[HN Gopher] Apple Invites
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       Apple Invites
        
       Author : openchampagne
       Score  : 242 points
       Date   : 2025-02-04 16:21 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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 (TXT) w3m dump (www.apple.com)
        
       | sjacob wrote:
       | Looks like an Apple version of Partiful?
        
         | sergiomattei wrote:
         | Exactly what it is.
        
         | I_ wrote:
         | Was about to say this. Though less useful, because Partiful
         | doesn't require an app so can be used by anyone.
         | 
         | I wonder how much the network effect may be leveraged for apps
         | like these, to the benefit or detriment of apps like Partiful
         | in comparison with Invites.
         | 
         | I know Facebook's last useful feature appears to be events in
         | many circles.
        
           | killerdhmo wrote:
           | Apple Invites can be used on the web.
           | https://www.icloud.com/invites/
        
         | yread wrote:
         | WTF is this? How do they make money? They have picture of 10+
         | people as a "team", on their help page
         | 
         | https://help.partiful.com/hc/en-us/articles/26526557943067-H...
         | 
         | it just says "We offer party add-ons and merch on our online
         | store!"
         | 
         | Their online store has like 2 tshirts, stickers, sun glasses
         | and a bag?!
        
           | kube-system wrote:
           | They probably don't make much money. Their wikipedia page
           | says they got $20m series A funding.
        
           | rafram wrote:
           | It's... unclear. Right now their stated business model is
           | explicitly to burn VC cash:
           | https://x.com/partiful/status/1620481353396658176
        
           | kyletns wrote:
           | VC for now, offer ticketing with a fee later.
        
             | freedomben wrote:
             | That's actually an interesting plan! That totally might
             | work
        
       | dogman123 wrote:
       | RIP Partiful
        
         | openchampagne wrote:
         | Well, Partiful is free, available on Android, and doesn't
         | require an iPhone or iCloud+ subscription to use. In contrast,
         | this seems more exclusive. For now, Partiful lives to fight
         | another day.
        
           | darknavi wrote:
           | Hoping they can figure out a funding model before this space
           | becomes very crowded with many people ditching Facebook.
        
             | billbrown wrote:
             | They have! https://help.partiful.com/hc/en-
             | us/articles/26526557943067-H...
        
           | scarface_74 wrote:
           | And also doesn't make enough money to be sustainable...
        
       | anotherhue wrote:
       | > Creation of invitations requires an iCloud+ subscription.
        
         | nitinreddy88 wrote:
         | This is first thing I noticed and Uninstalled
        
           | kylebenzle wrote:
           | But think of the status symbolism! To know that someone has
           | had to spend so much $$$ just to send you a message! Next
           | they should do it for phone calls too!
        
             | nozzlegear wrote:
             | Do you really think status symbolism is what they were
             | going for when the cheapest iCloud+ plan is $0.99 USD per
             | month?
        
       | ARandomerDude wrote:
       | > Anyone can reply to invitations. Creation of invitations
       | requires an iCloud+ subscription.
        
         | cglan wrote:
         | DOA
        
           | kylebenzle wrote:
           | I think its great this is an "Apple only" thing. People
           | willing to pay extra $$$ for a status symbol should stick
           | together.
        
             | crossroadsguy wrote:
             | Status symbol? Here's my take on it - iPhone is dozen a
             | dime here in my country now (3rd world) but iCloud,
             | iMessage are not. iCloud+ is definitely not. People are
             | used to WhatsApp here (just to take an example of messaging
             | apps) and even if they ever stumble upon iMessage they
             | immediately see what a decidedly inferior and opaque oddity
             | that thing is.
        
             | nozzlegear wrote:
             | It's literally $0.99/month in the US for the cheapest
             | iCloud+ plan. That's not much of a status symbol.
             | 
             | Source: https://support.apple.com/en-us/108047
        
           | darknavi wrote:
           | I'm surprised more people here don't pay for iCloud for at
           | least the bottom tier storage (50GB). The free 5GB is almost
           | worthless in 2025 for doing nightly backups. I don't back up
           | with Apple Photos but even with "just" app data my nightly
           | auto backups are like 10-15GB.
        
             | crossroadsguy wrote:
             | Even on iPhone there are much better and much cheaper
             | solutions out there (not to mention cross platform) and
             | those have everything a couple of times better than
             | Photos.app and then a bit more. Maybe except Apple's troupe
             | of privacy claims.
        
               | scarface_74 wrote:
               | Can I use these more and better alternatives to back up
               | everything on all of my iOS devices?
        
               | willseth wrote:
               | Like what? I use Backblaze B2 to backup all my non-Apple
               | stuff and that's $6/TB/mo. iCloud's 2TB plan is $10/mo,
               | so actually cheaper per TB, but with Backblaze you only
               | pay for what you use so it may be cheaper. But pricing is
               | pretty comparable, and I can't even imagine what a PITA
               | it would be to use B2 for Apple stuff, so certainly seems
               | like a good value. Are you saying there are even cheaper
               | solutions that also have good Apple integration?
        
         | r00fus wrote:
         | That's their beta group before releasing it to all for iOS (and
         | possibly Android later on).
        
           | pseudalopex wrote:
           | Where did they say this?
        
       | king_magic wrote:
       | ctrl-f "android", expected result
        
         | tssva wrote:
         | "anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple
         | Account or Apple device." It's in the 1st paragraph.
        
       | anotherhue wrote:
       | > Creation of invitations requires an iCloud+ subscription.
        
         | ZeroCool2u wrote:
         | Maybe it's just me, but seems a bit extreme for what amounts to
         | a fancy calendar invite.
        
           | turnsout wrote:
           | What's really extreme is that you need an iCloud+
           | subscription if you want more than 5GB of iCloud storage...
           | so requiring the subscription for this app is not much of a
           | hurdle
        
           | r00fus wrote:
           | Honestly I think it's still a large enough market to get
           | traction. They can always open it up further if it really
           | catches on.
        
           | turtlebits wrote:
           | Extreme? A subscription costs $1/mo and includes other
           | features.
        
             | RIMR wrote:
             | >other features
             | 
             | Yeah, for people who own Apple hardware...
        
               | turtlebits wrote:
               | Of the 12 services/apps that show up in the iCloud web
               | UI, only "Find My" isn't usable without Apple hardware.
        
         | microflash wrote:
         | Yeah, that's a dealbreaker right there. On a positive note,
         | hopefully, this will be enough impedance to prevent widespread
         | adoption in my social circle.
        
         | ggm wrote:
         | the iBrand hasn't done a good job of explaining that no apple
         | hardware product has to be bought, to sign up to this cloud.
         | 
         | In some ways, "Cloud, by Apple" would have been better because
         | it could have had a subsidiary tagline 'open to anyone' -where
         | iPhone, iPad are pretty solidly walled garden devices.
         | 
         | I'm not in marketing. I am sure smart marketing people would
         | point out downsides. I just think iCloud "says" -not for me,
         | unless I have an iPhone.
        
       | jppope wrote:
       | correct me if I'm wrong but this used to be a main feature of
       | facebook. Are they starting to compete?
        
         | punnerud wrote:
         | A lot of people are not using Facebook, so it's easier to use
         | custom tools that only require a browser and send SMS/e-mail
         | for alerts.
         | 
         | Some of them have Facebook, but turned off all notifications
         | and never check for updates. So they can be counted as not
         | having it.
        
       | ddalex wrote:
       | Somebody reinvented the calendar ?
        
         | kube-system wrote:
         | If it's like Partiful, which it looks like it is, it simplifies
         | the management of events a lot more than just being a calendar.
         | Partiful helps to find a time for an event that works for
         | everyone, automates reminders, RSVPs for >1 person, and also
         | allows the organizer to send messages to attendees without
         | creating some big group thread that turns into a mess.
        
       | sebmellen wrote:
       | After spending $49 on a crappy baby shower invite sending tool
       | I'm glad to hear this. Could save a lot of people a lot of money!
       | Hopefully it works for non Apple users too.
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | The organizing people ecosystem is a mess. It's nice to see
         | something new.
        
         | KolmogorovComp wrote:
         | What's missing when sending invites via mail, or a message on a
         | social media they're in?
        
           | xcrjm wrote:
           | You need to know your friends' addresses for mail. For both,
           | you have to send out invites individually. People want to
           | make a list of names and phone numbers and send out a blast.
           | They then want a low-effort, centralized place to receive and
           | manage RSVPs.
        
       | cptcobalt wrote:
       | This era of new experimental apps from Apple (Invites, Journal,
       | Sports) has me excited about the future of app design. Vibrant
       | colors, bold personality-driven typography, etc. The SwiftUI
       | style onboarding screen that features the carousel is really fun.
       | This approach feels very Apple'y, but gives me more freedom to
       | explore designs for my own app to have its own unique voice on
       | iOS, while still feeling in-family with Apple's other more
       | experimental UI.
       | 
       | There are a few misses.
       | 
       | - I already declined a friend's invite, but that doesn't get auto
       | filtered away, so my "decline" is still the primary thing the app
       | has to show me. It's still my only invite, so maybe it gets
       | filtered to the back of the card stack if there are multiple?
       | 
       | - I also don't seem to be able to see friends I know who were
       | invited to the party (but have not yet responded). Perhaps it was
       | because it was shared as an invite URL in a group chat rather
       | than manually inviting everyone?
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | It might be thought of as a bug but I love that the Apple
         | Sports app announces scores for a live game before it hits TV.
         | 
         | In this day and age of everyone multitasking ... that's a hell
         | of a great feature to be able to say "guys look!".
         | 
         | For a while I was amazing my kids predicting touchdowns, but
         | they caught on ;)
        
           | cptcobalt wrote:
           | Less latency is a _feature_ , not a bug. We've just grown too
           | used to latency in everything we use.
        
             | dylan604 wrote:
             | The lag between OTA broadcast and cable/streaming is
             | insanely bad. We had several screens tuned in to World Cup,
             | and the group watching the OTA broadcast would cheer 15-20
             | seconds before the cable/streaming screens would. Knowing
             | it exists is one thing, but seeing it in that manner puts
             | it on a whole other level
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | Why does it matter that information from a sports event
               | _that you are 1000 miles away from_ gets to you 3 seconds
               | later?
               | 
               | Why do you care? Why is it a negative?
        
               | songshu wrote:
               | 3 seconds would not matter to me. As it is, latencies are
               | much higher and afford time for my family group chat
               | (WhatsApp) to "spoil" events that I have not yet seen. I
               | don't want to ignore the chat. :(
        
         | Invictus0 wrote:
         | The journal app is freaking garbage. It took 2 major iOS
         | versions before they added the ability to export your notes!
        
       | p410n3 wrote:
       | So since RCS is now here, Apple needed a new way to force people
       | into buying iPhones by direct social pressure from peers.
       | 
       | (In the US)
        
         | nozzlegear wrote:
         | From the FAQ1:
         | 
         | > _Do invitees need to have an Apple device with the app to
         | attend an event?_
         | 
         | > Apple Invites is for everyone. Guests don't need the app, an
         | Apple device, or an account to RSVP to an event.
         | 
         | 1 www.icloud.com/invites
        
       | h1fra wrote:
       | yes, please one more reason to delete facebook
        
       | koalalorenzo wrote:
       | I really needed this, I have not used Facebook Events in a while
       | though that is the only way to easily engage and plan: the "ease
       | of use" (as lazyness of not having to deal with many other
       | issues) is way better than Calendar invites.
       | 
       | I'll try to use it on my next event with my friends, as I am
       | avoiding as much as I can Meta, and Calendar / ical are not the
       | best to deal with this kind of event! :)
        
         | DashAnimal wrote:
         | Why not Partiful? It's already widely adopted, has all the
         | features you need, isn't owned by a big tech company, doesn't
         | require an account, and is multiplatform.
         | 
         | Signed, an Android user
        
           | cglan wrote:
           | everyone I know uses partiful for events these days
        
             | scarface_74 wrote:
             | Maybe you should get out of your bubble...
        
