[HN Gopher] Changes in Need for Uniqueness From 2000 Until 2020
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       Changes in Need for Uniqueness From 2000 Until 2020
        
       Author : PaulHoule
       Score  : 35 points
       Date   : 2024-08-27 14:18 UTC (4 days ago)
        
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       | pressentiment wrote:
       | Was ready to be super sceptical but this is interesting. The
       | measure gets at ways of showing uniqueness (e.g. defending a view
       | thats different from everyone else's, not caring what others
       | think). So I can buy that has descreased.
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       | What I bet hasn't decreased is the extent to which people say
       | they want to be unique.
        
         | da_chicken wrote:
         | Well it may also be the difference between needing to express
         | uniqueness as a mechanism to display it to others. If I'm
         | secure that I'm a unique individual, I may not need to express
         | it or demonstrate it.
        
           | PaulHoule wrote:
           | If you really are different and not understood, say you have
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizotypal_personality_disord.
           | ..
           | 
           | (which I don't think is _quite_ the right construct for what
           | it describes but they had to run the politics of the DSM to
           | get something in there) you might
           | 
           | (1) think you are unique when you have a condition that maybe
           | 3-5% of people have, (2) try as hard as you can to "mask"
           | your condition
        
         | cheschire wrote:
         | The desire to be unique tends to decrease with age as a
         | person's self identity starts to settle in.
         | 
         | As the population increases, there's more people in the
         | identity-building phase of life at one time than ever before.
         | So while the individual desire does decrease, I believe you are
         | right that the overall desire globally has not.
        
         | dr_dshiv wrote:
         | God, my daughter says she "just wants to be normal." Hard for
         | me to understand. Can't tell if it's TikTok, living in the
         | Netherlands or the happily weird father figure.
        
         | mcbutterbunz wrote:
         | > What I bet hasn't decreased is the extent to which people say
         | they want to be unique.
         | 
         | FTA:
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         | > In our study of over one million participants surveyed from
         | 2000 to 2020, we found that need for uniqueness was lowest
         | among participants who took the survey most recently in 2020
         | compared to those in 2000.
         | 
         | So it seems that the desire for uniqueness has decreased,
         | unless I'm reading this incorrectly. That's a surprise to me
         | just based on my observations and possible biases.
        
       | michaelt wrote:
       | I'd say the meaning of "uniqueness" has changed quite a lot with
       | the rise of the internet and social media.
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       | When your point of reference is a town of a few tens of thousands
       | of people, you can be unique without doing anything _too_
       | outlandish. Slightly different tastes in clothes, music, sports
       | and attitudes to your friends and you 're most of the way there
       | already.
       | 
       | But when social media changes your point of comparison to
       | basically the whole population of the world? Well, turns out I'm
       | not that unique after all.
        
         | layer8 wrote:
         | On the other hand, it is nice to know that there are other
         | people who share your predilections.
        
           | pixl97 wrote:
           | Though it's less nice when the ideas one share are idiotic
           | hate filled rancor.
        
             | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote:
             | One man's terrorist is one man's freedom fighter. There is
             | a benefit to people openly associating. One may not agree,
             | but it is, frankly, preferable to the those ideas simmering
             | beneath the surface without any kinda way to measure how
             | fast they are spreading ( and why ). Honestly, pretending
             | things don't exist does not work that well for too long.
        
               | fn-mote wrote:
               | I agree with this comment, but at the same time I am
               | troubled by the spread of deliberate falsehoods - things
               | that the speaker knows are not true, done to further
               | their own agenda.
        
             | layer8 wrote:
             | I'm pretty sure that those sharing such things don't find
             | it any less nice.
        
         | Ekaros wrote:
         | And it really wasn't even the town or city. It was maybe your
         | school and inside that your cohort. Maybe a couple hundred
         | people. Find 3-5 like minded individuals and compared to
         | everyone else you were unique enough.
        
       | greentxt wrote:
       | Did they really not control for race? I didn't close read but I
       | can't fathom not controlling for race/nationality, which I'd
       | suspect is correlated with need for uniqueness.
        
         | tgv wrote:
         | It's an online survey. This data is as unrepresentative and
         | unreliable as they come, and the effects are small. This study
         | is one to ignore.
        
