[HN Gopher] Meta Wants More AI Bots on Facebook and Instagram
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       Meta Wants More AI Bots on Facebook and Instagram
        
       Author : marban
       Score  : 184 points
       Date   : 2025-01-02 04:20 UTC (18 hours ago)
        
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       | unsnap_biceps wrote:
       | I wonder how these bots will impact their metrics reported to
       | investors. Will they be filtered out or into a different bucket,
       | or just included into the mau and similar.
        
         | itake wrote:
         | I don't understand. Presumably, this will create more
         | engagement for the human users, because there is more content
         | for the humans to interact with.
         | 
         | Why would they count an ai model as a monthly active user?
        
           | dartos wrote:
           | > Why would they count an ai model as a monthly active user?
           | 
           | To inflate their numbers and justify higher stock prices.
           | 
           | So money, of course.
        
             | itake wrote:
             | I still don't get it. why would they need an AI model to
             | inflate user counts like this?
             | 
             | There are much simpler ways to create users than spending
             | $100 of millions on gpus. The technology of batch inserting
             | rows into a db, and AI chat bots have existed for a decade.
        
               | dartos wrote:
               | I'll explain, but keep in mind that this is an exercise
               | in cynicism, since none of us really know what's going
               | on.
               | 
               | Currently many tech company stock prices are driven by
               | their potential future with regards to AI. Investors are
               | looking for AI plays, hoping that they'll generate large
               | returns as Web two companies did.
               | 
               | Meta wants to remain a leader in tech. In order to do
               | that And keep commanding higher and higher stock prices,
               | they need to invest heavily into AI. They would invest
               | into AI with no practical reason as long as it looked
               | good to investors.
               | 
               | Meta is investing heavily into AI without a clear
               | monetization plan, so they need to find a use for it or
               | some "Proof" that it drives the metrics that meta
               | correlates with value.
               | 
               | To that end creating a ton of AI driven engagement is a
               | no-brainer. It shows that the company is forward and has
               | an AI plan and their numbers are growing both things that
               | investors like to see.
               | 
               | The millions spent on GPUs will return billions of
               | dollars shareholder value.
        
           | ozim wrote:
           | Then next step is to not show anything human created to other
           | humans - because human created content needs moderation,
           | people swear at each other.
           | 
           | Imagine how pleasant and disinfected content will be there,
           | every company will be happy to pay for ads because there will
           | be no offensive comments and no images of your aunt. All the
           | content perfectly aligned with what people want to see and
           | there somewhere in between ads.
           | 
           | Kids in 10 years or 15 won't even know that in past people
           | actually could post something on the internet- they will
           | think it was all like TV for us that only rich and handsome
           | people get to post on the internet.
           | 
           | Who wouldn't buy all those things that happen to be presented
           | by perfect people in perfect world that you don't have real
           | access to but you can read on internet or have a part of that
           | world by buying some crap they advertise.
           | 
           | It already happens but FB/Meta doesn't have control over
           | influencers - they can create their own now and deplatform
           | all real ones because they won't need them. Companies love
           | that as it won't turn out some influencer that they bought
           | ads with died overdosing drugs somewhere on the street.
        
         | jamra wrote:
         | The real fear I have is in plausible deniability for filtering
         | and muting discussion, which they do now. Moving it to a NN can
         | always hand wave away the responsibility.
        
         | SoftTalker wrote:
         | Will they show ads to the bots?
        
           | ilrwbwrkhv wrote:
           | I mean Facebook massively inflates impressions anyways and
           | has been doing for a while.
        
       | orionblastar wrote:
       | AI Bots will post advertising and astroturf their company
       | products and services.
        
       | friend_Fernando wrote:
       | I think we actually need _more_ bots discussing politics online.
       | Specifically, we need echo chambers to be replaced by cacophony
       | chambers.
       | 
       | The only way to salvage democracy is to bring it back offline.
       | Online, it was undermined by troll farms pulling the strings in
       | favor of certain shady factions. It's time for the good guys to
       | get their hands dirty and break the spell. Trolls cannot be
       | silenced, but they can be offset.
        
         | Animats wrote:
         | > Specifically, we need echo chambers to be replaced by
         | cacophony chambers.
         | 
         | That's the objective of modern Russian propaganda. The goal is
         | not to be believed. It is to create confusion and reap
         | inaction.
        
           | friend_Fernando wrote:
           | Yes, but they do so selectively for what's against their
           | interest. The net, filtered result is what's in their
           | interest.
           | 
           | That leaves "mutual assured dialogue destruction" as the only
           | option, IMO.
        
             | Animats wrote:
             | > Yes, but they do so selectively for what's against their
             | interest.
             | 
             | Generating division is sufficient. There were Russian
             | attempts to hack both campaigns in the last US election.[1]
             | 
             | [1] https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/national-security/us-
             | sancti...
        
               | friend_Fernando wrote:
               | They're usually not filtering pro-left or pro-right.
               | They're filtering pro-Russian-faction _within_ the left
               | and right. This usually means extremists that used to
               | have no hope of winning in the pre-Internet days.
               | 
               | These factions are more likely to be beholden to their
               | "troll benefactors" afterwards. But even if they turn out
               | to be ungrateful, the extremism itself is worth pursuing.
               | As you said, confusion and division are useful in their
               | own right.
               | 
               | Add other rogue countries to the mix, and you end up with
               | a nasty filter. We should turn it into white noise, or at
               | least drop its SNR.
        
             | BeetleB wrote:
             | > Yes, but they do so selectively for what's against their
             | interest. The net, filtered result is what's in their
             | interest.
             | 
             | Not really. You can go and see the ads Russia placed on
             | Facebook in the 2016 election. They had pro-life and pro-
             | choice ads. They had pro-LGBTQ and anti-LGBTQ ads. They had
             | pro-guns and anti-guns ads.
        
               | friend_Fernando wrote:
               | I don't think we disagree here, unless you saw some pro-
               | Ukraine 2024 ads. It's not about left and right. To
               | demagogues, ideologies are just tools of the trade.
        
               | throwaway48476 wrote:
               | In the communist era russian propaganda had a definite
               | ideological position. It was also far more effective.
               | Much of the 60s era progressive politics was a result of
               | russian influence and the west was full of communists
               | before the tankies split off.
        
           | throwaway48476 wrote:
           | That's the objective of propaganda within russia. For
           | external audiences the objective is to sow chaos.
        
             | bergen wrote:
             | cacophony = chaos, so a lot of mixed opinions that don't
             | really make sense would achieve just that. I would not
             | expect thought out and stringent discussion from throwing a
             | bunch of bots at every discussion
        
           | herbst wrote:
           | Isn't that the same for any bigger propaganda machine? I
           | don't see the US doing any different than that
        
         | panta wrote:
         | I have been thinking about these lines for a long time.
         | Humanity would be much better if we went back to pre-social
         | network internet, populated by small human-moderated and
         | vertical forums. We can and should destroy social networks,
         | using their own tactics.
        
         | concordDance wrote:
         | > Online, it was undermined by troll farms pulling the strings
         | in favor of certain shady factions.
         | 
         | No, online it was undermined by selection effects. Where those
         | who care the most about something are most likely to engage or
         | post, leading to endless streams of unrepresentative and
         | extreme views.
        
           | jokethrowaway wrote:
           | It was shaped by censorship! Conservatives and libertarians
           | have been banned for a decade.
           | 
           | Since the first Obama social media campaign the internet
           | became very one sided - and people started believing that
           | crap so much, everyone here had to sit through at least one
           | DEI training.
           | 
           | I'm against any form of government and centralization of
           | power (which nearly always happens thanks to regulations and
           | laws); I'm not a fan of Musk and conservatives (I'll change
           | my mind after I see with my eyes a significant reduction of
           | the US government) but I'm glad to see a return to balance in
           | online discourse.
           | 
           | We had another DEI training at work and I was impressed to
           | read everyone left negative reviews about it. Quite the
           | change in sentiment!
        
         | nextworddev wrote:
         | You are describing Reddit
        
         | finnthehuman wrote:
         | >Online, it was undermined by troll farms
         | 
         | Meh, the conversation had already been undermined by that
         | point. People discussing politics already ceded the
         | conversation to people who liked fiery arguments. The posting
         | farms were just convenient scapegoats for flameposters to
         | explain why they weren't winning, and try to salvage some
         | reputability.
        
         | hmmm-i-wonder wrote:
         | Considering the state of offline media today, I doubt there is
         | any going back to the real or imagined pre-internet days of
         | media.
        
       | alex1138 wrote:
       | Hey here's a novel idea
       | 
       | Have social media websites be reverse chronological posts by
       | friends/pages you follow instead of what AI thinks you're
       | interested in (and yet somehow not explicitly following, yet you
       | get it in your feed anyway)
        
         | Groxx wrote:
         | it'll never work. what's next? federation? insanity.
         | impossibility.
        
         | darth_avocado wrote:
         | But think about the poor shareholders
        
         | wincy wrote:
         | I've developed this tic where anytime I'm on Facebook I
         | aggressively block all the non sponsored suggested content in
         | my timeline. I've blocked literally thousands of pages at this
         | point. So the recommendations have gotten really weird, last
         | week it thought maybe I was gay, then I started recommending
         | Chinese state sponsored pages, now it's recommending all 50
         | National Geographic pages. It's always pages over a million
         | "likes" whatever that means. I'm curious what'll happen if I
         | manage to block all of them.
         | 
         | Honestly probably something lame where the recommendations just
         | get weirder and weirder (which I guess is happening now)
        
           | koutetsu wrote:
           | What a coincidence! I have done the exact same thing but on
           | Instagram instead of Facebook and have had similar results to
           | yours. Since both belong to Meta, we can safely assume that
           | they use the same or very similar backends to serve ads.
           | 
           | I think it would be interesting to do a large scale
           | experiment to see what can happen.
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | I've been doing this for a couple years. My feed is better,
             | but they still have plenty of garbage I'm not interested
             | in. I make it a point to scroll until I have blocked two of
             | these - that is my signal that it is time to read.
             | Hopefully if more of us start that rule of two eventually
             | it will be populate enough that they notice and add a mode
             | for those like to better see our friends thus keeping us a
             | little longer (I doubt it, but it would be nice).
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | Do you get fewer junk posts in the feed, or are they just
           | different?
        
           | parpfish wrote:
           | i have a burner fb account that i use to follow a local lost-
           | pets group and check hours for restaurants that refuse to
           | have normal webpages.
           | 
           | this account has no friends and just the one group membership
           | so my feed if 100% platform-promoted swill. and it is _bad_.
           | the current fad is for there to be accounts that repost
           | screenshots of successfull AITA reddit posts to engagement
           | farm.
           | 
           | the sad part is that it works. they get a _ton_ of comments
           | and likes
        
         | hapticmonkey wrote:
         | You can access those simpler chronological feeds in Facebook
         | under More > Feeds. They still insert sponsored posts in that
         | feed, but you can block them with browser extensions.
         | 
         | The annoying part is that if you load the feed url from a
         | bookmark, at least on mobile, it reloads to the home page
         | anyway. So you need to navigate to it manually each time. Never
         | used to be this way. I guess they'll remove the "feeds" feature
         | soon enough anyway.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | That's wonderful! Thanks!
           | 
           | On mobile the URL is just facebook.com so there's nothing to
           | bookmark for me. It's still useful though.
        
         | vasco wrote:
         | They want more engagement.
         | 
         | It's like if you build a typewriter and give it to a few
         | humans, they'll write on it a few times a week maybe, not that
         | much. Sometimes a supermarket list or a letter to a friend.
         | This is what I'd call "quality engagement". There's a person
         | doing a valuable activity for themselves, where time using the
         | thing isn't relevant.
         | 
         | Then you give the same typewriter to a monkey and every time
         | the monkey finishes a page he gets a banana. He'll stay there
         | all day every day. Lots of engagement and just gibberish on
         | every page.
         | 
         | Advertisers are buying monkey engagement.
         | 
         | And platforms don't care so right now all the typewriters are
         | made for a monkey hand to type all day every day, and you can
         | no longer write your normal letters without feeling annoyed at
         | why it got better for the monkey instead of leaving it alone
         | for you.
        
           | alex1138 wrote:
           | Yeah, but replace "they" with "Zuckerberg" and "platforms"
           | with "Facebook"
        
             | _Algernon_ wrote:
             | It applies to much more than facebook though. For example,
             | Tiktok, Youtube, Reddit, Instagram. Not sure why you want
             | to single out Facebook.
        
               | alex1138 wrote:
               | Because Zuckerberg has a generally weasely reputation and
               | also I don't see the other platforms being nearly as
               | scummy as Facebook has been
               | 
               | (Instagram as you probably know is also owned by Facebook
               | and people are similarly tired of the constant spam)
        
               | _Algernon_ wrote:
               | Focusing on one particular company distracts from the
               | fact that this is a result of systemic incentives. It is
               | the incentives that need to change, not any particular
               | company. Facebook / Instagram is crap, but so is Tiktok,
               | Youtube, Reddit, etc.
               | 
               | The fundamental problem is the business model where money
               | is parasitised from people's attention. You want change?
               | Make these companies responsible for the negative
               | externalities they impose on society, just like companies
               | that pollute the commons are held responsible.
               | 
               | We don't need another Tiktok ban; we need industry wide
               | regulation. Shortsighted focus on single companies is
               | simply a distraction from this fact, which only benefits
               | these companies and allows most of them to continue as
               | before.
        
               | alex1138 wrote:
               | I will just point out Facebook has been accused of gaming
               | metrics (among other things, autoplaying videos)
               | 
               | Which can lead to websites like Reddit making unpopular
               | changes to try to match Facebook's market cap (I think
               | I've read they were specifically trying to do that)
               | 
               | If you create fake metrics everyone else will copy you in
               | a race to the bottom
               | 
               | No other CEO begins the company with "If you need info on
               | people at Harvard, just ask, they trust me, dumb fucks"
        
               | rnd0 wrote:
               | >Because Zuckerberg has a generally weasely reputation
               | and also I don't see the other platforms being nearly as
               | scummy as Facebook has been
               | 
               | Have you not looked at Musk recently? Or is supporting
               | AfD (the German far-right party) and adopting the persona
               | of "kekius maximus" (a right wing meme) somehow less
               | scummy than whatever it is Zuckerberg is doing?
               | 
               | Mind you, Zuck pulls some fucked up crap -and some of it
               | may well be worse. But my point remains ...he's not
               | alone. All of the Social Media platforms are corrupt and
               | toxic and in many cases...Musk, Spez..their owners are as
               | well.
        
