[HN Gopher] Kakizome: Japanese way of new-years resolution
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       Kakizome: Japanese way of new-years resolution
        
       Author : NalNezumi
       Score  : 212 points
       Date   : 2025-01-02 17:27 UTC (4 days ago)
        
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       | Fethbita wrote:
       | Last year even though I didn't have a theme, I made small changes
       | in the way I live, tried to complete my 15 book goodreads
       | challenge, started doing sports and improve myself professionally
       | on my free time.
       | 
       | This year started with pretty fundamental questions in the way I
       | live and uncertainties about my future so deciding on a theme is
       | very difficult. I can't answer those questions and don't know
       | what I really want. I will try to put an effort into keeping the
       | good habits I gained last year though.
        
         | ehnto wrote:
         | I am in a similar boat. I guess I am fortunate, in that there
         | are many interesting paths forward. But I don't know which to
         | take, and there are so many uncertainties in the fundamentals.
         | 
         | I am leaning toward taking Patton Oswald's advice, and
         | executing any plan now, rather than the perfect plan later. But
         | I am getting older, so it feels like I only get a few more
         | "pivots" in life, especially with financial stability in mind.
        
           | johnisgood wrote:
           | Yeah, executing ANY plan is better than waiting to come up
           | with the perfect plan, IMO. I had no idea it was tied to a
           | single person.
        
             | ianmcgowan wrote:
             | There's a long list of historical quotes about planning,
             | but I think this reference might be to a different Patton:
             | 
             | "A good plan violently executed now is better than a
             | perfect plan executed next week." - George S. Patton
             | 
             | * "Those who are victorious plan effectively and change
             | decisively. They are like a great river that maintains its
             | course but adjusts its flow." ~ Sun Tzu
             | 
             | * "In preparing for battle I have always found that plans
             | are useless, but planning is indispensable." ~ Dwight D.
             | Eisenhower
             | 
             | * "Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend
             | the first four sharpening the axe." ~ Abraham Lincoln
        
               | jayrot wrote:
               | "No plan survives contact with the enemy". --Helmuth von
               | Moltke
               | 
               | or, if you prefer,
               | 
               | "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth"
               | --Mike Tyson.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | I don't always like the pressure of the "New Year" to come up
         | with a "goal"... Maintaining the habits you already have isn't
         | easy either! And I think a goal can emerge along the way.
        
         | txbrown wrote:
         | What I did this year was draft all the things I wanted to
         | achieve, check roughly how long it takes to achieve them - some
         | have deadlines, like driver license test, which has a specific
         | date - split them by quarters (Q1,Q2, and so on), some are more
         | about consistency and repeated practice that culminates into
         | being able to perform something at a higher level of execution
         | - e.g. bass guitar and music theory. During each quarter I
         | focus on what is there and try to limit my time around those
         | things. I adjusted my calendar, reminders, etc to help me stay
         | on track. I thik focusing on a few things every 3 months and
         | tracking time/sessions/effort put into can be helpful. I think
         | something good happens regardless and you know for sure you did
         | your best.
        
       | research_pie wrote:
       | I like this idea of setting a theme. It gives you a compass for
       | if an action is in accordance to the theme or not.
       | 
       | I still like to drill into the concrete quantitative details of
       | how I'm going to achieve the theme though.
       | 
       | This year theme for me would be: Freedom.
        
       | vivekd wrote:
       | What was a bit disappointing to me is the author decided to gloss
       | over the parts like getting fresh water from a well and having it
       | purified at the temple.
       | 
       | That's the parts I wanted more details on - it makes it
       | interesting and more like a glance at a foreign and different
       | culture.
        
         | imsurajkadam wrote:
         | Japan does really have a wells that has pure water than is
         | drinkable
        
           | BalinKing wrote:
           | Should this read "Japan really does have wells that have pure
           | water that is drinkable"? (Not trying to be annoying or
           | anything, just want to understand your comment correctly :-)
           | )
        
       | bot347851834 wrote:
       | This is my second year picking a theme and I picked "Revolution",
       | many things are (probably) going to be different 360 days from
       | now for me!
       | 
       | Fun read, it didn't occur to me that I could simply pick foreign
       | words that are much more adept at explaining complex concepts
       | briefly.
        
         | throwvolution wrote:
         | I have a theme song for you: https://youtu.be/PTc52teL4dc
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | > couple of years ago, CGP Grey made a point about replacing the
       | New Year resolution with the New Year theme.
       | 
       | Yeah this year (really: mid December when the work year ended for
       | us) we declared it the Year of Discovery. All it really is, is a
       | thing my wife and I say to each other any time we're humming and
       | hawing on a purchase or decision or uncertainty on what menu item
       | to pick. It's kind of become a running joke, and yet it's pretty
       | effective.
        
