[HN Gopher] Write to Escape Your Default Setting
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       Write to Escape Your Default Setting
        
       Author : kolyder
       Score  : 222 points
       Date   : 2025-02-28 14:45 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I find that, once I write something down, even if I never look at
       | what I wrote, I often don't need a reminder. If I don't write it
       | down, I forget.
        
         | randcraw wrote:
         | And if you literally write it down, with pen on paper,
         | supposedly that's more memorable still.
         | 
         | I need to experiment with this. My memory needs more assistance
         | now that my spring chicken days are behind me.
        
           | alabastervlog wrote:
           | I've found I can barely write anymore.
           | 
           | I mean, I can, but my handwriting is so bad I can barely read
           | it, even if I've written pretty slowly. Like it was never
           | good, but I could write a lot faster and still be able to
           | read it. Now my slow and careful handwriting is worse than
           | that, even.
           | 
           | It occurred to me some time last year, when reflecting on
           | this, that I've probably averaged fewer than 50 words written
           | by hand per year, not counting my signature, over... like
           | more than a decade. I wouldn't be surprised if the actual
           | annual average over that span is around 25 or 30 words, even.
           | So, no wonder.
           | 
           | A big change from the days of writing several hundreds words
           | in one hour for Blue Book tests, a few times per year!
        
             | 0_____0 wrote:
             | I think you're still capable, just with that interval
             | between use, you're perma-rusty at handwriting. My own
             | experience is that I have retained the ability to learn
             | scripts well into adulthood.
             | 
             | Within the last few years I've done what I call "installing
             | a font." I was unhappy with my printed letter forms, so I
             | looked up architectural lettering guides and modeled my new
             | printing based on that. I also re-learned how to write
             | cursive, which is always a struggle any time I re-start
             | using it after months of having not.
        
               | randcraw wrote:
               | Yeah, my father had lovely printed penmanship. I've
               | planned on practicing to develop that as I return to
               | reading more (in retirement), both to take notes as I
               | read and learn, and because otherwise my notes will be
               | illegible. My current hand printing or writing is
               | atrocious.
        
             | makeset wrote:
             | Oddly my handwriting is aesthetically better than ever in
             | old age, but I find I just have no patience left for it.
             | Halfway through scribbling a word my brain is screaming
             | "come on already!" for a keyboard, and by the next word
             | it's completely checked out of whatever thought I was
             | supposed to jot down. It's like watching the most boring
             | scene unfold in slow motion. I've been hearing the
             | handwriting->memory argument for decades, but screw that.
             | Give me >100wpm.
        
               | vonunov wrote:
               | Granted, I don't know that there's _not_ something to the
               | idea of some kind of special benefit or effect that only
               | handwriting has. It does feel meaningful and important in
               | some way. But I more strongly suspect that it 's a matter
               | of fluency. If someone types fluently enough that the act
               | itself takes no conscious effort or deliberate attention,
               | then maybe they can engage and form associations
               | comparably well as if they were handwriting. Most people,
               | I think, don't -- that is, even if their typing speed is
               | more than adequate for whatever work they do, I'm
               | guessing it remains a bottleneck in this sense.
               | Handwriting is slower, typically, but I don't mean a
               | speed bottleneck, even though speed is part of the point.
               | I mean something more along the lines of whether the
               | conceptual task at hand enjoys dedicated resources, or
               | has to share mental bandwidth, attentional control,
               | working memory, flow, etc. with the mechanical task. I
               | get the same frustration as you, of course: I don't
               | handwrite painstakingly, but I do it slower than I type
               | for sure. Both are low-effort, but handwriting loses out
               | in terms of speed. If my handwriting and typing speeds
               | were the same, but typing were a higher-effort activity
               | for me, it's then that I suspect handwriting would have
               | the advantage. Then, how much faster can the typing get,
               | while remaining high-effort relative to handwriting,
               | before the speed advantage overcomes the cognitive load
               | advantage?
        
         | Miraltar wrote:
         | Well, same blog has an article about that too it seems :
         | https://kupajo.com/write-to-pool-your-shifting-selves/
        
         | kolyder wrote:
         | "I'm not writing it down to remember it later, I'm writing it
         | to remember it now." Not sure who said that, but I think of it
         | often.
        