               | ahartmetz wrote:
               | Musk isn't weasely in the background, he's unhinged in
               | public. Big difference.
        
               | scrollaway wrote:
               | Plenty of trash there of course but YouTube also has very
               | good quality content (if you know where to look for, both
               | as a user and as an advertiser).
               | 
               | This in turn is why there is so much more money into
               | YouTube than other social media: because there is also
               | highly qualitative content and thus viewers there.
               | YouTube gets insane amounts more money and attention from
               | the industry because of this.
        
         | _Algernon_ wrote:
         | But how will that create value for shareholders?
        
           | InsideOutSanta wrote:
           | The numbers are going up!
           | 
           | What numbers?
           | 
           |  _THE_ NUMBERS!
        
         | nradov wrote:
         | Most users don't want reverse chronological feeds. They say
         | they do but they really don't, and fail to appreciate how that
         | would actually work. First, that would incentivize posting more
         | low-value crap just to stay on the top of everyone else's feed.
         | Second, if you don't log on for a while you're likely to miss
         | some major life events (birth, death, marriage, divorce, move,
         | new job) that people most want to see.
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | > They say they do but they really don't,
           | 
           | Probably depends on your usage pattern. I think most would
           | prefer it, but "engagement" measurements will make it seem
           | like they hate it, because they spend less time on the page.
           | If companies like Facebook actually wanted to know, they'd
           | make the setting "sticky" rather than constantly reset to
           | algorithmic, then measure over 3 - 12 months how many
           | switches to either one and stays there. The fact that you can
           | set your feed to permanently be chronological tells me that
           | Facebook REALLY doesn't want you do use this feature.
           | 
           | "Power users" may prefer the algorithm, due to the volume of
           | posts they'd see, while many casual users prefer reverse
           | chronological and then just check in every other week.
           | Seriously the last year I was on Facebook, that was my usage.
           | Block everything not posted directly by a "friend", sort by
           | date, read the five posts from the past two week and logoff.
           | Took me just a few minutes a week to catch up. I just don't
           | think that usage aligns with Facebooks business model.
        
             | nradov wrote:
             | Nah. It's mostly just the HN bubble that claims to want a
             | chronological feed. The casual users are actually the ones
             | who most prefer the algorithm so that they see posts about
             | major life events at the top even when they haven't logged
             | in for a while.
        
           | 65 wrote:
           | The real solution is to make the content sortable like
           | Reddit.
        
           | hmmm-i-wonder wrote:
           | > First, that would incentivize posting more low-value crap
           | just to stay on the top of everyone else's feed
           | 
           | For 'social influencers' sure, but normal users don't care
           | about that. Removing the engagement hacked platform that
           | primarily benefits social influencers would be a significant
           | improvement for most users on most social media platforms.
        
         | toddmorey wrote:
         | This is what makes bluesky so refreshing
        
           | __loam wrote:
           | It's so nice over there.
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | Sounds like a good way to lose 50% of your revenue
        
         | BeFlatXIII wrote:
         | Reverse chronological means the feeds get flooded by high-
         | velocity posters and low-volume posters are buried.
        
           | RobKohr wrote:
           | Well, you make it only the posters you follow, and then go
           | through your posters and only show the most recent unread one
           | from each of them before cycling back around.
        
           | fzzzy wrote:
           | This is solveable. For every high frequency poster, show them
           | in the feed at the time of their oldest of a batch of posts
           | in duration X. Reveal all these posts with ui at that point
           | in the timeline. Tune duration X.
        
         | r00fus wrote:
         | Just move to Bluesky or Mastodon.
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | There are probably AI Instagrammers already. Their lives are
       | better than yours. There are already AI crypto influencers.
        
       | simonw wrote:
       | I think this whole thing can mostly be explained by the job
       | titles. What do you expect the "Vice-president of product for
       | generative AI at Meta" to be pushing for?
       | 
       | This is happening across hundreds (thousands?) of companies right
       | now. They've decided they need a generative AI strategy, there's
       | very little existing precedent for what works and what doesn't so
       | they're hurling things at the wall and seeing what sticks.
        
       | simonw wrote:
       | Back in April Meta were experimenting with bots that replied to
       | forum posts that hadn't had any traction yet:
       | https://x.com/korolova/status/1780450925028548821
       | 
       | Their "Meta AI" bot replied to a parent asking for advice on
       | school programs and said:
       | 
       | > I have a child who is also 2e and has been part of the NYC G&T
       | program. We've had a positive experience with the citywide
       | program, specifically with the program at The Anderson School.
        
         | throwup238 wrote:
         | That sounds like it's talking about the Meta executive in
         | charge of privacy and consumer protection. The AI has developed
         | a parasocial parental relationship with its own executives.
        
         | grecy wrote:
         | For years social media sites have been able to hide behind the
         | Chapter 120 defence, because they didn't generate the content,
         | so they're not liable for it.
         | 
         | I wonder if their AI boys will open them up to lawsuits. If
         | their not recommends a product or location that turns out to be
         | dangerous, or medical advice that is harmful etc.
        
           | nradov wrote:
           | I have no idea what the "Chapter 120 defense" is, but online
           | liability concerns were always mostly about libel. That's
           | what led to the CDA Section 230.
           | 
           | https://www.eff.org/issues/bloggers/legal/liability/230
           | 
           | Giving harmful advice generally doesn't create any legal
           | liability so no defense is needed there. It might be bad for
           | PR though.
        
         | corobo wrote:
         | Man that's gonna be some prime real estate for adverts
        
       | red_admiral wrote:
       | There's so much low quality human or non-AI bot content on FB
       | already, plus every other timeline ad I see is a scam of some
       | kind.
       | 
       | XKCD 810 comes to mind.
       | 
       | (I only use the site to stay in touch with some family of my
       | parents' generation. Messenger/Whatsapp are still tools I use
       | regularly.)
        
       | openrisk wrote:
       | We need a tech hype that is not terminally tainted as an anti-
       | human abomination. Is it too much to ask for? Surely those
       | gazillions of GPUs can be deployed to do something actually
       | _useful_? Are we beyond redemption?
        
         | InkCanon wrote:
         | If anything causes the AI bubble to burst, it's that 99% of
         | finding is going to companies that don't solve any real
         | problems. It's shocking that the only major player in real
         | world problem solving is DeepMind.
        
           | baggachipz wrote:
           | I'm going to say "when" and not "if" here, because of your
           | assertion above. VC's spending multiple fortunes on
           | shoehorning in shit that nobody wants or needs.
        
             | InkCanon wrote:
             | I'd say most will fail (although this is the case for most
             | startups anyway) but the question is if there will be any
             | massive success that pulls the average up, so to speak.
        
               | baggachipz wrote:
               | As we work our way to the last two steps of the Gartner
               | Hype Cycle, there will no doubt be legitimate uses. But
               | shoving "AI" in everything will be a punchline for a long
               | time to come.
        
         | tokioyoyo wrote:
         | What you consider "useful" is not useful for others, and vice
         | versa. For some 19 year olds, curating their IG feeds and
         | making the smoothest transition on TikTok to go viral is
         | actually important.
         | 
         | It sounds stupid, but we went through this entire debate back
         | in early 2010s. FB/IG/TT/YT obviously won, and seems like
         | that's what majority of people prefer doing.
        
           | openrisk wrote:
           | This relativism applies to some extent to pure entertainment
           | activities. What is worthwhile, trendy, in-group (or
           | whatever) does vary enormously by region, age group etc.
           | 
           | But these platforms are now for most people "all-there-is".
           | They have replaced effectively any other source of
           | information. What can go wrong when algorithmically
           | titillated echo chambers shape people's mental horizons and
           | behavior? We are increasingly finding out.
        
       | k1kingy wrote:
       | My FB timeline is already a complete mess with most irrelevant
       | garbage as it stands. Not exactly sure what adding additional
       | 'noise' is going to achieve outside of boosting numbers (which I
       | guess is what they want).
       | 
       | A current snapshot my feed:                 - Group post (from
       | one I follow)         - Ad         - Post (from company I don't
       | follow)         - Group post (from Group I don't follow)
       | - Group post (from one I follow)         - Ad         - Group
       | post (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post (from Group
       | I don't follow)         - Post (from person I don't follow)
       | - Group post (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post
       | (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post (from Group I
       | don't follow)         - Post (from person I don't follow)
       | - Group post (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post
       | (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post (from one I
       | follow)         - Group post (from Group I don't follow)
       | - Group post (from Group I don't follow)         - Group post
       | (from one I follow)
       | 
       | I gave up writing the above, but it was about 9 more posts before
       | I saw a post from a person I actually know.
        
         | 0xEF wrote:
         | Why are you still using it?
         | 
         | I dropped FB about 12 years ago, have not looked back since. I
         | ask people this question who still use FB and complain about
         | terrible it is. They answer with some generic "to stay in touch
         | with such and such" which is easier and less invasive to do
         | with SMS or email.
         | 
         | So, why are you still using it?
        
           | prinny_ wrote:
           | The answer is network effect and friction . It is hard to
           | communicate to everyone on your friends list that moving
           | forward they can reach you via email or text only. It's going
           | to work with close friends and family but other people that
           | want to reach out will not be able to find you. And there are
           | always cases when you want to connect (or be easy to find)
           | with someone who is not a close acquaintance.
        
             | 0xEF wrote:
             | I'm not trying to be combative, but that still seems like a
             | very weak reason. And it's one that I used to use, not just
             | with FB, but Twitter, IG and LinkedIn. They all held the
             | same promise and failed to deliver it.
             | 
             | The idea that we need to be constantly networking is
             | overblown, to say the least. When you step back and have an
             | honest conversation with yourself about how much having
             | access to these people you occasionally talk to benefits
             | your life, it seems to be negligible at best. Certainly not
             | something worth sticking around for, encouraging more and
             | more privacy encroachment, targeted advertising, etc,
             | adding undo stress and annoyance to your experience online
             | and off.
             | 
             | Are we sure that we are not using the "stay connected"
             | excuse to hide the fact that these things were designed to
             | be addictive and we got sucked in by it? The only people
             | benefiting from continued use are not users, but the
             | advertisers and platform owners? Is there really anyone on
             | that list where your life would be worse off for not ever
             | interacting with them again? Are there other ways of making
             | yourself just as accessible on the off chance a stranger
             | wants to collaborate with you on something, such as a
             | contact email in a GitHub profile or personal webpage that
             | would satisfy whatever net positive you think you are
             | getting from doing the same on FB? These are not easy
             | questions to answer, but when we start drilling down, our
             | excuses for sticking around start to fall apart and our
             | control for being their gets exposed in ways that we maybe
             | don't like.
             | 
             | edit: fixed some autocorrect errors from mobile
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Your reasons are even weaker. We don't need to be
               | constantly networking but for better or worse, Meta
               | platforms have become the only remaining effective ways
               | to get updates from a large group of extended family and
               | friends spread out all over the world. Like if my second
               | cousin in Indiana has a baby I'd like to know, and I
               | didn't think they're going to announce it via email.
        
               | parpfish wrote:
               | People got used to a passive "push" model for staying in
               | touch that they forget the norm used to be "pull".
               | 
               | Now you just passively absorb updates from people to stay
               | factually informed but don't directly engage with one
               | another.
               | 
               | With email/sms, you can just ask somebody "hey what's
               | up?" And get their big updates. It's more active and
               | requires some more investment but that's a good thing for
               | making stronger relationships.
               | 
               | And for all those distant connections that you follow on
               | FB but don't want to talk to... you can ask your real
               | friends "hey, have you anything about so-and-so?"
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | Those models don't work for distant friends. I should
               | call my mom more often. However nobody would call someone
               | they were distant friends with 20 years ago to talk about
               | their kids sports game - but 10 seconds to see those
               | pictures on Facebook is still appreciated. When that is
               | what Facebook does it is valuable.
        
               | parpfish wrote:
               | what's the point in seeing photos of a kids sports game
               | if you are so uninterested in maintaining a relationship
               | that you'd never consider chatting with the person? at
               | that point, it may as well be a parasocial relationship
               | with a celebrity where you look at photos of their life
               | and say "wow, i'm so glad i've connected with them".
               | 
               | there's a difference between being informed about the
               | goings-on in somebody's life (which social media
               | browsing/posting can help with) and actually having
               | relationships with people.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | The point is to have something to talk about at the next
               | reunion. It won't be for several more years, but I do
               | plan on connecting again. Remember these pictures take
               | only seconds to view, but they ensure when I next meet
               | that person we have some place to start from when
               | talking.
        
               | tokioyoyo wrote:
               | Your argument holds a weight only if you already think
               | that "Facebook/IG is bad for keeping in touch". For
               | almost any average person, that just doesn't matter.
               | Privacy, targeted ads, "benefits of networking for your
               | future" are things that only us, extremely fringe group
               | of people, care about. My parents? Never. My non-techie
               | friends? I don't think they know what "targeted ads" even
               | mean.
        
             | downsplat wrote:
             | Don't people use whatsapp in your corner of the world? Over
             | here in Europe all of that happens over whatsapp, which is
             | still a Meta property at the end of the day, but one that
             | hasn't been enshittified with off-network crap or
             | algorithmic feeds... so far!
        
               | Kiro wrote:
               | I presume GP thinks it's equally unnecessary considering
               | they specifically mentions email and SMS.
        
               | freehorse wrote:
               | What is the big difference between messaging apps and
               | sms? They are both forms of semi-synchronous
               | communication via texting. SMS in many cases incures
               | charges, moreover messaging apps actually do not
               | necessarily require using an actual phone, or even
               | _having_ a phone, which is a big plus in my book.
        
             | Kiro wrote:
             | I don't understand why people are downvoting you when
             | you're just explaining the reason why. Judging by the
             | sentiment and aggressive downvoting in this thread one
             | would think using anything else than email and text is
             | completely abnormal. Fwiw I don't know a single person
             | using email outside of work and the only texts people get
             | are appointment reminders.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | I use it for events.
           | 
           | It aggregates most of the small and large music and other
           | events in the city into a single place, and shows me when a
           | friend is "interested" or "going" to the event.
           | 
           | I have forgotten how we did this before Facebook. But there
           | are many events only advertised on Facebook! For others, I'd
           | need to check 20+ websites every week to keep up. RSS is no
           | longer implemented on these sites, neither are aggregators
           | like last.fm keeping up to date. (That's probably what I used
           | before Facebook.)
           | 
           | My feed is about 30% content I've asked to see or would want
           | to see, the rest junk (AI crap, far right rage, far left
           | rage).
           | 
           | Two months ago I started a subscription to see if that would
           | reduce the amount of junk, hopefully to zero, but it doesn't
           | seem to have made any difference. It has probably hidden ads,
           | but I had an adblocker anyway.
           | 
           | For a long time I've objected under GDPR to the tracking,
           | which I think is why I get the mixture of political junk.
        
