[HN Gopher] An abundance of Katherines: The game theory of baby ...
       ___________________________________________________________________
        
       An abundance of Katherines: The game theory of baby naming
        
       Author : cipcoder
       Score  : 236 points
       Date   : 2024-07-10 22:08 UTC (1 days ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (arxiv.org)
 (TXT) w3m dump (arxiv.org)
        
       | matthewmcg wrote:
       | Author listing: Katy Blumer, Kate Donahue, Katie Fritz, Kate
       | Ivanovich, Katherine Lee, Katie Luo, Cathy Meng, Katie Van
       | Koevering
       | 
       | For people unfamiliar with common English names, all of the
       | authors have first names similar to or derived from Katherine.
        
         | ukuina wrote:
         | I think that is the meta-joke.
        
         | evanb wrote:
         | See also:
         | 
         | A Few Goodmen: Surname-Sharing Economist Authors, by Goodman,
         | Goodman, Goodman, and Goodman
         | https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/joshuagoodman/files/goodma...
         | 
         | (Para)bosons, (para)fermions, quons and other beasts in the
         | menagerie of particle statistics, by O.W. Greenberg, D.M
         | Greenberger, T.V. Greenbergest https://arxiv.org/abs/hep-
         | ph/9306225 [Wally Greenberg told me that T.V. stands for 'the
         | very']
         | 
         | Also note that TFA is a 1 April posting.
        
           | bonzini wrote:
           | It's SIGBOVIK, so that's the kind of content you'd expect
           | independent of the date.
        
             | ale42 wrote:
             | Actual research paper about the influence of a name on
             | career and other "major life decisions":
             | 
             | * Why Susie sells seashells by the seashore: implicit
             | egotism and major life decisions
             | (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11999918/)
             | 
             | With follow-ups:
             | 
             | * I sell seashells by the seashore and my name is Jack:
             | comment on Pelham, Mirenberg, and Jones (2002)
             | (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14599244/)
             | 
             | * Assessing the validity of implicit egotism: a reply to
             | Gallucci (2003) (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14599245/)
        
           | gattr wrote:
           | On a related note:
           | 
           | C. Limb, R. Limb, C. Limb, D. Limb "Nominative determinism in
           | hospital medicine: Can our surnames influence our choice of
           | career, and even specialty?"
           | 
           | https://publishing.rcseng.ac.uk/doi/pdf/10.1308/147363515X14.
           | ..
        
             | xhkkffbf wrote:
             | I personally know a "Doctor Coffin" (coughing & coffin) as
             | well as a Doctor Payne.
        
             | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
             | This reminds me that I went to nautical school with someone
             | whose last name was Schiff (German for ship) and he said
             | that was exactly the reason he chose to go to sea. Also
             | remember someone a year ahead of us whose name was Dory (a
             | small rowboat).
        
             | dbcurtis wrote:
             | In the small rural county where I grew up, the 1/2-time job
             | of county prosecuting attorney was named Lynch. I am not
             | making this up.
        
         | slyall wrote:
         | A few years ago there was KatieConf. Intended to highlight the
         | lack of Women speakers at tech conferences
         | 
         | https://2019.katieconf.xyz/
        
           | drewry wrote:
           | Hah this reminds me of a site I built for April 1, 2019
           | http://www.mynamecon.com
        
           | mbg721 wrote:
           | I saw an ad once for a convention of Bobs, with a keynote
           | speech from Bob Newhart and the Jamaican bobsled team as
           | special guests.
        
           | stordoff wrote:
           | I'm reminded of the 'Tom Formal' that took place whilst I was
           | at university:
           | 
           | > Last night, February 3rd 2011, saw 100 students and fellows
           | all sharing the name of Tom, gather together in a record-
           | breaking charity event in Sidney Sussex dining hall. [...]
           | For PS20, Cambridge students with the name "Tom, Thomas,
           | Tommy (or another legitimate variation)" were able to attend
           | a black-tie, three-course formal dinner
           | 
           | https://www.varsity.co.uk/news/3192
        
         | dabiged wrote:
         | The best bit: They recursively reference the paper to provide
         | proof that too many parents choose the same common names:
         | 
         | > For instance, a parent might anticipate the name "Kate" would
         | be a pleasantly traditional yet unique name with only moderate
         | popularity. They would be wrong [6].
         | 
         | Reference 6 is the paper.
        
           | martypitt wrote:
           | Also good...
           | 
           | > Simon Shindler contributed significantly to the aesthetic
           | of Figure 7, but could not be named an author for obvious
           | reasons.
        
             | aleph_minus_one wrote:
             | > Simon Shindler contributed significantly to the aesthetic
             | of Figure 7, but could not be named an author for obvious
             | reasons.
             | 
             | What are these "obvious reasons"?
        
               | jsjohnst wrote:
               | Their first name isn't derived from Katherine. ;)
        
               | byteknight wrote:
               | Kay is derived from Kate. Kate is Derived from Kathy or
               | Katherine.
        
               | jvanderbot wrote:
               | Nicknames satisfy the transitive property.
        
