[HN Gopher] My stupid noise journey
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       My stupid noise journey
        
       Author : ustad
       Score  : 101 points
       Date   : 2025-03-09 10:06 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | thenthenthen wrote:
       | I have been on a similar journey. The Bose headphones are nice,
       | but hard to sleep with and they are ON-ear, which hirt my ears
       | after an hour or so. The Bose Sleepbuds are okish, the best of
       | all the products I tried, sadly discontinued. There was(is?) a
       | reboot of the same product but do not have experience with those
       | [0]. Anyone tried those 'soft' headband looking headphones for
       | sleeping? Tips welcome
       | 
       | [0] https://ozlosleep.com/
        
         | Timwi wrote:
         | I assume that the article is not about sleeping. For sleeping,
         | have you tried foam earplugs?
        
           | Klaster_1 wrote:
           | Foam plugs absolutely do the job. What I don't like about
           | these is that after listening to a book or podcast before
           | sleep you need to put these in. Some nights, you fall asleep
           | during playback and wake up to dogs barking, annoyed. Other
           | nights, you are on the verge of consciousness and can't be
           | bothered to put the plugs in.
           | 
           | Everything sound-related is always messy in many ways. I bet
           | when we get high quality replacement digital ears you can
           | mute, these will still have some stupid crap going on, like
           | unstable device pairing.
        
             | thenthenthen wrote:
             | Foam doesnt work against the noise here. Sleep buds plus
             | Quiet Comfort on max works a bit lol
        
         | moab wrote:
         | It's a real pity they got discontinued. The sleepbuds work
         | fantastic and are the only product that works for me.
        
           | fmajid wrote:
           | Anker makes these earbuds for sleep:
           | 
           | https://www.soundcore.com/uk/products/sleep-a20-sleeping-
           | ear...
           | 
           | I haven't tried them myself, but they come highly
           | recommended.
        
         | blahlabs wrote:
         | I have a set of sleepphones. They are okay. If I sleep on my
         | side with the earphone directly over my ear, it does start to
         | hurt, but just off with the volume a little higher works,
         | depending on the content being played. I've also found they
         | seem to move around a bit inside the head band and the volume
         | varies a lot depending on where the earphone is in relation to
         | my ear. The battery sits on the back on the band which may not
         | be great for back sleepers.
         | 
         | Any particular questions, happy to answer.
        
         | tcoff91 wrote:
         | Best solution for sleep I think is a combination of earplugs
         | and Shokz openrun bone conduction headphones. Bone conduction
         | headphones work better when you have earplugs in than they do
         | without them so it works amazing.
         | 
         | My favorite earplugs are Loop Quiet because foam earplugs make
         | my ears sweaty and itchy. If foam earplugs work for you they
         | can't be beaten as far as noise reduction.
         | 
         | I sleep on my side so I wear the headphones backwards and
         | position the bottom one so it's not between my head and pillow.
         | 
         | I turn on the iOS background sounds dark noise and put on an
         | audiobook to distract from my mind not turning off. Add in an
         | eye mask and I sleep quite well.
        
       | yapyap wrote:
       | Man these were some well educated mr Bean level hijinks.
       | 
       | I had to stifle a laugh multiple times reading it.
       | 
       | One of the highlights was definitely:
       | 
       | "I tried kits for making custom-molded earplugs. One hardly
       | blocked any noise. Another had a small piece immediately break
       | off deep inside my ear, resulting in legendary good times trying
       | to remove it with a screw"
       | 
       | like, why a screw? not tweezers, not anything of that sort?
       | 
       | also the part about trying to have a conversation with the
       | earmuffs on, lol.
       | 
       | I feel for you OOP but still, pretty funny.
        
         | loloquwowndueo wrote:
         | Why do you feel for object-oriented programming? :)
        
       | aredox wrote:
       | This is a nice follow-up: https://dynomight.net/car-trouble/
        
         | stavros wrote:
         | Yeah this seems to be a pattern with this guy. Maybe he just
         | really enjoys thinking about stuff, though.
        
       | NKosmatos wrote:
       | Noise pollution (or sound pollution) is a modern day era problem,
       | and if I dare say disease. It's getting more and more difficult
       | to isolate ourselves, especially in urban environments.
       | 
       | It never ceases to amaze me that blocking noise/sound (one of the
       | weakest forces) is very difficult, whereas blocking light (being
       | fastest and more "powerful") is very easy.
       | 
       | It might sound futuristic, but I expect noise canceling force
       | fields to become an everyday household thing in a few years ;-)
        
         | stavros wrote:
         | > It never ceases to amaze me that blocking noise/sound (one of
         | the weakest forces) is very difficult, whereas blocking light
         | (being fastest and more "powerful") is very easy.
         | 
         | How is sound weaker than light? Light is stopped by some thin
         | cardboard, whereas sound will just breeze through walls.
        
           | ben_w wrote:
           | Both have huge dynamic ranges, but consider:
           | 
           | 1. We evolved to spend 50% of the time in the presence of a 1
           | kW/m^2 light source.
           | 
           | 2. As per https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sound_intensity,
           | sound intensity is 10log10(I/I0) dB, where I0 = 1
           | picowatt/m^2, which means 1 kW/m^2 is ~150 dB, which is about
           | what you get from standing 1 meter away from a jet engine
           | (Wikipedia cited a book for that claim, and doesn't itself
           | say which jet engine).
        
             | stavros wrote:
             | In terms of energy, sure, light is much more energetic, but
             | the problem with sound is that it can reach your ears with
             | orders of magnitude less energy than light can.
        
           | NKosmatos wrote:
           | Exactly my point, we can easily block the light from the sun
           | (roughly 1400W/m2) but we can't easily block the TV/radio
           | (50dB) from the neighbor living above :-)
           | 
           | In my mind I've got this "silly" analogy that noise is like
           | the strong electromagnetic force, very powerful but only in
           | relatively short distances ;-)
        
           | keybored wrote:
           | Light doesn't even have mass! It's completely puny!
        
