[HN Gopher] Social media distorts perceptions of norms (2024)
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       Social media distorts perceptions of norms (2024)
        
       Author : TaurenHunter
       Score  : 99 points
       Date   : 2025-01-05 09:10 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | Narciss wrote:
       | Interesting. My social media use is very sparse, and some of my
       | reasons are echoed in the article.
        
       | fldskfjdslkfj wrote:
       | I hope the U16 ban in Australia works and more countries adopt
       | that approach.
        
         | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
         | I do too, but I don't think it's enough. I've noticed over the
         | years that so many people are experiencing this thing where
         | their parents are adopting extreme ideas based on what they've
         | picked up while scrolling through Facebook.
        
           | MrMcCall wrote:
           | We must first tune our own sense of truth and compassion to
           | point our moral compass in the right direction. My parents
           | have fallen victim to FoxNews' cult of dishonesty and
           | fascism. I am at their service, but they don't want the
           | truth, so they continue wondering in the darkness, not even
           | caring to experience our extraordinarily delightful and
           | accomplished children.
           | 
           | As to our children, they have never had either a smartphone
           | or unmonitored access to the internet. It's that simple.
           | 
           | Through the twist of fate that is the pandemic combined with
           | living in public housing, they were already home-schooled as
           | they didn't need to be around other adolescents watching
           | "Game of Thrones" or porn, or listening to Black Metal or the
           | more ignorant kinds of Hip Hop (glorifying wealth, violence,
           | objectification of women, and braggadocio).
           | 
           | We are each the product of many different cultures, which we
           | then combine into our own individual cultural worldview. Few
           | people appear able to apersonally evaluate their cultural
           | tendencies, so they are susceptible to influence from the
           | dishonest, immoral and/or belligerent.
           | 
           | They were raised with compassion and taught why we should be
           | as compassionate as possible to every single person, and that
           | makes them a delight for every single person they encounter.
           | I have found that surrounding them by good people, ideas,
           | attitudes, and behaviors was important to their development.
           | 
           | Keeping them away from submorons who are both ignorant and
           | overconfident is an important factor in the development of
           | young adults. I know this deeply because -- while not myself
           | belligerent -- I was a total dipshi_t as a teenager.
           | 
           | I do not blame my parents for my idiocy, for they worked
           | their asses off to provide for us. I blame our society for
           | not facilitating our being able to have responsible adults
           | around to educate myself and my peers.
           | 
           | My first rule of parenting is to not let children raise
           | children. When left to their own devices (PNI), they tend to
           | gravitate to the worst ideas, and the younger kids will learn
           | from their elders' abyssmal examples.
        
           | paganel wrote:
           | That's "extreme" only to their children, who most probably
           | (the children, that is) hold very extreme beliefs themselves,
           | such as smaller pensions and reduced State-supported
           | assistance for the elderly.
           | 
           | It is true, those (relatively younger) children think that
           | they still hold the Gramcsian hegemony-like hold on what's
           | considered to be the "truth", and hence the non-"extreme",
           | but that has stopped happening with the advent of social
           | networks and the democratization of information (think of how
           | happy everyone was about that democratization via social
           | media when the Arab Spring started).
        
             | saagarjha wrote:
             | ??? Where did all this come from?
        
             | harimau777 wrote:
             | In my experience, the extremism comes from those who are
             | sucked into conservative media no longer adapting to social
             | changes.
             | 
             | Previously, when some new social shift occurred there would
             | be an initial conservative backlash. However, over time as
             | people were exposed to the change they would see that it
             | wasn't actually the end of the world and find ways to adapt
             | their views to find a "new normal" that allowed the old and
             | new to coexist.
             | 
             | That doesn't seem like it's the case anymore. People are
             | fed a constant stream of media designed to keep them afraid
             | of anything that's different such that they don't have a
             | chance to experience the other side and find a middle
             | ground.
        
             | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
             | I've heard people from my parents' generation argue in
             | favour of allowing all of my friends to die.
             | 
             | Seems pretty extreme to me.
        
         | aprilthird2021 wrote:
         | A cursory glance at the history of youths tells anyone that it
         | won't
        
           | fldskfjdslkfj wrote:
           | Are you sure about that? Seems to me the banning substances
           | such as alcohol, drugs and cigarettes drastically reduced
           | usage over time (for kids, adults is a different topic)
           | 
           | And in this case you have a handful of companies that are
           | responsible so it will be much easier to enforce vs trying to
           | prevent every small shop from selling stuff illegally.
        
