[HN Gopher] Employees are bypassing HR, sharing on LinkedIn
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       Employees are bypassing HR, sharing on LinkedIn
        
       Author : this_weekend
       Score  : 81 points
       Date   : 2025-01-12 18:11 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | Aloha wrote:
       | https://archive.ph/rjIbg
        
       | crmd wrote:
       | As an old person, I'm very much of the mindset, "Keep your mouth
       | shut as much as possible, never air dirty laundry publicly, and
       | don't pick fights with your company who has infinitely greater
       | legal budget than you do."
       | 
       | However, I've come to seriously respect younger workers who don't
       | take shit from anyone and will gladly burn a company to the
       | ground on social media if they feel like they are being abused in
       | the workplace.
        
         | blackeyeblitzar wrote:
         | Most people have fear about this sort of thing. Even once you
         | quit. Like maybe if you post something you won't get hired
         | back. Employee speech outside of work environments should be
         | protected. But I think as long as people have something to
         | lose, they will censor themselves. Young people have little to
         | lose.
        
         | tmpz22 wrote:
         | What companies have been burned to the ground on Social Media?
         | Equifax? Wells Fargo? Tesla? Twitter? Uber?
         | 
         | I support civil disobedience but aren't many attempts at civil
         | disobedience by lone actors largely ineffective?
         | 
         | I think its important to call out ineffective civil activism so
         | that individuals can create more effective strategies for
         | creating actual change for the social good.
        
           | TheSkyHasEyes wrote:
           | They probably meant smaller companies. I too have noticed
           | this and agree with the commenter above.
        
       | NuSkooler wrote:
       | Love every bit of this type of stuff that mostly only the younger
       | generations are doing. Maybe someday, our society will move away
       | from slaving away in terrible environments to realistically only
       | raise up a handful of humans.
        
         | somethoughts wrote:
         | To be honest - the great thing is that even if a small
         | percentage of people choose the LinkedIn/Social Media shame
         | route, it benefits everyone. Just the threat of this will
         | probably make employers/managers think about the potential
         | consequences of such actions.
         | 
         | That said - it'd be recommended that the employee have a pretty
         | air tight story since there internet can easily turn the other
         | way.
        
       | iknownthing wrote:
       | Probably better to do it on anonymous social media
        
         | bbqfog wrote:
         | I'd hire someone brave enough to stand up for themselves and
         | against a toxic workplace. That's how you affect real change.
         | Sometimes it pays to put ego out the window for something
         | that's radically better.
        
           | tsimionescu wrote:
           | Unfortunately, that's very much not how the managerial class
           | thinks. Workers that speak up and publicly diss their
           | employer are dangerous for any manager and business, because
           | they won't shut up and do as they're told. Very few will
           | knowingly hire someone who risks calling out their own
           | bullshit.
        
           | 8note wrote:
           | notifying future candidates such that they dont join also
           | creates real change. the company cant hire anyone and goes
           | out of business
        
         | softwaredoug wrote:
         | Maybe but I think at this point we tune out places like Blind
         | as a nonstop stream of groundless bellyaching and unfounded
         | rumors about layoffs next week. It's hard to know what's true
         | or not in such an environment.
        
         | owebmaster wrote:
         | not if you want to become an influencer
        
       | bbqfog wrote:
       | Toxic bosses are one of the most damaging things you can have in
       | a company. It's counter-intuitive but smart leadership would be
       | thanking these people for exposing the rot in their own
       | companies.
        
       | blackeyeblitzar wrote:
       | HR and Legal work for the company and will often manipulate
       | people and situations to reduce their risks and justify their
       | actions. So this isn't surprising. But also I think public
       | discussion of issues is the only way for people to move towards
       | defending workplace conditions.
        
       | eschulz wrote:
       | HR is to protect the company, first and foremost. Sure, they'll
       | discuss protecting the worker's rights, but that's in order to
       | protect the company from a scenario where a worker's rights have
       | been violated and they have a legitimate complaint against the
       | company.
        