         | taeric wrote:
         | I suspect you don't appreciate how much quieter modern devices
         | are growing to be. The hum of electric lights is mostly a thing
         | of the past. As we move to larger electric motors, the roar of
         | gas motors will become a thing of the past.
         | 
         | Obviously, some things are just loud. My kids hate how loud the
         | frogs are next to our house. And blowers will remain loud. As
         | are fast cars.
         | 
         | But, I really believe the future will sound vastly different in
         | most cities. Would be neat to hear the differences through the
         | years. Moving from horses to pully based carriages to gas cars.
         | Now to electric cars. We have moved really fast.
        
           | gnz11 wrote:
           | With EVs you still have the issues of road noise from the
           | tires.
        
             | taeric wrote:
             | Right, is why I said fast cars are still loud. Or, thought
             | I said that. Surface streets are still much quieter. Moreso
             | if ebikes are used.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | We have people who deliberately modify their cars,
               | trucks, and motorcycles to make them even louder. If EVs
               | really caught on to the point most people had them, I
               | would not put it past them to mod theirs to play loud
               | vroom-vroom noises over speakers to match the volume
               | level of ICE cars.
        
               | Lanolderen wrote:
               | Taser exhaust instead of a pops and bangs tune. Gotta
               | patent that real quick.
        
           | luqtas wrote:
           | electric blowers are way quieter than gasoline ones, maybe
           | we'll have neat tech like
           | https://hackaday.com/2024/05/18/students-leaf-blower-
           | suppres...
           | 
           | or a revamp on aesthetics with gardens full of fruit trees
           | and other cute flowers than a bunch o grass dating the time
           | where lawns were a symbol of status [0]
           | 
           | [0] https://99percentinvisible.org/episode/lawn-order/
        
             | taeric wrote:
             | Quieter, but still really loud.
             | 
             | And blowers remain hard to beat in clearing leaves. Not
             | just from grass, but also drive ways and sidewalks.
        
               | lukevp wrote:
               | This is mostly an engineering problem I think. The new
               | Dewalt DCBL777Y1 leaf blowers are so quiet that even on
               | loud I can use it in my garage without feeling like it's
               | loud or my watch triggering a sound alert. With my gas
               | leaf blower, even outside it's deafening and my watch
               | immediately triggers. And the electric one is 2x more
               | powerful than the gas one (in CFM, no bs about a smaller
               | nozzle and "high mph", the thing BLOWS). It also works
               | upside down and doesn't dump exhaust so I can use it
               | inside as well as upside down when drying my car. No
               | shill, I paid full price for mine and have no affiliation
               | with Dewalt, just surprised and happy. I expected to
               | return it because I didn't believe it would be better
               | than my gas blower. That gas blower has been on a shelf
               | for the last 3 months. I'll probably just sell it,
               | there's no use case where it's better than the Dewalt
               | except for long runtimes, which I don't need.
        
               | taeric wrote:
               | Totally possible. I have the Ego blower and it is much
               | much quieter than any gas blower I ever had. Even better,
               | I'm not worried about the fumes I'm breathing in from it.
               | I'd still hesitate to say they are quiet, though.
               | 
               | To your point, with gas blowers, I know when one is in
               | use in the street. With the electric, I tend to know if
               | in the yard. So, huge improvement. I'd expect if you
               | really hate the sound and are in an apartment complex,
               | you will still hear them some.
        
           | jononor wrote:
           | Devices with constant hum getting quieter can actually make
           | noise annoyance worse! The brain is good at filtering out
           | constant noises, so they are usually less bothersome. But
           | their sounds can actually help masking out more annoying
           | sounds (variable/unpredictable in loudness and/or pitch).
           | This can be used as (part of) a mitigation strategy for noise
           | annoyance.
        
             | taeric wrote:
             | My point with the hum was that even lights have lost the
             | sounds they used to make. My gut is our future is far
             | quieter than the current world.
             | 
             | Again, there will still be loud things. But a lot of the
             | noise of the modern world will go away. It is kind of
             | startling how much of the modern world is gas motors
             | running.
        
           | greggyb wrote:
           | Past ~20mph-30mph, tire noise matches engine noise.
           | 
           | In the US, at least, this means that the vast majority of
           | streets will not see much benefit from EV transition, at
           | least with regard to road noise. The quality of the noise
           | will change, but not the total volume.
           | 
           | As an anecdotal reference point on road noise, I live within
           | a couple miles of an interstate, and the noise I tend to hear
           | does not have discernible engine noise. This is, of course,
           | from vehicles moving at a very different speed than any
           | within a neighborhood.
        
             | taeric wrote:
             | Right, I see I didn't say it in my first post, but yeah.
             | Loud things are loud. Surface streets, though, should see a
             | lot of improvement.
        
             | Doxin wrote:
             | Fun fact: there's such a thing as low noise asphalt.
             | Obviously it doesn't remove road noise altogether, but it
             | does help a lot.
        
         | jrmg wrote:
         | _Noise pollution (or sound pollution) is a modern day era
         | problem, and if I dare say disease. It's getting more and more
         | difficult to isolate ourselves, especially in urban
         | environments._
         | 
         | This feels true to me, but I suspect it's not. Victorian
         | industry was _loud_, and cars now are quieter than ever.
        
           | lowercased wrote:
           | > and cars now are quieter than ever
           | 
           | But no one drives cars any more. They drive trucks. And
           | motorcycles. And anything with engines designed to tell
           | everyone how powerful they are.
           | 
           | I appreciate my friends/neighbors with electric cars. They do
           | not offset the neighbors with F150s, Silverados, Tundras and
           | other behemoths with v6/v8 gasoline engines.
        
