[HN Gopher] Middle-aged man trading cards go viral in rural Japa...
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       Middle-aged man trading cards go viral in rural Japan town
        
       Author : PaulHoule
       Score  : 1637 points
       Date   : 2025-04-07 21:03 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | bangaroo wrote:
       | i needed an "oh, that's really nice" story today. this delivered.
       | 
       | in every way, this seems well-intentioned, quirky, cute, fun, and
       | positive. unless there's some subtext i'm missing, this is just a
       | good and nice thing happening that's great for everyone involved.
       | 
       | nice to have a story like that these days.
        
       | uneoneuno wrote:
       | Reminds me of "Divorced Dads" playing cards
        
         | GlassOwAter wrote:
         | Haha yep!
        
         | dmix wrote:
         | I wonder which one came first
        
         | subroutine wrote:
         | We're looking for _house_! Come on, _house_!
         | 
         |  _Holographic white Oakley 's_... not bad, it pairs with day
         | drinking.
        
         | jbmny wrote:
         | Yep, I totally expected this article to be about Divorced Dads
         | inexplicably catching on with Japanese youth.
        
         | JTbane wrote:
         | I tried to pull the house but got shingles instead
        
       | 1317 wrote:
       | Original video and articles (in Japanese)
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6m21OBCVPWo
       | 
       | https://www.fnn.jp/articles/-/842101
       | 
       | https://www.fnn.jp/articles/-/838709
        
       | NickC25 wrote:
       | That's awesome.
       | 
       | Town celebrates its own via a medium that the youth seek out on
       | their own. The youth then forge closer connections with their
       | elders. Everyone is happy, everyone wins.
        
         | oulipo wrote:
         | Except that women are totally absent?? does nobody on HN even
         | realize that?
        
           | tomcam wrote:
           | Hey, what about the women?
        
           | falcor84 wrote:
           | Putting on my Product Manager hat, the best product launches
           | often focus on a single well-defined persona, as this one
           | apparently did. Now that this is proven to work, they can
           | expand to middle-aged women, older people, younger people,
           | animals and what have you. But I think that this is a great
           | start.
        
           | Andrex wrote:
           | An obvious choice for an early expansion pack.
           | 
           | Like Pokemon adding a girl player character in 2nd Gen.
        
           | xanth wrote:
           | In fairness older men are goofy, women not so much
        
             | presentation wrote:
             | And Japanese people are well aware of this, there is
             | definitely a common youth cultural appreciation of goofy
             | middle-aged men here beyond what I was used to growing up
             | in the USA.
        
           | munificent wrote:
           | In Japan, men commit suicide at roughly twice the rate of
           | women. The age group with the highest rate of suicide was
           | 50-59. I can't find good data, but loneliness and not feeling
           | valued by a community is very likely a significant
           | contributor here.
           | 
           | Women are important but if the problem you're trying to solve
           | is deaths of despair, then focusing on men makes sense.
        
             | steve_adams_86 wrote:
             | Suicide among men is ~4x higher in Canada and the USA in
             | some demographics, too. In some cases, such as men 80+, the
             | rate is 6.5x higher in Canada. This is crazy sad. It
             | doesn't mean other things affecting women aren't sad. It
             | just means this is sad.
        
             | amrocha wrote:
             | Except that's not in any way their motivation, so this is a
             | completely unrelated comment.
        
               | munificent wrote:
               | From the article:
               | 
               | "We wanted to strengthen the connection between the
               | children and the older generations in the community.
               | There are so many amazing people here. I thought it was
               | such a shame that no one knew about them."
               | 
               | Older people being forgotten and unknown seems relevant
               | to me.
        
             | akimbostrawman wrote:
             | That isn't even only Japan. On a global scale men are 1.7
             | times more likely, in the US 3.6 times, Europe 4.0.
             | 
             | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suici
             | d...
             | 
             | There are so few resources about the topic for men compared
             | to women that comlaining about it is just sad.
        
             | oulipo wrote:
             | what does this has to do with the game? and why having BOTH
             | men and women in the game would change anything to this?
             | 
             | You're trying to justify something which is unjustifiable
             | in 2025
        
           | philsnow wrote:
           | "obachan" expansion potential
        
           | presentation wrote:
           | Don't let perfect be the enemy of good.
        
           | mattigames wrote:
           | The whole thing was an idea of a woman, Eri Miyahara,
           | 45-year-old secretariat head of the Saidosho regional
           | community council, I bet she have her reasons to focus on
           | men, I suspect it's the perceived loneliness of the selected
           | ones.
        
           | seabird wrote:
           | That's a needlessly uncharitable interpretation, but it is an
           | interesting point.
           | 
           | I think that increased rates of low (and high) grade
           | neurodivergence in men, and society expecting eccentric
           | behavior from men, especially as they age, results in in the
           | sort of characters that make something like this work.
           | Umarells in Italy come to mind.
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | There's quite a few assumptions in your comment; one, that
             | men have higher grades of neurodivergece than women
             | (whereas it can also be underdiagnosis or masking through
             | higher societal expectations on women). Women are eccentric
             | too.
        
               | ConspiracyFact wrote:
               | Men are more dissimilar from one another, generally, than
               | women are from one another. Sorry.
        
               | laurent_du wrote:
               | This is a well-known fact with a well-established genetic
               | basis. For pretty much any trait, the standard deviation
               | of the distribution for men is larger than the
               | distribution for women.
        
               | sceptic123 wrote:
               | Bold claim with no sources there
        
               | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
               | If there are studies that prove this, can i see them? And
               | are there equivalent studies on populations of women? Or
               | is this a Kodak situation where there's just at best an
               | assumption based on existing biases?
        
           | __MatrixMan__ wrote:
           | The bar in this medium is pretty low. Pokemon is about
           | capturing animals in the wild and making them fight in
           | captivity.
           | 
           | The "why just men?" question is probably worth raising
           | locally, but I'm not going to shame them from the other side
           | of the planet for it.
        
           | DeathArrow wrote:
           | Totally. And also lgbtqia+ community and people of color. /s
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | Interestingly, Japan is in the middle of its own version of
             | _Obergefell v. Hodges_ where several courts have ruled that
             | the ban on same-sex marriage is unconstitutional and
             | plaintiffs are currently awaiting the consolidated Supreme
             | Court ruling.
        
             | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
             | This is unnecessarily antagonistic.
        
           | awongh wrote:
           | Japanese society is famously sexist.... also the game was
           | created by a woman.
        
           | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
           | I was going to comment on this. I wonder if there are any
           | cards for women (dumb!) or if they're just not mentioned in
           | the article (dumb!).
        
       | flashgordon wrote:
       | Wow this is so heartwarming. Actually celebrating "common humans"
       | is so underrated. And kids doing this no less is even more
       | amazing!
        
       | Trasmatta wrote:
       | This sounds like something straight out of the Yakuza video game
       | series. Which, incidentally, is a series largely focused on
       | middle aged men - I would love a set of these cards with Kiryu,
       | Majima, Saejima, Akiyama, Ichiban, Nanba, Adachi, etc...
        
         | pelagic_sky wrote:
         | Need a Nancy card so badly...
        
         | marginalia_nu wrote:
         | I thought the same thing. The sujimon in the Like a Dragon
         | games are conceptually pretty similar (except it's various
         | Yakuza mobs you're collecting).
        
       | statskier wrote:
       | That's neat. I hope they expand it to include middle aged women
       | in the community too.
        
         | klipt wrote:
         | Men statistically have fewer social connections and suffer more
         | from loneliness as they get older, so if the goal is to remedy
         | that, it makes sense to start with men first.
        
           | dTal wrote:
           | I see no particular reason to discriminate even from the get-
           | go. Nor was addressing loneliness even the goal.
        
             | klipt wrote:
             | If one house is on fire and you spray water on it to put
             | out the fire, do you feel obligated to spray water on every
             | other house too so that the other houses don't feel
             | discriminated against?
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | If you're the fire department, acting on the governments
               | behalf? Yes.
        
               | klipt wrote:
               | Fire departments spray water on not burning houses?
        
               | II2II wrote:
               | Yes. It is done when they think the neighbouring
               | structure is at risk of catching fire.
        
               | klipt wrote:
               | That would still be prioritizing structures based on
               | risk. Not just spraying random other houses in town
               | because they feel left out.
        
               | DeathArrow wrote:
               | In the current political climate, yes.
        
               | awongh wrote:
               | Actually that is what you do to the houses next to the
               | house on fire. So it doesn't spread to other buildings.
        
             | tspike wrote:
             | You could apply the same logic to "Women in X" groups. It's
             | not discrimination as much as it is support.
        
           | mc3301 wrote:
           | Is this true in Japan, too?
        
             | presentation wrote:
             | I don't have hard data but from my personal anecdote, I
             | would say yes.
        
             | Suppafly wrote:
             | I suspect it's worse in Japan.
        
             | fennecfoxy wrote:
             | It's true for any intelligent species with sexual
             | dimorphism.
             | 
             | However I agree; it's great that the initiative was started
             | for those men, but they could totally hit up the older
             | women in the area as well for an additional set.
        
         | statskier wrote:
         | It's funny to me that the honest intent of my comment was
         | merely "that's neat, it would be cool to expand it to other
         | members of the community" and people go straight to
         | discrimination & indignation. Is it so hard to just express
         | that it'd be cool to take a neat thing and expand it?
        
           | presentation wrote:
           | Seriously, I think the subtext is that people in the West
           | equate Japanese = sexist (and therefore are an inferior
           | people) and that the choice of focusing on ojisans, is a
           | sexist decision made to degrade women.
           | 
           | When in reality it probably is just a light-hearted decision
           | since old men are goofy, a lot of visible local businesses in
           | rural Japan tend to be run by men, and the concept provoked a
           | laugh.
        
             | fennecfoxy wrote:
             | I'd say the core reason is more that the person who started
             | it was very much likely to be male and had a few existing
             | connections to the group of men featured on the cards.
             | 
             | We should strive for equality where possible but to hold
             | individuals account to it is tougher; we should enforce in
             | our interactions/beliefs, that's personal responsibility.
             | 
             | But in play or for hobbies it's harder - the group of
             | friends I play games with is all male for example (all gay,
             | actually). But does that mean that I need to "diversity
             | hire" a woman for the group? We'd have no problem with that
             | at all, if a female friend asked to join when hearing about
             | it we'd be all for it. But it's not like we're going to go
             | out of our way to ensure that we have at least 1 woman in
             | our play group. If that makes sense.
        
               | presentation wrote:
               | The article says it was made by a woman. Regardless I
               | don't agree we need to hold these people accountable for
               | not making female cards, it's their prerogative to do
               | what they think makes sense or is appealing to them, and
               | choosing ojisans as a theme makes sense if you have
               | experience with Japanese culture because of the vibe
               | associated with it. Not everything needs to be a gender
               | equality culture battle, and I'm pretty confident nobody
               | is feeling disenfranchised because they chose that theme.
        
               | nonethewiser wrote:
               | >We should strive for equality where possible but to hold
               | individuals account to it is tougher; we should enforce
               | in our interactions/beliefs, that's personal
               | responsibility.
               | 
               | To be clear, you think someone should be held accountable
               | for not including women in this trend? What might that
               | look like? Are we talking about new laws? Changing the
               | values of society somehow so people will independently
               | ostracize? Or just some more coordinated activist effort?
               | What?
               | 
               | >But does that mean that I need to "diversity hire" a
               | woman for the group? We'd have no problem with that at
               | all, if a female friend asked to join when hearing about
               | it we'd be all for it. But it's not like we're going to
               | go out of our way to ensure that we have at least 1 woman
               | in our play group.
               | 
               | Why not ask a woman to join on the basis of wanting to
               | diversify? That seems entirely consistent with your
               | stated values.
        
             | rat87 wrote:
             | Japanese culture has quite a lot of sexism but so do many
             | "western" countries some are better in some ways some are
             | worse in some ways. And divide between "the West" and Japan
             | isn't so huge Japan is fairly westernized in many ways.
             | It's a rich liberal democracy with a lot of similarities to
             | other rich liberal democracies we may label western.
             | 
             | > A lot of visible local businesses in rural Japan tend to
             | be run by men
             | 
             | And you don't think that has anything to do with sexism in
             | society?
        
           | DeathArrow wrote:
           | >Is it so hard to just express that it'd be cool to take a
           | neat thing and expand it?
           | 
           | If people feel the need to do such a thing, they will do it
           | without being asked.
        
             | nonethewiser wrote:
             | Furthermore, the commentor is implying its sexist which
             | totally seems unfair.
        
               | statskier wrote:
               | If you're referring to me, I don't think the mere
               | observation that it would be fun to expand this to
               | include women is me implying sexism. That honestly was
               | not my intent, which I specifically was addressing in my
               | follow up comment about how sad it is how quickly the
               | responses devolved into sexism arguments.
        
               | nonethewiser wrote:
               | So there is no problem with excluding women from these
               | trading cards? Just that the entirely optional
               | alternative to include them would be fun?
               | 
               | I would agree with that. Same as it would be fun to
               | include younger people or non-Japanese people. Or dogs.
               | Although it seems pretty random to just include
               | everything that isnt currently the subject of these
               | cards.
        
               | statskier wrote:
               | I'm not really following what your point is. The context
               | in this case is pretty clearly geared towards connecting
               | people across age generations. In that context, I merely
               | observed that doing that for women would also be
               | interesting. I don't see why you're branching off into
               | random stuff like dogs.
               | 
               | I am equally interested in whether other non-Japanese
               | cultures could do this too, although I suppose its
               | popularity might not generalize across cultures. I don't
               | know. Be interesting to try though, right?
               | 
               | Or is merely suggesting that deserving of some sort of
               | criticism? The whole thing just made me think "why not
               | share a neat thing with other groups". Dunno why that's
               | such a big deal.
        
