[HN Gopher] The average American spent 2.5 months on their phone...
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       The average American spent 2.5 months on their phone in 2024
        
       Author : elorant
       Score  : 149 points
       Date   : 2024-12-29 12:16 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | Dalewyn wrote:
       | I would just like to note that "on the phone" here seemingly
       | doesn't include the actual act of _being on the phone_ (read:
       | making /taking phone calls).
        
         | drchickensalad wrote:
         | In fact if it's not a voice call it should probably be
         | excluded, lol. I feel like semantically right now being on your
         | phone refers to looking at the screen actively, even though
         | that's very much not the origin of the phrase. Yet, nowadays
         | the meaning of the phrase probably excluded when you're holding
         | it to the side of your head, as you're not looking at a screen
         | at all.
        
         | onion2k wrote:
         | Does anyone still do that?
        
         | rr808 wrote:
         | Yeah my screen time includes maps navigation.
        
       | jjgreen wrote:
       | I recall, pre-iPhone, sitting in a pub waiting for a friend to
       | arrive, staring into the middle-distance. I noticed a young man
       | sitting at the bar with a phone. He'd pick it up, check for
       | messages, put it down, take a sip of beer then his leg would
       | start to judder (he was on a bar stool), then repeat the whole
       | thing. A cadence of around 45s. "What a weirdo" I thought to
       | myself. Turns out I was the weirdo, heh.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | Yep. When I worked at Apple and took the (Apple) bus to work, I
         | would arrive early at the bus stop and wait with the other
         | employees. Lined up, everyone had their phones out, staring
         | down. Me, I was looking at the old out-of-comnmision payphone,
         | at the cars going by, at the copies of "Avisador" in the busted
         | newspaper stand.
         | 
         | Boredom is a good thing for the brain.
         | 
         | And, honestly, I must be of the older generation because I find
         | nothing very interesting on my phone. It takes pictures and
         | gives me directions. I'm a lap-topper.
        
           | heartbreak wrote:
           | > I find nothing very interesting on my phone.
           | 
           | It contains the entire Internet? If you see me on my phone at
           | a bus stop, I'm probably reading a book.
        
             | 2muchcoffeeman wrote:
             | The internet is not really organised in a way for you to do
             | anything useful if you are bored. There's no "learn about
             | the world" course you take when you have nothing else to
             | do.
             | 
             | In fact, all the stuff we've designed to capture attention
             | is almost the exact opposite of a good use of the internet.
             | 
             | I find it very difficult to queue up good content to read
             | or listen to on a daily basis. And I try. Imagine all the
             | people without the time to discover enough good content.
        
               | hk__2 wrote:
               | > There's no "learn about the world" course you take when
               | you have nothing else to do.
               | 
               | Good newspapers usually allow you to do that.
        
               | ibejoeb wrote:
               | > There's no "learn about the world" course you take
               | 
               | There's practically an undoable number of hours of free
               | courses on Coursera, Udemy, Khan Academy, and others.
               | Thousands of hours of interesting material on youtube.
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | I used to think so, but with more experience a lot of
               | dark patterns and perverse incentives are becoming
               | obvious. These people are not there to explain something
               | interesting in a useful way, they are there to get your
               | eyeballs to extract money from advertising or a Patreon.
               | They are not teaching you, they are making you think they
               | teach you to make you feel satisfied and give them money.
               | Of course some of them are actually good, but a lot are
               | not really.
        
               | PittleyDunkin wrote:
               | There's also Wikipedia. It takes a pretty long time to
               | exhaust that, although I've tried my hardest.
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | I have a massive folder of ebooks, pdfs, YouTube videos,
               | etc that I've downloaded on my phone. I also have a list
               | in Google keep of about twenty of these things in order
               | of preference, so I always have something to
               | read/watch/listen to based on my level of energy.
        
               | sgt wrote:
               | HN enters the chat...
        
               | kergonath wrote:
               | > The internet is not really organised in a way for you
               | to do anything useful if you are bored. There's no "learn
               | about the world" course you take when you have nothing
               | else to do.
               | 
               | I have a list of links to read for when I have time to do
               | so. But yeah, if I don't have anything to do, I prefer
               | just doing nothing than seeking engagement. Social media
               | are a mind killer.
               | 
               | > I find it very difficult to queue up good content to
               | read or listen to on a daily basis.
               | 
               | When I come across something that looks interesting, I
               | add it to the list and stuff accumulates until I go
               | through each link and read the page, usually during my 30
               | minutes commute. (or not, sometimes it is not as
               | interesting as I thought it would be). For me it works
               | quite well.
        
               | seydar wrote:
               | Sounds like you have a good list -- can you share some of
               | it?
        
               | cableshaft wrote:
               | I would agree that most people don't use the internet for
               | that when they're bored (including me more often than I'd
               | like to admit), and the big tech websites are all about
               | capturing attention and not providing good uses of the
               | internet, for the most part, but that doesn't mean it's
               | not available for people if they want it.
               | 
               | Last night I was working through some shader tutorials,
               | for instance, albeit on my laptop (I prefer laptop to
               | phone when possible).
               | 
               | I also playtest one of my games (current one has a mobile
               | version), or brainstorm and take notes for my game
               | designs, or read up on something I want to do with one of
               | my games, or go through my github issues list and
               | sometimes even look at my code repos while I'm killing
               | time while out and about (I mostly don't use my phone
               | when I'm not out, I'll just use my laptop).
               | 
               | I try to remember I have a Kindle app with lots of
               | informative books to read but I do forget about a little
               | too often.
               | 
               | When I was younger, I would program text-based games all
               | the time on my TI graphing calculator. I would even bring
               | that instead of my Game Boy to my grandparents sometimes,
               | because I just wanted to code more of my games.
               | 
               | I do think that capability is lacking on phones. It's
               | technically possible, but the environment (at least on
               | iPhone) is so sandboxed it's difficult to do effectively,
               | or at least it was the last time I tried. Anything you're
               | making on the device directly does not have access to the
               | same capabilities as what you make from a laptop or
               | desktop, and that's a shame.
        
               | simonsarris wrote:
               | Sure there is. I used to read Wikipedia's Article of the
               | Day every day at lunch. I only stopped because I found
               | even more interesting (to me) things to read about.
        
               | itishappy wrote:
               | > The internet is not really organised in a way for you
               | to do anything useful if you are bored. There's no "learn
               | about the world" course you take when you have nothing
               | else to do.
               | 
               | I'd argue you're holding it wrong. The repository of all
               | human knowledge absolutely does contain numerous "learn
               | about the world" courses in all shapes and forms. HN,
               | arXiv, Wikipedia, parts of YouTube, and dedicated
               | learning platforms abound and each probably has enough
               | content for a lifetime of learning. I agree it's not
               | designed to make this easy, but it's also not
               | particularly hard. Hit "random article" a few times on
               | Wikipedia and you're off to the races.
        
