[HN Gopher] Discord's face scanning age checks 'start of a bigge...
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       Discord's face scanning age checks 'start of a bigger shift'
        
       Author : 1659447091
       Score  : 89 points
       Date   : 2025-04-17 12:34 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | jjice wrote:
       | Aside from the privacy nightmare, what about someone who is 18
       | and just doesn't have the traditional adult facial features? Same
       | thing for someone who's 15 and hit puberty early? I can imagine
       | that on the edges, it becomes really hard to discern.
       | 
       | If they get it wrong, are you locked out? Do you have to send an
       | image of your ID? So many questions. Not a huge fan of these
       | recent UK changes (looking at the Apple E2E situation as well). I
       | understand what they're going for, but I'm not sure this is the
       | best course of action. What do I know though :shrug:.
        
         | roenxi wrote:
         | Also, key point in the framing, when was it decided that
         | Discord supposed to be the one enforcing this? A pop-up saying
         | "you really should be 18+" is one thing, but this sounds like a
         | genuine effort to lock out young people. Neither Discord nor a
         | government ratings agency should be taking final responsibility
         | for how children get bought up, that seems like something
         | parents should be responsible for.
         | 
         | This is over-reach. Both in the UK and Australia.
        
           | threeseed wrote:
           | > This is over-reach. Both in the UK and Australia
           | 
           | 2/3 of Australians support minimum age restrictions for
           | social media [1] and it was in-particular popular amongst
           | parents. Putting the responsibility solely on parents shows
           | ignorance of the complexities of how children are growing up
           | these days.
           | 
           | Many parents have tried to ban social media only for those
           | children to experience ostracisation amongst their peer group
           | leading to poorer educational and social developmental
           | outcomes at a critical time in their live.
           | 
           | That's why you need governments and platform owners to be
           | heavily involved.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.theguardian.com/australia-
           | news/article/2024/jun/...
        
             | exe34 wrote:
             | that sounds quite puritan. my god says I can't, is one
             | thing. my god says you can't either, is very different.
             | 
             | now replace god with parent.
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | It almost certainly is overreach, but locking young people
           | out of porn is hardly a new concern. We have variants of this
           | argument continuously for decades. I'm not sure there is a
           | definitive answer.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | When a corner shop sells cigarettes to minors, who's breaking
           | the law?
           | 
           | When a TV channel broadcast porn, who gets fined?
           | 
           | These are accepted laws that protect kids from "harm", which
           | are relatively uncontroversial.
           | 
           | Now, the privacy angle is very much the right question. But
           | as Discord are the one that are going to get fined, they
           | totally need to make sure kids aren't being exposed to shit
           | they shouldn't be seeing until they are old enough. In the
           | same way the corner shop needs to make sure they don't sell
           | booze to 16 year olds.
           | 
           | Now, what is the mechanism that Discord should/could use?
           | that's the bigger question.
           | 
           | Can government provide fool proof, secure, private and
           | scalable proof of age services? How can private industry do
           | it? (Hint: they wont because its a really good source of
           | profile information for advertising.)
        
             | EA-3167 wrote:
             | Cigarettes are deadly
             | 
             | Broadcasting porn isn't an age ID issue, it's public
             | airwaves and they're regulated.
             | 
             | These aren't primarily "think of the children" arguments,
             | the former is a major public health issue that's taken
             | decades to begin to address, and the latter is about
             | ownership.
             | 
             | I don't think that chat rooms are in the same category as
             | either public airwaves or drugs. Besides what's the
             | realistic outcome here? Under 18's aren't stupid, what
             | would you have done as a kid if Discord was suddenly
             | blocked off? Shrug and not talk to your friends again?
             | 
             | Or would you figure out how to bypass the checks, use a
             | different service, or just use IRC? Telegram chats?
             | Something even less moderated and far more open to abuse,
             | because that's what can slip under the radar.
             | 
             | So no I don't think this is about protecting kids, I think
             | it's about normalizing the loss of anonymity online.
        
               | Symbiote wrote:
               | You can swap cigarettes with another age restricted
               | product, like pornography or 18-rated DVDs if you prefer.
               | 
               | The UK also has rules on what can be broadcast on TV
               | depending on the time of day.
        
               | KaiserPro wrote:
               | > These aren't primarily "think of the children"
               | arguments
               | 
               | Are you kidding me? v-chip, mary whitehouse, Sex on TV
               | are _all_ the result of  "think of the children" moral
               | panics. Its fuck all to do with ownership.
               | 
               | > I don't think that chat rooms are in the same category
               | as either public airwaves
               | 
               | Discord are making cash from underage kids, in the same
               | way that meta and google are, in the same way that disney
               | and netflix offering kids channels.
               | 
               | Look I'm not saying that discord should be banned for
               | kids, but I really do think that there is a better option
               | than the binary "Ban it all"/"fuck it, let them eat porn"
               | 
               | Kids need to be able to talk to each other, but they also
               | should be able to do that without being either preyed
               | upon by nonces, extremists, state actors and more likely
               | bored trolls.
               | 
               | Its totally possible to provide anonymous age gating, but
               | its almost certainly going to be provided by an adtech
               | company unless we, the community provide something
               | cheaper and better.
        
             | jkaplowitz wrote:
             | At least the ways that a corner shop verifies age don't
             | have the same downsides as typical online age verifiers.
             | They just look at an ID document; verify that it's on the
             | official list of acceptable ID documents, seems to be
             | genuine and valid and unexpired, appears to relate to the
             | person buying the product, and shows an old enough age; and
             | hand the document back.
             | 
             | The corner shop has far fewer false negatives, far lower
             | data privacy risk, and clear rules that if applied
             | precisely won't add any prejudice about things like skin
             | color or country of origin to whatever prejudice already
             | exists in the person doing the verification.
        
               | nonchalantsui wrote:
               | That's exactly how a digital ID system would work, and
               | yet people argue against those all the time as well.
               | 
               | Additionally, the corner shop does not have far lower
               | data privacy risks - actually it's quite worse. They have
               | you on camera and have a witness who can corroborate you
               | are that person on camera, alongside a paper trail for
               | your order. There is no privacy there, only the illusion
               | of such.
        
               | jkaplowitz wrote:
               | By data privacy risks I meant the risk of a breach,
               | compromise, or other leak of the database of verified
               | IDs. No information about the IDs are generally collected
               | in a corner shop, at least when there's no suspicion of
               | fraud; they're just viewed temporarily and returned. Not
               | only do online service providers retain a lot of
               | information about their required verifications, they do
               | so for hugely more people than a typical corner shop.
               | 
               | Also, corner shop cameras don't generally retain data for
               | nearly as long as typical online age verification laws
               | would require. Depending on the country and the technical
               | configuration, physical surveillance cameras retain data
               | for anywhere from 48 hours to 1 year. Are you really
               | saying that most online age verification laws worldwide
               | require or allow comparably short retention periods?
               | (This might actually be the case for the UK law, if I'm
               | correctly reading Ofcom's corresponding guidance, but I
               | doubt that's true for most of the similar US state laws.)
        
