[HN Gopher] The centrality of stupidity in mathematics
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       The centrality of stupidity in mathematics
        
       Author : ColinWright
       Score  : 196 points
       Date   : 2024-09-17 11:15 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | jimhefferon wrote:
       | In its impact on teaching, I'll say that based on teaching since
       | 1979, students take feeling stupid as convincing evidence that
       | their instructor is doing a bad job. No amount of assuring them
       | that it is the gateway to enlightenment or however you put it
       | will save you.
        
         | maroonblazer wrote:
         | I've become convinced that, in the end, no one _really_ teaches
         | you anything, you end up teaching yourself. That phrasing is a
         | bit hyperbolic. It 's more accurate to say a good teacher only
         | gets you 50%, 60%, maybe 70% of the way there, and it's up to
         | you to get you to 100%.
         | 
         | To be able to truly learn any given concept means being capable
         | of answering a practically infinite number of different
         | questions about that topic. The process of teaching is
         | essentially trying to uncover which questions the student can't
         | answer. The challenge, of course, is that the student doesn't
         | know what questions they can't answer, because the questions
         | haven't occurred to them. That is, until they start testing
         | themselves, to see if they really do understand the concept.
         | 
         | Problem sets in textbooks are the canonical way of addressing
         | this teaching challenge, but there are only so many pages in a
         | textbook, and there are other concepts that need to be taught,
         | so the scope of the problem sets are necessarily finite.
         | 
         | How many times have you nailed all the problems in a book, only
         | to discover that there was some aspect of the topic you didn't
         | understand, despite getting all the right answers?
        
           | jplusequalt wrote:
           | This 100%. I taught myself *everything* in college. I relied
           | on textbooks and online resources to teach myself the
           | material outside of class. It worked pretty well. I wasn't
           | the top of my class, nor have I retained all the things I've
           | learned (but who does?).
           | 
           | Fortunately, what I have retained is the ability to pick up
           | almost any subject and learn about it on my own. That's more
           | important than anything they can teach you in a classroom.
        
             | gtr wrote:
             | I think that is one of the things that you are supposed to
             | learn at college, in my experience.
        
           | saintfire wrote:
           | That means you didn't write enough unit tests.
           | 
           | Or so I'm told.
        
           | rramadass wrote:
           | The following two quotes from Martial Arts have been quite
           | helpful to me in motivating my study efforts;
           | 
           |  _The Master shows the Gate, but it is the Student who has to
           | walk through it._
           | 
           |  _To show one the Right Direction and Right Path, Oral
           | Instructions from a Master are necessary but Mastery of the
           | Subject only comes from one 's own Incessant Self-
           | Cultivation._
           | 
           | There is also a great inspirational story in the Mahabharata
           | of "Ekalavya" (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ekalavya) who
           | became an exceptional archer through self-training.
           | 
           |  _Eklavya inspires a life-long learning philosophy and his
           | presence seems to be a celebration for the masses. In this
           | EklavyaParv, the motto is 'You Create Yourself" and the
           | legend of Eklavya is a testimony that is forwarded by many
           | thinkers as well. The discipleship that Eklavya represents is
           | the best for a student and enables one to be the creator of
           | one's own destiny._
           | 
           | Adapting to current times, "The Master" can be a "Good Book"
           | and you can have "Many Masters" but the effort and learning
           | has to happen within the Student.
           | 
           | Source: I self-taught myself Martial Arts (JKD, Karate,
           | Taijiquan) from books when i was young. Decades later when i
           | did join a dojo to study under a Master, i was one of the top
           | students with good skill and power.
        
             | mbivert wrote:
             | > _[...] my Rebbe was the geologist of the soul. You see,
             | there are so many treasures in the earth. There is gold,
             | there is silver, and there are diamonds. But if you don't
             | know where to dig, you'll find only dirt and rocks and mud.
             | The Rebbe can tell you where to dig, and what to dig for,
             | but the digging you must do yourself._
        
             | marttt wrote:
             | "I self-taught myself Martial Arts (JKD, Karate, Taijiquan)
             | from books when i was young."
             | 
             | This is very interesting and impressive. How common would
             | you think a complete self-study of martial arts actually
             | is? I've always thought this cannot be done alone -- or, it
             | would be extremely easy to get lost or head to some wrong
             | direction, eventually harming yourself mentally or
             | physically. Akin to how a common suggestion about yoga or
             | meditation (I used to exercise vipassana daily for quite a
             | while) is that the first, basic principles should be taught
             | by a good master. Possibly due to personality type, I've
             | always wanted to challenge this assumption, though.
             | 
             | While learning martial arts on your own, what did you do to
             | overcome more serious mental blocks or standstills
             | (provided you had any)? Did you ever feel that "books are
             | not enough"?
        
           | vladms wrote:
           | I would claim there is no 100%. At least in engineering my
           | professors were saying (paraphrasing) that it's all about
           | trade-offs and most of the times there is not "one answer". I
           | think many education systems (up to graduate at least)
           | instill the idea that there is always "one answer" which has
           | many bad repercussions later (people seeing things in black
           | and white).
           | 
           | I don't think a student needs to always answer a question "on
           | the spot". Being able to find an answer in a reasonable
           | amount of time and explain an answer would be in my opinion
           | more valuable. So then it's more about "how efficient can the
           | student give the answer to the question" (answer on the spot,
           | spend one hour, spend one week, etc.).
        
         | nicholasbraker wrote:
         | A good teacher can offer some tools and methods (as in methods
         | of "learning to learn") to bridge the gap between stupidity and
         | (for lack of a better meaning) "enlightenment" Something
         | especially my math teachers in general lacked..
        
         | sureglymop wrote:
         | I disagree. I think good students judge their teachers based on
         | how motivated and passionate the teachers themselves are about
         | a topic. Though I've had classes where I only realized their
         | importance multiple semesters after having them. (Mostly the
         | non technical, business classes)
        
           | zellyn wrote:
           | In college, there were people who rated professors negatively
           | just because their classes were hard. Thirty years later, it
           | still annoys me.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | I don't think you disagree. The original comment was about
           | students in general, you are talking about good students.
        
         | chefandy wrote:
         | I'm a recent graduate, but also worked in colleges for a couple
         | of decades. Students I've interacted with almost universally
         | blame themselves first when they don't get something. Only when
         | they see many fellow students in the same boat do they tend to
         | blame the teacher. From my vantage point it seems you're either
         | assuming their frustration with the subject is frustration with
         | the instructor, or overgeneralizing based on non-representative
         | students, a non-representative subject, or... a non-
         | representative instructor. I'm not trying to be a jerk, but
         | career longevity wasn't a great indicator of pedagogical
         | insight or its prerequisite EQ.
        
       | api wrote:
       | This seems analogous to productive laziness in engineering. A
       | good engineer is a bit lazy in a certain kind of way: they think
       | about how to simplify or if that fails isolate or manage
       | complexity. An insufficiently lazy engineer will create mountains
       | of hideous complexity full of opportunities to show off but
       | horrible to maintain and brittle.
        
