[HN Gopher] Executive wealth as a factor in return-to-office
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       Executive wealth as a factor in return-to-office
        
       Author : kappi
       Score  : 485 points
       Date   : 2025-03-02 16:47 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | rybosome wrote:
       | I was at Google during their initial "return to office" mandate.
       | 
       | During the TGIF (company all hands) discussing this, the
       | architect of the policy, someone high up in the HR org, explained
       | why it was necessary.
       | 
       | I don't recall what they said, but I do recall that they happened
       | to be working remotely at the time, after the policy against
       | remote work had already gone into effect.
       | 
       | The brazenness of lecturing us on why remote work was harmful to
       | Google while working remotely was shocking. Predictably, the
       | internal anger over this was enormous.
       | 
       | Rules for thee but not for me, some animals are more equal than
       | others, etc.
        
         | kurthr wrote:
         | The Stanford Hospital Nurses strike was driven by similar
         | dynamics. Nurses had to work overtime through the entire
         | pandemic while executives literally phoned it in for years!
         | They were shocked, shocked, to discover that there was anger
         | and resentment.
         | 
         | It was little surprise that more than half were showing up
         | daily on picket lines as admin was apparently surprised that
         | they couldn't find "travelers" to fill critical ICU roles,
         | while surgeons continued scheduling elective surgeries.
         | 
         | It's still the case that the HR executive officer resides in LA
         | and that Payroll is managed (with financially catastrophic
         | results) from Hawaii. Both discipline and scheduling are also
         | done almost entirely remote. It would be hilarious if not for
         | the effects on staff and patients.
        
           | cogman10 wrote:
           | The nature of nursing is that you have to be in person. What
           | HR did (and has been doing) is keeping the number of staff at
           | a barebones level. They don't, for example, hire enough
           | nurses that if one is out sick (during covid!) that there
           | could be someone to cover the shift.
           | 
           | They went so far as to only hire travel nurses (temps), who
           | were commanding 100k+ salaries, when things got bad enough
           | rather than filling a full time position. And, to add insult
           | to injury, the nurses themselves have been getting salaries
           | in the 30->50k range. So HR could have literally filled 2+
           | positions for the cost of a single travel nurse.
           | 
           | That's what has lead to a nursing shortage and burnout. HR
           | cost cutting because "we just need the minimum and no
           | backups". It's a big part of the strikes.
           | 
           | Believe it or not, many nurses and doctors working in
           | healthcare actually care about their patients. Something HR
           | is more than willing to exploit to get them to work
           | ridiculous hours.
        
             | fjjjrjj wrote:
             | > Something HR is more than willing to exploit to get them
             | to work ridiculous hours.
             | 
             | HR works for management and the board.
        
             | kurthr wrote:
             | I thought I had seen businesses run by every conceivable
             | group, founders, engineers, sales, marketing, finance...
             | and then I saw a hospital and realized it was run by HR.
             | Every "may" in a rule becomes "shall" since anything else
             | could be perceived as preferential. It makes the lives of
             | both supervisors and supervised hell. Only the spiteful or
             | incompetent rise.
             | 
             | Of course the "why" is driven by the greatest risk in
             | healthcare. Where most income comes from insurance is
             | stable, the real risk is being sued. Hence rises "there
             | shall be no exceptions" HR rule based hegemony.
        
             | lostlogin wrote:
             | I'm in a different country and have different almost
             | everything, but one thing is constant: nurses are treated
             | like crap.
             | 
             | I'm a radiographer and moaned to a colleague about the
             | holdup I'd have with my 7am x-ray ward round in ICU. 'The
             | nurses are still doing handover at 8am, so won't help and I
             | can't do anything.'
             | 
             | An older radiographer told me that the nurses stopped
             | getting paid at 7am. The overtime they were working every
             | single day after a night shift was all unpaid.
        
             | arebop wrote:
             | Your numbers are way off
             | [https://www.indeed.com/cmp/Stanford-Health-
             | Care/salaries/Reg...]
        
         | techpeach wrote:
         | I would imagine the logic from the HR director is something
         | like "the reason you're not as successful as me is you don't
         | know how to manage your time well"
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | A role worth replacing with Gemini.
        
             | xvilka wrote:
             | Most of the management, as well as bureaucracy could be
             | substituted with AI for sure.
        
           | hyperhopper wrote:
           | Which is ironic because they manage our time for us to force
           | us to have less of it.
        
         | alabastervlog wrote:
         | Fussell's _Class_ (1983) covers some of this. His upper-middle
         | (in class--income tends to track with these social classes, but
         | not always) are accustomed to very free lifestyles relative to,
         | especially, the middle class (or the lower two tiers of his
         | multifaceted "prole" class--the upper tier of that class does
         | stuff like own successful plumbing or welding businesses, not
         | work at Wal Mart or whatever)
         | 
         | A major class marker distinguishing the upper-middle from the
         | middle ends up being that the former are barely surveilled,
         | largely free to set their own schedule, and basically are
         | trusted to do the right thing (never mind that perfectly
         | ordinary behavior patterns from them would be regarded as
         | instantly fireable for others; it's a different standard),
         | while the middle gets constant status reports, return to office
         | mandates, stricter start and stop times, maybe drug tests.
         | 
         | (The actual upper class, of course, simply don't meaningfully
         | have managers at all)
         | 
         | You know that older, expert manager everyone says is great that
         | they bring in to run the business in the show Silicon Valley?
         | Who spends a bunch of his time ignoring the place to breed
         | horses or whatever, and seems to think that's normal and fine?
         | That's this kind of thing. He doesn't even get why that might
         | be wrong, or why it might be shitty to take a big paycheck and
         | ask hard work from others then fuck off to a rich-dude hobby
         | half the time--that's just what _his kind_ of people do.
        
           | lostlogin wrote:
           | It's funny how often Silicon Valley (the tv show) gets
           | referenced. There are so many painfully accurate cliches.
        
           | PaulHoule wrote:
           | _Class_ is a really great book, as is are most of the books
           | that Paul Fussell wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Fussell
        
             | alabastervlog wrote:
             | I can't speak from personal experience to the accuracy of
             | some of his characterizations, but he _nailed_ the ones
             | that (I now see) form parts of my background and are common
             | in my family: various levels of  "prole", plus "middle". It
             | was really weird to see our quirks of behavior and taste
             | (some of which I'd never have noticed if not for the book)
             | dissected and analyzed that way, but fun and gave me new
             | ways of looking at all of it.
             | 
             | I've found his upper-middle and upper class descriptions
             | constantly useful for deepening my insight into media, the
             | news, work-life, and even history. Usually in small ways,
             | but it's still pretty cool. Class markers are _everywhere_
             | in media, and a lot of it I was surely noticing
             | subconsciously, but being aware of them and able to point
             | out many elements of them is a different experience. It 's
             | like seeing into the minds of the set designers, costume
             | designers, and actors.
        
               | abnercoimbre wrote:
               | Awareness in general is already worthwhile, but has it
               | been useful for other things? E.g. Changing your views on
               | government labor policy, worker-friendly laws, etc.
        
               | alabastervlog wrote:
               | It's led to a few things:
               | 
               | 1) I've developed a vague notion that much of the last
               | 3-4 decades has, along with other (mostly bad) social,
               | political, and economic changes in the time after trust-
               | busting got neutered in the 1970s and Reaganism and
               | neoliberalism took over (RIP neoliberalism, at least on
               | one side of the aisle, LOL, glad to see you finally go
               | even if the rest of that's all a shit-show) has been a
               | kind of one-sided upper-middle civil war. It _sure looks
               | like_ the finance guys (solidly part of that class, for
               | the most part) teamed up with the professional managerial
               | class (the least-solidly part of that class, of the major
               | traditional categories therein) to do their best to shove
               | doctors, academics, and to some extent lawyers, down into
               | the Middle, with no organized resistance on the other
               | side.
               | 
               | 2) I see a lot of how programmers are treated through
               | this lens. Companies seem _extremely_ reluctant to give
               | programmers upper-middle perks. I think #1 is part of
               | why: managers really, really don 't want to mint a new
               | upper-middle cohort even as they're busy clearing the
               | field for only themselves and finance bros, and
               | programmers (lots of us, at least) _have the income_ to
               | be there, but sit in a weird half-in-half-out for the
               | upper middle, because we 've mostly been denied things
               | like private offices and certain other liberties, and
               | subjected to micromanagement and humiliating hazing-
               | ritual hiring processes, even as incomes soar and the
               | snacks are good or whatever. _Socially_ we are firmly
               | "under" even a lot of other parts of companies that make
               | less money, and part of that's come through cultivation
               | of certain attitudes about programmers, and denial of
               | "higher" perks.
               | 
               | Beyond that I was already pretty firmly on the side of
               | stronger labor, better labor protection laws, and _far_
               | more unionization, and _Class_ didn 't take me any
               | farther from those things.
               | 
               | I read his optimism for his supposed "Class X" and the
               | plain fact that none of that turned out to be what he
               | thought it was as, if anything, another reason to be for
               | the above. Organization and force (read broadly, I don't
               | necessarily mean stuff like "hitting people") will get us
               | to a better place, not hoping to be saved by a social
               | movement.
        
               | abnercoimbre wrote:
               | Wow I wasn't aware of the realities of #1 but I certainly
               | lived through #2 before I became an independent
               | organizer. I'm buying _Class_ on my next bookstore trip
               | -- thank you for expanding your thoughts!
               | 
               | P.S. Self-plug: you might find my newsletter last month
               | [0] mildly interesting. See the section "My Own Views"
               | 
               | [0] https://handmadecities.com/news/splitting-from-
               | handmade-netw...
        
           | lurk2 wrote:
           | > A major class marker distinguishing the upper-middle from
           | the middle ends up being that the former are barely
           | surveilled, largely free to set their own schedule, and
           | basically are trusted to do the right thing (never mind that
           | perfectly ordinary behavior patterns from them would be
           | regarded as instantly fireable for others; it's a different
           | standard), while the middle gets constant status reports,
           | return to office mandates, stricter start and stop times,
           | maybe drug tests.
           | 
           | When I was having trouble finding work this was one of my
           | biggest issues. I was qualified to be working independently
           | but all the entry-level work I could find would have involved
           | being treated like I was in high school again, whereas before
           | I could use the afternoon to tinker or read and no one cared
           | as long as my work was getting done. This is why office jobs
           | end up being coveted to the point that a university graduate
           | will be making the same amount working an office job as a
           | retail associate at a Walmart.
        
         | jumpman500 wrote:
         | It's time to unionize. The top is out of touch and the
         | valuations of these tech titans aren't just staggering; they're
         | symptomatic of a system that values profit over people. These
         | tycoons at the helm are not just steering companies--they're
         | puppeteering democracy, pushing political agendas that many of
         | us find abhorrent and irrelevant to our lives. Unionization
         | isn't merely about better pay or working conditions; it's about
         | reclaiming power from this oligarchy that's grown too powerful,
         | too influential. The tech community needs to wake up and get
         | these clowns in line, we could shut these companies down if we
         | organize.
        
           | einszwei wrote:
           | Tech and Software adjacent professions have to be ones that
           | are least likely to unionize.
           | 
           | There was an internal survey (unofficial) at my workplace
           | right after a mass layoff 2 years back about how many were
           | interested in forming a union. There were 3 options -
           | Interested, Not Sure and Against. The option with most votes
           | was "Against".
           | 
           | I could go into the reasons which were submitted in survey
           | but in short most were related to hyper individualism that is
           | so pervasive.
        
             | chrisweekly wrote:
             | Admitting in a survey that you're pro-union might be
             | (rightly) perceived as high-risk, no reward.
        
               | smallmancontrov wrote:
               | Yes, but the hyper-individualism is very familiar. I
               | wonder if the balance has changed since the 2022 wake-up
               | call.
        
             | callc wrote:
             | Wow that really sounds like a captor killing a few captives
             | and then asking the rest of the "ok, so who else wants to
             | try to work together to escape?"
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | One would get far better responses if you just used the
             | word "professional association" instead of "union".
        
           | anonym29 wrote:
           | Former big tech worker here, I'd support unionization
           | wholeheartedly, but it's also worth advocating for cessation
           | of all Apple, Microsoft, Alphabet, Meta, etc products and
           | software. Build software for linux only, explicitly choose to
           | not support Windows, Mac OS, iOS, or Android. Support and
           | test on Gecko-based browsers, reject Webkit-based and Blink-
           | based browsers. Act like people are making you uncomfortable
           | whenever they offer statements, comments, or questions that
           | normalize gmail, facebook, iphones, or outlook. Become a
           | FLOSS evangelist. Help your non-technical friends install a
           | browser that supports manifest v2 and full-fat ad blocking.
           | Help people set up adguard or pihole. Make it sound cool,
           | easy, and seductive. Disrespect the ruling elite / "eat the
           | rich!" vibes. Normalize anti-surveillance. Normalize full-
           | face masks and juggalo paint and avante garde clothing that
           | disrupts facial recognition algorithms. Build on a VPS, build
           | on a dedicated server, build on clouds that aren't owned and
           | operated by multitrillion dollar conglomerate monstrosities.
           | Make AWS, Azure, and GCP as socially unacceptable as racism,
           | sexism, and transphobia.
           | 
           | This isn't a call to arms for luddites, this is a call to
           | kill the trillion dollar companies with grassroots direct
           | action that is intentionally and purposefully organized to
           | decrease the revenue and social acceptance of these
           | organizations. This is a pro-tech movement, it's just pro-
           | tech that respects your freedom, your privacy, your rights to
           | decide what your hardware and software are / are not doing.
           | We will not be the feudal subjects of these tyrants.
           | 
           | We must be the revolutionary change we want to see by lunging
           | straight for the hearts of these evil empires. Grassroots
           | direct action, spread the word.
        
             | efitz wrote:
             | Practically all software that matters is already Linux
             | only. That happened 15-20 years ago as a combination of
             | "cloud" and "SaaS".
             | 
             | Android and iOS apps, with the exception of games, are
             | usually just thin presentation layers around cloud apps.
             | Hint: if you have to log in, the real app a cloud app
             | running on a Linux server.
             | 
             | But I don't see what that has to do with executive
             | compensation.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | Exorbitant executive compensation coming from the same
               | companies that are aggressively infringing upon the
               | rights of their end users are two expressions of the same
               | tyrannical desires of these big tech companies. They're
               | trying to bring about neofeudalism where we're all
               | peasants serving our big tech lords.
               | 
               | Also, it's not about supporting Linux, it's about _not_
               | supporting tyrants (Microsoft, Apple, Alphabet, Meta, et.
               | al.). Whenever you offer compatibility for Windows, Mac
               | OS, iOS, or Android, you are excusing, encouraging, and
               | supporting tyranny and neofeudalism.
        
               | fsflover wrote:
               | > Android and iOS apps, with the exception of games, are
               | usually just thin presentation layers around cloud apps.
               | 
               | Consider using and supporting GNU/Linux phones. Sent from
               | my Librem 5.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | Upvoted from my PinePhone Pro :)
        
               | fsflover wrote:
               | Thanks for your support. However, your upvote didn't
               | register (I still have 1 point on the comment). I noticed
               | this sometimes happening with me recently, too. You can
               | verify this by unvoting and looking at my karma in the
               | profile not changing.
        
               | anonym29 wrote:
               | I think an equal number of upvotes and a downvotes/flags
               | does this, too.
        
               | fsflover wrote:
               | The test I suggested would reveal that, too.
        
           | kiliantics wrote:
           | The right time would have been when the going was good some
           | years back. Tech workers could have put together an
           | unparalleled strike fund and commanded unprecedented
           | political power. We could have truly changed the world.
           | 
           | But, as already mentioned, if you think sentiment is
           | unfriendly to unions now, it's nothing compared to how it was
           | back then. The typical tech worker somehow thought they were
           | already changing the world, doing some VC's bidding for
           | nickels on the dollar, adding sparkly features to another B2B
           | SaaS product...
        
         | mjmsmith wrote:
         | This attitude seems more easily explained by the belief that,
         | unlike you, the peons haven't earned their perks yet.
        
           | jumpman500 wrote:
           | Yup, that's the problem. They view people as peons. Not
           | people with lives, ambitions, family and friends. The only
           | way to correct that view is to disobey.
        
         | mlinhares wrote:
         | It's a great reminder to tech people that they're still
         | peasants.
        
           | Taylor_OD wrote:
           | The phrase temporarily embarrassed millionaires is even more
           | true for tech workers than most Americans. Especially for any
           | who have entrepreneurial dreams or who are at start-ups for
           | the stock options. The carrot is right there...
        
             | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
             | It's literally true, even without dreams or stock option
             | bets, that many tech workers are temporarily embarrassed
             | millionaires. The source tweets are by an Amazon VP; an
             | Amazon SWE salary with even moderately responsible spending
             | is enough to retire as a multimillionaire.
        
               | recursivecaveat wrote:
               | I mean, the steinbeck quote is from 1960.. You will need
               | probably ~$30 million dollars at retirement if you are
               | 30yo today to retire as a 1960s millionaire.
        
               | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
               | The Steinbeck quote from the 1960s said "temporarily
               | embarassed capitalist". Someone who has "entrepreneurial
               | dreams" or is "at start-ups for the stock options",
               | hoping to get wealthy through appreciation of their
               | equity ownership, is unambiguously a capitalist.
               | 
               | "Millionaire" was added in a 2004 misquote by Robert
               | Wright, and $1 million in 2004 dollars is about $1.7
               | million in 2025 dollars.
        
             | loeg wrote:
             | The phrase originally means that the subject is not a
             | millionaire and likely will never be one, whereas many of
             | us in tech are already millionaires or very likely to
             | become one if we work in industry for any amount of time.
             | 
             | It took me about seven years in industry, starting from my
             | first internship, to hit my first million. Non-FAANG and
             | nothing magical happening with appreciating options or
             | stock, just ordinary W-2 work.
        
