[HN Gopher] Using a list to manage executive function
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       Using a list to manage executive function
        
       Author : swah
       Score  : 102 points
       Date   : 2024-08-13 10:21 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | jasperry wrote:
       | One reason this method seems good is that it requires you to
       | write down a new list each day. For me at least, it's easier to
       | write a fresh list and get started on that than to get motivated
       | by a list I wrote before. Writing a new list makes me remember
       | what I /want/ to get done, and why.
        
       | jmbwell wrote:
       | One of my early frustrations with Microsoft's "To-do" app was
       | that it discarded my "today" tasks every day. But now I love that
       | it does this, for the reasons the author describes.
       | 
       | I was used to apps like Asana that would just let things sit
       | there and accumulate and fester. It made me hate how much I
       | wasn't getting done every day. One or two tasks a day piling up
       | over the course of many days just grows into a mountain of shame,
       | and as the author says, it builds this "UGH field" around it that
       | makes me not want to look at it at all, much less try to wade
       | through it. The system was hurting more than helping, really.
       | 
       | I started using To-Do because we recently switched to Microsoft
       | at work, and I'm trying to embrace the ecosystem or whatever. And
       | what was an annoying deficiency (why can't this crappy MS app do
       | what I want) has become a huge relief.
       | 
       | Automatically having my day reset every day has helped me feel
       | more like I can actually get through most of what I realistically
       | intend to do in a day. I take a minute in the morning to throw
       | stuff on the list, MS does helpfully suggest some things
       | (presumably using something they now call "AI"), and then I start
       | working down it. At the end of the day, anything I didn't get to
       | -- honestly, anything that wasn't as important as I thought it
       | would be that day -- is gone. The next day, I start fresh. Re-
       | focus, re-prioritize, and start executing. Everything still gets
       | done, but my focus is on the day ahead rather than days past. And
       | no "ugh field."
       | 
       | I would note that my approach to projects with teams is
       | different, of course. All of those tasks will eventually need to
       | get done, so it's not helpful to let things disappear. But where
       | this does apply is in how much a given contributor wants to bite
       | off in a day. The backlog on a project is the backlog, no getting
       | around it, but a tighter focus each day on whatever's realistic,
       | 3-5 tasks probably, relieves a lot of tension that helps work be
       | more effective, I find.
       | 
       | Last comment, I love that the author also puts things on the list
       | just to scratch them off. I picked up this habit somewhere long
       | ago. It seems silly to do something, then put it on the list,
       | then just scratch it right off, but it has the real effect of
       | notching another task done. Helps limit the days where you feel
       | like you didn't actually do anything, those yak-shaving days. You
       | can look at the "completed" tab and see that no, you did actually
       | do stuff. Another source of shame neutralized.
        
         | Tomte wrote:
         | > One of my early frustrations with Microsoft's "To-do" app was
         | that it discarded my "today" tasks every day. But now I love
         | that it does this, for the reasons the author describes.
         | 
         | To-do is surprisingly great. It's my GTD tool of choice at the
         | moment.
         | 
         | They change things, though, and you can't switch a setting. For
         | some time they stopped adding tasks with due date on the
         | current day to the "My day" smart list.
         | 
         | It makes sense if you think about it in terms of what they
         | wanted "My day" to be. Adding things to "My day" should be a
         | conscious choice.
         | 
         | But it was a change, and it's very nice to have due tasks
         | automatically added. They changed it back after a few weeks,
         | thankfully.
        
         | MengerSponge wrote:
         | I really like "To-do" and am so glad it's integrated into
         | Outlook's Mac client now. I wish there was a way to show _all_
         | tasks, regardless of their list /categorization.
         | 
         | As it stands, this really stops me from using separate lists
         | for timebound tasks. I only use them for long-term
         | planning/blue sky stuff.
        