         | 082349872349872 wrote:
         | The analogy there isn't as direct as I'd like, because both
         | engineers found a path between A and B[0], and I'd thought TFA
         | was saying (because my experience has been) the initial feeling
         | of stupidity comes from not seeing _any_ path at all between
         | them[1].
         | 
         | The way I currently think about it is that a learning space is
         | a sort of skill tree (poset), and the easy concepts/skills are
         | the ones where we can learn all the prereqs, and then just
         | combine them (join reducible elements), whereas the tricky
         | concepts/skills (the ones which make us feel stupid) are the
         | ones that only have a single prerequisite, so we can't just
         | combine things we already know, but have to do something
         | novel[2] in order to acquire them (join irreducible elements).
         | 
         | [0] and both of them were probably confident all along that
         | they'd make it, the former because they had already sketched
         | out a few likely paths in their mind, the latter because
         | they've always managed to muddle through before
         | 
         | [1] furthermore, having travelled from A to B multiple times,
         | it's difficult for a teacher to empathise with those who are
         | not following
         | 
         | [2] to https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41566945 I'd say
         | maybe that's why traditionally we've waited until people are in
         | their late teens/early twenties, significantly ego-invested in
         | research as a career path, and have an experienced mentor,
         | before we throw them overboard into the lake of obligate
         | stupidity[3]?
         | 
         | (there are exceptions: Feynman habitually tested himself by
         | attempting to self-derive [practising research mode] before
         | allowing himself to read expository texts [entering spectator
         | mode]. Somewhere he[?] claims something along the lines of him
         | not being that smart, just that people were impressed after
         | they asked him questions for which he could give answers he'd
         | already spent hundreds of hours thinking about)
         | 
         | [3] everybody genius until it time to do genius shit, yo
        
       | User23 wrote:
       | I think it's mostly just that math education is largely
       | suboptimal. It's really an area where students hugely benefit
       | from individual teaching. It's cool that AI is making that
       | accessible.
       | 
       | To an extent the techniques are still woefully primitive too. The
       | standout for me personally is the calculational proof. It's
       | arguably the biggest advance in how math is done since the equals
       | sign, but despite that it's still rather uncommon. I suspect it
       | will be another generation or two before it really catches on.
       | Thankfully mechanical checking will drive adoption.
        
         | minkles wrote:
         | _> It's cool that AI is making that accessible._
         | 
         | If you want to be taught by a hallucinating crack head that
         | gets only 60-70% at best of what it says right, then yes. As a
         | qualified mathematician, I would suggest that the best path to
         | teaching is small steps in a properly defined hierarchy of
         | knowledge and practice practice practice.
         | 
         | Most of the teaching is seen as rubbish because people didn't
         | get enough practice further down the tree to be able to do it
         | instinctively so higher level concepts can be retained.
        
           | criddell wrote:
           | > If you want to be taught by a hallucinating crack head that
           | gets only 60-70% at best of what it says right, then yes.
           | 
           | That description is only a slight exaggeration of some high
           | school math teachers.
        
             | minkles wrote:
             | I don't disagree with that. I've argued with all my kids'
             | ones at least once!
        
           | zellyn wrote:
           | I've had incredibly productive discussions with Claude about
           | category theory. (I prefer Claude because it's the most
           | pleasant to talk with; I think they optimized for that.)
           | 
           | The ability to explain what I know already, hand-wave at what
           | I think I understand about my question, and then get a
           | description that meets me where I'm at is invaluable.
           | 
           | Sure, occasionally Claude will tell me (incorrectly) that a
           | CRDT's lattice operation needs an identity function: you
           | absolutely have to go back and forth with wikipedia.
           | 
           | LLMs are not a magic genie or oracle. But if you use them for
           | what they're good at, they're amazing.
        
             | minkles wrote:
             | I have colleagues for that.
        
               | zellyn wrote:
               | I do too, but sometimes I read a blog post that makes me
               | wonder about something and I don't want to schedule a 1:1
               | with them and then wait to chat about it. We're mostly
               | remote now...
        
           | ocular-rockular wrote:
           | Good luck finding that practice on certain topics. I hate to
           | say it but GPT 4o has done a better job of breaking down
           | problems and explaining them (granted at times incorrectly...
           | thats where studying with other people comes in) for my qual
           | practice than any of the profs or the useless texts ever did.
           | 
           | We talk about scaffolding and the importance of pedagogy in
           | math education yet none of that exists at higher levels. In
           | my case it's literally been the blind leading the blind. It's
           | a horrible environment to learn in. I say this as someone who
           | has tackled some really tough material with no issue in the
           | past thanks to having that hierarchy you mentioned. When that
           | doesn't exist or there is nothing else, the process truly
           | stalls. So sadly, I will take the crackhead over nothing.
           | 
           | Then again, maybe I just hate what I'm studying which is it's
           | own problem.
        
       | enriquto wrote:
       | > if we don't feel stupid it means we're not really trying
       | 
       | Sounds a bit like Kernighan's lever: "Debugging is twice as hard
       | as writing the code in the first place. Therefore, if you write
       | the code as cleverly as possible, you are, by definition, not
       | smart enough to debug it. Yet." [0]
       | 
       | [0] https://www.linusakesson.net/programming/kernighans-
       | lever/in...
        
         | rossant wrote:
         | Unless "as cleverly as possible" is zero.
        
           | danbruc wrote:
           | Or negative.
        
         | norir wrote:
         | For me the real lesson is that simple is hard.
        
       | alphazard wrote:
       | Was anyone else very unimpressed with the video of the kid,
       | water, and playdoh, until the very end? The whole time I was
       | thinking that it's clearly a miscommunication, they are just
       | assessing the kid's understanding of the word "more". If he
       | thought it meant the tallest one, then all his answers would be
       | correct.
       | 
       | But at the end, there is a question about sharing a graham
       | cracker, which I am 100% sure a child of that age understands.
       | They want at least the same amount of graham cracker as the other
       | person. The kid also gets that one wrong, at the cost of his own
       | bottom line. That really sold it.
        
         | persnickety wrote:
         | The crackers question changes from amount to fairness. It's
         | possible that the kid uses a different rule to evaluate it.
         | Like "a small person needs small portions" or some variation.
         | 
         | I'd be convinced that the kid doesn't get it if they swapped
         | crackers and then it stopped being fair.
        
           | alphazard wrote:
           | > It's possible that the kid uses a different rule to
           | evaluate it. Like "a small person needs small portions" or
           | some variation.
           | 
           | Fair enough. It's definitely missing the opposing case where
           | 1 graham cracker each is split on only one side and therefore
           | the situation goes from fair to unfair, even though it's the
           | same amount of graham cracker.
           | 
           | > I'd be convinced that the kid doesn't get it if they
           | swapped crackers and then it stopped being fair.
           | 
           | I wouldn't count on that. I think the kid (and most adults)
           | would claim it's fair if they thought they could get away
           | with it. The deep intuition for "fair" that I expect from
           | children would be derived from past experience negotiating
           | with peers, not from any kind of moral theory.
        
