[HN Gopher] Cofounder Mode: My tactical guide to finding a cofou...
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       Cofounder Mode: My tactical guide to finding a cofounder
        
       Author : rob313
       Score  : 144 points
       Date   : 2024-10-13 18:22 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | braza wrote:
       | > They want to work on this part-time > They want to quit their
       | job but haven't set a date to do it > They're going to quit their
       | job but only after the YC interview
       | 
       | I resonate with the OP because I am in this exact situation that
       | I am building something but I cannot leave my current job now.
       | 
       | When some friends started to build companies in mid-2000/mid-2010
       | you could code/build something, try to get some traction and you
       | could be received by VCs/angels and occasionally they could write
       | a 25K check for you to work for 3-6 months to build it and
       | perhaps you could get some traction and then scale or go burst.
       | 
       | Now the bar for new products it's absurdly high if you're out of
       | the YC or San Francisco VC circles or if you do not have anyone
       | in the industry; plus most of the VCs prefer to invest in
       | "pedigree founders" than in unknown people, especially if those
       | people are outside of the bay area.
       | 
       | In my first endeavor, I went with a finished product that
       | undercut some big enterprise SaaS vendors, and we lost space for
       | a bunch of non-technical guys with PPTs and one idea.
        
         | j45 wrote:
         | People playing their options on multiple fronts is even worse
         | than finding a way to increase and maintain the increased
         | levels of participation.
        
         | pj_mukh wrote:
         | Honestly, in this situation, you want paying customers not VC-
         | funding. YC at least has an objective application process (VC's
         | don't, it just cold-email) and even then the acceptance rate
         | makes it a non-viable dependable strategies. Especially if
         | you're enterprise SaaS..the question you need to answer is, how
         | do you get a customer to pay?
         | 
         | (Sometimes having a co-founder here helps to answer this
         | question)
        
         | MichaelRo wrote:
         | >> Now the bar for new products it's absurdly high if you're
         | out of the YC or San Francisco VC circles or if you do not have
         | anyone in the industry; plus most of the VCs prefer to invest
         | in "pedigree founders" than in unknown people, especially if
         | those people are outside of the bay area.
         | 
         | I suppose that's if you pursue the "SAAS AI Analytics Crypto
         | Cloud" latest hype where all the low hanging fruit has been
         | picked already.
         | 
         | I'm in EU (Romania) and don't feel the least bit concerned or
         | connected about San Francisco VCs and yet I'm preparing not one
         | but two businesses which could go to 100s of millions (first)
         | or billions (second).
         | 
         | 1) First is a plain brick-and-mortar physical product delivery
         | thing. Zero competition from "YC San Francisco VC" crowd who
         | almost exclusively targets computer-only stuff as it's much
         | easier and cleaner to deal with. But if you have the brains for
         | computers (and I've been working as a well paid eastern
         | European software dev for 20+ years), you can most definitely
         | compete in the "physical" world should you identify an
         | opportunity there as I did. This is the businesses that I
         | estimate in the half billion before it reaches saturation or
         | someone steals it from me.
         | 
         | 2) Second is online services hence much easier to deliver and
         | to grow hence with the properly polished product (which sells
         | as hot cake in a brick and mortar setting) and target market
         | should have no problem reaching billions. Provided that #1
         | works well enough to kickstart me into #2.
         | 
         | So ... cofounders. Anyone interested?
         | 
         | If so send me a mail or go on my forum and enter "sunshine"
         | when you register yourself (so I know you're not a spambot,
         | they are this dumb):
         | 
         | https://www.aquarianz.com/contact.html
        
           | shafyy wrote:
           | What is your track record of building businesses? With just
           | the information from this post, you sound beyond delusional
           | and super arrogant.
        
           | unusualmonkey wrote:
           | So the first business has no competition... but also no
           | defensibility?
           | 
           | The second business should be able to be much bigger AND
           | easier, but you aren't focussing all your efforts on it
           | because you're splitting your time with the first, non-
           | defensible business?
           | 
           | It's good to be optimistic, but balance that with realism.
           | It's easy to build a billion dollar business on paper, much
           | harder in reality.
        
         | Ghaenergyyy wrote:
         | It has never been easier to create your own company if you have
         | the proper grid.
         | 
         | Reduce your workhours to half day or 80%, spend your evenings
         | and weekends building.
         | 
         | Show your demo around to get more money if your progress is
         | slow.
         | 
         | But technology has never been as accessable as it is today. You
         | have a lptop, a server costs you 50$, a big machine perhaps 100
         | or 200 / month.
         | 
         | The problem are people who think just having an idea is the
         | main part of creating a product/company.
         | 
         | I have more ideas per day than non technical people and i could
         | make 50% work. Not unicorn work but making enough money for a
         | company money.
         | 
         | Its just a lot nicer to work from mo-fr earning good money and
         | having time for living.
        