       | Simorgh wrote:
       | I've struggled with improving my executive functioning.
       | 
       | I think it can be negatively affected by mental health issues and
       | can take time to recover and get back to parity.
       | 
       | I've found that voice-memos are particularly effective in
       | assisting me. I'll talk through a problem and usually find
       | solutions quickly, eg debugging.
       | 
       | Am currently working on a (transcribed) voice-interface to
       | improve in this area, right now.
       | 
       | I might try out his formula tomorrow, possibly in voice.
        
         | idamantium wrote:
         | When I've been in low periods in terms of anxiety or mood,
         | externalizing seems to be a salve. When I look back at how I've
         | externalized in those periods, it seems excessive. It's like my
         | executive functioning is no where in sight, and I can see that
         | in how much I had to externalize to get a handle on things. But
         | those periods of parity do return.
         | 
         | It's great to hear you've found methods that work for you.
         | Voice-memos must feel lower friction than writing things out.
        
           | zoogeny wrote:
           | I find this is the same for me with writing in a journal. It
           | is almost like an analogy with inertia. It takes a lot of
           | effort to get started and then momentum kicks in.
        
       | idamantium wrote:
       | This reminds me of some good practices I've learned from
       | implementing GTD principals. Even with my massive GTD-style
       | lists, which I love, having a small paper list for that day, even
       | if it repeats what's on the massive digital list, is a very nice
       | focus function.
       | 
       | Also helpful is to have a list of no more than 3 weekly
       | priorities. When I don't know what to focus on, I often look at
       | those. They are most effective when I'm actually doing my weekly
       | review. Also a practice that's so helpful and freeing.
        
         | im3w1l wrote:
         | I bought the GTD book. But then I went on to misplace it and
         | didn't find it for over a year. I might be a hopeless case.
        
       | TheHideout wrote:
       | Every day I make a list in a long running text file. I typically
       | copy the previous day and modify it.                 \\ [date]
       | need       - things that absolutely have to be done today
       | really should do       - things that I really should do today
       | should do       - other things I should do to get ahead / stay on
       | top of       want to do       - what I actually want to do today
       | if possible       concerns       - things that I'm currently
       | concerned about (to help me resolve them without losing focus)
       | one thing       - I'm going to do this one thing for 3-4 hours
       | straight today
        
       | smeej wrote:
       | I've been (semi-)intentionally unemployed for a little over a
       | year now, and I reached a point a couple months ago where I just
       | LOST IT at the prospect of having to continue to make decisions
       | at every moment of every day about what to do next. I even have a
       | daily checklist of about 15 things I need to do every day to keep
       | making at least minimal progress toward my goals, but because
       | none of them had assigned times, I was still having to _choose_
       | every. damn. thing.
       | 
       | So I decided the list should be done before lunch, which meant I
       | could pick anything on the list, but it had to be something on
       | the list. And after lunch, I have a list of three big-picture
       | projects I can work on. I can choose any one of them, but it has
       | to be one of them. Their next steps are reasonably well laid out,
       | because I don't think I do generally have executive dysfunction
       | issues, so I get to pick one of three projects and work on it
       | until dinner.
       | 
       | This has saved my sanity. I don't waste very much time at all
       | now. I don't do well with strict routines, but these buckets take
       | so much of the guess work out. In the morning, 15 options. In the
       | afternoon, only 3. It's so much more manageable.
        
       | dkga wrote:
       | Funny, I've been doing a TODO list almost exactly like this daily
       | plan every business day since 2009. An important thing for me is
       | to consider it s list of things that may eventually be
       | accomplished so that I don't feel guilty when I don't tick all of
       | them. One difference for me is that in calmer days and on Mondays
       | I also check my financial status and my own personal KPIs.
       | (Another is that I don't throw away, I generally keep them
       | because I use notebooks.)
       | 
       | This process works very well for me. I learned it while working
       | as a stock broker, where every day I needed to check specific
       | economic indicators that would be published or company
       | disclosures, call client X, Y or Z, and in days where options,
       | swaps or forwards would expire I needed to check a few things. So
       | I kind of got that behaviour ingrained in me, and it has helped
       | me immensely I think.
        
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