         | vivekd wrote:
         | I also find it's a great sanity check. Ideas that seem good in
         | my head often fail when I put them into words. Especially when
         | I outline it in step by step format
        
         | stronglikedan wrote:
         | Same. Copious notes in college, and never had to go back and
         | look at 99% of them. It's like writing it scribes it into my
         | brain.
        
       | herbertl wrote:
       | > If you're repeatedly drawn to a thought, feeling, or belief,
       | write it out. Be fast, be sloppy.
       | 
       | I couldn't agree more here! A friend has wanted to start a
       | writing/journaling habit for a long time, but didn't know what to
       | write about. I told him, don't think to write--write to think
       | [1].
       | 
       | Show up to an empty page, without knowing, is totally acceptable!
       | So is writing things down that make you feel embarrassed,
       | confused, etc.
       | 
       | When I'm journaling, I often find prompts/frameworks helpful for
       | guiding this escape.
       | 
       | I really like Byron Katie's framework, which she calls The Work
       | [2]. After you notice and draw to mind a stressful thought,
       | answer these four questions:
       | 
       | Q1. Is it true? Q2. Can you absolutely know that it's true? Q3.
       | How do you react, what happens, when you believe that thought?
       | Q4. Who would you be without that thought?
       | 
       | Then, invert the thought. She writes, "Turn the thought around.
       | Is the opposite as true as or truer than the original thought?"
       | 
       | Derek Sivers also shares some really great questions for
       | journaling for reframing [3].
       | 
       | I also show up to the page
       | 
       | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32628196
       | 
       | [2] https://thework.com/instruction-the-work-byron-katie/
       | 
       | [3] https://sive.rs/u
        
         | pbronez wrote:
         | Thework.com looks like a great resource, thanks for sharing.
        
         | asdfman123 wrote:
         | I absolutely hate to say it but chatbots ARE actually good at
         | therapy, or acting as a sort of interactive journal.
         | 
         | I try to put my thoughts in as clearly and concisely as I can,
         | and it rephrases it back to me and points out angles I hadn't
         | thought of. Plus, I know not only does it not want to judge me,
         | it's literally incapable of judging me unlike a human
         | therapist.
         | 
         | Again I hate how dumb this sounds but I was surprised.
        
       | agentultra wrote:
       | I heard once that, "Writing is thinking," which has stuck with me
       | throughout my life.
       | 
       | You really haven't thought about it hard enough if you haven't
       | tried writing it down.
       | 
       | I have a whole system of journals that I use to collect my
       | thoughts across various subjects I dabble in. Algorithms: there's
       | a journal for that. Abstract algebra? There's a journal for that.
       | Etc.
       | 
       | At work? I use bullet journal... I add sections in for projects
       | I'm working on. When I'm working on refactoring an old area of
       | the code or investigating a hard-to-diagnose error I start
       | writing. I ask questions, get answers, and I update my project
       | journal. It helps me clarify the issue and I find once I can
       | explain the system or the error clearly the answers (or how to
       | find them) becomes obvious.
       | 
       | It may seem quaint, eccentric, or out-dated but it's a practical,
       | reliable tool. Ask questions and write down the answers.
       | Eventually a coherent narrative and a full thought will form
       | before you.
        
         | ParallelThread wrote:
         | Curious as whether writing your journals (work or home)
         | electronically vs paper/pen makes a difference. Interested in
         | your thoughts.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | Not op but for me what makes the difference is doing anything
           | at all. Even if one is better than the other, writing down at
           | all has a huge beneficial effect for many.
        