           | ConspiracyFact wrote:
           | If anyone makes a similar comment in the reverse situation
           | they're dogpiled with "bUt WhAt AbOuT tHe MeNz?" comments.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | You could say the same about people going straight to claims
           | of sexism for a perfectly innocent story.
        
         | Ferret7446 wrote:
         | Trading cards skew toward boys, and boys are more likely to
         | look up to men. Of course, I wouldn't rule out old babaa cards
         | either.
        
         | Suppafly wrote:
         | > I hope they expand it to include middle aged women in the
         | community too.
         | 
         | Neighborhood MILFs and Cougars?
        
           | DeathArrow wrote:
           | >Neighborhood MILFs and Cougars?
           | 
           | If they do that, some angry commenter on HN will shout about
           | objectifying women.
        
             | saagarjha wrote:
             | As they should?
        
               | akimbostrawman wrote:
               | Only if they also complain about all the other
               | objectifications often glorified.
        
               | 9dev wrote:
               | Nonsense. I can call out something wrong without the need
               | to enumerate all other wrong things, too.
        
               | akimbostrawman wrote:
               | Its not about enumerating all of them but not ignoring or
               | even celebrating them because its convenient and "its
               | different when we do it"
        
               | saagarjha wrote:
               | If we're going down this route I feel you should think
               | about how likely it would have been that I got a similar
               | response if I called out the objectification of men.
        
               | akimbostrawman wrote:
               | Almost nobody would and the ones who do would point out
               | that people would say something if it was about women.
               | 
               | Note that my comment wasn't about different opinion based
               | on sex but social framing.
               | 
               | dislike = objectification
               | 
               | like = empowerment
        
               | fennecfoxy wrote:
               | Objectification is natural in a species that reproduces
               | via sexual reproduction.
               | 
               | The key is sexually objectifying (recognising an
               | attraction) whilst respecting said individual.
               | 
               | As a gay dude I see _plenty_, _pleeeeeenty_ of women
               | wantonly objectifying men when they choose to, with no
               | repercussions or qualms. It's just unfortunate because of
               | sexual dimorphism and expected behaviours, men are
               | expected to take the more active role most of the time
               | and hence these reprehensible behaviours are more common
               | amongst men.
               | 
               | Would be really fun to be a god and tweak everyone's
               | brains such that heterosexual men take the passive role
               | just to see what happens.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | The special abilities write themselves
        
       | pelagic_sky wrote:
       | Reminds me of the fisherman call where you could sign up to have
       | a professional fisherman give you a wake up call.
       | https://soranews24.com/2017/05/12/japanese-fishermen-start-m...
        
         | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
         | "Good morning! Are you up?" asks the fisherman in the video, to
         | which the user replies "Yes, thanks to you. Are you on your
         | ship?" "Yeah, I got up at 3, so I'm already on the sea," he
         | replies, before adding "I caught a really big fish."
         | 
         | I'm not sure how much demand there is for this product, but
         | that really brought a smile to my face.
        
           | wil421 wrote:
           | I don't speak Japanese but I would pay for this. Trying to
           | get up and run before 6 is a chore. Having a fisherman wake
           | up call would be awesome and motivating. Especially for
           | someone who loves fishing.
        
           | Brajeshwar wrote:
           | I found Wakie[1] in 2015 while on a project in London. Every
           | morning at a specific time you set, a stranger (real person
           | and no AI) would call you and talk to you briefly, waking you
           | up. I used it for about a month.
           | 
           | 1. https://wakie.com
        
             | _def wrote:
             | How interesting, can you share some pros and cons from the
             | one month experience? Was it always the same person?
        
               | Brajeshwar wrote:
               | There was always a different caller. One thing I vividly
               | remember was when I found it really hard to understand a
               | pretty heavy Scottish accent. I'm not random-social
               | enough to be talking to new people every day, but it was
               | a fun experience. Fun for that short interval but not
               | really my type of thing.
        
           | torginus wrote:
           | I would prefer this very much to Jocko Willink
        
         | BurningFrog wrote:
         | Last year it was a real fisherman.
         | 
         | Next year it will be an AI.
        
           | klabb3 wrote:
           | But AI is like video games, it can't emulate sacrifice and
           | other deep human dynamics because there's no stake. If you
           | die you restore from last save point. For AI you have
           | infinite no-memory interactions, which changes the dynamic.
           | In other words, your actions don't have lasting consequences.
           | 
           | The few games that succeed in building something deeper (for
           | me RDR2 but you take your pick) have to carve out sacrifice
           | and character out of the _player's time_ , which _is_ finite.
        
             | zparky wrote:
             | Well said. If I signed up for this and I knew it was AI
             | calls, I would likely not pick up. But if I knew it was a
             | person calling me, there's a much stronger emotional
             | incentive to pick up and talk to them.
        
           | Ferret7446 wrote:
           | Given Japan's extreme conservatism, I doubt it.
        
             | sudahtigabulan wrote:
             | Check out their robots.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_robotics
             | 
             | Female companion robot as early as 2005.
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | Japan has an exception to copyright law allowing for
             | analysis, which has been (ab)used to train AIs to generate
             | Studio Ghibli style content.
        
         | sexy_seedbox wrote:
         | I want a wake up call from David Goggins.
        
           | rc5150 wrote:
           | I want one from Walton Goggins.
        
             | phatskat wrote:
             | Baby Billy's Bright Beginnings
        
               | ActVen wrote:
               | That caused a much needed chuckle this morning.
        
           | m463 wrote:
           | I think literally and figuratively it would involve a bathtub
           | full of icewater.
        
       | zoogeny wrote:
       | I still remember decades and decades ago hearing about vending
       | machines in Japan. Someone mentioned going to Japan and how you
       | could get cold cans of coffee out of vending machines there. This
       | was sometime in the 1990s, before even Starbucks was a huge
       | thing. Everyone I knew thought the idea of cold coffee was
       | ridiculous, a quirk of the Japanese that would never catch on.
       | 
       | I feel the Japanese have been pretty good at exporting culture,
       | but it has a lot of misses among the few hits. I wonder if this
       | is something that would catch on outside of Japan.
        
         | pelagic_sky wrote:
         | And vending machines with hot drinks and soups, my favorite
         | being cream of corn soup...which I have yet to see stateside.
         | 
         | Another thing Japan had before the US was texting on your
         | phone. I was living in Japan at the time and recall telling my
         | American friend who worked as a Manager at ATT about texting
         | and she thought it was the dumbest thing she had ever heard of.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | I've seen vending machines in the USA dispense hot soup, it
           | was at a rest stop somewhere in the middle of nowhere.
           | 
           | No idea if they had cream of corn.
        
           | thfuran wrote:
           | Emoji also caught on, I'm told.
        
           | flanbiscuit wrote:
           | I was living in Australia in 2000 and texting was more common
           | than calling because it was cheaper to text than call. But in
           | the US it was the opposite. You had unlimited calling, but
           | plans around that time had a different pricing scheme for
           | texting (can't remember the exact details) so could be one
           | reason why it took the US a bit longer to finally pick up
           | texting. I remember it was about a year or 2 later that I
           | felt texting started to become more common in the US.
        
             | sien wrote:
             | Yeah, I lived in Europe in 1999 and 2000 and then moved to
             | the US. In the EU you could text people from different
             | countries and it would often work.
             | 
             | Then I moved to the US and the shock of not being able to
             | text between networks was really something. That and
             | writing cheques. I'd never written a cheque in Australia or
             | Europe but you sort of had to in the US while electronic
             | payments between banks were sorted in Australia in the
             | 1990s.
             | 
             | These days it seems when a technology appears it generally
             | spreads more quickly.
        
               | Tijdreiziger wrote:
               | > In the EU you could text people from different
               | countries and it would often work.
               | 
               | Wasn't foreign texting expensive at the time?
        
             | kortilla wrote:
             | Texting in network was a fixed rate per text (later
             | unlimited) and then texting out of network was crazy like
             | 10 cents a message.
             | 
             | You thought blue bubble was bad, it literally cost you
             | money to talk to people who chose another carrier.
             | 
             | The texting culture had funny side effects then because of
             | it. You would get roasted for multiple messages when one
             | would suffice. :)
        
               | lovehashbrowns wrote:
               | My first cell phone bill was like $600 because my gf at
               | the time used a different carrier. This was also back in
               | the olden days of unlimited texting!! (Only after 9pm)
        
             | Loudergood wrote:
             | Interesting I thought the main reason whatsapp took off
             | outside the US was the texting costs.
        
             | firefax wrote:
             | Facebook was big partly early on at places like CMU because
             | unis were early adopters of ubiquitous wifi -- so FB
             | messenger served as a free texting tool back when you'd
             | have people tell you to put their last name as NOTEXT.
        
           | BugsJustFindMe wrote:
           | Kinkos in the 90s (back when it was a by-the-hour computer
           | lab) had vending machines with hot chicken soup.
        
             | Suppafly wrote:
             | was it just broth? the vending machine at my college, had
             | that where it'd have coffee, cocoa, or chicken broth.
        
             | Cthulhu_ wrote:
             | We had hot chicken soup from a dispenser at school (~2000)
             | too, but it was gash made from powder.
        
           | MisterTea wrote:
           | > And vending machines with hot drinks and soups, my favorite
           | being cream of corn soup...which I have yet to see stateside.
           | 
           | Its a cultural thing I am sure. As an American I will say
           | that prepared food served from a vending machine is going to
           | be associated with low quality and possible poor hygiene. I'd
           | equate it with food from a gas station store or roach coach
           | (mobile canteen)- food prepared with little care or quality,
           | destined to be sold for as little as possible while still
           | being profitable. Stale bread, wilted vegetables, low quality
           | meats, cheese, etc, sloppy prep. Who cares, ship it.
           | 
           | On the other hand, I can see food vendors in Japan guarding
           | their reputation with attention to their craft ensuring
           | quality.
        
             | murderfs wrote:
             | > As an American I will say that prepared food served from
             | a vending machine is going to be associated with low
             | quality and possible poor hygiene.
             | 
             | The grandparent post is talking about canned food/drink
             | that's heated in the machine. Vending machines with
             | freshish prepared food do exist, but they're kinda
             | pointless given the existence of...
             | 
             | > I'd equate it with food from a gas station store or roach
             | coach (mobile canteen)- food prepared with little care or
             | quality, destined to be sold for as little as possible
             | while still being profitable
             | 
             | Convenience store food in Japan is fantastic: food from
             | 7/11, Lawson, Family Mart, etc. is probably unironically
             | better than the median restaurant in the U.S.
        
               | MisterTea wrote:
               | > Convenience store food in Japan is fantastic
               | 
               | Indeed. Spent a few weeks there last year. You can't
               | throw a rock and not hit one of those places - it's
               | absurd how many there are no matter where you are.
               | Though, TBF in NYC the density of convenience
               | stores/bodegas is similar but the consistency lacking. I
               | do miss those gooey chocolate babka things they sell in
               | the 7-11s.
               | 
               | > is probably unironically better than the median
               | restaurant in the U.S.
               | 
               | Eh... I would say they certainly beat out fast food.
        
             | presentation wrote:
             | The foods sold in vending machines make sense though -
             | everyone's already used to instant or canned soup, so
             | throwing it into a vending machine and warming it up makes
             | sense. You're not getting fine dining from the vending
             | machines, you're just getting a quick and tasty snack
             | (although there is also a culture of niche vending machines
             | with serious meals that require cooking at home, which is
             | another story). Just swap out the corn potage with
             | something Americans would already be familiar with, like
             | Campbell's chicken noodle soup in a single-portion can with
             | a twist cap instead of needing a can opener, and it could
             | work.
             | 
             | I think some Americans might object more to the idea of
             | microplastics leaching into your food, or high amounts of
             | preservatives, though. And the ubiquity of vending machines
             | in Japan makes it possible to build a habit around vending
             | machine food, whereas in the US they're fewer and far
             | between, so you couldn't really depend on them.
        
               | wahern wrote:
               | > The foods sold in vending machines make sense though -
               | everyone's already used to instant or canned soup, so
               | throwing it into a vending machine and warming it up
               | makes sense.
               | 
               | The US used to have much more diverse vending machine
               | offerings, including prepared hot foods and drinks, but
               | they started to disappear in the 1970s, though you could
               | find stragglers into the 1990s in older institutional
               | settings (e.g. government buildings), especially for
               | drinks--coffee, hot cocoa, etc. As previously mentioned,
               | I think they fell out of favor because they began to be
               | considered very poor quality (it's a death spiral if
               | turnover doesn't happen fast enough), perhaps as compared
               | to increasingly popular drive-thru alternatives. I guess
               | in a way it was a result of our car culture. Like with
               | the demise of cafeterias generally[1], Americans
               | preferred to jump in their car rather than choosing from
               | what was available within walking distance.
               | 
               | [1] A wall of vending machines selling sandwiches,
               | salads, soups, and hot drinks constituted a "cafeteria"
               | in many buildings.
        
               | toyg wrote:
               | People always forget something, when talking about
               | Japanese vending machines: vandalism. Vandalism is
               | relatively uncommon in Japan, whereas it's sadly endemic
               | in most Western societies.
        
               | Tijdreiziger wrote:
               | Hang on - are you saying Americans don't have vending
               | machines with snacks and hot drinks in office buildings,
               | schools, hospitals, etc.?
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | In almost 40 years, I have never seen a vending machine
               | in the US selling anything hot.
               | 
               | It is always cold, usually carbonated, sweet drinks,
               | water, or junk food like candy, chips, and pastries.
        