           | leotravis10 wrote:
           | There's a SCOTUS case in FSC v. Paxton that could very well
           | decide if age verification is enforced in the US as well so
           | sadly this is just the beginning.
        
         | daveoc64 wrote:
         | It says in the article - you can send them a scan or photo of
         | your ID if the face check doesn't work (or if you don't want to
         | do the face scan).
        
           | p_ing wrote:
           | Discord also has a manual review process.
           | 
           | https://support.discord.com/hc/en-
           | us/articles/30326565624343...
        
         | mezzie2 wrote:
         | It's not even edge cases - I was a pretty young looking woman
         | and was mistaken for a minor until I was about 24-25. My mother
         | had her first child (me) at _27_ and tells me about how she and
         | my father would get dirty looks because they assumed he was
         | some dirty old man that had impregnated a teenager. (He was 3
         | years older than her).
         | 
         | I think, ironically, the best way to fight this would be to
         | lean on identity politics: There are probably certain races
         | that ping as older or younger. In addition, trans people who
         | were on puberty blockers are in a situation where they might be
         | 'of age' but not necessarily look like an automated system
         | expects them to, and there might be discrepancies between their
         | face as scanned and the face/information that's show on their
         | ID. Discord has a large trans userbase. Nobody cares about
         | privacy, but people make at least some show of caring about
         | transphobia and racism.
         | 
         | > So many questions.
         | 
         | Do they keep a database of facial scans even though they say
         | they don't? If not, what's to stop one older looking friend (or
         | an older sibling/cousin/parent/etc.) from being the 'face' of
         | everyone in a group of minors? Do they have a reliable way to
         | ensure that a face being scanned isn't AI generated (or
         | filtered) itself? What prevents someone from sending in their
         | parent's/sibling's/a stolen ID?
         | 
         | Seems like security theater more than anything else.
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | I don't think they make much of a show of caring about trans
           | rights in the UK right about now, unfortunately. In the US
           | you can make a strong case that a big database of faces and
           | IDs could be really dangerous though I think
        
             | tbrownaw wrote:
             | > _In the US you can make a strong case that a big database
             | of faces and IDs could be really dangerous though I think_
             | 
             | The government already has this from RealID.
        
               | nemomarx wrote:
               | Right but only your photo taken for the Id, not up to
               | date face scans that discord is requesting
               | 
               | it seems to me like I'd be more hesitant to go get a govt
               | photo taken right now at least.
        
             | mezzie2 wrote:
             | It's mostly about the service's audience. Discord is a huge
             | trans/queer/etc. hub. If Discord were X or Instagram etc.
             | it wouldn't matter. Users of Discord are, as a group, more
             | likely to be antagonistic to anything that could be
             | transphobic or racist than the general populace. (Whereas
             | they don't care about disability rights, which is why
             | people with medically delayed puberty aren't a concern.)
             | 
             | A tactical observation more than anything else.
        
           | StefanBatory wrote:
           | I had a colleague, that when going out with her boyfriend,
           | police was called on him as someone believed he is a
           | pedophile.
           | 
           | She was 26. She just was that young looking.
           | 
           | :/
        
         | candiddevmike wrote:
         | The right thing to do here is for Discord to ignore the UK laws
         | and see what happens, IMO.
         | 
         | Is there a market for leaked facial scans?
        
           | doublerabbit wrote:
           | With the UK currently battling Apple, Discord has no chance
           | of not getting a lawsuit.
           | 
           | Ofcom is a serious contender in ruling their rules especially
           | where Discord is multi-national that even "normies" know and
           | use.
           | 
           | And if they got a slap of "we will let you off this time"
           | they would still have to create some sort of verification
           | service to please the next time.
           | 
           | You might as well piss off your consumers, loose them
           | whatever and still hold the centre stage than fight the case
           | for not. Nothing is stopping Ofcom from launching another
           | lawsuit there after.
           | 
           | > Is there a market for leaked facial scans?
           | 
           | There's a market for everything. Fake driver licenses with
           | fake pictures have been around for decades, that would be no
           | different.
        
         | 9283409232 wrote:
         | Didn't Australia ban porn with women who have A cups under the
         | justification of pedos like them?
         | 
         | Edit: This isn't how it played out. See the comment below.
        
           | threeseed wrote:
           | No it's just nonsense you invented because you were unwilling
           | to do any research.
           | 
           | The actual situation was that the board refused
           | classification where an adult was intentionally pretending to
           | be an underage child not that they looked like one.
        
             | 9283409232 wrote:
             | I added an edit to correct myself however this was not
             | something I invented. This story goes back to 09 - 2010. I
             | will confess I didn't do any research to confirm though and
             | that was my bad.
        
               | neilv wrote:
               | FWIW, I can confirm that user 9283409232 didn't make that
               | up. I heard that multiple reputable places, years ago.
               | 
               | And it was believable, given a history of genuine but
               | inept attempts by some to address real societal problems.
               | (As well as given the history of fake attempts to solve
               | problems for political points for "doing something". And
               | also given the history of "won't someone think of the
               | children" disingenuous pretexts often used by others to
               | advance unrelated goals.) Basically, no one is surprised
               | when many governments do something that seems
               | nonsensical.
               | 
               | So, accusing someone of making up a story of a government
               | doing something odd in this space might be hasty.
               | 
               | I suspect better would be to give a quick check and then
               | "I couldn't find a reference to that; do you have a
               | link?"
        
         | zehaeva wrote:
         | It's a good thing to think about. I knew a guy in high school
         | who had male pattern baldness that started at 13 or 14. Full
         | blown by the time he was 16. Dude looked like one of the
         | teachers.
        
           | MisterTea wrote:
           | Same in my drivers ed at 16, guy had a mans face, large
           | stocky build, and thick full beard. I once was talking to a
           | tall pretty woman who turned out to be a 12 year old girl.
           | And I have a friend who for most of his 20's could pass for
           | 13-14 and had a hell of a time getting into bars.
           | 
           | This facial thing feel like a loaded attempt to both check a
           | box and get more of that sweet, sweet data to mine. Massive
           | privacy invasion and exploitation of children dressed as
           | security theater.
        
