[HN Gopher] 50 Years of Travel Tips
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       50 Years of Travel Tips
        
       Author : marban
       Score  : 212 points
       Date   : 2025-02-16 09:31 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | ghaff wrote:
       | I don't agree with all of this though I do think most of it _can_
       | be good advice. I did a huge amount of travel, mostly of
       | particular styles, latterly when I was working. Still do a fair
       | bit though I 'm trying to spend less time on flights and more on
       | destinations.
       | 
       | The main thing I didn't see in there although I may have missed
       | it or it may have been implied is travel light. You can't always
       | go with carry-on pack of some sort if you have varied trips, e.g.
       | smart clothing plus hiking kit. But you can probably go lighter
       | than you think. I know I'm mostly at lightweight travel than I
       | used to be.
        
         | gadilif wrote:
         | +1 on traveling light. The author did mention this, too: " Your
         | enjoyment of a trip will be inversely related to the weight of
         | your luggage. Counterintuitively, the longer your trip, the
         | less stuff you should haul. Travelers still happy on a 6-week
         | trip will only have carry-on luggage."
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Ah. Missed that.
           | 
           | It's certainly not always possible if you need real dress
           | clothing or real hiking/camping gear. (I've never gotten to
           | the point where I can do a month-long trip that includes a
           | long distance week-long+ walk along with some fairly formal
           | evening wear in a carry-on.)
           | 
           | But you can probably get closer than you think. By myself, if
           | I'm mostly just traveling in cities with "business casual" as
           | dressy as it gets, I can travel almost indefinitely with a
           | 40L travel backpack.
        
             | kjellsbells wrote:
             | For men, mixed business/pleasure trips to countries with a
             | conservative dress code can be tough (Japan for example). I
             | have found that higher quality suits have better fabrics
             | that are more able to recover from being stuffed in a small
             | space. The problem I have yet to solve is shoes. In the
             | West, not only are suits for meetings becoming rarer, but
             | dress sneakers are acceptable almost everywhere, and they
             | can do double duty for leisure. In Japan I would feel
             | underdressed if I wasnt wearing standard black leather
             | shoes. Maybe it will change with the new generation. Things
             | are certainly lighter than in the early 2000s and 2010s,
             | when there was a distinct echo of the infamous Burleson
             | dress code[0]. (Though the cultural disdain for tattoos
             | still exists.)
             | 
             | [0] https://archive.is/Shp8G
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | The last couple of trips I took to Japan were for events
               | with essentially a developer/marketing oriented
               | organization and I was able to comfortably get off with
               | pretty much business casual. Maybe I wouldn't have felt
               | as comfortable for a customer event.
               | 
               | The last trip I really felt I overpacked for with respect
               | to train/transit was some time in London, followed by a
               | long-distance walk where I really needed everything I had
               | with me, followed by an ocean liner return where I needed
               | jackets and real dress shoes--which, as you suggest, even
               | Rockports aren't _really_ general purpose. You always
               | want more shoes than you can reasonably carry.
               | 
               | Wheeled vs. non-wheeled luggage is definitely a tradeoff.
               | I lean towards non-wheeled in general and just maybe take
               | a few more taxis if the luggage is too heavy to schlep
               | around the city a bit.
        
       | baal80spam wrote:
       | > If you hire a driver, or use a taxi, offer to pay the driver to
       | take you to visit their mother.
       | 
       | Uhh, I really can't imagine this one working well in a Western
       | country.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Almost certainly would seem weirder in some places or
         | circumstances than others. One of those things in the list I
         | have certainly never considered.
        
           | vintagedave wrote:
           | Once in Vietnam, our cab driver asked if he could pause at
           | home on the way. We said yes. So he drove home, his wife gave
           | him lunch, we tried it too, met her and his kids and his
           | friendly half-street-half-pet dogs, and then went back to our
           | hotel.
           | 
           | And I still remember it... whereas I cannot remember our
           | other taxi rides!
        
         | eszed wrote:
         | A "weaker" version of this is to ask your driver personal
         | questions. Obviously stop if they make it _really_ clear they
         | don 't want to talk at all, but there's a psychology about
         | talking to strangers you know you won't see again that lets
         | many people open up in ways they wouldn't in maybe any other
         | circumstances. I've
         | 
         | - Seen more baby and kid-milestone photos than I can count.
         | 
         | - Been told a _brutal_ war story by a tow-truck driver in
         | Kentucky ( "did you know blood from the liver is almost
         | black?") that - though he didn't say it, explicitly - I don't
         | think he'd ever talked about to anyone.
         | 
         | - Heard about someone's life's-work in AIDS prevention.
         | 
         | - Learned about the Philippine Civil War from a former airforce
         | Colonel. (Highlight: he and his best friend / roommate in the
         | military academy chose different sides. They privately promised
         | each other that they'd find a way to communicate if their units
         | were ever ordered to attack the other.)
         | 
         | - Heard first-hand about the horrifying obstacles the US
         | government placed in the paths of Afghani translators (for the
         | US Army) trying to immigrate to safety in the US.
         | 
         | - Met a Singaporean former mercenary, who told me all about
         | doing private security for illegal gold mines in New Guinea. He
         | was very matter of fact (and entirely unrepentant) about having
         | indiscriminately shot local villagers and government forces.
         | Several of his buddies were killed by bow and arrow in an
         | attack during which he cut and ran ("their families are still
         | mad at me"). It was all a madcap adventure, as far as he was
         | concerned, and then he showed me pictures of his boat.
         | 
         | Looking at that list, I guess don't do it if you don't want to
         | be trauma-dumped, but I'm quite socially awkward, so you don't
         | have to let that stop you. Most people don't seem to care -
         | they have stories they want to tell, and will tell them, if
         | you'll listen.
        
       | melling wrote:
       | I spent 9 months traveling from Mexico to Buenos Aires with a
       | backpack eighteen years ago. Spent most nights in hostels in
       | shared rooms for a few dollars a night. It was a great
       | experience. Carried a MacBook Pro and a digital Nikon D70.
       | Actually had the first iPhone but hardly used it. Do have a
       | selfie of myself on a bus somewhere in Central America.
       | 
       | These days I'm taking more expensive vacations in cheaper
       | countries. You can go to the Caribbean and stay for $2000 a night
       | or go to places like Morocco or Panama on a _luxury_ vacation for
       | 1 /3 the price.
        
         | BrandoElFollito wrote:
         | 1/3 of 2000 USD is still 650 USD a night. This is quite a
         | price.
         | 
         | I am sure that plenty of people can afford it (I could if I
         | wanted to) but this is rather expensive when you compare to,
         | say a stay in Chamonix (French Alps, a "posh" station) where
         | you can have a 65 m2 appartment next to the slopes in high
         | season for about 250-300EUR/night.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | I don't keep track of this sort of thing in detail but I
           | usually figure a month-long trip ends up running about $10K.
           | Sometimes probably a bit more, sometimes a bit less. Where
           | that money goes will vary depending on the type of trip. In
           | cities, I usually stay somewhere nice but not top-end which I
           | find doesn't buy me a lot incrementally. Don't usually fly
           | business unless I use miles for part of it.
           | 
           | No illusions this is penniless student budgeting but it suits
           | me.
        
           | navane wrote:
           | OPs numbers are weird. Marocco should get you great
           | accommodation for a tenth, not a third.
        
           | melling wrote:
           | Instead of $650 there's always the AirBnB and living on less
           | than $100 a day. When I backpacked I was spending probably
           | $1000 a month. I recommend trying both.
        
