[HN Gopher] Ask HN: What's the "best" book you've ever read?
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       Ask HN: What's the "best" book you've ever read?
        
       I got asked recently, and I think it's an excellent question.
       What's the "best" book you've ever read? By "best", in means
       whatever you mean.
        
       Author : simonebrunozzi
       Score  : 244 points
       Date   : 2024-10-06 11:42 UTC (1 days ago)
        
       | aristofun wrote:
       | Unless youve just read a handful of books in your life it is
       | impossible to give a good answer to the question.
       | 
       | Books are not oranges.
        
         | brudgers wrote:
         | I got to thinking -- a handful of books is approximately one
         | book.
         | 
         | And who ranks their oranges?
        
           | tocs3 wrote:
           | Depends on the books of course but the old pulp paperbacks
           | were such you could hold 5 to 10 maybe. Today a tablet could
           | hold 1000s (? how many I don't know ?)
        
           | Izkata wrote:
           | I'd guess most people that eat oranges regularly will have a
           | favorite brand.
        
         | tocs3 wrote:
         | "Books are not oranges."
         | 
         | As an aside, what do you mean by this? I would have an even
         | harder time giving and answer to the best orange I've eaten.
         | 
         | The Hobbit. My brother read it to me when I was just starting
         | to read. When he was done I asked him to read it again. he said
         | no and I learned to read in earnest. I was often shooed out of
         | the adult section of the library. I have read lots of books by
         | now.
        
           | aristofun wrote:
           | > what do you mean by this
           | 
           | That books are not a commodity.
        
             | ruraljuror wrote:
             | I feel like it would be hard to choose the best of a
             | commodity, so this is even more perplexing to me.
        
               | Terretta wrote:
               | Easier because directly comparable, harder because one
               | can't tell the difference?
        
             | sam29681749 wrote:
             | The point _may_ be that oranges can be evaluated based on a
             | few simple variables (eg., richness of flavor, juiciness,
             | etc.), where there's no common set of variables that can be
             | used to evaluate all the different types of books (ie, what
             | makes a good history book differs to what makes a good
             | philosophy book, etc.) and if they can't be compared, a
             | 'best' can't be established.
             | 
             | That said, as the author alluded to, 'best' in this context
             | is vague and can mean what we want it to, eg., person a may
             | consider best to mean the book that has had the widest
             | influence, where person b may consider it to mean the book
             | that they personally found the most insightful, etc.
        
             | canadianfella wrote:
             | Right. That's why it's helpful to get recommendations.
        
           | wruza wrote:
           | The best orange has a structure of a peak ripe grapefruit.
           | Peel doesn't stick, micro-columns separate easily and burst
           | with juice. If grapefruits were orange-flavored, I'd eat them
           | all day.
        
             | talldrinkofwhat wrote:
             | Still waiting for January and my morning ritual of juicing
             | a small grapefruit into an 8oz ice-filled mason jar.
             | 
             | It's a damn shame we haven't figured out how to coerce
             | citrus like we do tomatoes.
        
             | tsukikage wrote:
             | Ever tried pomelo?
        
         | bo1024 wrote:
         | It's also impossible to give a bad answer, what are you worried
         | about? Go for it.
        
         | oidar wrote:
         | >Unless youve just read a handful of books in your life it is
         | impossible to give a good answer to the question.
         | 
         | And yet, there are many answers to that question in this
         | thread.
        
           | aristofun wrote:
           | and none of them directly and reliably answers the asked
           | question :)
        
         | ComputerGuru wrote:
         | Au contraire !
         | 
         | I was a _ridiculously_ voracious reader (if I saw it, I
         | wouldn't put it down until I'd read it) and my answer was
         | always "hard to say, no favorite."
         | 
         | But then one day you read that book that stands out from
         | everything else (to you, for various personal reasons that
         | might not translate the same for the next person) and suddenly,
         | just like that, you have a favorite book.
         | 
         | I wish you will discover this feeling one day!
        
         | BizarroLand wrote:
         | Some books are oranges. Some are apples. Some are kumquats and
         | carrots and key-lime pie.
         | 
         | Some are soups made by your grandmother while you sat in a
         | high-chair and your parents laughed and talked with your uncles
         | in the living room.
         | 
         | Some are the smell of coffee and bacon and eggs and a little
         | more smoke than usual in the air in the morning when your dad
         | cooked breakfast.
         | 
         | It's okay to have a special and favorite book, just like it is
         | okay to have a special and favorite food.
        
       | mikewarot wrote:
       | The Boy's Second book of Electronics by Alfred Morgan(1957)
       | introduced me to electronics in the 1970s, and lead to a
       | technical mindset and lifestyle.
       | 
       | The Engineers Notebook by Forest Mims really taught me the basics
       | of electronics.
       | 
       | What do you care what other people think by Richard Feynman(1988)
       | introduced me to the idea that nobody is really as much of an
       | expert as you might think.
       | 
       | 1632 By Eric Flint, and the subsequent series, got me thinking
       | about the nature of civilization and all the things that go into
       | making it.
       | 
       | There are a lot of books in this world, and they all helped
       | author who I am.
        
         | 01HNNWZ0MV43FF wrote:
         | "the way things work", the book with all the woolly mammoths in
         | it. Learned a lot from it
        
           | Jerrrrrrry wrote:
           | That is the literal pillar; physically and figuratively the
           | foundation, of my knowledge corpus; aptly the bottom book in
           | my corner-turned-library.
           | 
           | I spent hours as a kid, slowly parsing, contextualizing,
           | researching every iota and minutiae of that book.
           | 
           | I had an encyclopedia just to help supplement that book.
        
             | gfna wrote:
             | Didnt recogize the english title before i read this comment
             | and it immediately clicked. The copy i have is from the
             | late 80s and even then it was a bit dated, but it didnt
             | matter. Awesome book. Now 35 years later my kids and I
             | sometimes spend hours looking through the same book. Even
             | more dated now, but that probably makes it even more
             | amazing for them and now they know how a tape recorder
             | works \o/
        
               | calvinmorrison wrote:
               | theres an updated edition as well
        
           | JKCalhoun wrote:
           | Grew up with the original "The Way Things Work" [1] (found
           | out later it was an English translation of the German book,
           | "Wie Funktioniert Das").
           | 
           | [1] https://archive.org/details/waythingswork0000unse_p9x7/
        
           | calvinmorrison wrote:
           | I recently got a NEW copy as an adult. So happy to have it on
           | my shelf!
        
       | VoodooJuJu wrote:
       | The best book I've partially read is the New Testament. The best
       | book I've actually read is Taleb's Antifragile.
        
         | booleandilemma wrote:
         | So many people talk about this one and they never give spoiler
         | alerts.
        
       | SeanAnderson wrote:
       | Nonfiction: Thinking, Fast & Slow
       | 
       | Fiction: Project Hail Mary
        
         | qingcharles wrote:
         | Project Hail Mary is amazing, but personally I think it is just
         | one step below The Martian. Both incredible books, though. I've
         | read the Martian three times.
        
       | andrei_says_ wrote:
       | I am That - talks with Nisargadatta Maharaj. Best for me.
        
       | dilippkumar wrote:
       | The absolute best for me: The Malazan book of the fallen.
       | 
       | Book 1 is really hard to get into and doesn't reward as much. But
       | if you stick with it, as early as the end of Book 2, you'll know
       | what you're in for.
        
         | slothtrop wrote:
         | I was skeptical but after a rough start I enjoyed book 1 by the
         | end. Not generally into fantasy and dropped Way of Kings, Wheel
         | of Time and others.
        
       | Brajeshwar wrote:
       | There are always better books than the ones I read, and there
       | will never be the best. I've tried selecting a few that I can
       | remember at all times, the most interesting book to me, and I've
       | listed them on my website at https://brajeshwar.com/#books
       | 
       | If I had to return and re-read, I'd re-read "Leonardo da Vinci."
        
       | the__alchemist wrote:
       | Non-fiction: Pale Blue Dot. Fiction: The Diamond Age.
        
         | jjcm wrote:
         | We're pretty much living parts of The Diamond Age right now. I
         | feel like we're within a decade of A Young Lady's Illustrated
         | Primer being a real book, especially with Claude and ChatGPT's
         | multimodal aspects.
        
       | djkivi wrote:
       | Godel Escher Bach is the best book I've read. Very interesting
       | topics and the sheer creativity of the writing is amazing.
        
         | bobosha wrote:
         | i have the book and tried to read it many times, but never
         | grokked it tbh. ;-)
        
         | spicyusername wrote:
         | Hofstadter is such a brilliant writer. All of his books are
         | really on another level.
        
         | edanm wrote:
         | I prefer his autobiography (https://xkcd.com/917/).
         | 
         | Seriously though, this question is unanswerable, but your
         | answer is probably one of the few books I'd get behind as an
         | answer to this.
        
           | araes wrote:
           | In the end, we are self-perceiving, self-inventing, locked-in
           | mirages that are little miracles of self-reference.
           | 
           | -- Douglas Hofstadter, I Am a Strange Loop, p. 363
        
         | red-iron-pine wrote:
         | NGL, GEB was a slog. There is a free MIT course that covers it,
         | and I'm glad I made use of that.
         | 
         | "I Am a Strange Loop" by the same guy covers the same concepts,
         | albeit without the whimsey or color.
        
           | aanet wrote:
           | What is the MIT course that covers this book? Many thanks!
        
             | latexr wrote:
             | https://opencw.aprende.org/high-school/humanities-and-
             | social...
        
         | jll29 wrote:
         | I second that.
         | 
         | Its translations are also the best translations known to
         | mankind (I read the German one, the French is said to be as
         | good or better).
        
         | wsintra2022 wrote:
         | Been reading it for about a year on and off, I did read I am a
         | strange loop before and really enjoyed the ideas and also the
         | emotional side of it.
        
         | abecedarius wrote:
         | I read it in high school and I probably would've picked it at
         | the time. Fun note though: ~3 years later when I was learning
         | Lisp it hit me that my understanding of GEB had been very
         | shallow.
        
       | llamaimperative wrote:
       | Henry George's Progress & Poverty conducted what can only be
       | described as a coup on my worldview, and I am not alone in that
       | experience.
       | 
       | It is an _incredible_ argument that will just utterly transform
       | how you understand a walk down the street.
       | 
       | If you've been seeing references to the Land Value Tax (LVT) here
       | on HN, this is the book that originated the concept. Like most
       | conceptual breakthroughs, it didn't emerge solely from George
       | with no related ideas in the vicinity, but this is definitely
       | "the book" behind it.
        
         | illwrks wrote:
         | In a similar vein, when I first got an e-reader I downloaded
         | the old English version of Adam Smiths The Wealth of Nations.
         | It was eye opening. While I've forgotten a large amount of the
         | detail the overall themes are embedded in my mind.
        
           | djsavvy wrote:
           | How is Wealth of Nations surprising for a modern reader? My
           | (perhaps incorrect) intuition is that these sorts of old
           | foundational books tend not to be too surprising because
           | their ideas have permeated society already, which is why I'm
           | curious to hear your take.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | An economic thinker that can garner praise from democratic
         | socialists like Einstein to neoliberal ghouls like Milton
         | Friedman _has_ to have something going for it.
         | 
         | It's transformed my worldview as well, if nothing else by
         | underlining that free markets and capitalism are _not_ the same
         | thing at all.
        
       | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
       | _One Hundred Years of Solitude_ -- Gabriel Garcia-Marquez.
        
       | tmtvl wrote:
       | ' _Basho, dichter zonder dak_ ' with the subtitle ' _Haiku en
       | poetische reisverhalen_ ' by professor Willy Vande Walle, a
       | Belgian Japanologist. It's a translation of Basho's travel
       | diaries with a lot of contextual information, kind of like Martin
       | Gardner's ' _The Annotated Alice_ ', if you've read that one.
       | It's an amazing intellectual tour de force by one of the foremost
       | experts in his field, and it helps that the original works are of
       | very high quality of well.
       | 
       | Unfortunately I don't know if there's an English equivalent, and
       | considering how awful of a language Dutch is to learn it may be
       | easier to learn Japanese, read the originals, and look up all the
       | references yourself.
        
         | aporetics wrote:
         | Thanks, I'm marking this to look into
        
         | vilunov wrote:
         | > how awful of a language Dutch is to learn
         | 
         | Curious, why do you think so? As a Russian I found Dutch to be
         | much easier to learn than Japanese, and English knowledge
         | helps. The largest problem by far is Dutch speakers falling
         | back to English almost always.
        
       | igouy wrote:
       | > I think it's an excellent question.
       | 
       | Because?
        
       | _benj wrote:
       | There are too many...
       | 
       | But I'll pick The Psychology of Money. There are few books that
       | have so drastically changed my view of reality and affected my
       | behavior.
       | 
       | (Bonus because I couldn't help myself: Getting things done, Man's
       | search for meaning, Surrounded by idiots)
        
       | Jerrrrrrry wrote:
       | Anything from Sagan: Varieties of Scientific Experience: A
       | Personal View of the Search for God could convert the Pope to
       | agnosticism.
       | 
       | Stephen Ray Gould: Full House: The Spread of Excellence from
       | Plato to Darwin: will both challenge every preconceived notion
       | you've had, link seemingly impossibly unrelated phenomenon
       | together using similar models and patterns, and leave with a much
       | more intuitive understanding about complexity, randomness, and
       | chaotic systems.
       | 
       | A Briefer History of Time: For those who truly would like to
       | exalt their personal God of the Gaps to the small unit.
        
         | zukzuk wrote:
         | Sagan's Demon Haunted World was probably the reason I ended up
         | going into the sciences!
        
         | tocs3 wrote:
         | After seeing Carl Sagan's Cosmos I got and read the coffee
         | table book "Cosmos" I really liked it at the time(about 10-12
         | yo). It was pretty influential but I do not know if I could sit
         | through the book again.
        
         | xutopia wrote:
         | This author is by far my favorite. Everything he wrote was
         | amazing and made me think so deeply about things.
         | 
         | I recommend Dragons of Eden especially because it sheds light
         | on how fabric of our culture is woven by old thoughts that are
         | recycled in interesting ways. The Demon Haunted World does a
         | good job at explaining how we have to escape magical thinking
         | and be more rational about how we approach life.
        
       | ilrwbwrkhv wrote:
       | The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. When you are young, it is a
       | remarkable book to read.
        
         | alsaffar wrote:
         | This book is one I re-read religiously, but the first time was
         | as a young adult and I agree with you, remarkable. It seems to
         | have a correcting effect on my psyche when I stray too far into
         | anxiety and burnout.
        
       | SirAllCaps wrote:
       | Fiction: Independent People by Halldor Laxness or Children of
       | Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky.
       | 
       | Non-Fiction: The Feynman lectures on Physics.
        
       | sfpotter wrote:
       | John McPhee's "The Curve of Binding Energy".
        
       | mindcrime wrote:
       | The truth is, if you ask me this 100 times, you'll probably get
       | 100 different answers, because it's impossible to really pick
       | just one (well two, separating by fiction/non-fiction). But for
       | today I'll go with:
       | 
       | Fiction: Neuromancer
       | 
       | Non-fiction: The Selfish Gene
        
         | justchad wrote:
         | Came to say The Selfish Gene for nonfiction. Changed the way I
         | thought about things.
        
           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | Haven't read The Selfish Gene, but reading the summary it
           | looks like it touches on some very similar themes as Stephen
           | Pinker's How The Mind Works, which I thought was also a great
           | book. Gave me a good intuitive understanding of how the human
           | neural system evolved, and I found so much of the book to be
           | prescient and timely in our current "AI era".
        
             | loveparade wrote:
             | What people forget to mention is when they have read a
             | book. I read the Selfish Gene when I was a teen and it left
             | a lasting impression. It was published in 1989. How the
             | Mind works was published in 2011.
             | 
             | Reading the Selfish Gene today as an adult, when you've
             | probably read a dozen similar books already, is not going
             | to have the same effect. It's going to be pretty boring.
             | That's why asking for book recommendations is flawed to
             | begin with.
        
               | llamaimperative wrote:
               | What similar books are there to The Selfish Gene? I read
               | it not too long ago and found it astonishing.
               | 
               | People are generally enthralled by Sapiens which is just
               | a very mediocre extension + shallow interpretation of
               | Dawkins' thesis.
        
               | etiam wrote:
               | Probably too similar, but do follow up with "The Extended
               | Phenotype" if you haven't already.
        
               | llamaimperative wrote:
               | I have been meaning to come back to this since reading
               | Selfish Gene, but haven't gotten to it! I suppose I
               | should :)
        
               | NortySpock wrote:
               | "The God Virus: How Religion Infects Our Lives and
               | Culture" by Darrel Ray follows in the footsteps of The
               | Selfish Gene to certain logical conclusions about
               | clusters of related memes/concepts (specifically: how
               | religion(s) formed and evolved as clusters of overlapping
               | concepts)
        
               | canadianfella wrote:
               | The Selfish Gene was published in 1976, not 1989. I read
               | it as a teen in the 90s and it is probably my favourite
               | book of all time.
               | 
               | Also,
               | 
               | Bill Bryson's "Short History of Nearly Everything".
               | 
               | Brian Greene's "The Fabric of the Cosmos" (and all of his
               | other books)
               | 
               | Richard Dawkins' "The Ancestor's Tale" and "The Blind
               | Watchmaker" are also amazing.
               | 
               | Fiction:
               | 
               | Adrian Czajkowski's "Children of Time" and Orson Scott
               | Card's "Ender's Game" are both anong my favourites.
        
         | Brian_K_White wrote:
         | That's why it's an interesting question worth asking
         | andbthinking about.
         | 
         | It's fine that it's hard to answer, or the answer changes. The
         | goal is not to actually determine the correct answer but to
         | explore the possible answers and the reasoning that produces
         | them, and the differences that different people produce.
        
         | brcmthrowaway wrote:
         | How do people read Neuromancer its just technobabble
        
           | slothtrop wrote:
           | As a stylish thriller mostly
        
           | mindcrime wrote:
           | A lot of the appeal is aesthetic / stylistic. Yes it's "hard
           | to read" compared to more "traditional" works, but it has its
           | own unique appeal... an appeal that resonates with some
           | people and not-so-much with others.
        
             | imglorp wrote:
             | Another part is that Gibson was the first to put together
             | cyberpunk as a genre and an aesthetic and a little
             | dystopian futurism. It was truly the first that spawned a
             | number of now familiar ideas like AIs battling firewall and
             | attack and VR as a UX method.
        
         | diggan wrote:
         | > Fiction: Neuromancer
         | 
         | I've tried twice to read this, but it looses me about 10% in
         | for some reason. Is it worth continuing past that? Does it get
         | "better"? Or does that just signal that the whole book isn't
         | for me?
        
           | adamhp wrote:
           | I was in your boat. I revisited later and powered through and
           | it does indeed get better. The narrative forms into something
           | more cohesive and you start being less exhausted by all the
           | lingo because you've learned it. You settle in. You have to
           | sort of try to immerse yourself. I'd recommend trying to read
           | in larger chunks of time and really absorb the aesthetic of
           | the world.
        
             | ataylor284_ wrote:
             | This is exactly how I feel about Dune. The invented words
             | and world-building are overwhelming at first, but once you
             | absorb them it makes the narrative richer.
        
             | bityard wrote:
             | > exhausted by all the lingo
             | 
             | I think that was my problem with Burning Chrome. Every
             | sentence contained a new word or three that the reader is
             | supposed to guess by context or conversation. Combined with
             | something that read like stream-of-consciousness narration.
             | I literally had no idea what was even happening after 30 or
             | 45 minutes of reading.
             | 
             | But then I had the same problem with Shakespeare, so maybe
             | I'm just dimmer than most folk.
        
           | killthebuddha wrote:
           | I love Neuromancer specifically for the first third or so, so
           | maybe the latter?
           | 
           | IMO the first part of the book is peak cyberpunk vibes. In
           | particular I read it almost like I would read poetry, late at
           | night when I can't sleep, sometimes jumping back and forth
           | between pages.
        
           | jccalhoun wrote:
           | I think when you read it matters. I read it after cyberpunk
           | was already established and so I honestly don't remember much
           | about it.
        
           | mindcrime wrote:
           | Neuromancer definitely has a unique prose style that Gibson
           | came up with. And a lot of people do find it to be something
           | of a turn-off. Me, I enjoyed it on the first read 30+ years
           | ago and still enjoy it on re-reads. But it's hard to say
           | whether or not somebody else will find it enjoyable. All I
           | can say is that I/ve enjoyed Neuromancer enough to read it 4
           | or 5 times and will probably read it again at some point.
        
           | burntalmonds wrote:
           | It's been a long time since I read it, but it definitely gets
           | better.
        
           | criddell wrote:
           | I was like you. Plowed through it a couple of times but most
           | of the book didn't make sense.
           | 
           | Then I read a big plot summary I found online and read it
           | again and I really enjoyed it.
        
         | xutopia wrote:
         | The Selfish Gene gave me lots to think about during my escape
         | from the influence of religion in my life. That book gave me a
         | solid idea that a lot of mystery could be explained by very
         | simple concepts over a long period of time.
        
         | aquir wrote:
         | The Neuromancer has the greatest opening sentence of all times
         | imho: "The sky above the port was the color of television,
         | tuned to a dead channel."
        
           | solarmist wrote:
           | Sadly (for me) this now needs an annotated version for
           | younger reader to fully understand.
           | 
           | I'm starting to feel old on a more and more frequent cadence.
        
           | analogwzrd wrote:
           | This is a great line, though it might not have aged well.
           | Younger generations might just think "Oh, the sky was black"
        
             | criddell wrote:
             | My kids would think the sky is blue because our TV shows a
             | solid blue screen when there's no signal. For people with
             | TVs like mine, I suppose the line still works.
        
               | zem wrote:
               | as a genxer I was not sure if he meant blue or grey and
               | snowing.
        
         | j0hnyl wrote:
         | Neuromancer is by far my favorite novel. On first reading, it
         | felt to me like someone was finally describing the world in a
         | way that I saw it, but couldn't articulate myself. I come back
         | to it every couple of years and it never fails to entertain me.
        
       | a_square_peg wrote:
       | I think this is as meaningful as the question "what's the best
       | food you've ever eaten?", which is to say, it's not a very
       | meaningful question.
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | Sure, but for the rest of us it might suggest a food we had not
         | yet tried.
        
           | a_square_peg wrote:
           | Fair enough. I feel like I've been seeing a lot of questions
           | on Reddit along this line that comes off as very low effort
           | to generate engagements so that's really the reason behind my
           | comment but I see how my response also comes off as snarky.
        
             | JKCalhoun wrote:
             | I know what you're saying. It must work though -- it
             | engagad both of us for different reasons, rose to front
             | page of HN. (Perhaps you would rather it did not though.)
        
               | a_square_peg wrote:
               | You're absolutely right on both accounts - it did work to
               | engage us and that I would rather that such posts don't
               | get upvoted.
               | 
               | Thanks for your understanding. :)
        
             | mcphage wrote:
             | It is a low effort method to generate engagement, but it
             | does generate really good engagement.
             | 
             | Likewise, your other example of "what's the best food
             | you've ever eaten" is a lazy question... but I bet the
             | answers would be really interesting.
        
         | sam29681749 wrote:
         | Steak and eggs made by my grandfather.
        
         | prewett wrote:
         | Funny thing is, despite being an avid reader, I can't really
         | say what my "best" book is. But I can easily describe the best
         | meal I've ever had: we were on a tour in Chengdu, and they took
         | us to a restaurant without any introduction. The meal was good
         | but nothing special, until halfway through, when that nagging
         | feeling that the flavor wasn't quite right made me realize that
         | this is the Buddhist fake meat I'd heard about. And I only
         | realized because I'd lived in China and eaten lots of meals so
         | I knew what things were supposed to taste like. I have to say,
         | the fish soup was incredible, the fish even flaked properly. To
         | be so good that it took me halfway through a formal meal (which
         | involves multiple courses) to recognize it speaks to how well
         | it was done.
        
       | upmind wrote:
       | My favourite fiction is Ready Player One. Great story and very
       | nerdy!
        
       | aomix wrote:
       | For nonfiction I think about Homicide: A Year on the Killing
       | Streets and The Corner: A Year in the Life of an Inner-City
       | Neighborhood by David Simon (and Ed Burns for The Corner) a lot.
       | They are very funny and very sad and really changed how I see the
       | world. So I cheated, two books.
        
       | bo1024 wrote:
       | Nonfiction: "The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable"
       | by Taleb has had the biggest influence on me.
       | 
       | Fiction: I dunno but maybe "Anathem" by Neal Stephenson.
        
         | ataylor284_ wrote:
         | Two of my favorites, too, although I'd go with Anti-Fragile
         | from Taleb.
         | 
         | I think Anathem is Stephenson's best. The Diamond Age is also
         | really good. For every one of his books, I just wish he could
         | write an ending that matches the quality of the rest.
        
         | MPSimmons wrote:
         | Another vote here for Anathem. That was a world I just wanted
         | to curl up in and learn more about.
        
       | agiacalone wrote:
       | One of the previous posts mentioned that it changes for them
       | frequently, and I'm pretty much the same way. But for right now:
       | 
       | Fiction: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
       | 
       | Non-Fiction: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
        
         | Mageek wrote:
         | To be clear, both are fiction, it's just that one is fantasy
         | and the other is set in modern reality.
        
           | llamaimperative wrote:
           | Hmmm I don't believe so? Zen is at least portrayed in its
           | conclusion as a true, autobiographical story (with obviously
           | dollops of philosophical musings).
        
             | latexr wrote:
             | It is a fictionalised autobiography.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zen_and_the_Art_of_Motorcycle
             | _...
        
         | diggan wrote:
         | > The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
         | 
         | Probably one of the few books (the series that is) I could read
         | on repeat and still laugh out loud from.
         | 
         | I agree it's one of the best books out there.
        
