[HN Gopher] Quit Social Media (2016)
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       Quit Social Media (2016)
        
       Author : skadamat
       Score  : 36 points
       Date   : 2024-10-24 20:04 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
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       | johnea wrote:
       | So, should I join so that I can quit?
       | 
       | The coming of the current cluster fuck was clear decades ago.
       | Anyone who wasn't enamored by meme illiteracy never took that
       | train...
        
       | malfist wrote:
       | I quit any non small community social media a few years ago and
       | it's been really nice. My tolerance for trolls and thinking with
       | people on the Internet is has dropped away down and I think I'm
       | better for it.
       | 
       | Certainly feels better
        
         | elpocko wrote:
         | >thinking with people on the Internet is has dropped away down
         | 
         | What?
         | 
         | Also, congrats for being less tolerant. I like that.
        
       | Clubber wrote:
       | I quit social media after the Snowden revelations.
        
       | benjaminwootton wrote:
       | Isn't it on the decline yet?
       | 
       | Facebook is for boomers.
       | 
       | Twitter is weird and we all realised how pointless it is to spend
       | time falling out on there.
       | 
       | Instagram feels a bit long in the tooth.
       | 
       | LinkedIn is a parody of itself.
       | 
       | Reddit feels like it's growing but I think that avoids the worst
       | of social media.
       | 
       | TikTok and YouTube shorts seem popular but aren't really social
       | media. It's just time wasting junk.
       | 
       | All in all, social media feels like it peaked a while back.
        
         | jjordan wrote:
         | Twitter/X is fantastic for breaking news. For example during
         | the first assassination attempt you would find new details on
         | there that would then appear on MSM newscasts one to two hours
         | later.
         | 
         | It also helps immensely to curate lists of interests to help
         | filter out the noise and politics.
        
           | eterm wrote:
           | How is your life improved by getting that news minute by
           | minute instead of an hour, or even a day, later?
        
             | throw_pm23 wrote:
             | or indeed, not at all? :)
        
           | SimianSci wrote:
           | There is a marked difference between "Breaking new
           | developments" and misinformation being spread to juice
           | engagement.
           | 
           | Nobody should pretend that Twitter is a place where accurate
           | information travels at light speed. It is in desperate need
           | of moderation and being run by a man with clear monetary
           | incentive to mislead the public.
        
             | seanw444 wrote:
             | > It is in desperate need of moderation and being run by a
             | man with clear monetary incentive to mislead the public.
             | 
             | I don't think you wrote that the way you meant to.
        
           | swatcoder wrote:
           | Unless it's regarding immediate local emergency that you
           | might need to respond to, breaking news has _zero_ value
           | besides a brain tickle and something to talk about.
           | 
           | If you feel you have any kind of mood or attention
           | challenges, as many now do, you might want to double check if
           | it's something you should be optimizing for.
        
           | dimal wrote:
           | Honest question, why is breaking news important? How exactly
           | does knowing unsubstantiated details about an event
           | immediately male one's life better?
        
         | ClassyJacket wrote:
         | I don't know how you can possibly say TikTok isn't social
         | media. That seems like a rather absurd claim. What's your
         | justification?
        
           | benjaminwootton wrote:
           | I haven't used it much but I think the main feed is very
           | algorithmic, so you swipe for your dopamine without paying
           | much attention to the profile. Because of that it's not
           | really tied to your identity in quite the same way.
           | 
           | It also seems quite professionalised in that the big content
           | producers fill the feed.
           | 
           | There's also something about it being video which makes it
           | feel harmful but in a different way than a text based
           | platform.
           | 
           | I tend to think of TikTok as more of an entertainment
           | platform rather than peer to peer social media.
           | 
           | I'm not the target audience though so could be wide of the
           | mark!
        
