               | away just as much food as they sell, most people just
               | don't realize it because they've never worked in food
               | service.
        
             | Suppafly wrote:
             | >The waste I witnessed from it all was atrocious, due to
             | the fluctuations from day-to-day how many students would
             | come in.
             | 
             | The waste is just a necessary component even in for profit
             | systems. It's still better to feed everyone than to not.
             | Even if the only thing you are allowed to do is to give to
             | students, then you send them home with several meals worth
             | to use up the leftovers.
        
           | newAccount2025 wrote:
           | It was a really nice time. One less chore to worry about
           | every night.
        
           | rufus_foreman wrote:
           | This is a problem. If you roll out a program to deal with an
           | extraordinary circumstance, some people think it should go on
           | forever even when the extraordinary circumstance is over.
           | They think it should be a welfare benefit forever.
           | 
           | Next pandemic, no government programs. None. We've seen how
           | it goes.
           | 
           | No benefits next time. People just try to turn it into
           | eternal government welfare programs.
           | 
           | I don't want eternal government welfare programs to deal with
           | temporary problems. Next time, no. No "temporary" government
           | programs.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | >to deal with temporary problems
             | 
             | Hungry children are not a temporary problem, and letting
             | them go hungry is only going to cause further problems down
             | the line.
        
         | vlovich123 wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | SamBam wrote:
           | Except it does the opposite, because it disincentives you
           | from raising your income above that line.
        
             | vlovich123 wrote:
             | The goal isn't to make it easy for you to escape the system
             | but more difficult under the theory that then you're more
             | self sufficient. It's a stupid philosophy of course.
        
               | humanrebar wrote:
               | Strawmen usually have stupid philosophies, yes.
               | 
               | The simpler and more convincing explanation is that
               | lawmakers write bad laws, regulators write bad
               | regulations, and everyone votes on hot button issues like
               | the economy, immigration, and trans athletes in sports.
               | School lunch policy details don't get enough attention.
        
               | apercu wrote:
               | > everyone votes on hot button issues like the economy,
               | immigration, and trans athletes in sports
               | 
               | Everyone votes emotionally on issues they don't even
               | understand (e.g, there is ~1 trans athlete out of 10,000
               | NCAA athletes right now, so why the hell is it even a
               | minor issue, let alone a national debate?).
        
               | dani__german wrote:
               | Because there is only room for 1 gold medal. Only room
               | for 1 silver medal. This is in Pool, which almost a best
               | case scenario for women to beat men and yet, in the UK,
               | its two former men gunning for gold and silver.
               | 
               | https://www.newsweek.com/trans-sport-pool-women-harriet-
               | hayn...
               | 
               | If you truly believe transwomen are women, then its
               | great. For anyone who doesn't share that arbitrary idea,
               | it looks like women's sports is basically over, at least
               | at the high end. Might as well get back in the kitchen,
               | huh? Even women's sports is a man's game now.
        
               | aaaja wrote:
               | Sports governing bodies in the UK are rapidly rewriting
               | their policies to stop these men from competing in
               | women's sports, after a recent Supreme Court judgement
               | ruled this amounts to unlawful sex discrimination against
               | women. So hopefully this ongoing insult to all the women
               | who've worked so hard to compete in their sport of choice
               | will soon be over.
               | 
               | That said, the ideal outcome would be apologies to every
               | female athlete affected by this, and for these men to be
               | retrospectively disqualified and stripped of any medals
               | or titles, with these instead being awarded to the women
               | who would have won had these men not been competing. I
               | doubt this will happen any time soon, but if those
               | running these competitions had an ounce of integrity and
               | sense of fair play, they would do.
        
               | apercu wrote:
               | I'll go back to there is ONE out of TEN THOUSAND so why
               | is this an issue trumping healthcare and the economy?
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | Having sex the night before a competition can increase
               | your testosterone levels, a known performance enhancing
               | chemical.
               | 
               | Should we ban sex for athletes? At a high school level?
        
               | vlovich123 wrote:
               | The problem is that sharp drop offs instead of gradients
               | are a known and well documented problem as is the desire
               | to get rid of the welfare state by one party. You don't
               | need to assume best intentions here when the GOP has
               | consistently made it clear where their priorities lie on
               | this topic. Oh and the GOP has constantly taken "starve
               | the beast" and weaponized incompetence approaches to try
               | and kill the programs they don't like.
        
             | mcphage wrote:
             | That's okay, because "teaches you self-reliance" is just a
             | fig leaf. They don't care if it actually happens or not,
             | the point is to have something to point to, so when they're
             | criticized they can hit back with "Why are you against
             | people learning self-reliance? Why do you want them to be
             | dependent on the government?"
        
           | MisterTea wrote:
           | If only those people knew the hardships some people face with
           | mental issues which hinder their ability to function normally
           | on a day to day basis. Some people cant pull themselves out
           | of bed let alone their bootstraps.
        
             | Onawa wrote:
             | The types of people who are against these social safety
             | nets don't care. Unfortunately, they will only care if it
             | directly affects them.
             | 
             | These people hold the mindset that if you are not disabled
             | and don't have any learning disabilities, you should be
             | able to pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
             | 
             | There isn't any room for nuance with them, they will just
             | call people who are neurodivergent "lazy" and "welfare
             | queens".
        
           | DisruptiveDave wrote:
           | "never attribute to malice what can be attributed to
           | incompetence"
        
             | mmastrac wrote:
             | I'm pretty sure this is malice. They know, they don't do
             | anything.
        
               | grimcompanion wrote:
               | It's way too simple to categorize behavior like this into
               | good/evil. It's a worthwhile thought experiment (and
               | habit) to assume that everyone is trying to do the right
               | thing, and try to understand how they might come to a
               | different viewpoint than you.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | Sorry, but my imagination is clearly not robust enough to
               | even begin to steelman a policy that puts children into
               | debt over near zero-cost food at school, often publicly
               | humiliating the child at the same time, without just
               | sounding like a cruel cartoon villain.
        
               | mmastrac wrote:
               | I don't believe any of this, but I'll try. Please note
               | that the below is not my personal belief, just an attempt
               | to understand the "other side":
               | 
               | The attempt to steelman the policy probably comes down to
               | encouraging personal responsibility (the libertarian
               | way). Forgiving debts without consequence promote a
               | culture of non-payment, undermining the sustainability of
               | school meal programs.
               | 
               | The steelmanned version of why lunches require payment is
               | likely down to sustainability of the program in general
               | (ie: school budgets are already stretched to the limit,
               | so parent contributions are necessary).
               | 
               | Now, this could obviously be solved by just budgeting for
               | the entire thing to be included in the overall taxes of
               | the state, but then you've got to surpass the hurdle of
               | tax raises being insanely difficult in the states.
               | 
               | Honestly, this exercise kind of makes me see (yet again)
               | how broken the whole USAmerican system is. "I've got mine
               | and I don't want to give any more away for something I
               | don't need"
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | OK, so you endorse a policy which not only creates human
               | suffering now but harms society and creates more human
               | suffering in the future. The cost of fixing it is
               | minuscule and outweighed by the future benefits.
               | 
               | What are the good faith arguments in favor of this?
               | 
               | - ignorance
               | 
               | - lack of critical reasoning skills
               | 
               | - religion
               | 
               | - sadism
               | 
               | - ?
        
               | explodes wrote:
               | How did they give you the impression they were endorsing
               | this?
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | Because that's who we're talking about?
        
               | grimcompanion wrote:
               | I absolutely don't endorse it. I just find it
               | counterproductive to say things like "malice is the
               | point".
               | 
               | I do have trouble finding good faith arguments in favor
               | of this policy. It is cruel. But the people who decided
               | to implement it aren't "other". They're humans who think
               | they're good people (aside from a small minority of
               | people who really don't care) and much as we'd like to
               | think so we're not that different than them. If we can
               | understand their justification, that's a step toward
               | actually convincing them there is another way. And yes, I
               | have changed many people's viewpoints with this level of
               | patience, not everyone is too stupid/mean/insult of your
               | choice to change their minds.
        
               | em-bee wrote:
               | assuming good will is the only way to get others to
               | listen and eventually change their mind. because only if
               | we have good will in common we are able to come to a
               | solution that satisfies both sides.
               | 
               | it's the continuous assumption of malice that prevents
               | people from listening to each other. and that is still
               | the case even if there is actual malice. almost by
               | definition, if you do not present the assumption for good
               | will to the other side, they will have difficulty
               | attributing good will to you, no matter whether they
               | themselves are acting are maliciously or not.
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | I didn't mean you personally.
               | 
               | The people who decided to implement the policy believe
               | that cruelty will create deterrence.
               | 
               | Persisting in this line of thinking despite centuries of
               | cruelty and no end to the undesired behavior is what
               | leads to sayings like "the cruelty is the point."
               | Psychologically, it's well understood there are those who
               | really get a kick out of making people suffer.
        
               | explodes wrote:
               | I really wish people would exercise more imagination
               | while applying the adage.
               | 
               | A cafeteria worker is likely doing what they're told to
               | do from the principal and board of education. They're
               | doing what they're told because of laws that have been
               | passed. At any point along this chain of human beings,
               | someone could be relying on their job to keep one of them
               | family members alive.
               | 
               | I know I'm throwing out a random scenario, and that
               | doesn't make it true, but there IS a story here, and it
               | is one that none of us will ever know. There are so many
               | human things that happen that people attribute directly
               | to malice, especially when they have very little
               | information.
               | 
               | Anyways. Point is. I really have a hard time blaming any
               | individual here (except perhaps lawmakers) no matter how
               | depressing the whole fiasco is. It is simply another
               | unfortunate consequence of rigid policies that have
               | serious impact.
        
               | potato3732842 wrote:
               | >I really wish people would exercise more imagination
               | while applying the adage.
               | 
               | It will never happen because additional analyzing would
               | pretty quickly make it obvious that the problems are
               | systemic and cannot be easily described by the kind of
               | partisan quips and advocacy for "obvious" or "easy"
               | solutions that dominate discussion of topics like this.
               | 
               | Basically any serious effort to understand and solve
               | these problems precludes general audience participation
               | and will therefore not be popular.
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | I think everyone understands the lawmakers (and by
               | extension the voters) are to blame.
        
               | wonderwonder wrote:
               | Have you started a local movement to pay for kids schools
               | lunches? If not, should we assume its due to malice as
               | you know there is a problem and "don't do anything"?
        
               | mmastrac wrote:
               | I don't live in America, I just watch from the sidelines,
               | sad at the state of the world's leader failing to be
               | rational about most every social issue.
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | Individually managed efforts doesn't scale.
               | 
               | If you were cynical you might think that is precisely why
               | some favor that solution.
        
               | bigstrat2003 wrote:
               | > If you were cynical you might think that is precisely
               | why some favor that solution.
               | 
               | On the contrary. Many people favor individually managed
               | efforts because they disagree with your premise, and
               | believe that such efforts scale _better_ than centrally
               | managed ones.
        
             | interactivecode wrote:
             | if feels like all too often malice is hidden behind the
             | veil of incompetence.
        
             | ToucanLoucan wrote:
             | There have been so many studies as to why... I mean
             | basically the entire social safety net in the United
             | States, back to front, doesn't work at all for any of it's
             | stated goals, that anyone who still believes this is the
             | way it should be run, just wants poor people to suffer. Or
             | they're too lazy to read.
             | 
             | There is deep, culturally entrenched ideas here about how
             | wealth is equated to goodness and righteousness, signs of
             | $diety's blessings on you, etc. etc. and nobody, absolutely
             | nobody is trying to unwind that. It's as American as Apple
             | Pie and Baseball.
        
             | r00fus wrote:
             | "any sufficiently advanced incompetence is
             | indistinguishable from malice"
        
           | potato3732842 wrote:
           | >Because cruelty is the point for some people.
           | 
           | It's not the people peddling cruelty, it's the system. Though
           | obviously people who personally are ok with or like that will
           | be better represented in such a system.
           | 
           | > Or said in their parlance, it teaches you self reliance or
           | to pull yourself up by your bootstraps.
           | 
           | Rephrased another way you're basically saying "it's not my
           | team doing that, it's the other team." And this is exactly
           | the kind of divisive garbage that perpetuates the system.
           | 
           | What these systems teach in practice is "don't you dare step
           | an inch out of line, no, intent doesn't matter, out of line
           | is out of line and will be punished" which in a perverse way
           | is exactly the kind of thing government schools will wind up
           | teaching because every bit you make those future adults more
           | likely to comply will pay dividends in reduced enforcement
           | over their lives. Support for that sort of crap generally
           | crosses party lines, as does opposition.
        
             | mschuster91 wrote:
             | > It's not the people peddling cruelty, it's the system.
             | 
             | The rules of the system are made by people. And yes, for
             | quite some of them the cruelty is the point when making the
             | rules.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | That's right. "The system" didn't just appear out of
               | nowhere. It's built by people--increasingly built by
               | people who believe the government should be used as a
               | tool to exact cruelty and humiliation on outgroups they
               | don't like.
        
             | apercu wrote:
             | > It's not the people peddling cruelty, it's the system.
             | 
             | I'd argue that recent elections demonstrate enough of the
             | people _are_ voting cruelty.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | It's rarely cruelty. It's usually bureaucracy and unintended
           | consequences and trying to be "nice".
           | 
           | Often you have a program created, with "free below X, sliding
           | scale until no subsidy at Y" - done right, this is "perfect"
           | in that each marginal dollar is lightly "taxed" (losing a
           | subsidy is the same as a tax, from the worker's perspective).
           | 
           | This is great! Though let's say (theoretically) that the end
           | result is a 1% "tax" for our family, so each dollar they
           | increase income costs them a penny of subsidy. They probably
           | have other subsidies besides school lunches, like WIC, or
           | ACA, or whatever. Those are also sliding down at various
           | amounts, which can cause it to start to get annoying. But it
           | works.
           | 
           | Then the program is expanded, to be "nice" - even nicer! Now
           | the subsidy is 100% below X, but they're going to also cover
           | 100% up to Y! That's great! Everyone is better off now ...
           | except now you have the situation where at Y + 1, you earned
           | one more dollar, but lost potentially thousands in subsidy.
           | This is NOT ACTUALLY WORSE than before, because at Y + 1 in
           | both scenarios you have no subsidy, but it _hurts_ much more
           | in the second because the subsidy wasn 't slowly being
           | drained.
        
           | thomascgalvin wrote:
           | While this is generally true of a certain American political
           | party, you see hard cutoff lines even in states like
           | Massachusetts, where the majority of voters and politicians
           | seem to be actively trying to make things better for people.
           | 
           | The real answer is that gradients are hard, and clear lines
           | are easy. A shocking number of Americans don't understand how
           | our income tax brackets work; they believe that if you cross
           | the line into a higher income bracket, your entire income is
           | taxed at that new, higher rate, and you end up losing money
           | overall.
           | 
           | Massachusetts, which has the highest percentage of college
           | educated citizens in the entire country, also shot down
           | ranked choice voting last year, because the math was too
           | hard.
        
             | mindslight wrote:
             | > _Massachusetts ... also shot down ranked choice voting
             | last year, because the math was too hard._
             | 
             | The math wasn't "hard" - it was wrong. The decision process
             | was to be instant runoff voting, which has significant
             | problems. IRV is basically what people stuck in the two
             | party mindset _think_ they want so they can express support
             | for a third party. But once a third party gains enough
             | traction to become viable, perverse incentives (strategic
             | voting) shows right back up again. What we really need is
             | Ranked Choice ballots with Ranked Pairs decision process.
             | This satisfies Condorcet which means that a winner is
             | preferred by the majority of voters.
        
               | wqaatwt wrote:
               | Or just multi-member districts with a proportional system
               | like STV..
        
               | mindslight wrote:
               | I'd definitely take that as well, but it's a much bigger
               | change. Especially of deep government dynamics like how
               | singular executives then get chosen by the
               | representatives.
        
             | vlovich123 wrote:
             | You're making the mistake assuming a political party is
             | flawless or that a political party having power somehow
             | obviates the need to be responsive to constituents who
             | might take issue or be swayed to take issue with the policy
             | changes you try to enact.
             | 
             | People like the ones I described exist in both parties but
             | I think it's telling that people assumed I'm talking about
             | one political party because it made those slogans it's
             | brand. The hard lines vs gradient doesn't make sense in
             | terms of public because this doesn't raise to the level of
             | public discourse.
             | 
             | Also Massachusetts is a bad example because they enacted
             | free lunches across the board. They may have gradient
             | issues in other welfare programs but school lunches is
             | something they've solved for now.
             | 
             | As for RCV being shot down, I don't think it's an education
             | issue. I personally prefer approval voting as it's simpler
             | to explain and faster results. Not wanting to switch to RCV
             | (specifically IRV) can have all sorts of reasons and
             | claiming it's because the electorate is dumb is the wrong
             | take I think.
        
             | r00fus wrote:
             | > Massachusetts, which has the highest percentage of
             | college educated citizens in the entire country, also shot
             | down ranked choice voting last year, because the math was
             | too hard.
             | 
             | That's the ostensible reason - the reality is that Blue
             | MAGA also really hates power challenges. Look no further
             | than CA where they _also_ shot down (even the possibility
             | for local elections to consider) ranked choice voting.
        
         | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
         | >I'm thankful to live in Massachusetts where all kids can get
         | lunch for free
         | 
         | What's the cost of living in Massachusetts again?
        
           | SamBam wrote:
           | The cost of living isn't a single number. A state like
           | Massachusetts, with a high cost of living for people with
           | high income living in or near Boston, can also have large
           | social services, like subsidized housing, good-quality public
           | education, free healthcare, and free school lunches.
           | 
           | It is true that this can end up having a donut hole effect,
           | where the middle classes are squeezed out of areas that they
           | cannot afford, and yet are too wealthy to qualify for social
           | services.
        
           | mbfg wrote:
           | the cool thing about cost of living is taxes tend to track
           | cost of living, so the ability for government to pay for
           | school lunches is likely similar anywhere.
        
             | criddell wrote:
             | In Texas, schools are primarily funded through property
             | taxes. That means wealthy neighborhoods have well funded
             | schools that can easily afford free lunches, poor
             | neighborhoods do not.
        
               | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
               | The thing I find more hilarious even than the -4 that my
               | original comment got, is that I wasn't talking about
               | taxes, but "cost of living". I was under the mistaken
               | impression that the term refers to the cost of groceries,
               | housing, fuel, utilities, and so forth, rather than
               | taxes. But I must have touched a nerve. Guess they don't
               | call it _Taxachusetts_ for nothing.
               | 
               | No one gets to live in that state unless they earn far
               | more than I do, or suffer the misfortune of having been
               | born their to parents too impoverished to leave decades
               | ago.
        
           | runako wrote:
           | Georgia resident here.
           | 
           | Our state income tax rate is 20% higher than that of
           | Massachusetts, and we don't provide free lunch to kids.
        
           | thinkingtoilet wrote:
           | Why do you ask?
        
             | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
             | Because it's strange to call the lunches free, when it
             | costs so much to live there. If I (for some reason) wanted
             | to move to Massachusetts to live there for the rest of my
             | life, you know, for those "free school lunches"... how much
             | would those cost me? Turns out that it's alot. And it's
             | magical thinking to suggest that for people already living
             | there that the cost is zero, they're already paying that
             | cost and have been for a long while. I can't prove it, but
             | these free school lunches are probably really expensive.
        
               | thinkingtoilet wrote:
               | Do you think I that I think that the lunches magically
               | appear and cost $0?
        
               | NoMoreNicksLeft wrote:
               | Do you use the word "free" to describe them? Do you use
               | that word ("free") even to mean that the recipient of the
               | lunch gets the lunch for no cost at all?
        
         | glitchc wrote:
         | Gradients would impose a significant burden on the bureaucracy.
         | It's already complicated enough to figure out where a person's
         | unique circumstances place them on various thresholds. Add
         | gradients and the complexity grows exponentially. The net
         | result would be a 100x increase in the number of public
         | servants.
        
           | interactivecode wrote:
           | why? income number input results in output number of support.
           | or you know it could just be a of their part time income %
           | with a fixed min and max. or something like a reverse income
           | tax.
        
           | lynndotpy wrote:
           | I don't think you should be getting downvoted, you are right.
           | I don't think it's "100x more", but more complicated rules
           | require more resources dedicated to their management.
           | 
           | It's one of the reasons people push for UBI. Welfare programs
           | waste a lot of money trying to make sure the "right" people
           | are getting it; UBI just gets rid of the waste.
           | 
           | The solution is simply: Make school lunch free for every
           | student.
        
           | _dark_matter_ wrote:
           | 100x? I think this deserves a bit of a deeper insight. The
           | inputs are the same, which means the verification steps are
           | also exactly the same. The only change might be volume, but I
           | highly doubt it would be 100x.
           | 
           | Outputs would change from bool to float between 0-1. That
           | much is relatively easy given a calculator.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | Gradients can impose a burden, but they can also be simple
           | enough to just "run with" - and many of them that are already
           | gradient-based are.
           | 
           | They just go off of last year's 1040, with overrides for "now
           | a thing happened" - like job loss this year when you made a
           | good amount last year.
        
             | trollbridge wrote:
             | You can reapply whenever your income changes (and generally
             | you are obligated to report such). At least in my state,
             | the system to do so is mostly automated, although they do
             | have a caseworker manually review such things. A good deal
             | of people who receive government benefits aren't filing
             | taxes at all, and they qualify for programs based on other
             | proof, like a pay stub.
             | 
             | I think steep gradients are OK, as long as they are not
             | over 100%. When someone is working and earning very little,
             | they need all the help they can get. As they earn more,
             | they need less help, and should start to shift to instead
             | contributing to helping others. There is probably some
             | ideal "ramp" that provides the right set of incentives. I
             | think 75% is probably too high.
        
         | GarnetFloride wrote:
         | Haven't you met people who refused a raise because they were
         | scared of moving to a new tax bracket? Same thing only this is
         | where it actually happens.
        
           | SSJPython wrote:
           | The only people that do this are ones that have no
           | understanding of marginal tax rates and progressive taxation.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Which is a surprisingly large percentage of the population.
             | 
             | Some huge number of people think "writing it off as a
             | business expense" means it's basically almost free.
             | 
             | Most people like receiving a big fat refund.
             | 
             | Many don't understand saving for anything, let alone
             | retirement.
        
             | ponector wrote:
             | Is it? There are situations where it makes sense to avoid a
             | rise and stay in the tax bracket. Like if with 5k rise you
             | loose a 10k childcare benefits provided by local
             | municipality.
        
               | maxerickson wrote:
               | Yes, the anecdote about misunderstanding a particular
               | thing may be broken if you introduce additional factors.
               | 
               | The absurd thing in your scenario is the steep cliff on
               | the benefit...this doesn't change the observation that
               | some people have absurd beliefs about how progressive
               | taxes are implemented.
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | That's not tax brackets though, that's income. Talking
               | about tax brackets is weirdly indirect way to talk about
               | income. The people who avoid raises because they think
               | they'll be taxed higher on all their income because they
               | don't understand how brackets work aren't the same people
               | who avoid raises because it'll cause them to earn too
               | much to be eligible for government assistance programs.
        
             | creer wrote:
             | > no understanding of marginal tax rates and progressive
             | taxation.
             | 
             | Which is how some parts of US taxation works, but not other
             | parts. You seem to be in one part, and unaware of the rest.
             | 
             | (And is a mix of taxation and other "eligibility" issues,
             | with poorly advertised massive cliffs here and there for
             | extra helpfulness).
        
               | fortran77 wrote:
               | There may be some cases--if a person is on the edge of
               | being eligible for SNAP, or for SSDI for a dependent
               | adult in their houshold, where getting a raise might
               | actually make them poorer. It's wrong to say people do
               | this because they're too stupid to know about marginal
               | tax rates.
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | My state fixed this so the marginal rate was never over
               | 100%, but there is a rather wide range where the marginal
               | rate is about 75%. For every dollar you earn, you keep
               | 25C/, and are paying in 75C/ in the form of getting fewer
               | refundable tax credits, food stamps, energy bill
               | assistance, and so on. (If I include the energy bill
               | assistance, the marginal rate is 85% in a few bands.)
        
         | jacknews wrote:
         | "It's astonishing this is a thing."
         | 
         | Indeed, any decent modern society should provide free quality
         | education, and that should include free quality meals.
         | Especially the richest country in the world.
        
           | ponector wrote:
           | Free education means no one will value it. Education should
           | not be free, just cheap. However there should be help and
           | assistance to people who wants to get an education but cannot
           | afford it.
           | 
           | Same with food. Subsidize it for everyone. Cannot pay? Serve
           | few hours to the local community and get a meal. There should
           | be no starving people anywhere in the world.
        
             | jacknews wrote:
             | "Free education means no one will value it"
             | 
             | Ridiculous.
             | 
             | Of course, if it's free, then it's just the default, and
             | some people will strive to be better than 'the masses' and
             | pay for private education.
             | 
             | But in any case, your whole society gets decently educated,
             | which makes everyone richer, in every way.
        
               | ponector wrote:
               | I'm from a country where university degree can be easily
               | obtained for free. As a result:
               | 
               | 1. Students usually are not interested in attending
               | classes, like at the middle school. 2. Bachelor/masters
               | degrees means nothing as everyone has one.
        
               | jacknews wrote:
               | There's a big difference between 'degree for free' and
               | 'education for free' I think.
               | 
               | One is just worthless paper, the other is equal
               | opportunity for everyone to actually attain the standard
               | required for a degree.
        
               | ponector wrote:
               | But education without a degree already is free and
               | accessible for everyone everywhere where internet is.
               | Free courses, free books, free lessons!
               | 
               | During my student years I could only dream of attending
               | lectures from Stanford or MIT! Nowadays they are at your
               | fingertips anytime you want.
        
           | trollbridge wrote:
           | America provides food stamps that provide groceries to those
           | who need it.
           | 
           | However, I'm not sure it is the responsibility of a "decent
           | modern society" to provide free quality meals to the
           | populace. How far does this go? Does the government need to
           | run restaurants? Vouchers to use at restaurants? I'm not
           | convinced restaurants are even serving necessarily "quality
           | meals".
           | 
           | I think a program providing groceries is a good idea, with
           | some additional support for the rare cases of people who are
           | completely unable to prepare meals from groceries.
        
             | jacknews wrote:
             | I didn't say free restaurants for everyone, that's a
             | ridiculous extrapolation.
             | 
             | But it is the responsibility of a decent modern society to
             | ensure kids get at least a basic level of care and
             | education. Morally, and in fact in the interests of having
             | a decently educated and functional society.
             | 
             | For foodstamp groceries, are you expecting the kids to
             | prepare their own lunch? It seems like another callous
             | 'personal responsibility' argument.
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | Our "decent modern society" already does this, because
               | the government SNAP program guarantees that anyone for
               | whom the standard food budget is not met by their income
               | receives government support.
               | 
               | Groceries, however, are expected to be bought by parents
               | and then meals prepared for their children. I don't
               | expect children to prepare their own lunch, but I do
               | expect their parents to - and the same for breakfast,
               | dinner, and snacks. I consider not doing this to be a
               | rather serious form of child neglect. Correcting this
               | problem would be another responsibility of a "decent,
               | modern society", although usually the best way to do that
               | is to require parents to go to parenting classes and get
               | help to overcome their neglect.
        
               | jacknews wrote:
               | Again, just provide the kids themselves with decent (not
               | stratified) meals, rather than tying it to parental
               | responsibility or otherwise. It's like you're trying to
               | make a mean society.
        
               | trollbridge wrote:
               | How are children in such situations supposed to get
               | breakfast and dinner?
               | 
               | I'm not arguing against universal school lunches here. I
               | am arguing against the idea society should somehow be
               | providing prepared meals, unless "society" includes
               | "children's parents".
        
         | dredmorbius wrote:
         | Gradients introduce a tremendous measurement problem.
         | 
         | It's more efficient to provide services gratis (think of
         | community-funded fire, police, education, and parks services),
         | and apply the measurement problem to the revenue side through
         | progressive taxation of income or assets (wealth).
         | 
         | This also creates a larger political constituency for the
         | service as _everyone benefits_. This was the thinking behind a
         | universal social security system, rather than providing a
         | needs-based system.
         | 
         | There's a fair argument for abandoning free market principles
         | when one considers both that children are literally outside the
         | market (they have no independent wage or income), and that the
         | positive externalities of rearing and educating children
         | redound on the local community. (Well, net of out-migration /
         | brain drain, which is in fact A Thing, and not a minor
         | consideration in many cases.)
        
           | dredmorbius wrote:
           | Oh, and there's the deadweight loss of those who _would_
           | qualify for a benefit (under law) but fail either to jump
           | through the proper bureaucratic hoops, or who _do_ hoop-jump,
           | but are still denied benefits, whether through bureaucratic
           | error, inefficiency, corruption, or other reasons.
           | 
           | TFA describes the first circumstance.
           | 
           | Patio11 has noted that the optimum level of fraud is non-
           | zero, a point picked up by Cory Doctorow as well:
           | 
           | Patio11: <https://www.bitsaboutmoney.com/archive/optimal-
           | amount-of-fra...> (HN discussion:
           | <https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38905889>).
           | 
           | Doctorow: <https://doctorow.medium.com/https-pluralistic-
           | net-2025-04-24...>
           | 
           | Means-tested benefits are something you _really_ want to
           | think through before advocating. Gradient-benefits or
           | sliding-scale benefits are forms of means testing.
           | 
           | I don't know if there's well-developed theory of when means-
           | testing should or shouldn't be applied. There are some
           | surprising arguments from surprising positions (a quick
           | glance at the beginning of this _National Affairs_ article,
           | from a conservative position, is _against_ means-testing,
           | though it 's also critical of social welfare programmes
           | generally:
           | <https://www.nationalaffairs.com/publications/detail/means-
           | te...>).
           | 
           | I'd suggest that means-testing / sliding scale works _better_
           | or is _more appropriate_ where:
           | 
           | - It's applied locally rather than globally, to small
           | populations in regular contact and where even eyeball
           | assessments are likely roughly accurate.
           | 
           | - Where resources and/or services offered are limited.
           | 
           | Provision of sliding-scale services (healthcare, dental,
           | vision, legal assistance) often falls under such cases.
           | School lunches _might_ , but the risks of abuse and long-term
           | community harm are high.
        
         | kbelder wrote:
         | And there may be many unrelated programs that fully cut funding
         | at nearly the same level, making it a compounding problem. You
         | might lose several benefits the moment your household income
         | moves from 149% of poverty level to 151%, for instance.
         | 
         | But, also, that's because there isn't one monolithic agency
         | that's in charge of all benefits... and that may be a good
         | thing.
        
       | msravi wrote:
       | Do different kids get different meals in US schools? I mean for
       | non-medical or dietary purposes? The article doesn't seem to be
       | very clear on that... Is it that when the school's debt gets to a
       | certain point, all kids' meals are replaced by "alternative
       | meals"? Or do some kids' meals only get switched? If so what is
       | the deciding criterion?
        
         | infecto wrote:
         | I can remember at least in High School that usually happens.
         | None of it is healthy or good but you are allowed choice.
        
         | stephencanon wrote:
         | Varies enormously between states and school districts.
         | 
         | In our public elementary school, there are two or three options
         | each day: a hot meal of some sort, some days a hot vegetarian
         | meal, and a salad bar that kids can choose what they want from
         | (which usually includes some options that you wouldn't call
         | "salad").
         | 
         | It's not fine dining, but the quality and variety is generally
         | pretty decent. The kids have accounts, and parents are expected
         | to refill a negative balance, but every kid gets the lunch of
         | their choice regardless.
        