             | roywashere wrote:
             | Big and loud cars are antisocial and should be forbidden to
             | drive as a private person. CHANGE MY MIND
        
               | luqtas wrote:
               | 1. it's the closest a private can get of driving a
               | personal spaceship
               | 
               | 2. IT'S AMERICA!!!
               | 
               | /s
        
               | chasd00 wrote:
               | 1. consensus on what is "big" and what is "loud" is
               | politically impossible. 2. In the US at least, all is
               | allowed except for what is explicitly forbidden. 3. So
               | you're going to have to define what is too big and what
               | is too loud to make it forbidden. go back to #1
        
               | eks391 wrote:
               | As long as something is measurable, you can define it,
               | even politically.
               | 
               | "Loud" can be defined as dB, perhaps a distance from the
               | source of the sound or from a neighborhood/business etc.
               | Ex. Any sound you produce much have adequate dampening or
               | distance such that school zones and residential zones do
               | not recieve greater than 75dB from any singular source,
               | nor 90dB from the combination of all sources. Then
               | legally concerts must use different venues, planes must
               | take a more difficult path to avoid the nearby airport
               | neighborhoods, etc. Maybe walls erected next to
               | speedways.
               | 
               | "Big" would probably need greater specification. One that
               | already exists is lane width, so you can base things off
               | that. Ex. Single-axle vehicles may not have a height
               | greater than its width, where width is measured as the
               | distance between lugnuts in the tightened position of the
               | left and right wheels, the greater distance if the front
               | and back wheels are at different distances.
        
               | jrmg wrote:
               | Most states have some form of car exhaust noise laws - a
               | few even do state dB!
               | 
               | https://www.semasan.com/resources/exhaust-noise-laws-
               | state
        
               | Lanolderen wrote:
               | Excluding the freedom, definition, etc aspect:
               | 
               | Cars are a very big carrot for hard work. They are the
               | modern status symbol and toy which is available for entry
               | to all budgets. Generally, big cars are luxorious, loud
               | cars are fast. No one is gonna work their ass off to move
               | from a 2003 Prius to a 2025 Prius. Plenty of people work
               | their ass off to get a sexy car and to keep it on the
               | road.
        
               | tpm wrote:
               | So, hypothetically of course, those people would be less
               | stressed out if those cars were not available, as it
               | would be one less attainable status symbol? No downside
               | there I think.
        
               | Lanolderen wrote:
               | The carrot isn't necessarily stress because you do it
               | because you want to, not because you have to. Without
               | shortish term goals work is often just a chore you do to
               | survive and so your parents don't nag you. Maybe so you
               | can own a house by the time your entire life has elapsed
               | one more time in the wage cage.
               | 
               | Edit: Missed the status symbol itself being stressful. I
               | don't think so. There's a lot of pride in just your
               | status moving up. You get a 90s 7 series, you're happy as
               | hell because it's yours. Moved from daddy's money to self
               | sufficient. Your first car. Then you get a nice 00s 5
               | series, we moving up in the world. Then you get an old
               | Jag as a weekend thing, oh shit, we getting fancy. It
               | just gives you a pleasant feedback loop every year to
               | couple years.
        
             | natebc wrote:
             | For me it's leaf blowers. Maybe mowers or string trimmers
             | though they seem to be done faster. Leaf blowers for HOURS
             | from ... March through December!
        
               | tayo42 wrote:
               | 7am leaf blowers are the worst. They made me miserable in
               | college durring my 4am Wow phase hah
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | For the purpose of the conversation, I would say Victorian
           | era classifies as "modern". It's a vague word with different
           | possible meanings, but in many contexts "modern era" is taken
           | to mean "since the industrial revolution" (give or take).
           | 
           | It's not a continual rise in noise levels - there are ups and
           | downs - and for some things volume levels may decrease while
           | for other things noise may increase. But by and large, there
           | seems to have been an upward trend for quite a few decades
           | now.
        
           | tpm wrote:
           | > Victorian industry was _loud_
           | 
           | Possibly. But no cars, no AC, industry built away from
           | housing. Of course there were horses, trains, loud people.
           | One place that can be quite eye-opening in this regard is
           | Venice. It's really quiet, even when you hear people talking,
           | there are no cars at all and in the evening it's very
           | peaceful, more than any other city I have visited.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | I tried a couple of noise-cancelling headphones, but they all
         | produce very audible (to me) noise, not anywhere near what I
         | would consider "silence".
         | 
         | Room acoustics is so complex that I doubt that a noise-
         | cancelling force field is physically possible. ;)
        
         | t-3 wrote:
         | Silence is unnatural anyway. If you move to a rural area with
         | no neighbors or traffic in sight, you'll still hear plenty of
         | noises inside your house. Rather than rage about distracting
         | noises, just turn on the radio or something to drown it out.
        
           | kot_manul wrote:
           | Complete silence may be unnatural but so is Fall Out Boy
           | played so loud the lyrics can be heard a block or more away,
           | for 24 hours a day.
           | 
           | Some sounds are loud enough to be impossible to block out. If
           | police aren't interested in enforcing noise ordinances and
           | your landlord isn't interested either because they're too
           | busy trying not to repair the $12K a month water leak in the
           | basement of the restaurant you live on top of, your only
           | option is to move.
        
         | vessenes wrote:
         | I too hate noise. That said, if you've ever spent some time far
         | from human cities, you will notice there's plenty of noise out
         | there, especially at night. There's probably some sort of
         | evolutionary explanation about white noise vs startling noise
         | etc. etc. but the main point is that it's noisy out there! In a
         | very different way than city noise.
        
           | tayo42 wrote:
           | I used to go out to the mountains to stargaze, so pretty out
           | there but people still lived there. Frequently there would be
           | something like a dog barking for hours. I realized you really
           | can't escape human bs noise.
        
       | supermatt wrote:
       | Does anyone have much experience with these headphones? I am
       | looking for similar but dont like headphones pressing on my ears.
       | Are the quietcomfort suitable for that? Is the ultra a worthy
       | upgrade? Is there anything better on the market now? Redddit
       | seems to suggest that Sony ANC is superior.
        
         | fmajid wrote:
         | He was operating on outdated advice. Yes, 1990s ANC headphones
         | would only work on repetitive noise, but the technology has
         | advanced by leaps and bounds since.
         | 
         | Sony and Apple AirPods Max are considered best-in-class.
        
           | zimpenfish wrote:
           | > Sony and Apple AirPods Max are considered best-in-class.
           | 
           | Inherited some Sony WF-1000XM4 and can confirm that they're
           | really good at noise cancelling. Plus they have an ambient
           | mode (with optional "filter in voices") which is helpful when
           | you need to interact briefly.
        