             | nicklaf wrote:
             | > My feed is about 30% content I've asked to see or would
             | want to see, the rest junk (AI crap, far right rage, far
             | left rage).
             | 
             | Since we both seem to use Facebook in the same way, I'll
             | just point out that you can reduce the junk to 0% by
             | skipping your timeline, and going to Feeds:
             | https://www.facebook.com/?filter=all&sk=h_chr
             | 
             | That will give you a feed of pages you've followed, and
             | doesn't have any algorithmic or suggested content. I think
             | the only pitfall is that it only shows you recently posted
             | content.
        
             | 0xEF wrote:
             | > I have forgotten how we did this before Facebook
             | 
             | Radio, newspaper, word-of-mouth, local bulletin boards,
             | email and print newsletters, advertising posters, etc. I
             | might be dating myself, but that's how we got word out
             | about things in urban areas, back in the day.
             | 
             | The way I see it, as a person who has dealt with actual
             | substance abuse and understands an addiction when it
             | presents itself, we have collectively become hooked on
             | social media and give ourselves all sorts of excuses as to
             | why it's better than the way we used to keep in touch or
             | get the word out. Every one of those excuses is really just
             | us giving things up that we cannot get back (such as time
             | and privacy), things that others profit greatly from
             | exploiting, all cloaked in a Trenchcoat of Convenience.
             | 
             | It is likely very easy for you to advertise your music
             | events with a few clicks, yes? It beats walking around
             | town, posting bills and leaving flyers on corner store
             | countertops...in terms of footwork, anyway. But we lose
             | that connection with the community around us in exchange
             | for the illusion of a broader network that is filled with
             | superficial relationships, at best.
             | 
             | > But there are many events only advertised on Facebook!
             | 
             | And there's the rub. These event organizers are giving FB
             | permission to dominate our lives and extract/exploit
             | whatever it wishes from us simply because they wanted to do
             | a little less footwork.
             | 
             | I used to go to local shows at least two or three times a
             | month in my younger days, prior to FB or even MySpace and
             | Friendster, for that matter. I never felt like I was
             | missing any because I didn't hear about them, since it was
             | not hard to catch wind of this or that venue's upcoming
             | bookings. Even the punk shows, which sometimes were
             | organized the day of, knew how to spread the word. We were
             | all connected, but on a more personal level, and I seem to
             | remember less in-fighting within the groups versus what I
             | saw back when I used FB. Online, it seems like people are
             | at each others throats with much more ease, perhaps driven
             | by the social shield of a keyboard, which told me that
             | maybe we were not really meant to be quite _that_ connected
             | with each other. Part of me blames the fatigue that came
             | with our over-exposure to each other being the keystone to
             | exploiting us on a mass scale, be it to sway political
             | opinion, impose oppression or just sell us a product we
             | never needed.
             | 
             | Social media changed our landscape, so it's pretty much
             | impossible to go back to "the way things were," but none of
             | us are expecting that, I think. We need new ways to spread
             | the word, ways that don't exploit us as profitable and
             | disposable soft product. Email could be a start. We beat
             | that drum of email being filled with spam for so many years
             | that it's hard to separate our views on email from that,
             | despite spam filters being pretty darned good now, and
             | various methodologies of mitigating spam to your primary
             | inbox in the first place. There's at least a dozen
             | newsletters I subscribe to and read because it's actually
             | pretty darned convenient, now that my inbox is not filled
             | with spam. Things have changed on that front, so where else
             | have they improved? Is Bluesky a better option than
             | Twitter? Would people still pick up flyers from the counter
             | of a local pizza joint? Can we use VOIP numbers for SMS
             | about local events so nobody's real phone number is being
             | put on a list somewhere?
             | 
             | I see the problem and am open to solutions, but those
             | solutions need to come from the people who think they
             | _need_ FB in their lives, I think.
        
           | spacechild1 wrote:
           | In my case:
           | 
           | 1. stay in touch with all sorts people around the world (who
           | are not family, close friends or colleagues). Basically like
           | an extended address book.
           | 
           | 2. advertize events to many people in a certain area.
           | Conversely, I regularly find out about events on FB.
           | 
           | The FB timeline has become a complete shitshow and I stopped
           | engaging. I really wish there were good replacements for my
           | last remaining use cases...
        
           | nothercastle wrote:
           | Marketplace... somehow they took over the marketplace for
           | used stuff and killed cl. OfferUp was always crap so it
           | doesn't count.
        
             | _heimdall wrote:
             | I haven't used Facebook itself for 7 or 8 years now, but
             | had to break down and make a private account just to access
             | Marketplace. For buying used cars private party today, it
             | seems like Marketplace is the only good option.
        
               | ethagnawl wrote:
               | Do sellers question the ghost account? I've had that
               | happen to me the few times I've tried using my dev
               | account to make inquiries.
        
               | _heimdall wrote:
               | I haven't had any issues with it. I honestly don't know
               | how locked down a Facebook account can be these days so
               | "ghost account" may not be the right term.
               | 
               | I have my name and a profile photo on there, but I've
               | never posted anything, don't follow anyone, and all
               | privacy setting are set to block me from search, feeds,
               | etc.
               | 
               | I've only ever had one person block me after messaging
               | about a car for sale, and I couldn't say whether it was
               | because of the account or the questions I sent made them
               | think I'd be an annoying buyer to deal with.
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | Craigslist is still there. They only way to keep it around
             | is make sure you use it.
        
               | nerdponx wrote:
               | You can use it, but you're swimming upstream if you do.
               | Fewer buyers, fewer sellers of things you might want to
               | buy.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | Sure, but if you don't use it you just make that worse.
               | Of course if Craigslist had died where you are then there
               | is no choice. However where I live Craigslist is still
               | active enough that I can afford to ignore anyone who
               | isn't there.
        
               | qup wrote:
               | In some regions (mine) Craigslist never took off, and now
               | is a ghost town.
               | 
               | I would estimate it gets less than 1% of the traffic of
               | FB Marketplace, in terms of number of vehicles posted.
               | And nearly all of them are car lots, not individuals.
        
           | bluGill wrote:
           | SMS and (to a lesser extend) email are not ways to
           | communicate with distance friends. Someone I went to school
           | with 30 years ago and haven't seen since isn't going to call
           | me about their new grandkid, Facebook works well to share
           | these types of pictures. SMS and email take too much effort,
           | Facebook is much lower friction to share that and thus I find
           | out, while if they uses SMS or email I wouldn't be on the
           | list as they would give up before they got to my name in
           | their contacts.
        
             | ozim wrote:
             | Someone who went with me to school 30 years ago and did not
             | sent me an sms or some kind of message - is not my friend
             | and I don't care.
             | 
             | My distance friends have contact with me at least once a
             | year and mostly at least once a month via WhatsApp.
             | 
             | I do not need feed for that and if someone is gone - it is
             | gone I don't have time to hunt down people who are not in
             | contact with me anyway.
        
             | 0xEF wrote:
             | Many of the replies are saying something similar, so I
             | apologize, as I am not trying to call you out, but to
             | better understand; ask yourself why you need to know about
             | the grandkid of someone you went to school with 30 years
             | ago.
             | 
             | So many of these things that we use to sell ourselves to
             | hang on to social media tend to crumble under any honest
             | scrutiny. This upsets people. I get it. I mentioned in
             | another comment having dealt with a substance abuse problem
             | in the past, and the same pattern emerged. I had a problem,
             | but refused to recognize it, so I rationalized continuing
             | down the same path by performing some mental gymnastics
             | about why I _needed_ to keep doing this thing. It was
             | pretty eye-opening when I went through the exact same
             | process during my time leaving Facebook a few years into my
             | sobriety.
             | 
             | We are social creatures and social connection is
             | undoubtedly important to our mental health. But like all
             | things, it tends to be better in moderation. In the case of
             | FB, is hearing about a grandkid from a distant acquaintance
             | a meaningful relationship? Conversely, do the likes we
             | might get from distant acquaintances on our post add value
             | or fulfillment to our lives in any meaningful way?
             | 
             | I posit that when we engage with these unfulfilling
             | interactions, we spread ourselves much too thin, causing
             | stress and anxiety by drawing our energies away from
             | relationships that are closer to home, in some cases maybe
             | driving distance between them. Sure, I can only speak from
             | my own experience, but I've yet to see anyone's life change
             | for the worse when walking away from social media. Hence my
             | concern about why people seem so desperate to stay, and
             | make no mistake, from this perspective and the replies I
             | generally see when this gets brought up, it's the same
             | excuse-driven desperation I see in fellow alcoholics that
             | resist recovery.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | I don't _need_ to know, but I _want_ to know. Social
               | media interactions doesn 't cause me any stress or
               | anxiety: rather the opposite. Most of us don't have
               | problems with substance abuse or negative social media
               | engagement. You shouldn't generalize from your own very
               | limited experience or presume to give advice about things
               | you don't understand.
        
               | lumb63 wrote:
               | Does this desire to want to know things about people you
               | no longer associate with, not strike you as strange?
               | There is no actual communication here - on one end, there
               | is someone who either has no group of people whom they
               | feel care about their update, so they "share" it with
               | everyone; or, they are so conceited as to think everyone
               | on the entire internet cares. On the other end is someone
               | who does not know what they want updates about, but knows
               | that they want updates from some set of people (but does
               | not want the updates enough to actually _talk_ to those
               | people). This mode of "communication" has for a long time
               | struck me as very strange.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | No, it strikes me as being completely normal.
        
               | jameshart wrote:
               | Back in the previous century, people used to do things
               | like post birth and wedding announcements in the local
               | paper. If you had moved away it would not be unheard of
               | for you to be sent a clipping of such a thing by a
               | grandparent letting you know about an old schoolfriend or
               | teacher or neighbor. Keeping in touch with the ongoing
               | life trajectory of people you once knew has long been
               | something people liked to do.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | I still associate with these people. I go to my high
               | school reunion every 5-10 years. sometimes I go back home
               | and run into them on the streets (not often but it
               | happens). Because I see their pictures I recognize them -
               | when you have not seem someone for 30 years you won't
               | recognize them in person when you go to renew that
               | connection, but if you see pictures you can talk to an
               | old friend who life has drifted you part from. (as
               | opposed to talking to a different group of friends and
               | both of you leave wondering why the other didn't even
               | show up as you were hoping to reminisce about something
               | with them)
        
               | RiverCrochet wrote:
               | It strikes me as strange too. I understand wanting to
               | believe your life is so important that you think the
               | world at large needs to know, but the converse - truly
               | desiring to be the receiving end of those announcements
               | particularly of people you don't know very well - I
               | cannot wrap my head around.
        
             | reaperducer wrote:
             | _SMS and email take too much effort_
             | 
             | If writing an e-mail to a friend is too much effort for
             | you, then you're not a friend. You're an acquaintance, at
             | best.
             | 
             | Low effort means low quality. If all you have to offer is
             | low effort content, what makes you think anyone wants to
             | read it?
             | 
             | Be less lazy.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | I'll accept Acquaintance. I still want some connection -
               | we will meet again in person someday. However because
               | they are that low and it will be years I need to put most
               | of my effort into friends.
        
             | FredPret wrote:
             | Exactly - social media is the perfect way to replicate that
             | "town square" vibe our cavemen ancestors must've had to
             | communicate with distant social connections, short of
             | having an actual town square.
        
           | Kiro wrote:
           | How is SMS easier? I can't easily access it on the desktop or
           | the browser. Group SMS chats seem to be non-standard if
           | possible (never seen anyone use it). Sharing things such as
           | photos and videos through SMS is still a broken mess.
        
             | reaperducer wrote:
             | _How is SMS easier? I can 't easily access it on the
             | desktop or the browser._
             | 
             | As someone in the Apple ecosystem, I find SMS much easier
             | when using it from Apple's desktop Messages program.
             | 
             | It's not ideal that not everyone has that opportunity, but
             | don't make the mistake of thinking that your experience is
             | the only experience.
             | 
             | It's also a bit strange, because back when I was making the
             | transition from Wintel to Macintosh - this was before the
             | iPhone - there were many programs that would link your
             | desktop with your phone via Bluetooth so you could send and
             | receive SMS messages. Do they no longer exist?
        
               | Kiro wrote:
               | > but don't make the mistake of thinking that your
               | experience is the only experience
               | 
               | I'm literally responding to someone claiming it's easier
               | across the board. I'm not the one making that mistake.
               | 
               | > Do they no longer exist?
               | 
               | That sounds really complicated compared to just opening a
               | web page. Besides, my computer doesn't even have a
               | Bluetooth connection.
        
               | reaperducer wrote:
               | _That sounds really complicated compared to just opening
               | a web page._
               | 
               | It's actually less complicated than using a web page
               | because you just start the SMS/iMessage program, and it's
               | there ready to go. With a browser you have to start the
               | browser and then tell it to go to Facebook. Then open the
               | messaging portion of Facebook. Three times a many steps.
               | 
               |  _Besides, my computer doesn 't even have a Bluetooth
               | connection._
               | 
               | That's interesting to me. I didn't think any computer
               | made in the last 20 years didn't have Bluetooth. What
               | kind is it?
        
               | nick__m wrote:
               | That's interesting to me. I didn't think any computer
               | made in the last 20 years didn't have Bluetooth. What
               | kind is it?
               | 
               | When you assemble your own computer wifi and Bluetooth
               | are still completely optional.
        
               | reaperducer wrote:
               | He's too lazy to write an email. He's probably too lazy
               | to build a computer.
               | 
               | Unless building your own computer is like LEGO now. It's
               | been a few years since I've needed to do it.
        
           | freehorse wrote:
           | Events and groups/communities (eg hobby, housing etc
           | related). Otherwise I do not "follow" any of my actual (or
           | not) friends.
        
         | manfre wrote:
         | Any time I see a post with the "Follow" link, I click the X or
         | triple dot to hide or signify disinterest. They appear as a
         | flood, but the system gives up and I get a several week
         | reprieve from unwanted suggestions.
        