               | nunez wrote:
               | My brother/sister in Christ, its time for you to embrace
               | TikTok. You'll never be bored again! /s
        
             | kqr wrote:
             | I'm the same. I spend somewhere between 1 and 5 hours on
             | the phone daily, but 80 % of that is writing articles and
             | reading books I don't have on my Kindle.
        
               | jhrmnn wrote:
               | Indeed. I spent surely a few thousand hours in books as a
               | teenager. Now I spend majority of time on my phone
               | reading short- and long-form non-fiction. "Time on phone"
               | is irrelevant without specifying the activity. Perhaps
               | not if it automatically implies "time on social
               | networks".
        
             | GeoAtreides wrote:
             | i'm sure the vast majority of americans spent 2.5 months on
             | their phones reading books, of course, we have nothing to
             | worry about
        
               | swores wrote:
               | They very obviously weren't claiming that, they were
               | responding to a specific comment about there being
               | nothing interesting on smartphones. Try to interpret what
               | people say with good faith.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | the subtext of their comment, the unspoken implication,
               | the between the lines meaning was that it's fine people
               | are on their phone all the time, because some of them are
               | reading books
        
               | Dilettante_ wrote:
               | I didn't read it like that at all.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | obviously I did
               | 
               | what do we do now, ask other users for their input? make
               | a poll?
               | 
               | i don't know why HN has this habit of using anecdotes as
               | absolute counter-arguments, makes for uninteresting
               | discussion in my opinion
               | 
               | and the subtext is always the same "A did/didn't happen
               | to me, so then it follows A does/doesn't happen to
               | anyone"
        
               | Dilettante_ wrote:
               | Actually, you phrased your previous post as though it
               | were a fact, not an opinion, so it's more like "A didn't
               | happen for me, so A does not happen for _everyone_. "
               | 
               | I was challenging your assertion, not making a counter-
               | assertion.
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | I think the implication was that it didn't have to be on
               | tiktok. it's a choice that people make. the phone doesn't
               | force them. rejecting the phone entirely isn't some form
               | of virtue or moral purity.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | Tending to one's mental health and advancement is a
               | virtue, falling into abject hedonism is a moral failing
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | reading a book isn't neither abject hedonism nor a moral
               | failing.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | true
               | 
               | spending 2.5 months doomscrolling or browsing tiktok, on
               | the other hand....
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | I'll refer you back to my original comment:
               | 
               | > I think the implication was that it didn't have to be
               | on tiktok. it's a choice that people make. the phone
               | doesn't force them. rejecting the phone entirely isn't
               | some form of virtue or moral purity.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | arguing semantics
               | 
               | in this particular context "rejecting the phone" means
               | "rejecting tiktok"
               | 
               | no one was concerned about the phone if the vast majority
               | of users were reading books on it
        
               | exe34 wrote:
               | I get the impression you just didn't read it properly and
               | are now digging in your heels.
               | 
               | If "the vast majority of users" could "reject the phone",
               | then they could also "reject tiktok".
        
               | swores wrote:
               | There's nothing intrinsically wrong with hedonistic
               | activities, so long as they don't harm other people and
               | so long as you avoid things like addiction. Even
               | something like using heroin isn't immoral in and of
               | itself (except according to some religions), it's just
               | that it's so unlikely you'll be able to use it once
               | without going down the path of addiction that most of us
               | sensibly treat it as something to never do.
               | 
               | Social media can cause mental health issues, qnd can lead
               | to addiction to it, but that doesn't mean that using it
               | is a moral failing. And frankly, neither is becoming
               | addicted to heroin a moral failing (though most people
               | would consider it a personal failing since we would
               | dislike being addicted to it), it's a healthcare issue
               | not a morality issue. The only moral failing would be
               | committing offences against other people because of the
               | addiction, eg stealing from somebody to pay for the
               | drugs.
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | true, addiction is not a moral failing
               | 
               | that doesn't negate what I said at all, not striving to
               | keep a healthy body and healthy mind, not working on
               | developing yourself, on elevating yourself, not wanting
               | to become better, IS a moral failing
               | 
               | and certain hedonistic activities, like the social media
               | dopamine dispensers, although they do not hurt other
               | people, do hurt the moral imperative of growing yourself
               | as a person
        
               | keernan wrote:
               | >>not striving to keep a healthy body and healthy mind,
               | not working on developing yourself, on elevating
               | yourself, not wanting to become better, IS a moral
               | failing
               | 
               | Whoa. How is it any of your business how I live my life
               | so long as I am not impacting you or society in any way?
               | I'm 72 years old and I spend my time the way I want to
               | spend my time. I don't exercise any longer. And that will
               | almost certainly shorten how much longer I live. How is
               | that any of your business?
        
               | GeoAtreides wrote:
               | Just because your choices might not affect me, and they
               | don't, at all, doesn't mean they're moral, doesn't mean
               | they're good.
               | 
               | I would rank self-actualization, personal growth, as the
               | second rule behind the golden rule, and there are many
               | schools of philosophy where that's the case: aristotelian
               | ethics, kantian ethics, existentialism, etc.
        
             | JKCalhoun wrote:
             | Much rather read a book on my laptop. The phone is shitty-
             | internet.
        
               | MattGaiser wrote:
               | But at a bus stop, your options are phone or standing
               | around. The immediate area of the bus stop beats a book
               | on your phone?
               | 
               | I understand you may want boredom as a practice, but do
               | you genuinely find the bus stop area more interesting?
        
               | 93po wrote:
               | I think the point is that mindfulness in your present
               | moment, if done intentionally, can be a beneficial
               | practice. There is value in not constantly seeking
               | dopamine hits and allowing your brain to feel discomfort
               | in doing nothing. It's really up to the individual when
               | they choose to do this, though. I don't personally enjoy
               | doing this in public and when having to do stuff like
               | commute or try to get through a work day. But I can
               | respect that others do.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | No, the bus stop is quite boring -- and that's fine. My
               | best ideas come when I am bored.
        
               | dingnuts wrote:
               | you'd rather read a novel on your laptop while standing
               | in line at Discount Tire than on your phone?
               | 
               | you walk around with your laptop in your back pocket all
               | the time like Eminem or something?
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | Yeah, no, I don't read while standing in line at Discount
               | Tire. I people-watch.
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | Interesting. Do you actually do that? I agree that phones
               | are not as good in general but I can't imagine reading a
               | book on a laptop.
        
               | Triphibian wrote:
               | I keep a paperback on the passenger seat of my car. If
               | waiting is going to happen I bring it with me.
        
               | nunez wrote:
               | WAP has risen from the dead in a fury just to enter the
               | chat...
        
             | credit_guy wrote:
             | We all know that you might also be reading Hacker News.
        
               | heartbreak wrote:
               | Ha! I almost said that to OP who stares off into space
               | while at the bus stop, but hey.
        
           | saagarjha wrote:
           | Look if I have the option of quietly staring at a suburban
           | nightmare or talking to my friends I know what I am going to
           | pick.
        