         | mbfg wrote:
         | Only kids who can't afford the "regular" meals get switched to
         | alternative meals.
        
           | trelane wrote:
           | Only in some places. In others (like ours) they can keep
           | buying lunch when they've a debt. The kid just can't buy side
           | items (junk food like cookies, ice cream, chips, soda)
           | 
           | This is not a universal.
        
         | neolefty wrote:
         | > When the school's debt ...
         | 
         | It's not the school's debt, it's individual families. If they
         | fall behind on lunch fees, their children have to eat cold
         | meals.
         | 
         | > Do different kids get different meals in US schools? I mean
         | for non-medical or dietary purposes?
         | 
         | Depends. US schools are run by the states, so it varies from
         | place to place. As other commenters have said, some states just
         | fund lunch so debt isn't an issue. I'm sure some accommodate
         | dietary requirements & preferences more than others.
         | 
         | My experience was that if you have specific requirements that
         | the school can't meet, you just bring your own lunch. If you're
         | lucky enough to have organized parents.
        
         | maxlybbert wrote:
         | I believe the current rules ( https://www.fns.usda.gov/nslp )
         | require the schools to make some effort to avoid certain
         | allergens.
         | 
         | When my children were in school, their school said that anybody
         | who didn't have lunch would be given a "sun butter" sandwich
         | and food from the cafeteria. I wasn't familiar with sun butter;
         | it's peanut butter made from sunflower seeds, because people
         | allergic to peanuts may not be allergic to sunflower seeds.
        
       | airstrike wrote:
       | This is the most poignant article I remember reading in recent
       | years. Wow. Thank you for sharing.
        
       | infecto wrote:
       | Nit: could not stand the writing style. It took 3-4x more words
       | than it should have.
       | 
       | On the topic I agree and believe strongly that all kids should
       | receive free food at school. It amazes me people will fight to
       | prevent when to me the costs are small but the benefit can be
       | huge for the next generation.
        
         | alwa wrote:
         | It frustrates me when advocates get righteous about something
         | that they only imagine and don't take the time to see for
         | themselves (while claiming it's widespread and easy to
         | observe):
         | 
         |  _"I never actually witnessed this scene myself, but I've
         | interviewed enough lunch ladies, principals and kids to
         | construct a sort of composite mental image that now plays on an
         | endless loop between my ears. It's become my own personal film
         | of educational injustice, frame by frame, in high-definition
         | slow motion: the momentary confusion on the child's face, the
         | hushed explanation from the cashier, the sudden understanding
         | dawning in the kid's eyes, the burning shame that follows."_
         | 
         | And from that, cooking up an opening paragraph precipitated on
         | "witnessing" it, and Nuremberg-like somber intonations about
         | the banality of _"the ritual humiliation of second graders.
         | It's watching the adults in the room -- ordinary, decent people
         | who'd never dream of snatching food from a child in any other
         | context -- perform this strange ceremony with the mechanical
         | resignation of DMV employees, while around them life continues
         | uninterrupted, because this is just How Things Are."_
         | 
         | ==
         | 
         | He _didn't_ witness this. He talked to people who were
         | heartsick about it happening at all. Even in his imagined
         | example, the kid doesn't go hungry, the kid gets a sandwich
         | instead of an institutional pizza slice.
         | 
         | The adults I remember from situations like this would
         | absolutely go out of their way to treat kids with dignity--I
         | remember foodservice workers seeking out any kids who still
         | looked hungry to slip them leftover hot food from the line, and
         | in some cases workers or counselors or teachers covering kids'
         | meals themselves.
         | 
         | Dunning lunch debt is probably a silly way to run a program,
         | but there's no honest policy assessment here. I don't see why
         | school lunch _shouldn't_ be free at the point of service, but I
         | also don't know why it _isn't_ under the status quo. I bet it's
         | not raw sadism. The pearl-clutching seems to focus on behaviors
         | that are unsubstantiated at best.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | It's good to remember that AI isn't the only thing that
           | hallucinates scenarios.
        
           | em-bee wrote:
           | he talked to kids. how many kids to you have to talk to
           | before you can make a picture? maybe the kids didn't get
           | hungry, but if they tell you they felt humiliated, then that
           | is what happened. the kid still knows. the other kids know.
           | it doesn't matter if people went out of their way to avoid
           | that. it doesn't matter that the story given is just an
           | anecdote. teachers covering for kids are anecdotes too.
           | 
           | you can be the most courteous about helping a kid out, and it
           | may be that in many cases that avoids humiliation, but in
           | some it doesn't. and that's enough to make that picture.
           | 
           | and don't think that people working in schools can't be
           | humiliating. i have had to experience it at least once
           | myself. not because of lunch money but something else, but
           | that's besides the point.
           | 
           | also how exactly are they supposed to see for themselves?
           | it's not like they can just walk into a school and hang out
           | during lunch until they see it happen.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | >the kid doesn't go hungry, the kid gets a sandwich instead
           | of an institutional pizza slice.
           | 
           | Unless it's gotten a lot better from when I was in grade
           | school, the "alternative meal" was the bare minimum they
           | could get away with (it was a piece of white bread with
           | cheese, although it sounds like now the standard is a seed-
           | butter sandwich). It doesn't exist to feed the kid, it exists
           | to shame them, and any nutrition provided is a happy
           | coincidence.
           | 
           | I had to get it once as a kid (although my parents didn't get
           | a bill) and it was too embarrassing to even eat. Even at a
           | table with all your friends you feel like an outsider through
           | no fault of your own.
        
         | anon84873628 wrote:
         | Because that's what makes it a "story" people will remember,
         | rather than just a few more sad statistics about our society
         | that people will see and then forget.
        
           | infecto wrote:
           | Disagree. The story rambled forever. The substance was good
           | but it fits into a few paragraphs, the rest was word filler
           | imo.
        
       | dataflow wrote:
       | I'm confused about the mechanics of the process here. Could
       | someone explain how paying off the lunch debt translates to hot
       | meals? I'm confused because the fact that a continuous debt --
       | however the amount -- means your expenses exceed your revenue. So
       | even if you pay it off... doesn't that mean when doors open
       | tomorrow, there'll be new debt, and thus the problem will still
       | recur? Or is the idea that the debt was decreasing?
       | 
       | Edit: Fixed some misunderstanding in my comment.
        
         | neolefty wrote:
         | It's not the school that's in debt, it's individual families
         | who owe money to the lunch program.
         | 
         | But yeah, the problem you point out -- families can go into
         | debt again -- is real, I think.
        
           | dataflow wrote:
           | Thanks for explaining. I somehow had my wires crossed and
           | couldn't figure out what was going on. Updated the comment to
           | address that.
        
         | maxlybbert wrote:
         | The federal government provides money to schools so that
         | schools can provide low-cost food in their the cafeterias. The
         | food provided has to meet nutritional standards (
         | https://www.fns.usda.gov/nslp ). The federal government also
         | sends some actual food to the schools (
         | https://www.fns.usda.gov/usda-fis ). Honestly, even with the
         | subsidy and supplies, it's hard to imagine how the schools
         | provide much food.
         | 
         | Students from low income families can qualify for completely
         | free lunch, and others can qualify for drastically reduced
         | prices for lunch.
         | 
         | I don't know if there are any federal requirements about how to
         | handle students who forget or lose their lunch money, or
         | students who normally bring their lunches to school but somehow
         | forget or lose them. Most schools will have a specific policy,
         | such as providing the food to the student and requesting the
         | money later. The "debt" in question is between the school and
         | the student, not between the school and its suppliers.
         | 
         | There is a relatively new policy (maybe ten years old) that
         | schools with a large number of low income students can provide
         | free breakfast and lunch to all students (
         | https://www.fns.usda.gov/cn/cep ), so school lunch debt would
         | be an issue in areas doing just a little better than that.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | When you're a student you get a card or pin or something to
         | identify you to the school cafeteria.
         | 
         | You have a balance it charges against. In theory, when it hits
         | zero, no more food for you.
         | 
         | But that's impractical because kids are bad about just about
         | everything, and so denying food because they forgot to remind
         | their parents to recharge the thing is harsh. So the system
         | lets them go into "debt" and still get a lunch.
         | 
         | And it doesn't really stop, but the school will often put up a
         | bit of a fight over final grades or diploma to try to get the
         | debt paid off, but often it just gets written off.
        
           | dataflow wrote:
           | Thank you! This clarifies a ton.
        
           | mindslight wrote:
           | Based on the article it seems like there is another level of
           | enforcement here where once there is significant "debt", they
           | take away the kid's hot lunch and give them a cold lunch
           | instead. (and presumably this all happens at the cash
           | register after the kid already has a hot plate of food in
           | front of them)
        
       | labrador wrote:
       | My mother suffered severe post-partum depression when I was 7 so
       | I got my 5 year old brother and I off to school most mornings in
       | the 60's. Thankfully I grew up in California so we were never
       | food shamed unlike some states that still think lunch debt is a
       | moral failure.
        
       | andreicap wrote:
       | My poor country (Moldova) just implemented free lunches for kids
       | in primary and middle schools.
       | 
       | What is the reason US doesn't have this already at federal level?
        
         | rdtsc wrote:
         | Very little at primary school level is controlled federally.
         | It's mostly state and school district based. That has both good
         | and bad ramifications but it's just how it is.
        
         | klodolph wrote:
         | If Moldova were a US state, it would be the 35th largest state,
         | by population.
         | 
         | Most of these programs are done state-by-state in the US.
         | Because the US is so large, it takes a large amount of
         | political willpower to push programs out at the federal level.
         | Education is mostly handled on a state-by-state basis. The
         | funding split is around 90%/10%, with 90% handled by the state
         | and 10% federal. (That may be changing.)
         | 
         | As a rule of thumb, it makes more sense to compare countries in
         | Europe against individual states in the US, rather than
         | comparing countries to countries.
        
         | boxed wrote:
         | Same reason they have expensive university, extremely expensive
         | healthcare, for profit prisons, etc, I guess. There's a dog-
         | eat-dog mentality over there which is quite puzzling to us
         | Europeans.
        
           | compootr wrote:
           | > mentality
           | 
           | individualism; I think people in our crazy state of states
           | tend to be only interested in what they want, and no other
           | interests
        
             | okanat wrote:
             | Europe has quite a bit individualism too. Maybe even more
             | when people can freely express themselves without judgment,
             | you know.
             | 
             | But to have individualism for everybody, everybody needs to
             | eat and have a dignified life.
             | 
             | Cutting less lucky people's food and healthcare for penny
             | pinching, or worse religiously followed ideology isn't
             | individualism. It is sadist selfishness. It kills
             | individuality of large swaths of people for a tiny
             | minority's extravagant and boringly repetitive habits.
        
         | tarxvf wrote:
         | Because the US is really 50 small countries in a trenchcoat
         | that aren't all on the same page of the script.
        
         | healsdata wrote:
         | There's a significant number of people in the US who view any
         | safety net as a handout and don't want others to get something
         | for free that they themselves aren't getting.
        
         | llm_nerd wrote:
         | My rich country that is often accused of "socialism" (Canada)
         | has no real lunch program at any school level. Kids pack and
         | bring their own lunch, though a lot of high schools have a
         | bespoke cafeteria where you can buy some fries or a burger, it
         | operates more like a restaurant than a meal plan, and
         | elementary/middle schools don't have kitchens at all.
         | 
         | With four kids I've made a lot of lunches over the years.
         | 
         | More recently schools have started "nutrition club" kind of
         | things for kids that fall through the cracks, but it is mostly
         | just things like nutrigrain bars or apples.
         | 
         | So it kind of varies.
         | 
         | I don't want any child to go hungry, but it is unfortunate that
         | school meal programs usually seem to involve prison-style
         | terrible food. I did see a program on Italian lunch programs
         | and that stuff was just amazing.
        
           | sitkack wrote:
           | I am in the states, my elementary school had excellent cooked
           | food, the middle school was slightly less good, but it had a
           | great salad bar.
           | 
           | High school was like eating at a truck stop. But it did have
           | a salad bar that was excellent, although myself and Lisa
           | Simpson were the only students that used it.
        
           | trollbridge wrote:
           | I have the same observation in Canada. There seems to be way
           | less "benefits" in terms of things like the food stamps
           | program in America. I am a bit appalled at the situation with
           | some acquaintances of mine in Ontario who simply struggle to
           | afford food each month; they don't make a great deal of money
           | but they just do not qualify for any assistance. Food banks
           | are not well stocked either.
           | 
           | Meanwhile in my quite red state, a family at the 20th
           | percentile of household income with 1 kid will get $480 in
           | food assistance per month, which is basically enough to
           | afford groceries to stay afloat.
           | 
           | My son's school is private but has a "free lunch" program
           | (apparently paid for out of grants and involving the local
           | grocery store's deli); we send him with a lunch we pack
           | ourselves because we prefer he not eat Goldfish and apple
           | juice boxes every day.
        
           | Suppafly wrote:
           | > (Canada) has no real lunch program at any school level
           | 
           | It's always crazy to learn that you guys are so different
           | from us when you dig into the details of things.
        
         | atonse wrote:
         | In the US, schools are managed at the state level, not the
         | federal level. There are occasional grants given to states to
         | run certain school programs, but states really run the show.
         | 
         | Which is why I'm actually not sure why certain states don't do
         | this. Like richer states like Maryland, Virginia, New York,
         | California.
        
           | gensym wrote:
           | California did recently start doing this, and some other
           | states are following suit. https://frac.org/wp-
           | content/uploads/HSMFA-Report-2024.pdf
        
           | throwaway7783 wrote:
           | California claims to be the first state to provide free
           | school meals to all children in 2022-2023
           | (https://calbudgetcenter.org/resources/universal-school-
           | meals...)
        
           | nobody9999 wrote:
           | >Which is why I'm actually not sure why certain states don't
           | do this. Like richer states like Maryland, Virginia, New
           | York, California.
           | 
           | Not sure about other states, but...
           | 
           | All NYC public school students can have free meals[0]:
           | 
           | "New York City Public Schools offers free breakfast, lunch
           | and afterschool meals to all NYC public school students
           | during the school year."
           | 
           | As for NY State -- well, better late than never[1]:
           | 
           | "Universal School Meals: Governor Hochul Announces Free
           | Breakfast and Lunch for More Than 2.7 Million Students in New
           | York as Part of the 2025 State of the State"
           | 
           | To be fair, free and reduced price meals were already
           | available across NY state, but with a means test[2]:
           | The School Breakfast and Lunch Programs are federal programs
           | providing free,         reduced or full priced breakfast and
           | lunch at participating schools         throughout New York
           | State. In New York State the New York State Department of
           | Education administers these programs, and local schools
           | operate the programs.         The meals are the same for all
           | children regardless of payment category, and         schools
           | are not permitted to identify students who get free or
           | reduced-price         meals.                  Eligibility
           | Meal Categories  Eligibility        Free  Income up to 130%
           | of poverty ($39,000 for a family of 4 annually)
           | Reduced (no charge to student)  Income up to 185% of poverty
           | ($55,500 for a family of 4 annually)        Full price* -
           | paid by family  Income over 185% of poverty ($55,500 for a
           | family of 4 annually)
           | 
           | [0] https://www.schools.nyc.gov/school-life/food
           | 
           | [1] https://www.governor.ny.gov/news/universal-school-meals-
           | gove...
           | 
           | [2] https://otda.ny.gov/workingfamilies/schoollunch.asp
        
         | ipsum2 wrote:
         | Most states have free or reduced priced lunch for those who are
         | low-income. The families who can afford to pay, do.
        
         | AngryData wrote:
         | Because the US is run by wealthy people and highly corrupt. If
         | it isn't a problem for those with money, nothing will change.
         | Look at all the major problems the US has and nearly every one
         | of them can be easily walked around if you have a lot of money.
         | Expensive healthcare? Well I got money. Overzealous police
         | force? Well in an expensive neighborhood cops don't dare
         | harass/extort random citizens. Harsh and exploitive justice
         | system? Money will bleed to courts dry until they give up.
         | Shitty local schools? Private education. Shitty infrastructure?
         | Buy large SUV and generator. Polluted water? You can get good
         | water delivered or run a whole-house reverse osmosis system.
         | 
         | It is highly inefficient, but if you are on top of the wealth
         | pyramid none of that matters to you. Average citizens however
         | can't afford all of that.
        
       | cpursley wrote:
       | That's very kind. Now if we can start getting some real food into
       | American school instead of SNAP Slop. If France and South Korea
       | can manage it, we can as well.
        
       | senectus1 wrote:
       | (I'm in Australia) I dont understand why this concept of schools
       | providing lunches ever became a thing...
       | 
       | Why did this idea ever take off?
        
         | neolefty wrote:
         | Do you mean you always have to bring your lunch to school with
         | you, in Australia?
         | 
         | I went to a weird high school in the US where that was the
         | case. They just didn't have a lunch room, so everybody sat in
         | the hallways at lunch time. But yeah, all the other schools
         | I've heard of provide lunch. Most offer breakfast as well, as
         | an option.
        
           | senectus1 wrote:
           | correct. most schools have canteens you can buy lunch from...
           | but the "norm" is for every kid to bring recess and lunch
           | foods every day. Keeping the bloody crows from getting into
           | your bag and eating it is an added challenge that most rise
           | to fairly easily.
           | 
           |  _note_ its also expected that you 've already had breakfast
           | before you arrive at school.
        
         | icegreentea2 wrote:
         | School lunch programs across the world get setup and
         | perpetuated for a variety of reasons. They also have a variety
         | of funding models.
         | 
         | For the US specifically, major federal programs began during
         | the Great Depression as a two for one combo. It solved the
         | direct problem of... people being poor and their kids not
         | having food/lunch, and it also provided a reasonable supply
         | sink for the government to buy out supply from farmers to help
         | keep things going.
         | 
         | Anyhow, since then for a variety of reasons, subsidized/free
         | lunches have stuck around. Primarily because the underlying
         | problem (food insecurity) has not been adequately solved.
         | School lunches also tends to be amongst the more politically
         | palatable/defensible forms of welfare in the United States,
         | since its very structure and beneficiaries make it harder to
         | criticize.
         | 
         | So while expansion of SNAP or other programs that might help
         | tackle general food insecurity might run into headwinds, most
         | of those arguments tend to falter when it comes to feeding
         | children directly at school. For example, it's hard to argue
         | that getting free lunches at school would encourage "abuse and
         | malaise" amongst students. Similarly, since the composition of
         | lunches tend to be under control of the supplying organization,
         | there's reduced concern of people spending their assistance on
         | "luxuries".
        
           | dredmorbius wrote:
           | I'd looked up and read a few articles on the topic whilst AFK
           | after reading GP comment above.
           | 
           | Among those:
           | 
           |  _TIME Magazine_ , "School Lunch in America: An Abbreviated
           | History" <https://time.com/4496771/school-lunch-history/>
           | 
           | Wikipedia, "School meal programs in the United States" <https
           | ://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_meal_programs_in_the_Un...>
           | 
           | PBS, "The History of School Lunch"
           | <https://www.pbs.org/food/stories/history-school-lunch>
           | 
           | And a 1971 PDF from the US Department of Agriculture (Dept.
           | Ed. hadn't yet been created), "History of the National School
           | Lunch Program" <https://www.fns.usda.gov/nslp/program-
           | history> [PDF]
           | 
           | icegreentea2's summary is brief but accurate. There was some
           | earlier Progressive Era (~1890--1915) work largely at the
           | city level (Boston and Phladelphia), and through volunteers
           | and charities.
           | 
           | The Great Depression emphasized the scope of the problem, and
           | WWII raised it to a level of national security (under-fed,
           | malnourished, and poorly-educated children cannot grow to
           | defend the country).
           | 
           | The period also parallels growth of secondary (high-school)
           | education from a small fraction of children (~6% of 18-year
           | olds claimed a high school diploma in 1900, that grew to
           | roughly 95% by 1950, where it's largely held since:
           | graduation rates and graduate test scores tend to balance off
           | one another, as one rises the other falls, both are fodder
           | for much political jawboning). Education statistics are
           | presented in "120 Years of American Education: A Statistical
           | Portrai" published by the US Department of Education (1993) <
           | hhttps://www.google.com/books/edition/120_Years_of_American_E
           | ...>
        
           | senectus1 wrote:
           | fascinating and horrifying.
        
         | pjc50 wrote:
         | Nutrition is an important precursor to education. It saves time
         | and effort of the parents providing individual lunches, as well
         | as guaranteeing a certain minimum level. There's always a few
         | kids whose education is impacted because they're not well fed,
         | due to poverty or chaos at home.
        
         | triceratops wrote:
         | If the government forces you to be someplace, under threat of
         | imprisonment for your parents, then they'd better at least feed
         | you.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | The US has discovered that there's a substantial portion of the
         | population (which for this could be 1%, 10%, 20% whatever) who
         | is really bad at raising kids, basically. If the school doesn't
         | provide lunch, the kids would simply not eat any lunch. So they
         | provide lunches, because it's easier than handling the fallout
         | from some kids not eating, etc.
         | 
         | As a child I never had "provided lunch" but I also went to
         | private school; we didn't even have any option through
         | elementary (grade 8, about 12). High school had a greasy burger
         | joint (think: high school football game concession stand) but
         | that was it.
         | 
         | Providing lunches involves enough work that providing
         | breakfast, too isn't much more expensive.
         | 
         | (The programs may have started for other reasons but the above
         | is usually why they _continue_. It 's also hard to stop doing
         | something like "provide kids food" once you start.)
        
           | senectus1 wrote:
           | >The US has discovered that there's a substantial portion of
           | the population (which for this could be 1%, 10%, 20%
           | whatever) who is really bad at raising kids, basically.
           | 
           | I'm a center-lefty, but America appears to be mostly right
           | and I find it fascinating that this is just "accepted".
           | 
           | Why does America just accept that some (a large enough number
           | that most schools have to feed them) people cant raise their
           | kids?
        
             | lesuorac wrote:
             | Are you going to require people get a license to procreate?
             | 
             | Or perhaps are you saying that the government should
             | provide a nanny to everybody that can't raise their kid?
        
               | gs17 wrote:
               | We already have a system where the government can send
               | "child raising inspectors" to your house and potentially
               | take away your children. It's dysfunctional, yes, but it
               | exists.
        
               | senectus1 wrote:
               | this is not the only alternative....
               | 
               | What I see is a cultural/community problem.
        
             | FireBeyond wrote:
             | Because for a not insubstantial portion of America, they
             | see it as their "Christian duty".
             | 
             | I see people on Facebook who refer to their kids,
             | unironically, as "future warriors for Christ".
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | at what time do kids in australia come home from school? for
         | comparison in germany the average school day is 4-6 hours,
         | depending on age. in the US it is 6-8 hours. in germany kids
         | usually come home for lunch. in the US they usually don't.
         | those two hours make a big difference in what kind of food the
         | kids need to bring to school. in germany a snack is enough.
         | that's easy for parents to accomplish. kids in the US need a
         | real meal for their lunch break in school. but cooking food in
         | the morning that kids can carry and eat 5 hours later? even
         | wealthy parents don't have time for that.
        
           | senectus1 wrote:
           | start at 9 am finish at around 3pm
        
       | phkahler wrote:
       | >> But what if the truth is that we need all of these approaches
       | simultaneously? What if paying off a specific child's lunch debt
       | today doesn't preclude advocating for a complete structural
       | overhaul tomorrow? What if the emotional resonance of specific,
       | concrete actions is precisely what builds the coalition necessary
       | for systemic change?
       | 
       | That might happen, but I hate to say that another possibility is
       | people come to _expect_ that someone will just pay the debt.
       | Where unpaid bills may look like some kind of problem, a lack of
       | unpaid bills looks like things are fine and no change is needed.
       | Short term solutions are best implemented along with long term
       | ones. But to the authors point, you gotta start somewhere or
       | _nothing_ will happen.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | when i considered whether patching up the problem might be
         | counterproductive i realized that the people who benefit from
         | those payments and who might come to expect that the debt will
         | be paid are not the people who would go out to fight for a
         | solution anyways. the caterers are not going to lobby for a
         | change, they'll just continue to refuse to feed children who
         | haven't paid or they'll haunt the parents for payment because
         | in their eyes it's the parents who are at fault. and those
         | parents don't have any power or resources to change something
         | either. they are busy making ends meet.
         | 
         | but patching up the problem involves new people. people who do
         | have more resources and are thus actually capable of lobbying
         | for change. and that's exactly what seems to happen.
         | 
         | also, a simple law change just to enforce that all children get
         | the same food, whether it's paid or not, even without any
         | funding moves the incentive for the caterers to lobby for more
         | funding. so even that would be a win.
        
         | Smeevy wrote:
         | >[...] that another possibility is people come to expect that
         | someone will just pay the debt. The last few months are making
         | me respond to that question with "so what?" I would rather that
         | earnest efforts to reduce human misery accidentally benefit
         | someone undeserving rather than to allow those problems to
         | continually get worse.
         | 
         | Heck, I'm even ready for brand new unforeseen problems arising
         | from those efforts. After decades of being lectured about the
         | myriad slippery slopes that come with "too much" charity I'm
         | ready try taking a slide down one or two for a change. We've
         | been trying nothing for a long time and it doesn't seem to have
         | much effect.
         | 
         | Please note that I'm absolutely not disagreeing with you and I
         | apologize in advance if my tone comes across as strident.
        
       | giancarlostoro wrote:
       | > $835.
       | 
       | > ...
       | 
       | > It was less than some monthly car payments.
       | 
       | I'm not sure what kind of car, but that's way above any car
       | payment I've ever had to pay. ;)
        
         | criddell wrote:
         | According to this site [1], the average car payment is $724.
         | 
         | [1]: https://www.lendingtree.com/auto/debt-
         | statistics/#:~:text=Th...
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | Interesting, I think so far I've only had used cars, but even
           | so my wife has a newer car than I do, bought it brand new,
           | and she's paying below that threshold so it surprised me to
           | hear that amount.
        
         | m-hodges wrote:
         | I just popped over to Honda's website and clicked through on a
         | new CR-V. I went with the EX trim which is the 2nd cheapest of
         | six available trims. After clicking next on every screen
         | without adding any upgrades, it offered me $33,745 MSRP with
         | 36-month financing at 2.49% APR, which came to $1,035/month.
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | For 3 years? Yeah that makes sense, but if you do 40k (think
           | SUV / upgraded mid-sized car) at 70 months, at 5% its in the
           | 750 range a month, which is still not quite that high. I
           | can't imagine most people do 3 year car loans.
        
             | FireBeyond wrote:
             | Yeah, I have to imagine that the convergence of:
             | 
             | - people buying new
             | 
             | - but looking for the cheapest trims
             | 
             | - on an aggressively short loan
             | 
             | is particularly large. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a fan of
             | the 108 month or more loans starting to show up, but still.
        
         | SSJPython wrote:
         | Car payments have skyrocketed since the pandemic due to the
         | massive increase in prices and the increase in interest rates.
        
       | klntsky wrote:
       | It always felt strange to me that although the US is clearly a
       | guilt-driven culture, it has shame-based mechanics of control
       | when it comes to finances. May it be due to protestant
       | christianity losing its former position of influence? So that
       | more archaic forms of human behavior control take precedence?
        
         | fred69 wrote:
         | Shame is the Protestant enforcement mechanism for guilt.
        
         | nobody9999 wrote:
         | >May it be due to protestant christianity losing its former
         | position of influence?
         | 
         | Nope. At least not AFAICT. In fact, it seems to have a lot to
         | do with the Prosperity Gospel[0] which, IIUC is a Protestant
         | thing.
         | 
         | The primary tenets of that are (others please do correct me if
         | I mis-state this) that if you are a devout servant of Christ,
         | you will be rewarded with riches on this Earthly pale. If
         | however, you are not sufficiently devout, you will _not_ be
         | rewarded.
         | 
         | As such, if you're rich, you're a decent, devout Christian. If
         | you're not, you are insufficiently devout or just downright
         | evil and, as such, you _deserve_ your poverty.
         | 
         | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prosperity_theology
        
         | jccalhoun wrote:
         | It is capitalism. If you fail it is your fault. Don't question
         | the system. You just need to work harder like those rich people
         | who were born slightly less rich.
        
       | ItsBob wrote:
       | In The Peoples Republic of Scotland, all primary kids get free
       | lunches now, I think (Primary is aged 4/5 to 11/12).
       | 
       | When it was introduced, my son was in P1 or 2. We spoke to the
       | head and asked if we could pay for our son's lunch as we didn't
       | need the freebie. She said there was no way to pay for it: it was
       | free whether you wanted it or not.
       | 
       | Crazy.
       | 
       | I'm a rampant capitalist, every man for himself and all that but
       | there is something about denying kids the fundamentals, like
       | shelter, food etc. that rubs me up the wrong way. There should
       | never be a situation where they are denied proper lunches. Never.
       | 
       | School lunch debt is an adult-designed problem that we shouldn't
       | be passing onto kids.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | What I've seen which works decently well is an official policy
         | of charging, and a policy of free for those in need, and then
         | just cancelling or writing off the "debt" for those that
         | didn't/couldn't pay.
         | 
         | One state's form of children's medicaid or whatever it is bills
         | a "please pay this amount" each month, but the bill has a note
         | that says "not paying this won't affect your coverage" and the
         | coverage is granted not on whether you paid, but your financial
         | situation. So the end result is the "bill" is actually an
         | optional payment.
         | 
         | At least in the USA, if you ever think you were wrongly given a
         | tax or other financial advantage, you can donate the largess
         | back to the government:
         | https://www.pay.gov/public/form/start/23779454 (yay they take
         | Venmo)
         | 
         | I couldn't find something directly for Scotland, and I know
         | that assuming the UK is the same thing has caused spicy
         | reactions before, but this does exist:
         | 
         | https://www.dmo.gov.uk/responsibilities/public-sector-funds-...
        
       | mproud wrote:
       | I love living in Minnesota.
       | 
       | Walz passed the Free Meals for School Kids Program[^1] at my
       | elementary school, no less! about two years ago.
       | 
       | I'm happy that other states are finally realizing, _gee, this is
       | such a straightforward issue we could actually solve._
       | 
       | [^1] https://education.mn.gov/MDE/dse/FNS/SNP/free/
        
         | rufus_foreman wrote:
         | >> gee, this is such a straightforward issue we could actually
         | solve
         | 
         | Shifting the cost from the parents who had the kids onto the
         | taxpayers is not solving the problem.
         | 
         | It's making people who didn't cause the problem subsidize the
         | people who did cause the problem.
         | 
         | That's not solving the problem.
         | 
         | It's making sure there will be more problems.
        
           | gecko6 wrote:
           | I don't have kids, and will never have kids, but even so I
           | don't see people whose children are being denied food as a
           | problem that the children's parent's caused. I see hungry
           | kids who can't learn because they're distracted by hunger as
           | the problem, and I will gladly pay taxes to see that they
           | don't go hungry.
        
           | bnj wrote:
           | It's hard to tell from your comment whether you mean the
           | lunch debt is the problem, or the kids are the problem.
        
           | AngryData wrote:
           | Without kids living and being born and learning and becoming
           | productive members of society your lifestyle would not exist
           | and current economic models would collapse in a handful of
           | years.
           | 
           | You are shooting everyone including yourself in the foot
           | because you personally don't need to walk places.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | "and current economic models would collapse in a handful of
             | years."
             | 
             | It's possible that's not a bad thing considering they're
             | built on excessive consumption and an ever expanding
             | population.
        
               | AngryData wrote:
               | I would agree that current models are crap, but what kind
               | of alternative would actually be viable with dumber, less
               | healthy, and a shrinking population? We could do with one
               | of them, maybe two if we are just scraping by for time,
               | but all three? That is a one way ticket to a collapse
               | that wouldn't be overcome for many generations.
        
