[HN Gopher] 'Bluey's World': How a Cute Aussie Puppy Became a Ju...
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       'Bluey's World': How a Cute Aussie Puppy Became a Juggernaut
        
       Author : adrian_mrd
       Score  : 330 points
       Date   : 2025-03-19 12:14 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | resource_waste wrote:
       | >"The parents were so relatable and mirrored the parent I wanted
       | to be,"
       | 
       | Ooof fiction teaching Idealism. From Nietzsche to Plato, its
       | agreed, fiction corrupts. One day the floury idealism will be
       | seen not to work, and the damage will have already been done.
       | 
       | I've seen Bluey, it was funny, it taught some general concepts...
       | but if my kids are going to watch TV, why not Bill Nye the
       | Science Guy or similar?
       | 
       | Remember that these children's characters are corporate mascots,
       | not friends.
        
         | Centigonal wrote:
         | how is Bill Nye any less of a character than Bluey's parents?
        
           | 01100011 wrote:
           | Let your kids watch Bill Nye and then next thing you know
           | they'll be into speedwalking and designing burger guns in the
           | basement. IYKYK.
        
             | jjulius wrote:
             | God bless Almost Live!
        
         | hylaride wrote:
         | Sir, it's a show for toddlers that adults can watch and relate
         | to. Watch the repetitiveness of Daniel Tiger or the brain
         | destroying Cocomelon (which should be banned) then get back to
         | me.
        
           | bitwize wrote:
           | I was rewatching Max Headroom recently and my favorite
           | episode stood out to me. It's about an addictive game show
           | called "Whacketts" which is so mind-numbingly insipid that
           | even the punk operator of the pirate TV station that runs the
           | show wonders why it's so popular. Turns out that the
           | Whacketts broadcast is interlaced with a signal that looks
           | like rapidly changing hexadecimal numbers and functions as a
           | "drug" that induces euphoria in anyone who is visually
           | exposed to it.
           | 
           | When I was a kid I thought this was somewhat dodgy science
           | fiction. As an adult in the age of Cocomelon and Skibidi
           | Toilet, I'm not so sure.
        
             | TeMPOraL wrote:
             | Yeah, we imagined brainwashing would involve rapidly
             | flashing hidden messages. In reality, it involves a head
             | sticking out of a toilet.
             | 
             | Hearing some of the things my elder daughter hears from
             | other kids in the kindergarten, I sometimes wonder if we
             | haven't jumped into some bizarro alternate universe.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | Are they all using tablets?
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | No, but some kids have slightly older siblings in primary
               | school, and learn all kinds of crap from them.
        
         | fkyoureadthedoc wrote:
         | Bluey considered harmful? I won't hear of it. Get his ass.
        
           | prawn wrote:
           | I have a morbid fascination with trying to predict the most
           | down-voted comment theme for any given HN thread. I was quite
           | excited to find out how someone would inevitably manage to
           | enrage people in a Bluey thread, but someone managed!
        
             | Braxton1980 wrote:
             | I didn't see any comments about her being blue
        
         | jasonjayr wrote:
         | "I'm not going to take advice from a cartoon dog" - is exactly
         | one of the lines in the show.
         | 
         | There are shows geared to teach science in appropriate ways to
         | kids in this same demographic. But that's not the point of
         | Bluey -- it's modeling an ideal family, in a way that's
         | understandable to young children, while being relatable for
         | their parents to watch and appreciate along side with them.
         | They represent a loving, functional family, that likes to have
         | fun, and sometimes has hard issues to deal with, that children
         | get to see. For some families it's an unattainable ideal, and
         | for others it's a mirror of a modern 20-30yo parents raising
         | young kids, complete with modern situations.
         | 
         | It's hard to stress out just how perfectly they nail a show
         | that both kids + parents can watch, that they both find
         | enjoyable, in this demographic, without pandering, or being
         | annoying about it, because it's such a rare find.
         | 
         | The praise this franchise receives is extremely well deserved.
        
         | jjulius wrote:
         | >... but if my kids are going to watch TV, why not Bill Nye the
         | Science Guy or similar?
         | 
         | This comparison almost makes me wonder if you have kids.
        
           | jamiek88 wrote:
           | Right? Completely different shows, ages, approach, intentions
           | etc.
           | 
           | Might as well have said 'watch masterchef instead'.
        
           | stuaxo wrote:
           | (Or have watched much Bluey).
        
         | mikeocool wrote:
         | Somebody doesn't have kids
        
           | resource_waste wrote:
           | I have 5.
        
             | audunw wrote:
             | And do they only watch science shows teaching STEM
             | subjects? Or do they get to watch shows that have some
             | emotional lessons as well? If so, what shows?
             | 
             | I think people are reacting because Bill Nye is not even
             | remotely in the same category. It has a different kind of
             | value, and frankly it's not as important as the kind of
             | value kids get from Bluey.
             | 
             | It's very nice if kids learn science. Great even. But the
             | most important things kid can get from TV shows (if
             | anything, it's okay to watch things for fun as well) is to
             | learn social skills. Bluey has a lot of that, and it does
             | it without being annoying about it like Daniel Tiger. It's
             | a good balance
        
               | infecto wrote:
               | It also feels like a show for kids graduating out of
               | Bluey.
        
             | skinkestek wrote:
             | Hi another person with 5 kids :-)
        
             | sanderjd wrote:
             | lol, funniest comment I've read on here in a long time.
        
         | kentonv wrote:
         | Fiction gives us a channel to explore problems we wouldn't
         | otherwise regularly see in our day-to-day lives, and learn
         | about the right ways to answer them, so that when we are
         | confronted with them for real, we have a better framework for
         | dealing with them than our basic instincts provide.
         | 
         | Real-world ethical problems tend to be much more complex than
         | those presented in fiction, but that's exactly why we need
         | fiction to provide us with the building blocks via easier-to-
         | understand case studies.
        
         | mcphage wrote:
         | > but if my kids are going to watch TV, why not Bill Nye the
         | Science Guy or similar?
         | 
         | "There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are
         | dreamt of in your philosophy."
        
         | infecto wrote:
         | Because Bluey is for 3-6 year olds or around that range and the
         | most important thing for them to learn at this age is social
         | skills. There is plenty of time after for Bill Nye.
        
         | light_triad wrote:
         | Nietzsche and Plato were some of the best fiction writers ever
         | produced.
         | 
         | Storytelling, allegory, dramatic dialogue, compelling
         | narratives, and 'myth making' can have different goals -
         | sometimes it's to teach the glory of science. Other times it's
         | about social relationships and how to be a functional human.
         | 
         | Bluey works so well because the combination of kids'
         | entertainment with adult themes and storylines portraying
         | positive role models feels unforced - some folks may not enjoy
         | it, that's fine.
        
         | Vaskivo wrote:
         | There's an episode where the father is trying to teach Bluey to
         | play chess. It is implied by the mother that he's only doing
         | that because "all smart kids play chess, therefore she should
         | learn chess."
         | 
         | The teaching fails, not because she doesn't understand but
         | because she and Bingo end up making up the fantasy of the game.
         | (To the point that sacrificing a piece is a shock and
         | abhorrent).
         | 
         | It ends up with the mother intervening, beating the dad at the
         | game and saying "Work on the heads later, for now, just
         | hearts."
         | 
         | So to you, I say: Bill Nye, yes. Bluey, yes too. Each in their
         | own time... If the kids feel like it.
        
         | squigz wrote:
         | Storytelling has been integral to humanity's progression
         | through the ages since day 0.
        
       | Verdex wrote:
       | As a kids show bluey is adequate. However, I suspect its secret
       | is that it's really a show for parents with young children that
       | just happens to hold the attention of kids.
       | 
       | My daughters like bluey (ages 3-8). But they also enjoy many
       | things on TV and bluey doesn't stick out that much.
       | 
       | On the other hand, I happened to be in the room for an episode
       | where blueys dad is having a hard time making some sort of cake
       | and bluey cleans up something to help him out without being
       | prompted. I most definitely felt heard watching that episode.
        
         | owenfi wrote:
         | Agree, except I think you missed the beginning of that episode.
         | 
         | Like there are no overnight successes, there are many prompts
         | and maybe not the best strategies (such as "I'll give you a
         | dollar if you clean up").
        
         | slothtrop wrote:
         | I think that's it. They've found a balance in "family"
         | entertainment that is sophisticated enough to please adults,
         | much the way Pixar and 90s Disney films had. The Simpsons at
         | outset was also sort of like this for older kids. There was
         | moral panic at the time, but it didn't prevent the show from
         | being an incredible phenomenon, heavily merchandised the way
         | Bluey is now. I must have been obsessed with the Simpsons since
         | 7-8 years old.
        
         | wijwp wrote:
         | > However, I suspect its secret is that it's really a show for
         | parents with young children that just happens to hold the
         | attention of kids.
         | 
         | That's how a lot of successful children's movies/shows work in
         | a way.
         | 
         | Have you ever rewatched older kids movies as an adult and
         | realized how many adult-level jokes they slipped in that you
         | never noticed as a child?
         | 
         | If you're asking parents to spend 1.5 hours at a movie theater,
         | you better throw in some adult humor in there as well.
        
           | Cyph0n wrote:
           | I don't think inserting innuendo is necessary. In fact, I
           | personally find it distasteful and nothing more than an easy
           | way out.
           | 
           | I think the proper way to do it is to include themes and/or
           | characters that adults would relate with too. Ghibli movies
           | are one example where this is done well (most of the time).
        
             | sanderjd wrote:
             | Bluey doesn't do it as innuendo either. I like Bluey and
             | Ghibli the most of all children's media I'm familiar with,
             | for exactly this reason.
        
           | dralley wrote:
           | That's every classic Pixar movie
        
             | IshKebab wrote:
             | Yeah Pixar does it a lot, and Bluey, and Peppa Pig a
             | little. But it's really uncommon in kids TV shows. 99% of
             | them are straight up dross just for kids with no
             | accomodation for parents.
             | 
             | That's why Bluey is so popular. It's the only good TV
             | program for adults that kids will also watch. (And I agree
             | it's only super popular for adults, kids are way more into
             | trash like Blippi.)
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | Oh I disagree, my kids like Blue a lot more than Blippi.
               | But they like better-but-still-dross like "Spidey and His
               | Amazing Friends" about the same as they like Bluey,
               | whereas their parents like Bluey about an order of
               | magnitude more :)
        
           | hylaride wrote:
           | Sesame Street is this way. Watch versions from your youth and
           | you'll see references to pop culture everywhere. From the
           | specific 1970s rock bands, Star Wars, Monsterpiece Theater,
           | etc. It's so obvious when I see it now, but a lot of it went
           | over my head at the time.
        
           | ip26 wrote:
           | Bluey isn't just aware parents are watching, though. It's not
           | just cameos and a little sneaky grown up humor. It's more
           | like two stories, both compelling, are being told at the same
           | time, depending on which character you identify most with.
        
             | sanderjd wrote:
             | Especially since having a second child start growing up,
             | I've realized it's actualy _four_ stories, often all
             | compelling at once. There 's Bluey's story, and there is
             | the dad's and mom's story, but there is also _Bingo_ 's
             | story, about being the younger child. My younger kid
             | _loves_ the episode called  "Bingo", which is specifically
             | about Bingo.
        