           | red-iron-pine wrote:
           | i went to school with a guy who had serious facial hair at
           | like 14. dude was rocking 5 oclock shadows by the end of the
           | school day
        
             | AStonesThrow wrote:
             | Was your school located at 21 Jump Street?
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/21_Jump_Street
             | 
             | Was it Steve Buscemi toting a skateboard?
             | 
             | https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/how-do-you-do-fellow-kids
        
         | joeyh wrote:
         | Wise (nee Transferwise) requires a passport style photo taken
         | by a webapp for KYC when transferring money. I was recently
         | unable to complete that process over a dozen tries, because the
         | image processing didn't like something about my face. (Photos
         | met all criteria.)
         | 
         | On contacting their support, I learned that they refused to use
         | any other process. Also it became apparent that they had
         | outsourced it to some other company and had no insight into the
         | process and so no way to help. Apparently closing one's account
         | will cause an escalation to a team who determines where to send
         | the money, which would presumably put some human flexability
         | back into the process.
         | 
         | (In the end I was able to get their web app to work by trying
         | several other devices, one had a camera that for whatever
         | reason satisfied their checks that my face was within the
         | required oval etc.)
        
         | brundolf wrote:
         | Devil's advocate: couldn't this be better for privacy than
         | other age checks because it doesn't require actual
         | identification?
        
           | paulryanrogers wrote:
           | Considering the ubiquity of facial recognition tech, I
           | imagine it could very quickly be abused to identify people
        
         | pdpi wrote:
         | > what about someone who is 18 and just doesn't have the
         | traditional adult facial features?
         | 
         | This can be challenging even with humans. My ex got carded when
         | buying alcohol well into her mid thirties, and staff at the
         | schools she taught at mistook her for a student all the time.
        
           | smegger001 wrote:
           | I grew a beard when I was younger because I was tired of
           | being mistaken for a highschooler its quite annoying to have
           | people assume you are 15 when your 20. still regularly carded
           | in my 30s
        
       | MisterTea wrote:
       | It's interesting how the "features" which many claim IRC is
       | missing turn out to be a huge liability. Adult content is applied
       | via image hosting, video/audio chat, etc. All things IRC lacks.
        
         | spacebanana7 wrote:
         | There is a definitely a textual privilege in media. You can
         | write things in books that would never be allowed to be
         | depicted in video. Even in Game of Thrones, Ramsay's sadism had
         | to be sanitised a little for live action.
         | 
         | This is doubly so if your book is historic in some sense. Still
         | find it crazy that Marquis de Sade's stuff is legal.
        
         | doublerabbit wrote:
         | > All things IRC lacks.
         | 
         | IRC gives you all the features of a normal client but you've
         | got to create them yourself which itself is a dark-art that's
         | been squandered by today's gimmicky services.
         | 
         | Just because it doesn't have a fancy UI to present the media
         | doesn't mean it can't.
         | 
         | Encode to base64 and post in channel. Decode it back to normal
         | format... IRC is excellent for large amounts of stringed text.
         | 
         | You could even stream the movie in base64 and have a client
         | that captures the data stream and decodes.
         | 
         | The only thing that IRC lacks is a feature to recall
         | conversations where if someone isn't present. But if you're
         | someone who needs that host a bouncer or something.
         | 
         | I personally enjoy entering a blank slate.
        
           | blibble wrote:
           | sending any reasonably sized jpeg as base64 text will take
           | you several minutes with typical server flood protection
        
             | doublerabbit wrote:
             | You could chunk it, compress it with gzip. Usenet uses
             | yENC.
             | 
             | Public servers sure, may have protections in place but your
             | own server and with IRCd's being easy configurable makes it
             | non-trivial.
        
       | spacebanana7 wrote:
       | I suspect the endgame of this campaign is to have mandatory ID
       | checks for social media. Police would have access to these upon
       | court orders etc and be able to easily prosecute anyone who posts
       | 'harmful' content online.
        
         | lanfeust6 wrote:
         | Which would kill social media. The cherry-picked tech giant
         | iterations anyway.
        
           | ChocolateGod wrote:
           | Exactly, targeting children with their parents credit cards
           | is a profitable business.
        
           | samlinnfer wrote:
           | They already have this in China and Korea. Hasn't stopped
           | people from using social media.
        
             | lanfeust6 wrote:
             | The West isn't China and Korea. They can't opt out of
             | authoritarian-state surveillance and great firewall,
             | whereas we have options more amenable to privacy, even if
             | you want to quibble that they aren't perfect.
             | 
             | Also the fact that UK and Australia are kind of backwards
             | on online privacy.
             | 
             | That aside, this is targeted. The fediverse and vbulletin
             | forums of old, even reddit, are all social media but will
             | never require facial recognition. If they do, then far
             | worse things are happening to freedom.
        
               | numpad0 wrote:
               | Korea is a democratic Western nation, they host US
               | military bases and fly F-35. Korean made phones are
               | trusted enough that American special forces use it for
               | some parachute jumpings.
        
               | like_any_other wrote:
               | > The West isn't China and Korea.
               | 
               | They have this in _South_ Korea:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43716932
        
               | lanfeust6 wrote:
               | This law was struck down for violating the constitution.
        
           | spacebanana7 wrote:
           | I don't think it would kill social media, but it'd make it
           | more similar to Chinese social media. Essentially impossible
           | to use for protests or criticism of things the government
           | doesn't critiques on.
        
           | numpad0 wrote:
           | It ties real world ultraviolence with social media. It won't
           | kill social media, just make it materially toxic. IIUC South
           | Korea in 2000s had exactly this, online dispute stories
           | coming from there were much worse than anything I had heard
           | locally.
        
           | charlie90 wrote:
           | Why? People make social media accounts with their real name
           | and face already. I doubt it would have any effect.
        
         | pjc50 wrote:
         | See e.g. "Ohio social media parental notification act"
         | 
         | (mind you, ID/age requirements for access to adult content go
         | way, way back in all countries)
        
         | woodrowbarlow wrote:
         | <tin-foil-hat> ultimately, i think the endgame is to require
         | government ID in order to access internet services in general,
         | a la ender's game. </tin-foil-hat>
        
           | raspyberr wrote:
           | Please walk me from scratch how you would access the internet
           | on your own right now without any form of Government ID
        
             | squigz wrote:
             | ???
             | 
             | I'd walk to a local library and use their wifi. Or walk to
             | a local McDonalds and use their wifi. Or walk to a
             | friend's/family's house and use their wifi. Or...
        
               | bitmasher9 wrote:
               | I know right. There are entire business models where
               | "comfortable place to connect to WiFi" is an important
               | part of the strategy.
        
             | toast0 wrote:
             | I'm in the US. I do have government ID, but I don't recall
             | showing it to my network providers. Certainly, some telcos
             | want a social security number to run credit; but that's
             | often avoidable. I'm pretty sure could also wander down to
             | an electronics store (maybe a grocery/drug store too) and
             | pick up a prepaid cell phone with internet access, pay for
             | it with cash, and get that going without government id in
             | the US. It's a bit of a hike to get to the electronics
             | store from where I live, but I can get part of the way
             | there with the bus that takes cash too.
        