             | BolexNOLA wrote:
             | Yeah 90% of the time when you're sitting around waiting
             | you're not really anywhere interesting.
        
               | FollowingTheDao wrote:
               | This is the trap they have you in. Of course there is
               | always something "more interesting" on the internet. The
               | interesting creates the adrenaline rush, the adrenaline
               | rush gets you addicted by changing adrenaline receptor
               | density which leads you looking for something even more
               | exciting.
               | 
               | Even when you are just looking around IRL, one view will
               | be more interesting than the other, right? But now that
               | got you all doped up on "super interesting" through this
               | teleportation device to all things interesting,
               | everything around you look extremely boring in
               | comparison.
               | 
               | As your adrenaline receptors come back to life you will
               | find that everything around you is really actually quite
               | interesting.
        
               | patcon wrote:
               | This feels really wise. Thanks
        
               | mieko wrote:
               | I don't know where you're from, but in the US, the
               | average spot I'd be killing time in is surrounded by
               | acres of parking lots and a busy stroad or two. A
               | Tamagotchi or 1980s pocket calculator is more engaging.
               | 
               | Nothing to do with adrenaline, addiction, doom-scrolling,
               | dopamine or chemical receptors. Millions of people are
               | surrounded by a wasteland of asphalt and machines going
               | 60mph with nothing interesting within sight.
        
               | FollowingTheDao wrote:
               | I have sold photographs of some of the most boring things
               | in the world. For exampke, a playing card in a gutter on
               | the street.
               | 
               | I was also homeless for five years and had to spend times
               | in some of the worst places in the US.
               | 
               | You do not see it because you are desensitized.
        
               | criddell wrote:
               | Embrace boredom.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | That's true. But that only brings me back to my point
               | about boredom being a good thing. Maybe you disagree
               | though. That's fair.
        
               | ksymph wrote:
               | I doubt you spend every second of your non-work time
               | staring into space though. I like to read, for example;
               | just because I do it on my phone in public sometimes
               | doesn't mean I'm not finding other times for quiet
               | contemplation.
        
               | criddell wrote:
               | > I doubt you spend every second of your non-work time
               | staring into space though.
               | 
               | Do you really think that's what was being suggested? I
               | assumed they were merely suggesting to not reflexively
               | reach for your phone any time you have a moment of
               | downtime.
        
               | ksymph wrote:
               | The example used doesn't seem like a good indication of
               | reflexively reaching for a phone, as doing things while
               | waiting at a bus stop is pretty reasonable and has been
               | around long before smartphones.
               | 
               | You're right though, that's likely what was meant, which
               | I agree with. The hyperbole was unnecessary.
        
             | FollowingTheDao wrote:
             | Ignoring the very real American nightmare is why we are
             | still in the very real American nightmare.
             | 
             | Maybe that is the purpose of these phones?
        
               | 93po wrote:
               | I don't think staring at a bus stop is a meaningful step
               | towards changing the American nightmare. We have a lot of
               | problems due to poor leadership in this country and in
               | the world, and people understandably struggle to take
               | meaningful action to replace that leadership (i.e. vote
               | in their best interest, and vote based on meaningful
               | things that most people don't consider at all when
               | voting). Instead we bicker about DEI and what genitals
               | someone has under their clothes when they use certain
               | restrooms instead of, you know, a voting and election
               | process that is more representative and accountable.
               | Until there is greater class consciousness and people
               | have more emotional bandwidth to consider things outside
               | what is immediately placed in front of them with
               | instagram/tiktok/corporate news/advertising, I don't
               | think it's going to change much. This is a weird tangent.
        
               | FollowingTheDao wrote:
               | > I don't think staring at a bus stop is a meaningful
               | step towards changing the American nightmare.
               | 
               | That is not even close to what I was speaking to. It is
               | just part of the process of waking up and becoming
               | unattached and less dependent and more aware of your
               | surroundings and feeling the suffering so you create the
               | will to change things.
               | 
               | > Instead we bicker about DEI and what genitals someone
               | has under their clothes when they use certain restrooms
               | instead of, you know, a voting and election process that
               | is more representative and accountable.
               | 
               | All of this was brought to you by the internet by the
               | people you complain about below.
               | 
               | > Until there is greater class consciousness and people
               | have more emotional bandwidth to consider things outside
               | what is immediately placed in front of them with
               | instagram/tiktok/corporate news/advertising, I don't
               | think it's going to change much.
               | 
               | Class consciousness starts off line, by helping the poor
               | in your local area. Take a look at what the Black
               | Panthers did and you will get an idea. If people are
               | staring at TikTok it is highly unlikely that are running
               | into this information.
               | 
               | https://rooseveltinstitute.org/blog/how-the-black-
               | panthers-p...
               | 
               | Though commonly associated with the sensational, the
               | Black Panthers conceived of and implemented a wide array
               | of meaningful social programs. The Panthers started free
               | breakfast for school children, with party members cooking
               | every morning for the poor and undernourished kids in
               | their communities. They established the Oakland Community
               | School, which offered adult education and childcare, as
               | well as free medical clinics staffed by well-regarded
               | academic physicians who volunteered a portion of their
               | time. Mary Bassett, former commissioner of health of the
               | city of New York, writes that the Panthers initiated
               | medical research into sickle cell anemia, which was
               | largely ignored prior to their work. They provided
               | plumbing, home maintenance, and even pest control
               | services.
        
               | whamlastxmas wrote:
               | > It is just part of the process of waking up and
               | becoming unattached and less dependent and more aware of
               | your surroundings and feeling the suffering so you create
               | the will to change things.
               | 
               | Unless there is already the seed of making change and
               | recognizing what change needs to be made, the idle time
               | isn't really going to help. I suffer plenty in life, I
               | don't need to artificially increase that as some sort of
               | motivation to vote differently or interact with my
               | community differently.
               | 
               | > All of this was brought to you by the internet by the
               | people you complain about below.
               | 
               | Disagreement on social issues has always existed and
               | would also exist even without the internet. I'm not sure
               | what your point is with this comment.
               | 
               | I agree local efforts are great and meaningful. But for
               | large systemic change we need different voting habits.
        
           | nunez wrote:
           | Exact same experience at Google in 2015. I remember being
           | super weirded out that seemingly everyone was buried in
           | phones and laptops while walking around the campus. Hated it.
        
           | dugmartin wrote:
           | Wikipedia's random link is great for learning something new.
           | It is described here as I can't copy the real link on my
           | phone without it resolving to a new page.
           | 
           | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Random
        
           | averageRoyalty wrote:
           | > Boredom is a good thing for the brain.
           | 
           | I hear this adage repeated a lot, but is it true? A quick
           | kagi finds me lots of news articles quoting neuro-scientists,
           | but no actual studies I can see.
           | 
           | If it is, I assume like sleep or vegetables there's a certain
           | amount you should have per day and a point of diminishing
           | returns.
        