               | markus_zhang wrote:
               | "I miss my sister, and the fridge doesn't like me"
               | 
               | Sooooooo cute.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | There's _another_ Bingo-focused episode, called  "BBQ",
               | that's absolute favorite of my little Bingo's. My younger
               | daughter (3.5yo now) definitely sees herself in the Bingo
               | character.
        
         | skrebbel wrote:
         | > But they also enjoy many things on TV and bluey doesn't stick
         | out that much.
         | 
         | Fwiw my kids (9 - 12) watched every episode at least 4 times
         | already by now. Especially my youngest thinks it's 10x better
         | than anything else on offer. In terms of categories, there's
         | basically Bluey, and everything else. Just to say, tastes
         | differ.
         | 
         | I agree it's a great show for parents too but the idea that it
         | doesn't stick out much for the kids doesn't resonate with me.
         | There's so many details, so many layers, so much to discover.
        
           | grepfru_it wrote:
           | Wait until your kids have kids and say "hey kids I used to
           | watch this show bluey" and will turn it on and ..then they
           | will understand..
        
           | hnlmorg wrote:
           | My kids love Bluey too.
           | 
           | When they were little they loved it because there were
           | cartoon animals laughing and playing.
           | 
           | When they were slightly older they loved it because the jokes
           | were funny.
           | 
           | And when they got a little older still, they loved it because
           | the silly things the parents did in the show reminded them of
           | the silly things us parents do. So they'll often call out
           | "that's what you do daddy!" during the episodes.
           | 
           | The show is a work of genius because it feels like a slice of
           | real life but packaged in a way that is entertaining for
           | kids. So I do completely agree that it has a lot of appeal
           | for adults too, and that definitely helps.
        
         | simonsquiff wrote:
         | It's undoubtly a brilliant show for parents - in fact I'd
         | describe it as a show about parenting. But it's much more than
         | an adequate kids show, it's certainly top tier for my kids. My
         | 4 year old has been enormously influenced by Bluey, in a
         | positive way. She's very playful, and Bluey is all about fun
         | and silly games. She wants to play all the Bluey games, and
         | will riff off them too, it's been a huge source of inspiration
         | for lots of fun together. She loves the show, it's definitely
         | right up there for many kids too.
         | 
         | I also fully agree with the other posters saying how it's an
         | excellent model of top-tier fathering. It's definitely helped
         | me up my game, I've leaned much more into daddy-fun silly
         | games, partly because Bluey gives you a bunch of games that you
         | can copy (and your kids will understand), but also because it
         | helps encourage spontaneity and improv. I think my best advice
         | for dads with 3+ year olds is 'watch Bluey'
        
           | RobinL wrote:
           | I agree. Bluey is a great show. As a dad it can either make
           | you feel inadequate or motivate you to to better. You just
           | have to accept no dad can be Bandit all the time, but try to
           | be Bandit as much as possible.
        
             | sanderjd wrote:
             | Yeah, this. I love love love Bluey, but I also often think,
             | "get a job, Bandit!" :)
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | I'm fairly certain we only see the family during the
               | slices of time mom and/or dad have the to interact with
               | the kids. "Rug Island" alludes to the notion that when
               | Bandit goes to work, he may as well be going to a foreign
               | country as far as the kids know.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | He goes on a work trip at least once, and the episode
               | implies it's not an abnormal situation.
               | 
               | At least twice he's trying to get to work, so he doesn't
               | just work from home.
        
           | throwaway6734 wrote:
           | > She's very playful, and Bluey is all about fun and silly
           | games. She wants to play all the Bluey games, and will riff
           | off them too, it's been a huge source of inspiration for lots
           | of fun together.
           | 
           | Our daughter is the same. Pizza girls and tickle crab are two
           | of her favorite
        
         | michaelbuckbee wrote:
         | To be clear, Bluey was actually the most streamed show in 2024.
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | No way man. My kids _love_ Bluey. You 're right that they don't
         | understand why (or that) _we_ love Bluey _way more_ than the
         | other shows they also love (which mostly suck) but what 's so
         | brilliant about it is that it's top-tier for them, while
         | simultaneously being #1 (by a lot) for us.
        
       | dlachausse wrote:
       | What I really appreciate about Bluey is that it's one of the few
       | children's shows with a really great and relatable Dad character.
       | The Dad in most children's shows is either barely present or a
       | total idiot that nobody respects.
        
         | doh wrote:
         | Hear hear
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Bluey may have done more for fathers (and families) than
         | anything in recent history. So many are dealing with fatherhood
         | without having a role model themselves, and everything on TV
         | being "fat dumb lovable idiot" sitcom-types.
         | 
         | The episode "The Sign" is an incredibly deep story from
         | multiple angles.
        
           | zeroonetwothree wrote:
           | One of the best episodes of any show I've ever seen.
        
           | op00to wrote:
           | He also normalizes farting in your kids' faces. More
           | seriously, Bluey is so enjoyable because the characters have
           | dimensions and seem way more real than just about anything
           | else on TV.. at least that you'd watch with kids.
        
             | grepfru_it wrote:
             | The dad is who you want to aspire to be when you see his
             | relationship with his kids. Definitely sighup'd my idea of
             | parenting after watching a few episodes
        
               | op00to wrote:
               | I think it sets a high bar, which is ok because they also
               | show the parents at low points without making them look
               | pitiful or less worthy of love.
        
               | AuryGlenz wrote:
               | They also show them busy cleaning a lot, which is like
               | half of parenthood at that age.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Yup. Makes me think of that episode where they were
               | racing and Bandit just blatantly cheated to win. A low
               | point for him, but only makes him more relatable.
        
               | bag_boy wrote:
               | Absolutely.
               | 
               | Bandit is a fantastic role model and I have learned a lot
               | from this pretend dog dad lol.
               | 
               | My father is deceased. I feel like a lot of the advice he
               | would have given me, I picked up from watching Bluey.
        
               | jamesliudotcc wrote:
               | In the Flatpak episode, he rolls his eyes and states,
               | "I'm not taking advice from a cartoon dog!" The episode
               | is mostly about how Bluey takes after the parents in a
               | game where she's raising Bingo through adulthood while
               | they also go from fishes through dinosaurs to modern
               | humans, er, dogs.
               | 
               | This show is so good on so many levels.
        
               | autoexec wrote:
               | The writing in that episode is insane when you consider
               | how much they managed to pack into such a short run time.
               | The entire evolution of life and the building of society
               | complete with religion, the story a parent raising Bingo
               | before seeing her head off as an adult and then dying,
               | and also two parents fighting over cheap furniture
               | assembly and then making up. It all happens in just a few
               | minutes and much of the story will certainly go over the
               | heads of many young children watching the episode, but it
               | ends up being perfectly enjoyable to everyone anyway.
        
             | mcphage wrote:
             | > He also normalizes farting in your kids' faces.
             | 
             | ALLEGABLY!
        
               | HenryBemis wrote:
               | How on earth does this gets downvoted???? That (too) was
               | an amazing episode!!!
        
               | mcphage wrote:
               | It was really great... it's so dumb that Disney waited to
               | air it. My family still uses "On the morning of This
               | morning"
        
           | sklargh wrote:
           | Took me a year or two to realize I was benchmarking Bandit as
           | an optimal dad of two kids. It is a powerful influence.
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | Spent a bunch of time in a hospital looking after a relative
           | recently. It has a big maternity ward.
           | 
           | The number of young men I saw come in and out of the lobby
           | wearing Bluey t-shirts...
           | 
           | The kids are gonna be alright.
        
           | lukan wrote:
           | I like bandit, but for a role model he spoils his children a
           | bit too much I think. He allmost always does what the kid
           | wants and not what he actually wanted to do. Well, he is also
           | good at integrating it, like when he is doing exercises with
           | the kids instead of weights.
           | 
           | But sometimes he is literally fleeing the kids, to not have
           | to play with them, instead of saying no.
           | 
           | (But from the avaiable alternatives, he is indeed the best
           | role model that comes to mind)
        
             | conductr wrote:
             | Speaking for myself, that's exactly what makes it
             | relatable. My kid consumes all my time if I let him. And, I
             | often have to remind myself, this age is special and very
             | short - my hobbies and 'rest' will be available again soon.
             | I think the hard job of being a mom is well understood,
             | documented, portrayed in media, etc. But, as a dad, I'm
             | expected (by my kid) to be a tireless playmate matching his
             | energy levels, playing his games, being imaginative and
             | creative in my play, etc. and I don't think that type of
             | parenting is well portrayed in media. My wife and I have
             | spoken about it several time as we've fallen into pretty
             | traditional gender roles and she's "cool with cooking and
             | cleaning every evening, because [she] can't play the way
             | [I] do" and it's equally exhausting after a long day of
             | work/life/adulting.
        
               | josephg wrote:
               | I hear & see a bunch of my friends who have an only child
               | struggling with this. My sister has four kids now (which
               | is crazy). She says that in many ways it's easier with
               | more kids, because they play with each other. She barely
               | ever plays with them at all (which is a bit sad). But
               | because they have each other, she gets to spend all her
               | time being the adult in the room. It seems to be working
               | out - her kids are doing great.
               | 
               | She said it also really helps that they're a bit older
               | now. A 2 and a 4 year old have a much bigger age gap than
               | a 6 and 8 year old.
               | 
               | All that said, she still doesn't get much time pursuing
               | her hobbies. She says it's the after school activities
               | that do her in now.
        
               | bombcar wrote:
               | Her hobby is raising kids, she just might not realize it.
               | 
               | And yes, after a certain point more becomes easier -
               | after all, one teacher can handle a class of 20+
               | students.
               | 
               | The hardest is when the oldest are too young to help with
               | the youngest.
        
               | markus_zhang wrote:
               | Yeah I realized that a while go that some people just
               | like raising kids. Can't compete with those. One kid is
               | well enough for me.
        
             | Tade0 wrote:
             | He's still more real than the parental figure puppet in
             | Bing! (no relation to the MS product), who has no wants or
             | needs and has infinite patience.
             | 
             | In any case I don't think either of those shows tries to
             | portray the average - more of an ideal we should strive for
             | on good days.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | Watch carefully. There are many times he says no and the
             | kids just listen - often outright. But many times he gets
             | his way with a distraction - the "game" the episode is
             | named after.
             | 
             | It's also somewhat told from Bandit's perspective
             | (understandable given the author).
             | 
             | The episode "Burger Shop" is a good example of him not
             | getting his way at the same time he does, even though he
             | ends up admitting his experiment was a failure.
        
               | lukan wrote:
               | Oh, I didn't mean to imply he never says no and I like
               | his elaborate educational games, they are truly
               | inspiring. Just that quite often I get the feeling, I
               | would just say no and that's it. I love playing with my
               | kids, but not always. And I also don't like to fight with
               | them sonthey accept it, but bandit often seems to avoid
               | the fight by saying yes.
        
         | neal_jones wrote:
         | Never before has a dog made me feel so lacking as a father /s
        
           | markus_zhang wrote:
           | It's just doggies singing songs, mate.
        
             | patch_cable wrote:
             | It's not. And the fact that you think they sing songs makes
             | me think you've never watched it.
        
               | IanCal wrote:
               | I'm pretty certain that's a quote from Bandit.
        
               | patch_cable wrote:
               | Ah fair enough.
        