         | flyinglizard wrote:
         | The future of our society is in a large part online, and I'd
         | rather youth to grow up into those platforms with adequate
         | tools to handle them than to just get in at 16. No matter what
         | phenomena you look at, by the time a generation grows around a
         | certain tech or condition as a given it just blends into
         | everyday normal life. It happened with the TV, Internet,
         | Instant Messaging, YouTube, Facebook and now TikTok. Happens as
         | we speak with ChatGPT. I wouldn't ban it until 16 either, I'd
         | teach kids about it from first grade.
        
           | ohmy987 wrote:
           | > The future of our society is in a large part online
           | 
           | I wonder how accurate this is.
           | 
           | I have no account in any social media except in LinkedIn
           | (which I see more as a job portal than social media), and
           | that's how I raise my kids. I live without facebook,
           | instagram, twitter, or whatever else and I'd risk to say life
           | is better without those.
        
             | FollowingTheDao wrote:
             | It is not accurate. This person is one of those extremes
             | they talk about in the paper.
             | 
             | "For instance, news stories that express outgroup animosity
             | are 67% more likely to be shared on social media (Rathje et
             | al., 2021). "
             | 
             | They are holding an extreme view and posting it online.
        
             | saagarjha wrote:
             | You're on social media right now fwiw
        
               | averageRoyalty wrote:
               | Are they? Personally (and I know many others agree with
               | this) I wouldn't class BBS', forums, an online guestbook,
               | Steam etc as 'social media'. I can't quite qualify the
               | delineation, but it is there.
        
               | CaptainFever wrote:
               | The definition of social media from Oxford is "websites
               | and applications that enable users to create and share
               | content or to participate in social networking". I think
               | that describes HN. We participate in social networking on
               | this website, and we can share content, and create
               | content (in the form of comments, Show HNs, etc).
               | 
               | Personally, and this is a bit of a "hot take", but I
               | think some people trying to define a difference is just
               | trying to justify continue using HN and forums like
               | Reddit while still hating on social media or wanting it
               | banned. To be consistent with getting off social media, I
               | think one ought to get off HN and Reddit completely as
               | well (use a site blocker extension). But yeah this is a
               | bit of an inflammatory opinion, I understand.
        
           | BlueTemplar wrote:
           | There's a difference between TV / Internet / Instant
           | Messaging and YouTube / Facebook / TikTok / ChatGPT.
           | 
           | The former are general concepts, while the latter are
           | specific companies that are arguably damaging enough to be
           | worth banning at the level of the whole society (except maybe
           | in their home countries, which of course makes the situation
           | harder to deal with).
        
           | gonzo41 wrote:
           | Nobody wants their daughter to go search out a make up video
           | then after 3 or 4 of those to start getting pro-anorexia
           | content because the algorithm knows it drives engagement.
           | 
           | we already know the answer to the ills of social media, the
           | better solution would be to force companies to have
           | chronological feeds and non algorithmically targeted
           | suggestions.
        
           | throw_pm23 wrote:
           | This is like saying that smoking and alcohol consumption is
           | the future, so better get kids to start doing it as early as
           | possible.
        
           | FollowingTheDao wrote:
           | I think the age should be higher or it should be banned all
           | together.
           | 
           | Why? Because the good it adds to society is trivial. You know
           | how I know? Because I know plenty of people who do not use it
           | and they are getting along just fine. I also know people who
           | pretty much do not use the internet outside of work and get
           | along fine.
           | 
           | We are told we need these things by people who are selling us
           | these things.
           | 
           | And what you are saying is we should teach these kids how to
           | live in a horrible, distorted attention economy that is
           | warping our social norms to an extreme instead of building
           | them a healthy society and economy.
        
           | nkrisc wrote:
           | Most people I meet seem to treat online stuff either as mere
           | amusement or an annoying thing they need to deal with to get
           | done what they need done.
           | 
           | Most people do not live online. They use the Internet because
           | they need to (and usually hate it while they do) or simply as
           | a tool to communicate or amuse.
           | 
           | They don't care about AI, or federated this and that, or
           | about open source, or about walled gardens, or any of that
           | sort of stuff.
        
         | richrichie wrote:
         | Banning never works.
        
           | FollowingTheDao wrote:
           | Banning never works...perfectly. But I will take anything
           | over what we have now.
           | 
           | Point: We have banned murder, which obviously does not work
           | perfectly.
        
             | MrMcCall wrote:
             | Yes, indeed. Age restrictions definitely lessen the harms
             | young people can easily get into.
        