               | Mordisquitos wrote:
               | The reason was that his first name doesn't satisfy the
               | regex                   /^[KC]at(h?ie|e|h?y|h?erine)$/
        
               | adolph wrote:
               | While that does work for the people listed as author, it
               | does miss Katherine derivative "Kay."
        
               | jsjohnst wrote:
               | /^[KC]a(t(h?ie|e|h?y|h?erine)?|y)?$/
        
               | lostlogin wrote:
               | It gets worse - there are some obscure ones. Eg Reina,
               | Kaja, Katarzyna, Aikaterine.
               | 
               | https://nameberry.com/list/16/catherinekatherines-
               | internatio...
        
               | o11c wrote:
               | Sketch of a more complete solution, excluding shortened
               | forms and very foreign ones. Alternatives are in rough
               | order of frequency.
               | 
               | vowel 0: E, Ye, Je, Ai. Optional and rare; Ai in
               | particular is very rare.
               | 
               | consonant 1: C, K, G, Q. Mandatory; G and Q are rare.
               | 
               | vowel 1: a, aa, ai; optional h or gh. Mandatory. A few
               | shortened forms use i instead.
               | 
               | consonant 2: t, tt, d. Almost mandatory, but a few
               | r-centric variants lack it. There also seem to be a few
               | 
               | vowel 2: a, e. Optional, only valid if consonant 2
               | exists. In shortened forms, also i, ie, or y; this is the
               | end.
               | 
               | consonant 3: r, l. Optional. Sometimes L starts a new
               | word instead.
               | 
               | vowel 3: i, y, ee, ie, ii, e if no consonant 2, plus
               | several rare vowel sequences. Almost mandatory (assuming
               | consonant 3), but a few rare variants pack the r right
               | next to the n.
               | 
               | consonant 4: n, nn, nh. Optional.
               | 
               | vowel 4: e, a, ey. Optional; ey is rare.
               | 
               | Some languages shove an s, c, x, t, k somewhere too (some
               | of these are probably language-specific diminutives, but
               | a few might be phoneme drift instead) ...
               | 
               | "Kaylee" and its variant "Kayla" should probably not be
               | counted (despite almost fitting the pattern) since that's
               | a compound of "Kay", adding the additional "Leigh" name.
        
               | martypitt wrote:
               | Like the author said... Obvious. :)
        
           | devsda wrote:
           | It goes beyond that. Three of the authors have east-asian
           | last names.
           | 
           | I understand that many people from east asia have a given
           | name in their native language and an english sounding name
           | that they often choose themselves.
           | 
           | If those three authors did chose their english names, then
           | they too fall into the same category of parents who chose a
           | variation of Katherine.
        
             | schmidtleonard wrote:
             | I hope they did not perish immediately after choosing their
             | names, as assumed in the paper.
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | If they did indeed pick those names while traveling to the
             | US, possibly as adults, I think they'd actually really
             | interesting cases. They'd be choosing names later than
             | their peers, so they could see how the name game played out
             | for their peers. Of course, they could also be peers of the
             | parents of the other authors.
             | 
             | I've also met some folks who had English names that
             | phonetically sounded similar to their original names. I
             | wonder if there's an east Asian first name that sounds like
             | any of the versions of Katherine.
        
               | burnished wrote:
               | From my anecdotal experience origin is a big factor: of
               | adults I have known to choose a name for themselves
               | americans overwhelmingly pick unusual or ornamented
               | names, whereas the other group (typically asian, first
               | language has a different set of basic sounds) pick
               | stereotypically common and plain/short names. I don't
               | really know anyones specific thought process on the
               | matter though, maybe I'll have to start asking for
               | curiosities sake.
        
             | well_actulily wrote:
             | This phenomena also occurs in the transgender community;
             | people put a lot of thought and intention choosing their
             | new names only to wind up surrounded by other people who
             | _also_ landed on the same name, often for similar reasons.
             | There 's even a whole subreddit specifically for
             | transfeminine people who are named some variation of Lily:
             | https://www.reddit.com/r/LilyIsTrans/
        
               | madcaptenor wrote:
               | Are all the trans men still naming themselves Aidan?
        
               | yamazakiwi wrote:
               | Recently I've met more Ashe's than Aidan's
        
               | alickz wrote:
               | at least they're not a
               | https://old.reddit.com/r/tragedeigh/
        
             | DowagerDave wrote:
             | Not sure it's still the same scenario with today's far more
             | connected world, but even 20 years ago you could guess with
             | some accuracy that someone was east-Asian from their
             | "English" name being ~50 years out of date, popularity
             | wise.
        
         | adolph wrote:
         | Is it paradoxical that family names (used by a group of people)
         | are more differentiated than personal names (used by one
         | person)?
        
           | burnished wrote:
           | I think that makes sense both from an organizational and
           | cultural perspective. Context usually supplies whatever
           | information is needed for personal names so less
           | disambiguation is required, and they are used much more so
           | some simplicity is useful/natural consequence of human
           | nature. Family names are used less frequently and with less
           | context and frankly is how people distinguish their group
           | from others. So yeah, think it checks out.
        
           | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
           | I'd assume that this is more likely true in countries mostly
           | populated by recent immigrants.
        