           | abnercoimbre wrote:
           | I'm glad we pierced the illusion that tech workers are
           | somehow "one of them" because of high salaries. You're not.
           | You're just labor.
           | 
           | (And big tech execs still make orders of magnitude more in
           | compensation than you do. You two were never alike!)
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | We still see this attitude in HN comments sometimes. People
             | thinking their piddly $500K in RSUs that vests over the
             | next decade somehow qualifies them entry into the Global
             | Elite class. And then they'll argue against unions and
             | other things that help workers because they see themselves
             | as rubbing elbows with Jeff Bezos. Yea, yea, your handful
             | of stock options make you just like him...
        
           | GeorgeTirebiter wrote:
           | Have a listen to John Lennon's "Working-Class Hero". Still
           | relevant. Maybe more so.
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ve-mANenpC4
        
         | switch007 wrote:
         | HR are professional gaslighters and internal-PR masters. I'm
         | not even surprised by their ability to twist things anymore
        
         | ein0p wrote:
         | As Laszlo Bock (head of HR at the time) quipped at TGIF when he
         | announced Obamacare cuts to Google's healthcare coverage: "But
         | hey, you get unlimited colonoscopies".
        
         | hyperhopper wrote:
         | It's more insidious than that.
         | 
         | Being forced to RTO across the country, then immediately laid
         | off after I uprooted my life to do so, all while knowing the
         | layoffs were planned while they were telling me to move across
         | the country, is fucked.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | It's happening because employers are desperate to get their
           | power back while workers have no rights. It also makes it
           | harder to leave an org, as orgs are also desperate to hold on
           | to and develop existing talent due to forward looking working
           | age population demographics. This is a desperate immune
           | response.
           | 
           | (also why employers are trying to staff up offices offshore
           | in LATAM and India)
           | 
           | Edit: @tbrownaw all of the responses to your inquiry are
           | accurate.
        
             | tbrownaw wrote:
             | > _It's happening because employers are desperate to get
             | their power back while workers have no rights._
             | 
             | What does this mean in concrete terms? What useful power do
             | they gain based on physical presence, and what rights are
             | currently absent but coming (back?) soon?
        
               | scott_w wrote:
               | > Being forced to RTO across the country, then
               | immediately laid off after I uprooted my life to do so
               | 
               | Definitely power there if you know your staff have just
               | uprooted their lives and now depend on you for their
               | immediate term existence...
        
               | PantaloonFlames wrote:
               | The power in the market for labor.
               | 
               | If remote labor is the norm, then every tech company has
               | to compete with every other, across all geographies. If
               | local labor is required, the employers can manage or
               | restrict their competitive environment. There are fewer
               | options for the employee.
               | 
               | The bulk layoffs of the past couple of years have a
               | similar effect - gaining power. It makes every employee a
               | little more conscious that their employment is
               | provisional and conditional.
               | 
               | But I think RTO goes beyond just market power gains.
               | There are many workers who are conscientious, attentive,
               | and dedicated. For each one of those there are plenty who
               | are just punching their time card. I'm no expert but it
               | seems to me that RTO gives the employer and mid-level
               | managers better visibility into all of that dynamic.
               | 
               | But RTO fights against the reality that employers have
               | constructed distributed teams, with people working from
               | all over the globe on the same project. If that's the
               | case, what is the difference whether I work from my home
               | office, or a hotel desk space in a big building alongside
               | people I don't know.?
        
               | brookst wrote:
               | > If remote labor is the norm, then every tech company
               | has to compete with every other, across all geographies.
               | If local labor is required, the employers can manage or
               | restrict their competitive environment.
               | 
               | Doesn't that seem backwards? A company that supports
               | remote work has a worldwide talent pool.l, including
               | lower cost geographies. A company that insists on RTO can
               | only hire locally, so has less talent available and can't
               | arbitrage labor costs.
               | 
               | I think RTO makes no sense, but I don't see how it gives
               | employers more power.
        
               | jackcosgrove wrote:
               | I have thought about this too.
               | 
               | * Remote workers aren't actually a worldwide labor force
               | because of time zones, so the competition on the labor
               | side is less than in theory.
               | 
               | * Remote work diminished the difference in liquidity
               | between labor and capital markets. Capital is by nature
               | more liquid than labor, and being more liquid gives you
               | an advantage. As you say, the competitive pressures exist
               | in both markets, and maybe this is a wash in terms of
               | power.
               | 
               | * Remote workers can pay off mortgages faster, leading to
               | more early retirements.
               | 
               | I still think the primary reason is a desire to manage
               | according to the old style, which is a different argument
               | than the GP.
        
               | alpha_squared wrote:
               | > Doesn't that seem backwards? A company that supports
               | remote work has a worldwide talent pool.l, including
               | lower cost geographies.
               | 
               | Humans are not just replaceable cogs. When you hire
               | someone, there are several things built into the
               | assumption of that work that we take for granted. For
               | example, federal holidays or work culture. The US is
               | notorious for accepting overwork as the norm (people even
               | brag about working 60-hour weeks) where that's just not
               | acceptable in other parts of the world. That's obviously
               | not true everywhere (e.g. 9-9-6 in China), but is true in
               | enough places that it's not trivial to just swap in
               | person A from country X with person B in country Y.
               | That's not even touching on labor laws, language barriers
               | (e.g. understanding office lingo like "circle back"), or
               | value structure. The latter is huge where Americans care
               | a lot about their jobs and careers and most parts of the
               | world don't have the concept of a career.
        
               | WheatMillington wrote:
               | Yes, and moreover it's obvious from anyone's experience
               | that applying for remote roles means workers will have
               | MUCH more competition for the role. Employers ought to
               | love this.
        
               | aisenik wrote:
               | Capturing and controlling a market is preferable to
               | competitive markets under our political-economic system.
               | It's been the model for Silicon Valley since Bezos sold
               | his plan to lose money until Amazon had a controlling
               | stake of the retail market in the late 90s. It's a
               | seemingly unavoidable outcome of under-regulated
               | capitalism.
        
               | NBJack wrote:
               | Couple this with regular threats and fear mongering about
               | AI coming for the jobs of tech workers, and the picture
               | gets even more somber. The tech industry wants to cheapen
               | labor.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | > The tech industry wants to cheapen labor.
               | 
               | Of course. And the workers want more money.
               | 
               | It's how markets work.
        
               | d0mine wrote:
               | It is worth mentioning that companies colluding for
               | forced RTO, so people can't easily leave
        
               | lukevp wrote:
               | Not OP, but RTO forces geographic centralization and
               | reduces mobility of their employees. If you can work
               | remotely then you have a much larger pool. And I think
               | that opening the door to remote work made employees
               | realize that there was some power and some negotiation to
               | be had on working conditions (basically our generation's
               | version of the 40 hr work week in response to the
               | Industrial Revolution)
        
               | Jordan-117 wrote:
               | Office work requires living within commute distance of
               | the office, which is much more expensive and keeps the
               | employee tethered to their job. Remote workers are less
               | threatened by layoffs because they can choose to live in
               | a lower COL area and have their pick of other remote-
               | friendly jobs rather than being limited to other
               | companies in their metro or having to uproot their lives
               | to move somewhere else. This is on top of the perceived
               | benefits employers have surveiling and micromanaging
               | office work.
               | 
               | As for workers having fewer protections rn, _gestures in
               | the general direction of DC_.
        
               | gruez wrote:
               | >Office work requires living within commute distance of
               | the office, which is much more expensive and keeps the
               | employee tethered to their job. Remote workers are less
               | threatened by layoffs because they can choose to live in
               | a lower COL area and have their pick of other remote-
               | friendly jobs rather than being limited to other
               | companies in their metro or having to uproot their lives
               | to move somewhere else.
               | 
               | This doesn't make any sense. Remote jobs are... remote.
               | Moving to mountain view or whatever doesn't make you
               | "limited to other companies in their metro". You can
               | still find remote jobs, but now you have the additional
               | option of in-person jobs in the bay area.
        
               | i_am_proteus wrote:
               | If you move to Mountain View, you need to be able to
               | afford to live in Mountain View. That takes a lot of
               | remote jobs off the table, or substantially diminishes
               | their prospects.
               | 
               | If you live in Omaha and work remotely, far more remote
               | jobs are available.
        
               | photonthug wrote:
               | Fang companies have colluded together before to surpress
               | the labor market, litigation about this goes back to 2010
               | or so.
               | 
               | Since that's always an option.. yeah clearly keeping
               | talent in high col places is a part of the cudgel that
               | employers want to use against employees. It's similar to
               | healthcare being connected to employment really. If the
               | labor market was actually free from ultimately coercive
               | tactics like this then the world would look very
               | different.
        
               | scarface_74 wrote:
               | Yes. But living in Orlando Florida means I can accept a
               | remote job that pays less. I would have to get a remote
               | job that pays 5x more and I don't pay state income taxes.
               | 
               | Remote jobs on average pay less because you are competing
               | with people who live in the MiddleOfNowhere Nebraska.
               | 
               | Even formerly "field by design" roles that were
               | permanently remote at AWS (where I use to work) paid less
               | than in office jobs. Now those jobs are also in office
               | jobs at both Amazon and Google (GCP).
        
               | blitzar wrote:
               | It's not the details of the request, it is the request
               | itself.
               | 
               | Do this, or else.
        
           | financetechbro wrote:
           | This is disgusting. I'm sorry about that
        
           | jarsin wrote:
           | This was at Google?
        
           | thayne wrote:
           | It's quite likely RTO was an initial attempt to reduce
           | headcount by encouraging people to quit, without having to
           | pay severance.
        
             | WheatMillington wrote:
             | Do Americans companies HAVE to pay severance? Don't
             | American companies do layoffs all the time?
        
               | jarsin wrote:
               | No severance is not apart of the law. You can be laid off
               | and fired at anytime for any reason without severance. My
               | manager laughed in my face when I asked if there was
               | severance when being laid off in GFC.
               | 
               | Some states even have laws that employers don't have to
               | pay accrued vacation time. For example Nevada says
               | employers with under 50 employees don't have to pay
               | accrued vacation.
        
               | __turbobrew__ wrote:
               | The WARN act dictates that you need to provide 60 days
               | notice for certain mass layoffs. Typically this means you
               | are laid off, but remain on payroll for 60 days.
        
           | h14h wrote:
           | I got laid off at the start of my first day back in the new
           | office. Had to leave my morning standup early to receive the
           | news.
           | 
           | Fortunately I didn't have to uproot my life or move cities,
           | but it was a wakeup call as to the true nature of at will
           | employment. You can't take anything for granted.
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | > You can't take anything for granted
             | 
             | A plan B is always a good thing to have. I knew a middle
             | class engineer a few years ago who spent every dime of his
             | salary on installment payments for this and that. The
             | company then had to cut back, and he went into a furious
             | panic. It was a trap he set for himself, although he blamed
             | the company.
             | 
             | Even if the government guarantees you lifetime employment,
             | it isn't a guarantee.
        
           | pyrale wrote:
           | Maybe they hoped that you'd leave because of RTO, sparing
           | them the financial cost associated with the layoff.
        
           | DanielHB wrote:
           | Of course the layoffs were planned during the RTO, that way
           | they have to fire less people because a lot of them will
           | leave on their own!
        
         | grandempire wrote:
         | Imagine expecting equal treatment to higher ups who run your
         | company. Anyone who told you otherwise lied to you. Set
         | expectations accordingly and you won't be disappointed.
        
           | rybosome wrote:
           | Imagine a very fat king standing before his starving
           | populace, explaining why there would be even less food this
           | winter as he munched on a turkey leg.
           | 
           | I know executives have different rules and laws that govern
           | them. But I can remember a time when they would've had the
           | decency, shame or whatever else to attempt to obscure this.
           | That HR VP could have come into the office for one day, the
           | day that he was explaining his RTO mandate to the entire
           | company.
           | 
           | That he didn't feel embarrassed about delivering this mandate
           | while very visibly defying it himself is beyond
           | differentiated treatment, it is open disdain for the (upper)
           | working class.
        
             | grandempire wrote:
             | Proverbial kings are a fact of life. Use your circle of
             | influence to ensure your concern is heard, but don't set
             | yourself up for disappointment when you find out they get
             | better Christmas bonuses, time off, and cooler parties.
        
         | wnc3141 wrote:
         | It's not about reciprocity or coherent rules. Its about power
         | distance. "you work for me" sort of thing.
        
         | drstewart wrote:
         | lmao! It's the same as all the sysadmin folks at my
         | organization who have a policy of locking down all our
         | computers without admin rights whereas I noticed they DID have
         | admin rights.
         | 
         | Rules for thee but not for me, typical tech nerds.
        
           | __turbobrew__ wrote:
           | Somehow the people making policies always exempt themselves.
        
         | Velorivox wrote:
         | Also a recent Xoogler. There was a pretty popular thread where
         | someone essentially ragequit due to being talked down to by
         | someone in an all-hands, after having tried to resolve their
         | issues with specific policies via other means. They took a
         | principled stand, which seems exceedingly rare at Google.
         | 
         | The main theme of their post was that engineering had become a
         | second-class profession at a de-facto engineering firm.
         | 
         | If I recall correctly, Steve Jobs had something to say about
         | that very transition...
         | 
         | Edit: By thread I mean internal Email thread at Google.
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | They aren't pushing it because they want to get back to the
       | office or even dont understand the impacts. They're pushing it
       | because they want more control over and accountability from their
       | employees. Some even want a percentage of the employees to quit.
        
         | EncomLab wrote:
         | Your last point is the biggest driver - it is also why the
         | rules are arbitrarily enforced.
        
           | wahnfrieden wrote:
           | It's useful to have most of your workforce (or other
           | populations, as with police forces) in routine violation of
           | unenforced rules so that one has cover for any individual
           | persecution one finds convenient
        
             | chrisweekly wrote:
             | +1 Insightful.
             | 
             | This dynamic is at play in every big company I've
             | encountered in my 27 year career in tech.
        
         | dividefuel wrote:
         | I think there are a lot of reasons, and forced attrition is
         | definitely something they see as a benefit. However, I do
         | genuinely think that a lot of them _truly believe_ that working
         | together in an office, face-to-face, is important. RTO is not
         | just a cold calculation, but also reflective of their moral
         | values towards work.
         | 
         | Whether those values actually lead to a better company is the
         | part that, I feel, continues to lack evidence.
        
           | 3eb7988a1663 wrote:
           | I used to work for a place that had "Focus Weeks". A week
           | where there were to be no meetings, and you could work on
           | whatever was important. Everyone I knew loved it - could
           | accomplish so much more when you are not interrupted every
           | other hour for some marginal-utility status update.
           | 
           | Management...apparently did not enjoy the time. I assume so
           | many of them do nothing but meetings, they were probably
           | bored. The upper leadership, for whom the work is
           | predominantly meetings, is likely not satisfied without
           | maximal people in sight.
        
           | tdeck wrote:
           | > I do genuinely think that a lot of them truly believe that
           | working together in an office, face-to-face, is important.
           | 
           | Because their job is all having meetings and walking around
           | asking people what's new.
        
         | tdiff wrote:
         | What exactly is wrong here? If workers don't want that control,
         | well, they can look for another place. Companies are not
         | supposed to solve social problems like how people care for
         | children.
         | 
         | After all, are there any workforce troubles in companies that
         | mandated RTO, besides negative hacker news comments?
        
       | EncomLab wrote:
       | Not sure what the purpose is here - it reads more like a soft
       | flex than anything else. We all know "why" RTO gets pushed - and
       | it's not just that executives are living royal lives while the
       | peasants are expected to stress over traffic while their kids
       | wait abandoned at some public school. If anything, thinking that
       | RTO is just about being disconnected highlights how disconnected
       | the author actually is - because it is far more often the case
       | that RTO is driven by tax incentives, rent incentives, and
       | occupant use agreements than just some petty executive saying
       | "let them commute!".
        
         | jalk wrote:
         | Can you elaborate on the tax/rent incentives, as it's not
         | obvious what those are.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | Same talk as RTO being driven by real estate investors'
           | influence. I have yet to see some numbers, evidence of this.
        
             | inetknght wrote:
             | Commercial real estate value is often estimated using
             | number of people (feet) who go through the building.
             | 
             | So for example, if you've got 500 people (customers)
             | walking through your building plus 200 people (employees)
             | doing things, then the restaurants and shipping stores and
             | etc can estimate some % of those feet turning into sales.
             | 
             | But if you've got only 300 people (customers) walking
             | through your building plus 50 people (employees) doing
             | things, that % of feet turning into sales goes waaaaaay
             | down. And your retail outlets in the building end up with
             | far fewer sales. They either go out of business or demand
             | cheaper rent.
             | 
             | That's just _one_ way of estimating commercial real estate.
             | 
             | Let's figure your attached parking garage. Assuming it's
             | not-free, then all those employees not paying their parking
             | dues ends up causing the parking garage to not generate
             | revenue. Ooof. Or, let's say it's "free". Well, the people
             | who reserved spots paid for those spots whether they use
             | them or not. But the people who don't reserve spots? The
             | business isn't seeing a return on investment if their
             | employees aren't using them, so why pay their share for
             | maintenance of that parking garage?
             | 
             | What about the HVAC and plumbing? The building owner's son
             | owns those businesses, and it's pretty damn expensive to
             | keep HVAC and plumbing working at peak efficiency. It
             | becomes a lot easier to do if they're not used as much! But
             | your son's business is going to get churned if you don't
             | pay them less for the decreased maintenance costs. And you
             | can't just _stop_ maintenance because those things get
             | damned expensive when they 're unmaintained.
             | 
             | And the shipping staff? Well they have to come to the
             | office anyway otherwise nothing gets shipped. It's not fair
             | to those staff! You pay them complete shit, and they used
             | to be able to eat lunch at a decent restaurant and have a
             | decent place to park and have good air conditioning and
             | working toilet. But now, with just everyone else being out
             | of office, the restaurant went out of business and the HVAC
             | is set to a wider range of climate and the toilet's been
             | clogged for a while.
             | 
             | Instead of paying the shipping staff something reasonable
             | to offset their changes, or changing the way that lunch and
             | support services are handled... just demand everyone else
             | come to the office too. That's cheaper.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | All of that doesn't make sense because offices are a cost
               | paid to optimize the efficiency of labor.
               | 
               | Nobody would hurt labor productivity to save an office.
               | It's backward
        
               | smw wrote:
               | I think this assumes there are no conflicts of interest?
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | You start a successful business- when do you start paying
               | for an office?
        