         | iib wrote:
         | I don't want to make you use it more, but I found a thing that
         | actually works for me, to restore some of the previous feed
         | behavior. I saved a bookmark that directly goes to the
         | "Friends" feed. It seems to have surprisingly few (I think zero
         | or one) ads and recommended things this way. The funny thing is
         | that the "You read all the posts" thing still appears if used
         | in this way, telling you to go outside.
         | 
         | I do the same for instagram [2], and there was also a post of
         | setting "Google web" as the default search engine, showing you
         | actual web results, not stuff recommended by Google.
         | 
         | https://www.facebook.com/?filter=friends&sk=h_chr [1]
         | 
         | https://www.instagram.com/?variant=following [2]
        
           | bongodongobob wrote:
           | This is it. My feed is fine too. If you don't tell FB what
           | you do and don't want to see, it's just going to spray random
           | shit at you.
        
           | freehorse wrote:
           | Thanks! The "friends" filter with facebook does not really
           | work from me (I have unfollowed all my fb friends and follow
           | only pages/groups mostly for events and such) but realised
           | that replacing "friends" with "following" in the url actually
           | provides a feed with anything I am following, so really
           | thanks!
           | 
           | I used to use the FBP extension but it still takes so long to
           | load and filter out stuff that facebook floods my feed, so
           | this is much better.
           | 
           | https://www.facebook.com/?filter=following&sk=h_chr
        
           | gibspaulding wrote:
           | Interestingly for me on iOS, that instagram link just takes
           | me to the main feed in the app. For anyone else getting this,
           | you have to tap the instagram logo on the top left, then
           | select "following" from there.
        
         | nox101 wrote:
         | My feed in the mobile app is                   - post from
         | friend         - post from friend         - post from friend
         | - people you might know         - post from friend         -
         | post from friend         - post from friend         - post from
         | friend         - post from friend         - post from frien
         | - loops         - post from friend         - post from friend
         | - post from friend         - post from a non-friend about a
         | friend         - post from friend         - post from friend
         | - post from friend         - post from friend         - post
         | from friend
         | 
         | I can only guess the reason mine isn't filled with spam is
         | because I click the ... and pick "don't show me this" whenever
         | it shows me something I don't care about.
         | 
         | I wish I could tell it never show me loops, never recommend
         | friends, never show me posts of friends of friends. While
         | annoying, it's not so bad ATM that I've felt the need to quit
         | 
         | On the other hand I check it less than once a week, maybe once
         | every 2 weeks.
        
           | kraftman wrote:
           | That many posts from friends would represent months worth of
           | my friends posts. For most people facebook doesnt show
           | friends posts because no one posts anymore.
        
           | RajT88 wrote:
           | > "don't show me this"
           | 
           | I have tried this with bizarre results.
           | 
           | Any kind of booby hot chick type post, I will do this.
           | Sometimes I go so far as blocking the account. There was a
           | week it was all AI-generated booby photos of Salma Hayek - no
           | matter how many accounts I un-followed or blocked, there was
           | a never-ending stream of accounts with AI generated Salma
           | Hayek photos being posted. I gave up after a week, and took
           | some time of Facebook.
           | 
           | A month later, I returned, and the Salma Hayek stuff is all
           | gone. Periodically it goes back into some sort of booby photo
           | trend, and I can't get it to stop, so I just quit browsing
           | facebook for a while and when I return it's done. On the time
           | order of a couple weeks, unfollowing and/or blocking makes no
           | difference.
           | 
           | I should mention - I am part of a couple groups for car
           | stuff, and a couple groups for fishing stuff. It's not like
           | the content I am interacting with is particularly boob-rich.
           | 
           | As far as friends, I only see stuff from friends who post a
           | lot. That's the trend. They aren't people I comment on their
           | posts, or even really talk to in real life anymore.
        
             | amyames wrote:
             | I think when you click on the offending profile to block
             | it, Facebook must decide that's what you like to see. Or
             | something.
             | 
             | Because some moron has 1000 profiles for "cars under $2500"
             | and the more of them I clicked and blocked , the more of
             | them would show up in my feed.
             | 
             | I hate that I can't opt out of the "for you" stuff and
             | don't actually see anything from family or friends anymore
             | . And I hate that the more I try to block a certain type of
             | content (say: "Salma Hayek boobies") the more I'm spammed
             | with it.
             | 
             | So much that I have not even logged on in about a year.
        
               | RajT88 wrote:
               | This is probably it. They do not discriminate types of
               | engagement - blocking or unfollowing is still engagement,
               | and some team is probably gaming their numbers by
               | intentionally not discriminating.
               | 
               | Meta is a rotten company.
        
             | Atotalnoob wrote:
             | I would presume the fishing and car groups are male heavy,
             | and those men who have similar likes as you, like the booby
             | photos.
             | 
             | They are profiling your likes.
        
               | RajT88 wrote:
               | Plausible - sort of. I have never 'liked' a booby photo,
               | and it's true probably lots of those guys have.
               | 
               | FWIW, booby photos are verboten in those groups/group
               | chats. The owners try hard to keep things topically
               | relevant.
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | What matters is that the other guys in the group who like
               | cars and fishing also _with high probability_ engage with
               | boob posts.
               | 
               | All this recommendation algorithm horseshit is just
               | showing you the exact same stuff that trended with the
               | least common denominator that you also are part of, no
               | matter how much YOU PERSONALLY do not engage with it.
        
           | KaiserPro wrote:
           | how have you managed this? mine is full of thirdparty shit
           | even though I have been actively saying "I don't like this"
        
         | the__alchemist wrote:
         | Read this post to yourself aloud.
         | 
         | Why are you still checking Facebook? Keep the messenger app on
         | your phone if people you know still use it.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | Not OP, but my global friend network still has folks who post
           | life updates on Facebook, making it a requirement.
        
             | freehorse wrote:
             | "Requirement" is a quite strong term. A requirement as to
             | what? Keeping in touch with people can happen in many
             | different ways. I do not see how if some of my friends
             | posted in facebook (maybe they do? I never check) that
             | would necessitate me to connect with them through their
             | posts there.
        
         | toomuchtodo wrote:
         | I want an app that uses the accessibility API to plug into
         | Meta, Snap, etc and gives you full control over your socials
         | ala Recall using LLMs. I feel like Gen AI is the countermeasure
         | to closed social ecosystems trying to treat you as the product.
         | Ingest everything my social users have access to, and let me
         | control the experience (Recall meets Buffer?).
         | 
         | Scraping is old and busted, consuming the firehose available to
         | you and controlling consumption of it on your own terms is the
         | new hotness.
         | 
         | https://www.recall.ai/
         | 
         | https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/ai/apis/recall
        
         | Finnucane wrote:
         | It's really become unusable. Most of my friends have stopped
         | posting. There's very little incentive to log in now.
        
         | jameshart wrote:
         | The original value proposition of Facebook - keep people you
         | don't see in person very often up to date on what's happening
         | in your life, and keep up with what's going on with them -
         | still _feels_ like something people actually want, but it's
         | been clear for a long time that no service that tries to offer
         | that can sustain it.
         | 
         | Facebook got too excited with its ability to leverage the
         | 'friend graph' and broke the very reason people wanted to
         | 'friend' people on FB in the first place.
         | 
         | Feels like people have generally decided that WhatsApp group
         | chats are the preferred model for keeping in touch.
        
         | elboru wrote:
         | Wow, the amount of ads I get is insane. For every three posts,
         | one is an ad:                 - Post (from a friend)       - Ad
         | - Post (from a random page I don't follow)       - People you
         | may know (I don't know any of those people)       - Ad       -
         | Group post (from Group I don't follow)       - Post (from a
         | random page I don't follow)       - Ad       - Post (from a
         | friend)       - Post (from a page I follow)       - Ad
        
         | BeFlatXIII wrote:
         | > it was about 9 more posts before I saw a post from a person I
         | actually know.
         | 
         | At least for me, it's because the people I care about have long
         | ago stopped posting, and those who are useful to keep as
         | friends post garbage, so they've long ago been muted.
         | 
         | I wish there were more posts from groups I follow instead of
         | nonsense from groups they recommend.
        
           | lkramer wrote:
           | It has become taboo to say we don't have any more content for
           | you.
           | 
           | I was searching for tech jobs in Copenhagen in my fairly (but
           | not overly) specialised field that is not overly common here
           | on LinkedIn.
           | 
           | After 4-5 results that was relevant to what I was looking for
           | it had obviously exhausted the available options, however
           | rather than admit defeat it started showing me truly bizarre
           | results, including unskilled student jobs in supermarkets and
           | jobs as cleaners.
        
       | nextworddev wrote:
       | I guess they decided this counts towards DAUs...
        
       | axegon_ wrote:
       | Most likely an effort to boost the DAU numbers. I quit facebook
       | over a decade ago because I truly felt that it was pointless. At
       | the time I was convincing myself that it's a way to stay in touch
       | with a certain number of people I would otherwise have no way of
       | contacting. Then a friend said something that changed my mind:
       | "If someone is not actively a part of your life, chances are
       | there's a good reason they are not". And he was right: I deleted
       | it, knowing full well that I'd have no other way to connect to
       | hundreds of people. Over a decade later I haven't had the reason
       | to try and contact either one of them. At this point, I don't
       | even know what facebook looks like but all this AI-generated crap
       | is just as pointless as the ads that would get shoved down my
       | throat if I didn't have a very aggressive ad blocker. As much as
       | I was strongly against ad blockers 10 years ago, since many sites
       | and blogs used only that to get some reward for their effort, we
       | are at a point where the internet is unusable without an ad
       | blocker. All major platforms are flooded by AI-generated crap.
       | And I mean Facebook, Medium, StackExchange, hell, I'm willing to
       | bet a good chunk of papers coming out these days are mostly ai-
       | generated. And don't even get me started on musk's shithole that
       | is Twitter. No, I am not saying that AI is not useful or helpful
       | - it is, but it should be a supplement, not the primary
       | ingredient, let alone the sole ingredient.
       | 
       | The true value of the internet used to be the collective
       | knowledge, and not mass-produced regurgitated set of tokens and
       | pixel values. Personally I've gone to the even pre-rss days and
       | have a list of personal blogs I scroll through for things I find
       | interesting and avoid large platforms altogether. Interestingly
       | enough, I've been finding more and more motivation to start
       | writing myself though I rarely get the chance to push it through
       | the end and in most cases I get stuck at 95% for many months
       | until I get to find the time to do the remaining 5% of the work.
       | That's how many I have lined up so far:
       | 
       | git status . | wc -l 59
        
         | disqard wrote:
         | Not sure if it'll help you, but do read this:
         | 
         | https://maggieappleton.com/garden-history
         | 
         | Perhaps all you need is a perspective shift. Wishing you luck
         | with your personal writing journey!
        
       | BLKNSLVR wrote:
       | Create additional engagement ... with nonexistent entities.
       | 
       | So Facebook maintains it's commitment to promoting the opposite
       | of a healthy society.
       | 
       | I actually can't decide if non-human interactions on Facebook are
       | a better or worse option than the current echo chambers.
        
       | seydor wrote:
       | Socialization is about conspecifics. AI may augment the process
       | for humans, but you can't expect people at large to engage with
       | nonhumans. I mean, people do talk to their pets, but they don't
       | consider that socializing.
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | If you just need someone to talk to AI might be good. There are
         | a lot of lonely people out there that need someone to talk to
         | and don't know how to do it. (particularly people in nursing
         | homes who thus cannot get out and meet real people)
         | 
         | However I want Facebook as a way to remain connected to be
         | distant friends not talk with people. I want to see my friends
         | kids, their cats, whatever else they do that they are proud of.
         | I know them personally even if I only see them at a class
         | reunion every 10 years or something. I don't want to see cute
         | cats (unless it is your cat), I don't want to see "joke of the
         | day" - if I want that I'll find one of the many joke of the day
         | places that cater to my sense of humor. I get plenty of
         | politics elsewhere (unless they are running for office or
         | assisting a campaign - share is not assisting a campaign). If I
         | care about professional sports I can see it myself - let me
         | know how your (or your kid's) games go since I won't find out
         | about that.
         | 
         | I wish there was a way to make Facebook that latter - it sortof
         | fills that role. However Facebook hates it because I catch up
         | after 5-10 minutes of scrolling every day (usually the lower
         | end of that list, but with the holidays the latter these last
         | few weeks) and then close.
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | > but they don't consider that socializing.
         | 
         | Which is exactly why this will make Facebooks problem even
         | worse. Honestly I don't think Facebook understand what their
         | main issue is, it's lack of real human interaction. The stupid
         | part is that they killed their main product themselves, in
         | order to push ever more ads.
         | 
         | LinkedIn is becoming a shit show as more and more people are
         | posting stuff that previously belonged on Facebook, though they
         | are tacking on some work related angle, you know to keep it
         | professional. It is my opinion that the reason why LinkedIn is
         | seeing more and more of these Facebook posts is because it is
         | the last place online where you'll get real human interaction
         | and socializing (however f-ed up it might be).
        
           | weitendorf wrote:
           | You can certainly get real engagement on other platforms
           | still. I think the reason there is so much weird cringe on
           | LinkedIn is that:
           | 
           | 1. It actually does get a lot of engagement and watch time,
           | maybe not even despite how bad it is, but _because_ it's so
           | bad that people can't look away. If it's cringy enough it's
           | no longer boring. It used to be that people ignored the feed
           | entirely because it was all just boring stuff.
           | 
           | 2. Building a personal brand is a really big thing these days
           | and is legitimately valuable. Being able to write something
           | and hit post and get real engagement for $0 (vs what it'd
           | cost to get that engagement by paying for it directly) is
           | nuts. IMO this isn't obvious if you're working as an engineer
           | but if your job requires any sales or marketing it's
           | genuinely helpful.
           | 
           | 3. LinkedIn is actually a really good place to farm
           | engagement because of its general user base (professionals
           | from early career to prime earning years), professional bent
           | (intent), and availability of real names/titles/location.
           | 
           | I find it kind of fascinating how these engagement mechanisms
           | work in spite of it all because they all rely on some kind of
           | "hack" on human attention.
        
             | mrweasel wrote:
             | You're second point is interesting, because that's probably
             | what's going on, but the brand that many of these people
             | are building is that they are psychopathic nutjobs who view
             | dead/dying/sick children as a career advancing opportunity.
        
