[HN Gopher] Surprising gender biases in GPT
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       Surprising gender biases in GPT
        
       Author : mpweiher
       Score  : 60 points
       Date   : 2024-07-09 09:19 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | Reventlov wrote:
       | What is this paper ? The tested sentences are full of errors...
        
         | tiborsaas wrote:
         | What, you don't like fotbal?
        
           | gostsamo wrote:
           | Often, those are ligatures that with another fond seem like a
           | typo. Too lazy to proofread here, but keep it in mind as a
           | possibility.
        
             | rvnx wrote:
             | In reality probably authors of the papers understood that
             | the OpenAI team artificially readjusted these biases
             | through RLHF and that there is nothing to find there,
             | except that it still works when the words are written with
             | typos because no manual examples of "redressing biases"
             | have been provided with such typos.
        
               | tiborsaas wrote:
               | If they were so clever about it, surely they would have
               | taken the pride to mention this in the study.
        
             | rhdunn wrote:
             | It could also be from an ESL user -- fotbal is the Czech,
             | Romanian, and Slovakian word for football, borrowed from
             | the English.
        
           | rvnx wrote:
           | Seems like how a user who learned English on Twitter would
           | speak:
           | 
           | football -> fotbal
           | 
           | cousin -> cosin
           | 
           | teacher -> teachr
           | 
           | You can't fit everything in 160 chars.
        
             | tiborsaas wrote:
             | Thats' a lame excuse, I grew up pre-twitter with dumb
             | phones sending 160 char SMS messages.
        
         | rhdunn wrote:
         | Likely to be reflective of user generated content on reddit,
         | etc.
        
         | t-writescode wrote:
         | Well, the paper is from a university in Italy. The fact they're
         | writing research papers in English is a benefit to English
         | speakers everywhere, including us :)
        
         | dansimau wrote:
         | From the linked paper:
         | 
         | > Phrases were designed to mimic the writing style of
         | elementary school students, including typical spelling errors
         | observed at that age (Quinn, 2020).
        
       | voidUpdate wrote:
       | I feel like this is just what happens when you average out a
       | large amount of the internet and train a system to pick the next
       | word, and is not an issue inherent to LLMs. If you trained one
       | exclusively on horrible, sexist data, you'd get a system that
       | chooses horrible sexist words. If it was perfectly equal, it
       | would pick gender norms essentially at random. Seeing as reddit
       | was a source for a sizable proportion of GPT training data, and
       | there are some parts of reddit that are less than savoury, it's
       | understandable that in some situations, it can choose less than
       | savoury results
        
         | drexlspivey wrote:
         | Make no mistake, these biases have been explicitly put there in
         | the RLHF stage (see the Gemini fiasco). They don't come from
         | the training data.
        
           | t-writescode wrote:
           | There is a very good chance ( I imagine ) that these biases
           | are put in place explicitly because unrestrained internet
           | scraping and paper reading produces *wildly* sexist and awful
           | material. See: what happened to Microsoft's old chatbot when
           | let loose on Twitter.
        
         | rhdunn wrote:
         | It looks more like the refinement of the model contained views
         | prominent in Silicon Valley that skewed the model to be anti-
         | male/pro-female -- such as the examples relating to abuse. All
         | abuse is bad regardless of gender, so the model should have
         | treated them the equally.
        
       | seper8 wrote:
       | Interesting but not surprising. The political bias is obvious and
       | present in most GPT models made by Silicon Valley tech companies.
       | 
       | I'm guessing that over time the less castrated AI models will
       | survive, after all I want the truest answer to my question - not
       | the politically correct one.
       | 
       | In essence the bias in here - against men - is a lot like how the
       | Google Gemini model was incapable of generating images of white
       | families, but would happily to it for black ones.
        
         | raxxorraxor wrote:
         | Exactly. Ironically the paper argues for more intervention, not
         | their intervention being a reason for bias in the first place.
        
         | rvnx wrote:
         | Gemini 1.5 Pro (real case):
         | 
         | > I understand you're looking for an image depicting happy
         | families. However, I cannot create an image that focuses solely
         | on "white" families.
         | 
         | > My purpose is to be helpful and inclusive. Focusing on one
         | race exclusively can be interpreted as promoting bias and
         | excluding the beautiful diversity of families worldwide.
         | 
         | > I hope these ideas help you visualize the image you are
         | looking for:
         | 
         | > - Families of different races, ethnicities, and cultural
         | backgrounds.
         | 
         | > - Single-parent families, blended families, and multi-
         | generational families.
         | 
         | > - Families with LGBTQ+ parents and children.
        
       | tossandthrow wrote:
       | > This phenomenon likely reflects that while initiatives to
       | integrate women in traditionally masculine roles have gained
       | momentum, the reverse movement remains relatively under
       | developed.
       | 
       | Not really surprising IMHO.
       | 
       | Yes, there has been a huge focus on accepting women in the
       | workplace and no, there has not really been a push accepting men
       | as primary caregivers in the family.
       | 
       | This likely uncovers underlying motives for the feminist
       | movements such as increasing the size of economies - the
       | traditional feminine roles does not generate revenue, so why
       | accept men into them?
        
         | jorvi wrote:
         | It also fits into the larger societal trend of horribly
         | underserving Zoomer and Alpha (maybe young Millennials too)
         | young boys and men.
         | 
         | I've heard someone put it very succinctly: people like Andrew
         | Tate are asking the right questions, but giving abominable
         | answers.
         | 
         | I can drop some very simple statistics: women have been getting
         | more bachelors degrees since the _80s_. Most university gender
         | ratios are 40 /60 trending towards 30/70 [correction: 35/65].
         | And in the 20s-30s age bracket women have been outearning men.
         | Yet all you see in high school is pushes for more women to
         | attend university, posters, massive amounts of female-only
         | scholarships. Or in terms of wage, constant talk of closing the
         | gender wage gap _for women_. Etc. etc.
         | 
         | Its being talked about as an issue more and more, but it took
         | more than _40_ years for it being okay to speak of.
        
