[HN Gopher] Google and Meta struck secret ads deal to target tee...
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       Google and Meta struck secret ads deal to target teenagers
        
       Author : ViktorRay
       Score  : 493 points
       Date   : 2024-08-08 05:08 UTC (17 hours ago)
        
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       | achempion wrote:
       | unpaywalled:
       | https://archive.ph/20240808040427/https://www.ft.com/content...
        
       | smcin wrote:
       | https://archive.ph/AVRL9
        
         | adamors wrote:
         | Thank you
        
       | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
       | The Instagram campaign deliberately targeted a group of users
       | labelled as "unknown" in its advertising system, which Google
       | knew skewed towards under-18s, these people said. Meanwhile,
       | documents seen by the FT suggest steps were taken to ensure the
       | true intent of the campaign was disguised.        The project
       | disregarded Google's rules that prohibit personalising and
       | targeting ads to under-18s, including serving ads based on
       | demographics. It also has policies against the circumvention of
       | its own guidelines, or "proxy targeting".       ...However,
       | Google did not deny using the "unknown" loophole, adding: "We'll
       | also be taking additional action to reinforce with sales
       | representatives that they must not help advertisers or agencies
       | run campaigns attempting to work around our policies."
       | 
       | Yup, those crafty sales reps orchestrated a multimillion dollar
       | agreement between a chief competitor. While also adapting the
       | code to find the gaps and target the desired under 18s.
        
         | alex_suzuki wrote:
         | > Meanwhile, documents seen by the FT suggest steps were taken
         | to ensure the true intent of the campaign was disguised.
         | 
         | I read the article, but it didn't go into the content of those
         | documents. Would be interesting to know.
        
         | LiquidSky wrote:
         | As always with these massive corporate failures/crimes it turns
         | out no one in any important position knew anything and it was a
         | small group of low-level bad actors causing all the trouble.
         | How sad that all these companies are plagued with this while
         | the leadership is just trying to virtuously do good business!
        
           | sandspar wrote:
           | I wouldn't be surprised if upper level people tend to hire
           | reports with discretion, people who let them keep their hands
           | clean.
           | 
           | Dictator: "You mentioned a... reeducation project of some
           | kind...?"
           | 
           | Minister of Internal Affairs: "Yes sir, it's been taken care
           | of already."
        
       | TekMol wrote:
       | So this was about ads for Instagram on YouTube, targeting people
       | under 18?
       | 
       | I am surprised that this is something that has to be kept secret.
       | What is the main problem with it?
        
         | esperent wrote:
         | The main problem is that it's targeted advertising of children.
        
           | brainwad wrote:
           | So is all the advertising run during morning cartoons, and
           | that targets an even younger demo than 13-17 year olds.
        
             | tgv wrote:
             | Those ads are bad, but instagram and its ilk are quite
             | addictive. If don't think it's ok to turn a large group of
             | children into screen zombies because "ads during cartoons".
        
             | kreyenborgi wrote:
             | And it's frankly disgusting that some countries allow such
             | ads.
        
             | nope1000 wrote:
             | Yes
        
             | meiraleal wrote:
             | What does wad mean? Dead?
        
             | piva00 wrote:
             | Children can't interact with these ads to get into the
             | wheel of more ads targeting their specific tastes. Very
             | different level, and degree.
        
         | dgellow wrote:
         | > The project disregarded Google's rules that prohibit
         | personalising and targeting ads to under-18s, including serving
         | ads based on demographics. It also has policies against the
         | circumvention of its own guidelines, or "proxy targeting".
        
         | Xen9 wrote:
         | Aside replying to the eroteme:
         | 
         | I believe one can observe the targeting by only observing the
         | children. I ALSO believe this applies to all children in a
         | social network where X between 1 out of 100 000 & 9 out of 10
         | have access to sites that are the works of the corporate.
         | 
         | The entirely new mechanics seems to be that most humans' will
         | run on metaphorical stimulants & steroids on the metaphorical
         | Wheel of Status. Humane behaviour (e.g. honor, respect, sincere
         | curiosity) will become subject of learned helplessness. Before
         | the child realizes that their toys are not the real things and
         | the real things may be much more interesting; or before the
         | child realizes they don't need to use the toys to satisfy X
         | desires, they will have learned that status, EG pretty videos
         | of using the toys, gets them what they want EG toys & attention
         | from companies, parents & peers alike.
        
           | nonrandomstring wrote:
           | I'd be very grateful if you could elaborate or link to a
           | relevant source as this is rather interesting.
        
             | gU9x3u8XmQNG wrote:
             | Second this! Quite interesting. @Xen9 please follow up!
        
               | Xen9 wrote:
               | My mind would be the source. This is actually one of my
               | least confident comments; I was almost not going to post
               | it. I consider putting a text together later.
               | 
               | Regardless--I've observed, to one example, a young girl I
               | know wanting to buy horse toys to make YouTube horse
               | videos with play & interest in horses being a side
               | motive. The adults are proud of her basically being an
               | instrument of marketing. On one hand, making your own
               | video's at young age is of course something to be proud
               | of and encouragement for children sounds healthy.
               | 
               | Yet this behaviour also has no principles outside "status
               | games." Even knowing that girls of young age are
               | particularly prone to socialization & conformity, one can
               | compare this to "cool new toy everyone has" trope to
               | notice that this dark evolution would be closer to "being
               | a popular advertisement like everyone else" which partly
               | the South Park movie Cred portrays aptly.
        
               | nonrandomstring wrote:
               | Re: confidence
               | 
               | > My mind would be the source.
               | 
               | In the coming flood of AI slop and faked "scientific"
               | studies I'd say there is no better source. Real science
               | always starts with anecdata of n=1, so trust what you
               | see. And I'll just add; regardless of the truth of your
               | observation, regardless of any supporting work, these
               | kind of observations are worthwhile as discussion in
               | themselves so do investigate more and write about it,
               | please.
               | 
               | FWIW my interest was piqued by your claim that "learned
               | helplessness" eclipses humane interpersonal behaviours.
               | 
               | That sounds hard to evaluate, especially in children, but
               | I think you may be on to something and that ubiquitous AV
               | technology is the cause of a reward "short circuit". Once
               | kids get AI servants that simulate their achievements for
               | them I think child mental health will implode. (which of
               | course is Jonathan Haidt's thesis)
        
               | netsharc wrote:
               | I noticed many years ago, if someone is 25 then, they'd
               | have grown up with social media, and its trappings of
               | social validation through likes and comments. Facebook
               | was opened to everyone from 13 years old in 2006.
               | Instagram went big in 2012. If you were a teen in late
               | 00's/early 10's, you were probably on these networks, and
               | didn't experience any time growing up without them...
        
               | netsharc wrote:
               | In the same vine, people "doing it for the 'Gram": you go
               | to a fancy vacation or restaurant not to enjoy the
               | experience, but to enjoy the validation from the thumbs
               | up, hearts, comments of your friends social media...
               | 
               | I wonder if that's a valid craving after all, a craving
               | for social contact, sadly a craving being answered not by
               | real life interaction, but by a mobile client hitting
               | some API endpoint called something like
               | /post/{$ID}/reaction/heart , ending on your phone pinging
               | with the notification "$friend liked your post"...
        
               | nonrandomstring wrote:
               | > but to enjoy the validation
               | 
               | Absolutely. It makes me think about the things in life
               | that don't need "validation".
               | 
               | Maybe it's a cliche but my dad would say about Korea and
               | other wars "no pics, no words, you had to be there". So
               | that was a teenage trope in the 80s and 90s too for my
               | generation, if you were trying to be cool just say "you
               | had to be there". It draws a circle around a personal or
               | group experience that explicitly does not or cannot be
               | shared. I think maybe it somehow earns more respect and
               | interest than a photo, and I think with ubiquitous AI
               | image manipulation the currency of "pics or it didn't
               | happen" and "for the Gram" is going to vanish in a puff
               | of incredulity. Now you can just text-prompt for a
               | picture of you and some celebrity you "randomly met" in
               | front of Buckingham Palace or the Taj Mahal! You can
               | probably rent some bots to "auto-like" you on social
               | media, right? So who is fooling who now?
        
               | rexf wrote:
               | > Maybe it's a cliche but my dad would say about Korea
               | and other wars "no pics, no words, you had to be there".
               | So that was a teenage trope in the 80s and 90s too for my
               | generation, if you were trying to be cool just say "you
               | had to be there".
               | 
               | sounds like a partial retroactive justification to me.
               | sure, you wouldn't get the full experience via a photo or
               | verbal anecdote, but it's not like camera smartphones
               | were ubiquitous in the 80s either.
        
               | nonrandomstring wrote:
               | > retroactive justification
               | 
               | Oh I'm not "justifying" it, because I don't need to. This
               | isn't that conversation. I'm just remarking on a
               | difference of culture over time for those who are
               | interested. As you say, there were no cellphones back
               | then, so a quite different world.
        
               | cambaceres wrote:
               | It's always so easy to spot these people at restaurants.
        
         | tgv wrote:
         | Adolescents are particularly sensitive to addiction. And guess
         | what instagram tries to do?
        
           | doublerabbit wrote:
           | Is it to create a utopia of peace and harmony for those who
           | live on this planet?
           | 
           | No? I didn't think so either.
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | The problem, at least in some countries, is that the laws
         | regarding targeting children and teenagers are VERY strict, to
         | the point where it almost doesn't make sense to do it.
         | 
         | By having an "unknown" category, you could argue that you had
         | no way of knowing that you where targeting children, so you
         | can't be responsible. The other party could also easily argue
         | that they put those under 18 in that group to protect their
         | privacy and age.
         | 
         | If you however DO know that these are primarily children and
         | teenagers, then you have to follow the rather strict laws. In
         | Denmark for instance, that means that you cannot encourage
         | purchasing or even advertise certain products. Take the stupid
         | product that is Prime (the drink), health professionals argues
         | that it's harmful to children, but their are also the only ones
         | who really buy it in any meaningful volume. If you knew that
         | you where targeting Prime ads to those under 16 in Denmark, you
         | would be breaking the law.
         | 
         | If advertising companies where to follow the laws online
         | (technically they have to, but tries to avoid it), you could
         | effectively reduce the number of ads you see on social media by
         | stating that you're only 16, because you couldn't be targeted
         | in the same way.
        
           | tantalor wrote:
           | > they put those under 18 in that group to protect their
           | privacy and age
           | 
           | That's not how it works!
        
       | a2128 wrote:
       | This reads like a tragic story. Once you've collected enough data
       | on every internet user out there to group them into different
       | advertising cohorts, the remaining ungrouped users, by process of
       | elimination (due to privacy or targeted advertising laws), are
       | children; and now they can be targeted just as easily.
        
         | throw12347825 wrote:
         | A tragic story would be one where folks in positions of power
         | in these organizations saw these crises coming from a million
         | miles away, tried to avoid disaster, and failed.
         | 
         | I don't think this is a tragic story.
         | 
         | I think this is a rather boring and formulaic plot we're seeing
         | over and over: the story of late-stage capitalism and the
         | application of value-extraction to human social structures
         | resulting in comically terrible outcomes.
        
           | ath3nd wrote:
           | Well said!
           | 
           | Capitalism is structured in such a way that we are throwing
           | all other values out in the (short term) pursuit of money.
           | 
           | Who needs nature, mental and physical health if you made a
           | buck or two? The perverse incentives of capitalism will never
           | create good social change, and we are seeing it now more and
           | more in late stage capitalism.
        
             | adamc wrote:
             | This is a problem that could be solved with serious
             | penalties (say, 20 years in prison for executives involved)
             | and serious enforcement.
        
               | ssklash wrote:
               | It's really not though. All that money goes somewhere,
               | and not just in their pockets. Some goes to make sure
               | that serious penalties and serious enforcement doesn't
               | happen, because that too is another avenue of ensuring
               | maximum profit.
        