               | Tijdreiziger wrote:
               | Wow, that's quite surprising!
               | 
               | In Europe, it's quite common to see machines like these
               | in buildings: https://www.seeberger-professional.de/wp-
               | content/uploads/202... (left to right: hot drink, snack,
               | and cold drink machines).
               | 
               | Smaller ones are also common: https://www.observantonline
               | .nl/Portals/0/OpenContent/Files/1... (there you can also
               | see the disposable cups that the hot drinks are dispensed
               | in).
               | 
               | Is that why Starbucks is popular in America - no hot
               | drink machines?
        
               | Loudergood wrote:
               | Yup, there was one! that I was aware when I worked at an
               | 8000 employee IBM facility 20 years ago. It was novel to
               | be able to get hot burgers out of it.
        
           | goosedragons wrote:
           | Emoji is a Japanese thing too. It's why a lot of the early
           | emoji are kind of odd from a western point of view, like the
           | naruto fish cake, Japanese top secret emoji and hot bath
           | symbol.
        
             | kmeisthax wrote:
             | There's also the Moyai statue in Shibuya that gave us an
             | emoji: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moyai_statue#Shibuya_S
             | tation_m...
        
             | sunaookami wrote:
             | Well, it's called "Emoji" (Hui Wen Zi , literally "picture
             | character/letter") for a reason ;) Weird how it's often
             | misunderstood as being derived from "emotion" in western
             | media.
        
               | thesuitonym wrote:
               | It's not that weird. In English we had a similar idea
               | called emoticons, which started as ascii/your local
               | encoding and then evolved to be pictures. When emoji hit
               | the masses, it was only natural to assume the two were
               | related.
        
           | soupfordummies wrote:
           | Yeah! The hot corn liquid from a vending machine was maybe
           | the weirdest thing I had when I visited.
        
           | decimalenough wrote:
           | First trip to Japan, I selected what I thought was a local
           | cherry Coke equivalent from the vending machine. I was more
           | than a little surprised to get a can that was a) hot, and b)
           | contained not cherry-flavored cola, but chunky sweet red bean
           | soup (oshikuro).
        
             | gregjw wrote:
             | oh noooo
        
         | throw0101d wrote:
         | > _Someone mentioned going to Japan and how you could get cold
         | cans of coffee out of vending machines there._
         | 
         | The actor Tommy Lee Jones has some amusing commercials for
         | canned coffee:
         | 
         | * https://www.brandinginasia.com/the-tuesday-take-suntory-
         | boss...
         | 
         | * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boss_Coffee
         | 
         | The premise is that he is an alien in disguise evaluating human
         | society, so some of the situations shown are quite whimsical.
        
           | neilv wrote:
           | > _There 's an old tradition of American stars appearing in
           | Japanese television commercials, [...] before downing what
           | appears to be about a four ounce can of Suntory Iced Rainbow
           | Blend coffee._
           | 
           | Was this tradition _referenced_ or _inspired_ by Bill Murray
           | 's "Suntory Time" scene in "Lost in Translation" (2003)?
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQnH450hPM
        
             | throw0101d wrote:
             | Westerners in Japan has been a thing for decades:
             | 
             | > _Anyone who has seen Sofia Coppola's Lost in Translation
             | must wonder for at least a second if there is truth in Bill
             | Murray's character of a famous American actor in Japan to
             | film a commercial. Well, there definitely is. Huge American
             | and European stars have been hawking products in Japanese
             | commercials for decades._
             | 
             | * https://www.cinemablend.com/movies/western-entertainers-
             | who-...
             | 
             | * https://www.goretro.com/2015/08/sake-to-me-western-
             | celebs-in...
             | 
             | * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_in_Japan_(phrase)
        
             | SECProto wrote:
             | > Was this tradition referenced or inspired by []
             | 
             | referenced. Here's a couple suntory commercials dating much
             | older:
             | 
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yyN-aHtAVzs
             | 
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=goUBezKpNmU
        
               | minikomi wrote:
               | One of my favorites:
               | 
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgEM8VjHD_0
               | 
               | Andy Warhol for TDK
        
             | ascorbic wrote:
             | She was referencing the ones done by her father:
             | https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/akira-kurosawa-francis-ford-
             | cop...
        
           | starkparker wrote:
           | David Lynch's Twin Peaks commercials for Georgia coffee,
           | featuring almost the entire cast in character and a running
           | subplot of a missing Japanese woman:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAxNvhN7UUE
        
             | krenzo wrote:
             | This is incredible! Thanks for posting.
        
           | rqtwteye wrote:
           | MMA fighters did a lot of cool stuff during the Pride days
           | 
           | https://www.sherdog.com/thumbnail_crop.php?image=http://www..
           | ..
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkV8TohDyGA
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | > Someone mentioned going to Japan and how you could get cold
         | cans of coffee out of vending machines there.
         | 
         | They're everywhere!
         | 
         | In rural Hokkaido, some people even have them outside their
         | home's driveway for people walking by. They have various teas
         | (green, hojicha, jasmine, etc.), Coke and Pepsi products,
         | Pocari Sweat (like Gatorade), iced coffees, and sometimes even
         | hot teas and hot coffees that are heated on demand. They're
         | super convenient and something I miss having in America (we
         | seemed to have more of them here in the 90's and early 2000's).
         | 
         | The only problem is that in Japan there can sometimes be
         | absolutely zero public garbage (or, more correctly, recycling)
         | bins in sight. You have to carry your trash with you, which is
         | a bit annoying and mildly gross if it spills.
        
           | nicbou wrote:
           | There was a story of someone finding one in the middle of a
           | hike, and following a long cable to an actual settlement.
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | Profound metaphor for the "uplink" to civilization which we
             | all ultimately depend on.
        
           | Aeolun wrote:
           | > You have to carry your trash with you, which is a bit
           | annoying and mildly gross if it spills.
           | 
           | True, but it also means that most people are used to this and
           | don't even question it. Which means no overflowing garbage
           | bins or the need to service them in the middle of nowhere.
        
           | Suppafly wrote:
           | Pocari Sweat is so good. I always grab a bottle anytime we go
           | to the japanese store outside chicago. I assumed it was a
           | fake anime product like the way they always turn pepsi into
           | bepsi or something, but no it's real and it's delicious.
        
             | gregjw wrote:
             | Pocari Sweat is great. I live in Osaka now and it's hard to
             | resist constantly drinking the stuff. Aquarius also.
        
               | shmeeed wrote:
               | TIL there was a real-world inspiration for Tropic
               | Thunder's Booty Sweat.
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | Aquarius is huge in Catalonia as well.
        
               | h2zizzle wrote:
               | Aquarius (essentially grapefruit, somewhere between soda
               | and sparkling water) is a bit of an acquired taste. And
               | when my school's Japanese club visited in high school,
               | boy, did we acquire it. Lots of "Pocari Sweat" and
               | "Calpis" double entendres flying around, too.
        
           | JimTheMan wrote:
           | I found they did have bins, but they were either at the
           | vending machine or _in_ the entrance of any store. And there
           | are a lot of convenience stores!
        
             | klausa wrote:
             | The bins near vending machines are almost always _only_ for
             | cans/plastic bottles.
             | 
             | That accounts for ~80% of the garbage you'll produce, but
             | sometimes you'll have a onigiri wrapper, or a dirty tissue
             | that'd be nice to get rid of, and finding a place to do
             | that can be more difficult (ironically, especially so in
             | heavily touristy areas).
        
           | lxgr wrote:
           | My most bizarre Japanese vending machine experience: I once
           | found one featuring an eduroam [1] sticker.
           | 
           | Incredulously, I tried to connect, and... it worked. I still
           | have no idea what that was all about!
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eduroam
        
         | bsder wrote:
         | Japanese vending machines are an act of engineering beauty:
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AJnGjMAObA
        
           | imjustaghost wrote:
           | These is easily one of the most heartwarming videos on
           | YouTube.
        
         | ericzawo wrote:
         | I dream about being able to get a cold can of Boss Coffee every
         | day outside my house.
        
         | prawn wrote:
         | Iced Coffee has been very popular in Australia (and especially
         | South Australia) since the 70s:
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Farmers_Union_Iced_Coffee
         | 
         | (I'm assuming this is an equivalent product; I don't drink
         | coffee personally.)
        
           | jen729w wrote:
           | Better than that is the Japanese 'Boss', which even comes in
           | a very-Japanese steel tin. Great coffee that you can now get
           | at most Australian servos, convenience stores, etc.
           | 
           | https://suntorybosscoffee.com
           | 
           | It's made in the Japanese iced style, which is easy to mimic
           | at home and really does make a nice iced coffee.
           | 
           | 1. Get your standard filter/drip machine. Nothing fancy.
           | 
           | 2. Double the amount of coffee you normally use. You want it
           | coming out strong.
           | 
           | 3. Fill the receiving jug with ice.
           | 
           | 4. Drip directly on to ice.
        
           | p1necone wrote:
           | As a New Zealander who's been to Australia + a small handful
           | of other countries I can vouch for Australia having a
           | uniquely good convenience store dairy based drink industry.
           | OAK is another old faithful brand I miss in NZ. Also Hungry
           | Jacks (Burger King) there uses cream instead of milk in the
           | soft serve and it's noticeably better.
        
             | gizajob wrote:
             | The $1 coffee from 7-11 was my go-to drink in Australia.
             | Came with the added bonus of annoying the hipster coffee
             | snobs in melbourne when I was walking down the street
             | holding a 7-11 cup. Damn fine coffee.
        
               | 1659447091 wrote:
               | 7-11 has surprisingly good coffee in the US too, or at
               | least Texas. There was a 7-11 on the corner of the block
               | I use to live on and drive past to get to Starbucks until
               | I was running late once and decided to just grab the
               | first coffee available. Now if I just want plain brewed
               | coffee I'll find a 7-11. And if I'm wanting something
               | more Starbuck-ish but don't want to deal with the morning
               | rush, I'll go to a 7-11 and mix little over half a cup of
               | the brew coffee then top it off with their hot chocolate.
        
               | joshschreuder wrote:
               | I am not a coffee hipster (as will probably become
               | evident by my next statement) but I do like good cafe
               | coffee here in Melbourne and I completely agree. I don't
               | make it my daily driver, but 7/11 and even McCafe coffee
               | is quite decent here IMO
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | Iced coffee in Australia seems to automatically imply sweet
           | with lots of milk (or even ice cream). This is very jarring
           | when you expect the default "iced coffee" to be black coffee
           | over ice.
        
             | 1659447091 wrote:
             | > This is _very jarring_ when you expect the default "iced
             | coffee" to be black coffee over ice.
             | 
             | Same reaction I had the first time I ordered a cappuccino
             | there. I learned to order Flat Whites cause I kept
             | forgetting to tell them to not put chocolate powder on
             | top...why anyone thought that would be a great idea is
             | beyond my comprehension. The Flat White on the hand easily
             | makes up for their cappuccino faux pas
        
             | joshschreuder wrote:
             | I agree completely, most iced coffee here from supermarkets
             | is hyper sweetened rubbish that barely tastes like coffee
             | at all. You have to go for "double" or "triple" espresso
             | options to get a proper taste of coffee, otherwise you're
             | just drinking sweet milk (and not even in the guilty
             | pleasure Vietnamese iced coffee way)
             | 
             | As previously mentioned Boss does do a decent black iced
             | coffee though, and there are a few niche brands around
             | putting out less sweet varieties
        
             | klausa wrote:
             | _Most_ of the coffee sold in cans in Japan is also
             | sweetened. Not all, you can usually find a can or two that
             | are just black and unsweetened, but a majority of the cans
             | will be sweet to some degree.
        
         | averageRoyalty wrote:
         | > Everyone I knew thought the idea of cold coffee was
         | ridiculous, a quirk of the Japanese that would never catch on.
         | 
         | Iced coffee has been around for centuries and is very common in
         | warmer countries (and was before the 90s). aisukohi is closer
         | to cold brew than the milkshake-esque thing we call iced
         | coffee.
        
         | froh wrote:
         | it may well be "cold brew", a coffee specialty that is some
         | work to make at home and that has a very distinguished taste
         | and contrast coffee that was brewed hot and then cooled down.
        
         | Cthulhu_ wrote:
         | > I wonder if this is something that would catch on outside of
         | Japan.
         | 
         | Cynically, only if someone sees a business / money making
         | opportunity.
        
         | alephnan wrote:
         | Vietnamese people have been drinking iced coffee for half a
         | century.
         | 
         | The more ridiculous proposition here is that people, other than
         | Americans, only drink hot coffee.
        
         | xhevahir wrote:
         | My first thought when I read this was, "This is very Japanese,
         | and nothing like it would ever happen in America." Americans
         | and Japanese are poles apart in the ways they relate to their
         | communities, older generations, etc.
        
       | bombcar wrote:
       | Apparently the "fat Steve" minecraft toy is sold out everywhere.
       | 
       | https://shop.mattel.com/products/minecraft-steve-large-scale...
        
       | flerchin wrote:
       | Ages 74, 81, and 68. Are these middle aged?
        
         | Ifkaluva wrote:
         | In Japan, yes
        
           | ElemenoPicuares wrote:
           | Well, if the edges are the Japanese life expectancy of 84 and
           | 0, then 80 does fall somewhere in the middle. So there should
           | be some four-year-olds in this deck, too.
        
         | michaelt wrote:
         | As I understand things, in Japanese the terms "onii-san",
         | "ojisan" and "ojii-san" literally translate as "older brother",
         | "uncle" and "grandpa" respectively - and are widely used for
         | people who aren't relatives.
         | 
         | So while the colloquial use of _ojisan_ roughly lines up with
         | "middle-aged man" it's not a perfect mapping.
        