               | fweimer wrote:
               | Productivity is difficult to measure. I suspect many
               | managers just don't know how to do it, or are not very
               | confident about the results. In-person interactions in an
               | office give managers additional information (such as
               | height). For many, it makes management tasks easier to
               | carry out and generally less stressful (but not
               | necessarily with objectively improved results, I assume).
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | I don't necessarily buy the arguments around real estate
               | investment, but I think it's important to note that the
               | office is a construct from before the popularity of the
               | internet. A lot of the current crop of exec started their
               | jobs before remote work was viable, so their mental model
               | of how work is done might require an office because
               | that's how they used to work.
               | 
               | It's entirely possible that the question of "labor
               | productivity" has nothing to do with why exec wants us
               | all back in the bullpen, where they can gleefully stare
               | at us from inside their offices.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | Undoubtedly the internet makes more remote roles
               | possible. I'm just saying the business already hates
               | paying for the office. Their incentive is aligned with
               | regards to having less office space.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | I'm arguing that maybe businesses don't actually hate it.
               | Maybe execs love it and prioritize it.
        
               | inetknght wrote:
               | > _Their incentive is aligned with regards to having less
               | office space._
               | 
               | Really? Then why do _you_ think that return-to-office is
               | mandated by so many large organizations? By following
               | that line of thinking then surely their larger
               | _footprint_ would yield even larger savings for work-
               | from-home?
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | Because they believe it will optimize their labor costs
               | (the most expensive part of white collar business ).
               | 
               | They give employees space in that building so that people
               | have a dedicated space to do their work, free from
               | outside distraction.
        
               | EncomLab wrote:
               | This is very much an open question.
        
           | dboreham wrote:
           | Big companies extract tax benefits from governments in
           | exchange for locating their large buildings within said
           | government's jurisdiction. Presumably in some cases said tax
           | benefits come with some sort of verification that the
           | expected quid pro quo (employees wandering around buying
           | lunch and so on) happened.
        
           | EncomLab wrote:
           | Our building has multiple first floor stores/restaurants/gym
           | - and post Covid our rental agreements stipulate an average
           | daily occupancy threshold; with a penalty/incentive program
           | based on failing or exceeding that threshold as it is part of
           | the agreements set up with the retailers. There are business
           | tax deductions for on-site workers like utilities,
           | maintenance, office supplies, property insurance, etc.
           | Additionally, there are tax situations - Schaad v. Alder in
           | Ohio for example - where municipalities receive or lose
           | income based on the location of remote workers. In that
           | specific case the municipality where the remote employee
           | actually worked received no income while the municipality
           | where the office existed did.
        
           | joshuaturner wrote:
           | Cities benefit from people being in office and thus, in the
           | city spending money. In 2024, SF had a new business tax plan
           | to incentivize employers to bring people back to the office,
           | and I wouldn't be surprised if other cities did similar.
           | 
           | https://www.sfchronicle.com/sf/article/s-f-economy-tax-
           | plan-...
        
             | rat87 wrote:
             | Right but this is a new thing. For decades working from the
             | office was the overwhelming norm. It was just assumed. So I
             | doubt there's many incentives right now. I imagine it's
             | much more about being upset at your expensive rent building
             | being 70+% empty while still costing you as much as well as
             | old fashioned beliefs in performance and monitoring of
             | employees in the office. Also I do think there's some
             | things that may be more difficult to collaborate on even
             | with remote even with video calling
        
         | bloomingkales wrote:
         | _some petty executive saying "let them commute!"._
         | 
         | There was a day after Christmas where the team was kinda taking
         | it easy and went out for a longer than usual lunch, and an
         | executive got in our face about how the day after Christmas is
         | not an excuse to slack off. Then the person had us a deploy a
         | feature that afternoon to prod even though it was supposed to
         | be launched after the holidays. The person also did this
         | remotely because they took the day off (the rest of us were
         | actually in the office).
         | 
         | Power is much nastier than people realize. What I provided was
         | an anecdote, but the #metoo movement probably started just like
         | that.
         | 
         | Edit: I just realized how Dickensian this was, plot synopsis of
         | A Christmas Carol. Just missing the ghosts and soul change.
        
           | 2b3a51 wrote:
           | Good Lord. Over here in the UK Boxing day is a bank holiday.
           | 
           | Many (but not all) organisations take the week of Christmas
           | out as mandatory holiday for efficiency reasons (close
           | building, save heat &c).
        
       | NewJazz wrote:
       | We had an RTO mandate in the last year. Amongst our top 10
       | compensated employees, at least half were out of the office for
       | the last three months (we go in one week per month). I tried not
       | to freak out and catastrophize whent he rto mandate was first
       | communicated. But the double standard has left me feeling deeply
       | unsettled and bitter. And I just know one exec who has been on
       | leave for months is going to roll back in and complain that his
       | pet projects aren't coming along like he told the board they
       | already had. He is oversees over half the technical folks and has
       | very little technical skills of his own. I might bring champagne
       | to work the day after he leaves.
        
       | mccoyb wrote:
       | "Disconnected" feels like "has no empathy".
       | 
       | Is it really so hard to imagine the struggles of someone who
       | doesn't have any of the benefits listed in the post?
       | 
       | Just sitting down and doing a quick calculation would immediately
       | reveal time allocation dilemmas of prioritizing "return to
       | office" for someone who doesn't have the benefits.
       | 
       | Time is universally valuable! But even more so for someone who
       | ... has significantly less of it because they can't hire legions
       | of staff to manage their lives?
       | 
       | "What if I didn't have this? How would that make me feel?" Pretty
       | depressing. Empathy can't run the business -- but surely it is
       | correlated with strong team cohesion and performance?
        
         | GuinansEyebrows wrote:
         | I mean we're talking about a self-selected group of people
         | who've chosen money over... nearly everything else. I do think
         | it's hard for them to empathize because nothing in their
         | existence encourages them to do so. They're richly rewarded for
         | their choices and we all just go along with it.
        
         | techpeach wrote:
         | I think the problem is that like the business culture in the US
         | is so cutthroat and stressful, and people generally so self-
         | centered. That like, they literally can't imagine a type of
         | life or stress that isn't solved by muscle through it or work
         | more or whatever.
         | 
         | You also end up in these bubbles where you literally can't
         | empathize with people because you have no experience to fall
         | back on.
         | 
         | Combine that with a sort of media and religious culture that
         | will tell you you're right to feel that way.
         | 
         | I've hear rich people complain about the fact that rich people
         | are people to, d that poor people don't appreciate them enough.
         | 
         | And actually, I think this is a common thread these days, that
         | essentially the world's problems are caused by the fact that
         | rich people don't have enough power and aren't trusted enough
         | by society. Marc Andreesen implied this in his Joe Rogan
         | interview.
        
           | codr7 wrote:
           | Have they ever claimed otherwise?
           | 
           | It's not like they have a choice, gaslighting the general
           | population is their only hope of staying on top/alive.
        
           | silverquiet wrote:
           | I've said it here many times now, but Robert Sapolsky
           | identified inequality as one of the highest causes of stress
           | in any given primate society. Even for those at the top.
        
         | markus_zhang wrote:
         | CXOs only need to have empathy with the shareholders, not the
         | resources (us).
         | 
         | How does someone make others care about him/her? Hmmm...
        
           | codr7 wrote:
           | By refusing to play along in great numbers, always.
        
             | markus_zhang wrote:
             | Yeah that's a good start.
        
         | II2II wrote:
         | > Is it really so hard to imagine the struggles of someone who
         | doesn't have any of the benefits listed in the post?
         | 
         | Yes, it is hard. While you can break down the struggles to
         | analyze them, actually understanding their emotional impact is
         | a whole different story.
         | 
         | > Empathy can't run the business -- but surely it is correlated
         | with strong team cohesion and performance?
         | 
         | As someone who has recently shifted towards managing people, I
         | am facing two big struggles: how to be empathetic without
         | taking on their emotional burdens and how to respect their
         | situation in life while ensuring they respect their
         | responsibilities in the work place. And this is management at a
         | very low level in the hierarchy. There isn't terribly much that
         | separates myself from them.
         | 
         | I'm not suggesting that there is no role for empathy in a
         | business. Apparently the person who came before me lacked it
         | and survived ten weeks. I'm simply suggesting that it is
         | difficult to balance.
        
       | mjburgess wrote:
       | The only issue here is that many of the employees in question can
       | likewise afford a weekly cleaner, to have groceries delivered and
       | cooked meals delivered regularly. They can also live close to the
       | office if they wish.
       | 
       | I think the issue is just that fundamental difference between
       | what the work of relevant people comprises -- moreso than class.
       | Managers, executives, and so on are "social workers": their job
       | is to align people, brainstorm ideas, communicate, "govern" etc.
       | 
       | "Knowledge workers" job is, in large part, to think alone, then
       | to create alone -- and when that fails seek some minimal
       | intervention by another knowledge worker to resolve an issue.
       | 
       | "The Office" is not well-designed for knowledge work -- it's
       | design for "social work". It's born of an era when manual workers
       | worked in factories, and "social workers" worked in offices --
       | and "knowledge workers" were in academia, in the basement or some
       | hidden (, silent) back office.
       | 
       | Reducing this to class seems to miss the point. Will anyone ever
       | just recognise what the job of creative knowledge work is? Is it
       | so incomprehensible? In the quest to "comprehend" it, we're told
       | its our lack of maids which burden us so.
       | 
       | It's kinda laughable. A maid is no help if you won't STFU.
        
         | jack_riminton wrote:
         | This is really well put. Those who's main job is email,
         | meetings and the occassional spreadsheet can't understand why
         | those who do something technical must have significant time
         | alone to work through a problem
        
           | mjburgess wrote:
           | HN seems to prefer treating this is a failure to empathise
           | with home-life, rather than work-life. The almost rich are,
           | as ever, incensed.
        
         | mananaysiempre wrote:
         | You unintentionally strike at the heart of why I'm never
         | completely on board with these anti-office discussions.
         | 
         | Commute sucks, cubicles are worse than useless; you won't get
         | any argument from me on either of these.
         | 
         | But I also know how crucial it is for academia to talk with
         | colleagues. Email kind of works. Video calls kind of work a bit
         | more. But nothing beats knocking on the door of the office next
         | to you. (Whether it's polite to announce yourself by e.g. email
         | first depends on the country; even if you just show up and
         | you're turned away, that'll be until lunch or at worst until
         | the next day.) And the post-seminar atmosphere of everybody
         | talking chaotically to each other with their minds buzzing as
         | others put away their papers, chairs, etc., thus far stays
         | unreplicated by any technological means.
         | 
         | I guess what I want to say is, the more speculative your ideas
         | are, the more important it becomes to bounce them off people in
         | spontaneous conversation. And any friction (scheduling, calls,
         | etc.) you add will significantly reduce the amount of
         | spontaneous conversation you are going to have. So far, we
         | haven't figured out a better way than roughly everybody
         | involved being in roughly the same place roughly all the time.
         | That saddens me, given how much I hate commuting.
        
           | mjburgess wrote:
           | I suspect if office workers had offices, we'd be in quite a
           | different situation.
           | 
           | There's a certain sort of knowledge worker who wants to
           | impress upon the others how communal, conversational, and
           | social their job "really is!" --- but these are people who
           | are likewise not empathetic with the managerial class. All
           | you're really saying is in 20 hours of thinking a week, and
           | 20 hours of typing --- some 2 with others might really help.
           | I don't disagree.
           | 
           | The problem is the "social work" class do not have very much
           | to think about -- their job is to align very rudimentary
           | thoughts from a pool of people who need to negotiate their
           | positions. The Grand Plan of an executive-type is a search
           | through a paddling pool of combinatorial options. This isn't
           | to trivialise the work, so much to point out its an
           | _operational_ and socio-logistical task.
           | 
           | Yes, conversing with one's knowledge-worker peers can speed
           | things up a lot, advance ideas and the like. I am here only
           | analysing where the gap in empathy lies -- I do not really
           | think it's people who can well-afford maids (pretending they
           | cannot) being misunderstood by people with private jets
        
             | milesrout wrote:
             | Approaching this from the perspective that other people
             | only care about socially signalling how social their job is
             | will not get you anywhere. It might feel good and make good
             | rhetoric to make such wide generalisations but it doesn't
             | get you any closer to the truth and cuts you off from
             | seeing things through others' perspectives.
             | 
             | 20 houes of thinking, 20 hours of typing, and 2 hours of
             | collaborating is just a bizarre numericalisation of
             | something that probably cannot be quantified. How much time
             | you spend on something doesn't tell you it is more or less
             | important anyway. What percentage of the time do you spend
             | coding vs committing and pushing? Yet if you didnt do the
             | latter, the former would be a total waste of time.
             | 
             | The small amount of time (even conceding it is small, which
             | it isnt necessarily) you spend on collaboration might be a
             | force multiplier that makes the rest of your time far more
             | valuable.
             | 
             | >The problem is the "social work" class do not have very
             | much to think about -- their job is to align very
             | rudimentary thoughts from a pool of people who need to
             | negotiate their positions.
             | 
             | This is frankly insane. You don't actually think this,
             | surely? Surely this is just rhetoric?
             | 
             | This has nothing to do with maids or private jets. Plenty
             | of businesses want their workers in the office including
             | those where the business owners and managers cannot afford
             | private jets or maids.
        
               | mjburgess wrote:
               | I wasn't accusing my interlocutor of merely engaging in
               | social signally. I gave an explanation of the position,
               | which I can be more explicit about: it is an intra-
               | knowledge-worker point. Its the point of a person who,
               | quite rightly, goes around people who neglect to be
               | social _at all_ and impress the importance of it. This is
               | a non-sequiteur when i 'm addressing a hypersocial group.
               | 
               | The dialectic of this thread -- the OP beings with
               | effectively a class analysis of why executives
               | misunderstand office-worker employees. My reply is the
               | origins lie in a different distribution of at-work
               | activities in which executives _require_ massive amounts
               | of in-person communication to do their jobs, whilst
               | knowledge-workers do not (and are often harmed by an
               | excess).
               | 
               | > This has nothing to do with maids or private jets.
               | 
               | So you agree with me. It's important not to substitute a
               | position I am opposing for one that I'm not.
               | 
               | As for my slight exaggerations around how I characterise
               | the kinds of people, and work involved -- it is
               | hyperboilic and hoperfully amusing characterisation --
               | but not one which I think is far off.
               | 
               | The "deep thought" of executive work is shallow, for
               | those who prise complexity and such, no doubt this seems
               | derogatory. But it's not. If you thinking can be readily
               | terminated by the speech of another person, _your own_
               | thinking process is not that deep. Sure, that of The
               | Group 's might be -- and much more so than any person's,
               | but each individual is not engaged in deep thought.
               | 
               | If you can farm out depth to a group discussion, great --
               | that's one sort of work. It is not the work of a
               | progammer, say, who is tracing execution flow in their
               | own head -- this cannot be half-realised in one person's
               | head and half-realised in another.
        
       | spacebanana7 wrote:
       | I suspect many Return To Office programs are designed to be soft
       | layoffs.
       | 
       | Enterprises can remove a meaningful number of employees for whom
       | it's a dealbreaker issue without the associated redundancy costs
       | or PR issues.
        
       | dividefuel wrote:
       | This mirrors a lot of what I've suspected. Executives have a
       | survivorship bias of a very work-focused life. It's hard for them
       | to understand why anyone else would choose differently.
       | 
       | This applies to both work location and number of hours per week.
       | It's gotta be hard to understand _and accept_ that lower-level
       | workers have a different view and priorities from your own,
       | _especially_ when all your fellow execs share your own view.
       | 
       | And, as the tweet says, at a certain level you can afford to
       | offset all the negatives of work location / work hours. No
       | commute. Personal chef. All household chores covered. Full time
       | individual childcare. It's a lot easier to come into the office
       | for 50-60 hours per week when you don't have to also spend your
       | time outside the office trying to balance sleep and survival.
       | But, again, that's not what life looks like for an average
       | employee.
        
         | jajko wrote:
         | You are being too generous to that bunch of sociopaths (not
         | snarky, just think for a second what kind of personality gets
         | and thrives up there for decades).
         | 
         | They care about their own profits, which are mostly bonus-
         | based, and prestige. If they think they get any extra by
         | appearing doing first and last thing that could drive up share
         | price (or win some extra points in some meaningless internal
         | battles), they will go for it.
         | 
         | They are mostly pretty bad absent parents with laser focus on
         | themselves and their careers only, and then it shows on kids.
         | But in their mind nobody under them should be granted more.
        