         | Modified3019 wrote:
         | I began wondering if "Katerina" (often shortened to "Kat") was
         | related, the etymology I found here
         | https://www.behindthename.com/name/katherine is interesting.
        
           | mikepurvis wrote:
           | I expect for a lot of parents naming a baby, the _actual_
           | etymology is less important than whether the name sounds
           | related /derived.
        
             | AceyMan wrote:
             | This _is_ the catch: you 're not naming a baby: you're
             | naming _a person_ ; they just so happen to be a baby at the
             | beginning when you're enjoying an early appreciation for
             | the mel lif lu ous ness of the name ... but they're going
             | to be an adult the vast majority of their life. Ergo, that
             | ought to be the usage parents plan for, rather than some
             | cute, endearing name "fitting" for an infant (for some
             | definition of fitting).
        
               | mikepurvis wrote:
               | In most cases where babies get a "cutesy" name, hopefully
               | the parents have the self-awareness to give them the
               | corresponding adult version as their legal name, or _at
               | least_ a reasonable alternative as a middle name-- both
               | give the person easier options if they want to change it
               | up during life transitions like entering high school or
               | going away to university.
               | 
               | For example, Gwyneth Paltrow's daughter is Apple Blythe
               | Alison Martin, and she's stuck with it, being Apple
               | Martin professionally-- but it's good she had the off-
               | ramp to be the much more conventional Blythe or Alison if
               | she'd wanted it.
        
         | srndsnd wrote:
         | The title of the paper is also a reference to the famous YA
         | novel "An Abundance of Katherines" by John Green.
        
         | xyst wrote:
         | Glad to know I am not the only person to notice this :)
         | 
         | I wonder how all of these people met and decided to collaborate
         | on this paper.
        
       | TacticalCoder wrote:
       | > Through making several Extremely Reasonable Assumptions
       | (namely, that parents are myopic, perfectly knowledgeable agents
       | who pick a name based solely on its "uniqueness")
       | 
       | What a weird assumption. We named our daughter picking four
       | names, starting respectively with the letters 'G', 'A', 'T' and
       | 'C'.
        
         | Taniwha wrote:
         | Yeah, I was thinking the same thing - as a 1st time new parent
         | you're famously not well plugged into the names currently being
         | chosen by other parents, which is why our son Max was one of 3
         | in his class
        
           | magneticnorth wrote:
           | I believe the authors, Katy Blumer, Kate Donahue, Katie
           | Fritz, Kate Ivanovich, Katherine Lee, Katie Luo, Cathy Meng,
           | Katie Van Koevering,
           | 
           | may have had a similar experience to your son.
        
           | Symbiote wrote:
           | I have only now realised the reason my name is fairly unique.
           | 
           | My father was a teacher, so he did know names people were
           | using, and for any given name could probably think of a child
           | he wouldn't want me to share a name with!
        
           | technothrasher wrote:
           | I definitely looked up what names people were naming their
           | kids when choosing my kid's name. It allowed me to pick one
           | that was not so unusual as to be seen as weird, but wasn't
           | going to clash with everybody else out there either. It
           | worked. He occasionally meets others with his name, but not
           | very often. The only issue is that his name has about five
           | different common spellings.
        
             | madcaptenor wrote:
             | My name is Michael and I definitely used this data because
             | I didn't want my kids to have very common names. As it
             | turns out, the first person to compile this data in the US
             | was an actuary for the Social Security Administration, also
             | named Michael, who was trying to name his kid and wanted to
             | know what the most common names were so that his kids
             | wouldn't have names that were too common:
             | https://nameberry.com/blog/most-popular-names-how-the-
             | list-w...
        
           | butlike wrote:
           | As a currently (but ideally not permanently so) childless
           | adult...what does it matter what the other parents are naming
           | their babies?
           | 
           | btw and fwiw, Max is a good name.
        
         | p1esk wrote:
         | You do realize they are just having fun in that paper, right?
        
           | taberiand wrote:
           | I think this person is also having fun - suggesting they
           | would name their kids by following a genetic sequence
        
             | ChainOfFools wrote:
             | But sticking to the familiar crowd-pleasing members of that
             | sequence to make the joke stick, knowing that even on this
             | site working in poor neglected uracil would be trying too
             | hard
        
               | nvy wrote:
               | All my homies hate uracil
        
         | genter wrote:
         | It's dry humor. The article is soaked in it.
        
         | erickj wrote:
         | Did you name her Adenine?
        
       | mbil wrote:
       | Had a number of sensible chuckles...
       | 
       | > Because this paper was written in 2024, we include an
       | obligatory section involving generative AI and LLMs.
       | 
       | > Another ERA is the Mayfly Parenthood Assumption, in which all
       | parents perish immediately upon naming their child, which makes
       | the math substantially easier.
       | 
       | > It is well-known that parents are always in complete agreement
       | over the name they would prefer to pick for their newborn child.
        
         | jacinda wrote:
         | Also the dinosaur and squid-shaped distribution graphs made me
         | smile.
        
           | nimish wrote:
           | More graphs need animal motifs.
        