           | ToucanLoucan wrote:
           | The line has to go up, and the slack has to be taken out of
           | every last source of revenue. Like that story that was here
           | yesterday about insurance companies monitoring customer's
           | insured assets with drones and AI. Every unexploited dollar
           | left on the table is slack, and a perfect market leaves no
           | dollar unexploited. Therefore a more perfect market can be
           | built with more perfect machine-powered decisions to more
           | perfectly screw you out of every nickel they can.
           | 
           | "Oops, sorry your brother cut his leg and you had to speed to
           | the hospital, but you better get a second job if you wanna
           | keep your car."
           | 
           | Fuck this shit. Fuck all of it. And fuck all the status quo
           | warriors sitting on the sidelines bleating about "it's just
           | the way it is" because the axe hasn't swung for them yet.
           | You're safe now because the market has more vulnerable people
           | to grind up first, but rest assured, as it churns through
           | them, your time will come too.
        
             | alfiedotwtf wrote:
             | You're on a website run by venture capitalists who use this
             | platform to increase the value of their portfolios... so
             | unless you're an agent provocateur, your comment needs to
             | be read as ironic performance art because I hate to break
             | it to you - you're also part of the problem
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | I operated under this mental model originally as well.
               | But, based on all available information, while HN allows
               | running ads for YC portfolio companies and uses it for
               | other promo purposes (YC applications), I have come to
               | the conclusion tha pg, dang, et el are running this place
               | as part science project, part public good, funded by YC
               | returns (which, while not exact, can be predicted with
               | high confidence from public information wrt portfolio
               | liquidity events).
               | 
               | Certainly, you need funding, look what happened to
               | Reddit's quest to squeeze community for returns. HN runs
               | lean (two servers in colo, a few mods) and small (less is
               | more), so they can be more flexible in what they're
               | optimizing for. I will argue there is something
               | intangible that exists they are cultivating. More for
               | another thread, but I would be cautious about saying "You
               | cannot speak truth about capitalism failings because YC
               | runs HN and YC is a VC fund." Simplicity is rare, and the
               | evidence does not indicate this forum runs to maximize
               | profit.
        
               | ToucanLoucan wrote:
               | If the problem you're referring to is capitalism, it is
               | not possible to not participate in capitalism because
               | capitalism operates every nation state and every portion
               | of the planet.
               | 
               | If the problem you're referring to is venture capital, I
               | don't work at a VC firm and have no intention to.
        
               | harimau777 wrote:
               | https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/1259257-we-should-
               | improve-so...
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | Kinda tired of hearing this over and over. By and large,
               | most HN readers and commenters are just regular people.
               | Certainly we are regular people of a certain demographic,
               | but we're not all venture capitalists or startup
               | executives or whatever. Not even close.
               | 
               | If you have evidence that the people who run and moderate
               | HN are doing so with a heavy bias toward projecting some
               | sort of venture-capitalist narrative, please present that
               | evidence. My interactions with dang, at least (reading
               | his comments here, and a few email interactions) suggest
               | quite the opposite.
        
             | shadowgovt wrote:
             | And relatedly, I'm sorry that while you were speeding your
             | brother to the hospital, you blew through a red light you
             | couldn't stop for and caused a three-car pileup that killed
             | an elderly woman.
             | 
             | There's a reason we have these rules, and the problem of
             | better enforcement leading to more application of the rules
             | isn't a late-stage-capitalism problem; it's a "rules
             | require flexibility" problem (but it's not great if the
             | nature of the flexibility is "you didn't get caught").
        
               | ToucanLoucan wrote:
               | > And relatedly, I'm sorry that while you were speeding
               | your brother to the hospital, you blew through a red
               | light you couldn't stop for and caused a three-car pileup
               | that killed an elderly woman.
               | 
               | Firstly, surveilling every person in the world at all
               | times to ensure safety is a gross misapplicaiton of tech
               | that flies in the face of personal freedom and privacy.
               | 
               | Secondly, we're not even talking about authorities
               | surveilling you to prevent safety situations (which
               | would, by itself, already be _plenty vile enough_ ).
               | We're talking your insurance company checking on you to
               | make sure your roof doesn't have moss on it, and jacking
               | your price/nuking your policy if they feel your behavior
               | is too "risky," according to a model you (and probably
               | they) don't fully understand how it works.
               | 
               | There's so much wrong with this and if you don't think so
               | I doubt a comment here is going to change your mind. If
               | you place ANY value at all on personal autonomy and
               | privacy, I don't believe it's possible to, at the same
               | time, say your insurance company by virtue of insuring
               | your car, has the right to surveil that car at a time and
               | via a method of their choosing, with no notification, and
               | with no oversight, solely for the purpose of jacking up
               | your price and/or rewriting your contract on the fly.
               | These relationships already heavily, heavily bias in the
               | favor of the corporation. Do they really need YET MORE
               | unearned, unchecked authority in our lives?!
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | > surveilling every person in the world at all times to
               | ensure safety is a gross misapplicaiton of tech that
               | flies in the face of personal freedom and privacy
               | 
               | Not at all times, of course.
               | 
               | But if we built the technology to do it whenever someone
               | is operating a multi-ton vehicle on a shared roadway
               | (similar to how we require police to wear body-cams), I
               | wouldn't actually be sad about it or feel unduly watched.
               | 
               | I do concur, however, that routing it through the
               | insurance company is pretty sub-optimal; I'd much prefer
               | a public authority that I could vote out if they screw
               | up.
        
               | ImPostingOnHN wrote:
               | _> Firstly, surveilling every person in the world at all
               | times to ensure safety is a gross misapplicaiton of tech
               | that flies in the face of personal freedom and privacy._
               | 
               | Are you referring to the opt-in system of surveillance
               | which insurance companies use to monitor driving (install
               | our app/plug our device into your OBD port)?
               | 
               | Or are they, these days, buying data on your driving from
               | stuff like traffic cams (wouldn't be surprising, sorry if
               | I'm giving them the idea now)?
        
               | ToucanLoucan wrote:
               | In the thread I saw yesterday, can't spend the time to
               | find it atm, the topic was specifically about an
               | insurance company using drones and AI to ascertain that
               | someone's roof had moss growing on it. The homeowner
               | fully acknowledged that this was a lapse in his upkeep,
               | but also, I am incredibly opposed to the notion that a
               | company can surveil people as such simply because they
               | buy insurance from them.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | > _Are you referring to the opt-in system of surveillance
               | which insurance companies use to monitor driving (install
               | our app /plug our device into your OBD port)?_
               | 
               | Not the person you're replying to, but yes, absolutely
               | stuff like that. (I think GP was talking about drone
               | surveillance and stuff like that, but sure, we can talk
               | about this too.)
               | 
               | The problem is that people are being coerced into giving
               | up their privacy and autonomy. In this particular case,
               | the coercion is (as usual) money: you presumably get a
               | discount for letting your insurance company spy on you. I
               | expect, though, that ultimately the insurance companies
               | use these things as justification to charge _more_ on
               | average. Let 's face it: most people are not particularly
               | good drivers. That's a problem, certainly, but not one
               | that should or will be solved by a company with a profit
               | motive. Some people will drive within whatever arbitrary,
               | poorly-understood parameters that makes the insurance
               | company's algorithms happy, but most probably will not,
               | and will likely see their premiums go up, but not realize
               | why.
               | 
               | And even if this did actually result in lower premiums on
               | average (for the people who opt into this dystopia), it's
               | still a problem, because the implication is that only
               | rich people are allowed to have privacy.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | Actually these days new cars have GPS tracking built in,
               | and the manufacturers sell your location data, so it's
               | much more fine-grained than traffic cams, and they didn't
               | need your help getting the idea.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | Someone on HN [1] recommended "Broken Code," [2] a book about
           | the various people who tried to fix Facebook/Meta from the
           | inside and noped out. Highly recommend having purchased and
           | read. "Evil, I think, is the absence of empathy." -- Captain
           | G. M. Gilbert
           | 
           | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=40969211
           | 
           | [2] https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/712678/broken-
           | code-...
           | 
           | (keep those book recommendations coming)
        
           | rurp wrote:
           | I'm beyond being shocked by this kind of behavior but it is
           | still striking to me how some of the most profitable
           | companies in history will go out of their way to do shady
           | deals for a slight short term increase in their record
           | profits.
           | 
           | The resulting reputational damage and future risk to their
           | monopoly revenue has got to make deals like this -EV for the
           | company in the long run, but decision makers at these
           | companies are paid more for short term profits and they know
           | it.
        
             | pseudocomposer wrote:
             | Reputational damage is pretty easy to limit for companies
             | that can control what news a huge majority of people see.
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | If the "Craftsman" brand of tools didn't go completely
               | out of business despite removing the lifetime warranty
               | and just slapping the brand name on cheap chinese tools,
               | then "Reputational damage" does not exist.
        
         | cantrevealname wrote:
         | > _the remaining ungrouped users, by process of elimination...
         | "_
         | 
         | This being _hacker_ news, I can 't help but appreciate the pure
         | evil genius of this. It reminds me of some other cases cunning
         | corporate ingenuity:
         | 
         | - Monsanto and their "terminator" seeds that prevents farmers
         | from planting seeds they harvest, requiring them to purchase
         | new seeds for every planting.[1]
         | 
         | - Volkswagen and how they programmed diesel engines to activate
         | emissions controls only during laboratory emissions testing.[2]
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monsanto#%22Terminator%22_seed...
         | 
         | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Volkswagen_emissions_scandal
        
           | echoangle wrote:
           | > Monsanto and their "terminator" seeds that prevents farmers
           | from planting seeds they harvest, requiring them to purchase
           | new seeds for every planting.
           | 
           | Kind of misleading to just state it like this if your source
           | points out that Monsanto never sold this, pledged 25 years
           | ago they won't do this, and according to https://en.m.wikiped
           | ia.org/wiki/Genetic_use_restriction_tech... , they also
           | didn't invent it.
        
           | HDThoreaun wrote:
           | Monsanto isn't forcing anyone to buy their product. Farmers
           | use it because they're better than uncopyeighted seeds.
        
             | harimau777 wrote:
             | They are forced in the sense that it's a prisoner's dilemma
             | type of thing: Farmers would be better off if none of them
             | used exploitative seeds. However since they are competing
             | with farmers who are using those seeds then have to do so
             | as well in order to stay competitive.
        
               | HDThoreaun wrote:
               | I dont see how that is the case. How does one farmer
               | using monsanto seeds mean another needs to as well? Each
               | farmers seed choice has no effect on others choices. If
               | the monsanto seeds cost more than they were worth farmers
               | wouldnt use them. In fact saying that you need to use
               | their seeds to be competitive makes it clear that you
               | understand that the seeds are worth it, you just wish
               | they were free or cheaper. But in order to create these
               | seeds monsanto needs to be paid.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | My guess would be it's about pricing. Let's imagine a
               | world where there are only two farms, mine and my
               | neighbor's. We're both using regular seeds, and we do a
               | decent job, but it's not wonderful, and some years our
               | yield isn't so great.
               | 
               | Then Monsanto comes along and wants to sell us a product
               | that gives us better, more consistent yields, even better
               | than our best harvests with the regular seeds. The catch,
               | of course, is that we have to buy new seed from them
               | every year, and can't propagate seed from the prior
               | year's crop.
               | 
               | So my neighbor decides to start buying Monsanto's seeds,
               | but I don't like the terms of the deal, so I don't. My
               | neighbor sees amazing yields, even to the point of
               | surplus. He decides to undercut me by lowering his prices
               | because he has so much to sell, and can still make out
               | better than before, with those lower prices. Nothing's
               | changed for me, so I can't lower my prices. My neighbor's
               | entire inventory sells out, but because of his surplus,
               | only half of my yield gets sold. Fortunately I have some
               | savings to fall back on, so I burn my entire savings
               | feeding my family for the rest of the year, and then
               | grudgingly buy Monsanto seeds for next year.
               | 
               | I'm sure this exact scenario doesn't scale up to the
               | global agricultural system, but I think it's more likely
               | than your naive "no one forces anyone to buy anything; if
               | they buy it, it's because it's worth it" view of
               | economics... things are rarely that simple.
        