       | iancmceachern wrote:
       | "The book of joy" by the Dalai Lama and Desmund Tutu (they were
       | lifelong friends)
        
       | bloopernova wrote:
       | Non-fiction: The Last Stand of the Tin Can Sailors by James
       | Hornfischer. US Navy destroyers, escort carriers and destroyer
       | escorts face off against Japanese cruisers and battleships. The
       | Japanese had many times the firepower of the US, yet incredibly
       | brave US sailors and airmen attacked anyway. Incredible story of
       | courage under terrible conditions and odds.
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Last_Stand_of_the_Tin_Can_...
       | and https://www.amazon.com/Last-Stand-Tin-Sailors-
       | Extraordinary/...
       | 
       | Fiction:
       | 
       | Project Hail Mary is very enjoyable, don't read spoilers and
       | you'll enjoy it even more. https://www.amazon.com/Project-Hail-
       | Mary-Andy-Weir/dp/059313...
       | 
       | The Discworld City Watch series of books, starting with "Guards!
       | Guards!" The characters are hilarious, there's so much humour yet
       | still enough space for meaningful prose. Terry Pratchett was
       | taken from us too soon. https://www.amazon.com/Guards-Discworld-
       | Terry-Pratchett/dp/0...
       | 
       | Edited to add: non-fiction "Most Secret War" by Dr R V Jones.
       | Funny, easily digestible short chapters, wonderful account of the
       | author's work in WW2. _" (the author's) appointment to the
       | Intelligence Section of Britain's Air Ministry in 1939 led to
       | some of the most astonishing scientific and technological
       | breakthroughs of the Second World War."_
       | https://www.amazon.com/Most-Secret-Penguin-World-Collection/...
        
         | loufe wrote:
         | I absolutely second Project Hail Mary. It's been the only sci-
         | fi book in years to have me glued to the pages.
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | 'Project Hail Mary' was a great read. Especially 'Rocky' (no
         | spoilers).
        
       | m3kw9 wrote:
       | To each their own. Mine likely 3 body problems: dark forest book
        
         | booleandilemma wrote:
         | This was my favorite one in the trilogy. I also liked the first
         | one. Third was weakest for me (but still enjoyable).
        
       | aunwick wrote:
       | Breakfast of Champions by Vonnegut. Like others could change any
       | day you ask. Social commentary is probably at the top followed by
       | well researched recent historical works.
        
       | thrill wrote:
       | Dungeon Crawler Carl (series)
       | 
       | Sinusoidal Circuit Analysis
        
         | jjcm wrote:
         | NEWWWWWWW Achievement!
        
           | thrill wrote:
           | I should have picked "The Ultimate Book Of Ultimate Foot Care
           | For Ultimate Results" for my non-fiction choice.
        
       | bravura wrote:
       | Introducing Lacan: A Graphic Guide, by Darian Leader and
       | illustrated by Judy Groves.
       | 
       | Freudian theory really was just a way to psychoanalyze Freud and
       | his complexes.
       | 
       | Lacan jettisoned the weirdly specific Freudian stuff and had a
       | more general template, with a focus on the relationship between
       | language and the subconcious.
        
       | dgs_sgd wrote:
       | The Once and Future King by T.H. White. Fantasy fiction.
        
       | carapace wrote:
       | The best book I've ever read is perhaps "cheating" because it's
       | "The Next Whole Earth Catalog" and, as the name says, it's a
       | catalog of (mostly) books.
       | 
       | (You can see it for yourself in all it's glory here:
       | https://www.wholeearth.info/p/the-next-whole-earth-catalog-f... )
       | 
       | Other than that I'd have to say the Tao Te Ching.
       | 
       | (The best fiction book I've read is almost certainly "The Book of
       | the New Sun" by Gene Wolfe. It's in the league of Tolkien and
       | Dune.)
        
         | Severian wrote:
         | Indeed
        
         | ultimafan wrote:
         | For fiction, came here to say the same about Gene Wolfe, the
         | whole solar cycle series by him might honestly be the (for now
         | at least) absolute pinnacle of both the sci-fi and fantasy
         | genres. Great world design, great characters, great writing
         | (and variety of voice, the way he pulls off different
         | characters writing is just brilliant, it really feels like a
         | series written by several completely different authors.) The
         | kind of books you read and reread and taken something new out
         | of them every time. I'd honestly give just about anything to be
         | able to go back into them completely blind again.
        
       | jebarker wrote:
       | For me, it's The Grapes of Wrath. Simultaneously raised my bar
       | for what I consider good writing and made me much more empathetic
       | to the plight of those at the bottom of the socio-economic ladder
       | through no fault of their own. As relevant today as when it was
       | written.
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | That is such a good books, the ending is a little weird though.
         | I also loved Tortilla Flats, also by John Steinbeck. In the
         | non-fiction genre, Roadside Picnic is also really good.
         | 
         | How you think about or are influenced by books are also
         | dependent on your current mode and situation. I also enjoying
         | and have great memories from reading "The Soul of a new
         | Machine", the stress that I felt from that book reflected my
         | own work situation of at the time, so it some how stuck with me
         | more that I believe it would have done at another point in
         | time.
         | 
         | On the weirder side of things: As I grown older I felt like I
         | lost the feeling of magic during Christmas time. So every year
         | I read a stupid Christmas themed romance novel. The previous
         | two have been "Snowed In for Christmas" and "The Christmas
         | Bookshop". I recommend both.
        
         | WillAdams wrote:
         | It is interesting to note the mentionings of it and the socio-
         | political fallout in the letters which mention it from the end
         | of his _The Acts of King Arthur and His Noble Knights_ (and if
         | someone were to take up using Mallory to write a sequel to
         | that, I would pay good money for it).
        
       | will-burner wrote:
       | Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace
       | 
       | It's kind of cliche for a white male nerd of a certain age, but
       | it has stuck with me. How imaginative the book is, the huge mix
       | of characters and stories in the book, and the style of writing
       | are incredible. The pace of interesting ideas is very fast and
       | engrossing, and the language used to describe things is complex
       | but not overly so.
        
         | njtransit wrote:
         | It's on my to-read list, but starting is daunting. A Supposedly
         | Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again (the essay collection) was
         | amazing. I think about it often.
        
           | sam29681749 wrote:
           | I read this and didn't find it all that interesting, although
           | it was quite funny in parts. I'm curious to know what you
           | found amazing about it?
        
             | RhysU wrote:
             | The idea that entertainment could be all engrossing and
             | some forms of entertainment addictively destructive to our
             | well-being? That we could have cameras in video conferences
             | but would want them effectively off? It was
             | delightfully/scarily prescient in some ways.
        
               | julianeon wrote:
               | Actually I wish people would lead with this more: because
               | it's a book about entertainment and how some forms of
               | entertainment addictively destructive to our well-being,
               | and that's why it's relevant today.
               | 
               | I see a lot about David Foster Wallace and "it meant a
               | lot to me personally at once time" but very little about
               | its objective merits (which are real to be clear).
        
             | will-burner wrote:
             | I feel like there were many instances where something would
             | be described, either a a character's internal feelings or
             | an observation about the world and I would think, "damn
             | that just perfectly put into words something that I've
             | thought or experienced" or I'd be like "wow that's so true
             | and insightful." And I would be thinking this all the time
             | while reading.
             | 
             | On top of that I liked all the drug stuff and the kind of
             | dystopian world created in the book.
        
             | njtransit wrote:
             | There were a number of essays that influenced my world view
             | and a story that left a strong lasting impression.
             | 
             | The essay on why we consume mass media was insightful at
             | the time and particularly prescient given the rise of
             | influencers, streaming, and short form video.
             | 
             | The essay "Tennis Player Michael Joyce's Professional
             | Artistry as a Paradigm of Certain Stuff about Choice,
             | Freedom, Discipline, Joy, Grotesquerie, and Human
             | Completeness" influenced me greatly. It made me realize how
             | much pure artistry and mastery there is in the world. And
             | most of it goes entirely unappreciated.
             | 
             | Incarnations of Burned Children made was an amazing piece
             | of literature in a harrowing and terrifying way. To this
             | day, years later, I experience extreme _l'appel du vide_
             | when carrying hot water around my children.
        
           | RhysU wrote:
           | Read a physical copy. Use two bookmarks, one for the
           | footnotes. Read until the toothbrush photo before thinking
           | about putting it down.
        
             | aporetics wrote:
             | This is good advice.
        
             | will-burner wrote:
             | Yeah, my strategy is to when I start reading move my
             | bookmark from where I am in the book to where I am in the
             | footnotes so that while I'm reading I use the bookmark to
             | quickly find the correct place in the footnotes.
        
             | phoh wrote:
             | i tried that. didnt work for me. im actually reading it now
             | as an ebook. this means i can jump seamlessly back and
             | forth between notes. i dont love this because i am
             | definitely a dead tree type reader, but in this instance
             | the ebook is the only solution. the physical copy sits on
             | my bedside in case.
             | 
             | its a wonderful read but sometimes dfw just seems
             | unecessarily hostile to the reader.
        
           | dempedempe wrote:
           | At least read the first chapter. I've never read anything
           | like it (and I've read a lot). It was an experience more than
           | anything. It became abundantly clear to me that I was reading
           | something could only have been written by a true genius. No
           | other author has a command of the modern English language
           | like DFW did. The way he combines humor, wit, and wordplay
           | was magic. It really showed me the power of writing.
        
       | twoodfin wrote:
       | Taking "best" to mean, "About to be banished to a small, rocky
       | island in the North Atlantic, can pack one book": _Ulysses_ , and
       | it's not particularly close.
       | 
       | The book is fractally intricate and intellectually puzzling in
       | the best sense--something new and special to notice every time
       | you pick it up.
       | 
       | But it also wears like old leather, and I find myself returning
       | to favorite chapters simply to sink indulgently into the
       | characters, dialog, and setting.
       | 
       | Anybody who says no one has actually read _Ulysses_ is
       | unknowingly half-right: You can certainly get to a point where
       | you'll never _finish_ reading it.
        
         | tzs wrote:
         | Good answer. Most people who answer the one X to take when
         | banished pick don't take into account that in their banishment
         | they might not be provided with anything intellectually
         | challenging, and just pick their current favorite X which is
         | often something that 6 months from now will rarely be revisited
         | because they have a new favorite.
         | 
         | They are really usually answering "what one X would you take
         | with you on a vacation?".
         | 
         | A good X for banishment might even be an X that has never been
         | a favorite of yours. For example if I had one musical work and
         | one book I'd seriously consider Wagner's Der Ring des
         | Nibelungen and a German to English dictionary. Neither of those
         | is anywhere near a favorite of mine--I do own a copy of Der
         | Ring des Nibelungen but only occasionally listen and then only
         | to the famous parts, and I don't think I've ever even looked in
         | a German to English dictionary.
         | 
         | That's 15 hours of opera in a language I have close to zero
         | understanding of. But much of the music is quite good, and
         | trying to figure out enough German from the lyrics and the
         | dictionary to follow the story could keep me occupied a long
         | time.
        
         | jjcm wrote:
         | This seems to be a very polarizing book. I for one thought it
         | was among the worst I've read, but know plenty who have said
         | it's one of their favorites. It's certainly not a traditional
         | novel.
        
           | slothtrop wrote:
           | I bounced off of it expecting to enjoy it because I read lots
           | of Pynchon.
        
             | downut wrote:
             | That's interesting. I never had a problem ploughing through
             | Pynchon, and as I mentioned I bounced off Ulysses in my
             | early 20s. I am right now in the last pages of my 1st
             | reread of Gravity's Rainbow. I have to say I prefer Joyce
             | now. And I think I liked my recent read of Against the Day
             | over GR, an unexpected development.
             | 
             | Gotta say though, GR is still awesome. Fearless.
        
               | slothtrop wrote:
               | I rank GR and V highest, with AtD and Mason & Dixon close
               | seconds. I like the layering of themes in GR and the
               | whole fever-dream deliver of it. I will probably revisit
               | Joyce.
        
             | twoodfin wrote:
             | Did you make it past the opening Stephen-centered chapters?
             | I bounced off "Proteus" for years, but as soon as I managed
             | to struggle on to "Calypso" and the mind & habits of Mr.
             | Leopold Bloom I was off to the races.
        
               | slothtrop wrote:
               | It's been long enough that I don't recall. I will have to
               | re-try sometime soon. Currently burning through a few
               | other books.
        
           | LinuxAmbulance wrote:
           | Ulysses feels more like Joyce showing off his command of the
           | written word and extensive vocabulary - of which both are
           | greater than any other writer I've read - than it feels like
           | a novel meant to tell the reader a good story.
           | 
           | In that sense, the novel wasn't particularly entertaining. If
           | he could choose between a well known word for something and a
           | very obscure word for something, it was always the latter.
           | The same goes for sentence structure.
           | 
           | As a way to show off literary skill though, there's nothing
           | else that comes close.
        
             | twoodfin wrote:
             | Here's a choice bit of stream-of-consciousness from the
             | "Lotus Eaters" episode, as Mr. Bloom is contemplating the
             | wares at a tea shop on a balmy June morning:
             | 
             |  _... So warm. His right hand once more more slowly went
             | over again: choice blend, made of the finest Ceylon brands.
             | The far east. Lovely spot it must be: the garden of the
             | world, big lazy leaves to float about on, cactuses, flowery
             | meads, snaky lianas they call them. Wonder is it like that.
             | Those Cinghalese lobbing around in the sun, in dolce far
             | niente. Not doing a hand's turn all day. Sleep six months
             | out of twelve. Too hot to quarrel. Influence of the
             | climate. Lethargy. Flowers of idleness. The air feeds most.
             | Azotes. Hothouse in Botanic gardens. Sensitive plants.
             | Waterlilies. Petals too tired to. Sleeping sickness in the
             | air. Walk on roseleaves. Imagine trying to eat tripe and
             | cowheel. Where was the chap I saw in that picture
             | somewhere? Ah, in the dead sea, floating on his back,
             | reading a book with a parasol open. Couldn't sink if you
             | tried: so thick with salt. Because the weight of the water,
             | no, the weight of the body in the water is equal to the
             | weight of the. Or is it the volume is equal to the weight?
             | It's a law something like that. Vance in High school
             | cracking his fingerjoints, teaching. The college
             | curriculum. Cracking curriculum. What is weight really when
             | you say the weight? Thirtytwo feet per second, per second.
             | Law of falling bodies: per second, per second. They all
             | fall to the ground. The earth. It's the force of gravity of
             | the earth is the weight ..._
             | 
             | The vocabulary is colorful but hardly obscure, the sentence
             | structure is broken but readily comprehensible.
             | 
             | Personally, I find it utterly transporting.
        
         | downut wrote:
         | I was scrolling down the comments thinking, huh, what if I just
         | kind of threw it out there that Ulysses is my favorite book, by
         | far. What would happen? Bunch of young'uns dumping on me?
         | 
         | Well bring it on. It is in fact, not particularly close that
         | Ulysses is my favorite book.
         | 
         | It hadn't occurred to me though to just reread chapters as they
         | appeal, I'm heading out to reread the calvacade one. Then there
         | is that pub with the dog... And the newsrooom... what a great
         | day, thanks!
         | 
         | I started Ulysses when I was in my early twenties, stalled, and
         | then picked it up again and finished it straight off 35 years
         | later. Same copy! Pissed off I didn't push it through way back
         | when.
        
       | vid wrote:
       | Fiction - [Trouble on] Triton by Samuel Delaney. It just has so
       | many relevant big ideas told in a very subdued way via a not very
       | likeable but appropriate character.
        
       | wiihack wrote:
       | _Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and
       | Progress_ by Steven Pinker
        
         | spicyusername wrote:
         | The better angels of our nature is also a good one from Pinker
        
       | JKCalhoun wrote:
       | I've moved enough times to have thinned my book collection down
       | quite a bit. Books that I can't quit, the original "The Boy
       | Mechanic" books, "The Complete Tales of Uncle Remus", "Jingo
       | Django" (I have quite of few of Sid Fleischman's books,
       | actually), a set of "The Book of a Thousands Nights and a Night"
       | (the Arabian Nights) ... to name a few.
        
       | id00 wrote:
       | Fiction: Hyperion by Dan Simmons (especially The Consul's Tale)
       | 
       | Non-Fiction: Peopleware (opened my eyes when I was a young
       | newcomer to the industry)
        
       | unsnap_biceps wrote:
       | House of Leaves
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_of_Leaves
       | 
       | You must use a physical book, it's full of typographical and
       | color changes to impress context different then just the words.
       | Every time I re-read it, I look though a different lens and get
       | something different from it.
        
         | Izkata wrote:
         | You do have to buy the right edition to get the full effect. It
         | was also published without color.
        
       | spicyusername wrote:
       | I was very influenced by Kurt Vonnegut when I was a teenager.
       | Coming of age is a perfect time to learn that the fact that life
       | is absurd doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't laugh, just the
       | opposite. Sirens of Titan and Slaughterhouse Five are some of my
       | favorite books of his.
       | 
       | As an adult, I've been very influenced by the late Daniel Dennett
       | and his naturalist philosophy. Books like From Bacteria to Bach
       | and Back or Darwin's Dangerous Idea.
        
         | edanm wrote:
         | Great choices!
         | 
         | I've read Vonnegut sporadically and decided this year to read
         | through all his books. Sirens of Titan is an old favorite I've
         | read multiple times, but I reread it about two weeks ago, and
         | Slaughterhouse Five a few months ago.
        
         | mcphage wrote:
         | For another take on Vonnegut, my favorite of his were Bluebeard
         | and God Bless You Mr. Rosewater.
        
         | dawnerd wrote:
         | Same, I didn't like reading much at all but Kurt Vonnegut
         | really connected with me.
        
         | mentos wrote:
         | Player Piano has felt more relevant in this new AI age
        
         | tootie wrote:
         | Vonnegut was such a genius. His books mostly light reading.
         | Funny and fully of goofy sci-fi tropes. All building up to
         | revelatory philosophical lessons about human nature. "We are
         | what we pretend to be" hit me like a ton of bricks. Right up
         | there with "We are here on Earth to fart around, and don't let
         | anybody tell you any different."
        
       | 5555624 wrote:
       | The Count of Monte Cristo -- I've read it a few times and I know
       | I'll read it again. While there are a few books I've read more
       | than once, I can't think of any I know I will read again.
        
         | edanm wrote:
         | Wonderful, wonderful book. One of my favorites.
         | 
         | It's old, but the beginning especially is just a non-stop
         | adventure. It always drags a bit for me after the first third,
         | but picks up again and continues to be great throughout.
        
           | v-erne wrote:
           | >> It's old, but the beginning especially is just a non-stop
           | adventure. It always drags a bit for me after the first
           | third, but picks up again and continues to be great
           | throughout.
           | 
           | Yeah, as much as I love Count Monte Christo as a story, being
           | it a movie
           | (https://youtu.be/qesn8pV9yu8?si=ssccZfQGf9F1fCk3), series
           | (https://youtu.be/bF1Z7irZLdY?si=oDF0OnB-1NWVfwZq) or anime (
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gankutsuou:_The_Count_of_Monte.
           | ..), the book gets so slow after first third that I have
           | never actually read it through till the end.
           | 
           | Its a pity that we can have new cuts of movies (Zack Snyders
           | Justice League vs original one) but we will never get George
           | R. R. Martin version of Count of Monte Cristo.
        
             | phtrivier wrote:
             | Tangentially: the 2024 version [1] of the movie has been a
             | huge success in France (quite deserved in my opinion), and
             | is about the open in the US.
             | 
             | The imagery of the movie has a definitive "Batman" vibe -
             | sort of "full circle", even though, apparently CoMC was not
             | _really_ an inspiration for the Dark Knight, as the legend
             | went. [2]
             | 
             | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Count_of_Monte_Cristo
             | _(202...
             | 
             | [2] https://scifi.stackexchange.com/questions/254769/was-
             | batman-...
        
             | arnehormann wrote:
             | Try "Best served cold" by Joe Abercrombie. Followed by The
             | Heroes. And to avoid minor spoilers, read the First Law
             | trilogy first. All good books are great, The heroes is
             | probably the best!
        
         | l_j_w wrote:
         | I occasionally use this service called serial literature that
         | sends an email on the cadence you want for their selection of
         | stories. I chose Count of Monte Cristo twice a week. After the
         | first couple emails I ended up reading then clicking the "send
         | next installment" link multiple times. I finished the book in a
         | week. It was such a great read.
        
         | gadders wrote:
         | I recently read the unabridged version, and really enjoyed it.
         | The pacing is a bit patchy, but has (what we would think)
         | surprisingly modern things mentioned - cannabis, lesbianism.
         | 
         | If anyone wants a recommendation for another good book from
         | around the same date, I recommend Kidnapped by Robert Louis
         | Stevenson. It has it's adventure aspects, but is also just a
         | great tale of male friendship between two different characters.
        
           | perihelions wrote:
           | There's nothing anachronistic about hashish in 19th-century
           | France; it was a widely-known narcotic long before that. If
           | you read Wikipedia's "history" entry, Dumas and Paris are
           | explicitly name-checked (among a lengthy list of writers),
           | 
           | - _" In the 19th century, hashish was embraced in some
           | European literary circles. Most famously, the Club des
           | Hashischins was a Parisian club dedicated to the consumption
           | of hashish and other drugs; its members included writers
           | Theophile Gautier, Dr. Moreau de Tours, Victor Hugo,
           | Alexandre Dumas, Charles Baudelaire and Honore de
           | Balzac.[19]"_
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hashish#History
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Club_des_Hashischins
        
         | jjcm wrote:
         | This is one of my favorites. It's one of the few where the hero
         | manages to become the villain in the end, and does so
         | convincingly.
        
           | gadders wrote:
           | Do you think? He does show some mercy towards some people
           | that have wronged him.
        
           | ComputerGuru wrote:
           | That's certainly one way to interpret it.
        
         | r00fus wrote:
         | Just remembering my first reading thinking: hey they had
         | complex financial instruments back in the 1800s. Also - market
         | manipulation by use of faster comms.
         | 
         | But really a nice story.
        
           | perihelions wrote:
           | - _" Also - market manipulation by use of faster comms."_
           | 
           | Optical telegraphs! They were a recent invention in Dumas'
           | era,
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optical_telegraph
           | 
           | (How did Dumas colorfully describe those things? I think this
           | is the paragraph: _" Yes, a telegraph. I had often seen one
           | placed at the end of a road on a hillock, and in the light of
           | the sun its black arms, bending in every direction, always
           | reminded me of the claws of an immense beetle, and I assure
           | you it was never without emotion that I gazed on it, for I
           | could not help thinking how wonderful it was that these
           | various signs should be made to cleave the air with such
           | precision as to convey to the distance of three hundred
           | leagues the ideas and wishes of a man sitting at a table at
           | one end of the line to another man similarly placed at the
           | opposite extremity, and all this effected by a simple act of
           | volition on the part of the sender of the message. I began to
           | think of genii, sylphs, gnomes, in short, of all the
           | ministers of the occult sciences, until I laughed aloud at
           | the freaks of my own imagination."_)
           | 
           | https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/1184
        
         | WillAdams wrote:
         | To expand on one's enjoyment of this, be sure to look up the
         | historical biography of Dumas pere's father, _The Black Count_.
         | 
         | For even more fun, if one enjoys fantasy, Steven Brust's _The
         | Baron of Magister Valley_ is TCoMC w/ all the names changed and
         | the serial numbers filed off in a fantasy setting (and _The
         | Phoenix Guards_ is _The Three Musketeers_, _Five Hundred Years
         | After_ is _Five Years After_, and _The Viscount of Adrilahnkha_
         | is _The Man in the Iron Mask_).
        
       | sshine wrote:
       | Best book: Snow Crash
       | 
       | Best short stories: Borges
        
         | MailleQuiMaille wrote:
         | Ok, I want to be your friend.
        
       | aorth wrote:
       | A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry.
        
       | 8minsfromsol wrote:
       | Leaves of Grass by Walt Whitman.
       | 
       | If ever I'm struggling with something I pick it up and open to a
       | random leaf and just read until I feel better.
        
       | valval wrote:
       | Growing up 'The Brothers Lionheart'.
       | 
       | As an adult, 'The Idiot'.
        
       | aireo wrote:
       | Several immediately come to mind.
       | 
       | Short stories: The Paper Menagerie and Other Stories (Ken Liu);
       | Stories of Your Life and Others and Exhalation (Ted Chiang); The
       | Martian Chronicles (Ray Bradbury)
       | 
       | Novels: The Monk (Matthew Gregory Lewis); Frankenstein (Mary
       | Shelley)
        
         | bloak wrote:
         | Which edition of Frankenstein would you recommend, 1818 or
         | 1831? (Gutenberg.org has both.)
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | I read Frankenstein a few years back. it is an interesting
         | book, years ahead of his time. But while the monster is quite a
         | sympathetic character (apart fron the odd homicide)
         | Frankenstein is such a _drip_.
        
       | noashavit wrote:
       | Fiction : the history of love Non fiction: start with why
        
       | gmuslera wrote:
       | For fiction it would be Dan Simmons's Hyperion for me, it would
       | be a great short stories anthology, but is far more than that.
       | 
       | Regarding Non-Fiction, my current bet would be Antifragile by
       | Taleb.
        
       | jq-r wrote:
       | Fiction: The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco.
       | 
       | Non-fiction: Pilates Anatomy by Rael Isacowitz - it changed me
       | and changed my body.
        
         | mcphage wrote:
         | Did you ready Eco's Foucault's Pendulum?
        
           | jq-r wrote:
           | I've managed to get about 1/3 in but found it boring and
           | messy. That was years ago so I might give it another shot.
           | Thanks for reminding me about that book.
        
       | MattPalmer1086 wrote:
       | Although I'm not generally into fantasy, I found "The Chronicles
       | of Thomas Covenant" by Stephen Donaldson to be fantastic.
       | 
       | I tried to start it twice and gave up (there are some disturbing
       | elements) but once I got into it I was hooked. Loved that the
       | hero wasnt into being a hero and was deeply flawed.
       | 
       | For non fiction, "Godel, Escher and Bach" is right up there,
       | along with The Selfish Gene.
        