           | agentultra wrote:
           | I use pen and paper for the majority of my journals and a
           | Remarkable 2 for some.
           | 
           | I find writing long-hand works best for me. It's slower and
           | that's the point of it. The journey is the process and the
           | goal. The end result is clear, well-formed thoughts. You
           | cannot rush the process to get the end result faster: you'll
           | end up with a jumble of short-hand, bullet points, and half-
           | baked ideas.
           | 
           | I also prefer a page. I can draw diagrams when it suits me.
           | Software forces me to switch tools and my mental context to
           | add diagrams. And they're all clunky besides. I'd rather
           | something more intuitive that doesn't get in my way: a pen
           | and perhaps a ruler, slide, etc on occasion.
           | 
           | The Remarkable software has improved with time and with the
           | addition of the keyboard I can get close to the best of both
           | worlds. I tend to use it for work-focused and project-focused
           | journals. I'll start with free-hand but use the text-
           | conversion and clean things up from there. The free-hand
           | diagramming is much improved now that they've introduced
           | better drawing tools that can force straight shapes from my
           | free-hand ones. And then you get the benefit of being able to
           | search through your documents from a computer.
           | 
           | For my paper journals I have to use a bookshelf and a box of
           | index cards to keep everything organized. For the amount of
           | journals I produce this is sufficient but it's not as
           | convenient as it is on a computer... but personally I don't
           | find I need to maximize convenience in my life, I'm satisfied
           | with some processes and tasks being manual and tedious.
           | 
           | I also like the paper journals because it leaves a physical
           | legacy of my learnings, thoughts, and experiences. I like
           | reading through them on occasion to recall some algorithm I
           | learned years ago that I need to remember or some book I had
           | read in order to recall the salient thoughts and quotes I
           | found interesting. And I hope maybe some day my children or
           | surviving colleagues will find them useful too.
        
           | dzjkb wrote:
           | I use a probably similar workflow (writing about everything,
           | multiple journals - work projects, personal projects, notes
           | taken when reading books, random thoughts, relationship
           | topics etc.) and I feel like electronic vs paper/pen
           | definitely makes a difference. I use both types for different
           | things.
           | 
           | Electronic obviously has the advantage of being able to edit
           | the text in a non-linear fashion, which I think is something
           | necessary for the notes I take for work. Being in the same
           | 'space' as the work I do (so on screen) is also helpful, as
           | well as being able to include things like hyperlinks/chunks
           | of code. Since I type fast, taking digital notes also lets me
           | dump whatever is in my head faster (this is usually relevant
           | for other types than work notes).
           | 
           | Paper on the other hand I feel puts me into a different
           | headspace when writing (might be the lack of a screen, or
           | maybe the slower writing?) and is (usually, not always) more
           | fitting for stuff I write about personal topics or books.
           | Some types of notes (e.g. stuff about music) also benefit
           | from the freedom pen on paper gives you - adding scribbles,
           | drawings, formatting text in non-standard visual ways. Small
           | paper notebooks are of course also much easier to take with
           | you on trips and write on a bus, train, park bench or w/e
           | (I've heard some people use phones but I can't imagine myself
           | writing proper notes on a smartphone keyboard).
        
           | codazoda wrote:
           | I find that writing with pen and paper is best for my mind.
           | But, I'm a technologist so I love digital. I use the Kindle
           | Scribe to cover both bases. I've written about it here:
           | 
           | https://notes.joeldare.com/handwritten-notes-on-the-
           | kindle-s...
        
         | barbazoo wrote:
         | > It helps me clarify the issue and I find once I can explain
         | the system or the error clearly the answers (or how to find
         | them) becomes obvious.
         | 
         | This is so true for me too. It's basically rubber ducking with
         | oneself. Or in preparation for rubber ducking _with_ someone
         | else, writing down my thoughts often helps me figure it out
         | myself.
        
         | hakaneskici wrote:
         | > "Writing is thinking"
         | 
         | Exactly, and I also feel like the act of "transferring" one's
         | thoughts to visual symbols (writing, coding, diagramming) helps
         | a lot with mental defrag and garbage collection.
        
           | nlawalker wrote:
           | The technology metaphor I've always used is _serialization_ ,
           | which I think still makes sense for the action, but I really
           | like _defrag and garbage collection_ as the metaphor for the
           | actual value in the activity, so I 'm going to keep that,
           | thanks!
        
         | tmaly wrote:
         | I still have a leather bound journal, but these days I also use
         | Obsidian to make my writing easier to search.
         | 
         | Since it stores everything as markdown files in folders, I can
         | use ripgrep to search for things.
        
           | criddell wrote:
           | My digital strategy is to use my iPad for notes. I can type,
           | record audio (or, I guess, video), or write by hand and all
           | of it is indexed, searchable, and can be shared. If I want to
           | write on paper, I can do that and then "scan" it into the
           | iPad (ie take a picture of it) and again the built-in OCR
           | will index it. With a paper-like screen protector, writing on
           | it is decent.
        
         | WhyNotHugo wrote:
         | Writing is a great technique to better understand subject. When
         | you try to explain it, you start to find all the gaps that need
         | reinforcing. You go read, and come back to continue writing.
        