             | timewizard wrote:
             | > and becoming productive members of society
             | 
             | Child labor was legal until 1930. It has been a part of
             | society for longer than it hasn't. I think your calculus is
             | a little off.
             | 
             | > your lifestyle would not exist
             | 
             | Because /some/ children struggle to eat enough? Which,
             | again, has been a norm in our society for longer than it
             | hasn't. We didn't fully get rid of horses as beasts of
             | burden in agriculture until the 1950s.
             | 
             | > you personally don't need to walk places.
             | 
             | Carrying everyone who can't walk is not a universal good.
             | Particularly when some of those people can't walk because
             | of a tiny, temporary, and highly solvable problem.
             | 
             | Now you have people who make it their career to carry
             | people. Their motivations are to carry as many people as is
             | possible. If we actually made it so no one had to be
             | carried they would be out a job.
             | 
             | We live in a world of odd incentives. There is no point at
             | which abandoning the middle way will benefit you,
             | regardless of how pretty those ideas sound.
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | > Child labor
               | 
               | Are you serious.
               | 
               | > Because /some/ children struggle to eat enough?
               | 
               | They said "without kids", not without this particular
               | program.
               | 
               | > Carrying everyone who can't walk is not a universal
               | good. Particularly when some of those people can't walk
               | because of a tiny, temporary, and highly solvable
               | problem.
               | 
               | > Now you have people who make it their career to carry
               | people. Their motivations are to carry as many people as
               | is possible. If we actually made it so no one had to be
               | carried they would be out a job.
               | 
               | These are children. Someone is carrying them no matter
               | what.
        
               | timewizard wrote:
               | > Are you serious.
               | 
               | Yes. I'm calling into question the idea that modern
               | treatment of children is responsible for the world we
               | live in. Clearly it is not given the relative scarcity of
               | it in our history. I'm not saying we shouldn't give
               | children a free lunch just that the OPs reasoning was
               | rather lofty and detached from history.
               | 
               | > They said "without kids", not without this particular
               | program.
               | 
               | They're replying to someone with the obvious implication
               | that this program is in some way critical to children
               | "learning and becoming productive members of society."
               | 
               | > Someone is carrying them no matter what.
               | 
               | Now are you serious? Do parents consider it their career
               | to raise their own children? Does this career have the
               | effect of increasing the number of children they care for
               | in exchange for greater profits?
               | 
               | Which is why I invoked incentives. The tragedy here being
               | that schools consider their primary obligation to the
               | child and not to the family. So when parents are in a
               | situation where they cannot care for their children
               | successfully, for whatever reason, we completely ignore
               | the core problem and instead patch over it. Worse it can
               | sometimes create negative stigma for the child and work
               | to further destabilize their living situation.
        
               | j16sdiz wrote:
               | Extended families, charity and churches exists long
               | before public school exists.
               | 
               | They have been taking similar role before the industrial
               | revolution.
        
               | Dylan16807 wrote:
               | > I'm calling into question the idea that modern
               | treatment of children is responsible for the world we
               | live in.
               | 
               | > They're replying to someone with the obvious
               | implication that this program is in some way critical to
               | children "learning and becoming productive members of
               | society."
               | 
               | They were not saying it's "critical" or that the specific
               | treatment of children is responsible for anything.
               | 
               | It was a very simple argument that everyone should care
               | about children growing up well because we need them.
               | 
               | > Does this career have the effect of increasing the
               | number of children they care for in exchange for greater
               | profits?
               | 
               | This doesn't make any sense. I understand your incentive
               | argument but what is Big Lunch going to do, make pro-
               | birthrate propaganda? We're already sending children to
               | schools and expecting them to eat the school lunch by
               | default. It doesn't matter who pays as long as the school
               | has motivation to reduce costs.
               | 
               | > The tragedy here being that schools consider their
               | primary obligation to the child and not to the family. So
               | when parents are in a situation where they cannot care
               | for their children successfully, for whatever reason, we
               | completely ignore the core problem and instead patch over
               | it.
               | 
               | It would cost so so much more to do that, and while I
               | agree that it would be good, fixing poverty is super far
               | outside the scope of a school's job.
               | 
               | > Worse it can sometimes create negative stigma for the
               | child and work to further destabilize their living
               | situation.
               | 
               | This is an argument for giving all students free meals.
               | No stigma.
        
           | bobsomers wrote:
           | For fucks sake, this is a heartless take.
           | 
           | Having not-starving kids is beneficial to literally everyone
           | in the community, not just the kids who use the program.
        
           | inetknght wrote:
           | > _Shifting the cost from the parents who had the kids onto
           | the taxpayers is not solving the problem._
           | 
           | No, but it's well documented that students who eat lunches
           | generally perform better.
           | 
           | > _It 's making people who didn't cause the problem subsidize
           | the people who did cause the problem._
           | 
           | Sorry buddy, but you won't find a lot of sympathy from people
           | who actually care. School lunches *are not expensive*, and
           | there are plenty of parents who are in poverty and literally
           | cannot _afford_ to pay for their child 's lunch.
           | 
           | Should the child starve? No. I strongly believe that anyone
           | who thinks a child should starve, for whatever reason, does
           | not belong in civilized society.
           | 
           | > _That 's not solving the problem._
           | 
           | You're right, it's not. But you also don't offer a different
           | suggestion. How will you solve poverty? How will you solve
           | neglect?
           | 
           | Until you offer suggestions for that, your comment strikes me
           | as coming from someone who (at best) is sociopathic in a bad
           | way and (possibly) someone who does not belong in
           | civilization.
           | 
           | > _It 's making sure there will be more problems._
           | 
           | Perhaps.
           | 
           | But you could also consider it as several different types of
           | investments in the future.
           | 
           | An investment, at the mere cost of one child's meal per day,
           | is an investment whose return is in the form of that child's
           | future taxes; the lack of investment is instead the death-by-
           | starvation of that child and loss of that child's future
           | income and/or business taxes.
           | 
           | An investment, at the mere cost of one child's meal per day,
           | is an investment in that child's care for their fellow
           | person. Children who _have been there_ (in poverty and
           | starving); who have literally had only one meal per day, are
           | more likely to be more empathetic to the plights of the
           | people (not just children) around them in similar situations.
           | You should hope that, if you 're in such a situation, that
           | you could find someone who would be willing to help you.
           | 
           | An investment, at the mere cost of one child's meal per day,
           | _does_ solve problems. Most parents are happy to be able to
           | afford that investment themselves, but some parents --
           | through pride or neglect or other reasons -- are unable to
           | afford that much. Why do you think you shouldn 't help them?
        
           | jccalhoun wrote:
           | One of the best ways to reduce crime and drug addiction is
           | education. Hungry kids don't learn well. Feeding kids so they
           | can concentrate on learning prevents problems not creates
           | them.
        
           | gs17 wrote:
           | > It's making people who didn't cause the problem subsidize
           | the people who did cause the problem.
           | 
           | Hate to turn into Helen Lovejoy here, but won't you please
           | think of the children? The victims of the problem are the
           | children. You're trying to punish the parents, and the kids
           | get caught in the crossfire.
        
           | delfinom wrote:
           | I will blow your fucking mind.
           | 
           | The entire economic future of you and all the taxpayers
           | depends on those kids growing up.
           | 
           | Our entire economic structure is a ponzi scheme at global
           | scale. It depends on kids growing up and cashing into the
           | stock market so people can cash out of their 401ks.
           | 
           | So why not ensure those little gremlins and nice and plump
           | when they grow up so we can retire more easily.
        
             | rufus_foreman wrote:
             | That's your argument? I have to finance other people's kids
             | because otherwise the ponzi scheme collapses?
             | 
             | Let it fall. No more ponzi schemes.
        
           | fritzo wrote:
           | Honest question: are you a Malthusian? If so, what do you
           | think is the ideal birth rate?
        
           | 0xbadcafebee wrote:
           | If you care so much, make some suggestions for solutions?
        
       | searine wrote:
       | Childhood nutrition and Lead exposure are the two highest impact
       | issues that can be easily solved to improve life-time outcomes,
       | and yet we don't fix it.
       | 
       | It is mind boggling that we leave kids starving in america, and
       | we are going to pay for it for decades.
        
       | wonderwonder wrote:
       | Pretty depressing. I'm pretty right wing but kids should always
       | be taken care of. I'll happily pay more in property tax to cover
       | school lunches and kids medical.
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | property taxes go to schools in your own area. would you also
         | support that taxes be redistributed to other areas that don't
         | have enough tax income and where people can't afford higher
         | taxes? because as i see it, that is the real problem in the way
         | schools in the US are funded. (i am hoping/assuming your answer
         | is yes, but i think the distinction is important and needs to
         | be pointed out)
        
           | wonderwonder wrote:
           | Honestly my answer is no. I want my property taxes to ensure
           | that my kids get the best possible start.
           | 
           | My money supports my kids and those kids that live in my
           | area. I would say yes to paying more property tax to support
           | my local schools to an even greater degree. I am in no way ok
           | with my kids school funding getting reduced to fund other
           | areas. I specifically moved to this area for the good
           | schools.
           | 
           | I would be ok with an additional penny of sales tax to fund a
           | statewide program to ensure all kids have access to food.
        
             | trelane wrote:
             | You can always give your government (including schools)
             | extra money if you think they need it more than you do, or
             | if you think they can use it better than than you can.
             | 
             | Taxes just force everyone else to give the government
             | money.
        
       | rpcope1 wrote:
       | Surely it can't be that expensive to just provide every child
       | living in our country that so desires/needs it three decent meals
       | a day, regardless of their situation? That one has always
       | confused me, if our country is actually prosperous and powerful,
       | that something as simple as that seems like a given that would be
       | embarrassing not to provide.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Let's assume (bad assumption, but it should be good enough for
         | the math) that a Happy Meal(tm)(r)(c) is a decent meal.
         | 
         | It costs about $6 around here, so let's say without toy it's
         | $5.
         | 
         | https://www.childstats.gov/americaschildren/tables/pop1.asp
         | says there are 71 million kids.
         | 
         | $466 billion a year.
         | 
         | Ok, ok, that is maybe too high. Let's assume a wonderful world
         | where you can produce a meal for a dollar (less than the local
         | school district).
         | 
         | $77 billion a year.
        
           | frakt0x90 wrote:
           | The price you pay at the kiosk is not the cost of production.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Which is why I calculated an upper and lower bound. It's
             | hard to argue it would be MORE expensive than McDonalds-
             | for-all and hard to argue it would be much cheaper than a
             | buck-o-meal.
        
           | ryoshoe wrote:
           | Based those calculations every child could be fed for less
           | than 10% of the DoD's annual budget of $849.8 billion.
           | 
           | https://www.defense.gov/News/Releases/Release/Article/370341.
           | ..
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Apparently in 2022 the school lunch portion of the federal
             | budget was $29 billion.
        
             | airforce1 wrote:
             | Yeah but we currently have a $2T deficit. We could do all
             | sorts of good for "less than 10% of the DoD's annual
             | budget", but we are already spending far more money than we
             | bring in. The DoD's budget needs to be reduced by like 50%
             | (along with a lot of other departments/programs) to have
             | even a hope of getting debt under control, let alone
             | introducing new "think of the children" expenses
        
           | vharuck wrote:
           | If a school lunch is served for free, then parents who would
           | have bought that lunch now get to keep the money. If we would
           | raise taxes to fund these programs, it's possible the
           | majority of people could actually save money.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Nothing else changing, the families who were paying for
             | lunch would come out ahead (they lose the expense, but
             | taxes are over EVERYONE, and most people don't have school-
             | aged children).
        
           | Suppafly wrote:
           | >It costs about $6 around here, so let's say without toy it's
           | $5.
           | 
           | Sure but half of that is profit, so it's a silly thing to
           | even mention. If you are using bad faith exams intentionally,
           | it's a good sign that your comment is being made in bad
           | faith.
           | 
           | >$77 billion a year.
           | 
           | I'm not sure you how go to 77 billion from 71 million kids,
           | but whatever, if that's what it costs we should do it.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | 71,000,000 * 3 * 365 = 7.775x1010
             | 
             | 77,745,000,000
             | 
             | A dollar a meal, three times a day, three sixty five days a
             | year. Pretty simple.
        
         | RankingMember wrote:
         | > something as simple as that seems like a given that would be
         | embarrassing not to provide.
         | 
         | It's confusing (and embarrassing) because, in the grand scheme
         | of government spending, it is something that could be (and
         | _should_ be) easily provided without any strings attached. If
         | literal 10-year-old Richie Rich is dropped off at school in a
         | helicopter, he should still be able to get a free lunch: that
         | 's how simple it should be. Adding means-testing of stuff like
         | this is what cocks the whole thing up and makes it doubly
         | expensive.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | Where I went to grade school, I don't recall a peanut butter
       | sandwich option. If you didn't bring a bagged lunch, and you
       | wanted to eat lunch, you had to spend your recess time washing
       | trays. Which I did sometimes.
       | 
       | Sometimes, adults want children to go through the same "character
       | building" rituals that they did. For example, working some kind
       | of job, to supposedly teach values about hard work and
       | responsibility.
       | 
       | Other times, adults don't want to subject kids to "character
       | building" that they went through. For example, enduring bullying.
       | Or working a crappy job, while their schoolmates played sports,
       | socialized, did extracurriculars, or got a decent night's sleep.
       | 
       | On this one, my opinion is: Just feed the children already. Stop
       | stomping them harder with class inequality, and conditioning them
       | to accept that as normal, from a young age. I'd rather have
       | children be raised to reject class inequality -- as unfair,
       | greedy, cruel, and dumb. And more immediately, I want children to
       | be fed, and to get other basic care.
        
       | hshdhdhj4444 wrote:
       | > It's larger in that the entire structure of how we feed
       | children at school is a tangle of federal programs, income
       | thresholds, paperwork requirements, and local policies
       | 
       | If DOGE was anything other than an attempt to entrench executive
       | control and execute performative cruelty, this is the stuff it
       | would be tackling.
       | 
       | There are so many arbitrary conflicting policies that each only
       | make things slightly less inefficient to the point where it
       | doesn't make sense to spend the energy fixing them, but put
       | together they really add up to tangible and significant
       | experiences in people's lives.
       | 
       | An "all of the above" concentrated effort that looks at
       | everything together, and then makes a list of suggestions to
       | consolidate and harmonize policies that Congress can then pick
       | through for the ones they agree upon on both sides of the aisle
       | and pass quickly and unanimously would make a massive difference.
       | 
       | Sure, it may take a year instead of a few months to achieve this,
       | but the changes would be beneficial, non destructive, and
       | lasting, none of which can be said of even a generous perspective
       | of what was actually done.
        
       | mixmastamyk wrote:
       | One thing I don't like about the free lunch but never mentioned
       | is that it is by necessity very cheap food, and that means
       | carbage.
       | 
       | Try getting a kid to eat vegetables when processed bread products
       | are being handed out at school. Healthy eating pretty much
       | stopped that year. Which is a shame because it's not expensive.
        
       | giancarlostoro wrote:
       | I love stories like this one. It reminds me of my college years
       | when I partook in a non-profit that was started by my aunt /
       | uncle where we fed the homeless. I learned then that anyone can
       | just step in and do something right in society, you don't have to
       | waste hours, days, months, and years waiting for daddy government
       | to do it.
        
         | dredmorbius wrote:
         | Yes and no.
         | 
         | The _scale_ at which governments can organise, and (despite
         | much protestation to the opposite) the _efficiency_ with which
         | it can do so, really is unmatched.
         | 
         | Even the word's wealthiest individuals and families (save a few
         | which function as states, e.g., the House of Saud, or some
         | royal families) pale next to the level at which large advanced
         | national governments can operate. The Gates Foundation, one of
         | the largest philanthropic organisations in the world, is
         | "rattled" by the present US administrations threat to its
         | mission:
         | 
         | <https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/gates-
         | foundation-i...>
         | 
         | The NGO / non-profit space _does_ do a great deal of good work,
         | and as it 's decentralised it's difficult to disable all of it
         | all at once. Though curtailments of major benefactors,
         | ironically national governments in the present moment, or
         | should I more accurately specify _one specific government_ ,
         | can wreak havok at international scale.
         | 
         | But NGOs are inefficient, often work at cross-purposes, suffer
         | from corruption, and often have staggering administrative and
         | overhead ratios, with only a _minority_ of raised funds
         | reaching active operations. The Tiny Spark podcast has been
         | discontinued but has an excellent back-catalogue detailing many
         | of the problems with philanthropic charities and welfare
         | projects:
         | 
         | <https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tiny-spark/id505053432>
         | 
         | So, yes, you can strike out on your own, and I'd really hate to
         | discourage anyone from doing so. But you can do far more if you
         | link up with others. And governance is really the technical art
         | of linking up with others.
        
           | giancarlostoro wrote:
           | When you target local issues, and don't wait for the behemoth
           | to get to it, I think you'll agree, that you can be
           | drastically more effective. Now if we could get people to do
           | this at scale as discrete orgs, maybe that would prevent some
           | of the churn and issues we see when orgs get too big.
        
         | jccalhoun wrote:
         | These stories about acts of kindness like a recent one where a
         | senior citizen was given a speeding ticket while taking his
         | adult handicapped son to the doctor are really just stories
         | about how the society in which they take is broken. If the
         | system wasn't broken then we wouldn't need strangers to pay off
         | student lunch debt and the senior citizen father would have
         | someone to take his son to the doctor.
         | 
         | When Breaking Bad was on there was a comic strip about how in
         | any other developed country Walter White would have went to the
         | doctor, gotten the cancer treated, and went on with his life.
         | 
         | Edited to add: I knew there was a term for this but I couldn't
         | think of it.: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/orphan-crushing-
         | machine
        
           | FireBeyond wrote:
           | > When Breaking Bad was on there was a comic strip about how
           | in any other developed country Walter White would have went
           | to the doctor, gotten the cancer treated, and went on with
           | his life.
           | 
           | As the saying goes, "Healthcare is such a complex problem
           | that only 32 of the 33 developed countries in the world have
           | solved it."
           | 
           | I don't get where the "33" number comes from and don't
           | inherently agree, but the point? Yes. As someone who is or
           | has been a citizen of the UK, EU, Australia and the US.
        
       | freehorse wrote:
       | I feel like this has already been discussed before one million
       | times more than the simplicity of the issue should require.
       | 
       | Any income etc based coupon system is inefficient and
       | automatically excludes a big portion of children that such
       | measures are supposed to be for, eg because a lot of them come
       | from families that are too dysfunctional to apply for those,
       | ignorant of them due to language and other barriers, or because
       | of (perceived or not) social stigma. And while adults are
       | considered responsible for their own lives, it is a total moral
       | bankruptcy for a society to have their children starve for their
       | parents dysfunction. At the same time, providing free lunch to
       | children at school solves/eases _a lot_ of social, health and
       | other issues all at once, for a cost that is basically peanuts
       | compared to how impactful it can be.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "it is a total moral bankruptcy for a society to have their
         | children starve for their parents dysfunction."
         | 
         | Sounds like child services should take those children then? If
         | they can't apply for the lunches, then surely they aren't
         | getting food at home, nor the proper medical care.
        
           | anttihaapala wrote:
           | Yes, and while waiting for the child services to intervene
           | then those children would still be starving.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | I think you underestimate how quickly they can get involved
             | (not always a good thing).
        
           | vineyardmike wrote:
           | > Sounds like child services should take those children then?
           | 
           | This is a HUGE, dangerous leap.
           | 
           | > If they can't apply for the lunches, then surely they
           | aren't getting food at home, nor the proper medical care.
           | 
           | Plenty of parents (and plenty of people generally) just
           | aren't aware of social services but are quite aware that
           | they're supposed to feed and care for their children. Plenty
           | more forget to fill out paperwork and return phone calls.
           | Many states' governments actively make applying for welfare
           | and support difficult or inconvenient - plenty of parents
           | can't take the time to return paperwork in person, make phone
           | calls during the workday, etc. Needing support - either
           | welfare or just kindness and assistance - is not a moral
           | failure and not a sign of a bad parent.
           | 
           | Beyond that, CPS wouldn't necessarily provide a great life
           | for the child. There is a lot of difference between an
           | imperfect parent and a danger to a child. Oh, and of course,
           | CPS is a lot more expensive to run than a few meals. Giving
           | out free meals at school is a lot easier if we want kids to
           | be fed.
           | 
           | As an anecdote, I was laid off from my job once, and someone
           | asked me if I applied for unemployment within my state. I
           | didn't know it existed, nor that I was eligible until months
           | later when a barista told me during small talk. The whole
           | time I managed to remember to feed myself (and my family). I
           | sure hope no internet commenter would look at that and decide
           | to take my children away!
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | "This is a HUGE, dangerous leap."
             | 
             | If you're telling me they are "starving" then it isn't.
        
               | Supermancho wrote:
               | My wife was one of these kids. She knew then (and I know
               | now) how and why she tried desperately to get into a
               | state program and away from her drug addict parents.
               | Living in the desert, in a broken trailer, 2 adults and 2
               | children, only a water tank (reuse that bath water),
               | miles of flat hard (or wet slick) brown dirt in 120
               | degree heat in every direction. No money, no radio,
               | sometimes TV rabbit ears.
               | 
               | Begging for food from grocery store clerks as her parents
               | bought beer and toilet paper inside, drugs outside. She
               | grew up thinking they were derelict because of the drugs.
               | As they got older and had to quit the drugs or die, she
               | found they were just unfit people.
               | 
               | Lots of people in the world are unfit to care for the
               | children, but the children often persevere and society
               | absorbs the damaged alongside the deaths.
               | 
               | This colors my views of the world, as much as anything I
               | experienced.
        
               | thr0waway39290 wrote:
               | It's disappointing that there is such an automatic
               | response to cover up for the parents who starve their
               | children that people automatically dismissed your
               | argument.
               | 
               | I have a problem with government stepping in to remove
               | children from their parents but parents should definitely
               | be blamed for their own child starving. I think all
               | empathy should go to the child who is starving and
               | significantly less to the parent who caused it (even if
               | they are starving too, they are an adult and they have
               | significantly more choices then a starving child)
        
               | gopher_space wrote:
               | It's a reductive one-liner from someone obviously
               | unfamiliar with and disinterested in the problem space,
               | and it's the kind of statement people familiar with and
               | interested in the problem space hear so frequently that
               | it sounds intentionally ignorant.
               | 
               | When you're reasoning outside of your own domain it's
               | easy to get stuck in a "yeah, but why male models?" loop
               | unless you listen to feedback.
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | I got reduced price lunch for a significant part of my
               | childhood.
               | 
               | My parents weren't bad. My mom was just impoverished. Our
               | society does not pay people what they deserve. Our
               | society pays people as little as possible. That leads to
               | good, well meaning, and talented people who are
               | nevertheless poor.
        
           | jagger27 wrote:
           | Lose your job, lose your children. Great policy ideas from
           | the thoughtful HN crowd, as always.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | That's not a real argument. There are plenty of assistance
             | programs, including free school lunches.
        
               | kerkeslager wrote:
               | How many assistance programs have you applied for?
               | Frankly, if you haven't applied for any, your opinion is
               | uninformed. Even people who are told how difficult it is,
               | underestimate how difficult it is to apply for many
               | programs.
               | 
               | I've helped a bunch of homeless folks apply to assistance
               | programs (not for school lunches, but for a lot of other
               | aid) and almost universally, applying for aid is
               | extremely difficult. I've walked at least 30 people
               | through the process of applying for housing aid and I'm
               | pretty sure exactly none of them have actually received
               | aid. The only program's I've seen people actually
               | successfully apply for were medicaid and SNAP. It is the
               | norm for it to take over a month to receive medicaid, and
               | it's the norm for it to take over 6 months to receive
               | SNAP. Meanwhile people are dying of medical conditions
               | and starving.
               | 
               | Now add in all the reasons people are in this position in
               | the first place--these people are struggling. It's hard
               | to apply for these programs, and it's _harder_ when
               | everything else in your life is going poorly as well.
               | 
               | And after all that, you might discover that you don't
               | qualify even though you clearly have need. In the OP the
               | author notes that many families with lunch debt were
               | right above the income line for receiving aid.
               | 
               | Some political forces are concerned that people will take
               | advantage of these programs who shouldn't, and others
               | simply don't want these programs to work so that they can
               | have an excuse to cut them, and as a result there are
               | numerous hurdles set up before you can obtain any sort of
               | aid.
        
               | freehorse wrote:
               | That's also in the heart of the issue, having arbitrary
               | thresholds and obscure bureaucracy here makes it easier
               | also to restrict or even close down such a subsidised
               | program, which can be harder when a permanent program of
               | free school lunches has been established.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | The NSLP has been around for more than 50 years. It
               | doesn't seem to be going anywhere. It serves about 4.5
               | billion lunches annually with 70% of them being free or
               | reduced. It seems there isn't a problem here.
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | Yes, I'm familiar with medicaid and some other stuff.
               | Your complaint about SNAP ignores foodbanks. They usually
               | don't check anything and it starts immediately. This can
               | cover the gap. Medicaid may take months to recieve but it
               | can cover costs incurred since applying retroactively
               | once it is approved. Most hospitals even have case
               | workers that will help patients apply.
        
               | ensignavenger wrote:
               | Applying for school lunches is pretty simple compared to
               | most any other programs. The schools in general really
               | want as many as possible on free lunches, not only does
               | it give students free lunch, but it is used to calculate
               | all sorts of grants.
               | 
               | Applying for medicaid and SNAP is quite a bit more
               | difficult, especially for a homeless person. But school
               | lunches is really as simple as it could be, excepting
               | just making it free for everyone.
        
               | squigz wrote:
               | Wait a second, didn't you say such programs are false
               | solutions a comment or two above?
        
           | freehorse wrote:
           | The world is not black or white, there are many reasons that
           | parents may not apply for that, and deciding how child
           | services should intervene in each case is much harder and
           | time consuming problem than just providing free lunch to
           | kids. It makes no sense to not solve the easy problem first.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | Except that's a false solution. That does nothing to fix
             | the neglect at home, especially over weekends and summers.
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | "Sorry Timmy, I know you're hungry but giving you a
               | school lunch portion would actually be a false solution.
               | It would do nothing to fix the neglect you experience at
               | home, especially over weekends and summers."
        
           | beart wrote:
           | What do you propose to do with these children, once they have
           | been taken away from their families?
        
         | veunes wrote:
         | We can't keep pretending that punishing kids for their parents'
         | circumstances is anything but cruel
        
       | mistyvales wrote:
       | Depressing
        
       | brundolf wrote:
       | Many people, especially in our subculture, tend to feel like if
       | they can't solve an entire problem forever, if they can't Change
       | The World, what they're doing is futile and pointless
       | 
       | But most people can't change the world. Most individuals _shouldn
       | 't_ have the power to change the world. What we _can_ do is be a
       | force for good in the lives that are proximal to us. If we can
       | make a few people 's lives better, we should rest easy knowing
       | that we've done our part.
       | 
       | If we can do more than that, then great. But never let the
       | overwhelming hugeness of the entire world cripple your ability to
       | make your little dent. Most people only get the chance to make a
       | little dent - if that - and there's nothing wrong with that.
        
         | toomuchtodo wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Star_Thrower
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | One of my favorite quotes:
         | 
         |  _> "I was in the Air Force a while, and they had what they
         | call 'policing the area,' and I think that's a pretty good
         | thing to go by. If everyone just takes care of their own area,
         | then we won't have any problems. Be here. Be present. Wherever
         | you are, be there. And look around you, and see what needs to
         | be changed."
         | 
         | -Willie Nelson_
        
           | elcritch wrote:
           | Reminds me of another one:
           | 
           | > To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in
           | order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the
           | family in order; to put the family in order; we must first
           | cultivate our personal life; we must first set our hearts
           | right.
           | 
           | Confucius, The Great Learning
        
           | socalgal2 wrote:
           | Isn't this also the tragedy of the commons problem though? It
           | only takes a few bad actors to not take care of their own
           | area and over time, those that are doing extra to make up for
           | them eventually feel like they're being taken advantage of.
           | 
           | I feel like in Japan it works because the culture adds enough
           | social pressure that those not doing their part fall in line
           | - or something. I don't think most western culture has that
           | social pressure any more nor do I expect it can by added back
        
             | titzer wrote:
             | The only thing that changes behavior is consequences. Thus
             | fines and a functioning justice system are born. Somehow
             | shame doesn't work anymore.
        
               | ziml77 wrote:
               | I think shame fails to work when people can broadcast
               | online a version of events that makes them look like the
               | victim and get tons of people backing them up.
        
               | kibwen wrote:
               | _> Somehow shame doesn 't work anymore._
               | 
               | We don't need to wonder. Shame as a mechanism only works
               | in social contexts that feature a high degree of social
               | dependency. In olden days, if all your neighbors hated
               | you to the point of dissociating with you, that could be
               | tantamount to a death sentence (who's going to share food
               | with you when your harvest fails or take care of you when
               | your household falls ill?); that's a society with high
               | social dependency. For better or worse, modern society is
               | built on abstracting away this dependency. (It's the same
               | thing that explains declining church attendance: a church
               | is a social organization, but nowadays if you need to
               | find a spouse you ask a dating app instead of your
               | congregation, and then when you need marriage counseling
               | you ask a professional marriage counselor instead of your
               | priest, etc. Economic transactions have replaced social
               | dependency.)
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | >Economic transactions have replaced social dependency.
               | 
               | The flipside of this is that a lot of situations have
               | improved. You can divorce your abusive spouse now instead
               | of your priest telling you to just accept the abuse
               | because god wills it. Everyone whining about the downfall
               | of society seems to forget that it didn't actually work
               | for everyone before.
        
               | kibwen wrote:
               | _> Everyone whining about the downfall of society seems
               | to forget that it didn 't actually work for everyone
               | before._
               | 
               | I'm not presenting this as either a good thing or a bad
               | thing, only pointing out that the mechanisms by which
               | people ensure social adherence have changed. And yes,
               | that's "changed", and not "gone away". For all the things
               | the cryptobros got wrong, they did accurately identify
               | that, in a transactional society, the only thing required
               | to exclude someone from society is to take away their
               | ability to perform financial transactions.
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | it's not that bad. japan may be the one extreme and the US
             | the other, europe is somewhere in the middle on a sliding
             | scale towards the US. the broken windows theory fits here.
             | to use the analogy, if a window is broken in japan someone
             | would go fix it unprompted. europe mostly manages to keep
             | broken windows in check. and in the US broken windows have
             | gotten out of hand.
             | 
             | the better alternative to social pressure is building
             | community. social pressure means that you are forced to
             | conform because everyone you interact with expects you to.
             | community means that everyone you interact with is your
             | friend.
        
           | xeonmc wrote:
           | "It is not our part to master all the tides of the world, but
           | to do what is in us for the succour of those years wherein we
           | are set, uprooting the evil in the fields that we know, so
           | that those who live after may have clean earth to till. What
           | weather they shall have is not ours to rule."
           | 
           | -- Gandalf
        
         | jaggederest wrote:
         | I find it really challenging to get people to notice these
         | things, let alone actively take even small actions for positive
         | change.
         | 
         | I'm interested in what the community thinks are some of the
         | methods I could use to improve these things, and why people
         | quickly become inured to these kinds of problems.
         | 
         | I'm thinking, specifically, about peeling paint, litter, dirty
         | signs, the kind of thing that even a passing effort, a hammer
         | and a nail, or a bit of soap and water can fix for a
         | surprisingly long time (~months, certainly).
         | 
         | It's one of the things I think is an interesting contrast
         | between "first world" countries and many of the places I've
         | been that are poorer - less wealthy places seem to put a
         | significant effort into basic maintenance, because replacing
         | things are so expensive compared to the cost of living.
        