         | nerdponx wrote:
         | > you can't expect people at large to engage with nonhumans
         | 
         | NPCs are a big component of a lot of video games. Imagine an
         | Elder Scrolls game with no NPCs.
         | 
         | A social media platform filled with AI agents pretending to be
         | your friends is basically just a "social media simulator" video
         | game, with all the same requirements for immersion that make it
         | enjoyable/entertaining to use.
         | 
         | The fact that it's "multiplayer" (other real humans engaging
         | with the mix of humans and AIs) doesn't change that.
         | 
         | Facebook has become a ghost town, so they want to turn Facebook
         | into a Facebook simulator.
         | 
         | Imagine if a dying MMORPG could populate its game with NPCs
         | that would help retain the dwindling player base, to avoid a
         | collapsed network effect. Sounds good, right? Same thing here.
         | 
         | (Facebook became a ghost town in large part due to Facebook's
         | own enshittification campaign, but that's another story)
        
         | tokioyoyo wrote:
         | A few months ago, the same argument popped up about AI videos.
         | But the long game strategy is making it "normal" for the kids
         | and youth growing up, so they would consider it as socializing.
         | It'll be up to the adults to fight against it.
         | 
         | If we grew up with AI YouTube, we wouldn't bat an eye on more
         | AI videos, or socialization and etc., as we would consider that
         | as just... business as usual.
        
           | seydor wrote:
           | Not sure. Which Cgi videos make it to the top? Not even
           | movies
        
             | tokioyoyo wrote:
             | Doesn't matter, we're not the audience. We have preexisting
             | beliefs that if there was no effort put into making the
             | video, it's not worth watching. The key is to target people
             | who don't have that.
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Social media stopped being about socialization a long time ago.
         | It's now purely content consumption.
        
       | maxehmookau wrote:
       | I quit FB 3 years ago. It's already riddled with bots, AI
       | generated "content" and ragebait.
       | 
       | If this doesn't push you away from it, what will?
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | I've been trying to block all that with some success. Not much
         | - there are more meme groups for every niche subject than you
         | would think and someone into that niche feels like they need to
         | share them all.
        
         | herbst wrote:
         | What even make you stay so long? It's been an targetted ad
         | platform full of scammy ads for much longer than that
        
       | muglug wrote:
       | Instagram just asked if I wanted to chat with a Hawk Tuah AI bot.
       | 
       | To me that's the clearest possible evidence that the product
       | people over there have basically given up.
       | 
       | It reminds me of when Facebook went all-in on Live Video in 2016
       | -- a product direction that pretty obviously came from the top.
        
         | InkCanon wrote:
         | It's a clear sign Meta leadership has clearly lost the plot,
         | giving in to hype instead of any vision.
        
           | iLoveOncall wrote:
           | Was that not obvious enough when they renamed to Meta?
           | 
           | It seems everyone has forgotten the absolute failure that
           | this shift has been.
        
             | InkCanon wrote:
             | I don't fault them for taking risks and failing (I think at
             | the time there was still an argument for VR, could be
             | possible they were ahead of the curve). I think the tipping
             | point is when they're actively pushing for things that
             | degrade user experience.
        
               | rchaud wrote:
               | Ahead of the curve? Their "virtual meeting" software
               | presentation had graphics that made you look like a
               | Nintendo Mii avatar from 2006, and couldn't draw arms or
               | legs.
        
               | riffruff24 wrote:
               | I dont understand why meta didnt pair up with
               | vrchat/gamedev/game engine dev at the time. Sure they got
               | John Carmack, but their presentation is so much worse.
               | Its so hard not to draw comparison with the other half
               | baked crypto metaverse.
               | 
               | Meanwhile Vive Index not only have Alyx but they even
               | bring out Portal themed toybox to showcase the hardware.
        
               | InkCanon wrote:
               | Their execution was indeed almost comically bad. I
               | suspect it was because they had really wanted to focus on
               | the B2B market, so they made the most sanitised virtual
               | world possible. The overall VR direction was not entirely
               | ridiculous, although it was clear on the ground people
               | were much more in love with the idea of VR than the
               | reality of it.
        
           | dagmx wrote:
           | Meta leadership have rarely had a vision beyond "how do we
           | capture the success others are having in this space". I
           | suppose that's a vision in and of itself but not a very
           | inspired one.
           | 
           | This is the case for most of their successful products:
           | 
           | - Facebook itself started this way for Zuck
           | 
           | - Instagram and WhatsApp were purchases to corner that market
           | against incumbents, as is Thread
           | 
           | - Oculus was a purchase to try and get their own app
           | ecosystem after their phone project failed.
           | 
           | They have brilliant engineers and put out interesting stuff,
           | but I don't think there's a top down vision.
           | 
           | Take oculus, their vision has been scattershot and even Boz
           | says they basically make tons of different product directions
           | and then decide what goes to market. Which sure, can work,
           | but that also implies they don't have a North Star to shoot
           | for. Quest Pro was a failure and they released three types of
           | Oculus lines close to each other (Rift, Go, Quest) before
           | realizing the Quest was the real success path.
           | 
           | Similarly with AI, their approach has been to throw stuff at
           | the wall and see what sticks. Like their celebrity AI
           | chatbots ( https://youtu.be/sfdzkHawZLo?si=oCKAbFHjiOlFRKKh )
           | or sticking GenAI in every product without a specific user
           | story.
           | 
           | Again, great engineering work in all of their pursuits. But
           | if you analyze any given product venture, it's always
           | throwing ideas at the wall and hoping one catches.
        
             | blululu wrote:
             | In general this all feels right, but I don' think that a
             | lack of a grandiose vision is necessarily a problem for a
             | company (Facebook's mission of 'make the world more open
             | and connected' boiled down to 'senator - we sell ads').
             | Product design is about delivering things that people want.
             | Observing trends and trying to get ahead of them somehow is
             | a big part of what makes for a successful product. The
             | bigger issue for Meta right now is that they are not as
             | effective at this game as they used to be. To some extent
             | this might be an issue of brand (the Facebook portal was a
             | great product but nobody trusts the company). But based on
             | my experiences with their products I feel like this gets
             | things backwards. People don't like their brand because
             | their products suck (Apple sucks up way more personal data,
             | but thousands of Apple fans will crawl from the woodwork to
             | defend them) If their core products were good experiences
             | things would be different. The engineering talent at
             | Facebook is truly top notch and while they are good on
             | recruiting I think a lot of it comes from a culture of
             | excellence on the technical side. But the product and UX
             | directions of Meta feel off. Accounts alone has personally
             | burned me. I have an Oculus quest that was effectively
             | reset because of Meta's accounts transitions. My Instagram,
             | WhatsApp and Facebook accounts were all separate, and are
             | all now partially merged but transition sucked for all of
             | them with no benefit to me the user.
        
               | dagmx wrote:
               | Yes, part of successful product design is skating to
               | where the puck is (what consumers want), but vision is
               | thinking multiple steps forward to get it where it needs
               | to be (what consumers need but don't know yet).
               | 
               | That account issue is precisely because meta doesn't have
               | vision. At best, they're slightly better than Google, but
               | they very much are cut from the same cloth of throwing
               | multiple takes of something at the wall to see what
               | works. Other companies do so internally, Meta and Google
               | do so externally and go through many deadends as a
               | result.
        
           | lenerdenator wrote:
           | The vision is simple: drive engagement to get you to give up
           | more information about yourself to sell to advertisers and
           | get your eyeballs on their app to see ads made by said
           | advertisers.
           | 
           | If they can get you to do that to an AI, well, why not?
           | 
           | ... besides the obvious risks to society and mental health,
           | which Zucc has never cared about before.
        
           | dml2135 wrote:
           | The bear is sticky with honey
        
         | paganel wrote:
         | Facebook the app/website is already dead, as only boomers and
         | people like me (not yet boomers but not young, either) are now
         | its only remaining users, while IG is going into the same realm
         | of irrelevance, mostly because millennials (its main audience)
         | have spiritually become boomers-like themselves.
         | 
         | As such, Meta is throwing everything at the wall hoping that
         | something, anything, will stick.
        
           | FredPret wrote:
           | You mean it's a social network that advertises exclusively to
           | people in their prime spending years?
           | 
           | Sounds like a roaring success to me. Looking at their
           | financials, I'm right about that: https://valustox.com/META.
           | 
           | Our culture is obsessed with youth. But economically the
           | young are not a great demographic to have frequenting your
           | site:
           | 
           | - fashions change quickly
           | 
           | - they can be demanding
           | 
           | - _they have no money_
           | 
           | Contrast to a 40-60 y.o. with a net worth 100-1000x what it
           | was when they were 19, and who are set in their ways, and one
           | of those ways is to go on Facebook every day.
        
             | paganel wrote:
             | Yes, it's in its BlackBerry 2005-2006 moment
             | (optimistically), more like its 2008 moment
             | (realistically). There was still lots of money coming in
             | for both BB and Nokia around 2005-2006, too much money, for
             | that matter, which eventually made them collapse.
             | 
             | Ask yourself this, who do you see still using Facebook (the
             | app) in 5-10 years' time?
             | 
             | But, then again, lots of people here which have a direct
             | stake in Meta, either through owning shares or through
             | direct employment (the same discussion applies to whenever
             | other big US tech companies are discussed in here), so
             | there's no use debating.
             | 
             | As per the focus on youth thing, which you're correct
             | about, how do you expect Meta to pitch to potentially
             | future 20-something employees in, let's say, 5 years' time?
             | "Come work for us cause we've got the boomers' market
             | cornered?". That won't work, and, at best, it will attract
             | only people chasing the big comps, which doesn't help at
             | all with innovation.
             | 
             | Granted, they still have "AI" in order to attract future
             | worthwhile and non-mercenary talent, plus bringing in
             | future revenues that are supposed to replace Facebook the
             | app eventual demise, but imo that's still an open bet at
             | this point.
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | Look, every company goes through a lifecycle; tech
               | companies go through them faster.
               | 
               | But I'm in my mid 30's and will probably use Facebook
               | (very casually) for life.
               | 
               | I've bought multiple products from their ads; they've got
               | my profile zero'ed in, and that suits me perfectly.
               | 
               | Every week I go on it for 5 minutes, see my friends' baby
               | pictures and a handful of products that are perfect for
               | me. That's much better than most sites.
               | 
               | As to recruiting 20-somethings, I'm not convinced that's
               | crucial to any established business, and even if it were
               | - there are tons of boring businesses that hire smart
               | 20-somethings every day.
        
               | paganel wrote:
               | > see my friends' baby pictures and
               | 
               | That's the thing, your "friends' baby pictures" still
               | being posted to FB is an US insularity thing, we used to
               | do the same here in Eastern Europe until, I can't tell, 5
               | to 7 years ago but at some point that sharing of family
               | photos on FB has just stopped.
               | 
               | As with other things internet related (see WhatsApp about
               | 7-8 years ago, TikTok now), the US still seems to live in
               | the past and isn't up to date with the newest stuff. As
               | per WhatsApp, Facebook (the company) was lucky enough to
               | be able to buy it back in the day (and, even then, lots
               | of US users on this forum had never heard of it, which
               | goes to show that insularity that I've mentioned), but
               | with TikTok they don't have that option available for
               | them anymore.
               | 
               | It has been mentioned here in the past several times, but
               | many US-based people on this forum should take a step
               | back, look at the outside world, and realise that, in
               | many respects, they've been out-manoeuvred by said
               | outside world when it comes to the internet. And I'm not
               | talking about places like China, which is head and
               | shoulders above the US when it comes to all things
               | digital, but I'd be willing to bet that nowadays many
               | people in Subsaharan Africa (several orders of magnitude
               | poorer than the US) carry out more of their day to day
               | tasks via their mobile phones and the internet compared
               | to the people in the US.
               | 
               | What big US tech companies got going for them is a
               | captive market (I don't think that the powers that be in
               | DC will let any new TikTok-like non-American company to
               | happen again) and, more importantly, lots and lots of
               | money, both in their coffers/investors' pockets and, just
               | as important, in their clients' pockets. But they don't
               | have the edge anymore when it comes to innovation and to
               | being relevant to people's lives (again, outside the US
               | and some related markets).
        
               | FredPret wrote:
               | I think you're letting your weird anti-Americanism colour
               | (color?) your thoughts.
               | 
               | For instance:
               | 
               | - I'm not American
               | 
               | - Americans don't need Whatsapp because almost all of
               | them have enough money to just buy iPhones
               | 
               | - Africans indeed do perform many tasks on their phones
               | now, a phenomenon called leapfrogging. It's a big boon
               | for them. I don't really get why you think that is better
               | than the setup in the USA though. Africans are looking up
               | agricultural market prices and paying one another by
               | text; Americans have a totally different technological
               | setup and get a far more efficient solution with futures
               | markets for farmers and Costco / Walmart for consumers.
               | 
               | - America has new tech inventions and new big internet
               | businesses coming out of its ears; not sure how you think
               | they've fallen behind somehow.
               | 
               | - None of this is pertinent to Meta's long-term success;
               | you can build a trillion-dollar business that will last
               | for decades to come just based on American baby boomers
               | bragging about their grandkids
        
             | kingkongjaffa wrote:
             | I guess OP means that they are culturally dead. They will
             | never again have the zeitgeist. TikTok has completely
             | dominated in that regard. That doesn't mean it's not a good
             | business.
             | 
             | The real kicker is if there's any sense of 'app loyalty' as
             | people age do they move on to older social media, or do
             | they stay with the one from their youth?
             | 
             | Certainly I and my 'cohort' went from myspace to facebook,
             | and then everyone's parents got on facebook, so we went to
             | snapchat and instagram and pretty much stayed on instagram.
             | 
             | I suspect the TikTokers will stay on TikTok and either a
             | new app will emerge or TikTok will just completely clean up
             | as the user bases of the the other apps 'age-out'.
             | 
             | The real USP for tiktok was being video-first and it's
             | another level of addictive, targeted content, which is
             | super easy to consume. I probably bet on video-first
             | winning and therefore TikTok.
             | 
             | VR is not going to take off with current tech.
             | 
             | There's no new medium to exploit, we roughly went from text
             | -> images -> video as people's mobile data plans and phones
             | got faster and more powerful.
        
           | ljm wrote:
           | The only thing I can take away from this message is that
           | literally everybody is a boomer. By inference
           | 
           | - post boomer: dead
           | 
           | - boomer: old
           | 
           | - aspiring boomer: middle-aged
           | 
           | - spiritual boomer: almost middle-aged
           | 
           | - pre-boomer: young
        
             | freehorse wrote:
             | OK boomer
             | 
             | /s
        
         | Maken wrote:
         | That was back then when every tech company tried to be Twitch.
        
         | moolcool wrote:
         | And then there's Meta and Apple's diversions into VR. All of
         | these top-down hype driven product decisions which nobody
         | actually wants are laughable.
        