         | defrost wrote:
         | _Danger 5_ was simply the best. https://imgur.com/P80uqLB
        
           | 082349872349872 wrote:
           | SIaU...
           | 
           | (and I appreciate how every so often the subtitles in D5 are
           | off)
        
         | dabiged wrote:
         | > We baselessly claim a log-normal makes sense...
         | 
         | I personally loved the semi cropped ChatGPT screen shot in
         | figure 8 that has "Can you write me a paper on the game theory
         | of names".
        
       | greenyoda wrote:
       | Reference [12] suggests that the title of the paper was inspired
       | by a previous work:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/An_Abundance_of_Katherines
       | 
       | (Also, the submission date, 31 Mar 2024, suggests that the paper
       | was intended to be published on April Fools Day.)
        
       | worstspotgain wrote:
       | I was going to name my child Seven, Mickey Mantle's number, a
       | great name for a boy or a girl. Then some friends overheard it
       | and stole it for their baby.
        
         | _sys49152 wrote:
         | youre doing a seinfeld bit right?
         | 
         | season 7 ep 13
        
           | worstspotgain wrote:
           | Took you two whole minutes, I'll have to pick something more
           | obscure next time.
        
             | shiroiushi wrote:
             | This is kind of depressing: every time I make a somewhat-
             | obscure sci-fi reference here, usually no one gets it (or
             | it takes a very long time). But an obscure Seinfeld
             | reference gets a full citation in 2 minutes.
        
               | ziml77 wrote:
               | Nothing Seinfeld is obscure.
        
               | neerajk wrote:
               | Exactly. And if you don't say seven in the emphatic
               | manner George says it who are you.
        
               | thih9 wrote:
               | If it helps, my first thought was Seven of Nine[1].
               | 
               | [1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_of_Nine
        
               | elzbardico wrote:
               | In my whole life I was able to watch 20 minutes of
               | Seinfeld. I feel that i must be an exceedingly weird
               | person to find it absurdly boring and depressing when
               | almost everyone loves it.
        
         | francisofascii wrote:
         | My first thought was the Voyager character called "Seven" (or
         | Seven of Nine) played by Teri Ryan.
        
         | butlike wrote:
         | "Seven, Mickey Mantle's number, a great name for a boy or a
         | girl" you get over here right now, ya hear?!
        
         | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
         | The idiot child from "Married with Children" who was eventually
         | abandoned on a street corner when they got tired of him?
        
       | mostertoaster wrote:
       | I think wait but why really nailed the theory of baby naming -
       | https://waitbutwhy.com/2013/12/how-to-name-baby.html
        
         | benatkin wrote:
         | In case anyone else was wondering, no, it isn't _why
         | https://viewsourcecode.org/why/
        
         | thriftwy wrote:
         | I think it is a misconception that some baby name is boring.
         | 
         | Nothing is less boring than a name embraced by a small
         | energetic human confident that's who they are.
         | 
         | I imagine you might want a funky name for a toy to convinve
         | yourself - that is a total non-issue for children.
        
           | mostertoaster wrote:
           | Yeah I chose "boring" names for my kids.
           | 
           | I do think the best names are ones with the most meaning.
           | 
           | You name a kid Isaac, you could be naming him after Isaac
           | Newton. It puts something on to him.
           | 
           | If you name a kid William, maybe you hope he will be the next
           | Shakespeare.
           | 
           | Simply by naming someone something, you imprint something on
           | to them. The history and power of a culture.
           | 
           | Yet for this very reason, especially when people see the
           | culture as dark, they choose unique names, names that say you
           | can be who you want to be.
           | 
           | Though I think I still prefer old names, looking at names of
           | people who have done something, and then hoping to do
           | something similar.
           | 
           | I think this is kind of why a convert to an orthodox
           | Christianity, from some heterodoxy, or atheism, or from the
           | religion of the "infadels" takes a new name in baptism. They
           | hope to live up to whomever. If you take the name Theresa at
           | baptism with a sense of obligation to love the lowly like
           | Mother Theresa and so on.
           | 
           | Wonder if other religions do similar things?
        
             | scherlock wrote:
             | I named my kid Dexter. Despite my best efforts he won't
             | wear lab coats or speak with an accent. When I try he just
             | asks me to go buy some plastic drop cloths and goes back to
             | sharpening the kitchen knives.
        
               | throwup238 wrote:
               | You always have to name the sister first, otherwise it's
               | a Schroedinger's Dexter that never turns out the way you
               | expected.
        
             | drivers99 wrote:
             | > You name a kid Isaac, you could be naming him after Isaac
             | Newton. It puts something on to him.
             | 
             | My son's name. I was thinking of Isaac Asimov and I had
             | Isaac Newton in mind as well. I know an SF writer who I
             | worked with who named his sons Arthur and Robert, after
             | famous SF writers obviously in his case.
        