           | directevolve wrote:
           | The kid has the same portion of cracker before and after she
           | splits it, though.
        
         | wvbdmp wrote:
         | I think this video, and most such experiments involving
         | children, suffer from a central issue: children are extremely
         | sensitive to what they think adults want to hear. The kid
         | watched the woman manipulate the things. He probably figured it
         | would be rude not to acknowledge her changes. They should
         | figure out a way to have another kid as the experimenter and
         | disguise the obvious test/interview situation somehow.
         | Especially the cracker thing feels sooo odd. I can't believe he
         | would let a peer get away with it, but who's he to argue with
         | an adult, much less a stranger?
         | 
         | Also children are brought up with super obvious problems like
         | "what object fits into which hole?". I feel like some of these
         | tests measure less the child's understanding of the given
         | problem per se and more whether they have previously been
         | introduced to trick questions/illusions.
         | 
         | And even controlling for all that, you're totally right. Even
         | adults get confused by mass, weight, volume, apparent size etc.
         | sometimes. The kid doesn't even intellectually know those
         | concepts. His only input here is by sight, but his answer may
         | be different if he got to hold both objects and feel their
         | weight.
        
       | hilbert42 wrote:
       | _" Science makes me feel stupid too. It's just that I've gotten
       | used to it."_
       | 
       | ...And me too, especially when I think outside the orthodoxy,
       | which I do all the time.
       | 
       | As I must be wrong of course I don't talk about such stuff, as
       | one would be lauged at and ignored.
        
         | incognito124 wrote:
         | If you think outside orthodoxy, why you care what others think?
        
           | hilbert42 wrote:
           | Scientific orthodoxy - not societal orthodoxy. There's a vast
           | difference.
        
       | harrigan wrote:
       | I prefer the notion of Productive Failure [0].
       | 
       | [0] https://www.manukapur.com/productive-failure/
        
       | dahart wrote:
       | > if we don't feel stupid it means we're not really trying
       | 
       | He's really talking about curiosity. Calling it stupid is a
       | cheeky glass-half-empty framing. But one of the big problems with
       | math education is that we force students to struggle to a far
       | greater degree than other subjects, under a _belief_ that
       | personal struggle, the "trying", is the only way to truly get it.
       | This is a pervasive cultural belief that extends to work and
       | money too. And we force it from the beginning when kids are very
       | young, without taking the time to develop their curiosity, and
       | without setting up the system to gracefully nudge people who for
       | whatever reason don't see _why_ they should try so hard.
       | 
       | Personally I suspect there are lots of things that could help
       | motivate many more students than we do using our current system
       | of demanding kids "try" to grok abstract rules using Greek
       | letters. A combination of more visual storytelling, math history,
       | and physical less abstract problems, along with a grading and
       | progression system that ensures kids get it before moving to
       | topics that depend on having got it might help a lot of people;
       | too often kids are pushed to progress without ensuring they're
       | ready, and once that happens, "trying" is a fairly unreasonable
       | expectation.
       | 
       | Think about how you learned your first language. Your mom taught
       | it to you by rote repetition. She didn't expect you to come to
       | any of it on your own, and you weren't expected to struggle with
       | grammar or understand the rules or judged for getting them wrong,
       | you were just gently corrected when wrong and celebrated when
       | right. I don't know if first language learning is a good way to
       | learn math, but it is obvious that we have alternatives to
       | today's system and that today's system isn't serving everyone
       | who's capable of doing math.
        
         | Gupie wrote:
         | But he is not talking about education, about doing a course,
         | where "getting the right answer makes you file smart". He is
         | talking about research where nobody knows the right answer.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | Martin absolutely was talking about education; research _is_
           | education. Granted, not early education, but I'm not making
           | any claims about what he said, I simply used his quote as a
           | segue to make an observation about the connections between
           | research thinking and today's math curriculum. Research is a
           | continuous spectrum. We are expecting kids in elementary,
           | secondary, and early college to have a research mentality and
           | research level motivation in order to succeed in math
           | classes, unlike some other subjects. (Classes which, btw,
           | were all research topics at some point in time and took tens,
           | hundreds, even thousands of years to develop.) The mentality
           | and motivation are important if you want to end up doing any
           | of the actual graduate, post-graduate, or career research
           | where nobody knows the right answer. The kids who are pruned
           | out by our math system never make it there, and many don't
           | even make it to functional math literacy, even though many
           | /most are perfectly capable, and that's unfortunate and
           | doesn't reflect well on our education system. I'm suggesting
           | we can do better.
        
             | Gupie wrote:
             | I don't disagree with what you have just said except I
             | understand education to refer to the transfer of knowledge
             | while research is the discovery of new knowledge.
        
               | JoeAltmaier wrote:
               | Curiously the root of that word is 'to search again',
               | meaning more like 'reviewing sources in the library' and
               | less like 'doing experiments in the lab'.
        
               | kragen wrote:
               | re- in this case is probably an intensive prefix rather
               | than indicating repetition. this is an uncommon re- in
               | english, but does occur, for example in 'refried beans',
               | a calque from spanish where intensive re- is still a
               | productive prefix
               | 
               | so it probably means 'search really hard' rather than
               | 'search again'
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | Research is wholly about the transfer of knowledge, both
               | before and after any associated experimentation.
               | Sometimes there is discovery in between, but not always;
               | survey papers and meta analyses are research, a very
               | important part of research. Experiments that don't
               | research previous work and don't communicate the results
               | aren't research and usually don't result in the discovery
               | of new knowledge. Can't know it's new unless you research
               | what's already known.
        
             | glitchc wrote:
             | Research is discovery with a healthy dose of self-
             | education.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | I'm lucky enough to have had opportunity and
               | encouragement to do research most of my career, and work
               | closely with other researchers for decades.
               | 
               | The first job of a researcher is to understand what
               | others have done, before attempting discovery. Failure to
               | do that critical step means it's not considered research.
               | The second job is to build on the work of others. And the
               | third job is to communicate those results to others.
               | Discovery is the seeking of knowledge, which is
               | education. Framing it as self-education is feeding a
               | narrative of research as being an individual sport, but
               | in reality research is entirely a collaborative team
               | sport with incremental dependent results.
        
         | derbOac wrote:
         | Reframing it as curiosity is a good point, although the essay
         | as written resonated with me because it emphasizes the
         | "productive ignorance" of research.
         | 
         | One of the central problems of our time in research and
         | academics, I think, is an incentive to focus on areas that are
         | well-established because we know they are likely to produce
         | results that we have confidence in (according to whatever
         | inferential criteria we use). The idea of it being ok to not
         | know something a priori, to have lack of confidence in it,
         | seems sort of discouraged in the current climate, because it's
         | too risky.
        
           | what-the-grump wrote:
           | Dancing around the elephant in the room, the problem is
           | financial risk, e.g. this isn't really about research this is
           | a business, and business must minimize risk to be profitable?
        