       | givemeethekeys wrote:
       | This whole "mode" shit - stupid start up yuppies and their
       | movements.
        
         | ratg13 wrote:
         | I think the kids call it "sigma mindset"
         | 
         | Same stuff, but for 12yos
        
         | aaronbrethorst wrote:
         | Tech bro yuppie mode
        
         | fullstackchris wrote:
         | I had to crack up when he abbreviated Ideal Cofounder Profile
         | as ICP.
         | 
         | We've all lost the plot.
        
       | behnamoh wrote:
       | No-bs mode is the ultimate mode tbh. Whatever you do, do it w/o
       | making a hype, coining marketing words, and exaggerating.
        
         | Arubis wrote:
         | This sounds like a recipe for never getting funded, sadly.
        
         | dartos wrote:
         | That's almost demonstrably false if your goal is to get funded.
         | 
         | Just look at the pear AI guys.
        
           | rodiger wrote:
           | Or literally 90% of the YC class in any given year
        
       | elicksaur wrote:
       | > I spent 9 months and almost 100 "cofounder dates" finding my
       | cofounder.
       | 
       | What's the highest value company that was started with a method
       | like this? Genuinely curious, can't think of one.
        
         | think_build wrote:
         | Yes, what happened to building side projects? Meeting people
         | that you've worked with that you would care enough to build
         | something with?
        
           | themanmaran wrote:
           | Suppose it's the same as online dating vs "meeting the old
           | fashioned way".
           | 
           | I'm also pretty partial to "just work on your hobby and meet
           | someone else". But probably a lot of opportunity left on the
           | table that way. Especially if you know you want to build
           | something serious.
        
         | rob313 wrote:
         | Good q and I can't name one either. Though I suspect when
         | you're successful you tell a modified story about how you met.
         | 
         | "I ran a tight interview process and selected the best match
         | based on vibes and a spreadsheet" isn't super inspiring to
         | customers, employees, investors.
        
         | aduffy wrote:
         | Dropbox comes to mind.
        
         | inquisitor27552 wrote:
         | thats like doing tinder instead of talking to users and
         | building it
        
         | jasfi wrote:
         | Coinbase is probably an example.
        
       | doodaddy wrote:
       | Sounds like a standard hiring workflow with some questions
       | tailored for the role. Is this supposed to be revelatory?
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | > _Browse profiles and then adjust your own profile based on the
       | best examples._
       | 
       | What does that mean?
        
         | KTibow wrote:
         | I think it just means "learn how to make a good profile by
         | looking at some good profiles"
        
       | taytus wrote:
       | Shooters gonna shoot I'm working on something new. It's pre-
       | seeded and MVP is almost ready, and pilots will start in three
       | weeks. It involves AI and education. I'm an engineer, raised VC
       | money before, and I'm planning to raise again. If you love sales
       | and want to learn more, email me.
        
       | ackbar03 wrote:
       | I think finding cofounders is one of those things where the best
       | time to start was always last year or two years ago
        
       | ipaddr wrote:
       | The mindset of wasting 9 months going on dates instead of
       | starting something is so foreign. Based on what this person was
       | looking for (someone to build out his ideas) he would be better
       | off trying to get funding and hiring someone.
       | 
       | It was a job interview (50 question homework, 3 day hackathon
       | trial) plus firm requirements and who has the final say is
       | presented. We didn't hear about the different tests and
       | requirements these 100 dates demanded so it appears one sided.
       | 
       | The best way to meet a cofounder is to be interested in
       | something; so interested you explore it and you find something
       | you like someone else is doing and you talk to them about it. You
       | come up with some idea and you reach out to this person and
       | explore it.
        
         | sverhagen wrote:
         | It's reportedly hard to get funding for ideas. Investors want
         | to see a team that is strong enough to iterate through some
         | ideas and pivots. It's not one perfect idea that becomes the
         | product or the company. People actually are too focused on some
         | magic initial milestone. They'll align it with the end of the
         | funding, or the limit of their patience, or the limit of the
         | patience of their support system. That's not how these things
         | work. They're repeated marathons, not sprints. And being
         | focused for nine months on finding a co-founder also seems like
         | an oversized goal, that shouldn't take so much time. It's not
         | uncommon to swap out key people later, including founder,
         | painful as it may be.
        