         | taw1285 wrote:
         | I want to get better at taking project notes for work via
         | Obsidian. I'm curious if you have a different page per project
         | or do you just put everything in the same giant log? I like the
         | idea of organizing it, but it takes me a bit of time to find
         | out which notebook it should go under.
        
           | sixtyj wrote:
           | Agentultra was talking about paper notebooks imho.
        
           | Slow_Hand wrote:
           | The beauty of Obsidian is that you don't have to file under a
           | single notebook/directory. If you have a note that belongs to
           | more than one category you can tag or link to both relevant
           | notebooks.
        
         | HackerThemAll wrote:
         | Does it need to be a handwriting, or computer writing is
         | sufficient?
        
           | beezlebroxxxxxx wrote:
           | Personally, I've found computer writing is perfectly fine for
           | note taking; but, once I actually want to compose something
           | that I've really thought through, I'll turn to handwriting
           | for complete sentences.
           | 
           | I think the internet generally makes way too much out of
           | which tool you use. Use whatever works for you and what
           | allows you to do it consistently.
        
           | triyambakam wrote:
           | There is definitely something about writing by hand that
           | seems to have unique cognitive and memory benefits. But
           | strictly only writing by hand is unnecessary and of course
           | inefficient.
        
           | agentultra wrote:
           | It doesn't have to be. I don't think there are sufficient
           | empirical studies to suggest writing by hand is better in
           | some dimensions than typing.
           | 
           | I _prefer_ it myself for several reasons. First, it forces me
           | to filter the present jumble of ideas in my head into a
           | linear progression on the page. Second, it helps me resist
           | the temptation to edit myself before I have finished. I tend
           | to be more mindful and focused when writing long-form.
           | 
           | Writing digitally, which I often do, comes with the
           | temptation to edit and succumb to distraction before I've
           | finished a thought. It allows me to explore many branches
           | quickly... but quantity is often not what I'm after.
           | 
           | I think what you consider sufficient has more to do with your
           | personal process and what you hope to achieve with your
           | writing, if that makes sense.
        
         | tvcx wrote:
         | How much productive writing is too much productive writing?
         | 
         | As a teenager I got wound up in the narrative of productivity,
         | note taking, and all that. Since then, I've had to unlearn that
         | writing (well, note-taking) just for the sake of organizing
         | some information nobody will go back to is not the best use for
         | my time. I've discovered that having the best notes doesn't
         | magically make me better prepared to get something done at
         | work. The best way to create something new is to JustDoIt tm
         | (and fail, and do it again, ..). To me, it's important to trust
         | your brain to do the magic. Your job is to help it do it's
         | magic. Paper doesn't think. It may help YOU think, but IT
         | doesn't think.
         | 
         | However, I'm in my 20s, and I do keep a journal and I write
         | frequently. But I've shifted my writing from productivity to
         | emotions. I've found that expressing my own emotions and non-
         | productive thinking on paper helps me understand myself.
        
           | Calavar wrote:
           | I think there's two ways you can approach productive writing
           | 
           | 1. Maintaining a list potentially useful facts in case you
           | ever need to reference them again. I tried this before and
           | found it to be a waste of time because I almost never go back
           | to reference something. It becomes a write only database.
           | Although YMMV because zettelkasten is essentially a
           | refinement of this and some people swear by it.
           | 
           | 2. Reading about a topic, then writing yourself a tutorial on
           | what you learned. I've been trying to teach myself concurrent
           | programming over the fast few weeks and I wrote an essay to
           | myself on the pros and cons of lockless vs lockfree
           | algorithms and when you might choose one over the other. As I
           | was writing it, I realized there were gaps in my knowledge,
           | some concepts that I thought I understood, but apparently not
           | well enough to explain myself in writing. Other concepts
           | where the act of writing revealed edge cases in my logic that
           | I hadn't considered before. The process of writing forced me
           | to engage with the material more deeply, and that sticks even
           | with you delete the document when you're done.
        