           | presentation wrote:
           | Ojisan age bracket can be pretty wide, but 81 sounds to me
           | more like an ojiichan. That said, if they're running a
           | business and are still somewhat lively they can possibly
           | still pass as ojisan in context.
           | 
           | Oniisan is much younger usually; usually I don't hear ojiisan
           | so much as ojiichan (as well as ojisan rather than ojichan),
           | my wife is Japanese and it rubs her weird to hear the
           | opposite honorific in these cases.
        
         | skhr0680 wrote:
         | "Middle-aged" is a wrong in this case translation of "ojisan",
         | lit "uncle" but colloquially can mean "old man" in an endearing
         | or mean way depending on context
        
       | atoav wrote:
       | This such a genius idea to get the kids to learn about the people
       | in their community.
        
       | everyone wrote:
       | Reminds me of divorced dads card game
       | https://www.youtube.com/@AudioOpera
        
         | doormatt wrote:
         | Thank you! I knew it reminded me of something!
        
       | Uptrenda wrote:
       | Creativity thrives in Japan. I wonder why this country seems so
       | prolific in that regards.
        
         | foobahify wrote:
         | Japanese websites have a great aversion to even 2005 level Web
         | homogeneity, let alone the modern tailstraps.
        
       | asadm wrote:
       | I feel like this is the kind of stuff that will be common with
       | AI. Imagine having a whatsapp family group and a bot auto-
       | generates this type of games for you based on your group.
       | 
       | It's a privacy nightmare but it will be fun for sure.
        
         | lazide wrote:
         | The whole point of this is that it's people thinking about
         | people, not some AI bullshit.
        
           | asadm wrote:
           | AI can facilitate the creation part and become invisible. It
           | will still be p2p.
        
       | astrange wrote:
       | Interesting translation issue where they use the dictionary
       | definition of "ossan" (middle aged guy) but then they're all
       | senior citizens.
        
       | mosura wrote:
       | This is a superb idea. I had seen random cat gacha but not
       | trading cards of random dudes.
       | 
       | Most efforts at custom TCGs seem to go nowhere at all because of
       | the absence of any practical trading meta game, so bootstrapping
       | that with local interest is a very neat marketing move that
       | aligns very well with the desired community engagement.
       | 
       | The result is that whole idea is greater than the sum of its
       | parts.
        
       | mrexroad wrote:
       | I clicked the headline expecting a chuckle and left with an
       | unexpectedly warmed heart.
       | 
       | > "We wanted to strengthen the connection between the children
       | and the older generations in the community. There are so many
       | amazing people here. I thought it was such a shame that no one
       | knew about them," [...] "Since the card game went viral, so many
       | kids are starting to look up to these men as heroic figures." >
       | Kids have started attending local events and volunteering for
       | community activities -- just for a chance to meet the ojisan from
       | their cards. Participation in town events has reportedly doubled
       | since the game launched.
       | 
       | there's so much more I want to comment on--it's not screen-based,
       | increased cross-generational interaction, strengthening
       | community, elders having their stories known--but what I love is
       | that these effects will compound into even greater benefits for
       | the community.
        
         | xivzgrev wrote:
         | This brings back something we've mostly lost in modern times.
         | Elders had respect because they knew a lot and had contributed
         | a lot, and everyone knew that. But that's not scalable, and we
         | migrate a lot more now.
         | 
         | This is an engaging way that brings that back - rather than
         | focusing on fantasy heroes, show kids real life role models.
        
           | zdragnar wrote:
           | It's even less that we move around a lot more; technology
           | advanced with the personal computer and Internet such that
           | kids see adults not knowing things about the world that they
           | already do. What is decades of personal lived experience
           | wisdom when there's tiktok and YouTube and chatbots?
        
             | DeathArrow wrote:
             | >kids see adults not knowing things about the world that
             | they already do
             | 
             | In the age where anyone can find anything online,
             | experience is more valuable than it ever was. Technology
             | won't replace that.
        
           | phil21 wrote:
           | In the US we are at all time lows for internal migration. Or
           | at least very close to them, I haven't checked those stats in
           | a couple years since this last came up on HN.
           | 
           | We used to (as a population) migrate to opportunity far more
           | than we do now.
           | 
           | For many reasons there is simply far less community
           | engagement and integration going on. Fewer people put down
           | strong "roots" in their communities these days.
        
             | klabb3 wrote:
             | Thats surprising, I thought moving was less common than
             | now. In either case, is it possible that the single
             | households is the other factor, people choosing more
             | instead of interacting with whoever is around?
        
               | etrautmann wrote:
               | It might be who's migrating. Possibly the coastal PMC
               | workers sloshing back and forth while blue collar workers
               | have less mobility than the 60s?
        
               | kortilla wrote:
               | When? In my grandparents generation (born late 1800s to
               | early 1900s) moving to either try to start a farm in the
               | US or to leave a failing farm for a job in town at the
               | local whatever factory was very common.
               | 
               | Post WW2 for the boomers was loaded with people flooding
               | to all kinds of industrial boom cities.
               | 
               | After that it was hollowing out of the rust belt and
               | moving out of cities to suburbs due to the lead/crime
               | epidemic.
               | 
               | Then rich cities boomed back with millennials in a
               | continuous feedback loop where the successful ones became
               | more desirable as money brought
               | attractions/activities/restaurants, draining the failing
               | ones even more.
               | 
               | Then 2020 was the brief mega disruption where people
               | thought the internet might catch on and they found out
               | the vast majority of white collar jobs can be done from
               | home so the fanned out to all of the nice and cheap
               | suburbs, mountain towns, etc. Now the Internet fad has
               | worn off so that's reversing a bit.
               | 
               | Moving in the US has been very common until this brief
               | lull where you could change jobs without relocating
               | thanks to remote work.
               | 
               | Unfortunately we're going backwards so it wouldn't
               | surprise me if constant relocation resumes.
        
               | c4ptnjack wrote:
               | The main factor that you fail to mention is living cost,
               | and not the internet, which made it possible and
               | desirable to frequently move in search of opportunity.
               | 
               | It didn't mean there weren't people that lived long-term
               | in communities. However, it did mean that you could find
               | more lucrative opportunities in different places while
               | also affording to move and live there.
               | 
               | That began to slowly change in the 60's, beginning with
               | the death of single occupancy residences and a lack of
               | funding/investment in affordable housing for a
               | significant portion of income brackets.
               | 
               | The last 30ish years helped cement that for lots of
               | reasons, but the ability to work remotely via the
               | internet isn't particularly new nor causative for that
               | change.
        
               | kortilla wrote:
               | People moving in search of opportunity back then weren't
               | doing it because it was easier. It meant giving up your
               | family and friends far more so than now because of the
               | lack of internet. An out of state move meant a handful of
               | letters a year was the level of contact you were in for
               | and that was only for close family.
               | 
               | Living cost was a big barrier back then (except maybe the
               | homesteading) too. Any time someone is leaving a poor
               | outlook to a more booming area it usually means cost of
               | living is going up.
               | 
               | > but the ability to work remotely via the internet isn't
               | particularly new nor causative for that change
               | 
               | It absolutely was the first time any non-trivial
               | percentage of work was remote. More importantly, the
               | spike meant 15% of the population became eligible to
               | leave an expensive city that sucked during the lockdowns.
               | https://www.stlouisfed.org/on-the-
               | economy/2024/dec/trends-wo...
               | 
               | There is most definitely affordable housing all over the
               | US. People are just both picky and lacking opportunity in
               | the cheaper places. Remote work was the fix for the
               | latter part so downplaying that is missing the point.
               | 
               | If you have a remote job and just want to live in NYC
               | because of culture, then you have no leg to stand on when
               | complaining about housing. It's purely a luxury decision
               | at that point.
               | 
               | > That began to slowly change in the 60's, beginning with
               | the death of single occupancy residences
               | 
               | This is only true in a few select areas. Check out
               | https://ipropertymanagement.com/research/renters-vs-
               | homeowne...
               | 
               | Specifically the "average annual homeownership rates
               | since 1964". Right below it has a snapshot of rates by
               | state and the difference tells you everything you need to
               | know.
               | 
               | Housing is only broken in the top desired areas and
               | remote work gave you the opportunity to get a good job
               | while leaving those.
        
               | 9rx wrote:
               | _> However, it did mean that you could find more
               | lucrative opportunities in different places while also
               | affording to move and live there._
               | 
               | Same as now. The data clearly shows more job opportunity
               | in rural areas (not all rural areas) and more affordable
               | living to go along with it. But we haven't (yet) reached
               | the dire situation where the people actually have to make
               | the move like previous generations found themselves in.
               | Most people won't leave family and friends behind unless
               | they feel they are out of options.
        
               | energy123 wrote:
               | Housing crisis deters people from moving to where the
               | jobs are, and it's a new phenomenon.
        
               | 9rx wrote:
               | _> I thought moving was less common than now._
               | 
               | International migration has increased over time, although
               | still representing a very small segment of the
               | population. Presumably that is mostly people fleeing
               | terrible situations (e.g. war torn areas). When you are
               | in a stable country, it doesn't matter so much where in
               | the country you are.
        
           | makeitdouble wrote:
           | Worth noting that the relations to elder is really getting
           | rocky, and people are rethinking them in both directions.
           | 
           | We can't hide from the influence the elder generations had on
           | the current situation. Japan is a developed nation with a
           | crazy low crime rate and incredible infrastructure thanks to
           | them. It's also a social mess and the poster child of
           | stagnation thanks to them.
           | 
           | This whole trading card game surfaces both sides of the coin,
           | with what these people are bringing to the community and also
           | why small kids shouldn't look to much upon them as it's a
           | recipe for trouble.
        
             | danielscrubs wrote:
             | Japan always does the hard thing. If someone misbehaves and
             | two people are close by you can be sure that they loudly
             | will talk with each other about how the person misbehaves
             | (they are not afraid). The prisons are very strict, with
             | beatings if you don't follow authority. The police acts
             | swiftly and have small offices everywhere . Green tea and
             | healthy food makes people be able to control their mood
             | (hard to not stuff your face).
             | 
             | The rules are very open and clear. The deincentives for
             | misconduct are strong.
             | 
             | The newspapers focus are different. More fun or actionable
             | news.
             | 
             | People just think they are built different, that is not the
             | case. They just succeed with many small things that makes a
             | greater whole. But people just dismiss it as a culture
             | thing, which is reductive.
        
               | DeathArrow wrote:
               | >They just succeed with many small things that makes a
               | greater whole. But people just dismiss it as a culture
               | thing, which is reductive.
               | 
               | Aren't rules part of the culture? The culture helps
               | strengthening the rules while the rules help
               | strengthening the culture.
        
               | tankenmate wrote:
               | Chu ruDing haDa tareru.
        
               | pmontra wrote:
               | The nail that sticks out gets hammered down (Google
               | Translate.)
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | It is a way of dismissing clear rules.
               | 
               | Because it's not that it is used to attack people that
               | are different, but it is used to deincentive bad
               | behaviour, but by conflating the two you end up in a bad
               | place, where incentives are...misaligned.
        
               | DeathArrow wrote:
               | It seems to me Japan does just fine by having rules and
               | sticking to their culture.
               | 
               | Many people admire Japanese culture. But they wouldn't
               | have anything to admire had Japanese people not
               | conserving and caring greatly about their culture and
               | sticking to their rules and ways of life.
               | 
               | I probably won't be integrating in the Japanese culture,
               | but I admire and respect it and the fact they still have
               | that culture.
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | Yes, but it is sometimes used to dismiss any actionable
               | insights that can be used in politics.
               | 
               | "Would never work here, the culture is different!"
               | 
               | Maybe Im just ranting...
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | > If someone misbehaves and two people are close by you
               | can be sure that they loudly will talk with each other
               | 
               | This is the exact opposite of my experience (and all my
               | Japanese friends). They will stare at the person
               | misbehaving but will absolutely not challenge him. Their
               | culture is "avoid the problem/confronting at all costs".
               | 
               | > The police acts swiftly
               | 
               | They are considered tax thieves, even by Japanese people.
               | Also, talk to some foreign women that got sexually
               | harassed or even raped how the police helped them. In
               | fact, I don't have proof, but I sincerely believe that if
               | the police was trained well, crime rate would increase
               | because they would find _more_ crimes.
               | 
               | > healthy food
               | 
               | Are we talking about deep-fried food? Or perhaps over-
               | salted dishes? Oh, no, you meant the sugar they add in
               | basically all their cooking? Time where they mostly ate
               | fish and rice is over. They barely eat enough vegetables.
               | And fruits are for the well-off only.
               | 
               | It's a country that I love and have spent quite some time
               | there--and more to come--but your observations are
               | exactly the opposite of what I saw.
               | 
               | What they do correctly is the low unemployment rate,
               | though I think it's starting to rise with younger people.
               | People don't need to commit violent crimes to feed
               | themselves if any work lets them afford necessities.
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | I think they are opposite because when I say police acts
               | swiftly, you turn around and say that they are tax
               | thieves. They can both be true?
               | 
               | Healthy food. Yes they eat healthy and their BMI shows
               | it. I find it quite ludicrous to think their restaurants
               | represent what they eat on daily basis. Proof is in the
               | pudding (BMI). Yes it is getting worse and I hope
               | American tariffs will help in this regard. Again, healthy
               | living AND getting worse can both be true, especially
               | with people that are friendly with cultures they want to
               | know more about (many, but still a small subset).
               | 
               | Not sure why Violent crime would be better than non-
               | violent crime for feeding your kids. But the narrative
               | that is pushed heavily in media is the equal sign between
               | poor and criminal, instead of the correlation, which
               | again is reductive. Why? Is there anger? What food do
               | trigger it? What mindset?
               | 
               | My grandparents where very poor (as in oat porridge for
               | weeks poor). They would never hurt a fly. In certain
               | minds that would have been a weakness, in certain minds
               | it's self sacrifice and equal strength.
               | 
               | Most want to be the wolf among the sheep. It is US
               | greatest strength and greatest weakness at the same time.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | > police acts swiftly
               | 
               | Perhaps I misunderstood what you meant by "swift".
               | 
               | > I find it quite ludicrous to think their restaurants
               | represent what they eat on daily basis
               | 
               | I have lived with 2 different Japanese family (one
               | younger, one older) and I was referring to the younger
               | one when writing my previous comment. You say that
               | restaurant doesn't represent what they eat, but again
               | this is not my observation; restaurants and prepared meal
               | (bento) are socheap--price-to-purchasing-power compared
               | to Western countries--that many people don't even cook
               | for themselves. So yes, it's absolutely relevant.
               | 
               | > Not sure why Violent crime would be better than non-
               | violent crime for feeding your kids
               | 
               | I never said it was. But hunger definitely makes you more
               | violent and more irrational. I excluded non-violent
               | crimes because people usually exclude those when thinking
               | about a country's safety. There are a lot of scams in
               | Japan, for example.
               | 
               | > They would never hurt a fly.
               | 
               | Most people would never hurt someone. Most people are
               | lawful. But most criminals are not from well-off families
               | and grew up needy. Perhaps there is a causation, perhaps
               | not.
        