               | salicideblock wrote:
               | The post you replied to is a reference to Bandit saying
               | "it's just monkeys singing songs, mate", when he goes to
               | the movies with Bluey.
        
               | patch_cable wrote:
               | Ah I missed that. Fair enough then.
        
               | eru wrote:
               | The misunderstanding here shows that we need to be
               | careful with in-jokes and references in an asynchronous
               | medium. Even among people who have consumed the media in
               | question. It's even worse with the general public (or
               | even just general HN public).
        
               | patch_cable wrote:
               | Sorry, I didn't get the reference. I'm a moron. My bad.
        
               | markus_zhang wrote:
               | Don't worry, just for fun.
        
           | autoexec wrote:
           | I've seen parents complain that it sets an unrealistic
           | expectation for parents. That nobody could spend all their
           | time entertaining their kids whims and games the way Bandit
           | does and how you don't often see the parents really putting
           | their foot down or even having to work. I think some of the
           | push back is guilt/regret that it can't always be like that.
           | It's better to see it as something to aspire to when possible
           | than an expectation that things will be like that all the
           | time. The show is also careful to show the parents struggling
           | at times too and tries to encourage parents.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | It's not unrealistic!
             | 
             | I also can entertain my kids for 8 minutes a day!
        
         | silisili wrote:
         | I like it for that reason. It's one of the few shows that we
         | can watch as a family with the kid laughing at the kids and me
         | paying more attention to the parents.
         | 
         | I'm always impressed by TV or movies that can pull that off,
         | usually one or the other of us finds the content uninteresting.
        
         | ashton314 wrote:
         | _I am NOT taking advice from a cartoon dog!_ --Bandit Heeler,
         | episode "Flatpack" I think
         | 
         | Bandit is the dad all of us dads wish we could be.
        
         | danielvaughn wrote:
         | Yeah that stood out to me as well. There's a kind of reverse-
         | bechdel test where you can ask yourself to find any portrayal
         | of a husband that doesn't include mockery of some kind. And you
         | can actually go back pretty far with it - it seems like that
         | general trend began in the 70's. Like you have I Love Lucy,
         | which was a bit of a sexist show in its own right of course,
         | but the husband wasn't portrayed as incompetent. I can't think
         | of a more recent example, aside from Bluey.
        
           | yellowstuff wrote:
           | I believe that Happy Days started the trend in the 70s, with
           | Mr. Cunningham being portrayed more realistically than
           | earlier TV fathers. Allegedly (I can't find a source) an
           | executive said "He doesn't look like a father. He looks like
           | _my_ father. "
           | 
           | https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Bumbling_Dad
           | 
           | However, in the 80s there were still examples of mostly
           | competent fathers, like The Cosby Show and Family Ties.
        
             | danielvaughn wrote:
             | Yeah fair, and there's actually some I can think of from
             | the 90's, like Family Matters and Full House.
        
           | eru wrote:
           | > There's a kind of reverse-bechdel test where you can ask
           | yourself to find any portrayal of a husband that doesn't
           | include mockery of some kind.
           | 
           | Are you restricting yourself to family sit-coms?
           | 
           | If not, there's plenty of characters in all kinds of media
           | that just happen to be fathers and/or husbands and are
           | treated normally.
           | 
           | But I agree with your general sentiment. That's one of the
           | reasons I hate Peppa pig with a passion.
           | 
           | You might (or might not) like the treatment of Hilda's dad in
           | the third season of the animated series.
        
           | spectralglitch wrote:
           | Hal from Malcom holds up pretty well, quirky and flawed of
           | course, but all in all a great father and husband. though
           | it's admittedly been a while since I went through it.
        
           | majormajor wrote:
           | "Any portrayal of a husband" on TV?
           | 
           | Comedies often have some mockery built in, and comedies aimed
           | at kids in particular like to take shots at authority, but
           | there are a lot of examples I can think of in just the
           | general-TV-millenial-vibe-y things I've watched over the past
           | couple of decades. More than the "bumbling dad" type, I'd
           | say, from things I've seen in the zeitgeist (I guess one
           | recent super typical example is Rick and Morty, though
           | everyone sucks there):
           | 
           | * Arrested Development: Michael is the most competent of the
           | bunch. His father was also quite competent, if an asshole and
           | eventual criminal. But, you know, that put the "sit" in
           | sitcom...
           | 
           | * Luke from Gilmore Girls is pretty consistently more sane
           | than Lorelai, turns out to be a good dad too IIRC; other
           | fathers include a loser and a number of very successful
           | businessmen, teachers, etc.
           | 
           | * King of the Hill: doing his best, often the most sane of
           | the bunch
           | 
           | * Bob's Burgers: haven't watched a ton of this but from what
           | I've seen Bob is a goofball but respectable and wholesome,
           | kinda a Hank Hill. Not a lazy Homer
           | 
           | * Parks and Rec: Ben Wyatt is a pretty positive character
           | 
           | * Brooklyn 99: Terry is practically a superman of competence
           | and seems to hold is own with his wife and kids. Holt is a
           | supremely competent husband. Boyle is a goofball generally
           | and in dating, but that does not really extend to his
           | eventual marriage and child, where he seems to be doing quite
           | well.
           | 
           | * Schitt's Creek: Johnny is the competent center of the
           | family surrounded by comically exaggerated crazy wife + kids
           | 
           | Dramas seem even further away. Where do Breaking Bad or the
           | Sopranos land?
        
             | mikepurvis wrote:
             | Add Keith from Veronica Mars to the list-- he's an absolute
             | rock for her and manages well the balance between being
             | protective while also letting her go her own way.
        
           | Boogie_Man wrote:
           | I think Tim Allen's character from Home Improvement was
           | unique in that he was a father who frequently made comedic
           | mistakes, but that they resulted from over ambition or
           | carelessness rather than standard stupidity, and his "pig
           | headed machismo" was often a bit of an act rather than who
           | the character really "was" as evidenced by his ability to be
           | thoughtful and sensitive after he learned lessons.
        
             | sylens wrote:
             | This is a great point - behind the TV persona as the Tool
             | Man, Tim's character was a pretty competent and genuine
             | father
        
         | ip26 wrote:
         | Perhaps the reason it works is because the dad character isn't
         | an overplayed masculine ideal, and therefore fresh.
         | 
         | I personally suspect one reason for the "bumbling dad" trope is
         | the "classically ideal dad" is everywhere in stories, and thus
         | becomes boring.
         | 
         | Subverting the conventional power figure is also played for
         | laughs a lot, while Bluey doesn't ask us to laugh _at_ anyone.
        
         | johnnyanmac wrote:
         | True, even back in my day the closest thing to a father figure
         | would have been Steve from Blues Clues. But he was always coded
         | more as an uncle/big brother instead.
        
         | rubiquity wrote:
         | I remember reading somewhere that one of the motives for Bluey
         | was to encourage Australian fathers to be more involved with
         | their children. As a father myself, I recall many times
         | watching the show and being like "damn that's a good dad."
        
         | ohthehugemanate wrote:
         | On the other hand, Bandit is a TERRIBLE employee.
        
           | closewith wrote:
           | A lesson for us all, TBH.
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | I'm not even sure what his job is. I think he's an
           | accountant.
        
             | bdash wrote:
             | Doctor Bandit Heeler is an archeologist.
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uiv_V7QOy3A
        
       | sylens wrote:
       | Different Bluey episodes resonate with different people for
       | different reasons, but the Cricket episode from Season 3 is just
       | about as perfect an episode of a kid's show as I've ever seen. In
       | about 7 minutes it manages to tackle how being passionate about
       | one of your interests or hobbies and sticking with it even when
       | you experience setbacks pays off.
        
         | grokkedit wrote:
         | my god cricket is the best episode, and it's crazy that no
         | information about any character is even remotely needed to
         | appreciate it
         | 
         | the authors created a great character in rusty
        
           | yannyu wrote:
           | Fun fact, Rusty was originally going to be the main
           | character. And if you put Bluey next to Rusty, you'll see
           | they're the same shape, just colored differently.
           | 
           | And yeah, absolutely amazing episode.
        
           | whatusername wrote:
           | I'll echo this for anyone else in the comments -- You can
           | watch the cricket episode with 0 knowledge of the show and 0
           | knowledge of cricket. If you haven't ever seen Bluey - it's a
           | great example as to why so many speak so highly of it. If you
           | haven't seen bluey but want to see what the fuss is (and
           | especially if you have _any_ interest in sports) -- it 's
           | only 7 minutes long and absolutely worth watching.
        
         | relaxing wrote:
         | The way they leave it up to the viewer to infer the reason
         | Rusty practiced cricket on so many different surfaces was
         | because his dad was stationed in Iraq in the Australian Army
         | and therefore wasn't around to pick him up after school is
         | heart-wrenching, perfect writing.
        
           | sylens wrote:
           | But even if you remove that element - something I think all
           | of us can relate to is loving a sport or a hobby so much as a
           | kid that you use every free moment you have doing it,
           | practicing it, getting better at it. I felt a similar way
           | about basketball as a kid; and even though I didn't play much
           | past high school, I saw a bit of my younger self in Rusty.
        
         | yesthisiswes wrote:
         | The cricket episode is so good! It gets me everytime.
        
         | disillusioned wrote:
         | Cricket is, bar none, the best episode of children's television
         | ever produced. (Chess is also _fantastic_.) It's so good, I've
         | made adults watch it without a child in the room. It's a
         | perfect short story: the backstory character development, the
         | heartstring-pulling deployed father, the overcoming challenges
         | and stepping into them, the letting his sister have a win, the
         | adults recognizing that's what he's done, and then the coup de
         | grace, the flash forward to Rusty as a professional cricket
         | player. "_That's_ what cricket's about, kid."
         | 
         | It's brilliant at every level. Such a perfect piece of
         | television, told in this flawless 7 minutes.
        
           | sota_pop wrote:
           | Personally, i find all episodes with flash forwards choke me
           | up. However, i mostly agree, cricket is a particularly good
           | one.
        
       | markus_zhang wrote:
       | Bluey is the best kids show we found.
       | 
       | Or, maybe it's the best show for the parents. I'm literally
       | watching it by myself after my kid goes to bed.
       | 
       | I really appreciate that the show doesn't hesitate to include
       | some ordinary parenting interactions like Muffin took Stripe's
       | phone and he chased her through the whole house, and Bandit
       | making shenanigans.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | I think "FaceyTime" might be one of the best examples of where
         | they COULD have gone standard and instead, went gold.
         | 
         | It COULD have ended with a timeout and then Muffin being sulky
         | and then cheering up, but it didn't.
         | 
         | It COULD have ended with "Mom's right, Dad's wrong," but it
         | didn't.
         | 
         | It ended with gold.
         | 
         | (The use of the cousins to display other child activities is
         | also brilliant, they can have "bratty Muffin" without forcing
         | Bingo or Bluey to be "overly bratty".)
        
           | markus_zhang wrote:
           | Yeah there was really a lot of thoughts going into that
           | episode.
           | 
           | They don't have to show the ukulele but showing it confirms
           | Muffin's characteristics.
           | 
           | They don't have to show Bandit stretching himself at the
           | beginning of the episode, either.
           | 
           | Also the multi window camera is a bit unique but fun. I'm
           | surprised how they managed to pull that out without making a
           | whole mess when Muffin starts running.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | As the family tech guy, I felt it when the screen started
             | going bonkers as Muffin ran through the various wifi areas.
             | 
             | And that final sad flip and dive ... pocketbooks not yet
             | BORN felt that one.
        