           | notahacker wrote:
           | Yeah, $650 per night in Morocco is staying in La Mamounia,
           | famous mingling place of world leaders and celebrities with a
           | Paul McCartney song named after it...
           | 
           | You can stay in quite a nice palace for a lot less than that
        
           | jajko wrote:
           | Are you talking about my flat in Chamonix? :) Those are top
           | season prices, one can go much lower and mountains are still
           | roughly the same, meaning absolutely awesome and most
           | accessible brutal high alpine terrain in Europe, possibly
           | globally. Skiing Vallee Blanche is top experience (just take
           | helmet at least).
           | 
           | Anyway backpacking is the most intense form of travelling by
           | huge margin, the cheaper the better. I did two 3-month trips
           | in India & Nepal around 2010, all costs combined apart from
           | return flight tickets were around 500$ per month. Best time
           | of my life, literally life and personality changing
           | experiences that will stay with me till my last breath. No
           | plans, just 1 thick Lonely planet book
           | 
           | Adventures don't need to be always positive experiences,
           | intensity is what matters much more, the further away from
           | comfort zone one gets more impactful the experience is.
           | 
           | Also it feels significantly longer, each time those 3 months
           | felt like decades, hard to describe with mere words
        
           | jghn wrote:
           | I had a similar reaction. I think of Panama as being one of
           | the higher COL areas in that region.
           | 
           | In a lot of areas in the US $650/night is a posh
           | hotel/airbnb.
        
       | vintagedave wrote:
       | This is great advice. On his 'laser out' approach, I often find
       | after travel I am tired and I _really_ don't want to spend hours
       | more getting to where I'm really going, so I usually stop in the
       | city that I landed in.
       | 
       | But I have a policy: never go to sleep without going to walk in
       | the city. That is: never land and sleep. _Always_ absorb some of
       | the local environment. Then when your brain knows it's somewhere
       | else, then go to sleep.
       | 
       | This has worked to varying degrees. I always wake up with the
       | excitement of being somewhere. But once, on my very first trip
       | overseas, I got lost and spent three confused hours very late at
       | night in a dark 2AM-no-one-around city trying to find my way
       | back...
       | 
       | ...but it sure is a good story now.
       | 
       | Which is very much the point of this article's advice. It seems
       | to be: optimise for experience and stories.
        
       | susam wrote:
       | One travel technique that has worked very well for me takes place
       | the day before my trip: using a pre-travel prep-and-packing
       | checklist. I created this checklist about 15 years ago and still
       | refine it occasionally. This list has three sections:
       | 
       | A) Preparation tasks: Like printing essential travel documents,
       | saving a backup to my mobile phone, buying foreign currency,
       | activating data roaming, etc.
       | 
       | B) Packing list: Mine currently has about 30 or so items,
       | covering everything from the very basics, like toothbrush and
       | toothpaste, to the often-overlooked, like reusable ziplock bags,
       | microfibre cloths, etc.
       | 
       | C) Last minute checks: These are final tasks to complete just
       | before leaving home. This includes double-checking that passports
       | are packed, non-essential electrical appliances and lamps are
       | switched off, balcony doors are locked, wet waste has been
       | properly disposed of, etc.
       | 
       | By the time I step into a taxi or train to the airport, I can
       | fully focus on the journey ahead rather than worrying about
       | forgotten items. After all, this checklist has served me well for
       | the past 15 years. Every item is checked off before I leave home,
       | so as soon as I get into a taxi or train, I can relax, knowing
       | that nothing has been forgotten.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | You do get used to it and I keep a travel pile, but, yeah,
         | checklists are never a bad idea.
        
         | seer wrote:
         | The one thing you _need_ to pack, apart from visa docs required
         | for travel, is a credit/debit card. Anything you've missed can
         | be purchased on location.
         | 
         | Traveling to rural Vietnam looked daunting and dangerous for
         | people from the EU, but once there me and the friend realized
         | all the worrying and excessive preparation was for naught. We
         | still forgot some things, an hour or two spent at the local
         | shops and the problem was resolved. All you need is an accepted
         | way to pay and you could get out of almost any reasonable
         | situation.
         | 
         | Now would it be cost effective? Surprisingly sometimes yes, but
         | even if not it could give you some more stories to tell. Part
         | of the fun of traveling is the stories you tell afterwards, and
         | no good story starts with "everything went according to plan".
        
           | simonw wrote:
           | My father once told me that as long as you have your
           | passport, wallet and the name and address of where you're
           | going everything else will work out fine. That advice has
           | treated me well.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Which raises a point that is often lost today. Assume your
             | phone breaks, gets lost/stolen, etc. How do you know where
             | you're going? Having a printed agenda is a very good idea
             | even if you resent the weight of the paper.
        
               | jonasdegendt wrote:
               | If that happens, aren't you pretty much walking to the
               | closest mobile phone store?
               | 
               | A basic device that'll give you access to the internet,
               | mail and maps is basically a commodity the same way a
               | toothbrush is.
        
               | harperlee wrote:
               | Problem: with 2FA, lost phone = lost access to your email
               | and rest of digital life, when on a trip (I'll assume no
               | one travels with their recovery keys).
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I actually do have my Gmail recovery keys with my
               | passport though I haven't tested in a while. But from
               | reading other comments, I guess I'm pretty paranoid and
               | maybe more prepared for a situation where I don't have a
               | working phone.
               | 
               | But, if you use a password manager for Google, not sure
               | if that does you any good. Honestly, regaining access to
               | your various accounts if you need to get a new phone--
               | perhaps especially internationally--may be pretty hard. I
               | do sometimes travel with an older spare phone but it's
               | getting out of support.
        
               | jorvi wrote:
               | 1Password handles this problem pretty elegantly because
               | of their secret key system.
               | 
               | You can just print out your secret key and stuff it in
               | your suitcase / backpack. Its useless for a thief unless
               | they know your password too.
               | 
               | You could set an emergency / recovery contact too, but I
               | don't know how the recovery flow would go.
               | 
               | Also, an eSIM will vastly complicate your bootstrapping.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | And an eSIM is all my current phone has.
               | 
               | Not sure how much confidence I would put in getting back
               | up and running in an international trip with 2FA vs.
               | having paper copies of important info.
        
               | jonasdegendt wrote:
               | Yubikeys with a passkey for every major service. One on
               | the keychain, a nano one permanently in the laptop. This
               | lets you access anything with the key and a password.
        
               | qkeast wrote:
               | The thing I haven't figured out (mostly because I haven't
               | sat down and done so) is how I'd access mail and such--
               | without my password manager on my own phone, I don't have
               | access to anything.
        
               | jonasdegendt wrote:
               | I have a Yubikey (well, two actually) on my keychain for
               | 2FA, gets rid of those pesky apps.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I don't universally travel with a laptop.
        
               | dotancohen wrote:
               | Why would we assume that the Yubikey or even the entire
               | keychain survived whatever befell the telephone that is
               | being replaced?
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | What "closest mobile phone store" in many places? I've
               | been on a ton of trips where I probably haven't seen a
               | closest mobile phone store for a week or more.
               | 
               | My point is that you should try not to be absolutely
               | screwed if you're cut off from the Internet. I carry
               | physical maps, itinerary, guidebook, etc. You can
               | actually travel without Internet access. Of course, you
               | can't mitigate any eventuality but I'd certainly argue
               | that you should generally be able to move forward without
               | Internet, email, or GPS.
        