               | darkwater wrote:
               | > But most criminals are not from well-off families and
               | grew up needy.
               | 
               | Petty or to-some-extent violent criminals. White collar
               | criminals, the worse kind of criminal, usually come from
               | good/rich/powerful families (I'm generally speaking, not
               | talking about Japan specifically)
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | Which is why I initially mentioned violent crime. The one
               | people tend to care about the most.
        
               | achenet wrote:
               | nitpick: I'd argue the worse types of criminals are war
               | criminals, like for example Hitler, who is, in my mind,
               | worse than someone like Bernie Madoff.
        
               | mrob wrote:
               | I think it's more likely that social pressure to control
               | people's weights is responsible for Japan's low BMI, not
               | anything to do with the food. Japan is the land of
               | vending machines and convenience stores. It's easy to eat
               | junk food all day if you want to. But people will notice
               | you getting fat, and unlike in Western countries they're
               | likely to criticize you for it.
        
               | lynx97 wrote:
               | "Bring back shame again" increasingly feels like
               | something that would actually be beneficial in the long
               | run.
        
               | makeitdouble wrote:
               | We tend to hit a Goodhart's Law situation, where focusing
               | on weight and BMI comes at the expense of actual health.
               | That's how we get eating disorders and other mental
               | health issues as well, so as usual it's complicated.
        
               | mantas wrote:
               | Just an anecdata but on my last stay in Japan I lost a
               | couple kilos in a good month. Even though I did abuse
               | kitkats.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | Also some anecdata, but I think it depends so much on the
               | person: I gained 10 kilograms by living more than a year
               | in Japan.
               | 
               | I ate healthily so I wasn't fat by any means (in fact,
               | I'm really skinny), but I ate so much that I think this
               | is the reason I gained some weight. I ate a lot of rice
               | (my rice portion was usually more than a Japanese
               | person's entire plate).
        
               | makeitdouble wrote:
               | FWIW if you're on a trip it might counter-balance: you
               | might be more active with fewer idle time, and the local
               | food might also be harder to fully process. I saw that on
               | a Spain trip where it made absolutely no sense I didn't
               | gain weight touring tapas places for a week.
        
               | mantas wrote:
               | It was a business trip matching my typical routine. I'd
               | say I was even less active because apparently running in
               | Tokyo sucks.
        
               | autoexec wrote:
               | Every time I'm in japan I walk far more than I do while
               | in the US. I also end up going up stairs a lot more than
               | I ever need to in the US. Good public transportation
               | makes a huge difference.
        
               | mantas wrote:
               | I'm euro and runner/cyclist so I doubt that was a factor.
               | I also had my bicycle with me for some rides on off days,
               | but it wasn't beyond my usual mileage. Maybe even less,
               | because riding road bike in Tokyo was an experience that
               | made me realise how good I've it back home. Surroundings
               | hills are nice, but getting out of the city sucks big
               | time.
        
               | friendzis wrote:
               | BMI is mostly useless metric when comparing genetically
               | diverse cohorts. Weight gain is mostly in fat and that is
               | proportional to fat cell count. There is a saying "nerve
               | cells are born and die, but fat - lives forever". The
               | truth to it is that at an adult age fat cell count is
               | mostly constant and mostly genetic. As you get fatter you
               | don't produce more fat cells, they just get fatter, pun
               | intended.
               | 
               | There is huge genetic diversity between geographic
               | regions / ethnic lineages in this regard. On one end you
               | have northern european / african lineages, on the other
               | end you have far east lineages, with other lineages
               | somewhere in between, with northern european / african
               | lineages having the largest fat cell counts, east asians
               | the lowest. Furthermore, north european / african
               | lineages tend to have fat distribution much more biased
               | towards subcutaneous fat, whereas east asian lineages are
               | biased towards abdominal fat, so many of the problems
               | associated with high body fat (not insulin resistance)
               | are seen at lower body fat percentages in east asian
               | lineages.
               | 
               | On top of that, body fat percentage does not map to BMI.
               | BMI may roughly linearly scale with body fat percentage
               | around the "healthy" region, however there will be huge
               | offset between genetic cohorts, including sex.
               | 
               | You should expect east asian BMIs to be lower across the
               | board given similarly "unhealthy" diets.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | Not the person you responded to, but this is a topic that
               | fascinates me; do you have any resource to learn more
               | about that? One that explains in average human terms
               | would be appreciated!
        
               | ConspiracyFact wrote:
               | Japan is also full of Japanese people.
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | Reductive
        
               | ConspiracyFact wrote:
               | So?
        
               | NalNezumi wrote:
               | If you think sugar added to everything is a Japan
               | phenomenon oh boi, time to travel.
               | 
               | As someone that lived there, frankly your take come off
               | as the typical "English teacher/exchange student that
               | lived in Tokyo and spend too much time on r/japanlife"
               | and think Tokyo represent the average.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | > If you think sugar added to everything is a Japan
               | phenomenon oh boi, time to travel.
               | 
               | You're not refuting my argument.
               | 
               | > As someone that lived there, frankly your take come off
               | as the typical "English teacher/exchange student that
               | lived in Tokyo and spend too much time on r/japanlife"
               | and think Tokyo represent the average.
               | 
               | That's very condescending of you and again not refuting
               | my claims at all. Do most of your colleagues eat their
               | own dishes? Don't they add a helluva lot sugar and salt
               | to everything? Hell, even Japanese-made Western desserts
               | taste way too sweet.
               | 
               | I think you could be a bit kinder and not resort to
               | personal attacks.
               | 
               | Edit: it's true that I lived in Tokyo, but unfortunately
               | it's a country that contains 4 cities that get more dense
               | by the day at the cost of unpopulated rural areas.
        
               | XajniN wrote:
               | The poison is in the amount, not in the substance. Salty
               | or sweet food is completely fine if you don't eat a ton
               | every day. You actually need salt, it is much more
               | dangerous to not consume enough of it.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | Don't you think we eat too much of those?
               | 
               | Most people are dying of heart diseases and guess their
               | causes...
               | 
               | Japanese elderly don't even drink the broth of ramen
               | otherwise they may literally die (not my words).
               | 
               | Edit: sugar we don't really need to survive (trace
               | amounts found in fruits and vegetables is basically
               | enough) and salt maximum daily _recommended_ amount is
               | around 3g. Do you know how much salt a tablespoon of soy
               | sauce contains?
        
               | XajniN wrote:
               | That may be the limit for sodium, the max RDA for salt is
               | above 5 grams [1].
               | 
               | Now check what happens when you don't consume enough
               | sodium [2] (it happens relatively often among athletes
               | and gym bros who drink too much water).
               | 
               | [1] https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/eat-well/food-
               | types/salt-in-you...
               | 
               | [2] https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-
               | conditions/hyponatremia/...
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | > who drink too much water
               | 
               | I totally understand what you mean, however the vast
               | majority of the population isn't even close to being
               | hydrated properly so you're just taking an extreme
               | example to make your point.
        
               | XajniN wrote:
               | You're right, but the point of my first reply was that
               | the Japanese (unlike Americans) don't eat excessive
               | amounts of food on average.
        
               | Pooge wrote:
               | This is definitely true from my experience. They eat less
               | than even Europeans (which themselves eat less than
               | Americans on average).
        
               | pezezin wrote:
               | I live in the inaka (Aomori) and my experience is the
               | same.
        
               | ListeningPie wrote:
               | Many Japanese recipes I've tried have 2 tablespoons of
               | sugar, but that's not much in a meal for four.
               | 
               | Then there is mirin, which is basically sugar.
        
               | InDubioProRubio wrote:
               | Yeah, the us subsidy for violent crime aka "no money for
               | the unemployed" is quiet counterproductive.
        
               | klausa wrote:
               | This is about as deep of analysis of Japan as the Ghibli
               | AI avatars are "art".
               | 
               | > If someone misbehaves and two people are close by you
               | can be sure that they loudly will talk with each other
               | about how the person misbehaves
               | 
               | This is just straight up fan-fiction, and absolutely not
               | how the society here operates. You will get stared at.
               | People will move aside, maybe. That's the extent of
               | reaction from the public you can expect.
               | 
               | > The police acts swiftly and have small offices
               | everywhere .
               | 
               | The "small offices"/kobans are more than useless for any
               | actual "crime". They're quite useful in reporting that
               | you lost a wallet/keys, but good luck when having any
               | actual problems that need to be reported. Goes doubly so
               | for areas where there's elevated chance of actual crimes
               | happening -- interacting with cops in Kabukicho has to be
               | one of the least useful activities on the planet.
               | 
               | > The prisons are very strict, with beatings if you don't
               | follow authority.
               | 
               | And this is... a good thing? We have wildly different
               | moral systems if you think that.
               | 
               | > Green tea and healthy food makes people be able to
               | control their mood (hard to not stuff your face).
               | 
               | "Green tea and healthy food" is, frankly, an even
               | stupider argument than "they're built different". Yes,
               | it's the diet that makes the society more conformist,
               | sure, why not.
               | 
               | There's many great, and many not-so-great things about
               | Japan -- why do these arguments online always just start
               | with the most basic, surface level, inane pseudoanalysis?
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | 1. Yes they won't interact with the misbehaving person
               | but they will loudly declare their feelings around it.
               | 
               | 2. Police boxes are great when drunk people are causing
               | ruckus. What are the details in your case?
               | 
               | 3. Never said it was. You need to stop seeing things as
               | being good or bad. What I said was strong incentives.
               | 
               | 4. L-theanine has a calming effect, it is quite well
               | known. Just as lead has the opposite effect.
               | 
               | To be productive, what actionable insights do you glean
               | from countries such as Japan?
        
               | energy123 wrote:
               | > L-theanine has a calming effect, it is quite well
               | known.
               | 
               | The evidence for this in humans is very weak.
        
               | danielscrubs wrote:
               | Here is a randomized, triple blind study:
               | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34562208/
               | 
               | "had significant positive effects on brainwaves, salivary
               | cortisol, and self-reported state anxiety compared to the
               | placebo in response to an acute stress challenge. These
               | changes are indicative of relaxation in the brain and
               | suggest a calming response in a moderately stressed but
               | otherwise healthy population"
        
               | q3k wrote:
               | n=16. This isn't even worthy of classifying as a Phase I
               | trial. Efficacy studies generally _start_ at n=100.
               | Drawing any conclusions on efficacy from this kind of
               | sample size is simply unscientific.
        
               | lazyasciiart wrote:
               | > Japan always does the hard thing
               | 
               | Talk about reductive, but also wrong. Not being racist,
               | for example, is the harder option for most people, and
               | not the one encouraged in Japan.
               | 
               | Another one: Japan still has children growing up in
               | orphanages because it is considered weird to take in
               | someone else's child.
               | 
               | Office life is 50% time spent correctly pandering to your
               | bosses feelings, and they have made so little effort to
               | include women in the workforce and make parenting
               | compatible with a good job that nobody wants to have
               | kids.
        
           | qwertox wrote:
           | I've been taught to respect the elders. But now I've seen
           | that there are enough of them which aren't honest, good
           | people, but only know how to present themselves in a positive
           | light, while looking down on the ones they live with.
           | 
           | I now stand neutral against them: they may be good, they may
           | not be. There's nothing in their age which makes them deserve
           | more respect than the one younger people deserve.
        
             | ConspiracyFact wrote:
             | So do you respect 12-year-olds as much as you respect
             | 25-year-olds? Do you respect the opinions on work and adult
             | responsibilities of a 23-year-old as much as those of a
             | 35-year-old? Do you trust the professional judgment of a
             | junior engineer as much as that of a senior engineer?
             | 
             | Older people, in general, know more and have better
             | judgment than younger people.
        
               | anthk wrote:
               | Not in Japan.
        
               | piltdownman wrote:
               | You're conflating age with wisdom - a common fallacy when
               | charisma is valued over education, leading to
               | Septuagenarian Heads of State ruling on partisan lines
               | rather than Technocratic and egalitarian governance.
        
               | ConspiracyFact wrote:
               | Age correlates with wisdom. It's not a fallacy. I don't
               | claim that every person is wiser than all people younger
               | than him.
        