           | bigyabai wrote:
           | Sadly, I agree. There is probably an element of "hard worker"
           | survivorship bias at play, but there's also an undeniable
           | profit motive that overrides a lot of _those_ instincts too.
           | 
           | After a certain number of years, handing your kids off to the
           | babysitters so you can work an extra 10 hours a week becomes
           | outright sociopathic neglect. Using your wealth to separate
           | you from the things that actually matter is arguably the peak
           | of corporate disillusionment.
        
             | rexpop wrote:
             | s/disillusionment/alienation
        
               | bigyabai wrote:
               | It's only alienation if you refuse to fight back.
        
         | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
         | I agree. Despite the the statement's pithiness, the reality is
         | we don't all have the same 24 hours in a day.
        
           | alabastervlog wrote:
           | Yeah, I think it's worth reflecting that _most_ people with
           | families work 80-hour weeks. Richer people can pay others to
           | take on part of that workload so they can do 50 or 60 hours
           | of work for a company and still actually be _working less_.
           | Which is fine, I guess, until they're all like "why are you
           | poors always so sluggish and tired and wanting to clock out
           | right at 5 on the dot?"
        
             | grandempire wrote:
             | Nah. This kind of person tends to do more family stuff, and
             | participate in more community events, and do more work.
             | 
             | It's ok to not be a busy body. I'm not one because it makes
             | me miserable . But these imaginary tradeoffs we invent in
             | our heads are often just justifications.
        
               | alabastervlog wrote:
               | I'm not following your point. I've got a solid 30 hours
               | of unpaid work a week, and it'd be closer to 40 if I had
               | to commute, and when my kids were younger and I still had
               | a commute it was around 50 hours, all on top of my actual
               | job. I could and, if it weren't wildly financially
               | irresponsible, absolutely would pay to make about 20
               | hours of that vanish at no harm whatsoever (benefit,
               | actually) to my personal relationships & family, and then
               | I'd have a lot more time and energy for other things.
               | That's just... how clocks work, IDK. This is
               | overwhelmingly the norm for people who can't afford to
               | pay others to do lots of stuff for them.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | My point is busy people do even more of the things that
               | you think make you busy.
               | 
               | You think kids are taking up all your time? They have
               | more kids and volunteer at the school, and run a church
               | group, etc.
               | 
               | The clock is secondary because using time efficiently,
               | planning, and classifying which hours you are awake and
               | available are all skills.
               | 
               | Similar patterns happen all throughout life. People have
               | non linear capacities and performance.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | What you're not differentiating here is between optional
               | and mandatory tasks. If you're paying someone to cook,
               | clean, grocery shop, or provide day to day child care you
               | have time to do optional things, and people mistake that
               | for being more efficient when in reality it's having the
               | luxury to decide what to do with your time.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | No adult with jobs and kids gets home and says "huh what
               | will I fill my extra time with". Everyone is busy. Now
               | it's up to effort, prioritization, and efficiency
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | The person who can't afford a cook and maid now needs to
               | full those duties, cooking and cleaning, the person who
               | can doesn't. The food is already made, the house is
               | clean, the laundry is done, the kids are bathed, the
               | fridge is full. They have time to decide what to do with.
               | Sure, they could cook or clean, but that's now their
               | choice. The activity is optional and can be prioritized
               | instead of being mandatory.
               | 
               | There are certain tasks that people need to do every day
               | that take time and, if you can afford to have someone do
               | those tasks, suddenly you have more time you can do other
               | things with.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | The people I know who accomplish a lot of things also
               | cook and clean for themselves.
               | 
               | Of course paying someone saves you time.
               | 
               | But the question is whether that's the key differentiator
               | holding you back from X, Y, and Z. And no it's not. There
               | are people who do X, Y, and Z and don't have a maid.
               | 
               | Maybe on some psychological level getting help is the
               | only way you personally will have time (feels true for
               | myself), but you have to recognize there is significant
               | personality and skill difference when it comes to being
               | busy.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | I'm not saying that people can't do X, Y, and Z, there
               | are people who are just that driven, or people who have a
               | spouse that fills in those roles, but it's far easier for
               | people who the necessities of life are optional, and when
               | you're surrounded by people for whom it's all optional,
               | they are going to assume it's optional for everyone and
               | no assume why everyone isn't doing more.
        
               | alabastervlog wrote:
               | > But the question is whether that's the key
               | differentiator holding you back from X, Y, and Z. And no
               | it's not. There are people who do X, Y, and Z and don't
               | have a maid.
               | 
               | As with a lot of things: individually, yes, this is the
               | only useful way to look at it. Statistically? Over a
               | population? No, of course high levels of unpaid
               | obligations keep people from accomplishing things, in the
               | sense that if you ease those up they accomplish more.
               | 
               | More to the point, I didn't make this about how it was
               | "holding people back" so I'm now seeing why you're so
               | resistant to it, since you think that's what I was
               | getting at: no, it's about _attitudes_ from executives
               | who live life on easy mode then complain that their
               | underlings are lazy.
        
               | alabastervlog wrote:
               | People with enough income have a whole list of things
               | that _do not_ fill their time unless they want them to,
               | that aren 't really optional for people without enough
               | money to pay to make them go away.
               | 
               | Laundry, cleaning, cooking, shopping, lawn work, home
               | maintenance, car maintenance, hell even managing your
               | schedule--for an awful lot of executives (among others)
               | much or all of that is _optional_. They have more freedom
               | with their time because they pay to make a bunch of
               | problems go away (and if they don 't, it's a choice).
               | They come home from work and choose what to do--they may
               | still be busy, by choice! But they have _far_ fewer
               | demands on their time. The people who work for them come
               | home from work, work two to four more hours, then, maybe,
               | choose what to do. And you better believe they work
               | weekends, too.
        
               | alabastervlog wrote:
               | > My point is busy people do even more of the things that
               | you think make you busy.
               | 
               | I don't _think_ it makes me busy. It does.
               | 
               | > You think kids are taking up all your time? They have
               | more kids and volunteer at the school, and run a church
               | group, etc.
               | 
               | I'm not counting extremely-optional stuff.
               | 
               | > The clock is secondary because using time efficiently,
               | planning, and classifying which hours you are awake and
               | available are all skills.
               | 
               | Money puts this on extremely-easy mode, because for a
               | huge variety of things "this is a problem that will take
               | much time and attention" becomes "just pay someone to
               | make it go away". I know, because I have enough money
               | that _sometimes_ I can do this (I didn 't always, and I
               | didn't grow up that way) and holy god, it makes life so
               | incredibly easy when I can.
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | I think you're taking my comment personally which is not
               | intended.
        
               | aeonik wrote:
               | Your comment doesn't make any sense to me. A single kid
               | sucks more time than you have in a regular day. You are
               | sleep deprived, and in survival mode for the first part.
               | 
               | If you have a lot of kids, after a certain age, the older
               | ones can start to help around depending on age. It's how
               | humanity survives in self-sufficient conditions.
               | 
               | For serial kid rearing families there is a plateau in
               | difficulty, and then a steady decline (depending on the
               | personality and health of the kids of course).
        
               | grandempire wrote:
               | That's true, but it's only one activity I mentioned.
               | 
               | It's still true that having two young kids is more time
               | than and effort than one.
        
         | Jcampuzano2 wrote:
         | No, from my point of view this post is just another executive
         | grift trying to make people feel better about why they do the
         | things they do.
         | 
         | Yes they live different lives, but they know they are different
         | from their average worker, they just don't care about them.
         | Making money and their success come above all.
         | 
         | When they make these decisions it is not because they're out of
         | touch. It is because they actively opposed people below them
         | taking an inch. They know it fucks with them, they know they
         | don't like it. They do it anyway.
         | 
         | As an executive this person is excellent albeit trained at
         | corporate speak. They're trying to gather sympathy for execs
         | and it is all bullshit.
        
           | timewizard wrote:
           | > Making money and their success come above all.
           | 
           | How else would you want to motivate them? This is a for
           | profit company after all.
           | 
           | > It is because they actively opposed people below them
           | taking an inch.
           | 
           | In a functioning labor market with high mobility for workers
           | they would just quit and find a better place to work.
           | 
           | > They're trying to gather sympathy for execs and it is all
           | bullshit.
           | 
           | They're trying to hide the fact they've monopolized the labor
           | market and they want you to assume this is all normal. It's a
           | much higher level problem.
        
             | bmicraft wrote:
             | > In a functioning labor market with high mobility for
             | workers they would just quit and find a better place to
             | work.
             | 
             | > They're trying to hide the fact they've monopolized the
             | labor market and they want you to assume this is all
             | normal. It's a much higher level problem.
             | 
             | Your labor market isn't all that special. The truth is that
             | "a functioning market with high mobility" is just a myth.
             | The market is functioning as intended: The ones with power
             | under capitalism are the ones with capital - and they don't
             | wish for things to change. You can try to level the playing
             | field with laws, but that's incompatible with the "small
             | government" folks.
        
         | mlinhares wrote:
         | Oh come on, not a single one of these people is working
         | anything anywhere close to 40 hours per week, let alone 60.
        
           | Ancapistani wrote:
           | They definitely are, although that doesn't _justify_ actions.
           | 
           | Not all, but most. Family members of mine at the VP/EVP level
           | in "enterprise" type companies regularly work 12+ hours on
           | weekdays and ~8 per day on weekends. It's brutal and their
           | families suffer for it, but it pays exceedingly well.
           | 
           | As another poster put it, it's survivorship bias. Most people
           | who work that long and consistently end up with a destroyed
           | family life and eventually the collapse of their professional
           | life as well. Those who "make" it by and large keep their
           | family intact because they can afford to make it difficult to
           | leave - or because they're married to someone of similar
           | lifestyle.
        
             | zusammen wrote:
             | _Family members of mine at the VP /EVP level in
             | "enterprise" type companies regularly work 12+ hours on
             | weekdays and ~8 per day on weekends._
             | 
             | At that level, they're in the club and guaranteed to
             | advance as long as they don't make enemies and get kicked
             | out of the club (which is rare, but happens, and usually
             | means they spend a year or so finding another club.) So
             | while some of them do work long hours, they don't have to.
             | They've already been judged to be in the in-crowd and could
             | work 10 hours per week from wherever they want, and they'd
             | still make every promotion.
             | 
             | So why do they work so much, and why do they go to the
             | office? Because most of those guys (a) mutually dislike
             | their families, (b) have psychological disorders, and (c)
             | have office affairs. To psychopaths, 70 hours per week sunk
             | into high-stakes office politics is _fun_.
        
               | luckylion wrote:
               | > So while some of them do work long hours, they don't
               | have to.
               | 
               | Or so you say. But it sounds like a rationalization of
               | why that doesn't matter/makes them morally bad people.
               | First it's "they don't actually do any work, lol", then
               | it's "but they totally don't have to, they could skate by
               | on 2 hours a day, they are already pre-selected for
               | success".
               | 
               | But really, it's perfectly fine if you don't care that
               | much and won't go to that length. You don't have to
               | justify that by coming up with narratives that others who
               | do are evil, mentally ill, or hate their families. You
               | can just say "that's not for me".
        
             | snozolli wrote:
             | _Family members of mine at the VP /EVP level in
             | "enterprise" type companies regularly work 12+ hours on
             | weekdays and ~8 per day on weekends._
             | 
             | What do they _do_ in all those hours?
             | 
             | My only experience with executives is the CEO at a
             | "startup" (it really wasn't) in SF. He had to have his
             | email password reset every week because he couldn't
             | remember it. He was furious that asses weren't in all the
             | seats at 9am, but he knocked off at 3pm on Fridays to go
             | drink with his executive chums. I never saw any sign of
             | leadership, vision, or actual work. Just demands on others.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | I don't have different priorities but I can't afford to offload
         | my obligations to others.
        
         | kcplate wrote:
         | > I did exactly what this exec advocated - using hard data and
         | statistics to paint a picture of what these mandates look like
         | from a worker perspective - and was roundly shot down.
         | 
         | Of course they did. If you want to convince a company doing RTO
         | why it's bad, you need to show the negative impacts to the
         | _organization_. Everybody seems to approach this from their
         | individual perspective.
        
           | mystifyingpoi wrote:
           | Exactly. You must play by their rules.
        
           | AnthonyMouse wrote:
           | > If you want to convince a company doing RTO why it's bad,
           | you need to show the negative impacts to the _organization_.
           | 
           | There is a reason these are the same thing that should
           | already be obvious: If you want people to take a job that
           | costs them ~$30,000 more in expenses, you'll have to pay them
           | more. If you split the difference, you both come out $15,000
           | ahead.
           | 
           | This before you even consider the costs to the company
           | directly. If employees work from home you need less office
           | space etc. That's not just rent but heat, power, security,
           | insurance, internet, furniture, taxes, cleaning, lawyers and
           | permits. That's a ton of money.
        
             | thaumasiotes wrote:
             | > If you want people to take a job that costs them ~$30,000
             | more in expenses, you'll have to pay them more. If you
             | split the difference, you both come out $15,000 ahead.
             | 
             | I'm not following. How much is the difference? The
             | difference _to them_ is $30,000. But you forgot to specify
             | what the difference _to the company_ is.
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | The difference to _the company_ is that if you don 't
               | force people to take on $30,000 in expenses, you'll be
               | able to find people willing to work for up to $30,000
               | less in compensation. In addition to the other benefits
               | of expanding the talent pool beyond the local geographic
               | area, which might let you get better people, e.g. because
               | you can hire someone in Boston who wants to stay in
               | Boston, without opening an office there.
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | Something has gone seriously wrong in your thinking. You
               | appear to be attempting to subtract two unrelated
               | quantities from each other. Let's try this another way:
               | 
               | In scenario A, Jim holds a remote job at Omnicorp.
               | 
               | In scenario B1, nothing changes.
               | 
               | In scenario B2, Jim is transferred into a job with the
               | same responsibilities that is not remote. This raises
               | Jim's expenses by $2,500 a month. It also raises
               | Omnicorp's revenue by $X per month. X is the value you
               | forgot to consider. What is it?
               | 
               | If, for example, it is -$500, then the total cost of
               | transferring Jim is $36,000 per year. If we split that
               | difference evenly between Jim and Omnicorp, Jim will
               | receive a $12,000 raise... but Omnicorp will suffer a net
               | loss of $18,000 per year, so it's hard to see why this
               | would happen or who it helps.
               | 
               | If it's +$1,000, then the total cost of transferring Jim
               | is $18,000 per year. Splitting that difference evenly
               | means Jim gets a $21,000 raise, but again there is no
               | reason this would actually take place, because the
               | company is paying $21,000 a year in order to receive
               | $12,000. Or, viewed another way, the transfer destroys
               | value and you shouldn't expect it to happen.
               | 
               | If X is +$3,000, then the total cost of transferring Jim
               | is -$6,000 per year. At this point the transfer makes
               | sense and it should happen. Splitting the difference
               | evenly means Jim will get a $33,000 raise.
               | 
               | At no point does it make any sense to consider leaving
               | Jim where he is and giving him a $15,000 raise.
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | > It also raises Omnicorp's revenue by $X per month. X is
               | the value you forgot to consider. What is it?
               | 
               | It is quite possibly a negative number. Remember that
               | forcing Jim to show up to an office requires you to have
               | an office, which is a huge, major expense that could
               | easily overcome the benefits of having Jim in the office
               | instead of at home. But let's continue with your
               | assumption that it's of some actual value to the company:
               | 
               | > If, for example, it is -$500, then the total cost of
               | transferring Jim is $36,000 per year. If we split that
               | difference evenly between Jim and Omnicorp, Jim will
               | receive a $12,000 raise... but Omnicorp will suffer a net
               | loss of $18,000 per year, so it's hard to see why this
               | would happen or who it helps.
               | 
               | This is the part where you're confused.
               | 
               | Suppose that Jim refuses to work from home for less than
               | $8000/mo and refuses to work from the office for less
               | than $10500/mo, because his incremental cost of working
               | from the office is $2500/mo. Meanwhile the company values
               | Jim working from the office at $500/mo. Since $500 is
               | less than $2500, it does not make sense for Jim to work
               | from the office, instead it makes sense for the company
               | to pay Jim somewhere between $8000/mo and $10000/mo to
               | work from home, because any of those numbers make both of
               | them no worse off than paying Jim $10500/mo to work from
               | the office. This does not depend on what Jim is
               | _currently_ being paid or even whether he is currently
               | working from home.
               | 
               | If the value to the company of having Jim work from the
               | office instead of from home is $3000/mo then the company
               | should offer Jim anywhere between $10500/mo and $11000/mo
               | to work from the office, for the same reason. But since
               | $3000/mo is $36,000/year _on top of their expenses for
               | maintaining an office_ , that value to an ordinary
               | company of having Jim work from the office is implausibly
               | high.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | > There is a reason these are the same thing that should
             | already be obvious: If you want people to take a job that
             | costs them ~$30,000 more in expenses, you'll have to pay
             | them more. If you split the difference, you both come out
             | $15,000 ahead.
             | 
             | Sorry to be blunt, but I think this is incredibly naive
             | given the current market. Since the explosion of remote
             | work I've seen a _ton_ of offshoring to excellent software
             | developers in Latin American and Europe. There is
             | absolutely zero benefit to paying an American salary in
             | those situations because everyone is remote anyway (and
             | there is enough timezone overlap that everyone can work
             | roughly the same hours).
             | 
             | Workers will simply get fired if they don't come in and
             | execs really want RTO, they're not going to get paid more.
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | > Workers will simply get fired if they don't come in and
               | execs really want RTO, they're not going to get paid
               | more.
               | 
               | If execs really want RTO then people will _quit_ and they
               | 'll have to hire new people, pay retraining costs, pay
               | them more because other companies are still offering WFH,
               | lose out on all those lower cost workers in Latin America
               | (or Texas or Virginia) and still be paying millions of
               | dollars for office space their employees don't even want
               | to be in.
        