             | zeta0134 wrote:
             | Walk into a coffee shop. Look at the wifi password, usually
             | a sign near the register. Log onto the wifi network using
             | the wifi password. Browse in peace.
             | 
             | Is this sort of flow normal elsewhere? It's certainly
             | normal where I live.
        
             | whoopdedo wrote:
             | Prepaid 5G phone bought with cash and activated by dialing
             | 611.
        
             | Symbiote wrote:
             | Prepaid SIM from one of the EU countries that still has
             | them, such as Denmark. Purchase in cash from a kiosk.
        
           | like_any_other wrote:
           | Many countries (including in the EU) already required ID to
           | use a SIM card: https://forestvpn.com/blog/news/countries-
           | sim-card-registrat...
           | 
           | Funnily enough, when the Philippines did this, it was decried
           | as a violation of human rights [1]. But usually, media are so
           | silent on such things I'd call them complicit. One already
           | cannot so much as rent a hotel room anywhere in the EU
           | without showing government ID.
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SIM_Registration_Act
        
             | woodrowbarlow wrote:
             | yup, and this gives the ability to look up per-citizen
             | location data.
             | 
             | sidebar: i've been trying to raise awareness about "joint
             | communications and sensing" wherever i can lately; many
             | companies involved in 6G standardization (esp. nokia) want
             | the 6G network to use mmWave radio to create realtime 3d
             | environment mappings, aka a "digital twin" of the physical
             | world, aka a surveillance state's wet dream.
             | 
             | https://www.nokia.com/blog/building-a-network-with-a-
             | sixth-s...
        
             | miohtama wrote:
             | Not only rent, but in Spain there is a central database
             | where your details are sucked in real time when you rent a
             | room or a car, and no oversight how this data is used.
        
             | xvokcarts wrote:
             | You can buy (and top up) a SIM card without an ID in the
             | EU.
        
               | Muromec wrote:
               | That depends on a country and for once there is no
               | visible pattern or usual suspects in who requires it or
               | not
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | Good!
         | 
         | Why is the Internet any different than say, a porn or liquor
         | store? Why are we so fuckin allergic to verification? I'll tell
         | ya why- money. Don't pretend it's privacy.
        
           | spacebanana7 wrote:
           | It's about power not money. The Chinese social media
           | companies who do this are plenty profitable.
        
           | squigz wrote:
           | How about we don't pretend there's only 1 single facet to
           | this issue, no matter which you think it is?
        
           | woodrowbarlow wrote:
           | there two false equivalencies in your argument, as presented
           | in response to GP:
           | 
           | 1. ID checks are not the same as age verification.
           | 
           | 2. a social media website is not the same as a porn website.
           | 
           | if you take the stance that social media sites should require
           | ID verification, then i would furthermore point out that this
           | is likely to impact any website that has a space for users to
           | add public feedback, even forums and blogs.
        
           | throwaway875847 wrote:
           | Money? Every big ad tech company would love to be provided
           | with all that juicy verification data.
        
             | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
             | If they could make more money with verification than
             | without then we would already have it.
        
         | like_any_other wrote:
         | That would not be unprecedented: _The first major change by the
         | Lee Myung-bak government was to require websites with over
         | 100,000 daily visitors to make their users register their real
         | name and social security numbers._ -
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_censorship_in_South_K...
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | I'm afraid the endgame is, all this activity tied to real
         | identities will be repeatedly leaked, get used for blackmail,
         | and by foreign intelligence agencies.
         | 
         | Followed by governments basically shrugging.
        
         | miohtama wrote:
         | You need to ask what would Trump do. Court order probably
         | skipped, or from a friendly judge.
        
         | KaiserPro wrote:
         | They already have access to this.
         | 
         | If you run a social media site, then you have an API that
         | allows government access to your data.
        
       | ajsnigrutin wrote:
       | I think regulation could be done better...
       | 
       | Let's assign one or ideally two adults to each underage child,
       | who are aware of the childs real age and can intervene and
       | prevent the child from installing discord (and any other social
       | media) in the first place or confiscate the equipment if the
       | child breaks the rules. They could also regulate many other thing
       | in the childs life, not just social network use.
        
         | jasonlotito wrote:
         | > confiscate the equipment if the child breaks the rules.
         | 
         | Even you acknowledge this plan is flawed and that the child can
         | break the rules. And it's not that difficult. After all,
         | confiscating the equipment assumes that they know about the
         | equipment and that they can legally seize the equipment. Third
         | parties are involved, and doing what you suggests would land
         | these adults in prison.
         | 
         | I know you thought you were being smart with your suggestion
         | that maybe parents should be parents, but really you just
         | highlighted your ignorance.
         | 
         | The goal of these laws are to prevent children from accessing
         | content. If some adults get caught in the crossfire, they don't
         | care.
         | 
         | Now, I'm not defending these laws or saying anything about
         | them. What I am saying is that your "suggestion" is flawed from
         | the point of view of those proposing these laws.
        
           | ajsnigrutin wrote:
           | These are not 20 something college students with jobs and
           | rented apartments, doing stuff without their parents knowing.
           | 
           | These are kids younger than 13, they don't have jobs, they
           | live with their parents, no internet/data planes outside of
           | control of their parents, no nothing.
           | 
           | The goal of these laws is to get ID checks on social networks
           | for everyone, so the governments know who the "loud ones"
           | (against whatever political cause) are. Using small kids as a
           | reason to do so is a typical modus operandi to achieve that.
           | 
           | Yes, those "one or two adults" I meantioned should be the
           | parents, and yes, parents can legally confiscate their kids
           | phones if they're doing something stupid online. They can
           | also check what the kid is doing online.
           | 
           | If a 12yo kid (or younger) can somehow obtain money and a
           | phone and keep it hidden from their parents, that kid will
           | also be able to avoid such checks by vpn-ing (or using a
           | proxy) to some non-UK country, where those checks won't be
           | mandatory. This again is solved by the parents actually
           | parenting, again... it's kids younger than 13, at that age,
           | parents can and should have total control of their child.
        
             | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
             | It has to be acknowledged that some things, like social
             | media and pornography, are harmful to children. "Maintain
             | the status quo" isn't an attractive response to that. ID
             | laws are not a perfect solution, maybe not even a good one.
             | 
             | You undermine your whole point by pretending VPNs are going
             | to make the whole thing moot. Why do you care when you
             | won't be affected because you can just use a VPN? Why does
             | pornhub make such a fuss when their users can just use a
             | VPN? Because in reality, introducing that much friction
             | will stop a lot of people.
        