           | verisimi wrote:
           | If you pay government 40-50% of your income to government to
           | manage common areas, you think you have already paid for
           | this. You would feel foolish to spend even more of your
           | resources on this. It is someone else's job, not yours.
           | 
           | In places where there is not such a strong governance
           | structure, what you see is people doing more of what comes
           | naturally to everyone. The communal idea arises naturally for
           | things that people want to do. Sure, it's messier without
           | town planning officers, etc, but the governance structure
           | doesn't stop things getting done.
           | 
           | You say they are poorer but gdp, salary or whatever is not
           | the only metric one can use to measure meaning in life. Time
           | is the real money.
        
           | taxedrollik wrote:
           | Part of the reason people don't do those kinds of things
           | where I live is that the municipalities specifically prohibit
           | any kind of alterations, including repair, on municipal
           | property. If something is broken, they will tell you that you
           | must wait until the municipality feels like fixing it
        
           | squigz wrote:
           | I think it's that people are tired. Tired of paying large
           | amounts of money to taxes that don't seem to fix anything in
           | their day-to-day lives. Tired of companies screwing them over
           | at every possible turn.
           | 
           | I recognize things won't easily change while people think
           | that, that it's a tricky, vicious cycle. I wish I knew how to
           | fix it, other than - as another commenter points out - doing
           | the 'little' things and pushing ever so slowly for the change
           | we need.
        
             | potato3732842 wrote:
             | >I think it's that people are tired. Tired of paying large
             | amounts of money to taxes that don't seem to fix anything
             | in their day-to-day lives. Tired of companies screwing them
             | over at every possible turn.
             | 
             | Tired of hearing these endless debates. Tired of seeing
             | people peddle policy based o11n one set of principals out
             | of one side of their mouth and a different policy based on
             | different principals out of the other.
             | 
             | >doing the 'little' things and pushing ever so slowly for
             | the change we need.
             | 
             | Sometimes improving things, sometimes creating yet more
             | layers of spaghetti that prevent future change....
        
               | squigz wrote:
               | > Sometimes improving things, sometimes creating yet more
               | layers of spaghetti that prevent future change....
               | 
               | I'm talking about, say, engaging in discussions about
               | politics, trying to understand each other, trying to
               | compromise.
               | 
               | I assume you're referring to, for example, enacting more
               | government programs.
        
               | potato3732842 wrote:
               | >I assume you're referring to, for example, enacting more
               | government programs.
               | 
               | Or saddling existing ones with poorly thought out
               | requirements and revisions and whatnot.
               | 
               | These programs always seem to start decent and go to crap
               | with time as the "older" bits of government sink their
               | teeth in with subsequent revisions because there's no
               | political will to constantly fight the fight you need to
               | to keep it from becoming co-opted or at the very least
               | degraded by other interests.
               | 
               | At some point people start noticing the pattern, get
               | tired of it and just saying no to the initial request
               | even if it has merit. It's probably just yet another
               | symptom of how bankrupt our institutions are. <sighs>
        
           | sokoloff wrote:
           | Fixing peeling paint correctly is a really substantial
           | undertaking, especially as compared to picking up litter.
           | 
           | Removing the loose paint, figuring out if there's a moisture
           | problem, rot/rust, or other physical repairs needed, buying
           | appropriate paint (maybe matching the color), then sanding,
           | cleaning, priming, sanding, cleaning, and painting.
           | 
           | Slapping a bit of new paint over a problem is not the answer
           | unless you want to make a recurring problem out of it.
        
         | potato3732842 wrote:
         | On the other hand, people pushing for incremental improvements
         | on narrow issues while maintaining motivated ignorance of 2nd
         | and 3rd order consequences multiplied by scale is exactly how
         | we get the perverse systems we have.
        
         | jebarker wrote:
         | > Most individuals shouldn't have the power to change the
         | world.
         | 
         | This is a great insight. I have a tendency to think grandiose
         | thoughts about the impact I should be having on the world, but
         | there's really no reason that any of us should be able to make
         | an outsized impact.
        
       | irrational wrote:
       | I'm thankful I live in a state that uses my tax money to make all
       | school breakfast and lunches free. I wonder what percentage of
       | state taxes is actually required to pay for all school breakfast
       | and lunches? Making sure kids aren't inhibited from learning
       | because of empty stomachs seems like a no brainer.
        
         | bonestamp2 wrote:
         | The other important part of this policy is that it normalizes
         | kids not paying for lunch. This is important because they
         | realized many kids who couldn't afford lunch were still
         | skipping their free lunch because they were embarrassed to get
         | a free lunch. When everyone gets a free lunch then nobody is
         | embarrassed.
        
           | timewizard wrote:
           | I've heard of some schools going out of their way to make it
           | obvious which kids were receiving free lunch and which
           | weren't; however, that wasn't universal to all programs.
           | 
           | Our school just had "lunch tickets." There was a register on
           | a different floor from the lunch room where you could go buy
           | them, pick them up if your parents bought them by check, or
           | pick them up if you were on the assistance list. Once you had
           | them they were all the same. Only the person at the register
           | would know your status.
           | 
           | None of my friends who got that ever were embarrassed in any
           | way about using them as they were the only ones to know.
        
           | riffraff wrote:
           | It seems it should be trivial to solve the differentiation
           | problem too.
           | 
           | When I was a kid in Italy in the '90s we paid for lunch in
           | middle school, but this was done through "lunch tickets".
           | 
           | You'd get those from the town hall, some of us paid for them,
           | some got them for free, but you would not know about it when
           | getting lunch.
           | 
           | (Still, free lunch for all kids should obviously be the
           | default)
        
       | mylesp wrote:
       | As an Australian, I find it crazy that getting food from a
       | cafeteria at school is the norm in the US.
       | 
       | In Australia you bring food from home 90% of the time. On special
       | occasions or every now and then you order lunch from the canteen.
       | 
       | It seems almost against American individualism to have a communal
       | meal where everyone is served up the same food and sit indoors in
       | a dining hall. Maybe it is just strange to me but I can't be the
       | only person to think this.
        
         | gedy wrote:
         | It seems to have changed in past decades. When I was in school
         | in 70s/80s, everyone brought their lunch. And we weren't in a
         | well-off area or anything.
        
           | Brybry wrote:
           | As a sibling comment noted, the National School Lunch Program
           | started in 1946. [1]
           | 
           | The School Breakfast Program started in the 1960s/70s. [2]
           | 
           | More recently, in 2010, the Healthy, Hunger-Free Kids Act was
           | passed which enabled the Community Eligibility Provision
           | which lets low income area schools offer free food to all
           | kids without individual application/qualification. [3][4]
           | 
           | Various schools I went to in the 90s/00s had some kids
           | bringing their lunch, some kids paying the school for lunch,
           | and some getting free lunch (because they were poor enough to
           | qualify).
           | 
           | [1] https://www.fns.usda.gov/nslp
           | 
           | [2] https://www.fns.usda.gov/sbp/factsheet
           | 
           | [3] https://www.usda.gov/about-usda/news/press-
           | releases/2014/05/...
           | 
           | [4] https://www.fns.usda.gov/cn/cep
        
         | crooked-v wrote:
         | School-provided lunches in the US started in the first place in
         | the 1930s and 40s because the sheer number of malnourished
         | teenagers was making military planners nervous. The US is much
         | wealthier now, but there's still about 20 million children who
         | get free lunch for financial reasons.
        
         | _AzMoo wrote:
         | In Australia this is actually an issue for low-
         | income/underprivileged children in schools. Some parents don't
         | give their kids breakfast or lunch, because they can't afford
         | it or they just don't care.
         | 
         | Some schools run a "breakfast club" that everybody's welcome to
         | attend, where they provide things like toast or cereal to kids
         | that don't get breakfast at home, and it's couched in shame-
         | softening language, though most kids know that if you go to
         | breakfast club it's probably because you can't actually afford
         | breakfast.
         | 
         | Schools will often have some bread and spreads available in the
         | office for kids who are sent to school without lunch. I'm not
         | sure how widespread it is, but I know that in some schools this
         | is just funded voluntarily by some of the staff who will pick
         | up more bread or whatever when it's required, because they
         | don't want to see kids go hungry.
         | 
         | I think the idea of having lunch provided as part of your
         | school fees is actually a good one. No kid should go hungry, or
         | be subject to humiliation and shame, because their parents
         | can't afford or can't be bothered to provide them lunch.
        
         | trollbridge wrote:
         | Back in the 80s, everyone packed a lunch when I was growing up
         | in Australia. One of my brother's classmates was of Malay
         | background, and we were fascinated by the lunches he'd bring
         | in, including a thermos containing fried rice which would still
         | be hot when he'd eat it at lunch.
         | 
         | America is a place where we don't like the idea of people going
         | hungry. The government provides a great deal of food
         | assistance; 13% of the country receives food stamps. Government
         | policy is that every American should be getting at least $291
         | of food; if providing yourself that would be more than 30% of
         | your income after expenses like rent, the government makes up
         | the difference. Groceries are cheap, relatively speaking -
         | they're sure cheaper than what they cost in Australia. We have
         | extra programs for pregnant/nursing moms which provide food
         | like milk, eggs, beans, and fresh produce, or if they can't or
         | don't want to nurse, we provide infant formula for them.
         | (Income based, but about half of new moms qualify, although in
         | turn only around half of those new moms bother to take
         | advantage of it.) We have excellent food banks that (at least
         | in my area) are well-stocked. They currently have "expanded
         | eligibility" (meaning they don't screen you when you come in)
         | because they aren't running out of food.
         | 
         | We don't like the idea of kids at school going hungry either,
         | so first we had school lunches, and now we have school
         | breakfasts in places. We also have "summer" food programs. My
         | state decided to use the federal funding for this for "summer
         | EBT", which means food stamp amounts go up by what would be the
         | cost of providing school lunches. (Americans skip out of school
         | for 3+ months in the summer.) The general trend is towards free
         | lunches for everyone, instead of making it income eligible.
         | 
         | Whether any of this is a good idea is another question. We
         | don't seem to be a terribly healthy nation, and we eat way too
         | much ultra-processed food which does not seem to be good for
         | us. Big Food and Big Ag have an incredibly strong grip on
         | government. The amount of money involved is big money. To give
         | you an idea of the dollars we're talking, the amount of food
         | stamps spent in America on soda was around $10 billion. You can
         | go ahead and guess which corporation lobbied to expand soda to
         | be eligible for purchase with food stamps.
        
         | protocolture wrote:
         | Same. Really seems like a yank thing.
         | 
         | I remember the horse trading at lunch as we rotated sambos to
         | align better with taste.
        
         | jeroenhd wrote:
         | I've had the same experience here in the Netherlands. Except
         | there often was no real cafeteria to order from if you forgot
         | your lunch or if something special was going on.
         | 
         | This mechanism does cause troubles for the poorest kids,
         | though. Poor families send their kids to school without lunch,
         | or with very unhealthy food (because that's cheapest).
         | 
         | I'm in favour of schools offering lunch. Parents pay for the
         | sandwiches or whatever they hand out to their kids anyway,
         | might as well get the benefits of economies of scale to reduce
         | costs, while helping poor kids through the day. I doubt the
         | taxes necessary to make this happen would be close to the price
         | parents pay for food (and the time they spend preparing meals
         | for their young kids).
        
       | chasd00 wrote:
       | DISD ( Dallas Independent School District ) has had free lunch
       | for as long as i can remember. Free breakfast too. On school
       | holidays you can still goto school and get a meal. I want to say
       | they do this on weekends too. Granted, MREs from an Army surplus
       | store are better than school lunch but it is free. I don't think
       | my kids have ever eaten a school lunch.
       | 
       | During COVID my wife and I got a EBT (food stamps) card in the
       | mail from the school district with like $2,000 on it for food. It
       | was basically the dollars spent on school lunch for the time the
       | kids were not in school.
        
         | kerkeslager wrote:
         | Wow that's amazing. I'm glad to hear they're doing it at least
         | somewhat right somewhere.
        
         | throwaway2037 wrote:
         | > I don't think my kids have ever eaten a school lunch.
         | 
         | I am confused why it was important to include this sentence in
         | your post. Overall: Excellent. This sentence: Not required. Is
         | this a flex?
        
           | imp0cat wrote:
           | It's just a way to indirectly say that the school food was
           | not awesome.
        
           | chasd00 wrote:
           | funny thing, i actually thought about that sentence a lot. I
           | added it in after writing the rest of the post because i felt
           | bad implying I subject my kids to school food. I wasn't
           | intending that as a "flex" but just that the food is really
           | bad. On the other hand, i understand not all families have
           | that option so maybe it is a flex in an unintended way.
        
       | deadbabe wrote:
       | If I knew there was a debt like this for less than $1000 at a
       | school nearby I'd probably pay it off. But the information just
       | doesn't seem to be out there.
        
       | iandanforth wrote:
       | On the off chance you're interested in school lunches I highly
       | recommend watching videos of Japanese school lunches on YouTube.
       | There's a bunch out there now and if you were raised in the
       | American system it will probably blow your mind. The idea that
       | lunches can be freshly made, on site, out of healthy ingredients
       | and children are active participants in serving and cleaning up
       | is just crazy. When I encountered it for the first time I felt
       | like a big part of my childhood had been sold to the lowest
       | bidder.
        
         | staplers wrote:
         | I felt like a big part of my childhood had been sold to the
         | lowest bidder.
         | 
         | It was. Most local procurement laws enforce this.
        
           | delfinom wrote:
           | It wasn't just sold to the lowest bidder, the subsidized
           | lunch program is specifically not to subsidize the kids, but
           | to bail out farmers growing crap nobody wants.
        
             | reverendsteveii wrote:
             | when your tax money helps hungry children that's socialism
             | and that's evil. when it helps agricultural conglomerates,
             | otoh...
        
           | gregw134 wrote:
           | In our case, sold to the bidder who gave kickbacks to the
           | district supervisor.
        
             | Suppafly wrote:
             | we had pepsi machines in my middle school because the pepsi
             | distributor in town "donated" a new score board.
        
           | panick21_ wrote:
           | Selling to the lowest bidder isn't necessarily bad if the
           | requirements are set correctly.
        
           | e_i_pi_2 wrote:
           | Even worse - it's sold to the lowest bidder so they can sell
           | it back to you for profit. This is a perfect example of why
           | GDP isn't a good measure for how well a country is doing - if
           | the kids do it themselves they may learn a bunch and enjoy it
           | and make their lives better, but it doesn't create jobs or
           | profit, so the incentives are against it.
        
         | pfannkuchen wrote:
         | > The idea that lunches can be freshly made, on site, out of
         | healthy ingredients and children
         | 
         | Excellent garden path sentence.
        
           | xarope wrote:
           | A friend who's a pre-school teacher has this excellent
           | t-shirt (I LMAO the first time I saw it):
           | 
           | let's eat, kids.
           | 
           | let's eat kids.
           | 
           | punctuation saves lives.
           | 
           | https://m.media-
           | amazon.com/images/I/B1pppR4gVKL._CLa%7C2140%...
        
             | throw3436 wrote:
             | made my day! thanks for sharing =D
        
             | ksp-atlas wrote:
             | Shows up as a plain black shirt on my end
        
             | westurner wrote:
             | "Eats, Shoots & Leaves"
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eats,_Shoots_%26_Leaves
        
         | x-complexity wrote:
         | > The idea that lunches can be freshly made, on site, out of
         | healthy ingredients and children are active participants in
         | serving and cleaning up is just crazy.
         | 
         | > When I encountered it for the first time I felt like a big
         | part of my childhood had been sold to the lowest bidder.
         | 
         | ....I share the sentiment, but I also see the chasm between the
         | requirements to get to what's desired, & what's actually given
         | to meet those requirements (which is almost nothing).
         | 
         | To have this program exist requires children that can be
         | trusted to not waste the food that they're given, to behave, &
         | to learn about preparing their own meals.
         | 
         | It's a bootstrapping problem, trust problem, & expectations
         | problem, all at once.
         | 
         | Japan was able to do this by pressuring its citizens & youth to
         | pay the cultural toll needed to get there, and it was a toll
         | that *everyone* had to pay into. No exceptions.
         | 
         | Whilst there can be pockets of local communities that can do
         | this, the probability that the same thing can happen
         | *everywhere* in the US is close to zero, given the cultural
         | emphasis placed on individualism.
         | 
         | It is also from this emphasis of individual exceptionalism
         | where there can be no guarantees that *everyone* will pay the
         | cultural toll. It must be *everyone*, or this proposal won't
         | work: It'll just be another form of subsidization by another
         | name.
         | 
         | ------
         | 
         | Note: This doesn't mean that it can't happen, just that the
         | amount of effort needed to get there is monumental, and that
         | certain axioms have to be relaxed significantly to do so.
        
           | ethbr1 wrote:
           | Kids don't go to all schools: they go to their school.
           | 
           | So by fixing things in one school, any school, you're really
           | fixing things for all the kids that go there.
        
             | pnutjam wrote:
             | This is why the wealthy should be required to use public
             | schools.
        
               | Aurornis wrote:
               | People who send kids to private schools pay taxes (which
               | fund schools) but don't take resources from public
               | schools.
               | 
               | Forcing them to _use_ the public schools would further
               | divide the tax funding across more kids, reducing the
               | funds available per kid.
               | 
               | This suggestion is reminiscent of California trying to
               | reduce educational inequality by eliminating advanced
               | math classes and putting everyone together. It was a
               | terrible idea, but it made sense to someone looking for
               | what they thought was an easy solution.
        
               | amanaplanacanal wrote:
               | The idea is around the wealthy having the incentive to
               | financially support public schools.
        
               | Aurornis wrote:
               | Public schools are funded by taxes. Wealthy people
               | already pay those taxes.
               | 
               | If you force everyone to use the public schools, you're
               | just dividing the tax money across more students.
               | 
               | In the context of school lunch, they would just send
               | their kids to school with a packed lunch.
               | 
               | The whole concept of forbidding people from taking
               | advantage of other educational opportunities is half-
               | baked class warfare fodder. It doesn't make sense if you
               | think about the numbers, but it appeals to people who are
               | more interested in punishing wealthy people than fixing
               | the situation.
        
               | dagw wrote:
               | Full disclosure, am a parent who sends their kid to a
               | charter school and strong advocate for parents to be
               | allowed to choose where to send their schools.
               | 
               | That being said, the strong version of the argument being
               | made is that if all schools are funded nationally (so
               | that schools in more affluent areas don't automatically
               | get more money) and rich people and people of influence
               | were forced to send their kids to the same public schools
               | as every body else, then those people would be more
               | inclined to use their influence to try to make public
               | schools better and would be less inclined to fight
               | against raising taxes to improve public education. Of
               | course this would go against those peoples narrow self
               | interest (since many of their kids would probably end up
               | getting a worse education) so it is unlikely to happen
        
               | Aurornis wrote:
               | I understand the argument, but I'm trying to point out
               | that similar claims were made about eliminating advanced
               | math classes in California and it did not work at all.
               | 
               | I think the claim appeals to some people because they're
               | bought in to the idea that a small fraction of wealthy
               | people control everything from school budgets to taxes,
               | and therefore if you force them into your space and
               | restrict their rights to other options they will use that
               | extreme influence to improve the situation for everyone.
               | 
               | Yet in practice it doesn't work, and we've seen it play
               | out. In California the parents who cared about their
               | kids' math scores just gave up on school math classes and
               | hired tutors or did their own at-home tutoring (at great
               | sacrifice, especially for the non-wealthy). With school
               | lunches you would just see parents with means sending
               | their kids to school with good prepared lunches. I
               | suppose the next logical extension is to ban wealthy
               | parents from sending their kids in with lunches and hope
               | that it will set off the chain of events that's supposed
               | to make them fix the problem for everyone.
               | 
               | Where I live our school budgets and funding are partially
               | up for vote on the ballot every election cycle. It's not
               | for the wealthy to decide, it's just a public vote. And
               | things still aren't passing easily. I think people reach
               | for the wealthy as an easy excuse for who to blame, but
               | whenever I look at the ballot results it's impossible to
               | ignore the fact that the general public is averse to
               | increasing school budgets right now.
        
               | ethbr1 wrote:
               | > _the idea that a small fraction of wealthy people
               | control everything from school budgets to taxes_
               | 
               | It's not control.
               | 
               | It's simply that there exists a (relatively-speaking)
               | small fraction of wealthy people. To wit, income
               | inequality.
               | 
               | If we had less income inequality in the US, there
               | wouldn't need to be nudges to align wealthy people's
               | interests with everyone else.
               | 
               | If we're fine with large amounts of income inequality,
               | then we're going to need to put in some utilitarian
               | guardrails, given that $ = political power and political
               | power controls school funding.
        
               | amanaplanacanal wrote:
               | The wealthy have much more influence on the politicians
               | that write the funding bills than poor people do. Surely
               | you realize this.
        
               | erikerikson wrote:
               | I get your math and appreciate the insight within it.
               | 
               | At the same time, PTAs accept cash which when not being
               | spent on private school is available. The challenge is
               | getting those parents to allocate it when it will be
               | spread across the entire student body. Far more impactful
               | is the factor of alignment of incentives that given
               | wealthy families' generally greater proximity to power
               | can deliver funding.
               | 
               | I liked this: it's not private school vs public school,
               | it is private school vs public school plus a tuition's
               | worth of enrichment.
               | 
               | Your other comment does get at why my kid is in private
               | school: you can't ignore special education needs.
        
               | Aurornis wrote:
               | > At the same time, PTAs accept cash which when not being
               | spent on private school is available.
               | 
               | I think this is magical thinking underlying the concept:
               | That wealthy parents will step up to provide money to
               | privately fund the public schools for everyone.
               | 
               | We have plenty of evidence that the is just isn't the
               | case, though. People spend that money on things like
               | sending their kids to school with their own lunches and
               | hiring private tutors.
               | 
               | When parents have lost faith in a school's ability to
               | provide good education (or lunches, or activities, etc)
               | they don't think the best course of action is to send the
               | school a lot of money and hope for the best. They take
               | matters into their own hands, outside of school.
               | 
               | The entire concept is built on layers of wishful thinking
               | that just aren't supported.
        
               | erikerikson wrote:
               | We are wealthy parents who stepped up and gave
               | substantial amounts to the PTA
               | 
               | We made our decision (noted before) when the school spent
               | its energy to manage us rather than fix problems and
               | serve our student. To be fair, there were ties they had
               | no control over but they definitely failed in ways they
               | could have done better too. When things that matter to us
               | are out of our power we put them back under our power to
               | the extent we can.
               | 
               | The problem with defection is the large scale/long term
               | reduced prosperity trajectory.
        
               | ceejayoz wrote:
               | > People who send kids to private schools pay taxes
               | (which fund schools) but don't take resources from public
               | schools.
               | 
               | They're working very hard to change that.
               | https://apnews.com/article/texas-school-vouchers-
               | ec901398f7f...
               | 
               | "Texas will implement a $1 billion school voucher
               | program, one of the largest in the country, that uses
               | public dollars to fund private school tuition under a
               | bill Gov. Greg Abbott signed Saturday, capping off a
               | yearslong effort by Republicans... Texas joins more than
               | 30 other states that have implemented a similar program,
               | of which about a dozen have launched or expanded their
               | programs in recent years to make most students eligible."
        
               | idrios wrote:
               | The wealthy do use public schools. They pay huge amounts
               | to live in upper class neighborhoods with wealthy peers,
               | where a lot of tax money goes into the schooling system
               | so the kids can take all sorts of extracurriculars and AP
               | classes. It gets the same results as private school but
               | the cost comes from living in that neighborhood rather
               | than paying the school directly
        
               | mystraline wrote:
               | The underlying issue too is "Sorry Timmy, cause we're not
               | rich and live in a poorer district, your schooling is
               | worse and you have access to less choice."
               | 
               | And that goes back to how taxes for public schools are
               | driven. The problem seems too engrained and too massive
               | to fix. And since schools are state controlled, you'd
               | need 50 solutions, not 1.
        
               | BobaFloutist wrote:
               | California actually has a pretty solid school tax-
               | redistribition system that more or less solves this
               | problem (of course districts still can and do fundraise
               | for direct donations to the PTA/music fund and bond
               | measures to upgrade facilities, but it's still vastly
               | more fair).
               | 
               | In a completely unrelated phenomenon, private schools are
               | incredibly popular among Californians of means.
        
               | nothercastle wrote:
               | I assume you forgot /s on the unrelated part
        
               | gamblor956 wrote:
               | Most wealthy people in CA don't send their kid to private
               | school. That's a rarity even among the wealthy.
               | 
               | There are plenty of good public schools in CA. There are
               | only a handful of good private ones.
        
               | treis wrote:
               | This really isn't true anywhere in the US. The highest
               | spending per pupil will be the city school district. The
               | people who live there may be relatively poor but there's
               | a lot more commercial real estate to tax.
        
           | atoav wrote:
           | > _To have this program exist requires children that can be
           | trusted to not waste the food that they 're given, to behave,
           | & to learn about preparing their own meals._ > > _It 's a
           | bootstrapping problem, trust problem, & expectations problem,
           | all at once._
           | 
           | In Austrian civil service I worked with kids who had special
           | needs and were predominantly from poor social backgrounds. I
           | made homework with them, drove them to school and back from
           | day care in a bus, and I prepared food with them, had them
           | deal with the dirty dishes, etc.
           | 
           | Most of the kids totally crazy behavior immidiately made
           | sense once you met the parents. In fact there were only two
           | kids where this wasn't the case and the first had PTSD of a
           | life-changing magnitude (fled the Syrian war) and the other
           | had good parents but a mental condition (I suspect severe
           | ADHD).
           | 
           | Most of those kids would have been classified by the general
           | public as hopeless cases.
           | 
           | I cooked with them, did the dishes, baked, regularily. Even
           | kids that get beaten at home or were riddled with war trauma
           | are surprisingly reliable if you just give them a task they
           | understand. And turns out tasks they do every day are easy to
           | understand after a week.
           | 
           | If those kids could make it, I am not the least worried about
           | kids in better circumstances. Will it always be 100% perfect
           | when kids do it? Will every kid be at it with full effort
           | every day? Will a new kid grok it instantly? No. But that is
           | okay. What is the worst that can happen? They go without food
           | as a consequence? Other Kids show them how?
           | 
           | You're making it sound as if preparing food together is some
           | unnatural herculian challenge while preparing food together
           | was probably the most common act humanity has ever shared
           | doing throughout its history.
           | 
           | No it must not be everyone. Prepare food? Get food. Pretty
           | simple. Waste food? That was yours. And the other kids also
           | don't like to see that.
           | 
           | The rason for having a society is to deal with those kind of
           | differences. If you teach kids how to get structure into
           | their lives and how to eat healthy the wasted food will
           | _easily_ be saved in future costs in the health and social
           | systems.
           | 
           | Also: my kids could do this, US kids can't. What does thst
           | mean for the US economy 4 decades down the line in
           | comparison? You really think the US can afford to "educate"
           | kids that way?
        
           | gosub100 wrote:
           | > the cultural emphasis placed on individualism.
           | 
           | That's just a roundabout way to spell diversity, isn't it?
        
             | tomsmeding wrote:
             | It's not, they are different things. Diversity refers to
             | people of various biological backgrounds, mental makeups
             | and opinions, financial powers, etc. Individualism refers
             | to the idea that everyone lives for their own benefit
             | primarily, and for "the group" (town, country, club, etc.)
             | secondarily. (In Japan, one lives for the group primarily
             | -- barring exceptions, of course. Just like you have
             | exceptions to individualism in the West.)
             | 
             | You could have a society that's diverse but not individual,
             | or a non-diverse one that's individual. Though there is a
             | correlation.
        
             | lurking_swe wrote:
             | Individualism is a concept that emphasizes prioritizing
             | oneself above all else, including family, friends, and your
             | local community. What does that have to do with race or
             | country of birth, or your gender?
        
               | godshatter wrote:
               | People who follow individualism, from what I've seen and
               | experienced, are simply the ones who are not joining the
               | tribe that has managed to get them hating the other
               | tribes the most. They actually have at least one belief
               | they could agree on with each tribe, but also have one or
               | more beliefs that would get them attacked or banished by
               | each tribe. The latter always wins, so all tribes hate
               | the individualist for not hating the other tribes enough.
               | 
               | Tribes that talk about individualism as being a great
               | strength and then punishing you for not conforming are
               | not really that individualistic, in my opinion.
               | 
               | It's not the individualists who are the problem. They are
               | the ones getting ostracized by all for daring to have a
               | set of beliefs that don't conform precisely with any of
               | the tribes warring with each other. They would prefer
               | that the tribes disbanded and everyone was free to
               | believe what they wanted without fear of pissing off
               | people they have never met. Most people, as far as I've
               | seen, just want to live their lives believing what they
               | like without getting attacked out of the blue one day. I
               | remember when you didn't know what others believed and
               | could spend a lot of time with your favorite drink in
               | hand finding out, arguing, agreeing, and leaving in
               | peace. Well, at least most of the time.
        
           | throwawayqqq11 wrote:
           | Imagine paying the kids a small amount for their work.
           | 
           | Outliers will be everywhere, you only have to select the
           | right ones, and not fix an entire suburbs culture, and ofc
           | the obligatory: tax the rich.
        
             | presentation wrote:
             | Part of the point of the Japanese way is to communicate
             | that keeping public spaces clean is everyone's
             | responsibility. Paying kids for it communicates the
             | opposite.
        
               | throwawayqqq11 wrote:
               | You have pushing (social pressure) and pulling (payment)
               | motivators and there are small didactive tasks to teach
               | children the worthyness of effort up to large societal
               | goals, taught with them. Your comparison is weird.
               | 
               | Expecting payment does not make you a self centeted
               | capitalist. Children could become one if they seen the
               | normalization of exploitation all around, when payment is
               | more then just fair compensation but someone elses dire
               | expense and you cant have nice things otherwise.
        
               | nothercastle wrote:
               | Yeah the op doesn't get that. If you pay the kids then
               | kids from wealthy families will think it's not worth
               | doing
        
           | PaulRobinson wrote:
           | This "cultural toll" you talk of, is just another form of
           | conformist behaviour that all societies have in different
           | forms. Some countries have class/caste strata, others have a
           | laissez-faire attitude to expectations in general, others
           | have a rigid societal code, others appear to be less so but
           | the moment you go near guns, abortion or taxation the
           | societal codes and hierarchy spring into action and snap shut
           | around the ankle of the idiot who went near them.
           | 
           | Japan may look different to the society you are used to or
           | grew up in, but it's no less or more conformist, it's just
           | different.
           | 
           | As a very simple example, in the US, people work for tips and
           | often struggle to make ends meet in minimum wage jobs: that's
           | a form of cultural toll. In Japan, nobody needs to work for
           | tips (you may be followed out of the restaurant to have your
           | tip returned to you), most people can make ends meet more
           | easily, but there are other expectations around work and
           | family: that's cultural toll too.
           | 
           | What's interesting to me is that you seem to think that the
           | status quo in the US is rightly defensible. Looking in from
           | afar with limited skin in the game I'd argue it looks really,
           | really dumb. This "individualism" (but where the courts get
           | to tell people who they are and what they can believe when it
           | comes to certain issues that have religious or historical
           | undertones), seems to be leading to a fractured partisan
           | nation where everyone hates anyone who even slightly
           | disagrees with them. Not a great way to bring kids up...
           | perhaps y'all could try something else for a while, hmm?
        
