[HN Gopher] Ask HN: How to deal with memory/cognition slowing do...
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       Ask HN: How to deal with memory/cognition slowing down as an
       engineering leader?
        
       I work in engineering management. In recent years I've noticed my
       memory has become a bit worse, and I'm feeling generally less sharp
       cognitively than I once was. I don't think this is anything
       pathological; it's not that severe - I think it's largely due to a
       combination of ageing and a chronic lack of sleep during this time.
       Due to this, I'm finding myself in situations where my memory just
       fails me, in discussions where I really need to be on top of the
       details. And, while I've never been great at making decisions
       quickly, nowadays it's taking longer than ever.  Given some more
       time, I still have the knowledge and judgement to be make good
       decisions. But it is affecting how I do my job, and (I believe) how
       people perceive me in my role.  I wonder if anyone else here has
       experience with problems like this, and if so, whether anyone has
       any advice on things that could help. For example, I'm finding I
       need to take much more detailed notes. Tips along these lines would
       be welcome.
        
       Author : cogthrow
       Score  : 17 points
       Date   : 2024-06-23 19:31 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
       | DamonHD wrote:
       | You may be overthinking / part imagining it: self-calibration is
       | hard.
       | 
       | And in any case experience is as useful as raw ability in getting
       | things done.
       | 
       | I'm now ancient (late 50s) and recently had to step away from my
       | start-up as CTO since we sold the IPR, but instead I am doing a
       | part-time PhD (just had my first paper published) and may become
       | a fractional CTO for a friend's business. For the last I won't be
       | racing the tech staff on coding speed or code performance, but I
       | think that decades of delivering such stuff can help them do it
       | and get credit for it.
        
       | sirspacey wrote:
       | Sleep is the key. Repeated lack of sleep has an extreme impact on
       | cognition and memory retrieval.
       | 
       | A few things that have helped me:
       | 
       | #1 sleep in a completely dark room. A specialist MD shared this
       | insight with me and it changed my life. I also use an eye mask
       | and white noise machine.
       | 
       | #2 use a call recording tool on your internal meetings that can
       | summarize notes. Being able to go back "in time" to a call often
       | has enabled me to reload the entire interaction just watching a
       | few min of the call.
       | 
       | #3 rely on your team. As a leader you get the benefit of the
       | doubt that you are covering a lot, so I've made a ritual of just
       | asking people to restate our last interaction and where they are
       | at now with any updates. Again, simple thing but helps trigger my
       | memory
       | 
       | Good luck!
        
         | hnthrowaway0328 wrote:
         | I agree. Sleep dictates everything else. It's so difficult to
         | get a good night of sleep, though. There are too many impacting
         | factors. And wearing masks/earphones are usually uncomfortable.
        
       | beardyw wrote:
       | Delegate more.
       | 
       | People mostly like to take responsibility. For decisions, let
       | someone else offer up the potential solutions. Make someone else
       | your memory. Its a very important part of management because it
       | develops you and them. For technical people it is hard because we
       | see the detail as the part we like most. Let someone else enjoy
       | it.
       | 
       | PS. You can't delegate responsibility! That's abdication.
        
       | helph67 wrote:
       | "You are more likely to remember something if you read it out
       | loud, a study has found"
       | https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/12/171201090940.h...
       | 
       | "It turns out, any walk outdoors has the potential to unlock our
       | brains" https://lithub.com/on-the-link-between-great-thinking-
       | and-ob...
       | 
       | "Older adults who consumed cranberries frequently as part of
       | their diet saw improvements in episodic memory, neural function,
       | and brain perfusion" https://neurosciencenews.com/cranberries-
       | memory-dementia-206...
        
       | jujube3 wrote:
       | Probably implement more processes and paradigms. 2 scrum meetings
       | a day rather than one. Extend the meetings out to 1 hour each to
       | make sure the point really gets across.
        
       | technofiend wrote:
       | If you are male check your testosterone levels; lowered T can
       | allegedly cause a decline in cognition. Here's a link to an NIH
       | citation rather than any woo woo sources, but still up to you to
       | decide. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8591394/
        
       | hnthrowaway0328 wrote:
       | Did you have a child birth? This event was the biggest source of
       | my fading interest in programming and fading health.
       | 
       | Regardless, I'd recommend taking more notes and set up 15 mins
       | before and after work to go over them. I'd also recommend using a
       | paper notebook in supplement of an electronic one as you can
       | spontaneously put down some notes on paper.
        
       | lulznews wrote:
       | Time for a promotion!
        
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