               | kyletns wrote:
               | Maybe you should get more invites
        
               | scarface_74 wrote:
               | How many people do you think really use it?
        
           | rconti wrote:
           | The thread on Apple Invites is the first time I'm hearing of
           | Partiful, and I suspect that's the case for many here.
        
           | scarface_74 wrote:
           | How long do you think a money losing startup will be around
           | before you read about "our amazing journey"?
        
       | morsecodist wrote:
       | Unfortunately, I have to hope this doesn't see widespread
       | adoption. If this becomes the standard it will just add to
       | already existing social pressure to get an iPhone in the US.
        
         | xattt wrote:
         | That's the point: get an iPhone or be left out. But don't
         | worry, there will be a web version...
        
         | kingnothing wrote:
         | > anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple
         | Account or Apple device.
        
         | pulisse wrote:
         | > anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple
         | Account or Apple device.
        
           | frereubu wrote:
           | But no-one without an Apple Account can create them - you can
           | only respond to Apple-having friends. There is social
           | pressure in that too.
        
             | EA-3167 wrote:
             | A company creating a useful tool that encourages people to
             | buy their product is incredibly boring, typical, and not at
             | all controversial until it's Apple doing it.
        
               | unethical_ban wrote:
               | It may have something to do with the duopolistic nature
               | of mobile phones and the absolute size and dominance of
               | Apple.
        
               | EA-3167 wrote:
               | I suspect it has a lot more to do with the concentration
               | of mobile devs and FOSS types here, along with people who
               | really can't understand that not everyone wants their
               | phone to be something other than "Working out of the
               | box."
        
               | freedomben wrote:
               | Ah yes the classic false dichotomy, that it either has to
               | be closed/proprietary/locked down and "just works" or it
               | can be open but unusable. In reality the two are
               | completely orthogonal. There's nothing magical about
               | publishing the source that suddenly changes the code or
               | the product and breaks it. If Apple open sourced ever
               | line of code they have tonight, would iPhones suddenly
               | stop working?
        
               | EA-3167 wrote:
               | So, what's stopping you from becoming Apple's
               | competition? If a significant number of people crave your
               | idea of FOSS and you have ideas to make a superior
               | product, I'm sure the market will reward you.
        
               | nickthegreek wrote:
               | Im just excited about a possible alternative to FB for
               | this kinda stuff.
        
             | duxup wrote:
             | If I'm inviting someone and they RSVP, that transaction is
             | successful and done to me.
             | 
             | If they use some other system (and people do) I'll respond
             | via that system.
        
             | WorldMaker wrote:
             | You need a Google Account to use Google Calendar.
             | 
             | Anyone can have an Apple Account whether or not they own an
             | Apple Device.
             | 
             | In this case, too, you can create Invites on icloud.com on
             | non-Apple devices. Including the webpage seems nicely
             | responsive and can probably make them in an Android Chrome
             | tab if you wanted.
             | 
             | The only remaining obstacle is that it isn't a free feature
             | of an Apple Account, but requires an iCloud+ subscription.
             | But that's useful for Apple Music and Apple TV+ and other
             | products, too, many of which work just fine on non-Apple
             | devices as well.
        
               | frereubu wrote:
               | Fair points.
        
           | cosmotic wrote:
           | Non-Apple users cant contribute to the playlist. No mention
           | on the impact to the shared photo album. If its just a normal
           | shared Photos.app album, non-apple users are locked out
           | there, too.
        
             | nickthegreek wrote:
             | Non Apple Music users cant contribute. There are currently
             | around 93 million Apple Music subscribers.
        
           | morsecodist wrote:
           | I think that's preferable to them being totally unable to
           | RSVP but you're still going to be the friend that can't make
           | the invite. It's comparable to iMessage. You can still talk
           | to Android users but it's a notably worse experience.
        
         | ilrwbwrkhv wrote:
         | Social pressures aren't real. I have never ever had a facebook
         | account, instagram account, a linkedin account, an iphone or
         | any other things people fall for.
        
         | ahmeneeroe-v2 wrote:
         | Im literally sick over the thought of the increased social
         | pressure
        
           | xcrjm wrote:
           | Your friends joking with you to get an iPhone is making you
           | sick?
        
           | dlachausse wrote:
           | I mean this completely seriously and as a concerned internet
           | stranger...if that is literally true for you, please go seek
           | mental health services right now. That's not normal or
           | healthy.
           | 
           | All my social circles where we communicate over SMS/RCS group
           | text chats consist of a little gentle ribbing about "those
           | darn green bubble people" and that's about the extent of it.
           | The Android users occasionally respond in kind by showing off
           | some cool new feature that Samsung or Google came up with
           | that Apple hasn't copied yet and everybody laughs it all off.
        
         | sentientslug wrote:
         | To me this argument makes no sense. Apple should never
         | introduce any new features or services to their ecosystem
         | because it might increase "social pressure" to get an iPhone?
        
           | morsecodist wrote:
           | I would say the more a given app/feature has network effects
           | the more invested I am in it being cross-platform. For
           | example, iMessage and Facetime are highly social. Apple was
           | resistant to adopting the RCS protocol for iMessage, though
           | they eventually caved and now the experience of texting
           | between iPhones and Androids is better for both parties so it
           | seems preferable to me.
           | 
           | Meanwhile, we take it for granted that there is a protocol
           | for audio calls and text messages but not for video calls. I
           | would like to more easily video call people with iPhones, and
           | doing so would be technically possible but I can't because
           | Apple benefits from the network effect. If I were to get an
           | iPhone it would not be because Apple did a better job at
           | creating a video call feature, it will be because people I
           | know have iPhones and I want to call them. This seems like it
           | gives incumbents in the space a large advantage because they
           | can compete on having a user base and not on quality.
           | 
           | Ironically, Apple itself developed such a protocol for events
           | and RSVPs (ICS), at a time when they didn't have market
           | dominance. This caught on and it is great. I can make a
           | calendar event in Google Calendar, Outlook, or Apple Calendar
           | and invite anyone from any of those platforms. They can RSVP
           | and I can track their RSVPs and they can also create events
           | in their systems and invite me. This is the kind of thing I
           | like to encourage where possible.
        
             | WorldMaker wrote:
             | Apple Invites does provide ICS files for the events. (In
             | the web version when not logged in to an Apple Account,
             | after RSVPing.)
             | 
             | Technically vCal/iCal/ICS (whichever name you prefer)
             | _doesn 't_ actually support RSVPs. It isn't in the
             | standards documents. In ancient Microsoft nomenclature that
             | pseudo-standard (de facto standard) for RSVPs is the
             | "Schedule+ protocol" named after an ancient dead
             | predecessor to Outlook's Calendar which originated it. I
             | don't know what Google or Apple call it, and it is such a
             | weird dance of (usually) auto-deleted email messages, so
             | certainly has room for improvement as a protocol.
             | 
             | It would be neat to encourage a new "modern" standard
             | there. Seems like something more web-based (JSON REST API?)
             | than email-based might be a more "natural" API today.
             | (Maybe Apple Invite can help lead the way, I don't know if
             | that's on their TODO list.)
        
       | kimi wrote:
       | What's wrong with "create a Whatsapp group and invite all your
       | friends there, and if they don't care they just mute/leave"?
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | For me it would be ... I don't use Whatsapp and I don't know
         | many who do.
         | 
         | Can I send invites from Whatsapp and get responses from people
         | who don't use it?
         | 
         | Honestly I've never received one.
        
           | frizlab wrote:
           | I'm in the EU, don't use whatsapp but know a sh*tton of
           | people around me do. It annoys me greatly and I truly hope
           | I'll be able to move them away little by little now that RCS
           | is here.
        
             | dismalaf wrote:
             | Annoys you why? Signing up just requires a phone number...
             | It's the least invasive of all the social network type
             | things. Also RCS hasn't been widespread until recently,
             | WhatsApp has been around for over a decade.
        
         | ggregoire wrote:
         | they don't use Whatsapp in the US
        
         | parl_match wrote:
         | I don't have Whatsapp, but I do have an iPhone.
        
         | ahmeneeroe-v2 wrote:
         | Americans don't really do whatsapp
        
         | tssva wrote:
         | In the US WhatsApp is not widely used. I technically have an
         | account but never installed the app when I moved to my iPhone.
         | I had it installed for years but never used it on my prior
         | Android phones.
        
         | hombre_fatal wrote:
         | It's worse than first class RSVP. Also where I live, it's a
         | social faux pas to mass invite people to a Whatsapp group as an
         | event invitation for various reasons: it's annoying, it
         | publishes your invite list, and everyone's first impression of
         | your event would be a bunch of people leaving, lol. And you
         | probably don't want a group chat for most events unless it's a
         | group of friends who already knows each other. Nobody does it.
        
         | nickthegreek wrote:
         | Id prefer to cut Meta's social product use in my life to a
         | minimum.
        
         | WorldMaker wrote:
         | Some of the timing of this app seems coincided with something
         | of a large exodus from Meta/Facebook's apps. WhatsApp never
         | quite caught on in the US, but Facebook Events did. (They are
         | both Meta/Facebook apps today. The feature sets are, somewhat
         | similar here.) A lot of my friends have been looking for
         | replacements for Facebook Events, so this is somewhat timely
         | for those that like Apple apps as a replacement.
        
         | rconti wrote:
         | I don't use WhatsApp, though I probably have it installed on my
         | phone.
         | 
         | I'm in a birthday party planning group on Signal, which is
         | another app I hadn't used in years. It's easy to forget I have
         | messages there because it's not on my home screen, or the
         | notification settings are different from my normal Messages
         | app, or I just forget to look.
         | 
         | Each time you use a "different" app for something that's not in
         | your habit loop, your response time gets delayed and you're
         | less likely to notice communications. An app needs to get
         | fairly regular use to become as useful as a primary app, even
         | if, from a technical standpoint, there's nothing wrong with
         | them.
        
           | Zak wrote:
           | I would expect most people to turn on notifications for
           | anything that's reasonably described as a messaging app with
           | similar settings to the ones they're already in the habit of
           | using. Certainly disabling or silencing notifications would
           | make it less useful.
        
         | scarface_74 wrote:
         | WhatsApp is not that popular in the US - especially for adults
        
       | jbentley1 wrote:
       | Unless they add some basic functionality to include Android
       | users, this is the evilest use of their walled garden yet.
        
         | kube-system wrote:
         | From the third sentence of TFA:
         | 
         | > anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple
         | Account or Apple device.
        
           | probably_wrong wrote:
           | The article also says "collaborative playlists allow Apple
           | Music subscribers to create a curated event soundtrack" so
           | there's clearly a subset of functionality that's only
           | available for certain users. There's "integration with Maps
           | and Weather", but how does that look like in Android? Can I
           | still "contribute to Shared Albums"?
        
             | killerdhmo wrote:
             | Shared Albums, Apple Web, are all available on the web.
        
         | kingnothing wrote:
         | > anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple
         | Account or Apple device.
        
           | silisili wrote:
           | I'm skeptical of the implementation, given iMessage. I'm sure
           | Android users RSVPs will show up in a green toxic fume cloud
           | or some such.
        
             | furyofantares wrote:
             | Did you know that in iMessage, Android user texts are the
             | same color as iOS user messages? It's true.
             | 
             | As the iOS user, it is your own messages that are green or
             | blue depending on whether it was sent using iMessage or
             | SMS. It's useful feedback about whether your message was
             | sent on a reliable channel.
             | 
             | I know it became a whole thing and that Apple has allowed
             | it to remain as such. But it's not really an apt analogy.
        
               | saagarjha wrote:
               | Do you not view RCS as being a reliable channel?
        
         | ahmeneeroe-v2 wrote:
         | The EU needs to regulate this
        
           | duxup wrote:
           | They don't need to because you can RSVP from an Android
           | device.
        
