[HN Gopher] I deleted all of my email filters
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       I deleted all of my email filters
        
       Author : cdme
       Score  : 31 points
       Date   : 2025-01-14 18:04 UTC (4 days ago)
        
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       | grajaganDev wrote:
       | I think this is a good choice.
       | 
       | Search don't sort.
        
       | zoezoezoezoe wrote:
       | yes, this is exactly what I do. My email should be practically
       | empty unless something is on fire.
        
       | Brajeshwar wrote:
       | I've forgotten when, but it has been a while; I've been with just
       | "Unread" and "Flagged," which are built-in filters of Apple Mail.
       | The "Flagged" ones are the ones I focus on, while the "Unread" is
       | done, forgotten, or "Flagged."
       | 
       | Whichever you use, invest time in learning the shortcuts, and
       | things go pretty smoothly. My mail client is, thus, pretty clean
       | most of the time.
       | 
       | https://cdn.oinam.com/img/oinam/brajeshwar-apple-macos-mail-...
        
         | skydhash wrote:
         | I use notmuch and emacs on my main workstation and I have three
         | saved searches only: inbox, unread, and archive. inbox is for
         | when I need an already read mail, and archive is where
         | everything goes when I've finished with them in the short term
         | (I don't delete mails). If I need something, I can always do a
         | more advanced search.
        
         | mlangenberg wrote:
         | In Gmail, I try to archive or delete everything that I'm done
         | with, but it's difficult to keep up with many notifications
         | flowing in, which I don't delete immediately or are relevant
         | for the next few days and I never get back to. It's easy to get
         | behind.
         | 
         | I'll try your approach of setting up a default section for
         | 'is:starred OR is:unread' and stop bothering with the archive
         | step.
        
           | Brajeshwar wrote:
           | If you look at it, everything is eventually archived. You
           | have to stop looking at it; hence the `is:starred OR
           | is:unread`.
           | 
           | I don't delete emails except for ephemeral transactional
           | emails. I still have emails from the early 2000s and have
           | surprised people by replying from then or continuing a
           | conversation, reminding them that we talked way back in time.
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | I also have no filters. But I don't use Gmail tabbed inbox,
       | either. Do people know you can disable this? I ask because
       | "forfeiting agency to their algorithm" doesn't make sense to me.
       | It sounds like the author isn't familiar with the product.
        
         | atomicfiredoll wrote:
         | Turning off tabbed inbox was huge in helping me get down to
         | zero emails. It got me back to one stream of data to watch and
         | manage. Something comes in, I see it and process it. It also
         | made the number of unread easier to reason about.
         | 
         | I do use filters now, but haven't always because I was always
         | looking for a "move to label" option in the "Create Filter"
         | dialog. Instead, Gmail calls that "Archive," which I assumed
         | sent it to the Negative Zone of some special compressed
         | archive. I'm an idiot, for years I just assumed Google didn't
         | build a move feature into it's filters.
         | 
         | [That said, I do find Gmail (and other Google UIs) to be full
         | of little points of frustration like this. Maybe others have
         | had better luck with it, but Tabbed Inbox almost feels like
         | it's designed to make me ineffective.]
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | I said the same thing when they launched it. It was a poor
           | man's copy of the much better concept of "bundles" from the
           | Inbox product. Bundles made it easier to cope with your email
           | by only surfacing those categories once per day. Tabbed
           | inboxes makes it harder by putting a notification badge in
           | your face all the time.
        
             | atomicfiredoll wrote:
             | Ah. I never had Inbox, so now it makes some sense to me (at
             | least from a historical perspective.)
        
       | superkuh wrote:
       | No more of your filters. But your mail host is still filtering
       | out things and deciding which emails you will see and which you
       | will not. Even freedom loving Proton mail does it. Gmail and
       | MSOffice365 are terrible about silently dropping legitimate
       | emails.
       | 
       | It's not easy to set up but a personal mailserver is the only way
       | to know you'll actually receive mail people send you. Getting
       | other mailservers to accept your mail is different and harder
       | problem, of course.
        
         | jeffbee wrote:
         | To my knowledge Gmail never "silently drops" anything. Every
         | message is either delivered, rejected with the appropriate SMTP
         | failure codes, or bounced with a non-delivery report in case of
         | technical failure to promptly deliver.
        