             | richrichie wrote:
             | Murder was never legal or "allowed".
             | 
             | If you believe that people do not kill because it is
             | illegal, you are on a shaky ground.
        
               | bdangubic wrote:
               | you should ask yourself a different question - if we
               | legalized murder would this cause uptick in murders or
               | not...? :)
        
               | richrichie wrote:
               | It has more nuance. The supposition that there are
               | significant number of murderers walking among us that
               | would not murder because it is illegal has no basis.
               | 
               | Crime statistics imply that most murders are results of
               | either passion or pre-meditated/ well planned. These have
               | nothing to do with legality of it. We have to have the
               | law for an entirely different reason.
        
               | bildung wrote:
               | Of course it was, the trick simply was to declare some
               | groups to not be human.
        
           | nkrisc wrote:
           | Guess we just ought to legalize murder then, since banning it
           | hasn't stopped it.
        
             | richrichie wrote:
             | If you believe that people do not kill because it is
             | illegal, you are on a shaky ground mon ami.
        
               | MrMcCall wrote:
               | It's like the military says, "We can't make you do
               | something, but we can make you wish you had."
               | 
               | People understanding the negative consequences of
               | potential actions is a bedrock of society.
               | 
               | If a person is not amenable to acting out of compassion
               | for others, they should at least have a fear of the
               | repercussions for being violent towards them.
        
               | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
               | I believe that likely criminal punishment is absolutely a
               | reason there aren't as many murders as there could be.
        
               | nkrisc wrote:
               | I would agree that many (most?) people would not kill
               | even if it was legal. But not all.
        
       | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
       | It's interesting also which platforms prefer which norms. On my
       | Instagram, everyone is a sexy millionaire. When I had Twitter,
       | everyone utterly _hated_ straight, white men.
       | 
       | Neither of these are an accurate representation of society.
        
         | richrichie wrote:
         | Twitter as X now is very different from the heavily censored
         | and woke cesspool it was.
        
         | lm28469 wrote:
         | Individualist ghettos are very well segmented either inside of
         | social medias themselves or split between different platforms.
         | That's why some people think the entire world is totally fine
         | with their fringe ideas while in real life (Most people don't
         | spend 5-10 hours on reddit/twitter/facebook discussing genders,
         | masculinist ideas, politics, &c.) people either don't care or
         | aren't even aware of the topics that engulfed terminally online
         | people's mind
         | 
         | Although I guess this is slowly changing with new generations,
         | I've noticed more and more people spewing their social medias's
         | "pret a penser" out of nowhere, as if you had to chose your
         | side on every single topic of the day. One minute your talking
         | with your 14 year old nephew and the next he'll tell you why he
         | supports Israel, I wish I was exaggerating but I literally went
         | through that scenario during the Christmas holidays
        
         | redeux wrote:
         | I was on Twitter from 2009 until it turned into Xitter. I never
         | saw much of that hatred for straight, white men (e.g. me).
         | Sure, if you went looking you could always find something to be
         | offended about, if that's what you desired. I never found it
         | showing up at my doorstep though.
         | 
         | I did see a lot of hate show up at marginalized people or had
         | those otherwise minority representation in society. I did see a
         | lot of people challenged for their personal beliefs that went
         | on to claim racism and sexism, especially but not exclusively
         | among straight white men.
         | 
         | Nobody should suffer the indignity of discrimination for what
         | we were born into, but people are often way too quick to
         | dismiss ideological criticism as discrimination.
        
           | TexanFeller wrote:
           | I went on Twitter years ago and almost exclusively followed
           | people interested in programming language research,
           | functional programming, and various hard sciences - tried to
           | stay well away from the political nonsense. A year or two
           | later many of those same people started posting as much about
           | things like heteronormativity and trans issues as much as
           | they did computer science. The authors I followed started
           | talking mostly about how JK Rowling is the devil. Such
           | discussions aren't what I was there for so I was very
           | disappointed that everyone got sucked into the echo chamber
           | and spent all their time talking about that instead.
           | Twitter/X is optimized for zingers and gotcha responses about
           | emotionally charged topics, not thoughtful and nuanced
           | discussions about deeper topics. I think in the past it was
           | legitimately a left wing echo chamber and now it's Elon's
           | echo chamber.
        
             | seethedeaduu wrote:
             | Many people in the programming language, functional
             | programming, and academic community in general are trans or
             | queer themselves so it only makes sense. Especially since
             | the hate towards trans people became more public since
             | around 2019.
        
         | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
         | There are people who hate women and people who hate men on
         | Twitter. Which one you perceive to be an issue is more a
         | reflection of your sensitivity.
        
           | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
           | I really don't care for this insinuation.
           | 
           | I recently created a new YouTube account, and for the first
           | few months, YT couldn't work out if I was a Nazi or a
           | Communist. I'm neither.
           | 
           | You should not just assume that users are only shown ideas
           | they already believe in. Because, that is obviously not true.
        
             | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
             | Right, you've been shown ideas that outrage you, (that men
             | are bad) and not ideas that you already believe in. Because
             | the former stimulates engagement for Twitter.
             | 
             | Yes, there are terrible extremists on Twitter who hate men.
             | It's our responsibility not to let that make us believe
             | that's the literal truth of the bulk of society.
        
               | yakshaving_jgt wrote:
               | > It's our responsibility not to let that make us believe
               | that's the literal truth of the bulk of society.
               | 
               | That was literally my argument.
               | 
               | Let's just end this here.
        
       | blueflow wrote:
       | I hoped the preprint would go more into the details about which
       | norms. I'm sure most of them are no better than superstition.
        
         | MrMcCall wrote:
         | Embracing compassion as a way of interacting with our world's
         | peoples is not superstition, my friend, yet you will find very
         | little of it in mainstream fiction, the mainstream media, or
         | even the popular media (e.g. Joe Rogan). The people who fund
         | those media have created the norms that we live within today in
         | 2025, my friend.
         | 
         | It takes effort for us to dig ourselves out of our naturally
         | selfish tendencies towards others, especially those of other
         | cultures. Many of our cultures inculcate those tendencies as
         | being proper, when they are anything but, and are, in fact,
         | degrading our world with pollution, waste, and callous apathy
         | to the plight of our fellow human beings.
         | 
         | I do, as ever, however, recommend the works of William Gibson
         | as he always imbues a sense of humanity in his protagonists.
         | The same is true of Tolkien's books, where goodness is detailed
         | and the evil rarely mentioned. The movies were trash simply on
         | account of their changing Faramir's character so unnecessarily.
         | If you want a truly good Hollywood movie, look to the first
         | Equalizer, which Denzel Washington executive produced, whose
         | protagonist is a hero for the ages.
        
         | ANewFormation wrote:
         | It alluded rather strongly to the perception gap [1] in
         | multiple parts of the paper. That gap is greatly exasperated
         | with social media usage.
         | 
         | That interpretation also eliminates the 'norms change' nuance
         | many have mentioned because it's about objectively incorrect
         | assessments of the norms/values of society, as opposed to oft
         | liminal standards.
         | 
         | [1] - https://perceptiongap.us
        
       | greekanalyst wrote:
       | Findings are not surprising but definitely interesting and verify
       | a lot of the assumptions many of us have these days about the
       | power/influence of social media.
        
       | BlueTemplar wrote:
       | One issue that this article seems afraid fully embrace, is how
       | social "reality" is... socially constructed, so with a high
       | enough usage of social media, social norms _become_ the
       | "extreme" social media norms.
        
       | motorest wrote:
       | I wonder if researchers are simply failing to frame the problem.
       | 
       | It might not be that the perception of norms are distorted. It's
       | just that communities are entirely different and insulated, and
       | thus as communities go they organically develop their own norms.
       | 
       | This failure in perception also communicates a bias that a
       | specific norm should be the reigning one and anything that
       | differs from it is "distorted". This reads like last century's
       | inherent racism in sociology, anthropology, and even linguistics,
       | where anything that contrasted with the old country's baseline
       | was labelled as distortions and errors.
        
         | ANewFormation wrote:
         | The topic is about how people within these subsets of society
         | begin to believe the norms of their subset are shared by
         | society at large, or in other words - by people outside their
         | subset.
        
           | bloomingkales wrote:
           | A bubble. Interestingly enough, we sit and talk in an
           | _incubator_ (thats what YT is). How can we really assess the
           | situation from our own bubble? If we really want to be
           | objective here. We 're just as bat shit as society at large.
           | 
           | Social media pretty much abused every generation. Truly a
           | class action lawsuit is in order, if we only had the courage.
        