         | BizarroLand wrote:
         | I have bought and read the entire decalogue of the Thomas
         | covenant series. The first 2 trilogies were prime fantasy. The
         | final quadrilogy probably deserves a re-read but it wasn't
         | quite at the same level on the first read for me as the others.
         | 
         | It's the only book that I can remember that has sent me
         | scrambling for a dictionary as the sentences contained words
         | whose meaning could not be discerned by inference.
         | 
         | "The surquedry of the Elohim was their downfall", for instance.
        
           | bloopernova wrote:
           | I've been reading history books lately, and my ebook feature
           | "look up selected word in dictionary or Wikipedia" is such a
           | useful little thing. I wish I'd had something similar in the
           | 80s (the convenience, I know I could get a dictionary)
           | 
           | A built-in pronunciation guide would also have been very
           | appealing to this 80s bookworm.
        
         | WillAdams wrote:
         | Thomas Covenant is only acceptable to readers who will accept a
         | protagonist who rapes an innocent girl quite early in the work.
        
           | MattPalmer1086 wrote:
           | Yes, that is the disturbing element that made me stop reading
           | twice. I pushed past that eventually and came to appreciate
           | the story as a whole. This does not mean I or the characters
           | in the story condone it or forgive it.
           | 
           | Update: his other magnificent sci fi series, "The Gap" also
           | deals with extreme abuse. His works are not comfortable, but
           | they are great stories.
        
       | Miranda94 wrote:
       | The best book I've ever read is Meditations by Marcus Aurelius.
       | It offers timeless insights on self-discipline, perspective, and
       | inner peace, making it a powerful guide for navigating life.
        
         | nataliste wrote:
         | And still succumbing to disastrous nepotism despite all of it.
        
         | extasia wrote:
         | @dang This person is a bot, read other comments of theirs
         | please.
        
       | nataliste wrote:
       | The Consolation of Philosophy by Anicius Manlius Severinus
       | Boethius.
       | 
       | It is a profound synthesis of classical philosophy and personal
       | reflection on the human condition. Boethius, writing in prison
       | while awaiting execution, blends Stoic, Neoplatonic, and
       | Christian ideas to address timeless questions of fate, fortune,
       | happiness, and virtue. It transcends religious dogma and focuses
       | on rational inquiry into how one can find inner peace and
       | intellectual clarity amidst an almost total inversion of fortune.
       | 
       | Unlike Marcus Aurelius, writing at the peak of his power,
       | Boethius wrote his at the bottom, and did so with more skin in
       | the game. Marcus gave us Commodus and the Decline, Boethius gave
       | us Aristotle and the Rebirth.
        
         | ruraljuror wrote:
         | Curious if you have read A Confederacy of Dunces? It is how I
         | learned of Boethius, although I can't say I remember much of
         | either.
        
           | jihadjihad wrote:
           | I'm curious as well, the GP comment immediately made me think
           | of Ignatius, haha.
        
             | gadders wrote:
             | It set my pyloric valve off.
        
               | shaftoe444 wrote:
               | I think it showed the proper reverence for theology and
               | geometry.
        
           | mckn1ght wrote:
           | That is one of my favorite books. Read it in one day,
           | couldn't put it down.
        
         | Dove wrote:
         | Thank you for the recommendation - I'll take a look!
        
         | rpdillon wrote:
         | Thanks for the suggestion, I'm interested!
         | 
         | Found it on Standard Ebooks, in case that helps someone else:
         | 
         | https://standardebooks.org/ebooks/boethius/the-consolation-o...
        
         | aanet wrote:
         | Thanks for this brief endorsement. I'll add it to my list of
         | books to read... Currently, running a rather high tsundoku...
         | 
         | My own fav is also called _Consolation of Philosophy_ but it 's
         | by Alain de Botton, one of my fav contemporary writers. His
         | prose is fine, and the writing's a treat. His book is of course
         | a modern treatment of Boethius. Recommended!
        
         | tosser0001 wrote:
         | 1. There's a fun reference to this book in the movie "24 Hour
         | Party People"
         | 
         | 2. Chaucer's translation is referenced in the OED as the first
         | use of the word "twitter" in the English language
        
       | Daviey wrote:
       | The most impactful book I've come across? "How to Win Friends and
       | Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Yes, it's old, and the title
       | sounds like clickbait from a LinkedIn influencer. Or worse, it
       | reeks of self-help nonsense. But bear with me.
       | 
       | In my early 20s, I noticed a peer who seemed to have cracked the
       | social code. Their ability to navigate complex interpersonal
       | dynamics and sway opinions was remarkably consistent. He always
       | seemed to get what he wanted, and people seemed to love him for
       | it.
       | 
       | Intrigued, I asked about their secret. The initial response?
       | Denial and a hint of offense. Classic information hiding.
       | 
       | An hour later, they circled back with an unexpected
       | recommendation: this book.. But he asked me not to tell people
       | around us that he recommended it.
       | 
       | Carnegie's work is essentially a manual for optimizing human
       | interaction. It's really just written as a set of antidotes from
       | his experience, with some commentary.
       | 
       | Key areas include:                 1. Techniques for effectively
       | dealing with people (social engineering techniques)        2.
       | Methods for building a positive reputation ("making people like
       | you")        3. Strategies for persuasion ("win people to your
       | way of thinking")        4. Leadership approaches that don't
       | trigger resentment
       | 
       | The book's core thesis revolves around understanding human
       | psychology. It emphasizes the importance of showing genuine
       | interest, developing empathy, and refining communication patterns
       | for maximum impact.
       | 
       | While the examples are dated (first published in 1936), many find
       | that the core principles remain surprisingly relevant. The ideas
       | scale across various contexts, from one-on-one interactions to
       | large organizational structures.
       | 
       | Word of caution: Some may view these techniques as manipulative.
       | Using it ethically is important, but really, it just provides
       | some good examples on how not to be an ass.
        
         | Dove wrote:
         | This is one of my favorite books as well. While I read it
         | several years ago, I still ponder and apply its advice on a
         | near daily basis. The section on Lincoln and criticism should
         | be required reading before getting married.
         | 
         | I have been surprised that it has a reputation for being
         | manipulative, and I suspect people are reacting to what they
         | _imagine_ the book says rather than what it _actually_ says. A
         | recurring theme is that manipulative people may use these
         | techniques, but to inferior results - the secret sauce is to
         | actually care about people and want what is best for them. I
         | have found that the ideas it promotes make me more civilized,
         | empathetic, and considerate.
        
       | whartung wrote:
       | Well, I don't reread books. But I've read this one science
       | fiction book five times. That book is "The Long Run" by Daniel
       | Keys Moran.
       | 
       | As for non-fiction I just bring out the classics that taught me
       | Lisp and Lispy things: Simply Scheme, SICP, On Lisp.
        
       | Izkata wrote:
       | I'm not sure I'd call it "best", but it's definitely one of the
       | more interesting ones that I've just never heard of anywhere
       | else. I found it in an antique store like two decades ago: _An
       | Alien Light_
       | 
       | It's mostly from the perspective of primitive humans being
       | studied by aliens while the aliens teach them various topics like
       | math and science. The aliens are studying these lost tribes
       | because out in space they're at war with humans and cannot figure
       | out how the humans are able to fight each other and still be
       | winning the war with the aliens.
        
       | jrs235 wrote:
       | The Principles of Product Development Flow: Second Generation
       | Lean Product Development (Commissioned affiliate link:
       | http://amzn.to/2DK6kVP)
       | 
       | It's technical, mathy, economics, and business all wrapped
       | together.
        
       | Sabinus wrote:
       | Sorry, series instead of books.
       | 
       | Best Sci-fi: The Commonwealth Saga
       | 
       | Best Fantasy: The Wheel of Time
        
       | wannabebarista wrote:
       | A History of Western Philosophy by Bertrand Russell
       | 
       | While this book has its problems, it is a wide-ranging, engaging,
       | and readable history of ideas from antiquity to about the turn of
       | the 20th century. I'm finding it difficult to put any other book
       | ahead of this one.
        
       | kylecazar wrote:
       | 100 Years of Solitude is my favorite. I majored in Spanish
       | literature in college, that was my first exposure to Gabriel
       | Garcia Marquez (I read it in the original Spanish, but I'm told
       | the English translation is faithful and very good).
        
         | EvanKelly wrote:
         | I've struggled through 2 or 3 Marquez books in Spanish (I'm far
         | from fluent), and have read all of them in English. Gregory
         | Rabassa was an excellent translator and ,from my unexpert point
         | of view, captured the essence of Marquez' work.
         | 
         | Translated literature is interesting and I've recently read a
         | few differing views on the "best" translations of Homer.
         | 
         | I've resigned myself that I simply must trust the masses in
         | some places and I won't be learning Russian to read Tolstoy
         | authentically.
        
           | qingcharles wrote:
           | I rant about this too much, but I urge anyone who is thinking
           | of reading a non-English book to check reviews of the
           | translations first. Translations vary wildly and the quality
           | of the translation makes or breaks your enjoyment and
           | understanding of the text.
        
       | lotsoweiners wrote:
       | I would probably have to say The Pillars of the Earth by Ken
       | Follett. I'm a sucker for fat historical fiction books and this
       | one delivered everything I want from that type of book.
        
         | rgun wrote:
         | I was blown away by Pillars of the Earth.
         | 
         | I had never read a historical fiction before it. It is so well
         | crafted, showing different characters and their perspectives,
         | all in the backdrop of medieval England.
        
           | _whiteCaps_ wrote:
           | I just finished the Kingsbridge series last night! Excellent
           | books.
        
         | booleandilemma wrote:
         | I loved this book. I read it as a kid and I didn't understand
         | all of it but it was the first book I encountered of that scale
         | and scope and it showed me what books could be like.
        
         | eppsilon wrote:
         | Great book. Some other historical fiction recommendations:
         | 
         | - The "Welsh Princes" series by Sharon Kay Penman (same era,
         | different perspective)
         | 
         | - Doomsday Book by Connie Willis (Black Death)
         | 
         | - The "Grail Quest" series by Richard Cornwell (Hundred Years
         | War)
         | 
         | - The "Last Kingdom" series, also by Cornwell (Viking invasion,
         | Alfred the Great)
        
           | widowlark wrote:
           | Shogun by James Clavell as well!
        
         | snarf21 wrote:
         | This is an amazing book and I've read it 10+ times despite it
         | being ~1000 pages. I tried a lot of the "sequels" but they just
         | didn't deliver the same way and felt too samey and not a great
         | continuation.
        
         | scrumper wrote:
         | It's certainly rich, and the trilogy is satisfying to read, but
         | I had to stop with his giant epics because he's just so
         | relentlessly cruel to his characters. Every remotely
         | sympathetic female character is going to spend at least a
         | decade being repeatedly raped. Every ordinary man is going to
         | have his family murdered and be enslaved. Yes the stakes might
         | be elevated that way and for sure his chosen time period wasn't
         | exactly kindly to those at the bottom of the social pile, but
         | after a while it just felt gratuitous and more reflective of
         | some pathology in Ken Follet's mind than any desire to tell a
         | good story.
        
       | dave333 wrote:
       | Best novel: Pride and Prejudice Jane Austen
       | 
       | Best Scifi: The World of Null-A A. E. van Vogt
       | 
       | Best Childrens: Swallowdale Arthur Ransome
        
       | brg wrote:
       | Non-fiction: The Age of Wonder, Richard Holmes.
       | 
       | Fiction: The Gods Themselves Asimov.
       | 
       | These are the book I always recommend to friends and colleagues.
       | There are runners up based on taste, such as Zero to One,The
       | Making of the Atomic Bomb, and Anathema.
        
       | bkgh wrote:
       | Don Quixote
        
       | Goldpiggy wrote:
       | Trillion dollar coach
        
       | histories wrote:
       | Impossible to pick one... best I can do is five-ish, all fiction:
       | 
       | The Odyssey; David Copperfield; Moby-Dick; Anna Karenina; Borges'
       | short stories, in particular Ficciones & The Aleph
        
         | bavarianbob wrote:
         | Do you have any comments on how to best absorb Ficciones? I
         | read it recently and struggled through the whole book, needless
         | to say, I don't comprehend why many hold that book on such a
         | high pedestal.
        
       | edanm wrote:
       | Impossible to pick just one.
       | 
       | I'll give a few that haven't appeared yet: Fiction: Harry Potter
       | and the Methods of Rationality (Eliezer Yudkowsky) Non-fiction:
       | Rationality - from AI to Zombies (Eliezer Yudkowsky)
       | 
       | Probably no books have _impacted_ me quite as much as these two,
       | barring early-childhood books that have impacted me from a young
       | age.
       | 
       | Fiction: Worm (by Parahumans)
       | 
       | Best "superhero" fiction ever created. Just one of my favorite
       | books in general.
       | 
       | Fiction: The Mistborn Trilogy - Brandon Sanderson. Best fantasy
       | books ever, IMO.
       | 
       | I can go on for a long time, but I felt like these haven't been
       | mentioned and absolutely deserve a place on this thread.
        
         | Dove wrote:
         | _Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality_ is splendid. Some
         | of the most vigorous writing I 've ever encountered. I agree,
         | it is highly recommended.
        
           | killthebuddha wrote:
           | BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD
           | 
           | Edit: On a more serious note, this book actually changed the
           | way I think in a very concrete (and positive) way. The book
           | spurred me to start consciously reflecting on "what about X,
           | specifically, is surprising" and/or "what about X,
           | specifically, is confusing". It's impossible to quantify, but
           | the habit has definitely, definitely, boosted my ability to
           | disentangle complex situations and make better decisions.
        
             | araes wrote:
             | Skulls for the Throne of Skulls! We march upon the Abyss!
             | 
             | Seriously though. "Codex Chaos" is pretty super sweet, if
             | sweet is skyscraper size demons of the darkness of mankind.
             | Excellent light reading.
        
         | Jcowell wrote:
         | +1 on Worm. I've read it twice and was captivated both times
        
         | opesorry wrote:
         | Worm is outstanding. It's responsible for getting me into
         | reading which has shaped my life since
        
         | NateEag wrote:
         | For those of us who really hated HPMOR and didn't finish it,
         | this review explains the issues in it better than I can:
         | 
         | https://danluu.com/su3su2u1/hpmor/
        
           | empiricus wrote:
           | Well, lets just say this guy does not understand what is
           | happening in the book. "When Hermione DIES Hariezer does
           | nothing, and a few weeks later Voldemort brings her back." -
           | in the book Harry steals Hermione's body from under the nose
           | of all wizards, and keeps it hidden and frozen for a future
           | revival, etc. Also many of the things that "do not make
           | sense" are actually from the canon, and EY is making fun of
           | their absurdity.
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | Well that was an entertaining read. Needless to say I
           | disagree with most of it (and think he's factually wrong on a
           | number of things).
           | 
           | But it's entertainment - totally fine to disagree! :)
        
         | kemko wrote:
         | HPMoR and Worm? Try Mother of Learning.
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | I've heard of it many times but never gotten around to
           | reading it. Apparently an audiobook version exists, so I'll
           | bump it up my list and read it soon.
           | 
           | Thanks!
        
         | eatrocs wrote:
         | crap what was that website that had such crazy ramblings - 2600
         | like technobabble spy hacker games... it wasn't what Shin
         | Megami Tensei was based on... oh well, failed memory shapes
         | reality
        
         | _gabe_ wrote:
         | I'm reading the mistborn books right now. I was up until 2 in
         | the morning finishing the first book in the trilogy the other
         | night. These books are fantastic!
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | I'm pretty much required by law to tell you that his other
           | books are _also_ fantastic, and that if you like Mistborn,
           | you should (after completing the trilogy) try The Stormlight
           | Archive.
           | 
           | Kidding aside, Sanderson is by far my favorite author, and
           | his fantasy books are honestly some of the greatest books
           | I've ever read. And I read a _lot_. I highly recommend
           | finishing the Mistborn trilogy, and then reading some more :)
        
         | dartharva wrote:
         | > Fiction: The Mistborn Trilogy - Brandon Sanderson. Best
         | fantasy books ever, IMO.
         | 
         | I highly recommend listening to the GraphicAudio adaptation of
         | this series. It's what got me into audiobooks.
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | Honestly, I've really disliked these kind of full cast
           | recordings every time I've tried them. No idea why.
           | 
           | I'm a fairly voracious audiobook consumer, though.
        
       | trumbitta2 wrote:
       | Jonathan Livingston Seagull.
       | 
       | It saved my life, two times. First time inspiring me, second time
       | literally.
        
         | rgun wrote:
         | What happened the second time?
        
           | trumbitta2 wrote:
           | I was riding my bike with some friends and one of them
           | launched a challenge. This was 30 years ago and I was 17. We
           | were climbing up a hill. Who was going to reach the old
           | church at the top of the hill first?
           | 
           | Fast forward to me being ahead, miscalculating a turn before
           | the church, and heading full-speed straight for the edge of a
           | cliff. I couldn't brake because I'd lose control. I couldn't
           | jump off the bike because I'd start rolling. I remembered
           | Jonathan and how he learned acrobatic flight. I didn't have
           | wings to barely bend but I slightly, slightly, lightly than a
           | feather, turned the stem, and got out of trouble right at the
           | last inch in the fastest turn ever performed on a bicycle.
        
         | clort wrote:
         | My parents had the soundtrack LP from the film when I was
         | growing up back in the 70s, I loved that (and I still have a
         | CD). The book remains one of the very few I've read more than
         | once.
        
         | ianmcgowan wrote:
         | Illusions by Richard Bach is also mind-blowing, or at least was
         | for me during puberty..
        
       | mobilio wrote:
       | Best book of books - 1984
       | 
       | Fiction - Ender's Game
       | 
       | Horror - Voices from Chernobyl. I'm currently read it. I need a
       | pause on every 2-3 pages to refresh my mind.
       | 
       | Biography - "The Innocent Man: Murder and Injustice in a Small
       | Town". This is only Grisham book that wasn't fiction and based on
       | true event.
        
       | Dove wrote:
       | There can be only one answer to that - the _Bible_. Twenty years
       | ago, I was convinced the content alone justified the claims of a
       | divine origin, which opinion has only grown stronger in the years
       | since. Even if you don 't believe in it, it is worth reading as
       | literature - an extraordinarily epic story, and a lot of stuff to
       | say about humanity and divinity along the way. Everything else,
       | comparatively, seems to me like it was written by children.
       | 
       | But that's a useless answer, as the purpose of such a question is
       | to generate recommendations, and that's unlikely to be a new one
       | to anybody.
       | 
       | One of the books that's impacted me the most in the last few
       | years is Homer's _Illiad_. I used to wonder why we read _The
       | Odyssey_ in high school and never talked about _The Illiad_ , but
       | I don't wonder now! I think all the violence in _Illiad_ would
       | warrant more than a PG-13 rating. ;) But it is a great story
       | about men and gods and struggle and war, with a lot to say about
       | what mankind is and what it can be, and a lot of heroes to want
       | to grow up to be someday. The introduction to my copy includes
       | the quote,  "It is a good thing that war is so terrible,
       | otherwise we would grow to love it too much." That quote will
       | make no sense to most people; if it resonates with you, this book
       | is your kind of book.
       | 
       | I am currently reading through Heidegger's _The Question
       | Concerning Technology_ , as I am looking for wisdom on how to
       | navigate the highly technological time I find myself in. I
       | haven't finished it, but I find the insights profound, and I see
       | the ideas everywhere. I think it may prove to be the best thing
       | I've ever read on the topic of what it means to interact with
       | technology and remain human.
       | 
       | Shakespeare is legendary for a reason. I haven't read one of his
       | plays yet that that I didn't deeply enjoy. They never hit right
       | in high school, but as an adult I find them profound. I giggled
       | my way through _A Comedy of Errors_ recently and it still makes
       | me smile.
       | 
       | A Christian recommendation - I've very much enjoyed Jeremy
       | Taylor's 1650 _Holy Living and Dying_. Probably the best book on
       | Christian life I 've read, and I've read quite a few - and it's a
       | book that rarely makes people's short lists. It's long and I
       | haven't finished it, but as much as I've read so far continues to
       | impact me.
       | 
       | Edit: I almost forgot! I read _The Princess and the Goblin_
       | several years ago. It is a fairy tale intended for children, and
       | is yet one of the best books I have ever read on the subject of
       | _girlhood_ , and I have spent a lifetime searching for them. If
       | you have (or are, or find yourself in an occasion to love) a
       | girl, I can't recommend it highly enough.
        
         | aporetics wrote:
         | Stick with QCT, I've been coming back to that essay for 20
         | years. Given your other recs, you might want to go back to a
         | few of the Dialogues: the Apology, the Laches, maybe the
         | Phaedrus. And if you're serious about the divine origin stuff,
         | after reading the Apology, read the third chapter of Walden.
        
           | Dove wrote:
           | Thank you for that, I will.
        
         | unboxedtype wrote:
         | Glad someone mentioned that. I couldn't say it better.
        
         | qingcharles wrote:
         | I'm atheist-agnostic, but I've read the Bible several times and
         | the Qu'ran twice. I think it is important to have at least a
         | passing knowledge of these books, and TBH, as long as you
         | cherry-pick, there is a lot of good life advice in there.
         | 
         | I'm fascinated by both books for their history and authorship,
         | though. Who wrote them? Why did they write them? How did they
         | write them? What parts of their content is backed by historical
         | record? etc.
        
         | throwaway7772 wrote:
         | Numbers and Leviticus are the worst slog of a book I've come
         | across. Don't think people are very honest with themselves when
         | they read through it and think, yes God made this so beautiful.
        
       | MailleQuiMaille wrote:
       | Depends at what age you'd ask me that.
       | 
       | Harry Potter 4 was the first book I binged when I was a kid. Lord
       | of the Flies was the first book that made me feel weird emotions,
       | and I liked it. Snow crash is the book that made me think "Fuck,
       | how can one write a book like that ?" and therefore started what
       | I hope to be a lifelong hobby. I still think of Flatland from
       | times to times, as I'm jealous and amazed of the brain of its
       | author.
        
         | qingcharles wrote:
         | I sat down once and read all 8[0] Harry Potter books, and while
         | the author is a terrible person, the books are absolutely
         | fantastic IMO.
         | 
         | [0] I'm including the script for Harry Potter and the Cursed
         | Child
        
         | LinuxAmbulance wrote:
         | Snow Crash made me work on being a writer. Just an incredible
         | book, and I am only saddened that he will never again write
         | another book like it.
        
       | tb_technical wrote:
       | "The best book I've ever read was Atlas Shrugged in 8th grade.
       | Changed my life."
       | 
       | Not because I remember anything about it, or believe anything it
       | espouses, or even like it all that much, but because it's a
       | useful filter for obnoxious people in meatspace.
       | 
       | If someone I don't know too well asks me what my favorite book
       | is, I say Atlas Shrugged. If they react inappropriately, I'll be
       | cordial and treat them with respect, but I don't want to be
       | friends. If they're _way_ too supportive - the same rule applies.
       | 
       | If they're critical in a way I can appreciate, then I know they
       | can either tolerate ideas they hate or have the social accumen to
       | not go too hard in the paint early on in a relationahip. Really,
       | I'm just looking for people who won't jump down my throat on a
       | faux pas.
       | 
       | Later on in the relationship I'll tell them my actual favorite
       | book, "A Canticle for Leibowitz", or "Neuromancer", or "The Dying
       | Earth" (my opinion changes based on my mood).
        
         | LZ_Khan wrote:
         | Ooh I love this take.
        
         | cactacea wrote:
         | > "The best book I've ever read was Atlas Shrugged in 8th
         | grade. Changed my life."
         | 
         | "huh, ok"
         | 
         | > Really, I'm just looking for people who won't jump down my
         | throat on a faux pas.
         | 
         | I think you're dismissing the people such as myself that would
         | note you as an idiot without comment and move on wanting
         | nothing to do with you.
         | 
         | Edit: tests and trick questions with people you just met is an
         | ineffective way to navigate the world. My 2c
        
           | bitcoin_anon wrote:
           | You just failed the test.
        
             | cactacea wrote:
             | Good. I don't want anything to do with people that "test"
             | others like this. You cannot do so without making
             | assumptions about intent.
        
               | pc86 wrote:
               | I'm of two minds on this. On one hand, yes you probably
               | don't want to go through life "testing" people in this
               | way as I'm sure there are some unintended consequences of
               | doing so and you probably end up with kind of a boring
               | circle of people around you. On the other hand, I would
               | never want to be friends with someone who thinks someone
               | is an idiot because they liked a particular book. "You
               | liked this thing I don't like and therefore I want
               | nothing to do with you" is extremely childish. So it
               | would seem to have _exactly_ the intended effect in this
               | case.
        
               | EFreethought wrote:
               | I am guessing you have never met someone who actually did
               | like "Atlas Shrugged".
               | 
               | The fact is, some people deserve harsh judgement.
               | Including people who lie to someone and think they are
               | morally superior for doing so.
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | I liked Atlas Shrugged.
        
               | AlotOfReading wrote:
               | Why? What redeeming qualities does it have that make you
               | prefer it to less mediocre books?
        
               | 0xBDB wrote:
               | Not the person you were responding to, but if you ignore
               | the hundred-page speech (which isn't that difficult to
               | do) it's a fairly serviceable pulp sci-fi romance novel.
               | It's far from Shakespeare and far from my favorite thing
               | I've ever read, but it'll do in a pinch.
               | 
               | I don't care for the philosophy/politics, but I've read a
               | lot of good sci-fi that I didn't care for the philosophy
               | behind. I like Starship Troopers, which isn't as fascist
               | as some people think but is certainly right-wing. I like
               | Orson Scott Card, regardless of what I think of his
               | opinions on gay people. I like the Culture novels, which
               | are lowkey anarcho-communist. I like China Mieville, and
               | he's an unsubtle hardcore Marxist.
               | 
               | Those are all much better than Rand, but not totally out
               | of the ballpark (I think the Fountainhead is actually
               | much better written than Atlas Shrugged).
               | 
               | I agree with the original thread comment: people who
               | can't separate literary and political merit are usually
               | pretty tiresome in lots of other ways.
        
