[HN Gopher] Pee If You Want to Go Deeper (2021)
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       Pee If You Want to Go Deeper (2021)
        
       Author : mooreds
       Score  : 131 points
       Date   : 2025-02-23 14:53 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | vaidhy wrote:
       | Thank you for talking about it. I am a guy and dive occasionally
       | with a dry suit, but this is something that most people are not
       | comfortable talking about.
        
       | Marthinwurer wrote:
       | Hazard Lee on YouTube has a great video going into the new system
       | they have for fighter pilots to pee in their planes.
        
       | nokun7 wrote:
       | Reminded me of a few similar articles I have read that reveal how
       | divers' real-world needs drive equipment evolution, transforming
       | a basic human function into a catalyst for safer, more inclusive
       | cold-water diving.
       | 
       | [1] "Why Do I Need to Pee Every Time I Dive?" (DIVER Magazine),
       | and
       | 
       | [2] "Drysuit Diving Myths, Busted" (Scuba Diving)
        
       | quitit wrote:
       | Regarding diapers: supermarket brands are cheapies and can leak
       | (e.g. Tena, Depends, etc.)
       | 
       | Instead you'll want to take yourself to a pharmacy or care store
       | to seek out a proper continence pad, yes they cost slightly more,
       | but they work. These will not leak as you move about in the dive
       | as the moisture is converted into a dry gel via super absorbent
       | polymers. They feel dry to the touch and as a bonus will balance
       | the pH as to not interfere with the skin's acid mantle. There is
       | no threat of breaching the capacity as absorbencies can be in the
       | litres.
        
         | thaumasiotes wrote:
         | This seems like a sad example of "we'll do something to
         | children that we'd never accept for ourselves, but it's OK
         | because what can they do about it?"
        
           | cogman10 wrote:
           | They can potty train.
           | 
           | You might argue against it for babies but at a certain stage
           | feeling the moisture is a motivator for kids to learn to use
           | the toilet.
           | 
           | That's why one potty training technique is to switch kids to
           | regular underwear and mange the fact that they'll be wet
           | pretty frequently. It's the uncomfortable wetness that both
           | makes them want to potty train and lets them understand what
           | it means to hold their bladder.
        
             | DiscourseFan wrote:
             | I would definitely shit my pants frequently if it wasn't
             | for the discomfort. Practical concerns aside. Smart, yet
             | stinky parenting technique.
             | 
             | Wouldn't they just start pissing literally anywhere,
             | though?
        
               | tylerrobinson wrote:
               | Yes, they will pee anywhere because their whole lives
               | they've been covered in a soft diaper. But it doesn't
               | take long for them to learn that is an uncomfortable
               | feeling in normal underwear and there's an incentive to
               | use the toilet.
        
               | DiscourseFan wrote:
               | What is the incentive? Urine is only very smelly when a
               | lot of people are peeing in the same place, so a kid will
               | not learn why there is any problem with just pissing in
               | random corners of the house.
        
               | batch12 wrote:
               | Parenting provides the rest of the correction needed to
               | finish the process.
        
               | DiscourseFan wrote:
               | There is always violence, at the end
        
               | badlucklottery wrote:
               | > What is the incentive?
               | 
               | You reward them with praise when they pee in the toilet.
               | People are pretty receptive to praise and kids even more
               | so.
        
             | aqueueaqueue wrote:
             | Yes they even have diapers/nappies for toddlers that absorb
             | less on purpose.
        
             | themaninthedark wrote:
             | I was in disposable diapers as a kid but they used cloth
             | reusable for my brother 2 years younger than me. One night
             | they ran out of disposable so they outfitted me with a
             | cloth one, next morning I was dry and I refused to wear
             | diapers after that.
        
           | tinco wrote:
           | As father to a toddler, the diapers we have (pampers brand)
           | definitely contain these extremely absorbent polymers. They
           | never leak and can contain insane amounts of liquid.
           | Sometimes you forget about the diapers for half a day and
           | there's no leaks and almost no irritation if the skin.
        
             | dmurray wrote:
             | The discount supermarket ones we use seem just as good.
             | Also based on the absorbent gel, no leaks, no irritation.
        