           | superkuh wrote:
           | During the Solarwinds event I saw them silently drop emails.
           | During normal times they simple accept the mail and refuse to
           | show it to the user (marking it "spam" and hiding it in non-
           | inbox folders); a "shadow drop". Far worse than doing what is
           | expected (if it really were spam, which it usually isn't)
           | which is to refuse the email following standard protocols.
        
             | jeffbee wrote:
             | Which "they" are we talking about? Microsoft for sure drops
             | emails silently without delivering them.
        
               | superkuh wrote:
               | Google's GMail (re: shadow drops). But re: silent drops I
               | am specifically referring to Google's Gmail platform as
               | was providing email hosting service for all noaa.gov
               | email addresses and the silent dropping of emails sent to
               | noaa.gov.
        
       | smitelli wrote:
       | > I unsubscribe to everything I do not absolutely need.
       | 
       | This right here is one of the greatest quality-of-life
       | improvements I ever adopted. Every single email you get, if you
       | don't absolutely want it, find and click the unsubscribe link in
       | the footer.
       | 
       | (Standard disclaimer, don't click links in spam. Only do this for
       | senders who got your address through some kind of legitimate
       | purchase or account sign-up.)
       | 
       | Each time you buy something, and they send you that first "hey
       | why not buy something else too?" message, unsubscribe. It takes a
       | bit of discipline, but it pays dividends.
       | 
       | It is possible to get to a point where you hardly receive any
       | mail. You can get to inbox zero doing this. It's genuinely
       | refreshing.
       | 
       | Sometimes I catch a glimpse of other people's inboxes and, my
       | god, I can't imagine going back to that life.
        
         | warner25 wrote:
         | Agreed on all points.
         | 
         | A step further, which I haven't personally tried but I've been
         | thinking about, is to set up a filter rule that just
         | automatically deletes anything with "unsubscribe" or "manage
         | your preferences" in it. If you're already at a zero inbox and
         | getting very few emails per day, this just isn't necessary, but
         | I'd recommend it for someone who has a dumpster fire of an
         | inbox that's getting hundreds of marketing or automatic
         | notification emails per day.
        
         | tennisflyi wrote:
         | Absolutely. That's been my MO for years. Inbox zero across
         | multiple different emails. It makes things really easy
        
         | tczMUFlmoNk wrote:
         | I do something similar, but: if I buy something and get a "why
         | not buy something else?" email, I don't just unsubscribe; I
         | mark it as spam. I am careful to never opt in to messages like
         | that, so if I am receiving them then they are my address beyond
         | the consent that I provided, so I _want_ Gmail to downrank
         | their trust.
         | 
         | I agree that either of these approaches pays dividends. I feel
         | great about it.
        
           | exe34 wrote:
           | I do this too - if you're sending me unsolicited emails, and
           | you're not specifically a human reaching out for a genuine
           | human relationship free of me paying you, then your email is
           | spam.
        
         | sshine wrote:
         | I have 4 filters:
         | 
         | 1) I have a 10% membership discount to the local pet store.
         | They have a weekly newsletter that I really don't care about. I
         | once tried unsubscribe, and their dumb system deleted my
         | account. So now I mark as read + archive their newsletter. It's
         | the cost of cheap pet food.
         | 
         | 2) I get some spam emails with recurring themes that my spam
         | filter somehow fails to learn after dozens of manual
         | labellings. So I've made filters to mark those as spam.
         | 
         | 3) I set up DKIM for my domain, but I really don't care. So all
         | my DKIM reports end up in a subdirectory I never look at.
         | 
         | 4) I forward deductible receipts to receipts@mydomain so that I
         | can send myself emails for later when I do accounting. I don't
         | need to check this inbox regularly, because I'm the only one
         | using it. It's a bit crude, but I have certain accounts in
         | certain stores that won't let me change my email address (who
         | seriously still uses email address as primary key?) so I
         | forward those emails automatically to my receipts@ email.
         | 
         | Other than that, my inbox is for PERSONAL EMAIL. I LOVE when I
         | get letters! They're either genuinely interesting, or they
         | contain an "unsubscribe" link at the bottom. The only
         | newsletters I've enjoyed for more than a few months is Haskell
         | Weekly and This Week in Rust. I don't always read them, but
         | they're sort of my "membership magazines".
        
           | accoil wrote:
           | re 3: are you talking about DMARC reports? I was under the
           | impression those were opt in by adding rua=mailto:<email
           | address> in the DNS record. If you remove that you should not
           | be getting them.
        