         | lxgr wrote:
         | And a corollary to this: There is probably an intellectual cost
         | of returning to oral culture, which seems to be what's
         | happening at the moment at a large scale [1].
         | 
         | It's been happening with social media already, but having non-
         | human entities take over "written thought" for many is probably
         | going to have pretty significant consequences. I'm finding a
         | lot of utility in LLMs, but at the same time I'm concerned
         | about what parts of my cognitive faculties it'll cause to
         | atrophy when overused.
         | 
         | Then again, maybe this is just yet another inevitable (albeit
         | much bigger than the ones before) step on the same path we've
         | been on since the onset of cognitive tradeoff [2] in early
         | humans?
         | 
         | [1] https://www.bloomberg.com/news/newsletters/2025-02-07/we-
         | re-...
         | 
         | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_tradeoff_hypothesis
        
       | heyjamesknight wrote:
       | The cognitive scientist John Vervaeke describes the "4 Ps of
       | Knowing", moving from propositional, up through procedural,
       | perspectival, and participatory.
       | 
       | Most of our thought is propositional: we see a thing, know the
       | thing, and move. Writing moves us up that hierarchy. And sharing
       | that writing--ideally within the context of shared dialogue--
       | moves us even further.
        
       | gareth_untether wrote:
       | There's a book called The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron. One of
       | the main tasks is writing three pages every morning, called The
       | Morning Pages. I personally find the first two pages quite quick
       | and easy, but it's that third page where the interesting stuff
       | comes out.
       | 
       | I'm nine weeks into the twelve week program and it has taken me
       | on an incredible journey of self discovery. Memories from
       | childhood, dreams and hopes for the future. All of them uncovered
       | to explore.
       | 
       | There's something beautiful about writing with a fountain pen and
       | paper. Setting aside time every day to dive deep and see what
       | comes out.
        
         | criddell wrote:
         | Are you doing the program on your own or part of a class?
        
       | daoboy wrote:
       | I had no idea how sloppy my thinking was until I started writing.
        
       | writersblock wrote:
       | Loved this article. Learning to love writing is one of my biggest
       | takeaways from my Computer Science PhD program.
        
       | graboid wrote:
       | Anecdotal: I recently found a little trick that works for me to
       | overcome the horrors of the blank page: I turn my phone (having
       | opened my preferred note-taking solution) into horizontal mode.
       | The keyboard gets larger in width, making it nicer to type, and
       | on my medium-sized phone, it covers enough of the UI that I don't
       | actually see what I type into the textbox, until I close the
       | keyboard again. So I just happily type away and hit save at the
       | end.
        
       | senkora wrote:
       | I'm surprised to not see a mention of "This is Water", the
       | commencement speech by David Foster Wallace at Kenyon College,
       | which thesis is that the point of a liberal arts education is to
       | help you escape your default setting.
       | 
       | http://bulletin-archive.kenyon.edu/x4280.html
       | 
       | I think the title of this post may be a reference to "This is
       | Water", since I haven't seen the term "default setting" anywhere
       | else, but I could be mistaken.
        
         | kolyder wrote:
         | You couldn't be more correct. I wasn't actively thinking of DFW
         | when I wrote this post, but his stuff is everywhere in my
         | notes.
         | 
         | A DFW post I wrote: https://kupajo.com/david-foster-walleye-
         | sic/
        
           | senkora wrote:
           | Thanks! Really enjoyed that post as well.
        
       | tolerance wrote:
       | To present a counter perspective. I like to believe that I
       | possess a fair crop of sane defaults here and there upstairs.
       | 
       | And there are some things that I refuse to write down. They're
       | motivated more by a raw feeling than what can be found through
       | their transliteration. Language of the guts gargles into
       | scribbles and scripts.
       | 
       | Lest I be forced to result to pictography. You know sketch pads
       | are also helpful.
       | 
       | Maybe the writer's resort is toward the days he ain't writing.
       | Eventually stopping and becoming content.
        
         | 0xdeadbeefbabe wrote:
         | Another perspective is that Latin and Greek would make a person
         | smarter. Have fun sketching.
        
       | firefoxd wrote:
       | I had this insight that I thought was evident. "AGI is an
       | interface problem". It made sense in the context. But when I
       | decided to write about it, my initial idea and example were
       | pretty weak. The more I wrote the more I found counterpoints. In
       | fact, writing forced me to think through those arguments and see
       | if the idea can still stand.
       | 
       | Many times, my ideas fade into darkness after a good writing
       | session. But that's how you form a strong opinion.
        