             | CaptainFever wrote:
             | > Social media pretty much abused every generation.
             | 
             | That's a pretty extreme viewpoint, no?
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > The topic is about how people within these subsets of
           | society begin to believe the norms of their subset are shared
           | by society at large, or in other words - by people outside
           | their subset.
           | 
           | Again, I think that's just a failure to frame the problem.
           | Norms originate and develop organically within communities.
           | If you have online communities that develop their own norms,
           | and that community does not have a perfect 1-to-1
           | correspondence with other communities, such as your work or
           | your local bar scene, then you're bound to stumble upon
           | people who don't share them even though they are apart of
           | other communities shared by you.
           | 
           | The same applies if you replace "online community" with
           | "work", "bar scene", "school board", etc.
           | 
           | The only aspect that sounds remotely relevant is the online
           | nature of said communities, but that's something that exist
           | and is already known for decades.
        
         | FollowingTheDao wrote:
         | There is a difference between false norms and the spectrum of
         | norms in a society.
         | 
         | What they are saying is that you do not see the full spectrum
         | of norms on social media, so what you are seeing are "false
         | norms" and they are the most extreme norms.
         | 
         | Being against slavery was just one norm out of many, but on
         | social media all you might have seen was pro-slavery norms.
         | 
         | Social media robs you of your democracy and your voice because
         | the algorithms are weigthed for the most attention getting
         | extreme voices. And they do this telling you it is the best
         | invention ever as they make gobs of money so they can bribe
         | politicians to make your life completely worse in every other
         | way possible because shareholders.
        
           | Dalewyn wrote:
           | >Social media robs you of your democracy and your voice
           | 
           | That has been the case with _any_ form of information
           | consumption, including journalism (newspapers).
           | 
           | As Mark Twain (probably) once said: "If you don't read the
           | newspaper you're uninformed, if you read the newspaper you're
           | misinformed."
           | 
           | The answer has always been to develop and maintain mental
           | capacity for critical thinking and form your own opinions
           | instead of having someone program you.
        
             | FrustratedMonky wrote:
             | Correct, newspapers, television, they all had similar
             | problems.
             | 
             | I think the point is social media is larger, more
             | encapsulating, more pervasive, more targeted than a
             | newspaper or television ever could be.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Social media is a huge improvement on people like
               | journalists controlling the narrative instead. 2020 was
               | basically the last time that sort of information control
               | worked. E.g. when journalists suppressed information
               | about George Floyd's criminal background and drug use
               | because, in their view, it wasn't relevant to the issue.
               | That wouldn't have happened just a few years later.
        
               | Kbelicius wrote:
               | > when journalists suppressed information about George
               | Floyd's criminal background and drug use because, in
               | their view, it wasn't relevant to the issue.
               | 
               | Because it isn't relevant? Seems that you think that it
               | is relevant, how?
        
               | FrustratedMonky wrote:
               | "2020 was basically the last time that sort of
               | information control worked"
               | 
               | ???
               | 
               | You don't think social media platforms can control the
               | flow of information? That is their entire business plan.
               | Nothing free about it.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | They have much less control over it than TV and
               | newspapers. TV and newspapers have direct editorial
               | control: if they don't publish or say something on air,
               | their readers and listeners don't get that information.
               | 
               | Social media platforms don't have direct editorial
               | control, only indirect control. They can tweak their
               | algorithms to influence the narrative. But the platforms
               | are designed to encourage information to go viral, so
               | they can only do so much of that.
        
               | FrustratedMonky wrote:
               | The algorithms are automating the editorial control.
               | 
               | But even more so, since they can editorialize down to
               | specific people, targeted influence. It is 1000X more
               | potent than some joe blow newspaper editor.
        
               | motorest wrote:
               | > (...) when journalists suppressed information about
               | George Floyd's criminal background and drug use because,
               | in their view, it wasn't relevant to the issue.
               | 
               | It wasn't. Police don't have the right to murder people
               | indiscriminately just because their record is not
               | pristine. I don't know why would compell anyone to claim
               | otherwise. Do you?
        
           | binary132 wrote:
           | Today's "extreme voices" are tomorrow's "being against
           | slavery", depending on who you're talking to.
        
             | FollowingTheDao wrote:
             | If the algorithm let "being against slavery" be the social
             | norm. You see the problem?
        