         | endofreach wrote:
         | If you send me an unwanted newsletter or marketing-email,
         | you'll receive multiple AI generated fake support tickets from
         | various email addresses, every couple of days.
        
           | HelenePhisher wrote:
           | I want that! How does it work? Did you automate that?
        
         | 10729287 wrote:
         | My main rule is moving any email containing << unsubscribe >>
         | in /newsletter. Life changing.
        
       | warner25 wrote:
       | Don't use filter rules to _sort_ mail; after unsubscribing from
       | everything you possibly can, use filter rules to _even more
       | aggressively auto-delete or block stuff_ that you really don 't
       | need to see.
       | 
       | You should end up getting so few emails that it's easy to read
       | them all in one inbox or folder and subsequently reply, take a
       | note, and manually delete them to get back to zero.
        
       | nasretdinov wrote:
       | Well that only works for personal email unfortunately. In a
       | corporate environment you often don't have an ability to
       | unsubscribe from unwanted mail like those mandatory trainings or
       | production alerts
        
         | warner25 wrote:
         | _This_ is what filter rules are for. See my other comment.
        
       | throeurir wrote:
       | > I unsubscribe to everything I do not absolutely need
       | 
       | I get like 500 daily messages between multiple email accounts,
       | and this just does not scale. Some messages are needed once year,
       | monthly, some weekly, some are fed into LLM and automation. It is
       | very convenient to have everything organized into folders.
       | 
       | I really have no time, to look for some esoteric details, in some
       | obscure report, on website that stopped working 5 years ago! I
       | just use full text search over my local email archive!
       | 
       | It also keeps paper trail. If GitHub goes down, or I get fired, I
       | still have most comments and decisions.
       | 
       | Without email I would start reinventing alternatives like RSS.
        
         | tennisflyi wrote:
         | How many emails do you think you could have unsubscribed from
         | while typing your reply? You're going to check your email daily
         | for years to come. Why not cull a few every now and then?
         | 
         | > It also keeps paper trail. If GitHub goes down, or I get
         | fired, I still have most comments and decisions.
         | 
         | You obviously keep/archive the important things...
        
           | throeurir wrote:
           | I actually have to make money. Deleting everything is a bit
           | nihilistic.
           | 
           | And I am not going to unsubscribe from daily status reports
           | on my servers. Those are not "absolutely needed", but it is
           | better to have them locally in my email. Landing all incoming
           | emails into inbox just does not scale!
        
             | tennisflyi wrote:
             | I was getting at culling surplus/extraneous things you had
             | subscribed to, but if all 500 emails are needed, you do you
             | (and make that money with a heavy cognitive load!)
        
               | throeurir wrote:
               | But it is not heavy cognitive load. Thanks to filters and
               | automation...
               | 
               | I get like 20 emails daily that get through filters, land
               | in my inbox and need my urgent attention. I can not
               | imagine being directly exposed to unfiltered stream of
               | junk, and trying to fish out emails from my boss.
        
         | ergonaught wrote:
         | This. I receive several hundred non-junk emails every day. I
         | don't need to read all of them at the time, but I do need to
         | receive them. Many of them lend themselves to some form of
         | segmentation.
         | 
         | No idea how I'd realistically manage it without
         | rules/folders/etc. Even when I try "one inbox, just use search"
         | that inevitably results in saved searches, which is,
         | practically speaking, the same as rules/folders/etc.
        
       | afcool83 wrote:
       | At some point email went from a true communication avenue to just
       | "sending this for reference". Apps and services are adding their
       | own notification inboxes and comment threads (or activity logs)
       | and @-mentions as an interaction pattern so that they can enrich
       | and embed communication in the context of what they do.
       | 
       | I won't go so far as to say that email is dying, but it's
       | certainly changing in purpose.
        
         | warner25 wrote:
         | As someone who enjoys corresponding with old friends and
         | distant family via email (as opposed to, like, text messages or
         | social media comments), I feel like this trend has ruined my
         | ability to do so. It seems like people - who've given up and
         | let their inboxes become flooded - just don't even look in
         | their inboxes for legitimate, personal correspondence anymore.
        