         | m11a wrote:
         | > Based on what this person was looking for (someone to build
         | out his ideas) he would be better off trying to get funding and
         | hiring someone.
         | 
         | Yeah.. or even just learning how to code himself. Could learn a
         | decent amount in 9 months.
        
           | unusualmonkey wrote:
           | If you spend 9 months learning to code, you get a junior
           | engineer (at best).
           | 
           | If you sepnd 9 months getting a technical co-founder, you
           | likely get a seasoned engineer + thought partner for all
           | decisions going forward.
           | 
           | One is vastly more valuable than the other.
        
             | m11a wrote:
             | You don't need to be a great engineer for most startups,
             | unless they're particularly specialised. Most apps are
             | really just CRUD at small scale. These apps aren't really
             | hard until you scale. Eg Airbnb is really simple to make,
             | technically speaking, at small scale.
             | 
             | I think it's valuable to be able to implement your own
             | ideas. Its going to be more productive than trying to
             | explain what you want to someone else. (This isn't mutually
             | exclusive with having a cofounder as well)
        
               | unusualmonkey wrote:
               | If you're implementing you're idea's... who is marketing
               | them? Who is handling customer support? What about sales,
               | legal, finance, hr etc?
               | 
               | Writing code is not building a business.
        
         | barrenko wrote:
         | One is a decent Linkedin post, the other is not.
        
         | unusualmonkey wrote:
         | The skillset to find a cofounder is similar to the skillset
         | needed to raise money. Additionally, founders who try to hire
         | for skillsets they have no experiance in, often find their
         | money wasted.
        
       | lionkor wrote:
       | Is this how you make a soulless throwaway "hope I get acqui-
       | hired" type company? It doesn't sound like there is a lot of
       | passion to make something great.
        
         | j-a-a-p wrote:
         | Yes, this process also filters out candidates who would refuse
         | to go in such a hiring process.
         | 
         | I think the goals of having a good match are nevertheless
         | important. Perhaps it is better to communicate these goals to
         | your candidate co-founder and figure out together what the best
         | approach is to verify them.
        
       | goodpoint wrote:
       | > Red flags to watch for > They want to work on this part-time >
       | They want to quit their job but haven't set a date to do it >
       | They're going to quit their job but only after the YC interview
       | 
       | ...so this guy wants someone in SF to quit their job and work
       | full time while unpaid? This method selects from the bottom of
       | the pool, not from the top.
        
         | kidintech wrote:
         | Got spooked by the exact quote you mentioned, but your
         | conclusion is more precise. You're correct, this is a recipe
         | for messing up your chances lmao.
        
         | mnahkies wrote:
         | Devils advocate: people in a position to work full time unpaid
         | have probably enjoyed outsized success in their career to date
        
           | goodpoint wrote:
           | ...1% of the time. The other 99% are "ceo of myself"
        
         | jonathanstrange wrote:
         | Isn't that the difference between a co-founder and an employee?
         | I'm assuming that half of the company will belong to the new
         | co-founder, of course.
        
           | fhd2 wrote:
           | I say this to every non-technical founder looking for a work
           | for equity (or effectively "for free") technical co founder:
           | They'll meet two types of people; those that won't do it, and
           | those that don't know yet that they shouldn't do it.
           | 
           | It _is_ possible to get seed funding for a business if the
           | idea is solid and you bring something valuable to the table,
           | like the right connections and domain knowledge. If a founder
           | doesn't have either, that's bad. The money doesn't have to
           | come from an investor: There's government funding, you can
           | line up pilot customers etc. If they can't raise any seed
           | funding, what does that say about their talent to be a CEO?
           | The job is _all_ about bringing money in.
           | 
           | Asking someone to work with zero cashflow for who knows how
           | long (investments and initial customer acquisition can take
           | months) is just not reasonable. If somebody doesn't _need_
           | cashflow, chances are they're either comfortably doing
           | nothing, or already working on their own idea.
           | 
           | What you're left with are mostly people who need cashflow,
           | but are for some reason desperate or reckless enough to try
           | and go without. So then your founding team is a naive CTO,
           | and a CEO who can't raise money. Not a winning combination
           | usually.
        
       | logotype wrote:
       | I'm looking for a co-founder, running https://fixparser.dev which
       | is a profitable company with clients worldwide. Been applying to
       | YC twice but failed - will continue the search for funding. Reach
       | out at victor@logotype.se cheers
        
         | yellow_lead wrote:
         | Maybe I'm not the target audience but defining FIX on your
         | landing page at least once might be useful. Best luck!
        
         | etewiah wrote:
         | Just sent you an email now.
        