           | xcrjm wrote:
           | They don't need to. Android users can do the most important
           | thing advertised here (RSVP) without the app or an iPhone.
           | Also, hopefully the EU has better things to do than
           | constantly force Apple to support Android users (for free!)
           | at the same level of quality as their own customers.
        
           | cpach wrote:
           | Do you really think so? I'm wary of walled gardens but as an
           | EU citizen I think that we in the EU should try to innovate
           | more and be more mindful of what regulations we put in place.
        
         | lynndotpy wrote:
         | They also seem to have a web-only version too, but it requires
         | an Apple account. Refreshing coming from Apple.
        
           | dlachausse wrote:
           | In Apple's defense, they tend to have web versions of most of
           | their iCloud services. They even recently released a web
           | version of Apple Maps.
        
         | dlachausse wrote:
         | What's preventing Google from competing and making their own
         | better version of this? I don't see where there's anything that
         | Apple is doing here that couldn't be easily replicated by them
         | using their own ecosystem.
        
           | tonyedgecombe wrote:
           | Google would stuff it full of adverts and tracking. For that
           | reason it wouldn't be better.
        
             | dlachausse wrote:
             | That's not Apple's fault.
        
             | thewebguyd wrote:
             | Don't forget rename it a few times, add a messenger into
             | it, then kill it.
        
           | deelowe wrote:
           | I'm not a fan of either doing this. I'm watching all open
           | protocols slowly disappear and it's killing innovation in the
           | industry.
        
           | vzaliva wrote:
           | then we will have 2 incompativle invite systems: form Apple
           | and from Google.
           | 
           | The correct way to do this is to publish an open standard/API
           | so 3rd parties can participate.
        
           | paradox460 wrote:
           | They did, a decade ago. Google Plus invites had all these
           | features and more, and Google decided to kill them off, in
           | the usual fashion
        
           | baggachipz wrote:
           | Google Invites: Invite your friends!
           | 
           | Google Invites is being discontinued.
           | 
           | Google Party: Invite your friends!
           | 
           | Google Party is being discontinued.
           | 
           | Google Gathering: Invite your friends!
           | 
           | Google Gathering is being discontinued.
        
         | turtlebits wrote:
         | You can generate a link to e-mail to anyone, which opens up a
         | web page which you can RSVP from.
        
           | nimz wrote:
           | I tested it with a sample event and I don't see any way to
           | RSVP without logging into an Apple account. Maybe I'm missing
           | something?
        
             | blueelephanttea wrote:
             | > I tested it with a sample event and I don't see any way
             | to RSVP without logging into an Apple account. Maybe I'm
             | missing something?
             | 
             | You are. I explicitly created a burner email and invited it
             | to an event.
             | 
             | When I navigated from the invite email I was prompted to
             | sign in which I declined. It then allowed me to join the
             | event after I confirmed with an emailed code.
             | 
             | On joining the event I was able to set my name and send a
             | note.
        
               | nimz wrote:
               | The way I tested it was to create Share link, then
               | navigate to it in an incognito window on Desktop and try
               | to RSVP. I am still unable RSVP without login. Perhaps it
               | works without login if you explicitly invite a certain
               | email.
        
         | hk1337 wrote:
         | That's a very pessimistic way to bring that up.
         | 
         | I was thinking similar, except, "I wonder how this works with
         | non-Apple users?". Instead of jumping straight to how evil this
         | is.
        
         | mvieira38 wrote:
         | Imagine being a teen with an Android in the Apple Invite age,
         | the bullying will go crazy
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | The whole green bubble thing has got to be one of the
           | stupidest status symbol things I've seen in a long time.
           | Though I have no doubt there are many of them. If anything,
           | it's maybe a good life lesson that many supposed status
           | symbols are breathtakingly stupid to care about.
        
             | mrguyorama wrote:
             | >some supposed status symbols are breathtakingly stupid to
             | care about.
             | 
             | All status symbols are stupid, that's part of the point.
             | That has never mattered. It doesn't matter how stupid a
             | symbol is, it can still have tangible effects on you and
             | your life.
             | 
             | Humans are social animals first and foremost, and are not
             | rational in any way. Tribalism is literally the point.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | You're not entirely wrong but also not my nor Apple's
               | problem. Things like universities can be status symbols
               | but they're mostly not entirely status symbols. Plenty of
               | other things like that too.
               | 
               | But if it's not bubble color, it will be the type of
               | sneakers kids wear or whatever else is the fashion of the
               | moment.
        
       | probably_wrong wrote:
       | Does anyone know how this interacts with guests using Android?
       | All I see is "anyone is able to respond" but that was already
       | possible with _literally_ anything else.
        
         | dqv wrote:
         | They use a web link.
        
         | openchampagne wrote:
         | "iCloud+ subscribers can create invitations, and anyone can
         | RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple Account or Apple
         | device"
         | 
         | & When I create an Event in the app i see the ability to share
         | via a Public Link, Mail, & Messages
        
           | probably_wrong wrote:
           | RSVPing is clearly accessible to everyone, but how about all
           | the other features? Namely, the "integration with Maps and
           | Weather" and "contribute to Shared Albums". I already know I
           | can only contribute to the "curated event soundtrack" if I
           | have an Apple Music subscription, but those other ones are
           | still unclear.
        
       | roddylindsay wrote:
       | Brilliant move.
       | 
       | The transition of the major social networks over the last 10-15
       | years -- from being a space for friends to interact to being a
       | space to consume content produced by "unconnected" entities like
       | influencers -- has created a huge opening for someone to claim
       | the friends and family network. There is no one better positioned
       | (at least in the U.S. where iPhones are the majority handset)
       | than Apple.
        
         | aaronblohowiak wrote:
         | Group texts and shared albums (iPhoto or Google photo if you
         | have androids in the mix) are most of my social interaction
         | already..
        
           | mikepurvis wrote:
           | This is what it's been for me as well, for several years--
           | all meaningful friend-group interactions are now taking place
           | in group chats, sadly this is entirely in Whatsapp and FB
           | Messenger for me; would love if there was a reasonable
           | migration path to getting these interactions entirely off of
           | Meta properties.
        
         | RIMR wrote:
         | The problem is that by vendor-locking these services to Apple
         | users, they create an environment that alienates non-Apple
         | users. If they want to truly claim the friends & family
         | network, they need to remember that everyone has friends &
         | family that aren't in the Apple ecosystem.
         | 
         | So long as Facebook remains available to everyone, even if the
         | content feed is a mess, the event planning space is going to be
         | more accessible to everyone and will end up being the defacto
         | friends & family ecosystem.
         | 
         | I'm not an iCloud+ member, so I can't go in an look for myself,
         | but ideally this would be just a fancy way of extending your
         | iCloud Calendar invites where Gmail, Outlook, etc. users can
         | still create events and invite people in roughly the same way.
         | If as a Linux & Android user I am only able to RSVP to Apple
         | users' invites, but I am never able to invite them to anything
         | myself, then I literally cannot embrace this product without
         | investing considerable money into their hardware, which I am
         | not going to do.
         | 
         | Hell, if they featureset was compelling enough, and they had an
         | iCloud app for non-Apple hardware platforms, I might actually
         | consider being an iCloud+ member, but I guess it's not worth it
         | to Apple to collect a monthly payment from me if I won't make
         | the downpayment on an iPhone and a Macbook...
        
           | blueelephanttea wrote:
           | > Hell, if they featureset was compelling enough, and they
           | had an iCloud app for non-Apple hardware platforms, I might
           | actually consider being an iCloud+ member, but I guess it's
           | not worth it to Apple to collect a monthly payment from me if
           | I won't make the downpayment on an iPhone and a Macbook...
           | 
           | You can create events from the web iCloud interface without
           | an Apple device.
        
           | mewse-hn wrote:
           | > So long as Facebook remains available to everyone, even if
           | the content feed is a mess, the event planning space is going
           | to be more accessible to everyone and will end up being the
           | defacto friends & family ecosystem.
           | 
           | For now. We're in the process of seeing Twitter die like
           | every other social network has died before it, Facebook will
           | have it's time as well.
        
             | RIMR wrote:
             | Undoubtedly. I agree 100%. I still think that Apple needs
             | to consider how accessible Facebook is/was if they want to
             | produce a product capable of replacing any part of it.
        
           | dialup_sounds wrote:
           | I'm not convinced they're leaving a lot of money on the table
           | by pitching a free app at a billion iPhone users vs. the
           | famously lucrative Linux desktop market.
        
           | Workaccount2 wrote:
           | >If they want to truly claim the friends & family network,
           | they need to remember that everyone has friends & family that
           | aren't in the Apple ecosystem.
           | 
           | They are completely aware of it an actively leverage it to
           | use your friends and family against you to force you into
           | Apple's ecosystem. It's the main reason why Android will have
           | to get pretty bad before I bend to such incredibly dirty
           | tactics.
        
         | distantsounds wrote:
         | Brilliant? Launching an app for creating events that requires
         | you to 1) own an iDevice and 2) pay into, just to create
         | events?
         | 
         | I'll send an email for free, thankyouverymuch.
        
           | sylens wrote:
           | While I agree with your points in principle, the paywall may
           | act as a way for them to handle spam/misuse more effectively
        
           | stronglikedan wrote:
           | This obviously offers more than just sending an email. And
           | since the majority of Apple users aren't very tech savvy, I
           | can see this catching on quickly.
        
           | blueelephanttea wrote:
           | > 1) own an iDevice
           | 
           | You do not need to own an Apple device to either create
           | events or join events.
           | 
           | > I'll send an email for free, thankyouverymuch.
           | 
           | This seems fine! There are open protocols (email, ics) if
           | they work for you, but Apple specifically developed this in a
           | way to neither require an Apple device or Apple Account to
           | interact. Which is better than some of the competitors!
           | (Facebook and Google tend to create social tools which
           | explicitly require everyone to have accounts.)
        
             | pphysch wrote:
             | The first line of their press release:
             | 
             | > Apple today introduced Apple Invites, a new app for
             | iPhone
             | 
             | If Android users have to login to a website to use this,
             | what's the appeal? There are hundreds of simple
             | meeting/event webapps out there, many not even requiring
             | authentication.
        
               | blueelephanttea wrote:
               | > If Android users have to login to a website to use
               | this, what's the appeal?
               | 
               | I'm not trying to convince you or anyone else to use
               | this. It just was pointing out you don't need Apple
               | accounts or devices to participate opposed to something
               | like Facebook events.
               | 
               | > There are hundreds of simple meeting/event webapps out
               | there
               | 
               | Okay? Go crazy using those! But don't claim that this
               | requires an Apple device to create or join events (like
               | the OP I was responding to). And don't claim that this
               | requires an Apple Account to join events (like many other
               | commentators are).
        
             | matsemann wrote:
             | > _You do not need to own an Apple device to either create
             | events_
             | 
             | You need an "iCloud+" account to create, though. Which I as
             | a non-apple user have no idea what is, and probably is
             | useless for me to pay for not using anything apple
             | beforehand.
        
               | stevage wrote:
               | I use a MacBook and I swear this is the first time I have
               | heard of iCloud+.
        
               | kmeisthax wrote:
               | If you're paying for more iCloud storage, you have
               | iCloud+.
        
         | pkamb wrote:
         | I think Apple already _has_ claimed the  "friends and family
         | network" via iMessage. Did Facebook go to a groups/influencer
         | algorithm by choice or is it the result of IRL friend posters
         | all moving to private chats once everyone got iPhones?
        
           | john2x wrote:
           | I'm still waiting for iMessage to work with Android phones.
        
             | thesuitonym wrote:
             | iMessage has been compatible with RCS for months now.
        
               | 42772827 wrote:
               | Except if you're on Google Fi, right?
               | 
               | https://isgooglefircsyet.com/
        
               | john2x wrote:
               | A quick search suggests the Android user end needs to
               | install 3rd party apps for it to work? Has that changed
               | recently?
        