               | ajsnigrutin wrote:
               | ID laws are the end goal, the children and porn are just
               | an excuse to get ID laws, which would give the
               | governments a lot more control over the internet and
               | social networks. Just imagin someone like Trump/Ursula
               | requesting full list of names of everyone criticizing
               | them on eg reddit (because reddit has porn, and you'd
               | have to show your ID to be able to use reddit, because of
               | your reasons). This is objectively bad for the people and
               | for the internet.
               | 
               | Parenting is a good solution, not just giving the kids
               | tablets so they stay quiet. Yes, kids are curious, kids
               | will still find porn, ID laws or not, but parents should
               | teach them and limit their access, not IDs on discord.
               | 
               | And of course porhub is making a fuss, are you, an
               | (assuming an) adult going to go to your telco with your
               | ID and say "hi, i'm John, i want to watch porn and jerk
               | off, but you need to see my ID first"? Or will you find
               | some other alternatives, where pornhub doesn't earn that
               | money?
        
               | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
               | > Parenting is a good solution
               | 
               | Yes, to most of society's problems. Yet they persist.
        
               | alexey-salmin wrote:
               | So? They equally persist in the face of endless laws, I
               | don't see how it follows that piling more laws on top is
               | a better idea than deferring this to parents.
        
               | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
               | Parenting was the answer to kids not wearing their
               | seatbelt, and getting maimed and killed by very
               | survivable accidents. Simply teach your kids to wear
               | their seatbelt. Yet seatbelt laws reduced fatality (8%)
               | and serious injury (9%) in kids. It follows that "piling"
               | such a law "on top", one that people decried as
               | unconstitutional, was a better idea than deferring to the
               | parents.
               | 
               | https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w13408/w
               | 134...
        
               | Hizonner wrote:
               | > It has to be acknowledged that some things, like social
               | media and pornography, are harmful to children.
               | 
               | It only "has to be acknowledged" if it's true. The
               | "evidence" for either of those, but especially social
               | media (as if that were even a single well defined thing
               | to begin with) is pretty damned shakey. Nobody "has to
               | acknowledge" your personal prejudices.
        
               | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
               | You've convinced me that pornography is, in fact,
               | beneficial to children. What was I thinking? Thank you
               | for your reply.
        
               | Hizonner wrote:
               | Nice try, but the burden of proof for your assertion is
               | still on you.
        
             | KaiserPro wrote:
             | > The goal of these laws is to get ID checks on social
             | networks for everyone
             | 
             | The UK government is nowhere near competent enough to be
             | that stealthy.
             | 
             | Also, it already has this ability already. Identifying a
             | person on social media is pretty simple, All it takes is a
             | request to the media company, and to the ISP/phone
             | provider.
             | 
             | > If a 12yo kid (or younger) can somehow obtain money and a
             | phone and keep it hidden from their parents,
             | 
             | Then you have bigger fucking problems. If a 12yo can do
             | that, in your home and not let on, then you've raised a
             | fucking super spy.
             | 
             | > parents can and should have total control of their child.
             | 
             | Like how? constantly check their phones? that's just
             | invasion of privacy, your kid's never going to trust you.
             | Does the average parent know how to do that, will they
             | enforce non-disappearing messages?
             | 
             | Allowing kids to be social, safe and not utter little shits
             | online is fucking hard. I'm really not sure how we can make
             | sure kids aren't being manipulated by fucking tiktok rage
             | bait. (I mean adults are too, but thats a different
             | problem)
        
           | alexey-salmin wrote:
           | You keep saying it's flawed but I don't see how or why.
           | 
           | What exactly is wrong with the idea that parents should look
           | after their kids?
        
       | zevv wrote:
       | So, what will be the proper technology to apply here? I have no
       | problem with verification of my age (not the date of birth, just
       | the boolean, >18yo), but I _do_ have a problem with sending any
       | party a picture of my face or my passport.
        
         | hedora wrote:
         | Parents?
        
         | londons_explore wrote:
         | Maybe someone like apple will make a "verify user looks over
         | 18" neural net model they can run in the secure enclave of
         | iphones, which sends some kind of "age verified by apple" token
         | to websites without disclosing your identity outside your own
         | device?
         | 
         | Having said that, I bet such a mechanism will prove easy to
         | fake (if only by pointing the phone at grandad), and therefore
         | be disallowed by governments in short order in favour of
         | something that doesn't protect the user as much.
        
           | miki123211 wrote:
           | Apple lets you add IDs to your wallet in some jurisdictions.
           | I wouldn't be surprised if they eventually introduce a
           | system-wide age verification service and let developers
           | piggyback on it with safe, privacy-preserving assertions.
        
         | threeseed wrote:
         | Variation of PassKeys could work well.
         | 
         | Especially if it was tightly integrated into the OS so that
         | parents could issue an AgeKey to each of their children which
         | sites would ask for.
        
         | 1659447091 wrote:
         | OIDC4VCI(OpenID for Verifiable Credential Issuance)[0] is what
         | I think has the most promise.
         | 
         | My understanding is that an issuer can issue a Credential that
         | asserts the claims (eg, you are over 18) that you make to
         | another entity/website and that entity can verify those claims
         | you present to them (Verifiable Credentials).
         | 
         | For example, if we can get banks - who already know our full
         | identity - to become Credential Issuers, then we can use bank
         | provided Credentials (that assert we are over 18) to present to
         | websites and services that require age verification WITHOUT
         | having to give them all of our personal information. As long
         | the site or service trust that Issuer.
         | 
         | [0] https://openid.net/specs/openid-4-verifiable-credential-
         | issu...
        
           | Hizonner wrote:
           | You mean without giving them any personal information other
           | than _where to find your bank account_.
        
             | 1659447091 wrote:
             | It doesn't have to be your bank if you don't want, have the
             | DMV be an issuer or your car insurance, or health insurance
             | or cell phone service etc.
             | 
             | You choose which one you want you want to have assert your
             | claim. They already know you. It's a better option than
             | giving every random website or service all of your info and
             | biometric data so you can 'like' memes or bother random
             | people with DM's or whatever people do on those types of
             | social media platforms
        