         | kqr wrote:
         | The years pre-iPhone I was one of the few high-intensity users
         | of WAP. I used it to participate in forums and on IRC from all
         | sorts of places.
         | 
         | I guess I sort of saw the social-media-in-your-pocket thing
         | coming a long way before it did.
        
           | Dilettante_ wrote:
           | >high-intensity users of WAP
           | 
           | A very professional way of saying you were getting a lot of
           | play? /j
        
         | grogenaut wrote:
         | Pre palm tro I'd have a book or laptop or newspaper with me
         | everywhere cause it was either that, doing highlights, or
         | reading o magazine at the doctor. Though I learned some great
         | recipes from o magazine.
         | 
         | Pre Kindle I'd take around 15 lbs of books with me on trips.
         | 
         | There's a joke in knpins about reading the shampoo bottle on
         | the John. I've done that
        
           | seb1204 wrote:
           | Yes, Cereal boxes and shampoo bottles, any text would do.
        
         | throw_pm23 wrote:
         | No, he was the weirdo. The fact that something is common does
         | not make it normal. If you walked around Hong Kong in the 1880s
         | you'd think you are a weirdo for not smoking opium all day.
         | There will be a similar rude awakening after the current one.
        
           | yayitswei wrote:
           | From a statistical definition, it does. But yes, we can do
           | better.
        
         | frereubu wrote:
         | I would always have a copy of The Economist, New Yorker, NYRB,
         | LRB or similar when I was travelling around London, so avoiding
         | boredom was a priority for me even then. Much more restful to
         | read a physical magazine though, and the only thing to distract
         | me from an article was other articles in the magazine or my
         | surroundings rather than "maybe that comment on Hacker News has
         | a few more upvotes now".
        
       | minzi wrote:
       | Is there any hope of turning this trend around or at least
       | keeping it where it is? I don't think that the months spent on my
       | phone have benefited me or anyone I know.
        
         | Dalewyn wrote:
         | Give it 10 or so years and The Thing(tm) will cycle around to
         | the next thing.
         | 
         | Previously it was gaming (namely consoles), before that was TV,
         | before that was comic books, and so on. Every generation has
         | its "Spends Too Much Time on The Thing(tm)" stereotype.
        
           | sojournerc wrote:
           | I don't see this trend as generational though. There are just
           | as many boomers as zoomers glued to their phones.
        
           | hk__2 wrote:
           | > Previously it was gaming (namely consoles), before that was
           | TV, before that was comic books, and so on. Every generation
           | has its "Spends Too Much Time on The Thing(tm)" stereotype.
           | 
           | I feel like we spend way more time on our phones that what we
           | (or they) used to do with consoles, TV, comic books and so
           | on.
        
           | GeoAtreides wrote:
           | ah yes, something vaguely similar happened in the past, this
           | is nothing to worry about
           | 
           | people were sick with the flu before, surely the cancer won't
           | kill them, they got over the flu, didn't they
        
           | csomar wrote:
           | The difference is that you can take your phone with you but
           | the same can't be true for the TV or the gaming console.
           | That's a big factor.
           | 
           | I suspect more people would have bought Apple Vision if it
           | was cheaper/more affordable. I suspect a lot more people
           | would have bought it if it was 1/2 weight at $1000 and didn't
           | require that dangling battery. The future will be people with
           | their phones hooked to their faces.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | To some degree I have made peace with it.
         | 
         | Decades ago I would come home and crash in front of the TV --
         | watching dreck.
         | 
         | At least in the evening I think the mind needs to disengage,
         | relax. That can be found in watching "Forensic Files" or
         | playing online solitaire or scrolling through BlueSky.
         | 
         | Perhaps reading would be a better substitute though.
        
           | rchaud wrote:
           | TV is nowhere near as addictive as social media. Take it from
           | someone who watched hours of it daily as a teenager and then
           | barely even missed it upon going to college. Social media has
           | all the niche stuff that wouldn't merit a 30-minute TV
           | series. It's unpredictable, funny, local and international in
           | ways TV never is.
        
         | FollowingTheDao wrote:
         | Old guy here who grew up without phones but later felt the
         | dependace they were creating in me so worked to stop it.
         | 
         | You have to start with yourself an be an example. It is an
         | "addiction of sorts" (maybe a very strong habit?), but think of
         | it like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking.
         | 
         | Like an addiction, you need to get rid of the Pavlovian ringing
         | bells to help you through.
         | 
         | Rule one: Turn off all notifications and turn on battery saver
         | mode.
         | 
         | Rule two: Get off of all social media. I am including HN with
         | this. Delete them, you will be fine. HN is the only place I
         | talk online now and only on my laptop, but its days are
         | numbered for me.
         | 
         | Rule three: Leave your phone behind. Probably the hardest. I
         | started just by leaving it the car when I was shopping, then
         | leaving it home when shopping.When I ma at the coffee shop I
         | leave it in my bag.
         | 
         | Rule four: Do not use your phone at all when you are home.
         | Start by setting time limits and extend them, but no one died
         | stopping cold turkey. I only even use my laptop in the morning
         | to read news
         | 
         | Rule five: Learn to do something else with your hands. Cook,
         | work on your car, clean your house, anything.
         | 
         | Rule six: Be OK with "not knowing" and try to stop searching
         | the internet every time a question pops up in your head. This
         | was very hard for me because of my clinically diagnosed OCD. I
         | found the "checking" my phone was allowing me to do just made
         | my OCD worse in the long run.
         | 
         | I am at the point now where I use my phone so little the
         | battery lasts five days easy with 20% left.
        
           | speff wrote:
           | These are all good points - and ones I've been trying to
           | follow for the past few months. Rule five was the most
           | important one for me. Anytime I have an urge to doomscroll, I
           | make a conscious effort to do something IRL instead. Taking
           | up a deep hobby which can take years/decades to actually
           | master seems like a better time sink (practicing visual art
           | in my case)
           | 
           | The thought that quitting social media is harder than
           | quitting smoking also helps cement the idea that it is bad
           | for me when I try to dissuade myself from using it
        
           | firesteelrain wrote:
           | Ah that googling or asking ChatGPT a question and getting an
           | answer is crazy for me. I thought it was just me. Glad I am
           | not the only one
        
           | Gooblebrai wrote:
           | Don't you fall back into increased laptop use when stopping
           | your phone usage? Any advice you have on that front?
        
             | FollowingTheDao wrote:
             | Yes, dicipline is needed there as well. I do a lot if
             | genetic reseach and I look at my laptop as a tool, a
             | potentially dangerous tool, like a woodworker using a
             | lathe, i stay alert and focused on the task at hand.
             | 
             | My laptop is essentially a desktop as well. I only use it
             | on a desk in one room.
             | 
             | I never turn to these devices out of boredum. That is the
             | best rule.
             | 
             | Plus, steven black on github has a great host file blocking
             | all kibds of websites.
        