         | RALaBarge wrote:
         | I and my kids like Daniel Tiger, but admittedly I watched a lot
         | of Mr. Rogers
        
         | legitster wrote:
         | I'd also like to nominate the Mickey Mouse shorts by Paul
         | Rudish.
         | 
         | They flew under a lot of people's radar, but was quietly one of
         | the most brilliant set of modern animations. They are well
         | made, packed with jokes, weird, are a love letter to Chuck
         | Jones era cartoons, and managed to bring back personalities to
         | all of these corporate characters.
        
       | paxys wrote:
       | My family loves Bluey, but considering we're at the stage where
       | an entertainment publication is describing it as a "$2B
       | juggernaut", I'm afraid American capitalism is well on its way to
       | ruining another good thing.
        
         | OccamsMirror wrote:
         | I think Joe Brumm stepping down is a signal that the magic is
         | gone and the suits at Disney have taken over. Oh well, at least
         | a handful of people got to become really really rich.
        
           | sanderjd wrote:
           | This makes me sad :(
           | 
           | But there are already so many great episodes!
        
         | Apocryphon wrote:
         | Technically it's an Australian production
        
       | johng wrote:
       | I loved the Hank the cowdog books when I was a kid. Anyone else?
        
         | gallamine wrote:
         | All my kids listen to those audiobooks on repeat. Narrated (and
         | sung!) buy the author.
        
         | paradox460 wrote:
         | Yup. They've become somewhat difficult to acquire through
         | legitimate means, unfortunately
        
       | jboggan wrote:
       | One thing I really appreciate about the show is the music - so
       | many of the best episodes are extended musical variations on
       | great themes from classical music, and done so skillfully that
       | you don't realize you're listening to Mozart's "Rondo Alla Turca"
       | or Saint-Saens' "Organ Symphony" until you're at the emotional
       | climax of the episode when the entire piece is restated, which
       | has been priming you for a big theme or breakthrough in the
       | story.
       | 
       | This is strongest in the "Sleepytime" episode which is based on
       | the "Jupiter" movement of Holst's "The Planets" . . . honestly I
       | have to skip this episode when it comes up because it makes me
       | tear up so much, and most parents I know who also watch the show
       | have similar reactions. "Sleepytime" is really art.
        
         | phillmv wrote:
         | oh wow we watched this episode a few days ago; i missed the
         | Holst connection, and yes I also felt tears in my eyes at the
         | denouement. definitely hugged my kids harder after that one.
        
           | danielvaughn wrote:
           | I've seen the episode a few times with my infant daughter,
           | and honestly it might be my favorite tv episode of any show,
           | ever.
        
         | simonsquiff wrote:
         | Oh yes the music is amazing. 'Rain' is a particularly lovely
         | original composition. The soundtracks are on Spotify etc and
         | well worth a listen
        
           | thefreeman wrote:
           | rain is my favorite episode. it so perfectly encapsulates the
           | curiosity and innocence of childhood and the music is
           | incredible. so much emotion for an episode with basically no
           | dialogue.
        
             | NoNotTheDuo wrote:
             | I'm particularly fond of 'Sleepytime', but 'Rain' is
             | probably the episode that I've thought of more often than
             | any other. Because of that 7 minute cartoon episode, I have
             | found myself _actively_ changing my behavior/decisions with
             | my kiddo - letting them do something that will be a bit
             | more work for me later on (extra laundry or whatever), but
             | something that sparks their curiosity or gives them a new
             | experience or similar.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Same here. After watching it and then looping the "Boldly
               | in the Pretend" (official song to "Rain" music), my
               | attitude to parenting and many specific behaviors changed
               | pretty much overnight.
               | 
               | (For one, I realized we're both too harsh about kiddos
               | getting dirty and making a mess. The other big thing was,
               | it made me decide to make playground after kindergarten a
               | priority _more important than work_.)
               | 
               | Beyond parenting, that story and song connected me with
               | _my own inner child_ , and had me realize I might be
               | taking this "adulting" thing _way_ too seriously. Work,
               | play, it 's still the same game - we're still just
               | "racing those boats down the road to the end".
               | 
               | Can't think of anything else in my life that managed to
               | break me down and put back together differently so
               | quickly.
        
         | amarcheschi wrote:
         | There was a similar cartoon about ~2 decades ago, that had
         | classical pieces. Little Einsteins. I loved that
        
         | jvanderbot wrote:
         | Sleepy time is amazing television. Kudos for the callout and I
         | hope people don't pass Bluey on their way to the brainrot. It's
         | amazing stuff.
        
         | sklargh wrote:
         | "Sleepytime" is right up there with BSG's "33", Veep's
         | "Testimony" or The American's "S.T.A.R.T" - it's truly
         | excellent television.
        
           | myko wrote:
           | Can I add Bojack Horseman's "Fish Out of Water" to this list?
        
         | stronglikedan wrote:
         | Damn I wish I slept as good as any of them did! I can totally
         | relate to the milling around the house in the middle of the
         | night part.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | I appreciate that the subtitles, at least on the DVDs we have,
         | often tell you the name of the music.
        
           | NotYourLawyer wrote:
           | They don't on streaming. I'm always having to google it.
        
         | xattt wrote:
         | Chili's line is perfectly delivered. It sums up a parent's love
         | so concisely.
         | 
         | I make sure my kids hear it every so often, knowing that one
         | day it will click on an emotional level and they realize what I
         | truly mean.
        
         | Paul_Clayton wrote:
         | For some reason -- I am musically incompetent -- "The Beach"
         | really felt like the soundtrack was very emotive in a way that
         | fit the story.
         | 
         | The stately feel in "Sleepytime" may have fit the solar system
         | motif and provided contrast to the earthy elements of the
         | story.
         | 
         | I liked "Sleepytime" in part from the expression of letting go
         | while being faithful. Bingo's letting her rabbit go did not
         | mean a complete separation but an expansion (as a few
         | additional rabbits came to help later) similar to a parent
         | allowing a child to grow up and leave while affirming that the
         | child is loved.
         | 
         |  _Bluey_ also has some similarity to _Calvin and Hobbes_ in
         | that some fantastic elements are not explained. E.g., in
         | "Sleepytime", do Bluey and Bingo have a psychic connection such
         | that they shared part of the dream or is there
         | imagination/unreliable narration or some third option?
        
           | danielvaughn wrote:
           | The music really is top-notch. I'm no aficionado, but I
           | remember watching a video breakdown of Stayin Alive by The
           | Bee Gees. If I had guessed, I would've said that there were
           | maybe 3-4 instruments in that song. But actually there are
           | like 15 things going on simultaneously. The video showed how
           | critical each one was, and how the mixing produced that
           | distinct sound.
           | 
           | Now I can hear things a bit better, and Bluey's music makes
           | me think of that video every time. There's so much going on
           | melodically and yet they blend it so well that you don't
           | really notice. It's amazing.
        
         | atonse wrote:
         | This is what stuck out to me when I first watched it.
         | Sleepytime is a masterpiece not only for the music but the
         | whole episode. Everything about it is perfect. The pacing, the
         | feelings, the moments, even the humor (Jupiter's giant spot).
         | 
         | It gets me every single time.
         | 
         | Many bluey episodes are like this. But Sleepytime especially
         | stands out.
        
           | prismatic wrote:
           | Agreed. My three-year-old's favorite episode, by far.
           | Realizing how artistically ambitious and just plain good
           | Bluey is has been an interesting lesson in how kids actually
           | do have good taste/interesting preferences as long as you
           | don't bombard them with the Cocomelons of the world.
           | 
           | My daughter likes to say "that makes me happy... _and_ sad! "
           | at the end of a particularly artistic episode, like
           | Sleepytime, the wordless one where it rains, or the final
           | episode ("The Sign" - the _Citizen Kane_ of children 's
           | television).
        
             | peanutz454 wrote:
             | Rain and Rainbow... the best music ever, even among all of
             | Bluey episodes. That episodes takes me back to my
             | childhood. Just listen to these:
             | 
             | Rain - https://youtu.be/U7Pvxqe2JvM
             | 
             | Rainbow - https://youtu.be/j1E8C_qLjbk
        
         | _pastel wrote:
         | Bike is the one that gets me - when the full Ode to Joy hits I
         | tear up every time.
        
           | ToucanLoucan wrote:
           | "Sometimes, special people come into our lives, stay for a
           | bit, and then they have to go"
           | 
           | As a kid who grew up poor and moved around a lot as mom tried
           | to make ends meet, this episode fucking obliterated me.
           | Goddamn 36 year old watching a neighbor's kids having to
           | explain that I'm fine, don't worry, to a couple of very
           | confused littles.
        
             | jsmeaton wrote:
             | The "hello Bluey" at the end gets me every time.
        
               | ToucanLoucan wrote:
               | God my eyes are hot just thinking about it!
        
               | lproven wrote:
               | It's lovely, isn't it?
               | 
               | My daughter's amazement that I can translate the French
               | bits of dialogue from Jean-Luc were a joy, too. :-) But
               | that made me appreciate the scriptwriting more -- because
               | almost everything Jean-Luc says, Bluey _also_ says,
               | independently, so it works if -- like my wife and kid --
               | you don't know a word of French.
        
             | SkittlesNTwix wrote:
             | You're a survivor. I hope things are easier and more stable
             | for you these days.
        
         | SkittlesNTwix wrote:
         | It's a beautiful and special show. As a parent, this one will
         | always resonate with me.
         | 
         | I Know a Place (The Creek Song)
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2zfr21Yumo
        
         | base698 wrote:
         | Thanks for the recommendation. Watched that before bedtime with
         | my 3 year old. Somehow we had not seen that one.
         | 
         | Love the music in Beach and Fruit Bat as well.
        
         | billti wrote:
         | The sound designer goes over their use of this type of music in
         | this excellent podcast. You'd really enjoy it. (Available Apple
         | Podcasts, which is where I listened to it, but linking directly
         | here).
         | 
         | The next one about the voices is excellent too, so linking
         | both. The care they put into both the show and the people
         | involved is almost as touching as the show itself.
         | 
         | https://www.20k.org/episodes/thesoundofbluey
         | https://www.20k.org/episodes/thevoicesofbluey
        
         | eru wrote:
         | > One thing I really appreciate about the show is the music
         | [...]
         | 
         | The music is great but many shows have great music. What makes
         | Bluey stand out for me is their commitment to 'avant-garde'
         | formal constraints.
         | 
         | Some examples:
         | 
         | - In the episode 'Faceytalk' they never once break from the
         | perspective of the iPad.
         | 
         | - In 'Rain' there's not a single word of audible dialog.
         | 
         | - In 'Turtle Boy' there's lots of sign language. Remember,
         | characters in Bluey only have four fingers. The people making
         | the show rose to the challenge of creating proper dialogue
         | using only signs you can make with four fingers. I imagine
         | that's about equivalent to writing English text without the
         | latter 'e'. (See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Void)
        
           | prismatic wrote:
           | Love this comment. Had never thought about Bluey and Oulipo
           | in the same sentence before, but you're definitely on to
           | something.
        