             | lazide wrote:
             | All you know about an old person is they've lived - and
             | survived - longer than someone who is not so old.
             | 
             | That can have a lot of different meanings.
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | It used to be that elders were few and far between, as the
           | population pyramid was, well, a pyramid.
           | 
           | The other day I joked in conversation that I raise my
           | daughters to disrespect the elderly - particularly my
           | generation in the future - as considering the fertility rates
           | ( _worse_ than in Japan) in the region, there will be plenty
           | of elderly compared to younger generations.
           | 
           | I'm only half joking really. My own parents are reaching the
           | age at which they would use some help every now and then. I
           | have two siblings, so it doesn't take huge individual effort
           | from any of us.
           | 
           | Meanwhile I'm the only one there who has children and most
           | likely that will remain the case. Should they feel any
           | obligation to help my siblings once the time comes?
        
             | ramblerman wrote:
             | You can teach them whatever you want, but the model of the
             | world you give them is also what they will pass on to their
             | kids.
             | 
             | "Family is a burden, and screw old people" doesn't seem
             | that conducive to a good society.
        
               | tankenmate wrote:
               | I get the sneaking suspicion that this might be a case of
               | Poe's law.
        
               | Tade0 wrote:
               | I'm going more for "screw _just_ old people ". Nowhere in
               | my parenting there's even a mention of family being a
               | burden - well, the younger part at least.
               | 
               | Anyway, again, half-joking here - I'm not actively
               | pursuing this approach, just not nudging them towards the
               | traditional one.
               | 
               | I spent some years in Italy, where the younger
               | generations are absolutely squeezed by the presence of a
               | huge population of elderly. It went to such bizarre
               | extremes where my one Italian friend not only doesn't own
               | a home being in his 40s now, whereas both of his divorced
               | parents each have their own properties, his salary is
               | lower than his father's pension. Kids are of course out
               | of the question.
               | 
               | My country is speedrunning this same scenario and the
               | only thing preventing it from happening now is
               | considerably lower life expectancy compared to Italy.
        
               | gwervc wrote:
               | That's the same thing in France, where on average a
               | retiree has a higher pension than a worker. Workers whose
               | one third of gross salary goes to pensions, then at least
               | another of net salary is paid for rent to live in a
               | property often owned by the previous generation. It's
               | very depressing environment to live in.
        
               | carlosjobim wrote:
               | Every social norm will be exploited until it becomes a
               | threat to existence. Right now the olds are exploiting
               | their protected status to outright exterminate the
               | younger generations. I will be down voted because the
               | truth is too bitter for most to swallow. This happens
               | close to all of us and isn't some bogeyman
               | foreign/domestic politician or other convenient
               | scapegoat.
        
               | lynx97 wrote:
               | I believe some resentment towards the elderly is
               | unavoidable given the circumstances. Its unfortunate, but
               | understandable. Looking at my own family, my mother
               | inherited the family property after my father died. She
               | has never had any officially payed job since her 30s. In
               | the last 40 years, she has only lived off pension, and
               | hasn't put anything back into the system. Meanwhile, I
               | have worked 25 years straight now, and still don't have
               | enough money to buy a decent apartment in the city where
               | I work. I am guessing the perceived unfairness of this
               | "pyramid" is going to make a lot more people unhappy in
               | the future. Certainly, compared to my mother, my life
               | feels like I am a drone. Not being female is a huge
               | disadvantage these days. I mean, a pension for being
               | married to a man who died? Alimony when the spouse
               | leaves? All things males can only dream of. And, the
               | incentives are all wrong. My mother didn't take on any
               | official jobs because she would loose some of the pension
               | she gets. So, its better to just suck every drop of blood
               | you can out of the welfare state, instead of thinking
               | about how the system actually works and that it needs
               | people to put in effort so that others that _really_ need
               | it can take things out...
        
               | chgs wrote:
               | If my wife dies first I get half her pension, if I die
               | first my wife gets half my pension.
               | 
               | If we divorce assets are spread equally. Kids complicate
               | things a bit, the person who owes the kids get paid by
               | the other one. As I have a far more flexible job (I do
               | after school care etc) it's likely I'd keep the kids and
               | thus would be paid child support.
               | 
               | Things suck for the "young" (sub 45 nowadays). Despite
               | what Andrew Tate and his ilk tells you this is nothing to
               | do with gender. It's to do with every increasing
               | ownership of the wealth by the wealthiest.
        
               | lynx97 wrote:
               | First of all, great that you seem to have a relatively
               | equal situation. It reads like your wife is actually
               | working. Good for you.
               | 
               | However, your accusation is totally wrong and uncalled
               | for. I know the name, but I have never read/heard
               | anything from the Tate brothers. In fact, my opinion
               | about female priviledge in our society stems purely from
               | my own experience, in particular my mother. This is
               | something I'd like to have (make and female) feminists
               | understand. All I need to be resentful of female
               | priviledge is my own mother and her spite and her totally
               | lack of humility. Much of backlash towards feminism is
               | self-inflicted. We don't need hateful men to tell us what
               | to think about female priviledge. All we need is our own
               | eyes. Not all women are shining examples of rationality
               | and empathy. Maybe feminists should start by working
               | on/with the bad apples in their own circles.
               | 
               | Fact is, my mother owns way more then I do, despite
               | actually only having worked roughly 5 years in her whole
               | life. All she owns was built up by men in the family of
               | my father. And she inherited everything, including the
               | priviledge of not having to go to work. If I could, I'd
               | step into her shoes every day. And she doesnt even
               | realize her priviledge, which is insulting.
               | 
               | This is just one example of the elderly spitting on the
               | young, sometimes without even noticing. This tension is
               | going to increase in the future even more.
        
               | dpatterbee wrote:
               | This sounds like a personal issue you have with your own
               | mother that you are desperately trying to extrapolate
               | onto the rest of society. Taking one selfish woman and
               | using it to demonise all women and even the concept of
               | feminism is quite silly.
               | 
               | > Much of backlash towards feminism is self-inflicted.
               | 
               | Self-inflicted by non-feminists?
               | 
               | > We don't need hateful men to tell us what to think
               | about female priviledge.
               | 
               | But you're going to do it anyway.
        
               | chgs wrote:
               | The sad thing is there are actual issues and there is a
               | kernel of truth to the feeling that men are discriminated
               | against in some cases (as of course are women - and let's
               | not go anywhere near transgender people) and life isn't
               | blind to gender - especially when it comes to custody
               | decisions, but also in areas like justice and crime (are
               | jail populations 50:50?), educational outcomes (boys do
               | worse than girls), mental health (check suicide figures)
               | 
               | Sadly posters like this do so much damage to equality
               | discourse that it's unlikely to ever equalise until this
               | vitriol is lost in the past like the prejudice to left
               | handed people was.
        
               | johnisgood wrote:
               | "Screw old people" is a common theme in hospitals and
               | ironically, elderly homes.
        
               | jorvi wrote:
               | I mean, the model the current soon-to-be old people
               | (boomers) operated on is exactly "screw everyone coming
               | after me", so considered on the whole they deserve every
               | bit of cold shoulder.
               | 
               | That doesn't mean that every boomer is bad of course, so
               | if you have good (grand)parents, be good to them!
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I prefer to frame it as "help the younger generations"
               | rather than "screw old people".
               | 
               | I saw my parents, especially my mom, waste their youth
               | taking care of two people who lived to near 100 years
               | old, and I don't want to see my kids waste their time and
               | resources on me.
        
               | taway1a2b3c wrote:
               | You want someone else's kids to do it?
        
               | chgs wrote:
               | > "Family is a burden, and screw old people" doesn't seem
               | that conducive to a good society.
               | 
               | Great for GDP though
        
             | halgir wrote:
             | > Should they feel any obligation to help my siblings once
             | the time comes?
             | 
             | Absolutely not, but hopefully your siblings will have been
             | positive enough presences in your children's lives that
             | they will want to of their own accord.
        
           | huijzer wrote:
           | I think society hasn't figured out the incentives for elders
           | currently. In private settings it's fine, but in the work
           | context I've seen few incentives for >50 year olds to support
           | younger generations. To the contrary, many of these people
           | fear losing their job just before retirement so choose risk-
           | averse behavior. At the same time, unlike in the village, the
           | juniors are not their relatives so that is also not
           | incentivizing any positive behavior.
           | 
           | And yes there are of course very nice people who are the
           | exception, but from what I've seen they are truly the
           | exception. As Charlie Munger put it "Well, I think I've been
           | in the top 5% of my age cohort all my life in understanding
           | the power of incentives, and all my life I've underestimated
           | it. And never a year passes but I get some surprise that
           | pushes my limit a little farther."
        
           | msluyter wrote:
           | Saying this as a rather old person myself...
           | 
           | I have a theory that, wrt knowledge, the relative advantage
           | of age has been at least partially eroded by rapid
           | technological advancement. In traditional/tribal societies,
           | prior to the 20th century, wisdom actually accumulated with
           | age, because the pace of change was slower. Wisdom &
           | knowledge could be passed on from generation to generation.
           | 
           | Now, wisdom and knowledge become obsolete quickly. Many
           | things you knew 20 years ago are outdated. The ICE engine you
           | learned how to fix as a kid is now computer controlled, or
           | has been replaced by batteries. Your optimistic/open/friendly
           | mindset now makes you easy pickings for online scammers.
           | Hell, even your family's secret cherished muffin recipe is
           | spurned by your grandchildren because it has gluten or
           | they're vegan or keto or whatever.
           | 
           | All this is just a take, but when I look at voting patterns
           | in particular, I find myself pessimistic that the elderly are
           | wiser than average.
        
             | baxtr wrote:
             | I think this is true from a pure knowledge perspective but
             | definitely not from a wisdom perspective.
             | 
             | Old people have -through their experience- gained a tacit
             | wisdom that can be very helpful when considering life
             | choices.
        
               | rjbwork wrote:
               | The craziest and stupidest things I hear regularly are
               | from older people. There are broad swathes of old people
               | that, not having been raised to be skeptical about media
               | consumption on the internet, are entirely credulous about
               | all manner of insane dis/mis-information.
               | 
               | That said, it's also something I'm seeing with younger
               | people as well.
        
             | baxtr wrote:
             | PS: Also, don't forget that especially elder women help
             | with children a lot.
        
             | mlhpdx wrote:
             | Isn't it weird how "old people" are so much like other
             | people? The insecurities, hopes and so on? It's like
             | stereotypes just don't work or something.
        
               | svnt wrote:
               | Be careful extrapolating too much from the emotional
               | maturity of one generation where an unfortunately large
               | majority was lead poisoned as children.
        
               | DrillShopper wrote:
               | Elder and middle millennials are just about equally as
               | poisoned, and we're all full of microplastics
        
             | ethbr1 wrote:
             | > _...but when I look at voting patterns in particular, I
             | find myself pessimistic that the elderly are wiser than
             | average._
             | 
             | Wisdom like 'It's harder to build something than it is to
             | tear it down' and 'Change carries its own risk.'
             | 
             | The irony is that older people overwhelming voted for Trump
             | on the basis of returning things to the way they were...
             | and then Trump staffed his administration with young
             | ideologues who are determined to upset the traditional
             | order.
             | 
             | Midterms will be curious.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | People group together uncorrelated concerns way too much
               | in politics. I guess it's necessary side effect of the
               | "us vs. them" mind virus.
               | 
               | > _The irony is that older people overwhelming voted for
               | Trump on the basis of returning things to the way they
               | were... and then Trump staffed his administration with
               | young ideologues who are determined to upset the
               | traditional order._
               | 
               | There isn't any irony there. People heard promises of
               | some X and Y and Z returning to the way things were, they
               | voted accordingly, and then their candidate proceeded to
               | go against them on A, B and C. This is only surprising if
               | you believe there's a strong ideological correlation
               | between all these things (there isn't), and that parties
               | and their leaders act according to their purported
               | ideologies (they don't).
        
               | ethbr1 wrote:
               | It's not {X,Y,Z} vs {A,B,C}.
               | 
               | It's {X,Y,Z} vs {X,Y,C}.
               | 
               | That portions of the investment community threw in behind
               | Trump and are now shocked (shocked!) that he has bigger
               | priorities than keeping the market pumped is absolutely
               | ironic.
        
             | Der_Einzige wrote:
             | Counterpoint: The only people who voted for Harris more
             | than Biden were old white people (especially old white
             | women).
             | 
             | The biggest shift towards right wing authoritarianism from
             | a demographic perspective is among the young (specifically
             | young brown/black men in America). This is happening
             | globally at a rapid and unprecedented pace.
             | 
             | Get ready for a conservative, violent, radicalized youth. A
             | Clockwork Orange but with 4chan like characteristics.
             | 
             | I'm not pessimistic about Boomers anymore. They're becoming
             | teddybears as they age.
        
               | mrexroad wrote:
               | > radicalized youth
               | 
               | Two of my teenage sons play sports and at times it feels
               | like all content consumption roads eventually lead to
               | "manfluencers"[0]. If they're watching content on lifting
               | techniques, sports discussions, or gaming--not uncommon
               | topics for teenagers--the recommendations are riddled
               | with rabbit holes into the so called manosphere.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.psypost.org/rejected-and-radicalized-
               | study-links...
        