               | Manabu-eo wrote:
               | If you neighbor uses monsanto seeds, he also sprays
               | pesticides that might kill your crops or make them have
               | too much pesticides to be edible. It's also basically
               | impossible to do organic farming besides such a farm.
               | 
               | https://investigatemidwest.org/2020/12/04/buy-it-or-else-
               | ins...
               | 
               | https://inthedirt.substack.com/p/when-the-neighbor-kills-
               | you...
        
         | snowpid wrote:
         | " nce you've collected enough data on every internet user " I
         | guess by legal I can force companies not to collect data from
         | me. (I am not a kid). I just happen not to live in the US. But
         | this article reads more like a US problem.
        
         | Zambyte wrote:
         | We could also make it illegal to advertise to children at all.
         | Wouldn't that be funny if all of us started clicking "I am
         | below 18" :D
        
           | mattacular wrote:
           | Dream bigger? We could make it illegal to advertise period.
        
             | hn72774 wrote:
             | Tax ad revenue as a vice like at alcohol and tobacco
             | levels, or higher.
        
               | guerrilla wrote:
               | It's not an abused substance, it's violence.
        
               | immibis wrote:
               | This is not the first time I'm hearing someone say free
               | speech is violence, but it is the first time they
               | actually meant it about free speech and weren't covering
               | up something else by calling it that.
        
               | hn72774 wrote:
               | Not who shared that but there's a concept of non-violent
               | communication that they may be referring to.
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nonviolent_Communication
               | 
               | Coercion -> force -> violence
               | 
               | Forcing ads onto kids = violence?
        
               | codr7 wrote:
               | From my experience, that concept is mostly used as weapon
               | and shield by the worst kind of people, to let them get
               | away with their manipulative bs.
               | 
               | Speaking clearly sometimes means saying things that are
               | uncomfortable to hear.
        
               | hn72774 wrote:
               | That sounds more like gaslighting.
               | 
               | Non-violent communication isn't at all about
               | manipulation. It's about discussing behaviors and their
               | impact on the person vs attacking and defending in
               | circles that go nowhere.
        
               | codr7 wrote:
               | Yeah, I get the potential, and I'm not saying it's a bad
               | idea.
               | 
               | It's just that in practice I've only seen it used by
               | morons to shut down discussions they don't feel like
               | having.
        
               | whythre wrote:
               | One can couch their words in the language of nonviolence
               | and still be manipulative, cruel or discriminatory. It
               | can and does act as a form of social camouflage, because
               | humans are shitty and a method of communication will not
               | safeguard against predators.
               | 
               | You can't make people harmless, but you _can_ force them
               | to innovate different ways to harm others.
        
               | codr7 wrote:
               | Yeah, but that isn't it at all, I'm afraid.
               | 
               | It's much darker.
               | 
               | The fact is that exactly the same people who are pushing
               | the idea, are the ones who we would need protection from.
               | And they're not innovating much, it's the same bs over
               | and over and over again.
        
               | comfysocks wrote:
               | I don't think the dynamic you are talking about has much
               | to do with Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication.
               | 
               | Perhaps a slightly reductive view, but I see "NVC" as
               | basically saying that when people argue, emotions can
               | sometimes overrule logic.
               | 
               | When people get emotional, they sometimes plug their ears
               | and start screaming into the void.
               | 
               | NVC is then basically a bunch of tactics to circumvent
               | the emotional aspect so that the discussion can get back
               | to logical facts.
               | 
               | It also tries to create a framework where the people
               | arguing have to hear the other side's arguments before
               | making a counter argument.
               | 
               | I think the book has some very useful ideas mixed in with
               | some amount of self-promotion. I think the name
               | "Nonviolent Communication" (which might throw some people
               | off) is part of that self-promotion. Don't let the name
               | fool you.
        
               | codr7 wrote:
               | I don't think eliminating emotions from human interaction
               | is a very smart thing to do, and certainly not the only
               | alternative to screaming into the void.
               | 
               | We're already at the point where we're almost not
               | supposed to have emotions anymore, turning more into
               | robots every day.
               | 
               | Every single aspect of being human is emotional, every
               | single decision you make is emotional, no matter how hard
               | you work to justify it mentally.
               | 
               | The idea is nice in theory, if it wasn't for all the
               | humans involved it might actually work.
        
               | guerrilla wrote:
               | Exactly this.
        
               | Y_Y wrote:
               | Why is free speech free? If you think people (and by
               | extension businesses) should be allowed to express
               | themselves that's one thing, but advertising is
               | importantly distinct from that. It's protected speech in
               | most of the Anglosphere to say you don't like some person
               | or group, but not to maliciously damage someone's
               | reputation or incite hatred. I can imagine an analogous
               | situation where you're free to express that you think
               | your product is good, but not to incite irrational desire
               | in consumers or try so place information about your
               | product in places that are difficult to avoid, like
               | public billboards.
        
               | CuriousSkeptic wrote:
               | On free speech vs violent acts of speech (if we want to
               | keep using that term)
               | 
               | A possible compromise that might work is to protect _good
               | faith_ speech while working against bad faith speech.
        
               | smcin wrote:
               | Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff have been attacking
               | that trope as factually incorrect and unhelpful for
               | almost a decade now:
               | 
               |  _" Why It's a Bad Idea to Tell Students Words Are
               | Violence : A claim increasingly heard on campus will make
               | them more anxious and more willing to justify physical
               | harm." (2017)_
               | 
               | https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2017/07/why
               | -it...
        
               | spunker540 wrote:
               | You do a disservice to anyone actually exposed to real
               | violence. I'm sure they'd prefer advertising to violence
               | any day
        
               | ssklash wrote:
               | Maybe not violence, but what word more accurately
               | describes the non-consensual exploitation of human
               | psychology for massive profit?
        
               | Nasrudith wrote:
               | Fraud is closer but still a massive reach.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | IMO advertising is worse than fraud. At least with fraud
               | the impact is usually fairly clear, and not buried in our
               | broken, manipulated, subconscious minds.
        
               | snapcaster wrote:
               | I hate ads, but this is not a winning argument. Instead
               | of winning people over to the sympathetic cause (nobody
               | really LIKES ads besides google and meta employees) you
               | alienate people
        
               | sithlord wrote:
               | I would hazard a guess that no one likes ads except the
               | likes of google and meta SHAREHOLDERS).
        
               | brigadier132 wrote:
               | I was incredulous but many normal people actually enjoy
               | ads.
        
               | dwayne_dibley wrote:
               | I mean they can often be useful.
        
               | ssklash wrote:
               | Many people have also never experienced a world where ads
               | do not exist. I use so many layers of adblocking that
               | whenever I use a vanilla VM or devices, I'm stunned at
               | how shockingly bad the internet experience is for most
               | people.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | Ads can be likeable under the right conditions. Who
               | doesn't want to learn about something that will actually
               | improve their life? Which is also ideal for advertisers.
               | Who wants to pay to advertise to an audience that doesn't
               | want their product?
               | 
               | Google and Facebook, in the early days, thought they
               | could use copious amounts of data to tailor the ads to
               | the user such that they would only be subjected to those
               | which are likeable, but then the audience got skittish
               | about having that much information collected on them. And
               | so we now just get whatever random ad happens to be in
               | the queue - which, indeed, is statistically unlikely to
               | be in line with what you actually need, and therefore
               | unlikable.
        
               | BriggyDwiggs42 wrote:
               | There's a subtle error in your beliefs about the
               | motivations of FB and Google. They are incentivized not
               | to give users useful ads, but effective ones. The goal
               | isn't to improve your life. For example, something you
               | buy because its marketed very well, but then never use,
               | is a success for FB or Google and a loss for you. You
               | should frame them less positively as a consequence. I
               | also want to point out that it's not skittishness;
               | skittishness implies animalistic irrationality. People
               | are right to be afraid of the control that a powerful
               | actor can exert over them if it knows everything they do.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | Nobody would buy something without an understanding of it
               | being beneficial.
               | 
               | I'll grant you that understandings can be faulty. One may
               | learn that there was no benefit. But that's outside of
               | the ad itself. Invalidating your hypotheseses is an
               | important part of the scientific method.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | Explain sugar cereals, soda, cigarettes, alcohol, drugs,
               | gambling, etc.
               | 
               | The advertisements _create_ the misunderstanding.  "Lucky
               | Charms are part of a complete breakfast" etc. No normal
               | person under normal circumstances would think that
               | marshmallows or cookies are part of a healthy meal if you
               | asked them directly to think about it.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | What's to explain? They feel good when consumed, and thus
               | improve one's life, even if only for a fleeting moment.
               | 
               | Who is buying Lucky Charms because they find them
               | disgusting, but somehow see them as being important?
               | Let's be real: People only (continue to, at least - they
               | may buy once just to try) buy Lucky Charms if they like
               | consuming them.
        
