[HN Gopher] How to Train Yourself to Go to Sleep Earlier
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       How to Train Yourself to Go to Sleep Earlier
        
       Author : alecco
       Score  : 36 points
       Date   : 2024-11-01 13:49 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (www.sleepfoundation.org)
 (TXT) w3m dump (www.sleepfoundation.org)
        
       | dbsmith83 wrote:
       | Similar to the journal idea, I keep a notebook by my bed where I
       | can write down any thoughts or concerns I think of that needs
       | attention the next day. This lets my mind relax so that I'm not
       | worried about forgetting it or trying to solve it
        
       | imzadi wrote:
       | I wish I could train myself to sleep on my back. I've been trying
       | for years, but I can't seem to fall asleep without the pressure
       | of the pillow on my face.
        
         | edflsafoiewq wrote:
         | Me too. I can sort of "trick" myself by putting a balled-up
         | blanket on my pillow and turning my face to rest against it.
        
         | cassianoleal wrote:
         | Legit question, what's the reason for wanting to sleep in what
         | seems to be an uncomfortable position for you?
         | 
         | I also can't sleep on my back but have no urge to change that.
        
           | imzadi wrote:
           | I have a lot of shoulder issues that are worsened by sleeping
           | on my side or stomach. I also have a flat spot on the side of
           | my face from always sleeping on it, and it gets worse the
           | older I get. I'd like to be able to use overnight skin
           | treatments without it getting all over my pillow.
        
         | donatzsky wrote:
         | While I can sleep on my back, I feel like I get better rest
         | when on my side. It's not about how the pillow feels or
         | anything like that, but my whole body and brain just seem to
         | relax more.
         | 
         | Apparently [1] sleeping on the side is better for your health,
         | as well.
         | 
         | [1] https://youtube.com/watch?v=O8UoAASCUsQ
        
         | OptionOfT wrote:
         | My SO used to sleep on her belly.
         | 
         | Then we got an overpriced mattress with the same material that
         | NASA uses...
         | 
         | I'm an endless chaser of value. I hate to overpay for things.
         | That mattress was $5k (king sized).
         | 
         | She sleeps on her back, and her sleep quality has measurably
         | improved.
        
         | a_e_k wrote:
         | I like to sleep on my back, but with a pillow over my forehead
         | and eyes (i.e., nose and mouth exposed to fresh air).
        
       | jchw wrote:
       | This feels completely stupid, but I noticed what seems like an
       | unmistakable improvement in my sleep quality (more restful, less
       | waking up too early) a few days after I adjusted my diet to
       | include a lot more fiber intake. After googling it, it _seems_
       | like it might be supported by studies, but I 'm always a bit
       | skeptical. Either way, if you have trouble getting good sleep,
       | it's another dietary consideration to make. Increased fiber
       | intake seems like it mostly has upsides.
       | 
       | (The other advice in the article is obviously also solid, but
       | none of it, including changing caffeine habits, really ever
       | seemed to do much for me. So I guess it will vary a lot from
       | person to person.)
        
       | RalfWausE wrote:
       | Have a toddler.
       | 
       | No, seriously: Since we have now a toddler running around who
       | absolutely does not want to go to sleep when the adults are still
       | running around has led US to much more healthy sleeping habbits
        
         | n4r9 wrote:
         | As a parent of a toddler who currently wakes up every 1-2
         | hours, I'm not so sure this is the key to sleep hygiene!
        
           | LUmBULtERA wrote:
           | Right? As another parent of a toddler, neither I nor any
           | other parent I know of toddlers are getting as much sleep as
           | we'd like want...
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | Yes they wake up in the middle of the night, but ideally you
           | try and put them down to sleep and enforce a regular bedtime,
           | which is prime sleep hygiene.
        
       | iterateoften wrote:
       | I am a firm believer in sleep hygiene especially the rule
       | "reserve the bedroom for sleep".
       | 
       | I have had conversations with friends when they complain about
       | not enough sleep and one common theme is they use electronics in
       | the bedroom before sleep.
       | 
       | When I share similar recommendations as this article about not
       | using tv or phone in the bed and to leave the bedroom and
       | meditate if you can't sleep after 20min I get a lot of pushback.
       | 
       | The most common is that they can't fall asleep without watching a
       | show or movie on. This is right after they complained about not
       | being able to sleep. The second one is around not wanting to
       | change anything about their weed or alcohol use to improve their
       | sleep.
       | 
       | I think a lot of it has to do with trying to avoid other
       | anxieties which makes their sleep worse which increases anxiety
       | in a cycle.
       | 
       | This is just anecdotal without much else to say other than in
       | people in general seem pretty skeptical about sleep hygiene. And
       | almost seem reluctant to experiment. But I'm a firm believer.
        
         | resoluteteeth wrote:
         | > This is just anecdotal without much else to say other than in
         | people in general seem pretty skeptical about sleep hygiene.
         | And almost seem reluctant to experiment. But I'm a firm
         | believer.
         | 
         | As someone who often has difficulty getting to sleep, I have
         | tried every sleep hygiene thing I have seen suggested but none
         | of it works for me, at least in terms of getting to sleep, and
         | conversely I find actually find doing special things around
         | sleep to be counterproductive since they make me more more
         | stressed out about getting to sleep, so I have decided to
         | simply not worry about them.
         | 
         | I do think they may be helpful for people who either don't
         | really have issues getting to sleep but simply tend to get
         | absorbed watching tv or something and go to sleep to late or
         | who can get to sleep easily but have sleep quality issues,
         | though.
        