           | bqmjjx0kac wrote:
           | I'm more sensitive to noise than most -- AirPods Max are an
           | incredible tool for me. Sometimes I just wear them without
           | listening to anything to block out office noises,
           | conversations, etc. Unavoidably, they get uncomfortable after
           | a while, but it's on the order of hours.
           | 
           | This is starting to sound like a sales pitch, but if anyone
           | like me is on the fence, they're really an incredible product
           | that has improved the quality of my life, which I don't say
           | lightly.
        
         | michaelbuckbee wrote:
         | Keeping to the spirit of the article, it's maybe simpler to
         | think of all of the "good" ANC headphones (Bose, Sony, Apple)
         | as a tier above standard headphones and just try them all for
         | which one you personally like the most.
        
         | drcongo wrote:
         | I went Sony after trying both them and the Bose. The ANC was
         | about the same (this is maybe 5 years ago) but the sound
         | quality on the Sonys was head and shoulders better than the
         | Bose. They're incredible on a flight.
        
         | nicolas_t wrote:
         | For some reason, I find the ANC of the quiet comfort to be very
         | uncomfortable. When I turn on the ANC, it feels like there's a
         | sort of pressure and I really dislike it.
         | 
         | On the other hand, I don't mind the ANC from my sennheiser
         | momentum.
        
         | nucleardog wrote:
         | I would recommend taking a look at rtings.com:
         | https://www.rtings.com/headphones/reviews/best/by-feature/no...
         | 
         | (That's their "picks", but they have reviews and tests on a lot
         | more models. I just can't find a good place to link to just
         | "all of the noise cancelling headphones".)
         | 
         | Don't just skim the list, click in and take a look at the
         | individual products. They do pretty extensive quantitative
         | measurements of all of these headphones and provide useful
         | commentary alongside (e.g., the Sony ones are shallower so if
         | you have big ears they might get uncomfortable). They have full
         | frequency response graphs for the noise isolation, recordings
         | of how it fares against some test samples, etc.
         | 
         | They also measure some less typical stuff like "clamping force"
         | and "ear breathability" that's hard to tell just from briefly
         | putting them on in a store.
         | 
         | I've personally tried some (older) Sony against (older) Bose
         | and I can't really comment on whether the ANC is better because
         | they pushed on the arms of my glasses hard enough and the shape
         | left them resting _on_ my ears instead of over them such that
         | they hurt to wear after a little while. They could be head and
         | shoulders above, but that would be worthless to me because I
         | would never use them. So I'd mostly echo what the other
         | commenter is saying--they're all pretty much "great" in
         | passive/active noise cancellation and sound quality. Just get
         | whichever feels best to you.
        
         | Lucent wrote:
         | I chose the Sony 1000XM4 because the RTINGS graph showed the
         | strongest cancellation in the 60Hz range. All my tormentors are
         | in the AC-powered machine noise range.
         | 
         | https://www.rtings.com/discussions/adsg5oN7w-9Dgb3O/treadmil...
         | 
         | https://www.rtings.com/headphones/1-8/graph/25566/noise-
         | isol...:
        
         | notfed wrote:
         | > I am looking for similar but dont like headphones pressing on
         | my ears.
         | 
         | I have both noise cancelling "big" earphones and earbuds. I
         | agree with you that the the "pressing on the ears" is annoying,
         | so I usually wear the earbuds: the noise cancelling is slightly
         | worse, but the latest noise cancelling technology is really
         | good enough.
        
       | criddell wrote:
       | When the author mentioned they didn't understand how our ears and
       | brains process sound and then said they went back to first
       | principles, I thought for sure they were going to end up working
       | on _their_ reaction to sounds and doing something like cognitive
       | behavioral therapy.
        
         | theoreticalmal wrote:
         | This was my thought too. Seems far easier to figure out a way
         | to be okay with the noise than to go to great lengths to block
         | it out
        
         | jononor wrote:
         | Yeah the psycho(logical) part of psychoacoustics is actually
         | more important one wrt to noise annoyance.
        
       | metalman wrote:
       | I have been thinking and learning about sound and noise
       | control/isolation for a long time. I am quite sure that active
       | noise cancellation in real domestic environments is impossible.
       | Simple physical isolation will always be cheaper and more
       | effective. The idea of portability is founded on an overly
       | simplified and ancient demonstration of sign waves cancelling
       | each other, and fataly leave out how human hearing actualy
       | operates, and there are now indications that the very best active
       | noise cancelling headphones, are working, but with side effects
       | that are disorienting, and likely very bad for your health and
       | brain.Do the deap, deap dive into just how sophisticated human
       | hearing is at discerning usefull information in an increadably
       | complecated environment, and the fact that there is NO OFF
       | SWITCH, this isn't just an osiliscope excersise, your brain is
       | fighting furiously to figure out what that wierd sound is, please
       | be nice to your brain and dont feed it an endless unatural,
       | impossible in nature, signal. 3 years of sound engineering in a
       | past life, and still loving sound/music/audio and searching for
       | implimentable solutions to NOISE
        
       | taeric wrote:
       | I'm curiously watching the room noise cancelling tech that manta
       | sleep is building. Looks promising. Curious if folks have
       | experience with similar devices?
        
         | thih9 wrote:
         | Somewhat related:
         | https://www.hyundaimotorgroup.com/story/CONT0000000000090151
         | (2020)
         | 
         | > Hyundai's World's First Road-Noise Active Noise Control, RANC
        
       | relaxing wrote:
       | I hope everyone reads to the end for the real takeaway --
       | believing you can re-engineer a complex solution from first
       | principles is generally a fool's errand.
        
         | jefc1111 wrote:
         | It's a really good takeaway too. Analysis is a tool, not a way
         | of life.
         | 
         | My achilles heel, which is similar, but not the same, is
         | attempting to over-optimise, to the detriment of myself and
         | people around me. I have learnt that sometimes it is ok/best to
         | act with little consideration. Usually it's worth quickly
         | assessing what the worst case scenario is - if it's missing a
         | flight, maybe it's good to apply some detailed analysis. If
         | it's being 15 minutes late too the pub - maybe just get on with
         | life and see what happens. It's a really difficult and
         | pervasive behaviour though, which I find some people cannot
         | understand. I can't go upstairs or downstairs at home without
         | briefly wondering if there is some item that should be
         | elsewhere (washing, scattered toys etc) that I could carry with
         | me. I can't switch a light off without doing a quick evaluation
         | of how long it will be until needs to be back on, and therefore
         | whether or not it is in fact worth turning it off. Gah!
        