               | droopyEyelids wrote:
               | Everyone else is thinking you named your kid after the
               | first guy to get circumcised, whose father Abraham almost
               | sacrificed him
        
         | jollyllama wrote:
         | From Freakonomics: [0]
         | 
         | >LEVITT: Yeah, one of the most predictable patterns when it
         | comes to names is that almost every name that becomes popular
         | starts out as a high-class name or a high-education name. So in
         | these California data we had we could see the education level
         | of the parents. And even the names that eventually become the,
         | quote, "trashiest" kinds of names, so the Tiffanys and the
         | Brittanys, and I'll probably get myself in trouble, and the
         | Caitlyns and things like that start at the top of the income
         | distribution, and over the course of 20 or 30 or 40 years they
         | migrate their way down, becoming more and more popular among
         | the less-educated set.
         | 
         | What you see with Mabel in the paper is a fad name coming back.
         | Hipsters bring it back, then upper class parents with hipster
         | pretentions popularize it, then it spreads to the general
         | population. The trick is to pick a name that sounds outdated or
         | obscure but will come into popularity within the child's
         | lifetime. If you wanted to do that now, you would pick
         | something like Linda or Iris.
         | 
         | I would also be interested to see analysis on syllable counts.
         | When will the boomer 2 syllable names will come back into
         | style?
         | 
         | [0] https://freakonomics.com/podcast/how-much-does-your-name-
         | mat...
        
           | shagie wrote:
           | I worked with a Harrison (born in the 70s) who commented that
           | the name had a bathtub curve - most people with the name were
           | either really old or really young (he knew more Harrisons in
           | his toddler's preschool class than his own age).
           | 
           | https://www.wolframalpha.com/input?i=Harrison&assumption=%7B.
           | ..
           | 
           | Compare with a name like Michael (
           | https://www.wolframalpha.com/input?i=Michael ), which while
           | it has fallen out of favor with newer names, is _still_ the
           | most common male name in the population - though the average
           | age is 48 years.
           | 
           | https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/decades/names1970s.html
           | 
           | And yes, I went to school with seven Jennifers _on that bus
           | route_ (there were more on other bus routes).
           | https://youtu.be/1nN_5kkYR6k
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I've always found it somewhat amusing that, at least for my
             | age range, I have a given name that's not unique or
             | obviously weird but pretty uncommon. At the last place I
             | worked, that was guaranteed to--on the odd conference call
             | --have one of the two of us sharing a given name
             | periodically be "Why the hell is someone asking me about
             | $THING_I_KNOW_NOTHING_ABOUT ?" While both my first and last
             | names are northern European, they are also from different
             | countries so as far as I know I'm unique among living
             | people with an Internet presence which is presumably better
             | than sharing a name with someone who is widely hated for
             | some reason or other.
        
             | themadturk wrote:
             | My first thought is that children born in the 70s named
             | "Harrison" owe their names to Harrison Ford, at that time
             | wildly popular for Star Wars and Indiana Jones. "Mabel" may
             | owe some popularity thanks to Selena Gomez's character in
             | "Only Murders In The Building."
        
               | shagie wrote:
               | This Harrison was early 70s rather than late 70s, though
               | Harrison Ford was still a known name back then.
               | 
               | Still, Harrison wasn't even in the top 200 names in the
               | 70s. https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/decades/names1970
               | s.html
               | 
               | Compare with 136 in the 2010s. https://www.ssa.gov/oact/b
               | abynames/decades/names2010s.html
               | 
               | One of the things to take note of between those two
               | charts is that the most popular names are _less_ popular.
               | Parents are choosing distinctive names rather than common
               | names.
               | 
               | In 1970, the top five male names represent 2.5 million
               | births. Michael (the most common name) was 707,377 of
               | them.
               | 
               | In 2010, the most common name was Noah with 183,258
               | births. In 1970, a name with that much popularity would
               | be #20.5 between Thomas and Timmothy.
               | 
               | That 2.5 million again... in 2010s that's 19 names.
               | 
               | ... Another visualization of the data.
               | https://namerology.com/baby-name-grapher/ This looks at
               | the top 200 names for boys and girls over time. However,
               | the downward slope isn't fewer overall births but rather
               | the reduction of popularity of the most common names.
               | 
               | And another visualization of the data - The Evolution of
               | US Boy Names: Bubbled https://youtu.be/WQv99sEPDsw and
               | Girl Names: https://youtu.be/qVh2Qw5KSFg
               | 
               | The thing to watch in those is the size of the largest
               | bubbles. The 2014 bubbles look fundamentally different
               | than the 1974 bubbles.
        
       | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
       | 35 years ago I knocked up my soon to be wife. We picked out name
       | and opted for a home birth, confident that no other couples had
       | made those same choices.
       | 
       | That birth month, Life magazine featured a full page spread of a
       | home birth (ewwww); their newborn had the same name.
       | 
       | This event is on a list of stuff I/we came to on our own, at the
       | same time as everyone else.
        
         | phkahler wrote:
         | >> This event is on a list of stuff I/we came to on our own, at
         | the same time as everyone else.
         | 
         | I'm finding that phenomenon to be rather common. Seems like a
         | bunch of other people are reaching the same conclusion...
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Most of us like to believe that we're not slaves to fashion
           | but we often are.
           | 
           | One of my favorite examples (although there are many) is
           | inline skating/rollerblading. It was all the rage in the
           | early 90s or so. It's _rare_ to see someone rollerblading
           | today. I pick that example because it was somewhat related to
           | tech that it took off. But there 's no good reason for it to
           | have pretty much died off.
        