               | Hizonner wrote:
               | > It doesn't have to be your bank if you don't want,
               | 
               | "If I don't want"? _I_ would get no choice at all about
               | who it would be, because in practice the Web site (or
               | whoever could put pressure on the Web site) would have
               | all of the control over which issuers were or were not
               | acceptable. Don 't pretend that actual users would have
               | any meaningful control over anything.
               | 
               | The sites, even as a (almost certainly captured and
               | corrupt) consortium, wouldn't do the work to accept just
               | any potentially trustworthy issuer. In fact they probably
               | wouldn't even do the work to keep track of all the
               | _national governments_ that might issue such credentials.
               | Nor would you get all national governments, all banks,
               | all insurance companies, all cell phone carriers, all
               | neighborhood busibodies, or all of _any_ sufficiently
               | large class of potentially  "trustable" issuers to agree
               | to _become_ issuers. At least not without their attaching
               | a whole bunch of unacceptable strings to the deal. What
               | 's in it for them, exactly?
               | 
               | Coordinating on certifying authorities is the fatal
               | adoption problem for all systems like that. Even the
               | X.509 CA infrastructure we have only exists because (a)
               | it was set up when there were a lot fewer vested
               | interests, and (b) it's very low effort, because it
               | doesn't actually verify any facts at all about the
               | certificate holder. The idea that you could get around
               | that adoption problem while simultaneously preserving
               | anything like _privacy_ is just silly.
               | 
               | Furthermore, unless you use an attestation protocol
               | that's zero-knowledge in the _identity of the certifier_
               | , which OpenID is unlikely ever to specify, nor are
               | either issuers or relying parties going to adopt this
               | side of the heat death of the Universe, you as a user are
               | _still_ always giving up _some_ information about your
               | association with _something_.
               | 
               | Worse, even if you could in fact get such a system
               | adopted, it would be _a bad thing_. Even if it worked.
               | Even if it were totally zero-knowledge. Infrastructure
               | built for  "of adult age" verification _will_ get applied
               | to services that actively _should not have_ such
               | verification. Even more certainly, it _will_ extended and
               | used to discriminate on plenty of other characteristics.
               | That discrimination _will_ be imposed on services by
               | governments and other pressuring entities, regardless of
               | their own views about who they _want_ to exclude.
               | 
               | And some of it _will_ be discrimination you will think is
               | wrong.
               | 
               | It's not a good idea to go around building infrastructure
               | like that even if you _can_ get it adopted and even if it
               | 's done "right". Which again no non-zero-knowledge system
               | can claim to be anyway.
               | 
               | Counterproposal: "those types of social media platforms"
               | get zero information about me other than the username I
               | use to log in, which may or may not resemble the username
               | I use anywhere else. Same for every other user. The false
               | "need" to do age verification gets thrown on the trash
               | heap where it belongs.
        
               | 1659447091 wrote:
               | > Don't pretend that actual users would have any
               | meaningful control over anything.
               | 
               | You do have control, you just don't like the option of
               | control you have which is to forgo those social/porn
               | sites altogether. You want to dictate to businesses and
               | the government how to run their business or country laws
               | that you want to use. And you can sometimes, if you get a
               | large enough group to forgo their services over their
               | policies, or to vote in the right people for your cause.
               | You can also wail about it til the cows come home, or you
               | can try and find working solutions that will BOTH guard
               | privacy and allows a business to keep providing services
               | by complying with laws that allow them to be in business
               | in the first place. It's not black & white and it's not
               | instant, it's incremental steps and it's slow and
               | sometimes requires minor compromise that comes with being
               | an Adult and finding Adult solutions. I'm not interested
               | in dreaming about some fantasy of a libertarian
               | Seasteading world. Been there done that got the t-shirt.
               | I prefer finding solutions in the real world now.
               | 
               | > The false "need" to do age verification gets thrown on
               | the trash heap where it belongs.
               | 
               | This is something you should send to your government that
               | makes those rules. The businesses (that want to stay in
               | compliance) follow the government rules given to them.
               | The ones that ask for more are not forcing you against
               | your will to be a part of it.
               | 
               | I get you don't like it, I don't care for it either; but
               | again, you can throw a fit and pout about it - or try
               | tofind workable solutions. This is what I choose to do
               | even though I made the choice long ago to not use social
               | media (except for this site and GitHub for work if you
               | want to count those) porn sites or gambling or other
               | nonsense. So all these things don't affect me since I
               | don't go around signing up for or caring for all the time
               | wasting brain rot(imo) things. But I am interested in
               | solutions because I care about data privacy
        
               | Hizonner wrote:
               | Those businesses also have control. They just don't like
               | the option of control they have, which is to stay out of
               | those countries altogether.
               | 
               | > This is something you should send to your government
               | that makes those rules.
               | 
               | My government hasn't made those rules, at least not yet.
               | Last time they tried, I joined the crowd yelling at them
               | about it. It's easier to do that if people aren't giving
               | them technology they can pretend solves the fundamental
               | problems with what they're doing.
               | 
               | Any more bright ideas?
        
               | 1659447091 wrote:
               | > Those businesses also have control. They just don't
               | like the option of control they have, which is to stay
               | out of those countries altogether.
               | 
               | Yes. ?
               | 
               | Apparently they don't want to leave and are happy staying
               | there and complying. If you don't like a businesses
               | practice, don't use them. . .
               | 
               | > Last time they tried, I joined the crowd yelling at
               | them about it.
               | 
               | Good. I hope more people that feel as strongly about the
               | subject as you will follow your lead.
               | 
               | > It's easier to do that if people aren't giving them
               | technology they can pretend solves the fundamental
               | problems with what they're doing.
               | 
               | No one is "giving" them technology that pretends
               | anything. There is a community effort to come up with
               | privacy focused, secure solutions. If you noticed the
               | OIDC4VC protocols are still in the draft phase. If it's
               | fubar no one will use it. Worse than that is, if nothing
               | comes of any proposed solutions, the state won't just say
               | oh well you tried.
               | 
               | Either we will continue to deal with the current solution
               | of businesses collecting our ids and biometrics and each
               | one having a db of this info to sell/have stolen, or,
               | some consultant that golfs with some gov official will
               | tell them the tech industry can't figure it out but they
               | have a magic solution that's even better and will build a
               | system (using tax dollars) that uses government IDs with
               | the added bonus of tracking and then all of our internet
               | usage can be tracked by the government.
               | 
               | Wantonly dismissing any effort to make things better in
               | an acceptable way is not going to make it magically go
               | away forever. That ship has sailed. You can resist
               | efforts to find a privacy focused solution and get stuck
               | with an even worse one from the state, or, get your crowd
               | yelling hat back on and help make sure data and privacy
               | protections are solidly baked into these solutions the
               | tech community is trying to build.
        
               | LinuxBender wrote:
               | I think the post office could suffice in most countries
               | for this.
               | 
               | Or server operators could just implement RTA headers and
               | put the liability on apps/devices to look for the header.
        
         | someNameIG wrote:
         | Discord got me to do this about 2 weeks ago (I'm Australian so
         | they seem to be rolling this out here too), at least for the
         | face scan the privacy policy said it occurred on device, so if
         | you believe that you're not sending anyone images of your face.
        
         | kelseyfrog wrote:
         | This is a social problem and as such cannot be solved with
         | technology. You would have to make social media so uncool that
         | young people didn't use it. One of the easiest ways of doing
         | this is associating it with old people. Therefore the fastest
         | way to get young people _off_ discord is to get geriatric _on_
         | discord and en-mass.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | Underage drinking is a social problem.
           | 
           | The issue isn't social media is bad, the issue is that social
           | media has no effective moderation. If an adult is hanging out
           | at the park talking to minors, thats easy to spot and
           | correct. there is a strong social pressure to not let that
           | happen.
           | 
           | The problem is when moving to chat, not only is a mobile
           | private to the child, there are no safe mechanisms to allow
           | parents to "spot the nonce". Moreover the kid has no real way
           | of knowing they are adults until it's too late.
           | 
           | Its a difficult problem, doing nothing is going to ruin a
           | generation (or already has), doing it half arsed is going to
           | undermine privacy and not solve the problem.
        