             | nunez wrote:
             | I haven't. I use my laptop to code; if I'm not doing that,
             | I'm usually outside or doing something around the house.
        
         | safety1st wrote:
         | I've tried a lot of things like app blockers and so on, and
         | what has given me the best sense of control is simply removing
         | the phone from my physical presence. I.e. turned off or silent
         | in my bag or in another room. And being intentional about when
         | I bring it out. This has given me a huge productivity boost. (I
         | commented about that boost a while back and some guy actually
         | accused me of lying because he found it so unbelievable!)
         | 
         | I still average about 2 hours a day on it. Most of this happens
         | when I'm eating or using the bathroom and would not be
         | productive time anyway. By the metric of this article that's
         | still 1 month of my life per year. Not sure I see this as a
         | huge problem, if I did, I could cut it down even further.
         | 
         | Maybe we should be more concerned about a related figure - the
         | time we spend consuming digital media, which is now pushing 8
         | hours per day. The phone is a very pervasive vessel for that
         | but when I cut back phone use I found that media consumption on
         | other devices started creeping up so I'm trying to work out
         | ways to avoid that. I think our lives are richer if we create
         | more and consume less.
        
         | rchaud wrote:
         | Expand the TikTok ban to include Facebook and Instagram.
         | Twitter and Truth to be spared as they're basically state
         | broadcasters.
        
           | monadINtop wrote:
           | Nah I think twitter is among the worst. It doesn't actually
           | make you more informed of anything actionable you'd actually
           | benefit from being aware of. It just broadcasts the most
           | shallow rage-bait possible, from a constantly updating stream
           | of pointless arguments and mentally ill strangers.
           | 
           | It honestly decreased my baseline well-being far faster than
           | anything else, even when I'd just try to follow the most
           | insular network of math academics and art people. At least
           | tiktok was vaguely more positive and the occasional gnome
           | footage or afghan giant conspiracy was fun.
        
         | elorant wrote:
         | Get a kindle and start reading books. That's what's keeping me
         | from staring at a phone all the time. I might be spending
         | similar amounts of time looking at a screen but at least I get
         | something valuable out of it.
        
           | trescenzi wrote:
           | One of the things I don't get about the panic over phones is
           | that we're panicking over phones and not what's done on them.
           | Why buy a kindle, when you can use any of the many ereader
           | apps out there? If the concern is discipline while on you
           | phone there's also ways to lock yourself out of apps and
           | websites after X amount of time on them.
           | 
           | Even if many of us old school computer users don't quite like
           | it phones are the general purpose computing devices for many
           | people. There's no reason to worry about the generic time
           | spent using them.
        
             | elorant wrote:
             | It's not just discipline. Kindles are more convenient too
             | for reading. No refresh rate so you can spend hours reading
             | without eye strain.
        
               | trescenzi wrote:
               | Yea that's totally fair. I'd actually second the
               | kindle/ereader recommendation if the goal is to read
               | more. One awesome feature of the kindle is that it auto
               | syncs progress so you can use your kindle for most of
               | your reading but if you're away without it the kindle app
               | on your phone will know what page you're on.
        
             | frereubu wrote:
             | > there's also ways to lock yourself out of apps and
             | websites after X amount of time on them
             | 
             | I've tried this, but it feels like a big administrative
             | burden, having to think about how long each app should be,
             | when it should be available etc, similar to the feelings I
             | had on Facebook about bureaucratising friendships (who's an
             | "acquiantance", who's a "close friend").
             | 
             | It feels like you have to make so many explicit decisions
             | for digital stuff that was much more fluid before - don't
             | want X to come to a party? Don't phone them.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | I dunno. What's better about a book (at least, a fiction book
           | read for fun) than HackerNews, for example? I mean, I don't
           | think either is particularly good but I'm not sure how the
           | book would be an upgrade.
        
         | plagiarist wrote:
         | There's hope for you, an individual, making decisions that
         | reduce your phone usage. There is little hope for society as a
         | whole.
        
           | minzi wrote:
           | Yeah this is more what I was getting at. I took measures
           | early on to reduce my own phone time, but it seems like most
           | people I know can't or won't.
        
         | lukew3 wrote:
         | Notice how gen Z is less anxious than Millennials and Gen x
         | when it comes to losing their phone. I think that younger
         | generations will have a better understanding of the addictive
         | nature of phones from a young age and will learn that they will
         | not go far if they are absorbed in their phones. My hope is
         | that we will learn to use the easily available entertainment on
         | our phones like we learn to use recreational drugs, with
         | moderation and respect.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | > Notice how gen Z is less anxious than Millennials and Gen x
           | when it comes to losing their phone.
           | 
           | Wait, what? Has this been your experience? My sense has been
           | the exact opposite: the younger the person the more attached
           | to the phone and the more sense of existential dread when it
           | goes missing.
        
             | technothrasher wrote:
             | Yeah, I'm Gen X and if I don't have my phone, it is an
             | inconvenience. But my Gen Z son misplaces his phone and he
             | is completely panicked and non-functional.
        
               | warner25 wrote:
               | Yeah. In 2015-2016, I was the commander of a few hundred
               | new troops going through their initial Army training; not
               | basic training, but the subsequent stage where they had a
               | bit more freedom. When they violated the rules, I had the
               | power to take away those freedoms, fine them up to a few
               | weeks of pay, etc. Most of them endured that without
               | blinking an eye.
               | 
               | Eventually I confirmed with the lawyers that I could also
               | take away their phones, and that _broke_ some of them. I
               | mean that I had troops break down in tears in my office
               | when I informed them of the punishment, and some went to
               | extreme lengths to circumvent the punishment and secretly
               | gain access to another phone. (They still had laptops and
               | Wi-Fi, by the way, along with permission to borrow a
               | phone if they needed to make an important call.)
               | 
               | The Army has studied this a bit and found that not
               | allowing troops to have phones during basic training is a
               | _significant_ obstacle to recruiting right now.
        
           | nunez wrote:
           | Heavy HEAVY doubt given how many young kids are on tablets
           | (or given one when they need to be pacified in social
           | settings)
        
         | nunez wrote:
         | I think it's coming around.
         | 
         | Screen Time on iOS (which Android picked up later) was a
         | response to people being concerned about being on their phones
         | all of the time.
         | 
         | "Uglifying" hacks (mostly using the grayscale filter) are
         | popular too.
         | 
         | Then there are purpose-built devices like the reMarkable and
         | Daylight Computer that tout "focus" as a selling point.
         | 
         | All that said, I don't think we (in the US) are ready for a
         | complete social media cleanse. Lots of people use tricks to
         | reduce their social media consumption (not too dissimilar to
         | quit-smoking tactics, interestingly), but the overall reaction
         | to banning TikTok was overwhelmingly negative. Furthermore,
         | their stats on phone use while driving are actually low; one
         | study actually claimed that 90% of people did this (and my
         | experiences walking and biking around all but confirm this).
        