             | eru wrote:
             | I only noticed the brilliance of Faceytalk when I looked
             | over the shoulder of my daughter watching a recreation of
             | the episode someone had done with merch dolls and put up on
             | YouTube Kids.
             | 
             | The recreation sadly broke the strict rule of 'singe take /
             | no cuts, iPad view only', but that drove home to me how
             | great the original was.
        
           | disillusioned wrote:
           | The behind the scenes of Rain shows just how many effects
           | shots they animated, and just how laborious the process was:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GYwru8RdGQ
           | 
           | They also break the 4th wall specifically by showing the
           | animator's point of view in a really fun sequence at the end
           | of Puppets, and it's just... such a treat:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhvVl0CW670
        
             | eru wrote:
             | Thanks!
        
           | worthless-trash wrote:
           | From YT:
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | Video unavailable
           | 
           | The uploader has not made this video available in your
           | country.
           | 
           | --
           | 
           | Wow, bluey team, not available. IN AUSTRALIA. Thanks.
        
             | eru wrote:
             | If anything, I would expect Bluey to be less available on
             | YouTube in Australia than in some other random country,
             | because they are more likely to have special local
             | arrangements there with the rights holders.
             | 
             | YouTube is convenient, but it's not the only place where
             | people might want to put their content.
        
               | worthless-trash wrote:
               | Oh for sure, but this is a behind the scenes.. from what
               | I was lead to believe, I don't think ive seen this
               | locally anywhere else.
        
           | knolan wrote:
           | This reminded me. There was an episode of Modern Family made
           | entirely on Apple devices.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | Can't mention 'Rain' without linking to the official song
           | composed to the music from that episode - "Boldly in the
           | Pretend": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwhXgxriJPY.
           | 
           | I broke down in tears the first time I listened to it and
           | paid attention to lyrics.
           | 
           | (Then I put it on a loop when everyone was asleep, and cried
           | a couple times more. This episode combined with the song
           | caused a major adjustment in my attitude to parenting pretty
           | much overnight; it hit a nerve running that deep.)
        
             | noman-land wrote:
             | This is a really sweet story. Thanks for sharing it. Out of
             | curiosity, what was the adjustment you made in your
             | parenting? Being more playful or something?
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | The major thing was realizing my wife and I care _way_
               | too much about kids getting dirty in play. This came
               | mostly from being overwhelmed by laundry and cleaning up
               | (and sand, _sand f-in everywhere_ ).
               | 
               | The other big thing was, I grew so fixated about my own
               | job and various adult stuff, that I actually kind of
               | hated the playground, and often felt impatient when
               | playing (wanting to get back to million unfinished adult
               | things). I got stuck in a self-centered and rather sad
               | mode of thinking, and with my wife going through her own
               | hardships, we found it too easy to just let the kids do
               | jigsaws or play with bricks, rather than playing with
               | them or taking them somewhere.
               | 
               | The song broke me down, and broke me out of my various
               | mental loops, long enough to realize how deeply
               | unsatisfied I am with how I act as a parent. Not just in
               | the usual, system-2 "I realize my performance is
               | suboptimal, I vow to improve it" way. I actually _felt_
               | the weight of everything, of how much we, how much growth
               | and happiness _I_ am denying our girls, and it flipped
               | something in me permanently that night. Adult problems
               | were still there, but I suddenly felt I really _want_ to
               | play more, and I absolutely _want_ to take them to
               | playground, which became priority more important than
               | work, and generally made me stress a little less about
               | everything. And so I did stay on the playground the next
               | day, and I loved it, and things really got better and
               | happier for everyone from that day on.
               | 
               | Specific things: we stopped minding the sand that much -
               | which meant we started going to the _other_ playground
               | nearby, that 's mostly built inside a big sandbox. Kids
               | love it. And I started to engage with some of the more
               | absurd imaginary stories my older daughter comes up with,
               | to her great delight. And ever since, there was no more
               | "can't do X/Y/Z, daddy needs to finish something for
               | work" - I decided that, in Muffin's words, "this is
               | unacceptable!"[0].
               | 
               | It's hard to put into words. It probably all sounds
               | mundane from the outside, but inside of me, the change
               | was as profound as it was unexpected. Switches flipped,
               | priorities realigned, emotions purged.
               | 
               | This was a big thing for me. But there's a lot of smaller
               | things I took away from Bluey, too, that I feel makes me
               | a better parent. It's truly a special show.
               | 
               | --
               | 
               | [0] - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RqAlhCUgAVI
        
               | kbrownlees wrote:
               | Amazing write up thank you. If you haven't already tried
               | you may enjoy the how other dad's dad podcast by Hamish
               | Blake. It definitely has some things in it which may
               | change your perspective.
        
           | sandworm101 wrote:
           | The no-dialogue thing is an industry trick. It can allow for
           | animation to start prior to the vocals being recorded and
           | therefore provide some wiggle room in the production process.
           | Simpsons did something similar with the couch gags which were
           | detached from the plot and so could be worked on regardless
           | of vocal progress. More recently, Bojack Horseman also had a
           | no-dialogue episode.
        
         | ksynwa wrote:
         | Their original musical is top notch too. I am not an expert on
         | music but I was watching the music video for Rain and it hit
         | home how much talent and effort they put in it.
        
         | rasjani wrote:
         | Twenty Thousand Hertz (sound design podcast) had episode about
         | Bluey with its sound designer Dan Brumm last year.
         | 
         | https://www.20k.org/episodes/thesoundofbluey
        
         | dvsfish wrote:
         | I remember one of the bluey episodes (something to do with
         | monkey bars?) used ode to joy a few times throughout, and in
         | the credits simply had "music by Ludwig". A very cute nod.
        
         | iab wrote:
         | Sleepytime is the best episode of any show I've ever seen
        
         | TravisPeacock wrote:
         | Just a little Easter egg: The guy that does the music for Bluey
         | plays the musician.
        
         | montroser wrote:
         | Yes, "Sleepytime" is one of the greatest few minutes of
         | television the world has ever seen. It exhibits such deep
         | empathy and understanding of what it is to be a parent of small
         | children, what it is to be a child, a sibling, a member of a
         | family, to dream, to tire, to need. And "The Planets", a
         | beautiful work of art in its own right, fits so well it must be
         | itself an inspiration for the story on the screen.
        
           | SecretDreams wrote:
           | Sleepytime is a beautiful episode!
        
         | sandworm101 wrote:
         | The first episode I ever sat down to watch caught my attention
         | because it used 'In the Hall of the Mountain King' throughout.
         | That isnt typical of kids entertainment.
        
         | codeduck wrote:
         | Bluey learning to ride her bike to the slow building of the Ode
         | to Joy was a moment of profound and innocent joy for me.
        
       | bitwize wrote:
       | I and especially my sister grew up on Sesame Street, Mister
       | Rogers, and a near endless supply of low-key foreign animation
       | shown through that primordial Nickelodeon show, Pinwheel. (The
       | Magic Roundabout, Paddington Bear, that sort of thing.) The
       | difference in quality between children's programming then and
       | more recently was such that when my nephew was little, my sister
       | outright banned him from watching certain "age-appropriate" shows
       | and even entire networks like Nickelodeon.
       | 
       | It's refreshing to see shows like Bluey that are thoroughly
       | modern, but produced with old-school values: respect kids'
       | intelligence, show positive role models, be realistic about
       | feelings and conflict, and keep everything low-key and don't amp
       | the kids up.
        
       | alberth wrote:
       | Bluey is like Seinfeld.
       | 
       | It's timeless, everyone gets a laugh (including parents) and is a
       | "show about nothing" (just the daily lives of family dynamics).
       | 
       | As a parent, I really appreciate the show and no other show can
       | compare.
       | 
       | (For those who haven't seen it, it's more akin to a family sitcom
       | than a traditional kids show/cartoon)
        
         | hnlmorg wrote:
         | > For those who haven't seen it, it's more akin to a family
         | sitcom than a traditional kids show/cartoon
         | 
         | That's a really good way of describing it.
         | 
         | It really does have that kind of vibe to it.
        
         | WorldMaker wrote:
         | Some of this comes from watching Bluey in a literal fever binge
         | and believing I wrote a PhD dissertation on the show because it
         | touched so many half-forgotten things from my Masters Degree's
         | "individual studies": I think an interesting thing to Bluey is
         | that it is not just a "show about nothing". It's not just the
         | daily lives and family dynamics, it actually has a central
         | point embedded in even the studio name (Ludo Studios), which is
         | the importance of _play_ and _games_ (Ludo relates to the latin
         | for _play_ from which we also get modern fancy terms like
         | ludology, the study of games, and ludonarrative dissonance, the
         | difference between what a game 's story is trying to tell and
         | what its mechanics and play style is telling), not just for
         | _fun_ (but also for fun), but in learning good conflict
         | resolution and safely exploring your identity and your
         | relationships with others and things you might want to be or
         | grow up to do and understanding complex systems by analyzing
         | their rulesets and playstyles and more.
         | 
         | There's always at least one game in every episode. It hit me
         | early in my fever dream of a binge watch: _even_ the intro is
         | itself a game. One of the many simple  "freeze"/"simon
         | says"/"red light/green light"/"musical chairs" variants (the
         | show calls it "statues" in one episode), dance while the music
         | plays and freeze when the music stops and if you move while you
         | are supposed to be frozen you lose. (I cheered loudly at the
         | first episode where Bluey doesn't win the intro game. It was a
         | lovely reward for never skipping the intro.)
         | 
         | There's so many good lessons about games as a lifelong tool
         | scattered across nearly every episode, as a part of what makes
         | the family dynamics so bright and exciting.
        
           | ksynwa wrote:
           | Ludo is also the name of a very popular board game
        
         | ip26 wrote:
         | It might just be their daily lives, but every single story has
         | a memorable point, which is significant and distinct.
         | "Shadowland" is a clear & more obvious example.
        
       | quercusa wrote:
       | So, better than Caillou?
        
         | manmal wrote:
         | For parents, most definitely. I have a hard time sitting
         | through a Caillou episode. Bluey is also way more authentic, in
         | that interactions could really happen exactly like that in real
         | life. Compared directly, Caillou seems synthetic.
        
         | Gothmog69 wrote:
         | is it nicer to lick a cupcake than satan's asshole?
        
       | mandalorianer wrote:
       | I don't why Bluey is so popular whereas almost nobody knows "Pete
       | the cat" which has a way better message to kids, families,
       | siblings.
        
         | Cyph0n wrote:
         | +1. I think Bluey is great for parents, but I can think of many
         | shows that are better for children. Better in the sense that
         | they teach children how to deal with challenges at their age
         | and how to navigate the world around them.
        
           | mcphage wrote:
           | What are some that you enjoy?
        
             | Cyph0n wrote:
             | It depends on age, but almost anything by PBS Kids is
             | excellent. Prime and Netflix have a few good ones too.
             | 
             | Some good shows I found for my son:
             | 
             | * Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood - spiritual spinoff from Mr.
             | Rogers' Neighborhood
             | 
             | * Elinor Wonders Why
             | 
             | * Word World
             | 
             | * Peg + Cat
             | 
             | * Numberblocks and Alphablocks for learning about numbers
             | and words
             | 
             | * Guess How Much I Love You
             | 
             | * Trash Truck
             | 
             | * Hero Elementary
             | 
             | * Mecha Builders
             | 
             | * Stillwater
             | 
             | * Sid the Science Kid
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | Numberblocks goes hard in the later seasons, but sadly
               | Netflix no longer has those.
               | 
               | I really enjoyed the adaptation of El Deafo on AppleTV.
               | Its brilliant use of audio effects to explain the
               | evolving technology of the little girl's hearing aids had
               | me in tears.
        