             | Townley wrote:
             | Those diapers say 10-18lbs on the package, but they
             | actually hold waaaaay less urine than that
             | 
             | --First dad joke my brother in law bestowed upon me after
             | my daughter was born
        
           | pmarreck wrote:
           | The latest Pampers diaper tech for kiddos is a veritable
           | marvel of human technology. It will expand to like 5+ times
           | the size while feeling dry (more or less) to the touch on the
           | inside. It's still gross to deal with, but not remotely as
           | much as I would have expected.
           | 
           | Source: Am new dad of 3.5 year old boy
        
           | evan_ wrote:
           | kids pee a lower volume than adults
        
       | brianpan wrote:
       | I've seen similar for when you are wearing a motorcycle suit.
       | 
       | You can search for pee/urination funnel. Apparently, commonly
       | used for camping as well.
        
       | smurpy wrote:
       | I came to the chat before reading the piece only to find myself
       | confronted with my assumption that it was about going deeper into
       | flow while coding -- and this is how some innovations happen!
        
       | elif wrote:
       | I'm sorry but am I the only one wanting more info than "of course
       | me can just use a zipper"
       | 
       | I'm kinda confused how one can maintain a dry suit and zip open
       | their fly?
        
         | nradov wrote:
         | The relief zipper installed on some men's drysuits isn't for
         | use underwater. It's just for use on the surface, to save the
         | hassle of partially removing the drysuit (can be difficult on
         | small boats). But it's also a source of leaks so no one really
         | uses them anymore.
        
       | bean-weevil wrote:
       | > PEE SLOWLY
       | 
       | Ok, this has got me curious - is this an anatomical difference?
       | I'm male and I find it very, very uncomfortable to pee slowly.
       | Almost painful.
        
         | Twisol wrote:
         | I had this thought too. My best guess is that it's down to the
         | length of the urethra. Have you ever lifted liquid out of a
         | glass using a straw, by capping the upper end of the straw with
         | a finger? That liquid wants to fall, but that causes the gas
         | volume above the liquid to expand, so vacuum pressure pulls the
         | water upward, counteracting gravity, and also pulls your finger
         | into the straw slightly. I imagine that, for a longer column of
         | fluid, that vacuum pressure is at least a contributing factor
         | to the unpleasant feeling. (Not to mention that, when
         | urinating, that column of liquid is already _moving rapidly_!)
        
         | andrewflnr wrote:
         | Male here: it's a lot more manageable if you control it with
         | your pubococcygeal(sp?) muscles, the ones you can also use to
         | control ejaculation. I've had to do this while peeing into a
         | bottle that wasn't necessarily big enough. It still sucks, but
         | not so much due to physical discomfort.
        
           | malfist wrote:
           | > use to control ejaculation
           | 
           | Wait. What?
        
             | itishappy wrote:
             | > The perineal muscles are involved in ejaculation when
             | they are involuntarily contracted. The ischiocavernosus
             | muscle is responsible for male erection, and the
             | bulbocavernosus muscle is responsible for ejaculation. By
             | actively contracting the perineal muscles with Kegel
             | exercises regularly, strength and control of these muscles
             | increase, possibly aiding in the avoidance of premature
             | ejaculation.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise
        
             | andrewflnr wrote:
             | Uh, yeah. It's surprisingly difficult to find really
             | reputable sources online that directly address it, but you
             | can kinda just try it. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/healt
             | h/treatments/22211-kegel... "Pelvic floor exercises" is
             | probably the right search phrase.
        
         | because_789 wrote:
         | As a guy I found this article oddly riveting -- the author
         | seems super cool for being so candid. But the "pee slowly"
         | thing had me coming to the comments to learn more: is this
         | something ladies can typically do?
        
         | isoprophlex wrote:
         | I'm a guy but for me it just... takes more time to finish
         | pissing?
         | 
         | Then again I found out in my teenage years that not everyone is
         | able to stop urinating on command, too. Something to do with
         | excessive drinking, pissing in public places, and some friends
         | not being able to haul their little firehoses in before the
         | cops took notice.
         | 
         | Does pinching it off mid-piss hurt for you, as well?
        
         | belorn wrote:
         | I would say that a primary reason to do it slowly is to not put
         | too much pressure into it, which is true for both women and
         | men. The p-valve involving gluing it on your body, and the tube
         | is soft which can easily get kinks. It can balloon and there is
         | always the risk that the pressure find an alternative way that
         | is not the outside of the drysuit.
         | 
         | I do not find it too uncomfortable to restrict myself to not
         | add a lot of pressure, which will fairly naturally result in
         | quite slow peeing. The fear of rapture is fairly major one,
         | especially the first time of a dive when your trust in the glue
         | (and tube routing) might not be at its peak.
        