           | frereubu wrote:
           | It feels like for a lot of people (I'm including myself in
           | that) "reducing social media consumption" is a somewhere
           | between "reducing my cocaine usage" and "reducing my heroin
           | usage" it's so compulsive. I'm not sure there's much to be
           | done except not be on it.
        
             | nunez wrote:
             | lol great analogy.
        
       | adregan wrote:
       | Any easy way to aggregate all of one's screen time data? On an
       | iPhone, the data is limited to a few weeks in the screen time
       | settings.
        
       | Eumenes wrote:
       | Silicon Valley: How can we DOUBLE that?
        
       | markus_zhang wrote:
       | That's like 5 hours per day? Doesn't seem the case for me even I
       | consider myself pretty addicted. I don't even have 5 hours of
       | free time in total, including poop and food time. But maybe
       | average Americans do spend more time then me.
        
       | smokel wrote:
       | _> Reviews.org surveyed 1,000 Americans 18 years and older with a
       | + /- 4% margin of error and a confidence level of 95%._ [1]
       | 
       | Can one just dictate the error margin on a survey now?
       | 
       | [1] https://www.reviews.org/mobile/cell-phone-addiction/
        
         | epistasis wrote:
         | What do you mean by "dictate" or now"? Every survey always
         | states the margin of error like that. Its a function of the
         | sample size and introductory stats to get that number.
        
           | smokel wrote:
           | I somehow doubt that they actually randomly sampled from a
           | representative population. It's more likely that they use an
           | online audience who likes to fill out review forms.
        
         | UncleMeat wrote:
         | These error margins are derived mathematically from the
         | population and results. They assume a representative sample.
        
         | raincole wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margin_of_error
        
         | drawkward wrote:
         | Yes. There are calculators for the required sample size,
         | relative to population, to achieve a specific MOE
        
       | tugu77 wrote:
       | As much as I'd like to support the overall sentiment of the
       | article, or at least of the part that I actually read, the stats
       | just don't pass the smell test.
       | 
       | > If you're like one of the Americans surveyed by Reviews.org,
       | this is one of 205 times today that you'll be checking the device
       | in your hand. To spare you opening the calculator app, that's
       | about once every five minutes you are awake or two and a half
       | full months out of your year.
       | 
       | That just can't be true. First of all, it assumes 1 minute of
       | spending at the phone, every of those 1 times per 5 minutes.
       | Totalling 5 hours a day. On _average_ for _everybody_. I 'm sure
       | there are some outliers like that, but there are tons of people
       | out there for whom there is no way they would get even close.
       | 
       | To top it off, their sample was surely neither random nor
       | representative. Of course you get heavily biased data if you are
       | asking a tech crowd.
       | 
       | I stopped reading at this point. Garbage in, garbage put, i.e.
       | whatever conclusion they were eventually drawing was not based on
       | actual facts.
        
         | create-username wrote:
         | 5:30 hours a day. 90 pickups a day. Averages for the week
        
       | FollowingTheDao wrote:
       | This Christmas, a relative's boyfriend was on his phone literally
       | 90% of the time we were together. Even when we were opening
       | presents. So I started talking to him. He kept looking at his
       | phone but eventually he put it down. I just needed to get him
       | talking about Lord of the Rings and it was over.
       | 
       | Those of us who do not use phones at all we need to engage with
       | these people who are suffering the worst. We need to show them
       | that loneliness can be alleviated by other means.
       | 
       | Please do not say this is all harmless either. The material they
       | are looking at, and behavioral programing they are being
       | subjecting to, is not harmless. I grew up watching old school TV,
       | and I was never able to see anything remotely close to what an 11
       | year old can see today.
        
       | stavros wrote:
       | Wait, why would you text someone in the same room? Like, to send
       | them a video you're watching?
        
         | aaomidi wrote:
         | Yes. Or memes. Or political threads. Etc
        
           | stavros wrote:
           | Yeah that's OK though, right? Showing them on your phone is
           | much more awkward. I don't see why that's mentioned in a
           | negative light.
        
             | award_ wrote:
             | Yeh, this isn't weird imo. This whole article is junk.
        
       | pawurb wrote:
       | I'm 100% happy with my Nokia 110, only using smart phone at home
       | for banking apps etc. Highly recommend switching to dumb phone
       | for everyday use.
        
         | create-username wrote:
         | I'm looking forward to getting an Apple Watch with cellular
         | service to be reachable although a dumb phone would be way
         | cheaper now that you mention it
        
           | nunez wrote:
           | Lol, as if Apple would let you off that easily!
           | 
           | The watch can't have a cellular plan of its own. It must be
           | associated with the plan that's on the iPhone it's tethered
           | to. If you use a dummy iPhone for this purpose, then the SIM
           | for your primary number needs to be on that phone.
        
             | create-username wrote:
             | The carrier charges 5 EUR a month for the Multisim service
        
       | raincole wrote:
       | Is this "reviews.org" credible at all?
       | 
       | The fact this article has "Best cell phone plans" in the middle
       | of it tells me NO.
        
         | award_ wrote:
         | If this was a legit study I'd expect an arXiv link or similar
         | instead. Looking at their methodology, it's vague enough to be
         | interpreted as 'ok' but really I'd expect ALOT more information
         | on their sample distributions, weighting done to that sample
         | for comparison, etc. It skimps on all the actual details. Seems
         | like clickbaity junk to me, but I'm open to the idea that there
         | is meaningful studies to be had here on this subject, or that
         | this was done in a proper way but was communicated poorly.
         | Reviews.org surveyed 1,000 Americans 18 years and older with a
         | +/- 4% margin of error and a confidence level of 95%. The
         | survey results were weighted to reflect characteristics of the
         | United States population using available data from the US
         | census. Respondents were asked to refer to their phone's screen
         | time report to determine the average number of times per day
         | they check their phones, in addition to how much time in total
         | they spend on their phones per day.
        
       | GeoAtreides wrote:
       | good bye books
       | 
       | good bye deep thoughts
       | 
       | good bye creativity
       | 
       | good bye critical thinking
       | 
       | turns out soma isn't a pill, but a screen
        
         | chickenfeed wrote:
         | I wouldn't say it's all trash, but I find TV like this. I
         | loathe most of it finding it pretty vacuous. I am still drawn
         | to it.
         | 
         | We had a defining realisation last year when we found a Youtube
         | channel where a guy cleans carpets. I found it more
         | nutritionally satisfying than 99% of programming on the TV. It
         | was and is totally eye-opening. I have a similar draw to
         | nature. I can watch wild animals doing their thing. And get
         | some entertainment with curtain twitching. I think it's just
         | that inherent human thing - watching.
         | 
         | I do like reading. The minutes I do this are ever dwindling
         | through competition for my idle brain.
        