       | cyberlimerence wrote:
       | Love it. Your whole website is great. I recently started writing
       | down whatever passing thoughts happen to me in a small notebook.
       | Only a couple of entries now, but it's a start. Unfortunately I
       | was terrible at, or perhaps terrified of, writing at school and
       | college, so I never learned how to be any good at it. I also find
       | that nothing reveals more about what you know about a given topic
       | than looking at an empty page or a blinking cursor. Even writing
       | this comment makes me feel queasy, huh.
        
       | globnomulous wrote:
       | I found when I was working on my dissertation that I struggled
       | make progress on the actual writing. No matter how much work I
       | did, I wound up rewriting, editing, re-thinking, deleting, and
       | starting over.
       | 
       | I never fully solved that problem, but I found a workaround that
       | helped: I started writing notes and drafts by hand in cursive
       | with my non-dominant hand.
       | 
       | Writing by hand, by itself, calmed me and focused my mind,
       | whereas writing in a word processor almost always caused a spiral
       | of distraction and increasing agitation.
       | 
       | Increasing the difficulty of the literal, physical writing
       | process helped me, I think, in a few ways. It became much
       | costlier not to commit to a single version of a thought, so I had
       | a strong incentive to pare away some of the noise surrounding it
       | and state it in its most direct, least objectionable form.
       | 
       | I'm also convinced, though I can't prove it, that dramatically
       | slowing the physical act of writing improved my working memory.
       | 
       | That being said, I strongly agree with just about everything this
       | piece says, whether or not one writes by hand. And I would add
       | that writing also forces people to use a wider range of faculties
       | and forms of reasoning. I doubt one could overstate the value of
       | this as intellectual exercise.
        
       | magicmicah85 wrote:
       | I picked up handwritten journaling as a way of processing my
       | life. It has been therapeutic through a few incidences in how I'm
       | feeling whether it's about work, family or more personal
       | thoughts. With each stroke, I am challenging myself to write more
       | cleanly and appreciating the subtle beauty as the pen strokes
       | create letters, words, sentences, ideas. I feel more at peace as
       | I let my most challenging thoughts live on paper.
        
       | r3trohack3r wrote:
       | pg explores a similar thought in his meta essay about essays:
       | https://www.paulgraham.com/essay.html
       | 
       | In the essay, pg explores the idea that an essay helps him
       | explore ideas.
        
       | yawnxyz wrote:
       | First we shape our tools, then our tools shape us.
       | 
       | The same is true with writing -- and our modes of writing.
       | 
       | I agree that writing to think is important, and that putting
       | ideas on paper makes an ephemeral idea "real".
       | 
       | However I disagree that "writing things in a blog post / paulg
       | narrative format to be shared with other internet readers" is the
       | best way to turn ephemeral thoughts into solid ideas.
       | 
       | I think using pen and paper, sketching, drawing, scribbling,
       | writing short-form jot notes, writing on the shower glass while
       | steaming away in the shower -- I think those forms of writing are
       | how good ideas get captured and solidified.
       | 
       | The paulg kind of writing is merely an exercise in peacocking to
       | the other HN crowds.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | For designers, the best way is to draw things. If you have a hard
       | time "imagining" a user flow, draw the screens in a flow diagram.
       | If that's hard, draw all the interfaces, cut them out, and put
       | them on a table. Put the pieces on top of each other to
       | approximate how the interface will flow.
        
       | Gys wrote:
       | I noticed that writing prompts for my 'code bot' gives more
       | structure to my thoughts. I sometimes even delete a prompt
       | because just the writing already gave me new thoughts.
        
       | paulorlando wrote:
       | Has anyone noticed that once they lose the writing habit that
       | their thinking suffers?
        
       | w10-1 wrote:
       | Writing is quite different as a discipline and in its effects
       | when it's for self-discovery, self-analysis, messaging others,
       | etc.
       | 
       | It's like the vast differences between relaxing alone at home,
       | caring for your partner, hosting guests, going to work, taking
       | kids on vacation...
       | 
       | What's helpful in either case is the ritual of entering that
       | domain: you pull yourself together for work, dissolve on the
       | couch, and put on a happy listening face for the kids. The more
       | consistent you are in your rituals, the more quickly and deeply
       | you enter and exit that domain.
       | 
       | That's how to escape mental defaults: have a huge variety of
       | them, widely-spaced, so you can introspect their difference and
       | play their respective lights against their shadows.
        