             | lesuorac wrote:
             | The amusing part about inline skating is that when you go
             | by kids they're look "wow look at that guy skating". And
             | then they never skate themselves.
             | 
             | I suspect there's a few issues
             | 
             | - If your parents don't skate you'll probably never get
             | competent at it
             | 
             | - You need to be actually good to not injure yourself or on
             | a pretty flat area. Rollerblades do not handle holes in
             | pavement nearly as well as bicycles or shoes.
             | 
             | - Bicycles have actual utility like getting to work/places.
             | For Covid a ton of people bought skates [1] but honestly I
             | never saw that many more people skating then compared to
             | before/after.
             | 
             | - They're pretty bulky. A Bicycle can transport and lock
             | itself up but if you skate somewhere you'll need a bag to
             | store them.
             | 
             | [1]:
             | https://www.espn.com/nhl/story/_/id/29078390/rollerblade-
             | ren...
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I played ice hockey through college and beyond so
               | rollerblading was pretty straightforward modulo rough
               | surfaces and pavement that isn't flat. But I sort of
               | agree. Even though it was popular at one point, it's
               | something that has a learning curve for someone who
               | hasn't, often painfully, learned activities that provide
               | an on-ramp. Not that I became an expert but picking up
               | inline skating as an adult was pretty easy for me.
               | 
               | And, yeah, it isn't an activity that has any real
               | utility. I don't really bike (didn't learn as a kid
               | because didn't have a real place to safely bike--narrow
               | country roads). But might have done so if there was a
               | real practical reason to do so.
               | 
               | Of course, inline skating _was_ a popular activity at one
               | time and it just fell out of fashion.
        
             | thornewolf wrote:
             | and this callout is funny because it's actually re-emerging
             | as a popular hobby. so there is probably some subconscious
             | influence that led you to call it out here.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I haven't seen it much but I think it's a lot of fun and
               | still have my gear in the garage.
        
       | graton wrote:
       | > Submitted on 31 Mar 2024
       | 
       | Almost looks like an April Fools Joke.
       | 
       | > The above model contains several Extremely Reasonable
       | Assumptions (ERAs). The first ERA is the very conservative
       | assumption that there is only one gender, with all children and
       | all names adhering to the same gender. Thus any child may be
       | given any name, so long as it exists in the names list1. Another
       | ERA is the Mayfly Parenthood Assumption, in which all parents
       | perish immediately upon naming their child, which makes the math
       | substantially easier.
        
         | defrost wrote:
         | It was in New Zealand and Australia, it's just the GMT-XX zones
         | are a bit slow to catch on.
        
         | ufo wrote:
         | SIGBOVIK is always close to April's fool's day :)
        
       | sohamgovande wrote:
       | An Abundance of -Katherines- K8s, I hear...
        
         | red-iron-pine wrote:
         | KT's
        
         | xyst wrote:
         | Or the more tragic version: Keighty
        
         | jameshart wrote:
         | Kubernetes is such a lovely name for a girl.
        
       | yesseri wrote:
       | > The above model contains several Extremely Reasonable
       | Assumptions (ERAs). [...] Another ERA is the Mayfly Parenthood
       | Assumption, in which all parents perish immediately upon naming
       | their child, which makes the math substantially easier."
       | 
       | This paper is just filled with hilarious quotes.
        
       | poopcat wrote:
       | Not going to lie the first thing I thought was, "Why is the John
       | Green book on HN??" I mean, cool, but surprising. Then I read the
       | end and it made more sense ha
        
       | passwordoops wrote:
       | If papers came with theme music, this would make a good pairing
       | 
       | https://youtu.be/1nN_5kkYR6k
        
       | VyseofArcadia wrote:
       | I lay awake at night thinking about the baby naming problem.
       | 
       | I want my child to have a name in the sweet spot. Not too common,
       | not too unique, and, crucially, not a name that is popular for
       | only a brief period so that everyone will know about how old they
       | are just by their given name[0].
       | 
       | But people thinking along these lines inevitably gravitate to the
       | same small handful of names, causing the "too popular for a brief
       | period of time" effect against their will. I've already failed
       | once; my cat is named Olivia, _the_ popular girl 's name of the
       | decade, apparently.
       | 
       | [0] My own name is one of those. It's annoying.
        
         | sameoldtune wrote:
         | Why not let your child be a product of their times? Whatever
         | name you pick it isn't like your great grandchildren will think
         | you picked a cool, relevant name for their grandmother.
        
           | VyseofArcadia wrote:
           | Because I personally find my name being a product of its time
           | annoying, I think it's reasonable to suspect that someone
           | else would also find that annoying.
           | 
           | Especially given that the hypothetical person in question
           | would get half their DNA from me and be raised by me it seems
           | a pretty reasonable suspicion.
        
           | butlike wrote:
           | Are you implying we should name the kids via some BabyLLM?
           | /joking
        
         | resource_waste wrote:
         | I did great people in history, this way my children are cursed
         | with high expectations.
        