       | mc3301 wrote:
       | Few more fun facts:
       | 
       | Elementary school students all write kakizome at the end of
       | December. Within the school, each grade will write the exact same
       | thing. They're hung in the halls for all to see. Hundreds of the
       | exact same kakizome.
       | 
       | Many people burn their kakizome mid-January during "Dondoyaki."
       | 
       | The posture, attention and care taken while writing Kakizome is
       | one of the important points. Those, and the outcome of the
       | characters themselves, are all taken into account.
       | 
       | Unrelated, but Japan's officaily chosen Kanji for the year 2024
       | was "Jin " which means gold, or money, or heck, even Friday.
        
         | gsf_emergency wrote:
         | --> Jin  --> Venus --> Friday -->
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friday#Etymology
        
         | SllX wrote:
         | Jin  : _kin_ : gold
         | 
         | oJin  : _okane_ : money
         | 
         | Jin Yao Ri  : _kinyoubi_ : Friday (shortened to Jin  on some
         | calendars, kind of like how we do "Fri" sometimes in English)
         | 
         | Jin Zi  : _kaneko_ : gold coin
         | 
         | Jin Yu  : _kingyo_ : goldfish
        
           | geraldwhen wrote:
           | Jin Zi  is kinsu.
           | 
           | https://jisho.org/search/%E9%87%91%E5%AD%90
           | 
           | Kane is not a normal reading for Jin  in compound words
           | unless this is an esoteric word I haven't seen.
        
             | numpad0 wrote:
             | That one sounds like Chinese word with hallucinated
             | Japanese usage. Zi  is IIUC casually used to mean "little
             | ___ things" in Chinese, but same isn't the case with
             | Japanese; Jin Zi  is used as a somewhat discrete way to
             | refer to an envelope of cash.
        
             | SllX wrote:
             | You are correct. Jin Zi  can be read as "kaneko", but
             | that's actually a surname and place name. "Kinsu" is a gold
             | coin. I got the two swapped.
        
               | geraldwhen wrote:
               | Oof. The reading for names will always get me. Still
               | worth knowing the name reading!
               | 
               | Google maps has it showing up in a bunch of business
               | names, too.
        
               | fenomas wrote:
               | Seems to have been a bit of confusion in several
               | directions here, but just to clarify: in modern usage Jin
               | Zi  is read only as Kaneko, and is a very common surname.
               | The "kinsu" reading is archaic; a typical native speaker
               | may never have heard of it.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Burning them during Dondoyaki feels like a meaningful way to
         | let go and start fresh.
        
       | samcheng wrote:
       | The Chinese have a new-year's calligraphy tradition, too, written
       | on red paper and hung on your door. Of course, that's done on the
       | Lunar new year, not the Solar one.
       | 
       | Your description of New Year's as "like Western Christmas" is apt
       | - I remember visiting one year, shocked by how quiet everything
       | was, and how many restaurants and attractions were closed.
       | Everyone was at home with their family! The January First
       | festival at Senso-ji Temple was a unique spectacle, though - the
       | sound of people donating hundreds of one-yen coins at once is
       | really unique.
        
         | adastra22 wrote:
         | That's because Japanese new year is derived from Chinese
         | (lunar) new year traditions. They moved the New Year's
         | celebration to align with the Western calendar as part of the
         | Meiji restoration, but kept the festivities the same.
        
       | BalinKing wrote:
       | The image caption is interesting: as a right-handed person
       | myself, it had never occurred to me that handedness would matter
       | so much in shodo. I wonder if Western calligraphy is this way too
       | (maybe to a lesser degree, given that stroke order isn't as
       | crucial)?
        
         | emaro wrote:
         | Not really sure about calligraphy specifically, but since
         | western languages are written left to right, it's always harder
         | as a left-handed person. Because you have to push instead of
         | pulling, where the latter makes fluid shapes easier.
        
         | NalNezumi wrote:
         | Left-handed calligraphy is slightly harder in shodo. The two
         | main thing I've struggled over the years is how to end a line
         | in a beautiful way.
         | 
         | Usually, a line start with pressing slightly harder, then
         | "drag" it while slowly lifting the pencil, making that end of
         | the line more aesthetic by thinning it out. And at the end you
         | move it swiftly.
         | 
         | It's much easier to control this end movement when you're
         | dragging towards your body, rather than away from it. For left
         | handed, it's essentially the opposite in the way that what for
         | right handed is dragging towards you(r right hand) is away, so
         | all the details become the opposite.
         | 
         | Apparently you can learn this as a lefthanded too, but in Japan
         | it's quite common to "correct" lefthanded kids to learn to use
         | both hands for writing, so not many people know the struggle or
         | the remedy. (my mom used to point out that me and my younger
         | brother wrote badly, and we are both left handed)
        
       | whym wrote:
       | If nothing else, the fact that many people write _anything_ with
       | ink and brush helps to sustain the calligraphy culture. Nowadays,
       | to many (if not most) of them the new year kakizome ritual is the
       | only occasion they practice brush calligraphy in an entire year.
        