         | codegeek wrote:
         | Not your target but FIX took me way back to my Investment
         | Banking days as a techie worked with Front/Middle/Back Office
         | users :).
        
       | kidintech wrote:
       | I wanted to label this as a "nothingburger", but all the pieces
       | of advice are either tautologies, vague general dating tips (i.e.
       | "make sure the vibes are not off"), or straight up untrue: "They
       | want to work on this part-time", "They want to quit their job but
       | haven't set a date to do it", "They're going to quit their job
       | but only after the YC interview". The latter are all very context
       | dependent and are impossible to label as a "red flag" without
       | further information. Possibly SEO bait?
        
       | l7l wrote:
       | There is also a free little tool for cofounder alignment called
       | https://aligna.team
        
       | v3ss0n wrote:
       | Asking your potential co-founder to quit their full time job as a
       | first thing in your zero customer startup is the biggest Red Flag
       | of OP as a Co-Founder. That is too selfish.
        
         | lnsru wrote:
         | It can be better! Potential co-founder asked me to bring my own
         | 9000EUR for company's registration (in Germany). I didn't. A
         | year later the company ditched all hardware and went software
         | only. I dodged a bullet as a hardware developer as I see it
         | today.
        
       | JonChesterfield wrote:
       | It's a guy with an idea that he doesn't know how to build, asking
       | you to spend hours filling out a form then three days building
       | something to see if you know how to build stuff. And you need to
       | be unemployed and love the idea.
       | 
       | That should have taken unbounded time to find someone, not a mere
       | 9 months.
        
         | siva7 wrote:
         | So is this what Y Combinator is attracting nowadays
        
         | yaseer wrote:
         | Are you talking about some other scenario, rather than OP?
         | (i.e. the archetypal 'co-founder dater'?)
         | 
         | OP is a technical co-founder - ex-Facebook and Stanford
         | computer science, it seems.
        
       | shawndrost wrote:
       | I have to repost an earlier comment of mine
       | (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27752798) on this topic:
       | 
       | I have a tip on finding a cofounder. I've been looking for the
       | last 12 months and I tried a lot of things, but the thing that
       | worked best is this: Post a job ad.
       | 
       | That's it. My ad sounded like a normal job in every way, with a
       | title like "Director of X". A couple of specific notes: 1) the
       | first line said "cofounder" in it somewhere, and 2) it specified
       | "part-time to full-time, heavy on equity compensation" somewhere
       | else.
       | 
       | The result: Lots of inappropriate candidates applied. But also,
       | my 2 job posts resulted in three extremely excellent team
       | members: a equity-only cofounder, a mostly-equity cofounder/early
       | hire, and an amazing advisor. I have been working with these
       | folks for months and they are very solid.
       | 
       | I also recommend my vetting process: just like a job. That is, I
       | did a phone screen, a multi-hour interview, a little take-home,
       | and I winnowed down the candidates at each stage. With the chosen
       | few, I kicked off a "let's do this" conversation. My pitch was,
       | "I know it's ridiculous, but let's get business married, we'll
       | set up an offsite and start working together full-time... and, if
       | we really need to, we'll get an annulment". That's what vesting
       | is for!
       | 
       | Hope that helps :)
        
         | adamgordonbell wrote:
         | How did it work out? It's now several years later.
        
         | neilv wrote:
         | > _I also recommend my vetting process: just like a job. That
         | is, I did a phone screen, a multi-hour interview, a little
         | take-home, and I winnowed down the candidates at each stage._
         | 
         | Did you both do take-homes?
        
       | j7ake wrote:
       | Terrible advice, 0/10 wouldn't recommend.
       | 
       | Honestly the author sounds like they like the idea of doing a
       | startup more than a specific problem they want to solve.
       | 
       | Unfortunately this means you're an undifferentiated untechnical
       | person trying to attract highly in demand talent to work on your
       | vague idea.
       | 
       | It won't work because both cofounders will have no vision and no
       | strategy that distinguishes them from the massses.
       | 
       | This strategy might work if the person has a proven track record
       | of leading start ups to success. But if this were true, you would
       | raise money and hire technical people instead.
        
         | closewith wrote:
         | > Unfortunately this means you're an undifferentiated
         | untechnical person trying to attract highly in demand talent to
         | work on your vague idea.
         | 
         | Bafflingly, the author is technical, the CTO. That makes this
         | course of action even more confusing.
         | 
         | These articles are always written absurdly early, too. Reprompt
         | AI is apparently brand new and pre-seed. It's not a success nor
         | has the founder relationship stood the test of time. This would
         | be much better written in five or ten years.
        
