[HN Gopher] Post-postal: What did we lose when we stopped writin...
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       Post-postal: What did we lose when we stopped writing letters?
        
       Author : benbreen
       Score  : 20 points
       Date   : 2024-10-23 20:25 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
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       | Molitor5901 wrote:
       | Something else that's lost when we stopped writing letters:
       | attention span. When someone is reading a letter it is almost
       | always the only thing they are doing.
        
         | nnf wrote:
         | If we're talking about handwritten letters or even typewritten,
         | one would have to have a plan for what they wanted to say and
         | then execute their writing linearly from beginning to end,
         | whereas now we can edit and poke and prod and reword with
         | almost no effort.
        
           | willcipriano wrote:
           | If I had more time I would have written you a shorter letter.
        
             | loloquwowndueo wrote:
             | "ChatGPT, please summarize this tirade I wrote in less than
             | 500 words"
        
       | politelemon wrote:
       | Even emails, the modern letter, now feel like they're becoming a
       | relic. My younger peers avoid it as much as possible, and instead
       | prefer chat tools. I wonder what would be most to future
       | historians examining us, that current historians have the
       | advantage of.
        
       | AStonesThrow wrote:
       | It's interesting, because I just finished viewing _her_ ,
       | starring Joaquin Phoenix as a lonely fellow who makes his living
       | writing letters. Theodore Twombly writes letters on the behalf of
       | clients. He writes heartfelt love letters, letters from daughter
       | to father, letters to bridge the distance for friends.
       | 
       | And of course, the premise of the film is that he installs an AI
       | OS and falls in love with the disembodied Assistant voice,
       | Samantha. And [spoiler alert], Samantha's parting gift to
       | Theodore is that she arranges to have his letters published as a
       | _bona fide_ book by a real book publisher, because this is the
       | best way she found to honor him and his work. It 's really
       | touching that this ephemeral AI without a body should reach into
       | the physical world that Theodore inhabits in this way.
        
       | OptionOfT wrote:
       | I am from the era of the beginning of emails. I wrote a couple of
       | letters, but most of it was emails.
       | 
       | So I'm more impacted by the next thing. Going from email to chat.
       | And I think it is absolutely horrible. Before, it used to be that
       | one thoughtfully wrote down and email and sent it out. Now I am
       | part of 2432 Slack channels in which each message can become its
       | own thread and I (I wanted to capitalize it to emphasize that it
       | is me, but it already is) am responsible for filtering out what
       | is important to me.
       | 
       | When I dealt with emails I would get emails that weren't meant
       | for me, but it was a whole different level of volume.
        
         | ddulaney wrote:
         | I find that for me, it's the opposite. It's very fast to scan a
         | Slack channel and only dig into interesting threads. But I get
         | CC'd on endless emails that aren't meant for me, to the tune of
         | dozens per day. And I don't have any way to unsubscribe -- I
         | can mute a thread or a whole channel in Slack, but there's no
         | equivalent once I'm CC'd.
        
           | hyggetrold wrote:
           | Email filters me son.
        
             | ddulaney wrote:
             | OK maybe I don't know how to do this right. I do that for
             | automated systems, but do you filter entire conversations?
             | Like, I'm on some random email thread, and dozens of people
             | are replying. Making a rule feels pretty heavyweight and
             | isn't quick (at least in Outlook).
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | Thunderbird can do this, although I haven't used it myself.
           | 
           | (And I realize not many people use Thunderbird for work.)
           | 
           | https://support.mozilla.org/en-US/kb/ignore-threads
        
           | vleaflet wrote:
           | And there is always at least one person in email chain who
           | puts their signature with company logo, custom fonts and
           | colors to every single reply, making it annoying to try
           | follow the conversation because my email client can't even
           | parse the mess anymore.
        
         | colechristensen wrote:
         | At the beginning of my career, I wrote emails. Nobody read
         | them. I stopped.
        
         | makeitdouble wrote:
         | > for filtering out what is important to me.
         | 
         | I see it going the way of the email: we have these optimistic
         | "inbox 0" kind of veleity, but after a week most people
         | understand their life will be eaten by email at that pace and
         | just accept an overflowing inbox where they'll willfully ignore
         | 99.9%, including legit communication if it doesn't hit the
         | appropriate filter.
         | 
         | Ignoring 99.9% of what's happening in all the dozens of Slack
         | channels is probably the way: if there was anything important
         | it's up to the sender to make it clear and reach it's audience.
         | That might not be the ideal way, but the reverse just won't
         | work anyway.
        
       | syndicatedjelly wrote:
       | I think hand writing is still very important, but for entirely
       | personal (and maybe selfish) reasons. One of the biggest
       | motivators for me to learn new language scripts has been the joy
       | in producing letters in a foreign script using my own hand.
       | Handwriting has a deep link within the mind to a number of
       | important language areas, and is probably wired through
       | completely different pathways than keyboard typing. Not to say
       | one is better than the other, ultimately it's all about
       | communication. But just like some people prefer to draw by hand,
       | I still prefer taking notes and writing my thoughts down by hand
       | first.
        
       | dougb5 wrote:
       | Arcade Fire did a good job capturing this wistfulness in "We Used
       | to Wait" from 2010. Recommended:
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rs11Bp1RkpU
        
       | scherlock wrote:
       | FWIW, many sleep away camps still rely on letter writing. My
       | daughter left with a stack of pre-stamped envelopes and a pad of
       | paper. She enjoyed writing and receiving letters.
        
       | xnyan wrote:
       | I was raised mormon and did my mormon mission 2007-2009 in
       | Ukraine. We were not allowed to call anyone outside our family on
       | christmas and mothers day, and we were limited to 1 hour a week
       | for email, family only. We were allowed to write handwritten
       | letters to anyone, so that's how I maintained my relationship to
       | my then friend now spouse, about 2-3 times a month as our sole
       | form of communication.
       | 
       | There are some very nice things about writing letters, but
       | ultimately it makes communication more difficult compared to more
       | modern options, and my experience letter writing left me much
       | more appreciative of the alternatives we enjoy today.
        
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