             | kcplate wrote:
             | I think your reasoning is flawed because there is no fixed
             | RTO cost to every employees commute and physical location
             | (which I am assuming you mean by their expenses).
             | 
             | You could have 2 employees doing the same job, but one
             | (Joe) has a 5 minute walk as their commute and the other
             | (John) has a 50 minute drive in a personal vehicle. If
             | there are enough Joe's around to fill your roles, the costs
             | associated with the Johns commutes don't matter to the
             | organization.
             | 
             | Facilities costs are actually pretty minor in the grand
             | scheme of things...especially if your company has other
             | roles that cannot be done remote. Incremental office space
             | costs are minimal.
             | 
             | Your only hope to win the debate is to demonstrate with
             | _real_ productivity data. Perhaps things like demonstrating
             | reduced sick time, turnover rate decreases, etc.
        
           | fnordpiglet wrote:
           | This is why RTO will end. It was ending before the pandemic.
           | The cost to the organization is money. They subsidize the
           | employees ability to sit in chair and drink water and use the
           | bathroom. This is a very high cost at any organization. The
           | reason given it's necessary is CEO has vibes that it's
           | better. This works for a while but in the end it's real money
           | spent on questionable benefits.
           | 
           | Before the pandemic there was a big push to reduce occupancy
           | costs and get roles that did not need to sit in an office to
           | subsidize their own offices, just like BYOD - but the dollars
           | involved were orders of magnitude better than BYOD. During
           | the pandemic we proved the costs came at the cost of net
           | productivity on average. The reaction we see now is one
           | against a cultural change that is off putting to people who
           | succeeded in a specific emergent reality - the office
           | culture. A 60 year old CEO has trouble using zoom because
           | they didn't grow up using it. They don't know how to be
           | effective over a remote relationship because they have
           | developed exceptionally effective in person skills - that's
           | why they are where they are. They simply can not accept or
           | fathom a world that is different than that. So they invent
           | hand waving bullshit not based on data.
           | 
           | But economics wins based on data sooner or later. It is
           | better share holder value to eliminate occupancy costs
           | aggressive and offload the occupancy per employee to the
           | employee. The company effectively gets free facilities in
           | this scenario. There is no way the marginal per employee
           | value of in person vibes out paces the marginal cost to
           | shelter their bodies during the work day. The vibes thing is
           | managed through adaptation.
           | 
           | Finally there's this meme the Dimon and Trump and others use
           | of people not working when working remotely. First that's not
           | true, second if it's is, that's a performance issue. Since
           | when did we stop measuring performance ? The in office or not
           | in office simply isn't a productivity variable but not
           | working and working during the work day is.
           | 
           | RTO is a cultural thing and you'll never convince the
           | executives of today by any argument conceivable because
           | you're telling them the sky is green when they know it's
           | blue. It doesn't matter that in this case it's not objective
           | like the color of the sky. It FEELS objectively true.
           | 
           | However the economics will change, and the leadership will
           | age away, and one day; maybe when the kids who graduated
           | college having gotten their degrees online run the shop - we
           | will offload the cost of housing the employee during the day
           | to the employee because it's what makes the most economic
           | sense and we will adapt around the challenges.
        
         | Vaslo wrote:
         | Totally supportive of remote work before I make my comment to
         | be clear.
         | 
         | Calling this "survivorship bias" though is like calling
         | anything in evolution "survivorship bias".
         | 
         | A person with a seriously work focused life is naturally going
         | to excel and I have no problem with this. Someone that makes
         | sacrifices in their personal life (paying to live in the city,
         | not having children or too many etc) so they can be more
         | available and work more hours may do better than me, even at
         | the same level of skill and intelligence. This only seems fair.
        
       | jmward01 wrote:
       | It seems like these policies are more geared towards giving
       | companies a way to fire people and avoid the consequences of that
       | than they are around improving productivity.
        
       | Invictus0 wrote:
       | People on HN love to pretend that no one was slacking off while
       | ostensibly "working from home"
        
         | dboreham wrote:
         | That's an indication of poor management. People can slack off
         | when in the office too.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | Hell, I'd argue for knowledge professions it's required
           | throughout the day. I cannot stay in the zone for 8 hours a
           | day, so I'm going to need to take breaks.
           | 
           | When I'm at home I can at least be productive. I can make
           | lunch, start a load of laundry, something. At work I have to
           | sit there and pretend to work because exec loves watching
           | people work, which is ultimately not as refreshing and
           | doesn't allow me to get back in the zone as quickly.
        
           | grandempire wrote:
           | Ok. So environment and social factors have no effect?
           | 
           | Suddenly all these ideas from behavioral economics about
           | implicit bias and contextual framing don't apply, and we are
           | now all Austrians studying rational and disciplined labor
           | units.
        
         | dividefuel wrote:
         | At the same time, execs love to paint with a broad brush that
         | _everyone_ working from home is slacking off... while also not
         | sharing any data about how many people are being lazy.
         | 
         | Either your performance management can catch lazy employees or
         | it can't. If it can't, then that's what you should be fixing.
        
         | mercwear wrote:
         | Or maybe they just don't feel like they need to state the
         | obvious?
         | 
         | We all know some people slack off, they find ways to do it in
         | office too.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | Slacking off is super easy in the office. You just have to
         | spend a lot of time there, you can drag meetings forever, goof
         | off behind computer - even if the screen is visible. But bonus
         | if it is not visible.
        
         | flerchin wrote:
         | Our metrics went up, and stayed elevated. Do you not have
         | metrics? Those metrics will slide when RTO in invoked.
        
         | matwood wrote:
         | Years before COVID or WFH was a thing, I knew a guy at work who
         | played some MMO literally all day. He was also the main
         | sysadmin and always got all of his work done on time.
         | 
         | But yes, people can slack off anywhere. 'Butts in seats' is one
         | of the laziest metrics for management to use for 'working'.
        
           | grandempire wrote:
           | "I know a guy who slacked off in the office", is not evidence
           | that it's better or worse.
        
           | snozolli wrote:
           | I remember reading about SysAdmins who wrote mods for MUDs
           | (Multi-User Dungeons, like a text-based MMO) to give them
           | system status notifications in-game. For example, "a pigeon
           | arrives with a note: Server 3 is down".
           | 
           | Plenty of jobs are intermittently high-demand and high-stakes
           | while leaving a ton of free time throughout the day.
        
             | matwood wrote:
             | I knew a sysadmin at a _different_ job who did that. And
             | since MUDs were text, many in the office at the time had no
             | idea what was on his screen.
             | 
             | And to your point about high-demand/high-stakes, at the
             | same job as the MUD guy there was an old guy. He would
             | leave before lunch go play tennis, nap under his desk in
             | his cube, etc... I asked one of the other young people one
             | day (I was still in college), what the old guy did.
             | Apparently he was the only one who knew how to code a
             | certain system, and he was only there to do that job when
             | the system needed a change or had a problem.
        
         | radnor wrote:
         | All my former co-workers who slacked off don't work at my
         | company any more. It was painfully obvious who was working and
         | who was not.
        
         | ohgr wrote:
         | Anon for obvious reasons. I'm one of the few full time home
         | workers at my org. I slack off all the time. I mean literally I
         | did an hour of work on Friday.
         | 
         | But this was a complete restart of something two of my in-
         | office colleagues fucked up over the space of 2 weeks.
         | 
         | The problem in orgs is shit people, not working from home.
        
         | anti-soyboy wrote:
         | My boy got triggered
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | I've been wfh long before covid. I work in consulting so the
         | metric is very easy. If a percentage of your time (typically
         | 75-80%) isn't billed to a client that yields a predefined
         | margin then you're fired. It seems brutal but it's humane in a
         | way. As long as I'm profitable to the firm they don't care what
         | I do or how I do it.
        
         | olyjohn wrote:
         | People like you pretend that people in the office never slack
         | off.
        
         | farts_mckensy wrote:
         | People slack off no matter their location, and managers
         | generally don't care as long as they do the basics.
        
         | datavirtue wrote:
         | Where I work we are all remote and executives have to beg for a
         | potty break because they are so busy. If you slack off when
         | remote, you are probably worse in the office. WFH vs the office
         | has nothing to do with a person's work ethic and dedication.
        
         | asdf6969 wrote:
         | Why do you care if people slack off? That's the company's
         | problem
        
       | barbazoo wrote:
       | > If you need to influence an executive where their experiences
       | may be out of touch with your reality, help them see the impact
       | through stories, videos, and data.
       | 
       | > Remember, they live literally in another world. This doesn't
       | necessarily make them evil, just disconnected. I do not want to
       | be "out of touch" but it is important to acknowledge that this
       | does happen over time.
       | 
       | No they don't. We all live in the same world and it's everyone's
       | responsibility to realize that and our impact on those around us
       | as well as our environment. The ruling class' personality
       | disorders (detaching from the common folk) are primarily their
       | problems and should be dealt with by them, not worked around by
       | us.
        
         | mccoyb wrote:
         | "Try and convince them that you're not an animal"
         | 
         | Depressingly laughable suggestion.
         | 
         | Giving Jared (from Silicon Valley) suggesting "scream your name
         | to your attacker so they are forced to recognize you are human"
         | vibes.
        
         | Jcampuzano2 wrote:
         | This is just an executive trying to gather sympathy for
         | themselves, and make others "empathize" with their decisions.
         | 
         | But it's sugarcoated. The only part that makes sense is the
         | fact they are sociopaths who only care about work success.
         | 
         | The rest of it is just sugarcoating the fact that they make
         | these decisions because they simply couldn't give a shit what
         | their peers below them think. They know it fucks with them and
         | that they don't like it. It's not some "oh we don't understand
         | cause we're too rich" sob story.
        
         | derektank wrote:
         | >We all live in the same world and it's everyone's
         | responsibility to realize that and our impact on those around
         | us as well as our environment.
         | 
         | It is physically impossible to be aware of the entirety of
         | one's impact on others. One might be able to dimly perceive how
         | the person across from you is feeling about something you said
         | or did, but even in simple one to one interactions, there's
         | frequent miscommunication and signal loss. If you extend this
         | to making decisions that have an impact on not just one but
         | hundreds or thousands of people, it's literally impossible to
         | know the true impact of all those decisions on all those
         | people. Good decision makers will intentionally cultivate
         | information flows that provide them some insight but those are
         | themselves imperfect.
        
           | 2o39u5woRLO wrote:
           | And bad decision makers won't even try, and might attack the
           | people who try to do it for them. And there are a shitload of
           | bad decision makers. And I don't owe them anything.
        
           | multjoy wrote:
           | >It is physically impossible to be aware of the entirety of
           | one's impact on others.
           | 
           | No it isn't. You just need a shred of empathy.
        
         | rexpop wrote:
         | > they live literally in another world
         | 
         | Classic case of semantic drift, as "literally" now means
         | "figuratively", but with emphasis. Try "virtually",
         | "practically", or "all but".
        
           | lurk2 wrote:
           | In a sense it is literal, if "world" is understood not as
           | "planet earth" or "this realm of existence" but instead as a
           | social circle. e.g. "He is from the software world," doesn't
           | mean "He is from a world made up of software," but instead
           | "He works in and is surrounded by people who develop software
           | professionally." In that sense, a lot of these people are
           | (literally) living in a world that is socially, physically,
           | and even conceptually separate from those of lesser means.
        
           | hrnnnnnn wrote:
           | "Literally" has been used for emphasis in this way for
           | hundreds of years.
           | 
           | https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/misuse-of-literally
        
         | lowbloodsugar wrote:
         | I mean the US electoral college disagrees with you.
        
       | moi2388 wrote:
       | " This is not a screed against executive wealth. After all, I
       | paid with 25 years of my life and I got some of the wealth"
       | 
       | Did the rest of the employees not do that as well though? Minus
       | the wealth bit of course.
        
         | alex_suzuki wrote:
         | Yeah, I noticed that too. Strong ,,I worked so much harder than
         | you" vibes.
        
           | broadsidepicnic wrote:
           | That might be so but he did highlight that he put work ahead
           | of the family
           | 
           | > Most time goes to work, some to family.
           | 
           | I do two jobs, but do that _because_ I prioritize family
           | life: I do my main (not remote) work only part time because
           | that can't be done remotely, and do a second job (consulting,
           | 90% remotely) on off days to make up the difference. I don't
           | care about the money as long as we make do.
        
         | ein0p wrote:
         | I wouldn't want those people's jobs tbh. You can't make every
         | dollar, and they don't really have a life outside work. Fast
         | forward to 60, you're retired and you haven't even lived yet.
         | Sounds like a regrettable situation to be in even if you're
         | rich - your youth is gone, everything hurts when you wake up,
         | and your dick doesn't work anymore.
        
           | bsimpson wrote:
           | Part of how I coped with spending years at a big co
           | underleveled and unaware of the ramifications was realizing
           | that when I took vacation, I disappeared for months at a
           | time. "K, I'm gonna be gone for ___. See you when I get
           | back." As a low-level IC, your personal time is your own. I
           | take time off when I want, fully disconnect, and nothing is
           | completely on fire when I come back.
           | 
           | There's maybe a year or two I eventually wouldn't have to
           | work if I was more aggressive about going for promo, but I
           | have no desire to be someone who's stressed about work, even
           | when I'm not supposed to be working.
        
       | miltonlost wrote:
       | Nah, disconnecting and then treating workers as if their outside
       | lives and work lives are fungible is pretty evil.
        
       | neofrommatrix wrote:
       | None of this is surprising. I wouldn't say they are disconnected,
       | unless they were already born with a silver spoon and have never
       | had to live like the rest of us. I would say they know how it is
       | for the rest of us, but just don't care.
        
       | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
       | I enjoy working from home. But I'm not going to deny that it has
       | had a catastrophic impact on the downtown business and commercial
       | districts in many small and medium-sized cities. Those places
       | stuggled badly with lockdown in general and a lot still have not
       | recovered from the sudden societal shift where so many people
       | just stay at home in the suburbs instead of coming into the
       | office. I don't know what the answer is, and I certainly don't
       | want to return to the office. But the outlook is bleak for a lot
       | cities.
        
         | chasd00 wrote:
         | Wouldn't this be countered by the economic boon of the grocery
         | stores and other places that are open where people actually
         | live? In my neighborhood a couple of small eateries have opened
         | up for the wfh crowd. I can get a decent sandwich and some
         | chips to go for a reasonable price within a 20min walk from my
         | home.
         | 
         | Edit: coffee shops seems to be doing very well too
        
           | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
           | > countered by the economic boon of the grocery stores and
           | other places that are open where people actually live
           | 
           | While I think it's true that a lot of businesses have shifted
           | to being more neighborhood-local and not relying on "business
           | hours" to be sustainable, the reality for most suburban
           | economies are that shopping centers and chain megastores
           | basically absorb all the business. Places like Target, Whole
           | Foods, Walmart are the ones that are primarily benefiting
           | from this overnight migration outside of city centers. But
           | that's been going on for a long time, COVID just accelerated
           | it.
        
         | looping__lui wrote:
         | Maybe those were just artificial constructs that cost everyone
         | a lot of money and we just started to realize now? "Hey let's
         | support these 30$ lunches at the food truck downtown." Maybe we
         | are as a society better off without these massive concrete
         | structures that are only occupied 8h / 24h a day and serve no
         | other purpose? Maybe requiring less resources and
         | infrastructure to get people to and from other concrete
         | structures that they only inhabit during the other part of the
         | day is a good thing kind of?
        
           | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
           | Maybe we should all just live online
        
             | 16mb wrote:
             | Or we build things that people actually want to use in
             | those prime locations.
        
         | 16mb wrote:
         | The city and those business need to change to meet the shift.
         | They are just being greedy and seem to want us workers to both
         | support ourselves and bail them out.
        
         | datavirtue wrote:
         | No one owes the downtown business and property owners anything.
         | Free market doing its thing. They got disrupted.
        
         | roarcher wrote:
         | The answer is that it sucks to own one of those businesses, but
         | things change and disruption happens. The answer isn't "the
         | city's entire white-collar workforce needs to migrate downtown
         | and back every day to provide an artificial customer base for
         | $17 burritos".
        
           | VWWHFSfQ wrote:
           | There is more benefit to a vibrant downtown city center than
           | just "white collar" people visiting everyday. Bars,
           | restaurants, cafes. People go to the post office, they go to
           | salons. All of those things are gone now.
           | 
           | In exchange for people staying home, and going to their local
           | suburb's Target and Walmart to buy a sandwich, or go to a
           | Starbucks. Get their nails done in a local chain stripmall
           | place.
        
             | roarcher wrote:
             | Those things are gone now because the only reason people
             | were doing them downtown is because they had to be there
             | for work.
             | 
             | It's odd to suggest that people spending their money closer
             | to home means shopping at large chain businesses, but
             | spending downtown doesn't. Just because there isn't a
             | Walmart in the city's corporate center doesn't mean you're
             | patronizing Mom and Pop small businesses. You think that
             | trendy "gastropub" with its gourmet hamburgers, cute
             | waitresses that all share a suspiciously similar "alt"
             | aesthetic, and tables full of people clad in business
             | casual isn't a line item in some investment firm's
             | portfolio?
             | 
             | Guess where the Mom and Pops are? They're in that
             | "stripmall place" near your house.
        
       | rglullis wrote:
       | "It would be hypocritical to talk about "executives" in general
       | without owning my own situation first. For brevity, here are four
       | examples:
       | 
       | 1) No mortgage 2) A maid service cleans every two weeks 3)
       | Someone else mows the grass "
       | 
       | Just an anecdote, but all of his examples (except maybe for the
       | personal assistant) could be given by anyone living in a middle-
       | class family from Brazil until the late 90s.
        