             | dfxm12 wrote:
             | Knowledge changes. I don't think wisdom necessarily
             | changes. Maybe this is a philosophical discussion, but I
             | think that is once of the key differences of knowledge and
             | wisdom. However, I do think it is false that people
             | _necessarily_ accumulate wisdom with age. I know wise and
             | unwise people of all ages, including people who _think_
             | they 're wise only because they're old.
             | 
             |  _when I look at voting patterns in particular, I find
             | myself pessimistic that the elderly are wiser than average_
             | 
             | Don't stop there, look at the US elected representatives!
             | Washington is, from a lot of angles, a gerontocracy, and I
             | don't think anyone would consider it "wise". The world has
             | passed a lot of these folks by and even aside from that,
             | their stubbornness to not step aside has in cases meant
             | that they predictably die in office, so their seats go
             | unfilled for a while, leaving people unrepresented...
        
               | treis wrote:
               | I'm not sure that's accurate. If I think of the crazies
               | in Washington they're almost all (relatively) young.
        
               | no_wizard wrote:
               | The median age of the House is 57.5 years old and the
               | Senate is 64.7[0]
               | 
               | Its really not great. There's very few representatives
               | that have any life experiences of someone in the 30s or
               | 40s. I'd argue that makes them out of touch on a host of
               | very real, very pressing issues.
               | 
               | The other thing to think about is the age of those with
               | the levers of power. Its one thing to be elected as a
               | House member or to the Senate, its a whole other thing to
               | sit on key powerful committees, be the leader of the
               | party in the respective chamber etc. and _the most
               | powerful folks_ in congress trend into the 60s+
               | 
               | [0]: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-
               | reads/2025/01/16/age-and-g...
        
             | neutronicus wrote:
             | Old people are also just a lot more numerous, relative to
             | young people, than in previous eras of history.
        
             | zambachi wrote:
             | I disagree on the advantages of wisdom as these days I'm
             | thinking the opposite:
             | 
             | 1) Lack of wisdom leads to reinvention of the wheel. How
             | many programming languages are there only now doing things
             | the same way as 30 years ago? What is novel versus an
             | unnecessary re-invention?
             | 
             | I started studying Tcl code from back in the late '90's and
             | honestly was surprised. Hell, many people don't even know
             | what macports is even though homebrew isn't much but an
             | attempt to reinvent macports with a "cool" spin.
             | 
             | 2) Societal language and general problem solving skills are
             | deteriorating. Language, and mathematics evolve ever so
             | slowly, and yet emphasis on their importance is reduced in
             | favor of the whims of technological advancement.
             | 
             | I would rather hire someone with the slow-developing,
             | traditional skills, than the new-age fads.
             | 
             | In addition, with the advances in AI the only people worth
             | hiring will be the ones with traditional education--and the
             | wise, classically trained among our elders will be evermore
             | important.
        
             | bamboozled wrote:
             | I find many "elders" I know think climate change is a hoax,
             | solar power is dumb , transsexuals are evil, immigration is
             | silly etc, basically they hold extreme views and it effects
             | my ability to trust their word or opinion.
             | 
             | I'm not sure if technology is to blame, I think social
             | media is probably part of their corruption, Fox News too,
             | but yeah, the lack of interest in their opinions is mostly
             | self inflicted and I feel they choose to believe in
             | nonsense because it's fun to hate things.
             | 
             | What technology _has_ done is give me access to lots of
             | knowledge and wisdom and now I don't have to put up with
             | all the cruft to get what I need.
             | 
             | Some elders in my life are more balanced and I enjoy
             | seeking their opinion and wisdom and leaning on their
             | experience for all sorts of things.
             | 
             | One exception for me is that in Japan, even opinions are
             | considered to be potentially offensive so elderly people
             | are careful with their words. I've very really interacted
             | with an older Japanese person who just spits rhetoric and
             | conspiracy theories. Japanese even are careful to make a
             | statement like "this is the best chocolate I've tasted",
             | It's much more common to say "I think this is wonderful".
        
           | akudha wrote:
           | There was a news article few months ago, about waiting times
           | for healthcare (in the UK, if I remember correctly). One govt
           | official commented something like older people having to wait
           | longer to see physicians is "not a priority". I was stunned
           | reading it, didn't even know how to react.
           | 
           | It is nice to read articles like this. I wish more humans
           | looked at other humans beyond their youth, looks and their
           | net worth
        
           | InDubioProRubio wrote:
           | My dad got a guy assigned to his farm once from the
           | unemployment office once. Guy was in third generation
           | unemployed. Tried to bribe himself out of shovelling shit,
           | but my father wouldn't take the money. The tales a 90 year
           | old person made redundant by society and thus avoiding
           | society must have to tell. Stay a while and listen..
        
         | emmelaich wrote:
         | I hope the people don't get too much pressure to up their
         | stats.
         | 
         | > _The rarity of a card isn't based on fantasy stats -- it's
         | tied to real-world contributions. The more actively the ojisan
         | engages in volunteer work or community service, the higher the
         | chances of their card being upgraded to a shiny version with a
         | glossy laminated effect._
        
         | bitwize wrote:
         | I'm a bit reminded of the cards Harry and Ron find in their
         | chocolate frog packaging, each of which features a picture of a
         | famous wizard, some historical, some contemporary like Albus
         | Dumbledore. The kids had a chance of actually meeting some of
         | the heroes pictured on their cards.
        
         | mtillman wrote:
         | Apparently there are trading cards for everything now:
         | https://divorceddads.shop/
        
           | bananatron wrote:
           | I was surprised this wasn't mentioned in the article - I
           | assumed this is what they were talking about.
        
         | briandear wrote:
         | For real. This is the best thing I've seen on HN in a long
         | time. My kids are very into these card collections/games and I
         | told them about it and they thought it was a great idea to put
         | "normal" people on these cards. Super great story and concept.
         | Japan isn't perfect, but some amazing things come from their
         | society.
        
         | MichaelRo wrote:
         | >> We wanted to strengthen the connection between the children
         | and the older generations in the community.
         | 
         | Holly molly, that's exactly what I was suspecting when reading
         | "Japanese" and "middle age". Kinky schoolgirls are not enough,
         | now they distribute their "business cards" directly to
         | children.
         | 
         | Of course this is satire but nonetheless, bring up the
         | downvotes! :)
        
           | Griffinsauce wrote:
           | I get the joke but man, for once I'd like something to just
           | be wholesome full stop.
        
         | 4ggr0 wrote:
         | > Since the card game went viral, so many kids are starting to
         | look up to these men as heroic figures.
         | 
         | per usual, women just exist :) men get to be heroic elders,
         | women are footnotes, merely assisting men to become heroes.
        
           | ComboSoftware wrote:
           | way to add a negative twist... there's no reason an expansion
           | or separate 'obaasan' set couldn't be made
        
             | frereubu wrote:
             | I kinda get where you're coming from, but the comment is
             | about the fact it _hasn 't_ been done, and there's no
             | reason why it should be a separate set.
        
               | klipt wrote:
               | Elderly men are more vulnerable to suicide die to lack of
               | social connections. So it makes sense for a project that
               | fosters social connections to prioritize men.
               | 
               | It's about equity, not equality.
        
           | jmknoll wrote:
           | This is such a cynical, keyboard-warrior take. Why do you
           | feel the need to drag down someone else's positive and
           | impactful contribution? No one is stopping you from creating
           | a card game with women as the heroes.
        
           | Wurdan wrote:
           | The article makes it clear that this was the passion project
           | of Eri Miyahara, Secretary General of the local council and a
           | woman herself. Though I'm sure you had noble intentions with
           | this comment, it ignores the professional judgement that led
           | her to create this game and turns her efforts into "merely
           | assisting men to become heroes."
        
         | awongh wrote:
         | My takeaway of the cool dynamic at work here is that
         | universally (but particularly in Japan) no one wants to be seen
         | promoting themselves. Especially for older people they've done
         | so many cool things, and are currently doing cool things now
         | that they're retired and have free time, but socially it's a
         | bit awkward to just ask, what cool and interesting stuff can
         | you tell me about.
         | 
         | And the physical / game medium helps connect
         | intergenerationally as well. But actually I could see this kind
         | of trading card dynamic working in other situations like
         | business networking or speed dating or something.
        
         | svilen_dobrev wrote:
         | > increased cross-generational interaction
         | 
         | cross- _class_ interaction too.
         | 
         | in ~2012 i was in Tokyo, and by chance was (also) invited to
         | someone's birthday.. The guy was working as pizzeria-waiter,
         | and has invited.. all his usual clients to his birthday - in
         | his small apartment, with "everyone brings some food they made"
         | instead of gifts. My friend was a client.. so i landed there
         | too. That was the most bizarre mix of people there. Some were
         | just mom-and-pop. Some were millionaires. And everything in
         | between. Most were japanese, but also from about 3-4 diff.
         | countries. And everyone talking with everyone else as equal..
         | 
         | a very interesting cross-section - and should i say glimpse-of-
         | future - of society.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | The Oregon Graduate Institute (or maybe just the CS&E dept.) once
       | made trading cards of the professors, to promote STEM to area
       | children.
        
       | stevage wrote:
       | This is a stupid idea that couldn't possibly work. But it did?
        
       | tomcam wrote:
       | MY TIME HAS FINALLY COME
       | 
       | Wait I'm actually elderly
        
       | xrd wrote:
       | The whole point of this is that we've reached breaking point with
       | the ridiculous attempt to replace everything with a digital
       | experience. It is fitting that Japan, which was arguably the
       | place where the digital revolution really took off, should be the
       | first place where it is rejected.
        
       | williamtrask wrote:
       | Feels like a portal to the alternate universe we could have with
       | modern technology but no mass media.
        
         | xyzal wrote:
         | s/mass/social/g
        
       | iamwil wrote:
       | > Seeing this, the game's creator decided to take it to the next
       | level. New rules were introduced, allowing the cards to be used
       | in actual battles. The objective isn't to defeat the opponent's
       | card but to outplay it based on the characters' skills and
       | abilities.
       | 
       | Anyone have an idea of how the gameplay works? How do you
       | "outplay" your opponent?
        
       | tomxor wrote:
       | This can only end one way...
       | 
       | In an animated tv show depicting middle-aged man battles by
       | community-service-dance-off. May include flashing images.
        
         | CoastalCoder wrote:
         | My prediction is isekai.
         | 
         | Middle aged man with lousy card stats gets isekaied, and ends
         | up with ridiculous stats hidden on the back of his card.
        
           | rat87 wrote:
           | It already aired
           | 
           | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/From_Bureaucrat_to_Villaines.
           | ..
           | 
           | > A bureaucrat named Kenzaburo Tondabayashi is killed by a
           | passing truck after saving a boy and is reborn in the Otome
           | game Magical Academy: Love & Beast as its villainess, Grace
           | Auvergne. Due to his politeness, he makes Grace's personality
           | change into a more kind person and even becomes friends with
           | the game's heroine, Anna Doll, whom the original Grace is
           | antagonistic towards. Meanwhile, Kenzaburo's original body is
           | revealed to have survived, but he is stuck in a coma. His
           | wife and daughter discover that he is trapped in the game and
           | attempt to help him complete it in hopes of getting him out
        
             | CoastalCoder wrote:
             | Oh my.
             | 
             | I'm starting to think there's a Rule 34 of Isekai.
        
       | adastra22 wrote:
       | This is unexpectedly brilliant and heart warming. Thank you for
       | sharing.
        
       | teleforce wrote:
       | I think AR or augmented reality games like this trading cards is
       | the future of gaming, but this one is offline AR rather than
       | online.
       | 
       | One of the best game I ever played is the text based souvenir
       | game shopping game on Windows 3. I can't recall the name of the
       | game now since it's more than 30 years ago, but it's about
       | shopping souvenirs using London Underground Tube. You have a semi
       | realistic time constraints like train schedules, your flight
       | schedules and of course list of souvenirs items to shop. This is
       | totally offline since there is no Internet available at the time
       | but it's very engaging nonetheless.
       | 
       | My proposal for the modern version of the game is to use real-
       | time train schedules (with delays, ticket discounts, etc) that
       | are available publicly on the Internet for many metropolitan
       | cities in the world for examples Tokyo, London and Berlin
       | [1],[2],[3].
       | 
       | Imagine you can have a real-world realistic in-app in-game items
       | purchases feature that you personally can buy in the game and
       | delivered to you or anyone you fancy of giving souvenirs except
       | that you only virtually went there.
       | 
       | [1] A real-time 3D digital map of Tokyo's public transport system
       | (2023 - 103 comments):
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=37829061
       | 
       | [2] Live map of London's Underground system:
       | 
       | https://traintimes.org.uk/map/tube/
       | 
       | [3] Show HN: Ubahnchen - Animated subway map of Berlin (2020 -
       | 102 comments):
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32647227
       | 
       | [4] Berlin train info:
       | 
       | https://www.vbb.de/fahrinfo
        
         | kzs0 wrote:
         | Ngl that kind of pulls the fun out of it
        
         | fennecfoxy wrote:
         | As someone who got back into mtg recently, nah. I think
         | physical games are going to hang around because there's just
         | something different between playing games with friends on
         | discord versus assembling at one of our houses to play.
         | 
         | Humans are social creatures.
        
           | teleforce wrote:
           | I'm not proposing substitute physical games (do you meant
           | real games like football?), this just augmenting computer
           | games with real-time data.
           | 
           | You can even become a virtual personal shopper to interact
           | with real clients, and getting paid as well.
        
       | throwaway743 wrote:
       | All they need now is some irl sujimon!
        
       | bitwize wrote:
       | These aren't middle-aged men, they're straight-up old.
       | 
       | "Ojisan" means something like "gramps". Though given how youth-
       | oriented Japanese culture is, I suppose it could refer to any man
       | 35 or older.
        
         | redwall_hp wrote:
         | Ojisan (ozisan) is roughly "uncle." Ojiisan (oziisan) is
         | grandpa.
         | 
         | Same with obasan (obasan) for aunt and obaasan (obaasan) for
         | grandma.
        