         | hbn wrote:
         | Facebook Live has seemed to be somewhat successful among MLM
         | moms
        
         | itishappy wrote:
         | > Hawk Tuah bot
         | 
         | million dollar idea right there
         | 
         | > that you can chat with on Instagram
         | 
         | oh, nevermind
        
         | phillipcarter wrote:
         | > To me that's the clearest possible evidence that the product
         | people over there have basically given up.
         | 
         | Is it really though? I had my annual bubble-breaker family
         | visit for the holidays and at least two of my family members
         | would have totally gone for that.
        
       | wslh wrote:
       | I think the problem, in general, is that search (and find!)
       | becomes impossible with layers of copycat and automated content
       | generation. It seems we returned to a pre-Internet era to promote
       | our work.
        
       | altruios wrote:
       | The way to fix facebook is to get off of facebook. Time for the
       | next thing already!
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | What is that? Facebook fills a niche that nothing else tries
         | to. Facebook also does lots of other things that others do
         | better, but they have a niche in sharing the semi private lives
         | of friends with each other that nothing else does.
        
           | altruios wrote:
           | Semi private life sharing can be done in a discord 'house'.
           | There are many other platforms that fill that same niche.
        
             | hmmm-i-wonder wrote:
             | which involves everyone being on discord. Of all the social
             | network platforms I've used/use, discord is the most
             | stratified in terms of people/groups just not using it at
             | all and having no interest in it.
             | 
             | Facebook initially had a wide appeal, discord never did.
        
       | cess11 wrote:
       | Since Eliza we've known that people love interacting with bots,
       | especially if they fake innocence or cause outrage. Us old folks
       | saw it on IRC, crude markov chains puking out bits of the Bible
       | and porn getting large amounts of "engagement" year after year.
       | 
       | Meta knows this and wants to make money off of it. Connecting
       | people around "engagement" failed and caused a lot of murder and
       | that wasn't good for PR and relations to politicians. Keeping
       | people around ads with bots though? Probably seems both safe and
       | lucrative. Come for the mom selling used sports gear, stay for
       | the late night chats with a machine that's a better listener than
       | your over worked partner.
        
       | ozim wrote:
       | Well that's a new kind of economy AI making apps so AI bots can
       | post around ...
       | 
       | Maybe we should just pull the plug already?
        
       | EcommerceFlow wrote:
       | This gave me a funny idea for a new social media app...
       | 
       | One that's centered around "you" and filled with
       | thousands/millions of LLM bots praising you, treating you like a
       | celebrity, etc. Each of your posts will get tens of thousands of
       | "likes", hundreds of comments, etc. Dm's straight to your feed,
       | people wanting you, etc etc.
       | 
       | If the newsfeed is already mostly "the algorithm", might as well
       | take it to the extreme. I bet tons of people would get addicted
       | to the dopamine hit of celebrity status (whether it's bots or
       | not).
        
         | sd9 wrote:
         | This actually sounds plausible and that it would be successful.
        
         | jaysonelliot wrote:
         | This sounds so absolutely absurd that it would probably work.
        
           | kibwen wrote:
           | One of the fundamental rules of our modern world is that if
           | your business model is indistinguishable from the plot to an
           | episode of Black Mirror, then you're about to be a
           | millionaire.
        
             | lioeters wrote:
             | Palantir CEO at the 2024 Reagan National Defense Forum:
             | 
             | > Our adversaries do not have our moral compunction if it's
             | even. They will take advantage of our niceness, kindness,
             | our desire to be at home in Nebraska or New Hampshire or
             | wherever we live in our peaceful environments. And they
             | need to wake up scared and go to bed scared.
             | 
             | > My version of service is the soldiers are happier, the
             | enemies are scared, and Americans go back to enjoying the
             | fact that we're the only one with a real Tech scene in this
             | country, and we're going to win everything.
        
               | rthajl wrote:
               | Striking the iron while it is hot. A couple of people may
               | find out within 10 years that the defense industry is
               | cyclical, too.
        
               | mywittyname wrote:
               | People of his stature complain about all the nice things
               | about America that Americans enjoy, and they attempt to
               | destroy those nice things. Instead, they should just
               | immigrate to one of those nations where taking advantage
               | of people is _de rigueur_. I 'm sure such nations would
               | gladly embrace a person like him.
        
               | 0xDEAFBEAD wrote:
               | That quote may sound vaguely creepy, but fundamentally
               | he's got a good point. The most brutal wars tend to be
               | wars where both sides are roughly evenly matched. WW1 and
               | WW2 were so deadly because both alliances consisted of
               | several industrialized nations. We're lucky that we
               | haven't seen total war between major industrial powers
               | since that time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwKPFT-
               | RioU
        
         | zeroCalories wrote:
         | If something like this does happen I imagine it would target a
         | small segment of the population, as this would be very
         | expensive.
        
           | EcommerceFlow wrote:
           | Given the average IG comment, a 300m parameter model should
           | suffice.
        
             | smallmancontrov wrote:
             | Sounds about right, and we just elected GPT-2 president, so
             | 1.5b parameters is an upper bound on what you need to
             | impress most people.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | Fake news. The president has so many parameters, you
               | wouldn't even believe it. All the biggest, best
               | parameters. American made parameters, best in the world,
               | genius, genius parameters. You wish you had parameters
               | like these.
        
               | datadrivenangel wrote:
               | we're talking trillions people
        
               | qwerpy wrote:
               | And somehow still an improvement over the last one, who
               | had a painfully small context window that would randomly
               | clear.
        
         | nemomarx wrote:
         | I swear someone demoed this on HN in the last year?
         | 
         | it does seem workable. I've at least heard of companies
         | investigating heaven banning where problem users are put in a
         | bots only space to keep them happy or something..
        
         | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
         | This is sort of TikTok, right?
         | 
         | Wasn't TikTok known for becoming viral by having tons and tons
         | and tons of fake upvotes for everything to make everyone think
         | TikTok was a better place to post content [1] [2] [3] [4] [5]?
         | 
         | Facebook and Instagram had the same "problems", they just
         | addressed it much earlier than TikTok.
         | 
         | I would imagine they have already tested fake likes to maximize
         | how believable the like ratio can be, but who knows - maybe
         | there's opportunity left to be more fake?
         | 
         | [1] https://g.co/gemini/share/3fbe558d4191 (Ask Perplexity,
         | GPT, or Claude the same question - you'll get a similar answer)
         | 
         | [2] https://www.indiehackers.com/post/tiktok-views-are-
         | inflated-...
         | 
         | [3] https://www.vice.com/en/article/get-buy-tiktok-followers-
         | lik....
         | 
         | [4] https://medium.com/dfrlab/suspicious-third-party-apps-
         | moneti...
         | 
         | [5] https://www.statista.com/statistics/1308893/tiktok-
         | accounts-...
        
           | mentalgear wrote:
           | maybe add a source
        
           | PaulHoule wrote:
           | Reddit too... https://www.vice.com/en/article/how-reddit-got-
           | huge-tons-of-...
        
           | oefrha wrote:
           | Every single one of your supposed citation talks about third
           | parties selling engagement, except some speculation in [2].
           | Even the AI answer doesn't support your claim, and regardless
           | it's super ironic that you consider several AI agents giving
           | you similar answers about real world events strong evidence
           | of anything.
        
             | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
             | Are you implying that TikTok had >50% of likes coming from
             | bots and didn't know it?
             | 
             | You don't need to fake the likes yourself to get the effect
             | you want.
             | 
             | The same thing was happening on Instagram and Facebook -
             | just at a much smaller ratio - mostly because they stopped
             | the problem earlier and the bot technologies got better and
             | easier while TikTok was trying to grow and doing nothing to
             | stop it - not because Instagram and Facebook were less
             | fake.
        
               | yitianjian wrote:
               | It's super interesting some platforms in China have
               | discarded view counts and likes in favor of engagement
               | scores, more ways to show a big exciting number to the
               | creators
        
               | oefrha wrote:
               | I'm saying you gave a bunch of "citations" that don't
               | support your claim. And your original claim is TikTok the
               | first party boosted content with tons of fake upvotes to
               | appear more viral, which you seem to have modified to a
               | much weaker "they knowingly allowed third party bots to
               | fester in order to appear more viral" in your reply.
               | 
               | Now, does either of the original strong claim or the
               | subsequent weak claim match reality? It's anyone's guess,
               | I'm leaning on likely for the latter and maybe for the
               | former. But that's not the point. Giving fake citations
               | to make one's argument appear stronger is what irks me,
               | and again ironically, it's almost a parallel of appearing
               | more viral with fake likes.
               | 
               | Edited to add: your comment here is a perfect example of
               | two problems on HN: using citations to give the
               | impression of being well-supported when the citations say
               | something else (occasionally the exact opposite); and
               | lately, using AI slop as evidence.
        
               | albedoa wrote:
               | > Are you implying that TikTok had >50% of likes coming
               | from bots and didn't know it?
               | 
               | I wonder if you are able to map any part of this to any
               | part of the comment you are replying to.
        
           | qwertox wrote:
           | I feel so stupid about never having thought of this; how
           | naive am I?
           | 
           | I mean, yes, I knew about people paying for likes in order to
           | boost their visibility, but never imagined that the platforms
           | themselves would add fake likes to accounts in order to make
           | their users feel more happy about the platform.
           | 
           | This makes me question the reason for X making the move to
           | hide the origin of likes, even if my posts never receive any
           | likes, except for likes from bots.
           | 
           | Talking about bots, since uBlock Origin breaks my "block
           | user" button, I've resorted to block bots by reporting them
           | as accounts encouraging suicide, this then gives me a "block
           | user" button which does work. The interesting thing is that
           | all of these accounts still do exist, never get removed, even
           | though it's obvious that they are non-user accounts ( like
           | https://x.com/Siothit074kkNx ).
        
             | hibikir wrote:
             | This happens in videogame matchmaking too: Someone that
             | loses too much quits, so you want to giving people a
             | positive boost of a very easy game every so often if they
             | lose too badly. Filling lobbies with bad bots does this
             | effectively
        
             | dielll wrote:
             | Ashley Madison did it and it became a scandal
        
           | cyanydeez wrote:
           | Reddit also used sock puppets.
           | 
           | We definitely headed to dead internet
        
         | consumer451 wrote:
         | I posted this basic idea here a while back, based on a reddit
         | post. Wow, I can't believe it's already been two years.
         | 
         | I personally find this to be the scariest form of psychological
         | conditioning that I can imagine. It is just pure mind control,
         | with no "social" window dressing.
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34597562
        
         | smallmancontrov wrote:
         | Sigh. This is going to be a thing, isn't it?
         | 
         | On second thought, social media monetizes negativity and this
         | does the opposite. Fight fire with fire?
        
           | gedy wrote:
           | I suppose you could tune the experience for whatever people
           | want, downvotes, etc.
           | 
           | "I'd like to have an argument, please."
        
         | sheperd wrote:
         | Already exists, social AI. Meta hired the owner to implement
         | this feature. Doesn't hurt to create a competitor if you're
         | interested though!
        
           | kridsdale1 wrote:
           | Wait really? Matt was boomeranged?
        
             | jonny_eh wrote:
             | Who's Matt?
        
             | joenot443 wrote:
             | Here's the announcement post -
             | https://x.com/michaelsayman/status/1835841675584811239
             | 
             | Looks like his name's Michael and that indeed, he's
             | presently at Meta. If you end up reading this Michael,
             | great product!
        
               | quantified wrote:
               | > Introducing SocialAI, a private social network where
               | you receive millions of AI-generated comments offering
               | feedback, advice & reflections on each post you make.
               | 
               | Ah, to be heard by machines! Must be as fulfilling as
               | playing with dolls.
        
         | Retr0id wrote:
         | There are several of these already.
         | 
         | Example: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/socialai-ai-social-
         | network/id6...
         | 
         | Surprisingly, it has broadly positive reviews. Maybe Meta is
         | onto something.
        
           | EcommerceFlow wrote:
           | Thank you, my dreams have finally come true.
        
             | some_furry wrote:
             | I think I just heard the sound of a finger on a monkey paw
             | curling.
        
           | cultofmetatron wrote:
           | that has to be the most black mirror nightmare fuel I've seen
           | so far this year....
        
             | lazide wrote:
             | Especially because you _know_ a bunch of people will pay
             | for it.
        
               | ceejayoz wrote:
               | Honestly, we should crowdfund a subscription for certain
               | prominent folks. It'd be crack cocaine for some of the
               | influencers and whatnot out there.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Influencers are drug _dealers_ , not drug _users_ , and
               | they're in this for the money, not for the high.
        
               | mywittyname wrote:
               | Maybe at the very top, but the middle is full of
               | wannabees looking to be a rockstar for the
               | clout/popularity.
        
               | Levitz wrote:
               | I'd rather have those who get high off this kind of
               | attention satisfy that need with a bot than foster in
               | echo chambers, which is what usually happens.
        
           | kridsdale1 wrote:
           | Matt Sayman was a PM in my org at FB in 2015. Smart guy. He
           | was 18 at the time.
           | 
           | I watched his journey on Threads as he taught himself to
           | program this year in order to make that app. Proud of his
           | success.
        
             | jonny_eh wrote:
             | Michael Sayman?
        