         | maleldil wrote:
         | A Brazilian middle class family would have a maid working 10
         | hours per day.
        
           | rglullis wrote:
           | That, or she would live in with the family.
        
             | maleldil wrote:
             | I've never seen that in practice, but a maid working 10
             | hours per day 5/6 days per week was very common.
        
         | pkaye wrote:
         | 2 and 3 is not too hard to be able to afford here in the US. 1
         | would depend on when you bought your house because prices have
         | shot up a lot. But if you are a tech workers and got some RSU
         | and bonuses it would be achievable.
        
           | rglullis wrote:
           | I was thinking more on the private school, personal drivers,
           | multiple vacation homes and the things on the "level above".
        
       | cowmix wrote:
       | About three years ago, when the major state university my wife
       | worked for was starting its "return to office" push, the head of
       | HR gave a Zoom town hall filled with condescending remarks. He
       | said things like, "I don't know why you all aren't back in the
       | office already..." and "I love going to the MU and chatting with
       | students about their college experience."
       | 
       | Keep in mind, COVID was still raging at this point.
       | 
       | Right in the middle of his calm rant, a courier--UPS or Amazon, I
       | think--knocked on his door, rang the bell, and then dropped off a
       | package, loud and clear for everyone to hear. It was hilarious
       | and completely undercut his entire message. Funny, but also
       | infuriating.
        
       | EPWN3D wrote:
       | I've been saying this since RTO became a thing. Even well-
       | compensated white collar ICs have to deal with many of the same
       | day-to-day realities as blue collar workers. They pay bills, have
       | to wrangle the kids, etc. Yes they live more comfortably, but
       | they still have to personally deal with all this stuff -- they
       | don't have the money for a household staff.
       | 
       | Remote work is just such a massive improvement in every respect
       | for people with families for that reason.
       | 
       | The executives are just on a different planet. These are people
       | who embody Lucille Bluthe's quote "It's one banana Michael. How
       | much can it cost, $10?"
        
       | dotdi wrote:
       | I feel like this is a huge load of crap.
       | 
       | These are highly intelligent people. They got to be very high up
       | in the food chain. They are driven. They are smart.
       | 
       | Yet, the claim is that they can't imagine there exist people not
       | like themselves? Sorry, not buying it.
       | 
       | More plausible to me is that remote work will hurt their bottom
       | lines because they (and their superiors, investors, board
       | members, etc) heavily invested in real estate.
       | 
       | Means, motive and opportunity.
        
         | datavirtue wrote:
         | I invest primarily in REITs, avoiding those tied up in any
         | significant amount of office space.
         | 
         | Residential, industrial, medical and retail are easy picks over
         | office buildings.
         | 
         | The impact is real. Excutives are qualified as accredited
         | investors and have access to private investments that are often
         | tied to office space and other real estate that most people
         | cannot participate in.
        
       | mhh__ wrote:
       | I still would hate to be in the office every day by diktat but I
       | honestly do think remote work can be pretty bad for the younger
       | end of a company.
       | 
       | Ignoring that its quite hard to learn from other people remotely
       | (somewhat easier in tech because people are used to it), a lot of
       | people frankly don't realise that they're basically running off
       | like a headless chicken working on stuff that doesn't actually
       | matter - programmers especially. You really do need to see the
       | whites of some peoples eyes to get them to actually do the right
       | thing, some people just aren't the type to instinctively know the
       | macro picture of what they're working on.
       | 
       | If I were running a company and had the cash to facilitate I
       | think I would probably go for something like a cycle of " _x_
       | weeks off 1 week of intense in-office sprinting " then repeat.
       | Going into the office for no reason is basically pointless, or at
       | least the option on spontaneity may be worth less than the cost
       | of going, there's an arbitrage in recognising that.
        
         | mccoyb wrote:
         | Totally agree with this model, and I've seen it work.
         | 
         | As usual, the best model is not an extreme "easy answer", but a
         | nuanced take (in-person environments have tangible benefits,
         | but also tangible downsides -- and the same for fully remote
         | environments).
         | 
         | It seems like our society (at least in the US) only has room
         | for "easy answers" now a days ... to the detriment of most.
        
         | hypothesis wrote:
         | > remote work can be pretty bad for the younger end of a
         | company
         | 
         | Not to worry, AI is going to rapidly solve this issue,
         | according to tech CEOs that it.
        
       | siliconc0w wrote:
       | It's very sad to me that we didn't seize and expand on this
       | alternative vision for work. A commuting culture is quite
       | terrible for society and there are many examples of successful
       | remote-first teams. Worse, we don't get even get the benefits of
       | working together because these group-thinkers also buy into
       | outsourcing and so we commute into an office only to spend most
       | of our day on video call with remote teams. Idiocracy.
        
         | danny_codes wrote:
         | Eh, I think the commuting negativity mostly stems from bad land
         | use in America. Driving is wasteful, polluting, boring,
         | dangerous, expensive, and just generally unpleasant. If we'd
         | designed our society around walking/biking/transit people would
         | be much happier.
         | 
         | During Covid there was some surveys done on whether or not
         | people missed their commute. People who walked or biked were
         | very likely to say they missed commuting. Those who took
         | transit were split (mild dislike), and those who drove nearly
         | universally did not miss it.
         | 
         | We built a pile of shit instead of functional urbanism in
         | America and this is the result.
        
           | xvilka wrote:
           | Tokio (rush hours aside) is enjoyable for commuting and
           | having lunch outside. Despite all that people and building
           | density.
        
           | mystifyingpoi wrote:
           | Which doesn't make any sense, because people who walked or
           | biked could just have done the same when working remotely -
           | just turn around after 1/2 of distance to the office and go
           | back home. Then repeat after work.
           | 
           | They didn't miss the "commute to work", they missed the
           | exercise and the internal soothing feeling, that they are
           | doing something good for the health in spite of that trip
           | being required to get the paycheck, and that it's not a total
           | waste of time when done this way.
        
           | siliconc0w wrote:
           | Remote doesn't necessarily have to mean work-from-home
           | either, corporations could provide hubs or co-working spaces
           | that are walkable or bikeable. So they can still get the warm
           | managerial feeling of seeing badge-ins on a dashboard while
           | also moving as away from 2h commutes and sterile office
           | parks.
        
       | markus_zhang wrote:
       | Well the only thing to do is to lower productivity gradually and
       | let them get used to it. Sure they can hire a new guy but it's
       | not free either.
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | Why can't I WFH w/ a company VR headset that transports me to a
       | virtual office yet?
        
       | Jcampuzano2 wrote:
       | Sorry but this is completely off base. Executives _know_ what
       | they are doing. They just don 't care because it makes them more
       | money.
       | 
       | It depends on whether you consider that evil or not. But no, I do
       | not take that they don't understand somehow because of their
       | privilege.
       | 
       | This is just another executive grift trying to make people feel
       | better about them and the decisions they make.
       | 
       | Stop the bullshit and say the quiet part out loud. They do not
       | care what your employees have going on. They understand it fucks
       | with people's work life balance and simply do not care.
        
       | lr4444lr wrote:
       | I have been remotely working since 2020.
       | 
       | There will be no return to office.
       | 
       | The unspoken issue here is trust. Managers and execs at these RTO
       | mandate companies do not trust that the rank and file are working
       | productively when not monitored in office.
       | 
       | Why else would they want to lose hours to commuting, and not take
       | advantage of their employees living in cheaper CoL areas? Because
       | they don't truly trust their work output when not monitored in
       | person, and the cost of higher salaries to afford housing near
       | the office plus lost hours and energy commuting are worth buying
       | the trust they otherwise don't feel they have. It's
       | dysfunctional, but it makes sense.
       | 
       | I am glad to work in a high trust work environment. I have seen
       | people who abuse the system get let go. They deserve it.
        
         | hyperhopper wrote:
         | > Why else would they want to lose hours to commuting, and not
         | take advantage of their employees living in cheaper CoL areas?
         | 
         | They abuse this and it definitely doesn't help the worker. As a
         | Manhattan based worker who has lived in Aspen and Hawaii,
         | Google wants to pay people in the higher COL areas of Aspen
         | more than 30% less despite them being far more expensive than
         | Aspen or Hawaii. They will fuck you with cost of living then if
         | you expect more money they will say they are just following the
         | cost of labor (which is a made up metric they can arbitrarily
         | manipulate)
        
         | grandempire wrote:
         | > not take advantage of their employees living in cheaper CoL
         | areas
         | 
         | Because talent tends to be worse in those areas. (Inb4 I know
         | someone really good in a low cost area)
        
           | antisthenes wrote:
           | You know people can move, right?
           | 
           | I can move 20-30 miles in different directions within the
           | same state that would land me in HCOL, MCOL and LCOL areas.
           | 
           | Moving to any of these areas doesn't change _my_ skill set to
           | be better or worse.
        
             | grandempire wrote:
             | Yep. And what we see now is select employees with a lot of
             | trust are able to negotiate remote work.
        
       | idkwhattocallme wrote:
       | RTO full time just isn't possible for my family and I suspect I'm
       | not alone. It has nothing to do with productivity. It's just the
       | economics of childcare don't work. We live in SF both work tech
       | jobs. We make above median income relative to rest of the
       | country. Our 2 kids (< 10 years old) are in public schools. Kids
       | need to be dropped off at 9.30 and picked up at 3.30 and 2.30 on
       | weds.
       | 
       | The bare minimum for pickup/drop off help is ~ $2500 a month.
       | 
       | Frankly I don't know how people are managing.
        
         | milesrout wrote:
         | Just do what 95% of people did before: one picks up and one
         | drops off.
        
           | mystifyingpoi wrote:
           | What people did before was simple in my childhood case: your
           | grandma/grandpa, who live downstairs in a multifamily home,
           | drops you off or picks you up.
           | 
           | How that's supposed to work with just 2 parents that work
           | 8h/day - idk.
        
       | rwmj wrote:
       | https://xcancel.com/EthanEvansVP/status/1895845734177452369
       | 
       | Non-xitter link since that site hasn't worked in Firefox for
       | quite a long time. It'd be nice if HN rewrote such URLs
       | automatically.
        
       | babuloseo wrote:
       | AUTOMATE HR AND RELATED MANAGEMENT NOW.
        
       | blackeyeblitzar wrote:
       | I think a lot of the return to office mandates are either meant
       | to force people to quit, or to protect the value of real estate.
       | With JP Morgan, they're looking to protect the entire commercial
       | real estate market since their business depends on it.
        
       | jcgrillo wrote:
       | The same lack of context is what (I think, if I'm feeling
       | charitable) makes these people think AI is real:
       | 
       | If you spend your entire day in meetings, you might reasonably
       | think that you'd be better off if all your meetings were face-to-
       | face.
       | 
       | If you only touch a computer to write and respond to emails, the
       | email summary parrot might reasonably seem like some omniscient
       | god.
       | 
       | The trouble is I don't feel charitable. These people got to where
       | they are by behaving like narcissists and sociopaths. That's
       | because they _are_ narcissists and sociopaths. It 's about
       | controlling other people and hurting them. Full stop.
        
       | the_gastropod wrote:
       | A few years back, I worked at a "unicorn" startup that also did
       | the pandemic remote work thing, then tried reeling it back in
       | 2022. I remember one of the SVP's explaining how reasonable the
       | RTO policy was, even for those who--like her--had moved away from
       | NYC. She simply rented an apartment a few blocks from the office
       | --midtown Manhattan--and stayed there during the week. Like her,
       | we just needed to make our own adjustments to accommodate the new
       | policy. I'd seen "out of touch" before. But suggesting that
       | everyone just get their own Pied-a-terre still pretty much takes
       | the cake for degree of out of touch I've witnessed personally.
        
       | datavirtue wrote:
       | All of this was known and built into the education of the elite
       | wherein a sense of responsibility for upholding the overall
       | prosperity of society was instilled. The fact that a post like
       | this seems noteworthy is just an illustration that that sense of
       | responsibility was lost. It seems like we have arrived full
       | circle back to: "I got mine, fuck you." Lording, instead of
       | leading.
       | 
       | What we are really witnessing is law and order breaking down.
        
       | gscott wrote:
       | Gary's economics, YouTube.
        
       | mariusor wrote:
       | > This doesn't necessarily make them evil, just disconnected.
       | 
       | No, no, that level of lack of awareness and empathy makes them
       | straight up evil.
        
         | cosmotic wrote:
         | Another thing that makes them straight up evil is taking the
         | value others produce as their own.
        
           | danny_codes wrote:
           | Comrade!
           | 
           | I agree.
        
       | IshKebab wrote:
       | There's another factor: their jobs are different. Obviously
       | working in an office is advantageous if your entire jobs is
       | meetings and talking to people. They're going to get frustrated
       | when they are in the office and the people they want to talk to
       | aren't there.
       | 
       | But it's waaaay less useful if you are a worker bee just
       | programming all day. Yes it's still better to talk to people next
       | to a physical whiteboard, but it only matters very occasionally.
       | My wife found it astounding that pre-covid I would sometimes go
       | into the office and not really talk to anyone all day. Literally
       | would just be sitting at a desk typing; the desk could have been
       | anywhere.
       | 
       | If you're somehow a FAAaaaang executive reading this, consider
       | making RTO only mandatory for the people you directly manage and
       | talk to, and then let them decide the policy for their
       | subordinates.
        
         | nemo44x wrote:
         | So this is pretty much it in my opinion. Mangers collaborate
         | with other managers and it's much easier and effective to do
         | this in person. A big part of the job is this. It's how you
         | align cross functionally and lots of serendipitous things occur
         | because of this. It's much easier to build the types of
         | relationships you need to effectively lead.
         | 
         | Individual contributors in many cases do not benefit from this.
         | In fact it can be an active hindrance. An ICs contribution and
         | performance is easily tracked and captured through the outputs
         | and metrics they produce.
         | 
         | I think the best organization will be one where leadership and
         | managers spend a good deal of the week in the office. High
         | ranking contributors (player coach managers, leads, etc) spend
         | some so they can collaborate with other leads and leaders. And
         | most ICs are optional.
        
         | snozolli wrote:
         | Not only are their jobs different, most of them have _no
         | understanding whatsoever_ of how the workers generate business
         | value. The age of the technical founder is over.
        
       | efitz wrote:
       | If you want people to return to the office, then make the working
       | conditions at the office desirable to return to.
       | 
       | Yes, free meals, interesting spaces, massage rooms, etc are all
       | great perks. But you're there to work, and the reality is
       | hoteling, no shred of privacy (need to have an ad hoc phone
       | conversation with someone somewhere else? Good luck booking a
       | phone room and walking 10min to get there).
       | 
       | If you want people in the office, give them offices. Small,
       | glass-walled, but acoustically private. And above all, assigned,
       | so that you can personalize it a little and not mind sitting
       | there for 8-12 hours.
        
       | trey-jones wrote:
       | Marie Antoinette was "just disconnected" and look what happened
       | to her.
        
         | okanat wrote:
         | They made sure that she stays disconnected.
        
           | jcgrillo wrote:
           | You might say airgapped
        
       | willhslade wrote:
       | I see a lot of comments here, but what I don't see is anybody
       | speaking the quiet part out loud.
       | 
       | No judgment here to those who did, but during the pandemic,
       | several people, including several software engineers, took the
       | opportunity to work multiple jobs. Notably, at Equifax, which is
       | probably the worst place to do it because they have records of
       | most people's employment.
       | https://www.businessinsider.com/equifax-used-itsproduct-to-f...
       | 
       | This is the main reason. Management doesn't want you pulling 2
       | salaries, even if you could, so they are trying to make it
       | difficult so you don't even try.
       | 
       | In addition, if WFH becomes normalized, there is a lot of debt
       | floating office buildings in major cities, and there will be a
       | great renegotiation. This is really bad for senior management,
       | the stock market, transit systems and the budget of most cities.
       | So most people that manage you and manage your managers are
       | aligned against you. https://nypost.com/2024/08/02/real-
       | estate/huge-midtown-offic...
       | 
       | Lastly, and I'm only mentioning this because I think it needs to
       | be said, but I think that most people who are pushing WFH are
       | short sighted. If it is proved conclusively that software
       | development can be managed and completed remotely, then it will
       | devalue your labour as you are forced to compete with smart
       | people in countries with significantly lower housing and energy
       | costs. Anecdotally, this is already occurring.
        
         | iLoveOncall wrote:
         | > This is the main reason.
         | 
         | No it's not.
         | 
         | According to your own article, Equifax fired 24 out of 10,000
         | employees for working multiple jobs. That's 0.24% of their
         | employees.
         | 
         | This doesn't even come close to being a factor in their
         | decision.
         | 
         | > there is a lot of debt floating office buildings in major
         | cities, and there will be a great renegotiation. This is really
         | bad for senior management, the stock market, transit systems
         | and the budget of most cities.
         | 
         | Why is it bad for senior management, outside of senior
         | management for commercial real estate? You think Google gives a
         | flying fuck about the fact that there are empty buildings and
         | that it's costing money to the few massive companies who own
         | most of the commercial real estate in the US and in the world?
         | No. Do you think the stock market cares? No.
         | 
         | > If it is proved conclusively that software development can be
         | managed and completed remotely, then it will devalue your
         | labour as you are forced to compete with smart people in
         | countries with significantly lower housing and energy costs.
         | 
         | You say it yourself, "Anecdotally, this is already occurring",
         | so why isn't it generalized? Why is there still ANY line of
         | code written in the US or in western Europe? Because
         | outsourcing simply doesn't work for the vast majority of
         | software.
        
           | willhslade wrote:
           | I appreciate the pushback.
           | 
           | Fine, if it isn't the real reason, what is the real reason?
           | Why can't any executives, at any organization, proffer a
           | reason that makes sense?
        
             | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
             | Executives at pretty much every organization offer the same
             | sensible reason. Working in an office together greatly
             | reduces the cost of collaboration, which is valuable in its
             | own right as well as leading to more inventiveness and
             | better mentorship.
             | 
             | The problem is that, as you can see a bit upthread, a lot
             | of ICs don't notice or don't care about the collaborative
             | aspects of their job. To someone who feels that writing out
             | lots of code is their real job, that sensible reason sounds
             | like a weird deflection, since "reduces the cost of
             | collaboration" means by definition that I'm getting
             | interrupted or distracted when I could be heads-down
             | programming.
        
             | nathanlied wrote:
             | Frankly? I think this is a whole mix of things. There isn't
             | a "real" reason, there's a smorgasbord of them.
             | 
             | Why do "FAANG"s RTO? Because they're massive people-movers,
             | and cities that host them likely hold C-level meetings to
             | pressure RTO so that people spend more money. More on
             | transport, more on food, more on coffee, more consumption =
             | more taxes = more movement = growing value to office spaces
             | = win for the cities. Not to mention that managers at these
             | corporations are pretty wealthy themselves, and likely hold
             | investments that would depreciate were WFH to continue in
             | any great scale.
             | 
             | Why do smaller companies RTO? Because what works for FAANGs
             | surely works for them, too. Literally. I've seen multiple
             | managers push for RTO because the big tech leaders are
             | doing it. Add that a certain 'magical' belief that RTO
             | means more productivity and an enriching 'office culture'
             | where new profitable ideas brew - they're all only human,
             | after all, and are as prone to magical thinking without any
             | concrete evidence as we all are - and you've got perfectly
             | good reasons. And mostly irrational from a business PoV.
             | 
             | Is this the case for literally everyone pushing for RTO? Of
             | course not, I'm sure there are legitimate reasons there,
             | but most of the justifications I've heard, as a huge
             | advocate for WFH who always seeks to understand pro-RTO
             | management, have little basis on evidence that it is
             | something good for the business.
        
               | iLoveOncall wrote:
               | > cities that host them likely hold C-level meetings to
               | pressure RTO so that people spend more money
               | 
               | They don't pressure them, they give them tax breaks. But
               | besides this you're on point.
        
       | astennumero wrote:
       | Another interesting aspect that is often ignored is the
       | government's role in this situation. Increased footfall is
       | beneficial for the economy. People generally spend more when
       | they're outside than they would if they were at home. For
       | example, one might choose to cook food rather than buy it when at
       | home.
       | 
       | Therefore, some governments are actively pushing corporations to
       | bring people back to the office to revive the economy. I'm not
       | exactly sure how I feel about this, though. On one hand, reviving
       | the economy will have long-term benefits. On the other hand,
       | forcing people to spend money is not ideal.
       | 
       | Also, personally, I think we all grow and learn more about the
       | world when we are in the world. You get to see and experience so
       | many things while commuting, for example. I think it builds
       | character.
        
         | phendrenad2 wrote:
         | I'd like to see proof of government pressure for companies to
         | RTO. In theory it seems likely, but it would be lovely to have
         | a smoking gun to enter into evidence in the court of public
         | opinion. DM me (joking, HN doesn't have DMs).
        
         | dguest wrote:
         | This is an interesting case of the "revive the economy"
         | argument. If you really don't see a benefit, to you or your
         | employer, to returning to work, you are being forced to _waste_
         | money (spending implies you get something out of it). More
         | generously, it 's a tax where the benefits go to your local
         | Subway or gas station (or maybe bistro and public transit).
         | 
         | There are probably lots of other ways to force people to waste
         | money, so this raises two questions:
         | 
         | - Is a larger GDP an unequivocally good thing if you get there
         | by raising people's baseline expenses?
         | 
         | - Are the parts of the economy you are stimulating the ones we
         | want to see growing?
         | 
         | I don't know the answer in either case. But in the later case,
         | I know a lot of people who work in carpentry and delivery apps,
         | and since the pandemic they have made an absolute killing: the
         | work-from-home mandate invigorated that part of the economy
         | like nothing before.
         | 
         | P.S. I agree with your personal point about leaving home. I
         | like going in to the office too: my office is about 20 minutes
         | away by bike and it's nice to get some air. I'm not sure if
         | applies to people who have a less healthy or refreshing
         | commute.
        
         | n3t wrote:
         | > Increased footfall is beneficial for the economy. People
         | generally spend more when they're outside than they would if
         | they were at home.
         | 
         | It sounds like the broken window fallacy.
        
       | orblivion wrote:
       | It's kind of funny, when execs talk about employees feeling
       | entitled to working remotely, I think that's a fair thing to
       | criticize. We all earn our salaries and our perks, the market
       | determines how much companies will put up with remote work (and
       | how many employees even want it).
       | 
       | But since 2020, the market has swayed a lot in favor of remote
       | work compared to before (though it seems to sway back and forth
       | since then). And the way some of these execs talk about it, they
       | say we're all spoiled and we need to put back into the offices
       | where we belong. They're the ones with the self entitled
       | attitude, not respecting the market.
        
       | tonnydourado wrote:
       | > They're not evil, just out of touch
       | 
       | Kinda hard to see the difference. I, too, live in a completely
       | different world than people with much less money than me, but I
       | can still conceive that they can't have a cleaner twice a month,
       | order food every other day, or use uber more often than public
       | transportation. I wouldn't even consider making a decision that
       | impacts people's lives without having at least an inkling of how
       | they actually live.
        
         | mystifyingpoi wrote:
         | That's why I like that I have 0 friends in tech and all of my
         | friends reside outside this bubble. Like, recently someone
         | asked me for help, because he didn't have enough money to pay
         | the taxes. Like holy crap, this is unthinkable in tech, but
         | totally normal outside.
        
       | JackFr wrote:
       | When I plead with my direct reports to please comply with the
       | company policy of in the office 3 days a week, and I am deluged
       | with a flood of complaints, I suppose sometimes I'm less
       | empathetic than I might be. It's not because I'm rich. I am not.
       | I don't own a home nor do I retain any personal assistants.
       | 
       | I'm less empathetic than I might be because I came into the
       | office 5 days a week for 30 years. My wife also worked. We raised
       | three kids. I went to night school. It's all very doable, and
       | honestly not _that_ hard.
       | 
       | Now I understand that technology has changed circumstances, and
       | what was not technologically feasible 30 years ago is easy today.
       | 
       | But with respect to empathy, most of the commenters here could
       | bear to examine, if only just for a minute, the idea that the
       | executives are acting in good faith, and just trying to run the
       | company effectively and efficiently.
        
         | g-nair wrote:
         | I haven't been working for nearly as long - coming up on 7
         | years here. I enjoy going into the office because I enjoy
         | spending time with my team - they're all really cool!
         | 
         | However, I find a good analogy for RTO to be the case of
         | student loan forgiveness. Just because one individual had to
         | pay their own tuition or student loans off, doesn't mean that
         | individual should wish that all future students share the same
         | fate.
         | 
         | Just because you worked in an office for 30 years and it was
         | manageable, or just because I like coming in for social
         | reasons, need not result in our scorn for those who thrive by
         | not coming into an office.
        
           | milesrout wrote:
           | Student loan forgiveness is using taxpayer money to pay off
           | the loans of a huge number of people with good jobs and
           | plenty of money.
           | 
           | You chose to borrow that money. Borrow. It wasn't a gift.
           | 
           | The idea that people are only against student loan
           | forgiveness because they paid off their own loans and think
           | others should share in their suffering or something is
           | absurd. It is nothing to do with that at all. It is because
           | you are stealing to give money to people that do not need it.
           | 
           | If talk of student loan forgiveness were limited to people
           | with very limited incomes with no hope of ever paying off
           | their loans, it would be one thing. But it is in reality
           | about a massive transfer of wealth to people with degrees:
           | people with plenty of earning capacity already.
           | 
           | >Just because you worked in an office for 30 years and it was
           | manageable, or just because I like coming in for social
           | reasons, need not result in our scorn for those who thrive by
           | not coming into an office.
           | 
           | The persom you replied to didn't say RTO was good _because_
           | he worked in the office for 30 years. He said he had limited
           | sympathy for that reason. I am sure his reason for imploring
           | his team to RTO is that he recognises that people do two
           | thirds of fuck all at home.
        
             | scarface_74 wrote:
             | I'm 50 and he sounds like the prototypical boomer. It's
             | like the old people who can't fathom why new grads would
             | spend months "grinding leetCode" to make $170K+ right out
             | of college when the boomer bought their first house in 2002
             | for $170k (like I did).
        
         | polishdude20 wrote:
         | I'd come into the office 3 days a week if I lived close to the
         | office. I live far away because the office is downtown.
         | Downtown is expensive to live in.
         | 
         | I think a lot of people who want to work from home want to not
         | commute for an hour per day or can't afford to live nearby the
         | office.
        
         | taysix wrote:
         | > I'm less empathetic than I might be because I came into the
         | office 5 days a week for 30 years. My wife also worked. We
         | raised three kids. I went to night school. It's all very
         | doable, and honestly not that hard.
         | 
         | To me this sentiment reads as "It sucked for me, therefore it
         | needs to suck for you too. Feel the pain of previous
         | generations!"
         | 
         | What happened to wanting to make life BETTER for people? Better
         | for the next generation?
         | 
         | As someone that would complain about RTO mandates if I had to,
         | I know that it's do-able, but does it make my life better? No,
         | it doesn't.
         | 
         | Imagine your last 30 years of not having to go in 5 days a
         | week? Think how much more time you would have had to do all the
         | things you listed: raise your kids, spend time studying night
         | school, etc. How much further ahead would you have gotten with
         | that extra time?
        
           | II2II wrote:
           | The first thing that stuck out to me (emphasis added):
           | 
           | >> When I plead with my direct reports to please comply with
           | the _company policy_ of in the office 3 days a week
           | 
           | Someone higher up is the decision maker here. They are
           | acknowledging a lack of empathy while implementing those
           | policies and trying to explain why they may lack empathy in
           | the process. Yet, at the end of the day, they are simply one
           | of the people who has to ensure compliance.
           | 
           | > Imagine your last 30 years of not having to go in 5 days a
           | week?
           | 
           | There are likely a lot of managers out there arguing against
           | company mandates. The thing is, it is difficult to discuss
           | their struggles with higher levels of management without
           | creating a negative impact (or a negative impact of a
           | different sort) in the workplace. So they have to carry out
           | the orders without actually discussing how they feel about
           | those orders with their reports.
        
           | JackFr wrote:
           | > To me this sentiment reads as "It sucked for me, therefore
           | it needs to suck for you too. Feel the pain of previous
           | generations!"
           | 
           | I explicitly say it didn't suck and it wasn't painful.
        
         | dutchCourage wrote:
         | I'm sure some might be acting in good faith. Nonetheless, I
         | believe they're generally wrong. From experience going to the
         | office for the sake of going to the office doesn't help.
         | 
         | The company I worked for who had the best company culture was
         | fully remote but put a strong emphasis on communication.
         | 
         | Meanwhile, my current company insists that people show up to
         | the office regularly, and it's costing me 8h per week and I get
         | a less comfortable work environment. It does nothing to solve
         | our communication issues however. Even worse, it feels like
         | some execs think the company culture will build itself just by
         | putting people together in a room. It reminds me of people who
         | schedule meetings because they don't know how to organize their
         | thoughts and write down what they want to say.
         | 
         | edit: Rephrasing, I got emotional. I don't know how you managed
         | to have a life with three kids, night school and a full time
         | job + commute. All my free time goes to my child and family. I
         | barely have time for hobbies. If a company wants to take more
         | of my time they better have a compelling reason.
        
         | Freedom2 wrote:
         | > just trying to run the company effectively and efficiently.
         | 
         | So perhaps they should present evidence or data? Any at all
         | will do. So far there has been very little evidence, especially
         | from the big dogs, that actually present a positive view of RTO
         | with respect to productivity.
        
         | dingnuts wrote:
         | it's as simple as this: working from home is a benefit, like
         | 401(k) matching.
         | 
         | If you hire remote workers, and then tell them they have to
         | come in three days a week, you had better have a compensation
         | renegotiation or you sure will get complaints, because you
         | effectively just cut everyone's pay.
         | 
         | and your excuse is that you did it so everyone has to? no, I
         | chose to go remote to access property I can afford, based on
         | the agreement I negotiated.
         | 
         | if you unilaterally change that as an employer, you cannot be
         | surprised when your reports act like you're cutting their pay,
         | because you are!
        
         | goosejuice wrote:
         | It won't be more effective or efficient if they don't want to
         | be there. Nothing hurts productivity more than apathy.
        
         | mystifyingpoi wrote:
         | > and just trying to run the company effectively and
         | efficiently
         | 
         | The issue is, during covid, many companies thrived, the sales
         | skyrocketed and everyone was happier than ever. Now, they
         | backpedal and say that we need to go back butts in chairs for
         | reasons, but there is zero mention of the previous prosperity
         | and why can't we just keep doing the same.
         | 
         | It's a lie, simple as that.
        
         | arkadiytehgraet wrote:
         | So you don't own a house after working for 30 years and you of
         | all people are speaking about efficiency? This is really
         | something to think about for you, mate
        
         | francisofascii wrote:
         | Because the RTO mandate is not to increase productivity, it is
         | to cause people to quit or give a reason to lay people off. It
         | has NOTHING to do with making workers more productive. Also 20
         | years ago it was much more doable to live close to an office.
         | Real estate prices are insane now, even in smaller cities.
         | Also, it is hard to work full time, commute, raise kids, and
         | keep a marriage successful. It doesn't leave much wiggle rooms
         | for exercise, cooking, recreation, etc. It is a rat race. It is
         | why people become overweight, have heart attacks, and get
         | cancer. Keynes prediction of 15 hour work weeks didn't come
         | true, despite unprecedented productivity growth. It is a shame.
        
         | scarface_74 wrote:
         | I've also worked almost 30 years. Even in 1996 I was able to
         | work remotely occasionally by logging into a mainframe (DEC VAX
         | and Stratus VOS) for half of my work and using PCAnyWhere for
         | Windows based work over a modem.
         | 
         | I've worked remotely since March 2020 across three companies. I
         | don't work in an office. If you need me in an office for some
         | face time, put me on a plane. I initially turned down the
         | chance to interview at Amazon because they wanted me to uproot
         | my life after Covid and only ended up working there because
         | they suggested I interview at AWS Professionsl Services.
         | 
         | When GCP reached out to me multiple times about a similar
         | position after leaving AWS and they said I would have to be in
         | the office, I immediately ended the conversation.
        
       | danny_codes wrote:
       | The fundamental irony is that CEOs + execs are easy to replace at
       | most orgs. Their compensation comes from nepotism and capitalism,
       | not from any inherent capability. Hopefully I'll live to see the
       | end of the rotten scourge that is Capitalism. One can dream.
        
       | stego-tech wrote:
       | I did exactly what this exec advocated - using hard data and
       | statistics to paint a picture of what these mandates look like
       | from a worker perspective - and was roundly shot down.
       | 
       | I ended up painting a picture that, when considering _just_ the
       | costs of vehicular wear and tear, associated insurance costs,
       | added food costs, lost time commuting, and lost economic
       | opportunity in housing choice, that it would end up being
       | approximately equivalent to a $30,000 USD pay cut (primarily due
       | to housing and vehicle costs to preserve the existing commute,
       | rather than searching further afield with a hybrid or remote
       | schedule). I also added that, for the technology teams in
       | particular, our follow-the-sun support model meant we were all
       | incredibly scattered about anyway with no real colleagues in our
       | local office to network with.
       | 
       | The response was to double-down: those outside of "hubs" were
       | increasingly passed over for promotions and growth opportunities,
       | hubs started enforcing mandatory in-office days (dictated by the
       | VP), and - _of course_ - the company 's promise to support
       | minority colleagues was effectively compromised to "encourage"
       | relocation to Texas. It wasn't really surprising when I got
       | RIFed, just _incredibly_ disappointing.
       | 
       | Data alone is not enough to sway these people. They have their
       | own agendas that have no concern for their workers' needs or
       | goals. The solution will be collective action, rather than
       | bargaining for basic empathy.
        
         | jimt1234 wrote:
         | > Data alone is not enough to sway these people.
         | 
         | True. And, they have their own data that says workers love RTO.
         | My company sends out employee surveys every six months. They
         | claim that employees who work-from-the-office have higher
         | workplace satisfaction scores, and therefore working-from-the-
         | office must be better - the data proves it!
        
           | codr7 wrote:
           | Finally, a good use for those pesky surveys that no one
           | answers, I'm pretty sure the goal from the start was to
           | generate cover for whatever policies they feel like
           | enforcing.
        
             | NAHWheatCracker wrote:
             | At the last place I worked I assiduously filled out those
             | surveys. Twice a year the executives would do an all hands
             | meeting and talk about the result of the recent survey.
             | They would make a big deal out of all the changes they were
             | making.
             | 
             | After a few cycles, I noticed that the top problems from
             | the surveys always stayed the same. Then I noticed that the
             | changes they were claiming to make were either half-hearted
             | or were gross misinterpretations of survey results to push
             | their own agendas. Of course the survey results stayed the
             | same, nothing was done to address the problems.
             | 
             | After I noticed this, I still filled out the survey, if
             | only because they would track me down and tell me the
             | complete the survey (wait, I thought this was
             | anonymous...). One year I answered 5/5 on every question.
             | The next year I answered 0/5 on every question. The next
             | year I quit.
        