               | youainti wrote:
               | Colourblocks is another great one from the BBC. The two
               | things I really like about CB and NB is that
               | 
               | 1. they are designed to be part of a curriculum and so
               | they build across episodes. 2. Every so often the
               | songwriters decide to remind you that they are capable
               | and not just ripping off old songs like other shows do.
        
               | mcphage wrote:
               | I do like the Stillwater show, but I am still
               | disappointed that they replaced the Zen and eastern
               | stories from the books with more generic western tales.
        
         | DavidPeiffer wrote:
         | Pete the Cat is also great, however the 7 minute Bluey episodes
         | (and ~3 minute "minisodes") is very nice. Pete the Cat runs 23
         | minutes.
         | 
         | All that said, I have been known to adjust the playback speed
         | on YouTube to get the total play length of Bluey to a
         | convenient length for a given situation.
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | Pete the Cat is fine, but it just doesn't hold a candle to
         | Bluey, sorry!
        
       | dustbunny wrote:
       | My favorite episodes are Army, Sleepy Time
        
       | mmmlinux wrote:
       | Am I the only one that thinks it's crazy that an extremely
       | popular children's show, with all kinds of merch and what not. is
       | _only_ worth 2B. When websites are getting sold in the 10s of B
       | range.
        
         | markus_zhang wrote:
         | Wait until some VC or other funds jump on the wagon.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Media like TV shows, etc, is easy to exactly work out how much
         | "it'll make" - in merchandising, movie deals, etc. Especially
         | when established.
         | 
         | Websites and businesses are much harder to predict. You might
         | have the next Google, or you might have the next Pets dot com.
        
         | geodel wrote:
         | You may be only one. Because businesses that deal in pure
         | software/vaporware have been priced much higher for long time
         | compare to businesses that deal with lot of people / physical
         | products.
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | Ha good point. If there was any justice in the world, Bluey
         | would be worth about as much as Amazon.
        
         | youainti wrote:
         | $2B across approximately 40 hours of content. That puts each 7
         | minute episode at value of about $5.8 million.
        
       | john2x wrote:
       | A couple of other great kid/parent shows:
       | 
       | - Hilda on Netflix - more appropriate for 9+ year olds but my 5
       | year old loves it. Has some genuinely scary moments though
       | especially the later seasons - The Gruffalo, Stick Man, Snail and
       | the Whale, etc - based on the books - Avatar the Last Airbender -
       | for older kids but has one of the best character arcs
        
         | elsonrodriguez wrote:
         | Same here, it's been so difficult to find good shows after
         | Bluey and Avatar. The gap between those two shows and
         | everything else is almost breathtaking.
        
         | prawn wrote:
         | Maybe review for appropriateness for your kids, but my kids and
         | I like watching these little animal shorts.
         | 
         | https://www.naturalhabitatshorts.com/shorts
         | 
         | We quote this one especially all the time.
         | https://www.naturalhabitatshorts.com/shorts?pgid=ku471zfv-b9...
         | "Gerald... That's not a proper hello."       "Jason, get in
         | there."
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | Yes! We also love Hilda. It's not great in the relatable way
         | Bluey is, but it's just good art, in a way that is also
         | appealing to kids.
        
         | donatj wrote:
         | Hilda is absolutely fantastic! I enjoy it and my daughter is
         | enthralled by it.
         | 
         | Steven Universe is a similar and fantastic show. Maybe a little
         | more mature, particularly in later seasons, but I'm more than
         | happy to let my young kids watch it. I didn't particularly
         | enjoy the follow up Steven University Future however.
         | 
         | For Younger kids, Puffin Rock is unbeatable in my book.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | Seconding Puffin Rock. It's like the opposite of all the
           | other kids shows - where they tend to stimulate kids to
           | larger or smaller degree, Puffin Rock is so _calming_ that
           | just listening to it in the background makes _me_ relaxed.
        
       | bag_boy wrote:
       | I became a better parent from watching the show.
       | 
       | I take role playing with my daughter more seriously now.
       | 
       | I used to feel a little uncomfortable being really silly (hard
       | after a stressful day).
       | 
       | Now I try to embrace how silly she is and try to play along. It
       | takes A LOT more concentration.
       | 
       | What a wonderful show. Contrast this with Cocomelon, which is
       | basically screen crack for kids.
       | 
       | I hate that my daughter watched one second of Cocomelon!
        
       | fma wrote:
       | Can we get a discussion going on where other parents are finding
       | high quality media for kids to consume? YouTube Kids is a
       | definite no. YT Kids feels like it's intentionally made to
       | brainwash your child and having unsuspecting parents let their
       | guard down with the "Kids" in the app name. From my
       | experimentation it is far worse than regular YouTube.
       | 
       | YouTube, need to watch them carefully and catch the YT algorithm
       | trying to insert bad videos.
       | 
       | I have been mainly relying on Epic & PBS Kids - but feel an
       | expansion is needed.
        
         | clickitongue wrote:
         | I'd like to put a good word in for Trash Truck. We all love it.
         | I guess it can't quite compete with Bluey in the life lessons
         | department - they're more simple, maybe better for younger
         | kids. But it's definitely lovely and friendly and fun.
        
           | wisemang wrote:
           | It's very calm, which I really appreciate about it compared
           | to the wild energy in other shows. Sadly my toddler is more
           | drawn to the intense colours and action of Paw Patrol.
           | 
           | Which is a whole other thing in this age of streaming.. when
           | they know you could just pick something else, they will
           | immediately complain and ask for that instead of just needing
           | to accept what is being shown.
        
         | legitster wrote:
         | YouTube Kids is legitimately awful. And the content filters are
         | a joke.
         | 
         | We've been using the Dude Perfect app lately. It's got ads, but
         | it only features a select few YouTubers that focus on kid
         | friendly content. And everything is screened by a real person.
         | So it lets our kids watch YouTube without the "endless trash"
         | content feed.
        
           | ziml77 wrote:
           | I've heard about videos being marked as kids content
           | automatically simply because it's animated. It not only sucks
           | for people who expect YT Kids to be kid-friendly but it also
           | sucks for the creators who don't want their adult-oriented
           | content being shown to kids and who get less ad revenue due
           | to less valuable ads being show against their video.
           | 
           | It would be better for everyone if Google would turn YT Kids
           | into a manually curated service. I think that even Google
           | would benefit from getting more people trusting YT Kids. But
           | unfortunately having humans in the loop is not the Google
           | way, so it will never happen.
        
           | tylerdurden91 wrote:
           | You should try out Kidzovo. They curate huge amounts of
           | content for kids from different creators and provide this
           | cute little owl called Ovo, that's like the child's friend on
           | the app and every minute or so it pops up and engages kids in
           | these mini games that get them to do activities related to
           | what they are watching like find & tap on something or use
           | their voice to answer questions. They also have a huge bunch
           | of coloring sheets & jigsaw puzzles.
           | 
           | Usually I've found that kids quickly get bored of some of the
           | other apps we've tried here, but I've seen them stick to
           | Kidzovo for much longer. Maybe worth a try. Good thing about
           | PBS or Kidzovo is that they dont have me looking over my
           | shoulder like Youtube or Youtube Kids does.
        
             | theoreticalmal wrote:
             | How many times have you posted this comment in this thread,
             | overall?
        
         | paradox460 wrote:
         | I set up a Plex user for my kids, and loaded it full of things
         | that are kid appropriate. Old PBS kids shows from my childhood,
         | bluey, a smattering of the newer kids shows my wife was
         | familiar with from raising her siblings, etc.
         | 
         | We don't give the kids much TV time at all, maybe an hour a
         | week, but it's nice knowing they can just pick something
         | themselves, and we don't have to worry that it's decent
        
           | ip26 wrote:
           | Some of the new shows, e.g. Bluey, do feel head and shoulders
           | above the good shows from my childhood. I've abandoned using
           | age of the content as any signal of quality.
        
         | tinco wrote:
         | I don't know about YT kids, but Ms Rachel on YouTube is a
         | really good show for babies / toddlers. On Netflix there's Kit
         | & Sam that's a really cool series, it's apparently from the
         | same makers as octonauts which I don't think is as good, but my
         | daughter actually prefers (probably more age appropriate).
         | Gigantosaur is a really cool one on Netflix as well.
         | 
         | We mostly use YouTube for Ms Rachel and watching music video
         | clips (from the Sing movies and Disney movies). I don't know
         | how it is in the US but here in the NL Netflix has licensed a
         | whole bunch of great kids shows and we don't really use any
         | other apps because of that.
        
           | tylerdurden91 wrote:
           | I also liked Ms Rachel, but read a really good article about
           | video deficit. This one:
           | https://parentingtranslator.substack.com/p/can-babies-
           | learn-....
           | 
           | I have since tried using only interactive apps that would
           | encourage kids to participate actively rather than just
           | passively watching. When I'm around, I'll do that anyways,
           | but it helps if the content is itself interactive.
           | 
           | I really like Kidzovo. They curate huge amounts of content
           | for kids from different creators and provide this cute little
           | owl called Ovo, that's like the child's friend on the app and
           | every minute or so it pops up and engages kids in these mini
           | games that get them to do activities related to what they are
           | watching like find & tap on something or use their voice to
           | answer questions. They also have a huge bunch of coloring
           | sheets & jigsaw puzzles.
           | 
           | Usually I've found that kids quickly get bored of some of the
           | other apps mentioned here, but I've seen them stick to
           | Kidzovo for much longer. Maybe worth a try.
        
         | harry8 wrote:
         | Never trust a suggestion algorithm. Exponentially mistrust it
         | with a developing mind.
         | 
         | You watch and approve everything in advance or don't let them
         | watch at all.
         | 
         | Alphablocks, numberblocks aren't bad. Hey Douggie is ok.
         | 
         | There is decent stuff on YouTube havfunlearning or similar but
         | you've got to play projectionist.
        
         | jedimastert wrote:
         | Amazon kids was really good for a while but recently they
         | started getting vlogs and garbage from YouTube. Somehow my
         | daughter found among us let's plays and unboxing videos and I'm
         | deeply displeased about it.
        
         | kristianp wrote:
         | Regular YouTube has shorts though, which has kids watching
         | bizarre and totally inappropriate stuff.
        
           | fma wrote:
           | Yes! I use Brave Browser on their ipad. There's a setting to
           | remove Youtube shorts (and avoid commercials).
           | 
           | I've also periodically open their ipad and p;lay educational
           | videos to get them on their homepage. Youtube will still
           | stick videos of 40 year old adults acting 14 and doing weird
           | stuff. I still need to be near them whoever they use
           | Youotube.
        
           | ksynwa wrote:
           | There are psychedelic edits of cocomelon songs for developing
           | brains to trip on. It is truly an abhorrent platform.
        