       | chickenfeed wrote:
       | I was very late to the party getting a smartphone. Didn't stop me
       | picking up my laptop repeatedly. Visiting the same old haunts.
       | 
       | I have yet to install Facebook or Whatsapp or similar. I think it
       | would be the death of me. I spend way too much time on my
       | phone/computer.
       | 
       | I was in a care giving role and felt it couldn't leave my side.
       | Since losing that person, I now rejoice in being able to leave my
       | phone. Heck I didn't turn it on yesterday. And it has been
       | sitting in the kitchen all day today.
       | 
       | The telephone does fill me with existential dread as most
       | communication with me is asking me for something or alerting me
       | to something negative. Perhaps that's an age thing. Whereas the
       | Internet is still pleasurable but a complete and utter time suck.
        
         | timnetworks wrote:
         | > Perhaps that's an age thing
         | 
         | Sorry for your loss.
         | 
         | It's a false sense of urgency thing. The kids just grow
         | calloused to it, culminating in e.g. completely ignoring the
         | door bell.
         | 
         | I had a friend that decided to essentially go off the grid
         | around 2000-2005, he's my age (gen-z), I remember him showing
         | me a website he was developing with javascript and IE.
         | 
         | Now he's asking me to help with the Google Play / Mac App stuff
         | because it makes no sense to him. It isn't an age thing.
        
           | MattGaiser wrote:
           | In an age of smartphones, nobody would think of ringing my
           | doorbell without texting first. Deliveries come with
           | notifications. An unexpected door ring at this point is
           | probably someone I don't want to bother dealing with like a
           | salesperson.
        
       | bpicolo wrote:
       | > 27% use or look at their phone while driving
       | 
       | The other 73% aren't admitting it. When I've driven down the
       | street, seeing someone not on their phone is a rarity.
        
         | CalRobert wrote:
         | Being in a tall vehicle (like a double decker bus) - it is
         | horrifying how many people are on their phones.
        
         | walthamstow wrote:
         | In traffic, this number approaches 90%. I see it through every
         | window as I cycle past the queues.
         | 
         | The funniest is when the lights go green and a large gap opens
         | up in the traffic because someone has got sucked into their
         | phone and forgot they were driving. Remarkably common.
        
           | nunez wrote:
           | I call it the three-second pause. It's always three to five
           | seconds.
        
       | Brajeshwar wrote:
       | I just finished reading Jonathan Haidt's "The Anxious Generation:
       | How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Caused an Epidemic of Mental
       | Illness." It is a good read, especially for parents.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Anxious_Generation
        
       | dv_dt wrote:
       | I often stream music or cast video thru the phone and do
       | something like make dinner or clean, i suspect that time is in
       | there too
        
       | lanna wrote:
       | Reminds me of this meme: https://i.redd.it/silx0aw4a1v51.jpg
       | 
       | Our phones replaced numerous different devices. All the time we
       | used to spend watching TV, listening to music, reading books,
       | getting the news, playing games, talking to friends is now done
       | on our phones.
        
         | create-username wrote:
         | https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uGI00HV7Cfw
        
       | lolinder wrote:
       | > Methodology
       | 
       | > Reviews.org surveyed 1,000 Americans 18 years and older with a
       | +/- 4% margin of error and a confidence level of 95%. The survey
       | results were weighted to reflect characteristics of the United
       | States population using available data from the US census.
       | 
       | Absent them explicitly saying otherwise, I think we need to
       | assume that the survey was done of reviews.org visitors.
       | Reviews.org has reviews for exactly three categories of services:
       | internet providers, mobile phone plans and services, and TV and
       | streaming.
       | 
       | Weighting for US demographics isn't going to make this sample
       | very representative--this survey is of people who are browsing
       | reviews for a set of products that most people don't think too
       | hard about, which also happens to be a set of products that is
       | tightly related to screen time use.
        
       | idunnoman1222 wrote:
       | Rather than calling to question their methods it's Sunday so we
       | all just got told our screen time for the week what do you guys
       | got? ~4h a day which is 2 months..
        
         | vacuity wrote:
         | ~1h a day, so half a month. I use my laptop far more often, so
         | naturally it's a lot different than a phone in when I use it
         | and for how long, and of course what I'm using it for. On most
         | days my overall screen time (phones, computers, and all) is
         | probably comparable to others', so it's not really too much to
         | be proud of on my end. I like to think I still have an
         | advantage.
        
       | brd wrote:
       | I'm reading a lot of comments here that are defensive about their
       | phone usage. I think that misses the point. It's fine to chase
       | productivity (real or otherwise) and we can all rationalize how
       | we burn our spare minutes: decompression, etc.
       | 
       | Being able to be bored and have those creative thoughts enter is
       | for sure a useful thing. I'd argue the more important thing is
       | being comfortable with silence/boredom. Being able to sit in a
       | meeting and let awkward silence stew; or make a sales pitch and
       | quietly let the gears turn, is a super power. If you're the one
       | at the table better with silence, you have an inherent advantage.
       | 
       | Context: I'd put myself in the very low phone usage category but
       | I still use my phone far more than I'd like. I pretty much just
       | check email/text, HN, a bit of news, and occasionally doom scroll
       | reddit. I'm also a developer turned exec/sales guy.
        
       | evanjrowley wrote:
       | My theoretical strategy for reducing smartphone time includes
       | substituting it with a smartwatch. I.e., have my phone in the
       | vicinity (as opposed to on my person) and only have the
       | smartwatch equipped. At night, keep the smartphone away from my
       | bed and only have the smartwatch and Bluetooth earbuds next to
       | me.
       | 
       | As a Pixel user, the first attempt in early 2023 was rough as the
       | 1st gen Pixel watch had growing pains. I gave up on it but have
       | recently started looking into this approach again. Hopefully the
       | latest updates to WearOS will show an improvement, especially in
       | battery life.
       | 
       | I would have considered switching to Apple, but from what I've
       | seen, there is no support for responding to Signal messages via
       | the iWatch. That's critical functionality for me.
       | 
       | If the technology pans out and the strategy is a success, then my
       | comments here on HN will be significantly less in 2025.
        
         | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
         | Mine is to leave the phone on the charger and treat it as a
         | "home phone" when I'm not out.
        
         | xxohioanxx wrote:
         | I just got a Pixel Watch 3 a few weeks ago and have been pretty
         | impressed with the battery life so far. I'm getting 36-48 hours
         | with always on display turned on. The Apple Watch that it
         | replaced barely lasted 12 hours.
        