               | AlotOfReading wrote:
               | A serviceable pulp novel is in line with my definition of
               | mediocre literature, personally.
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | I don't prefer it to less mediocre books.
        
               | cactacea wrote:
               | Saying it is your favorite book is one thing. Saying it
               | "changed your life" is another and yes, I'd think anyone
               | who's life was changed by that particular book is indeed
               | an idiot. I just don't see myself wanting to continue to
               | engage with that person after a comment like that. Maybe
               | I'm just impatient _shrug_
        
               | mgkimsal wrote:
               | Cactacea Shrugged
               | 
               | Before I made a judgement about someone making that
               | claim, I'd need to know in what way it 'changed their
               | life'.
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | And this is where I usually come clean about the
               | exercise.
        
               | malthaus wrote:
               | a better strategy would be a follow-up question on how it
               | changed their life
               | 
               | i'm with the parent commenter here as i find your
               | response very much telling on how you evaluate things and
               | frankly, more idiotic than someone's life being changed,
               | even by the "intended" interpretation of the book
               | 
               | e.g. would you say that everyone who liked / was
               | influenced by reading "mein kampf" is a nazi?
        
               | aloisdg wrote:
               | yes pretty much or at least a wanna be one.
               | 
               | Who start reading "mein kampf" beside scholar anyway?
        
               | synecdoche wrote:
               | There may be as many reasons to read it as there are
               | people on the planet. People who want to control other
               | people's thoughts give me the chills.
        
               | portaouflop wrote:
               | you can read it - I have read portions of it - but it's
               | still a pretty bad book by a lot of metrics. It's just
               | famous like maos red bible is famous - but both are
               | horrible literature
               | 
               | Edit: so if you read and like it there is something wrong
               | with you
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | I read books that have contrary opinions to mine so I can
               | understand their ideological underpinnings and mistakes.
               | 
               | People who only read things they agree with means they're
               | blind to the problems with it, and fold like wet
               | cardboard when they try to argue it.
        
               | cactacea wrote:
               | Depending on context I could see myself asking a followup
               | question. In this specific instance, no that's enough for
               | me personally. As I can see from the other replies the OP
               | made my assessment was in line with my personal values.
        
               | portaouflop wrote:
               | Mein Kampf is so retarded and boring reading you have to
               | be a nazi / facist fanboy to like it
        
               | jdonaldson wrote:
               | One must imagine Atlas shrugging.
        
             | contagiousflow wrote:
             | If the test is an insincere answer to a question that may
             | tell me a lot about your worldview, then I'm fine failing
             | it. I would rather know genuine people.
        
             | r00fus wrote:
             | If we're doing litmus tests, your handle is almost
             | certainly going to get you ignored by a lot of people.
        
             | znpy wrote:
             | I wanted to post something similar.
             | 
             | It's crazy how many people essentially jumped at their
             | throat with obnoxious comments and even outright ridiculing
             | the poster (see the "checkers/chess" comment as an
             | example).
             | 
             | Quite literally the author explained the whole reasoning
             | and they still "failed the test".
             | 
             | I haven't even read atlas shrugged but I guess at this
             | point I'm curious to read it and possibly adopt a similar
             | strategy: it's clearly working way better than intended.
        
               | travisjungroth wrote:
               | I don't _want_ to pass this test. Someone who uses one of
               | our first interactions to test how tolerant I am of
               | Objectivism removing themselves from my life is an ideal
               | outcome.
        
               | cactacea wrote:
               | Lol yes, so much this
        
               | kbelder wrote:
               | It wasn't a test about Objectivism. It was about
               | ideological intolerance and zealotry in general. Note
               | that you could fail it by whether you're pro or con
               | Objectivism.
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | Don't let me dissuade you, but it's not a very good read.
               | There's a reason I forgot almost all of it.
               | 
               | But if you like her long-winded style, have fun! It's a
               | long one.
        
               | vundercind wrote:
               | If you're gonna do just one, I hear Anthem is the closest
               | to being a decent novel. But I've only personally managed
               | The Fountainhead (oh my god, don't) and part of Atlas
               | Shrugged (after the priming of Fountainhead, I could not
               | get far), plus way too many of the essays and enough of
               | her book on epistemology to know I didn't need to keep
               | reading ("ok so the fiction is terrible as literature and
               | is entirely unconvincing, but maybe the non-fic is
               | better?" I reasoned. Nah.)
        
             | mondobe wrote:
             | And _you_ just lost The Game.
        
           | gadders wrote:
           | I think you are proving his point.
        
             | cactacea wrote:
             | You're free to have your own perspective of course. I would
             | suggest you re-read my post
        
           | ecocentrik wrote:
           | I have to agree. Basing any of your life decisions on quick
           | hacks with bad assumptions seems like a fast way to a
           | mediocre outcome.
        
             | uoaei wrote:
             | Welcome to the techie obsession with heuristics.
        
           | anonymoushn wrote:
           | > Edit: tests and trick questions with people you just met is
           | an ineffective way to navigate the world. My 2c
           | 
           | Then it sounds like you won't ask someone their favorite book
           | and write them off entirely if they say it's a raunchy
           | romance novel about industrialists?
        
             | toast0 wrote:
             | I liked the parts about the railway signaling, and suffered
             | through all the multi-page anti-regulatory rants in the
             | middle of lovemaking. Looking for recommendations for
             | entertaining tales of signal networks. :P
        
               | DurtEetr wrote:
               | Going Postal by Terry Pratchett has my favorite
               | entertaining read about signaling networks.
               | 
               | In addition to the invention of a working mail system,
               | you'll read descriptions of semaphore towers working in a
               | way that is similar to the Telegraph, except with light
               | rather than pulsed waves over wire. It's also hilariously
               | funny and deeply philosophical at times.
               | 
               | I recommend it wholeheartedly.
        
               | toast0 wrote:
               | Thanks! From the blurb, this looks perfect, and I've been
               | meaning to read some Terry Pratchett. I really enjoyed
               | being a substitute postal worker in Yoku's Island
               | Express.
        
               | vizzier wrote:
               | Every book is unique, but they all share his unique
               | philosophy and wit. Highly recommend any of his works.
               | The more you read of discworld the more of a world it
               | will build, but none are so highly coupled that they
               | can't be read independently.
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | Pratchett wrote some amazing books. And if you're into
               | animation (especially older animation), you can find the
               | old discworld animated movies on YouTube.
               | 
               | The first discworld book I read was Thief of Time, and
               | I've been hooked ever since
        
             | cactacea wrote:
             | I love how all the replies are focusing on how this is
             | supposedly their favorite book and not the bit about "it
             | changed my life"
        
           | yogurtboy wrote:
           | Totally agree. While the logic of the comment wasn't bad,
           | that's just a weird maniuplative style of social engineering.
        
             | JohnAaronNelson wrote:
             | Thinking one step ahead instead of two
        
           | booleandilemma wrote:
           | Well done OP, this cactacea guy does not seem like someone
           | you'd want to be friends with :)
        
             | triceratops wrote:
             | cactacea said they would neither jump down OP's throat, nor
             | show an excessive amount of interest. That puts them firmly
             | into friendship material territory for OP. Not sure how
             | it's a helpful test.
        
           | dmitrygr wrote:
           | > I think you're dismissing the people such as myself that
           | would note you as an idiot without comment and move on
           | wanting nothing to do with you.
           | 
           | Not OP. But I would say the filter is working. If you would
           | treat somebody like an idiot for liking a book you don't
           | like, I indeed, would want you filtered out of my circle of
           | friends.
        
             | travisjungroth wrote:
             | It's not just liking a book, as if they named some cliche
             | young adult novel. It's the magnum opus of the author's
             | philosophy as a novel. They're dismissing them for the
             | philosophical views they're celebrating.
             | 
             | It's the other end of the spectrum from disliking someone
             | because their favorite book is The Grapes of Wrath or A
             | Brave New World. I actually agree with the values expressed
             | in those books, and I can also understand someone not
             | wanting to be friends with me because of it.
             | 
             | But at least if you're going to have friends with a
             | different philosophy, seems like a better move to reach
             | across to people who believe in community and collaboration
             | over self-interest and individualism. That's just me,
             | though.
        
               | Y_Y wrote:
               | I can like a book without agreeing with it.
        
               | cactacea wrote:
               | And have it change your life?
        
               | dmitrygr wrote:
               | > And have it change your life?
               | 
               | Yes, a literary work can both be life-changing and not
               | something you agree with.
               | 
               | EG:
               | 
               | I do not at all agree with Marx. Me and others reading
               | his works changed my life irrevocably. Ditto for Hitler.
        
               | travisjungroth wrote:
               | But you do get that if you said "The best book I've ever
               | read was Mein Kampf in 8th grade. Changed my life." then
               | some people _very reasonably_ won 't want to be your
               | friend, right?
        
               | dmitrygr wrote:
               | You had me until "reasonably". I'd rather friends who
               | have read than friends who prefer ignorance.
        
               | Y_Y wrote:
               | Would you befriend someone who said, "The best book I've
               | ever read was Mein Kampf in 8th grade. My life, however,
               | was entirely unaltered thereby."?
        
               | travisjungroth wrote:
               | Absolutely. You could say the ideas are well presented or
               | it provided a contrast that clarified your own thinking.
               | But, if someone asks "What's your favorite book?" and you
               | say "The best book I've ever read was Atlas Shrugged in
               | 8th grade. Changed my life." then... come on. You either
               | like it or are quite the tricky communicator.
               | 
               | "Someone dropped it off a bridge, hit my abusive step-dad
               | and killed him dead. Soft spot for Ayn Ran ever since,
               | beliefs aside." _That 's_ someone I'd want to be friends
               | with.
        
               | Y_Y wrote:
               | Tricky communicators make the best friends.
        
               | hgomersall wrote:
               | On a tangent, did you find brave news world describing a
               | dystopia or a utopia? I find myself convinced of both
               | depending on my mood.
        
               | dmitrygr wrote:
               | Brave new world describes ... approximately the 21st
               | century 1st world countries' upper-middle class. We are
               | living it. TokTok/YouTube is soma.
        
           | dh2022 wrote:
           | OP is playing checkers; the rest of HN is playing chess....
        
             | tb_technical wrote:
             | I'm only smart enough to play checkers. But I'm happy with
             | my lot in life.
        
           | crossroadsguy wrote:
           | I would do the same. But maybe that's the kind, us?, of
           | person OP doesn't want to do anything with at all.
        
           | uoaei wrote:
           | This is the root of why folks did not appreciate those cringy
           | "social experimenter" kids growing up.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | > I think you're dismissing the people such as myself that
           | would note you as an idiot without comment and move on
           | wanting nothing to do with you.
           | 
           | > Edit: tests ... with people you just met is an ineffective
           | way to navigate the world. My 2c
           | 
           | Do you see the irony here?
           | 
           | I wouldn't personally run the kind of test OP is running, but
           | I think that even in your case the test succeeded: they've
           | successfully separated themselves from someone who is
           | inclined take one aspect of who they present themselves as
           | and immediately put them in a box, label them, and dismiss
           | them. They don't have to _know_ that you 're that kind of
           | person for the filter to be effective.
        
             | llamaimperative wrote:
             | How about "tests with an obviously high risk of systematic,
             | invisible false negatives are bad"
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | Is it a false negative if the point of the test is to
               | filter out people who will immediately assume that anyone
               | who likes Atlas Shrugged is someone that they don't want
               | to know better?
               | 
               | It's not a filter I would choose to use, I'm just saying
               | that OP isn't providing a failure case--the filter is
               | still doing its job there.
        
               | jerjerjer wrote:
               | Few books are more indicative of people I'd like to
               | filter out immediately than Atlas Shrugged. It's about as
               | close to saying "screw other people" as possible.
        
               | llamaimperative wrote:
               | Yeah I guess if their filter is literally "will this
               | person stop talking to me if I like Atlas Shrugged" and
               | not actually something like "will this person engage in
               | respectful disagreement with me."
               | 
               | Of course the first test is useless, so I suspect they're
               | trying and failing to produce the second test.
        
             | zanellato19 wrote:
             | I think the filter is quite effective, I wouldn't want to
             | be friends with anyone who has such a strategy!
        
             | cactacea wrote:
             | Dunno, testing people like that is such an incredibly
             | unhealthy and misguided way to talk to people that I have a
             | very hard time thinking I'm missing out here. Maybe that's
             | just me though
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | Yeah, it's likely that the two of you wouldn't get along.
               | I think that's the point, though.
               | 
               | They want to associate with people who would respond with
               | curiosity to a controversial statement, you don't want
               | anything to do with someone who likes Atlas Shrugged and
               | you aren't interested to know more. The filter worked and
               | neither of you waste your time!
        
               | cactacea wrote:
               | I think that is a bit of a misunderstanding of where I'm
               | coming from here. Their assumption is that there is a
               | limited subset of reasons why someone would not engage on
               | this specific topic. I pointed out another that they may
               | not have considered since this _requires_ an assumption
               | of intent that is unwarranted and in my opinion, unwise
               | to make.
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | What they're looking for:
               | 
               | > I know they can either tolerate ideas they hate
               | 
               | Your explanation:
               | 
               | > would note you as an idiot without comment and move on
               | 
               | Maybe I'm also misunderstanding what you're trying to
               | communicate, but it sure sounds to me like your
               | motivations are exactly what they're trying to filter out
               | of their life.
        
               | jerjerjer wrote:
               | There's a difference in reaction I think. Two people can
               | hear "I love Atlas shrugged" from a new acquaintance and
               | one would start arguing that it's a bad book and anyone
               | who likes it is dumb, etc. Another would say OK, but will
               | think that the speaker is dumb.
               | 
               | Basically there's no way to find if someone would
               | "tolerate ideas they hate" or not if they refuse to
               | engage with the idea altogether. The second guy in my
               | example looks like he would tolerate these ideas but he
               | won't.
        
               | andrepd wrote:
               | No! That is not at all what is happening here!
               | 
               | >respond with curiosity to a controversial statement
               | 
               | It's not _about_ being a  "controversial statement" (the
               | implication being anyone who reacts against it is a
               | close-minded woke or something like that). It's about "I
               | read it in 8th grade" + "it changed my life and it's
               | still my favourite book". Honestly swap out for any book
               | and it would be equally cringe to boast about how your
               | thinking has not evolved or matured since you were 12.
               | 
               | > you don't want anything to do with someone who likes
               | Atlas Shrugged
               | 
               | No, I don't like anything to do with someone who boasts
               | about being immature in such a crass manner. For that
               | matter, I also don't like anything to do with people who
               | would intentionally lie and manipulate their interlocutor
               | on their first meeting.
        
             | abeppu wrote:
             | > If they react inappropriately, I'll be cordial and treat
             | them with respect, but I don't want to be friends. If
             | they're way too supportive - the same rule applies.
             | 
             | > Really, I'm just looking for people who won't jump down
             | my throat on a faux pas.
             | 
             | I think when cactacea says "huh, ok", this is neither
             | inappropriate, or "jumping down someone's throat", or being
             | "way too supportive" -- so I think by tb_technical's stated
             | standards, cactacea has "passed" the filter, but is
             | understandably alienated.
        
               | lolinder wrote:
               | Right, but the end goal of the filter isn't just to have
               | a list of passes and fails. The filter exists because OP
               | doesn't want to associate with people who are overly
               | ideological--one way or the other.
               | 
               | If someone silently puts OP in a bucket and never reaches
               | out again, the end goal is still achieved.
        
             | jancsika wrote:
             | There's a second problem here. OP is either unaware or
             | doesn't care that they're being filtered by people who are
             | wary of others who _knowingly and consistently lie_ to
             | strangers as the common case of getting to know one
             | another.
             | 
             | I think most adults have a sensible aversion to that. In
             | fact I'd go so far as saying that this common filter is to
             | social cohesion what determinism is to a programming
             | language. I'm happy to have an escape hatch for novel
             | cases, but there are _very_ good reasons for the common
             | case being common.
             | 
             | Edit: clarification
        
             | andrepd wrote:
             | No, I don't see the irony. GP is making a judgement based
             | on a statement that paints him as a crass individual (to
             | say the least). GGP is making a judgement based on _how
             | people react to his own statement that is actually made-up
             | to sound crass on purpose_.
        
           | heyjamesknight wrote:
           | > I think you're dismissing the people such as myself that
           | would note you as an idiot without comment and move on
           | wanting nothing to do with you.
           | 
           | Sounds to me like you failed the test.
        
             | giraffe_lady wrote:
             | Yeah you gotta go around assuming that anyone might lie to
             | you about their favorite book in order to use your reaction
             | to determine something about your personality. This
             | behavior is normal and good.
        
               | joenot443 wrote:
               | You missed the point, I'm afraid. What's neither normal
               | nor good is writing someone off as an idiot because their
               | taste in books differs from yours.
        
           | vundercind wrote:
           | I am having trouble seeing how this doesn't just, one way or
           | another, filter for people unfamiliar with both the literary
           | and philosophical merits of Atlas Shrugged.
           | 
           | Possibility 1: A too-enthusiastic reaction. Filtered.
           | 
           | Possibility 2: A too-negative reaction. Filtered.
           | 
           | Possibility 3: a neutral-enough reaction to not get filtered,
           | but at least some parts of their opinion just shifted toward
           | the negative and wary. If not filtered, at least now
           | _distant_ for some time.
           | 
           | Possibility 4: a neutral-enough reaction because they have
           | low familiarity with the book. Only pairing that passes
           | unscathed.
           | 
           | I'd recommend saying Twilight instead. It doesn't come with
           | garbage-politics implications (at least, simply liking the
           | book doesn't)
           | 
           | [edit] hm. But then people being enthusiastic fans of it
           | isn't as useful a filter. This is tricky. Having it be
           | something big fans of which are usually unpleasant is a
           | benefit for filtering the other people, but sends false
           | negative signals about yourself.
        
             | kstrauser wrote:
             | I agree. "Atlas Shrugged" isn't "Mein Kampf", but if
             | someone told me MK was their favorite book, I'd back away
             | slowly without stopping to figure whether they were making
             | some clever commentary on open-mindedness and subtlety of
             | thought. Now, if you told me you'd read Atlas Shrugged or
             | Mein Kampf and found a nonzero set of ideas worth thinking
             | through, at least to evaluate whether or why your own
             | personal philosophy was able to determine they were bad
             | ideas, let's have that conversation! But your _favorite_?
             | Uh, I think my wife needed something in another room.
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | Canticle for Leibowitz was pretty good.
         | 
         | Regardless of political opinions, that monologue in the middle
         | of Atlas Shrugged is some quite poor writing. TBH if someone
         | said their Atlas Shrugged was their favorite book, I would
         | assume they were making some sort of political statement, which
         | seems like a bit of an intrusion on what otherwise ought to be
         | a fun chat about books.
         | 
         | I was a teenager when I read her books, and these days mostly
         | disagree with her politics. It was a while ago, but I vaguely
         | remember The Fountainhead being a better read than Atlas
         | Shrugged.
        
           | eej71 wrote:
           | I've re-read The Fountainhead about a dozen times and find a
           | few new gems each time I go through it.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | The idea that the people are not ready for certain
           | technologies strongly resonates with me. Every day I find
           | myself falling further and further out of touch with new
           | technology.
           | 
           | Never read The Fountainhead.
        
           | jjmarr wrote:
           | The best part of the monologue is in-universe, it supposedly
           | takes 3 hours, but everyone on YouTube takes 4-5 hours, which
           | means John Galt was speaking at 1.5x speed.
           | 
           | Honestly Ayn Rand's sexual politics are more interesting than
           | her economic politics. The books are mostly about masculinity
           | and its definition. The ideal men in her books are immutable
           | flawless beings, and the (good) women learn to define
           | themselves by dating progressively better men.
           | 
           | In Atlas Shrugged, Dagny goes from Francisco d'Anconia (no
           | ambition playboy) to Hank Rearden (ambitious steel magnate
           | that's a slave to the state) to John Galt (genius that
           | refuses to compromise on anything). Dagny achieves
           | fulfillment by collecting personality traits from the people
           | she dates--which ultimately leads to her realization she is
           | the one responsible for her own self-actualization (kind of
           | contradictory lol).
           | 
           | The Fountainhead engages with this more, because the
           | conformist Keating is portrayed as more harmful than the
           | physically abusive Roark.
           | 
           | I'm convinced Ayn Rand defined the "sigma male" and she'll
           | get no credit for it as a woman. She engages with the concept
           | much more than the manosphere, because her sigma males end up
           | poor, homeless, and societally unsuccessful because of their
           | inability to compromise.
           | 
           | Contrast the dream sold to young men on social media, which
           | is "not compromising on anything will make you rich and
           | attractive!"
           | 
           | I don't agree with Rand's value system but she accurately
           | describes what happens to people that hate compromise. The
           | only reason why one would be a sigma is if one prioritizes
           | "being right" over every other aspect of one's life.
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | Like I said, it was a million years ago, and I was a
             | teenager so I didn't really engage with the material as
             | deeply as you seem to have. But I vaguely recall Roark
             | being the main viewpoint character in the Fountainhead,
             | while Dagny was in Atlas, right?
             | 
             | I think that is one thing I enjoyed about the Fountainhead,
             | it felt a little more grounded because, even though the
             | main character is this egoist superman guy, we at least are
             | with him as he's having a bad time.
             | 
             | I just remember Gault being this rumor hiding off in the
             | wilderness or whatever, then he shows up with his sci-fi
             | engine, drops pages and pages of dialogue, and... wins? I
             | forget how it ends for him, tbh.
        
           | silenced_trope wrote:
           | That monologue was PAINFUL. My god not just the length of it
           | but what an absolute blowhard to deliver such a self-
           | righteous diatribe. I forgot about that until you mentioned
           | it!
        
         | lordnacho wrote:
         | Have you considered that someone who hears Atlas Shrugged is
         | your favourite book might react similarly?
         | 
         | I'd be polite, but note you down as either an immature thinker
         | or someone who likes to provoke. With a little more prodding,
         | possibly also one of those people who has to be right about
         | everything, and this is their hill.
         | 
         | I guess I'm on passive radar and you are on active.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | I have considered it. I generally don't like people who fly
           | off the handle immediately.
           | 
           | I really like your radar analogy
        
             | FrustratedMonky wrote:
             | I think you are missing point, not everyone is up for an
             | inquisition at every new meeting. Using this method, people
             | that agree with you might just move on, because they don't
             | feel like probing you. You are turning away people that
             | would agree with you just because they don't want to argue
             | with you. You also haven't given any reason for them to
             | even try'.
             | 
             | Or better example:
             | 
             | Person 1: I like Atlas Shrugged (secretly don't but use it
             | as a test when meeting people)
             | 
             | Person 2: Amazing, I also like Atlas Shrugged (secretly
             | don't, but don't want to argue with another Atlas Shrugged
             | fan boy, so just nod head and agree, and just looking how
             | to end conversation and move on).
        
           | znpy wrote:
           | > Have you considered that someone who hears Atlas Shrugged
           | is your favourite book might react similarly?
           | 
           | I'm not the author of the post you're replying to, but that
           | line of reasoning reminds me of an hiring bias that I read a
           | while ago: avoiding a bad hire is more important than getting
           | good hire.
           | 
           | In this context this could mean that the tb_technical really
           | cares about avoiding people with extreme viewpoints, even if
           | that means missing a few people they might get along with.
           | 
           | > I'd be polite, but note you down as either an immature
           | thinker or someone who likes to provoke. With a little more
           | prodding, possibly also one of those people who has to be
           | right about everything, and this is their hill.
           | 
           | Weirdly enough, to me (as a third person) it seems you're
           | proving tb_technical's point anyway: you still have some
           | strong views on the matter, you just would not express them.
           | Still somebody that, according to tb_technical's writing,
           | they wouldn't like to be friends with. The main difference
           | here is that the feeling is reciprocated by you.
           | 
           | The more comments I read, the more tb_technical's idea sounds
           | good.
        
             | AnimalMuppet wrote:
             | > In this context this could mean that the tb_technical
             | really cares about avoiding people with extreme viewpoints,
             | even if that means missing a few people they might get
             | along with.
             | 
             | That's a defensible idea. Making friends with the wrong
             | people can _really_ mess up your life.
             | 
             | And yet, I keep reading about this epidemic of
             | loneliness...
        
             | dogleash wrote:
             | > The more comments I read, the more tb_technical's idea
             | sounds good.
             | 
             | Yeah, they're just doing a bit. A fairly tame bit for that
             | matter. There's an expression "giving someone enough rope
             | to hang themselves" that I think fits here.
             | 
             | Depending on crowd and delivery I might not clock it as a
             | bit. But even someone earnestly answering Atlas Shrugged,
             | they know what they're doing and that deserves at least a
             | few followups. Probably a bit mischievous myself. "Oh,
             | that's cool, because I always wanted to find someone I
             | could ask why the statue is doing squats instead of
             | shrugs?"
        
           | FrustratedMonky wrote:
           | Exactly. I agree with OP. I don't think Atlas Shrugged is the
           | best book around.
           | 
           | But by using a negative to judge the response of the other
           | people, the other people could just as easily be judging him.
           | 
           | Now both parties are looking down on each other. When really
           | they agree.
        
           | analogwzrd wrote:
           | If I met someone who said that _any book_ was their favorite
           | book, and then didn 't remember anything about the book or
           | had any value for the ideas that it advocated for, then I'd
           | have to consider that person a bit of a manipulator.
           | 
           | Being disingenuous is just a bad first and only data point to
           | give someone about yourself.
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | I'm going to note you down as a manipulator and not only keep
           | myself away from you but anyone I care about.
        