             | erikerikson wrote:
             | I upvoted this but it could really do without the last
             | paragraph. Courts aren't telling us who we are or what we
             | can believe. Trying to summarize our mess in so few words
             | isn't something I'd attempt. Finally: many of us live
             | differently and are doing our best to shift things more
             | broadly.
        
             | lucideng wrote:
             | "...seems to be leading to a fractured partisan nation
             | where everyone hates anyone who even slightly disagrees
             | with them."
             | 
             | This, 100x times over. The cultural toll of 'conformity'
             | sounds bad until you realize it's a construct enabling
             | everyone to 'play nice' in the general sense and work
             | towards a greater good, collectively. We are losing that
             | conformity. The average US citizen person is socially
             | crippled by their outrage. Nothing else matters. If you
             | have doubt in yourself, get back in that echo chamber that
             | probably made you into what you are and reassure yourself.
             | It used to be ok to disagree, have intelligent debate, vote
             | on it, and lose.
             | 
             | In today's US, if you want to be heard, it's more about how
             | emotionally outraged you are, not how good your ideas
             | actually are. The more dire you can make the outrage, the
             | better. Come up with a sound bite for your movement,
             | catchier the better. Misrepresent anything your oppositions
             | says, retire objective and reasonable critical thinking to
             | 'dinosaur thinking'. Then, convince people your
             | group/movement/lifestyle has been marginalized. Then, if
             | your subject agrees with you, make sure they're at least as
             | outraged as you. Use any guilt that they have to steer them
             | current or future causes. Next, if they won't comply,
             | publicly shame and label opposition so that you can
             | associate them with bad things/people/events. When you dont
             | get what you want, attack the process, call them bigots,
             | etc. Rinse and repeat until you get what you want.
             | 
             | As our "cultural tolls" are avoided or erode, the more
             | divided we become as a people. The more divided we are, the
             | more we are seen as individuals. Everyone becomes
             | marginalized when everyone is an individual. The more
             | divided we are, the less we hold open doors and the more we
             | slam that door in their face, because you know... they're a
             | bigot or whatever, so you dont have to feel guilty for
             | hurting that evil person.
        
           | em-bee wrote:
           | _To have this program exist requires children that can be
           | trusted_
           | 
           | you got that completely wrong. it requires adults that teach
           | children how to behave.
           | 
           |  _Japan was able to do this by pressuring its citizens &
           | youth to pay the cultural toll needed to get there, and it
           | was a toll that *everyone* had to pay into_
           | 
           | now that is just offensive.
           | 
           | this is how japanese culture developed. there was no toll to
           | achieve it. (there are some downsides, but they are mostly in
           | the behavior of men towards women, which is a global
           | problem). this is how most asian cultures work. and african
           | too. children learn to do these things, and they learn how to
           | behave properly.
        
           | liveoneggs wrote:
           | Every other part of the school operates on the assumption
           | that kids can behave, learn things, and do stuff.
           | 
           | There is no need to paint it as some kind of cultural/racial
           | narrative. American children could, in fact, have more
           | civilized lunch behavior if it was desired by the adults in
           | charge.
        
         | RandallBrown wrote:
         | Maybe this wasn't all over the US, but in the 90s I helped
         | serve and clean up our elementary school lunches. There was a
         | rotation through all of the older classrooms.
        
           | iandanforth wrote:
           | Mind sharing which school?
        
             | RandallBrown wrote:
             | It was a public elementary school in Bay City Michigan.
        
           | Aurornis wrote:
           | On the internet it's easy to forget that the US education
           | system is extremely heterogeneous. There isn't one set of
           | practices or laws that are shared across the country. It's
           | very local.
           | 
           | For me, I can barely remember school provided lunches
           | existing as something that a small handful of students got.
           | The majority of students brought a lunchbox from home that
           | our parents prepared.
        
             | RandallBrown wrote:
             | Yup, we had "hot lunch" available or you could bring your
             | own. Some kids had meal cards that got them free lunch (or
             | maybe just reduced lunch? I was like 8 years old so I don't
             | remember.)
        
           | saltcured wrote:
           | I can remember similar from public elementary school in the
           | early 80s in the suburban SF Bay Area.
           | 
           | In kindergarten, we had a rotating chore to take the
           | collective milk money for the class, exchange it for a crate
           | of milk at the cafeteria, and return it to the kindergarten
           | room. I can imagine social norms have changed since then
           | about this de facto mandatory financial exercise.
           | 
           | In later grades, we had some rotating lunch duties including,
           | at least, rinsing the lunch trays and loading the big
           | dishwasher. I can't remember if we ever helped serve food,
           | but I do remember being told to be careful with the very hot
           | water spray nozzle in the washing basin. I can imagine this
           | having changed due to shifting safety and liability norms.
        
           | thevillagechief wrote:
           | I went to a boarding high school in Kenya (most high schools
           | are boarding there) and we were responsible for cleaning the
           | hostels and the bathrooms, which we had to do every morning
           | before class. The flowerbeds outside our hostels were also
           | our responsibility.
        
           | frakkingcylons wrote:
           | I also did this to get lunch for free in high school from
           | 2008-2010. I don't remember how many hours a week it was (it
           | was definitely less than 10). The shifts were prep work in
           | the morning, serving lunch, or doing dishes. Each shift was
           | at most an hour. It was pretty fun since it was with my
           | friends at school.
        
         | veunes wrote:
         | I remember stumbling across one of those videos and just
         | sitting there like, wait... this is real?
        
           | indrora wrote:
           | A Japanese friend of mine visited an American middle school
           | as part of a science class. He was invited to eat lunch with
           | the students or go out with the staff. He chose (after not
           | having ever been in an American school cafeteria) to sit with
           | the students he had talked to as a matter of respect.
           | 
           | He sent me a picture of what he was served -- cold pizza slab
           | with a cup of fruit. His comment was simply "How are you to
           | learn when your soul hungers? Is this really how American
           | schools prepare the minds of the youngest?" I responded with
           | "Oh you're lucky, you got the fancy meal."
           | 
           | That a cheese slice between two slices of bread with some
           | mayo would be served to a child as their only food of the day
           | was spiritually disgusting to him in a way he did not have
           | words for.
        
         | Suppafly wrote:
         | >children are active participants in serving and cleaning up is
         | just crazy
         | 
         | They also clean the classrooms and hallways.
        
         | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
         | > When I encountered it for the first time I felt like a big
         | part of my childhood had been sold to the lowest bidder.
         | 
         | Not to be a total downer but I often feel like this is true of
         | every aspect of life in America.
        
       | aetherspawn wrote:
       | I might be misunderstanding the problem but in Australia the
       | parents send the kids to school with packed lunches proportional
       | to the household income... fancy lunches for rich kids, and rice
       | or bread for poor kids.
        
         | tc43 wrote:
         | Or proportional to the household eating habits. I'm definitely
         | in the upper income bracket of my son's state primary school
         | and he brings a sandwich and a piece of fruit like every other
         | kid because it's a sensible amount of food for a small child.
        
           | em-bee wrote:
           | when does your son come home and when (and what) is his next
           | meal?
           | 
           | a sandwich is enough for a mid morning snack, but not for a
           | midday meal unless the kids get another meal right when they
           | come home. traditional wisdom has it that you should have a
           | good breakfast and lunch, and a smaller meal for dinner.
           | that's possible when the kids come home no later than 2pm but
           | if they usually come home at 3-4pm or later then a sandwich
           | is not enough to get them through the day.
        
         | casey2 wrote:
         | There is a cafeteria at the school where students can purchase
         | lunch, if they want to purchase a lunch but don't have any cash
         | on hand they can use credit, if they hit their cap and want to
         | purchase lunch on yet more credit they are given alternative
         | meals or nothing. There is no "free lunch".
         | 
         | ~75% of k-12 students bring lunch from home. If you are on
         | assistance then your lunch is prepaid. Generally the food is so
         | hilariously bad that most won't pay for it, but there are good
         | schools here and there. 9-12 students generally are allowed to
         | leave campus during lunch hours.
         | 
         | There may also be an additional "a la carte" system where you
         | can buy single items either if you have extra money in your
         | account or have cash on hand, but not on credit. Like a
         | canteen.
        
         | protocolture wrote:
         | Yeah I have never understood this one.
         | 
         | I took a packed lunch to school almost every day. Later on I
         | packed it myself. If I wanted the canteen had hot meals.
         | Sometimes if you forgot your lunch they would give you 1 meal
         | on credit.
         | 
         | IIRC there's a program in the absolute poorest aboriginal
         | communities to provide free hot lunches at school, because it
         | nearly guarantees attendance and works towards defeating
         | malnutrition. I dont think yanks are that hard up yet but who
         | knows.
         | 
         | Somehow the yanks are constantly demanding free lunches like
         | there's no alternative or workaround?
        
       | camdenreslink wrote:
       | New York State just passed universal free lunch and breakfast for
       | public school students. Of all the things that we spend our tax
       | dollars on, this feels like a no brainer. Making sure children
       | are fed should be at the top of the list.
        
         | kerkeslager wrote:
         | Stuff like this seems like such a dividing line to me. Like, in
         | theory when people believe things that are morally wrong, I
         | want to reach out to them with compassion and respect and try
         | to gently persuade them to my side because we're all, in
         | theory, on the same side. But if you don't want kids to be fed,
         | I really am not sure we're actually on the same side any more
         | and I really am not sure what to do with that.
        
           | yieldcrv wrote:
           | People generally don't want the Federal government involved,
           | thats where the consensus has been lacking.
           | 
           | this is exhibit A of showing that these country sized states
           | are fully capable of handling their own affairs and universal
           | access to things, the same as the 21st century developed
           | nations that do the same thing
           | 
           | You and the other parties actually agree that it isn't
           | controversial, there are many funding sources if its deemed
           | important, keep the federal government out of it
        
             | forgetfreeman wrote:
             | Except none of that is actually true. Unconvinced? Go look
             | at a heat map of poverty in the US and then check out which
             | states get bulk of federal assistance dollars. Note none of
             | those states is running a massive budget surplus. While I
             | have you I'd like to also point out that "hrrr federal
             | government bad" is not only tautological, as an ideology
             | it's deeply stupid . States frequently encounter problems
             | that require a bigger budget than they can muster to solve
             | (see also: disaster recovery).
        
               | yieldcrv wrote:
               | "hrrr federal government bad" is not my argument. I don't
               | think the federal government is bad. I think its budget
               | is not balanced and its funding has strings attached that
               | undermines the sovereignty of independent institutions.
               | 
               | Disaster recovery is also not the topic nor does it
               | provide any introspective ability on this topic.
               | 
               | yes, I agree if something is not within the budget, and
               | there is also no consensus, then it won't happen. I'm not
               | sure that even needed to be said, but I am familiar with
               | people that would try to make programs happen in those
               | situations too. I would vote no on those proposals in
               | those cases.
        
               | nickff wrote:
               | Please don't respond with a fake quote; double quotation
               | marks are for direct quotes (which are assumed to be from
               | the parent unless otherwise attributed). If you're going
               | to make something up, please use single quotes, and make
               | it clear that the parent didn't actually say that.
        
             | lazyasciiart wrote:
             | This is simply not true. Multiple states have tried and
             | failed to pass state funding for universal free lunches -
             | because in each state there are groups who argue giving
             | free lunches to all kids is bad. It's not an argument about
             | where the money comes from.
        
               | lazyasciiart wrote:
               | Edit: look here is one now
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43900957
        
               | yieldcrv wrote:
               | and NY State is an example of where it is true.
               | 
               | I'm not sure how the observation that other places also
               | lacked consensus at the state level discredits anything.
               | 
               | Some people dislike it on the federal level, and are fine
               | with it at the state level, as they are two different
               | organizations. My comment was only about them.
        
             | hiddencost wrote:
             | Naw. Not true.
        
           | monero-xmr wrote:
           | It's not that I don't want kids fed. It's that I know deep in
           | my soul that $100 will be spent per child, with $99 extracted
           | along the way by various politicians / consultants / unions,
           | and $1 of disgusting food will (sometimes) be provided to a
           | child.
           | 
           | Guess how I know?
           | 
           | And what I like about leftists is their sympathy. What I
           | dislike is their lack of real-world knowledge
        
             | kerkeslager wrote:
             | > It's not that I don't want kids fed. It's that I know
             | deep in my soul that $100 will be spent per child, with $99
             | extracted along the way by various politicians /
             | consultants / unions, and $1 of disgusting food will
             | (sometimes) be provided to a child.
             | 
             | If you oppose any actual steps to feed kids, then you don't
             | want the kids fed. The rest of this is just you justifying
             | why you don't want the kids fed.
             | 
             | If you want the program to feed the kids to be efficient:
             | guess what, the left wants that too, and we're really happy
             | to work to make that happen.
             | 
             | But the fact is, the right is happy to simply throw out the
             | program and let the kids starve rather than tolerate any
             | inefficiency. And notably, that inefficiency is often
             | created by right-wing policies which attempt to prevent
             | anyone perceived as not deserving aid from receiving aid.
             | 
             | If you vote Republican because you want the government to
             | be more efficient, you're piling on even more bullshit. The
             | national debt consistently increases more under Republican
             | presidents than Democratic ones[1]--the perceived austerity
             | of conservative government is entirely nonexistent. This
             | problem is only worse under Trump: DOGE has made things
             | _less_ efficient by firing and rehiring half of the workers
             | in government without even a basic understanding of how the
             | programs work and or could be improved[2].
             | 
             | > And what I like about leftists is their sympathy. What I
             | dislike is their lack of real-world knowledge
             | 
             | I'm well aware these programs are inefficient, though
             | they're certainly not 1% efficient as in your made up
             | numbers. It's just that I'm not willing to stop helping
             | people because it's inefficient. I'd like to make it more
             | efficient, but it's pretty hard to make programs more
             | efficient when people like you are constantly trying to get
             | rid of them and defund them.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.investopedia.com/democrats-vs-republicans-
             | who-ha...
             | 
             | [2]
             | https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2025/03/21/doge-
             | gove...
        
               | pnutjam wrote:
               | The arguments are so facetious and facile. India has more
               | corruption then the US and they can handle a free lunch
               | program for all kids. Why can't America?
        
               | 91bananas wrote:
               | Because many of the people that need it the most keep
               | voting against their own interests. Because education is
               | terrible in all the the states that vote red.
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | >If you oppose any actual steps to feed kids, then you
               | don't want the kids fed. The rest of this is just you
               | justifying why you don't want the kids fed.
               | 
               | Don't be ridiculous. It won't win you any arguments.
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | > And what I like about leftists is their sympathy. What I
             | dislike is their lack of real-world knowledge
             | 
             | The problem is that leftists have more real life knowledge
             | then far right, maga and Trump.
             | 
             | It was not leftists who voted for administrations that blow
             | up deficits the most while complaining about deficits. It
             | was leftists who were 100% correct about what conservatives
             | plan and do. And it is not the left who pointificates about
             | health and education ... while actively making them worst
             | and actively slashing ways to measure how they are
             | performing.
        
             | framapotari wrote:
             | "It's not that I don't want kids fed, I would just rather
             | that kids go hungry than feeding them with the inefficient
             | and corrupt system that I imagined."
        
               | inerte wrote:
               | A few of you will die of hunger, but these are taxes I am
               | not willing to pay.
        
             | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
             | don't let perfect be the enemy of good.
        
             | sorcerer-mar wrote:
             | Declining to solve a problem because the solution doesn't
             | meet abstract criteria like "the right amount of
             | efficiency?"
             | 
             | Sounds like virtue signaling to me
        
           | verisimi wrote:
           | I'll play devil's advocate, and you tell me the immorality of
           | the position.
           | 
           | Say you have no children. Is it an acceptable position to
           | hold that 'those people who have children should also be the
           | ones to look after them'? Shouldn't you have considered these
           | sorts of expenses and being able to meet them, rather than
           | expecting to receive handouts?
        
             | yojo wrote:
             | You are not denying food to the parents, you are denying
             | food to the children. They did not choose to be born, and
             | they certainly didn't choose the fiscal responsibility of
             | their parents.
             | 
             | Maybe there is room in there to shame the parents or give
             | them a slap on the wrist, but the kids are blameless and
             | denying them food makes you probably a monster.
        
               | verisimi wrote:
               | I would not deny food to a starving child, but, as an
               | emergency, that's an entirely different proposition from
               | whether everyone (even the childless) should be on the
               | hook for all children's lunches.
               | 
               | And then, why stop at lunches? Why not give all children
               | breakfast and dinner too, and buy them good clothes to
               | wear?
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | > And then, why stop at lunches? Why not give all
               | children breakfast and dinner too, and buy them good
               | clothes to wear?
               | 
               | Indeed: Why not? Certainly a better investment than yet
               | another round of tax cuts for billionaires.
        
               | verisimi wrote:
               | How about this: we give _all_ people all meals, clothes,
               | housing, heating (all essentials) _and_ spending money so
               | that they can explore their interests, travel, etc?
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | That's how most of Europe actually works: we assist those
               | who for whatever reason are unable to support themselves.
               | 
               | Granted, our systems aren't perfect either. People fall
               | through the cracks sometimes or have to deal with inane
               | bureaucracy. But you generally won't see large
               | encampments of homeless citizens openly defecating on the
               | sidewalks or school children being shamed for their
               | parents not having lunch money.
        
               | verisimi wrote:
               | 'Most of Europe'? Really? Does everyone you know gets
               | free meals, free housing, heating, etc and spending
               | money? You're dreaming!
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | > Does everyone you know gets free meals, free housing,
               | heating, etc and spending money?
               | 
               | Read again what I wrote, and read precisely this time:
               | _we assist those who for whatever reason are unable to
               | support themselves_.
        
               | hofrogs wrote:
               | This is what humanity must aim for.
        
               | verisimi wrote:
               | Humanity can't 'aim', 'think' or 'know'. 'Humanity' is
               | merely a collective noun, a linguistic shortcut.
               | 
               | Individuals people can aim, individuals have autonomy.
               | You can try to discuss and convince others (or, more
               | likely, force them). Not all individuals will have the
               | same answer - people will develop different solutions to
               | problems.
               | 
               | Some individuals see a behemoth governance system as a
               | problem in its own right, and don't think increasing it
               | even more is part of the solution. Is that an
               | unacceptable or immoral position?
               | 
               | Of course, everyone is entitled to their own views,
               | right? It's not necessary that each individual has it as
               | a creed that 'children should get free lunches', or
               | adhere to whatever other 'good idea' is currently
               | favoured, right?
               | 
               | The moral question here in reverse is, is it ok to force
               | people to pay for stuff that they don't want to? If I
               | don't want to pay for lunches, should I have my wealth
               | forcibly extracted to do so anyway?
               | 
               | Of course, the circumstances make this something of a
               | moot question - government already forcibly extracts
               | wealth from most people and spends it on whatever they
               | like, such as increased salary and pension contributions
               | on those that decrease school lunch budgets.
        
               | eesmith wrote:
               | > is it ok to force people to pay for stuff that they
               | don't want to?
               | 
               | Yes. Happens all the time. Money doesn't exist unless
               | people are forced to use it to pay for something they
               | don't want to. (read Graber's "Debt: The First 5,000
               | Years.")
               | 
               | I don't want to pay for nuclear weapons. Why am I forced
               | to pay for it through my taxes? Because if I don't, the
               | state will use its power to punish me.
               | 
               | Pacifists can't direct their tax monies to avoid military
               | expenditures.
               | 
               | Adherents to one faith can't say their taxes can't be
               | used on apostates.
               | 
               | You sound like this is a surprise. Like you don't
               | understand why people have to pay taxes for schools even
               | if they don't have children, don't understand why people
               | who don't drive still have to pay taxes for roads, don't
               | understand why people who don't swim still have to pay
               | taxes for public pools, .. the list is very long.
               | 
               | Your comments sound very much like 1980s Thatcherism -
               | "There is no such thing [as society]! There are
               | individual men and women and there are families and no
               | government can do anything except through people and
               | people look to themselves first."
               | 
               | The last 40+ years of neoliberal thought hasn't turned
               | out so well, as those who have money no longer feel
               | pressure or obligation to distribute it, resulting in a
               | return to Gilded Age power concentrations.
               | 
               | That's what you want, it seems.
               | 
               | > such as increased salary and pension contributions
               | 
               | Such as tax cuts for the rich. Make Gates "only" a
               | billionaire and we can use the remaining $100 billion to
               | pay off school lunch debt (works out the math) ...
               | forever.
               | 
               | $2.8 million debt for Utah with a population of 3 million
               | people. US population 340 million. Call it $300 million
               | in school lunch debt. Probably within an order of
               | magnitude. That's less than the interest on $100 billion.
               | 
               | Yes, the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation would have an
               | actual positive impact on education if, instead of
               | funding projects that trained educators knew would fail -
               | and eventually did fail - they has simply put their $10+
               | billion into funding school meals.
               | 
               | Instead, rich people get to fund "non-profits" that they
               | control - reducing their taxes while not relinquishing
               | the power and influence tied to their money. Gates'
               | wealth gives him a very undemocratic and malignant
               | influence over US education policy.
               | 
               | And you want to blather on about supporting student lunch
               | debt?!
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | i say this genuinely, with as much love as i can muster
               | for a stranger on the internet: this line of thought is
               | annoying to most people who understand that living
               | collectively requires sacrifice and accepting imperfect
               | solutions in the pursuit of good. individualism is a
               | weird personality myth that 99.9999999% of people will
               | never realize. kids are hungry and we can feed them. one
               | thing cannot be concretely addressed and the other thing
               | can.
               | 
               | > should I have my wealth forcibly extracted to do so
               | anyway?
               | 
               | if you have amassed anywhere near what most people would
               | consider "wealth", then yes, you should.
        
               | scotty79 wrote:
               | If you prefer ...
               | 
               | Somebody should individualistically autonomously amass
               | enough tanks so that they can point them at individuals
               | who think like you so they can make their autonomic
               | individualistic decision that they'd rather feed children
               | than be shot at by a tank.
               | 
               | We know that's how humanity does collective action nearly
               | 100% of the time, but it doesn't apply some linguistic
               | shortcuts fro the sake of moving the discussion along.
               | 
               | Morality is written by the guys who had the most tanks
               | last time.
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | If we're doing this, let's look at the other extreme as
               | well: We give all people, including children, nothing as
               | they are expected to take responsibility for themselves.
               | No education, no services, no law enforcement, no roads,
               | nothing at all.
               | 
               | These are both obviously silly examples. The 'Where do we
               | draw the line?!' answer can in this case be answered with
               | 'On the side that feeds hungry children'.
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | > If we're doing this, let's look at the other extreme as
               | well: We give all people, including children, nothing as
               | they are expected to take responsibility for themselves.
               | No education, no services, no law enforcement, no roads,
               | nothing at all.
               | 
               | In that case, people will _always_ self-organise such
               | structures anyway. Even amongst the most failed of the
               | failed states, eventually you will end up with at least
               | someone claiming to be the chief law enforcer (of
               | whatever kind), someone to look after the kids (i.e.
               | education) while the rest works to provide for food, and
               | some sort of fire brigade.
               | 
               | It will just be many orders of magnitude more inefficient
               | than what a large government that governs more than a few
               | dozen to hundred people can establish.
        
               | em-bee wrote:
               | that's called universal basic income, and it is seriously
               | being discussed.
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | >How about this: we give all people all meals, clothes,
               | housing, heating (all essentials) and spending money so
               | that they can explore their interests, travel, etc?
               | 
               | Now you're talking, let's do it. UBI FTW.
        
               | Symbiote wrote:
               | > Why not give all children breakfast and dinner too, and
               | buy them good clothes to wear?
               | 
               | You can see the rates for this in Europe, Australia,
               | Canada and South Korea here:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_benefit
        
               | 0xffany wrote:
               | In the wake of a demographic collapse, you're arguing
               | _against_ helping feed children - future tax
               | contributors, caretakers, social workers, healthcare
               | personnel...? Who will pay taxes for you when you won 't
               | be of working age anymore? Who will be your caretakers?
               | 
               | Contributing to the next generation's upbringing is the
               | least we can do, even if some won't have kids of their
               | own they would still (directly) indirectly benefit from
               | this.
        
               | jjulius wrote:
               | Are we really slippery-sloping school lunches? Wow.
        
               | sorcerer-mar wrote:
               | We might fall so far as to _ensure the children in the
               | richest society in world history are actually clothed!_
               | 
               | The horror!
        
               | umbra07 wrote:
               | But it's the logical continuation of the argument. It's
               | not like we're going from "something something unlimited
               | free speech -> something something more bullying
               | something something more suicides" - which is a slippery
               | slope fallacy if you don't show the logic or proof that
               | one leads to the other. The argument for free school
               | lunches is exactly the same as the argument for free
               | school breakfasts, free dinners, and free clothes.
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | >And then, why stop at lunches? Why not give all children
               | breakfast and dinner too, and buy them good clothes to
               | wear?
               | 
               | I'm in favor of all of that. We're trying to have a
               | society here, not sure what your problem is.
        
               | bluecheese452 wrote:
               | And the next thing you know we will demand they have
               | access to clean water.
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | > And then, why stop at lunches? Why not give all
               | children breakfast and dinner too, and buy them good
               | clothes to wear?
               | 
               | You tell me.
        
             | lurkshark wrote:
             | Even with no children of your own, you still reap benefits
             | from living in a society where children are fed.
        
             | rienbdj wrote:
             | An adult can either be a net tax contributor or a net tax
             | burden over their lifespan. The probability of them being a
             | net contributor is much higher if they are well educated
             | and not malnourished. The effect is stronger at younger
             | ages. It's good ROI for the tax payer.
        
             | madeofpalk wrote:
             | Yes. That's an acceptable position to hold. It's
             | unacceptable and inhumane to think that children should
             | starve.
             | 
             | The devil doesn't need an advocate here.
        
             | naniwaduni wrote:
             | The relevanr polities already factor children in when
             | computing taxes. All you need to do is adjust the amount.
        
             | scotty79 wrote:
             | You don't really "have" a child. A child is new separate
             | human that will eventually grow into free separate adult
             | human. The question is, do you want there to be more humans
             | in the future or are you fine with the ones that are
             | already here until they die. And should they be starved or
             | dumb?
        
             | lurking_swe wrote:
             | many problems with your argument. I will enumerate just a
             | few off the top of my head.
             | 
             | - if a child was born with poor planning from the parents,
             | it's too late and unhelpful to say "i told you so". Feeding
             | a disadvantaged child raises their chances of doing well in
             | school and reduces their chance of being a much larger
             | burden on your tax dollars down the line. Are you saying we
             | should save $5 on this child now so we can spend $100 in
             | the future (subsidizing their social security payments,
             | maybe jail time, maybe homeless, etc)? Sounds like a smart
             | business move! (sarcasm) Feeding kids is good ROI.
             | 
             | - it's possible to get pregnant even when being
             | responsible. No protection is 100% except for abstinence
             | your entire life.
             | 
             | - you can "plan" for these expenses all you want. Sometimes
             | a spouse dies. Sometimes a person needs to spend money to
             | support their aging parents, AFTER their child is born. Or
             | a divorce ruins one's finances. Or someone loses their good
             | job due to layoffs. Life is not a simple path, not sure
             | what gave you that illusion.
             | 
             | - congrats you don't have children. Guess what? When you're
             | old and need a diaper change in a nursing home, who do you
             | think will be wiping your ass? One of the nurses... one of
             | those kids that is not yours. Who will be delivering food
             | to the grocery store? That's right, one of those other
             | kids. Who will be your doctor? Right again! One of those
             | other kids.
             | 
             | - it's easy to be smug until you're unlucky in life. What
             | if tomorrow you're hit by a drunk driver and you go
             | bankrupt trying to pay for major medical bills. Suddenly
             | it's not so fun saying nobody deserves a handout. At the
             | end of the day, this mindset is an empathy problem.
             | 
             | It seems like _most_ of my fellow americans have an empathy
             | problem. Are you all dead inside? Anyway...it's useful to
             | invest in our society. Not everything is about me me me.
        
           | socalgal2 wrote:
           | You can want kids to be fed and fully believe that the
           | government giving out free meal to all kids will eventually
           | lead to kids not being feed. I can think of lots of arguments
           | 
           | Budgets might be cut directly, so can not feed some percent,
           | budgets might be cut indirectly (less tax revenue). Giving
           | out free food might make people feel entitled and less likely
           | to learn to be self sufficient. The "give a man a fish he
           | eats for day, teach him to fish he eats for a lifetime", type
           | of thinking. Some people might believe it encourages parents
           | to be irresponsible. Back to budgets, it might remove money
           | from other school needs. I guess the thinking would be,
           | schools should teach, food is not their responsibility. If it
           | comes their responsibility then they'll do less teaching
           | which is back to not helping make their students able to
           | ultimately fend for themselves but instead makes them
           | dependent.
           | 
           | I'm not saying I buy those arguments but I can see them as
           | valid arguments.
           | 
           | Helping directly is not always helpful. There's plenty of
           | examples of that. Whether that's true in this case I don't
           | know.
        
             | overfeed wrote:
             | > Giving out free food might make people feel entitled and
             | less likely to learn to be self sufficient
             | 
             | To be clear, the subject is still children, right? Refusing
             | to feed _children_ to  "teach" them self-sufficiency is,
             | IMO, right up there with a non-ironic "the children yearn
             | for the mines". What could a self-sufficient 6th-grader
             | even do for money? Steal baby food and small electronics
             | from Target for fencing?
        
               | walthamstow wrote:
               | Well, I learnt a new Americanism today. Fence, verb,
               | meaning to shift stolen goods.
               | 
               | Upon first read I thought they would be sword fighting
               | with stolen bluetooth speakers.
        
               | em-bee wrote:
               | an accelerometer and a speaker are needed for those
               | lightsaber sounds
        
               | Suppafly wrote:
               | >Fence, verb, meaning to shift stolen goods.
               | 
               | Does it not also have that meaning in commonwealth
               | countries?
        
               | walthamstow wrote:
               | I'd never heard it before, from googling it seems to be
               | antiquated language in Britain.
        
               | Symbiote wrote:
               | I (British) am familiar with the term, especially as a
               | verb like "fencing stolen goods". You can find British
               | newspapers reporting this in the last decade.
               | 
               | The legal term since 1968 seems to be "Handling Stolen
               | Goods", which might have made the word "fencing" less
               | common: https://mcgeemcgeeagarlaw.co.uk/criminal-
               | defence/handling-st...
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | Must have never played an elder scrolls game huh
        
             | lurkshark wrote:
             | I think the rebuttal to the majority of these arguments is
             | "So you want children to go hungry to prove a point?"
        
             | boneitis wrote:
             | I feel it on those concerns, though after all, I think the
             | point of some people's stances is that everybody should be
             | able to take free (and dignified) student lunches for
             | granted, as sensible as the fish-vs-how-to-fish adage is in
             | general.
             | 
             | I think the concern about entitlement better applies when
             | looking out for vultures taking advantage of these
             | campaigners' goodwill by trying to wedge themselves into
             | the middle of any cashflow for as-optimizably-marginal-as-
             | possible contribution to those pipelines. Of course, I'm
             | thinking of this more in some context of if there was a
             | sort of centralized campaign to scale up efforts, say,
             | statewide or nationwide (pardon my U.S-centric
             | perspective), to solicit donations to pay off a bunch of
             | schools' lunch debts in a region.
        
               | wredcoll wrote:
               | > I think the concern about entitlement better applies
               | when looking out for vultures taking advantage of these
               | campaigners' goodwill by trying to wedge themselves into
               | the middle of any cashflow for as-optimizably-marginal-
               | as-possible contribution to those pipelines. Of course,
               | I'm thinking of this more in some context of if there was
               | a sort of centralized campaign to scale up efforts, say,
               | statewide or nationwide (pardon my U.S-centric
               | perspective), to solicit donations to pay off a bunch of
               | schools' lunch debts in a region.
               | 
               | What on earth does this paragraph have to do with the
               | position that school children should receive free lunch?
        