               | Melatonic wrote:
               | Usually you actually need to not use third party apps.
               | RCS on Android is usually restricted to Google Messages
               | (or maybe Samsungs built in messages app). Everyone else
               | got the boot
               | 
               | You also sometimes have to enable in the settings for
               | Android Messages (and have a supported carrier). iMessage
               | also has an option to enable RCS but I believe its on by
               | default in the newer versions of iOS
        
           | skissane wrote:
           | > I think Apple already has claimed the "friends and family
           | network" via iMessage.
           | 
           | All the family/friends group chats I am in are WhatsApp.
           | 
           | I use iMessage every day for 1-to-1 messaging but I don't
           | really view it as distinct from SMS.
           | 
           | For international communication, even 1-on-1 tends to be
           | WhatsApp.
        
           | eknkc wrote:
           | Everytime iMessage is mentioned, I do a double take because
           | it is almost non existent here in Turkey. And from what I
           | hear, seems like most Europeans do not use it too.
           | 
           | WhatsApp has like 99.9% market share here and I assume it is
           | a lot bigger than anything else in the EU too.
           | 
           | I wonder why is that though. Everyone around me has an iPhone
           | basically and I haven't received a blue bubble in years. The
           | messages app is not even on my home screen.
        
             | stevage wrote:
             | Can also report WhatsApp has 100% of the backpackers
             | meeting each other market.
        
             | pkamb wrote:
             | As I understand it, many Americans (and all iPhones?) had
             | unlimited-SMS phone plans circa 2009. So the pay-per-
             | message economic conditions that caused many Europeans,
             | etc., to switch to WhatsApp back in the day didn't do
             | anything in the USA.
             | 
             | Then when the same iPhone app seamlessly started sending
             | iMessages (blue bubbles) to other iPhones rather than SMS
             | (green bubbles), people just kept using that.
        
             | brap wrote:
             | Same, I'm not even European, but literally everyone uses
             | WhatsApp for everything where I live, iPhones or not.
             | 
             | The only thing I get in my Messages app is verification
             | codes and spam.
             | 
             | I don't think I got a _single_ SMS /iMessage from a human
             | in the last 5 years.
        
           | stevage wrote:
           | Nobody I know uses iMessage.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | In the US, using iMessage involves flipping a switch in
             | some Messages setting--and everyone I know in the US just
             | texts, except for texting with international folks.
        
               | dboreham wrote:
               | Quick note that I'm in the US and my experience is: most
               | random people use SMS; closer friends and family some use
               | Signal, some Discord, some email; colleagues use Slack;
               | overseas taxi drivers etc. use WhatsApp.
        
               | pkamb wrote:
               | By "use SMS" you surely mean "use iMessage" much of the
               | time.
        
           | Zak wrote:
           | That's only true if everyone in the group has an Apple phone,
           | which has decreasing probability with every additional
           | member. Excluding people from a conversation because they
           | don't have the right brand of phone would be pretty
           | antisocial.
        
             | pkamb wrote:
             | In the USA, someone insisting on using an Android when
             | everyone else in their social circle has an iPhone (and
             | they do!) is what's seen as anti-social. No one wants to
             | use the degraded green bubble SMS experience so they simply
             | exclude the Android user and continue using blue bubble
             | iMessage.
        
               | wrfrmers wrote:
               | I'll do you one better: in this specific situation, the
               | antisocial buck stops at the friend group who doesn't all
               | chip in and buy their Android friend a "keep in touch"
               | iPhone.
               | 
               | But the point remains that a cynical
               | UX/technical/business decision _that does not need to be
               | so_ is rending real relationships between actual people.
               | If Tim Cook had the power to render anyone who didn 't
               | pay him $400+ mute to their friends and family through
               | some sort of black magic, we'd call him a comic book
               | supervillain.
        
               | Zak wrote:
               | It surprises me people who actually have this problem
               | don't just switch to a different messaging app. There are
               | many, and the effort required is minimal.
        
             | crmd wrote:
             | Unfortunately it happens all the time in my friends circle,
             | and it's for technical not anti-social reasons. Group texts
             | that include Android users are so buggy that they tend to
             | die out, whereas iMessage-only groups tend to be long
             | lasting. For this reason we use WhatsApp for the core group
             | chat, but there's still a ton of side-conversations and
             | meme-ing in iMessage groups.
        
             | canucker2016 wrote:
             | Unless you're a teen in the USA.
             | 
             | Non-iPhone users are the minority in this demographic (<=
             | 13%), see my demographic comment elsewhere for this
             | subject.
        
         | cma wrote:
         | Apple and Meta's wet dream is exclusionary friends and family
         | networks tied to their future AR hardware. Half the people at
         | the Christmas party pointing and zooming around an AR globe to
         | talk about their travels and the other half with the wrong
         | brand not able to see anything. Maybe they just place the
         | virtual globe on top of one of them and completely block them
         | out to get more space since they aren't seeming relevant.
        
       | system7rocks wrote:
       | This is small but a cool way to integrate those various features
       | across different apps and services. Like adding the Music
       | playlist is not something I would ever use by my daughter, a
       | teenager, probably would. Cute.
        
       | financetechbro wrote:
       | Separate app download which requires iOS 18. Neat but will be a
       | pass from me
        
       | timewizard wrote:
       | Hallmark cards as an app.
       | 
       | Silicon valley is entirely out of ideas.
        
       | nineplay wrote:
       | I just sent out some invitations with evite and it's one of those
       | 'begging for disruption' applications. Everything about it is
       | unnecessarily difficult and stupid.
        
       | xattt wrote:
       | I am curious about the potential of this app for community
       | organizing, or if any neutering has taken place in the same way
       | AirDrop was limited during Hong Kong protests in 2020.
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | There's little to no magic as far as "this app can't be
         | censored by the local government" goes if we're talking about
         | something offered from a private company.
        
       | cglan wrote:
       | I don't see how this competes with partiful. Feels like it'll be
       | another half baked never updated app from apple. I wish they'd
       | open their apis and integrations more. Feels silly that these
       | apps get first class access to apple apis, meanwhile better made
       | apps are forced to do weird workarounds, or simply have no
       | integrations.
        
         | dewey wrote:
         | It's based on the new GroupKit API, which sounds like something
         | that would be available to other apps in the future. Otherwise
         | it would just use some private API.
        
           | kittikitti wrote:
           | You're being disingenuous, or you're incompetent, if you
           | think Apple isn't going to keep this API in their closed
           | garden.
        
             | dewey wrote:
             | It's not the first time that a new API is used in a first
             | party app and then opened to all developers.
        
         | Invictus0 wrote:
         | They're shipping the org chart: this app is someone's ticket to
         | a promotion.
        
         | nozzlegear wrote:
         | I see this app as more like the Notes, iMessage or Freeform
         | apps. There are tons of apps out there that do XYZ better, but
         | Apple wants to ship a polished version that does 90% of
         | everything the average user needs. It accomplishes three things
         | (in my eyes):
         | 
         | 1. It helps grow Apple's ecosystem by covering just enough
         | ground to make third-party alternatives less necessary for most
         | users.
         | 
         | 2. It reduces one of the major "sticky" points that keep people
         | in Facebook's own moat. Events and Marketplace are the two
         | reasons I still use Facebook.
         | 
         | 3. It encourages competition from the people who want to do
         | that last 10% better than Apple's apps, raising the baseline
         | and hopefully forcing innovation as well. Those apps lead to
         | more App Store revenue, so, cynically, it's a win-win for
         | Apple.
        
       | cleverwebble wrote:
       | I'm in my mid-thirties and most of my friends have ditched
       | Facebook. I didn't really realize this until when I used it to
       | create an event for a house party... I was somewhat surprised
       | that only 2 people out of 15 even saw it. I ended up resorting to
       | good old text message and that worked, but it was tedious. Not
       | sure how popular this will become, but having a social-media-less
       | event invite/broadcasting system would be nice, and having one
       | that most people with an iPhone have access to covers much of my
       | friend base
        
         | crossroadsguy wrote:
         | Here friends just send a message on WhatsApp. I do not know
         | anyone who has hosted a house party of 79800 people so that
         | they are struggling with this. But then again I guess some
         | geographies have it more complicated, isn't it?
        
           | lxgr wrote:
           | A (for most of the world, in any case) possibly surprising
           | fact about the US is that WhatsApp is not very popular there.
           | 
           | This indeed causes problems when wanting to create a quick
           | ad-hoc group for a party invitation etc., if at least one of
           | the invitees is not an iPhone user.
        
             | talldayo wrote:
             | It causes problems if one of the iPhone owners isn't an
             | active iCloud+ subscriber:
             | 
             | > Creation of invitations requires an iCloud+ subscription.
             | 
             | This isn't about making life easier on people, this is
             | about getting you to subscribe to Apple's services for
             | access to a REST API. Apple gets some benefit of the doubt,
             | but this is literally Slop-as-a-Service.
        
               | nozzlegear wrote:
               | I can't tell what you're arguing here - are you
               | misunderstanding what you quoted from the FAQ? Only the
               | person who creates the event needs to have an iCloud+
               | subscription. Everyone else can RSVP to it regardless of
               | whether they have an iCloud+ subscription or even an
               | Apple device at all.
               | 
               | > _Do invitees need to have an Apple device with the app
               | to attend an event?_
               | 
               | > Apple Invites is for everyone. Guests don't need the
               | app, an Apple device, or an account to RSVP to an event.
               | 
               | Source: www.icloud.com/invites
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | The only reason I have WhatsApp is that a couple non-US
             | friends use it from time to time. No one I know in the US
             | does anything other than standard text messaging whether or
             | not it ends up being iMessage.
        
         | ninininino wrote:
         | For people in their early 20s to mid 30s in the NYC area, I'm
         | starting to see mass adoption of an app called Partiful for
         | managing social invites and events, it has a lot of nice
         | features for sending invites, RSVP management, sending text
         | blasts out to attendees (you can schedule reminders the day
         | before or whatever).
        
           | Analemma_ wrote:
           | My social group also uses Partiful. It works great, but it's
           | a little worrying that it's so useful while being free: I
           | can't see how this possibly could make money, so I assume the
           | enshittification is coming any second now.
        
             | bobbylarrybobby wrote:
             | My guess: certain features will just become pro-only
        
             | kyletns wrote:
             | Literally they just need to add ticketing with a small fee.
             | They are sitting on a huge revenue stream they just haven't
             | need to roll out yet.
        
           | wenc wrote:
           | Partiful works but to me it lacks polish. It feels like
           | MySpace when FB first came out.
        
             | npinsker wrote:
             | I'm curious in what way you think so? It's both attractive
             | and easy to use for me.
        
           | Reason077 wrote:
           | In fact, Apple Invites appears to be a direct response to the
           | popularity of Partiful.
        
             | surfpel wrote:
             | My first thought. I'm surprised it's not everyone's first
             | thought. Everyone in the bay that I know uses that for
             | parties. Clearly every tech company is aware off the
             | ubiquity of that app at least
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | And in the Northeast, this is the first time I've even
               | heard of it. (Though I doubt I'm the target market.)
        
             | RRL wrote:
             | Yeah, this is straight up f.lux 2.0 where Apple saw an idea
             | take off, and unlike 'Nightshift' where they connected it
             | to their new 'Health' product to stimulate Apple Watch
             | purchases, they connected Apple Invites to social behaviors
             | to stimulate iMessage and iCloud adoption and revenues.
        
         | Mindwipe wrote:
         | I don't think it's that they've entirely ditched FB, but FB is
         | genuinely terrible at surfacing event invites. It would prefer
         | you to have to scroll through a bunch of irrelevant garbage in
         | your feed that it had "recommended" instead so the product team
         | can high five themselves over badly designed engagement metrics
         | rather than worry if the users don't actively despise their
         | product.
        
         | talldayo wrote:
         | > Not sure how popular this will become
         | 
         | Since Apple was too lazy to make it into a standard, it will
         | probably go the way of App Clips. Niche idea, too few users to
         | adopt it and no stakeholders with enough control to make it
         | popular on other platforms.
        