               | netsharc wrote:
               | I remember standing up to board my flight home, putting
               | the phone into my pants pocket, except I was putting it
               | into air, and it landed on the tile floor of the boarding
               | area. The outside screen wasn't cracked, but the LC-
               | Display cracked all across the bottom, making the display
               | totally black. I usually don't bother having physical
               | boarding passes, but luckily I did have it in paper
               | format at that point.
               | 
               | Interestingly the phone was still working, it just can't
               | show anything. Double-clicking the power button still
               | opened the camera app, and I could take pictures by
               | pressing the volume down button. And alarms would still
               | go off, but holding the power button opened Google
               | Assistant and it understood the command "Delete all
               | alarms", no unlocking required.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | My counter to that is that, once you get out of major cities,
           | even in the UK, there may be very few opportunities to pick
           | up things including pretty routine first aid supplies. You
           | probably also don't want to spend the first half-day of your
           | vacation doing routine shopping.
           | 
           | So, yes, you can often pick things up but don't count on it.
           | If you're adaptable, you can probably manage (perhaps outside
           | of some things like medicines) but you're not necessarily
           | just walking into a store and laying down your credit card.
        
             | zeroq wrote:
             | My counter is if you can't produce it within a day it's
             | most likely not a necessity.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | There's a ton of medical and medical-adjacent stuff (both
               | prescription and not) that isn't going to be easy to come
               | up with in a typical village or small town. Good to have
               | some basic things you can use to rig a backpack strap or
               | hole repair. There are fairly essential clothing items
               | you may not easily replace on foot in small towns; it's
               | raining hard and you left your rain jacket at home.
               | 
               | Sure. If you have wheels, it's probably easier.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | I've gone decades without using a raincoat.
               | 
               | If you're going someplace cold you'll want warm clothing
               | and if it's sunny then sunblock is a big deal, but in
               | general you don't need much stuff on a trip.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | My guess is you're not hiking for 10 miles in possibly
               | chilly rain in England or wherever. (Or needing a shell
               | because of wind.) An umbrella doesn't really work and
               | you're probably not wanting to just walk all day
               | drenched. In a city, yes, umbrellas are often a
               | reasonable alternative.
        
               | Retric wrote:
               | I'll happily spend all day wet outside as long as it's
               | warm enough not to want a jacket.
               | 
               | Which is why I just get water resistant jackets rather
               | than raincoats.
        
               | et-al wrote:
               | Two small exceptions to a generally good rule:
               | 
               | - good shoes in certain regions may not be easy to find.
               | don't skimp on good shoes.
               | 
               | - not to get into a dirtbag pissing contest about
               | necessities, but there were also plenty of towns in
               | Myanmar where one couldn't produce a USB-C or Lightning
               | cable pre-pandemic
        
               | harrall wrote:
               | A few ibuprofen and anti-diarrhea pills can make a world
               | of difference, save you from ruining your whole day on a
               | potentially short trip, and they take up no space.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I have a couple of very compact kits, one of which is
               | basically walking/hiking first aid (e.g. blister stuff)
               | and the other is the sort of stuff you mention. It's a
               | really good idea to throw something like these in your
               | bag which weigh nothing, take up no space, and can
               | _really_ be nice if you need them.
               | 
               | PSA: The small index card holders (i.e. about an inch
               | deep) are really good for these kind of kits as they
               | provide some protection.
        
           | zeroq wrote:
           | This!
           | 
           | Only other thing I would like to add is CASH.
           | 
           | Not a lot, just enough to keep you afloat when your credit
           | card is not cooperating.
           | 
           | You may end up in a place that only accepts cash and there's
           | no atm nearby or these that are available won't accept your
           | card for some reason.
           | 
           | And it doesn't have to a remote place like Laos or Bali. This
           | happens in places like Berlin.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Yeah, some cash, debit card, and a backup credit card that
             | is hopefully as independent of the card you normally use
             | traveling as possible. (i.e. not two Chase cards.) Also, be
             | careful that your backup isn't a card you normally _never_
             | use--especially internationally. The card companies seem to
             | have gotten better about random fraud alerts but they still
             | happen.
        
           | AnotherGoodName wrote:
           | Agreed in general although do your homework first. Some
           | countries don't use the VISA/Mastercard payment system.
           | 
           | China is an absolute unbelievable pain due to being largely
           | WeChat payment based now and there's a lot of restrictions on
           | who can set this up.
           | 
           | https://www.reddit.com/r/China/comments/16u03k4/how_the_hell.
           | ..
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | WeChat Pay is still a no-go, but you can now set up Alipay
             | with any foreign credit/debit card, no need for the former
             | rigmarole of account verification with Chinese phone
             | number/bank account. And Alipay is accepted basically
             | everywhere. (Cash is not.)
        
           | KineticLensman wrote:
           | > Anything you've missed can be purchased on location.
           | 
           | Good luck buying a head torch when you find yourself arriving
           | at a deserted campsite in the middle of nowhere just as it is
           | getting dark.
           | 
           | Or your prescription meds in a country where things aren't
           | available over the counter.
        
         | rwmj wrote:
         | I have one of these. It also tells me all the things I need to
         | turn off / check are switched off in the house.
        
           | Ylpertnodi wrote:
           | With the prices of electricity these days I turn off
           | _everything_ by remote control per room each time I leave the
           | house for work etc. Not even extension cord lights are left
           | on, only the very bare necessities - fridge etc remain on.
        
             | danparsonson wrote:
             | Ah but the genius of such a list is that it can also cover
             | things like closing windows, checking the gas cooker is
             | off, watering plants... anything that you might later think
             | "did I remember to...?", while flying to Indonesia.
             | 
             | You might have left your fridge switched on, but did you
             | close the door properly?
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | With LED lights, making sure everything is turned off
               | isn't _such_ a big deal these days. But, while I don 't
               | really sweat closing up the house for a day or so, it's
               | definitely worth checking things like windows on a longer
               | trip. There are definitely a lot of things you normally
               | do on cruise control and it's nice to be sure they really
               | happened.
        
         | throwup238 wrote:
         | Do you mind sharing these checklists? I'd love to throw them
         | into my Obsidian notes for the next time I travel. I do it
         | infrequently but it's always stressful because it's to visit
         | family internationally.
        
           | et-al wrote:
           | Make a checklist. Go on trip. Refine checklist by adding
           | things you forgot and removing things you didn't need.
           | _Iterating on the checklist is key._
           | 
           | Mine is pretty short because it's only about the non-routine
           | stuff:
           | 
           | - passport + passport card + visa
           | 
           | - make travel notifications for credit cards (seems less
           | needed these days)
           | 
           | - chargers + outlet adapters
           | 
           | - download maps for areas in Organic Maps, bookmark important
           | places (don't trust Google Maps' offline maps)
           | 
           | - write down confirmation/reservation numbers and important
           | phone numbers
           | 
           | - remove pocket knife from carry-on
           | 
           | - headphones + earplugs + eyeshade
           | 
           | - spare glasses (even an old pair works. yes in Asia you can
           | get new glasses in less than an hour)
           | 
           | - do you need swimwear, sunscreen, or a headlamp?
           | 
           | - lacrosse ball to roll out knots (very personal, but 10hr
           | flights in a cramped economy seat can put a strain on one's
           | back, esp as one gets older)
           | 
           | Again, this is my personal "perennial" travel checklist. It's
           | written from my experiences of having a girlfriend break my
           | glasses while needing to drive the next morning, and
           | forgetting headphones for overnight bus rides.
           | 
           | Similar to susam, I've also started keeping another trip-
           | specific checklist (e.g. any items my in-laws want from
           | America, or bring 98% DEET for SE Asia). These get deleted
           | after the trip.
        
           | harrall wrote:
           | Walk through your typical preferred travel day when traveling
           | to build a checklist.
           | 
           | "I'm going to be on a plane for 14 hours,"
           | 
           | "I need to get ready for bed at night,"
           | 
           | "I am going to walk through the city"
           | 
           | or "I am doing a wilderness hike."
           | 
           | I only say that because everyone's checklist is very
           | different and I think it can be too easy to overpack.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | >it can be too easy to overpack
             | 
             | I think there are items that have a good size/weight to
             | utility if you do end up needing them in a place where you
             | can't just run to a store. But you also need to be careful
             | not to fall into a "just one more thing" trap because it
             | occurs to you something _might_ be useful or even was
             | useful in a very specific set of circumstances.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Don't buy foreign currency. Take it out of the ATM in the
         | country, and spend it before you leave. Leave the currency in
         | the place it belongs.
        