             | rienbdj wrote:
             | In the specific case of free school meals:
             | 
             | - economies of scale in feeding an entire school
             | 
             | - recipients of the benefit (children) and delivery
             | mechanism (kitchens) are already at the right place and
             | time
             | 
             | - can guarantee money is spent on food rather than (for
             | example) a parents gambling addiction
             | 
             | - reduces stigma for poor children to have universality
             | 
             | - can (in theory) deliver better food using school cooking
             | facilities
             | 
             | - saves time even for parents who can afford to feed
             | children
             | 
             | - teaching a hungry child is an uphill battle
        
             | qmr wrote:
             | Yes those little shit free loading five year olds.
             | 
             | Whining about lunch when they should be in the mines.
        
               | vel0city wrote:
               | Need to start charging my toddler market rate rent. No
               | more free rides, I ain't raising woke communist kids!
        
           | walthamstow wrote:
           | Even outside of morality it's a straightforward issue.
           | Investments in children benefit the whole economy and
           | society, for decades. If a person can't see that then they
           | could be immoral but they might just be stupid.
        
             | mrguyorama wrote:
             | Plenty of human beings genuinely and earnestly believe that
             | investing in the "wrong kinds" of people would be harmful
             | to society as a whole. This is not limited to regressives
             | or conservatives either, with plenty of savants on tumbler
             | and reddit reinventing eugenics "against rich people this
             | time".
        
           | potato3732842 wrote:
           | Opinions like yours are exactly the problem. Instead of
           | understanding why people's knee jerk response to "the
           | government out to..." is a reflective "no" you just write
           | them off as immoral because that's easier than the answer to
           | this specific question is yes or fixing the general problem.
           | 
           | The other comment thread reply to you is a great example.
           | Instead of saying "well how can we craft the program so
           | everyone can be assured it will work well" it's just a bunch
           | of people straw-manning and making false equivalencies.
        
         | colechristensen wrote:
         | Minnesota did so in 2023, it's working great.
         | 
         | And importantly emphasizing "universal", we're not spending a
         | bunch of money on the bureaucracy of figuring out who gets it
         | and who qualifies and hearing people complain about fraud.
         | They're kids, everybody gets it, nobody set up a test as to
         | which gets get free food.
         | 
         | I pay both MN and NY taxes and couldn't be happier about this
         | expenditure.
        
           | indrora wrote:
           | If I recall correctly, the MN movement started with St. Paul
           | Public Schools doing it and their test scores (as a result)
           | shooting through the roof.
           | 
           | I know that free breakfast is another thing that Minnesota
           | did, apparently?
        
             | colechristensen wrote:
             | It's both breakfast and lunch.
             | 
             | It built upon programs during covid that provided food for
             | kids when schools were closed.
        
       | fluorinerocket wrote:
       | It always was crazy that kids have to go to school by law but the
       | meals aren't free. Seems to defy common sense
        
       | yongjik wrote:
       | South Korea started dabbling in free school lunches around 2001 -
       | when a few schools started it. It gained momentum, and then it
       | became a huge debate in 2011, when Seoul's mayor somehow decided
       | he hated free lunches so much that he arranged a referendum, and
       | said he would quit if people didn't agree with him on the matter.
       | He did quit.
       | 
       | Fast forward to 2025, and now free school lunches are nearly
       | ubiquitous. Once people experience it, few want to go back.
       | Because it's a much more efficient and hassle-free system.
       | 
       | Yes, of course the money is coming from tax: in other words, if
       | you're a middle-class parent, nothing changed. You're still
       | paying for your kids' lunch one way or the other. But you don't
       | have to pay for a gratuitous system of bureaucracy that keeps
       | track of which kids' parents are making how much money, and
       | whether each kid is "eligible" to eat lunch today, so your money
       | is actually being used more efficiently with less overhead.
        
         | roughly wrote:
         | > Seoul's mayor somehow decided he hated free lunches so much
         | that he arranged a referendum, and said he would quit if people
         | didn't agree with him on the matter. He did quit.
         | 
         | It's nice when things work out.
        
         | Suppafly wrote:
         | >But you don't have to pay for a gratuitous system of
         | bureaucracy
         | 
         | This is what's frustrating about America. There is so much
         | bureaucracy that exists only to pay for itself, and I suppose,
         | provide a few jobs, but you're an unreasonable socialist if you
         | point out that it'd be cheaper just to not keep track of who
         | needs to pay and give food to everyone for free instead.
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > This is what's frustrating about America. There is so much
           | bureaucracy that exists only to pay for itself, and I
           | suppose, provide a few jobs,
           | 
           | No, it exists _to prevent people from receiving public
           | services_ , both by its direct operation and indirectly by
           | making the service more painful to use so people who would be
           | entitled to use it nevertheless avoid it.
        
             | noworriesnate wrote:
             | For the first part, that will always be necessary. The
             | people are supposed to decide through indirect democracy
             | who is qualified to receive welfare.
             | 
             | But your second point is very true. It can be very painful
             | to interact with the bureaucracy, something people
             | shouldn't have to deal with when they're at the bottom of
             | the barrel.
        
           | umeshunni wrote:
           | And yet when someone tries to cut down bureaucracy, it's
           | called fascism and people start burning cars.
        
             | Ey7NFZ3P0nzAe wrote:
             | The concept of cutting costs of things is totally
             | orthogonal to political opinions. Fascism and bureaucracy
             | are not really related, it's just that there are fascist
             | ways to do things.
        
         | nothercastle wrote:
         | In America even if we enacted this the kids would get meals
         | that are terrible like 10$ chicken strips, hotdogs and fake
         | pizza
        
           | umeshunni wrote:
           | Huh? We have free lunch in all schools in California and they
           | serve everything from pizza to burritos to hamburgers.
        
             | Tarsul wrote:
             | Ummm... that's not quite the retort you think it is.
        
             | nothercastle wrote:
             | We had a 2 tier system in cali. The poor people ate state
             | provided slop and the slightly less poor people ate fast
             | food. We had Pizza Hut, chick fillet, chipotle. Both were
             | unhealthy options tough and option 2 was quite expensive
             | even back 20 years ago it was 10$ or so.
        
           | mrguyorama wrote:
           | In America this has been the case since at least the 90s.
           | School lunch budgets/prices did not keep up with inflation
           | since the 70s, and increases in the costs of lunch cook labor
           | means the same money does not provide like it used to.
           | Schools have nearly universally converted to reheating the
           | cheapest frozen foodstuffs from whichever supplier provided
           | the best kickback to the board.
           | 
           | Meanwhile kids themselves have participated in the problem.
           | It's common to have several different choices for lunch, with
           | a daily rotating menu "hot" item/meal, or choices of cheap
           | staples like chicken burgers, peanut butter and jelly
           | sandwiches, and the worst quality "pizza" you can imagine,
           | think if Domino's found a way to cut their supply costs in
           | half. A shocking amount of children will insist on eating
           | that god awful pizza every single day. I couldn't understand
           | it when I was a kid, and I was super picky at the time!
           | 
           | Michelle Obama wanted to improve this, but she was called a
           | communist and a man and a monkey, and now conservatives all
           | belief this poor quality school lunch problem is her fault?
           | It doesn't actually make any sense.
        
       | roughly wrote:
       | > "That's stupid," she said with 7-year-old clarity. "Why don't
       | they just let them eat?"
       | 
       | We'll spend the rest of that child's life convincing them that
       | the answer to that is complicated.
        
         | lmz wrote:
         | I think she'll learn the answer after she gets a job and needs
         | to pay for food.
        
           | Spivak wrote:
           | Yes, as an adult she will learn that it's _extra_ stupid
           | because as a child she had no means or autonomy to work for
           | and pay for her own food.
           | 
           | I mean I've heard tell that children yearn for the mines but
           | when it's the responsibility of adults to provide for the
           | material needs of children any adult who actively
           | participates in a system which seeks to deny a child those
           | needs is at the top of my shitlist. There is no universe
           | where I wouldn't just give food to a child who is hungry in
           | my proximity.
        
       | zoom6628 wrote:
       | One word for this - heroic.
        
       | crummy wrote:
       | A political party in New Zealand just considered rolling back
       | school lunches to only those in need, rather than every kid at a
       | lower decile school. This article is a great response to why that
       | is a bad idea.
        
       | etchalon wrote:
       | Orphan-Crushing Machine
        
       | ThomW wrote:
       | It absolutely floors me that children are forced by law to attend
       | school and they don't automatically get a hot meal. That's
       | irresponsible.
        
         | analog31 wrote:
         | A weird aspect of my childhood: I brought a sandwich to lunch
         | every day when I was in school. At first, my mom made it, but
         | very quickly it became my own job, not that it was particularly
         | difficult.
         | 
         | The school had subsidized lunches and milk. I always brought a
         | nickel for milk. The teacher collected everybody's lunch money
         | at the start of the day. That way, it was utterly opaque who
         | was getting it for free. A simple system, appropriate for the
         | times.
         | 
         | But I remember that my lunch was always better than the grim
         | school lunch, and I always wondered: _Why can 't they ditch the
         | hot lunch, and just give everybody a nice sandwich, and a piece
         | of fruit, which is better?_
         | 
         | I'm sure there are good arguments for the hot lunch, but still
         | it's counterintuitive to me. And 55 years later, I still bring
         | a sandwich, or leftovers, for lunch, and skip the hot meal at
         | the company cafeteria.
        
           | ViscountPenguin wrote:
           | Here in Australia packed lunches are the standard, but
           | something like a Japanese or Russian school lunch seems
           | obviously superior in my mind.
           | 
           | At the very least I wish my school had let kids use the
           | microwave, cold leftovers get a bit disappointing over time.
        
       | MagicMoonlight wrote:
       | Paying off the debt doesn't solve anything. They'll get to buy
       | one meal, go back into debt because their parent doesn't top up
       | the account, and get banned again.
        
         | trelane wrote:
         | exactly my thought. (But also, the kid isn't banned, they are
         | just restricted to the cold lunch for some reason. This is not
         | universal. And most (all?) places let you bring your lunch)
         | 
         | Seems like the author is almost at a solution: partner with
         | schools to pay for the kids' lunches on an ongoing basis.
        
       | guywithahat wrote:
       | This whole fight feels nonsensical. This isn't a money issue,
       | it's just a convenience issue. It was the same way with my
       | parents when I was in school; they made plenty of money, but it
       | was a pain trying to fill a lunch card or give my cash to buy
       | lunches.
       | 
       | There are a million programs for kids who are legitimately too
       | poor to pay for lunches, not to mention bringing a lunch which is
       | significantly cheaper and probably better for the kid. This guy
       | just paid for lazy parents
        
       | Cockbrand wrote:
       | In case you aren't allow to read the article b/c of your
       | adblocker: https://archive.ph/LZiES
        
       | gigatexal wrote:
       | Bravo to this guy. I'm donating. I hope he continues to help kids
       | but then helps get the legislation changed such that school
       | lunches are free. It's an investment in the kids. With food in
       | their bellies they can better focus on learning.
       | 
       | Why the f should a child have to pay for their food at school the
       | purpose is to learn not be faced with the realization their
       | families are poor every single day.
        
       | subarctic wrote:
       | This article doesn't seem to really explain how this whole debt
       | thing works. What I'm guessing happens is some kids go to the
       | cafeteria and get food, and then their parents are supposed to
       | pay the bill later, and they can't afford it so they don't (and
       | maybe their parents told them they can't afford and they're
       | supposed to bring a lunch to school but they didn't listen, or
       | their parents didn't tell them). So then the lunchlady has to act
       | like a debt collector and go take their food away and replace it
       | with something cheaper (not sure why they just don't decline them
       | the hot lunch food in the first place).
       | 
       | Does this sound right?
        
         | osiriskang wrote:
         | I can only speak for my own schools in the USA, but this is not
         | quite right. As a student, you were expected to pay for lunch
         | at lunchtime. If you were privileged enough to afford it,
         | generally your parents would give you enough money to fill your
         | lunch account for 1-2 weeks.
         | 
         | If you did not have enough money in your account to cover the
         | meal, which was a set price for staples with extras (i.e.,
         | extra side dishes, snacks, drinks aside from water/milk) adding
         | to the price, you would be required to have no more than a ham
         | sandwich and milk, or if the cashier was feeling nice allow you
         | to accrue debt/take the lunch for free. From what I have heard,
         | this is how it was generally when I was in school.
         | 
         | The movie stereotype of the bully "coming for your lunch money"
         | while fairly anachronistic in my school years was not a
         | completely unheard of scenario.
        
         | Suppafly wrote:
         | >So then the lunchlady has to act like a debt collector and go
         | take their food away and replace it with something cheaper (not
         | sure why they just don't decline them the hot lunch food in the
         | first place).
         | 
         | I'm sure it works 1000 different ways in 1000 different
         | schools, but generally you pick up the tray at the beginning of
         | the line and pay at the end of the line, so kids that are broke
         | get to the end of the line and can't pay and then have the tray
         | taken away and are handed a brown bag with a sandwich in it
         | instead. Since most of these systems are tied to a lunch card
         | or their student id, they don't know that they don't have any
         | money left to pay until they get to the register and are told
         | they don't. Likely they are allowed to "overdraft" by a week or
         | two worth before they get to that point, but I'm sure some
         | schools probably cut them off immediately. The overdraft is
         | what the author in the OP is paying off, so now those kids are
         | back zero and get to overdraft another week or two until they
         | are cut off again. Or theoretically their parents that couldn't
         | pay the overdraft off might be in a position to at least pay
         | going forward.
        
       | ziofill wrote:
       | I don't know exactly why but I so much appreciated the 'average
       | guy-ness' and humility of the author. Good job, man. I wish there
       | were more good people like you, starting with me...
        
       | danans wrote:
       | For anyone from places in the US or abroad who can't understand
       | why a society would subject children to this sort of situation,
       | here are some of the attitudes that give rise to it:
       | 
       | "I shouldn't have to pay to feed other people's kids"
       | 
       | "If you don't shame the kids, the parents will never take
       | responsibility for them"
       | 
       | "A lot of those [poor] kids are overweight anyways"
       | 
       | I've heard all of these said in some form.
        
       | mtnGoat wrote:
       | As someone who experienced this first hand growing up. I consider
       | how someone feels about free school lunch, a basic test of their
       | humanity.
       | 
       | If you think kids should go hungry or be embarrassed at school
       | because of their parents finances... we can't be friends, nor
       | acquaintances. IMHO, you are subhuman at that point and not worth
       | my time.
       | 
       | My dad believed that because he paid taxes he shouldn't have to
       | pay the school to feed me. I begged, borrowed, and stole spare
       | change to pay. He'd chip in once in a while, but once you are so
       | far in debt they won't feed you anymore (at least they didn't at
       | the time). I remember going to the lost and found every day to
       | check the pockets of the clothes in there. I learned how to pick
       | the locks on the gym lockers and would steal money from other
       | kids pockets. I sometimes left school so I could go steal lunch
       | from a grocery store near by. I got caught once, but after the
       | lady knew what was up, she conveniently was always looking away
       | from me during mid day of I came in. From the bottom of my heart
       | I hope she receives every possible blessing in this life.
       | 
       | No child should have to do that. Ever! Happy to pay taxes to and
       | live in a state that has solved this problem!
        
         | oulipo wrote:
         | "My dad believed that because he paid taxes he shouldn't have
         | to pay the school to feed me."
         | 
         | I understand this is not what is meant here... but in a sense
         | he's right. In a normal society where everyone pay taxes and
         | they are well spent, it should be indeed the Government that's
         | in charge of feeding kids at school
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | Absolutely, and more states are starting to realize this.
           | Covering basic needs for the most vulnerable is a cornerstone
           | of community and a sign of success.
        
           | baq wrote:
           | He's right but if everyone around you tells you you're wrong,
           | you're also in a very bad spot.
           | 
           | If your kids are hurting because you stand on the moral high
           | ground... you get your cigs stolen from, by your children no
           | less. All for the psychological comfort of being right.
           | 
           | You could say he was right, just early: this is also known as
           | _very wrong_ in e.g. financial markets.
        
           | exitb wrote:
           | Taxes aren't magic, you pay some money and receive some
           | services. It's obviously possible to fund meals with tax
           | money, but would he accept a higher tax rate to cover for it?
        
             | redwall_hp wrote:
             | I would accept one fewer aircraft carrier to fund school
             | lunches for the foreseeable future.
             | 
             | Also, food cost is effectively artificial. We literally pay
             | farmers not to farm to keep prices viable for market games.
             | Instead of doing that, the government could buy a fraction
             | of athe excess for school systems.
             | 
             | And yes, I'd accept taxes on par with non-trashfire
             | countries if they resulted in the society and services of
             | those countries.
        
         | mlyle wrote:
         | I don't know what the correct answer is.
         | 
         | The tricky thing is, if you let anyone just choose not to pay,
         | there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying who
         | don't bother. In your case, it sounds like your dad was maybe
         | capable of paying but wanted to freeload.
         | 
         | So as long as you're going to charge for lunches, you need to
         | have _some_ kind of enforcement mechanism. Embarrassing the kid
         | ideally would not be part of it.
         | 
         | California pays for it all, but California is a pretty rich
         | state. And if you're a poorer state, you have the choice
         | between eliminating this problem, or addressing many other
         | types of educational need.
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | Just roll it into property taxes and call it a day. This is
           | not a political issue in my mind, but a basic humanity issue.
           | A child with hunger pangs isn't focused on learning, if you
           | can't cover the basic need, the rest is a waste. The haves,
           | selfishly don't want to help subsidize the have nots. Which I
           | get, BUT these are kids, we as adults should leave them out
           | of it, sack up, and deal with it.
           | 
           | You are correct, my dad was a civil engineer, he very much
           | could afford it. I guess he thought high end alcohol and golf
           | were better expenditures. I found it interesting that the
           | article mentions a lot of the debt isn't from the lowest
           | income brackets.
        
             | gopalv wrote:
             | > Just roll it into property taxes and call it a day.
             | 
             | It's what my district does and the benefits are obvious -
             | there's no "gimme your lunch money" kids who have it hard
             | at home & trying to supplement their diets.
             | 
             | The school even hands out a free breakfast, which serves as
             | monitored childcare for the parents who need to drop their
             | kids off before 8 AM, to get to work. The highschool also
             | gives out double servings for kids who come off the morning
             | sports practice sessions.
             | 
             | The cynic in me says the biggest beneficiary will be the US
             | Army, who can reliably look for a stream of well fed kids
             | from families which aren't doing well enough to pay for
             | college.
        
           | hiddencost wrote:
           | This is why we have taxes. Because we can assess how much
           | each person can afford to pay, and then make collective
           | decisions that can't be made by inefficient free market
           | mechanisms.
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | > The tricky thing is, if you let anyone just choose not to
           | pay, there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying
           | who don't bother.
           | 
           | I quite frankly don't care about that type of arguments
           | anymore. If someone wants to be a bad person they are free to
           | do so. I don't care, it should not stop the 95%, or more,
           | that want to do the right thing.
           | 
           | We continuously make more and more convoluted rules, which
           | are a nightmare for decent people to navigate, but which are
           | just ignored by the assholes. I don't care about fighting the
           | assholes for what is minor amounts, if it means overburdening
           | good people with rules which weren't meant for them anyway.
           | 
           | Moving it to taxes essentially does the same thing. The
           | assholes weasel their way out of paying their fair share,
           | while those who want the best for society and everyone is
           | stuck paying the full amount.
        
           | mulmen wrote:
           | > I don't know what the correct answer is.
           | 
           | I do.
           | 
           | > The tricky thing is, if you let anyone just choose not to
           | pay, there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying
           | who don't bother.
           | 
           | It isn't tricky. It's taxes.
           | 
           | There's not nuance here. There's only hate and spite for
           | those less fortunate.
        
           | nucleardog wrote:
           | > The tricky thing is, if you let anyone just choose not to
           | pay, there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying
           | who don't bother. In your case, it sounds like your dad was
           | maybe capable of paying but wanted to freeload.
           | 
           | I say this as an IT worker making what most would consider an
           | absurd amount of money and pays 0.55*absurd money in taxes, a
           | dad, a human, etc... what the fuck does any of this matter.
           | 
           | If a child is hungry, the only concern is feeding that child.
           | A child is, pretty much by definition, incapable of fully
           | caring for themselves. If their parents fail to care for
           | them, we have various mechanisms for the state to step in in
           | their stead up to and including taking them away and giving
           | them to someone else.
           | 
           | "Sorry, Johnny, your dad has the money to pay for lunch but
           | chose not to so we're punishing you with going hungry until
           | he wises up."
           | 
           | Full stop no.
           | 
           | If a child is hungry, they get fed. Politics can dictate that
           | adults who are less valuable deserve to starve to death.
           | Politics can dictate that adults who can afford to feed their
           | child but choose not to need to be punished, taxed more, or
           | anything else.
           | 
           | But we, as a society, have the means to ensure that no child
           | ever has to go hungry. Every decision that leads to hungry
           | children is offensive, and anyone choosing to punish adults
           | by starving their children is a monster.
           | 
           | Downvote, flag, or come fight me. I'll die on this hill:
           | Neglecting children is bad and anyone who could help and
           | doesn't is at fault.
        
             | graemep wrote:
             | I agree the child should be fed, but we also need to think
             | about the other wide of this.
             | 
             | It sounds as though the dad in this case was able to pay
             | but refused to pay. What sort of person puts their own
             | child through this to make a point? It is neglectful or
             | abusive.
        
               | nkrisc wrote:
               | Yeah, it is abuse. But feed the child if the parents
               | won't or can't.
        
               | pertymcpert wrote:
               | You know there are countless parents that abuse their
               | kids, physically, emotionally, sexually. They rape their
               | kids and strangle them until they pass out. They hit them
               | in places where bruises aren't visible. They break bones
               | and threaten the kids with death if they dare tell anyone
               | or show their injury or pain.
               | 
               | Why do we suddenly need to especially think about the
               | other side of this because tax money is involved? Now we
               | need to care?
        
               | graemep wrote:
               | No, we should care in all cases.
               | 
               | The point is that the problem is not necessarily fixed by
               | providing lunch. What else is going on if someone is
               | deliberately not feeding a child?
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | Why would providing food preclude support for victims of
               | or intervention in other types of abuse?
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | All the more reason for using schools to feed children
               | who may be abused and starved at home.
        
               | graemep wrote:
               | Yes, but is that all you do? One meal a day does not
               | solve the problems of an abused child.
        
               | ninalanyon wrote:
               | That really is someone else's problem. The best the
               | school can do is feed and support the child and report
               | the abuse to the relevant authorities.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | You know, we say "don't let perfection be the enemy of
               | the good" a lot for technical problems but it's far more
               | critical here. A child from a failing home has a lot of
               | problems and it often takes a long time to solve them,
               | but we can for a trivial amount of money ensure that
               | child isn't malnourished because they get breakfast,
               | lunch, and in many Title 1 schools, dinner. Many of the
               | other problems of poverty, neglect, or abuse are much
               | harder to solve - e.g. sending a child to foster care
               | might be the solution for abuse but it's slow and has
               | plenty of risks of its own - but this one is easy and
               | cheap to fix while we work on the hard problems.
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | > What sort of person puts their own child through this
               | to make a point? It is neglectful or abusive.
               | 
               | So... your point is that not feeding the child is
               | neglectful or abusive?
               | 
               | That's basically the position that proponents of free
               | school meals have.
        
             | charcircuit wrote:
             | >A child is, pretty much by definition, incapable of fully
             | caring for themselves.
             | 
             | This is disrespectful to the intelligence of children.
             | 
             | >we're punishing you with going hungry until he wises up
             | 
             | Not giving people free things is not a punishment.
             | 
             | >as a society, have the means to ensure that no child ever
             | has to go hungry.
             | 
             | Giving away free food is not the only way to achieve that.
             | 
             | >Every decision that leads to hungry children is offensive
             | 
             | I disagree as there may be times where it is fine. This
             | statement to me is equivalent to saying that we shouldn't
             | make children feel sadness or pain. These are just parts of
             | living. People will naturally experience them and later
             | move on.
             | 
             | >punish adults by starving their children
             | 
             | Schools do not starve children. While yes schools prohihit
             | people from leaving, school only last for a part of the day
             | before they are released, and parents can pickup a child at
             | any time. In order to starve someone you need to block
             | access to food for a very long period of time.
        
               | decimalenough wrote:
               | I'm not sure where to even begin with this, but a large
               | part of why free school lunches exist is that there are
               | many kids in abusive or simply desperately poor families
               | who do _not_ get fed properly, meaning that the school
               | lunch may be the _only_ decent meal they get.
               | 
               | > Not giving people free things is not a punishment.
               | 
               | This is absurd. Kids don't have money to purchase what
               | they need, so parents have a duty to feed, clothe, house
               | etc them. Intentionally not providing children what they
               | _need_ , like food, is abuse, period.
        
               | charcircuit wrote:
               | >meaning that the school lunch may be the only decent
               | meal they get
               | 
               | "Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a
               | man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime."
               | 
               | By giving away food you are getting people stuck in a bad
               | situation. Preventing a reconfiguration of people's
               | lives. A kid could have figured out how to get 3 proper
               | meals a day if they had to figure out how to get food
               | themselves instead of sustaining themselves on a single
               | daily handout.
               | 
               | >Kids don't have money to purchase what they need
               | 
               | Again you are underestimating the abilities of kids. They
               | are capable of providing value to others and consequently
               | receiving money or goods that they need.
               | 
               | >parents have a duty to feed, clothe, house etc them.
               | 
               | But this duty is not because their children don't have
               | money. The duty is because they are family. I wouldn't
               | expect a patent to take in every homeless person to their
               | household because they don't have money to purchase what
               | they need.
               | 
               | >Intentionally not providing children what they need,
               | like food, is abuse, period.
               | 
               | I think it's more complex. Parents have power over
               | children and using that power they can restrict what they
               | do and make it impossible for them to acquire what they
               | need. To me this restriction is what is abusive and it
               | would apply to anyone else. If you locked anyone in a
               | room and denied them water, that would be abuse.
        
               | jdbernard wrote:
               | > >parents have a duty to feed, clothe, house etc them.
               | 
               | > But this duty is not because their children don't have
               | money. The duty is because they are family.
               | 
               | I'd like to live in a society where we extend this duty
               | to the society. It is the parent's duty foremost, but we
               | as a society should see this as our duty as well, at the
               | very least for our children (and let's think of it that
               | way, _we_ are in this together, at least when it comes to
               | _our_ children).
               | 
               | > A kid could have figured out how to get 3 proper meals
               | a day if they had to figure out how to get food
               | themselves instead of sustaining themselves on a single
               | daily handout.
               | 
               | I'm with you as far as the principle of personal
               | responsibility is concerned, we are all better when
               | everyone contributes, and I agree that we should teach
               | our children this principle. However, the whole reason
               | that, even legally, we don't treat kids as adults is that
               | they are _not_ adults, _cannot_ and _should not_ be held
               | to the same standards. Withholding the basic necessities
               | of life is not the way to teach this principle.
               | 
               | It doesn't even work consistently. I'd argue that many of
               | the people that _are_ fraudulently taking advantage of
               | welfare programs are doing so because they were taught,
               | _as kids_ , that society doesn't care about them. So why
               | should they care about us? Why shouldn't they take
               | advantage of whatever they can? I'm not justifying this
               | position, or even saying it is logically sound, but _kids
               | are not adults_. If withholding school lunches is your
               | method for  "teaching responsibility" it is really
               | ineffective.
               | 
               | Just feed the kids. We're not giving them free Xboxes.
               | We're keeping them healthy and alive so that they can
               | learn.
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | > Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a
               | man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.
               | 
               | It's a lot easier to teach someone when they aren't
               | starving.
               | 
               | Teaching someone to fish almost certainly requires giving
               | them a fish.
               | 
               | That's how teaching works. First you do it for them, then
               | you ask them to try and you help them when they falter.
        
               | wredcoll wrote:
               | > By giving away food you are getting people stuck in a
               | bad situation. Preventing a reconfiguration of people's
               | lives. A kid could have figured out how to get 3 proper
               | meals a day if they had to figure out how to get food
               | themselves instead of sustaining themselves on a single
               | daily handout.
               | 
               | You realize this is a completely invented statement of
               | faith, right? It has no data or research supporting it.
        
             | em-bee wrote:
             | exactly. if you want to play hardball, then send a bill to
             | the parents. send a debt collector if you believe that they
             | have the money. but don't withhold food from the children.
             | i mean we might as well bar children from school if their
             | parents don't pay taxes. it's really the same thing.
        
             | ninalanyon wrote:
             | > anyone choosing to punish adults by starving their
             | children is a monster.
             | 
             | Well said!
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > The tricky thing is, if you let anyone just choose not to
           | pay, there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying
           | who don't bother.
           | 
           | So what? Assuming you have a progressive tax system in the
           | first place, the people that are capable of paying are, in
           | fact, _actually paying for the service_ in any case. Why
           | charge them _again_?
           | 
           | > So as long as you're going to charge for lunches, you need
           | to have some kind of enforcement mechanism.
           | 
           | Yes, and one of the reasons for free universal public
           | programs paid for by progressive taxes are often better than
           | means-tested programs is that enforcement isn't free (and
           | neither, in the case of school lunches, is handling money for
           | payment for the people that your means-tested free lunch
           | program now means are required to pay for the service) so you
           | end up spending a whole lot more between payment processing
           | and eligibility verification and enforcement than you save by
           | excluding _the people actually paying for the service by
           | higher taxes_ from receiving the service.
        
           | camgunz wrote:
           | There are no moral hazards when it comes to social welfare
           | programs. People _really_ think there are, but every time we
           | look we find practically no freeloaders. This idea that we
           | have to threaten people with literal starvation to get them
           | to be productive members of society is ironically deeply
           | impoverished.
           | 
           | And if we really think that's true, why do we let people
           | accrue wealth at all? Why do we then think that the most
           | productive people in our society are also the richest?
           | Shouldn't it be the opposite? I struggle to see the pillars
           | of this moral structure in any other way than "poor people
           | are a different breed and need stricter rules to keep them in
           | line". Which again is super wrong! TFA cites research that
           | shows that these kids' parents work, but their wages/bills
           | are too low/high. Does anyone want to guess how bad those
           | parents' jobs are? Do we need to detail the struggles working
           | people go through (lack of health care, wildly inconsistent
           | hours, sexual harassment and assault, etc)? The nicest thing
           | you can say about this kind of thinking is that it's out of
           | date.
           | 
           | And what is "freeloading" anyway? Kids of all backgrounds and
           | parenting situations get to _eat_? Bring on the freeloading
           | then. Who do I make the check out to?
        