           | astrange wrote:
           | What would a standard for party invites be?
           | 
           | ics files and CalDAV are sort of an Apple standard.
        
         | anton96 wrote:
         | I'm still on facebook and a lot of my friends still are, the
         | main problem we have with facebook events it that almost no one
         | sees them. This section has been over loaded with suggestions
         | to event you might have no links with of things your remote
         | friends are going to take part of.
        
         | wenc wrote:
         | Platform fragmentation is a generational thing.
         | 
         | I thought email was a common denominator but I learned most
         | people don't check email or check it rarely. So different from
         | the days when everyone had email.
         | 
         | I still use FB and so do many of my friends my age (mid to late
         | 40s). But a bunch have also migrated to Instagram.
         | 
         | Among the younger generation, you're a millennial if you're on
         | instagram because they've moved to TikTok. FB folks are over
         | the hill. There's a generational divide and pride in being
         | trendy.
         | 
         | WhatsApp is only a thing among my international friends -- many
         | Americans don't have it.
         | 
         | The only universal now is text messages but it feels so clunky
         | (even with iMessage).
        
           | tcmart14 wrote:
           | I wonder if it is rooted in similar things though. Right,
           | like with email. People don't really read or check emails
           | because spam became a serious problem. Then with social
           | media, looking at facebook, there is definitely a big
           | different in ad space in facebook between the time I used to
           | use it to now. Where ads have effectively become the "spam"
           | equivalent for social media. Ultimately, did success of these
           | technologies also lead to its demise. Email was so good, so
           | it made sense for a market of spammers. Facebook became a
           | prime place for ads, and as ads become more and more of the
           | platform, people started to consciously or subconsciously
           | step away to other platforms.
        
             | inetknght wrote:
             | I think you've hit the nail on the head of the problem.
             | 
             | A lot of comments online claim that people don't care about
             | spam, or think that advertisements are a good thing for a
             | free service, or at the very least won't change their
             | habits if given an alternative. If that's the case then
             | what's a better explanation for your observations?
             | 
             | I argue that people _do_ care, even if it 's perhaps not
             | expressed in words.
        
               | PaulHoule wrote:
               | A lot of legitimate email (password resets and stuff)
               | gets eaten up by spam filters
        
               | mikeyouse wrote:
               | We have a family email domain for my extended family,
               | administered by a few retired but very tech-savvy
               | relatives (both had long IT careers) and it's roughly
               | 50:50 whether a message sent to everyone@ lastname.com
               | will actually show up in people's inboxes or not. It's
               | probably 75:25 that a reply all to that list will show
               | up, but modern email is a dumpster fire.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | >People don't really read or check emails because spam
             | became a serious problem.
             | 
             | With the tabs in Gmail, very little leaks through to my
             | primary inbox that isn't relatively immediately relevant
             | (and not a lot of mail total). Often don't look at
             | Promotions at all and maybe glance at Updates once a day or
             | so.
             | 
             | Email is useful for me though, yes, a lot of my interaction
             | with my circle of friends is over texts.
        
               | whstl wrote:
               | The problem for me is not so much real spam, this gets
               | filtered. The problem is the massive amount of work
               | required to unsubscribe or clean up automated emails from
               | apps and websites, both transactional and non-
               | transactional.
               | 
               | I know way too many techy and non-techy people who have
               | thousands of unread email messages from those apps.
               | 
               | A lot of people I know don't really answer to real email
               | anymore, unless they know something is coming. It became
               | just something you use to make accounts with.
               | 
               | Even corporate email is dying. 99% of my inbox is
               | transactional emails from SaaS apps and spam from apps I
               | forgot to delete. And 90% of the rest is spam from
               | recruiters or people trying to sell me some product. Only
               | 0.1% is legitimate.
               | 
               | Statistically, email is not for people anymore, period.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Experiences differ. I did go on unsubscribe jags from
               | time to time at my last employer because I ended up on
               | email lists from a lot of events.
               | 
               | But really, I get 5-10 emails a day now in my primary
               | inbox and I don't really have many filters. I DO get a
               | lot in Promotions and Updates, but most of the stuff in
               | Promos I can safely ignore and I mostly keep my eye on
               | Updates if I'm expecting something I might want to deal
               | with there.
               | 
               | Email is still my primary channel for the most part.
        
               | xboxnolifes wrote:
               | There is still a lot of "spam" if you don't spend the
               | effort creating filters or unsubscribing to the new
               | notification list that companies like to make every few
               | months. Hell, my inbox is covered in invoices, receipts,
               | disclosures, required actions, ToS changes, etc., even
               | though I've spent _some_ time setting up filters for some
               | of the common receipts.
        
           | ojhughes wrote:
           | It's interesting that WhatsApp never caught on in the US.
           | It's ubiquitous amongst everyone I know. Android use also
           | seems to be much larger in Europe
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I don't remember the exact timeline but I think SMS became
             | free (bundled with mobile phone plan) in the US before
             | WhatsApp became popular. And most of us don't interact via
             | chat very much internationally. So (probably) most people
             | just default to SMS/iMessage unless there's a reason to do
             | something differently. And even the one person I regularly
             | communicate with chat in Europe, we default to Facebook
             | Messenger.
        
             | briandear wrote:
             | People in Europe are poorer. Android is cheaper.
        
           | stevage wrote:
           | I'm in my mid 40s, my friends mostly use email for organising
           | events more than a week or two in the future, google chat or
           | WhatsApp for more spontaneous things.
           | 
           | Very occasional FB invites for things when casting the net
           | wide, like, I'm back in town and having a picnic, everyone
           | come.
        
           | leptons wrote:
           | My wife is late 40s and just deleted her facebook account,
           | and she's the most FOMO-centric person I know - and she did
           | this because of zuck capitulating to trump. A lot of people
           | have had it with companies supporting fascists.
        
           | leptons wrote:
           | My wife is late 40s and just deleted her facebook account,
           | and she's the most FOMO person I know - and she did this
           | because of zuck capitulating to trump. A lot of people have
           | had it with companies supporting fascists.
        
         | throw0101d wrote:
         | > _I 'm in my mid-thirties and most of my friends have ditched
         | Facebook._
         | 
         | Marketplace seems to be one of the main use cases that's still
         | relatively popular.
        
           | smackeyacky wrote:
           | It's also the only bit of Facebook that hasn't turned into an
           | endless stream of trash. I expect that not to last either, if
           | you're looking for an idea then a localised marketplace
           | alternative with social proof should be on your radar.
        
             | gs17 wrote:
             | It still has a lot of trash, but 90% of it is trash you
             | experience as a seller. Scammers are still really common,
             | and I doubt the moderation has gotten much better since I
             | failed to sell an empty aquarium because they couldn't be
             | convinced it didn't have fish in it (although based on
             | everything else on Facebook, there probably is just no
             | moderation now).
        
             | pkamb wrote:
             | For a long time they were heavily promoting "Ships to You"
             | non-local goods. Annoying. Lots of dropshipper type stuff
             | rather than a local unique items. Marketplace seems to have
             | backed off that in the last year(s) though, my feed seems
             | very local, one-off, and "real.
        
           | 2muchcoffeeman wrote:
           | Marketplace and groups. Most of my friends are on WhatsApp so
           | we ditched FB.
           | 
           | Apple would be smart to build those things and make it
           | available on Android too. Then we could ditch FB altogether.
        
             | joshstrange wrote:
             | Yep, groups was essentially all I used FB for until we
             | moved to Discord (which much better for us), I was so glad
             | when I could stop checking FB completely.
        
               | 2muchcoffeeman wrote:
               | It's the community and interest groups that are really
               | hard to migrate. There needs to be an easy migration
               | route or something.
               | 
               | Other wise FB is really garbage. Just irrelevant
               | suggestions and no amount of blocking trains the
               | algorithm since they are just trying to make money.
        
         | pridkett wrote:
         | > having one that most people with an iPhone have access to
         | covers much of my friend base
         | 
         | Luckily - you don't need an iPhone or iCloud account to receive
         | an invite and RSVP to it. Might be harder (or impossible?) to
         | add to photos and music, but you can still get an invite and
         | RSVP to it.
        
       | maratc wrote:
       | It's always nice to see some first-party apps from Apple[0], but
       | historically the "iPhone-only social networking" hasn't been very
       | successful -- iTunes Ping or Game Center haven't been a huge hit,
       | while group messaging in iMessage has only gained some traction
       | within the US and virtually non-existent almost everywhere else.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | [0] One can even say "first first-party party app" in this case
       | :)
        
         | infecto wrote:
         | In this case they don't need an Iphone to RSVP though. Seems
         | like a good implementation. The challenge is for the organizer
         | not the folks rsvping.
        
         | Jeremy1026 wrote:
         | Fortunately you don't need everyone to be on iOS to reply. So
         | you can send your Android using friends invited and they'll
         | just get a weblink.
        
           | Mindwipe wrote:
           | It still requires people to read a text message.
           | 
           | It may as well be delivered via carrier pigeon outside the
           | US.
        
             | barbazoo wrote:
             | Genuine question, is SMS text delivery unreliable where in
             | certain countries?
        
               | ASalazarMX wrote:
               | It's unneeded because phones have affordable/free access
               | to the Internet these days, SMS is a relic of the 20th
               | century.
        
               | cyberax wrote:
               | And the alternative on iOS is...? What exactly?
               | 
               | RCS is a flaming trash dump of failure.
        
               | ZekeSulastin wrote:
               | Other messaging platforms; the one most commonly cited
               | seems to be WhatsApp.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Apple may not be exactly jumping in joy about it but,
               | even if it's mostly only useful for people in the US,
               | they probably don't see that as a showstopper either.
        
               | patrickkidger wrote:
               | I have a US number and live in Switzerland. At least for
               | me, I only receive SMS messages whenever I visit the US
               | -- the rest of the time they're just dropped and I'll
               | never see them.
               | 
               | (Doesn't really bother me, my friends and I all use
               | WhatsApp/etc. anyway.)
               | 
               | n=1 though, maybe this is some quirk of my phone
               | provider.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | Somehow they're unreliable just in the US. I had someone
               | think I was mad at them because when I texted them to
               | hang out it never made it. Had to remember to switch
               | messaging apps.
               | 
               | I think they were on a cheap prepaid plan though.
        
           | eloisant wrote:
           | So that's a green bubble situation. You get a subpar
           | experience, your iPhone friends get a subpar experience from
           | including you, and eventually they'll yell at you "well just
           | get an iPhone already!"
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I don't really see that at all. I have a circle of friends,
             | some of whom have iPhones and some not (to say nothing of
             | companies/doctors sending me reminders and the like), and
             | the non-iPhones seem to work just fine. I sure don't care
             | what color their text bubble is.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | Will it show them as green or blue though? :)
        
           | ASalazarMX wrote:
           | Unfortunately you need an iPhone to create the invite, or
           | contribute anything else than a reply. They have to know
           | their uncoolness is tolerated but not welcomed in the walled
           | garden.
        
             | r00fus wrote:
             | Mission Accomplished. iOS is a significantly large enough
             | market that it will have some success for those looking to
             | replace FB/evite.
             | 
             | You can say the same thing about FB/Whatsapp or any other
             | social network - you have to be in-network to get the
             | invite even.
             | 
             | Looking forward to testing this out for some events.
        
               | Synaesthesia wrote:
               | In the US yeah it is. In the rest of the world, not so
               | much.
        
               | criddell wrote:
               | The US market is probably big enough to make the service
               | a success. Sometimes you don't need to be the biggest to
               | be good enough.
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | Most social networks don't have a $5-600 buy-in cost
               | though.
        
               | baggachipz wrote:
               | I sure wish they did. It would reduce the number of bots
               | to nearly zero.
        
               | in_cahoots wrote:
               | I just spent $70 to send out birthday party invites to 40
               | parents on Evite. The free version sends an invite with
               | ads, links to Amazon, and other tacky stuff. As an iPhone
               | user with two kids switching to iCloud+ is cheaper than
               | the alternatives. And I think many other parents will
               | agree.
        