         | Vegenoid wrote:
         | I know almost nothing about Atlas Shrugged, besides that it is
         | very political, but this seems a strange and deceptive way to
         | interact with people. I can't imagine it is very good for
         | establishing trust with someone even if they "pass the test". I
         | would think that many level-headed people you seek to select
         | for would not appreciate being tested in this way, but I
         | suppose you are selecting for a very specific kind of person
         | who would find these kinds of social games and tests
         | interesting.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | It is political, but it is also not a good book. Like, it has
           | a gigantic monologue in the middle where one of the main
           | characters just stands there and expounds on the theme of the
           | book, for many pages. It is not well written.
           | 
           | If somebody said they liked... some books by Heinlein or
           | whatever, there's a guy with some Political Opinions. But he
           | can _write_. It is believable, picking a Heinlein book isn't
           | an obvious political test.
        
             | DonaldPShimoda wrote:
             | > for many pages
             | 
             | For those who do not know, this is an understatement. The
             | monologue is some 60 pages long.
        
             | swasheck wrote:
             | my feeling is that it's a "badge" book and by that i mean,
             | you wear it as a badge in order to signal your fluency in
             | pro/anti objectivism conversations. conversations about it
             | remind me of my post-high school experiences with peers
             | while discussing movies. people always chose apocalypse
             | now, the crying game, or the usual suspects as the "best
             | movie in recent memory" and the reasoning was generally
             | because they wanted to appear thoughtful/cerebral, but
             | edgy, but also down with a little popcorn movie violence or
             | other human vice. it was a signal, not a preference.
             | 
             | as such, i found atlas shrugged to be a dull, self-
             | indulgent thought piece that was aesthetically and
             | technically unappealing. however, it is an important work
             | that has influence on philosophies of human politics.
             | 
             | but that's just, like, my opinion, man
        
               | bee_rider wrote:
               | IMO a piece of fiction works better as a "badge" in this
               | sense if it can be defended as a really good work of art
               | in-and-of itself, without the message behind it. Part of
               | the game is that being the one to obviously introduce
               | ideology into the discussion is a bad opening move.
               | 
               | Like what if the other party doesn't take the political
               | bait and starts talking about train sex or whatever?
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | If someone starts talking about train sex, the ensuing
               | conversation is going to be an absolute riot
        
               | swasheck wrote:
               | wholeheartedly agree. i guess the message i was trying to
               | convey is that i see people wearing familiarity with the
               | work of art as a badge, not that i've badged them with
               | it.
               | 
               | anyway, yes, political conversations would be far more
               | productive if they discussed train sex over against rand-
               | based political/economic theory
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | When I was younger "2001" was my favorite movie. As I
               | grew older, "The Wizard of Oz" moved into the front.
               | There's never been another movie remotely like it, before
               | or since. It stands alone.
        
             | sn9 wrote:
             | This is a great example.
             | 
             | Learning someone enjoys Rand's writing/philosophy
             | diminishes them in my eyes, but Heinlein is just good taste
             | in scifi.
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | Consider Upton Sinclair's "The Jungle". A looong, socialist
             | monologue takes up a big chunk of the book. It's the
             | socialist version of "Atlas Shrugged".
        
               | tdeck wrote:
               | The West Wing is this for American liberals.
        
             | tdeck wrote:
             | Honestly I would probably ask OP whether they re-read it as
             | an adult and whether it held up on second reading. I know
             | I've gone back to things I liked in 8th grade that seem
             | very cringe to me today.
        
         | ziddoap wrote:
         | Responding to a genuine question of interest with some sort of
         | test says a lot about you. I guess your filter works both ways,
         | because I would not want to associate with someone who does
         | this.
         | 
         | Edit: Watching my points go up and down on this one has been
         | interesting! I didn't realize people were so divided on whether
         | or not it's okay to lie and test people as some sort of
         | friendship filter.
        
           | rpdillon wrote:
           | It is somewhat odd to ask someone about their favorite book
           | and instead get a lie that's intended to test whether or not
           | you'll be a good friend. It's also completely offtopic for a
           | discussion about folks' favorite books.
        
             | tb_technical wrote:
             | Fair. It's a bit of a bait post.
             | 
             | But the OP _did say_ by any metric of  "best".
             | 
             | And I did post three of my favorites at the end, too!
        
         | grecy wrote:
         | > _The best book I 've ever read was Atlas Shrugged_
         | 
         | I didn't read it until I was well into my 30s, but I very much
         | enjoyed it. Not the best I've ever read, but I have read it a
         | few times now.
         | 
         | I don't agree with a lot of it, and I can't relate to some of
         | the characters personally, I just think it is extremely well
         | written. The characters and their motivations are very well
         | laid out, and we get to go on a journey with them.
        
           | billbrown wrote:
           | Congratulations on your independence. May I recommend her
           | other novel The Fountainhead, which is about the war between
           | individualism and collectivism within a person?
        
             | grecy wrote:
             | I enjoyed that also, but found it much less character
             | driven and I got lost in the weeds somewhere
        
           | chrisfosterelli wrote:
           | I was pretty similar. I heard so much about it that I figured
           | I should read it, but that wasn't until my late 20s. I feel
           | weird telling people I liked it because of how it's used as a
           | categorizer. It's obviously a flawed philosophy and I don't
           | agree with huge chunks of it -- but its a book that just
           | sticks in your head and the ideals it espouses are
           | attractive.
           | 
           | Honestly I think of it as a piece of media similar to
           | superhero movies. The practical reality of superheros
           | implemented literally would likely be a complete catastrophe.
           | But watching fictional superheros do acts of good is
           | inspiring.
        
         | soufron wrote:
         | Man, what an ass way of choosing your friends... I doubt it's
         | optimal.
        
           | d1str0 wrote:
           | I think you just proved his point. This response is clearly
           | quite aggressive and over the top and thus falls in the camp
           | of being unlikely friends vs. someone who takes a more
           | cordial approach.
        
             | jachee wrote:
             | Cordial or not, I certainly wouldn't want to be friends
             | with someone sociopathically "testing" me like that. It's
             | literal anti-social behavior.
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | No one deserves to be friends with anyone, actually -
               | it's something two people decide mutually.
               | 
               | To see it any other way reeks of entitlement.
        
               | tdeck wrote:
               | [delayed]
        
             | AnimalMuppet wrote:
             | I don't view someone giving me a test on first meeting as
             | "cordial" either.
        
           | wsintra2022 wrote:
           | Very amurican I'd say.
        
         | ramesh31 wrote:
         | >Not because I remember anything about it, or believe anything
         | it espouses, or even like it all that much, but because it's a
         | useful filter for obnoxious people in meatspace.
         | 
         | Nietzche fills this role for me. Thinking he was right is a big
         | red flag. But not knowing of him makes your opinions on
         | philosophy meaningless.
        
           | Amezarak wrote:
           | I find a good follow up question is oh? what do you think
           | he's all about? And if they start talking about master/slave
           | morality or the ubermensch, then change the subject and move
           | on,
        
             | qudat wrote:
             | That's interesting because the Genealogy of Morality was
             | his greatest contribution as far as I can tell.
             | 
             | Is there something in particular that feels most egregious
             | about master/slave morality or do you have some reading
             | attempting to reject the ideas?
        
               | Amezarak wrote:
               | You will see very quickly whether or not the person
               | understood Nietzsche to have been writing almost entirely
               | prescriptively or descriptively. The former almost always
               | holds a caricature of Nietzsche's thought as the edgy
               | truth.
               | 
               | GoM is an interesting work on his ideas about the
               | historical evolution of social norms and the
               | psychological motivations behind them in many cases; in
               | either it or TGS he says that a really comprehensive work
               | on the evolution of norms throughout human history and
               | different societies in different conditions would be
               | invaluable, and that his work is only sort of a first
               | step on an enormous undertaking. Unfortunately, we never
               | much took it up. Maybe that's inevitable, since Nietzsche
               | in a rare normative moment says the exception should not
               | become the rule; we don't want a lot of people to not
               | take their norms so seriously they reflexively reject
               | serious consideration of their contingent character. If
               | they do, you don't have much of a society.
               | 
               | It's certainly very hard for people to seriously think
               | about these problems. Plenty of very smart people take
               | thinkers like Rawls seriously, where Nietzsche's work
               | clearly shows it to be without any serious foundation.
               | You could of course still make a claim for moral realism,
               | but it requires the acceptance of ideas the same people
               | are usually allergic to.
               | 
               | But even more than that, Nietzsche is full of really
               | incredible ideas and insights worded in clever ways. TGS
               | is brilliant. When someone talks about these subjects I
               | usually gather they didn't really engage. Those topics
               | are what come up in almost all secondary sources where
               | they are treated superficially or often, like Russell,
               | almost maliciously wrong.
        
         | hluska wrote:
         | So, you will lie about your favourite book to socially engineer
         | people? That would be the end of any friendship even if your
         | favourite books are actually good reads. Why would I want to be
         | friends with someone who will lie to qualify me? I don't put up
         | with that amongst mobile device salespeople and that's a small
         | investment.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | This is fine. People don't have to be friends, you know? And
           | it's ok not to be friends with everyone.
           | 
           | I just know what types of people I like to hang out with -
           | and they're typically people patient enough to put up with my
           | dumb ass.
        
             | hluska wrote:
             | The only thing wrong with this whole thing is that you
             | think it's okay to start relationships with a lie. Thats
             | not okay. It demonstrates a lack of integrity.
             | 
             | Your friends deserve better.
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | Perhaps, but they do seem to like me. Should I warn them?
               | Tell them I'm dangerous?
        
               | EFreethought wrote:
               | > Your friends deserve better.
               | 
               | Maybe they don't.
        
         | el_memorioso wrote:
         | What happens later in the relationship when you reveal you lied
         | about your favorite book as some weird social vetting process?
         | It seems the insincerity would turn a lot of people off.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | Believe it or not its made quite a few people laugh
        
           | Workaccount2 wrote:
           | As someone who also hates extreme non-nuanced views, and
           | seeks people who are thoughtful and emotionally level, I
           | don't think I would be put off at all.
           | 
           | In fact I'd guess that if you really did talk with tb for a
           | while, you would probably pick up that Ayn Rand is not a fit
           | for the beliefs they convey.
        
         | influx wrote:
         | I do the same thing except substitute The Communist Manifesto.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | A really close friend of mine did this to me, actually. With
           | this same exact book. It's how I learned the trick.
        
           | SkyBelow wrote:
           | Now I'm left wondering how well this would work substituting
           | in different books.
           | 
           | Different religious texts? Especially if you pick one that is
           | not part of the primary religion of the area you are located
           | in.
           | 
           | A Modest Proposal? Probably the worst choice. Most won't
           | recognize it and the few who do will assume satire in your
           | response. (Also, essays aren't books, but who is counting.)
           | 
           | A certain book by Nabokov?
           | 
           | What about someone who seriously considers the question, but
           | then says that they've read many books but don't really have
           | one they consider the best? Too much of a non-answer?
        
           | matheusmoreira wrote:
           | I've done that too. My reaction to their responses wasn't
           | exactly neutral either.
        
         | michaelmrose wrote:
         | Wouldn't this only be a functional recommendation if you were
         | planning on being the sole determinant in whether the
         | relationship moved forward because your response could pretty
         | obviously be used as their filter just as easily?
         | 
         | Whenever I hear about that author the only thing I can think of
         | is her adoration of a strong man in the person of a killer who
         | kidnapped a little girl and propped up half her body in a car
         | to ransom her back to her father then pushed the half a corpse
         | into the street and drove off with the money. Then I think
         | about her retiring on welfare.
         | 
         | > "Other people do not exist for him, and he does not see why
         | they should," she wrote, gushing that Hickman had "no regard
         | whatsoever for all that society holds sacred, and with a
         | consciousness all his own. He has the true, innate psychology
         | of a Superman. He can never realize and feel 'other people.'"
         | 
         | https://www.alternet.org/2015/01/how-ayn-rand-became-big-adm...
         | 
         | It's not a fair comparison but when someone says their favorite
         | author is Rand I have a similar response as if they had said
         | "Hitler". I can tolerate ideas I hate but see little profit in
         | trafficking too much with sociopaths. Perhaps you don't either
         | else why do you avoid those who are "way too supportive"
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | > Wouldn't this only be a functional recommendation if you
           | were planning on being the sole determinant in whether the
           | relationship moved forward because your response could pretty
           | obviously be used as their filter just as easily?
           | 
           | This is a really good point, actually, but I _am_ counting on
           | this. What I 'm trying to select in strangers is patience
           | (also humor). If someone gives me shade in a silly enough
           | way, everything is permitted.
           | 
           | Also, a nitpick, being friends with someone _is_ solely up to
           | you. If either you or someone else don 't like each other, a
           | relationship effectively cannot happen (although, there are
           | exceptions, first impressions can be overcome).
           | 
           | So rather than even trying to predict what someone else is
           | thinking, I just don't try (and pretend it's not a factor). I
           | go with my gut, and most of the time it works out great for
           | me.
           | 
           | I'll add some context though, most of the time I do this in
           | dingy dive bars and small town pubs. People aren't typically
           | very cerebral there, so it works.
        
         | kouru225 wrote:
         | My response would be to slowly distance myself from you without
         | you noticing.
         | 
         | And if I'm drunk I'll laugh at you.
        
         | kwar13 wrote:
         | Deep thought. For 8th graders I suppose.
        
         | freetanga wrote:
         | My strategy is that if they reply "Atlas Shrugged", I reply
         | "Really? Nice to meet you! By chance my name is Atlas!", then
         | shrug and walk away.
         | 
         | Let's meet soon
        
         | dsizzle wrote:
         | Can you summarize what kind of responses you get? I'd like to
         | believe I'd quickly figure out this too-on-the-nose response
         | wasn't serious and it'd lead to a laugh and more interesting
         | discussion
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | Yeah that's normally how it goes, actually.
        
         | drzephyr wrote:
         | 15 years ago I had a colleague who was obsessed with Ayn Rand.
         | I didn't know anything about Ayn Rand and her philosophies. I
         | was/am good friends with that person.
         | 
         | Fast-forward a decade and I know who Ayn Rand is and her
         | philosophies. I know generally what type of people adhere to
         | her philosophies and they are the opposite of who I would
         | normally associate myself with.
         | 
         | My opinion of my friend has not changed now that I am more
         | familiar with Ayn Rand. It provides additional background for
         | some of the values that my friend has, but does not change who
         | that person is or my ability to be friends with them.
         | 
         | I think that a lot of times it is easy to distance yourself
         | from someone who has opposite beliefs from you, but at the end
         | of the day, I don't think that is the only criteria in
         | determining if someone is worth associating with.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | I completely agree with you, and I have similar sentiments
           | with my friends who hold different views.
        
         | micromacrofoot wrote:
         | > If they're critical in a way I can appreciate
         | 
         | What about people who are critical in a way you'll never know?
         | Personally I might check off a "don't ask for book
         | recommendations" box in my head and never mention it to you
         | again
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | I write off not knowing things I'll never know. Not worth the
           | time worrying about it.
        
         | luddit3 wrote:
         | Starting out a relationship by lying seems like a horrible
         | idea.
        
         | jrflowers wrote:
         | "I lie to people's faces to conduct a test around a mundane
         | question in order to safeguard myself from the 'meatspace'
         | ruffians that don't like Ayn Rand" is a hilarious strategy.
         | 
         | As an aside, it kind of seems like Atlas Shrugged _actually is_
         | your favorite book. You don't appear to care what others think
         | about Neuromancer or The Dying Earth but you literally require
         | a specific and narrow set of feelings about Objectivism to pass
         | The Test. (And obviously, it is the _feelings_ that you
         | mandate, _not_ the lack of social graces, as you have noted
         | that you don't mind if others politely stop talking to you even
         | after passing The Test. They do not _feel_ positively enough
         | toward Ayn Rand and as such are not worthy of your time)
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | I don't like Atlas Shrugged and you can't convince me
           | otherwise. The most interesting paragraphs in that book were
           | rants about cigarette brands, and even that was a total bore.
           | 
           | Neuromancer is enjoyable, but mostly because I enjoyed
           | cyberpunk inspired media before reading it. Seeing all the
           | influences Neuromancer had on books, movies, anime/manga, and
           | even half life mods was a real treat. That and I empathized
           | with Case - in my youth I was addicted to amphetamines, and
           | it was a really nasty habit to kick.
           | 
           | As for Dying Earth, although the first wizards story is a
           | little bit of a slow burn, seeing the elf sisters come back
           | for their own pieces in the anthology was a real treat.
           | Seeing the disturbed one overcome her sickness and find love
           | was a fun triumphant end for her character arc. I'm also a
           | DnD player, so seeing the early inspiration for the spell
           | slots mechanic was a really cool experience for me.
           | 
           | But, really, what _really_ annoys me about what people _like
           | you_ do is interrogate people for purity. I lost too much
           | time in my youth trying to keep people, who I thought were my
           | friends, like you happy.
           | 
           | That sort of stress isn't worth it. People who act this way
           | are not a positive influence on my life, and I just don't
           | have the time for it. And it's perfectly acceptable not to
           | want to be friends with people who accuse other people of
           | being too chuddy.
           | 
           | It's just gross, man
        
             | jrflowers wrote:
             | >I don't like Atlas Shrugged and you can't convince me
             | otherwise.
             | 
             | > I lost too much time in my youth trying to keep people,
             | who I thought were my friends, like you happy.
             | 
             | This is pretty much a summary of John Galt's long speech.
             | 
             | Also,
             | 
             | https://fablesofaesop.com/the-fox-and-the-grapes.html
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | I'm not surprised that in over 1000 pages, a parallel can
               | be drawn by a statement, from a character from the work
               | in question, and a sentiment I hold.
               | 
               | Stopped clocks and all that.
        
               | jrflowers wrote:
               | > Stopped clocks and all that.
               | 
               | It's the fundamental point of the entire story. Like it
               | is literally the thesis of the 1000 page book.
               | 
               | Guy figures out that there are two tiers of people, good
               | or smart or whatever (John Galt, you) and less good or
               | smart or whatever (me, your childhood friends (???)), and
               | the way to address this is for the Smart Goods to protect
               | themselves from the Dumb Bads through their wily tricks.
               | It is the plot to every ayn rand book
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | Yeah as I've said before - don't remember much of the
               | book. But freedom of association isn't exactly a concept
               | the rand lovers have a monopoly over.
        
         | FrustratedMonky wrote:
         | "but because it's a useful filter for obnoxious people in
         | meatspace"
         | 
         | It is surprising that a book can become such a barometer. I
         | liked the book originally, it isn't a bad introduction to some
         | ideas. But even when I was young was able to poke holes in it.
         | 
         | But then many years later, it has become something like a
         | 'flag' or 'rally cry' for certain segments of populating that
         | either haven't read it at all, or have horribly miss-
         | interpreted it, or most likely only idealized it by reading the
         | first half.
        
         | 015a wrote:
         | Are you Scott Alexander?
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/slatestarcodex/comments/12yn28h/com...
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | No, and I don't know who he is either.
        
             | analogwzrd wrote:
             | Is this some kind of test?
        
               | tb_technical wrote:
               | No I have no idea what any of this is about
        
             | 015a wrote:
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slate_Star_Codex
             | 
             | Its at least a bit interesting that this idea that "Ayn
             | Rand exists as a roundabout litmus test for assholes" is
             | quite weird, one I've never heard before, except from him.
             | To arrive independently at the _exact_ same, weird
             | conclusion, there must be something to it.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | So let me get this straight, you present yourself as a
         | caricature of an obnoxious pseudo-intellectual, then "filter
         | out" people who react against that? What a bizarre way to
         | interact with people. Not only is it dishonest, you're also...
         | making yourself look unappealing on purpose. I fail to see how
         | this benefits you.
         | 
         | I tolerate different ideas just fine, but anyone over the age
         | of 20 who tells me "The best book I've ever read was Atlas
         | Shrugged in 8th grade. Changed my life." will immediately
         | strike me as a person I probably have little interest in being
         | friends with.
        
           | jrflowers wrote:
           | > you're also... making yourself look unappealing on purpose.
           | I fail to see how this benefits you.
           | 
           | My more-depressing interpretation of this is the value comes
           | as an explanation for being written off by others. Rather
           | than being a way to filter others out, a person with multiple
           | socially off-putting habits or a generally disagreeable
           | demeanor can do This One Weird Trick to then point at their
           | cleverness as the reason why they are standing in a room fun
           | of people that don't want to talk to them.
           | 
           | There is no need for self-reflection if everyone else is
           | simply too gauche to understand how actually pro-social your
           | nakedly anti-social ruse is.
        
         | lpapez wrote:
         | So your approach to a social situation with a new acquaintance
         | is to give a dishonest answer to test whether they are willing
         | to put up with your obnoxiousness in the future?
         | 
         | I'm sorry but if someone disregards you at that stage I
         | wouldn't say that they lack "social accumen to not go too hard
         | in the paint early" as you say, rather that they have
         | sufficient experience with difficult people and just chose to
         | willingly ignore you for their own good.
         | 
         | Even admitting to doing this is already off-putting to me.
        
         | aanet wrote:
         | > _Not because I remember anything about it, or believe
         | anything it espouses, or even like it all that much, but
         | because it's a useful filter for obnoxious people in
         | meatspace._
         | 
         | This made me chuckle wryly... :)
         | 
         | In a previous life, I might have been on who got along very
         | well -- at least intellectually -- with those who loved Atlas
         | Shrugged and swore by it as the bible of their lives. Now, with
         | some age and wisdom, it's the exact opposite.
         | 
         | I myself wouldn't use a book as a filter for all things in
         | social life... (for it generates way too many false positives),
         | but I sheepishly admit to doing the same every now and then...
         | 
         | Different strokes, different folks. -\\_(tsu)_/-
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | I'm glad you had a laugh. That's what I was going for - and
           | normally how the interaction in question plays out.
        
         | qudat wrote:
         | I think your technique is working because a lot of people got
         | triggered by your friend test.
         | 
         | I kind of love it.
        
         | nyeah wrote:
         | But the best books _are_ "A Canticle for Leibowitz",
         | "Neuromancer", and "The Dying Earth".
        
         | oarla wrote:
         | How much one likes Atlas Shrugged may depend on age as well.
         | When I read it at age of 20, it was the best book I had ever
         | read and almost a Bible for me. At 25, it had some great points
         | that were worth adopting. At 30, it was mostly a fantasy, but
         | entertaining. At 38, it is just not worth the time.
        
         | dyauspitr wrote:
         | So you're using a book as a political filtering mechanism. I
         | don't see how that particular book has any relevance to this
         | discussion then. You might as well just switch it out with "The
         | Turner Diaries" or something similar.
        
           | tb_technical wrote:
           | Pretty much, yeah. Any controversial political book will do.
        
         | justin66 wrote:
         | > "The best book I've ever read was Atlas Shrugged in 8th
         | grade. Changed my life."
         | 
         | The obvious followup question is _how did it change your life?_
         | Under this gambit of yours I wonder how you 'd respond?
         | 
         | I'm not interested in Ayn Rand or her bizarre fanboys but I
         | think if someone said that to me I'd honestly be curious
         | enough, not out of empathy but out of anthropological interest,
         | to ask the question
        
         | bradleyy wrote:
         | I just have to say, "A Canticle for Leibowitz" shook me for a
         | really, really long time afterwards. I'm not saying it's a bad
         | book, it's quite thought provoking, but I took about 99 points
         | of psychic damage from it.
        
           | makeworld wrote:
           | Why is that?
        
             | tb_technical wrote:
             | It's difficult to describe without spoiling the book. The
             | only way I can describe it without spoiling the three arcs
             | is to say it has a very bleak outlook on human nature
        
               | GeorgeTirebiter wrote:
               | I was instructed as an 11- or 12-year old to read aCfL. I
               | thought it was clever the way the Middle Ages intersected
               | with post nuclear war Earth as the setting. Questions
               | about what is important, venerated, and why. What
               | 'knowing' means.
               | 
               | As to the bleak outlook, I don't remember enough (it was
               | a long time ago), but a few years ago looked it up on
               | Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Canticle_for_Le
               | ibowitz?usesk... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walter_M._
               | Miller_Jr.?useskin=v... I learned that Arthur Miller Jr
               | suffered from depression and chose to end his life with a
               | firearm in 1996, age 72. I am always somewhat 'on guard'
               | when I read works from people who were suffering with an
               | illness like that, wondering how much of the story is
               | infused with unnecessarily dour material when another,
               | perhaps more upbeat approach, would have served the story
               | as well. I guess I do not want to be dragged into
               | depression by being overly bummed out by Fiction.
        
         | type0 wrote:
         | so do you proceed talking about "first impression" and
         | relationship of individualism vs collectivism?
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=First_impression_...
         | 
         | -\\_(tsu)_/-
        
       | jcbhmr wrote:
       | Star Wars: Revenge of the Sith by Matthew Stover
        
       | costco wrote:
       | Probably The Singapore Story by Lee Kuan Yew or Titan by Ron
       | Chernow. To me great biographies are more addicting than great
       | TV.
        
       | FigurativeVoid wrote:
       | I just read "When We Cease to Understand the World," and it lives
       | up to the hype.
        
       | sprkwd wrote:
       | Masquerade, by Kit Williams.
       | 
       | He hid a rabbit made of gold and jewels somewhere in the UK and
       | then wrote a book filled with clues and pictures on how to find
       | it.
        
       | runjake wrote:
       | It changes all of the time, but one is Illusions: The Adventures
       | of a Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach. Completely re-shaped my
       | perceptions of reality.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusions_(Bach_novel)
       | 
       | While I only made it halfway through, Atlas Shrugged had a big
       | impact on me and my liberal, southern California upbringing,
       | where I was under the assumption that certain things (food,
       | healthcare, money, etc) were due to me by nature. I try to avoid
       | preaching to others, but it considerably increased my self-
       | resilience.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atlas_Shrugged
        
         | DonaldPShimoda wrote:
         | I am also a fan of Illusions. :)
        
           | runjake wrote:
           | _created: January 27, 2017_
           | 
           | Very nice!
           | 
           | I feel like there could be a secret society around Illusions
           | references.
           | 
           | (You'll understand if you read the book.)
        