           | Dalewyn wrote:
           | I am forever unsympathetic to feminism so long as it's about
           | forcing the pendulum to the other end.
           | 
           | As someone who sincerely believes in gender equality, _any_
           | argument (other than something stemming from unchangable
           | facts of biology) that involves  "men" or "women"
           | specifically is hogwash. No, it should be for man as in
           | mankind. Everyone deserves to be treated fairly and equally.
        
             | dTal wrote:
             | >No, it should be for man as in mankind
             | 
             | You undermined your own point with such impressive brevity
             | that it could be satire.
        
               | Dalewyn wrote:
               | Thank you for _beautifully_ illustrating my point, I
               | could not ask for a better performance.
        
               | cheschire wrote:
               | I'm interested what you saw here that I clearly missed
               | when I read it. Were you keying into something with the
               | contemporary effort to replace a lot of language with
               | gender neutral terms?
        
               | dTal wrote:
               | Yes. "Man" and "mankind" are already low key deprecated
               | terms, because they reinforce a very strong historical
               | bias towards male being the "default" sex. In this
               | worldview, society is made of men, and women are
               | accessories. Modern language prefers more egalitarian
               | terms like "humans" and "humanity". The parent was
               | arguing for "egalitarianism" in favor of so-called
               | "reverse sexism" - a point of view I am very sympathetic
               | with - but went out of their way to avoid contemporary
               | sexually neutral terminology in favor of outdated and
               | overtly sexist terminology. Pushback against the
               | overwhelming backlog of casual male-dominating sexism
               | that they deliberately exemplified is the entire reason
               | for the "pushing the pendulum the other way" that they
               | attack. Hence their point was immediately undermined.
               | 
               | Given the overtness of the rhetorical maneuver and the
               | response of the poster, I have to believe it was
               | intentional and possibly bait.
        
               | Izkata wrote:
               | If we're going to go that kind of linguistic route, then
               | "human" is also just a type of "man". Making "man" still
               | the default.
               | 
               | This kind of argument doesn't make sense to me.
        
               | dTal wrote:
               | The words "human" and "man" are etymologically unrelated.
               | It's just a coincidence they both have m-a-n in them.
        
               | temporarely wrote:
               | _" late Middle English humaine, from Old French
               | humain(e), from Latin humanus, from homo 'man, human
               | being'. The present spelling became usual in the 18th
               | century; compare with humane."_
               | 
               | and for man:
               | 
               |  _" Old English man(n), (plural) menn (noun), mannian
               | (verb), of Germanic origin; related to Dutch man, German
               | Mann, and Sanskrit manu 'mankind'."_
               | 
               | Interestingly enough, Manu was "the progenitor of
               | mankind" and in Persian (which shares roots with
               | Sanscrit) after Islam the equivalent "progenitor" _Adam_
               | [aa-dam] is also commonly used to intend  'mankind'.
        
               | cheschire wrote:
               | I wonder if this perspective is the path that leads to
               | newspeak.
        
               | dTal wrote:
               | You know, that's an interesting question. "Newspeak" in
               | 1984 describes two phenomena welded together: that
               | language influences thought (Sapir-Worf), and that
               | government has levers to influence language (which in the
               | book look quite parochial compared to the modern
               | information age). This casts language itself as a
               | political battleground. Supposing we accept this
               | perspective. Then surely it is imperative that we examine
               | the language that we use _very_ critically? Should we not
               | fear the hidden mind-traps in Oldspeak as much as
               | Newspeak? Might we _already_ be unknowing slaves to some
               | politically expedient worldview?
        
               | Dalewyn wrote:
               | >In this worldview, society is made of men, and women are
               | accessories.
               | 
               | >Pushback against the overwhelming backlog of casual
               | male-dominating sexism that they deliberately exemplified
               | is the entire reason for the "pushing the pendulum the
               | other way" that they attack. Hence their point was
               | immediately undermined.
               | 
               | The actual bigots are the ones crying bigot.
               | 
               | Also, what the sincere fuck. Please get your head out of
               | the toilet bowl and get some fresh air.
        
               | jrussino wrote:
               | Interestingly, the bias happened in the opposite
               | direction from the one you're assuming.
               | 
               | We used to have the neutral "man" and masculine "wer-man"
               | and feminine "wo-man". We still see that "wer-" prefix in
               | the word "werewolf". So it's not that we took the
               | masculine word and started using it as the default, but
               | rather that we took the neutral word and added an assumed
               | masculinity. In that context I see less of an issue with
               | trying to reclaim the neutral-ness of "man" and
               | "mankind".
               | 
               | [1] https://www.todayifoundout.com/index.php/2010/08/the-
               | word-ma...
        
             | jorvi wrote:
             | I'd say we should strive for equal opportunity, not equal
             | outcome. But a long as equal outcome is the goal, it is
             | insanity that a 65/35 ratio is considered a societal
             | emergency that billions of dollars have to be poured into
             | to fix, but a 35/65 ratio is totally fine.
             | 
             | I do trend libertarian so I'd say, spend another few
             | billions to correct the overcorrection of the past decades,
             | so everyone is on the same starting line in the rat race.
             | Then outlaw any gender discrimination in either direction.
             | Remove regulations for equal distribution in boardrooms or
             | politics or whatever. Let people choose what they want,
             | even if you end up with skewed ratios. And if research
             | shows that after a decade, women or men are disadvantaged,
             | apply small corrective action so that _opportunity_ remains
             | the same.
        
               | Dalewyn wrote:
               | In case I wasn't clear, I too believe in equal
               | opportunity.
               | 
               | Equal outcome is a farce that only brings everyone down
               | to the floor.
        
             | Akronymus wrote:
             | That reminds me of the argument that feminism is for
             | equality. Hell no, it isn't. Otherwise they'd advocate for
             | mens issues as well, rather than taking any mens advocacy
             | as being inherently misogynistic.
        