         | xyst wrote:
         | I'm a bit partial to "Ellie" after one of the characters in my
         | favorite game: Last of Us
        
         | Sohcahtoa82 wrote:
         | I was never going to have kids, but if I did, I had rules for
         | naming.
         | 
         | 1. Name them what you're going to call them. If you want a
         | "Kate", don't name them "Katherine". If you want a "Sam", don't
         | name them Samuel.
         | 
         | 2. Don't give them the same first name as a close relative.
         | 
         | 3. Don't give them a unique spelling of a common name. You're
         | just giving them a life-long annoyance of having to spell their
         | name out any time they're telling someone their name vocally.
         | 
         | My parents broke the first two rules when they named me and it
         | created headaches as I transitioned into adulthood. It even
         | caused problems when I interned at Intel, where he'd been
         | working for 15 years. I got e-mails that were supposed to go to
         | him, and vice-versa.
        
           | vundercind wrote:
           | Yes to 2, BIG yes to 3, a "special" spelling is a curse, why
           | do that to your kid?
           | 
           | I do prefer full versions for the name instead of shortenings
           | or nicknames. I think it lets them feel freer, earlier, to
           | switch to the full version if they like it better than the
           | nickname or shortened version. More options.
        
           | ksenzee wrote:
           | I'm glad my parents didn't follow rule 1. They wanted to call
           | me Kathy. It took me until grad school to convince everyone
           | in my life that I was Katherine and absolutely not a Kathy,
           | tyvm. If I'd had to run it by a judge, I'd have been pretty
           | unhappy. As it was, I was grateful they gave me a classic
           | name with lots of nickname options. (Too bad I didn't know
           | about the paper in time to join in.)
        
           | margalabargala wrote:
           | > 2. Don't give them the same first name as a close relative.
           | 
           | My parents wanted to name me after my grandparents but they
           | solved this nicely.
           | 
           | My first name is the middle name of one of my grandparents,
           | and my middle name is the first name of another grandparent.
        
             | madcaptenor wrote:
             | One of my kids' middle name is my grandmother's first name.
             | The other's first name is my great-grandmother's first name
             | (which is also my mother's middle name).
        
         | kayodelycaon wrote:
         | May I recommend https://www.fantasynamegenerators.com ?
         | 
         | Despite the name it has a pretty large category of real world
         | names. :)
         | 
         | I am being completely sincere. There are thousands of lists of
         | baby names. Classic information overload. A randomizer let you
         | look at ten options and if you don't like those you can get
         | another ten.
        
         | hasbot wrote:
         | I like having a name like you describe. It's former popularity
         | makes it a familiar name but I've only met a couple of other
         | people with the same first name. Interestingly combined with my
         | similar popularity last name there are on the order of 30
         | people with matching first and last names in the US.
        
         | kodablah wrote:
         | My suggestion is to hit up the Social Security Administration
         | website: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/. Go back a century
         | (or to some era of choice), walk the list, find one that you
         | like that isn't even in the top X these days and you'll be
         | fairly safe. You'll end up with a reasonable, not-ridiculously-
         | unique name that this generation mostly doesn't have (the site
         | has recent years and names don't usually go from unlisted to
         | popular overnight).
         | 
         | > the popular girl's name of the decade, apparently.
         | 
         | Keep in mind, in the internet era it can actually be nice to
         | have a bad-SEO common name (though that's often dependent upon
         | surname too).
        
         | themadturk wrote:
         | My mother chose my first name (three characters) specifically
         | to avoid it being turned into a nickname.
         | 
         | This worked so well she later chose a completely unrelated
         | nickname for me.
        
       | calvinmorrison wrote:
       | Like any good Presbyterian, I named my Son after the great
       | Archibald Alexander, the progenitor of Princeton Theological
       | Seminary . Myself, I am named after the great theologian John
       | Calvin.
       | 
       | However, if I have a daughter, I will name her Britney - an
       | anagram for Presbyterians
        
       | ryanisnan wrote:
       | I knew what we were in for when I read
       | 
       | > ... we create a model which is not only tractable and clean,
       | but also perfectly captures the real world.
       | 
       | Kudos to the authors for a good sense of humour.
        
       | lacoolj wrote:
       | feels like an april fools post based on section 2
       | 
       | > 2 Related works: Surprisingly, no one has ever done any
       | research on naming strategies (so long as you conveniently ignore
       | [4, 5, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 13, 14, 15, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 23, 24,
       | 25] and likely other work).
        