         | HelloUsername wrote:
         | > there is no support for responding to Signal messages via the
         | iWatch
         | 
         | Yes, there is? Through dictation
        
       | nunez wrote:
       | It's the notifications, stupid!
       | 
       | Many phone apps have completely abused the notification system,
       | transforming it into a slot machine of dopamine. Between this and
       | "engagement" being metric number one in developing mobile apps,
       | this outcome isn't surprising.
       | 
       | (I am militant about what gets to notify me. Most of my apps are
       | denied notification permissions. Any apps that begin to spam me
       | get denied as well. I also do inbox zero, so any emails I get are
       | either dealt with in the moment or are treated as a todo for
       | later.)
       | 
       | Ironically, as much as I loved smartphones and the iPhone in
       | their prime, I'm thinking about going back to separate simple
       | devices.
       | 
       | I've always been a "simple" phone user (email, reading stuff
       | online, camera/video, no social media, no games,no YouTube).
       | Phones and tablets are becoming even more consumption focused,
       | and it's clear that market forces are leaving people like me in
       | the dust. (I'm typing this on an eInk Boox Go that I rooted,
       | debloated and firewalled; sucks for "typical phone shit" but is
       | amazing for reading.)
        
         | bdangubic wrote:
         | good luck trying to find a simple device - it is not possible
         | anymore. and with the proliferation of eSIMs it is now hard to
         | go buy a dumb-phone on eBay and get it "connected" to some
         | carrier. I tried to resurrect my old RAZR and had a helluva
         | time trying to get it working. your best bet is a smartphone
         | with everything removed from it except messages and phone apps
         | and the shutting everything off except cellular
        
           | nunez wrote:
           | I know. It bums me out.
           | 
           | Small phones are all but extinct (unless you count the iPhone
           | 13 mini that Apple discontinued, which I had and I absolutely
           | LOVED). Again, market forces leave us simple folk behind. I'm
           | broken for NOT wanting a 6.3" slate that can hit 2000 lumens
           | on a bright day that requires a case because the titanium is
           | too slippery.
           | 
           | What I would LOVE is a small Kaleido eInk phone that runs
           | Android on a mid-tier SoC. Rooted and debloated; no
           | assistants or AI (like you described).
           | 
           | I would use eLauncher to make a really simple launcher with
           | the names of the apps I use (like I do on my BOOX) and Tasker
           | to automate common tasks. (I want a simple interface so I can
           | move around quickly and move on with my lifem, but have no
           | problem with complexity so long as it's within my control.
           | I'm a heavy user of Shortcuts, as terrible as that software
           | is.) Since I already carry a fanny pack around everyday, I
           | would just use a small mirror less SLR for point and shoot
           | stuff like the Canon EOS M300.
        
       | pearlchoker wrote:
       | horrors! commmoners computing in the open!
       | 
       | nobody complains when you're a nerd spending 9 months a year on
       | your laptop.
       | 
       | HN delivering that steady stream of Sunday ragebait as always
        
       | frereubu wrote:
       | Something new that I've seen is men standing at urinals on their
       | phones. It really blew my mind that they can't even take a pee
       | that lasts maybe 20-30 seconds without looking at their phone.
       | What could you possibly do in that time in that position?
        
         | wuiheerfoj wrote:
         | Answer a few messages? Catch up on the weather or news? Why
         | waste 30 otherwise useless seconds?
        
           | CoryAlexMartin wrote:
           | You can use the time to think and process, or to rest your
           | mind. Hardly useless!
        
         | jacobyoder wrote:
         | I do it. Typically just checking a few message alerts, or
         | finishing a news story, or starting a podcast download. It's
         | less disruptive than checking those items in front of someone
         | else, when you should be giving the other person attention.
         | 
         | Do I have to? No. Do I always do it? No. But just today at the
         | gym, I used the 30 seconds or so there to start downloading a
         | podcast to listen to during my workout. Every button click
         | takes a couple seconds, pause, wait, etc... Why not stack those
         | non-productive times together?
        
           | frereubu wrote:
           | I guess, but doesn't that start to feel like the tyranny of
           | productivity? If it doesn't take long while you're the urinal
           | it doesn't take long just afterwards too, and then you can
           | enjoy the feeling of having a pee! (Perhaps there's a
           | blogpost in "Mindful pissing"...)
        
             | jacobyoder wrote:
             | After that, I need to be using my hands more - washing
             | them, putting stuff in the locker, tying shoes, etc.
             | Standing there for 20-30-40 seconds is one of the few times
             | one or both hands are free _and_ my brain can go do
             | something else for a bit (read, get a podcast, etc).
        
               | jader201 wrote:
               | I feel like people have a need to "fill the void" with
               | productivity. It's like they can't be alone with their
               | thoughts anymore.
               | 
               | I feel like this is becoming a more serious problem than
               | people realize.
               | 
               | I also feel like people can't do tasks quietly, without
               | having a feed of music or podcasts. I see it with my wife
               | and my kids. None of them are able to carry out
               | activities without some audio being steamed to their
               | brain. Most people can't even work without headphones on,
               | even in a quiet environment.
               | 
               | Most people will say "what's wrong with that?", but I
               | feel this is a symptom of some underlying anxiety, we
               | just don't realize it.
        
           | turtlebits wrote:
           | Wuen you wash your hands, do you wash your phone too?
        
         | BlackjackCF wrote:
         | If I were a man, I'd be way too afraid to drop my phone into
         | the urinal to do this.
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | If I were a man standing next to that man, I'd be worried
           | about his aiming accuracy. And also whether his camera was
           | properly shut off.
        
         | bdangubic wrote:
         | once you hit 50's it could take awhile at the urinal :)
        
         | cafard wrote:
         | Probably 30 years ago, a Washington Post columnist (a recent
         | arrival from Philadelphia) thought it an illustration of
         | Washington compulsiveness that he had seen a man at the gym
         | take his pager into the showers. That I should say makes less
         | sense, given the slight probability of saving half of one's
         | shower duration in returning a call.
         | 
         | Let me add that I am not one of the multi-tasking multi-
         | monthers: the phone says that I had 32 minutes/day of screen
         | time last week.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | > What could you possibly do in that time in that position?
         | 
         | Watch one ad on youtube?
        
         | mvdtnz wrote:
         | Just focus on yourself at the urinal. Most of us aren't looking
         | at you and would appreciate the same courtesy.
        
       | thingsilearned wrote:
       | I try to get around with just an apple watch. The most
       | frustrating part is needing (or worrying I'll need) to take an
       | uber or a lyft (my main modes of transport). They discontinued
       | their watch apps and their api's are very locked down.
        
       | jasoneckert wrote:
       | One of my favourite achievements of the past several years has
       | been to actively _NOT_ use my phone.
       | 
       | I started by eliminating social media accounts, which had an
       | immediate and positive effect on my phone use.
       | 
       | Next, I set hard phone time/day limits: no phone while hiking, no
       | phone while at a social meetup or restaurant, no phone while
       | shopping.
       | 
       | Finally, I focused on what I _should_ use it for and stuck to
       | only that: checking work email when I need to away from a PC (but
       | replies wait until I get to a PC), the odd Googling when I 'm
       | away from a PC, scrolling my tech news feeds once per evening for
       | up to 20 minutes, and of course, missed phone calls/texts from
       | friends and family (checked periodically, 1-2 times per day).
       | 
       | And the end result? I'm very happy with my relationship with this
       | non-invasive piece of technology, mainly because I ensured it was
       | non-invasive.
        
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