           | anothereng wrote:
           | think of it as habits. It's a good habit to turn off lights
           | when you leave a room but it's not a rule you have to do or
           | else
        
       | patrickmay wrote:
       | Great story. It reminded me of this quote:
       | 
       | "A month in the laboratory can often save an hour in the
       | library." -- Frank Westheimer
        
         | zimpenfish wrote:
         | Similar sentiment used these days: "Weeks of work can save us
         | hours of planning".
        
         | andrewflnr wrote:
         | But what he's talking about is an hour in the laboratory saving
         | him months in the library, so to speak. As usual, wisdom is
         | knowing which situation you're in.
        
       | brabel wrote:
       | I have gone through a similar journey. In my case I believed the
       | main problem was the neighbour next door. I got an extra layer of
       | gypsum on the wall but turned out the noise comes from all sides.
       | You can't win in such situation. Apartment buildings not built
       | with noise isolation in mind should be illegal. Had to move out
       | and went to live on a house that was absolutely silent. Well, as
       | long as no one outside was mowing the lawn or something. Then,
       | after 10 years, forgot the problem existed and decided to buy a
       | new house near a busy road. What an idiot I am. Now going through
       | all possibilities: already ordered an extra thick glass layer on
       | my windows (it already has 3 layers), bought sound sound
       | dampening panels (they do not do anything other than help a tiny
       | amount with echo), sound dampening curtains (no effect, but at
       | least stop the daylight well) and may even build a new fence and
       | build glass walls around my balcony. But yeah, you can get used
       | to traffic noise, I hear, and sound cancelling headphones solve
       | the issue as long as I wear them (nearly all day anyway while I
       | work)... it's getting better already after a couple of months.
       | But stumping neighbours upstairs, your only defence really is
       | headphones.
        
         | lukevp wrote:
         | Can you plant bushes or shrubs between you and the road? Also
         | if you add a water feature between you and the road it would
         | add more constant background noise which would raise the
         | baseline that noises would have to exceed before you could hear
         | them.
        
           | brabel wrote:
           | My house is on the top of a hill. There is already some trees
           | in front of it but it would be impossible to put several
           | lines of them which would be needed to have any effect. I
           | believe a good glass fence in front of the house will help a
           | lot (together with the extra glass on the windows) by
           | reflecting away most of the direct noise (but no idea if that
           | will really work). I've already gone through lots of
           | discussions about it, and you're right, a water feature is
           | suggested often, I need to have a look at that.
        
           | Anechoic wrote:
           | > Can you plant bushes or shrubs between you and the road?
           | 
           | A thin strip of foliage does (basically) nothing to reduce
           | noise propagation. Dense foliage (meaning you can't see
           | anything through it or move through it) gets you about 1 dB
           | reduction for every 10 feet of thickness.
        
             | dingnuts wrote:
             | one decibel reduction at what reference pressure, and for
             | which frequencies? I think you don't really know, or you
             | would have specified.
             | 
             | as with most things relating to acoustics, the truth
             | appears to be extremely complicated[0] and foliage has
             | different effects at different frequencies including
             | reflection (which may perceived as amplification in some
             | scenarios)
             | 
             | 0 https://sarantinosgeorge.com/2019/05/25/the-sound-
             | absorption...
        
         | bongodongobob wrote:
         | There's really not much you can do short of building a room in
         | a room. Your curtains and sound panels treat mid to high
         | frequency but does nothing for the low frequencies of traffic
         | that are penetrating your walls. You need a combination of mass
         | and isolation to treat that.
        
         | svilen_dobrev wrote:
         | as sibling comment says, low frequencies are problematic. See
         | what they put around highways, usually a 2cm thick glass and/or
         | stone wall. Maybe put a good fence as far as possible from
         | house?
         | 
         | But then there are even lower frequencies. They go through
         | everything - they are shaking it.. thunder/rumble. A huge mass
         | works, but i don't know if it's only way.
         | 
         | For example, find a hill/ridge that has the city on one side,
         | and nothing/wilderness on other side, go on top of it. You will
         | hear whole city - mostly low freqs. Go a bit further in the
         | "nothingness" direction. Then a bit more. And listen.. the
         | feeling is like your ears are being unplugged - it's _that_
         | sound disappears - and you are so get used to it..
        
           | chasd00 wrote:
           | is noise from commercial aircraft low frequency? I live in
           | DFW about 20min from a major airport and I remember going
           | outside after 9/11 when all air traffic was grounded. It was
           | eerily quiet even though I was still in the middle of a large
           | metropolitan area.
        
             | wholinator2 wrote:
             | Well it includes those low frequencies. I'm sure if you've
             | flown you've experienced the strange ear-plugging feeling
             | of flight. The fuselage is highly sound damped from the
             | engines but you still get the low frequencies. Also could
             | be that pretty much everyone tried to not go outside during
             | 9/11, probably a lot more than just planes stopped
        
             | svilen_dobrev wrote:
             | the air being pushed out/around from aircraft engines
             | probably.
             | 
             | most running engines produce some low freqs, and also slow-
             | rotational things.. like cars' wheels thumping on streets
             | and roughnesses there.. esp. thousands of those. And then
             | combinations of almost same freqs produce very low
             | differentials - something on 50hz and another on 53hz will
             | yield some 3hz. Which cannot be heard, it's to be felt.
             | 
             | Another similar silence happens if one is in a street/
             | suburb/ block-of-flats full of airconditioners-on-walls
             | when the power goes off.
        