             | 0xDEAFBEAD wrote:
             | >People really think there are, but every time we look we
             | find practically no freeloaders.
             | 
             | I don't believe that is true. You didn't provide any
             | support for your claim at all either. Let's just consider a
             | single example:
             | 
             | >In the past three decades, the number of Americans who are
             | on disability has skyrocketed. The rise has come even as
             | medical advances have allowed many more people to remain on
             | the job, and new laws have banned workplace discrimination
             | against the disabled. Every month, 14 million people now
             | get a disability check from the government.
             | 
             | >...
             | 
             | >I talked to lots of people in Hale County who were on
             | disability. Sometimes, the disability seemed unambiguous.
             | 
             | >...
             | 
             | >As far as the federal government is concerned, you're
             | disabled if you have a medical condition that makes it
             | impossible to work. In practice, it's a judgment call made
             | in doctors' offices and courtrooms around the country. The
             | health problems where there is most latitude for judgment
             | -- back pain, mental illness -- are among the fastest
             | growing causes of disability.
             | 
             | This is from NPR of all places: https://apps.npr.org/unfit-
             | for-work/
             | 
             | Why are these health problems growing so fast? The obvious
             | explanation is that the stigma against faking disability is
             | evaporating in places like Hale County. That's how they got
             | to the point where 1 in 4 working-age adults is on
             | disability there.
             | 
             | Another example: mtnGoat stated that their father was
             | perfectly capable of paying for lunch but did not do so. If
             | there was a need-based lunch program, mtnGoat would
             | presumably be a "freeloader".
             | 
             | Arguably, the real problem in mtnGoat's case is they had an
             | abusive parent. The relevant state tool would be child-
             | protective services, not a cafeteria lunch lady.
             | 
             | I'm in favor of free school lunches for kids. But I'm very
             | annoyed with the strawmanning in this thread. For example,
             | it seems like a strawman to say that people who are against
             | free school lunches "want kids to go hungry". Maybe they
             | just believe that parents should be responsible rather than
             | the state.
        
               | taurath wrote:
               | If you've ever considered going on disability, or needed
               | to, you'd be very quickly enlightened. It's hard. You
               | have to have documentation, you will get denied. Even
               | then the benefits are pretty shit. It's not a thing that
               | you can just accidently get. There's a lot of people who
               | are just disabled.
               | 
               | What happens if the parents who should be responsible,
               | aren't?
        
               | lukan wrote:
               | "What happens if the parents who should be responsible,
               | aren't?"
               | 
               | Normally, child protection service?
               | 
               | (But what I know, they don't always improve things)
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | Which do you think is cheaper: Involving social services
               | because someone isn't paying for school lunch, which
               | would involve the state either paying foster parents or
               | providing other costly monitoring, possible court cases,
               | and/or support, or simply covering the cost of school
               | lunches?
        
               | lukan wrote:
               | Simply covering school lunches, if this would be the
               | decusion here.
               | 
               | But that wouldn't solve the problem of negligent parents,
               | only ease things a little bit for children.
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | But "negligent" isn't a binary, and it's not just parents
               | who don't want to, but parents who can't afford to. For a
               | lot of children, easing things a little bit might be all
               | that is needed. For others it might ease things enough
               | that it can be part of a set of relatively light
               | interventions.
               | 
               | For those who genuinely need more heavy handed
               | interventions, it's not a solution, but it's also not in
               | any way detrimental.
        
               | lukan wrote:
               | Yeah, but in this concrete case we are talking about
               | someone whose parents could have afford it, but didn't to
               | teach the state a lesson or something, but all they(or
               | he) did was made life hell for their son. That is a
               | serious parent fault and someone acting like this here,
               | would likely also act weird with other things.
               | 
               | But like I stated, I am not a fan of child protection
               | service, they can make things worse.
               | 
               | And if school is free, so should be lunch for the
               | students. Apparently people assumed I opposed that here?
        
               | switch007 wrote:
               | For every story about it being difficult to claim, there
               | are plenty about people who haven't worked for 20 years
               | who have received over PS400,000 in welfare, who could
               | have worked, because they learnt the game. The two sides
               | have to move beyond these talking points if any useful
               | discussion is to be had.
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | > For every story about it being difficult to claim,
               | there are plenty about people who haven't worked for 20
               | years who have received over PS400,000 in welfare
               | 
               | This is perfectly accurate: the _stories you hear_ make
               | these issues out to be equal, when in fact they 're
               | anything but. Study after study shows that work
               | requirements (the policy you're implicitly advocating for
               | here) do not work:
               | 
               | https://www.cbpp.org/research/poverty-and-
               | inequality/expandi...
               | 
               | https://www.cbpp.org/blog/work-requirements-dont-work
               | 
               | https://www.cbpp.org/blog/more-evidence-that-work-
               | requiremen...
               | 
               | https://www.cbpp.org/research/tanf-studies-show-work-
               | require...
               | 
               | https://www.epi.org/publication/snap-medicaid-work-
               | requireme...
               | 
               | More to the point, millions of people are eligible for
               | TANF benefits but don't receive them. Which is to say,
               | even if there are some people scamming the system,
               | there's tons of people who could legitimately receive
               | benefits but don't.
               | 
               | ---
               | 
               | The overall point here is that if we let criminals and a
               | very small number of freeloaders sour us on these
               | programs, we literally let kids go hungry; we literally
               | let them die of preventable illnesses; etc. etc. It is
               | absolutely bonkers to me that we are making this
               | tradeoff.
        
               | switch007 wrote:
               | FWIW I do more than "hear" about these "stories". My
               | figures weren't just made up. Personal experience but I'm
               | not saying more than that
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | so, you anecdotally know enough people who are somehow
               | receiving benefits you don't think they deserve to tip
               | the scale by a statistically relevant amount?
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | > I'm in favor of free school lunches for kids. But I'm
               | very annoyed with the strawmanning in this thread. For
               | example, it seems like a strawman to say that people who
               | are against free school lunches "want kids to go hungry".
               | Maybe they just believe that parents should be
               | responsible rather than the state.
               | 
               | If parents are responsible then the children of the
               | parents who can't or won't provide will go hungry. That
               | is a fact. You may not _want_ children to go hungry but
               | if you advocate for that system then you are absolutely
               | okay with a number of children going hungry.
        
               | BoingBoomTschak wrote:
               | Look into the expression "perverse incentive". Maybe he
               | doesn't want people so thoughtless they'd make children
               | without being able to feed them to do so?
               | 
               | Also, too many Americans blindly praising socialism
               | without knowing its consequences in the deep end. It's
               | not all rainbows and butterflies.
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | I find it such a weird take to call feeding children at
               | school socialism with grave consequences but taxpayer
               | funded mandatory education isn't.
        
               | BoingBoomTschak wrote:
               | 1) Only a very few people are expected to be able (time
               | and competency) to give a general education to their
               | children, unlike feeding/housing.
               | 
               | 2) Let's be real, it's not just socialism/charity, one of
               | the major reasons for compulsory education is shaping
               | malleable young minds (for good or bad, mind you).
        
               | rwmj wrote:
               | And presumably you want them shaped in the best possible
               | way, which is hardly possible if children are hungry or
               | undernourished.
        
               | framapotari wrote:
               | 1) If they don't have time or competency then surely they
               | can pay for the services of someone who can. Most people
               | don't have the time or competency to grow their own food
               | but we still expect them to purchase their food from
               | someone who can.
               | 
               | 2) The state taking money from people by force in order
               | to mandate the shaping of malleable young minds sounds
               | like exactly the kind of grave consequences of socialism
               | you fear.
        
               | jdbernard wrote:
               | This is the thing to me. I'm sympathetic to the concern
               | of people taking advantage of others, but if the
               | government is forcing children to be there (which we
               | are), and already having to bear the cost of funding
               | these schools generally, we really should include the
               | cost of basic nutrition for all students as an operating
               | cost, just like the electric bill and teacher's salaries.
        
               | thrance wrote:
               | Yeah, I'm a socialist: I believe children shouldn't be
               | hungry in the richest country the Earth has ever seen.
               | Sue me. Your slippery slope fallacy is no excuse for you
               | willingness to let children starve.
               | 
               | Your country is falling into fasicsm and there are still
               | people like you going "feeding kids is _literally
               | communism_ ". No wonder this country is going down, its
               | citizens are incapable of the most basic compassion
               | toward one another.
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | Pray tell what horrible consequences you expect from
               | feeding children to ensure they don't go hungry.
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | i don't think you understand what socialism is.
               | government assistance programs are not socialism.
        
               | oefrha wrote:
               | When I was in school we paid for (very fairly priced)
               | school meals while the poor students were subsidized. It
               | was handled pretty discreetly as well, I don't think any
               | kid was shamed for it, plus kids have a million ways to
               | find out who's poor anyway if they're into bullying. So
               | pretending the solution is binary is ridiculous.
               | 
               | Hell, my college education from Stanford, including room
               | and board and a very modest allowance, was entirely
               | covered by a university fund, no strings attached, while
               | the rich kids paid in full. If $65k a year can be
               | selectively waived (from a very rich institution, yes I'm
               | aware, but I'm talking about the model), no way you can't
               | do that for a small portion of school lunches.
        
               | b2w wrote:
               | The kid is starving and child protective services isn't a
               | free lunch program. Is the effort of potentially
               | displacing the kid to foster care really solving the
               | immediate problem?
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | Foster parents are also _paid_ most places. Even purely
               | in financial terms, for each child in foster care over
               | something like this you could feed a _lot_ of children
               | instead, and avoiding the harmful effects of unnecessary
               | interventions.
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | > Why are these health problems growing so fast? The
               | obvious explanation is that the stigma against faking
               | disability is evaporating in places like Hale County.
               | 
               | You can just look at what Social Security says about this
               | [0]. TL;DR:
               | 
               | - Baby boomers getting old
               | 
               | - Economic conditions (you can see this in the data [1],
               | where there's a suspicious huge leap in claims right
               | around Trump monkeying around w/ the economy)
               | 
               | - Absent/inadequate health care
               | 
               | More directly, this doesn't seem to have anything to do
               | with culture. The average disability application age is
               | ~50 [2]. If this were a cultural issue you'd see that
               | number declining.
               | 
               | > Maybe they just believe that parents should be
               | responsible rather than the state.
               | 
               | What policy are you advocating here? So far all you've
               | talked about is the non-existent freeloader problem.
               | 
               | [0]: https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/briefing-
               | papers/bp2019-01.ht...
               | 
               | [1]: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/STATS/dibStat.html
               | 
               | [2]: https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/statcomps/di_asr/202
               | 3/sect03...
        
             | gred wrote:
             | > There are no moral hazards when it comes to social
             | welfare programs.
             | 
             | This is a wild statement. _Of course_ people take advantage
             | of welfare programs. _Of course_ welfare programs have
             | unintended consequences and sometimes encourage immoral or
             | anti-social behavior. That doesn 't mean they're all bad or
             | that they need to be completely eliminated, but leading
             | with this obvious falsehood made it very hard to read the
             | rest of your comment.
             | 
             | https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/covid-19-fraud-
             | enfor...
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | This is exactly why I stake out such a strong position,
               | so that positions like this poke their heads up.
               | Individuals getting benefits when they're ineligible
               | accounts for tiny amounts of the total fraud in these
               | programs. Time after time we discover at least one of two
               | things:
               | 
               | - The effort/cost required to reduce fraud usually
               | overshadows the cost of the fraud itself and also
               | dramatically reduces the benefits of the program. There
               | were 640,000 SNAP fraud investigations in 2014 [0]. If
               | they cost $1,000 each that's $640m, and I bet they cost
               | more!
               | 
               | - The vast majority of fraud is either criminal,
               | retailer, or both [1]
               | 
               | The "moral hazard" angle of these programs is _wildly_
               | overplayed. You don 't hear _anything_ about:
               | 
               | - criminal trafficking
               | 
               | - retailer fraud
               | 
               | - program benefits
               | 
               | There's political reasons for this, but it doesn't
               | matter. Our brainrot on social programs is intense.
               | 
               | > https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/covid-19-fraud-
               | enfor...
               | 
               | Looking at the fact sheet linked from that release [2],
               | that stat that jumps out to me is 3,500 individuals
               | charged totaling $1.4b in stolen CARES Act funds (this
               | isn't a direct stat, but the numbers only get worse if we
               | presume even more money from this and other programs was
               | stolen), which is $400k/individual charged. It doesn't
               | really seem possible for a person or household to have
               | bilked the government for $400k under the individual
               | benefits of the CARES Act [3]. We're looking at white
               | collar fraud here, again a thing you never hear anything
               | about.
               | 
               | Finally, we should view some levels of fraud as
               | indicative of broader social ills. For example the number
               | of blue collar jobs has greatly diminished just in a
               | single lifetime [4]. Could that be responsible for the
               | dramatic increase in Social Security Disability claims
               | (yes)?
               | 
               | [0]: https://www.cbpp.org/snap-combating-fraud-and-
               | improving-prog...
               | 
               | [1]: https://www.everycrsreport.com/reports/R45147.html
               | 
               | [2]: https://www.justice.gov/coronavirus/media/1347156/dl
               | ?inline
               | 
               | [3]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CARES_Act#Relief_to_in
               | dividual...
               | 
               | [4]: https://cepr.net/publications/the-decline-of-blue-
               | collar-job...
        
               | hgomersall wrote:
               | As the lauded private sector are well aware, the optimal
               | amount of fraud is non zero:
               | 
               | https://www.bitsaboutmoney.com/archive/optimal-amount-of-
               | fra...
        
               | ggandv wrote:
               | I wonder if optimizing for votes, as is the day to day
               | business of most policy makers, gets you to the same
               | place as optimizing for profits like in the private
               | sector? If not, studying that could be one way to improve
               | the public sector output. Not that shareholders vote, on
               | average, but you get the idea.
        
               | mech9879876 wrote:
               | You swept the issue of fraudulent social security
               | disability claims under the rug. It seems apparent to me
               | that your attitude toward individual level accountability
               | is one that denies agency of the individual and ascribes
               | their moral failures as a result of societal-level
               | problems. After all, there is no moral hazard when
               | individuals have no moral agency to begin with.
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | I posted about it in a different little branch:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43903848
               | 
               | TL;DR: the average disability recipient age has hovered
               | ~50 (stddev 1.54 years) since 1960. The theory of "baby
               | boomers are a huge generation, they got old and US health
               | care sucks ass" is far more parsimonious than your theory
               | of individual accountability, which has to explain why
               | every generation suddenly becomes
               | fraudulent/immoral/unaccountable at the exact same point
               | in their lives.
        
               | mech9879876 wrote:
               | Aggregating statistics regarding age has very little
               | explanatory value in regards to fraud and is a non
               | sequitir. I would not be surprised if the average age of
               | a convicted insurance fraudster has remained relatively
               | constant over time either.
               | 
               | The example in linked materials of 1 in 4 adults in Hale
               | County receiving disability payments is a clear example
               | of a situation where individuals and healthcare providers
               | have both contributed to widescale fraud. This is an
               | obvious case where moral hazard is present and you
               | continue to deny it.
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | This is my claim: the narrative that these programs
               | incentivize and facilitate freeloading is false. Let's
               | use your example: NPR's exploration of Hale County [0],
               | which I'm not sure you've read/listened to.
               | 
               | The first interview [1] is exactly what I've written:
               | baby boomers got older and more disabled, and economic
               | conditions pushed people into disability. Quote:
               | "consider this: Since the economy began its slow, slow
               | recovery in late 2009, we've been averaging about 150,000
               | new jobs created per month. But in that same period,
               | almost 250,000 people have been applying for disability
               | every month." What do you want these people to do,
               | manifest new jobs?
               | 
               | The second interview [2] outlines how the definition of
               | disability has expanded over the years and the way the
               | legal profession has exploited that to increase the
               | number and success rate of disability claims. Again, not
               | freeloading.
               | 
               | The third interview [3] describes how welfare-to-work
               | legislation put a higher burden of the welfare onto
               | states, so it's actually in their financial benefit to
               | move people off of welfare and onto Social Security
               | disability--so much so in fact that they pay people to do
               | it. Quote: "PCG estimates it'll save Missouri about $80
               | million with all the people that will be getting onto
               | disability and off of welfare".
               | 
               | Interviews 4 [4] and 5 [5] describe how people and
               | families get trapped in these systems where if they do
               | too well they'll experience extreme financial hardship.
               | Quote: "a lot of the letters that we got from people
               | responding to the stories were people saying, I'm one of
               | those 14 million people on disability and I want to work.
               | But I get health insurance on disability and what job am
               | I going to find that accommodates my disability, it also
               | gives me health insurance."
               | 
               | If your model of this problem is "there's a bunch of
               | people too lazy to work who are freeloading on the public
               | dole" you will be unsuccessful at solving it, because
               | your model is wrong.
               | 
               | [0]: https://www.npr.org/series/196621208/unfit-for-work-
               | the-star...
               | 
               | [1]: https://www.npr.org/2013/03/22/175072446/millions-
               | of-america...
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               | [2]: https://www.npr.org/2013/03/26/175396983/expanded-
               | definition...
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               | [3]: https://www.npr.org/2013/03/27/175502085/moving-
               | people-from-...
               | 
               | [4]: https://www.npr.org/2013/03/28/175619112/kids-may-
               | stay-on-di...
               | 
               | [5]: https://www.npr.org/2013/03/29/175722025/americans-
               | on-disabi...
        
               | mech9879876 wrote:
               | Your method of argument relies on lumping all persons
               | into one category. The annoying detail about designing
               | public policy is that policy changes happen on the
               | margin, and it is the marginal cases where moral hazard
               | presents itself first. If you continue to boundlessly
               | extend your empathy for everyone that walks into their
               | doctor's office to anybody that says they have back pain,
               | you will clearly have fraud. And Hale County is clearly a
               | case where this fraud is broadly present. You have
               | presented your argument in the best way to try to lump
               | the fraudsters in with the rest of the empathy-deserving
               | recipients.
               | 
               | When Hale County has 1 in 4 adults on disability, it is
               | beyond evident that the system is not working as
               | intended. Yes, it is distinctly clear that some of those
               | adults should be getting jobs. Your question "What do you
               | want these people to do, manifest new jobs?" implies that
               | this must be some unthinkably cruel thing to believe.
               | 
               | >If your model of this problem is "there's a bunch of
               | people too lazy to work who are freeloading on the public
               | dole" you will be unsuccessful at solving it, because
               | your model is wrong.
               | 
               | Even if freeloading is unsolvable, the moral hazard
               | exists. My primary claim prior to this comment has been
               | limited to the fact that the moral hazard is present.
               | Your argumentative strategy to claim that because the
               | problem isn't solvable, it must not exist, strikes me as
               | dishonest.
        
               | camgunz wrote:
               | I'm gonna do the point by point thing here, not because I
               | think you really deserve it, but because I want you to
               | really think about the arguments you're making. Will it
               | work? I don't know. Do I know of a better way to do it? I
               | wish I did. OK here we go.
               | 
               | > Your method of argument relies on lumping all persons
               | into one category.
               | 
               | I literally broke people up into different generations,
               | people who can work, people who can't, children, people
               | who are lawyers, policymakers, government workers or
               | contractors moving people from welfare to disability. I
               | really think you not only didn't read the NPR stuff, you
               | didn't read what I wrote either.
               | 
               | > The annoying detail about designing public policy is
               | that policy changes happen on the margin, and it is the
               | marginal cases where moral hazard presents itself first.
               | 
               | You've no evidence for this. It's also not true; see for
               | example the financial collapse of 2008. Also people who
               | cry "moral hazard!" (this is you) don't think this,
               | because their chief villains are subsidies and bailouts
               | which explicitly create moral hazard. Also people who cry
               | "social programs create moral hazard!" (this is also you)
               | don't think this, because they see this as the
               | fundamental dynamic of aid programs.
               | 
               | > If you continue to boundlessly extend your empathy for
               | everyone that walks into their doctor's office to anybody
               | that says they have back pain, you will clearly have
               | fraud.
               | 
               | You've also no evidence for this. There's counter
               | evidence though. Did you know a small fraction of
               | disability claims are approved? You do now! Turns out
               | we're not "extending [our] empathy for everyone that
               | walks into their doctor's office".
               | 
               | > And Hale County is clearly a case where this fraud is
               | broadly present.
               | 
               | This isn't my claim. My claim is (again): the narrative
               | that these programs incentivize and facilitate
               | freeloading is false. If there's no job literally in
               | America that you can have, I don't think going on Social
               | Security Disability is freeloading. I'd love to engage on
               | the quote I posted ("Since the economy began its slow,
               | slow recovery in late 2009, we've been averaging about
               | 150,000 new jobs created per month. But in that same
               | period, almost 250,000 people have been applying for
               | disability every month.") but you've not responded to it
               | at all, probably because it's devastating to your
               | argument.
               | 
               | > You have presented your argument in the best way to try
               | to lump the fraudsters in with the rest of the empathy-
               | deserving recipients.
               | 
               | I do think these people (like all people) deserve
               | empathy, but again that's not my claim. I'm making the
               | claim I am because if you disagree with it, you'll
               | ratfuck (or shutdown entirely) these programs such that
               | they don't actually help people. When I talk about all
               | the dynamics around aid programs, it's because I want
               | people to understand the dynamics around aid programs,
               | not to sneak freeloaders in through the back door.
               | Elsewhere I posted "The overall point here is that if we
               | let criminals and a very small number of freeloaders sour
               | us on these programs, we literally let kids go hungry; we
               | literally let them die of preventable illnesses; etc.
               | etc. It is absolutely bonkers to me that we are making
               | this tradeoff." Do you disagree? It's hard for me to
               | imagine a rational person disagreeing.
               | 
               | > When Hale County has 1 in 4 adults on disability, it is
               | beyond evident that the system is not working as
               | intended.
               | 
               | Agree! The whole NPR series explains it. You should read
               | it!
               | 
               | > Yes, it is distinctly clear that some of those adults
               | should be getting jobs.
               | 
               | Again:
               | 
               | - For most of those people there aren't jobs
               | 
               | - There might be jobs but they're shit jobs that don't
               | cover their bills or health insurance
               | 
               | - They actually in many cases _do have jobs_
               | 
               | Again, you should definitely read the NPR series you're
               | citing over and over again (lol).
               | 
               | > Even if freeloading is unsolvable, the moral hazard
               | exists.
               | 
               | Correct. Now:
               | 
               | - design an aid program without moral hazard or
               | 
               | - decide moral hazard is OK or
               | 
               | - decide it's OK for kids to literally die entirely of
               | preventable causes
        
           | madeofpalk wrote:
           | The correct answer is to feed children. It's not difficult.
           | You're making this way more complicated than it needs to be.
           | 
           | > _there will be plenty of people who are capable of paying
           | who don 't bother_
           | 
           | I'm past pretending this argument is made in good faith. It
           | only comes from hate and selfishness.
        
           | sparsely wrote:
           | If you don't provide lunches for the children then their
           | parents need to pay for them anyway. Just tax more if you
           | don't already have a budget, this isn't a case where there
           | would be radically different spending patterns without
           | government intervention.
        
           | Faaak wrote:
           | I'm sorry but I lived in France and this didn't happen. We
           | had to pay for the food (~3EUR), and if you didn't had the
           | money (basically because of low resources), then it was free.
           | People that could pay payed, and people that couldn't didn't.
        
           | viraptor wrote:
           | > it sounds like your dad was maybe capable of paying but
           | wanted to freeload.
           | 
           | But it went a step further. He didn't want to pay either way,
           | so the poster was in exactly the same situation as the poor
           | kids.
           | 
           | If we're scared to help people who need help, because there's
           | a small chance that someone else may benefit as well, we've
           | lost as a society. Just raise the taxes and give it to every
           | kid.
        
           | smeeger wrote:
           | his dad did pay... he paid the schools entire budget. you
           | cant just throw the whole system into chaos where people are
           | expected to pay in several different ways and then they turn
           | the tablet around and aggressively ask for a tip. without a
           | clear, simple and singular source of funding it just becomes
           | an excuse for corruption. and here we are, being told that we
           | are inhuman monsters for not subsidizing a bloated tumor of
           | administrators. how about the administrators downsize and
           | take 100k home instead of multiple hundreds of thousands? why
           | arent they subject to any of this scrutiny?
        
           | IanCal wrote:
           | There are fundamentally two different things going on here.
           | 
           | One is whether kids should get fed.
           | 
           | The other is how this is paid for.
           | 
           | The approach of "the child is charged like anyone else buying
           | a thing and hopefully their parents have given them money" is
           | _easy_ but has obvious problems that we 're talking about.
           | 
           | However we can split these problems up, one is saying that we
           | will just feed the kids as a flat statement. Then the problem
           | is how to pay for it.
           | 
           | You could have state level taxes, but that's not the only
           | option. On the other end of the spectrum you could send a
           | bill to the parents - this is at its core the same as
           | charging the kids in the best case but avoids issues where
           | people don't give the kids the money. You could do that but
           | have programs to only charge the more fortunate. You could do
           | it by taxes on income, you could do it by income but only if
           | you have kids. You could do it with property taxes.
           | 
           | All have various benefits and drawbacks, as what's "fair" is
           | arguable.
           | 
           | However that is all distinct from whether the kids get fed.
        
           | brianmcc wrote:
           | Treat it as the common good and societal investment it
           | actually is, and fund it from central taxation like plenty of
           | other countries do. Problem solved!
        
         | aembleton wrote:
         | Couldn't you have taken a packed lunch in? Make a sandwich and
         | take it with you.
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | I could have, and did on occasion, but that would have
           | required my dad to go buy lunch food and keep it on hand. But
           | he didn't need to do that... the school needed to feed us!
           | 
           | I did learn around 7th grade that I could steal his
           | cigarettes and sell them. I guess he did pay for more lunches
           | than I realized, now that I wrote this.
        
           | pertymcpert wrote:
           | The fact that you think this is a seriously practical
           | suggestion shows that, very fortunately for you, you have no
           | idea what goes in a household like this. I say this with
           | sincerity, it's a _good_ thing that you don 't realize the
           | problem with this suggestion.
        
             | ljf wrote:
             | Agree - if my 10yo son was in charge of getting his own
             | food for school from our well stocked fridge, I know he'd
             | struggle to get any kind of balance.
             | 
             | I know from friends in education who see kids come to
             | school who have had to try to find food to bring in. I live
             | in a relatively well off area but kids still come to school
             | with stuff like just dry bread or a single cereal bar as
             | there just isn't anything to hand for them to bring in for
             | school - looking after their kids welfare isn't a given for
             | a sad and sizeable minority.
        
           | Zanfa wrote:
           | So let them eat cake?
        
         | askonomm wrote:
         | This is wild to me. In Estonia school lunches are free for
         | everyone, paid by the taxpayer. Doesn't matter if you are poor
         | or wealthy, everybody gets the same food.
        
           | mettamage wrote:
           | Interesting.
           | 
           | In the Netherlands we packed our lunches or we cycled home to
           | eat lunch with our parents and then cycled back to school.
           | Lunch was one of the most favorite times of my day. A break
           | from school during school hours. What a treat!
        
             | bgnn wrote:
             | Yeah, dry bread and cheese..
        
               | mettamage wrote:
               | Read the HN guidelines. I didn't downvote you, as I am
               | giving you the benefit of the doubt, but it reads as a
               | sarcastic snarky comment [1].
               | 
               | It's bread, butter and cheese. Not dry bread and cheese.
               | I didn't eat that as a kid though, I hated cheese when I
               | was young.
               | 
               | The quality of the bread varies, depending on the views
               | of the household. The way I grew up everyone favored
               | white bread but me. I always ate brown bread.
               | 
               | Nowadays, I come to the US quite often and it frustrates
               | me that there's almost no supermarket that sells a good
               | loaf of bread. A lot of bread has added sugar and I don't
               | even want to know what other stuff they add to it. I'm
               | not a fan of the bakeries either as the bread they make
               | tastes alright, but not for $8. So whenever I'm in the
               | US, I make my own bread, because even after a first try,
               | it was better [2] (by an American baker. It's not that
               | they can't - it's just that affordable nice bread is not
               | a pervasive thing in the US).
               | 
               | And if you genuinely think it's dry bread and cheese.
               | You're wrong, I _know_ what dry bread tastes like. Done
               | well, it 's called toast.
               | 
               | My school lunch was bread with butter and a fried egg.
               | 
               | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
               | 
               | [2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdoP33KPYtY&ab_channe
               | l=Brian...
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | Brown bread is the superior one; white bread just feels
               | like a snack, it doesn't last. Just not the whole grain,
               | seedy, or extra dark ones, plain brown is fine.
        
               | bgnn wrote:
               | Absolutely! I love rye bread too.
        
               | bgnn wrote:
               | Hey, I'm Dutch and that was indeed a snarky comment
               | coming from my own experience. Sorry that it's a big deal
               | for you, or others it seems. That wasn't the intention.
        
               | hombre_fatal wrote:
               | The self-hating American is all too common here, so I
               | appreciate a self-hating Dutch to punctuate the monotony.
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | Add butter and make sure it's in a good container, but
               | granted, cheese on its own is kinda boring.
        
             | hombre_fatal wrote:
             | Meanwhile, in Texas (~2005), we weren't even allowed to
             | leave the building to eat on the patio outside in high
             | school.
             | 
             | Something I thought a lot about when I moved to Mexico and
             | saw kids leaving school at lunch to wander out and eat
             | lunch together in the surrounding part of the city.
             | 
             | Too much dangerous liability to allow going outside during
             | lunch hours in a wealthy part of Texas, but not in
             | Guadalajara, Mexico and nor of the world. Sigh.
        
               | mettamage wrote:
               | > Meanwhile, in Texas (~2005), we weren't even allowed to
               | leave the building to eat on the patio outside in high
               | school.
               | 
               | > Too much dangerous liability to allow going outside
               | during lunch hours in a wealthy part of Texas, but not in
               | Guadalajara, Mexico and nor of the world. Sigh.
               | 
               | Do you think it actually was or is the US just really
               | strict about this?
        
               | jdbernard wrote:
               | Their experience is not universal as I also went to High
               | School in Texas in the early 2000's and not only were we
               | allowed to eat on school grounds, if you were old enough
               | to have a license you could drive off campus for lunch as
               | long as you were back before the next period.
        
               | hombre_fatal wrote:
               | I think there's just liability creep in the US that over
               | time leads to zero-tolerance policies that win over, say,
               | adult discretion.
               | 
               | For example, in the same high school, I had an unopened
               | beer can on the floor of my car from the weekend, and one
               | of our golf cart parking lot cops saw it while doing her
               | window snooping. And I got sent to reassignment school
               | for a month and a minor in possession charge even though
               | various people in the faculty thought it was unfair that
               | I couldn't just dispose of it and go on my way since I
               | was a good student who clearly wasn't intending to drink
               | at school.
               | 
               | Meanwhile my dad said just decades earlier he kept his BB
               | rifle in the bed of his truck when he drove to high
               | school in Houston. Something that would probably get SWAT
               | called on you if they found it in your truck by the time
               | I went to high school.
        
               | mbreese wrote:
               | In Indiana (mid 90s), we had an open lunch policy in high
               | school. This meant we could all leave campus, so long as
               | we were back by the start of the next class. It was great
               | and we had many choices for quick lunch nearby. I
               | remember picking up something fast, but eating lunch at a
               | park with friends often. The small amount of freedom (and
               | trust) was very nice.
               | 
               | Sadly, I think they stopped allowing that the year after
               | I graduated.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | I had that in Southern California. It lasted until two
               | years after I graduated, when a student brought a gun to
               | school and started shooting. The school administration
               | which had ignored multiple warning signs with that
               | student decided open lunch was a security risk.
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | Yeah this is the part I don't understand; if a family can't
             | afford a school lunch, can they afford a packed lunch at
             | least? The concept of a school even having the facilities
             | for a full lunch only became a thing in tertiary education
             | for me, before that it was at best a hot snack or some
             | soup. But this is Dutch 90's privilege to a point,
             | elementary school was in cycling range, we had an hour and
             | a half of lunch break, and I had a stay at home parent.
             | Secondary school was only a few hundred meters further away
             | than elementary school. Tertiary was in the next town over,
             | 20 minute bike ride.
             | 
             | Either way, it made no economic sense to pay for lunch, so
             | for most of it I had some sandwiches, this was the norm for
             | most people. I'm nearly 40 now and still (should) bring a
             | packed lunch to the office, because going out for lunch
             | costs EUR10,- easily. If I went to the office every day
             | like in the Before Times, that'd be around EUR200,- a month
             | or EUR2400 a year, which is A Lot.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | > if a family can't afford a school lunch, can they
               | afford a packed lunch at least?
               | 
               | More can, but American poverty is harsh for people who
               | haven't seen it. There are kids who don't have stable
               | living conditions (my wife has had students who rarely
               | sleep under the same roof two nights in a row, one school
               | in the district had a homelessness rate around 40%), or
               | who might not have access to a refrigerator or rodent-
               | proof storage, or who have abusive/mentally ill parents
               | who don't give them enough food, withhold it as a
               | punishment, or think that enough Jesus will cure an
               | allergy or other medical condition which means they can't
               | eat some things, etc. Social services may eventually
               | catch up to this at some point but they're chronically
               | underfunded even in blue states and that can take a good
               | chunk of someone's childhood.
               | 
               | At this point, we have over a century of studies
               | concluding that one of the easiest ways to improve
               | education is to make sure kids aren't hungry and the cost
               | of doing so is cheaper than almost anything else (free
               | glasses probably win there) so, like OP, I basically
               | treat this as a litmus test for human decency.
        