         | bamboozled wrote:
         | This is what I find most interesting about Japanese culture.
         | The Japanese do things for seemingly superficial reasons which
         | can seem redundant to an outsider but the more I learn, the
         | more I see utility in a lot of it.
         | 
         | They've seem so much come and go over the centuries they seem
         | to just go their own way because it works for them. Almost
         | feels like they've been burned enough times to know better than
         | to just throw the baby out with the bath water.
         | 
         | The most efficient in the short term, certainly not always.
        
           | Tade0 wrote:
           | They do seem to understand ergonomics and user experience
           | better than most.
           | 
           | My Sony Xperia has all its buttons on one side. Seems awfully
           | unorthodox, as almost all the other brands put them on both
           | sides.
           | 
           | Until of course you start using the phone with one hand or
           | lay it on its side to watch a movie.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Do not think it's a bad thing... Even if it's just once a year
        
       | iammrpayments wrote:
       | I just spent the new year in Japan in a temple, and the way they
       | do it compared to my country makes much more sense. They just
       | wait until midnight to hear the bell 108 times, go to the temple
       | pray and then wake up to see first sunrise, instead of watching
       | the fireworks and partying all night.
        
         | qmarchi wrote:
         | Shibuya usually has parties going all night, but it was all
         | pushed back into clubs holding events, nothing on the streets.
        
         | pezezin wrote:
         | I live in Japan and I find the Japanese new year celebration or
         | it's lack thereof absolutely depressing, but to each their own.
        
           | iammrpayments wrote:
           | I probably chose a nice place, because they lighted up a huge
           | fire while the monks were chanting around it, also there were
           | lots of food stalls and people lining up to the temple.
           | 
           | I also used to go see fireworks in Taiwan but it is usually
           | like this -> wait for fireworks -> 10 minutes fireworks -->
           | have some fun (hopefully) -> get stuck in traffic/public
           | transportation.
           | 
           | My home country is more lively but it ends up being similar,
           | except people get way drunker.
        
       | litbear2022 wrote:
       | "Yuan Dan Kai Bi "[1] The first writing of the New Year. Its a
       | small ritual performed by ancient Chinese intellectuals on the
       | first day of the New Year. It has a history of about 1,000 years.
       | During the Qing Dynasty, the emperor's ceremony became more grand
       | and lengthy, including writing words of blessing with ornate
       | Chinese brushes, symbolically turning the pages of the New Year's
       | calendar (in the early Qing Dynasty, European missionaries
       | participated in the improvement of the traditional Chinese
       | calendar) [2] and drinking from a golden cup symbolizing the
       | eternal and unbreakable borders. Ironically, one of the golden
       | cups was stolen by French invaders during the Second Opium War
       | [3].
       | 
       | [1] https://imagepphcloud.thepaper.cn/pph/image/114/965/140.jpg
       | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Johann_Adam_Schall_von_Bell [3]
       | https://wallacelive.wallacecollection.org/eMP/eMuseumPlus?se...
        
         | coldtea wrote:
         | Like most "ancient Japanese" customs, foods, etc
        
       | schappim wrote:
       | This is awesome.
       | 
       | I'm going with Duo Jiao Jing Ying  (takaku keiei) A four-
       | character phrase (yojijukugo) literally translating to "managing
       | multiple facets." It carries a similar notion to "Portfolio
       | Approach," implying strategic diversification rather than a lack
       | of focus.
        
       | greekanalyst wrote:
       | Fun fact: although rarely used, the very close word "kakiazomai"
       | (kakiazomai) means "I am feeling/generating evil/bad/negative
       | thoughts" in Greek.
        
       | nicbou wrote:
       | That's interesting, thanks for sharing!
       | 
       | I usually take the opposite approach. My resolutions are usually
       | a lot smaller, and their theme more practical. I don't intend to
       | stick with them all year, but I fully intend to make significant
       | progress within a month, and thus set the course for the year.
       | 
       | Some examples from this year: improve my German, cook Indian
       | food, travel with friends. For each of them I have already made a
       | list of actionable first steps, and I have taken many of those
       | steps.
       | 
       | I find a general theme to be both too broad and too narrow. I
       | want many small things, not one big thing.
        
       | rwmj wrote:
       | Careful with this. I once did a kakizome for Shui  (mizu, water),
       | because it's a nice simple character to draw. That year the
       | bathroom leaked, flooding the house.
        
         | ErigmolCt wrote:
         | Better choose wisely this year!
        
       | ErigmolCt wrote:
       | A visible reminder that quietly nudges you throughout the year...
       | It always works for me. I have a whiteboard at home where I write
       | down my goals for the quarter. It's satisfying to erase a goal
       | from the board after completing it and write a new one.
        
         | criddell wrote:
         | Have you ever considered setting an annual theme rather than
         | quarterly goals?
        
       | riffraff wrote:
       | I saw someone on mastodon[0] mentioning the idea of using a bingo
       | card for new year resolutions rather than a specific objective.
       | 
       | It aligns with the idea of having a new year theme rather than a
       | specific goal, and I liked the idea. Sadly, I'm not one for
       | resolutions either way.
       | 
       | [0] https://mastodon.social/@jessie/113742080312737907
        
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