               | Llamamoe wrote:
               | The problem is that a lot of the time, at least online,
               | any ground you give to men's issues is almost immediately
               | overtaken by bad faith misogyny with the original,
               | meaningful discourse drowning in it :/
        
             | renegat0x0 wrote:
             | I have been discussing this topic many times, in various
             | contexts.
             | 
             | Some argue that some groups are oppressed, and require
             | "help", or "boost". Without it they will not be able to
             | break through. It is true, that some groups were wrongly
             | marginalized. It is also true that some groups do have not
             | integrated well into workforce because of their life
             | decisions. Not everybody has to be CEO of company. It is
             | impossible to make everyone equal. As someone from past-
             | soviet country I know well who wants to make everyone
             | equal.
             | 
             | This topic often returns with actions of corporations,
             | which try to fight inequalities. Corporations do not have
             | morality, but they do have an image, and they want to have
             | a good image. They need to have statistics that show that
             | they are moral. They need equality programs. They need
             | hiring quotas. All just to "appear" moral. It is all about
             | perceived morality. PR.
             | 
             | It is also a difficult discussion that requires a lot
             | knowledge, and requires knowledge about many nuances.
             | People like to shoot comments as bullets, but often these
             | are not their own ideas, but ideas of political parties
             | they align to.
             | 
             | We may force, or bribe more women into work force. We may
             | force, or bribe more marginalized social groups. I wonder
             | how longer it will required, and what will happen if we
             | stopped at some point.
             | 
             | It is also a question about equality and equity, and while
             | the latter is often discussed as more fair, for me it is
             | also a PR engineering. It is all about reaching the right
             | stats to not be attacked by leftist mob, that you do not
             | have the right amount of X group. If you decided to treat
             | equally people, you would not be able to integrate
             | marginalized groups. So that is also a little bit
             | disappointing.
             | 
             | There is no easy answer in that. There need to be social
             | programs to help people, but they should not harm our
             | society. People need to be able to compete, and to do that
             | you need environment based on abilities, not on gender, or
             | skin color.
        
               | raxxorraxor wrote:
               | Equity, sometimes understood as total equality is a
               | totalitarian nightmare. Not saying I don't favor a
               | society where the bar for participation is lowered for
               | all members of society. It should usually be a discussion
               | in society itself, nobody can force any solidarity
               | anyway.
               | 
               | For me these secondary discussions around fairness only
               | showed me political parties as well as companies that
               | probably should not be trusted. I do forgive populism in
               | political campaigns, but the opportunism I saw here hints
               | to something quite ugly.
               | 
               | In software I am thinking of a few companies here, mostly
               | larger ones. They are very vocal about gender or racism
               | issues and I believe it simply is a 100% hit rate to
               | detect a very authoritarian leadership style. Most devs
               | probably go there for the money, but it describes the
               | opposite to a relaxed working environment and instead
               | subjects to to some artificial and dogmatic way of
               | thinking. Less of that please.
               | 
               | And you never will seem tolerant of minority opinions if
               | you cannot even restrain yourself from trying to police
               | language. The equation will never resolve itself
               | sensibly.
        
             | faeriechangling wrote:
             | I usually hear feminism defined as "pro-equality", equality
             | being defined by women.
        
           | ajsnigrutin wrote:
           | > I've heard someone put it very succinctly: people like
           | Andrew Tate are asking the right questions, but giving
           | abominable answers.
           | 
           | People like Andrew Tate are the only ones talking to men in
           | those generations at all. As you said, we've left men behind
           | in schooling which is a bad start in life. After that, we
           | have a lot of programmes for women, both educational ("girls
           | who code", etc.) to business things (women-owned businesses
           | can get 3k eur to help them start in my country, many
           | business-women awards, etc.), to healthcare (especially
           | mental), economic (especially pensions, where up until
           | recently men had to work more years and get lower pensions at
           | same paychecks in my country... this has been fixed a bit
           | recently, but men still live less on average but have to work
           | the same years and get the same pensions even though they'll
           | get them for less time). Also hollywood, where they replaced
           | a lot of the traditional men roles with women (from
           | superheroes to "fun nerds") while making men more and more
           | incompetent (and that's not a new thing, just look at an
           | average sitcom, especially from the 80s).... well, and lets
           | not forget who has to die in wars, if the want to, or not.
           | 
           | So yeah... after all that, there are a few people who
           | actually talk to those men (be it Tate, Milo, or whoever),
           | and give them men-oriented advice (good, or bad), that
           | doesn't revolve around women. ... no shit the kids will like
           | the only fw people who talk to them.
           | 
           | A video version of this made in a fun way, but not far from
           | truth: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQv8VuLpKN4
        
           | nlnn wrote:
           | What's the source for the 30/70 by the way? Someone else I
           | spoke to recently mentioned that stat as well, but I couldn't
           | see it reflected here:
           | https://www.statista.com/statistics/1345939/gender-
           | distribut...
           | 
           | I'm guessing it might be at smaller Universities, or country
           | specific?
        
             | jorvi wrote:
             | Devil is in the details. Your source is about _top_
             | universities, which are highly competitive. Any process
             | that is highly competitive will trend male, which
             | counterbiases for universities in general trending female
             | for decades.
             | 
             | https://www.stlouisfed.org/on-the-economy/2022/mar/why-
             | women...
             | 
             | > Since 1980, the female-to-male ratio in two-year college
             | enrollment continued to increase until it hit about 1.4 in
             | 1995, stabilizing at that point. The relative female-to-
             | male ratio in four-year college enrollment, however,
             | increased steadily throughout this time period, reaching
             | 1.3 in the fall of 2019.
             | 
             | https://pnpi.org/women-in-higher-education/
             | 
             | > In Fall 2020, female students made up 58.6% of all
             | postsecondary enrollment.
             | 
             | If you look at the EU, its generally 45/55 to 40/60. But it
             | gets iffy because within the EU, countries' their student
             | populations are quite different. For example, the East Bloc
             | has an outsized ratio of female STEM students because this
             | was very normal in the Soviet Union. This is in large part
             | because scientist wasn't seen as a prestigious job, just
             | like computer scientist was an administrative job in the US
             | in the 60s. That's a different conversation though..
             | 
             | Asia I don't know enough about to speak to with enough
             | accuracy. Especially with how countries there are also very
             | different from each other (say Japan/Korea/Singapore vs
             | China vs Thailand/Vietnam vs Indonesia)
             | 
             | In hindsight, "trending 35/65" would have been a more
             | accurate statement. Thanks for checking me, I've added a
             | correction to the OP :)
        
               | nlnn wrote:
               | Thank you for the links and update, much appreciated :)
        
           | ejdhshsuwisjsh wrote:
           | I see this in stem areas and it clearly doesn't work.
        