               | motorest wrote:
               | > You see the problem?
               | 
               | Don't you think that having someone's algorithm
               | manipulate what should and should not be accepted by a
               | community is something extremely dangerous?
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > What they are saying is that you do not see the full
           | spectrum of norms on social media, so what you are seeing are
           | "false norms" and they are the most extreme norms.
           | 
           | There is no such thing as "false norms". The relativist
           | framing of social norms is already something that's
           | completely wrong and proven to be the result of projection
           | and attempts to frame minority groups as being wrong just for
           | being different. There are only different communities, each
           | with their own social norms. That's very basic human
           | behavior.
           | 
           | > Being against slavery was just one norm out of many, but on
           | social media all you might have seen was pro-slavery norms.
           | 
           | No. You might see communities that, being communities, share
           | their norms and core principles. You have cooking communities
           | what develop very strong opinions on how to cook a specific
           | dish. You have sports communities developing strong opinions
           | on what it means to play a sports the right way. You have
           | political communities developing strong opinions on specific
           | political topics. I mean, aren't political parties explicitly
           | communities that develop their particular opinions on
           | political topics in ways that contrast with other political
           | parties?
           | 
           | Communities develop their own social norms organically, and
           | the more insulated they are the more striking are the
           | differences. Is this surprising?
        
         | DiscourseFan wrote:
         | I saw some headline the other day about an Elon Musk tweet
         | where he claims that humans are evolving to be born via
         | c-section only as our heads are getting to big to be passed
         | naturally through a womb. Queue numerous reddit comments saying
         | Musk is so stupid, insane, racist, etc. all with many upvotes.
         | I search and find Reddit posts from about 10 years ago making
         | the same claim about c-section births, and there are many
         | comments saying yes that makes a lot of sense, all with many
         | upvotes relative to the size of the community back then.
         | 
         | I just find the whole thing kind of ridiculous. I know people,
         | probably at one point intelligent people, who are addicted to
         | twitter, reddit, facebook etc. and always have the unnuanced
         | opinion of whatever their online in-group believes. Thus its
         | remarkable to me that Trump won seemingly by both calling one
         | group's dogma into question, while simultaneously endorsing
         | another's.
        
           | svachalek wrote:
           | Your last sentence is confusing, as you seem to understand
           | the nature of online dogma wars and are then surprised by
           | their natural conclusion.
        
           | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
           | It's normal and logical for the same information to be met
           | with different levels of skepticism based on the reputation
           | of the source.
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > I search and find Reddit posts from about 10 years ago
           | making the same claim about c-section births, and there are
           | many comments saying yes that makes a lot of sense (...)
           | 
           | If you search hard enough, you will find many comments
           | describing Yeti's anatomy in detail. What exactly do you
           | think your point is? That what represents a moron now and a
           | decade ago still holds true?
        
         | heresie-dabord wrote:
         | > a bias that a specific norm should be the reigning one and
         | anything that differs from it is "distorted"
         | 
         | Modern _social-media business_ has only a short history of
         | operating within stable societies. It is not in of itself a
         | society of any sort. It is a business. Its product has known
         | problems with violent extremism. There certainly are  "norms"
         | within extremist groups. You probably don't want them anywhere
         | near your family and friends.
         | 
         | Violence is bad, and so are stalking, defamation, death
         | threats, and disinformation/propaganda. In Real Society, there
         | are consequences for these things.
        
           | motorest wrote:
           | > Modern social-media business has only a short history of
           | operating within stable societies. It is not in of itself a
           | society of any sort.
           | 
           | That's simply false. Check the textbook definition of
           | "society" and check how online communities operate to see how
           | all your arguments are based on an assumption that's
           | fundamentally wrong.
        
       | hunglee2 wrote:
       | it is not only social media, but rather than 'total information
       | environment' including what we get irl.
       | 
       | Normative behaviour is literally what the majority believe and
       | do, so if we enter into spaces where we have certain norms
       | pervasive, we are likely to adopt these ourselves in order to
       | avoid ostracism. This is pressure is especially acute if we have
       | no alternative social group, or have entered into a group which
       | then actively conditions members to separate from alternatives.
       | 
       | This can happen as easily in a small regional town or on a reddit
       | subreddit.
        
         | bloomingkales wrote:
         | Or as Patrick Bateman put it more starkly:
         | 
         | EVELYN: Well, you hate that job anyway. Why don't you just
         | quit? You don't have to work.
         | 
         | BATEMAN: Because I...want...to...fit...in.
         | 
         | ----
         | 
         | We don't even know it, social media has got us all comparing
         | Bone font.
        
           | tempodox wrote:
           | For those who didn't get the reference, it's from the movie
           | "American Psycho".
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Psycho
        
         | HPsquared wrote:
         | A defining part of our age is that social media gave everyone a
         | huge number of alternative social groups.
        
       | mensetmanusman wrote:
       | This was known since TV.
       | 
       | My favorite example was when some anthropologists introduced
       | video recording to this remote tribe that caused the tribe to
       | immediately stop performing the male adulthood initiation
       | rituals.
       | 
       | The tribe leader's reasoning was that the kids could simply watch
       | the video now.
       | 
       | Was a stark reminder of how different human life was in the past
       | before moving pictures.
        