               | sebastiennight wrote:
               | > Who is buying Lucky Charms because they find them
               | disgusting, but somehow see them as being important?
               | 
               | Have... you met a teenager?
               | 
               | I'm failing to see the point of this example, as I don't
               | think I've never met a single person who found their
               | first cigarette enjoyable. Is your experience that people
               | buy their first and second pack out of enjoyment of the
               | taste?
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | I have never met a teenager who is concerned about eating
               | a "whole" breakfast, no, _especially_ if that  "whole"
               | breakfast requires eating something that is otherwise
               | unpleasant. Even if this so-called whole breakfast was
               | some scientific truth, proven to improve health outcomes,
               | what teenager would care? Have... _you_ met a teenager?
               | 
               | I don't really see the point of the example either,
               | frankly, but it is what we were given. I expect the
               | contextual parent was just desperately trying to come up
               | with something in the absence of having something
               | meaningful to say.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | The point of the example is that there are plenty of
               | things that have no benefit at all, and in fact have
               | obvious downsides that everyone knows about. However,
               | there is an immense amount of marketing around those
               | things to try to make them seem "cool" and minimize their
               | perceived harm. People get addicted to these things, and
               | struggle to stop consuming them even when they know
               | they're literally dying from it.
               | 
               | No one in their right mind would ever give their kids
               | Oreos for breakfast, but somehow advertisements make
               | people feel comfortable giving them Oero O's. Any person
               | of sound mind would say that giving that to your kids as
               | a meal is neglect, but people do it, and it's "normal".
               | This is the harm that marketing is capable of.
               | 
               | Cookies are, in fact, not a part of a complete breakfast.
               | Evidently, you can convince people that they are by just
               | repeating the message thousands of times to them. I don't
               | see how the people who are involved in making those ads
               | (or the products) can live with themselves. Convincing
               | people to e.g. set their kids up for a life of obesity
               | and early T2 diabetes from poor dietary habits is pure
               | evil, and that's just one example of horrible (yet
               | completely mundane for them) things marketers do.
               | 
               | Just imagine being a person who wakes up in the morning
               | and thinks about how to best convince children to try
               | ingesting poison[0]:
               | 
               | > Juul Labs, the vaping company that has long insisted it
               | never marketed its products to teenagers, purchased ad
               | space in its early days on numerous youth-focused
               | websites, including those of Nickelodeon, the Cartoon
               | Network, Seventeen magazine and educational sites for
               | middle school and high school students, according to a
               | lawsuit filed Wednesday by the Massachusetts attorney
               | general.
               | 
               | Everyone involved in something like that should be put in
               | prison.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/12/health/juul-
               | vaping-lawsui...
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | _> No one in their right mind would ever give their kids
               | Oreos for breakfast_
               | 
               | Assuming you are going to feed your children Oreos at
               | some point, why not for breakfast?
               | 
               |  _> Cookies are, in fact, not a part of a complete
               | breakfast._
               | 
               | They could be. If you are going to eat them anyway, why
               | not at breakfast?
               | 
               |  _> Evidently, you can convince people that they are by
               | just repeating the message thousands of times to them._
               | 
               | Evidently not. Remember, a "complete breakfast" refers to
               | a specific culinary dish that consists of items like
               | bacon, sausages, eggs, baked beans, tomatoes, mushrooms,
               | etc.
               | 
               | Who eats a bowl of cookies _in addition_ to all that? I
               | 've certainly never met such a person. I've known people
               | who eat bowls of cookies for breakfast, indeed, but when
               | they do that's approximately the only thing they eat,
               | which violates what is told in the advertisement. The
               | advertisement you point to is abundantly clear that these
               | cookies are only to be eaten with all those other foods.
               | 
               | Evidently people don't pay attention to what is said and
               | will go off and do their own thing.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | > Evidently people don't pay attention to what is said
               | and will go off and do their own thing.
               | 
               | It's almost like that was the intention. It's weird how
               | the ad doesn't prominently show the eggs, beans, etc. and
               | talk about how great they are, and instead focuses on how
               | you can totally eat cookies for breakfast!
               | 
               | Here's an example:
               | 
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnvHUXssIAo
               | 
               | "Not Candy! Resees Puffs cereal!"
               | 
               | It is candy. Like 1/3 of the mass is added sugar, and the
               | other 2/3 is more carbs. And what's the complete
               | breakfast that goes with it? Two slices of white-bread
               | toast, a glass of milk, and a glass of juice. Even the
               | "complete" breakfast is garbage. The bowl almost
               | certainly has more than the 1 cup serving as well.
               | 
               | The purpose of this commercial is not to inform you about
               | how to use their product as part of a healthy diet
               | (because it isn't a part of a healthy diet). It is to
               | turn your brain off and get you to buy something that you
               | intuitively know is not appropriate. People received the
               | intended message.
               | 
               | Even if they _did_ show their product as a small side
               | (rather than a centerpiece) of an otherwise healthy
               | breakfast, it 's _still_ ridiculous to suggest that you
               | should be giving your kids candy with any regularity.
               | 
               | My oldest kid is 3, and I don't think she has had an
               | Oreo. Will she before she's 18? Probably. Has she had
               | some other treats? Sure. But it's not at all a regular
               | thing. It's certainly not part of a daily diet.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | _> The purpose of this commercial is not to inform you
               | about how to use their product_
               | 
               | Assuming we watched the same video, the purpose is to
               | inform the offer of a solution to a problem: The problem
               | of parents needing to rush off to work and the kids off
               | school, without time to prepare a proper healthy
               | breakfast, with the kids crying "I'm hungry" yet turning
               | their nose up at anything that might be even reasonably
               | healthy.
               | 
               | Hell ya I've given my children candy for breakfast on
               | occasion. We seem to both accept that the occasional
               | treat is not the end of the world. Why not at breakfast?
               | I certainly wouldn't want to make it a habit, but I can
               | also say that from a point of relative privilege in time
               | and resources to cater to other choices. While I think we
               | can agree it is not ideal to turn it into a habit, I can
               | empathize with the parent who is trying to cope with a
               | hard situation by resorting to something that solves the
               | immediate problem.
               | 
               |  _> ...as part of a healthy diet_
               | 
               | While this ends up being true, does this caveat not imply
               | that health is the only problem people face? Clearly that
               | is not true.
               | 
               |  _> It is to turn your brain off and get you to buy
               | something that you intuitively know is not appropriate._
               | 
               | Like you imply, I expect most parents have a pang of
               | guilt when buying breakfast candy for their children, but
               | I expect they also don't know what is a better
               | alternative that fits within their life constraints. If
               | you could market to them something that is at least as
               | equally palatable to the picky child, at least as easy to
               | prepare, and actually healthy, I bet you could destroy
               | the cereal market overnight. But without consumers
               | becoming aware of that better solution...
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | Even if it's something you want, if there is competition
               | in the space, then since Internet ads work on a real-time
               | auction system, you can expect that the winning bidder is
               | the entity that has the most available margin to make.
               | i.e. it is the worst possible deal for you the customer.
               | So e.g. when you search for something on Amazon and see
               | sponsored results, you can expect that those are the
               | worst possible deal.
        
               | bitbuilder wrote:
               | I don't think it's the random ads that bother me and
               | others so much, those are easy to tune out. Nobody cares
               | about billboards. Random junk ads on websites are
               | annoying, but I don't think they're doing much societal
               | harm.
               | 
               | On the contrary, it's the hyper targetting of ads, nested
               | in content algorithmically maximixed for engagement, that
               | I object to.
               | 
               | I've worked in the ad industry, so I've certainly heard
               | and appreciate the whole "we're just educating consumers
               | about products they might be interested in" angle. That's
               | fine, academically speaking, if that's all advertising
               | was. However, advertising more often than not attempts to
               | pray on people's emotions to generate demand for a
               | product. And when we know exactly who someone is, it's SO
               | much easier to do that.
               | 
               | As a perfect example, I woke up last Saturday, started
               | scrolling IG, and saw an ad with a photo of a miserable
               | looking middle aged man lying in bed, asking "Are you
               | tired of feeling like a horrible father because of your
               | drinking problems? Try Reframe!" (No idea what the exact
               | phrasing was, but close enough to that.)
               | 
               | Yes, I'd in fact had drinks with friends the night
               | before. And yes, I'm a middle aged dad. I thought the
               | targetting was pretty hilarious, so I laughed and shared
               | it with my wife and friends. But also, Reframe is praying
               | on my feelings of guilt and shame in an attempt to sell
               | me their shitty app.
               | 
               | I can laugh it off, but I'm not so sure your typical
               | teenager could.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | Let's assume, for the sake of discussion, that this
               | Reframe is some miracle app that will truly do what you
               | think it claims to. Would that not be an ideal way to get
               | the solution into your hands if you have that problem?
               | 
               | You're not going to feel guilt or shame unless you
               | already are under the understanding that you're not, in
               | this case, being then parent you wish to become. Anyone
               | who takes an interest in this ad will do so only because
               | they actually want to make their life better by becoming
               | a better parent and drinking less, and are seeking
               | solutions to see that through.
               | 
               | It seems the only problem here is that the app is shitty.
        
               | bitbuilder wrote:
               | That's a valid way to look at this, and I appreciate that
               | perspective.
               | 
               | However, I think you may be missing the point that the
               | advertisement is specifically meant to elicit, or create,
               | those feelings of guilt or shame. Maybe I feel just fine
               | about the amount I drink, but the wording of the ads
               | subtely implied I _should_ feel guilty about my drinking.
               | If the question was  "Do you feel like you could use help
               | with your drinking? Then try Reframe.", then I'd agree
               | with your point more.
               | 
               | But maybe a bad example, because in that case perhaps the
               | end result of the targetted ad could in fact be a better
               | outcome for everyone, as you point out. To pick a bit of
               | a hyperbolic example, what if instead the ad had instead
               | said "Tired of being the the ugliest girl in your class?
               | Try BetterMakeup!" (with all the appropriate imagery the
               | targetting provides). Is advertisement like that truly
               | good for anyone but the seller?
               | 
               | As a bit of a side note, everyone knows ads are targetted
               | now, so there's an implicit assumption on the viewers
               | part that the seller must know something about them. And
               | now advertisers are using that to their advantage.
               | 
               | I think the larger point though is that many of us simply
               | do not think its ethical or healthy to give companies the
               | tools to manipulate our emotions and tap into our
               | insecurities in the pursuit of profit. The seller doesn't
               | care about the buyer, they only care about convincing the
               | buyer to buy their product, even if that means making
               | them feel shitty about themselves.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | _> I think you may be missing the point that the
               | advertisement is specifically meant to elicit, or create,
               | those feelings of guilt or shame._
               | 
               | I'm not sure that was missed, but, as before, you cannot
               | elicit or create feelings where there isn't already an
               | understanding of what the feelings reflect. The
               | particular ad no doubt does elicit feelings in those who
               | already see themselves as not being the parent they want
               | to be. It's not going to elicit any particular feelings
               | in someone who is childless, though. They lack the
               | necessary understanding.
               | 
               | And if you do have concern about the way you are
               | parenting, wouldn't you want to improve upon that?
               | 
               |  _> what if instead the ad had instead said  "Tired of
               | being the the ugliest girl in your class? Try
               | BetterMakeup!" (with all the appropriate imagery the
               | targetting provides). Is advertisement like that truly
               | good for anyone but the seller?_
               | 
               | Sure, it is also good for the person who has an
               | understanding that they are ugly and no longer want to
               | be, again, assuming the product works. We do again have
               | the potential problem of where the product might not work
               | as expected. Indeed, that can be a problem, but I'm not
               | sure that's a problem with advertising in and of itself.
               | We should be careful to not conflate different ideas.
               | 
               | On the assumption that "BetterMakeup" actually makes a
               | person more beautiful, someone wants to become more
               | beautiful, and the ad gave awareness to the person that
               | there is a solution to their apparent problem, is that
               | not a win for the consumer?
               | 
               |  _> I think the larger point though is that many of us
               | simply do not think its ethical or healthy to give
               | companies the tools to manipulate our emotions and tap
               | into our insecurities in the pursuit of profit._
               | 
               | If all products magically solved the problems they
               | purport to solve, would you still have the same concern?
               | As before, trying to convince a childless person that
               | they are a bad parent isn't going to work. This only
               | works when you are presenting a solution to someone who
               | already understands that they have a problem.
               | 
               | If the product is shitty, thereby not solving the
               | problem, then I can definitely understand your overall
               | concern. Although I am not sure you have made clear why
               | advertising is to blame for shitty products. If we are
               | imagining ways to change the world, why place product
               | evaluation in the advertising band at all? Perhaps these
               | shitty products don't need to be allowed on the market in
               | the first place?
        
               | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
               | > And if you do have concern about the way you are
               | parenting, wouldn't you want to improve upon that?
               | 
               | > Let's assume, for the sake of discussion, that this
               | Reframe is some miracle app that will truly do what you
               | think it claims to.
               | 
               | Reading this discussion, I remain unconvinced. Unless I
               | lost the plot somewhere along the way (admittedly, that's
               | a possibility), it sounds like the context is that of
               | someone advertising a product in a probably dishonest way
               | and it's justified because people want the thing that's
               | being advertised, even though it's not necessarily the
               | thing that's being sold.
               | 
               | > Although I am not sure you have made clear why
               | advertising is to blame for shitty products.
               | 
               | Put another way: what if the product in question was
               | literally snake oil? Is that still justifiable as
               | marketing because they're making a promise about it which
               | someone wants to hear? Maybe it's more than just a shitty
               | product.
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | _> I remain unconvinced._
               | 
               | Was there something we were supposed to convince you of?
               | 
               |  _> what if the product in question was literally snake
               | oil? Is that still justifiable as marketing because they
               | 're making a promise about it which someone wants to
               | hear?_
               | 
               | The discussion is about advertising preying on
               | insecurities, not marketing in general. If we assume
               | snake oil were to be advertised, is there some reason to
               | prefer: _" Snake Oil: The miracle cure-all!"_ over _"
               | Your bad breath is scaring off the girl of your dreams.
               | Cure it with Snake Oil!"_?
               | 
               | If yes, why is the latter less preferable? Is it because
               | it calls attention to a real problem someone might want
               | to solve? Does that continue to hold if we assume snake
               | oil truly is a miracle cure-all that eliminates bad
               | breath?
        
               | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
               | Because the advertisement inappropriately calls the
               | product a solution to an unrelated problem. The
               | manufacturer can demonstrate that it will eliminate my
               | halitosis but not that it will get me laid. Using the
               | initial example, I might be less addicted to alcohol but
               | that doesn't necessarily make me a better parent; the
               | advertisement sold me on being a better parent.
               | 
               | (I appreciate your questions. I had to think about that
               | one.)
        
               | randomdata wrote:
               | _> Because the advertisement inappropriately calls the
               | product a solution to an unrelated problem._
               | 
               | Yes, but that is true in both cases. A miracle cure-all,
               | if there were such a thing, would, indeed, solve your
               | halitosis and girl troubles.
               | 
               | If I am to infer something here, it is that you didn't
               | realize what a "cure-all" can do. It took more precise
               | language to get you thinking about specific problems and
               | how to solve them.
               | 
               | So, let's assume for a minute that snake oil is well and
               | truly a magical cure-all. It seems that by the first ad
               | you wouldn't recognize that fact and would end up not
               | being able to benefit from is miracle properties. Perhaps
               | the second ad would actually be preferable?
        
               | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
               | > Yes, but that is true in both cases.
               | 
               | I think I can see where you're coming from with this but
               | it's still not how I read it. The second advertisement is
               | telling me that the product will cure my bad breath and
               | therefore my girl problems but my girl problems are not
               | necessarily related to my bad breath. It's the same as
               | the drinking father example; a person's parenting can be
               | good or bad irrespective of their drinking habits. (Maybe
               | it fixes my girl problems independently from curing my
               | bad breath but the advertisement seems to be telling me
               | that it will solve my girl problems by means of curing my
               | bad breath. Same as the given drinking father real-world
               | example.)
               | 
               | Can you think of a non-cure-all example for which this
               | argument holds?
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | > _Who doesn 't want to learn about something that will
               | actually improve their life?_
               | 
               | I don't, honestly. If I've decided I want something, I'll
               | seek it out. If I've identified an area where I feel like
               | my life is lacking, I might look for a product to help
               | fix that. If I don't even know about something that I
               | might want, I'm fine not having it.
               | 
               | The problem is that I don't really trust anyone else to
               | determine what kind of ad passes the test of "will
               | improve people's lives". There's really no objective way
               | to approve or reject an ad based on this kind of
               | criterion.
               | 
               | I'd rather we just ban all forms of advertising.
               | 
               | > _Google and Facebook, in the early days, thought they
               | could use copious amounts of data to tailor the ads to
               | the user such that they would only be subjected to those
               | which are likeable_
               | 
               | No, they wanted to give people ads they thought would be
               | _effective_. Google 's plan was to make ads unobtrusive,
               | mostly text-only, and thought that they would be likeable
               | enough to be effective. But that's the key: they didn't
               | do this because they were being nice and wanted to make
               | the web a better place. They did it because they thought
               | the ads would actually _work_ better.
        
               | ajsnigrutin wrote:
               | Limit advertising budgets to some percentage of reported
               | (and taxed) income.
               | 
               | Solve multiple problems at once :)
        
               | briandear wrote:
               | So the big companies can spend more and the startups
               | wouldn't be able to advertise at all. That's not solving
               | anything.
        
             | FridayoLeary wrote:
             | That is overly simplistic. Advertising is a great way to
             | make people aware of things they may find useful. Without a
             | good method to spread the news no one could sell their
             | innovations.
             | 
             | But i do agree that most ads are annoying.
        
             | briandear wrote:
             | A ridiculous concept -- the only people that win in that
             | are the incumbent producers.
             | 
             | "I make a better widget at a lower price than BigCorp" --
             | yet nobody will ever find out about it because advertising
             | that fact would be illegal. Journalists would become
             | supremely powerful and (more) supremely corrupt. Just like
             | radio DJs in the 20th century determined what music sold
             | (and were often bribed accordingly,) the same thing will
             | happen for literally everything. Journalism would become
             | even more like advertising but people wouldn't be able to
             | tell the difference. I don't want the equivalent of radio
             | DJs determining what products and services win.
             | 
             | Many professional sports would disappear, Motorsports,
             | soccer, many olympic sports would cease to exist at the
             | highest level. The Olympics themselves would no longer be
             | broadcast (who would pay for it?) Kid's little league teams
             | would lose local business sponsors. Everything would be
             | pay-per-view assuming the economics worked at all.
             | Newspapers would all shut down. TV stations would
             | disappear. Radio would be limited to small amateur stations
             | -- if that because the moment the host mentions a product,
             | service, song, they'd be sued (wrongly or rightly) for
             | potentially advertising. New restaurants would never
             | survive (how will anyone know you exist: Signage and logos
             | are all advertising.)
             | 
             | Basically it would be North Korea with people shopping for
             | inferior state-produced goods at inferior state run
             | supermarkets reading state-approved messages about the
             | greatness of the Dear Leader and his progeny.
             | 
             | Even word of mouth referrals would be subject to lawsuits
             | "can you prove you didn't get a free cookie in exchange for
             | saying something to your friends about this bakery?"
             | 
             | An absolutely dystopian nightmare.
             | 
             | And if there were an advertising ban, you can bet
             | politicians would exempt themselves from such a ban.
        
             | Terr_ wrote:
             | There may be some more-creative options out there too.
             | 
             | For example, in Washington State there isn't a blanket
             | prohibition on signs advertising to people on the highway,
             | _but_ anything advertised must be available for purchase on
             | the property. So far, that 's been enough to curb companies
             | from lining the highways with walls of giant billboards.
             | 
             | So--just spitballing here--imagine if people had a legal
             | right to use and sell software that blocks ads or
             | objectionable material from their view or on devices they
             | own, and how that could lead to ad-ecosystem changes.
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | Or you can do like a few different states have done and
               | just fucking ban billboards, and the world doesn't end,
               | and the economy doesn't crash, and the world is an
               | explicitly better place.
               | 
               | So much stupid nonsense just to not make the world a
               | better place and I don't understand it. You don't need to
               | be creative.
               | 
               | Speaking of which, at this point it's only a matter of
               | time before some big name attempts to put a satellite in
               | orbit that is also a billboard, so you can ALWAYS see
               | their advertising in the nights sky, because it is not
               | currently being used for advertising so, you know, they
               | want to fix that. If we don't ban it now, we WILL have
               | our night sky blocked out by advertising at some point.
               | Companies already use big drone displays to do this.
               | 
               | And I guarantee you people will insist "It's not a big
               | deal, we need advertising, we don't need to block all of
               | it"
        
             | kelnos wrote:
             | That really is my dream. Advertising is a blight on
             | humanity.
             | 
             | Of course, this would break capitalism. We live in a
             | society where the foundation of the economy requires that
             | people keep buying things, even things they don't really
             | need and don't really want.
             | 
             | I happen to think breaking capitalism a bit could be a good
             | thing, but it would likely also cause a period of economic
             | instability that would crush people who are marginal
             | financially.
        
           | mhx1138 wrote:
           | We could make it illegal for minors to use the internet at
           | all. It is too dangerous. Similar to driving. That would
           | solve so many current problems.
        
             | Zambyte wrote:
             | I think it's more interesting when you scope it to mass
             | media system. I think kids using the internet to
             | communicate directly with their peers and family makes a
             | lot of sense. Kids consuming an infinite amount of media
             | and trying to broadcast themselves to the whole world is
             | very often unhealthy.
             | 
             | I think this is also true if adults, but I think kids are
             | particularly susceptible to unhealthy habits / addictions
             | around mass media systems.
        
               | cacois wrote:
               | Respectfully disagree - their peers often make an
               | unhealthy environment on the internet. Kids need in-
               | person communication and interactions, its necessary for
               | healthy development. The internet looks like it provides
               | social interaction, but it actually does not provide what
               | kids need. They should interact with their peers
               | elsewhere, synchronously.
        
               | fwip wrote:
               | I feel like interacting with a moderate-sized set of real
               | peers is workable - like chat rooms on AIM with the kids
               | you know from school. Kids have always had unsupervised
               | time with their peers.
               | 
               | Where it breaks down, is when you get a whole ecosystem
               | populated entirely by kids and those trying to make money
               | off of them.
        
               | mrguyorama wrote:
               | No, most of the problem with internet interaction is how
               | the human brain considers the username saying things to
               | you on AIM is NOT the same as the dude you hang out with
               | every day in real life, and more importantly, the
               | usernames you don't know in real life are just vague
               | spirits your brain is much more willing to demonize. This
               | exact same effect is the main cause of roadrage and why
               | everyone is such an asshole when you put them in steel
               | boxes and have them interact on the road.
               | 
               | It is NOT SOCIALIZATION to talk to people on the
               | internet. Your brain simply does not treat it the same
               | way.
               | 
               | Kids are fine interacting in person at school and other
               | public places. They don't need this social media
               | bullshit, and even private messaging systems like AIM or
               | MSN aren't really that great.
        
               | Nasrudith wrote:
               | Are you joking? Peer communication is the most toxic,
               | Lord Of The Flies things there is. Notice how much office
               | politics is high school bullshit? That is what happens
               | when you have norms set by an isolated incestuous prison-
               | mimicking subset of society cut off from experience and
               | wisdom.
               | 
               | Consuming an infinite amount of media is positively
               | wholesome by comparison.
        
               | Zambyte wrote:
               | Your high school and work experience sounds completely
               | different from mine. I grew up in a very rural area. My
               | options outside of school and sports (both not accounting
               | for the whole year for me) were to talk to my friends on
               | the internet, talk to strangers on the internet, consume
               | infinite media from the internet, or isolating myself. I
               | spend a very large portion of my free time either talking
               | to my friends, or talking to strangers and my friends at
               | the same time. I don't think you'll be able to convince
               | me that I would have been better off choosing any other
               | options.
               | 
               | As for work, I have had a hard time leaving jobs, because
               | to me that also means leaving the people I work with. I
               | guess my office life is similar to my high school life in
               | the sense that I actually like(d) the people around me.
        
             | brightlancer wrote:
             | In the US, minors can get a driver's license at 16 in most
             | places, and at 15 in a few I've seen.
             | 
             | And a person of any age can drive a car on private
             | property.
        
             | novia wrote:
             | People at age 12, maybe even age 10, are ready to use the
             | internet.
             | 
             | This might be an unpopular take, but I remember being that
             | age and having to jump through so many hoops to access the
             | sites I wanted to access, and I swore to myself I would
             | defend children's right to exist online. I'm 35 now. My
             | opinion hasn't changed.
             | 
             | The regulations ask websites not to target advertising to
             | children. Websites don't like that because advertising is
             | their main means of profiting or breaking even, so they try
             | to pull their site offline for minors, and limit their
             | ability to communicate with others. COPPA doesn't require
             | that you limit the ability for minors to communicate with
             | others, but websites err on the side of caution because of
             | the very real threat of pedophiles.
             | 
             | Children age 12-ish are bored out of their minds, and a lot
             | of them are really smart and would contribute to the
             | internet in a positive way. See the story of Aaron Swartz.
             | He contributed so much to open software before he was even
             | 16.
        
           | the1thatgb wrote:
           | There should be operating systems just for minkrs that are
           | devoid of tracking and using software for kids like the
           | kiddle search engine and social media for kids (not the one
           | we all know of)
        
             | rolph wrote:
             | the number of websites that would complain such OS and
             | browser is unsupported, is skyrocketing. thats a blight
             | that requires mitigation any time soon.
        