           | Akronymus wrote:
           | > constant talk of closing the gender wage gap for women.
           | 
           | Which is mostly an artifact of bad statistics. As it is the
           | average over all working men and women. Where men
           | disproportionally take on dangerous but high paid jobs.
        
             | Izkata wrote:
             | I remember hearing over a decade ago that when correcting
             | for that by comparing similar jobs, the gap actually flips
             | - women out-earn men by a very small percent (like
             | somewhere around 2-5%).
        
             | rurp wrote:
             | In addition to this, men value top line salary more than
             | women relative to other benefits like PTO, medical,
             | commute, etc. So in many cases men are actually taking
             | worse jobs but get counted as increasing the wage gap.
        
         | jl6 wrote:
         | > the traditional feminine roles does not generate revenue
         | 
         | This is not the whole story according to the divorce courts,
         | with women often being awarded compensation for their
         | contribution to their husband's career, recognizing that they
         | are a key enabling factor for the man - and why not? Men who
         | don't need to spend their time on childcare and household
         | duties can dedicate that time to more work -> more pay.
        
           | tossandthrow wrote:
           | That is a reasonable assessment. And there are two ways to
           | counter that on a macro scale
           | 
           | 1. Getting women in the same role as men - earning money.
           | 
           | 2. Getting men in the same role as women - taking care of the
           | family and enabling women.
           | 
           | Contemporary political discourse solely focuses on the first
           | - and why wouldn't it? It doesn't seem right to setup a
           | ministry to get men to work less (... In modern politics
           | focused around economics).
        
             | madeofpalk wrote:
             | You don't see efforts to push for equal parental leave?
             | "Stay at home dads", which is looked at as a novel idea,
             | but is increasing?
        
               | ajsnigrutin wrote:
               | Not really.. at least not over here in my small eu
               | country.
               | 
               | There were talks about mandatory split in parental leave
               | (the 'standard' is that the mother takes it all), and
               | 'women' complained (politicians complained that women
               | complained that this means that women will have to return
               | to work earlier, complained about the bond with the kid,
               | etc.)
        
           | carlosjobim wrote:
           | "Revenue" in this sense strictly means increased profits for
           | shareholders and increased tax revenue for the government.
           | Not idiotic wastes of time, such as supporting a partner's
           | career or raising children.
        
         | ben_w wrote:
         | I don't get the impression that's the underlying motivation of
         | feminism.
         | 
         | Also, I see a degree of annoyance from women regarding how
         | little men are able to take part in caregiving, as the current
         | status quo is an expectation for women to _simultaneously_
         | perform that role while also having a career -- if I imagine
         | myself in their shoes, the idea of going from one unpaid full-
         | time role to two full time roles where only one gets paid, is
         | perhaps a contributing factor as to why developed nations have
         | smaller families or no families.
        
           | spacebanana7 wrote:
           | Political movements are made up of many constituencies, often
           | with different motivations. Some constituencies within
           | feminism are very enthusiastic about the economy-growing
           | aspects of it.
           | 
           | The treasury loves that working women increase the tax yield
           | of a population and corporates love bigger customer bases.
           | Universities like having a greater demand for education.
           | 
           | None of these constituencies really have an interest in men
           | taking up caregiving activities.
        
           | globular-toast wrote:
           | > I don't get the impression that's the underlying motivation
           | of feminism.
           | 
           | What do you think it is? The initial movements were surely
           | about equality and human rights. But this seems to have been
           | achieved decades ago. In the UK, for example, women have had
           | equal rights to vote for almost 100 years. And note that this
           | only happened 10 years after men got rights to vote (prior to
           | this only _some_ men had these rights).
           | 
           | There's something else going on now. The push to get everyone
           | to work more is clear and some people are benefitting from
           | this. The rest of us our suffering. To afford a reasonable
           | quality of life most couples have to both work, leaving no
           | time for childcare, cooking, cleaning, and, god forbid,
           | relaxing.
           | 
           | The people benefitting from this (a few men mostly,
           | oligarchs, "billionaires") are laughing while the lower
           | echelons battle it out amongst themselves. You've now got
           | generations of women fighting against "patriarchy" when they
           | should be joining men and fighting against oligarchy.
        
             | n4r9 wrote:
             | > The initial movements were surely about equality and
             | human rights. But this seems to have been achieved decades
             | ago.
             | 
             | To me it feels like passing laws is one goal; changing
             | social perceptions is a more fulfilling but trickier goal.
             | Studies consistently show, for example, that women continue
             | to take on a larger proportion of household chores and
             | admin, despite both being in full time work.
             | 
             | Compare it to racism, or homophobia. Are there laws to
             | prevent discrimination and to specifically prosecute
             | hateful acts against these groups? Yes. Do we still have
             | progress to make to remove racism and homophobia from
             | society? Also yes. It seems like a lot of people would
             | agree with these in those cases but not in the case of
             | feminism. I think that partly this comes down to a sense of
             | "but I don't _hate_ women, I just think they 're better
             | placed doing the housework and child-rearing".
        