         | grvdrm wrote:
         | I am both for avoiding electronics but also enjoy TV in bed.
         | Not necessary but it's not something that I restrain much.
         | 
         | Haven't seen too many people suggest this: train yourself to
         | wake up earlier. I wake up at 5. That's not a hustle culture
         | thing. Just the time when I can fit in my personal time,
         | fitness, and a bit of free thinking before my kids wake up and
         | the day starts.
         | 
         | I can barely keep my eyes open past 930.
        
       | nunez wrote:
       | Bedtime routines increase sleep anxiety in some people.
       | Consistency, i.e. the time you go to bed and the time that you
       | wake up, is the most important factor.
        
       | serguzest wrote:
       | This writing is as unhelpful as telling an obese person simply to
       | exercise and eat less. Everyone is different; I'm one of those
       | people who were made to protect the tribe while they sleep. I'm
       | naturally nocturnal, and the silence of the night makes me more
       | alert. Turning on a not-so-interesting documentary or political
       | commentary on YouTube actually helps me relax and fall asleep.
        
         | enlyth wrote:
         | Same, I'm nocturnal and a naturally anxious person. If I lie in
         | bed doing nothing, I will just think about things that make me
         | more anxious.
         | 
         | A nice podcast or documentary will focus my thoughts on
         | whatever I'm listening to and help me fall asleep easier.
        
         | qazxcvbnmlp wrote:
         | I wonder how big the cohort of users that turn on mildly
         | interesting content to fall asleep to is?
         | 
         | How would a creator feel to find out most of their views are
         | people falling asleep?
        
           | zonkerdonker wrote:
           | How it's Made does it for me. Based on a lot of the youtube
           | comments, there are quite a lot of others as well!
        
         | antisthenes wrote:
         | For night owls, all these habits are temporary.
         | 
         | I've done a stretch of 2 weeks to 2 months of being an early
         | riser, but inevitably, like clockwork, the sleep schedule
         | drifts back to me going to bed around 2 AM and waking up around
         | 10AM.
         | 
         | And yes, I've tried everything.
        
           | beng-nl wrote:
           | As a parent of a 5 and 3 year old, I can confirm. No matter
           | how long I'm forced successfully into getting up early, I'm
           | still more alert and focused and happy as soon as the sun
           | sets, and given the opportunity I'll instantly slip back into
           | sleeping at 1-2 am again.
        
           | BobaFloutist wrote:
           | My secret has just been consistently going to bed and getting
           | up at the same time as my wife, who is not a night owl, every
           | night. Some nights are frustrating and take me longer to fall
           | asleep, most mornings I feel bit groggy, and I'm overall not
           | thrilled with my experience with sleep, but I'm able to keep
           | a consistent schedule without rubberbanding amounts of sleep,
           | I'm rarely truly exhausted during the day, and my waking
           | hours overlaps consistently with society and businesses.
           | 
           | It's certainly an imperfect compromise, but it works well
           | enough.
        
       | jibcage wrote:
       | The article, for all of its other faults, also manages to breeze
       | over another crucial point:
       | 
       | "Research shows that blue light suppresses the body's production
       | of melatonin, the sleep hormone. This can be helpful in the
       | morning, when you want to wake up..."
       | 
       | I find this to be a much easier habit to maintain, at least
       | during summer: as close as possible after waking up, get as much
       | light as you can, and at a regular time if possible. Sun lamps
       | are an expensive but effective option during darker months, but
       | they generally aren't covered by insurance.
       | 
       | The first I heard of this was when I spoke to a sleep doctor, and
       | it has worked much better for me than melatonin ever did.
        
       | fifilura wrote:
       | I did my military service (25 years ago). After that I rarely
       | wait more than 3 minutes to fall asleep.
       | 
       | Not many books get read that way unfortunately, I used to read a
       | lot before that.
       | 
       | These days I do wake up at weird hours though, not sure what to
       | do when I wake 4AM.
        
         | DrillShopper wrote:
         | Sounds like a good opportunity to read
        
         | jspash wrote:
         | Could you elaborate? Was it from total exhaustion? Were you
         | taught a special technique to help you sleep? Or was it from
         | knowing you MUST get your rest or you'll suffer the entire next
         | day?
        
       | powersnail wrote:
       | I know that this might sound too obvious to say. But I've found
       | that, it is much easier to maintain good sleep habits when real
       | life is not stressful. If I'm facing a big problem in life, an
       | important deadline for example, it is unlikely that any effort I
       | put into sleeping habits is going to help. Sometimes, I just stay
       | up as late, but instead of working, time is spent in blaming
       | myself for not sleeping in time, and worrying about getting up
       | tomorrow.
       | 
       | The reason I think this is worth saying, is that sometimes, to
       | break the vicious cycle of [stress -> sleep-deprivation -> more
       | stress -> ...], you need to shift the focus to tackle the real
       | life problem first, and don't beat yourself up for not being a
       | good sleeper. Trying and failing to develop sleep hygiene can
       | pile on the frustration and worsen the vicious cycle.
        
       | NGRhodes wrote:
       | I'm surprised the article did not mention speaking to a doctor
       | about the possibility of underlying medical conditions
       | (physical/mental health/neurological), if all suggestions fail.
        
         | DrillShopper wrote:
         | I'm not.
         | 
         | I have "good" insurance in the States and I still had to pay
         | $700 out of pocket for a sleep study and another $750 to _rent_
         | a CPAP that my insurance company demanded nightly uploaded logs
         | from.
        
           | bdangubic wrote:
           | exactly... speaking to a doctor eliminates 97.34% of all
           | readers
        
       | throw24111 wrote:
       | I regularly go to sleep at around 6 am, when the sun starts
       | coming up, and wake up at around 2 / 3 pm. It doesn't matter
       | where I am, or the time of the year. That's my natural bed time.
        
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