         | vharuck wrote:
         | My 3 year old loves YouTube kids, and I'll admit he gets a good
         | amount of it. We make sure we're watching it with him, and we
         | control the remote. Some channels/topics we all like:
         | 
         | - Aty and Ui, two pet otters in Japan. Their owner has made
         | tons of videos showing what they eat, how they play, and the
         | different rivers they visit. All dialogue is in Japanese and
         | English subtitles. My kid now loves otters, I explain different
         | things about animals or Japan to give context, and I get to
         | practice reading Japanese.
         | 
         | - MIKAN, a channel with videos of "marbles" animated using a
         | basic physics engine. There's no dialogue. There are races,
         | factories, battles, and even a tower defense match. It helped
         | him learn colors. Nowadays, he gets up and practically dances
         | while cheering for his favorite colors. Indoor exercise isn't
         | so bad. Some of the videos that aren't on YT Kids can be a
         | little scary for toddlers (like alien abductions, not the
         | dreaded shock schlock that pops up on YT).
         | 
         | - 5MadMovieMakers, a channel with marble runs and Hot Wheels
         | tracks. No dialogue, just short clips of creative tracks with
         | background music. My kid now loves coming up with his own
         | marble and Hot Wheels tracks now (though he's still not good at
         | planning out the whole thing to actually work).
         | 
         | I understand the concerns about using YT Kids as a babysitter.
         | When he gets a tablet at my parents' and decides what to watch,
         | it's things like cars driving over paint-filed balloons or the
         | typical group of bros overreacting to a different stupid thing
         | each week.
        
           | tylerdurden91 wrote:
           | You should try out Kidzovo. They curate huge amounts of
           | content for kids from different creators and provide this
           | cute little owl called Ovo, that's like the child's friend on
           | the app and every minute or so it pops up and engages kids in
           | these mini games that get them to do activities related to
           | what they are watching like find & tap on something or use
           | their voice to answer questions. They also have a huge bunch
           | of coloring sheets & jigsaw puzzles.
           | 
           | Usually I've found that kids quickly get bored of some of the
           | other apps we've tried here, but I've seen them stick to
           | Kidzovo for much longer. Maybe worth a try. Good thing about
           | PBS or Kidzovo is that they dont have me looking over my
           | shoulder like Youtube or Youtube Kids does.
        
           | waltbosz wrote:
           | https://www.youtube.com/@TheBlackCatGear is another good
           | marble animation channel.
           | 
           | For some good real world marble runs
           | 
           | Jelle's Marble Runs: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL
           | SmWeUDtr9fATQqT2c0am...
           | 
           | Murmiland: https://www.youtube.com/@Murmiland
        
         | tylerdurden91 wrote:
         | You should try out Kidzovo. They curate huge amounts of content
         | for kids from different creators and provide this cute little
         | owl called Ovo, that's like the child's friend on the app and
         | every minute or so it pops up and engages kids in these mini
         | games that get them to do activities related to what they are
         | watching like find & tap on something or use their voice to
         | answer questions. They also have a huge bunch of coloring
         | sheets & jigsaw puzzles.
         | 
         | Usually I've found that kids quickly get bored of some of the
         | other apps we've tried here, but I've seen them stick to
         | Kidzovo for much longer. Maybe worth a try. Good thing about
         | PBS or Kidzovo is that they dont have me looking over my
         | shoulder like Youtube or Youtube Kids does.
        
           | enumjorge wrote:
           | Self promotion is fine, but you've plugged the company you
           | work for four times on this thread already. It's also
           | appreciated when you add a disclaimer like you've done in the
           | past [0]
           | 
           | [0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39214461
        
       | doctorpangloss wrote:
       | From the article:
       | 
       | > "How you going, Bingo? I can feel my sausages burning," Bandit
       | implores. Bingo replies, "I started just doing a wee, and now it
       | turned into poo."
       | 
       | > "I'd never seen a children's show talk about real life like
       | that," says Kay. "I thought, 'This is charming, funny and real.'"
       | 
       | From https://theonion.com/next-episode-of-girls-to-feature-
       | lena-d... Next Episode Of 'Girls' To Feature Lena Dunham Shitting
       | Herself During Gyno Exam While Eating A Burrito
       | 
       | > "When a naked Hannah dribbled hot sauce all over herself in
       | front of the doctor, shit in every corner of the office, cried,
       | became angry with the doctor, had sex with the doctor, finished
       | her burrito, had sex with the doctor again, shit herself again,
       | and then realized who she was really angry at and sexually
       | attracted to was Adam, I just closed my eyes and said, 'Thank
       | you.' These are real girls with real bodies doing things that
       | real girls do."
        
       | croisillon wrote:
       | Related: A look at the creative process behind Bluey and
       | Cocomelon (9 days ago - 216 comments)
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43339206
        
       | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
       | I first heard a bunch about Bluey from TheOdd1sOut, a fun
       | YouTuber featuring humorous and relatable slice-of-life content.
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEQHiJVH79o
       | 
       | One of the things he talks about is something other commenters
       | have mentioned - It's just as much a show for the parents, and in
       | some cases, _directly addresses the parents_ , but not in a
       | fourth-wall-breaking way. They're not really talking to the
       | parent, but it's one character talking to another, but it's drawn
       | so that the character is looking at the viewer.
        
       | legitster wrote:
       | For a road trip we put on the Ramona Quimby audiobooks and I was
       | shocked at how much better they were than I remembered, and how
       | similar of a feeling they gave me to Bluey.
       | 
       | It comes from the minutiae and details of childhood psychology.
       | To a small child, a pair of new red boots is so much more than a
       | pair of red boots.
       | 
       | It's not only relatable to kids, but the magic is that it reminds
       | me what it's like to be a kid, and helps me relate to them.
        
         | paradox460 wrote:
         | Beverly Cleary was a staple of my early reading, heavily pushed
         | on me as a grade schooler because she lived in Los Alamos,
         | where I grew up. I still remember Ralph the motorcycle riding
         | mouse, as well as more mature books like tiger blood.
         | 
         | I've got a few copies stashed away for when my kids are a bit
         | older, and I'm glad I do, as the kids sections of the local b&n
         | is dire
        
         | ip26 wrote:
         | It was amazing how riveting my kids found Henry Huggins. In
         | those pages, for them, saving money to buy a football became as
         | compelling as anything.
        
       | tomhoward wrote:
       | For those not aware...
       | 
       | The voice actor for Bandit, Dave McCormack, was not previously
       | known as an actor or voice artist, but he has been known in
       | Australia since the early 90s as an indie rock band frontman.
       | 
       | The band he fronted, Custard, started getting airplay on
       | Australia's national youth radio station, Triple J, in about
       | 1993, and they became a staple of the live music scene -
       | especially uni student bars, live rock pubs and summer festivals
       | - for all the 90s. They quit in 2000 but reformed in 2009 and are
       | still recording albums and playing gigs.
       | 
       | They're worth checking out [1] if you were into quirky 90s bands
       | like Ween, Dino Jr, Flaming Lips, Ben Folds Five, etc. Full of
       | grungy chords and riffs but mostly major key, happy/fun/funny
       | compositions and lyrics. Very high energy and entertaining. Some
       | nice slower jangly country ballads thrown in there too.
       | 
       | I think they're the only band I ever stage-dived to, so I guess
       | technically I've been "on stage with Bluey's dad".
       | 
       | Most music lovers in Australia now in their 40s knew of them, and
       | I'm sure it was a factor in the casting to tap into the nostalgia
       | of the people who are now parents of the kids Bluey is aimed at.
       | 
       | [1] It's all on Spotify/Apple Music etc. Wisenheimer and Wahooti
       | Fandango are their peak albums and Apartment, Lucky Star, Pack Yr
       | Suitcase and Singlette are the songs that best convey their vibe.
        
         | drekipus wrote:
         | I told my father-in-law about this, he didn't know anything
         | about custard, but he pulled out a CD that he had of "Dave
         | McCormack and the Polaroids"
         | 
         | Sure enough same guy, played at a pub down the road from us
         | last year or so.
         | 
         | Very musically talented guy. It's so strange being a younger
         | Australian and realising that we don't have to import
         | fame/stardom from America. We got talent right here.
        
           | naikrovek wrote:
           | I'm American and I lived in Sydney for two years from
           | 2001-2003.
           | 
           | > we got talent right here
           | 
           | You have no idea how right you are. Or maybe you do... There
           | are writers and musicians and ... every kind of talent on par
           | with anything anyone else in any country has ever done.
           | 
           | It was extremely eye opening for me to listen to TripleJ or
           | whatever station I would tune to after hearing some American
           | pop junk, and hear music I've never heard, before or since,
           | by bands I never heard before or since, play some of the best
           | music I have ever heard, every single day I was there. And,
           | that music was unlike a lot of other stuff on the radio,
           | which was so refreshing. So new! So good! And so much!
           | 
           | My girlfriend (who was Australian and is why I moved there)
           | pulled out her CDs and I was lost in them for weeks.
           | 
           | I was roommates with a guy, and worked with him, for six
           | months before he texted me and told me to turn on the radio.
           | Three minutes later I heard his voice followed by 45 minutes
           | of the best DJ mixing set I have ever heard. He composed the
           | best music I have ever heard, live, by ear, and it was
           | something he did every damn week.
           | 
           | Australia is fucking amazing.
        
             | lmpdev wrote:
             | NPR's Tiny Desk Concerts gets all these rave reviews for
             | its production quality
             | 
             | But tbh Triple J's Like a Version blows it out of the water
             | 
             | Especially giving artists the leeway to try genre switching
             | 
             | Like Denzel Curry covering Rage Against the Machine for
             | instance
        
               | defrost wrote:
               | Or the _King Stingray_ cover of _Coldplay_ 's 'Yellow'
        
               | werrett wrote:
               | Here ya go:
               | 
               | King Stingray does Coldplays's 'Yellow'
               | https://youtu.be/sr3iI8gg2fo
               | 
               | Denzel Curry does Rage against the Machine's 'Bulls on
               | Parade' https://youtu.be/ZY4ywyFXdik
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | > We got talent right here.
           | 
           | Indeed you do. A random stab at TripleJ Unearthed is enough
           | to find an artist/band that's well above the world average.
           | 
           | I don't know if it's the remoteness or dangerous animals that
           | is the reason for this, but Australians sure know how to make
           | music.
        
         | autoexec wrote:
         | I don't know how many Bandits they went through to find him,
         | but they got lucky. Voice acting isn't easy and he does such a
         | great job!
        
           | tomhoward wrote:
           | I suspect they had him in mind right from the start and even
           | developed the character for him.
           | 
           | Custard/McCormack are Brisbane-based and Bluey has been
           | produced from a Brisbane studio since the very beginning. The
           | writers/producers would have known and liked his music and
           | voice, and probably someone there already knew him
           | personally. Bluey is shown on ABC in Australia and Custard
           | has always had lots of airplay on ABC TV and radio stations.
        
             | LeonB wrote:
             | Lots of airplay, apart from that time they went into the
             | 4ZZZ studios and found a bunch of custard cds and tapes
             | were all smashed up... leading to the song "fantastic
             | plastic" off Wahooto, "I wish that triple zed would play
             | us..."
             | 
             | Love Custard with my heart and soul. Thanks for bringing
             | them up Tom Howard!
        