           | 01HNNWZ0MV43FF wrote:
           | Why?
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | ATMs probably tend to be a better deal but for $100-200
             | amounts probably doesn't matter much. Whether you spend
             | your leftovers at the airport depends on if you're
             | reasonably certain you'll be back. I keep pounds and Euros
             | but I have way too much of other currencies which between
             | COVID and employment changes, I'll probably never use.
        
         | KineticLensman wrote:
         | Agree. I have _everything_ on it after one memorable trip where
         | I forgot to pack any socks.
         | 
         | The pre-trip to-do list is also really useful - e.g. all the
         | things that need charging before I go.
         | 
         | My list has subsections for specialised trips such as camping,
         | wildlife experiences etc. On one camping trip I inventoried
         | everything that came out of my car when I got back. This
         | spotted a couple of things that I probably wouldn't have
         | remembered for the next trip. Over the years I created a box
         | full of tent-things that I can just lift into the car when I
         | load up.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | It's not perfect because every trip is often a bit different
           | but compartmentalizing stuff that _usually_ goes together
           | (OK, I don 't need my UK plug adapter if I'm going to
           | California) helps a lot without having a checklist of _every_
           | item. You want your essentials first aid kit, your standard
           | chargers kit, your misc travel kit... goes a long way.
        
         | MiguelVieira wrote:
         | I have a spreadsheet that I clone and edit each time I go on a
         | trip. So if I go camping, skiing, to the beach, etc, I can look
         | at my old checklists, find a similar one, then clone it and
         | tweak it for my upcoming trip.
        
         | jraby3 wrote:
         | I use multiple packing trips. One for solo (generally) business
         | travel. One for me and my wife traveling. And the last one is
         | for me wife and kids.
         | 
         | It works really well and the lists are significantly different.
        
         | swat535 wrote:
         | I've stopped caring about packing.
         | 
         | Now I only pack the very basics, medication, laptop and
         | chargers toiletries for shaving etc and a few clothes. Anything
         | else I will most likely purchase or won't need at all. I avoid
         | checking bags, just a small carryon and my backpack.
         | 
         | To me the more important items are travel requirements, road
         | conditions, directions, etc.
        
           | flippyhead wrote:
           | I have a corollary: when I head out of my
           | apartment/hotel/whatever, I assume I could be gone for a
           | night or two -- you never know what will happen! This doesn't
           | mean you need to lug around a bunch of stuff, but just enough
           | basics to make it so you can easily say YES! at forks in the
           | road that might require you to walk too far to get home that
           | day, or stay overnight on a boat, or be out very late with a
           | new group of friends. A toothbrush, change of underwear, and
           | warm cost-thing, sunscreen, etc. Optionality is easy to
           | prepare.
        
           | jltsiren wrote:
           | I've started to prefer small checked bags over large
           | carryons. Boarding a plane is more pleasant when you don't
           | need overhead space for you bags. And you don't need special
           | travel versions of stuff to get around carryon restrictions.
           | 
           | The backpack should also be small. I find 20 L the ideal
           | size, but your needs may be different. If your backpack is
           | too large, you'll be taking more unnecessary stuff with you
           | everywhere at the destination.
        
         | triyambakam wrote:
         | The split in sections is really useful!
        
       | rwmj wrote:
       | _> Getting an inside tour is the ultimate travel treat. How about
       | a factory tour,_
       | 
       | Yes, I'm glad I did some factory tours in Japan, they were really
       | interesting!
       | 
       | Link is to archive.org since JETRO seem to have taken down the
       | site during the pandemic and not put it back up again:
       | https://web.archive.org/web/20190407170023/jetro.go.jp/en/in...
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | We did a very interesting tour inside a Swedish iron mine. It
         | is a shame more big factories and industrial sites don't do
         | tours. I'm sure a tour of massive mining quarry would be much
         | more interesting than the standard tourist attractions.
        
       | programmertote wrote:
       | >Crash a wedding. You are not a nuisance; you are the celebrity
       | guest! ... They will usually feel honored. You can offer the
       | newlyweds a small token gift of cash if you want. You will be
       | obliged to dance. Take photos of them; they will take photos of
       | you. It will make your day and theirs. (I've crashed a wedding in
       | most of the countries I have visited.)
       | 
       | That will only work if a white tourist wedding crashes in a poor
       | country. That will not work if I (as a brown-colored southeast
       | asian) do it.
        
         | pocketarc wrote:
         | Yeah, a few of these items sound a lot like "white tourist in
         | poor country".
         | 
         | Like the one about asking the taxi driver to drive you to his
         | mom, like holy cow that's creepy. Imagine asking an American
         | Uber driver "hey drive me to your mom's" and see how they'd
         | respond.
        
           | trinix912 wrote:
           | It doesn't even have to be the US, that already wouldn't go
           | well in Eastern Europe. Such things can be seen as extremely
           | disrespectful and are a sure way to get a punch in your face
           | in some places.
           | 
           | Lots of these tips seem like what you'd hear from someone
           | regularly traveling someplace like Egypt, where the taxi
           | drivers will openly tell you about their life/family/etc.
        
             | fortran77 wrote:
             | Say anything related to a person's mother in Russia and it
             | will be seen as an insult.
        
           | magneticnorth wrote:
           | Extremely white, somewhat gendered as well.
           | 
           | I travel alone as a woman a lot, and while it's not as
           | dangerous as many people fear, I'd never ask a taxi driver to
           | take me to (potentially) his private residence in a random
           | neighborhood in an unfamiliar city.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | Just imagine this interaction from the mom's perspective.
             | (Because the author sure hasn't!)
             | 
             | You're minding your own business just doing laundry or
             | whatever and your adult son just shows up to you house
             | totally unannounced with a foreign stranger in tow looking
             | for you to cook them a meal. Come on, that is really rude!
             | 
             | Like, it's clear this guy thinks the mom is a total NPC in
             | this situation. It takes some serious delusions of grandeur
             | to think the mom is "happy" about this interaction.
        
               | pocketarc wrote:
               | > a total NPC
               | 
               | Honestly, I think that is a great way to describe what
               | bugs me most about this list. It's the idea that other
               | people are there for your entertainment.
               | 
               | Like: 'Go to a cemetery. Look for sacred places. People
               | live authentically there.'
               | 
               | Like really. Why are you going to a place to watch people
               | grieving for your entertainment? What -is- this list?
               | After 50 years of traveling? This mentality is what he
               | has to show for it?
        
               | kmoser wrote:
               | Presumably the driver knows their mom well enough to
               | determine how she would react, or call ahead to be sure.
               | If it still blows up, blame the driver, not the passenger
               | who initiated the request.
        
               | mvdtnz wrote:
               | A taxi driver in a poor country is doing what he needs to
               | do to get paid, probably with a bit of a tip. That
               | doesn't make this interaction ok. It's exploitative and
               | RUDE!
        
           | eldaisfish wrote:
           | some are entirely incorrect. Lack of hygiene is a real
           | problem in tropical countries. Pretending that all food
           | everywhere is equal is some crazy level of white, sheltered
           | nonsense.
           | 
           | I would never recommend that anyone eat anything uncooked in
           | a country like India. You are asking for digestive woes.
           | 
           | Much of this "list" is BS.
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | No, that one is accurate. Street food is usually made to
             | order and has high turnover if you pick a popular stall,
             | which means it often is safer than touristy restaurants
             | that rely on snaring a couple of visitors a day and thus
             | has food sitting around for much longer. I spent 1.5 years
             | in Thailand and the only time I got sick was from a fancy,
             | touristy seafood place in Koh Samui.
             | 
             | You still have to use common sense though. The water/ice
             | used in street food is often sus, so anything uncooked is
             | best avoided, and you probably don't want to get your
             | _larb_ from the lady who keeps her raw minced meat in an
             | open bucket marinating in the sun.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I think you're agreeing. Typical cooked "street food" is
               | probably fine (and I've done many times); uncooked may
               | not be.
        