         | no_wizard wrote:
         | Which is why I thought this line of reasoning from the article
         | is extremely disingenuous
         | 
         | > Tim Glowa, the founder and CEO of HR Brain, says that "rather
         | than venting online, reporting helps build a proper case while
         | ensuring confidentiality and protecting your professional
         | reputation," adding, "What you post online can follow you
         | indefinitely."
         | 
         | If you read between the lines on this it's clear as day that
         | they are saying speaking up is bad for your career, without
         | saying those words explicitly.
         | 
         | Executives, VPs and SVPs hate being held accountable by their
         | workers, that's my main takeaway here
        
           | eschulz wrote:
           | Yes, his product is protection offered to companies and
           | company officers.
        
           | Spooky23 wrote:
           | There's more nuance. When you go public with an accusation or
           | problem, you can't control when, who or how it is used. It's
           | unlikely that you're going to be able to frame the narrative
           | effectively to get something of value.
           | 
           | For example, an issue related to something that you expressed
           | in your public can be picked up, embraced and extended and
           | turned into a racial or other high attention/impact issue.
           | The press can run with it and create a mess. More likely,
           | nobody cares, and you'll be painted as a crazy person, and
           | crazy people go away.
        
       | ethbr1 wrote:
       | >> _[Workers] tend to see human resources as an extension of
       | corporate dogma meant to reinforce company policies._
       | 
       | It is.
       | 
       | HR may do other stuff above and beyond, but their first priority
       | will _always_ be compliance.
       | 
       | Consequently, whether or not HR is the appropriate venue to
       | address your problem boils down to -- "Is this a compliance issue
       | for the company? And if so, will resolving it be in my favor?"
       | (E.g. sexual harassment)
       | 
       | If yes/yes, go to HR. If anything else, find another line of
       | redress.
        
         | RachelF wrote:
         | Interesting that the examples in the article are from
         | Australia.
         | 
         | Perhaps employee protection is better in Australia than in the
         | US?
        
           | skissane wrote:
           | Australian law has "unfair dismissal" - if your employer
           | terminates you for "unfair" reasons, then you can take them
           | to court, and if you win you either get reinstated or
           | compensated. Very different from the "at-will employment"
           | which prevails in much of the US. (I put "unfair" in quotes
           | because it is ultimately about what a court concludes is
           | unfair, based on the legislation and case law, which might
           | not be the same as what you or I think is unfair.)
           | 
           | It is worth pointing out it only applies if your annual
           | salary is less than the "high income threshold", which is
           | currently AU$175,000 (approximately US$107,000). They
           | increase that amount every year, and their definition of
           | "income" excludes certain things (such as bonuses). If your
           | income is above that, you can't sue under unfair dismissal
           | law, although you still can sue for common law breach of
           | contract (which is more difficult, however-employers
           | generally try to word employment contracts to maximise their
           | freedom to terminate you, although there is always the chance
           | a court will find the relevant terms of the contract legally
           | invalid, at least as applied to your particular case.)
           | 
           | https://www.fwc.gov.au/high-income-threshold
        
         | jimbob45 wrote:
         | HR needs to adopt a mantra similar to medicine's "First, do no
         | harm". If there was any question over whether doctors would
         | ever knowingly hurt patients, the entire profession would halve
         | its patientload over night.
         | 
         | Likewise, HR departments are by-and-large good places with
         | helpful and supportive people. However, the fact that they have
         | the ability at all to report your conversations to management
         | means no one trusts them and they become ineffective as a
         | result.
        
           | SOLAR_FIELDS wrote:
           | As long as this is an arm of the company and there is no
           | disinterested third party the incentive will always dictate
           | that HR will place the interest of the company over the
           | employee. As the old adage goes (paraphrased): "It's
           | difficult to make someone believe something when their salary
           | depends on them not believing it".
        