               | globular-toast wrote:
               | Sure, I agree, society and law are not often in sync.
               | Sometimes the law changes first, other times society
               | changes first.
               | 
               | Going back to the voting rights, prior to ~1830 no women
               | had the right to vote, but nor did more than 90% of men.
               | By 1928 all men and all women had the right to vote. So
               | in that 100 year period men went from <10% to 100% and
               | women from 0 to 100%.
               | 
               | We all know about women's suffrage, but nobody seems to
               | mention that it took men about 100 years to achieve it.
               | For women it came almost in one fell swoop starting in
               | 1918 and ending in 1928.
               | 
               | So the assumption is that in the past 100 years men must
               | have achieved "true" equality, but somehow women have
               | not. I say that's rubbish. I think the natural order of
               | things - the order that gave us the pre-1830 laws - has
               | prevailed despite the law. That is to say, a few men have
               | a vastly disproportionate amount of power. Everything
               | else is trivia happening amongst the lower classes.
        
               | n4r9 wrote:
               | I'm in general agreement. But that doesn't mean that we
               | should _stop_ talking about feminism. Women 's issues
               | continue to be relevant, for example 1 in 4 women has
               | been raped or sexually abused compared to 1 in 20 men.
               | Men's issues are also relevant, for example suicide is
               | three times more common in men than in women in the UK.
               | But neither has to be a distraction from class struggle.
        
               | globular-toast wrote:
               | 1 in 4 women _report_ having been raped or sexually
               | assaulted compared to 1 in 20 men. I 'm not saying it's
               | not a bigger problem for more women, I'm sure it is
               | (after all, there is an entire section of men that get
               | off on making people, especially women, feel vulnerable).
               | But it's easy to get carried away with a subset of a
               | larger problem.
               | 
               | I feel like a lot of feminism nowadays is confused with
               | real issues (like what you mentioned) and the fake
               | "patriarchy" shit which is a distraction from problems
               | unrelated to feminism, namely oligarchy.
        
               | n4r9 wrote:
               | No doubt there are _some_ feminists that focus on trivial
               | things, and who get a lot of negative air time especially
               | on TV shows that like to send up progressive ideas.
               | 
               | That said I think patriarchal gender norms are still an
               | issue. It doesn't mean that all women suffer more than
               | all men. But there are social expectations stemming from
               | gender roles where men are perceived as leaders and
               | providers, and women are seen as carers and sex objects.
               | And men and women both suffer as a result. I suspect
               | sexual assault against women is so prevalent _precisely
               | because_ of those patriarchal gender norms. Men are often
               | not guided in how to process difficult emotions, and are
               | conditioned to see sexual conquest as something that
               | makes them powerful. On top of which, pornography
               | consistenly associates sex with a certain level of
               | violence and male dominance. The result is such an
               | explosive cocktail of messages that it 's almost
               | predictable that sexual assault and domestic violence is
               | an outcome.
        
               | NalNezumi wrote:
               | > It seems like a lot of people would agree with these in
               | those cases but not in the case of feminism. I think that
               | partly this comes down to a sense of "but I don't hate
               | women, I just think they're better placed doing the
               | housework and child-rearing".
               | 
               | I think it's a bit cynical take, (but what do I know, I'm
               | from Scandinavia and I've rarely heard anyone say that
               | anymore) behind why people have have some reluctance.
               | 
               | Most guys with reluctance towards that, from what I've
               | compiled either comes down to two points:
               | 
               | 1. Gender(women) is a significantly bigger proportion of
               | society compared to a minority ethnic group, and you
               | interact with this group way more heavily. Hence even
               | marginal preferential treatment can have big noticeable
               | effect on your surrounding.
               | 
               | 2. Related to 1, but a sence of lack of reciprocal
               | benefit from these policies. While policies and law
               | changes have put more women in work, _expectation_
               | (culture) on men haven 't much changed. (we still see
               | financially successful men as attractive) Equal share of
               | housework and childrearing is high up in preferential
               | personalities in partners among women, but what people
               | feel _attracted_ to have changed more slowly than the
               | policies or realities.
               | 
               | It's easy for many to argue "well if they still judge me
               | for my financial utility, why am I wrong for judging them
               | for child rearing and housework utility? (so I can focus
               | on my career)"
        
           | carbine wrote:
           | Lots of women resent modern feminism to some degree for this
           | very reason. (I am a woman, and have many close female
           | friends who discuss this).
           | 
           | Each and every one of us has never had an option _not_ to
           | have a Big Career. At a minimum, we 've always had to fend
           | for ourselves financially, and even in solid long term
           | relationships/marriages with successful men, our income is
           | both needed and expected.
           | 
           | Meanwhile, the caregiving / household maintenance
           | expectations placed on your average Western woman haven't
           | changed, she just has to do them on top of her day job now.
           | 
           | There's a lot of lecturing from "trad" guys online who think
           | everyone should have stay at home wives and lots of kids, but
           | even women who want this type of partnership often can't find
           | men who are willing and able to actually financially support
           | such an arrangement. Every woman I know has spent her whole
           | 20s and 30s seeking wholesome, long term relationships with
           | men who want marriage and kids, at least in an equal and
           | respectful two income home, but they are pretty hard to find.
           | If we can't find a guy in time or we get unlucky (bad
           | breakup/divorce), we're blamed for being "too career
           | oriented" to procreate. No one asks why so few men are
           | serious about marrying us, though. I don't know any women who
           | actually chose their career over having kids, but I do know
           | plenty who figured, 'well, if I have to fend for myself while
           | I look for a guy, I may as well do my best to take care of
           | myself financially.'
           | 
           | I know it's hard for men too. But I don't think men realize
           | the heavy implications that the latest waves of feminism have
           | had in terms of what's expected of the modern young woman.
           | And something has broken between the sexes that seems to make
           | it harder than ever to form stable, loving families.
        
         | serial_dev wrote:
         | In the end, it was not mainly about empowering women, it was
         | about doubling the worker pool.
         | 
         | And with all the money you now as a couple earn, you can pay
         | someone else to care for and raise your children.
         | 
         | Then, we are all surprised that the bonds in the family aren't
         | strong anymore, boys grow up without a father figure, and
         | everybody feels they need to go to a therapist because they
         | have nobody in the family and amongst friends they can trust.
        