         | datameta wrote:
         | Yeah, while I did like the Laser-Back strategy of going to the
         | most remote location first and meandering back to the departure
         | city, reading the names at the bottom shows only one phenotype
         | of person wrote/edited this.
        
         | astura wrote:
         | I can't even imagine having this sort of attitude where you
         | think that your presence is like a "celebrity guest" for
         | strangers and and will be "making their day." You. Complete
         | strangers.
         | 
         | Like, how does one have such an inflated sense of importance?
         | And feel absolutely no shame in writing it out for the world to
         | see.
         | 
         | Delusions of grandeur.
        
           | notahacker wrote:
           | tbf there are certain parts of the world where if you're
           | young and white and friendly you absolutely do get the
           | celebrity treatment, including wedding invitations[1] and
           | especially a lot of photo requests. There are also parts of
           | the world and families where a foreign guest unknown to most
           | people there would be extremely awkward even if they had a
           | genuine connection with one of the party.
           | 
           | I'd have gone to the wedding of the daughter of the Indian
           | chap who sat next to me on a bus for a couple of hours the
           | day before if there hadn't been logistical issues, because
           | the invitation was genuine and I'd have been able to have
           | proper conversations with the wedding party and feel like I
           | was there for more than just free food and music. I don't
           | think he needed me to make his day though :)
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | It depends on the place. I've definitely been to a couple
           | places where people were very excited to meet me (a large
           | white man), practice their limited English, parade me around
           | to their friends, and ask me about where I live.
           | 
           | I was constantly expecting them to want something from me in
           | return, but it never happened. Actually they would often
           | insist on giving me things. This has happened to me probably
           | four distinct times. It's obviously more likely to happen in
           | small towns that don't get a lot of tourists, and also more
           | likely to happen in countries without white people.
           | 
           | I imagine this might not generalize to people of all races.
           | It also helps to have an outgoing personality.
           | 
           | Of course, in tourist hotspots people are probably vaguely
           | annoyed by your presence (or specifically and intensely
           | annoyed, like in Barcelona apparently) and will either ignore
           | you or try to sell you things.
        
             | jghn wrote:
             | Even if one finds themselves in such a situation, they
             | should allow the locals to pull them in, instead of pushing
             | themselves on the locals.
        
           | ArlenBales wrote:
           | This guy is Kevin Kelly, founding executive editor of Wired
           | magazine. I guess he thinks people will recognize him?
        
         | flippyhead wrote:
         | I crashed a literal Greek wedding (in Greece!) once, waaaay out
         | in the countryside, and I can confirm they were really super
         | glad to have me.
        
       | simonw wrote:
       | These are the best travel tips I've seen anywhere - surprising
       | and unconventional and I can see why each of them would work.
        
       | hermitcrab wrote:
       | Lots of great advice here. But..
       | 
       | >In many parts of the world today motorcycles play the role of
       | cars. That means you can hire a moto-taxi to take you on the back
       | seat, or to summon a moto-taxi with an uber-like app, or to take
       | a motorcycle tour with a guide doing the driving. In areas where
       | motorcycles dominate they will be ten times more efficient than
       | slowly going by car.
       | 
       | I would be extremely wary about this. You are so much more
       | vulnerable on a bike. And you won't even be wearing proper
       | protective equipment. Even if they lend you a helmet, it is
       | unlikely to fit properly and don't know how many times it has
       | been dropped or involved in a crash. Also the most common
       | injuries to motorcyclists are to the legs, and I doubt they will
       | be lending you boots or biking trousers.
       | 
       | No thanks!
        
         | keyme wrote:
         | 2 years ago when backpacking in East Africa, I went from "there
         | is no way I'm ever doing this" to taking nothing but those
         | moto-taxis ("boda bodas") even for 40 minute inter-city rides
         | with a 12KG backpack on my back. No helmets to speak of. Except
         | maybe in Rwanda.
         | 
         | Part of the learning experience of such travel, is to see
         | firsthand how the locals of these places perceive the risk. How
         | they manage risk in general, and what is the "value of a human
         | life" for them as compared to our western perceptions.
        
           | hermitcrab wrote:
           | The combination of poor road safety, lack of protective
           | equipment and lesser health care if anything goes wrong does
           | not make it an attractive option for me. Each to their own, I
           | guess.
           | 
           | Context: I used to have a motorbike. I always wore full
           | protective equipment. Full face helmet, leather, gloves and
           | boots. But I realize that is less practical in a hot climate.
        
           | throwaway290 wrote:
           | There is no "the locals" usually. It sounds a bit
           | condescending, like the article. If people look different
           | than you it doesn't mean they are all the same. People have
           | different life situations. Maybe even in your home country
           | too.
           | 
           | If you go somewhere on a moto taxi in Bangkok all those taxis
           | and fancy SUVs you see are not silly foreigners who are
           | scared of motobikes, they are also locals who manage risk.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | Exactly!
             | 
             | I grew up in the US.
             | 
             | I grew up in a family where drunk driving was totally
             | normal. Car wrecks happened with regularity. As a child I
             | road with my parents while they were drunk and actively
             | drinking. I road in the bed of my dads pickup truck while
             | he was speeding on backroads while drunk. I never wore my
             | seatbelt until I started driving. One of our cars growing
             | up didn't even have seats, cuz my dad took them out. My dad
             | would slam on the breaks while driving down the highway and
             | everyone would go flying.
             | 
             | I always wear my seatbelt now. I would never would drive
             | drunk now, or even slightly buzzed. I would never expose
             | children to that sort of environment. My parents are awful
             | people.
        
           | sneak wrote:
           | I will never ride a bicycle or motorcycle or scooter in any
           | location without a helmet.
           | 
           | Those that do so are simply stupid. It's 2025. Helmets are
           | such a ridiculously high cost/benefit ratio.
           | 
           | It's like not using a seatbelt, or smoking cigarettes.
           | Totally insane, knowing what we now know.
           | 
           | Doesn't matter if it "isn't done here". TBIs work the same in
           | Bangkok as Boston.
        
           | et-al wrote:
           | > _Part of the learning experience of such travel, is to see
           | firsthand how the locals of these places perceive the risk._
           | 
           | Sorry, but this is a just financial decision by locals and
           | not a philosophical treatise on the value of life. Once
           | people have enough money, they'll opt to take the car-taxi,
           | doubly-so if their child is coming along. It's fun for
           | backpackers and I'm glad it got you out of your comfort zone.
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | It's not quite that straightforward. Obviously the calculus
             | changes when you can afford alternatives, but all social
             | classes in Bangkok and Jakarta can and do take
             | motosai/ojeks if they're in a hurry and the traffic (for
             | four-wheelers) is completely jammed like it usually is.
        