               | tomhoward wrote:
               | Well, Triple Z is an independent/community station, not
               | ABC!
               | 
               | I know that song/line well and remember mentions of
               | Custard being "banned" by Triple Z in the band's early
               | days, but I can't find any details. Do you know why that
               | banned/smashed their music?
        
         | goatforce5 wrote:
         | I came here to say this. Dave McCormack and Custard were in a
         | popular indie band in Oz in the 90s. A couple of years ago he
         | performed a couple of songs with The Wiggles, and came out on
         | stage saying "Hello everyone, it's me! I'm from the 90s!"
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pEeEjEdTqqk
         | 
         | He uses his normal speaking voice for Bandit, and you can very
         | clearly hear the same voice when he's signing most of the
         | Custard stuff:
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jP_LSm7FjRI
         | 
         | Wisenheimer and Wahooti Fandango are still both great albums
         | (...and then I moved overseas and drifted out of the Custard
         | orbit). For anyone with kids firmly in the Bluey demographic, I
         | bet you could really confuse them by playing Custard at them.
         | 
         | I'm surprised they (i.e. record companies) haven't been trying
         | to push Custard more, given there's a large fan based just
         | waiting to be tapped. It would be fun to see Bandit do karaoke
         | of a Custard song, or sing a few lines when he was in the
         | shower, or just doing chores, etc.
        
       | hackbuildroam wrote:
       | 20k hertz did some interviews with the Bluey creators,
       | 
       | https://www.20k.org/episodes/thesoundofbluey
       | 
       | Neet to see something start from a idea and grown to be so big
       | and still manage to keep humble.
        
       | _spduchamp wrote:
       | Bluey helped me out immensely at my research job. I was watching
       | it with my daughter and in the episode, the father says,
       | "Obstacles don't block the path. They are the path." It was a big
       | ah-ha! moment that completely changed my attitude about the
       | frustration I was having in my research. Then looking at my
       | journal notes, it was all about obstacles and how to work through
       | and around them, and that shift in perspective really accelerated
       | my work.
        
         | h0l0cube wrote:
         | You'd like this book
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Obstacle_Is_the_Way
        
           | robotnikman wrote:
           | Seconding this book, this is one I go back to every once in a
           | while.
        
           | Tyr42 wrote:
           | Thanks, bought it.
           | 
           | Turns out it's on sale now too:
           | https://play.google.com/store/books/details?id=tOzwEAAAQBAJ
        
         | SkittlesNTwix wrote:
         | > "Obstacles don't block the path. They are the path."
         | 
         | This is a modern translation of what Marcus Aurelius said in
         | "Meditations", his private diary. This particular paraphrasing
         | and interpretation is by Ryan Holiday, a modern stoic with many
         | books on the topic to his name. You would enjoy them.
         | 
         | The original quote:
         | 
         | "In one respect man is the nearest thing to me, so far as I
         | must do good to men and endure them. But so far as some men
         | make themselves obstacles to my proper acts, man becomes to me
         | one of the things which are indifferent, no less than the sun
         | or wind or a wild beast. Now it is true that these may impede
         | my action, but they are no impediments to my affects and
         | disposition, which have the power of acting conditionally and
         | changing: for the mind converts and changes every hindrance to
         | its activity into an aid; and so that which is a hindrance is
         | made a furtherance to an act; and that which is an obstacle on
         | the road helps us on this road."
         | 
         | Meditations, 5.20 Marcus Aurelius
         | 
         | https://lexundria.com/m_aur_med/5.20/lg
        
       | harry8 wrote:
       | In Aus, among the most traditional and emotionally hardest of
       | hard men includes the cricket community. It involves physical
       | pain "suck it up!" And psychological warfare and abuse.
       | 
       | Bluey reduced most of them to tears in episode 47 of season 3.
       | Directed right at them and if you're not a cricketer it will be
       | tough to see why it's extraordinary. Just a huge wow of a piece
       | of writing for those of us who grew up with the game and its
       | associated culture.
       | 
       | In Bluey, it's all great, all of it. But the writing is something
       | beyond that.
        
       | king_magic wrote:
       | Bluey has made be a better father and partner. Unicorse was ZERO
       | help as usual though.
        
       | october8140 wrote:
       | Bluey is a show for everyone. Even if you don't have kids it's
       | worth watching.
        
       | grahar64 wrote:
       | 1. Cricket
       | 
       | 2. The sign
       | 
       | 3. Sleepytime
       | 
       | 4. Old ladies
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | hahaha love Old Ladies.
        
       | naikrovek wrote:
       | That this show came from Australia is telling, to me. TV execs in
       | the US would never greenlight a show like this for production,
       | and if they did, they would not be as hands-off as this show
       | appears to be. This show is created 100% by creative people, and
       | they are doing a bang-up job.
       | 
       | Zero entertainment executives in the USA would ever allow a show
       | to be made without their own shitty changes stapled on.
        
       | shirro wrote:
       | Bluey was funded by the Australian ABC and British BBC. Both
       | public broadcasters with a strong commitment to quality
       | children's programming. It wasn't created to sell Hasbro toys or
       | Disney merchandise or increase children's Youtube watch time. The
       | merch and Disney streaming came later because the show is
       | obviously brilliant.
       | 
       | Bluey isn't just good family programming. It is a snapshot of
       | Australian culture and family values which would likely never be
       | made in a world controlled by huge multinationals.
        
       | keepamovin wrote:
       | OMG everyone is so gushing over this. I have to see this! How
       | have i never seen this? where can I see it?
        
         | tobyhinloopen wrote:
         | Disney+ for me, but it might differ per country
        
       | waltbosz wrote:
       | I found this thread really interesting because of the variety of
       | peoples' favorite episodes and particularly which episodes evoked
       | an emotional response. Some episodes named don't resonate with me
       | at all, which just goes to show how we all have such different
       | life experiences.
       | 
       | "Rain" is my favorite. The shots, the story, the music, the lack
       | of dialog. "The Sign" was my biggest tearjerker.
       | 
       | Also, I came across this musician who makes great EDM remixes of
       | Bluey songs, I recommend checking him out:
       | https://www.youtube.com/@MicJaiy/search?query=bluey
        
       | donatj wrote:
       | We have two young kids, and have friends and family who are
       | enamored with Bluey. Every time we're over they put it on because
       | they need us to like it too. I've seen so many episodes because
       | everyone puts it on when we're over and I just... don't... get
       | it. My children's attention isn't captured by it, and neither my
       | wife nor I enjoy it.
       | 
       | The kids in the show are just kind of annoying, needy and of out
       | of control. Things I don't want my kids to emulate. The parents
       | feed into it and treat the behavior like it's ok. I also don't
       | feel like the stories have particularly great takeaways for kids
       | most of the time.
       | 
       | It's a minor gripe but I really find the staccato melodica theme
       | song full of awkward pauses to be quite grating.
       | 
       | Everyone is free to like what they like. You are free to love
       | Bluey. I just wish people would stop trying to make us like it,
       | and stop making us watch it.
        
         | jhrmnn wrote:
         | May be down to parenting style indeed.
         | 
         | > kind of annoying, needy and of out of control. [...] The
         | parents feed into it and treat the behavior like it's ok.
         | 
         | Not how I would characterize it.
        
         | shadowgovt wrote:
         | The behavior is ok. What is acceptable varies from household to
         | household.
        
         | jbd28 wrote:
         | either you've seen the wrong episodes over and over, or you're
         | just not approaching it with any sort of an open mind. even in
         | the opening song you don't like the "staccato melodica" theme
         | song, its just a small snippet of a longer song their musical
         | director composed that the creator decided to snip down and
         | turn into a game of musical statues...its just supposed to be
         | fun!
         | 
         | and there are episodes like Cricket where it is nothing but
         | kids behaving ideally and overcoming real challenges
        
           | donatj wrote:
           | So I pulled up Cricket just now and watched through it, as
           | I'd seen it mentioned a few times in here. I can see why
           | someone would enjoy that particular episode. It's
           | lighthearted and sappy.
           | 
           | However, a sizable portion of the episodes short runtime is
           | Rusty smashing a cricket ball against the side of his parents
           | house, _visibly damaging the siding_ , with zero on-screen
           | repercussions. That's exactly the sort of thing I don't want
           | my child emulating, and the show makes it seem like it's an
           | ok behavior.
           | 
           | Children copy things they see. If you're going to show a
           | child doing something they shouldn't it needs to be at the
           | very least shown in a negative light.
           | 
           | All the show needed to do was have the final couple seconds
           | of the episode be his mom standing next to the damage yelling
           | "Rusty!", it would have made for a good comedic closer and
           | shown kids that it's a problem.
        
             | shadowgovt wrote:
             | What should Rusty be doing instead? The point is that he
             | needed that siding because he didn't have a partner to hit
             | the ball back, and his parents know this, and they support
             | his dream. Rusty's mom isn't yelling at him for whacking
             | the ball off the siding because he's allowed.
             | 
             | Houses are meant to be lived in. Sometimes we spend from
             | them to achieve other goals.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | Maybe you are just unfamiliar with Australian customs and
             | mores
        
         | closewith wrote:
         | > The kids in the show are just kind of annoying, needy and of
         | out of control. Things I don't want my kids to emulate. The
         | parents feed into it and treat the behavior like it's ok. I
         | also don't feel like the stories have particularly great
         | takeaways for kids most of the time.
         | 
         | ...
         | 
         | > Everyone is free to like what they like. You are free to love
         | Bluey. I just wish people would stop trying to make us like it,
         | and stop making us watch it.
         | 
         | Based on these comments, is it possible your friends are trying
         | to give you a subtle hint about your own parenting?
        
       | froggertoaster wrote:
       | https://archive.is/U9zh6
        
       | lproven wrote:
       | Nobody seems to have mentioned it, so I thought it deserved
       | credit...
       | 
       | I am fairly sure that the episode "Handstand":
       | 
       | https://www.bluey.tv/watch/season-2/handstand/
       | 
       | ... in which Nana can't actively help with the party, and nobody
       | will take the time to watch Bingo's handstand, is an intentional
       | homage to an (at the time) award-winning Ariston TV advert from
       | 1970s.
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUVs7vXNZiw
       | 
       | Its video-game themed music, and ground-breaking video editing,
       | looping a clip while adding more and more characters and action
       | each repetition, was mind-blowing ~40 years ago.
        
         | markus_zhang wrote:
         | Pavlova is also homage to some NZ band I think. Bandit is
         | basically speaking the same lines.
        
       | nomilk wrote:
       | Interestingly, the 'episodes that made me want to cry' link
       | (second paragraph) seems to be missing a src attribute, so it
       | behaves like a link but when clicked doesn't go anywhere. I
       | hadn't encountered that before:                   <a>episodes
       | that made me want to cry </a>
        
       | sota_pop wrote:
       | We are big fans of bluey. Also interesting to note that, it's my
       | understanding that it was a conscious choice to keep the
       | identities of Bluey and Bingo secret in an effort to shield them
       | from any ill effects of fame at such a young age. You don't hear
       | that very commonly for other shows.
        
       | blobbers wrote:
       | Bluey is the type of show that you're not afraid to let your kids
       | watch because the lessons it teaches are helpful.
       | 
       | It also has enough silliness to keep them engaged without being
       | didactic! And enough inside jokes that parents can have a laugh
       | as well.
       | 
       | It may very well be the best family show for small kids.
        
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