               | joshuamorton wrote:
               | ...Why?
               | 
               | The competition I see for this is partiful
               | (https://partiful.com/), which is free, handles invites
               | for folks without accounts (I don't have one, I am
               | invited to parties via text message), and is clearly the
               | inspiration/competition apples for this app given the
               | visual similarities.
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | Free how? Who pays? Just benevolence?
        
         | crossroadsguy wrote:
         | If you have watched the launch video, and if there was one to
         | begin with, did they say [First Time Ever in an iCloud+
         | Account](tm)?
        
         | sambamonkey wrote:
         | I'm unclear what your comment has to do with this app, which
         | isn't a social network, and which communicates just fine with
         | other phones.
        
         | pgwhalen wrote:
         | "iPhone-only social networking" _has_ been very successful
         | (amongst my US-based peer group, at least), once you include
         | iMessage - that's the point. I don't know much about apple
         | invites, but if it integrates well into iMessaging then this is
         | a very strong play.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Though iMessage largely works in part because it's pretty
           | much transparent if you send a text message.
        
             | pgwhalen wrote:
             | I'm not sure I understand the "though" in this message but
             | yeah, definitely the user interface of this social network
             | is messaging.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Just the way I wrote the reply. It's unnecessary. Yes,
               | you send a text and it's iMessage or not iMessage.
               | Doesn't matter. There are some nuances if you're on your
               | Mac with your phone off/on an international SIM (which I
               | admit to not totally understanding).
        
         | saghm wrote:
         | If the plethora of iCalendar email attachments I've seen over
         | the years (despite not owning any Apple devices or using their
         | software) is any indication, I'm not sure that only being on
         | Apple devices will be a significant barrier to people trying to
         | coordinate stuff with this.
        
           | paradox460 wrote:
           | iCalendar files predate Mac OS X, and are an ietf standard
        
       | i_have_an_idea wrote:
       | No one will use this
        
         | nozzlegear wrote:
         | I will literally use this.
        
           | i_have_an_idea wrote:
           | alright
        
       | moralestapia wrote:
       | I hope this doesn't take off at all as it would be a net-negative
       | for everyone involved.
       | 
       | The whole "app for events" experience is a complete piece of crap
       | with the exception of lu.ma perhaps.
       | 
       | "Oh you're not an Apple user, whoops you can't RSVP" is a giant
       | step towards enshittifying them even more.
        
         | readdit wrote:
         | Anyone can rsvp.
        
       | itishappy wrote:
       | > iCloud+ subscribers can create invitations, and anyone can
       | RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple Account or Apple
       | device.
       | 
       | Only paying customers are allowed to construct their digital
       | social life, but at least they're allowed to invite those filthy
       | Android users!
        
       | DRAGONERO wrote:
       | "Additionally, participants can easily contribute photos and
       | videos to a dedicated Shared Album within each invite to help
       | preserve memories and relive the event."
       | 
       | This sounds like a great feature. Post event photo sharing is
       | always a bit of a mess.
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | Yes, I've had tons of invites to share on google photos and it
         | has always been a cluster in some way.
        
         | mmmlinux wrote:
         | Seriously, this is a killer feature.
        
       | racl101 wrote:
       | It would be nice to move away from Facebook for this sort of
       | thing.
        
         | syassami wrote:
         | Now is the perfect time for Apple to enter this space. Facebook
         | and Instagram have shifted away from personal connections and
         | are now dominated by promoted content.
        
       | resource_waste wrote:
       | Can't wait to see this thread in 60 minutes when the Apple
       | marketers/astroturfers pick a positive organic comment and upvote
       | it to the roof.
        
         | dewey wrote:
         | Or maybe people are just excited that there's something new in
         | this space that's not Facebook Events?
        
           | kittikitti wrote:
           | Wrong thread?
        
           | crossroadsguy wrote:
           | Do we get to deploy a litmus test now to discern between
           | simple excitement or fetid fanboyism? Not to mention unpaid
           | shilling which is just sad and utterly demoralising. I mean
           | at least get paid (disc: I don't mean you directly and
           | personally).
        
         | bilbo0s wrote:
         | Look on the bright side!
         | 
         | You could just as easily see the anti-Apple professional
         | influence campaigns astroturf this thread by upvoting negative
         | organic comments!
         | 
         | Am I right!?!?!?!
        
       | kittikitti wrote:
       | When I did this almost 2 years ago with Midjourney, people came
       | at me and started harassing me. It was just a party invite but
       | people hated that I used AI. I guess I just needed to wait until
       | the gatekeepers or a rich white man to do it for it to be
       | socially acceptable. The pain from these AI luddites was real. I
       | have strongly negative feelings for how Big Tech manipulated
       | everyone into attacking everyone who was doing AI but them. They
       | made it seem like the only ones to protect us from AI was them
       | but the pain this caused didn't go away.
        
         | dewey wrote:
         | Wrong thread?
        
           | kittikitti wrote:
           | How is this the wrong thread? Apple Invites is exactly like
           | what I was doing with Midjourney a GenAI image generator.
        
             | dewey wrote:
             | I had a hard time connecting your comment to an event
             | booking app. But I guess you are talking about the Memoji
             | integration?
        
               | WorldMaker wrote:
               | The article mentions in the future being able to use
               | Apple Intelligence to create "splash artwork" for invites
               | rather than just uploading a photo or using emoji/memoji
               | backgrounds.
        
         | rconti wrote:
         | Sure seems like it would have been a fun party.
        
         | beeflet wrote:
         | you probably released your thing right when anti-AI art started
         | taking off online. Even though people generally dislike AI art
         | now and see it as tacky, you have to remember that Apple can do
         | no wrong. So when they use AI image generation as a gimmick, no
         | one wants to embarrass themselves and be like the next ballmer
         | saying that the iphone won't take off.
         | 
         | Same goes for Apple's moves in the VR space: no one wants to
         | come out and say that it's a stupid idea, because weirder
         | things have worked in the past. Airpods are a counterexample
         | and were initially seen as gimmicky and overpriced, but are now
         | everywhere.
         | 
         | I think it just goes to show that a lot of consumer tech
         | depends on the company image and wider culture. Google glass
         | was pretty much ahead of its time, but was killed due to
         | terrible rep, even though thats exactly the type of thing
         | people are trying to make now.
        
       | reureu wrote:
       | All I want is for my calendar invites from my custom-domain
       | iCloud email to consistently work for gmail users.
        
       | mrcwinn wrote:
       | Apple always sweats the details and I so respect it! Upon
       | arriving at the kid's birthday party Android users get green
       | balloons.
        
         | freedomben wrote:
         | Green balloons, but they are deflated enough so that the
         | #555555 (grey) balloons are clearly the superior experience.
         | And then when people point out that the green balloons are
         | intentionally hobbled, a voice tells them to just buy their mom
         | an iphone if she wants a balloon that properly bounces.
        
           | renecito wrote:
           | I'd like some of what you are having.
        
       | HumblyTossed wrote:
       | Interesting. So a lot of people still use FB for doing this. I
       | wonder if this will be the tool for getting them off of FB
       | finally.
        
       | egypturnash wrote:
       | "Requires iOS 18 or later". Well nobody will be inviting me to
       | any parties with this, I'm still using a 6s.
        
         | lxgr wrote:
         | Invitees can apparently use a webapp to RSVP.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | Official release: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42934513
        
       | reader9274 wrote:
       | Another service offering from Apple, where iCloud+ is required to
       | send invites. They can't be more clear that services are their
       | future.
        
       | bredren wrote:
       | Pretty cool. I created a birthday party invite exactly to modern
       | iPhone portrait size and sent it out over text last year and it
       | was successful.
       | 
       | I suspect Apple has a prioritized list of products that collect
       | personal data that their ecosystem has some of the best potential
       | to disrupt.
        
       | nxobject wrote:
       | Just release the damn thing for everyone and take advantage of
       | the halo effect.
       | 
       | Sure, in an age where every social media app tries to do
       | everything - Reels and statuses and DMs - it's nice to see an app
       | trying to do one thing. Unfortunately, Apple seems to have done
       | everything possible to to stymie it. It'll go the way of Game
       | Central.
        
       | 42772827 wrote:
       | It's not an app I have any use for personally, but it looks cool.
       | Thankfully they did not push it to my iPhone during an update
       | like they did Image Playground.
        
       | hoppp wrote:
       | Tricky. Now all your friends must have Iphones else they are not
       | invited to your birthday party.
       | 
       | It's like the green bubble - blue bubble thing.
        
         | HumblyTossed wrote:
         | ...or access it on the web through icloud.com/invites. iCloud+
         | subscribers can create invitations, and anyone can RSVP,
         | regardless of whether they have an Apple Account or Apple
         | device.
         | 
         | https://www.apple.com/newsroom/2025/02/introducing-apple-inv...
         | 
         | Not perfect, but something.
        
       | jillyboel wrote:
       | And how does it work for people who aren't indoctrinated by
       | Apple? Are you even allowed to invite them or is it verboten?
        
       | AnonMO wrote:
       | I had a section in class back in highschool and we were told you
       | should never base you opinions on titles instead you should read
       | the content then come to a conclusion. seeing so many > "anyone
       | can RSVP, regardless of whether they have an Apple Account or
       | Apple device." in the comments proves the problems still exists
       | today.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | What year is it? After all of Apple's failed incursions into the
       | social/media sphere, surprised they're trying this one. But I
       | guess at least it has a web version which is where the
       | competition lives like Facebook Events and Google calendar, not
       | to mention eventbrite or whatever other things. Not really
       | groundbreaking news from them, but interesting to see if this
       | will hold on after awhile with users or just another tossed aside
       | feature.
        
       | gioazzi wrote:
       | If anyone's looking for an open source alternative (and maybe
       | wants to contribute to it) we're working on it here! [1]
       | 
       | We actually started before this was announced, and initially it
       | was developed for a somewhat different use case (more focusing on
       | "recurring invites"), but since it was asked a few times, I think
       | we can offer a good alternative with it. [2]
       | 
       | [1]: https://github.com/gruprsvp/grup.
       | 
       | [2]: https://github.com/gruprsvp/grup/discussions/148
        
         | halostatue wrote:
         | Looks neat, but I won't use it or recommend it to anyone
         | because it's built with Flutter.
         | 
         | I understand your reasons for choosing it, but that does not
         | change that Flutter apps feel completely _wrong_ on any
         | platform except Android, but most especially on iOS/macOS and
         | the web. (This is unsurprising because Flutter is essentially a
         | modern day implementation of Swing complete with personalities,
         | and it's just as incorrect in its styling as Swing was. It's
         | worse for the web because Flutter explicitly eschews standard
         | web technologies in favour of either one big canvas or lots of
         | little canvases.)
         | 
         | Best of luck.
        
           | m0zzie wrote:
           | > Flutter apps feel completely _wrong_ on any platform except
           | Android [...] Flutter explicitly eschews standard web
           | technologies in favour of either one big canvas or lots of
           | little canvases.
           | 
           | I think you're confused about how Flutter works on Android.
           | It's not native to Android, it uses canvas with custom drawn
           | implementations of most components there too - same as it
           | does for iOS/macOS/web.
        
       | dkobia wrote:
       | These lite apps are a way for Apple to dip its toes into popular
       | niches in the App Store while not killing the goose.
       | 
       | In this case, Evite, Partiful and Hobnob have been put on notice
       | as Apples expands its services revenues which have grown to
       | roughly 25% of its annual earnings.
        
       | jug wrote:
       | App without iPad version. This is so weird, Apple.
        
         | killerdhmo wrote:
         | what would you get from an iPad app that the web app doesn't?
        
       | leshokunin wrote:
       | Considering all the event invites I've gotten in the past two
       | years are either Partiful or SecretParty, this is a cool
       | development. Wonder which service people will end up using more.
       | 
       | This might integrate better with Calendar and Wallet. That said I
       | can see web and Android users being apprehensive.
       | 
       | Also your Apple ID is t necessarily your "party id".
        