       | throwaway290 wrote:
       | Lots to disagree about like
       | 
       | > The list of most coveted cities to visit have one striking
       | thing in common--they are pedestrian centric.
       | 
       | if your coveted places are mostly in Europe/Japan. Los Angeles,
       | Chiang Mai (or any city in most SEA) etc are the opposite of
       | pedestrian centric. Do you like multi hour walks in heat among
       | pollution and traffic or stray dogs to get to a nice coffeeshop?
       | Yeah. Public transport is broken and literally everybody who
       | lives there uses personal transport.
       | 
       | (He then goes to contradict himself and recommend unsafe moto
       | taxi)
        
         | dpb001 wrote:
         | It took only one long solo wait at a crosswalk in Chon Buri to
         | convince me that it was worth paying about 3 USD to travel
         | about 6 blocks. Traffic yielding to a single pedestrian is a
         | quaint notion and as you say a lone farang seems to be a soi
         | dog magnet.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Some SE Asian cities are OK except for the heat/humidity like
           | Singapore, Penang, and Hong Kong. But, yeah, most of the big
           | SE Asian cities are pretty horrible to get around and
           | certainly aren't pedestrian friendly except very locally.
        
       | hermitcrab wrote:
       | A couple of tips from my own experience.
       | 
       | -Have a checklist, so you don't forget stuff.
       | 
       | -Packing cubes make packing a bag much easier.
       | 
       | -For long flights with a stopover (e.g. Europe to NZ) you can
       | stay in a transit hotel in the airport terminal. This means you
       | don't have to go through immigration, security etc. So much
       | easier than having to travel out to a hotel.
       | 
       | -I have found Airalo to be quite good for local data esims.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | >-Packing cubes make packing a bag much easier
         | 
         | I agree in general. Underwear and socks are always in one
         | packing cube and I carry a lightweight mesh laundry pag.
         | 
         | In addition, I have a few small kits I pretty much always carry
         | in addition to my document folder. Need to replenish (and cull)
         | from time to time but it makes the checklist a whole lot
         | simpler for most trips.
        
         | strangelove026 wrote:
         | https://maya.net/ is just as reliable and cheaper in my
         | experience
        
       | Tinos wrote:
       | Great read but I must say I completely disagree with:
       | 
       | "the best way to avoid [[getting cheated/swindled]] is to give
       | strangers your trust and treat them well. Being good to them
       | brings out their good. If you are on your best behavior, they
       | will be on their best behavior."
       | 
       | As someone who's lived in London for 20 years, if you trust and
       | treat everyone well you will lose all of your money, your watch,
       | and phone. Unfortunately, those looking to cheat you out of
       | something have become extremely common and totally remorseless!
       | 
       | I get that the author is probably referring to locals but these
       | days it's impossible to tell who's a local trying to be kind and
       | who's trying to distract you to reach into your bag.
       | 
       | Maybe I'm being unnecessarily pessimistic about strangers but i
       | guess that's what London does to you haha
        
       | rawgabbit wrote:
       | I like his list of recommendations for apps and websites. Are
       | there any other recommendations?
       | 
       | FlightAware
       | 
       | Google Maps and Translate
       | 
       | Booking.com
       | 
       | Seat61.com
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | I find TripIt pretty indispensable even if I'd love to give
         | "notes" to the designers
         | 
         | Maybe Expedia too though I often make the final reservation
         | directly
         | 
         | One of the OSM mapping apps. I use MapOut
         | 
         | TripAdvisor and Yelp are "OK." Often better than nothing.
         | 
         | Various carrier or hotel chain-related apps depending on your
         | preferences
        
           | rawgabbit wrote:
           | On a related note in Europe I tend to use their taxi apps
           | instead of Uber. In Paris I used the G7 app because official
           | taxis could use the HOV lane while Uber cannot. In Italy, I
           | use the Freenow app as I found their taxis very affordable.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Yeah, Uber plus whatever the relevant local transit apps
             | are I should have mentioned. Thanks for the G7 app
             | recommendation as I'll be in Paris in a couple months.
             | Don't normally take taxis much there but good to know.
        
             | kingkongjaffa wrote:
             | Yeah Freenow/Uber/Lyft tend to vary in popularity and
             | availability across Europe and even US states. ( I feel
             | like I took Ubers in Chicago and Lyfts in Boston )
             | 
             | Usually just looking at that taxi area in arrivals at the
             | airport you can figure out which app is the one most
             | supported.
        
         | ThinkingGuy wrote:
         | I've found Wikivoyage is usually a good source of info, though
         | the quality of the articles varies depending on the location.
        
         | QuiEgo wrote:
         | Apps: Airline, hotel, rental car company. TripAdvisor.
         | FlightAware24, Loungebuddy, Terminal Buddy, At Your Gate.
         | Microsoft Translate with offline language downloaded. Kindle,
         | Netflix, Disney+, Prime Video, Hulu, plex, etc. with offline
         | downloads. Google Maps with offline maps downloaded.
        
       | orf wrote:
       | > Crash a wedding. You are not a nuisance; you are the celebrity
       | guest!
       | 
       | Urgh. Really?
        
       | danparsonson wrote:
       | >... I've seen absolutely no correlation between where you eat
       | and whether you have intestinal problems...
       | 
       | Add to this one: always make sure your hands are clean before you
       | eat. A little bottle of sanitiser will do wonders for your health
       | in areas with poor sanitation.
       | 
       | Otherwise, one tip I would like to add - when in doubt, do as the
       | locals do. Especially useful when you can't read signs.
        
       | padiyar83 wrote:
       | "People in other places are not saints. You might get cheated,
       | swindled, or taken advantage of. Paradoxically, the best way to
       | avoid that is to give strangers your trust and treat them well.
       | Being good to them brings out their good. If you are on your best
       | behavior, they will be on their best behavior. And vice versa. To
       | stay safe, smile. Be humble and minimize your ego. I don't know
       | why that works everywhere in the world--even places with "bad"
       | reputations--but it does."
       | 
       | This just got me! Its so true. That's been my experience too.
        
         | ngneer wrote:
         | I have a feeling that male and female travel experiences may
         | differ in this regard. "To stay safe, smile." seems pretty
         | naive to me. Clearly, the author is male. I would proffer
         | "always have an exit", "do not walk into something you cannot
         | walk out of" and "do not stray too far from the crowd".
        
           | cldellow wrote:
           | Yeah, the author seems to be writing for a white male
           | audience in some regards.
           | 
           | My wife and I host bicycle tourers when they pass through our
           | town. One was Thomas Meixner, an East German who started
           | travelling the world on bike when the wall fell. He's visited
           | something like 120 countries and biked 250,000 km.
           | 
           | My wife asked him if he thought a solo woman could do what he
           | did in the places he did it. He tactfully changed the
           | subject.
        
           | notahacker wrote:
           | Even for white males, whilst it might help convince people
           | you're one of the nice backpackers and not the rude
           | backpackers or defuse situations caused by your faux pas,
           | being trusting absolutely doesn't get you any sympathy from
           | who make a living out of scamming or robbing tourists. Sure,
           | escalating probably isn't the best way out either and the
           | minor annoyances that cost you a dollar might be best
           | overlooked, but switching your guard off is a terrible idea
           | in a lot of parts of the world
        
       | ww520 wrote:
       | One thing I didn't see mention is the utilization of airport
       | lounges. It really helps to relax before boarding.
       | 
       | Though in recent years lounges are getting overcrowded.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | I really appreciated airport lounges when I was flying a lot,
         | especially when there were long connections or delays. I don't
         | have mine any longer given I'm trying to make fewer but longer
         | trips. And, as you say, they've gotten overcrowded in many
         | cases. They don't also really help much for early AM departures
         | which are what I'm doing a lot of the time. These days, $400+ a
         | year is better spent on other travel amenities.
        
       | mglz wrote:
       | Luggage tipp: Have exactly one, easy to grab main piece at
       | luggage that goes on your back or on wheels. Have at most one
       | tiny extra piece to carry. The second your luggage exceeds three
       | it becomes a massive hassle: You cannot hold on to things, you
       | will lose one piece and your fun trip descends into a
       | disorganized mess.
       | 
       | Luggage which clips together like a storage/day backpack combo is
       | very valuable for this: Your backpack might be comically large,
       | but you can haul all your stuff with free hands. At your
       | accomodation, you can leave the large bag and continue on your
       | day pack.
       | 
       | Free hands are critical when travelling by train or bus, or if
       | you just wanna get a snack and drink.
        