           | funOtter wrote:
           | > It seems like people ... just don't even look in their
           | inboxes for legitimate, personal correspondence anymore
           | 
           | I disagree with that - in my experience sending persona
           | correspondence to my friends/family are generally received
           | and read.
           | 
           | It does seem like people really want the "like (with an
           | emoji)" funcitonality of the rest of the web in email ...
           | Gmail and Outlook are building it in, but unless you're in
           | their walled gardens it does not work great (i.e. email
           | reply: "X has ed your message")
        
       | butz wrote:
       | There is a category of spam emails where clicking unsubscribe
       | links ends up signaling spammers that email address is in use and
       | leads to even more spam emails. I wish there was an option to
       | really block such emails and not put them in spam or trash
       | folders. Going even further, each spam email sender should be
       | forced to make a small payment to get their spam delivered to my
       | inbox.
        
       | kotaKat wrote:
       | No, you gotta keep at least the X-Phishtest filter (or whatever
       | vendor your company uses for stupid phishtests), at a minimum.
        
       | willswire wrote:
       | This is the way.
       | 
       | Search basically nullifies the need to organize/group messages in
       | subfolders. I practice similar email hygiene as the author;
       | everything goes through the mental flow chart:
       | 
       | Does this need to be worked? Keep in Inbox. Otherwise...
       | 
       | Does this need to be saved? Archive.
       | 
       | Else? Unsubscribe and/or Delete
        
       | narag wrote:
       | Most email strategies I read about, assume some premises that
       | don't apply to me:
       | 
       | - Web mail
       | 
       | - IMAP
       | 
       | - Phone
       | 
       | In this case, trying to apply TFA to my job is also impossible,
       | since the article implies that I can unsubscribe from the dozens
       | of notifications someone thought it was a good idea to CC the
       | whole department. Thanks God for filters!
       | 
       | At home I do filter too, sometimes I've found useful stuff in 20
       | y.o. messages. Of course, YMMV.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | I recently decided to keep my email filters, because they're
       | still working for me.
       | 
       | On my personal laptop, which folder of mine an incoming email
       | lands in:
       | 
       | * Trash -- All those "new device" emails that sites have started
       | sending every time I log in from the same IP address as always,
       | because I don't preserve their cookies (congrats, you've made
       | security worse), plus Fedex (who won't let me unubscribe from
       | marketing emails). I might look at this every few weeks, briefly.
       | 
       | * Junk -- Detected spam by my email hoster, _plus_ emails from
       | people not in my addressbook (with a few exclusions, such as for
       | certain domains). I have to check this folder every couple days,
       | briefly.
       | 
       | * Lower -- Emails matching large list of rules for
       | senders/subjects I know I don't see soon as they arrive, but will
       | check this folder at least once a day.
       | 
       | * Inbox -- Everything remaining after the rules applied, which is
       | generally emails from people I know, and things I know I want to
       | see promptly, and new unknown stuff from addresses in my
       | addressbook (of 11K entries). This is the only folder that
       | triggers any kind of notification to me, and it's a fairly low-
       | disruption notification.
       | 
       | That's for personal. My work email setups vary by
       | employer/client, but I always get notifications of emails by
       | default from anyone in the company, partners, customers, etc., so
       | I can be responsive. Then slowly add rules to exclude
       | notifications from those of employer/client/partner/customer
       | things that you know don't need prompt attention (like a noisy
       | SaaS announcing every change in a high-traffic repo or wiki).
        
       | reader9274 wrote:
       | I agree with the article 100%. There are still emails you can't
       | unsubscribe from and shouldn't report as spam or block, for
       | example your monthly bank statement email. It's sad that you
       | can't turn these off as the bank is required to send them. For
       | these cases I do set a "send to trash" rule. If using iCloud,
       | note that rules you set locally on your Mac only run if the Mac
       | is on. To have them run on the server they need to be set on
       | iCloud Mail online, which gives a very limited way to set rules
       | but just barely good enough for these rare occasions.
        
       | Ringz wrote:
       | Since I started using imapfilter [1] on my server and
       | ,,aggressive unsubscribe", email is good again. I added a
       | shortcut to my aerc configuration [2] which adds the sender of a
       | selected mail to a file which imapfilter reads to move it in a
       | folder. It's so convenient now it can handle hundreds of mails
       | over several mail accounts fully automated.
       | 
       | 1: https://github.com/lefcha/imapfilter
       | 
       | 2: https://github.com/rafo/aerc-vim
        
       | alexwasserman wrote:
       | A friend taught me to create a Smart Folder in Mail to show
       | messages in inbox that contain the string "unsubscribe".
       | 
       | Then you unsubscribe.
       | 
       | I try to keep inbox zero, so it flags all new email that needs
       | unsubscribing. It's a very helpful trick.
        
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