         | itishappy wrote:
         | Never had that problem. Also male. I used to play games with it
         | in middle school, hopping from urinal to urinal, now I modulate
         | my flow to reduce splashing.
         | 
         | If there are anatomical differences, they're not entirely
         | gender-based.
        
       | nanoxide wrote:
       | I know nothing about diving. Why can't you pee in a dry suit
       | (except that one might find it gross)? I assumed that you could
       | just rinse the suit afterwards. Or is being underwater a factor,
       | because it gets too cold or the pressure does something with it
       | or...?
        
         | Twisol wrote:
         | Except for the gross factor? The author seems pretty clear
         | that, yes, you can:
         | 
         | > For those of you asking, what are my options for diving in a
         | dry suit? Well... you can just hold it (again, if you have a
         | bladder of steel), nappies/diapers, the p-valve, or just pee in
         | the suit (which is gross and defeats the whole purpose of the
         | dry suit, right?).
         | 
         | The "purpose of the dry suit" is to keep you dry. If you're
         | _literally_ wetting yourself, and with a fluid that is rather
         | more chemically offensive than water, then you 're probably
         | going to have a bad time. (I don't know how temperature-
         | controlled dry suits are, but you lose heat a lot more easily
         | through contact with a liquid (that's what sweat is for!), so
         | the urine puddle probably makes heat retention harder, too.)
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | I live where the water barely gets warm enough to swim in
           | during the summer, so kayaking is often a dry suit activity.
           | When I was taking a class I had quite a time staying cool.
           | Some people flip on purpose, or you just shove as much of an
           | arm into the water as you can and wait. A dry suit makes
           | 50degF water feel like a crisp morning with still air,
           | instead of torture.
           | 
           | Water inside reduces that insulation. I wore my synthetic
           | base layers underneath just in case.
        
         | _caw wrote:
         | You're generally not wearing just a drysuit if the water is
         | cold. Under the outer shell, you often wear multiple
         | undergarments to keep warm. Think a base layer, underwear,
         | socks, 1-piece.
        
         | tecleandor wrote:
         | When I started diving I still didn't understand the difference
         | between dry and wet suits. Although a dry suit could look
         | pretty similar to a regular wet suit to a non diver from far
         | away, the way of wearing it is way different.
         | 
         | A wet suit is used in warm/hot weather were the insulation
         | provided by the neoprene and the wather that gets trapped
         | between the suit and your body is enough. If you pee on a wet
         | suit, well, your wet anyway, and it's not much of a difference.
         | 
         | A dry suit is what is used for really cold weather, and it's
         | really dry inside. It's watertight. For keeping yourself warm
         | inside the suit, you just wear some layers of "regular" dry
         | clothes. So if you pee in a dry suit, your peeing on your dry
         | clothes.
         | 
         | Would be like peeing in your flight or space suit (without a
         | catheter like system like the described in the post)
        
         | itishappy wrote:
         | You lose heat 25x faster when wet.
        
       | nradov wrote:
       | Good article. I think this issue is a major reason why there are
       | relatively few women diving in cold water, especially when it
       | comes to technical diving that involves long exposures.
        
       | deskr wrote:
       | She mentions the male version with a zip on the front. How does
       | that work, do you just unzip, haul it out and have a go in the
       | freezing cold sea? Don't you fill up the suit with sea?
        
         | matsemann wrote:
         | It's more that you can go between dives without having to de-
         | suit completely, I think.
        
       | perfmode wrote:
       | why not just pee into the suit?
       | 
       | edit: ah it's a dry suit not a wet suit
        
         | itishappy wrote:
         | Peeing in a wetsuit is one of life's small pleasures.
        
       | hermitcrab wrote:
       | Related thought - How did knights in plate armour manage? Were
       | there accomodation for taking a pee without having to take a
       | significsant amount of armour off?
        
         | clort wrote:
         | The armour needs to be quite flexible in this area anyway as
         | your hips and legs need to bend. they just used flaps of
         | chainmail rather than seal you in. Look at some images.
        
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