         | FollowingTheDao wrote:
         | This is not at all what they are talking about. You are talking
         | about changing norms, they are talking about false norms.
        
           | mensetmanusman wrote:
           | Norms are norms, not true or false, just more or less aligned
           | to prosperity.
        
             | FollowingTheDao wrote:
             | What they are saying is that social media norms do not
             | reflect social norms, thus they are false norms.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | Sure, same with TV and News Media. It's outliers of
               | interest all the way down.
        
       | ddmma wrote:
       | If you're thirsty then look for water. That is also what social
       | media does and now is augmented by passive listening, fill it
       | with algorithms and synthetic content.
        
       | heresie-dabord wrote:
       | The metaphor of "funhouse mirrors" of distorted perception is
       | apt. We have installed toxic channels of deeply negative
       | behaviours into our society. Now we find ourselves trying to
       | protect _reality_.
       | 
       | The paper mentions all the points of concern, with even a brief
       | reference to... _the money_. Given the enormous influence of
       | advertising revenue (i.e. how these corporations survive), these
       | sections in the paper are essential to consider:
       | 
       | => Whose opinions are represented online?
       | 
       | => Why are false norms worse online than offline?
       | 
       | From the first section (Whose opinions are represented online?):
       | 
       | ""False norms emerge, in part, because social media is dominated
       | by a small number of extreme people who post only their most
       | extreme opinions, and do so at a very high volume (Bor &
       | Petersen, 2022) , while more moderate or neutral opinions are
       | practically invisible online. Encountering a disproportionate
       | volume of extreme opinions can lead to false perceptions that the
       | norms are far more extreme than they actually are. This occurs
       | across domains and platforms.""
       | 
       | From the second section (Why are false norms worse online than
       | offline?):
       | 
       | ""Social media operates in an attention economy, where design
       | features and algorithms are designed to elicit as much engagement
       | as possible (Fisher , 2022; Van Bavel et al., 2024). Platforms
       | then sell ad space to companies based on indices of attention. As
       | such, there is a strong incentive for users to create content
       | that maximizes engagement-rather than content that reflects
       | reality. And, given that those who are the most active on social
       | media are also the most extreme (Barbera & Rivero, 2015; Bor &
       | Petersen, 2022 ), this creates a perverse incentive structure to
       | reward surprising, negative, extreme or divisive content. For
       | instance, news stories that express outgroup animosity are 67%
       | more likely to be shared on social media (Rathje et al., 2021).
       | Thus, people with more extreme or hostile beliefs tend to
       | dominate discourse - drowning out or overshading more mild or
       | nuanced content (Bail, 2022) and leading to false beliefs about
       | the norms of a community . These online dynamics are amplified by
       | the design features and recommendation algorithms on various
       | platforms (Brady et al., 2020; Brady , Jackson, et al., 2023).
       | For instance, a recent analysis of the algorithm on Twitter/X
       | found that it prioritizes evocative content (Milli et al., 2023)
       | . This incentivizes users to create this type of content which
       | can help them build a large following while warping public
       | perceptions of norms. This is compounded due to the fact that
       | there is often little motivation for someone to post a nuanced or
       | moderate opinion on social media. Moreover , nuanced or moderate
       | posts often risk hostility from more extreme ingroup and outgroup
       | members, especially since such hostility has no cost for the
       | aggressor due to the social distance the online environment af
       | fords (Robertson et al., in press) . Indeed, people who are
       | politically moderate were more likely to report being harassed
       | online, even though they were also less likely to post (Bail,
       | 2022) . People who hold less extreme beliefs have less investment
       | in arguing, and when attacked by people who have more strongly
       | held beliefs, perceive it as more hostile. The fact that people
       | who "troll" other people typically have higher dark triad
       | characteristics also does not encourage nuanced debate (Brubaker
       | et al., 2021""
       | 
       | ===
       | 
       | The very real effects of social media on actual public discourse
       | (extreme opinions, insults, threats) can be observed everywhere
       | in daily life. And even on HN, where moderation has been
       | successful, I have no doubt that dang and other moderators could
       | recount dreadful things.
        