       | EverForever wrote:
       | Self-Reliance by Ralph Waldo Emerson
        
         | aporetics wrote:
         | Now read "Experience" by RWE and your answer will change.
        
       | mekpro wrote:
       | Zero to One
        
       | gadders wrote:
       | I think you can only answer this at a point in time - the book
       | you loved at 20 may not carry the same weight at 50.
       | 
       | For now, though, I really enjoyed Plutarch's Parallel Lives. He
       | compares the life of an ancient Greek and Roman - EG Alexander vs
       | Caesar.
        
       | redleggedfrog wrote:
       | Stanislaw Lem's "Solaris." Really got me into a lifetime of
       | thinking about what comprises life and our relationship, as
       | humans, to other life forms. Has informed my personal philosophy
       | ever since.
        
       | drhodes wrote:
       | The Planiverse
        
       | creature_x wrote:
       | Steppenwolf By Herman Hesse. It's remarkable how a fictional
       | character written by someone a century ago can resonate so deeply
       | with a modern person. But then again, that's a common thread
       | amongst great literature. I recommend this book to anyone
       | struggling with loneliness or feeling like they haven't found
       | their footing in this world.
       | 
       | "Learn what is to be taken seriously and laugh at everything
       | else."
        
         | flenserboy wrote:
         | Give his _Glass Bead Game_ a try; it is dense, delightful,  &
         | its content would appeal much to the denizens of this site.
        
           | Triphibian wrote:
           | Narcissus and Goldmund is great. It feels like he's re-
           | approaching themes from Siddhartha, but that notion of paths
           | taken is worth exploring again and again.
        
             | creature_x wrote:
             | Agreed! There is definitely overlap between the three books
             | but my recollection of Siddhartha and N&G is that Hesse
             | dwelled more into how hedonic pleasure corrodes the soul.
             | On a side note, you'll get along well with Doestevesky's
             | Brothers Karamazov if you found N&G affecting.
        
           | WillAdams wrote:
           | Not sure how I feel about the on-going vanishing of efforts
           | to create The Glass Bead Game as a computer
           | interface/programming methodology.
           | 
           | I want it to be something workable which helps folks in their
           | use of computers, but the more I work with node programming
           | interfaces and so forth, the more I worry that the fact that
           | there is no universally agreed-upon answer to the question:
           | 
           | >What does an algorithm look like?
           | 
           | and that such systems are strongly-bounded complexity-wise by
           | screen size, that they simply aren't workable beyond
           | small/toy problems and educational usage, i.e., Blockly.
        
           | creature_x wrote:
           | I actually started with The Glass Bead Game, but I found it
           | too dense. Perhaps I'll give it another try!
        
         | eatrocs wrote:
         | As much as I love Hesse - Plato's Republic allows me to channel
         | the ghost of Socrates whenever I'm in need of company.
         | 
         | Back on topic - I would recommend all of Hesse's books.
         | Glassbead is my personal favorite, but I wouldn't start with
         | that.
        
         | low_tech_love wrote:
         | +1 for this one, it's such a delightful experience to read.
        
         | pks016 wrote:
         | My favorite is Siddhartha.
        
       | slothtrop wrote:
       | Baudolino by Umberto Eco. I like all his works, but this one is
       | the most moving and epic. I still think of it.
        
       | illwrks wrote:
       | Not the best book, but the maddest was IQ84 by Haruki Murakami.
       | It's a wild story and lead me down a path to read several of his
       | other books.
        
         | cbracken wrote:
         | If you enjoyed 1Q84, and haven't yet read the Wind-up Bird
         | Chronicle, there's a little bit of a connection you might
         | enjoy.
         | 
         | The first Murakami book I read was Hard-boiled Wonderland and
         | the End of the World, and it's still one of my favourites, with
         | a new translation by Jay Rubin coming out later this year. The
         | book of his that's always spoken to me the most is South of the
         | Border, West of the Sun.
         | 
         | If you're ever in Tokyo, consider visiting the Murakami library
         | at Waseda University. It's got a small cafe downstairs,
         | sometimes with live music performances, and lots of nooks and
         | corners for sitting and relaxing with a book. There are copies
         | of all of his books, and tons of translated copies in many
         | languages.
        
       | rurp wrote:
       | Cloud Atlas would be my choice for fiction. The novel covers an
       | incredible range of interesting ideas and great writing.
       | 
       | Antifragile for nonfiction. It really changed the way I think
       | about how both the natural world and human institutions function.
        
         | delecti wrote:
         | I truly loved Cloud Atlas. It's also a rare example where the
         | book and movie adaptation both lift each other up (though I saw
         | the movie first, and can't know if I would have felt that way
         | in the other direction). I felt like the movie is better at
         | emphasizing the thematic connection between each story, while
         | the book is better at showing the impact of each story on the
         | next, and showing that each story exists for the characters in
         | the next. I loved the movie even more after reading the book.
        
           | pazimzadeh wrote:
           | It was hilarious, and I learned a lot of new words.
           | 
           | That said, the first/last story was a bit of a grind because
           | of the language style.
           | 
           | I didn't think the movie captured it at all. The trailer is
           | great though, and got me to read the book.
        
       | calvinmorrison wrote:
       | Deadhouse Gates
        
       | greenie_beans wrote:
       | as i lay dying by william faulkner
        
       | jimbob45 wrote:
       | I've been immensely enjoying Harry Potter and the Methods of
       | Rationality. It's free, fun, and I don't find myself having to
       | skip unnecessary paragraphs ever.
       | 
       | https://hpmor.com/
        
       | asimovfan wrote:
       | The Letters of Chan Master Dahui Pujue - Dahui Zonggao
       | (1089-1163)
        
       | Tainnor wrote:
       | I'd question that it's the "best" if you read it as an adult
       | (though it's probably still good), but I feel like _Sophie 's
       | World_ by Jostein Gaarder (which I read as a child / young teen)
       | has influenced me and my outlook on the world more than maybe any
       | other book I've ever read since.
        
       | ljhsiung wrote:
       | _East of Eden_ by Steinbeck really changed my college mindset on
       | what it means to be  "good" and "evil", "right" and "wrong".
       | 
       | It's really hard to describe what the book's about. It's an epic,
       | through and through, and all epics are hard to detail precisely.
       | Inter-generational trauma? Handling one's "sin"? Making a
       | livelihood after repeated failure, be it yourself or external
       | factors?
       | 
       | Contrary to my first sentence, there is one character that I
       | would describe as pure evil. But I feel that just supports one of
       | the conflicts; however incredibly rare, what can an individual do
       | when they come across a bonafide force of evil?
       | 
       | It is dripping with Biblical imagery, and Steinbeck's prose is
       | rambling and tangential for some (though poetic for me), and his
       | characters are not "realistic" and larger than life (but that's
       | what makes them pop off the page for me and so memorable. I guess
       | it's always a balance).
       | 
       | "Now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good."
        
       | Insanity wrote:
       | It changes all the time. For fiction, I would say "Augustus" or
       | "Stoner" (by Williams).
        
       | t-writescode wrote:
       | I've got 3 different non-fiction books for me:
       | 
       | Thinking Fast and Slow. This book discusses how we think and at
       | what level and where some of the shortcuts we use when thinking
       | occur and what impact they have on us. It really was one of the
       | best books I've ever read; and like many books on that subject,
       | you don't have to read the whole thing to get a lot out of it.
       | 
       | The Dictator's Handbook. This is the book that spawned the video
       | essay series by CGP Gray: Rules of Rulers (
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rStL7niR7gs ). It has been a
       | strong recommend for me on how and why the political world is the
       | way it is.
       | 
       | Brain Lock: This is a book about OCD and it discusses a method of
       | helping manage the symptoms and manifestations of OCD that
       | creates a measurable and material change on the brain itself.
       | Like self-help books, it does repeat itself quite a bit over the
       | second half of the book. If you struggle with OCD, I do recommend
       | it.
        
       | ta1243 wrote:
       | I remember reading "One Day", quite a long way through the book.
       | I was sat in economy on an Emirates flight back from Islamabad,
       | it was 4th November 2010, and it hit my like a truck when I got
       | to _that_ bit.
       | 
       | Might not be a "good book", but it was certainly memorable.
        
       | Maro wrote:
       | As a teenager I read 'Catch 22' over and over.
       | 
       | I read Feynman's 'Surely You're Joking', and that led to me
       | becoming a physicist.
       | 
       | For software engineering, all the essays in Fred Brooks'
       | 'Mythical Man Month' were formative.
       | 
       | Rand's 'Fountainhead' and 'Atlas Shrugged' were also thought-
       | provoking.
       | 
       | For investing, reading Warren Buffet's 'Letters to Investors'
       | shaped what I believe works.
       | 
       | The best business book I've read is 'Invent and Wander' and
       | 'Working Backwards' about Amazon culture.
        
       | MisterBastahrd wrote:
       | As far as enjoying it at the time I was reading it?
       | 
       | The Once and Future King.
       | 
       | I was on summer vacation while camping and fishing and I read the
       | entire book in a couple of days in the evenings. Maybe it was the
       | lack of distraction, but the Arthurian legend of that book has
       | influenced a ton of modern fiction.
        
       | DanielBMarkham wrote:
       | Anna Karenina. Nothing mind-blowing. I didn't see a light in the
       | sky.
       | 
       | I read a lot, fiction and non-fiction. When I read Tolstoy, I
       | remember thinking "What sort of dark magic is this?" He drew
       | characters in a way I haven't seen since. I _knew_ these people.
       | 
       | I remember this book, decades later. I remember a lot of what
       | I've read, but Tolstoy was the man. I have no idea how or why his
       | magic worked.
        
         | fhchl wrote:
         | Anna Karenina is a masterpiece of a novel. I highly recommend
         | it as well.
         | 
         | I often jokingly mention that this is the first book that ever
         | made me want to get married. While many now that the novel
         | describes the tragic life and relationships of Anna, only those
         | that read it will now that here is another, as important and
         | positive story, about the love between Kitty and Levin.
        
           | throwaway2203 wrote:
           | That novel helped me understand love.
        
         | JacobiX wrote:
         | I second this... to this day, I am in awe! Such a profound and
         | readable book in the same time. Each character lives within me,
         | and in many situations, one of them emerges :)
         | 
         | As Nabokov said, it is the supreme masterpiece of 19th-century
         | prose.
        
         | kukkeliskuu wrote:
         | Actually it is mind blowing. For example, it has exact
         | description of a flow state in few paragraphs.
        
       | g8oz wrote:
       | "The years of rice and salt' by Kim Stanley Robinson
        
       | myrmidon wrote:
       | "Vehicles: Experiments in synthetic psychology" by Valentino
       | Braitenberg.
       | 
       | Has shaped my outlook on artificial intelligence more than
       | anything else, and this was written in 1984, long before GPT-3
       | was a thing. Absolutely "mind-blowing" in that it deconstructs
       | and then reassembles your understanding of what a mind _is_.
       | 
       | Best short story: "The Egg" (by Andy Weir); just read it, is very
       | short, no spoilers.
       | 
       | Best entertainment/fiction: "Murderbot Diaries"
       | 
       | Is highly entertaining, very unique protagonist, raises some very
       | interesting ethical/philosophical questions and does far-future
       | sci-fi worldbuilding insanely well.
        
         | sebg wrote:
         | Just read the egg. Amazing! I had read Weir's other works and
         | somehow missed this. Thanks for sharing!
        
       | camjw wrote:
       | Not sure which one I would pick but the Culture series by Iain M
       | Banks probably had the most impact on me.
        
       | Triphibian wrote:
       | Best book I've read in a long time: The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt
       | -- it's not often that literary fiction reads as smoothly as a
       | Stephen King book. It's a coming of age story, a drug story, a
       | heist story all rolled up.
       | 
       | Best book I ever read (for myriad other reasons) probably remains
       | Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy -- never has a book amused me
       | like that. I don't think much about my sensibility, beliefs, way
       | of looking at the world would be quite the same if that book
       | hadn't have come along when I was eleven and said, "you're okay,
       | you're not alone. Don't panic."
        
       | Rendello wrote:
       | There are 2 books that have fundamentally shifted my thinking:
       | 
       | - _The Dictator 's Handbook: Why Bad Behavior is Almost Always
       | Good Politics_.
       | 
       | This has been covered by CGP Grey and now has a Netflix
       | adaptation, so I figure it lies well within the HN Zeitgeist
       | already. There's a lot to debate in this book, but I
       | fundamentally didn't understand political power before reading
       | it.
       | 
       | - _Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and
       | Controlling Men_.
       | 
       | I have a more complicated relationship with this one, in fact I
       | never finished it. It's about men (mainly) who are abusive in
       | relationships, and how they are able to manipulate their
       | partners. It hits close to home because I've seen a lot of that
       | growing up, and I've seen a lot of women close to me end up in
       | abuse in a predictable but devastating cycle.
       | 
       | The primary controversial idea is that domestic abuse can be from
       | man-woman, man-man, woman-woman, but the author pretty much
       | discredits woman-man abuse. I don't think I can reconcile that
       | with my own experience. But, where it changed my thinking was a
       | chapter about "it's not emotions, it's values". I'd grown up
       | knowing the importance of emotions and being open and
       | communicative, but I was never able to put to words the
       | disconnect I was feeling. Emotions are secondary, it's what one
       | values that determines their emotions and actions, whether it be
       | in an abusive relationship, or in any other place or time in the
       | world.
       | 
       | It really shifted how I think about the world, and let me sever
       | connections to people I was kept in my life because they'd had a
       | bad childhood or whatever. I realized that they would never get
       | over their turmoil, because they valued using it to hurt others.
        
         | namlem wrote:
         | Dictator's Handbook completely changed how I think about
         | politics. Strongly second that one.
        
       | shaftoe444 wrote:
       | Middlemarch. It has everything.
        
       | mncharity wrote:
       | "I read books [...] I've read a couple of books a week for [...]
       | 50 [years]"[1] - Jim Keller (CPU designer) with Lex Fridman. OT,
       | but I like the reminder that reading can be a voluminous
       | endeavor.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nb2tebYAaOA&t=5043s
        
       | jestinjoy1 wrote:
       | Children's Literature: Totto-Chan: The Little Girl at the Window
       | 
       | Tech: Code the hidden language of computer hardware and software
       | 
       | Non Fiction: Talking to My Daughter
        
       | bcantrill wrote:
       | Obviously a very reductive question -- even if sharpened slightly
       | to "most influential" book. I will reduce it even further: one of
       | the few books that I have read twice (and the only one that has
       | exerted different, profound influence on me on each read) is
       | Tracy Kidder's "Soul of a New Machine." This is a book that every
       | engineer should absolutely read, though not without an uncritical
       | eye for Tom West and Data General. I wrote about my second read
       | of "Soul" five years ago[0], and I know that there are folks who
       | have read it on my recommendation -- and I don't think anyone has
       | regretted it.
       | 
       | [0] https://bcantrill.dtrace.org/2019/02/10/reflecting-on-the-
       | so...
        
         | gyre007 wrote:
         | I finally read it recently (few months back or so) and I
         | thoroughly enjoyed it. One of the many takeaways for me was how
         | similar the SW world is to the HW one when it comes to actual
         | human being behind engineering -- I guess I shouldn't be
         | surprised but for some reason, the book reinforced that notion
         | in my head. I'm sure I will read it again at some point.
        
       | rors wrote:
       | Eric Hobsbawm's tetralogy on the long 19th century: Age of
       | Revolution, Age of Capital, Age of Empire, and Age of Extremes.
       | 
       | A truly epic date-driven summary of how the industrial and
       | political revolutions of the 19th transformed the world.
        
       | SigmundA wrote:
       | I love hard sci-fi and I keep going back to Blindsight:
       | https://www.rifters.com/real/Blindsight.htm
       | 
       | Making a distinction between intelligence and consciousness was
       | interesting and I think applies to current AI systems, at least
       | that what came to mind when seeing ChatGPT for the first time.
       | 
       | Also vampires being real apex predators brought back from
       | extinction with a decent explanation as to why they don't like
       | crosses is just entertaining to me.
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | I wondered if I would see that here. It is an interesting read,
         | packed with ideas. Not exactly light reading.
        
       | colinator wrote:
       | Borges: Selected Non-fictions. Think his fictions are good? His
       | non-fictions, imho, are even better. You can read three sentences
       | and feel like you just listened to a symphony - you get that
       | constant Borges wit, erudition, mystery. The English translations
       | are SO good. Are they even better in Spanish?
        
         | gyre007 wrote:
         | I devour Borges' books. I thik my most favourite is Fictions
         | but the library of babel was pretty good, too.
        
       | intellectronica wrote:
       | The Mind is Flat by Nick Chater
       | 
       | (so hard to pick just one, and I may be affected by recency bias,
       | but that's my finalist right now)
        
       | sotix wrote:
       | I didn't know it at the time but Walden by Henry David Thoreau. I
       | read it in high school and didn't think it meant much to me. I've
       | been rereading it recently and realized a lot of insights and
       | observations it has on living a simpler life are core beliefs I
       | follow. It's funny reading it again and discovering how great of
       | an impact it had when I originally read it to write a paper for a
       | high school English class.
        
       | zwieback wrote:
       | Middlemarch by George Eliot
        
       | bkandel wrote:
       | The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt. It changed the way I think
       | about what's important, both to me and to other people and
       | societies.
        
       | brainzap wrote:
       | I am still discovering new best books, recently "bird by bird"
       | which taught me and made me laugh.
        
       | chiefrubberduck wrote:
       | autobiography of a yogi
        
       | standardUser wrote:
       | Allen Carr's Easy Way To Stop Smoking
       | 
       | I find a lot of my successes are driven by building powerful and
       | convincing narratives about my own life and circumstances.
       | Unfortunately, the anti-smoking messaging that comes form every
       | website, doctor and other resource all parrots the same tired
       | arguments I had been hearing since the 90's. My earnest efforts
       | to find new perspectives hit the same wall of propaganda every
       | time. This book offered me multiple new perspectives, it relieved
       | me of the shame placed on me by other resources and social
       | stigmas, and it acted as an upbeat and optimistic cheerleader.
       | 
       | I quit 7 years ago when I finished the book and haven't had the
       | urge to smoke since.
        
         | rahimnathwani wrote:
         | Is there a book like this for ice cream and sugary desserts?
        
           | standardUser wrote:
           | He later wrote multiple books on weight loss. Search for
           | "allen carr lose weight" and you will find several. I don't
           | know if his other books are held in as high regard as his
           | quit smoking book. This one seems especially relevant: "Allen
           | Carr's Good Sugar, Bad Sugar"
        
         | jppope wrote:
         | question: I'm not a smoker, but would the information be able
         | to be generalized?
        
           | standardUser wrote:
           | I think it was uniquely suited to break through the
           | homogenous anti-smoking propaganda and offer new
           | perspectives. Though he did write similar books about alcohol
           | and diet.
        
       | why5s wrote:
       | Mistakes Were Made by Carol Tarvis and Elliot Aronson. It's a
       | long discussion on the mechanics of cognitive dissonance and
       | self-justification.
       | 
       | --
       | 
       | "A man travels many miles to consult the wisest guru in the land.
       | When he arrives, he asks the great man:
       | 
       | 'O wise guru, what is the secret of a happy life?'
       | 
       | 'Good judgement,' says the guru.
       | 
       | 'But, O wise guru' says the man, 'how do I achieve good
       | judgement'
       | 
       | 'Bad judgement,' says the guru"
        
       | delecti wrote:
       | Diaspora by Greg Egan. No other book has caused such a seismic
       | shift in how I think about consciousness, personhood, continuity
       | of self, the enormity of the universe, and practicalities of
       | galactic timescales. It also triggered quite a few existential
       | crises (which nearly goes without saying, given all that).
        
         | hannofcart wrote:
         | Reading this right now. I resonate with everything said in the
         | comment above.
        
         | b5 wrote:
         | Great choice. There's so much to love in that book.
        
         | mrexroad wrote:
         | Came here to say this. I finally read it last year for first
         | time and was delighted. It has aged rather gracefully as well.
        
         | edanm wrote:
         | A great book.
         | 
         | I personally prefer Permutation City - for similar reasons. I
         | don't think a book has quite affected my thoughts on what
         | consciousness means quite as much as that book, and it's very
         | interesting to boot.
        
       | dvdhnt wrote:
       | The Island at the Center of the World: The Epic Story of Dutch
       | Manhattan and the Forgotten Colony That Shaped America by Russell
       | Shorto.
       | 
       | Before the English took New Amsterdam, it was a thriving
       | settlement full of interesting economic ideas and gripping
       | narratives. I can't recommend this book enough. The audiobook is
       | great, so I bought the paperback. 10/10
        
       | airstrike wrote:
       | Picking a "favorite" is generally hard. I once learned that the
       | best way to phrase this question is in the form of e.g. "What are
       | some of your favorite books?" so the responder doesn't have to
       | force rank their all-time-favorite in their head, which can feel
       | taxing. So I'll name two:
       | 
       | I'm actually a bit surprised to not see "Brave New World"
       | mentioned yet. That was a life-changing experience to my teenage
       | self
       | 
       | And since someone else has already picked Steppenwolf by Hesse,
       | I'll mention Demian instead.
        
         | dbg31415 wrote:
         | Agreed.
         | 
         | I remember getting assigned this book in high school, I think
         | Freshman Year, and not being able to put it down. Just left me
         | with this feeling of, "Shit, if we sacrifice freedom and
         | individuality for happiness and a sense of security then we're
         | really going to be fucked." I know that's probably too
         | political for HN, but man, the message I got from this book has
         | resonated loud and clear with me ever since.
        
       | Vegenoid wrote:
       | "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" by Douglas Adams. It's
       | hilarious, absurd, and surprisingly thought-provoking. There are
       | many philosophical questions and lessons that are not really
       | presented as such (though they aren't hidden, either).
       | 
       | I read it when I was young, it really shaped my sense of humor
       | and got me thinking about some of life and the universe's big
       | questions.
        
         | aktau wrote:
         | Me too. I still cherish the black hardcover I got on my first
         | trip to the US for $20 (must've been around 2006). This one:
         | "The Ultimate Hitchhiker's Guide: Five Complete Novels and One
         | Story".
        
         | antod wrote:
         | Yeah that was going to be my answer too. They're some of the
         | few books I've actually remembered stuff from.
         | 
         | The absurdity and slant on looking at things helps keep life in
         | perspective (wasn't trying reference the Vortex there).
         | 
         | I remember occasionally when really get absorbed in it, that
         | strangely the absolute absurdity almost starts seeming
         | plausible.
         | 
         | And, I start seeing the Sirius Cybernetics Corporation all over
         | the place now....
        
       | lcall wrote:
       | Here are some translation recommendations (I haven't read them,
       | but would add _War and Peace_ , which I have read, and which is
       | freely available on gutenberg.org):
       | 
       | 10 of the best novels in translation into English
       | 
       | https://www.deseret.com/entertainment/2024/10/06/best-books-...
        
       | tikkun wrote:
       | When I Say No I Feel Guilty.
       | 
       | Never Split The Difference.
       | 
       | The Gift of Fear.
       | 
       | Those 3.
        
       | brontosaurusrex wrote:
       | Groving up: Papillon (Henri Charriere - 1969) & Samurai! (Saburo
       | Sakai -1957) Lately: Project Hail Mary (Andy Weir - 2021)
       | Obviously: Hackers: Heroes of the Computer Revolution - 25th
       | anniversary edition (Steven Levy - 1984/2010) also: I've read all
       | the books from David Thorne, last one: Let's Eat Grandma's Pills
       | (David Thorne - 2022)
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | "Papillon" is a great read. But it's veracity is highly
         | suspect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Papillon_(book)
        
       | kiernanmcgowan wrote:
       | The Sirens of Titan by Vonnegut - I re-read it about once a year.
       | It hits a nerve for me and helps me focus on whats important.
       | 
       | "A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to
       | love whoever is around to be loved."
        
       | krupan wrote:
       | Nobody has mentioned:
       | 
       | - The Lord of the Rings. It is the secret gateway for us nerds to
       | get into literature and poetry (do not skip the poems!). Read all
       | the reference materials like The Silmarillion, The Hobbit,
       | J.R.R.'s letters, the books his son Christopher edited and
       | published, etc. If the poems seem weird or don't make sense,
       | research why they are worded and structured the way they are.
       | 
       | - The Master and Margarita. Obscure and very unique. Make sure to
       | get a good translation (if you don't know Russian) that has some
       | annotations to explain the "inside" jokes/references
        
         | carabiner wrote:
         | Obscure wtf? It's a classic of Russian literature and taught in
         | every Russian lit class.
        
           | netcoyote wrote:
           | That would make it obscure to just about everyone I know,
           | except perhaps one of my friends who grew up in the Ukraine.
           | 
           | https://xkcd.com/1053/
        
           | afthonos wrote:
           | Famously well attended courses, those, in the English-
           | speaking world... ;-)
        
           | Izikiel43 wrote:
           | > taught in every Russian lit class.
           | 
           | Most people outside of russia and probably ex soviet
           | republics don't have mandatory Russian literature classes.
        
           | reducesuffering wrote:
           | Agreed. It comes up a million times on HN and has an enormous
           | amount of ratings on Goodreads, #3 in Russian lit behind only
           | 1 book of Tolstoy and Dostoevsky: https://www.goodreads.com/b
           | ook/show/117833.The_Master_and_Ma.... It is widely popular in
           | the English-speaking world; not obscure.
        
         | massung wrote:
         | U "Mastera i Margerity" lushchee nachalo iz vsekh knig, kotorye
         | ia kogda-libo chital!
         | 
         | And chapter 2: Pontious Pilate absolutely sealed it for me; I
         | love that book!
        
       | elliotec wrote:
       | The Dawn of Everything, GEB, and House of Leaves are probably my
       | top 3.
        