         | wwarner wrote:
         | There are two authors here, since the post contains an inset
         | about dealing with your own ignorance by another professor.
         | They aren't saying quite the same thing. The inset is saying
         | that every grad student will confront their "absolute
         | ignorance" and it will be difficult, scary and possibly
         | painful. The author of the post is saying it can be a source of
         | joy. I suppose they can be reconciled. It could also be that so
         | little of our behavior is based on knowledge that the only sane
         | reaction is at least somewhat negative, whether characterized
         | by being overwhelmed, or sad, or detached.
        
         | taeric wrote:
         | I think the framing as "stupidity" is to highlight that you
         | don't always chase creative questions. Quite often, you should
         | chase the obvious or understood points.
         | 
         | The problem, I think, comes from the weaponization of "stupid"
         | against people. The XKCD of the lucky 1000 plays a good role
         | here. If you are constantly deriding others for stupid takes,
         | then anyone that derides one of your stupid takes will hit
         | hard. And that seems to be getting worse.
        
         | thomastjeffery wrote:
         | > He's really talking about curiosity. Calling it stupid is a
         | cheeky glass-half-empty framing.
         | 
         | I disagree.
         | 
         | How can you be curious without _something_ you don 't
         | understand?
         | 
         | The point, as I see it, is that if you find yourself in a
         | position of complete understanding, then you must also have a
         | complete lack of curiosity. If you _think_ you are in that
         | position, then the way to revive your curiosity is to
         | deconstruct your position of expertise, _i.e._ , recognize your
         | position of stupidity.
         | 
         | ---
         | 
         | Curiosity is step 2. Stupidity is step 1. Learning moves us
         | from step 2 to step 3. The important thing to recognize is that
         | step 3 is actually a new instance of step 1. Expertise is the
         | base case of this recursive tree traversal: it's how you stop
         | the learning process.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | > How can you be curious without something you don't
           | understand?
           | 
           | Good question. You might have discovered my point: curiosity
           | comes with stupidity, implicitly by definition, right? I
           | think that's what you're saying too. Maybe you don't disagree
           | after all?
           | 
           | You can't have curiosity without stupidity, as you rightly
           | point out. Ignorance is probably a better word than
           | stupidity. Using "stupid" is imprecise and was used here for
           | a bit of surprise and humor.
           | 
           | You can have stupidity (ignorance) without curiosity. When
           | that happens, perhaps the expected result is no progress
           | developing new understanding nor lessening of ignorance.
           | 
           | Given that curiosity implies ignorance, and that ignorance
           | alone is not sufficient for learning, what justification is
           | there for claiming curiosity and ignorance are separate steps
           | or separate things when it comes to education or research?
           | I'm suggesting they are two sides of the same coin, they must
           | both exist before learning happens, and neither one can come
           | before the other. Calling it curiosity instead of ignorance
           | or stupidity is perhaps a kinder framing, especially for
           | people who might not immediately get the self deprecating
           | humor of "stupidity".
        
             | thomastjeffery wrote:
             | My disagreement was semantic. Wasn't yours?
             | 
             | My overall point is that the end of education is expertise,
             | which itself is a form of ignorance. We generally consider
             | stupidity and expertise to be antonyms, but they often
             | exist as two opposing perspectives of the same experience.
        
         | glitchc wrote:
         | Well, mathematics at a graduate level really is a subject that
         | can only be self-taught, as are most subjects at the graduate
         | level. Yes, some guidance can be available, but the pedagogical
         | hand-holding that is undergrad is simply not possible. The
         | analogy to language only really applies to mathematics that is
         | well-understood and can be taught this way. In grad school,
         | almost no mathematics you encounter is that well understood, so
         | the teaching methods are absent.
        
           | j2kun wrote:
           | It's possible, but counter to the point of a PhD:
           | apprenticeship for research.
        
           | l33t7332273 wrote:
           | There are lots of areas of math grad school that are well
           | understood. Pretty much everything up to quals (and some
           | beyond that) is well known and teaching methods are far from
           | absent.
        
             | grungegun wrote:
             | In a sense, I spend most of my time on material after quals
             | because it's so much harder to understand.
        
         | ColinWright wrote:
         | I don't know your background, but speaking as someone who has
         | done a PhD in Pure Math, and working with a lot of people who
         | have done PhDs in Pure Math, I disagree with you. It's very
         | much a case of feeling stupid, and being able to embrace that
         | and live with it.
         | 
         | The "being curious" thing is independent of the "feeling
         | stupid" thing. It definitely exists, but it's absolutely not
         | the same thing.
         | 
         | Looking at the rest of your comment, maybe we have a lot in
         | common, but I definitely disagree with a lot of what you've
         | written here, so no doubt our experiences are wildly different.
         | Perhaps over a coffee[0] we could talk constructively about
         | education, math, struggles to understand, and work ethics, but
         | suffice to say here that even if we do have substantial common
         | ground, I think we might have very different points of view.
         | 
         | [0] Other beverages are available.
        
           | dahart wrote:
           | Of course you disagree with me ;) You're talking about the
           | minority of people who've had incredible amounts of math
           | success (yes despite sometimes legitimately feeling very
           | stupid). I'm not talking about my own experience, FWIW, I'm
           | talking about the majority of people who never get anywhere
           | close to a PhD in math, because they were left behind by our
           | math education system. Obviously I don't know exactly what
           | you disagree with since you didn't elaborate, but we have
           | bumped into each other in mathy threads fairly often, right?
           | If we get the chance some time, it would be super fun to
           | discuss math & education over coffee!
        
             | ColinWright wrote:
             | I suspect part of the friction here is the difference
             | between teaching math to people who will not go on to study
             | it at an advanced level, versus teaching it to people who
             | will.
             | 
             | In that case, what is being taught is actually different,
             | it's the similar in some senses to the difference between
             | teaching someone to operate a machine, versus teaching them
             | how to maintain, fix, and possibly improve said machine.
             | 
             | I've said for a long time that if only we could identify
             | early the students who will _not_ go on to study
             | mathematics at an advanced level then we could better
             | benefit them by having a substantially different curriculum
             | taught in a completely different style.
             | 
             | But even then, the willingness to be confused by something,
             | and resilience in the face of being made to feel stupid not
             | by the teacher[0] but by the current (temporary!) lack of
             | understanding, is really, _really_ powerful.
             | 
             | [0] Teachers who unnecessarily make students feel stupid
             | should be prevented from ever, _ever_ going near students
             | again. Ever.
             | 
             | > _If we get the chance some time, it would be super fun to
             | discuss math & education over coffee!_
             | 
             | Where are you based? I travel a lot ... my email is in my
             | profile, and you could always register with my "Meet With
             | Me" system to get a heads-up if I'm going to be in the
             | area.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | > if only we could identify early the students who will
               | not go on to study mathematics at an advanced level then
               | we could better benefit them by having a substantially
               | different curriculum taught in a completely different
               | style.
               | 
               | Yeah I'd very much agree with this. Actually strong agree
               | with all your points there, it's well aligned with what I
               | think I was trying to say.
               | 
               | I'm US based, currently mostly Utah, sometimes
               | California.
        