       | jibbit wrote:
       | I used to think background noise was my enemy.. until a week in a
       | stifling motel with a clunky window unit proved me wrong. It
       | started with me having tantrums that i'd never sleep and ended
       | with me having some of the best sleep ever. I've slept with a
       | noise machine ever since
        
       | Climatebamb wrote:
       | I had a similiar thing with my eye sight: I couldn't believe or
       | accept that my eye sight got really bad in a short period of time
       | (i was 15).
       | 
       | But i did compensate for 5 diopter relativly good.
       | 
       | I did learn plenty of that research, made me more aware of eye
       | sight and because i was very young, hard to say that it was
       | obvious to just accept it at that time.
       | 
       | In hindsight my school grades were definitly worste than they had
       | to be...
       | 
       | And regarding noise: We have a wonderful big lake here in germany
       | and small mountains around it, you can hear the autobahn (going
       | around it) everywhere and we really do a shitty job with handling
       | car noise. Even on the small mountain or in the nature area you
       | hear cars.
       | 
       | I definitly will move out of the city in the next few years and
       | in an area which does not have a autobahn close by. I'm happy
       | driving 30-60 minutes to the autobahn.
        
       | Azkron wrote:
       | Something that has helped me a lot when dealing with noise or
       | other distractions is present time meditation. Just sit there and
       | focus on actively hearing and feeling everything, I would just do
       | 5 min sessions but quite often. After practicing this for while I
       | became less distracted and more comfortable wherever I was.
        
       | ericyd wrote:
       | This was a joy to read. This comment is not useful but sometimes
       | I just want to share a reaction.
        
       | elric wrote:
       | I hate having to wear headphones in order to block obnoxious
       | sounds. Obnoxiously loud people should simply stop being
       | obnoxiously loud. Houses needed better sound proofing. Vehicles
       | need to be quieter. Planes shouldn't fly over densely populated
       | areas.
       | 
       | So much noise is utterly pointless. A symptom of wasted energy.
       | 
       | Soundproofing homes during renovations is stupidly hard to do.
       | E.g. I can't soundproof a party wall without tearing down and
       | replacing a staircase. I installed new windows which block a lot
       | of sound (double glazing, where each pane is of a different
       | thickness), but noise makes it way in through vents and cracks
       | all the same.
        
         | Ntrails wrote:
         | Every night I can hear ubers reversing up the road with their
         | obnoxiously loud lorry-style reversing warning beep. If I'm not
         | already asleep, it keeps me up (and for some reason it takes
         | them forever to park or whatever they're doing).
         | 
         | Obviously it's marginally more safe than not having a beep! So,
         | you know, ancillary impacts be damned...
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | It's also a solved problem:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6rwJ5NCf1Vw
           | 
           | Tesco delivery trucks have them here in Ireland; it's pretty
           | good stuff. Still quite loud/noticeable when you're up close,
           | while at the same time not being completely obnoxious to
           | everyone in a kilometre radius.
           | 
           | Looking at their website it mentions several patents, so
           | perhaps that's one reason it's not more widely used.
        
             | amenhotep wrote:
             | Good lord, I've gone a long time without knowing what that
             | was all about. First time I heard it I assumed the lorry
             | had a broken reversing beep speaker or something!
        
           | elric wrote:
           | Car alarms are similar. Maybe (but doubtfully) they'll
           | prevent your car from being stolen/trashed/emptied. But at
           | the cost of waking up an entire neighbourhood every time a
           | bird shits on it a little too forcefully (or whatever it is
           | that randomly sets off car alarms in the middle of the
           | night). That's not a tradeoff that works for me.
           | 
           | Your house is on fire? Fine, wake up the whole neighbourhood.
           | You're in physical danger? Sure, emergency services can be as
           | noisy as they need to be. Some of your stuff is in danger of
           | being stolen? Meh, I don't want to get out of bed for that.
        
         | froh wrote:
         | We have obnoxiously loud little people around and sometimes no
         | matter what I say they forget or outright refuse simply
         | stopping being obnoxiously loud.
         | 
         | noise cancelling headphones are a godsend, making the noise
         | level bearable so we react reasonably and kindly despite
         | obnoxiously loud little people.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | Yea, if we could solve the "Obnoxious People" problem, it
           | would solve a huge number of other problems. It's wild how
           | much unpleasantness in the world boils down to a few anti-
           | social, obnoxious, belligerent jerks ruining it for everyone.
        
             | Lanolderen wrote:
             | From the "obnoxious person" perspective a few anti-social
             | karens and kents should get with the times and stop ruining
             | things for everyone. /s
             | 
             | It's all subjective. To me the idea of living in a city and
             | hearing your pulse sounds like living in the rubber room of
             | an asylum. Going to great lengths to do so is weird to me.
             | I do however find the sound of engines and cars/planes
             | pleasant so I'm probably lucky.
        
               | wholinator2 wrote:
               | Yeah regular cars aren't a problem, but the kind of cars
               | that are made to be intentionally loud, driven by people
               | who take pleasure in driving them intentionally loudly
               | is. Also blaaaasting some fucking song from your
               | motorcycle at max volume just sitting at a stoplight
               | outside my house is insane. Police sirens are also loud
               | but the loud is a biproduct of the helping people so i
               | can understand it. But holy shit I'm moving somewhere far
               | away from intersections as soon as my lease is up.
        
               | tristor wrote:
               | Loud cars aren't /inherently/ the issue, it's that most
               | of the people who want their car to be loud also have no
               | concept of sound quality for their exhaust tone. Your
               | typical 4-banger ecobox driven by a 19 year old stoner
               | with an Aliexpress exhaust is not what people mean when
               | they say that they like the sound of cars.
               | 
               | I like the sounds of cars, and cars can absolutely have
               | their sound tuned to be pleasant. Famously, Lexus for the
               | LFA had Yamaha (yes the piano people) tune the sound of
               | the engine and exhaust, which sounds absolutely lovely.
               | Even far more mundane vehicles (not supercars) can sound
               | quite nice. For instance, while I generally don't think
               | positively about Ford, this last generation of Mustang GT
               | had a wonderful exhaust note from the factory with the
               | cutouts open, it was throaty and loud without being full
               | of drone.
               | 
               | Nobody wants to hear an Aliexpress exhaust or the kid
               | with the beater BMW leaking oil that they put a popcorn
               | tune on.
               | 
               | Motorcycles are a different story, but motorcycle riders
               | are also a different sort of asshole.
        
             | froh wrote:
             | oops, errrm, I was referring to kids in the household. just
             | claryfyin'
        
           | elric wrote:
           | Just to be clear: I wasn't referring to children in my rant.
           | Children can be loud (and obnoxious), but that's usually
           | fine. Having an adult around who can channel their energy
           | away from the neighbours is all that's needed there.
        