           | atmavatar wrote:
           | The misunderstanding causing confusion here is that for HR,
           | the business is the patient - not the employee.
           | 
           | From HR's perspective, an employee is a body part of the
           | business. If helping the employee (i.e., healing the body
           | part) is best for the business, that's what HR does. If
           | terminating the employee (i.e., amputating the body part) is
           | best for the business, that's what HR does.
        
             | disqard wrote:
             | I liked your analogy, and it sparked a thought -- employees
             | are like fingernails: tools to be used, and trimmed/filed
             | down when not needed.
             | 
             | Of course, your analogy is better, because when
             | corporations conduct layoffs to save money to do stock
             | buybacks, that is really much closer to amputating body
             | parts for the sake of a "weight loss" metric.
        
           | thatcat wrote:
           | I'm not sure the mantra is effective. The 3rd leading cause
           | of death is medical malpractice and yet people are still sick
           | and still go to the doctor.
        
           | refulgentis wrote:
           | I get what you're saying, but it's a dizzying problem - the
           | proximate problem to HR in these scenarios isn't that people
           | think HR is bad or worry they'll relay the complaint, it's
           | that HR has no teeth.
           | 
           | At Google, I had an...unusual...de-facto manager for 2 years.
           | After declining their offer to join their team, they spent
           | six months engaging in behavior that violated company
           | policies - though not in obvious ways like sexual harassment
           | or violence.
           | 
           | Going to HR seemed futile. Even assuming they could keep
           | anonymity, their role is simply to investigate and report to
           | management three levels up. Without clear-cut violations, it
           | becomes a credibility contest. Since upper management
           | selected the middle managers, they're inherently biased
           | toward defending their choices.
           | 
           | The situation came to a head between December 1st and January
           | 1st. My performance rating plummeted from "O" (top 10%) to
           | "MI" (bottom 10%) _and_ a technically separate formal
           | warning. Things came to a head because they were nominally
           | leading work that was a huge political warzone between
           | organizations, and they didn 't really want to do anything.
           | After I politely demurred their invitation to transfer, they
           | hired a childhood friend as my replacement - they're still
           | launching "new" features with the code I wrote two years ago.
           | 
           | I documented various incidents over those six months that
           | violated Google's code of conduct. But even in the best-case
           | scenario:
           | 
           | - HR confirms the violations.
           | 
           | - They report findings to my third-level manager.
           | 
           | - My second-level manager (who chose my de-facto manager)
           | blames me.
           | 
           | - The third-level manager (who chose the second-level
           | manager) defers to their choice.
           | 
           | I entered Google wondering how they handled professional
           | disagreements. (I was a young CEO for the 5 years prior)
           | Seven years later, I realized they don't - disagreement
           | itself is seen as inappropriate. This dynamic inevitably
           | hurts those lowest in the hierarchy. It's not malicious;
           | everyone believes they're acting appropriately. But once
           | anyone decides to prioritize comfort over strict policy
           | enforcement (a natural human tendency), standard human
           | politics take over. I honestly, swear to god, saw this in
           | abundance at Google in ways I never saw at a fast food job.
           | 
           | What I once dismissed as complaints from underperformers now
           | seems depressingly accurate.
        
         | mihaaly wrote:
         | I find the name expressive.
         | 
         | Human RESOURCES.
         | 
         | Desks, xerox machine, Vasarely replica in the meeting room,
         | humans, printers, patents and inventions, inventory in the
         | warehouse, etc., all the same. Resources. Buy, sell, replace,
         | act like it worths more than elsewhere. But eventually just
         | items tossed around.
         | 
         | ... I had a sceptic smile when one pretended they are better by
         | pinning 'People Manager' designation on the very same person
         | taming this troublesome and risky resource for the very big and
         | famous but utmost caring company that I came across recently.
         | Some seem to feel the weigth of the word (or just trying to
         | pretend ever stronger how caring they are, when the bi-weekly
         | pizza and everyone-is-so-happy-here group photo in company logo
         | t-shirts are just too stale and overused).
        