       | offsky wrote:
       | It would be cool if Apple made something like this for public
       | events with a way to browse local events. I acknowledge that
       | moderation of spam would be an issue.
        
       | rchaud wrote:
       | A trojan horse for Apple Intelligence, soon to be powered with a
       | social graph.
        
       | yalogin wrote:
       | Looks like they brainstormed and found a way to use AI for their
       | users. It could be useful as an engagement tool but weird that
       | they found evites as the way to go
        
         | nipponese wrote:
         | If you have young kids, this is a huge time saver -- Evites
         | without all the upsells and ads + photo sharing without meta
        
       | Gothmog69 wrote:
       | Apple has lost its way. Who is this for?
        
         | RIMR wrote:
         | For people who have enough drive to plan an event, but not
         | enough drive to use a real photograph for the invite instead of
         | GenAI.
        
       | happyopossum wrote:
       | My wife is in a position (board chair for a co-op) that results
       | in her sending out a lot of invites to events. Evite has kinda
       | been the go-to in her social/co-op group for ages, but man it
       | suuuuuuucks these days. Ads everywhere, annoying patterns, and
       | lacks a bunch of nice features that this seems to have.
       | 
       | Very happy to see this
        
         | boringg wrote:
         | Evite was hot for awhile - totally gone downhill. Same as
         | meetups. Tough to make those things as paid businesses which is
         | probably necessary to keep them operating well (or at least
         | take VC money and try and make a return).
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | I see very little use of either Evite or Meetup at this point
           | though I imagine if I sought them out I'd see some continued
           | use. (I do run into an Evite signup from time to time for a
           | paid event.)
        
           | slt2021 wrote:
           | I see people using Luma everywhere these days
        
             | 42772827 wrote:
             | Luma and Gemini have very similar logos, it's kind of off
             | putting
        
         | nostromo wrote:
         | I organize a lot of events for a rugby team, and our events are
         | now all on Partiful.
         | 
         | Maybe it'll go downhill like Evite and Facebook Events - but
         | for now it's quite good.
        
           | svnt wrote:
           | How is it funded? That is your answer.
        
             | echelon wrote:
             | Not everything is in the position or can afford to
             | transitionally tax the whole of the internet itself like
             | big tech.
             | 
             | You're paying for Apple Invites whether you realize it or
             | not. There's immense value in making their platform more
             | sticky.
             | 
             | In a few years you'll read articles about uncool Android
             | kids not getting invited to parties. And that's your
             | answer.
             | 
             | One of these behaviors is way more insidious.
        
               | ToucanLoucan wrote:
               | > You're paying for Apple Invites whether you realize it
               | or not. There's immense value in making their platform
               | more sticky.
               | 
               | I'm not _stuck_ to Apple 's platform, I'm quite happy
               | here. Apple services aren't drenched in ads end to end.
               | Apple's services aren't constantly asking for nickels and
               | dimes; it's one charge, every month, for a buffet of
               | services that are regularly added to and actually
               | _improved_ , making them distinct from... fuck, the rest
               | of the Internet basically, which seems to boil down to a
               | revolving door of stupidly named services backed by VC
               | funding that get popular, quickly, because they don't
               | charge anything and aren't drenched in ads, and then
               | slowly they add the ads, but there's an ad free tier for
               | not much money, oh but now there's ads in that tier,
               | which is also more expensive, and then the service shuts
               | down because they didn't hit 60 billion users before
               | their runway ran out, but there's this new service...
               | 
               | And while I'm certain they do some spying and whatnot to
               | facilitate targeted ads, they at least pay lip service to
               | my privacy, and my experiences developing stuff for their
               | hardware tells me that at least there is a whiff of
               | security to their hardware. There are a lot of things as
               | a developer I'm straight up not allowed to do.
               | 
               | The "insidiousness" of Apple's plan so far seems to be,
               | largely, making damn good products that people want to
               | use, and backing them up with cloud services that work
               | well. I wish more tech firms took that approach to be
               | totally honest.
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | I don't want the uncool Android kids at my parties.
               | Because then I have to listen to them droning on about
               | the kids of things Android people drone on about.
        
             | mjamesaustin wrote:
             | Currently Partiful doesn't generate revenue, which is
             | evidence for its quality. As soon as the purse strings get
             | attached, it'll be time to get out. But for now, it's an
             | excellent service.
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | Luma and Partiful are really good.
         | 
         | This Apple thing is going to turn into a "green text" social
         | signalling thing all over again. If you have an Android, you
         | won't be invited.
         | 
         | More scummy Apple social engineering bullshit. Kids that
         | already hate on those having Android colored text bubbles are
         | going to bully each other even more. And of course kids need
         | the _latest_ iPhone, too.
         | 
         | Apple is playing into this brilliantly and it's disgusting.
        
           | astrange wrote:
           | This green text thing only happens in the US. Nobody really
           | uses iMessage elsewhere.
        
             | echelon wrote:
             | It shouldn't be allowed in the US. Lina Khan was going to
             | put a stop to it, but tragically that didn't reach its
             | culmination.
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | Why? Does the color affect functionality or are we going
               | to pass laws based on feelings?
        
               | echelon wrote:
               | > are we going to pass laws based on feelings?
               | 
               | This is very concrete fuckery.
               | 
               | https://www.politico.com/news/2024/03/21/apple-doj-
               | antitrust...
               | 
               | https://www.npr.org/2024/03/28/1241473453/why-green-text-
               | bub...
               | 
               | https://techcrunch.com/2024/03/21/doj-claims-green-
               | bubbles-a...
        
               | simplify wrote:
               | The concrete fuckery:
               | 
               | (Politico) Lower video quality
               | 
               | (NPR) Feeling unwelcome
               | 
               | (TechCrunch) Peer pressure
        
               | TheDong wrote:
               | It does. If you try to send a photo in an inferior green
               | bubble chat, you get an error. Face time calls don't
               | work.
               | 
               | The text is harder to read for me because it's low
               | contrast and can't be configured.
               | 
               | It's significantly less secure, and a government agent
               | required I use blue bubble imessage to submit an
               | important document for security, and wouldn't accept it
               | by sms or email since both were not secure enough
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | That should work now because of RCS.
               | 
               | Email is secure enough though. People make up security
               | rules in their heads all the time, doesn't mean it's
               | true.
        
               | Spivak wrote:
               | What are you talking about? Photos have worked in MSS
               | group chats for 10+ years now. They send as shit quality
               | but they work. And now mixed group chats are RCS which
               | has all the important features of iMessage.
        
           | afavour wrote:
           | Non-Apple users are able to reply to invites so no one is
           | going to miss any parties.
        
         | elwillbo wrote:
         | yeah, Evite used to really shine but now I feel like it's just
         | an invitation to see ads
        
       | aeturnum wrote:
       | Event organization has been fractured for some time. Folks in my
       | area have been using Partiful[1]. Bash[2] (now theBash) used to
       | be in this space a bit but they left. Facebook has even added the
       | ability for people without facebook to attend events on Facebook
       | (they get an interface that shows them the event details and lets
       | them put a name in "on" the event that isn't connected to an
       | account).
       | 
       | I think Partiful is pretty good at what it does - no ads, can
       | specify reminders, manages text blasts. The problem, to me, is
       | messaging - how do you tell people about a thing? We are all
       | getting tons of spam texts all day. Apple can cheat here because
       | they own iMessage so maybe they will win overall - but still,
       | what about your android friends? Time will tell. Good luck to
       | everyone organizing events.
       | 
       | [1] https://partiful.com/
       | 
       | [2] https://www.thebash.com/
        
       | PaulHoule wrote:
       | Even though "... anyone can RSVP, regardless of whether they have
       | an Apple Account or Apple device" I think this being an Apple
       | branded service is going to make this appear exclusionary and
       | will mean some people won't participate even if they could.
       | 
       | I see the same risk involved with Apple TV's branding; Apple TV
       | works great on Xbox, on NVIDIA Shield and on PC. I'm sure though
       | there are a lot of people who just decide that shows like
       | _Foundation_ and subscriptions like _MLS Season 's Pass_ just
       | aren't for them. I don't know if it is a 5% or a 20% drop but it
       | has to be real.
        
         | Brystephor wrote:
         | Software engineer here with an android phone. I've never
         | bothered to look into Apple TV because I assumed it'd only be
         | available on Apple devices. Similarly, I saw this post and
         | thought there may be a reason for me to get an iPhone now as I
         | assumed this would be available on apple devices only.
        
           | echelon wrote:
           | > "there may be a reason for me to get an iPhone now as I
           | assumed this would be available on apple devices only."
           | 
           | That's the objective. Green text and all. To force everyone
           | to adopt one platform because of network effects and social
           | stigma.
           | 
           | These platform plays by the god tier trillion dollar
           | companies are insidious and should be given scrutiny by the
           | DOJ / FTC.
           | 
           | A breakup of these platforms would make none of this matter.
           | You could pick and choose services across devices. We might
           | even see some competition for Android and iPhone if the DOJ
           | would step in and break this up.
           | 
           | Big tech is too big. A breakup would oxygenate the entire
           | tech sector. It would probably even make the MAGMA stock go
           | up because the sum of parts are being given away for free
           | just to get eyeballs.
           | 
           | Billions of dollars are being given away for free to scrape
           | in network effect advantages. It's at a level where
           | competition from new players is virtually impossible. They
           | can tax anything that moves. Every transaction, every
           | relationship, every quanta of information.
        
           | jbl0ndie wrote:
           | It's pretty good on Chromecast, though some of the media
           | player design patterns don't quite translate to non-apple.
        
           | dboreham wrote:
           | I'm only aware it doesn't need an Apple device because spouse
           | does have an iPhone and was able to set it up on our Roku
           | that way. I still assume that someone in the household does
           | need an iPhone in order to get a subscription, although now I
           | think about it probably that's not true.
        
         | dkjaudyeqooe wrote:
         | > I think this being an Apple branded service is going to make
         | this appear exclusionary and will mean some people won't
         | participate even if they could.
         | 
         | Don't you think that's kind of the point? Do you think having
         | green and blue messaging bubbles was unintentional?
        
           | karaterobot wrote:
           | Yes it was intentional, but this is a different case. If a
           | meaningful percentage of people don't think they can attend
           | an event because they don't own an iPhone, that's a big
           | problem for adoption of this product. Whether that will
           | happen or not, I have no idea, but I think that's what the
           | person you responded to was saying.
        
         | EyMaddis wrote:
         | As a non-exclusive, non-big tech and dead simple alternative,
         | I've built Partey.io [1] myself.
         | 
         | [1] https://partey.io
        
         | nonchalantsui wrote:
         | The Apple TV one is particularly bad due to them naming the
         | service, the box, and the app the same thing. One of them has a
         | + tacked on, who knows which.
         | 
         | As long as they don't start naming other things Invite, they
         | might avoid that issue. Although maybe they'll name their
         | HomePod with a screen that and we're back to square one.
        
           | aurareturn wrote:
           | One of the rare marketing misses for Apple is naming the app,
           | box, and service (with + added on) the same.
        
             | PaulHoule wrote:
             | I was shocked at how bad the onboarding experience for Mac
             | is in 2025. I replaced a dying but well seasoned Alienware
             | laptop with a M4 mini, my wife was furious about 'ads
             | everywhere' I mean, Microsoft is notorious for the unwanted
             | solicitations that come with Windows but the nagging pop-
             | ups that are barely altered from 1984 modal dialogs [1],
             | dock crammed with unwanted applications, terrible Safari
             | experience without ad blocker, need Apple account to
             | install ad blocker (at least you can log into Windows with
             | a Microsoft account.) So far as I can tell I didn't even
             | get the 3 months of Apple TV that comes with an iPad.
             | 
             | [1] OG mac, not Orwell. At least Microsoft nags look like
             | HTML.
        