       | imjonse wrote:
       | For fiction no idea, really hard to come up with a criterion and
       | that is great actually.
       | 
       | For non-fiction, by far the one that had the most novelty factor
       | and effect of my worldview probably Chomsky - Understanding
       | Power. Not 100% because it's almost a tie with Manufacturing
       | Consent - this one being much darker.
        
       | typedef_sorbet wrote:
       | As someone who used to read voraciously as a kid, and nearly
       | stopped entirely as I burned out throughout school, _There Is No
       | Antimemetics Division_ , and later _Ra_ by qntm got me back into
       | reading by reminding me how _satisfying_ science fiction can be.
       | 
       |  _Antimemetics Division_ is a fantastic read if you 're at all a
       | fan of the SCP Wiki -- being the author of some of the
       | foundational entries in the wiki, like SCP-055 (https://scp-
       | wiki.wikidot.com/scp-055), qntm shows a deep understanding and
       | appreciation for the SCP universe and uses it to tell a
       | compelling story about ideas, memory, and sacrifice.
       | 
       | It's worth noting that you can't currently buy a physical copy of
       | this book anymore, but the original story is still available to
       | read for free on the SCP wiki. https://scp-
       | wiki.wikidot.com/antimemetics-division-hub
       | 
       |  _[light spoilers in this paragraph]_ This book caught me during
       | a particularly difficult part of my life, when I was struggling
       | with depression and self-doubt. Reading something that framed
       | ideas as being things that are not only infectious and mind-
       | altering, but _killable_ was comforting for me, and gave me hope
       | that I could climb out of the hole that I was in.
       | 
       |  _Ra_ , on the other hand, is a book set in a completely
       | different universe, one in which magic not only exists, but is a
       | _bona fide_ scientific study, having been discovered in the
       | 1970s. It starts out by exploring the ramifications of magic 's
       | use as self-defense, but evolves into mystery when the main
       | character witnesses her mother performing magic that by all
       | accounts should be impossible, compelling her to devote her life
       | to uncovering the phenomena's true nature and origin.
       | 
       | This one is considerably longer, and paced slower than
       | _Antimemetics Division_ , but in my opinion is no less
       | satisfying. The parameters by which magic works in-universe feel
       | believable and self-consistent, and so do the reasons behind why
       | some mages are able to bend them. The ending does feel slightly
       | unsatisfying when the book is taken as a complete work, but when
       | considering that _Ra_ was originally released as a web serial
       | over the course of years, I feel it 's a bit more forgivable that
       | the landing wasn't stuck perfectly.
       | 
       | What's particularly interesting to me about _Ra_ is that after
       | completion, the author hosted a Q &A thread on their site where
       | people were able to ask questions about how certain mechanics of
       | magic work in-universe, and the answers given by qntm show just
       | how much thought and care they put into making magic feel less
       | like a hand-waved _deus ex-machina_ and more like a complete
       | system.
       | 
       | Highly recommend both of these, as well as qntm's other works if
       | you're looking for something that scratches a particular sci-fi
       | itch.
        
       | agigao wrote:
       | The Magic Mountain - Thomas Mann The Man Without Qualities -
       | Robert Musil The Gospel to According Jesus Christ - Jose Saramagu
       | 
       | etc.
        
       | BryanA wrote:
       | The "best" book I ever read was Moby Dick because everybody tells
       | me it was, and because I could never make it through Ulysses. The
       | book that was the most fun to read was The Count of Monte Cristo.
       | And my favorite book is The Diamond Age.
        
       | vburg wrote:
       | Flowers for Algernon
        
       | agigao wrote:
       | - The Magic Mountain - Thomas Mann
       | 
       | - The Man Without Qualities - Robert Musil
       | 
       | - The Gospel According to Jesus Christ - Jose Saramago
       | 
       | - Moby Dick - Herman Melville
       | 
       | - The War of the End of the World - Mario Vargas Llosa
       | 
       | - The War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
       | 
       | etc.
       | 
       | I can't do "The" xD
        
         | danenania wrote:
         | > The Gospel According to Jesus Christ - Jose Saramago
         | 
         | Have you read Blindness? I liked The Gospel According to Jesus
         | Christ, but personally I liked Blindness a lot more.
        
       | asimpletune wrote:
       | 1001 Arabian nights and The Odyssey
        
       | Rugu16 wrote:
       | Meditations by marcus aurelius
        
         | objektif wrote:
         | Can you please recommend the best version to read of this for a
         | beginner?
        
           | Rugu16 wrote:
           | Pick any from library or best sellers from amazon
        
       | stronglikedan wrote:
       | The Holy Bible
        
         | JourneyToLunar wrote:
         | Absolutely, it is very impressive that it has been preserved
         | for so long. (Since we humans tend to destroy stuff...) And it
         | is the book that is most printed and distributed around the
         | world. Plus available in the most languages of all books. That
         | alone makes it the best book.
        
       | soulbadguy wrote:
       | I am not sure about being the best, but one book that really felt
       | special and still does is :
       | 
       | - The beginning of infinity by David Deutsch.
       | 
       | This book really ignited my love for epistemology in general, and
       | the nature of scientific progress and understanding.
       | 
       | Another notable book for me :
       | 
       | Finite and infinite games by James Carse.
       | 
       | I find the book fascinating if only because the concept the
       | author is describing is both intuitive and counter - intuitive at
       | the same time.
        
       | dempedempe wrote:
       | Everybody has already mentioned most of the best books I've read,
       | so I'll mention one that I haven't seen on this thread yet - The
       | Little Schemer.
       | 
       | Unless you're actively working through a bunch of
       | problems/examples, reading most books is a form of passive
       | learning. That is, you are simply being told information. The
       | Little Schemer is the only book I know of that is written almost
       | entirely in the form of increasingly intricate questions to the
       | reader (active learning). There are maybe about two dozen or so
       | statements ("Laws" as the author calls them). Everything else is
       | a question in an extended Socratic dialogue aimed at refining the
       | reader's knowledge of Lisp, how computation arises from
       | recursion, computation in general, and lambda calculus
       | culminating in the y-combinator.
       | 
       | The Little Schemer is the most unique, most fun, most educational
       | (in the sense that it _forces_ you to work your way through it)
       | book that I've read. Moreover, it's a great way to grasp
       | computation in a more abstract sense.
        
       | jgrahamc wrote:
       | For me it's either "Cry, the Beloved Country" or "Slaughterhouse-
       | Five".
       | 
       | EDIT: Oh wait, or maybe it's "The End of the Affair", or "Je
       | l'aimais".
        
       | weakfish wrote:
       | Fiction: The Way of Kings, and by extension, the rest of the
       | Stormlight Archive. Some seriously fantastic therapy mixed into
       | the beautiful fantasy world.
        
       | jppope wrote:
       | Probably "Zorba the Greek"
        
       | Saturdays wrote:
       | The Courage to be Disliked
        
         | jamager wrote:
         | I can second this! Almost the only book of its kind I actually
         | liked, not going to say that "it changed my life", but it was
         | quite eye opening
        
       | abhaynayar wrote:
       | Siddhartha.
        
       | bitcurious wrote:
       | Hm.
       | 
       | If I say best as in long lasting, "Master and Margarita" uniquely
       | has the power to make me feel a kind of romance when I remember
       | it, not just while reading.
       | 
       | The short story "Fumes the Memorious" changed in a literal sense
       | how I perceived the world, at least for an hour or so.
       | 
       | "Why Zebras Don't Get Ulcers" was the best self-help book I've
       | ever read, and fundamentally changes my politics as well. I came
       | to recognize the significance of true and perceived agency as a
       | factor in mental health.
       | 
       | "Seeing like a state" was the worst written and edited book I've
       | read that I nevertheless recommend to people because the ideas
       | therein are fascinating.
       | 
       | It's an impossible question, as the list of answers only gets
       | longer with time spent on looking for answers. So I suppose
       | Master and Margarita, as that was the first answer.
        
       | jll29 wrote:
       | ChatGPT: roll up this thread, extract all author-title pairs that
       | describe books, and look up the corresponding amazon.com links
       | where I can buy the whole set.
        
       | mellosouls wrote:
       | Collected Works of Shakespeare
       | 
       |  _The Tempest_ was my way in. Hated him as many did at school,
       | but when my path was my own I decided there must be something to
       | the extraordinary reverence in which he was held so I decided to
       | have another go.
       | 
       | I had to plough through for a while rereading until I finally
       | "got" the flow.
       | 
       | After that it was a long journey through some of the most
       | beautiful words and thoughts I'd ever encountered, my life
       | genuinely deepened and enriched.
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | These threads often end up, with everyone trying to prove they
       | are literary scholars.
       | 
       | I prefer junky fantasy books. I'm really too old and cynical to
       | give a damn what y'all think of me.
       | 
       | I probably liked David Edding's _Belgariad_ series, along with
       | the _Mallorean_ series, the most. I reread them, regularly, and
       | go through all ten books, in a couple of weeks. They are an easy
       | read.
       | 
       | Also, Glen Cook's _Black Company_ books are awesome. It 's a
       | toss-up, between them. Eleven books, in that series. His _Garret
       | PI_ series are fun, but really kind of  "filler."
        
         | scovetta wrote:
         | David Eddings' books are also my favorite of all time, agree
         | about Belgariad and Mallorean. That reminds me that I should
         | start them again. Thanks for bringing back a great memory!
        
         | will-burner wrote:
         | A great fantasy book is "The Fifth Season" by N. K. Jemisin.
         | The whole broken earth trilogy by Jemisin is amazing. Here's to
         | fantasy books!
        
           | jamiek88 wrote:
           | That IS great, but hardly trashy!
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | I really enjoyed that series. My mother was a geologist, and
           | it was a fun time.
        
         | loufe wrote:
         | I second the Black Company. I recently turned some friends onto
         | it and got back in as a consequence. It was such a great twist
         | on how a dark fantasy reads. Totally agree for Garret PI.
         | 
         | I'll have to add my other fantasy favourites : The Kingkiller
         | Chronicles (though be prepared to be left hanging) and the
         | Stormlight Archives are truly excellent.
        
           | kaladin-jasnah wrote:
           | Came here just to search for the Stormlight Archive. I mean,
           | my username is a reference to that series (:
        
         | cannonpr wrote:
         | Scifi here but the most embarrassing one I have to admit to
         | loving is the stainless steel rat series by Harry Harrison.
        
         | jamiek88 wrote:
         | In this vein, junkie Kindle Unlimited sci fi hits that spot for
         | me too.
         | 
         | Currently reading a huge series with easily digestible books by
         | Ryk Brown The Frontiers Saga.
         | 
         | Also anyone remember the old Sten books? There's a modern rip
         | off that's very good, amusing and has cartoon violence it's
         | called the Undying Mercenary series by BV Larson.
         | 
         | And finally, Taken to the Stars and Backyard Starship get
         | honorable mentions but really there is pretty much infinite
         | versions of this shiz.
        
         | nextcaller wrote:
         | I couldn't get enough of the Goosebumps series when I was a
         | kid. Just encountering the books and looking at the covers was
         | an experience. I would get them from the school library.
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | Same! The first books I really remember reading for myself.
        
         | test1235 wrote:
         | I've probably read certain Discworld books more than a few
         | times, if they fit under this category of 'junky'
        
           | bityard wrote:
           | I'm midway through my second reading through the Discworld
           | series. Several years ago I discovered that they were just
           | the right mix of interesting enough to read yet sedate enough
           | to not raise my adrenaline that I could read them and
           | reliably fall asleep within 5-15 minutes of going to bed.
           | This was a godsend because prior to discovering this, it took
           | my brain anywhere between 1-2 hours EVERY night to settle
           | down enough to actually fall asleep, if it ever happened.
           | Lifelong chronic insomnia solved!
           | 
           | (I'm not sure this is the glowing review that most authors
           | aspire to, but here we are.)
           | 
           | Anyway, MOST Discworld books are well worth the time. A few
           | are difficult to follow because Pratchett tried a bit too
           | hard to rely on context. And he often reuses major plot
           | points. But the narration and dialogue are more than clever
           | enough to make up for any of these.
        
         | allturtles wrote:
         | > These threads often end up, with everyone trying to prove
         | they are literary scholars
         | 
         | I see a wide variety of answers ITT. Some are very "literary"
         | fiction e.g. _Ulysses_ , others are lighter fare like _Harry
         | Potter_ , there's also a wide variety of non-fiction works from
         | self-help to electronics manuals to philosophy. Have you
         | considered that other people might actually have different
         | tastes than you, and aren't trying to "prove" anything?
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | C'mon. This is HN.
           | 
           | People are trying to posture and prove all kinds of things.
           | 
           | Of course folks have different tastes (I'm the redneck
           | engineer, in my family. Most of my other siblings think James
           | Joyce is _da thang_ , but they are also into posturing).
           | 
           | But it also intimidates folks into not sharing some really
           | good stuff.
        
             | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote:
             | << But it also intimidates folks into not sharing some
             | really good stuff.
             | 
             | That is probably the saddest part that good things don't
             | have enough time/chance to spread. I like to think that
             | there are more Adams, Pratchetts out there, but they remain
             | largely undiscovered due to this society pre-approved list
             | of things you can 'consume'.
             | 
             | And good here does not automatically mean "Ulysses" ( which
             | I hated -- and quite possibly misunderstood ). Some stuff
             | can be just lazy popculture level navel gazing, but it does
             | not mean it can't be fun as it revels in excess at the same
             | time ( Rick and Morty comes to mind -- yes, it is not a
             | book, but I am making a point.. how many kids you see
             | reading for fun ).
             | 
             | << People are trying to posture and prove all kinds of
             | things.
             | 
             | Agreed, but it still does not seem as bad as other internet
             | locales. And maybe it comes with socialization. At certain
             | point we learn no one really cares. I know I stated some
             | mildly pretentious stuff before. Seemed like a big deal
             | then; now it is just an amusing memory.
        
             | dvaun wrote:
             | > People are trying to posture and prove all kinds of
             | things.
             | 
             | I would hope that it's a mixture of personalities posting
             | here, rather than a subset of people who are following some
             | personal agenda.
             | 
             | This crowd is hopefully mature enough to avoid this type of
             | behavior.
        
               | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
               | Well, there's careers being made, egos being stroked, and
               | insecurities being salved.
               | 
               | It's not just a shared interest community. YC isn't a
               | benevolent organization, and many of the folks,
               | hereabouts, have some pretty serious cred (and
               | money/power). Lots of folks want to get on their good
               | side, and may think that frontin' is the best way.
        
         | iamacyborg wrote:
         | Black Company is fun and the recently published editions by
         | Midworld Press are really nice.
        
         | gregorymichael wrote:
         | I've read all 20+ of the Jack Reacher books, some multiple
         | times. Best bedtime reading I've found. Fun enough I actually
         | want to go to bed. Shallow enough that if I miss a page or two
         | because I'm drowsy, no big deal.
        
         | CuriousSkeptic wrote:
         | > I reread them, regularly, and go through all ten books,
         | 
         | That's the best part! Coming back to the simple life on Faldors
         | farm again.
        
         | enasterosophes wrote:
         | When I was a kid, what got me into reading novels was Weis &
         | Hickman's Darksword Trilogy. I loved the heck out of that
         | series. I re-read it about once a year well into my 20s. Re-
         | reading it in my 40s, it's definitely kind of cringe, but even
         | now I still think it has some cool ideas.
         | 
         | The thing is, those books got a kid into reading. Now I've read
         | thousands of books, but all my later pretentions to literacy
         | started from that one experience which everyone else in the
         | world would judge as junky.
         | 
         | I don't claim they're the best by most metrics. But as a
         | catalyst for reading, they're right up there.
        
         | djkivi wrote:
         | I quite enjoyed David Eddings books when I was younger as well.
         | It came as a shock when I learned that he and his wife had been
         | jailed for child abuse, which only became known after he died:
         | 
         | https://thewertzone.blogspot.com/2020/05/it-has-been-reveale...
        
           | Popeyes wrote:
           | Marion Zimmer Bradley too.
        
         | wduquette wrote:
         | I loved the _Belgariad_ and _Mallorean_ years ago, and re-read
         | them many times. Eddings then came out with a new series, whose
         | name I've surprised; I read the first book and hated it.
         | 
         | And then, as I got older, I started to realize that most of the
         | "good guys", other than Garion, were deeply-flawed awful people
         | who would not be nearly as funny or heroic in real life as they
         | were made out to be in the book. (Picture Polgara smashing
         | everything in sight as she has a tantrum. Belgarath's no
         | better.) And then I couldn't read them anymore, which is a
         | pity.
         | 
         | It's not that I "outgrew" the genre by the way. I read as much
         | fantasy as ever. But not this.
        
           | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
           | _> I read the first book and hated it._
           | 
           | That was probably _The Elder Gods_ series ( _Crystal Gorge_ ,
           | et al).
           | 
           | It is _awful_. I suspect it was written while he was dying of
           | cancer, and his wife had a great deal of input.
           | 
           |  _The Redemption of Althalus_ is ... _bearable_ , but not his
           | best.
           | 
           | I enjoyed _The Elenium_ and _The Tamuli_ series. They had a
           | lot of the character of _The Belgariad_ , but bloodier.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | > I prefer junky fantasy books.
         | 
         | Kindle books like that are what fill in the gaps in my free
         | time. One recent fantasy series I liked was The Good Guys/The
         | Bad Guys by Eric Ugland. Somehow kept me turning pages.
         | 
         | some others (not fantasy) Infinity Gate by M.R. Carey;
         | Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin;
         | 
         | But sometimes there is a lot of dreck to wade through.
         | 
         | Been thinking of making a "stop reading and discard book" list
         | like:
         | 
         | - main character has unknown/dead parents, is secretly "the
         | chosen one"
         | 
         | - no plot, character goes there, minimal opposition, gets all
         | the stuff.
         | 
         | - anything harem
        
       | varjag wrote:
       | Lord of Light by Roger Zelazny.
        
       | freetanga wrote:
       | Many, but one of my personal, is Catch 22.
       | 
       | The complexity of the structure, the humor, and the painful
       | exhibition of human stupidity makes it a book for the ages.
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | 'Catch 22' had quite an effect on me when I read it as young
         | man. I'm not sure whether I will read it again, I'm worried it
         | might dissapoint some 40 years later.
        
       | brodouevencode wrote:
       | The Holy Bible
       | 
       | It's the entire basis for the western world.
        
       | Snild wrote:
       | As a kid, Krabban Konrad, "Kermit the Hermit" in English
       | (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kermit_the_Hermit), was one of
       | my favorites.
       | 
       | In high school, 1984 hit me hard.
       | 
       | As an adult, I'd pick Pojken som fann en ny farg (literally
       | translated "The boy who found a new color"). I really liked it's
       | ultra-short chapters, making up snapshots of a romance and family
       | being built and falling apart.
        
       | xlaacid wrote:
       | Walter Issacson's Steve Jobs bio. I legit disliked Steve Jobs. I
       | could not put this book down for the week it took to read. Then I
       | became an Issacson junky. He just digs into the minutia and makes
       | it digestible.
       | 
       | Currently reading Frank Ramsey by Cheryl Misak. Will appeal to
       | philosophy nerds mostly. Fascinating how a kid of 26 changed the
       | fields of philosophy, mathematics, and economics, but no one
       | really knows of him.
        
         | latexr wrote:
         | For an interesting deep dive on everything wrong with
         | Isaacson's Jobs' bio.
         | 
         | https://hypercritical.fireside.fm/42
         | 
         | https://hypercritical.fireside.fm/43
        
       | bobetomi wrote:
       | Carrying the Fire by Michael Collins.
       | 
       | He goes into so much detail about training to become an
       | astronaut, his first spaceflight, training and planning for the
       | Apollo missions, and talks about so many of the details and
       | complexities of spaceflight that I had no idea about before.
       | 
       | For example, in the early space walks, they didn't consider how
       | difficult it is to use simple tools in microgravity and without a
       | surface to sit/stand on. The astronaut got completely exhausted
       | just keeping himself still while turning a wrench, because when
       | you turn the wrench, it pushes you and starts moving and spinning
       | you, and when you try to correct it, you'll most likely
       | overcorrect and then have to correct that, and then correct that
       | overcorrection, etc.
       | 
       | And the level of planning and training for the off-nominal
       | scenarios is crazy. They picked the top 30ish most likely failure
       | scenarios and practiced the responses to them in simulators until
       | they're muscle memory, and have detailed checklists for hundreds
       | of other ones (which they also practice, just not as much). For
       | example, when Neil and Buzz land on the moon, they'd be awake for
       | about 10 hours, so they had to decide whether the plan was for
       | them to open the hatch and walk on the moon right after landing,
       | or get a night of sleep and do it "next morning". The problem
       | with doing it immediately was that, if something went wrong,
       | they'd have to abort and get back to the command module, but then
       | they'd end up being awake for 20 hours while handling an
       | emergency. On the other hand, they realized that they wouldn't be
       | able to get sleep right after landing on the moon anyways.
       | 
       | His writing style is awesome: it's easy to read, explains
       | technical details in a really easy to understand way, and quite
       | funny.
        
         | marcusverus wrote:
         | Sounds fantastic, just bought a copy. Thanks!
        
       | dlevine wrote:
       | I really enjoyed Factfulness by Hans Rosling et al.
       | 
       | Potentially a bit dated now, but A New Kind of Science by Wolfram
       | was pretty eye opening.
        
       | supportengineer wrote:
       | Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson
        
       | baanist wrote:
       | Type Theory and Formal Proof
       | (https://www.cambridge.org/core/books/type-theory-and-formal-...)
        
       | zendaven wrote:
       | In terms of info per dollar, you can't beat Littler Books' master
       | collection.
        
       | mondobe wrote:
       | I read Tristan Donovan's "Replay: The History of Video Games" in
       | middle school (back when my own access to video games was very
       | limited, so I had to resort to reading about them), and it
       | partially influenced me to pursue game development myself.
       | 
       | A lot of my current knowledge about the game industry comes from
       | things I learned in this book (or used as a base for further
       | research later on). Each chapter is a vignette into a different
       | era, technology, and country, up to the indie boom of the 2000s.
       | It's not a life-changing read by any means, but it's an extensive
       | and memorable one.
        
       | lolinder wrote:
       | _The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People_ by Stephen Covey.
       | 
       | No other book has made as significant a difference in both my
       | personal and professional life. Concepts like the emotional bank
       | account and seeking first to understand (then to be understood)
       | have been the key things that have helped me find a partner,
       | develop a relationship with her, and develop a great career where
       | I'm given a lot of autonomy and trust to solve problems in my own
       | way.
       | 
       | I find myself teaching concepts from the book to coworkers while
       | mentoring them through work-related interpersonal problems and
       | without fail they come back ecstatic about what a difference it
       | made in their work relationships.
       | 
       | I genuinely can't recommend it highly enough.
        
       | aquir wrote:
       | The Dispossessed by Ursula K. Le Guin
       | 
       | She was a great visionary and turned the Science Fiction genre
       | upside down. This book is a thought provoking story; an "An
       | Ambiguous Utopia" (this is the subtitle of the book. It really
       | makes you think but also a mocking glass for our society. Close
       | second is The Left Hand of Darkness from the same author.
        
         | aloisdg wrote:
         | I am reading it right now. I will leave this thread to avoid
         | any spoil.
        
           | aquir wrote:
           | Yeah, I was thinking about putting a little summary but I
           | don't want to spoil the fun and also, it's hard to summarise
           | this book in a few sentences
        
         | WillAdams wrote:
         | I would seriously have to consider her _The Lathe of Heaven_ as
         | my nomination.
        
       | matrix87 wrote:
       | Probably Brothers Karamazov
       | 
       | I didn't really understand what it was trying to tell me when I
       | first read it, the ideas just sort of ruminated. I read it when I
       | was either 19 or 20, was completely at odds with who I was then
       | but helped me grow as a person
       | 
       | The way that we think about individual agency and self-interest
       | in modern society is at odds with what our emotional needs are.
       | He makes this point in many of his books
       | 
       | The way that he describes guilt is incredibly accurate. He's very
       | good at seeing and describing emotional conflict
       | 
       | I also grew up as a non-religious jew but reading him made me
       | realize that christianity has more ideological depth than what I
       | initially thought
        
         | the_panopticon wrote:
         | +1, especially the 'Grand Inquisitor' portion. And a close 2nd
         | would be Dostoevsky's "Crime and Punishment.'
        
         | mikhmha wrote:
         | I read it this year. I loved it. I think if I read it a few
         | years earlier it would be totally lost on me.
         | 
         | For my self what I found interesting is the depiction of Russia
         | in the 19th century, and the on-going transition from a peasant
         | agrarian society into "modernity" and all the confusion it
         | creates. I am not Russian, yet it all seemed so familiar to me.
         | Why? Because I think this same transition is going on in my
         | ethnic country - though 200 years later. Because the archetypes
         | of people shown, the attitudes among former aristocrats and
         | landowners, inefficient (and unserious) bureaucracy,
         | conflicting ideas about religion vs secularism, inferiority
         | complex towards "modernism", changing views of women's role in
         | society, etc I've seen all the same things.
         | 
         | And of course, the book finally convinced me that I should not
         | give into nihilism and pessimism even when everyone around me
         | does.
        
       | Snacklive wrote:
       | I love the fantasy style of Mistborn and The Stormlight Archive
       | by Brandon Sanderson
       | 
       | But on the lighter side i consider the Murder Bot series by
       | Martha Wells having a charm that i just find lovely
        
       | purpleblue wrote:
       | Catcher in the Rye was the right book for me at the right age. It
       | really set a North Star for me as to what I wanted to be when I
       | looked at myself in the mirror.
       | 
       | Funny how as I grew older, I found myself understanding more and
       | more about what the older characters were saying, without me
       | sacrificing what made what Holden Caulfield ring so true to me.
       | 
       | Fun fact: in university at the bookstore they had a written poll
       | as to what your favorite book was (before the Internet). I was
       | one of the first ones and wrote down Catcher in the Rye. A month
       | later I read in the school paper that Catcher in the Rye was the
       | winner that year, and it was the first time that the Bible didn't
       | come in first place.
        