       | ph4evers wrote:
       | Fantastic idea. Curious if this works in my town as well
        
         | DeathArrow wrote:
         | You can try it.
        
       | avodonosov wrote:
       | I would add some obasan - the female counterpart of "ojisan"
        
       | xyzal wrote:
       | > Kids have started attending local events and volunteering for
       | community activities -- just for a chance to meet the ojisan from
       | their cards. Participation in town events has reportedly doubled
       | since the game launched.
       | 
       | Kids involved in community seems to be the best result
        
       | dreamcompiler wrote:
       | Reminds me of this old SNL skit:
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzo73jYl3Ew
        
       | fmxsh wrote:
       | Why only men? Women don't exist in any important role in their
       | society?
        
         | josfredo wrote:
         | I share your sentiment, I don't believe that important women
         | don't exist there. Surely there has been some kind of bias
         | here. Does anyone else agree?
        
           | avodonosov wrote:
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43618143
        
         | DeathArrow wrote:
         | Trading cards cather to young boys. They look up to men.
        
         | fennecfoxy wrote:
         | Why are so many comments getting hung up on this?
         | 
         | If the (presumably) male at the community center had painted a
         | portrait of the three older buddies he had in the community,
         | would you all be asking "why does that painting only have men
         | in it?"
         | 
         | I agree that they should do women next, given the unexpected
         | popularity of what is presumably a pet project - but it's not
         | hard to understand the very simple & obvious reasons why the
         | first set of cards didn't feature women.
        
           | fmxsh wrote:
           | Imagine boys and girls could have their own gender being
           | represented and they would compete with each other in that
           | card game, or if it's not like "Magic: the gathering", at
           | least interact around arguing who is better. But here, girls
           | are completely excluded from any such interaction, like:
           | "Nope, you don't exist." Girls, who should they look up to?
           | Having both, it allows both genders to choose whom to admire.
           | 
           | I actually do not see the obvious reason. Maybe I missed
           | something. My take is Japan has what some would call a gender
           | stereotypical view. What is surprising to me is how a whole
           | gender is excluded from something that creates much fun
           | interaction and play. It feels surprising especially also
           | when the project is supposed to represent a community. I
           | almost feel bad pointing it out, because the project is so
           | wholesome, but it's simply what I see.
           | 
           | I have a European lense, and I am sure I am not aware of many
           | things of their culture. But, I am struggling to see how it's
           | not a blunt confirmation of typical western feminist
           | critique. Of course, Japanese society may have another
           | cultural framework to rationalize it, where any such critique
           | wouldn't even be recognized to be rational. That, in itself,
           | reflects a possible large discrepancy in cultural views.
           | 
           | (edit: I don't think the creator did any wrong, I think they
           | acted within their frame. Maybe the product wouldn't be as
           | successfully otherwise. My inquiry is at the level of culture
           | and it's undercurrent of values dictating what's successfully
           | and to what degree an artifact is based in cultural values
           | and re-affirm those, well transcending mere artistic choice
           | and artistic appreciation which should be free.)
           | 
           | (edit 2, psychoanalysis: the artist framing males within
           | cards... Males being looked up to... The artist
           | psychologically in perhaps a Lacanian sense, is "looking up"
           | to expressions of the mighty, assertive phallocentric values
           | constituting society. The artist mediating societal core
           | views by making this artifact, enacts those values by
           | admiration, and mediates those values to the right
           | population, boys, who by their mere gender, are both the
           | protectors and the representations of society's core view. I
           | suspect Japan is a phallocentric society more so than not.)
        
       | babuloseo wrote:
       | I NEED TO GO TO JAPAN NOW.
        
       | deadbabe wrote:
       | Makes you think, if your life was reduced to a trading card,
       | would anyone want it? For most, probably not.
        
       | DeathArrow wrote:
       | I like the idea. On one hand it promotes usung heroes, people who
       | did good for their community. On the other hand it helps
       | establishing role models.
       | 
       | It's better if kids have these people as role models than random
       | rock stars or movie stars.
        
       | blixt wrote:
       | I remember as a young kid living in Norway, there'd be the
       | "russefeiring"[0] around May where students finishing their final
       | semester will don a brightly colored overall and cause mayhem in
       | the town. I remember getting shot a lot with water guns. Anyway,
       | one thing that is pretty fun about that tradition is that the
       | students print cards for themselves with a picture and fun facts
       | etc and hand them out to all the little kids, and we'd trade them
       | between ourselves to have the whole collection of students.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russefeiring
        
       | chenhoey1211 wrote:
       | "Japan has always had deep subcultures around games, cards, and
       | character design -- but what's new is how global social platforms
       | amplify them. It feels like TikTok is acting as a cross-cultural
       | layer over local fandoms. Could this become a driver for new
       | forms of cross-border cultural products?"
        
       | nanna wrote:
       | Ojisan as in O.G.san as in Old Gangster san?
        
       | zeristor wrote:
       | Erm, are there some for middle aged women to?
       | 
       | Three months after loosing my Mum one realises and appreciates
       | what a huge amount she did for so many people.
        
       | akimbostrawman wrote:
       | The comment here are a perfect example of how this could not
       | exist in the west without some shitstorm trying to destroy it.
       | 
       | I guess continuing to ignore 3/4:1 male suicide rates is one
       | "solution" to mitigate demographic aging..
       | 
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicid...
        
         | fennecfoxy wrote:
         | Yeah Japanese culture is very, very different from the West.
         | But it also comes with its own set of problems and challenges.
         | 
         | As a gay guy I've always thought about the topic in your last
         | sentence; I agree that male problems (suicide rates,
         | expectations, hypermasculinism etc) get largely ignored, in
         | part due to a tightly integrated hierarchy of social rules and
         | expectations - men (ignoring feelings, emotions, trying to be
         | tough all the time) women (reliance on men,
         | encouraging/supporting hypermasculine behaviours).
         | 
         | I find it both interesting & sad the way that heterosexual (&
         | bisexual, etc) male behaviour completely changes (often for the
         | worse) when a woman walks into the room. I don't see this as
         | much at all in the opposite scenario, though I won't say that
         | gay men don't sometimes exhibit the same aggressive behaviours
         | that straight men often do.
         | 
         | It's just sad to watch men not care about certain aspects of
         | themselves that are deemed weak, and that society has no value
         | for men not attached to a family unit (hence the suicide rate).
         | Also look at rates of homelessness - women are more likely to
         | be taken in/given much more leeway by family etc than men are
         | as a man down on his luck is a "problem" aka useless. It's the
         | same with calling for women to be forced into drafts the same
         | way men are - heterosexual response to that is staggering - the
         | same frequency as the response I get as a man if I say I
         | _don't_ want to fight in a war (aggression, being called a
         | coward, the vitriol received for being a "draft dodger").
         | 
         | I know why it is the way it is, though and unlike many others I
         | never forget that we're all still just animals at our very
         | core.
        
           | akimbostrawman wrote:
           | >get largely ignored, in part due to a tightly integrated
           | hierarchy of social rules and expectations
           | 
           | I think this might change in the future when men realize the
           | social contract reward for it has been reduced to rubble.
           | 
           | >male behaviour completely changes (often for the worse) when
           | a woman walks into the room
           | 
           | I observed this many times and disliked it to the point of
           | acting the reverse (disinterested) which ironically resulted
           | in the opposite outcome at least temporarily. I think it
           | certainly applies to women too but is just less observable
           | because its more passive instead of active. The standard of
           | the average men is also a lot "lower" (actual average)
           | compared to women's to get active.
        
             | fennecfoxy wrote:
             | >I think this might change in the future when men realize
             | the social contract reward for it has been reduced to
             | rubble.
             | 
             | That's a great point but I don't think it ever will. Said
             | social contracts are dictated by our underlying biology and
             | whilst we may adjust or tweak them over time the
             | fundamentals of them will stay the same. But who knows,
             | maybe I'll be surprised and the higher order social rules
             | will completely overcome the lower order animal rules.
        
               | akimbostrawman wrote:
               | If there will be a change it will be driven by technology
               | for better or worse. Maybe not change but replace, robot
               | and ai companions come to mind.
        
       | foobahify wrote:
       | "Rural Japan" checks notes. Pop 1.7M
        
         | ashdnazg wrote:
         | More like 10000 [1]
         | 
         | [1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kawara,_Fukuoka
        
       | iimaginary wrote:
       | Wow! What a fantastic idea!
        
       | fedeb95 wrote:
       | the idea is great by itself. However it highlights a big problem
       | in today western society.
        
       | rsynnott wrote:
       | > The more actively the ojisan engages in volunteer work or
       | community service, the higher the chances of their card being
       | upgraded to a shiny version with a glossy laminated effect.
       | 
       | In systems like this, where artificial scarcity is seen as having
       | value, making the cards _more common_ for good works seems like a
       | perverse incentive; clearly, the best approach is to be Victor
       | Meldrew, so as to have a rarer card.
        
       | rampatra wrote:
       | This is such a wonderful thought. A great way to recognize the
       | efforts put up by people in the community that often goes
       | unnoticed and unappreciated.
        
       | einpoklum wrote:
       | How come the men on the cards have Magic/Mana Points (MP)?
        
       | uxp100 wrote:
       | I don't think "middle-aged" is quite the right translation.
        
       | nonethewiser wrote:
       | OK, Row 2 Column 2 has to be a mashup of George Bush and Barack
       | Obama right?
       | 
       | https://www.tokyoweekender.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/oj...
        
       | ddingus wrote:
       | I love this! I did not expect to love this.
       | 
       | Wow.
       | 
       | The cards are exemplary. Any Ojisan[0] featured on a card should
       | feel honored. I looked at the cards shown to us and immediately
       | was struck by the artists ability to both see the beauty in these
       | fine people and deliver it on the card in a compelling, clearly
       | respectful way.
       | 
       | And the motive! It is simple and noble: Elevating Town Fathers in
       | the eyes of those for whom they often serve.
       | 
       | The idea is pure,[1] uncluttered by unnecessary detail and
       | expectations. The only real complication came from the kids, who
       | naturally wanted the game aspect to make the whole thing fun!
       | 
       | Of course they did.
       | 
       | Humans being beautiful. That is what this is and as much as I
       | want this sort of thing where I live, I know it would not be this
       | organic thing of beauty and that makes me sad. I am not sure
       | enough of us here have what is needed.
       | 
       | I am definitely sharing today. What a delightful story!
       | 
       | [0] Capitalized because local heroes
       | 
       | [1] Pure is the word I use in this context. There may be better
       | ones. Please share.
        
         | parabyl wrote:
         | Although I think "pure" is alright to use in this context, I
         | would probably have gone with "beautifully simple".
        
           | ddingus wrote:
           | Not bad. That could work, but still the sentiment remains a
           | bit elusive.
           | 
           | Yours does nail a couple strong elements to it.
           | 
           | It seems almost noble, or just is a celebration of quiet
           | nobility. That is a part of it too.
           | 
           | I feel this is one of those times we would learn Germans have
           | a dead on word like they often do.
        
       | bombcar wrote:
       | Wait, what does Japan know that 79 year old men are middle aged?
        
       | scotty79 wrote:
       | I thought it was a joke like https://divorceddads.shop/ It turns
       | out it's something way more wholesome.
        
       | atmosx wrote:
       | There are fundamental differences between Asian cultures and
       | Western ones, particularly in how they view the individual versus
       | the community, and the relationship between the young and the
       | elderly. In many Asian cultures, the community is often placed
       | above the individual, while in the West, individualism tends to
       | take precedence. These perspectives have evolved differently over
       | time, and each has its own advantages and drawbacks--there's no
       | single "correct" way.
       | 
       | That said, it would definitely be more challenging to implement
       | this kind of community-first mindset in the U.S. or Europe.
        
       | jsrcout wrote:
       | I love this so much.
        
       | jdoliner wrote:
       | > Middle-aged man trading cards Examples are Mr. Honda (74), Mr.
       | Takeshita (81) and Mr. Fujii (68). Japanese are just built
       | different I guess.
        
       | insane_dreamer wrote:
       | "Middle-aged man ..."
       | 
       | also:
       | 
       | "It features Mr. Honda (74), ... Mr. Takeshita (81), ... Mr.
       | Fujii (68)"
       | 
       | Is this the new "middle-aged" in Japan?
        
       | jandrese wrote:
       | They should have called these Salarymon cards.
        
       | woodrowbarlow wrote:
       | i think it would be interesting to allow each Ojisan to be in
       | charge of distribution. some would freely hand out their cards to
       | any who ask, while some might be more "stingy", awarding cards
       | only to youth who impressed them. the game designer could
       | periodically restock the Ojisan's supply and each generation of
       | cards could be mechanically rebalanced to reflect the observed
       | rarity.
        
       | IronCoder1 wrote:
       | Fascinating cultural phenomenon blending traditional trading
       | cards with modern social media. Clever use of QR codes linking to
       | biographical data. I wonder if future versions could incorporate
       | digital signing and verification on the blockchain to create
       | provably scarce digital collectibles. Potential model for other
       | innovative physical-digital crossovers.
        
         | Jolter wrote:
         | Your last idea there seems like it's totally missing the point
         | of these oji-san cards. It's about connecting people to each
         | other and forming community, not about scarcity, value or any
         | other economic term.
        
       | jimnotgym wrote:
       | The life expectancy in this area is impressive. Middle-aged men:
       | 
       | Mr. Honda (74) apparently expecting to live to 148
       | 
       | Mr. Takeshita (81) about to buy a high-powered motorcycle,
       | perhaps
       | 
       | Mr. Fujii (68) has a new sports coupe and is on very good terms
       | with his secretary, his wife has noticed
        
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