               | stego-tech wrote:
               | This employer had similar surveys, and the results
               | plummeted after a huge RIF and never really recovered. I
               | was asked to join focus groups for more detailed
               | feedback, and as soon as we gave it, they silently
               | dismantled said groups rather than update us on how the
               | powers that be would be acting on that feedback. All-
               | hands meetings where questions about RTO, attendance
               | policies, and flexible working arrangements were
               | regularly diverted and ignored. That doesn't even get
               | into the technical concerns I was also fielding as an
               | Engineer, these were areas solely focused on trying to
               | contribute a sense of objective direction to the company
               | like the executives repeatedly bragged about inviting us
               | to do, to "be different" than other businesses.
               | 
               | No business is different than the others, not really.
               | Absent accountability, the executives will always act in
               | their own self-interest; since their compensation is
               | mostly stock, that means they will sacrifice the future
               | of tomorrow for the stock bump of today, every single
               | time.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | > the executives will always act in their own self-
               | interest;
               | 
               | Yes, and so does everyone else, including me, including
               | you.
               | 
               | > since their compensation is mostly stock, that means
               | they will sacrifice the future of tomorrow for the stock
               | bump of today, every single time.
               | 
               | When investors discover that a company is eating its seed
               | corn for short term gain, the stock crashes.
        
               | Spooky23 wrote:
               | My favorite was an employer that did a massive
               | "transformation" project. They brought in McKinsey to
               | figure it out afterwards. It was probably the only
               | McKinsey encounter I've had that seemed productive - the
               | team was both interested and capable.
               | 
               | The most amazing was a pretty detailed and well conducted
               | survey over a two year period. It showed that
               | satisfaction was inversely proportional to both rank and
               | tenure, and the decline started at 6 months. So an
               | executive or senior IC would be immediately dissatisfied.
               | A lower level employee or supervisor would start very
               | happy, but the luster would wear down after about 4
               | months lol. Long tenured employees grew increasingly
               | dissatisfied until their personal liquidity event.
               | 
               | They fucked up and broke out the data in a way that
               | demonstrated that the division leads were dissatisfied to
               | the point that it was affecting their health. No more
               | public data presentation from that point forward.
        
               | sudoshred wrote:
               | This sounds like a canonical example of the reason to
               | hire a consulting firm.
        
               | madcaptenor wrote:
               | My employer has just started not releasing the results of
               | the survey.
        
             | thaumasiotes wrote:
             | > I'm pretty sure the goal from the start was to generate
             | cover for whatever policies they feel like enforcing.
             | 
             | Surveys aren't a good way to do that.
             | 
             | I would guess the point of your parent comment was that the
             | finding is more easily explained by people who like being
             | in the office being more likely to go there.
        
           | nazgul17 wrote:
           | I wonder whether they adjusted for commute length. I imagine
           | that IF you live close to the office, the RTO is not bad.
           | Plus, if you're close maybe you live in a small apartment and
           | maybe you are single, so the office is also a social place,
           | and having no family means you don't have pressure from other
           | duties.
        
           | bratbag wrote:
           | I'm one of those people who is happier when spending some
           | time in the office each week and have said that when
           | surveyed.
           | 
           | Don't assume survey results that run counter to your
           | anecdotal experience have been fabricated.
        
         | nine_zeros wrote:
         | > Data alone is not enough to sway these people. They have
         | their own agendas that have no concern for their workers' needs
         | or goals. The solution will be collective action, rather than
         | bargaining for basic empathy.
         | 
         | Yes, because they don't NEED or WANT to do anything that
         | jeopardizes their position in the executive group-think.
         | Remember that every year they survive, they are going to get
         | 10s of millions.
         | 
         | The cost of sticking out for their own reports is too high.
         | They'd much rather their reports kill themselves and their own
         | lives than forego the 10s of millions coming this year. Short
         | term.
         | 
         | Also remember that they see their current position as a reward
         | for sacrificing a lot in life. They feel entitled to boss
         | people. People should bow to their command because they reached
         | the top org chart positions. How dare people below them propose
         | anything but loyalty to whatever they want?
        
         | null0pointer wrote:
         | They do not use data as a decision making tool. They use data
         | as post-hoc justification for decisions already made.
        
         | holografix wrote:
         | But you see, you were trying to convince them of entirely the
         | wrong thing. In fact you ended up providing solid reasons to
         | reinforce their belief in RTO.
         | 
         | Leadership wants attrition. They want people to quit and if
         | they don't have to make you redundant and pay you out,
         | fantastic. You just gave them good data points to indicate that
         | a portion of people are likely to do just that.
         | 
         | If you upend your whole life and move to a hub then that means
         | you need this job very badly. Guess when you're getting
         | promoted next? Not soon.
        
         | WalterBright wrote:
         | If you're correct that WFH is more efficient than work in the
         | office, over time the work in the office companies will be
         | replaced by the WFH ones.
         | 
         | Forcing things through collective action that prevent market
         | forces from working are deleterious in the long run. See
         | Europe's moribund economy.
         | 
         | > They have their own agendas that have no concern for their
         | workers' needs or goals.
         | 
         | That's right.
         | 
         | > The solution will be collective action, rather than
         | bargaining for basic empathy.
         | 
         | A business is not a jobs program. It's there to create wealth,
         | and if it does not, it goes bankrupt and everyone loses their
         | job.
         | 
         | You are always free to quit and join another company more to
         | your liking, or you can quit and start your own business and
         | run it as you please. It happens all the time, and this message
         | board is run by a venture capital firm, looking for startups to
         | fund.
        
           | intelVISA wrote:
           | Is the market really free enough for WFH vs RTO to be
           | visible?
        
           | p_l wrote:
           | A market can be irrational longer than you can keep solvent
           | applies to this as well
        
         | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
         | I think there are two things going on, and while I think the
         | Twitter post does a good job of highlighting this core issue, I
         | think it's going to be overshadowed by the "execs can get all
         | this support because they're rich" talk (which is true, just
         | not what I think is the core issue).
         | 
         | For some subset of people, work is the most important thing in
         | their lives and it is largely how they identify themselves. As
         | the tweet points out, the vast majority of execs are in this
         | bucket. This is almost by definition - despite what has been
         | popular talk in some corners of the Internet, most execs do
         | work extremely hard, as do most people who get to the upper
         | echelons of their profession. These people essentially _want_
         | to work more. FWIW, while I 'm not an exec, I would put myself
         | in this bucket.
         | 
         | On the other side are basically the "work to live" people.
         | While this is a pretty broad bucket (some people may want to
         | spend as little time working as possible, but I think most
         | people in this bucket care about their careers and want to do
         | well, but they still fundamentally see work as a means to an
         | end to achieve goals outside of work), these folks are much
         | more likely to _not_ be execs. They want to do a good job, get
         | paid well, and then go home.
         | 
         | So I think both sides talk past each other because they
         | fundamentally have different goals. For people in the first
         | bucket (again, that was definitely me), I grew to hate full-
         | time remote work. I felt incredibly disconnected from my work
         | and my colleagues over time, and my motivation definitely waned
         | over time, and as someone who really identified myself in the
         | context of my profession, that was really tough. But I also
         | don't have kids, and not a lot of responsibilities outside of
         | work, so I can definitely understand the other side of it.
         | 
         | I don't think there are any easy answers, but saying "data
         | alone is not enough to sway these people" I think misses the
         | point, because you're only showing data that pushes the
         | viewpoint of your "second bucket" group. Again, to emphasize,
         | not a bad thing, but it doesn't encompass all of the concerns
         | that are in play of the first bucket group.
        
         | Spooky23 wrote:
         | I love remote work. It made me 20x more productive when I was
         | managing a distributed team of almost 1000 people during COVID
         | - all of our metrics improved. 5 years later I am in a
         | different role, and it's the exact opposite. Executives
         | represent the company and its interests, and there are some
         | significant issues with the real problem - hybrid.
         | 
         | Grift and fraud. Nobody likes to talk about this, but many
         | people are running grifts, from doing nothing, meetings in the
         | supermarket or on vacation, to running multiple jobs. I had a
         | couple working 5-6 different full time jobs together. Another
         | was working offshore using a family member as "remote hands" to
         | keep a device connected in the US. It's difficult and expensive
         | to police.
         | 
         | Hybrid decreases effectiveness. A remote only unit is great, a
         | on-prem unit is great. "Permanent" hybrid is the worst of all
         | worlds. Remote people rely on tools more and they don't work as
         | well with people in site. Meeting transcripts rely on the
         | different clients to identify speakers, and work poorly in
         | conference rooms, for example. It's also easy for bad patterns
         | to develop where remote people get cut out by people talking
         | off the cuff in office, or vice versa.
         | 
         | The majority of the quality of life improvements are really
         | about time freedom. You'd get most of it by giving employees
         | sufficient paid time and allowing them to use it. Remote first
         | by business unit makes sense too, but I think that the risk is
         | the remote workers become like the folks in "provincial" branch
         | offices.
        
       | voidhorse wrote:
       | This goes deeper than just RTO. The current, growing rift stems
       | from increasing recognition that:
       | 
       | 1. Whether we like it or not, we are all in this together. Your
       | dependency on others is extremely high, no matter where you sit
       | in society.
       | 
       | 2. We posses the technological means to realize a restructuring
       | of labor and society, one which would benefit a large swath of
       | people across several dimensions --remote work was just an
       | existence proof of this--beyond that, we actually have the
       | infrastructure and technical capacity to solve many societal
       | problems that are being artificially maintained at this stage in
       | history.
       | 
       | 3. Different members of society have different incentives, and
       | some benefit much more significantly from existing labor
       | structure and organization than others. Often, these benefits are
       | derived in direct opposition to realizing the net benefits
       | possible in (2.) (see: modern healthcare in the united states).
       | 
       | Remote work during covid was a crack in the glass. External
       | factors _forced_ the C-suite and their ilk to make concessions
       | that showed that the current labor structure is antiquated and
       | that it persists mostly for the benefit of the few at the expense
       | of the many. The psychopathy of the executives lies in their
       | desire to make this structure persist. RTO mandates are an
       | irrational attempt to brute-force rollback the tiny bit of power
       | they gave up to the masses during covid. CEOs are evil. They are
       | evil because they perpetuate a system of labor that increases
       | inequality and puts most people under unnecessary duress because
       | of an artificially imposed scarcity. It is not a  "difference in
       | lifestyle" that makes this class of people repulsive. It is their
       | continual and persistent attempts to preserve a structure that
       | demeans and subjugates human beings. They do this actively, and
       | effectively by spreading "free-market" propaganda and continually
       | steering the conversation away from the realization of a more
       | equitable society, which is already technologically feasible.
        
         | milesrout wrote:
         | Your way of looking at things is fundamentally broken. You will
         | never understand society or other people if your analysis is
         | that we could transform society with technology but we choose
         | not to because... some people are just evil and don't want to.
         | 
         | The reality is that remote work meant a massive drop in
         | productivity. It sucks if you are one of the few that is
         | equally or more productive at home than at work. If you are,
         | then you are few and far between. Most people working from home
         | do sweet FA. Everyone knows this and everyone talked about it
         | constantly for all of the WFH period right until they were
         | asked to work from the office again.
         | 
         | >The psychopathy of the executives lies in their desire to make
         | this structure persist. RTO mandates are an irrational attempt
         | to brute-force rollback the tiny bit of power they gave up to
         | the masses during covid. CEOs are evil. They are evil because
         | they perpetuate a system of labor that increases inequality and
         | puts most people under unnecessary duress because of an
         | artificially imposed scarcity.
         | 
         | You are either insane or you have completely swallowed some
         | source of propaganda. Evil? Artificial scarcity? System of
         | labour? Do you even hear yourself? Take a step back from the
         | computer, stop listening to podcasts and just think for
         | yourself. Or if this is you thinking for yourself, find someone
         | else to do your thinking for you, because you're not good at
         | it.
        
           | voidhorse wrote:
           | You haven't provided any meaningful counterclaims or
           | additional perspective. You seem to be upset just because I
           | think c-suite executives are not morally respectable. You
           | claim my way of looking at things is "broken" but you fail to
           | provide any rationale as to why. I claim that execs are
           | incentivized to preserve an inequitable system because they
           | directly benefit from it. Talking about their "psychopathy"
           | and "evil" is a hyperbolic way to illustrate that they put
           | profit over people, which anyone with a single functioning
           | cell behind their eyeballs could tell you is patently
           | obvious. My use of these terms was in direct response to the
           | OP tweet, which already dumbed down the discourse to the
           | level of "evil" and "good"--blame the nincompoop exec for
           | bringing the conversation to this level, I am merely
           | operating on it.
           | 
           | > The reality is that remote work meant a massive drop in
           | productivity.
           | 
           | By what measure? Across all companies, or only for a few? How
           | do you define "productivity" in a general sense without
           | measuring against a specific goal?
           | 
           | Speaking of propaganda, you sound like someone who has bought
           | into the current status quo so deeply that you find it
           | anathema to even think about alternatives as being possible.
           | If "thinking for yourself" means to blindly follow the status
           | quo, not question the distribution of wealth in society and
           | to not consider whether or not we can better leverage our
           | current capabilities to the benefit of more people, then yes,
           | no thanks, I'd rather not think for myself.
           | 
           | I don't listen to podcasts. I read books and I think beyond
           | my immediate experience. You should try it sometime. It might
           | help you realize how foolish you are to defend people that
           | actively exploit you and your labor.
        
       | wesselbindt wrote:
       | They're not out of touch. They know. They don't care.
        
       | phendrenad2 wrote:
       | They may be out-of-touch but they understand when someone takes
       | their money. And my message to tech CEOs is: if you want in-
       | office, pay more. Or you will lose your company and your PJ and
       | your golf club membership and your kids will go to public school
       | in a big yellow bus built in 1982 with no seatbelts. You won't
       | even be able to shift over to a successful company, because the
       | companies will speak exclusively Chinese. The future of the
       | western tech industry is in your hands, I hope you're smart
       | enough to make the right choice.
        
       | farts_mckensy wrote:
       | Replace _these_ fucking assholes with AI.
        
       | simonswords82 wrote:
       | Good on this guy for having the courage to be honest about his
       | circumstances. Still, shitty that this is the situation.
        
       | newsclues wrote:
       | Contrast both: minimum wage, lengthy bus commute, workday that
       | exceeds 8 hours, limited or no weekends or vacation. People that
       | never had a remote work option because they work production or
       | service jobs that are tied to the workplace.
        
       | bvanderveen wrote:
       | OP mentions housekeeping as part of his benefits. I also have had
       | an every-other-week maid service for the past decade or so, and
       | for me, it is a huge lifestyle improvement. The amount of time
       | and cognitive overhead it saves is enormous.
       | 
       | I have paid less than $200/mo for this. In terms of cost, this
       | isn't anything like having a nanny, your house paid off, or
       | retiring at age 50. But it's interesting that for this guy, it's
       | on the same list as those things.
       | 
       | In sum: I highly recommend deploying a couple hundred bucks a
       | month to pay someone to do house chores if you have a hard time
       | motivating yourself to do it or have housemates/partners you have
       | to spend time arguing about it with.
        
       | Apreche wrote:
       | Right on all counts except one. It DOES necessarily make them
       | evil.
        
       | tennisflyi wrote:
       | What irks me is when said from rank and file it's just bitching.
       | But when said from the c-suite it's godsend
        
       | from-nibly wrote:
       | These kinds of tweets miss the point. It's not about returning to
       | the office. It's about reducing labor costs. It's about having a
       | thing that shows you are trying harder (the anime kind where it
       | just makes you win for no reason) to show to your investors.
       | 
       | Nothing in private equity or public companies is done for the
       | purpose of making the company better. It's for making the company
       | look like it will do better in the future, so that a bigger fool
       | will hold the bag.
       | 
       | Don't try to rationalize the irrational, that only serves to
       | promote the myth that they are trying to do something we just
       | don't understand.
       | 
       | It's called misdirection.
        
       | corytheboyd wrote:
       | We are already very painfully aware of the hyper rich being out
       | of touch. This reads like rich guy A saying it's actually rich
       | guys B and C who are the problem. Maybe this is frustrating for
       | people like the author to hear, because clearly they have good
       | intent with this message, but I'm sorry, the only way I will ever
       | perceive someone who received a 9082% pay increase is as another
       | criminal destroying the world that I live in. I am a complete
       | hypocrite though, because of course I would say yes to a 9082%
       | pay increase, like most/all people would. The price of being this
       | wealthy is exile from plebeian society. Sorry you have to be
       | rich?
        
       | davesque wrote:
       | > This is not a screed against executive wealth. After all, I
       | paid with 25 years of my life and I got some of the wealth.
       | 
       | That's the point though isn't it? He retired at 50. Most of us
       | will work to at _least_ age 65 (perhaps until we literally can 't
       | work anymore in today's economy). And we _won 't get some of the
       | wealth._
        
       | BrenBarn wrote:
       | Ironically one of the clearest signals of being out of touch is
       | feeling that your noticing how out of touch you are is
       | noteworthy. It's like "Gosh, I'm rich! How interesting!"
       | 
       | > This is not a screed against executive wealth.
       | 
       | And that again shows how out of touch he still is. You haven't
       | fully accepted how out-of-touch wealthy you are until you've made
       | the decision to actively oppose allowing anyone to reach that
       | situation.
        
       | lowbloodsugar wrote:
       | The rich own real estate around the office buildings. They want
       | their REITs to go up not down. It's a company town even if they
       | did away with scrip.
        
       | loxodrome wrote:
       | This is so stupid. Every blue collar guy has to get up and go to
       | work. People really need to stop whining about going to the
       | office, or they're just pussies who don't feel like having a real
       | job.
        
       | dpc_01234 wrote:
       | If you're getting a private jet funded for your work, maybe it's
       | your responsibility not to be out of touch.
       | 
       | If you're a manager, maybe it's your responsibility to figure out
       | who's slacking and who's productive.
        
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