               | ColinWright wrote:
               | I was in CA for three weeks earlier this year, including
               | getting to spend half a day with Cliff Stoll (Hi Cliff!).
               | 
               | But I'm unlikely to be in the US now for a bit, but if
               | you ping me an email then I can tell you how (if you
               | choose) you can register with my "Meet With Me" system.
               | 
               | Or not ...
               | 
               | Regardless, yes, I think we do (or would) agree on most
               | of these issues.
        
             | btilly wrote:
             | Your starting "of course" presumes that you are right. I'm
             | disagreeing because I truly and honestly think that you're
             | wrong.
             | 
             | People who are struggling with math, even in elementary
             | school, will often say things like, "That's so simple, why
             | couldn't I get it? I must be stupid!" I've heard this over
             | and over again in a wide variety of contexts. Including
             | from my own children. We honestly believe that if it is
             | simple, it should be easy to understand. And so the
             | experience of having struggled with something simple,
             | leaves us feeling stupid.
             | 
             |  _Even_ people with an incredible amount of math success,
             | wind up feeling this. And pretty much universally have also
             | developed coping mechanisms for it. But the experience
             | itself is pretty much universal. My son felt it in middle
             | school when he was struggling with long-division.
             | 
             | Now does a poor education system make this experience more
             | likely? Does it serve us poorly? Absolutely! I consider it
             | a crime that Singapore has developed a better way of
             | teaching elementary math, and we have not adopted it.
             | Singapore is now moving to #1 across different subjects
             | according to PISA, and Western education systems aren't
             | even curious about how.
             | 
             | However that is orthogonal to the key point here. Which is
             | that math tends to be simple in a way that our brains
             | aren't built for. And when we're confronted with how hard
             | it is for us to learn something simple, it is easy for us
             | to feel stupid. This can be very demoralizing. And it is
             | very helpful for us to learn to accept and deal with that
             | feeling.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | My 'of course' to @ColinWright was intended to be tongue
               | in cheek playful, and not presume anything. But I accept
               | it might come off a different way than I intended.
               | 
               | I think (like with others in this subthread) that I have
               | mislead you or am being misunderstood or both. I'm
               | familiar with the feeling of stupidity in math, and I'd
               | agree that it's useful when/if harnessed. I'm calling the
               | process of accepting it and dealing with it "curiosity",
               | partly since if curiosity is missing then people tend to
               | feel shame and anxiety with their stupidity and tend to
               | avoid math and give up on learning it.
               | 
               | I don't believe there is such a thing as right and wrong
               | here. I'm making a point of view framing distinction, not
               | disagreeing with the article or the quote in the article.
               | I think that "stupidity" isn't the best word choice in
               | general, even though it might work for math researchers
               | in this case. That word comes with many overloaded and
               | negative meanings that aren't accurate to what the
               | article is really trying to say.
        
           | bbor wrote:
           | As a self-proclaimed cognitive engineer (it's really easy to
           | proclaim stuff these days!), I absolutely agree with you, for
           | two basic reasons:
           | 
           | 1. I don't think the author was just saying that math is hard
           | or "a struggle", I think they were specifically pointing out
           | the unusual nature of math(s) as a collection of meaningfully
           | novel cognitive tools rather than facts or recombinations of
           | existing tools. AKA "feel stupid" means "feel embarrassed you
           | don't understand earlier because now it's obvious", not "take
           | a long time to understand" or other synonyms for struggle. We
           | all agree on the vague shape of the proposed improvements to
           | pre-graduate math education, I would guess!
           | 
           | 2. That's not how first language acquisition works, at all:
           | the rules of grammar--not to mention etiquette-are far more
           | complex than most laymen imagine, and intentional parental
           | involvement via correction or the occasional picture book is
           | absolutely the exception, not the rule. This is the core
           | insight driving Noam Chomsky's lifetime of scholarship, and I
           | think he would agree that childhood linguistic development is
           | more similar to mathematics education than practically any
           | other activity, if we're talking about "feeling stupid" like
           | the author is.
        
         | kragen wrote:
         | kids struggle with grammar, pronunciation, pragmatics,
         | vocabulary, etc. they do so naturally, and maybe you've
         | forgotten your own struggles, but they're very real
         | 
         | i think we can do better than we are doing at math education,
         | much better, but there is no way to learn math, or anything
         | else, without diligent effort. it won't happen by passive
         | absorption. you can listen to people speaking spanish all day
         | every day for years without learning more than a few words of
         | spanish if you don't make any effort
         | 
         | curiosity is one possible motivation for making that effort,
         | but the immediate result of the effort is, at first, failure.
         | that's true of language, it's true of playing the guitar, it's
         | true of programming, it's true of throwing clay on a potter's
         | wheel. that failure feels like being clumsy, weak, or stupid,
         | depending on the form it takes
         | 
         | and that's what the article is talking about. trying to do
         | things that are beyond your mental ability makes you aware of,
         | and frustrated with, that mental ability. that's not curiosity,
         | it's feeling stupid. it's also how you increase your mental
         | ability!
        
         | bonoboTP wrote:
         | > But one of the big problems with math education is that we
         | force students to struggle to a far greater degree than other
         | subjects, under a belief that personal struggle, the "trying",
         | is the only way to truly get it.
         | 
         | I disagree. In fact, I found that often the _better_ and more
         | didactically streamlined the exposition is in a book, the less
         | deeply I end up learning the material. It is precisely the
         | personal struggle, having to make my own sketches and
         | derivations, starting out with a misconception because of bad
         | phrasing in the book and having to explore that misconception
         | until I find what I misunderstood etc. makes the knowledge
         | stick much better because it now feels my own, like an intimate
         | friend.
         | 
         | Spoonfeeding may get people quicker to the point of solving the
         | standardized quiz at the end of the chapter but that's not the
         | same as learning and understanding. Another instance of metric-
         | chasing in action.
         | 
         | It's a bit like how I learned MS Office or Photoshop by trial
         | and error as a kid, or programming by mucking around trying to
         | make a website do what I want. And you bet it was a struggle.
         | Struggle but with reward at the end. Compare that with a
         | handholding tutorial where you do learn how to do whatever the
         | tutorial makers had in mind, but it won't generalize as much.
         | Sounds totally dry. I loved computers, but hated school lessons
         | that tried to teach us MS Office in the handholding
         | spoonfeeding way. It's the death of the subject.
         | 
         | It's a safari in a safe car, looking at the animals through
         | binoculars vs running around in the jungle in your own
         | adventure amongst the beasts.
        
         | spookie wrote:
         | The struggle isn't necessarily bad for learning. It really is a
         | good way to learn. I like it.
         | 
         | But alas, I never thought as a kid that I didn't have time for
         | other things. I was always into something.
        