           | maeil wrote:
           | This is already the case for e.g. gambling ads in certain
           | countries. Recently I saw the first website that was
           | basically begging the user to "please be honest" on the age
           | popup, indicating a good number of people have caught on to
           | just clicking "under 21". Of course I still clicked "under
           | 21".
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | Heaven forbid someone being shown ads for things that interest
         | him. All this hand-wringing about privacy seems to me to be
         | producing a lot of noise for minimal practical benefit. I don't
         | see harms in ad targeting.
        
           | consteval wrote:
           | The harms, in my opinion, is that hyper-consumerism is an
           | addiction. These methods are intended as a way to get
           | impressionable and vulnerable groups hooked on various
           | products, for the benefit of the manufacturer.
           | 
           | Children cannot make good decisions (generally) and they
           | often have poor impulse control. Building the habit of
           | spending money on random sparkly shit they don't need ensure
           | that, as adults, they will be good consumers. And by that I
           | mean materialistic and poorer than they have to be.
           | 
           | It's no surprise that these ads play into the most intrinsic
           | human emotions for manipulation. They target social status,
           | perception of self, pleasure. I see it as no different than
           | sparkling lights on a slot machine. A way to manipulate the
           | mind and build a money-burning addiction.
        
         | burningChrome wrote:
         | This sounds eerily familiar with how big tobacco targeted
         | underage kids to get them hooked on their products in the 60's
         | and 70's.
        
           | supertofu wrote:
           | You don't even have to go that far back. Remember Juul in the
           | 2010s?
        
             | radicaldreamer wrote:
             | Juul sent representatives to schools who told kids that
             | Juuls weren't addictive.
             | 
             | https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/25/health/juul-teens-
             | vaping....
        
               | lcnPylGDnU4H9OF wrote:
               | > sent representatives to schools
               | 
               | This seems like something that should need to be
               | positively justified by the organization which wants to
               | send salespeo^W _representatives_ to schools, in a way
               | that is publicly auditable.
        
               | burningChrome wrote:
               | I remember a ton of vaping threads extoling the idea
               | vaping was totally safe on Reddit. When people brought up
               | the possible negative side effects of vaping they were
               | routinely downvoted into oblivion. Nobody wanted to
               | believe vaping was dangerous are could have harmful side
               | effects.
        
           | TremendousJudge wrote:
           | Tobacco companies have always targeted kids. In the early
           | 20th century most baseball cards were produced by sweets and
           | tobacco manufacturers
        
         | belter wrote:
         | Looking at the stories here in the last two days, lots in HN
         | are more worried with the location of Twitter headquarters...(
         | Will never mention that letter...)
        
           | johnnyanmac wrote:
           | Don't want to go too off topic, but I legitmately don't
           | understand the fuss. It went from California to California.
           | If there's any forced moves to SoCal, my condolances, but I
           | didn't get that vibe from that thread that there were a bunch
           | of disgruntled workers.
           | 
           | Are people still that interested in trying to join Twitter c.
           | 2024? I'm desperate enough in terms of money to accept if I
           | was just handed an offer, but I sure as hell am not doing
           | anything more than 2 interviews before my interest nosedives.
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | For all the speculation about the move, the reason is simple.
           | Twitter is going to launch a payments system, San Francisco
           | has a tax on gross receipts, which is so unfair to payments
           | processing companies that several others - square, stripe,
           | and block - moved out of SF to avoid paying that tax, and
           | Twitter is simply following suite. it's too inside baseball
           | for the average reader to follow, so we're left with baseless
           | speculation and conspiracy theories on why they're moving HQ
           | when it's a subplot business decision that has made made by
           | others already.
        
             | DaiPlusPlus wrote:
             | > we're left with baseless speculation and conspiracy
             | theories on why they're moving
             | 
             | Sounds like Elon, so it's on-brand.
        
         | choppaface wrote:
         | Google has yet to experience significant penalties due to their
         | Jedi Blue price-fixing scheme (
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jedi_Blue ). Perhaps this story
         | covers some other set of claims that will be broken out of the
         | larger Jedi Blue case.
         | 
         | Edit: this is actually a recent campaign, the story says 2023
         | but some other outlets said it executed this year in 2024.
         | 
         | After all, Google fought very hard and farted out a cashier's
         | check to the US Gov to avoid a jury trial in one of their ad
         | monopoly cases https://apnews.com/article/google-antitrust-ad-
         | tech-virginia...
        
       | miki123211 wrote:
       | Funnily enough, this is one case where contextual advertising
       | would actually work better than what we have now.
       | 
       | With contextual advertising, you could very easily target
       | children with very specific interests and/or in specific age
       | groups by targeting the ads at the videos they most often watch.
        
         | Ylpertnodi wrote:
         | > this is one case where contextual advertising would actually
         | work better than what we have now.
         | 
         | No. No. No. That a) would involve tracking and b) what we have
         | now are ads based on what you bought/ have looked at. I already
         | have an 'x', why would i want more ads for it...or ads for what
         | some algorithm thinks i might be interested in, related to it.
         | Unless I _choose_ to.
        
           | iamacyborg wrote:
           | Contextual ads wouldn't require tracking as it's just
           | advertising based on the page context, ie a video about a
           | videogame will have different ads than an article about
           | remortgaging.
           | 
           | There should probably be laws in place to prevent advertising
           | targeting children though, regardless of the advertising
           | mechanism.
        
             | tantalor wrote:
             | This might violate the policy against "proxy targeting"
        
             | miki123211 wrote:
             | > There should probably be laws in place to prevent
             | advertising targeting children though, regardless of the
             | advertising mechanism
             | 
             | How would you even implement that? Do you mean no ads on TV
             | channels for children and websites that are rarely
             | frequented by adults?
        
           | Terretta wrote:
           | > _No. No. No. That a) would involve tracking and b) what we
           | have now are ads based on what you bought / have looked at._
           | 
           | Contextual advertising is what's in print magazines. Audience
           | ads next to articles, topical ads mid-story, or category ads
           | grouped with like ads.
        
       | edpichler wrote:
       | Market data science is tragically fascinating. It's a superpower,
       | capable of being used for eithger good or bad.
        
         | Nasrudith wrote:
         | What would it look like when it is being used for good? Not
         | being a smartass implying its existence, legitimately
         | wondering.
        
           | polotics wrote:
           | From what I hear the chinese Tik-Tok equivalent Douyin does
           | manage to educate and raise STEM interest and help... https:/
           | /www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/10i4gks/tiktok_in_c...
        
           | gretch wrote:
           | There's lots of products that people really need and could
           | help improve their lives, but they don't know about the
           | existence of the problem/solution.
           | 
           | For example
           | 
           | "Hey do you have hip pain when walking down the stairs? Turns
           | out this is extremely common and we solved it with this
           | special walking stick. Click here to buy the walking stick"
           | 
           | "Were you an Iraq war veteran who served between 2004 and
           | 2006? Turns out the government owes you money. Click here to
           | get it"
           | 
           | "Do you like Blink 182? Turns out they are actually touring
           | again and they are in your city next weekend. Buy tickets
           | now"
           | 
           | There's tons of stuff out there that would be a win-win
           | transaction, if only ppl knew about it.
        
             | rchaud wrote:
             | > Hey do you have hip pain when walking down the stairs?
             | Turns out this is extremely common and we solved it with
             | this special walking stick. Click here to buy the walking
             | stick"
             | 
             | This is where a forward thinking marketer would say "we
             | have a database of email addresses of people reporting hip
             | problems, how much will you pay me for access to them?",
             | aka what Google did.
        
         | meiraleal wrote:
         | By good you mean profit?
        
       | fergonco wrote:
       | Since I got kids I realized how they are the weakest link in the
       | chain and are targeted by everyone. From tobacco (at the end
       | nobody starts smoking at 30), to "free" cartoons (peppa pig
       | backpack is not free, though), school book sellers. Heck, even
       | the school this year pressured to put my kid in their social
       | media.
       | 
       | There is a whole world of people making their living out of your
       | kids.
       | 
       | Sorry for the rant. This is just another two. Does not surprise
       | me.
        
         | Unbefleckt wrote:
         | Also sugary sweets are aimed at children, for whom a dose of
         | sugar probably hits much harder. As someone who managed to quit
         | sugar, it was like a drug addiction.
        
           | walleeee wrote:
           | Yes, indeed it _is_ a drug addiction.
        
             | Nasrudith wrote:
             | It is worse than a drug addiction because drugs aren't
             | basic biochemical building blocks. Going cold turkey on all
             | carbs isn't exactly mainstream nutrition.
        
         | pickledoyster wrote:
         | > This is just another two.
         | 
         | These two control around half of the online ad industry, though
        
         | lnsru wrote:
         | Yes. And as parent one must fight against multiple multibillion
         | dollar industries. Starting with food ending with toys, games,
         | influencers and everything in between.
         | 
         | I was neutral when I started working in cellphone industry and
         | kids were small. Now when I see how teens siting in the corner
         | watching worthless stupid YouTube videos on the phone for hours
         | I don't feel well. Luckily I quit that industry and think it's
         | a cousin of big tobacco at the end despite advertisements
         | telling some other things.
        
         | leosanchez wrote:
         | > even the school this year pressured to put my kid in their
         | social media.
         | 
         | Wow
        
       | imiric wrote:
       | "We're sorry."
       | 
       | This is not surprising. Google has a history violating the
       | privacy of and targetting ads to not only teenagers, but
       | children:
       | 
       | - https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/23/business/youtube-ads-kids...
       | 
       | - https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/09/business/media/youtube-ki...
       | 
       | - https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/20/business/media/google-you...
       | 
       | - https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/04/technology/google-youtube...
       | 
       | - https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/17/technology/youtube-google...
       | 
       | When will governments wake up and put a stop to this? Their
       | inaction is simply a sign of complicity. Absolutely disgraceful
       | and criminal behavior.
       | 
       | Everyone working at these companies: you're partly to blame,
       | whether you're directly involved or not. Reconsider the behavior
       | you're supporting, and quit.
        
         | londons_explore wrote:
         | Not allowing advertising to children I think isn't the correct
         | route for society.
         | 
         | Instead we should prevent children having money. Until you're
         | 16, you may not handle money. You may not buy things for money.
         | You may not sell things. You may not enter into contracts to
         | exchange money.
         | 
         | Your parents however can do all of those things on your behalf.
         | 
         | At that point, advertising to children no longer is relevant -
         | the children cannot buy the advertised things.
        
           | throw12347825 wrote:
           | Yep, drawing red lines around age of consent has worked _so
           | well_ in the past, I think this is the way.
           | 
           | I'm so glad we have simple and effective solutions like this.
           | Otherwise can you imagine the kinds of problems we'd have
           | with kids vaping, buying lootboxes and scrolling social media
           | designed to hijack their not-yet-fully-developed-brains?
        
             | throw12347825 wrote:
             | ... And by "age of consent" I meant "minimum legal age
             | recognized to make decisions pertaining to topic X". Is
             | there a proper term for that, so I don't sound so stupid in
             | future?
        
               | azornathogron wrote:
               | You perhaps want the term "age of majority".
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_majority
        
           | pacija wrote:
           | I guess you don't have children.
        
           | tgv wrote:
           | But e.g. getting children hooked on instagram will pay off
           | later.
        
           | cnity wrote:
           | I think this is exactly the opposite of how it should be.
           | Teach children to engage in trade and sensible use of money
           | and currency early, but shield them from the immense leverage
           | that corporate advertising has on the developing mind. I want
           | well rounded children who are good independent critical
           | thinkers, not brain-hijacked and inept with money.
        