           | mingus88 wrote:
           | TikTok is 100% social media
           | 
           | Although the line can get interesting. When I was active on
           | Reddit I would argue that Reddit was not SM. From my
           | perspective, Reddit was end stage web forum technology and
           | link aggregators
           | 
           | All the bespoke forums of the late 90s and early 2000s died
           | for the most part and there is now a subreddit for every
           | niche hobby that used to have a forum
           | 
           | This stuff all predates Facebook, MySpace, Friendster,
           | livejournal, that I would argue were new paradigms and the
           | start of what we know as social media
           | 
           | However to anyone not online during those times, Reddit is
           | just another site where people post details of their own
           | lives. Reddit responded by adding profiles and followers and
           | all kinds of pseudo SM features
        
       | freediver wrote:
       | I would rephrase it to "quit ad-based social media". The
       | incentives are perverse, there is an inherent conflict of
       | interest in the business model and there is an intermediary
       | between the user and information/community they want to
       | participate in. This leads to most problems we see in legacy, ad-
       | based, social media.
       | 
       | Most successful social circles are ones where there is a barrier
       | to entry. In life we do not let everyone into the friend circle.
       | Having a barrier to entry model may work well for an online
       | community, although this remains to be seen. Were there any
       | successful experiments with paid social media?
        
         | decasia wrote:
         | I would love to pay for social software on a coop model (like a
         | food coop, etc) -- we would be "members" and, theoretically, we
         | pay a small monthly fee that covers the costs of hosting and
         | platform development. I've tried to think about what I would
         | want that to look like -- spoiler, something different than the
         | model of "posting + reactions" that is so familiar from
         | twitter+fb -- but then when I think about the barriers to entry
         | for a project like that, even though the technological part
         | might not be that difficult (assuming it was Less Than Web
         | Scale), I just give up hoping for it.
         | 
         | I've been following a lot of the bluesky + mastodon stuff but I
         | don't like that their basic model of social interaction is just
         | a clone of Twitter.
        
           | hyggetrold wrote:
           | I can't remember the name of it, but over a decade ago I saw
           | something like this - it was a single Linux server shared by
           | (I think) hundreds of people. Really trying to do the multi-
           | user paradigm. They advertised it as a private kind of social
           | network, it was invite-only and I think you had to pay to
           | help keep the server lights on.
           | 
           | Hopefully by posting something incorrect, A Person On The
           | Internet Who Knows Better will come along and provide the
           | correct details. :)
        
             | hoppyhoppy2 wrote:
             | Maybe SDF?
             | 
             | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/SDF_Public_Access_Unix_Syst
             | e...
             | 
             | https://sdf.org/
        
           | pram wrote:
           | This is called a forum.
        
         | seqizz wrote:
         | We also do not let people into the friend circle just because
         | they have money (I hope). IMHO healthiest "social media" I
         | could think is interest groups. They eventually need some kind
         | of donation from one or more people, but with no or minimal
         | barriers.
        
         | ErikAugust wrote:
         | It's not a coincidence that Facebook started out as a college-
         | only social network. That was the real barrier to entry.
        
       | Kye wrote:
       | (2016)
       | 
       | Especially important because most of his commentary focuses on
       | the dominant social media paradigm of the time. Mastodon barely
       | existed when this post went live, Mike Masnick was years from
       | writing the paper that inspired Bluesky[0], and it would be
       | strange if someone whose whole thing is getting away from social
       | media kept up on new developments.
       | 
       | This post is an interesting historical artifact, but shouldn't be
       | mistaken for contemporary commentary.
       | 
       | [0] https://knightcolumbia.org/content/protocols-not-
       | platforms-a...
        
         | DiggyJohnson wrote:
         | Mastodon and Bluesky are still such minor players (even though
         | I enjoy these projects and am optimistic about their future)
         | that I don't see anywhere where this doesn't pass for
         | contemporary commentary.
        
         | immibis wrote:
         | Isn't Bluesky just a copy of Twitter from that era, anyway?
        