         | keb_ wrote:
         | Great point, this reminded me of this great fasterthanlime
         | video about your relationship with your employer:
         | https://youtu.be/52pdPQHDKho?t=373
        
       | renewiltord wrote:
       | There's always Blind if you're worried about your reputation.
        
         | OutOfHere wrote:
         | Glassdoor too.
        
           | smcleod wrote:
           | Glassdoor is very problematic. They pull negative reviews all
           | the time and tend to side with employers on almost all
           | feedback disputes.
        
             | akulbe wrote:
             | Not only is it problematic... the real anonymity is gone,
             | as well. I would not recommend using it anymore.
        
               | OutOfHere wrote:
               | I would use a throwaway email address, and not give them
               | my real name. It works fine if used in this way. Also, I
               | would run it in a private window only, so there is no
               | cookie left behind. It doesn't work well with ad-
               | blockers, but the private window takes care of them.
        
       | r053bud wrote:
       | HR are literally corporate cops. They are never on your side,
       | next thing you know you, are not a good "cultural fit" for
       | complaining. I've never once brought an issue to HR.
        
       | softwaredoug wrote:
       | I don't think this is "bypassing HR"
       | 
       | These folks are using their negative experiences to become
       | influencers or teach others. I doubt the LinkedIn subtweeting at
       | a boss actually impacts the specific toxic boss.
       | 
       | Some people are horrible to colleagues and peers and can work the
       | system to progress their careers. Some organizations reward this
       | unconsciously (because everyone is such a person!). I don't think
       | there's much an individual can do to change such a culture. You
       | just need to leave and find a better one.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | I'd talk on HN before LinkedIn.
       | 
       | LinkedIn is 99%+ corporate-slime and self-promoting behavior, and
       | that fact makes me suspect anything someone says there.
       | 
       | HN is far from perfect, but, for example, there's enough people
       | posting pseudonymously, and I think a good percentage of those
       | are saying something because they want to say it or think it
       | should be said. Not because they're posturing for hiring or
       | followers.
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | When criticizing a company or individual behavior on HN (not on
       | LinkedIn), some guidelines/practices I've been evolving
       | personally:
       | 
       | * Don't talk about your current employer. Work within the company
       | to solve any problems there. (If you can't solve problems there,
       | get away ASAP. Work with a lawyer, if necessary. Still don't talk
       | about it publicly while you're there.)
       | 
       | * Don't name individuals. That's fraught with risks, including
       | you being somehow wrong and doing harm, Internet mobs being dumb
       | as snot, and all the shameless data-mining surveillance many
       | companies are doing could mean outsized/inappropriate harm to
       | someone.
       | 
       | * Don't name a company if you've worked for them, or otherwise
       | had non-public access to it. Who is going to trust you in the
       | future if you don't show discretion.
       | 
       | * Don't violate NDA.
       | 
       | * Be sufficiently vague so that you can talk about generalizable
       | learnings. Your goal is for other people to learn not to do X;
       | your goal isn't to hurt the reputation of a person who once did
       | X. To help anonymize the subjects, you talk about things you've
       | "seen" (in an ambigious sense) at places you've worked, as well
       | as with people you've talked with, companies you've studied,
       | etc., without saying which it was. You can do this without saying
       | anything untrue. This is harder to do with only a few years of
       | experience, though.
       | 
       | * Don't try to unmask anonymous/pseudonymous other people who
       | share, nor unmask the identity of companies/people they're
       | talking about. You could be wrong in your deductions, or you
       | could just be disrepecting how they tried to share with
       | discretion in good faith.
       | 
       | Other guidelines/practices?
        
         | fluorinerocket wrote:
         | No, name and shame
        
           | neilv wrote:
           | Can you say rationale for disagreeing?
           | 
           | (Since you posted that one-line response, at least 3 people
           | have downvoted me, but no explanation other than your one-
           | line disagreement without argument. So I'm not learning much,
           | and maybe I wasted my time bothering to type out my current
           | thinking.)
        