             | pndy wrote:
             | Speaking of the corporate advertising, I just saw an ad
             | today that basically grooms kids into credit card concept.
             | This bank has a prepaid card and app that's being managed
             | by parents.
             | 
             | The ad story is _" charming"_: busy parents forgot to pack
             | his son properly for a summer camp, so he calls them and
             | says he misses item x that is crucial. So they both leave
             | their jobs and in a rush through city they're trying to
             | save their boy. While he just orders stuff online with a
             | help of a card, app and smartphone. And with "plastic
             | money" little guy saves the day on his own.
             | 
             | Sure, its 21st century, we're living in the 20s and you
             | can't avoid technology in banking, finances and pocket
             | money for your kids but this barely teaches any
             | responsibility - that ad deep between the lines sells the
             | idea that money are magically "there". Just go for the
             | limit, next month daddy and mommy will charge the card
             | again.
        
               | cnity wrote:
               | I have seen an ad for that, and I felt mixed about it. I
               | think such a "children's learning" type card which
               | actually allows real purchases is a good idea for
               | financial responsibility, but you'd have to be really
               | cognisant of perverse incentives set up by a financial
               | institution that can profit in this space.
        
           | stephenr wrote:
           | Ah yes, why let children learn about money and
           | responsibility, much better to treat them like pets so that
           | advertising scumbags don't have a reason to target them.
           | 
           | The mental gymnastics people will do to avoid having to admit
           | that daddy Google is a creepy advertising company never
           | ceases to astound me.
        
           | HenryBemis wrote:
           | There are so many things wrong with your post!! In your
           | spirit, we should be able to sell heroin to kids, just not
           | give them money, only the first free dose (that's that all
           | the blinking and sounds on the ads do to their brains). I had
           | a colleague once that said exactly that (and he effing meant
           | it) "if selling heroin to kids was legal, I would be outside
           | a school right now - it's their parents' problem" (yes he has
           | kids)(at the time he was a IT contractor making GBP 1200 per
           | day - and that was 8 years ago)(there are scum and scum.. and
           | then there was him).
           | 
           | Anyway.. we (should) protect kids as much as possible from as
           | many possible risks and threats (old and new).
           | 
           | (also, go see a therapist, you need help)
        
           | GuB-42 wrote:
           | It is already the case, more or less. Parents manage their
           | children assets, including money, and children abilities to
           | enter into contract is very limited. They can manipulate
           | money, but only if they parents let them, and they usually
           | do, because it would be crazy not to.
           | 
           | It changes nothing to the situation with ads. Ads for
           | children actually target the parents, manipulating children
           | so that they can in turn manipulate their parents. It can be
           | terrible, for example by advertising for something
           | fashionable to wear at school, too expensive for the child
           | allowance, they expect their parents to buy it, because if
           | they don't their kids may get bullied. Not giving children
           | access to money won't solve this problem, quite the opposite
           | actually, if it was their money, they could realize how
           | overpriced the thing is and how much they could do by
           | spending it elsewhere.
        
             | netsharc wrote:
             | I remember when I was a kid (a long time ago now...), Dr.
             | Martens shoes were the fashion, that my school forbade
             | them. We had uniforms, but the rule with shoes was just
             | that they had to be black. I think the ban was on the
             | technicality that the stiching was yellow, so they're not
             | black shoes. And a student tried to loophole the loophole
             | by coloring the yellow stitching black.
             | 
             | I wonder if some brands give out free stuff to "child
             | influencers" so other kids would moan to their parents
             | about buying the items...
        
               | agmater wrote:
               | > I wonder if some brands give out free stuff to "child
               | influencers" so other kids would moan to their parents
               | about buying the items...
               | 
               | See Ryan's World on Youtube for example, it's a huge
               | industry.
        
               | lupire wrote:
               | They are called brand ambassadors and they go back to to
               | before Internet.
               | 
               | The best looking person at your college didn't pay for
               | their iBook.
        
           | x3ro wrote:
           | Ah yes, don't give children _any_ responsibility with money
           | until they are 16, and then just throw them into cold water
           | and expect them to know how to manage spending.. Sorry for
           | being sarcastic here, and I know how to raise children is a
           | divisive topic, but this sounds like a recipe for disaster.
           | 
           | Let's give children responsibility and agency as early as
           | possible, so they can learn to make decisions.
        
           | lm28469 wrote:
           | You can still get brainwashed by ads without spending a cent
        
           | pfdietz wrote:
           | Having ads targeted at children can be seen as a _good_
           | thing: it trains the children in what advertising is like,
           | about how they can be manipulated and exploited. It 's good
           | for them to get this experience while young when the stakes
           | are low.
           | 
           | Of course, this might also train children to be the
           | exploiters and manipulators. Maybe their parents would think
           | that's a good thing too, at least in the long run.
        
             | thfuran wrote:
             | Wouldn't it be better to remove exploitation and
             | manipulation than to subject children to it in the hopes
             | that it somehow makes them resistant to more of it later?
        
               | pfdietz wrote:
               | I don't see how that would work.
        
               | thfuran wrote:
               | If the reason that you think it's good to allow
               | advertising to children, despite it being bad in and of
               | itself, is that it prepares them to be subjected to ads
               | as an adult, wouldn't it be better to instead remove the
               | ads for adults as well?
        
               | pfdietz wrote:
               | Ads serve a useful function, particularly if one can
               | filter out deception.
        
               | Nasrudith wrote:
               | To be frank thus sounds like a replay of purity idealism
               | about shielding kids from anything even remotely
               | connected to sex. Not being capable of manipulation or
               | exploitation or dealing with them would be rightfully
               | classified as a severe social disability.
        
             | ndriscoll wrote:
             | Personally, I plan to prepare my kids by keeping them away
             | from as many sources of advertising as possible and
             | teaching them how to do the same when they're older. e.g.
             | they're completely unaware of the existence of anything
             | Disney-related.
        
         | rendaw wrote:
         | In case anyone replies with "well all companies are bad in some
         | way"... scale is also a factor here. Even if Google does the
         | same things as a small family owned business, they have
         | significantly greater ability to inflict harm.
         | 
         | And I'm not sure I buy that all companies are bad. A lot of
         | companies are earnest and customer-focused when they're smaller
         | and desperate for more users. And I've worked at many companies
         | which were bumbling but not really manipulative or malicious.
        
           | BiteCode_dev wrote:
           | It's like saying all gov are bad in some way. But Spain gov
           | and North Korea gov are definitely not bad in the same way.
        
           | pyrale wrote:
           | > In case anyone replies with "well all companies are bad in
           | some way"... scale is also a factor here.
           | 
           | Even disregarding scale, plenty of large companies providing
           | critical service struggle to find good people to do their
           | job.
           | 
           | Sure, they don't pay as well. But if the rebuttal is that you
           | can't find a honest company that pays equivalent salaries,
           | maybe we should call that wage-gap corruption money.
        
             | o_1 wrote:
             | remind me, why was "do no evil" scrubbed from the mission
             | statement?
        
             | brightlancer wrote:
             | There's always going to be a lot of money/profit in amoral
             | behavior that's legal -- while being moral means passing on
             | that behavior and money. It's possible to run a business
             | morally and successfully, but rarely as successfully as
             | someone who runs one amorally.
             | 
             | IME, most people in the US will happily take a job with the
             | extra money at an amoral company, even if the lesser paying
             | job at a moral company would still be enough for a
             | comfortable life. (Folks in the US are very price
             | conscious; I don't know how that compares to other
             | cultures/ societies.)
        
         | lupire wrote:
         | Why are you quoting "We're sorry."? Who apologized?
         | 
         | "I didn't do it. Nobody saw me do it. You can't prove
         | anything." is not "I'm sorry."
        
           | alex7734 wrote:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SiL2AjOtjZI
        
         | jay-barronville wrote:
         | > Everyone working at these companies: you're partly to blame,
         | whether you're directly involved or not. Reconsider the
         | behavior you're supporting, and quit.
         | 
         | I used to think like this, until I got married and started a
         | family.
         | 
         | I'm no longer so quick to judge folks for not doing what I
         | believe to be the most ideal (or even ethical) thing in these
         | types of circumstances.
         | 
         | For many of us who have families, our top priority is making
         | sure we can continue to take care of our households and not
         | risking that in any way unless absolutely necessary.
        
           | kayodelycaon wrote:
           | This is also true of people with chronic medical conditions
           | or disabilities. I don't know if the next company's insurance
           | will cover my doctors or my medication.
           | 
           | Getting a job while having an obvious disability puts you at
           | a disadvantage, regardless of discrimination being illegal.
        
           | ndriscoll wrote:
           | There are tons of tech jobs out there. That excuse doesn't
           | work so well when you're in one of the most lucrative careers
           | there is. Creating a dystopia where everyone is spied upon
           | 24/7 is also not something someone with kids should want to
           | do.
        
             | dartos wrote:
             | There _were_ tons of tech jobs.
             | 
             | Much harder to jump ship nowadays since layoffs have flood
             | the market with high skilled job seekers and borrowing
             | money is no longer free for tech firms.
             | 
             | Life is complicated, employees can be just as much locked
             | in to their jobs at Google as most people are to their
             | products.
        
               | jay-barronville wrote:
               | Exactly. I was about to respond with something similar,
               | but you did it for me!
               | 
               | Not only are folks getting laid off left and right,
               | salaries have gone down significantly and it's very
               | difficult to secure a new job in this market (no matter
               | your skills, experience, etc.).
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | There are still tons of jobs. They might not pay as well,
               | but "I need to provide for my kids" might mean you take a
               | crappy IT job that pays 60k, not that you build global
               | surveillance/propaganda systems to be used against them
               | and their peers. This isn't the depression.
               | 
               | And up until recently, there were tons of really good
               | jobs. What's the excuse there?
               | 
               | If you have kids, you're presumably a few years into your
               | career. Do you not have savings? My oldest is 3 and I
               | wouldn't really have to start worrying for years if I
               | lost my job.
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | Forgetting about pay, are those jobs intellectually
               | stimulating? Do straight conventional E commerce compared
               | to testing infrastructure for video conferencing
               | software? A lot of the appeal of a FAANG is the
               | interesting work you can do at one. The only thing better
               | would be a less secure startup working on something
               | really novel.
        
               | ndriscoll wrote:
               | So now instead of "I need to do it for my family to
               | survive", it's "I enjoy building panopticons"?
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | hmmm, hopefully you can find a job that does both? Feed
               | the family and is something that is fun to do.
               | 
               | If you are a social justice warrior, you might prioritize
               | that instead. To each their own.
        
               | vel0city wrote:
               | > I enjoy building panopticons
               | 
               | > hopefully you can find a job that does both?
               | 
               | Hopefully we quit building panopticons?
        
               | vel0city wrote:
               | > testing infrastructure for video conferencing software
               | 
               | There's lots of companies out there that aren't
               | Meta/Alphabet/etc. that also do things like video
               | conferencing software if that's your jam. Smaller
               | companies like BigBlueButton, Whereby, and ClickMeeting;
               | more mid-sized ones like and Zoho Meeting, and the larger
               | players like Webex and GoToMeeting and what not. And this
               | isn't an exhaustive list of non-FAANG video conferencing
               | systems.
               | 
               | Its not like the only "tech" (software?) jobs out there
               | are small mom and pop e-commerce sites or FAANG
               | companies.
        
           | fedeb95 wrote:
           | That's why we need regulations. Against people actually to
           | blame, but also against ourselves. Basically, just so that
           | being unethical isn't profitable for anyone.
        
         | mattmcknight wrote:
         | Isn't putting ads on children's programming, as has been done
         | since the dawn of television, "targeting children"? This seems
         | like bullshit targeting of the competition to me.
        
         | volleygman180 wrote:
         | Are commercials during saturday morning cartoons _not_ ads
         | targeted at children?
         | 
         | When I was growing up at least, it was all for candy, toys, and
         | sugary cereal, and often had kids or cartoon characters
         | featured in the commercial.
        