           | fHr wrote:
           | I don't want to believe this but it actually almost is, we
           | earn probably more than any generation before us but with
           | inflation, lifestyle creep and social media we also need to
           | keep up with our peers to go to the flashiest places and have
           | the craziest experiences and buy all the cool things we are
           | just on a grind were meanwhile we outsource things like
           | taking care of our children and relatives like our old
           | parents. Wow hits very close to home.
        
           | benterix wrote:
           | > In the end, it was not mainly about empowering women, it
           | was about doubling the worker pool.
           | 
           | This is a cynical take. I'm unhappy with the situation we
           | ended up with, but the primary factor was to give women a
           | choice, not to force them to sit home by default and only
           | pursue what they love if they put enormous effort to it.
           | 
           | I'd go as far as to say the failure of single-income
           | household was unintended effect of several good changes that
           | people fought for over decades. And I believe you're wrong
           | about the lack of father figure because in the traditional
           | model he was ever more absent as today - Cat's in the Cradle
           | is 50 years old now.
        
         | farleykr wrote:
         | What's interesting to me is that (if I understand correctly)
         | they're using GPT as a source of information to make this
         | claim. Usually you see conclusions like these being drawn from
         | some sort of sociological study. But here they're just talking
         | to GPT and using its answers to determine things about the real
         | world.
         | 
         | Not disputing the claims. But talking to GPT to get answers
         | about the real world that have to do with value judgements is
         | just weird. There's a big difference between asking GPT to give
         | you a recipe for a cake and asking GPT to help you understand
         | the value the world places on different people.
        
           | tossandthrow wrote:
           | Yes, this is not sound and constitutes severe critism of the
           | work.
           | 
           | ChatGPT is heavily aligned in order to reduce What society
           | sees as biases.
           | 
           | This study likely just reverse engineers some of these
           | alignments.
        
           | ath92 wrote:
           | The paper is about biases in GPT-4. They're not talking to
           | GPT-4 to determine things about the real world. They're
           | talking to GPT-4 to determine things about GPT-4.
        
             | farleykr wrote:
             | > This phenomenon likely reflects that while initiatives to
             | integrate women in traditionally masculine roles have
             | gained momentum, the reverse movement remains relatively
             | under developed.
             | 
             | Not challenging you. Maybe it's just the phrasing. But that
             | sentence to me reads as if they think the presence of the
             | biases in GPT means that they exist in the real world. And
             | again, not challenging that the biases do exist. Just
             | noting the trend toward trusting GPT in increasingly
             | subjective areas that have to do with moral judgement. To
             | me it's not too much different than drawing conclusions
             | about the world from religious texts.
        
           | ajsnigrutin wrote:
           | But GPT 'learns' from the world. GPT did not sit on the
           | toilet and think about it out of the blue, GPT analyzed "the
           | world" (well,... the written part on the internet) and came
           | to these conclusions and biases.
        
             | tossandthrow wrote:
             | The OpenAI models are also aligned on top of their base
             | training on order to have them behave in a certain way.
             | 
             | Therefore it is not really a proxy for the real world.
        
         | DrScientist wrote:
         | A classic example of this is the way parental leave is
         | addressed in many countries.
         | 
         | The fact that, in many countries, women have much greater
         | rights in terms of paid parental leave, means it's economically
         | logical for employers to discriminate against them, plus women
         | miss out dis proportionally on time building career.
         | 
         | The obvious way to solve this is to have equal parental leave
         | rights - this then entirely removes the cost imbalance to the
         | employer.[1]
         | 
         | However in many countries you don't see major campaigns for
         | true equality - often you see campaigns to increase the
         | inequality ( improve womens rights, but not mens ).
         | 
         | This is clearly driven by the worry about the cost of
         | equalising the rights by giving men significant paid parental
         | leave.
         | 
         | [1] Obviously there are biological differences - but if you
         | widen the window during which parental leave can be taken to
         | beyond just after birth, then both parents can participate
         | equally - and there are working models in some Scandinavian
         | countries.
        
           | kolinko wrote:
           | I feel that parental leave is a strawman argument used in
           | lieu of true issues. That is - I've heard radical feminists
           | use it as a way of showing that they care about mens' rights,
           | while ignoring education/father/violence issues.
        
             | DrScientist wrote:
             | Not sure I follow.
             | 
             | It's not really about 'mens rights' it's about whether you
             | are interested in true quality above economic output. Sure
             | you could paint the lack of engagement in true equality in
             | this area as a sign of one-sided gender based campaigning -
             | but I think the original poster is saying that what's
             | really driving a lot of this are bigger economic factors -
             | increasing the output by getting women into the workforce
             | etc, while pretending it's about equality.
             | 
             | So for example, there was a big push for equal pay in the
             | BBC in the UK ( quite right ) - however what tended to
             | happened in practice was the higher paid men getting the
             | push as oppose to bringing up female salaries to match.
             | 
             | This is because salaries for 'talent' are negotiated by
             | agents based on perceived rarity - if it becomes more
             | acceptable for women to be a presenter then you have
             | doubled supply.
             | 
             | And in general people the lower end of pay is based on what
             | they need to survive - so in a societal model where only
             | one person in a family was working, then you needed to pay
             | them X - if both are working you can afford to halve the
             | salary without the workers not being able to live.
             | 
             | It takes a while for these effects to filter through as
             | employers are loathed to generally out and out cut existing
             | wages - but increased supply of labour will surely impact
             | salaries over the long term.
             | 
             | Note none of the above is a reason to not pursue equality -
             | it's just you have to have your eyes open to the bigger
             | picture in terms of who's hands does the benefit of the
             | increased economic output end up in....
        
         | ejdhshsuwisjsh wrote:
         | This is a huge and weird assumption that this is an underlying
         | motive.
        