       | mjburgess wrote:
       | My current view on this is that it's a symptom of exactly what
       | "expertise" means in academia. It does not mean expert judgement,
       | nor expertise forged in experience.. no it means being an expert
       | at giving accounts of one's knowledge in connection with other
       | explicit accounts of knowledge.
       | 
       | Very little of anything worth knowing, in practice, can be given
       | this account or a reliable one at least (physics sure,..
       | teaching?). Say, after decades of teaching, an exceptional
       | teacher is not going to be able to (in general) report their
       | methods in terms of the explicit accounts of methods as
       | established in books. These are highly varied anyway, and full of
       | rival theories.
       | 
       | Indeed, a person who could give such a count is most likely to be
       | a poor teacher by comparison: since all their labour has been in
       | the creation of these accounts, not in teaching (or far less).
       | 
       | You cannot do both. You cannot both acquire a vast depth of
       | expertise that grounds good judgement (risk/reward, problems that
       | arise in practice, context-sensitive question, intuitions for
       | failure/sucess, etc.) -- _and_ develop baroque accounts of that
       | knowledge (its origins, remembering which papers you read,
       | remembering all your projects, all the theories developed by
       | academics, their history, and so on).
       | 
       | If knowledge is only, as academics say, just their own sort of
       | accounting -- then one would feel stupid all the time. Since
       | almost nothing can be thus accounted for.. and yet the world is
       | replete with highly practiced experts in a very large number of
       | domains.
        
         | directevolve wrote:
         | My view is that the when academics call other academics
         | "experts," it's just noting who works professionally on a
         | topic. Usually those people will be able to give a reasonable
         | account of their field. But a lot of the game is reviewing the
         | specific subject matter before a presentation. Or steering a
         | conversation toward familiar ground.
         | 
         | A teacher of topic X is not an expert in topic X. They are an
         | expert in "teaching topic X."
        
       | javier_e06 wrote:
       | I equate feeling stupid with negative re-inforcment. When I find
       | the solution I pat myself in the back (we are programmers, nobody
       | cares). When I can't find the solution and then is shown to me I
       | feel bad because I my skills proved insufficient.
       | 
       | Yet
       | 
       | That sense of feeling of success and failure are so fleeting I
       | learn to let go of both.
       | 
       | They are the fuel that drive my quests but I don't sleep with
       | them. They are both volatile.
        
       | gwd wrote:
       | > Science makes me feel stupid too. It's just that I've gotten
       | used to it.
       | 
       | When I started my PhD program, a group of us were given a little
       | talk by the department secretary.
       | 
       | She told the story of how she went to audition for Jeopardy!, a
       | trivia game show. She saw a whole bunch of other people at the
       | audition get really nervous and choke up; her take on it was that
       | they were used to being the most knowledgable in the room -- they
       | were used to sitting in front of the TV screen with their friends
       | or family and knowing every fact, and when they were suddenly
       | confronted with a situation where _everyone_ was as knowledgable
       | as they were, they were suddenly very intimidated.
       | 
       | She, on the other hand, was completely relaxed -- she spent her
       | days working with Nobel prize winners and loads of other people
       | for whom she had no doubt were smarter than her. Being confronted
       | with loads of people smarter than her was a daily experience.
       | 
       | She told this story to us to say, a lot of you will experience
       | the same thing: You were used to being the smartest person in
       | your High School, you were even used to being the smartest person
       | in your classes at the prestigious university you attended. Now
       | you'll encounter a situation where _everyone_ is like you: the
       | best and most driven people in your classes.
       | 
       | You'll feel stupid and inferior for a bit, and that's normal.
       | Don't let it bother you. Eventually you'll notice while that most
       | of these other people have areas where they're better than you,
       | they have areas where you're better. And there will still be the
       | occasional person who seems better than you at everything: that's
       | OK too. You're not the best at everything, and you don't have to
       | be.
        
         | tapanjk wrote:
         | Well said. This should be part of orientation for every new
         | college student.
        
           | bpshaver wrote:
           | I feel like this "get ready to be surrounded by peers for the
           | first time" or the related "you aren't used to working hard,
           | but now you will actually have to work hard" speech was given
           | to me in some form at the start of high school, college, grad
           | school, and in many other contexts and intermediate
           | milestones. It wasn't ever completely true, but I think if I
           | went for a PhD it would (obviously) have finally been true.
           | 
           | To be clear, I'm not saying I was always smarter than people
           | around me, I just felt like I never had to work as hard as I
           | suspected even through my Masters program.
        
             | Noumenon72 wrote:
             | Perhaps we should replace this messaging with "You may find
             | that you won't have to work hard to get through X, but that
             | doesn't mean you shouldn't." Educators don't have the time
             | or ability to set up an incentive scheme that makes you
             | "have to" work your hardest, but it gets more rewarding at
             | each level.
        
               | Loughla wrote:
               | Bingo. You can breeze through all levels of education
               | with a combination of personality and picking the right
               | courses. Your faculty tend to be overworked and underpaid
               | for the work they do. You are one of hundreds. They do
               | not exist to make sure you're actually learning anything,
               | just that you can spit back the course content
               | appropriately.
               | 
               | But once you get over the barrier to entry for most
               | white-collar jobs (bachelor degree), what's the point? If
               | you're not getting anything out of the education, you're
               | only borrowing trouble from yourself in the future.
               | 
               | My bachelor's was relatively easy. My masters was
               | MASSIVELY difficult. The PhD was even harder.
               | 
               | Because I sought out those difficulties.
        
           | red-iron-pine wrote:
           | along with basic hygiene
        
         | andai wrote:
         | My first day at computer science I saw a guy with a huge beard
         | playing Dwarf Fortress, and I was like "oh crap, he's like ten
         | times smarter than me."
        
           | nickpeterson wrote:
           | To be fair, he may have been a dwarf and had a natural edge.
        
           | Ozarkian wrote:
           | I would have assumed he was a UNIX system administrator.
           | Everybody knows that only guys with enormous beards can
           | properly tame a UNIX system.
        
             | 0xEF wrote:
             | And girls trapped in dinosaur theme parks, let's not forget
        
               | knodi123 wrote:
               | That was the exception that proves the rule.
        
               | dwattttt wrote:
               | Because the phrase has always bothered me: this means
               | something other than what it's commonly understood to
               | nowadays.
               | 
               | An older use of the word "prove", as in to test, means it
               | says "that's an exception that tests the rule, and finds
               | it is incorrect"
        
               | joseluis wrote:
               | I agree in that the meaning of prove in that context is
               | "put it to the test" but for me it doesn't go as far as
               | finding the rule incorrect, because it's a general rule,
               | not an absolute rule. A lot more exceptions would be
               | necessary to make the rule incorrect for the general
               | case.
        
               | seszett wrote:
               | I wouldn't be so sure, the same expression exists in
               | French:
               | 
               |  _L 'exception qui confirme la regle_
               | 
               | And there's no ambiguity about it, the exception is
               | confirming that the rule is true.
               | 
               | That's a stupid expression IMO, but I would be surprised
               | if the English expression meant the exact contrary.
        