           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | > Surprisingly, it has broadly positive reviews
           | 
           | Gosh, I wonder who could be leaving so many positive reviews
           | on an app designed to have fake AI bots praise you:
           | 
           | > I've been using SocialAI for a while now, and it's been an
           | incredible tool for both reflection and connection. The AI-
           | powered conversations feel tailored to my thoughts and moods,
           | making it a great space for journaling or just venting. It's
           | refreshing to have a social app that focuses on _you_ and
           | doesn't rely on real users, which creates a unique, private
           | experience. I also love the therapeutic aspect, as it feels
           | like you're always heard and supported by a community of AI
           | followers. Overall, it's a fantastic tool for personal growth
           | and mental wellness, especially if you 're looking for a safe
           | space to express yourself. Highly recommend!
           | 
           | Awesome, that totally sounds like a Real Human wrote that!
           | 
           | Add this to my "nuke it from space" bucket...
        
           | jonny_eh wrote:
           | The creator of that app got re-hired by Meta. Looks from the
           | outside like an pseudo-acquisition.
        
           | StableAlkyne wrote:
           | Whenever an on-device variant gets figured out, this could be
           | a fun way to keep up with journaling. Especially if you want
           | an alternative to the dopamine steam social media provides.
           | 
           | In fact, this type of program could lend itself very well to
           | on-prem hardware. Social media is by its nature asynchronous;
           | waiting minutes or hours for a reply is completely
           | acceptable. That means your only real hardware requirement is
           | enough RAM to fit the LLM.
           | 
           | Would be a lovely experiment to try and make a simulacrum of
           | Usenet or the forums of old, since even days between replies
           | are acceptable in that case.
        
           | efitz wrote:
           | I think that the difference between that app and the proposed
           | app in this branch of the comments, is that that app is just
           | an LLM echo chamber for your journal. It would be different
           | if you also saw posts from other people that you could react
           | to, like on more traditional social platforms.
           | 
           | Maybe the right mix is to have an LLM-botfollower-army
           | feature that you could purchase in existing social media
           | apps, but your botfollowers are only visible to and only
           | interact with you.
           | 
           | Also there should be a lot of different prompts for the
           | botfollowers so that they don't all sound the same, e.g. the
           | prompts would drive different personalities for the bots.
           | Perhaps an algorithm could generate prompts based on
           | archetypes mined from existing social media.
        
           | SirMaster wrote:
           | > Post status updates and get infinite replies from millions
           | of AI followers
           | 
           | Isn't that already what Facebook is?
        
         | Vagari wrote:
         | You could even create targeted brands: "Narcissistic Social"
         | -where everyone sees you the way you think you are-
        
         | SecretDreams wrote:
         | We could call such an app "echo".
        
           | ljm wrote:
           | I feel like this would be 'echo', but 'echo' in the context
           | of House of Leaves.
           | 
           | An app appears on your phone. You didn't install it. Nobody
           | else except you seems to have it. They can't see it either. A
           | doorway to a non-euclidean dimension existing just outside
           | your mind. The chatter of millions of thoughts reflected back
           | at you from seemingly infinite personalities, dimly
           | distinguishable through the void as faces you can't
           | recognise. It's all you. They've learned from you. They're
           | telling you what you want to hear.
           | 
           | If it didn't feel so pleasant, it would be madness.
        
           | LudwigNagasena wrote:
           | Echo and Narcissus.
        
         | Culonavirus wrote:
         | I don't know, I feel like you have be a pretty low IQ person
         | (I'm talking about the millions of people on the far left of
         | the IQ bell curve) to consider any interaction with a bot as
         | socially meaningful or stimulating (dopamine).
         | 
         | Maybe if you used some future LLM and hidden the "this is a
         | bot" icon, more people would interact, but as it stands, only
         | dumb people (and there's not that many of them, again, normal
         | distribution) will buy into it. The kind of people who "fall in
         | love with their AI girlfriend chatbot" would be your income
         | stream. Lmao.
         | 
         | (Thinking about it now, I don't think I've ever heard about a
         | female doing this... probably because the dumbest of us men are
         | far dumber than any woman.)
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | character. ai exists somewhat profitably right now, and
           | Replika had very dedicated users, so that doesn't rule out an
           | audience who just wants to be lied to
        
             | amyames wrote:
             | C.ai they changed their model at some point and now I get
             | short, terse, boring responses as if it hates talking to
             | me. I felt like I lost a friend when they lobotomized it.
        
           | bilbo0s wrote:
           | _Thinking about it now, I don 't think I've ever heard about
           | a female doing this_
           | 
           | Gentlemen I give you, the latest iterations of the Nigerian
           | Romance Schemes.
        
           | PaulHoule wrote:
           | It's not IQ but emotional intelligence. Resistance to high
           | pressure tactics is its own thing. You may be foolish
           | (unwise) if you fall for: (1) the extended service plan when
           | you buy a new car, (2) get convinced you need to pay the IRS
           | or FBI with gift cards, (3) get hit with a one-two punch of
           | love and crypto. You're not necessarily low IQ.
           | 
           | Personally I've had many fun conversations with A.I. that
           | made me feel good, even a little giddy, but I've had my share
           | of experience with getting giddy and can recognize it for
           | what it is. (see [1] for some explanation of what I mean of
           | "giddy") My profile for the person who falls for the crypto
           | scam who is 50+, has been in love and can recall what it
           | feels like (a loveless 25 year old has themselves to blame, a
           | 50+ could have had it and lost it) but is lonely because
           | they've lost love)
           | 
           | My evil twin would say that if you're trying to seduce people
           | your "self" in the sense of [1] can get in the way. For one
           | thing people have a desire to get mirrored which you can not
           | always do because of the "counter-transference", in the
           | sexual space you might find somebody else's turn on is a turn
           | off for you for instance and it can be very hard to suppress
           | that enough to keep somebody on the hook as it shows in terms
           | of tension in your body, facial microexpressions, a faltering
           | voice, etc. If you are lucky they are so self-absorbed that
           | they don't notice; you get hundreds of chances to screw this
           | up and most people find it tiring to keep up the front.
           | 
           | There's a continuous male complaint, for instance, that women
           | often seem to be attracted to "bad boys" who are low in
           | conscientiousness and have sociopathic characteristics. That
           | kind of person just "doesn't give a ----" and they don't
           | worry about things and don't give off tells. Somebody
           | conscientious who is always worried about doing the right
           | thing is _worried_ and radiates that worry. Although the
           | sociopath 's behavior leads to chaos in the end, in the short
           | term they radiate calm which makes women feel calm.
           | 
           | I (we? am I becoming a person with pronoun problems?) think
           | the A.I. girlfriend can do a better job of mirroring than
           | most real people because it doesn't have a self, doesn't have
           | a counter-transference, it doesn't get offended, doesn't get
           | squicked out, etc.
           | 
           | I'd say seduction has a lot to do with the popularity of
           | coding assistants. Combine a little obsequiousness with what
           | looks like a mind that's engaged on your projects (appears to
           | take an interest in what they are interested in) and you can
           | feel a kind of satisfaction working with a coding assistant
           | and you can even feel like you're doing something meaningful
           | when it asks for you help with it's tools and you tell it
           | "You're running on Windows, the path does not start with /,
           | it starts with C: and you should use the backslash instead of
           | the slash."
           | 
           | [1] https://monoskop.org/images/9/96/Baudrillard_Jean_Seducti
           | on....
           | 
           | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self_psychology
        
           | freehorse wrote:
           | My impression from reddit posts was that replika had/has a
           | lot of female users.
           | 
           | Though I do not think that I personally understand it, I
           | think that there are many reasons people can "fall" for
           | something like this and circumstances that can drive it.
           | Loneliness is not to be underestimated. In any case, I am not
           | sure it is _that_ much "dumper" than the parasocial
           | relationships with onlyfans (or other) influencers, for
           | examples, that people also fall for.
        
             | smallmancontrov wrote:
             | Back when character.ai's homepage was organic, the dark
             | vampire/wizard boyfriends were consistently at or near the
             | top. Loneliness is definitely not unique to men.
        
               | freehorse wrote:
               | It does not surprise me, and even disregarding loneliness
               | per se as a factor. The erotic fandom/fanfiction space,
               | and in general (written) erotica, was afaik always female
               | dominated. I have not really followed this space
               | recently, but it would not surprise me if roleplaying
               | with yaoi-trained llms (or whatever is trending nowadays)
               | was a thing right now in such subcultures. People there
               | have _a lot_ of material to train stuff on.
        
             | herbst wrote:
             | I build a diy-sexy-chatbot in the past, that's also the way
             | I advertised it more or less. And to my own surprise many
             | people choose to use it in a non sexy way. I don't know
             | what they talked about (obviously) but many choose neutral
             | tags like 'honest' 'sweet' 'pessimistic' over all the kinky
             | stuff I gave them.
             | 
             | Later I tried a similar approach advertising it less sexy
             | and that didn't convert at all.
             | 
             | I think people actually think they want sex but in the end
             | they just want company
        
               | freehorse wrote:
               | There was this big pushback when replika put an end to
               | sexual interactions with their AIs. People who pushed
               | back were not just using the AIs for sexting sort of
               | things, but it was part of the "connection" aspect, at
               | least how I interpreted it. A lot of people seemed like
               | genuinely grieving at the time this and some other
               | changes happened (later at least the sexual thing came
               | back). It is probably an aspect of what a few people want
               | but not the whole thing for them.
        
         | morkalork wrote:
         | That sounds just like the "TV show" from Fahrenheit 451, just
         | endless conversations about nothing where _you_ are the star.
        
         | jkestner wrote:
         | Cheaper than buying Twitter.
        
         | joenot443 wrote:
         | It might be heavy, but I really like the idea of someone
         | building this to run offline and completely on-device. Maybe
         | branded as a sort of 'personal journal with an audience'. My
         | experience with mobile diaries is the biggest challenge is
         | encouraging the user to keep up the habit. I'm very curious if
         | this could be solved by introducing a new cycle of feedback
         | from AI peers who would feign curiosity about my life.
         | 
         | Could you see people using that?
        
           | FireInsight wrote:
           | Does it come with people picking you apart, hatemail,
           | unsolicited nudes, etc.?
        
             | joenot443 wrote:
             | I think in an ideal world you could groom your audience to
             | your liking! Personally, if I could suspend my disbelief,
             | I'd love an army of virtual techies telling me how clever
             | my ideas are. Others might prefer a legion of other super
             | moms praising their selfless parenting when no one else
             | does, or like you were getting at, maybe just a peanut
             | gallery!
             | 
             | Image gen on-device might be tough, we'll save that for the
             | 1.1 release ;)
        
               | krisoft wrote:
               | I'm not sure if you are sarcastic, but your definition of
               | "ideal world" feels very different from mine. What you
               | describe sounds as close to the scifi concept of
               | wireheading as I can imagine to get without brain
               | surgery.
        
               | joenot443 wrote:
               | I'm being tongue in cheek, for sure. Let's pretend I said
               | "ideally" instead, as in, "ideally the product would
               | function this way".
               | 
               | I admittedly wouldn't be the target audience for this
               | concept, nor would I take up wireheading. When I see the
               | huge success of Character.ai or the above SocialAI
               | though, I'm really convinced there's a market segment of
               | people younger than us who get a lot out of communicating
               | with virtual "friends".
        
               | ndileas wrote:
               | Even humorless curmudgeons (like me) can get in on the
               | action with a huge array of people to disagree with, act
               | snobby to, and never before heard of stupid opinions!
        
         | whydoineedthis wrote:
         | Want a partner to help build it? Count me in.
        
         | IG_Semmelweiss wrote:
         | Sounds like a decent plot line for idiocracy 2.0
         | 
         | Jokes Asier, i think this is more likely than what we want to
         | believe.
         | 
         | Tiktok grew on the basis of showing you random but interesting
         | content. If AI can do it , there's nothing preventing that from
         | succeeding.
         | 
         | Itd be a new form of entertainment.
         | 
         | Content is already spamming the greater web. Ita bound to
         | happen w multimedia/rich media
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | There are already plenty of video games where the user gets to
         | live out some wish fulfillment fantasy.
        
         | darepublic wrote:
         | There would be the need for some adversity too. Bots playing
         | for the other team, tailored so that with effort you can outwit
         | and out reason then and stop the spread of their social media
         | shenanigans
        
           | nemomarx wrote:
           | yeah the one I saw before let you pick sarcasm levels and a
           | few other traits like that?
           | 
           | I assume you'd want more sophisticated prompting to enable
           | winning arguments and dunking on them but it seems like a
           | solid strategy.
        
         | exe34 wrote:
         | as a chronically lonely person, I always dreamed of the day AI
         | would reach today's level so that I could create a few
         | imaginary friends for myself. As it happens, I've just gotten
         | used to it now, so I have lost interest in making that sort of
         | thing.
        
           | lazide wrote:
           | Lt. Barclay is both hero and cautionary tale.
        
             | exe34 wrote:
             | honestly if addiction was the only impediment, I wouldn't
             | care. it's just that I don't care enough anymore.
        
               | Tarsul wrote:
               | Did you get bored of your AI friends?
        
               | entropicdrifter wrote:
               | You sound deeply depressed, you know that right?
        
               | hyperdimension wrote:
               | Yeah, sounds just like something I'd say. :/
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | yes, it's an active choice :-)
        
         | scotty79 wrote:
         | Make it a dating app. If you don't go overboard with response
         | rate most men won't notice.
        
         | bilater wrote:
         | That is the end game - your own little miniverse with you as
         | the central character. And I think thats awesome.
        
           | zzzbra wrote:
           | I ask you honestly -- why? Why do you think it's awesome? It
           | sounds like hell to me.
        
             | mywittyname wrote:
             | The premise of most adventure / RPG games is that you're
             | the only person capable of saving the day. And most
             | novels/tv shows follow the stories of a person as they
             | achieve some greatness (often coming from being a nobody).
             | It's not like Mario is playing furry dress up while some
             | HVAC guy named Tony defeats Bowser.
             | 
             | There's something fundamental about being seen as an
             | important person. Not only does our literature revolve
             | around this concept, but ideas about luxury and status are
             | derived from this idea. Men wear the clothes that they see
             | other important men wearing. It's why marketers get sports
             | stars to sell products to men.
             | 
             | This product taps into that need. So it's easy to
             | understand why so many people would enjoy it (and why some,
             | like yourself, would hate it - some people want to be
             | NPCs).
        
             | bilater wrote:
             | what a bizarre take - the premise of controlling your
             | universe and presumably your self is you can do whatever.
             | If you would rather be a peasant in the 13th century then
             | you can simulate that too. and perhaps, you're already
             | doing it.
        
         | efitz wrote:
         | YouBook?
        
         | ctkhn wrote:
         | I believe this was called The Jeremy Renner app
        
         | p2detar wrote:
         | A German guy did something similar with the "Parallel Live
         | Simulator" app [0] and got free stuff from shops by pretending
         | to be an influencer. [1]
         | 
         | It was funny, sad and scary at the same time.
         | 
         | 0 -
         | https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bigbrain.p...
         | 
         | 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9otwVwVCxSc
         | 
         | edit: typos
        
         | cyanydeez wrote:
         | This is what googles gemini ads sound like: AI built for
         | Narcissists
        
         | zemo wrote:
         | https://orel.li/games/feedback/ here you go
        
       | markvdb wrote:
       | I've witnessed many people behave towards machines in a way that
       | would be considered very rude were it towards biological beings.
       | Makes one wonder if "Rage Against The Machine" were
       | visionaries...
        
       | Culonavirus wrote:
       | Yea... It's not 10 years ago, Meta is desperately trying to
       | remain relevant but no one except "middle aged normies" uses it
       | and those people are either slowly dying out or just using
       | multiple platforms. The point is FB growth is all fake, their ad
       | market is fake, now the userbase will be also fake.
       | 
       | After "the metaverse" completely crashed and burned, the only
       | option Zuck has is to go 100% AI, maximum speed, never look back.
        