         | stdbrouw wrote:
         | > Planes shouldn't fly over densely populated areas.
         | 
         | Usually the planes were there first, though. Airports were
         | built far away from population centers, but then the
         | surrounding towns or cities expanded.
         | 
         | See https://www.construction-physics.com/p/why-is-it-so-hard-
         | to-...
        
           | arp242 wrote:
           | That's not really how I read in that article. It's the
           | introduction of the jet engine that caused the bulk of the
           | problems. It does mention O'Hare in Chicago as an example of
           | an airport built far from the city only to have the city
           | eventually expand around it, but that was in the 40s, 50s,
           | and 60s and wasn't a big problem until jet engines came
           | along. It also mentions that airports have become much much
           | larger (both in terms if surface area and traffic) - it's not
           | just cities that have expanded. There is a big difference
           | between "an airplane once a day" and "an airplane every five
           | minutes", whether it's during daytime or early
           | mornings/evenings/nights.
           | 
           | My hometown is also an example of an airport built far form
           | the city (in the 30s) only to have the city expand around it,
           | but traffic has expanded massively since the early 00s (after
           | the city expansions happened) with RyanAir traffic. Before
           | that it was mostly a military airport with some limited
           | regional passenger traffic.
           | 
           | As an additional point, the most noise isn't necessarily near
           | the airport but sometimes dozens of kilometres from the
           | airport. Sometimes this is because the airport changed flying
           | routes due to noise complaints and/or expansions.
        
           | elric wrote:
           | Maybe that's true where you live. My town is just under 2000
           | years old.
           | 
           | I get that it makes sense from a logistics point to keep
           | airports close to people. But's incredibly disruptive to all
           | the people who are impacted by frequent loud bursts of noise
           | during landing & takeoff.
        
       | sigilis wrote:
       | What earphones did the author end up using?
       | 
       | It is strange that after relating all the dead ends in some
       | detail and found his solution, he does not share it.
        
         | thenthenthen wrote:
         | I guess Bose QuietComfort (hinted at by the bold font). These
         | are ON ear headphones. Not ideal for me personally. These will
         | hurt after an hour or so depending on your ears I guess. I
         | prefer the Sleepbuds II (see below also)
        
           | joshdavham wrote:
           | These are the headphones I bought last week. From my
           | experience, I can wear them hours on end and feel fine.
        
       | timerol wrote:
       | (2023)
        
       | 1970-01-01 wrote:
       | >Never satisfied, I tried some other models. But, no--the model
       | that everyone says are the best were indeed the best. So let's
       | review: I had a problem. The ultimate solution to my problem was
       | to do the most obvious possible thing. But I convinced myself
       | that wouldn't work and spent two years trying everything else.
       | 
       | "Try a non-creative approach." -Albert Einstein
        
       | mauvehaus wrote:
       | I wear earmuffs for work pretty regularly for extended periods of
       | time. If you get ones with the metal connector between the ear
       | covers, you can spring it so they aren't so tight over your head.
       | 
       | The usual failure mode on earmuffs is the cushion bit that seals
       | around your ear drying out and getting brittle. Or the foam in
       | the ear cushions getting hard or breaking down. When either of
       | those things happens, it's time for new earmuffs (or ear cushions
       | if you can find the parts).
       | 
       | These are the ones I use:
       | 
       | https://www.homedepot.com/p/3M-Pro-Grade-Earmuff-90565-4DC-P...
        
       | runjake wrote:
       | I explored similar solutions but recently switched from AirPods
       | Pro to AirPods Pro 2. I was genuinely surprised by how much
       | better the noise canceling was for my needs, such as working in
       | the office and doing yard work.
       | 
       | Last night, I used them at a sporting event where loud techno
       | music was playing, and I could hardly hear the music while
       | clearly listening to my podcast.
       | 
       | Proper fit of the earbuds is absolutely key and AirPods don't
       | match everyone's ear shape, so YMMV.
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | i've fantasized about some kind of external noise cancelling
         | system for use at a gun range. It would be nice to have
         | something that would make it bearable to be behind someone
         | shooting a firearm without ear protection.
         | 
         | btw, you know in action movies when there's 10 people with
         | automatic weapons shooting it out in a building and talking to
         | each other? yeah.right. firearms are so unbelievable loud,
         | there's no way any conversation is happening in that
         | environment. further, video doesn't do the supersonic blast
         | justice at all it's something you have to experience.
        
           | InitialLastName wrote:
           | AIUI, active noise cancelling doesn't really work well for
           | impulsive sources like gunshots because the impulse does not
           | exist for enough time for predictive interference to
           | function.
           | 
           | Additionally, because noise cancellation depends on the phase
           | of the wave relative to the receivers (your ears) it really
           | needs to be within ~1/4 wavelength of your ears, or 3" at
           | 1kHz.
           | 
           | In gun ranges, what you would probably benefit most from is
           | passive energy reduction, so ear protectors (already usually
           | covered) and acoustical treatment. However, acoustical
           | surface is very expensive where flat concrete is cheap, so
           | you end up with gun ranges being big reverberative spaces
           | instead.
        
       | philip-b wrote:
       | >the model that everyone says are the best
       | 
       | Is that airpods, or Bose something, or Sony something?
        
         | jedimastert wrote:
         | No OP, but I can vouch for for Sony WH-1000X3 (not the most
         | recent model but I assume they haven't gotten substantially
         | worse). I know many autistic folks who use them for very
         | similar audio sensitivity and use them myself.
        
         | bkcooper wrote:
         | In the article, "quiet" and "comfort" are bolded in that
         | section, indicating that they are referring to Bose
         | QuietComfort headphones
        
         | mananaysiempre wrote:
         | Judging by the phrase " _quiet_ and _comfort_ able" (emphasis
         | in the original), the author is using headphones from the Bose
         | QuietComfort series. Those are, indeed, widely acklowledged as
         | the most comfortable in each generation, including for
         | prolonged periods. The ANC is also state of the art though
         | possibly a bit worse than on the Sony XMs, and the battery is
         | decent with the same caveat.
         | 
         | I don't believe I've ever heard the AirPods Max called the best
         | on any of those fundamentals, only on the Apple ecosystem
         | integration and the spatial audio. (The tuning is also
         | ostensibly less plebeian than on Bose or Sony, but if you care
         | for sound enough to be willing to spend AirPods Max money
         | you're probably getting the Focal Bathys instead anyway.)
        