       | Hizonner wrote:
       | The ophidian lubricant has entered the chat.
        
       | jimbob45 wrote:
       | This is how you lose your comfortable market monopoly like Skype
       | did. Recall that Skype had better P2P tech than Discord did and
       | would still be the market leader if MS had chosen to update
       | anything at all besides the logo bi-yearly.
        
       | x187463 wrote:
       | I see a lot of comments here arguing age requirements are
       | overreach and these decisions should be left to the parents. To
       | those presenting such arguments, do you think that applies to
       | other activities as well? What about smoking/drinking/firearms?
       | Pornography? Driving?
       | 
       | I haven't researched the topic of social media's effect on young
       | people, but the common sentiment I encounter is that it's
       | generally harmful, or at least capable of harm in a way that is
       | difficult to isolate and manage as a parent.
       | 
       | The people closest to this issue, that is parents, school
       | faculty, and those who study the psychology and health of
       | children/teens, seem to be the most alarmed about the effects of
       | social media.
       | 
       | If that's true, I can understand the need to, as a society, agree
       | we would like to implement some barrier between kids/teens and
       | the social media companies. How that is practically done seems to
       | be the challenge. Clicking a box that say's, in effect, "I
       | totally promise I am old enough." is completely useless for
       | anything other than a thin legal shield.
        
         | squigz wrote:
         | The difference is that requiring ID for those activities
         | doesn't generally drastically erode the privacy of other
         | people.
         | 
         | Instead of destroying the concept of privacy and anonymity on
         | the Internet... how about we just stop these companies from
         | being as harmful as they are, regardless of your age?
        
         | bitmasher9 wrote:
         | > To those presenting such arguments, do you think that applies
         | to other activities as well?
         | 
         | You're acting like it's not normal for parents to decide which
         | activities a child can do, cannot do, and must do, and to make
         | these decisions with appropriate ages in mind. I tend to lean
         | towards allowing parents a long leash in their own home and
         | other private places but to regulate behavior in schools and
         | public places.
        
         | linuxftw wrote:
         | > I see a lot of comments here arguing age requirements are
         | overreach and these decisions should be left to the parents.
         | 
         | No you don't. The bulk of the comments at this point in time
         | don't mention things being left to parents at all.
        
         | hedora wrote:
         | > I see a lot of comments here arguing age requirements are
         | overreach and these decisions should be left to the parents. To
         | those presenting such arguments, do you think that applies to
         | other activities as well? What about smoking/drinking/firearms?
         | Pornography? Driving?
         | 
         | All of the things on your list are primarily enforced by
         | parents already.
         | 
         | This law is regulatory capture that's going to strengthen the
         | monopolies of the exact social media sites that you allude to.
         | It makes it harder for smaller, focused sites to exist. Instead
         | the only option will be sites with algorithmic feeds that
         | currently push right-wing nazi propaganda, anti-vaxxers, flat
         | earthers, nihilist school shooting clubs for teenagers, or
         | whatever fresh hell the internet came up with this morning.
         | 
         | If you think age verification is going to fix these problems on
         | the big sites, I suggest watching YouTube Kids. Actually,
         | don't. I wouldn't wish that trauma on anyone. Seriously.
        
         | plsbenice34 wrote:
         | >I see a lot of comments here arguing age requirements are
         | overreach and these decisions should be left to the parents. To
         | those presenting such arguments, do you think that applies to
         | other activities as well? What about smoking/drinking/firearms?
         | Pornography? Driving?
         | 
         | Yes. The state has far, far too much involvement in everybody's
         | lives.
        
           | kelseyfrog wrote:
           | This is a great stance to have if consequences have zero
           | value.
           | 
           | Every time we shrug and say "let the parents decide," we
           | gamble with the most vulnerable: the kids who don't yet know
           | how to refuse a cigarette, who don't yet grasp the weight of
           | a loaded weapon, who don't yet understand that porn isn't a
           | harmless curiosity. We gamble with the soul of childhood--and
           | when we lose, those children don't get a second chance. They
           | leave behind empty chairs at dinner tables, empty beds in
           | houses that echo with what might have been. That's the true
           | cost of unfettered "parental freedom," and it's a price
           | that's easy to pay with someone else's life. But hey, Fuck
           | those kids, right?
        
         | Marsymars wrote:
         | > I see a lot of comments here arguing age requirements are
         | overreach and these decisions should be left to the parents. To
         | those presenting such arguments, do you think that applies to
         | other activities as well? What about smoking/drinking/firearms?
         | Pornography? Driving?
         | 
         | My gut feel here mostly has to do with how I view the activity
         | overall. Smoking I see as a social ill that both adults and
         | children would be better off without, so I don't particularly
         | mind an ID check that inconveniences adults, and that can be
         | opted-out from by simply not smoking. (Social media I see as
         | pretty akin to smoking.)
         | 
         | Inconveniencing adults with ID checks is probably not actually
         | a good way to create incentives though.
         | 
         | (Driving is a special case due to negative externalities and
         | danger you cause to others.)
        
       | hedora wrote:
       | Like many other people here, I'm wondering what we'll end up
       | having to do at work do deal with this. We don't have the
       | resources to put a full time person on this, and the UK's not a
       | huge market.
       | 
       | For unrelated reasons, we already have to implement geoblocking,
       | and we're also intentionally VPN friendly. I suspect most
       | services are that way, so the easy way out is to add "UK" to the
       | same list as North Korea and Iran.
       | 
       | Anyway, if enough services implement this that way, I'd expect
       | the UK to start repealing laws like this (or to start seeing
       | China-level adoption of VPN services). That limits the blast
       | radius to services actually based in the UK. Those are already
       | dropping like flies, sadly.
       | 
       | I hope the rest of the international tech community applies this
       | sort of pressure. Strength in numbers is about all we have left
       | these days.
        
         | fny wrote:
         | You'll likely end up paying someone else to do it for you.
        
           | hedora wrote:
           | I'm reasonably sure we will not. Dealing with an integration
           | like that means not shipping some other feature to the rest
           | of the planet. The marginal gain of accepting UK users is
           | lower than the marginal gain of increasing addressable market
           | everywhere else.
        
         | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
         | > I suspect most services are that way
         | 
         | I don't know actual numbers, but I gave up using VPN by default
         | because in my experience they definitely are not.
        
       | acureau wrote:
       | Maybe the start of a bigger shift to another platform. I'd wager
       | a large portion of the Discord user-base is underage, and they've
       | got nothing but time.
        