           | subscribed wrote:
           | By the most metric Estonia is the creme de la creme of the
           | decent democracy of the compassionate people.
           | 
           | Yeah, this is wild.
        
           | veunes wrote:
           | Feed all the kids, no shame, no paperwork, no bureaucratic
           | gatekeeping - just... lunch
        
         | renewiltord wrote:
         | It is classically American to say "I pay taxes. They should use
         | that to solve the problem" while paying so few taxes that it
         | could not possibly solve the problem.
        
         | LandR wrote:
         | Even if you want to look at it from a purely selfish point of
         | view... if you want to live in a good, prosperous society, this
         | starts with childrens education. A well fed, happy, well slept
         | child is an ideal here to get them the best education they can.
         | 
         | Not wanting each child to get the best possible start in life
         | makes absolutely no sense to me.
         | 
         | But yes, no child should go hungry at school.
        
           | lukan wrote:
           | "Not wanting each child to get the best possible start in
           | life makes absolutely no sense to me."
           | 
           | Maybe to lower the chances of other children against your own
           | (wealthy) offspring? So from a very selfish individualistic
           | perspective there is sense? I suspect that might be the base
           | motivation, even though you likely won't find many openly
           | stating that or even are aware of it.
        
             | pmg101 wrote:
             | It could do but only for the kids that would be competing
             | closely with your own children, so of a similar
             | socioeconomic status.
             | 
             | For children from much poorer backgrounds it's more likely
             | that making their prospects even worse will just create
             | later negative impacts on society, such as crime, drug
             | addiction, prostitution, gang violence and so on.
        
             | mistersquid wrote:
             | > "Not wanting each child to get the best possible start in
             | life makes absolutely no sense to me."
             | 
             | > Maybe to lower the chances of other children against your
             | own (wealthy) offspring?
             | 
             | Some may think and behave along these lines. Their problem
             | is that they conceive economic activity as zero-sum, which
             | it is not.
             | 
             | Good educational outcomes generate wealth for everyone.
        
           | brainzap wrote:
           | This. It also creates peace
        
         | mobtrain wrote:
         | While I wholeheartedly agree that no child should ever go
         | hungry and school lunches should be free (from a EU country,
         | this isn't even a thing here), if you call people subhuman, we
         | can't be friends, nor acquaintances.
        
           | RS-232 wrote:
           | _Subhuman_ is a rather severe (and incredibly reductionist)
           | judgement. Sure, being anti-free lunch for children is
           | morally objectionable... but they've failed to probe that
           | line of reasoning. They've encountered a bug, but instead of
           | debugging it, they've closed their IDE and walked away.
           | 
           | Sometimes an honest conversation--with carefully placed,
           | introspective questions--can be revealing to all parties.
           | When we use our tongues to learn about others and build them
           | up rather than tear them down, we're actively making the
           | world a better place. When we resist the tendency to judge
           | others, we're actively bettering ourselves.
        
             | notnaut wrote:
             | This, and there's something all-too human about ignoring or
             | even basking in the suffering of others, including
             | children. Pretending it's somehow less than human to be on
             | that side of things feels a bit head-in-sand.
        
               | sneak wrote:
               | A certain amount of ignoring human suffering is
               | positively required to exist in the modern world,
               | otherwise it would be an impossible-to-defend-against
               | exploit to walk up to happy people in the first world and
               | say "ten thousand children die every day from lack of
               | access to clean water", because then you would
               | permanently alter or ruin their life.
               | 
               | FWIW this is true on Earth today.
               | 
               | It is required to turn a blind eye to slavery and
               | oppression and hunger and thirst and preventable death
               | and disease otherwise it would be impossible to have any
               | semblance of a happy life in the good parts of the world,
               | because the scale of preventable human suffering is both
               | epic and, thus far, neverending.
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | Subhuman ... "if you think kids should go hungry or be
           | embarrassed at school because of their parents finances"
           | 
           | Sounds about right.
        
             | osrec wrote:
             | I agree. There is something less evolved about their sense
             | of humility.
             | 
             | One day it's someone else who can't afford lunch, another
             | day it may well be you or your kids. In a rational society,
             | where we all unanimously acknowledge the fragility of our
             | respective positions, I believe even the most simple
             | rational human would agree that the basic needs to live
             | must be met for all.
             | 
             | I feel those who take an opposing view are often blind to
             | their own vulnerabilities and misunderstandings.
        
               | permo-w wrote:
               | this is ridiculous. I'm a socialist and I believe that
               | people should have far more of life's necessities
               | provided to them by the state; I think supermarkets
               | should be nationalised; I think water and electricity
               | should be free up to a limit. on the other hand, this
               | "people disagree with me about something sensitive so
               | they're unevolved and/or subhuman" lark is childish as
               | fuck and completely hypocritical
               | 
               | people think things for a reason, and it's rarely because
               | they're sociopaths or they're unevolved or they're
               | stupid, and assuming that it is lazy and uncritical
        
               | mystraline wrote:
               | No, there, at least in the USA, a large amount of very
               | dumb people. They also tend to be quite sadistic as well,
               | thinking 'those people' deserve the sadism and torment.
               | 
               | This percolates through our whole society, one case of
               | which is this scholastic food 'debt'.
               | 
               | And also, during some of Biden's years, there was a few
               | years of free school lunches. And was also summarily
               | cancelled. Even democrats have this pervasive 'those
               | people don't deserve X'.
               | 
               | https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/free-school-lunches-
               | set...
        
               | permo-w wrote:
               | you're proving my point. people think these things
               | because, as you say, they're instilled in the American
               | national mentality. it makes sense to think that's wrong,
               | it makes sense to think people should think for
               | themselves and try to engage their empathy circuits for
               | people not in their immediate family, but it's taking it
               | a million steps too far to say they're subhuman or
               | unevolved, and it's not helping anything anyway. perhaps
               | it was too far to say that it's rarely because they're
               | stupid though
        
               | osrec wrote:
               | A less evolved sense of humility (as I originally put it)
               | does not equate to stupid. They are far from stupid -
               | they are ruthless consumers of every scrap of advantage
               | they can get, including the best education, food, clothes
               | to name but a few things. They believe they deserve that
               | advantage.
               | 
               | In fact, they see the person who can't afford lunch as
               | stupid - after all, an intelligent person should at least
               | be able to get lunch - it's so easy! What they don't
               | realise is how much each person is impacted by their own
               | starting position in life (which, I believe to be
               | random), and how that in turn impacts where they are now.
               | 
               | Many "privileged" people lack empathy, because they
               | believe the tables can never turn. They don't even want
               | to entertain the thought. They believe their privilege is
               | a birthright. In some cases, they are probably correct;
               | they will enjoy privilege for their entire lives. But in
               | exceptional circumstances, they will be caught out, and
               | their opinion will undoubtedly change.
               | 
               | So, it's not stupidity, it is willful ignorance. History
               | is full of such examples, some more chilling and
               | devastating than others.
        
             | blueflow wrote:
             | Are you aware of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Untermensch
             | ? Might be a cultural thing to not like that word.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | I have deleted this comment because this discussion is
               | going nowhere.
        
               | homebrewer wrote:
               | He's absolutely right. As someone whose society suffered
               | very heavy losses from the Nazis, this is the first thing
               | that came to my mind when I read the root comment. It's
               | like posting swastikas online and then dismissing
               | concerned replies because "it's a Buddhist sign, what are
               | you on about?"
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | Except in this case the victims (the hungry children) are
               | not the ones being labeled that. Also the word subhuman
               | is in the dictionary (I checked Webster's) with zero
               | reference to the war.
        
               | blueflow wrote:
               | And "n*gro" is the Spanish, non-slur word for "black" but
               | yet we can't use it because US people dislike it. Slavery
               | and such. Cultural sensitivity goes both ways.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | > And "n*gro" is the Spanish, non-slur word for "black"
               | but yet we can't use it because US people dislike it.
               | Slavery and such. Cultural sensitivity goes both ways.
               | 
               | Webster's dictionary:
               | 
               | plural Negroes
               | 
               | 1 dated, often offensive : a person of Black African
               | ancestry
               | 
               | 2 dated, often offensive : a member of a group of people
               | formerly considered to constitute a race (see race entry
               | 1 sense 1a) of humans having African ancestry and
               | classified according to physical traits (such as dark
               | skin pigmentation)
               | 
               | Note the "offensive" warnings. Now let's see subhuman:
               | 
               | : less than human: such as a: failing to attain the level
               | (as of morality or intelligence) associated with normal
               | human beings b: unsuitable to or unfit for human beings
               | subhuman living conditions c: of or relating to a
               | taxonomic group lower than that of humans; the subhuman
               | primates
               | 
               | In the case of subhuman, Webster's dictionary does not
               | give any warning. And there is no reference to any wars.
               | 
               | Don't try to make people say things they are not saying.
               | 
               | In this case the intended meaning was clearly:
               | 
               | "failing to attain the level (as of morality) associated
               | with normal human beings"
        
               | blueflow wrote:
               | Like you, probably, I got a very systemizing brain and
               | had trouble understanding this for decades. What the
               | dictionaries say about the words does not matter - what
               | is offensive to other people does not follow any system,
               | but their feelings. And that means its arbitrary and you
               | have probably no chance to know it ahead of time.
               | 
               | I feel your pain, tho.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | I hope you understand that by acting offended, you are
               | offending other people, making them say things they are
               | not saying.
        
               | blueflow wrote:
               | Yes. This is very exploitable.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | It is better to stay away from it.
        
               | mtnGoat wrote:
               | I am the OP that used that word. I was unaware of this
               | connection, my apologies. I will consider this if using
               | the word in the future.
               | 
               | I was aiming for the "not having basic human morals"
               | usage of the word, nothing more.
        
           | em500 wrote:
           | > ... and school lunches should be free (from a EU country,
           | this isn't even a thing here)
           | 
           | I'm from another EU country (the Netherlands). Primary
           | schools do not provide any lunch or other food whatsoever,
           | secondary schools might have a canteen selling some snacks or
           | low quality fast food. But everyone is basically expected to
           | bring their own or go out/home for lunch.
        
             | fakedang wrote:
             | Yes, we had the same system when I went to school in a
             | (relatively low-income) expat (Indian) school in the Middle
             | East. But nowhere was a child expected to leave the break
             | hungry - I saw firsthand a teacher ruthlessly scolded by
             | the grade supervisor (who was a GOAT all-round) because she
             | found a student still eating after she had arrived at the
             | class, and sent him to stand outside as punishment.
             | 
             | Another time, a teacher paid for a student's meal because
             | he lost the change he was given by his parents to buy food
             | from the canteen.
             | 
             | And another time, the school canteen just giving away free
             | food at the end of the day to whoever wanted it, because
             | there was no point in them keeping it around.
             | 
             | It's honestly unbelievable that a first world country would
             | let its children go without lunch because even third world
             | countries do not let that happen. I have seen schools in
             | rural Africa that don't let their children starve - in
             | fact, giving a midday meal (and some to take home
             | afterwards) is a way to ensure school attendance.
        
               | pergadad wrote:
               | No one is starving in the netherlands. There's a
               | difference between offering a canteen but charging for it
               | with some able and some not able to pay, and a general
               | expectation that all bring food from home. Many Dutch,
               | German, etc companies will also not have canteens but
               | rather people bring a sandwich or last night's leftovers
               | from home. The standard warm meal is the evening meal.
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | > No one is starving in the netherlands.
               | 
               | This is inaccurate, nearly half a million people struggle
               | to eat enough:
               | https://www.rodekruis.nl/persberichten/450000-mensen-in-
               | verb.... There's food banks, but there's a lot of shame
               | associated with using them; despite that, ~200.000 people
               | a year make use of them:
               | https://voedselbankennederland.nl/wp-
               | content/uploads/2024/09....
               | 
               | Also read the book "Superschool" about what was one of
               | the worst schools in one of the poorest areas of the
               | Netherlands, where there were loads of kids going to
               | school hungry, dirty, and without basics like a coat.
               | 
               | Sorry, your throwaway remark just rubbed me up the wrong
               | way. The Netherlands is not the socialist utopia that
               | some people make it out to be, we just have bike lanes,
               | sorta-legal weed and superior bread / cheese.
        
               | fakedang wrote:
               | I wasn't talking about the Netherlands per se, but wanted
               | to pinpoint that alternatives exist in places other than
               | the US, which ensure that no kid starves. In fact, my
               | comment was an add-on to yours, as we followed the same
               | system as you guys do in NL.
        
         | pif wrote:
         | I mean, you are right.
         | 
         | But your father was an a*, too!
         | 
         | It was his responsibility to make sure you did not go hungry,
         | and he chose to ignore it.
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | Yes, he was an interesting guy. Not a good dad, which is why
           | I can't help but feel the way I do about others that would do
           | the same to a child.
        
         | veunes wrote:
         | It's honestly heartbreaking - not just what you went through,
         | but how normalized it was. That kind of survival mode shouldn't
         | be part of any kid's school experience
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | It sticks with you for a while and creates interesting views
           | on things throughout life.
        
         | chronid wrote:
         | In my country you pay for school lunches as a local tax (and
         | assistance is available for low income families). Children are
         | always fed. Parents are the ones with the debts and the
         | garnished salaries.
        
         | theoreticalmal wrote:
         | One should not view others as subhuman because of the ideas
         | they hold.
        
         | pc86 wrote:
         | I think every child should get a hot, nutritious breakfast and
         | lunch at school at taxpayer expense. But I'm also [edit]
         | s/smart/reasonable enough to know that people who disagree with
         | that aren't "subhuman."
         | 
         | There is no "basic test of humanity" and pretending their is is
         | tribalistic bullshit so you can feel superior to other people
         | who disagree with you.
         | 
         | It's digusting.
        
           | mtnGoat wrote:
           | You are entitled to your opinion, despite throwing an insult
           | in to point out an insult. lol, nice hypocrisy. ;)
        
         | 1970-01-01 wrote:
         | >I consider how someone feels about free school lunch, a basic
         | test of their humanity.
         | 
         | I'll bite (pun alert).
         | 
         | It isn't about free handout, it's about ROI. The valid
         | counterpoint to free lunch for children is any program can
         | become grossly mismanaged because of "think of the children".
         | There are recent stories of unhealthy and expired food being
         | served to children that made them sick. Moreover, what they are
         | getting can be something that puts more bad-calories than good
         | into them (processed, high in corn-syrup). While I agree that
         | no child should go hungry, can you both understand and not
         | disagree this isn't a fire and forget problem? Taxpayers need
         | their hard-earned income _only_ going into high nutrition food;
         | food that will not exacerbate the nationwide obesity problem!
         | 
         | https://www.publicschoolreview.com/blog/expired-food-served-...
         | 
         | https://wchsinsight.org/33581/opinion/school-food-causes-com...
         | 
         | https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/childhood-obesity-facts/childhoo...
        
         | smileysteve wrote:
         | Your anecdote is a great example of how inequality leads to
         | crime. And the systems that are in place to "punish" the
         | "unequal"/"un-privileged", results in high effort ways that
         | punish the "privileged".
         | 
         | If we extend your anecdote to normalizing petty crime, and the
         | likelihood to extend to adulthood -- not paying for school
         | lunches now may be a great way to increase paying for school
         | lunches when a person is sent to prison for vagrancy / petty
         | crimes (repeatedly, and will never be able to dig out of the
         | prison/debt hole)
        
       | heresjohnny wrote:
       | As someone from Europe, I had heard before about bankrupting
       | ambulance rides, slavery in prisons, and food deserts. I did not
       | expect to add "lunch money humiliation ritual" to that list. I'll
       | think of this next time I complain about my 50% income tax.
        
         | taxedrollik wrote:
         | 50% sounds manageable still. Currently paying ~65% of whatever
         | I bill, in taxes and that hurts quite a lot. Assuming no costs
         | to deliver, I need to bill 10KEUR to net ~3,5KEUR. It makes
         | exports uncompetitive with other lower taxed countries. Despite
         | this, seeing a general practitioner can take months for issues
         | that aren't-killing-you-right-now.
        
           | Suppafly wrote:
           | >Currently paying ~65% of whatever I bill, in taxes and that
           | hurts quite a lot.
           | 
           | A decent portion of that goes towards your retirement though
           | right? It's not like it's just vague government services you
           | don't benefit from.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | To make a useful contribution to the discussion, at least say
           | what country this applies to.
           | 
           | You also seem to have added business taxes onto the income
           | taxes.
        
           | kjkjadksj wrote:
           | Ahh but you can see a general practicioner! That puts you
           | head an shoulders over the average urban californian saddled
           | with being triaged into the stripmall based urgent care
           | system for lack of regional hospitals and gps. Corporate
           | healthcare solutions are no greener grass than your public
           | option... wait until you find out what is considered a
           | cosmetic procedure (like having teeth).
        
           | scotty79 wrote:
           | It really doesn't matter how much tax you pay. If everyone
           | pays 65% it's the same as if everyone paid 0. Income tax
           | doesn't come from the pocket of a worker. Employer needs to
           | pay you enough so that you can live your life the way you
           | want to. If he doesn't, you just don't work for him and he
           | has no business. They will pay you as little as they can, but
           | the amount they optimize is the amount after tax.
           | 
           | Economic though is focused around employers and employees but
           | it's the customer that covers the bill down the line. As long
           | as the consumer is healthy you can set tax as high or as low
           | as you want to.
        
         | Baeocystin wrote:
         | I still have vivid memories of getting the 'reduced cost' meal
         | ticket for school lunch. They made all of us with the reduced
         | tickets stand in line and wait for the other kids to get their
         | food first, where all the other kids had to walk past and stare
         | at us, and once everyone else was served, they'd put the food
         | away that was given to the other kids, then hand out shitty
         | plastic-wrapped sandwiches that were half the size of the
         | barely-adequate meals the 'full' sized lunches got.
         | 
         | It was all on purpose, too, to make us ashamed for not paying
         | the full amount.
         | 
         | The adults that chose this path were fucking evil ghouls, the
         | lot of them. Of all the things I want my tax money to go to,
         | ensuring that no one (and especially growing children) need to
         | feel hunger pangs while trying to learn is close to top of the
         | list.
        
           | froindt wrote:
           | That experience is ridiculous, I'm sorry you had to go
           | through that. My cousin is a teacher and is trying to support
           | one of her students who is very food insecure. She's
           | currently putting a box of food into the kids backpack every
           | day, so the kid doesn't feel different/shame bringing a bag
           | of food home. The one consistent meal the kid gets per day is
           | the school lunch.
           | 
           | It wasn't that child's choice to be born. Some of the biggest
           | lifetime ROI's out there are ensuring a childhood isn't
           | filled with trauma, involves enough nutrition to help their
           | bodies and brains develop, etc.
           | 
           | I have no time for people who make an argument about "the
           | government shouldn't be providing food because it creates a
           | dependency or expectation they'll want for life". Their
           | lifetime earnings and contributions to society will be vastly
           | larger if they aren't hungry during the school day.
           | 
           | It's tough to focus and learn when you're only eating a few
           | hundred calories per day.
        
         | panick21_ wrote:
         | Switzerland spends like 30% of GDP and pretty low debt. So I
         | don't think you need 50% of GDP to fix any of the issues
         | mentioned.
        
       | kashunstva wrote:
       | Meanwhile, the proposed U.S. defence budget is ~ $1 trillion and
       | the Department of Education is slated to not exist. This tells
       | you much of what one needs to know about that country, and why
       | having hungry children is perfectly ok.
       | 
       | There should be a dialectic around individualism and
       | communitarianism but with some number of citizens endorsing a
       | polar position, including the solipsist-in-chief, it's hard to
       | see a way forward on social issues that require thinking on a
       | moral, noneconomic plane.
        
       | yalok wrote:
       | Did not realize it happened just so recently in California:
       | 
       | > In the 2022-23 school year, California became the first state
       | to provide free school meals to any child regardless of whether
       | they were eligible for the free or reduced-price meals as defined
       | by the federal government.
        
       | j-a-a-p wrote:
       | Am I missing something? My kids have to bring their own lunch to
       | school. The school is for education and the parents' job is to
       | feed them. And it gets even better: after 12/13 yo they grow self
       | supporting capabilities, so as parent you only need to replenish
       | the fridge.
        
         | lo0dot0 wrote:
         | Right, it's that simple, no morals involved nothing to see here
         | please move along . How naive can you be?
        
       | bArray wrote:
       | I would expand on this - there are a surprising number of times
       | where a relatively small amount of money would make a large
       | difference to one or multiple people.
       | 
       | Most people I know who have ended up in debt for example didn't
       | not have the money to pay the debt entirely, they were just short
       | for one month by a small amount. It's not long till it spirals
       | completely out of control with interest, repayment penalties,
       | etc, and that interest keeps adding up.
       | 
       | A family member that is the sole income earner for a household
       | had their car break down. They had no additional income to fix
       | it, no additional income to get another car and failing to get to
       | work would spiral out their financial situation. That day I gave
       | them an old car and told them to keep it. They used it for a
       | month, eventually got the other car fixed and sold the car I gave
       | to them.
        
       | titaphraz wrote:
       | > The thing about witnessing a 7-year-old having their hot lunch
       | tray yanked away and replaced with a cold sandwich
       | 
       | It's bizarre that this happens in America.
        
         | em500 wrote:
         | Well in the Netherlands all kids are basically expected to
         | bring their own cold sandwiches every day, so that isn't seen
         | as a punishment. Primary schools don't even have separate
         | tables for meals, let alone canteens: kids just eat their cold
         | sandwiches day after day (and still grow into the tallest
         | people in the world).
        
           | titaphraz wrote:
           | > in the Netherlands all kids are basically expected to bring
           | their own cold sandwiches every day
           | 
           | Nothing wrong with that. But there's a massive difference of
           | everyone bringing their sandwiches vs. everyone getting a hot
           | meal but little Johnny having his yanked away because his
           | parents can't afford it.
        
       | codelikeawolf wrote:
       | When I first started high school, my parents worked a lot, so
       | they left me to fend for myself and I was terrible about packing
       | lunches, so lunchtime was always stressful. I ended up getting a
       | job washing dishes in the school kitchen, which got me a ticket
       | for a free lunch. We weren't rich, but we were definitely
       | comfortably middle class. I'm sure there were a lot of kids like
       | me. It would have been a lot better if the food was free.
       | 
       | Edit: grammar
        
       | choeger wrote:
       | What I don't get about lunch in school is where this assumption
       | comes from that it has to be a warm and complete meal, ideally
       | with starter and dessert.
       | 
       | I am really wondering about that. School is more like an office
       | job than a construction site or other heavy work and thus would
       | not a sandwich and a salad be more appropriate? It would be much
       | easier to offer good quality this way, especially when it comes
       | to fruits and vegetables. The stuff you get when cooking with a
       | limited budget for hundreds of people is seldom good or healthy.
        
         | thrwzzz wrote:
         | I was bringing my own sandwitches when I was at primary school,
         | sometimes I forgot to take them- that's the only time when I
         | was hungry and that's what made me to make my sandwitch in the
         | morning even if I was feeling lazy or if I did not like the
         | smell of it (we were bringing our sandwitches in backpacks). I
         | later learned some kids had hot meal in the cantine (that's
         | also when I learned there was a cantine in my school), but
         | somehow I never thought I need a hot meal at school myself. It
         | was nice to be a kid :)
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | because that is what a lunch looks like in our culture. you can
         | get away with a something simple for a mid morning break if you
         | come home early enough so that you can have a lunch at home.
         | 
         | even at an office job i expect a warm meal for lunch.
         | 
         | and i would also say that school for children is more hard work
         | than an office job is for adults so the comparison is not fair.
        
       | ta1243 wrote:
       | > and eliminated lunch debt at 12 schools. That's 12 schools
       | where kids don't get their trays taken away
       | 
       | For a few weeks. Then presumably there will be debt again.
       | 
       | If you get a major wound then applying a tourniquet can be a
       | great move to stabilise the patient until the problem can be
       | fixed. If you have a memory leak, killing the process and
       | restarting it is a great move to get the system working again,
       | but you need to tackle the root cause.
       | 
       | The only solution I can see would be for the state to pay for
       | everyone's meals
        
         | em-bee wrote:
         | yes, and that takes lobbying effort. and who is going to do
         | that lobbying? this project introduces new people to the
         | problem, and thus increases the amount of people motivated to
         | lobby for a change.
        
       | sebstefan wrote:
       | It's a no brainer. Kids perform better at school if they're fed
       | lunch. If it improves test scores those lunches pay for
       | themselves in basic externalities when the kid grows up with
       | better chances in life. I don't recall the numbers but the return
       | on investment is worth it
       | 
       | It's always more expensive in the long run to allow kids to go
       | hungry
        
       | veunes wrote:
       | His daughter's question nails it: "Why don't they just let them
       | eat?" The fact that we don't have a clear, defensible answer to
       | that tells you everything
        
       | yapyap wrote:
       | Paying off lunch debt as individuals is very double.
       | 
       | Of course it feels good cause you are helping people but at the
       | same time you are helping the symptom not the cause.
       | 
       | Just to keep paying the debts is like to just keep plugging the
       | dyke while new holes keep opening up. You need a new system. What
       | that means in this case is government intervention!
       | 
       | 2.8 million is NOTHING to the U.S. government, in 2023 the US
       | defense had 1.9 trillion dollars unaccounted for. TRILLION. [1]
       | 
       | Some quick math gives: 2.8 million / 1.9 trillion * 100 =
       | 0,00014736842 %
       | 
       | If the government gave a fuck or was forced to give a fuck this
       | lunch debt bullshit would not be a thing.
       | 
       | 1. https://coloradonewsline.com/2023/12/06/pentagon-cant-
       | pass-a...
        
       | AStonesThrow wrote:
       | Something that cannot be ignored, but seems quite glossed over in
       | this thread of 400 comments: elementary and middle school are
       | typically the best and most important day-care service for
       | working parents. Especially anyone who is blue-collar and does
       | not choose their schedule, any single parent who cannot be home
       | at all during the day, double-income parents who are likewise
       | absent.
       | 
       | It is one thing for comparatively comfortable white-collar
       | homemaker moms to lovingly pack a little lunch for all their kids
       | the night before. It's another thing entirely for them to send
       | their kids packing and rely on the school itself to provide that
       | nutrition.
       | 
       | And personally I see this as a bit of a dilemma. Because
       | parenting and homemaking skills are often honed by the practice
       | of preparing lunches and providing for the children. If you, as a
       | parent, are not accustomed to doing this, you're going to bond
       | less with those children, you're going to rely on state
       | assistance more, and your children are going to bond less with
       | you, resulting in a more distant relationship than one forged
       | through the common experience of acquiring, preparing, and
       | consuming food.
       | 
       | So free school lunch assistance is, in some ways, mandatory for a
       | culture of working parents, and certainly if we're going to keep
       | children out of the industrialized workforce, we need to keep
       | them in school and well-fed. But at some point, children become
       | quite dependent on the state and they are going to look to the
       | state to provide other needs, as well, if the parents are not
       | stepping up to that. So will children grow into full-fledged
       | contributors who pull their own weight, or will they simply exist
       | to expand the welfare state?
        
       | gadders wrote:
       | This doesn't really exist in the UK, I think. Most people get
       | free school meals if they're on state benefits (as I did when I
       | was younger). **
       | 
       | However - what a great thing to do to just ring up a school and
       | pay off their debt, and then start a charity to do that and
       | advocate for policy change.
       | 
       | I think people don't realise how much impact they can have when
       | they just take action. You don't have to be anyone special.
       | 
       | //edit//** Or rather, lunch debt does not exist. Free lunch
       | shaming definitely does. A colleague that had free school meals
       | told me that at her school, people with free school meals had to
       | get their meals last.
        
       | trelane wrote:
       | Seems like the author has rediscovered charities.
        
       | Meneth wrote:
       | Upon seeing the term "school lunch debt", I was confused. My
       | country has had free school lunches for all students since before
       | I was born. Not a matter of economy or socialism, I thought, for
       | everyone _can_ afford food, but just convenience.
       | 
       | "7-year-old clarity" indeed.
        
       | turtlebits wrote:
       | I read a recent comment that changed my mind about school lunches
       | (free for all, not just those that need it).
       | 
       | Essentially, if you're legally required to be somewhere, meals
       | should be provided.
        
         | kjkjadksj wrote:
         | Tell that to the dmv line. I'll be happy with starting with
         | bathrooms.
        
         | kbelder wrote:
         | I think that this is perhaps the most important point in this
         | whole discussion.
        
       | pascoej wrote:
       | It's definitely an experience to see the food you got thrown away
       | and be given an apple and some bread instead.
       | 
       | Many kids would opt to bring in a pack of ramen, crush it up, add
       | the seasoning and eat it dry instead. Many (myself included) just
       | wouldn't eat to avoid the humiliation.
       | 
       | But, hey, at least we had that most expensive high school
       | football stadium in the world for a time!
        
       | smileysteve wrote:
       | When I read the first paragraph, my immediate question is, is the
       | PB&J alternative meal actually healthier and more reflective of
       | the nutritional needs (and desires ) of a student than the more
       | expensive normal meals (my thoughts turn to chicken tenders,
       | pizza, corn dogs)
       | 
       | I personally reflect back to realize that I started requesting
       | parents / personally making sandwiches ~3rd grade because I was
       | tired of flavorless and relatively unhealthy and repeated
       | cafeteria style food at high price. (and also coming to a similar
       | conclusion regarding the Cafeteria when at University).
        
         | Symbiote wrote:
         | "Cafeteria style" doesn't have to mean chicken tenders and
         | pizza.
         | 
         | Today at work in Denmark, the cafeteria served vegetable
         | stroganoff with mushrooms and roast potatoes, chili con carne
         | with rice, and/or turkey with mushroom sauce, pearl barley and
         | roast root vegetables.
         | 
         | The salads were a potato salad with red onions, chives, mustard
         | and radish; pearl barley with apricot, soya beans and peppers;
         | lentils, beetroot and feta cheese.
         | 
         | Schools/universities here have similar options.
        
       | kubatyszko wrote:
       | What really baffles me is that as a society we allow say a 7 year
       | old to take on debt!
        
       | badlibrarian wrote:
       | Interesting reading in the linked article beyond the quote.
       | 
       | "In the Reagan administration's attempt to slash $1.5 billion
       | from children's nutrition funding, school lunch program
       | requirements were worded (whether deliberately or not) so as to
       | conceivably allow for designating ketchup as a vegetable..."
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ketchup_as_a_vegetable
        
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