       | LichenStone wrote:
       | What I do to deal with general noise but specifically disruptive
       | low frequency noise from my surroundings is to mask it, in
       | particular with longform (often an hour long) dub techno tracks.
       | CV313 is good for this. It's the only good way to counteract the
       | subsonic energy coming through my walls and ceiling.
       | 
       | We experience sub frequencies with our whole body, certainly I
       | seem to have a high sensitivity to the 5-30Hz stuff. So no amount
       | of ear plugging will be really that effective.
        
       | joshdavham wrote:
       | Noise cancelling headphones have quite literally been one of the
       | best things I've ever spent money on. I started using them three
       | years ago (about a year out of college) and I was immediately
       | filled with immense regret that I didn't invest in a pair
       | earlier.
       | 
       | Noise cancellers have made it so much easier for me to focus,
       | they've lowered my stress levels, made me a more effective
       | programmer and even made me a nicer person.
       | 
       | I also recently just shelled out $600CAD for a new pair of Bose
       | noise cancellers and they were worth every single loonie!
        
       | byronic wrote:
       | smashing molecules
        
       | sitkack wrote:
       | His upstairs neighbors have their own channel
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IRB0sxw-YU
        
       | sepositus wrote:
       | I'm sensitive to noise, have been using noise-canceling
       | headphones for many years, but just recently developed chronic
       | tinnitus. I can still use the headphones, but I _have_ to be
       | playing music in order to block out the ringing. Which then makes
       | the original problem worse over time as my ears start to hurt
       | from so much constant sound.
       | 
       | Anyway, I've been in a real pickle for a few months now.
       | Wondering if anyone else has the same problem?
        
         | password4321 wrote:
         | One recent discussion of many:
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43082700#43083496
        
       | m463 wrote:
       | my noise journey:
       | 
       | 1) try noise cancelling headphones
       | 
       | NO: they have undefinable effects on your psyche. Maybe
       | "pressure" or some sort of non-silent silence that your body
       | still reacts to?
       | 
       | 2) white noise, pink noise, music, classical music, new age
       | music, atmospheric sounds, etc
       | 
       | NO: actually, these are similar to noise-cancelling headphones.
       | Your brain is still reacting to the sound in a non-passive way.
       | 
       | 3) giant earmuffs
       | 
       | NO: heavy, physical head pressure, etc
       | 
       | solution) 3M ear classic NRR 33 earplugs. when I need to
       | concentrate. while sleeping. Keep a pair around for "that guy"
       | playing videos on his phone in public. The BEST. I buy 200 at a
       | time.
       | 
       | After reading this article, I wonder if noise-cancelling
       | headphones + 3m earplugs might work together?
        
         | schiffern wrote:
         | This is me.
         | 
         | I trim the length to ~half to avoid sticking out, which causes
         | them to catch and loosen. I also find that washing them first
         | with an organic soap (Dr B) can reduce skin irritation during
         | long-duration wear. When earplugs get wet they inflate almost
         | comically, but after drying they shrink back down to regular
         | size.
         | 
         | I use the rounded 3M EarSoft rather than the square-edge Ear
         | Classic.[1] And actually, I just get the clone down at Harbor
         | Fright...
         | 
         | Presumably this changes the attenuation somewhat (and voids the
         | cert), but any difference isn't noticeable and it helps a lot
         | for long-duration comfort and overall wearability.
         | 
         | (and yes, obviously I don't stick them in too far :D )
         | 
         | [1] https://www.3m.com/3M/en_US/p/c/ppe/hearing-
         | protection/earpl...
        
       | fracus wrote:
       | I found the noise cancelling headphones don't completely
       | eliminate loud intermittent noise but prevents them from being
       | offensive and jarring. I use them almost all the time and worry
       | they have negative long term effects. They certainly have
       | positive effects though.
        
       | andrewflnr wrote:
       | > (Earbuds inside the earmuffs don't work because they get
       | knocked out of position and then can't be adjusted.)
       | 
       | Interesting. I've used earbuds inside earmuffs quite a few times
       | and not had this problem, except when the cord gets tugged.
       | 
       | I definitely agree with the principle that if the experiment is
       | fast and cheap, just do it.
        
         | davesmylie wrote:
         | I've done this a lot - mostly with big machinery where the ANC
         | on the earbuds, or the (not aviation quality) ear muffs alone
         | don't suffice to bring the noise down to an acceptable level.
         | 
         | It works well - but have them in long enough, particularly when
         | physically working and the earbuds will loosen and shift. The
         | seal on the earbuds with your ear canal is important,
         | especially with ANC buds. Removing face shields and ear muffs
         | to re-adjust earbuds is frustrating.
        
       | MinimalAction wrote:
       | I completely understand the sentiments of the author. It's easy
       | to fall into the trap of "it's too easy to be true; let me try
       | out a 'clever' way", and fall into the cycle of figuring out
       | things that have 100 different parameters and thus hard to model
       | realistically.
       | 
       | On the other hand though, which are the _best_ noise-cancelling
       | earphones or headphones? I 've gone down this route, and haven't
       | been satisfied with what was suggested. Airpods Pro 2 seems great
       | at canceling noise, but sounds flat. Soundcore products have a
       | phenomenal sound quality, but can't cancel noise as effectively.
        
         | chrisldgk wrote:
         | Sony Head- and earphones have in my experience been the best at
         | both. The WH-1000XM series are the best noise cancelling
         | headphones I've tried so far and the WF-1000XM series are the
         | best earphones I've had. My personal favorite tip is the Sony
         | Linkbuds S, which aren't as good as the WFs at either sound or
         | noise canceling, however they're the best price to performance
         | you can get on the market IMO
         | 
         | Edit: I should also say that the tuning on the WH headphones is
         | pretty bass-heavy (somewhat obnoxiously so), so make sure to
         | use an equalizer to remove some of that.
        
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