           | alwa wrote:
           | With 1.3 million samples showing fairly clean/consistent
           | trends, _something_ seems to be reliably happening, sustained
           | over 20 years. And effect sizes on the order of 1 /3 of a
           | standard deviation seem not _that_ small: an average score in
           | 2000 would be somewhere around the 60th percentile if you got
           | it today, right?
           | 
           | They did include demographic questions between 2004 and 2009,
           | which seemed to line up with other results out of that lab
           | [0] indicating that massive online panels like this are
           | reasonably representative, if skewed female. As nice as it
           | would have been if they'd looked more formally, there seems
           | not to be much indication that the demographic composition of
           | their respondents changed all that much over that time.
           | 
           | Even if these results only describe "the population of online
           | people who do personality tests for fun," don't they still
           | reflect something reliably changing about that population?
           | 
           | And whatever we wish had been done differently in this study,
           | isn't it appropriate to interpret it as at least a flawed
           | piece of evidence against the entire landscape of clues
           | pointing toward a rise in social anxiety over that time?
           | 
           | [0] Sam Gosling, whose project collected these data, wrote
           | the book about massive online panels:
           | https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/4311014 . The project this
           | data came from started off with research addressing whether
           | it was representative enough to be useful https://psycnet.apa
           | .org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/0003-066X.59.... . Lord knows
           | lessons have been learned since then, but I'm not sure it's
           | fair to imply that serious people didn't think seriously
           | about the questions we're raising here.
        
       | robocat wrote:
       | Hard to detangle fake-uniqueness from real-uniqueness ::
       | especially when the discussion turns to social appearances and
       | how we want to describe ourselves.
       | 
       | Young friends calling themselves "weird" because they dress
       | alternative. They lack the decades to see that emo/goth/alt
       | identity is belonging to a group. Piercings and recreational
       | drugs!
       | 
       | Or wealthy kid doing an extreme sport. Tryharding to be unique is
       | completely normal in many scenes.
       | 
       | Many people seem to define their identity as being NOT something
       | :: join the struggle against normality. As a boring straight guy,
       | LGBTQIA+ sometimes appears to simply mean NOT heteronormal to me.
       | 
       | The word alternative also contains that concept.
       | 
       | (Reedited to tidy)
        
         | c22 wrote:
         | Well yeah, LGBTQIA+ sort of explicitly excludes heteronormals
         | definitionally, but I think very few individuals identify as
         | _all_ of those.
        
       | elawler24 wrote:
       | VC Mike Maples of Floodgate recently wrote a new book on a
       | tangential topic. The founders of the best companies he's
       | invested in (Twitch, Lyft, Twitter) don't mind being perceived as
       | outsiders. They're confidently living in some future state that
       | the rest of the world hasn't caught up to yet. He calls this
       | quality "disagreeableness", but it could also be described as a
       | comfort with being unique. If a desire for that quality is
       | decreasing, does it make it harder or easier to bring innovative
       | new ideas to market?
       | 
       | https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-to-find-a-great-start...
        
         | BurningFrog wrote:
         | Agreeableness and disagreeableness are terms from the "Big 5"
         | psychology theories.
         | 
         | Both sides have pros and cons, and disagreeableness can be very
         | useful for breaking out of conformist traps.
        
       | ilaksh wrote:
       | Could it be that a larger more representative portion of the
       | general population has gone online since 2000?
       | 
       | Maybe a little earlier on in the history of the internet, it was
       | a somewhat more individualistic and dare I suggest more educated
       | and intelligent sample of people?
       | 
       | Whereas at this point, it's every idiot, their grandma, and their
       | dog.
       | 
       | Or just a larger group, which becomes a mob. No one wants to be
       | attacked by a mob. People learn that they will just have their
       | comment buried and receive hate or disrespect if they write it in
       | the wrong website, group or thread.
       | 
       | Actually, I think that sometimes the better my comment is in
       | terms of actual truth or making fair points, the less likely it
       | is to receive points or positive comments . Because to do that I
       | will try to be a little subtle and look at both sides of an
       | issue. So the comment can have something that both groups (who
       | are often quite polarized) dislike in it. And will be longer. The
       | average internet user today resents it when you make them read
       | more than a few sentences at a time.
        
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