       | josefritzishere wrote:
       | This is a privacy nightmare. Mandatory biometrics are pure
       | insanity.
        
       | miohtama wrote:
       | A book recommendation on the topic:
       | 
       | > This is the first book to examine the growth and phenomenon of
       | a securitized and criminalized compliance society which relies
       | increasingly on intelligence-led and predictive technologies to
       | control future risks, crimes, and security threats. It
       | articulates the emergence of a 'compliance-industrial complex'
       | that synthesizes regulatory capitalism and surveillance
       | capitalism to impose new regimes of power and control, as well as
       | new forms of subjectivity subservient to the 'operating system'
       | of a pre-crime society.
       | 
       | https://www.amazon.com/Compliance-Industrial-Complex-Operati...
        
       | nyanpasu64 wrote:
       | Frankly I'm scared by governments and corporations going "papers,
       | please" for people to be allowed to access the Internet. On top
       | of endangering privacy by tying pseudonymous online interactions
       | to real-life ID and biometrics, attempts to block under-18 people
       | from finding information or interacting online will only amplify
       | how society regards them as not having rights. This will isolate
       | people (especially gay and trans teens) living with abusive
       | parents from finding support networks, and prevent them from
       | _learning_ (by talking to friends in different situations) that
       | being beaten or emotionally put down by parents is abusive and
       | traumatizing.
       | 
       | I know all too well that when you grow up you're psychologically
       | wired to _assume_ that the way the parents treated you is normal,
       | and if they harmed you then you deserve to be hurt. I 've made
       | friends with and assisted many teens and young adults in unsafe
       | living situations (and talked to people who grew up in
       | fundamentalist religions and cults), and they're dependent on
       | online support networks to recognize and cope with abuse, get
       | advice, and seek help in dangerous situations.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | To add to this, some people might be left out because companies
         | are not financially incentivised to verify them.
         | 
         | In Germany, immigrants struggle to open a bank account because
         | the banks require documents that they don't have (and that they
         | can hardly get with a bank account). Russian, Iranian and
         | Syrian citizens have a particularly hard time finding a bank
         | that works for them. The most common video document
         | verification system does not support some Indian passports,
         | among others.
         | 
         | To banks, leaving these people out is a rational business
         | decision. The same thing will happen to those deemed too risky
         | or too much hassle by the internet's gatekeepers, but at a much
         | bigger scale.
        
         | exe34 wrote:
         | > prevent them from learning (by talking to friends in
         | different situations) that being beaten or emotionally put down
         | by parents is abusive and traumatizing.
         | 
         | parents didn't know I'm gay, but they did control all flow of
         | information (before social media) by controlling all movements
         | outside school.
         | 
         | it took me until my thirties to realise how deeply abusive my
         | childhood was. the only hints I had, in hindsight, was the
         | first Christmas at uni, everybody was excited to go home and I
         | couldn't fathom why on earth anybody would want to. I dismissed
         | it as an oddity at the time.
        
       | 1970-01-01 wrote:
       | thispersondoesnotexist.com
       | 
       | Now off ya go, little rascals.
        
       | MiddleEndian wrote:
       | Fuck this, need a law to explicitly ban face scanning
        
       | aucisson_masque wrote:
       | They will do just enough so that they comply with the law while
       | kids will be able to easily bypass it.
       | 
       | Where there is a will, there is mean and teenager looking for
       | porn... That's a big willpower.
        
       | nubinetwork wrote:
       | The day discord asks me for a picture, is the day I close my
       | account
        
         | hightrix wrote:
         | I thought the same at first. But I imagine it'd be relatively
         | trivial to generate a fake ID to upload that would suffice.
        
       | gertrunde wrote:
       | I would like to think there there is a solution that can be
       | engineered, in which a service is able to verify that a user is
       | above an appropriate age threshold, while maintaining privacy
       | safeguards, including, where relevant, for the age-protected
       | service not to be privy to the identity of the user, and for the
       | age verification service to not be privy to the nature of the
       | age-protected service being accessed.
       | 
       | In this day and age, of crypto, and certificates, and sso, and
       | all that gubbins, it's surely only a matter of deciding that this
       | is a problem that needs solving.
       | 
       | (Unless the problem really isn't the age of the user at all, but
       | harvesting information...)
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Transferring your age and a way to verify it to any third party
         | is by definition a privacy violation. Doing so in a safe way is
         | literally impossible since I _don 't want to share that
         | information_ in the first place.
        
           | packetlost wrote:
           | I feel like you could, theoretically, have a service that has
           | an ID (as drivers license ID), perhaps operated by your
           | government, that has an API and a notion of an ephemeral
           | identifier that can be used to provide a digital attestation
           | of some property without exposing that property or the exact
           | identity of the person. It would require that the attestation
           | system is trusted by all parties though, which is I think the
           | core problem.
        
             | brian-armstrong wrote:
             | Wouldn't this require the API provider to know that tbe
             | citizen is connecting to the app? Grindr users might be
             | squeamish about letting the current US admin know about
             | that.
        
           | nonchalantsui wrote:
           | Do you feel this way when you enter credit card information
           | when making a purchase online?
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | Crypto comes up every time this topic is discussed but it
         | misses the point.
         | 
         | The hard part is identifying with reasonable accuracy that the
         | person sitting in front of the device is who they say they are,
         | or a certain age.
         | 
         | Offloading everything to crypto primitive moves the problem
         | into a different domain where the check is verifying you have
         | access to some crypto primitive, not that it's actually you or
         | yours.
         | 
         | Any fully privacy-preserving crypto solution would have the
         | flaw that verifications could be sold online. Someone turns 21
         | (or other age) and begins selling verifications with their ID
         | because there is no attachment back to them, and therefore no
         | consequences. So people then start imaging extra layers that
         | would protect against this, which start eroding the privacy
         | because you're returning back to central verification of
         | something.
        
         | Edmond wrote:
         | There is a solution and I am the developer:
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40298552#40298804
         | 
         | Talking about it or explaining it is like pulling teeth;
         | generally just a thorough misunderstanding of the
         | notion....even though cryptographic certificates make the
         | modern internet possible.
        
           | whall6 wrote:
           | How are the certificates issued?
        
             | Edmond wrote:
             | https://certisfy.com/partnership/
             | 
             | Any number of entities can be certificate issuers, as long
             | as they can be deemed sufficiently trustworthy. Schools,
             | places of worship, police, notary, employers...they can all
             | play the role of trust anchor.
        
               | blibble wrote:
               | interesting idea...
               | 
               | how do you handle revocation when people inevitably start
               | certifying false information?
        
       | femiagbabiaka wrote:
       | The U.S., at least, needs a national ID. That, and a verification
       | system for businesses to use, would solve so many of these
       | issues.
        
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