       | FedyaDostoevsky wrote:
       | One of the more stunning examples of Figure 1 from the paper in
       | the wild in recent times is the discrepancy between the
       | "consensus" on social media that the assassination of a certain
       | healthcare CEO was justified, versus public opinion polling
       | showing this to be a minority opinion among Americans.[0][1]
       | 
       | [0] https://stratpolitics.org/2024/12/unitedhealthcare-poll/
       | 
       | [1] https://emersoncollegepolling.com/december-2024-national-
       | pol...
       | 
       | (The demographic breakdown in the second poll pretty starkly
       | demonstrates as well how the sort of uneven sample of the
       | population you typically see on places like reddit can give you a
       | very distorted impression of public opinion.)
        
       | roenxi wrote:
       | Although mildly interesting, this doesn't really explore some of
       | the more interesting dynamics of online conversation. There was a
       | theory over in one borderline famous reddit post that most online
       | conversations were various factions of people who were borderline
       | mentally ill talking to each other. Boiling the situation down to
       | a bell curve over one axis is really underselling the amount of
       | distortion that can take place - the moderate opinion might
       | literally not be hinted at in an online conversation.
       | 
       | But the effect the paper hints at is real. I remember being
       | noting with curiosity that Factorio's positive reviews vs Steam's
       | game stats for their recent expansion and noting that the reviews
       | must have been done by people who probably hadn't seen the
       | expansion's content.
        
         | fragmede wrote:
         | Space Age was an unofficial mod for Factorio long before
         | Factorio 2 was released, so those reviews weren't entirely made
         | up.
        
           | xboxnolifes wrote:
           | No it wasn't. That is Space Exploration, and it's wildly
           | different.
        
         | HPsquared wrote:
         | Important to note that some types of people post more than
         | others, so a random sample of posts will not have the same
         | properties as a random sample of people.
        
           | gruez wrote:
           | That's exactly the thesis mentioned by the parent.
           | 
           | >There was a theory over in one borderline famous reddit post
           | that most online conversations were various factions of
           | people who were borderline mentally ill talking to each
           | other.
           | 
           | The referenced post:
           | 
           | https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/9rvroo/most.
           | ..
        
           | xtiansimon wrote:
           | "...some types of people post more than others..."
           | 
           | And some types of modern situations make certain types of
           | people. I'm thinking about people who use financial services
           | and didn't get their revenue, or "unlimited", "forever"
           | services which are not, innocently used cloud services with
           | astronomical bills, DCMA takedown for your own content--take
           | your pick, add your own.
           | 
           | Infuriated people with no recourse will talk and rant,
           | because it's free and feels like taking some of your dignity
           | back.
        
         | notnaut wrote:
         | Quite a few subreddits have flairs applied automatically to
         | comments that show "top 10/5/1% commenter" and by and large
         | commenters who are in the thick of the conversation have those
         | flairs.
        
       | TexanFeller wrote:
       | This hit me hard this year. I'd looked at a lot of Reddit
       | opinions about politics and assumed they were only a normal level
       | of insanely biased, like MSNBC or Fox News. Turns out the average
       | Redditor, even in fairly conservative subs, is vastly more left
       | wing than the population average as seen in the recent elections.
       | Even the Texas subreddit had "vote for Kamala" and "vote blue no
       | matter who" posts that were highly upvoted before the election.
       | Reddit's moderators are the thought police and absolutely nothing
       | there besides perhaps Taylor Swift discourse is reflective of
       | average Jane's opinion.
        
       | CaptainFever wrote:
       | This paper reflects a lot of my experiences, but I think the "Why
       | are false norms worse online than offline?" didn't make a good
       | case.
       | 
       | Platforms like Mastodon, which do not have algorithms, are just
       | as or are even more distorted than algorithmic platforms like X.
       | How can this paper blame it on algorithms, then, if a platform
       | without one ends up the same way? (Possible counterpoint:
       | Mastodon is more extreme because it could represent a platform
       | that people banned from other platforms move to, though the
       | differences between mainstream Mastodon opinions and mainstream
       | offline opinions are so large that I don't think this is the real
       | reason either.)
       | 
       | The paper says "Platforms then sell ad space to companies based
       | on indices of attention. As such, there is a strong incentive for
       | users to create content that maximizes engagement-rather than
       | content that reflects reality." This does not follow. Users don't
       | usually make money from ads. I do think users do want to create
       | content that maximizes engagement, but this is simply for ego and
       | impact, not due to monetary incentives.
       | 
       | The paper later says that "This is compounded due to the fact
       | that there is often little motivation for someone to post a
       | nuanced or moderate opinion on social media." I think this is the
       | real reason, but either way, I think the paper is not convincing
       | at establishing any kind of causality for "online social media"
       | being worse than "offline social media".
       | 
       | Figure 3 is also confusing. What does "moral" and "immoral" mean?
        
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