           | fedeb95 wrote:
           | it's a matter of threshold. There's a point up to which
           | targeted advertising doesn't cause harm, after that, it does.
           | Ads on smartphones cross that threshold. Doesn't matter if TV
           | also does: if it does, it should be limited too, otherwise,
           | it doesn't matter.
           | 
           | Why smartphones and related software cross that threshold?
           | They're specifically designed to increase use time, i.e. to
           | be addictive. It's a drug.
        
             | signatoremo wrote:
             | What are the thresholds for tv and the web? Does FCC have
             | any specific guidelines? How about other countries?
        
             | ndriscoll wrote:
             | The fact that companies making sugary cereals haven't gone
             | out of business and the current obesity crisis suggest to
             | me that those TV commercials are also quite harmful.
             | Something causes people to switch off their brains and feed
             | their kids cookies and marshmallows for breakfast as long
             | as the TV says it's okay and normal.
        
           | pyrale wrote:
           | There's a difference between placing a sports shoes ad in
           | front of a gym, and getting to know the history and habits of
           | every person that ever entered that gym, and showing each a
           | different ad.
           | 
           | I mean, 30 years ago, we were horrified by the extent to
           | which Stasi spied on their own people. Now, we'd call them
           | amateurs.
        
             | mattmcknight wrote:
             | People were horrified because of what they did with the
             | data. This is why it is different when there is a person
             | listening, as their interests get involved. If it is just
             | something telling me the shoes I looked at last week are on
             | discount, instead of some random ad, who cares?
             | 
             | I used to get a long distance phone bill in the mail with
             | the list of every number I called so I could verify the
             | charges. Was it wrong for MCI to have this data?
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | MCI retaining your phone call records for billing
               | purposes has a legitimate use: they need to be able to
               | justify charging you.
               | 
               | Where it gets controversial is retention time and reuse:
               | ten years from now, there's no billing justification but
               | you might not want President Donner to demand they turn
               | over the list of everyone who called a political rival.
               | Similarly, you might not care if they have that data but
               | still object to them sharing it with marketing partners
               | (they called LL Bean, you can advertise your outdoors
               | wear to them!) or making it available to other companies
               | who can use it to look up your interests when you are on
               | the phone or applying to something. This can be deeply
               | personal: your car insurance company would definitely pay
               | to know who calls alcohol addiction treatment numbers, an
               | employer of a certain vein might be interested in calls
               | to adult services, etc. Once that data is out, there's no
               | way to un-breach it.
        
               | pyrale wrote:
               | Of course, Google would never give this data to a
               | government that engages in targeted killing, Meta would
               | never help out a junta repress their population, etc.
               | 
               | The extent of the data collected and systemic
               | consolidation between different sources is the problem,
               | because we've seen again and again any data collection is
               | dangerous regardless of the original intent.
        
           | mattmcknight wrote:
           | Absolutely, pretending like this is some Google/Meta only
           | thing.
           | 
           | Newspapers filled their for kids sections with advertising
           | targeted at children. Comic books featured scammy ads
           | targeted at kids.
        
             | izacus wrote:
             | Some of the most popular nostalgic shows were outright
             | blatant toy advertisements (see: Transformers). This is
             | absolutely not a new problem and its sad to see it hasn't
             | really been addressed.
        
           | burkaman wrote:
           | Yes those are also bad and should not be allowed.
        
         | zo1 wrote:
         | I honestly don't think our current "implementation" of
         | government has the required momentum to do anything to stop
         | this or enable the will of the people to be enacted on such
         | large corporations. Our government is a highly-reactive machine
         | that's no longer driven by humans, but rather the internal
         | algorithms and processes (bureaucracy).
         | 
         | Just look at the sheer number of "congressional" and "senate"
         | hearings we've seen into everything from AI, to border
         | crossings, to privacy breaches, to antisemitism in
         | universities, to data breaches, etc. Pretty much 0 effect
         | happens anywhere in response, despite us all (including the
         | media) seeing the internals and the problems. You would think
         | some of these problems are pretty easy to solve or at least get
         | consensus on, but you'd be wrong. We've co-evolved our public
         | discourse and media with government such that nothing can
         | happen. If I wasn't so anti-left, I'd say the amount of
         | partisanship in existence is precisely because it disarms us
         | against this government automaton.
        
       | xlii wrote:
       | I think that nowadays industry flavored joke of "you either die a
       | hero or live long enough to become..." should end with
       | Google/Meta.
       | 
       | What a dirtbags.
        
         | Modified3019 wrote:
         | Funny enough, fireship had a good take on it just the other
         | day. "As a tech company you either go bankrupt as a hero or
         | live long enough to become an illegal monoply"
         | 
         | https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jx2dDV2eWBM
        
         | anal_reactor wrote:
         | Remember when everyone cheered when Google was winning lawsuits
         | because they were the small guys?
        
           | joemaller1 wrote:
           | Yes. How gray is your beard?
           | 
           | "Don't be evil."
        
         | okdood64 wrote:
         | There's plenty of marketing targeted towards children outside
         | of Big Tech. What's the difference when they do it?
        
           | Nasrudith wrote:
           | They aren't new players with potential electoral influence,
           | and the old media players are in decline.
        
           | rchaud wrote:
           | TV, radio and newspaper ads are regulated by the FTC.
           | Advertising on these mediums is limited (24 hours in a day, X
           | number of pages in a paper) and illegal content can be easily
           | tracked and archived, and prosecuted.
           | 
           | Big Tech serves an ungodly number of ads from all kinds of
           | scrupulous and unscrupulous parties. Ad content is almost
           | impossible to track and monitor. Big Tech says "let us self-
           | regulate" while also saying "it's not possible to ensure thaf
           | every single ad we serve complies with the law, we're doing
           | our best".
        
       | jl6 wrote:
       | Teenage mental health crisis is web scale!
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | "How we scaled depressify.js to over 100 million consumers"
        
       | aeurielesn wrote:
       | Nothing will change as long as C-suite roles keep breaking the
       | law and walking away scott free. Also goes for the investors
       | promoting this behavior at startup level.
        
         | andrepd wrote:
         | It's all a natural consequence of capitalism. Heavy regulation
         | is needed for even a semblance of a healthy society, but
         | unfortunately capitalism's incentives themselves make
         | regulation an uphill battle.
         | 
         | A mixed economy with strong regulation seems to be the best
         | system we've come up with so far. Unfortunately it's a tough
         | sell because we're obsessed about GDP numbers and making like
         | go up instead of actually improving our lives. We prefer having
         | a couple trillion-$ companies wreaking havoc on our societies
         | and especially on teenagers and children than not having those
         | companies.
        
           | riedel wrote:
           | This seems to be the motivation of EU regulators. However,
           | regulation also needs to be enforcible in a global setting.
           | Also one needs to understand collateral damage to smaller
           | enterprises (recent EU regulations only tries to target large
           | platforms) and economy as a whole by leaving large legal
           | uncertainties. In the end also with heavy regulations often
           | the most ignorant players will survive. We should rather make
           | sure try that taxes are paid where the potential damages
           | occur.
        
             | andrepd wrote:
             | The "big company clauses" as you say do solve most of those
             | issues: they avoid burdening small enterprises with
             | unreasonable amounts of regulation, but they ensure (very)
             | big companies with huge influence which act for all
             | purposes as public platforms, and not merely as "normal"
             | companies which happen to be very big, _do_ have extra
             | impositions.
        
       | kgbcia wrote:
       | Still waiting for cookies to be removed
        
       | wslh wrote:
       | When I was a child, the conspiracy theory among kids was that
       | Coca-Cola inserted subliminal ads by interlacing a can of Coke
       | within TV series or movies. I cannot believe reality surpasses
       | all those fantasies without scrutiny.
       | 
       | Even political propaganda between left and right wings, 1984, and
       | other similar scenarios sound like satire.
        
         | Terretta wrote:
         | > _When I was a child, the conspiracy theory among kids was
         | that Coca-Cola inserted subliminal ads by interlacing a can of
         | Coke within TV series or movies. I cannot believe reality
         | surpasses all those fantasies._
         | 
         | Reader: Yeah, _that_ happened...
         | 
         | Narrator: It did: https://www.businessinsider.com/subliminal-
         | ads-2011-5
        
           | crazygringo wrote:
           | No, the idea that you can insert a single frame into standard
           | video formats and have it subliminally influence you is an
           | urban legend.
           | 
           | You can try it with any video editing software. A single
           | frame at 30 or 60 fps is _extremely_ visible. It 's not
           | passing by your conscious awareness undetected. The flash is
           | obvious and you can easily read a word of text or recognize a
           | logo or someone's face.
        
             | wslh wrote:
             | Yes, scientific source "Beyond Vicary's fantasies: The
             | impact of subliminal priming and brand choice" [1].
             | 
             | [1] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S
             | 00221...
        
               | crazygringo wrote:
               | That link literally starts by describing how the idea of
               | flashing a frame of Coca-Cola _was a hoax_. It completely
               | supports what I said.
               | 
               | Like I said, test it yourself in a video editor. You'll
               | immediately see how implausible it is.
        
               | wslh wrote:
               | Yes, I agree and added a reference. That's why I told my
               | story.
        
       | resource_waste wrote:
       | Wait... Nintendo and Disney targets children, including those too
       | young to know what Ads are.
       | 
       | Why are these different ethics?
       | 
       | (They are not, both of those companies have created literal
       | fanatics by adulthood. Even I cannot avoid beating each Zelda
       | game despite not enjoying a single Zelda game since WW)
        
         | quotemstr wrote:
         | Should they show adult ads to children instead?
        
         | impossiblefork wrote:
         | Here in Sweden it's illegal to do so and you only find
         | advertisements directed at children on stations operating from
         | abroad.
        
         | Karawebnetwork wrote:
         | I live in an area where advertising is not allowed to target
         | children directly.
         | 
         | As a result, the adverts don't show children playing with the
         | toys, but present the toys in a bland setting as potential
         | gifts for adults to buy. They will show an adult happy with a
         | purchase. In short, they simply cannot address children
         | directly through television. However, it's a fine line and you
         | hardly ever see advertisements for toys unless there's a clear
         | educational value. That's my understanding at least.
         | 
         | Most Nintendo adverts show young adults playing on a sofa or on
         | the go in a train.
        
           | crazygringo wrote:
           | Wow, that's really interesting.
           | 
           | Having grown up on cartons filled with ads for toys showing
           | kids playing with the toys, it literally never even crossed
           | my mind that anyone would consider that objectionable, let
           | alone pass laws against it.
           | 
           | At most parents would be annoyed because their kid would
           | pester them for a toy, but I've literally never heard anyone
           | suggest that the advertising should be banned.
           | 
           | (Advertising alcohol or tobacco of course is today
           | different.)
           | 
           | You've definitely made me wonder how childhood might be
           | different without ads for children. On the other hand, when I
           | grew up you couldn't avoid commercials. Now kids watch
           | everything through streaming where you can generally
           | eliminate the commercials anyways.
        
             | bondarchuk wrote:
             | I have definitely heard it from parents, some kids get
             | really insufferable during holiday season with all the
             | frantic toy ads on tv (back when they still watched tv, I
             | guess).
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | > _"We'll also be taking additional action to reinforce with
       | sales representatives that they must not help advertisers or
       | agencies run campaigns attempting to work around our policies."_
       | 
       | Useful would be a chronology of when:
       | 
       | * Individuals learned/knew about the rule violations.
       | 
       | * Individuals were arguably rewarded.
       | 
       | * Individuals were disciplined.
       | 
       | That might give a sense of how bad the infection is, and whether
       | their immune system is on top of it.
        
       | dwighttk wrote:
       | If the executives figure out a way to actually guarantee no ads
       | targeting children, Mr Beast will be crushed.
        
       | unshammer wrote:
       | Let's call the practice "pedomarketing". Half of the US, you know
       | which half, would be soon voting for a ban on it.
        
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