         | mynameisash wrote:
         | Out of curiosity, when did you read it?
         | 
         | It's one of those books that everyone's heard about, but I find
         | not many people have read. I myself hadn't read it until about
         | six years ago (in my late 30s). I was underwhelmed by it. Maybe
         | the book hit a lot harder when it came out than it does in
         | modern times?
        
           | confidantlake wrote:
           | I read it at 12, got nothing out of it. Read at 16, thought
           | it was the best book in the world. Read it at 22, got nothing
           | out of it.
        
       | muzzy19 wrote:
       | 48 Laws of Power. Gave a deep understanding of how people
       | manipulate each other to gain influence and dominance. A must
       | read if you want to advance your career or avoid being
       | manipulated at work.
        
       | rodolphoarruda wrote:
       | Dune Chronicles, the 8 books, as I consider them one single long
       | story told in +4000 pages. The God Emperor of Dune (4th book) I
       | consider to be the apex of the story.
        
         | csours wrote:
         | I'm kind of shocked that anyone would recommend anything after
         | book 4. (Book 4 is the last one I would recommend. As far as
         | I'm concerned you can get everything you need from summaries
         | for everything after that.)
        
       | mightybyte wrote:
       | The Evolution of Cooperation by Robert Axelrod
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/366821.The_Evolution_of_...
       | 
       | See also https://ncase.me/trust/ for a really nice 30-min
       | interactive summary of the ideas presented in the book.
       | 
       | My rough definition of "best" here is "most potentially impactful
       | to humanity" (see also Andrew Breslin's Goodreads review).
        
       | noufalibrahim wrote:
       | Hard to say really. One of the few (if not only) books i wish i
       | could unread was the fountainhead
        
       | joshdavham wrote:
       | The best books I read last year were the "Three Body Problem"
       | books by Cixin Liu.
       | 
       | It's a science fiction series about aliens, space travel and the
       | universe and they're easily the best books I've read in a while.
       | 
       | I genuinely can't remember the last time I got that absorbed in a
       | series. I'd read until the early hours of the morning and
       | sometimes just sit at the edge of my bed for like 20 minutes just
       | contemplating the universe. Highly recommend.
        
         | cambaceres wrote:
         | The coolest thing about them is that he solved the Fermi
         | Paradox, I definitely buy his explanation.
        
           | yreg wrote:
           | The dark forest was one of the most popular Fermi solutions
           | long before Liu's books, people just didn't refer to it by
           | that name. Take a look at Fermi paradox Wikipedia article
           | revision history.
           | 
           | I don't think Dark Forest is a good explanation, though. If
           | you were one of the first space-faring civs and meant to
           | avoid competition by striking younger civs preemptively, you
           | could spread von Neumann probes all over the galaxy and
           | either keep new civs at some technology level cap or destroy
           | all the planets right away.
           | 
           | Also, there is no stealth in space, so you can just send a
           | relativistic kill missile to any worlds where civs pop up,
           | without having to step foot outside of your home system.
           | 
           | Isaac Arthur has made many videos I like on these topics, but
           | admittedly they are pretty long. E.g.:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlhHE2VA1ic
        
           | light_hue_1 wrote:
           | I love the book, but he didn't solve the Fermi Paradox. Nor
           | did he come up with this explanation.
           | 
           | If that was the question, there would be far simpler answers.
           | Like encryption. An encrypted signal looks like noise. Or
           | point to point communication, which is far more efficient
           | anyway.
           | 
           | The Fermi paradox is also about another question. Why can't
           | we find alien or their artifacts in the solar system? Any
           | species that wants, could, with not much more advanced
           | technology than we have, if it wanted to, essentially settle
           | the entire galaxy in a few million years. von Neumann probes
           | being one of the early ideas for how to do this. Species
           | could do this even in the dark forest situation, but for some
           | reason despite the universe being 13.8 billion years old, no
           | one has bothered to. That's pretty strange!
           | 
           | The dark forest also isn't his invention. He invented the
           | term, but the idea dates back at least to Greg Bear from
           | Forge of God in 1987. He called it a "vicious jungle". Liu
           | Cixin did state it in more game theoretic terms though.
        
         | dmonitor wrote:
         | I was interested in the series until I heard the worldbuilding
         | bit about how the aliens have FTL 12-dimensional supercomputers
         | the size of an atom that can cause hallucinations and interfere
         | with particle accelerators from orbit. Author basically just
         | gave the antagonists god-powers to prove some kind of point
         | about how hopelessly pathetic humans are?
        
           | edanm wrote:
           | I don't think it's humans that are hopelessly pathetic, it's
           | just species that are less advanced technologically, mostly
           | because of developing later compared to another species.
        
           | Izikiel43 wrote:
           | > FTL
           | 
           | They are not FTL, they are lightspeed.
           | 
           | They managed the computers through quantum entanglement.
           | 
           | It's not god powers, imagine 21st century humanity vs middle
           | ages humanity. Like Arthur C. Clarke said, "advanced enough
           | science is no different than magic" or something along those
           | lines.
        
             | dmonitor wrote:
             | My understanding was that they sent the computers faster
             | than light while their ships were traveling at sub-
             | lightspeed, or something like that, which is why they could
             | get here and fuck up the planet centuries before their
             | fleet would make it.
             | 
             | My point, though, is that we're making up a fantasy world
             | where the impossible is possible, and a bleak universe
             | isn't more "realistic" than a hopeful one. It bothers me
             | that people try to praise the "realism" in these books.
             | They might as well have just sent Frieza to blow up the
             | planet. It's within the same realm of possibility.
        
         | gknoy wrote:
         | I don't know why, but I could NOT get into it. I read what felt
         | like 2/3 or 3/4 of the first book, and still felt like I had no
         | clue what was going on, and it felt like a difficult slog (for
         | reasons I don't understand), much like how the Silmarillion
         | felt to me. I wish I had enjoyed it, because every review or
         | bit of spoilers I've seen about it sounds like a fantastic
         | story, so I don't understand why it was so unenjoyable to read.
         | 
         | Meanwhile I'll read any chapter of a Neal Stephenson book and
         | feel the comfort of a tea and warm blanket on an (imaginary)
         | dreary day, and never care about the overall plot, and only
         | feel remotely bad about not finishing the book.
        
         | Izikiel43 wrote:
         | Agreed, I read the 4 of them in 4 days, easy reads, very
         | interesting. I like how 4 (which Cixin Liu recognized as canon
         | despite being a fanfic originally) completed the story vs how
         | it ended in 3.
        
       | mppm wrote:
       | Debt: The First 5000 Years by David Graeber shifted my worldview
       | quite significantly.
       | 
       | In the fiction department, I've never encountered anything to
       | match HPMOR, even though I disagree with half of what it says
       | nowadays.
        
       | yreg wrote:
       | The Selfish Gene; Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality
        
       | jamager wrote:
       | Fiction: The little prince
       | 
       | Non fiction: Maus
       | 
       | ie. the best and worst that humans can be.
        
       | cambaceres wrote:
       | I read The Hunchback of Notre-Dame and Les Miserables by Victor
       | Hugo and I loved both of them, can recommend.
       | 
       | Seveneves is an amazing book, just make sure you skip the last
       | part.
       | 
       | If you are into history I can recommend The last days of the
       | Incas by Kim MaqQuarrie, it's just an insanely interesting
       | description on how the Incas was conquered, it feels like you're
       | there man.
       | 
       | If you like evolutionary biology/phsycology then check out The
       | Red Queen - Sex and the evolution of human Nature by Matt Ridley.
        
         | ChumpGPT wrote:
         | >The Hunchback of Notre-Dame and Les Miserables by Victor Hugo
         | 
         | Amazing books....
         | 
         | +100
        
         | ink_13 wrote:
         | > Seveneves is an amazing book, just make sure you skip the
         | last part.
         | 
         | It's funny that you say that. My impression after reading it is
         | that Stephenson really just wanted to write the last third, but
         | felt that he needed a bit of backstory, and so wrote the first
         | two-thirds.
        
       | ElevenLathe wrote:
       | I read /Cannery Row/ once a year, and have for over ten years. I
       | am a Steinbeck fan, and this is my favorite of his, but I'm not
       | sure if I keep doing it because it's really the best or if I just
       | enjoy judging my own changes in outlook against a standard unit
       | of literature. I suspect it's the latter but it's a short book
       | and I recommend anyone read it at least once.
        
       | readingnews wrote:
       | Honestly, not making this up, I have no idea how any of you have
       | time to read.
       | 
       | Last few books I read (non-{technical,programming,electronics})
       | were in college. Perhaps a few for fun, mostly for class.
       | 
       | I work all day, when I am done with work, I have house work to
       | get done. Every single time I grab a book and think "I will read
       | this book", heck even technical,programming,electronics books I
       | _want_ to re-read, time vanishes, I put it up and get too busy.
       | 
       | Reading these comments, seems like a lot of people read books. I
       | have no idea how you all find the time.
        
       | thcipriani wrote:
       | I've been reading Caro's multi-volume biography of Lyndon
       | Johnson. This was the best book I've read at overcoming my
       | initial expectations (Johnson is a hugely flawed human being,
       | wowza).
        
       | iFred wrote:
       | Transall Saga by Gary Paulson. One of those young adult survival
       | stories he was known for writing but with a sci-fi element. The
       | book has been living rent free in my head since an elementary
       | school book fair 26 years ago.
        
       | a_square_peg wrote:
       | Woah - this is strange. This was posted yesterday but I see that
       | the timestamp has changed so it's only 4 hours old now. The
       | timestamps for the comments seem to have changed also.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | I think it's a bug in how they merge threads. I saw this glitch
         | in the Matrix a couple weeks ago. Went to respond in a thread
         | and found I already had the day before. It was first thing in
         | the morning in and telling me I posted four hours ago. Uh, no.
        
       | masa331 wrote:
       | War and peace. You get to build a very close relationship with
       | multiple characters whose life is unwinding during one of the
       | greatest histories of human
        
       | seer wrote:
       | I've read many books, fiction and nonfiction, but the one that
       | has truly changed me for the better in the long term, was "How to
       | win friends and influence people".
       | 
       | Its premise is extremely simple (simplistic even) and you can
       | boil it down to "just listen to people". But it did affect me -
       | maybe because it finally made it "click" how humans work.
       | 
       | And further more, I did recommend it to my friends, and whoever
       | managed to actually read it, changed too, sometimes literally
       | overnight.
       | 
       | Honestly it was incredible to witness people who used to be jerks
       | to transform into thoughtful and tolerant people right in front
       | of my eyes.
        
       | kkfx wrote:
       | Well, I have no "best" but some, if you really want just one: The
       | Science Of Government, Founded On Natural Law, by Clinton
       | Roosevelt also available freely:
       | https://dn790002.ca.archive.org/0/items/sciencegovernme00roo...
       | it's strange at first, but if you accept the first pages in 15'
       | you'll learn today economy at a whole.
       | 
       | If you are still hungry, Propaganda by Eduard Bernays would be
       | the second.
        
       | snarf21 wrote:
       | Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman
       | 
       | The first 90% of this box is awesome (I think the last part is a
       | little too hand wavy). However, it helps you understand so much
       | of _how_ people think, including you. I think it also explains
       | much of how we shorthand so much of our  "thinking". It implies a
       | lot of how tribal humans are in our actions and beliefs which
       | bleeds into religion and philosophy. There is no book I recommend
       | more and the implications and understanding this highlights can
       | be life transforming.
        
       | wsintra2022 wrote:
       | The Red Book Liber Novus, Life changing, genuinely. I think it's
       | a historical and cultural work that stands alone.
        
       | gjkood wrote:
       | The best non-fiction book I have ever read is 'The Making of the
       | Atomic Bomb'[1] by Richard Rhodes.
       | 
       | Fantastic early history of the people that eventually comprise
       | the Manhattan Project. I feel any person who is interested in
       | physics should read the book.
       | 
       | It is mindblowing the scale of the facilities that they had to
       | build to generate a very small amount of the fissile material
       | needed.
       | 
       | Strangely enough, I started on (a few times already) the second
       | part, 'Dark Sun' [2], which is about the making of the Hydrogen
       | Bomb focused on Edward Teller but I haven't been able to complete
       | it yet.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.amazon.com/Making-Atomic-Bomb-Richard-
       | Rhodes/dp/...
       | 
       | [2] https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Sun-Making-Hydrogen-Bomb-
       | ebook/d...
        
       | malshe wrote:
       | It is challenging to define what's "best" but I used a simple
       | criterion to write this comment: the book I have read the most is
       | the best book for me.
       | 
       | With this criterion, Based on a True Story by Norm Macdonald is
       | the best book. Each time I reread it, I find a new nugget! And as
       | a bonus, this book is also available as an audiobook narrated by
       | the author himself.
        
       | eatrocs wrote:
       | Thanks to Plato's Republic - I have two bffs living rent free in
       | my head.
        
       | WalterBright wrote:
       | "How To Win Friends And Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
       | 
       | There's a good reason why it's still in print.
        
       | bwb wrote:
       | From The Holy Mountain by William Dalrymple
       | https://shepherd.com/book/from-the-holy-mountain
       | 
       | I read this in my early 20s and it had a huge impact in changing
       | the course of my life, sending me traveling over a Christmas
       | break, and changing my entire perspective. He is an amazing
       | author and this book is beautiful.
        
         | hermitcrab wrote:
         | He also does a very good history podcast, 'Empire':
         | https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/empire/id1639561921
        
           | bwb wrote:
           | Ah good to hear, I just downloaded some episodes last month
           | and need to get on that :)
           | 
           | And bought his new book!
           | 
           | Do you have a fav of his?
        
             | hermitcrab wrote:
             | I haven't read any of his books, yet. But I probably will.
        
       | nph278 wrote:
       | Christianson and Chater's "The Language Game". This book changed
       | the way I viewed everything, and also led me to read "The
       | Philisophical Investigations", which I would also put up there.
        
       | ChumpGPT wrote:
       | There is no best. Books mean different things at different times
       | in your life. When I was a kid, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings,
       | Conan Saga, where the greatest books ever written and I still
       | think they were amazing but, my reading interests have changed,
       | here are a few of the best books I've enjoyed reading recently.
       | 
       | The War of Art - Pressfield Outlive - Attia The Fourth Turning -
       | Strauss
        
       | xlii wrote:
       | When I'm asked about best book I always bring up ,,The Last
       | Ringbearer" by Yeskov.
       | 
       | It's a fanfic in LOTR universe, and it wasn't very interesting
       | when I was reading it but it revolved around a twist that helped
       | me develop critical thinking skills.
       | 
       | In short and without too much of a spoiler - it's about
       | relativism of everything, including history and importance of
       | narrative in shaping perspectives.
       | 
       | Somewhat similar to much later Indoctrination Theory in Mass
       | Effect games.
        
         | WillAdams wrote:
         | "History is written by the victors" would be the succinct way
         | to describe it.
        
       | jechasteen wrote:
       | I want to answer this question as if you asked which book had the
       | biggest impact on me, that I remember with the most fondness, the
       | one I wish I could forget so I could experience again from zero.
       | 
       | Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson. Long and sometimes tedious, as
       | his books can be, but the characters are so memorable. Bobby
       | Shaftoe is one of my all-time favorites. The book takes place on
       | two timelines, involving two generations of characters, that have
       | interesting parallels. The audio book narrator does a great job,
       | if you're into audiobooks.
       | 
       | Runner-up would be Warbreaker by Brandon Sanderson. His best,
       | IMO.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | I still use Stephenson's definition of "failing an intelligence
         | test" from those books. I'd heard the term before, but the
         | example he uses is concise.
        
       | sommeeeR wrote:
       | C the programming bible
        
       | s1291 wrote:
       | "Analyse numerique pour Ingenieurs" (en: Numerical Analysis for
       | Engineers )by Andre Fortin. This book changed my life 12 years
       | ago!
        
       | light_triad wrote:
       | Not a best seller but if you like Continental philosophy, The
       | Tears of Eros by Georges Bataille is profound and disturbing.
       | 
       | The central thesis of the book is that eroticism and death are
       | inextricably linked - that the most intense erotic experiences
       | often involve elements of sacrifice, and the transgression of
       | taboos. The author argues that this connection between Eros and
       | Thanatos - the drives of life and death - is a fundamental part
       | of the human condition which he sees as a means by which humans
       | confront their own mortality and the limits of their existence.
       | 
       | The conclusions are often questionable but the scope of the work
       | and the historical deep dive makes for quite a ride.
        
       | msg wrote:
       | Because Anna Karenina is already listed,
       | 
       | I'll plug Scandal by Shusaku Endo. It is by a Japanese Catholic
       | novelist and was written near the end of his career (lifetime
       | achievement award timeframe).
       | 
       | It is about a Japanese Catholic novelist near the end of his
       | career, who is accepting an award when he is accosted by
       | reporters asking about rumors that he has been seen carousing in
       | the red light district. He decides to investigate the rumors, but
       | he isn't ready for what he's going to find.
       | 
       | It's a kind of meta, semi-autobiographical interrogation of the
       | author and the pillars on which he built his life, that in some
       | ways would be impossible to adapt to any other medium.
        
       | WillAdams wrote:
       | _A Short History of the Printed Word_ by Warren Chappell --- also
       | his _The Living Alphabet, and his cousin Oscar Ogg's _The 26
       | Letters_ because they inspired in me a lifelong love of the
       | written word and of books, resulting in a career in typography
       | and book composition.
       | 
       | I'd also recommend Robert Bringhurst's _The Elements of
       | Typographic Style_.
        
       | bityard wrote:
       | As long as we're using "best" in air quotes, I'll throw in a
       | suggestion for Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell by Susanna
       | Clarke. It's victorian-era alternate reality fantasy. Which is
       | something I never would have imagined liking.
       | 
       | Yes, it borrows a LOT from existing stories. To the point that
       | it's nearly a pastiche. But it is incredibly well done and you
       | appreciate it more when you learn that it was the author's first
       | novel. I recommend skipping all of the footnotes on the first
       | read through and saving them for the second read, if you go back
       | for more.
        
         | edanm wrote:
         | A wonderful, wonderful book. Highly recommended.
         | 
         | > Yes, it borrows a LOT from existing stories.
         | 
         | Honestly, I don't connect to this - this book has such a unique
         | voice, so unlike most fantasy. And the plot is so different
         | from the typical Tolkien-esque fantasy you normally find.
        
         | ZeroGravitas wrote:
         | I was going to recommend it for the footnotes.
         | 
         | Anyone who makes up a fake history for a book then adds
         | footnotes arguing for a different interpretation of that fake
         | history really tickles me.
         | 
         | Really enjoyed Piranesi by the same author too. Reminded me of
         | some of the odder parts of Iain Banks catalogue.
        
       | elashri wrote:
       | For me that would be "How experiments End"
       | 
       | This book is written by a science historian with science
       | background. It gives a real perspective about how scientists
       | reached concensus about some of the nowadays well known facts in
       | physics. It goee through some technical details and history
       | including people involved and how personalities and the
       | circumstances around these times affected the progress. If you
       | read it you might find it somehow difficult with some technical
       | details although he tried to simplify it. But once going through
       | that you will find that each chapter is really a journey that you
       | will enjoy.
       | 
       | I really recommend it for people interested in learning new stuff
       | and also enjoy some reading down the line. And get a first hand
       | look into how things are usually done in physics.
        
       | hinkley wrote:
       | A number of my favorites have already been mentioned so I'll
       | round out the list with Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall
       | Kimmerer.
       | 
       | If you have kids, an interest in gardening, or a curiosity about
       | Native American culture, this book will hit you in all three.
       | 
       | I got it on audiobook, and felt like I wanted to use a
       | highlighter on every fifth sentence. So I bought a paper copy so
       | I can just open to random pages and start reading.
        
       | binarin wrote:
       | The Wheel of Time by Robert Jordan - spent the most time reading
       | it and got the most value from it. This book series is my device
       | for the language learning. It was translated into Russian so
       | painfully slow I've just forced myself to read it in English,
       | learning the vocabulary and grammar on the way. Later I did it
       | intentionally with Dutch, and now I'm going to do the same with
       | Spanish.
       | 
       | It's so big you can reread it as many times as you want and still
       | be surprised by the details you no longer remember. In the end
       | I've read it 2 times in Russian, 3 times in English and 1 time in
       | Dutch - and I'm not going to stop.
        
         | _whiteCaps_ wrote:
         | Wow. I'm a fast reader, and it took me ages to finish that
         | series. Reading it 6 times would take a lifetime of effort for
         | most people.
        
       | melody_calling wrote:
       | The Ragged Trousered Philanthropists by Robert Tressell.
       | 
       | Taught me everything I needed to know about being a painter.
       | 
       | Perhaps not the 'best' book ever, but certainly one of the most
       | impactful for me as a common-or-garden 18-year-old realising for
       | the first time that our political and economic systems aren't
       | some sort of almighty edict and _could_ be critiqued.
        
       | MrDrDr wrote:
       | The Origins of Virtue - Matt Ridley
       | (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Origins_of_Virtue) The book
       | provides an evolutionary argument for altruism. It significantly
       | changed the way I thought about human behaviour and morality.
        
       | baruchel wrote:
       | Without a doubt, "Exact thinking in demented timed".
        
       | l72 wrote:
       | "The Death and Life of Great American Cities" by Jane Jacobs.
       | 
       | This book completely changed how I view my city and other urban
       | areas. I am now much more in-tune with my urban environment and
       | understand how different aspects of it affect me emotionally.
       | 
       | It also led me to going back to graduate school for a degree in
       | urban design and sustainability, and my focus is now how I can
       | use my computer science background to improve my environment.
        
       | MPSimmons wrote:
       | Nonfiction:
       | 
       | - The Goal, Eli Goldratt - changed the way I thought about
       | getting things done. The Theory of Constraints is important to
       | anyone who makes things.
       | 
       | Fiction:
       | 
       | - Hound of the Baskervilles, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle - I love me
       | some Sherlock Holmes, and nothing is more Sherlock Holmes than
       | Hound of the Baskervilles. Terrific writing, great story, spooky
       | setting. Love it.
        
       | cl3misch wrote:
       | "Nonlinear dynamics and Chaos" by Steven Strogatz.
       | 
       | It's the only textbook I really read during my university
       | education (sad to admit). Even though I consider it a textbook
       | and not pop-sci, it's incredibly approachable and teaches a
       | framework about dynamical systems which was completely missing
       | from all other courses I took.
       | 
       | Sounds like a humble brag. But it being the only book I managed
       | to read really makes it stick out for me!
        
       | MrDresden wrote:
       | In the fictional corner I must place the Nights Dawn Trilogy and
       | Dune.
       | 
       | Other corners don't really have a best book, for me. Recently
       | read 'Emperor of all maladies' and found it a fascinating journey
       | through cancer, both as an illness and as a research subject.
       | 
       | Also recently read 'The Grand Chessboard' which was also
       | fascinating for a completely different reason.
        
       | 39896880 wrote:
       | Master of the Senate by Robert Caro. The entire series is worth
       | it, and I am waiting on the edge of my seat for the last book in
       | the LBJ series.
        
       | miramba wrote:
       | Based on the amounts of re-reads: Das Boot. A soldier and artist,
       | caught in the strangest of circumstances, either under the most
       | extreme, life threatening danger or waiting for it, both in slow
       | motion. Fascinating, state of the art technology, a miracle of
       | science, but with a need of highly trained, expendable slaves
       | running it for a single immoral purpose. Completely dependent on
       | other peoples decisions, sitting far away in front of a chess
       | board, ready to sacrifice him at any given time for their
       | strategic goals. Any attempt to escape, to scream on the insanity
       | of the situation or even to question it are grounds for immediate
       | execution. Based on a true story. I'm reading this book for 30
       | years and the authors ability to describe the nightmare that
       | happened to him still haunts and fascinates me.
        
       | datavirtue wrote:
       | Genesis Revisited
        
       | vonrosen2000 wrote:
       | The Guns of August by Barbara W. Tuchman. The audio book is also
       | great. The writing style is gripping and it's a very funny book
       | despite being about a serious subject: WWI. It also gives a sense
       | of how much pressure the leaders were under and how some managed
       | while others simply broke as initial plans went awry. The author
       | makes clear how individual decisions made huge differences and
       | the entire outcome of the war could have been very different
       | based on the personalities of those involved. These personality
       | insights and descriptions really shine through. The book is not a
       | definitive history of the start of WWI by any means but it is
       | highly entertaining and reads quickly.
       | 
       | The chapters about Turkey can be skipped since they don't seem to
       | fit in with the rest of the book. I found them boring.
        
       | netrap wrote:
       | I guess Ender's Game since it got me into reading again as an
       | adult. I love all Vernor Vinge as well.
        
       | GeorgeTirebiter wrote:
       | The best book I've ever read has been The Art of Computer
       | Programming, Volumes 1 thru 7.
       | 
       | https://www-cs-faculty.stanford.edu/~knuth/taocp.html
       | 
       | History, Philosophy, Mathematics, and more!
        
       | 7874cole wrote:
       | Dare to Succeed by Van Crouch.
        
       | dogman1050 wrote:
       | Ken Kesey - "Sometimes a Great Notion"
       | 
       | A very rich, very human story generally about what drives people,
       | with a river as an unrelenting foe. I think.
        
       | ZeroGravitas wrote:
       | As a subset of "best" I read "The Daughter of Time" because it
       | was voted the best crime novel ever.
       | 
       | It was good. A modern (well, 1951) detective solves a historical
       | mystery while bedbound.
       | 
       | As for things that might be "Best" with a capital B I Loved
       | pretty much everything by Umberto Eco.
       | 
       | Neal Stephenson used to feature an NYT quote on his website that
       | described his works "bogging down into lectures like Umberto Eco
       | without the charm", so if you like the historical lectures in
       | Neal Stephenson, check him out.
        
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