       | alexashka wrote:
       | Just be aware that once you escape your default setting, you'll
       | come to realize _everybody else_ hasn 't.
       | 
       | It'll be like teenage angst at your parents, except it'll be
       | angst at the entire _species_ :)
       | 
       | Anyone that writes and asks earnest questions pretty quickly
       | turns to spirituality, religion, philosophy or pseudo-
       | philosophy/pseudo-science (self-help) because they end up
       | realizing oh - I don't know what's going on at all!
       | 
       | The spiritual path is living with truth of don't know. Religion
       | is choosing to have 'faith' and a set of instructions but really
       | is about huddling with others for warmth and comfort. Philosophy
       | is about attempting to build a logically consistent system of
       | what's going on. Self-help is a set of quick hacks to make one
       | feel better.
       | 
       | Almost all people settle in a modified default setting (self
       | help) and choose to use thinking to do tiny little puzzles
       | instead of asking the deeper questions. They can't handle the
       | angst, they want that human comfort more than they want the truth
       | :)
        
       | adityaathalye wrote:
       | Writing about writing is in the air! I just published a post with
       | a tongue-in-cheek reference to the A-Team [1] :D
       | 
       | The OP led me to `kupjao`'s series of posts on writing, and I
       | can't help but nod my head in agreement. I'm in the choir they
       | are preaching to!
       | 
       | Little writing habits compound over time to help people (and
       | teams) escape the gravity well of their "default" setting. It
       | isn't rocket science. Just simple bullet-point-ing can be good
       | enough to help a bunch of people...
       | 
       | - conserve personal and collective attention
       | 
       | - power creativity
       | 
       | - grow intellectual capital
       | 
       | - maintain clear situational awareness
       | 
       | - run high-trust workplaces, and
       | 
       | - make high-quality decisions.
       | 
       | etc. etc. etc. because, like I said, I'm sold on the author's
       | premise!
       | 
       | [1] "Becoming a software A-Team via writing culture"
       | https://www.evalapply.org/posts/writing-practices-to-10x-eng...
        
       | 4b11b4 wrote:
       | This needs to be the default way we instill in young people and
       | to think about learning, as if, "escape your default setting" is
       | akin to "exploration".
       | 
       | Especially in the age of generated written word, the act of
       | writing it yourself _cannot_ be more important.
        
       | sudosteph wrote:
       | I've kept a journal of some sort for the past 10 years. Sometimes
       | they're mostly used for capturing work tasks and working out
       | architectures and designs, but occasionally I'll brain dump a
       | random essay/poem/song/business ideas there, and those can be fun
       | to come back to. I just moved into a new place unpacked them, so
       | I've been paying through them as I get a chance. It's fun to see
       | all the ways that I've changed, but it's actually more
       | interesting to see some of the ways I haven't changed at all. I
       | enjoy the act of writing because it makes me feel like my sense
       | of self is less ethereal. Having something concrete that I made
       | and like, even if it's just for me, is just satisfying.
        
       | andai wrote:
       | I think the main benefit of writing is that it makes the implicit
       | explicit. It makes your ideas "solid".
       | 
       | You can look at them and see them clearly. And often you aren't
       | so happy with what you see!
       | 
       | And that's great, because now you can do something about it.
        
       | TurkishPoptart wrote:
       | I'd like to ask the author how they made this amazing, clean blog
       | site.
        
       | megadragon9 wrote:
       | > Writing reveals what you don't know, what you can't see when an
       | idea is only held in your head. Biases, blind spots, and
       | assumptions you can't grasp internally.
       | 
       | I completely agree with this. Often, I think I understand
       | something, but when I try to explain it to others, I quickly
       | realize where my understanding is shaky. The gaps become even
       | more apparent when I attempt to write it down because I have to
       | structure my thoughts logically and precisely. Writing goes a
       | step beyond speaking because it forces me to re-read and refine
       | my ideas, whereas spoken words often disappear without deeper
       | reflection. Oh, even this comment that I'm writing now was edited
       | a couple of times before submitting it. The second half of the
       | comment was added after re-reading the first half.
        
       | 2color wrote:
       | > Writing expands your working memory, lets you be more brilliant
       | on paper than you can be in person.
       | 
       | So true!
        
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