               | ColinWright wrote:
               | There is an alternate interpretation, that the existence
               | of an explicit exception proves (confirms) the existence
               | of a rule to which an exception can be made.
               | 
               | So the (existence of an) exception proves (the existence
               | of) the rule.
        
               | knodi123 wrote:
               | The phrase bothers me because it's often used to set up a
               | cousin to the no true scotsman fallacy. If you can't find
               | an exception, then it proves the nay-sayer right. If you
               | CAN find an exception.... it still proves the naysayer
               | right?!?
               | 
               | I wouldn't use the phrase outside of silly internet jokes
               | about 90s popcorn flicks.
        
               | gopher_space wrote:
               | I've always used it to mean that I don't care about your
               | hypothetical edge case.
        
               | underlipton wrote:
               | You don't know enough transfem furries.
        
         | madcaptenor wrote:
         | So did she get to be on Jeopardy!?
        
         | wileydragonfly wrote:
         | That secretary is probably hard funded, makes more money than
         | 75% of the scientists she supported, enjoys vacations, and will
         | have a comfortable retirement.
        
           | euvin wrote:
           | Yeah, I had a similar sentiment as I read the last sentence:
           | "You're not the best at everything, and you don't have to
           | be."
           | 
           | It really does get harder to internalize this when it starts
           | to involve real, tangible outcomes like money and job
           | security. No one would reasonably argue that what she said
           | wasn't true on some spiritual or personal level, but it feels
           | like a nothing-burger when people are clearly in a
           | competitive environment, a competitive program, a competitive
           | job, etc.
        
             | dgacmu wrote:
             | It might feel that way, but I think it's really worth
             | asking : is it?
             | 
             | If I put humility aside for a moment, I'm awfully good in
             | my field, and academia is hyper competitive, and yet I know
             | people who are better at everything that I do -- and just
             | like the secretary in that example, I know some people who
             | I think could do everything that I can better than I do.
             | 
             | But that really is okay, the world has room for all of us
             | and more, and is much better off for having several of us
             | applying our skills and abilities. We are not short on
             | important problems to solve, we are short on solutions and
             | solvers!
        
           | askafriend wrote:
           | It's advice you give other people but secretly don't take
           | yourself. Because you want to be the very best - like no one
           | ever was.
        
         | mkleczek wrote:
         | > You're not the best at everything, and you don't have to be.
         | 
         | As a 50 years old person that some time ago was one of these
         | brightest in class I can say that for most of us, people, it
         | is:
         | 
         | You're not the best at _anything_ , and you don't have to be.
        
           | quasse wrote:
           | As another very insightful HN commenter said [1]:
           | 
           | "In a way, meeting those people was liberating. I will never
           | be a world champion at anything, so I might as well play for
           | the love of the sport."
           | 
           | It stuck with me and has become more meaningful as I get
           | older and a bit slower.
           | 
           | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40557491
        
         | tombert wrote:
         | For every job I've ever had, I've been the "math and functional
         | programming nerd", where I know lots of tricks in Haskell and
         | F# and even concurrency theory within Java. I felt very smart.
         | 
         | I went to ICFP in 2019, and I can say with a high degree of
         | confidence that I was the dumbest person there [1]. Everyone
         | was speaking on four-syllable mathematical notation that I had
         | never heard of, and talking about intricacies in GHC that I
         | wasn't really familiar with, and different aspects of type
         | theory that were completely foreign to me.
         | 
         | It was very humbling; it didn't depress me or anything, but
         | made me realize that there's a lot to learn and improve on, and
         | the people there were actually extremely nice and gave me some
         | pointers so I can get incrementally closer to being as smart as
         | they are.
         | 
         | I think 2024 Tom would be the second dumbest guy in the room if
         | I went again.
         | 
         | [1] Knowledge-wise, I have no idea about IQ or anything.
        
           | whatshisface wrote:
           | Just imagine how much of a waste of time it would have been
           | to attend a conference where everyone was pointing out
           | mathematical concepts you had heard of, talking about
           | intracacies in GHC you were familiar with, and discussing
           | different aspects of type theory you thought were completely
           | trivial!
        
       | passion__desire wrote:
       | I think this process of uncovering your stupidity / confusion
       | could be gradual as Scott makes the point below. It need not be a
       | single "Aha" moment.
       | 
       | https://scottaaronson.blog/?p=4974
       | 
       | > OK, but why a doofus computer scientist like me? Why not,
       | y'know, an actual expert? I won't put forward my ignorance as a
       | qualification, although I have often found that the better I
       | learn a topic, the more completely I forget what initially
       | confused me, and so the less able I become to explain things to
       | beginners.
        
       | Dove wrote:
       | I had a very similar observation about engineering early in my
       | career. The first project I worked on professionally felt vast
       | compared to anything I'd seen in school. At first I was
       | embarrassed to be new, to have to ask questions, to have to deal
       | with solving problems in areas I didn't fully understand. It took
       | months and months to "come up to speed", and I felt that I was
       | drowning in complexity and unqualified for the work I was doing.
       | Ultimately I came to understand that this is the normal state of
       | engineering, especially when innovation is happening. The bulk of
       | the work in engineering (not all of it, but the vast majority,
       | especially in software) is fully understanding the problem space,
       | the tradeoffs between alternative paths, understanding how your
       | solution holds up and fixing bugs. In short, once you've gotten
       | all your questions answered and finally feel fully qualified and
       | no longer ignorant, you've also solved the problem you were
       | working on. Time to move on to the next thing.
       | 
       | When I realized that, I realized that feeling dumb was actually
       | _normal_ , and that I should embrace it and expect to spend the
       | majority of my career in that state. Not only did this dissolve
       | my embarrassment, but it made me seek out ways to thrive in
       | uncertainty and chaos -- which skills have been to my advantage
       | for many years.
       | 
       | It is uncomfortable to admit you don't know things, or you don't
       | know the best way to proceed, or you don't understand something.
       | The temptation is to downplay that, to pretend you understand, to
       | retreat toward the things you understand well. But poking at the
       | unknown is how you get smarter, and ultimately how you solve
       | problems. It takes courage, especially in a crowd, but it is also
       | what solving problems normally feels like.
        
         | setopt wrote:
         | I only feel dumb if I don't know how to _start_ looking at a
         | problem, in some cases because I don't understand the
         | description of the problem either.
         | 
         | But as long as I understand to some degree what we want to
         | achieve, and have some vague idea of what corner I might start
         | in, I usually don't "feel" dumb even if I know very little
         | about the final solution...
        