         | hombre_fatal wrote:
         | Get a 45 liter backpack with one single massive compartment.
         | 
         | I love this one https://www.peakdesign.com/products/travel-
         | backpack?Size=45L...
         | 
         | And then get a duffle bag carry-on.
         | 
         | This lets you maximize storage on the cheap "1x carry-on, 1x
         | personal item" plane tickets. No checked luggage; the 45L
         | backpack just goes under the seat in front of you.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Osprey also makes a good one. Sometimes I need to check
           | something bigger especially if I have a long walk planned but
           | I usually use an Osprey Porter 40Lish (may be a newer line I
           | haven't tried). Yep. Big compartment and use some organizing
           | cubes/bags.
        
       | contingencies wrote:
       | Prefer
       | http://web.archive.org/web/20211126054838/https://artoftrave...
        
       | 1970-01-01 wrote:
       | The entire 50 years is showing here. Seems like some of these
       | tips are good, and some are awful because they're outdated. Don't
       | crash random weddings if you're not able to pay your way out of
       | trouble. Sketchy plans do result in kidnappings. Truly
       | professional tour guides are wonderful assets that will 10X both
       | your trip and your knowledge in any city.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | True. Had a friend head to Central America to surf (I don't
         | recall which country). The first cab he hailed took him to an
         | alley where others were waiting and he was robbed of his
         | passport, cash.
         | 
         | End of trip.
         | 
         | Please don't interpret this as my painting the whole of Central
         | America as dangerous. This is anecdotal but perhaps a
         | cautionary tale? I suspect if he had not grabbed a cab but
         | rather found a bus or some other sort of mass transportation
         | his whole trip could have turned out wonderfully.
        
           | dageshi wrote:
           | That just sounds like terrible luck to be honest.
           | 
           | Catching a cab from the airport in a new country after a
           | flight is a pretty common thing to do no matter where you're
           | going. Depending on flight length you might well be too tired
           | to really navigate public transport in a new city in a
           | foreign language.
           | 
           | There's not a lot to learn from that.
        
             | fortran77 wrote:
             | In certain countries I will always ask the hotel to get a
             | ride for me from the airport, and I will not hail a random
             | cab.
        
         | flippyhead wrote:
         | Nope nope nope, With a decent head on your shoulders you can
         | safely do all kinds of unusual that idiots would otherwise end
         | up very troubled by. I've known plenty of people that get
         | themselves into trouble through foolishness and folly, while
         | more wise operators finds only un-regrets. Like how in the
         | winter some people freeze to death and some people ski, you
         | know?
        
       | deadbabe wrote:
       | I noticed their list of travel accomplishments doesn't seem to
       | include things like "been robbed at gunpoint in South America",
       | "had passports seized in Southeast Asia", or "sexually assaulted
       | in an Eastern European hostel". All of which I've experienced.
       | 
       | Travel, while fun, can also be very dangerous, especially the
       | further you get from being a wealthy straight white male. Be
       | careful and try to avoid thinking you're a main character for
       | whom nothing can go wrong.
        
       | j7ake wrote:
       | With over 50 years of travel, the author still does not recognize
       | the unique privilege he is in, and how inappropriate his tips are
       | for most of the population.
        
         | hombre_fatal wrote:
         | What a sad take-away. All tips you give are rinsed through the
         | lens of your personal experience. We don't need a bunch of
         | disclaimers every time someone enumerates some tips just to
         | appease the "but did he check his privilege tho?" audience.
        
           | j7ake wrote:
           | > To stay safe, smile.
        
             | datameta wrote:
             | Right. This reads like a person who doesn't realize their
             | ethnic visage is plot-armor, or that smiling maybe works
             | for a different reason than they think it does.
             | 
             | Doesn't read as friendly in most places (we're talking out
             | of context on the street), it reads as aloof or
             | menacing/unknown factor. Being a white male with confidence
             | takes care of the first assumption and leaves the second.
        
             | hombre_fatal wrote:
             | You might have to be a traveler who has been in a bind to
             | appreciate that one, because it's absolutely true that
             | being friendly can disarm a bad situation.
        
           | eldaisfish wrote:
           | telling people to crash random weddings? Telling people that
           | all food is hygienic?
           | 
           | Oh please, stop with this victim nonsense. Your personal
           | experience can be personal while also admitting that you come
           | from tremendous privilege.
           | 
           | You can REALLY tell that this "list" was written by a white
           | male.
        
             | hombre_fatal wrote:
             | So what if it was?
             | 
             | All of our tips are always aimed at people in a similar
             | position. Just consider how your travel tips don't even
             | apply to most of the world who can't travel.
             | 
             | This just sounds like sour grapes to me. Like getting
             | worked up because someone didn't start with a land
             | acknowledgement.
        
               | skulk wrote:
               | Nah, they're totally right about this one. When you
               | exploit the global power imbalance in your favor, at
               | least acknowledge what you're doing before dishing it out
               | as general advice.
        
       | devchix wrote:
       | This guy is proud enough of his tips that he's sharing it. God
       | help the person who sits next to him on any of his trips.
       | 
       | > If you hire a driver, or use a taxi, offer to pay the driver to
       | take you to visit their mother. They will ordinarily jump at the
       | chance.
       | 
       | This is deluded.
       | 
       | > They fulfill their filial duty and you will get easy entry into
       | a local's home, and a very high chance to taste some home
       | cooking.
       | 
       | Oh I see, he's probably traveling in a very poor country.
       | 
       | > Crash a wedding.
       | 
       | What? No. That's rude.
       | 
       | > You are not a nuisance; you are the celebrity guest!
       | 
       | Oh I see, probably a white person from a rich country traveling
       | in a poor country.
       | 
       | > They will usually feel honored.
       | 
       | I stopped reading and CTRF-F for primae noctis. Disappointed. He
       | had me going.
        
       | mmkos wrote:
       | Here are mine - go and do something that excites you, whatever it
       | is. Also, be respectful of the local culture and have common
       | sense, et voila.
       | 
       | Whatever you do...                 > Crash a wedding. You are not
       | a nuisance; you are the celebrity guest!
       | 
       | I stopped reading here. PLEASE don't do this. It's extremely
       | disrespectful.
        
       | antiquark wrote:
       | Am I the "odd man out" for not wanting to travel, and not
       | enjoying it when I do?
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Almost certainly not. I used to work with someone who had to be
         | practically strong-armed into working down his vacation days
         | because he didn't like traveling and, aside from a couple of
         | local-ish hobbies, got bored sitting around home.
         | 
         | I probably got a bit over my travel comfort limit for a while
         | hitting about 160 days/year at peak (including vacation) but I
         | certainly wouldn't criticize anyone for whom that's not their
         | thing.
        
       | lawgimenez wrote:
       | Anyone got tips when traveling with kids?
        
         | datameta wrote:
         | I would imagine that is practically a separate category of tips
        
         | mvdtnz wrote:
         | Don't.
        
       | Gud wrote:
       | I travel 300+ days a year for work. For two years I didn't have a
       | place to live because I was traveling so much. I've been doing
       | this for 7 years now.
       | 
       | 1) use uber, unless public transport works well(Nordic countries,
       | Switzerland).
       | 
       | 2) lock everything expensive up in the hotel safety box,
       | otherwise eventually your shit will get stolen
       | 
       | 3) have multiple methods of payment with you, leave one on the
       | hotel.
       | 
       | 4) I travel mostly with my wife who does not travel light. Most
       | of the advice in the linked article is really general lifestyle
       | advice. I have 100 kilos of luggage in my hotel apartment. If
       | there's a will, there is a way.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | >lock everything expensive up in the hotel safety box,
         | otherwise eventually your shit will get stolen
         | 
         | Depending upon where I am, I have mixed feelings about this. In
         | many hundreds of days of travel, I guess I've been lucky enough
         | not to have valuables stolen, but then I take some care not to
         | leave them in plain sight. On the other hand, I'm positive I
         | would forget something in a hotel safe as I have in a hotel
         | closet.
        
       | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
       | I've been travelling the world most of my life. I think I can at
       | least partially attribute my survival thus far to never having
       | asked a taxi driver if I can meet his mother.
        
       | alistairSH wrote:
       | I'd add... - Learn to travel light. You don't need more than ~4
       | days of clothes - laundry soap exists. Dragging large rollers
       | around old cities is not fun.
       | 
       | - Checklists for prep. I have one for plane travel, one for
       | backpacking, and one for travel by RV. Nothing unexpected on any
       | them, but helps me avoid asking myself "did I pack the phone
       | charger?" Or "do I have sunscreen?"
       | 
       | - Give yourself options - I like to list out things to do, maybe
       | 4-5 for a location/day, but only really plan to do 2-3 of them.
       | 
       | - The old adage about no bad weather, only bad clothing is true.
       | And the natural light after an evening rain is usually really
       | nice.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Especially for mostly casual city-type stuff, you don't need a
         | lot and it can be washed in a sink or whatever. Stuff getting
         | really muddy on hiking trails gets harder but you can often get
         | laundry done. (My last long distance walk in the UK I had
         | laundry done a couple of times.)
         | 
         | Where it gets harder is when you need different type of
         | clothing (especially bulkier clothing) for different legs of a
         | trip.
        
       | jeffrallen wrote:
       | Tip: your passport does not exist the morning of a trip, even
       | though you packed it the night before. Touch it before leaving
       | the house, and you manifest it into being.
       | 
       | This tip is especially important when coupled with another thing
       | I always say: as long ans I have my passport and a credit card,
       | every other forgotten thing is no big deal.
        
       | ferngreen wrote:
       | Say my good man! Why don't we visit your mother? We can secure a
       | filial obligation for you and an authentic experience for me! By
       | the way, is your sister getting married anytime soon? I have a
       | small cash token to offer in this regard, I think it will be most
       | welcome!
        
         | venturator wrote:
         | No kidding. The undercurrent of colonialism -- this exotic
         | world is made for my conquest! - feels pervasive and somewhat
         | nauseating as described here.
         | 
         | Western obsession with travel leads to overtourism and a
         | fixation on "novelty". There's nothing wrong with a relaxing
         | vacation but we must all learn to be content with our day to
         | day existence to unlock true happiness.
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | My version of his advice would be "if a stranger invites you
           | to a party, don't turn them down."
           | 
           | Also, your comment reminds me of this classic SNL skit:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbwlC2B-BIg
           | 
           | "If you're sad now, and you get on a plane to Italy, the
           | 'you' in Italy will still be the same sad you from before!
           | Does that make sense?"
        
             | decimalenough wrote:
             | "People travel to change themselves, but they only change
             | the scenery."
        
       | titanomachy wrote:
       | > In 53 years of travelling with all kinds of people, I've seen
       | absolutely no correlation between where you eat and whether you
       | have intestinal problems, so to maximize the enjoyment of local
       | foods, my rule of thumb is to eat wherever healthy-looking locals
       | eat.
       | 
       | An interesting one. Tracks with my experience, although I have
       | far less data. I've gotten sick a few times, but not after the
       | sketchy meals that I thought would do it.
       | 
       | However, my guide in Nepal warned me not to eat certain things. I
       | always listened to him, and I did not get sick on that trip. He
       | seemed to be speaking from experience guiding other white people.
        
       | Ekaros wrote:
       | These are very good tips to do just before or just after your
       | trip. Or why not even following weekend:
       | 
       | > If you hire a driver, or use a taxi, offer to pay the driver to
       | take you to visit their mother.
       | 
       | > Crash a wedding. You are not a nuisance; you are the celebrity
       | guest!
       | 
       | The first one specially is likely good option after you leave the
       | airport on the way home. And the second one is good practise to
       | do when you are not on vacation. Find the wedding venues in your
       | local area and hit them.
        
       | gk1 wrote:
       | Fantastic list. Brings back many memories.
       | 
       | Regarding the "recharge" vs "engage" trips: If you're restless
       | like me then you'll probably feel most recharged after a trip
       | that fully engaged you. Because you can't think about work when
       | you're busy navigating your way through a rural and foreign land,
       | speaking with strangers, and straining to learn just enough of a
       | new language to get around.
       | 
       | The "laser-back" tip is 100% on point. I came to know this
       | intuitively but I've never seen it put into words. One caveat I'd
       | add there is: if it takes >20 hours to get to your first
       | destination, give yourself time and permission to just chill on
       | the first full day there.
       | 
       | Also I want to strongly endorse the "carry-on only" tip. More
       | than that, I suggest backpack only. Your options and
       | opportunities for spontaneity increase significantly when you can
       | just swing a backpack ever your shoulder and go. It also forces
       | you to live with less, at least for a time, which in turn teaches
       | you that actually you don't need all that much to get by. Then
       | you return home and question why you need a closet full of
       | clothes.
        
       | hujun wrote:
       | one tip of the list I can't agree more is the www.seat61.com for
       | train ticket, especially if you travel in Europe, where train is
       | the most convenient way to travel between cities/nations but man
       | is it such complex system, there are so many different rail
       | companies and lines, this website gives a clear instruction on
       | options, price and where to buy the ticket
        
       | cadamsdotcom wrote:
       | So many people got enraged enough about one or two tips to
       | comment on them, to the exclusion of all else.
       | 
       | Do yourself a favor.
       | 
       | Copy paste the article's text to somewhere you can edit.
       | 
       | Delete the tips you don't agree with.
       | 
       | Read the article without them.
       | 
       | Now take note of what you do notice.
        
       | werealldevo wrote:
       | Plenty of great advice that, in its essence, is: "Be water, my
       | friend."
        
       | mvdtnz wrote:
       | > If you hire a driver, or use a taxi, offer to pay the driver to
       | take you to visit their mother. They will ordinarily jump at the
       | chance. They fulfill their filial duty and you will get easy
       | entry into a local's home, and a very high chance to taste some
       | home cooking. Mother, driver, and you leave happy. This trick
       | rarely fails.
       | 
       | Wow. What a creep. No thank you.
       | 
       | > When visiting a foreign city for the first time, take a street
       | food tour. Depending on the region, the tour will include food
       | carts, food trucks, food courts, or smaller eateries. It will
       | last a few hours, and the cost will include the food. You'll get
       | some of the best food available, and usually the host will also
       | deliver a great introduction to the culture. Google "street food
       | tour for city X."
       | 
       | No, you will get the mid eateries that pay tour guides to bring
       | tourists. They pay tour guides because the locals know not to go
       | there.
        
       | QuiEgo wrote:
       | I would add: learn how to say at least "hello," and "thank you"
       | in the local language, and a few other phrases. Even if you
       | butcher it, the fact that you tried goes a long long way.
        
       | vitaflo wrote:
       | The "14 days is too many" rings true in my mind. My wife and I
       | did a 2 month road trip several years ago and I distinctly
       | remember around the two week mark we went from having tons of fun
       | to worn out and ready to just go home.
       | 
       | The weird part is as we pressed on and got past week 3 I felt
       | like we could be on the road indefinitely and be absolutely happy
       | never returning home. There is def a lull around the end of week
       | 2 for some reason.
        
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