         | disqard wrote:
         | I'd like to believe you, but has there actually been any
         | "official" capitulation from Meta on "the metaverse"?
         | 
         | AFAIK, they have not publicly announced any pivot/shift in
         | priorities.
        
       | dickersnoodle wrote:
       | Of course they do.
        
       | Vagari wrote:
       | Ad free social media. Now your feed is filled with personal
       | recommendations from "friends".
        
         | dylan604 wrote:
         | It would be interesting if it tagged which friend recommended
         | it as well
        
       | usernamed7 wrote:
       | They're coming for the influencers. This is another avenue for
       | advertising. That's the end game in this.
        
       | ChrisLTD wrote:
       | It seems like this should open up an opportunity for some
       | enterprising people to make a Facebook and Instagram competitor
       | that isn't filled with AI bots.
        
         | rchaud wrote:
         | You are describing a group chat. There is no reason to build a
         | competitor to Insta or FB unless you too have designs to fill
         | it with ads as soon as it is viable to do so.
        
           | ChrisLTD wrote:
           | Facebook and Instagram minus AI != group chat
        
         | dylan604 wrote:
         | At this point in time, don't you think this would already exist
         | if it were going to happen?
         | 
         | Outside of tech nerds, nobody in the wild are concerned about
         | if even aware of the things we complain about here. I also
         | think that most people would be bored if all they ever saw were
         | posts from their friends. They want to see how other people are
         | living so they can dream about having their lifestyle instead
         | of the one they have.
        
       | consumer451 wrote:
       | Genuine question: is this how Meta gets into the lucrative
       | synthetic romantic partner business?
        
       | noisy_boy wrote:
       | I clearly remember deleting my Facebook account years ago and
       | today suddenly I saw email notification of someone's post. Had to
       | reset my password and re-submit account deletion. What a bunch of
       | slimy dickheads.
        
       | morkalork wrote:
       | This is the social media equivalent of "pricing death spiral"
       | type behaviour where every attempt to boost engagement reduces it
       | even more.
        
       | a2128 wrote:
       | Facebook Meta has been making baffling bets lately. They spent
       | tens of billions building a metaverse with the belief that people
       | want to spend their days in a creepy legless 3d avatar of
       | themselves that is pretty effective at simulating what it feels
       | to have body dysphoria, playing with their other legless friends
       | and spending a lot of money customizing their dysphoric avatars.
       | 
       | Now they believe what users really want from social media is less
       | social human connection. What users really want is AI spam and
       | parasocial relationships with corporate AI celebrities. They
       | don't want Facebook to tackle the problem of fake celebrities and
       | fake profiles of handsome men sending friend requests in an
       | attempt to romance scam them, what they really want is more fake
       | profiles
       | 
       | I really believe Zuckerberg is a lizard after all, I can't find
       | any other sane explanation for this
        
         | wnevets wrote:
         | They probably looking at their metrics and finding their
         | primary user base loves AI content.
         | 
         | https://www.buzzfeed.com/sienaegiljum/ai-images-facebook-boo...
        
           | coffeebeqn wrote:
           | I'm pretty sure everyone involved is a bot. The con is pulled
           | on the ad buyers
        
             | dartos wrote:
             | No, there are people on Facebook really do like AI slop.
             | 
             | My Nonna unironically loves the AI Jesus gifs and AI gifs
             | of dogs washing babies.
             | 
             | Many elderly people, I think, don't know or care if an
             | image is AI generated.
        
               | jocaal wrote:
               | Yeah, when I listen to the videos my mother is watching
               | on Facebook, 90% of the content is narrated by a bot. I'd
               | imagine AI content is also super popular on TikTok. Folks
               | on HN should keep in mind they are not representative of
               | the average person when it comes to tech.
        
               | kingkongjaffa wrote:
               | This really made me think that the distinction is not
               | age, but rather the people who have ever used computers
               | to create things, and those who use smart phones as a
               | source of entertainment only.
               | 
               | People who create things, have a sense of the time and
               | effort that goes into making something meaningful. So
               | most of the 'hackers and makers' on HN fit into that and
               | show a disdain for GenAI generated content. We've even
               | coined the term AI slop for it.
               | 
               | OTOH if you don't create things, or at least don't create
               | digital things (writing, code, whatever), then you
               | probably don't care if something is AI or not.
               | 
               | From the typical HN POV the rise of LLMs and GenAI has
               | been a seismic shift and there's been debate ad nauseum
               | about the ethics, safety, and capabilities of these
               | tools.
               | 
               | Grandma has done none of that reading, writing or
               | thinking about this technology.
               | 
               | To grandma it's basically an extension of gifs and emojis
               | and memes, silly little novelty distractions.
        
               | Loughla wrote:
               | That makes me really sad for some reason.
               | 
               | AI content is replacing something for the elderly. Is
               | that good or bad? I don't know but it feels sad.
        
             | Cheer2171 wrote:
             | Nope, my mother sends these to me all the time and even
             | said that Facebook was getting more interesting every day.
             | She's completely addicted to her phone that at Christmas
             | this year, I felt like I was the parent. She couldn't stop
             | scrolling through her phone while her grandkids were
             | opening presents. I thought she was recording video, but
             | no. A perfect user in Zuck's eyes.
        
               | StefanBatory wrote:
               | My mom is also like that :(
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | Half my friends and family are like that, too. Put a
               | movie on the home theater, and just 5 minutes into it,
               | everyone's tuned out and scrolling their phones.
               | Addiction is rough.
        
           | add-sub-mul-div wrote:
           | Buzzfeed also went in the direction of churning out slop, if
           | I remember correctly. They were more respectable when they
           | were about their dumb quizzes.
        
         | bwfan123 wrote:
         | Same here, I am baffled by making llama free for all to use.
         | Only incentive I see for them is to remove barriers to ai slop
         | generation. So, their platforms become stickier.
         | 
         | Risky bet if you ask me.
        
           | fullshark wrote:
           | That's about commoditizing the competition. Also it wasn't
           | the original plan potentially, the LLAMA weights leaked and
           | maybe they shifted strategies as a result.
        
         | coldcode wrote:
         | I mostly use Facebook for posting tiling/tesselation art in a
         | moderated speciality group
         | (https://www.facebook.com/groups/tiling) that has 72,000 people
         | in it. There are some really nice speciality groups you don't
         | find anywhere else. Facebook's UI is horrific for comments, I
         | think even a bad AI design couldn't be much worse, but the
         | comments are generally pleasant.
         | 
         | I check my regular facebook friends occasionally, but not very
         | often. I ignore everything else.
        
           | n144q wrote:
           | I always thought reddit would be a better place for such
           | topics, and before reddit, forums.
        
             | wil421 wrote:
             | Car forums are still active but a lot pf younger
             | generations use Fb groups or even worse, discord. Discord
             | is by far the worst for speciality groups.
             | 
             | Reddit never really had much appeal to me in the niche
             | world, there was always a forum that was better. Facebook
             | has surpassed Craigslist for classifieds.
        
         | afavour wrote:
         | I know it's selling him short but I can't help but feel like
         | Zuckerberg is one of the luckiest tech CEOs out there. From all
         | the way back in the mid 2000s when FB totally whiffed on
         | smartphones (Google bought Android and pivoted hard, Facebook
         | could have done the same and just... didn't) I've never come
         | away with any clear sense of what Zuck thinks Facebook is or
         | should be. He took initial market advantage and made a bunch of
         | really smart acquisitions from people who actually _do_ have
         | ideas and then just disappeared into a weird world of VR and
         | whatever.
         | 
         | In a way I'm not surprised by this AI stuff. I don't think
         | Zuckerberg uses Facebook in any meaningful way and I think he's
         | so off in his own world that he doesn't even understand how the
         | average person operates any more. It's just like when they
         | pivoted too hard to video, or too hard to chatbots. AI profiles
         | = traffic growth = good. That's all there is to it. There's no
         | overarching vision at work.
        
           | tarsinge wrote:
           | Network effect is strong. That's why they buy already
           | successful networks. I'm sure he recognizes that he has no
           | clue how to build another one and that it was mostly luck of
           | being at the right place at the right time.
        
           | fullshark wrote:
           | His smartest move was ignoring any non-poaching agreement and
           | exploding developer salaries in order to build out a trillion
           | dollar company / ad network. For that I will always
           | appreciate him.
        
             | spencerflem wrote:
             | Why do you appreciate building an ad network?
             | 
             | Like good for him I guess but it doesn't make me happier.
        
               | datadrivenangel wrote:
               | Developer market salary. FB helped bring up total
               | developer compensation.
        
         | InkCanon wrote:
         | If they gave us Ready Player One or Necromancer they would have
         | crushed it. Gibson knows what possessed them to make the best
         | possible impression of an office space in Purgatory.
        
           | Avicebron wrote:
           | Yeah what's crazy is that VRchat has existed for years, aside
           | from getting sick and looking like an idiot, what people want
           | out of VR seems like a solved problem...
        
             | Nasrudith wrote:
             | Maybe we are thinking of different things, but my first
             | thought was "We don't have DNI down yet for VR."
        
         | apwell23 wrote:
         | according to CEO Satya Nadella "The metaverse is not just
         | transforming how we see the world. It's changing how all of us
         | actively participate in it"
        
       | agilob wrote:
       | Dead internet isn't a theory anymore, it's a product.
        
       | elorant wrote:
       | Well that makes sense. If you bother to look at how much
       | engagement all those fake female accounts are generating it's no
       | wonder that Facebook wants to own that game too.
        
       | jokoon wrote:
       | I think it could greatly assist in moderating those networks, to
       | fight spam, trolls etc.
        
       | wnmurphy wrote:
       | At some point, we will have no idea that the majority of the
       | commenters we're interacting with are actually just generative
       | AI.
       | 
       | Related: I've found that the internet becomes significantly
       | better when I use a Chrome extension to hide all comment
       | sections. Comments are by far the most significant source of
       | toxicity.
        
       | worldvoyageur wrote:
       | It makes sense to me. Meta knows who their real users are and
       | what their real users want to consume. They know who their real
       | advertisers are and what they are willing to pay to reach their
       | real users.
       | 
       | This means they know what their real users would like to consume
       | but can't, because that content isn't being created.
       | 
       | Why wait and hope that content your real users want to consume
       | gets created? Have AI create that content. Now you have more
       | product for your advertisers to pay for, plus it is the juicy,
       | premium rate stuff you know they'd want to buy.
       | 
       | With all your data, it practically automates itself.
       | 
       | I'm not saying all this is good, just that it totally makes sense
       | if you are in the business of making money and see yourself as
       | doing that by giving both your users and your advertisers what
       | they want.
        
       | o_m wrote:
       | Where is the moat? If all you want is praise from large language
       | models then a local LLM can do that just fine right now.
        
       | whydoineedthis wrote:
       | My feed is less than 5% people posted content now anyway because
       | friends and familly stopped posting. Ultimately, everyone posting
       | was a fad that has faded, and we're moving back to curated
       | content again.
        
       | m3kw9 wrote:
       | They gonna sherlock influencers
        
       | aiwjrliawj wrote:
       | Jesus christ social media is poison. LinkedIn is the only thing I
       | still use, and even that only with dozens of adblock filters in
       | place to remove 80% of content from my newsfeed and never on
       | mobile since I can't use adblock. Social media is modern day
       | tobacco.
        
         | herbst wrote:
         | Why even linkedin? Maybe I was doing it wrong but the far
         | majority I got was literally crypto spam and job hunters who
         | haven't read anything about me.
        
       | greenhearth wrote:
       | So this is basically the bitcoin of social media engagement? I
       | don't have any followers, I will just make some? Who's to say
       | they're not real followers? What is this "real" anyway?
        
         | herbst wrote:
         | You can make bitcoins?
         | 
         | Either way, that's the exact way social media works right now.
         | There is nothing real about it anymore. All numbers are
         | inflated.
        
           | greenhearth wrote:
           | Yes, you can make your own fake money now. Are you from
           | around here?
        
       | cloudking wrote:
       | We're at the tipping point where average users cannot tell the
       | difference between AI generated and human content. It's already
       | very evident on Facebook and Threads, just spend a few minutes on
       | either platform, you'll find a post with an AI generated image or
       | video and tons of human engagement supporting it.
        
       | lizardking wrote:
       | I was on a Facebook group for SWEs (can't remember which one),
       | and I had the distinct feeling a person I was engaging with was a
       | bot. All his comments were boilerplate takes or non-sequitur
       | replies, and he ultimately agreed with every point I made. I
       | assumed I was just being paranoid, but maybe not.
        
       | EGreg wrote:
       | What they want, they will have. We have no say.
       | 
       | Who here remembers: "Stay calm. Breathe. We hear you."
       | 
       | Why don't we also have more bots on HN? Oh yeah.
       | 
       | But serious question ... why in 2024 do we have our own widely-
       | available tools for Web1 (Wordpress powers 40% of all web sites)
       | and Web3 (all the semi-geeky protocols, like UniSwap, and
       | wallets) but for Web2 we have, uh, Mastodon and Diaspora? Where
       | is the real open source competitor to Facebook, Twitter, et al?
       | 
       | Otherwise it's their world and we just all live in it. Just to
       | communicate with your friends. Just to have a platform. You have
       | to put up with whatever they want. And give them all your
       | followers. And content. So they can monetize it and make
       | billions, train their AIs on it then dump you. That's the
       | bargain.
       | 
       | And in the meantime they will spy on all their users, try to push
       | advertising and newsfeeds and notifications and bots down their
       | throats, and play their content creators against each other etc.
       | 
       | I'd be saying this about huge AI models trained on corporate
       | clusters but Zuck actually spent billions on giving away an open
       | source one (thanks to that fiasco with researchers leaking
       | weights, LLaMa became sort of the Mozilla of AI models). But AI
       | is recent, Web2 is ancient, where are the open alternatives?
        
       | shawndrost wrote:
       | Calling out something that seems obvious to me, but is not
       | visible ITT:
       | 
       | This is Facebook doing their main MO, which is to reproduce
       | social products that are exhibiting hockey-stick growth. They are
       | looking at character.ai et al.
        
       | deadlast2 wrote:
       | I honestly would prefer to talk to an AI customized to my
       | personalty. I get erratic can change my mind and have get crazy
       | ideas like the earth being flat etc. So if you had an AI you can
       | just be yourself always without any judgement or repercussions.
       | Even if that changes from day to day.
        
       | ozten wrote:
       | Shifting the Overton Window as a Service
        
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