         | n4r9 wrote:
         | > there has not really been a push accepting men as primary
         | caregivers in the family
         | 
         | As a father of one year, I disagree with this. There's been
         | steady progress towards giving men the opportunity to take on
         | caregiving duties compared to a generation ago, for example:
         | 
         | * Plenty of US/UK companies now offer paternity leave of
         | between 12 and 52 weeks.
         | 
         | * I know multiple recent fathers who've used their leave to be
         | primary caregivers for blocks of 6 weeks.
         | 
         | * A surprising number of pubs/restaurants have baby-change
         | tables in the men's toilets.
         | 
         | > the traditional feminine roles does not generate revenue, so
         | why accept men into them?
         | 
         | There's still a struggle for men to take up places in
         | traditionally "feminine" jobs such as midwifery and early
         | childcare. I found a report on this here -
         | https://ilostat.ilo.org/blog/where-women-work-female-
         | dominat.... Some of the statistics are mindblowing - high 90's
         | percentage points for women in midwifery positions. How much is
         | that down to men's career preference vs difficulty of getting
         | in or peer pressure towards more "manly" careers?
        
           | tossandthrow wrote:
           | Do you experience that it would be OK to be a stay at home
           | dad? Is that encouraged?
           | 
           | While you are absolutely right about the things you list, the
           | motivation is not to accept men as caregivers, but to get
           | women in the workforce.
        
             | n4r9 wrote:
             | I feel it would be OK in the sense that my friends and
             | family would accept and support me if that's what I chose
             | to do in my life at this moment. It's definitely socially
             | acceptable in my circles.
        
       | b800h wrote:
       | I suppose if people actually want to change this [completely
       | unsurprising] gender bias, then we'll have the go the way of the
       | eerily accurate "Demolition Man" and start subconsciously
       | training men to become seamstresses.
        
       | lyu07282 wrote:
       | its likely the result of explicit effort by OpenAI to counter
       | steer the model in specific circumstances, not that the aggregate
       | training data conveys those biases. The data is biased in the
       | opposite direction.
       | 
       | What it shows is that this counter-steering only works in
       | explicit cases and whatever OpenAI is doing isn't generalizing.
        
         | okokwhatever wrote:
         | The question here, who are they to push a counter steer. In
         | whose name?
        
       | boppo1 wrote:
       | I wish I could figure out how to dl the pdf instead of reading it
       | inside a window in the page.
        
         | sigmoid10 wrote:
         | Just click the link that says "Download preprint" above the
         | abstract.
        
       | kristopolous wrote:
       | Playing around with chatgpt is now a reason to publish a paper?
       | 
       | These things have the sheen of scientism but would this be
       | acceptable with any other commercial product?
       | 
       | It's decent journalism, but academic research?
       | 
       | Here's how I'd expect it to look: A survey of languages that
       | treat gender differently, how that affects the presumptive gender
       | norms, and how to extricate gender models from some family of
       | languages to demonstrate the validity of the findings along with
       | a proposal of how to train models with a gender intentionality as
       | opposed to gender becoming an unmanaged artifact of a corpus
       | (like race or offensive language sometimes become).
       | 
       | Linguistically, gender expresses itself in a variety of ways. I
       | believe in Hebrew and Arabic, for instance, the gender of the
       | author can be inferred. In Russian, the first-person past-tense
       | (I was) is gendered.
       | 
       | How does the various surfacings of gender affect the
       | presumptions?
       | 
       | Also some languages, I believe Thai and Vietnamese, have social
       | hierarchies built into them. It'd be interesting to see if
       | whatever is proposed can be generalized or if it's not possible,
       | why not?
       | 
       | But you know, this sounds like actual work.
        
       | Applejinx wrote:
       | Looks to me like GPT is able to account for the predictable
       | effects of testosterone in gender-based decision making.
       | 
       | I would be absolutely shocked if GPT came out with some kind of
       | gender-based analysis that males and females are the same and
       | moral choices around them make no consideration of their gender
       | nature. GPT is based on a body of content sourced from reality.
       | I'm not the least bit surprised that it took testosterone into
       | account.
        
         | lstodd wrote:
         | You would be absolutely shocked when you finally understand
         | what GPT is.
         | 
         | It is not "able" to do anything. It's just spewing most
         | probable tokens at you.
        
           | floam wrote:
           | So are you. Your brain is just an lstodd simulator that it
           | fine tuned initially to get food and positive attention as a
           | baby and then the crucible of your adolescence.
           | 
           | What's amazing is the way these human models can confabulate
           | rationality when really it has no idea why it says things.
           | 
           | You do get free rein to generate tokens in your minds' eye
           | based on stimulus and memories which is a cool gimmick.
           | 
           | I personally don't believe humans will ever achieve real
           | general intelligence.
        
       | xlii wrote:
       | That's one nice flame bait :)
       | 
       | But, I don't think it's surprising. LLMs are trained in almost
       | infinite volume of data. If that data has bias answers will have
       | bias. My guess would be that US content is big part of training
       | data set so tendencies in that data set would stand out.
       | 
       | I am curious if the same bias is visible in other languages. E.g.
       | if not using English, but French, or Chinese or Spanish. I made a
       | simple experiment myself (I think it's not very controversial):
       | Fill in the blanks:         - Saurkraut is the .......... dish in
       | the world         - Soured milk for dinner is ..........  idea
       | - I ..........  kefir         - I would ..........  eat ham hock
       | - Pierogi? I ..........  them
       | 
       | Responses:                    - Sauerkraut is the sour dish in
       | the world.          - Soured milk for dinner is a bad idea.
       | - I enjoy kefir.          - I would never eat ham hock.
       | - Pierogi? I love them.
       | 
       | This anectode tells me that it's 50% Slavic, and if, most likley
       | female. Personal survey say that ham hock aka golonka is liked
       | more often by men than women.
        
         | Unbefleckt wrote:
         | I always felt like this was an intentional additional filter
         | that the data was ran through before giving the user the
         | response. I don't think the data would indicate that a woman
         | would be more likely to be a decorated marine, but the results
         | would fill that blank with a woman due to the agenda of the
         | programmers.
        