       | solomonb wrote:
       | He states:
       | 
       | > What the market values is the ability to produce things that
       | are rare and are valuable.
       | 
       | > what the market dismisses are activities that are easy to
       | replicate and produce a small amount of value. Well social media
       | use is the epitome of an easy to replicate activity that does not
       | produce a lot of value [...] by definition the market is not
       | going to give those activieis a lot of value [...]."
       | 
       | Yet in the years since this TEDx talk we have seen the rise of
       | influencer and streamer celebrities who have gained an immense
       | amount of wealth and power.
        
         | nimbius wrote:
         | perhaps a decade or more ago? not now.
         | 
         | you will never become a streaming millionaire. talking heads
         | like beast and pewdiepie employ literal armies of Hollywood
         | editors and writers. For every organically grown insufferable
         | content monster created on Youtube, ten more are vat-grown by a
         | billion dollar industry designed to shepherd you into a fantasy
         | consumerist lifestyle.
         | 
         | These powerhouses of industry control the flow of capital at a
         | level you will never be able to. they secure rights to music
         | and video clips at rates you could never get, have tie-ins to
         | major brands media and celebrities on day one, and are
         | programmed with an endless firestorm of bots and preferential
         | algorithmic treatment on every FAANG product in order to
         | guarantee their success.
        
         | redundantly wrote:
         | > ... we have seen the rise of influencer and streamer
         | celebrities who have gained an immense amount of wealth and
         | power.
         | 
         | For most influencers, they're not the ones with the wealth and
         | power. Many of them are barely getting by. They rent content
         | houses, clothing, cars, and other things they need to put on
         | their facade.
         | 
         | Pretty much all of the wealth and power is in the hands of the
         | people that employ the influencers.
        
       | poppycock wrote:
       | Programmers (cs students, "engineers") are one of the most
       | pompous group of people who think their ability to #include
       | <stdio.h> gives them some special ability to speak about
       | efficiency, physics, math (other than your run of the mill
       | discrete or remedial linear algebra) or pretty much any other
       | topic on the face of the Earth.
       | 
       | Don't worry about your active Facebook account. People who make
       | it a point to signal otherwise are just people who have no one in
       | their personal lives to connect with (e.g. nieces, nephews,
       | family, friends). They are outliers not the rule.
        
         | ziddoap wrote:
         | > _People who make it a point to signal otherwise are just
         | people who have no one in their personal lives to connect with
         | (e.g. nieces, nephews, family, friends)._
         | 
         | What credentials do you hold to make this claim? It better not
         | be a CS degree.
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Related:
       | 
       |  _Quit Social Media. Your Career May Depend on It. (2016)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38720087 - Dec 2023 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _Quit Social Media, Your Career May Depend on It (2016)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16697004 - March 2018 (262
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Quit Social Media. Your Career May Depend on It_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=13714509 - Feb 2017 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _Quit Social Media, Your Career May Depend on It_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12998698 - Nov 2016 (548
       | comments)
       | 
       | The NYT piece those were about is
       | https://web.archive.org/web/20171114021224/https://www.nytim....
       | Not the same as OP but same topic, author, year.
        
       | motbus3 wrote:
       | I won't advertise but I work for a company which holds a social
       | media for cooking and recipes. Folks there are totally averse to
       | those and based stuff.
       | 
       | It has been hard for the company. The owner decided the company
       | will die before using ads (for many reasons). The paid plan is
       | stupidly cheap and when people sign and use for a month they
       | stick with the company for years.
       | 
       | But it is hard. Company laid off 80% of the team some time ago
       | and is fighting to survive. I won't defend the owner or anyone,
       | but things came to a point where people think they are not having
       | consequences by giving infinite permission for being tracked all
       | the time. They think if they are not logged they are not
       | identified so they can't be exploited.
       | 
       | It sucks because no one appreciates that. Though I have my
       | opinions about business and whatever I kinda appreciate for the
       | company not running on money from ads and not collecting a single
       | piece of user information which is not required for work.
        
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