       | yaseer wrote:
       | Am I missing something, or are HN readers assuming (incorrectly)
       | the author is non-technical and looking for someone to build out
       | their ideas?
       | 
       | From what I can see, the author is a CTO who is ex-meta and
       | Stanford computer science. They look like a technical co-founder
       | to me.
       | 
       | I know there's this annoying and widely prevalent persona of co-
       | founder dater with only ideas, and no skills to build them, but
       | this author doesn't seem to be that.
        
         | Ghaenergyyy wrote:
         | If the example is something like this: "I am non-technical and
         | can handle Sales, Marketing, and Product. " it does seem to be
         | written from a non-technical person.
         | 
         | Ex-meta doesn't mean anything. As far as i know manager / non
         | technical people work at meta as in any other 'tech' company.
        
           | yaseer wrote:
           | I think that was written as a generic, illustrative example.
           | That Example was also for healthtech, which OP is not.
           | 
           | Yes ex-Meta could imply non-technical, but OP is a CTO with a
           | Stanford computer science degree. Their job title and skills
           | are technical.
        
         | dlisboa wrote:
         | If you take a look at the Linkedin resume it seems his last
         | technical job was 12 years ago and in an unrelated area to what
         | he's currently trying to build. All in all his on-hands
         | professional software engineering work seems to be limited to
         | 2-4 years. Most of his experience seems to be product-related
         | type work, including his work at Meta.
         | 
         | Combined with him calling himself a non-technical founder it
         | seems pretty on point. He's not looking to be coding and making
         | all the nitty gritty engineering decisions, there are better
         | people for that in his opinion. Which is totally fine.
        
         | rob313 wrote:
         | You are correct. Thanks for defending me a bit on the internet
         | Yaseer! Also going to ping you offline, your company looks
         | great and relevant to us.
        
       | nsmog767 wrote:
       | misread this as "my tactical guide to _firing_ a cofounder. "
       | 
       | .....probably would be quite useful also?
        
         | rob313 wrote:
         | Hopefully won't have to write that part 2
        
       | rob313 wrote:
       | Appreciate the feedback and rousing discussion
       | 
       | Some responses that I'll probably also update in the post:
       | 
       | a/ Why not start with people you know or friends?-- This is 100%
       | the best way and I tried it first. Timing is hard and there's
       | only like 7 people I'd want to start companies with. They all had
       | good reasons not to embark on starting a company at this moment.
       | 
       | b/ Vibes is super vague-- I found it really important to get
       | along with a cofounder as friends-- I met my CF's wife early on,
       | we did thanksgiving together, we spent a lot of time together
       | outside of work. We've had actual fun building so far. For some
       | that's important, for others not. It's a great point, I'll
       | clarify.
       | 
       | c/ OP is a non-technical ideas guy looking for his coding ninja--
       | Nope, sorry. I've never had an eng job but learned to code early
       | in college building random iphone apps. Been building nights and
       | weekends for the past 10 years (including while cofounder
       | searching).
       | 
       | d/ Start building instead of just CF searching- great point.
       | Building out ideas, talking to customers, etc makes your
       | cofounder conversations waaaay more interesting because people
       | can see you get excited about something real. Early on I had too
       | many high-level conversations about "the space" or "starting
       | something" that led nowhere.
       | 
       | e/ These "modes" are total bs-- Totally agree but gotta keep the
       | title interesting : )
        
       | unusualmonkey wrote:
       | What's missing here is what value the writer is bringing to the
       | table.
       | 
       | Let's look at the trade:
       | 
       | "I'm looking for a technical cofounder who is ready to commit in
       | the next 2-3 months and work in-person in San Francisco. I'm
       | looking for them to do Product, Design, and Engineering."
       | 
       | This requires a lead level engineer, say $200k to $500k/year
       | salary in SF. Given that this is a 2~3 month engagement, we'd
       | double that for contractor rate and pro rata. I'd estimate this
       | is $100k to $250k of time.
       | 
       | "I'm committed to healthtech and have a few ideas, but willing to
       | work on other ideas in healthtech."
       | 
       | Great, this is worth about $0.
       | 
       | This doesn't seem like a fair trade.
       | 
       | What's worse is that "Rob Balian" _is_ a CTO with product manager
       | background. Instead of looking for a co-founder to complement his
       | skillset, he 's duplicating the skill set.
        
       | AlexandrBel wrote:
       | In my opinion, it's easier to find a co-founder on some platform
       | for finding co-founders, like https://indiemerger.com, where
       | there are developers and marketers and you can find suitable
       | candidates.
        
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