           | Melatonic wrote:
           | Seriously - not sure what they were thinking - but this
           | confuses the hell out of everyone (especially if they have
           | the Apple TV+ app installed on their smart TV directly and an
           | Apple TV physical box hooked to the same TV)
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | > there are a lot of people who just decide that shows like
         | Foundation and subscriptions like MLS Season's Pass just aren't
         | for them.
         | 
         | This needs anti-trust breakup. Tech companies shouldn't be
         | media giants. They're turning a once-healthy media industry
         | into an attention economy platform play, giving it away below
         | cost, and wringing a robust sector of the economy of its value.
         | 
         | It's disgusting that Apple and Amazon are doing this. Amazon
         | owns James Bond. And they're a grocery store and primary care
         | doctor, for god's sake. That's not good.
         | 
         | This is worse than Standard Oil and Ma Bell because they own
         | our entire lives: eyeballs, financial transactions, business
         | matters, commerce, and personal relationships.
        
           | wrfrmers wrote:
           | "Conglom-O: We Own You."
           | 
           | ...Just to highlight the absurdity of the situation.
           | Literally cartoonish corruption.
        
         | makeitdouble wrote:
         | It will feel that way at a distance because it basically is.
         | 
         | To start, it's not a service but an app. Sure there is a web
         | interface, but the focus on the app already sets the stage
         | (which also puts macos only users in an interesting position).
         | 
         | Then non-Apple users probably can only respond when the sales
         | pitch is "to contribute to Shared Albums, and engage with Apple
         | Music playlists"
         | 
         | If I'm not an Apple user there will only be downsides to using
         | this service compared to any other one.
        
       | nicoburns wrote:
       | I'm definitely in the market for something like to replace
       | Facebook Events which was a fantastic piece of functionality that
       | unfortunately isn't so useful now that so many people have left
       | Facebook. But this kind of functionality is pretty useless if it
       | doesn't have first-class support for users of non-apple devices.
        
       | aurelia246 wrote:
       | Breathtaking innovation
        
       | noja wrote:
       | This doesn't replace doodle's choose a date feature: Apple Events
       | is only for when the event already has a fixed date and time.
        
       | earlyriser wrote:
       | Oh this is great.
       | 
       | I made an app very similar to this (in spirit at least) some
       | years ago and I still think we need more real social like this
       | than social networks.
        
       | paxys wrote:
       | > iCloud+ subscribers can create invitations, and anyone can RSVP
       | 
       | Pass
        
       | andy_ppp wrote:
       | This will be added to Instagram in about 3 seconds...
        
       | rozap wrote:
       | I don't own and probably never will own an apple product but I'm
       | very glad to see this. Anything that weakens Facebook's
       | stranglehold over society is a good thing.
        
         | mongol wrote:
         | Could it be a beachhead to a future social network?
        
         | plufz wrote:
         | Haha, I do own a lot of Apple devices, but that was my first
         | reaction as well. The main selling point of the app is to hurt
         | Meta.
        
       | popasmurf wrote:
       | Shameless plug: I did create a very basic web based invite app
       | with the goal of being platform agnostic - I really think having
       | a app like Invites or my https://rsvp.ngo/ fills the need of
       | getting invites out across platforms.
        
       | kubav027 wrote:
       | I do not get it. Do you really need an app for that? Are your
       | family and friends so disconnected? I would sent email and made a
       | phone call to the rest not heaving email. But I am not from US so
       | it might be the difference.
        
       | websap wrote:
       | Imagine your kid not getting invited to birthday parties because
       | they or you don't use an iPhone. Apple knows what it's doing and
       | shareholders are gonna love it!
        
         | WXLCKNO wrote:
         | Imagine not reading the article
        
       | Alifatisk wrote:
       | What a great idea, my friend was working on an almost identical
       | idea but built using Flutter instead.
       | 
       | A couple of downsides with this is:
       | 
       | - Only for Apple users
       | 
       | - Requires iCloud+
        
         | Factor1177 wrote:
         | It's not only Apple users, you can view and respond to an
         | invite without an apple account or device but cant create an
         | invite without an apple account.
         | 
         | Really really dumb to have it require icloud+ however. Why??
        
       | OsrsNeedsf2P wrote:
       | Hey Siri, what's a tarpit idea?
        
       | canucker2016 wrote:
       | I think some demographic info can be useful in judging the
       | potential uptake.
       | 
       | Apple iPhone ownership amongst USA teens:
       | 
       | 2024: 87%
       | 
       | 2019: 83%
       | 
       | 2014: 67%
       | 
       | https://www.iclarified.com/95177/87-of-us-teens-own-iphones-...
       | 
       | https://www.pipersandler.com/news/piper-jaffray-completes-se...
       | 
       | https://www.pipersandler.com/news/different-new-cool-accordi...
       | 
       | Smartphone marketshare for iPhone in various countries:
       | 
       | 65%: Norway
       | 
       | 59%: Sweden/Japan/Canada/USA
       | 
       | 49%: UK
       | 
       | 30-39%: Germany/Portugal/Italy
       | 
       | other countries are lower from my random sampling of developed
       | countries (South Korea is dominated by Samsung).
       | 
       | Source: https://gs.statcounter.com/os-market-share/mobile/norway
       | 
       | Change last part of url to get info for another country
        
         | talldayo wrote:
         | > Creation of invitations requires an iCloud+ subscription.
         | 
         | I _really_ wonder what the uptake is on iCloud+ subscriptions.
        
           | echoangle wrote:
           | Don't you need to get iCloud+ if you want to have more than
           | 5GB iCloud storage? I would guess it's probably more than 80%
           | of users.
        
         | jsight wrote:
         | Yeah, and they'll likely make this Appley only to create social
         | pressure for even more uptake.
         | 
         | Yuck
        
           | Salgat wrote:
           | Unless you use their inferior web version that pressures you
           | into also getting an iphone.
        
       | lordofgibbons wrote:
       | I really hope this fails.
       | 
       | Apple will use it's dominant position to create lock in like how
       | they did with iMessage instead of cooperating with other
       | platforms on a common standard.
       | 
       | Oder friends and family are surprised when they want to video
       | call over Facetime and find it hard to believe other people's
       | phones don't have Apple apps.
        
         | briandear wrote:
         | I hope it succeeds. I hate FB and other "you are the product"
         | products. I don't care about "common standard" -- I care about
         | the best UX.
        
           | jonrcooper wrote:
           | There are a ton of other options than FB at this point.
           | Partiful is my personal favorite, and has way better features
           | than Apple Invites has after testing.
        
             | spankalee wrote:
             | Partiful is great! A little funky around the edges, but I
             | keep giving them feedback hoping to be able to rely on a
             | non-shitty indie platform for invites.
        
           | makeitdouble wrote:
           | Be the product or the caged golden goose. We sure have a
           | choice, but I personally don't see one that much better than
           | the other.
           | 
           | When Tim Cook testifies that Apple is entitled to all our
           | digital transactions, I don't think they have a better moral
           | stance.
        
         | pbronez wrote:
         | > Guests can view and respond to an invitation using the new
         | iPhone app or on the web without needing an iCloud+
         | subscription or an Apple Account.
        
           | talldayo wrote:
           | > Creation of invitations requires an iCloud+ subscription.
           | 
           | It's service slop after all.
        
           | sithadmin wrote:
           | If it's anything like the web version of Facetime, it's not
           | gonna be a great experience for non-iOS users.
        
             | AyyEye wrote:
             | ...there's a web facetime??
        
               | koolba wrote:
               | Apparently there is!
               | 
               | https://support.apple.com/en-us/109364
        
         | ben_w wrote:
         | > Oder friends and family are surprised when they want to video
         | call over Facetime and find it hard to believe other people's
         | phones don't have Apple apps.
         | 
         | *Memories of my sister not believing me when I said she
         | wouldn't be able to install her Windows copy of Doom on my
         | Performa 5200 back in the 90s*
        
         | canucker2016 wrote:
         | Blame the telcos for the relative poor quality of text message
         | multimedia (via MMS).
         | 
         | The telcos specify the size limits of MMS messages. iMessage
         | has much higher limits in most cases, so iPhone has to use
         | reduce the quality of the pics/videos to reach the lower size
         | limits for sending to non-iMessage recipients.
         | 
         | For the telcos, why would they upgrade their size limits for
         | MMS - it's just a cost centre for them. They probably make more
         | by selling more iPhones as well.
        
       | dark__paladin wrote:
       | How is this different than any calendar app?
        
       | thedougd wrote:
       | Interesting that Apple is finally releasing new app functionality
       | outside of OS updates. Is it a new trend?
       | 
       | Google made this shift a while ago, but mostly out of necessity
       | to mitigate the impacts of manufacturers failing to release
       | regular OS updates.
        
       | sss111 wrote:
       | Too bad you need to know real people to use this, apple's out
       | here assuming we have social lives
        
       | ryanmcbride wrote:
       | I don't use facebook so I currently invite my friends to various
       | events and parties by texting the same image with the info to a
       | bunch of groupchats and a few individuals, if this makes that
       | cleaner I'd be pretty happy.
        
       | 6thbit wrote:
       | How come through this people with any device can add photos to a
       | shared album, but not through regular shared albums?
       | 
       | On that note: how to get cross platform shared photo album
       | without pain or google?
        
       | afavour wrote:
       | How deathly boring this all is.
       | 
       | On one hand it's a good thing: so many invite services are coated
       | in ads they deserve to fail. On the other, yet another service
       | getting sucked up into the tech giant blob.
       | 
       | If open formats prevailed we would have expanded calendar invites
       | so they just appear in your inbox like any other email for free.
       | But alas, everyone has given up on that.
        
       | echoangle wrote:
       | My first though was ,,oddly specific" but most people here seem
       | to think this makes sense.
       | 
       | Is my social life dead or what are you guys inviting so many
       | people to?
       | 
       | If I want to organize an event, I just write a message in the
       | relevant group chat and get responses about who's going to come.
        
         | kccqzy wrote:
         | That's exactly my thought. I don't even need a group chat and
         | instead copy-paste a message to several individual chats,
         | customizing the invitation message along the way.
         | 
         | This is definitely not for me.
        
       | n0rdy wrote:
       | I have 2 conflicting feelings about this:
       | 
       | - I'm glad to see this, as it might be an easily accessible
       | alternative to Facebook events, which I tend to miss as I'm
       | checking my FB only once in a while
       | 
       | - on the other hand, each new Apple release adds apps that might
       | kill some small start-ups that are offering similar services for
       | the small fee. Having a free alternative on your phone out of the
       | box with most of your contacts using will lead to a decent number
       | of subscriptions' cancellations. A good lesson to build smth that
       | is harder to reproduce, though...
        
       | gamedever wrote:
       | What does Apple do to be "privacy first" with this product.
       | 
       | I'm happy when friends invite me to an event. I'll less happy
       | they type my email address or phone number into some 3rd party
       | site so be tracked. That includes Apple.
        
       | fiberhood wrote:
       | As an Apple developer for 42 years I tried all permutations I
       | could think of and found there is no way around the walled
       | garden:
       | 
       | Apple Invites requires a mandatory iCloud+ account (minimal 0.99
       | euro/dollar per month) and a non-anonymous Apple ID requirement
       | with credit card or bank account. It probably has a perpetual
       | lock-in of your invite groups and tracking of all participants as
       | well but I couldn't test this properly without paying 12 Euros.
        
       | anal_reactor wrote:
       | It's incredible to think that for many people this is a real
       | problem that needs a real solution, because personally, I
       | struggle to maintain social life. A few months ago I organized a
       | party for the first time in my life, and probably it'll happen
       | twice a year at most in the very optimistic scenario. This means
       | that whatever new trendy way of inviting people is hip, it's not
       | worth the effort to learn it, and it's just way more effective to
       | use the methods I do know and I'm used to (physical conversations
       | and texting).
        
       | RamiAwar wrote:
       | CIA's top project thus far
        
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