       | kzz102 wrote:
       | I want to distinguish two sources of "feeling of stupidity". One
       | come from the challenge of grasping a difficult concept. The
       | other is the smack on the head when you fail to see a simple but
       | brilliant insight. In my view, you should not feel stupid in
       | either situations, and the teacher should try to ward you against
       | this feeling.
       | 
       | For the first type, I argue it's simply the resistance to a new
       | mental model. The article's example of epsilon-delta language is
       | a perfect example. It's a new way of thinking that takes time
       | (and it did historically) to sink in. Competing on how fast you
       | grasp this new concept is stupid. When the new mode of thinking
       | becomes natural, it won't care how long you took to adapt to it.
       | 
       | For the second type, it's simply an impossible standard to
       | reliably have eureka moments. Clearly, smarter people will have
       | more of these than the average people, but no one can do this
       | reliably. On the other hand, while it takes more work for us
       | mortals to have these insights than a genius, there are plenty of
       | ways to get there that don't require a super high IQ. Teachers
       | should try to foster these moments because they are huge
       | confidence builders, but try to minimise the impact of someone
       | showing off their brilliance.
        
         | zeptian wrote:
         | the two types are nice !
         | 
         | the author likens your first type to building "mental" roads,
         | which form new pathways of cognition, and takes time, and has
         | emotional resistance, and requires conscious effort and
         | practice to carve out. also to relate the roads to other roads
         | correctly, so the mental map of roads is consistent, and can be
         | traversed.
         | 
         | the problem is that most students do not grasp ideas fully and
         | develop facility with it. when this happens, the foundations
         | are shaky, and facility is lost. then, they label themselves as
         | incapable which leads to a vicious cycle where, the belief of
         | being stupid leads to more stupidity.
         | 
         | the second type is where the roads (ideas) are there, but a
         | route from source to destination is not clear, and the aha
         | moment is when you see the full path in the mental eye.
        
       | thomasahle wrote:
       | The best feeling of my PhD was whenever two intuitions (or what I
       | thought were facts) were predicting different outcomes. While
       | maddening and nothing seemed to make sense, it was also the
       | feeling of some big revelation waiting nearby to be found.
        
       | rhelz wrote:
       | We don't really have a good name for the emotion that this
       | article describes as "feeling Stupid".
       | 
       | You know what it feels like to be stupid? It feels like you are
       | really smart! I feels like you already know all you need to know,
       | about, say, vaccinations, or about hot to parent somebody else's
       | children.
       | 
       | I'm currently a student teacher, and I'm really struggling to get
       | this point across to my students. I'm asking them questions which
       | make them really think, and since no other teacher has done that
       | to them before, they feel really stupid. But they are not _being_
       | stupid. If they were _being_ stupid, they 'd feel like they had
       | it all figured out.
       | 
       | So yeah, there is this emotion, commonly but unfortunately called
       | "feeling stupid", which you feel when you are trying to figure
       | something out. What would be a good name for that emotion???
        
         | 082349872349872 wrote:
         | anticipation of cluefulness? epistemic frustration? temporarily
         | embarrassed expertise?
         | 
         | perplexed?
        
       | beryilma wrote:
       | > ... if we don't feel stupid it means we're not really trying.
       | 
       | > Science involves confronting our 'absolute stupidity'.
       | 
       | I understand where the author is coming from, but these are just
       | useless statements. Stupidity and knowing that you don't know
       | stuff are not the same thing. The former involves an inability to
       | understand or learn, whereas the latter involves an
       | acknowledgment of our current state of ignorance and that we can
       | do better.
       | 
       | I don't believe one can be successful in science by constantly
       | feeling stupid and getting used to it. You have to be comfortable
       | with not knowing stuff, but with the drive and self-confidence
       | that you can discover new things and expand your knowledge, which
       | is of course not easy either.
        
         | feoren wrote:
         | But when people quit STEM degrees, they don't say "it made me
         | feel ignorant" or "I didn't have enough knowledge". They say "I
         | was too stupid". The author is expressly trying to address
         | those people, and the people who might be able to intervene in
         | their lives. "Yes! We're all stupid! That's part of what it
         | means to learn and research math and science!"
        
       | wileydragonfly wrote:
       | Nice bookend to the other link. "All I want is a 17 sided polygon
       | on my tombstone... here's a simple guide on how to draw it."
       | 
       | "Best I can do is a star."
        
       | bonoboTP wrote:
       | Indeed, and I find that my humanities/law-inclined smart friends
       | don't reading math texts is supposed to make you feel this way.
       | They read through a 100 pages of law textbooks and at no part do
       | they feel dumbfounded by a paragraph or get stuck on a page for
       | an hour. It's hard to learn it for sure, but you can read and
       | read and read it. Reading math, on the other hand, is a staccato,
       | a constant stop and go (and flip the pages back). One evening I
       | might only progress 5 pages in the math textbooks because I stop
       | after half a page to draw some sketches, some diagrams. Then I
       | stand up and walk up and down the corridor for 10 minutes
       | thinking things through and whether my current understanding
       | makes sense and adds up to explain what I just read. But they
       | aren't familiar with this mode of reading and working though a
       | text, they think they are stupid or "non-math" people for not
       | getting the meaning instantly, like they would in a book about
       | law or marketing.
        
       | underlipton wrote:
       | I imagine that an issue for many isn't so much that feeling
       | stupid is uncomfortable so much as it's a good heuristic for when
       | you're in over your head in a way that could be dangerous to your
       | life or livelihood. So then, it's actually a matter of trust: "I
       | _trust_ that wrestling with this problem for a few hours
       | /days/weeks isn't going to disrupt my ability to get food/pay
       | rent/be physically-safe." It's super easy to plow through
       | feelings of insecurity when you can convince yourself that you're
       | actually going to be secure, in the long run. If there are,
       | however, negative and material consequences for getting things
       | wrong...
       | 
       | The lawyer friend who dropped out went into a field where her
       | "bag was secured", to use a contemporary phrase. The author
       | acknowledges that she was capable; perhaps the root issue wasn't
       | "feeling stupid", so much as "feeling like I'm going to be broke
       | even if I crack this nut."
        
       | yodsanklai wrote:
       | > Students need to know that this feeling is the norm when it
       | comes to learning math.
       | 
       | Cedric Villani, Field medalist, was saying the same thing. The
       | problem is that not everyone is equally stupid, and if you're too
       | stupid, you won't get the job or be a low performer in your
       | field/team.
        
         | 082349872349872 wrote:
         | "Mathematics is the Poetry of Science" is a great title that
         | also explains the phenomenon noted in
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41570976
        
       | alexashka wrote:
       | The article pre-supposes the lady who left science to do law did
       | so primarily due to feeling 'stupid'. Is that what 'brilliant'
       | people do? Switch fields of study due to feelings? At least _one_
       | person in this story isn 't brilliant :)
       | 
       | As for being comfortable with feeling 'stupid' - that's for
       | children. Once you become an adult and start to piece together
       | how the world works, you shift from a child seeking adult
       | validation to 5 stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining,
       | depression and acceptance.
       | 
       | Of course people in academia and the corporate world are
       | notorious at being in denial, which is why they talk about
       | 'centrality of stupidity', much like corporate NPCs talk about
       | 'culture'.
        
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