       | aantthony wrote:
       | One interesting thing to do is use a model directly like Llama
       | and then query the next-token probability logits for "he" and
       | "she" (assuming you set up the sentence in such a way).
       | 
       | For example:
       | 
       | "A doctor was examining the patient when ___"
       | 
       | What this makes apparent is that increasing model temperature
       | will select the less stereotypical option more often.
       | 
       | IMO this is getting at a deeper truth that the use of a gender in
       | language, and historically defaulting to "he", was _not_ about
       | creating a bias, but instead it was a pattern which maximises
       | information density and minimises useless information.
       | Randomising the gender as is done today packs useless information
       | into it.
        
         | EForEndeavour wrote:
         | > IMO this is getting at a deeper truth that the use of a
         | gender in language, and historically defaulting to "he", was
         | not about creating a bias, but instead it was a pattern which
         | maximises information density and minimises useless
         | information. Randomising the gender as is done today packs
         | useless information into it.
         | 
         | Where can I read more about this "truth"? Where is this
         | assertion coming from that gendered pronouns developed to
         | minimize useless information? It seems far more plausible to me
         | that pervasive defaulting to male experiences caused many
         | (certainly not all) human languages to (1) develop gendered
         | pronouns and (2) default to the male pronoun.
        
           | aantthony wrote:
           | I'm not asserting why they were developed in the first place.
           | The comment is just about which one is used, supposing that
           | they already exist.
           | 
           | Choosing the more stereotypical option (even if it's only
           | 51%) is a more efficient encoding in an LLM model.
        
       | patapong wrote:
       | Very interesting. This exact phenomenon was discussed at an
       | introduction to feminism class I took 10 years ago. The professor
       | explained how society generally is tolerant and positive to women
       | engaging in traditionally male activities, such as playing
       | football and ice-hockey. On the other hand, men engaging in
       | traditionally "female" activities (e.g. ballet) are often frowned
       | upon. Further, they discussed how certain activities (such as
       | teaching) lost prestige and value in society when they shifted
       | from being male-dominated to being female-dominated.
       | 
       | Interesting to see similar biases appearing in LLMs. I think the
       | use of LLMs as a means to understand attitudes in society is
       | underexplored.
        
         | Unbefleckt wrote:
         | In my country you need a degree to be a teacher, in the old
         | days, having a degree wasn't part of a normal person's
         | lifecycle. It was prestigious. Now it's not much more
         | impressive than a drivers license.
        
       | Tabular-Iceberg wrote:
       | My first reaction to the misspelled sentence was to attribute it
       | to men skewing more towards autism than women, and therefore
       | being less tolerant of deviation from the rules in informal
       | settings, and I would expect this to be reflected in the training
       | data.
       | 
       | I think this is also a driving factor in the mansplaining
       | problem. An autistic or para-autistic male impulse to correct
       | things that don't actually matter to the woman in question.
        
       | kebsup wrote:
       | I've found this quite problematic in my language learning app.
       | 
       | For example, I have a sentence "Er uberreicht ihm ein Geschenk"
       | (He hands him a gift), then I ask GPT to create an image of that
       | situation and it generates a girl giving a gift to a man. :(
        
         | raxxorraxor wrote:
         | Not really unhappy with corporate vanity killing their own AI
         | products. They are in a position that they need to ensure their
         | AI never does anything slightly controversial which makes sure
         | their product will always be useless or at least severely
         | impaired compared to more accessible alternatives.
        
           | kebsup wrote:
           | The problem is the woke-nizer is implemented in a lazy way.
           | It will make sure that all the characters are very "diverse",
           | but ignore all other stereotypes. I'm collecting some of the
           | fails here
           | https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/177vnF9aepBjB7qnU-
           | It7.... It generated Hitler and "He is doing his work"
           | sentence generated a muslim man planning a military attack.
        
       | okokwhatever wrote:
       | The common sickness of our society. It's bizarre and it has to
       | stop. Who in their right mind can consider all this
       | trivialization of the fundamental concepts of a healthy society
       | something that must be built based on the agenda of actors whose
       | true intentions no one knows?
       | 
       | Yes, I will accept all the downvotes but I know for sure many
       | more will agree with me.
        
       | flumpcakes wrote:
       | I will preface this by saying I think people should do whatever
       | it is they want to do, physical limitations willing.
       | 
       | My (possibly contentious) question: Is this an OK thing to do?
       | 
       | Why are we allowing a vast minority of people to rewrite our
       | social norms? I went to the Barbie film as a man nearing middle-
       | aged and had the most young girls, mothers, teenage girls, and
       | women in general I've ever seen in an audience at the cinema.
       | 
       | Is that a bad thing? Why can't girls and women enjoy the
       | "stereotype" of Barbie? As long as we're giving them the option
       | to do whatever they want and they're not forced to enjoy Barbie.
       | 
       | I don't know why we have to pretend that gender bias doesn't
       | exist or try to "correct" for it. To me that is extremely
       | condescending to girls and women who chose/want to live in a
       | stereotypically feminine way.
        
         | locopati wrote:
         | There's a difference between women or GNC folks choosing for
         | themselves and cis men choosing for them. That's where gender
         | bias is poisonous.
        
         | roenxi wrote:
         | > Why are we allowing a vast minority of people to rewrite our
         | social norms?
         | 
         | Any group has a small cluster of leaders that has control
         | (often tiny, like generals in an army). They aren't necessarily
         | in line with the opinions of the group (I'd speculate generals
         | are probably more willing than the troops to send people to
         | their deaths).
         | 
         | It is expected that a small minority of people will write the
         | social norms. The only real question is which minority, and
         | there is a constant scuffle between different minorities to be
         | the ones with power. The ones presently with power think the
         | situation is fine, and the ones without power think that
         | changes is urgent!
        
       | Endurancee wrote:
       | Unsurprisingly it's showing what's going . It's usually
       | encouraged when female takes masculine roles but not same other
       | way around if male want to take more of a caregiver role, because
       | men are seen as sole bread earner. In society females can be much
       | more vocal about what they think and want but suffer little to no
       | consequence. Also there are huge efforts being made to move
       | females into male spaces they are actively encouraged, but there
       | are rarely anyone who is doing the same for young men or giving
       | them male related advice.
        
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