       | gregates wrote:
       | If you combine Katherine, Catherine, Kat, Kate, Caty, Katy,
       | Katie, and Katheryn (there are SO MANY variants, but most of them
       | have never been popular), peak popularity for girls in the U.S.
       | in the last century is in 1986 at only 1.8% of baby girls.
       | 
       | That's less popular than the single name Matthew for boys, or any
       | one of Jessica, Ashley, Amanda, or Jennifer, in that same year. I
       | expected it would be higher: my own sister is one of these, and I
       | had a friend circle in my 20s that included a Katie, a Katherine
       | (who went by Kat), a Caitlin, and a Kathryn.
       | 
       | Source: baby name popularity is one of our favorite test data
       | sets at Row Zero, and we do lots of analyses like this for fun,
       | e.g. https://rowzero.io/blog/baby-names-rise-of-n
        
       | rsync wrote:
       | I live in the bay area.
       | 
       | Between, say, 2012 and 2018 there was a wave of "Ronin".
       | 
       | I still get a chuckle thinking of these soccer dads, watching
       | from the sidelines, wistfully thinking:
       | 
       |  _My son ... The wayward samurai..._
        
       | madcaptenor wrote:
       | A paper by Jinseok Kim, Jenna Kim, and Jinmo Kim: "Effect of
       | Chinese characters on machine learning for Chinese author name
       | disambiguation: A counterfactual evaluation" . Obviously the
       | authors don't have Chinese names but I would imagine personally
       | having names that need disambiguating might spur one's interest
       | in this research area. (And they do mention in the paper that
       | it's also an issue for Korean names.)
       | 
       | https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/01655515211018...
        
         | solveit wrote:
         | Yeah, it's interesting how the practice of only listing
         | surnames works well in cultures where people have long and
         | distinct surnames (and often common first names) and is just
         | silly in cultures where surnames are short and common and most
         | of the information content of the name is in the first name.
        
       | hooverd wrote:
       | You can get baby name data for every n>5 name by year from the
       | SSO: https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/limits.html
       | 
       | It's... interesting. More Khaleesis and Gokus than you'd think.
        
       | viridian wrote:
       | Naming can be hard, because names are important.
       | 
       | My wife and I legitimately sat down and came up with a list of 50
       | names we each liked, and from the 98 we had totaled up, we
       | applied a series of different filters to get to an answer over
       | the span of several weeks.
       | 
       | First we each went through the list, and force removed half of
       | them, each of us taking turns eliminating one at a time.
       | 
       | From the remaining 50 we rated them, and removed anything that
       | scored under a 6 from either of us, or under 15 points total.
       | 
       | Then we had 20 left, that we talked through each fairly
       | extensively. We covered etymology, popularity, age association,
       | popular cultural associations, you name it. After that we each
       | removed 5 more.
       | 
       | Once we were down to the top ten, armed with frankly far too much
       | knowledge about these names at this point, we reranked them
       | individually and tallied up the scores.
       | 
       | Two names stood head and shoulders above the rest, one scoring
       | around a 19 total and the other scoring around a 17. Those became
       | our daughter's first and middle names.
        
         | themadturk wrote:
         | We never intended to have children, ended up with two boys.
         | 
         | The first was named by his mother's choice: First name after
         | her father (a perfectly reasonable "Edward"), the middle name
         | after my dad ("Leonard," which we never call him.)
         | 
         | The second was even more of a surprise than the first, but that
         | meant it was my turn: "Jonathan," after a favorite character
         | from a novel. The middle name was chosen by his big brother, to
         | give a little sense of ownership or participation: "Adam."
        
       | HeyLaughingBoy wrote:
       | In "The Three Most Important Things in Life," Harlan Ellison
       | refers to "the improbably-named Briony Catling."
       | 
       | I think he was onto something. Never heard of either of those
       | names in the real world.
       | 
       | [edit] OK, so I had to check and I was wrong. Must have been one
       | of his other essays. But for the uninitiated, here you go:
       | https://harlanellison.com/iwrite/mostimp.htm
       | 
       | You're welcome ;-)
        
       | Asparagirl wrote:
       | See also the noted 2014 economics paper that studied the
       | phenomenon of co-authorship of economics papers...
       | 
       | "A Few Goodmen: Surname-Sharing Economist Coauthors"
       | 
       | by Allen C. Goodman (Wayne State University), Joshua Goodman
       | (Harvard), Lucas Goodman (UMD), and Sarena Goodman (the Federal
       | Reserve Board)
       | 
       | https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/joshuagoodman/files/goodma...
        
       | njarboe wrote:
       | As a Nick born in the 70's, I thought my world was getting a bit
       | weird as Nick's were poping up everywhere all of a sudden. Then I
       | saw a video on the top ten boy's names from 1880-2020[1] and saw
       | Nicholas pop up in the top ten in 1986, peak at #5 in 1990-1992,
       | and drop off in 2004. I blame Nicholas Cage and Nick Nolte.
       | 
       | [1]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7hkR5FUVdc
        
       | bradhilton wrote:
       | Some parents try to have their cake and eat it too by altering
       | the spelling or pronunciation of otherwise common names, thus
       | ensuring their child both fits in and is unique.
       | 
       | Cheekiness aside, naming our children has been a fun, stressful,
       | but ultimately rewarding endeavor and this paper was very on
       | point.
        
       | uberdru wrote:
       | The three most beautiful names in English: Katherine, Elizabeth,
       | Alexandra. Pure magic.
        
       | internetguy wrote:
       | oh my god this paper is wonderful... had me in tears with
       | laughter note the adorable little dinosaurs!
        
       ___________________________________________________________________
       (page generated 2024-07-11 23:01 UTC)