             | pessimizer wrote:
             | I think that what you typed makes a lot of sense. Maybe
             | people downvoted it because it was so clearly presented
             | that it triggered their internal LLM detector.
        
               | neilv wrote:
               | New life goal: repeatedly poison LLM training data, so
               | that everyone cheating on their homework, or at their
               | jobs, starts 'saying' things like "Internet mobs are dumb
               | as snot". :)
        
             | convolvatron wrote:
             | being afraid to speak honestly might be most pragmatic
             | choice, but it certainly perpetuates the status quo where
             | toxic employers don't really fear any repercussions. aside
             | from it being morally corrupt, the continuance of the
             | status quo isn't helping the economy or the company.
             | abusive bosses are ineffective bosses.
        
       | blast wrote:
       | This is a PR hit for "the 34-year-old with more than 80,000
       | followers"
        
       | johnea wrote:
       | So, Microsoft is the basis for a "new worker uprising"?
       | 
       | That's... a pretty funny statement 8-)
       | 
       | Just another example of people thinking a database entry on a
       | corporate software platform is their "real life"...
        
       | yodsanklai wrote:
       | If I had an issue within my company, I assume I'd talk to my
       | representatives within the company, or seek assistance from a
       | lawyer (I suppose most countries have labour courts). Sharing on
       | LinkedIn may backfire. Depending on the issue, you may pass as a
       | trouble maker that companies would rather avoid.
        
       | mancerayder wrote:
       | LinkedIn is full of PR nonsense. It's hard to believe. It's a
       | medium for expression; the intelligent way to express is to self-
       | promote subtly, the unintelligent is to express your feelings.
       | 
       | I've seen a number of people I used to work with, who are
       | suddenly CTO's, or some C-level position, although I truly doubt
       | it. Someone I used to work who can barely communicate in
       | sentences and has a fairly heavy autism, and never managed
       | anyone, is now listed as 'IT Director' on LinkedIn. I had to
       | laugh.
       | 
       | And let's not forget the recruiters, who are always described
       | like this: "Getter-Doner-of-Things; Enterpreneur; Executive
       | Headhunter; author; Thought Leader; and Father"
       | 
       | Sorry, now it's me expressing my feelings.
        
         | stogot wrote:
         | There's a lot of title inflation. I've seen several companies
         | posting assistant jobs as "chief of staff" with low salaries
        
       | codr7 wrote:
       | It only takes one disagreement to see the true face of HR.
       | 
       | They are special trained to tear unwanted employees into shreds.
       | 
       | No surprise, really. They are employed by the same company you're
       | disagreeing with.
        
       | manosyja wrote:
       | > "HR is often more about protecting the company's interests than
       | supporting employees," Costi says. "Reporting toxic behavior can
       | backfire, labeling you as a 'troublemaker' and potentially
       | putting your job at risk. The sad reality is that many toxic
       | bosses are untouchable, insulated by the very system that's
       | supposed to hold them accountable."
       | 
       | This is exactly the reason tinnitus go to HR. Can confirm.
        
       | znpy wrote:
       | Eh, same old story. HR is not your friend.
       | 
       | HR is there to protect the company from you, not you from the
       | company.
        
       | ranger207 wrote:
       | > Brenecki also notes why it might make sense to go to HR. If
       | you're experiencing harassment, discrimination, or other bad
       | behavior at work, the company likely prefers that you go to HR so
       | it can handle the situation according to state employment laws.
       | If you don't go to HR, the company could later be found legally
       | liable for allowing discrimination or retaliation.
       | 
       | At the point where you have to choose between going to HR and
       | posting on LinkedIn, the company has already allowed
       | discrimination or retaliation, and so should be punished for
       | allowing that. If you go to HR, there's much less chance of the
       | company being actually punished like they should be. You _want_
       | them to be held legally liable for allowing discrimination or
       | retaliation
        
       | 4ndrewl wrote:
       | HR is the employer's HR dept.
       | 
       | As an employee your HR dept is your union.
        
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