[HN Gopher] My mother declared my bedroom a disaster area (1984)
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       My mother declared my bedroom a disaster area (1984)
        
       Author : sohkamyung
       Score  : 287 points
       Date   : 2024-04-18 12:43 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | freitzkriesler2 wrote:
       | I enjoy cheeky letters and even moreso, I really enjoy cheeky
       | responses to said letters.
       | 
       | The staffer who replied probably enjoyed writing it.
        
         | mwcremer wrote:
         | This is one of my favorites:
         | 
         | https://news.lettersofnote.com/p/i-am-unable-to-accept-your-...
        
           | kzrdude wrote:
           | that was lovely. Sure enough the letter writer has a
           | wikipedia article as Paul Devlin (filmmaker)
        
           | lostlogin wrote:
           | I like the Arkell versus Pressdram.
           | 
           | https://news.lettersofnote.com/p/arkell-v-pressdram
        
             | mauvehaus wrote:
             | That is excellent, and if you enjoyed it, you might also
             | enjoy the Cleveland Browns one:
             | 
             | https://news.lettersofnote.com/p/very-truly-yours
        
               | hodgesrm wrote:
               | The cc: to Art Modell [0] was a nice touch. He was a real
               | character. I imagine he thoroughly approved of the
               | response, assuming he didn't think of it himself.
               | 
               | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Art_Modell
        
           | fifilura wrote:
           | There is a reference to a "small grammatical error" in the
           | rejection from Harvard, but I did not quite understand what
           | he was referring to.
           | 
           | Was that obvious from his reply and I missed the point?
           | 
           | I am guessing it must be in the form of "Please accept our
           | letter of rejection" or similar?
        
         | demondemidi wrote:
         | Yeah I'm pretty sure Reagan didn't write this reply. Spending
         | decades on social media has made me not trust anything I read
         | that is "feel good".
        
           | Merad wrote:
           | Around 2017-2018 I remember reading a really interesting
           | article about how the Obama White House handled letters to
           | the president. The vast majority of letters (hundreds per
           | day, IIRC) were answered by staffers, but each day they would
           | select 10 letters that Obama would read himself. He didn't
           | personally write out a reply, but he'd make notes for the
           | staff about how he wanted to respond. No idea how Reagan's
           | team handled it, but it's at least possible that he was
           | personally involved in the reply.
        
             | mlyle wrote:
             | Reagan's administration worked in the same way. But Reagan
             | himself was a prolific correspondent, and personally
             | dictated a much greater share of those replies than most
             | 20th century presidents.
             | 
             | (Reagan also was known for reading articles and scribbling
             | notes to staff about a note to send "from him" about the
             | content-- quite a few journalists and essayists received
             | Reagan letters).
        
       | sdeyerle wrote:
       | I'm trying to figure out where 539 hurricanes is coming from?
       | That's over an order of magnitude more than there's ever been in
       | a single season...
        
         | knute wrote:
         | I'm thinking it must be tornadoes. There were 907 tornadoes
         | across all of 1984.
         | 
         | [0]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_tornado_events_by_year
        
         | re wrote:
         | Also curious that the letter was from May, before the start of
         | the 1984 hurricane season. Per Wikipedia, 1984 did go on to
         | have the highest activity since 1971, while 1983 the lowest
         | since 1930. But 1983 caused more damage with Hurricane Alicia
         | crossing Texas.
         | 
         | The Texas drought reference does appear to be accurate.
         | https://www.nytimes.com/1984/10/16/us/crushing-drought-in-te...
        
         | tasuki wrote:
         | Isn't all of the letter a joke?
        
           | Detrytus wrote:
           | It being a joke does not justify POTUS lying to US citizens
           | :P
        
             | IncRnd wrote:
             | It's good to keep things in perspective. After all, there
             | are 16,384 misunderstood comments each minute on this very
             | website.
        
               | aspenmayer wrote:
               | If your comment is sarcasm, does my comment affect your
               | calculations?
               | 
               | If my comment is sarcasm, does my comment affect your
               | calculations?
        
               | fancyfredbot wrote:
               | I misunderstood this comment initially, thinking that
               | there can't be so many comments on HN. But then I
               | realised each comment can be misunderstood more than
               | once. Seems plausible. Pleased to have done my part.
        
               | _carbyau_ wrote:
               | And that number immediately triggers my "Nice neat power
               | of 2 answer? Seems unlikely..." suspicions. :-)
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | maybe from a list of funding requests? :)
        
         | js2 wrote:
         | It's likely a joke, but it sure stands out. Could also be
         | transcription error. The letter itself contains a typo ("if you
         | will privide") which is fixed in the transcription. (It should
         | have been transcribed as is with "[sic]" added to note the
         | original typo.) Too bad there's not an image of the reply.
         | 
         | BTW, the letter was shared to reddit 7 years ago and a redditor
         | replied that it was his uncle Andy:
         | 
         | https://old.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/5a95b8/til_i...
         | 
         | A photo of Andy:
         | 
         | https://imgur.com/gallery/tsWkg
         | 
         | The story has been circulating the Internet at least since
         | 2004:
         | 
         | https://www.archives.gov/publications/prologue/2004/spring/c...
        
           | OJFord wrote:
           | > A photo of Andy
           | 
           | What kind of amazing self-parody is 'Irmo man wrote letter'!
           | That's brilliant
        
           | Thorrez wrote:
           | There's an image of the reply in that imgur gallery you
           | linked. The image says 539.
        
         | hedora wrote:
         | The letter looks like pretty typical republican playbook:
         | 
         | It implausibly overestimates the scope of problems, then claims
         | that the private sector / volunteer organizations have more
         | capabilities / funding than the federal government.
         | 
         | I'm hoping it was self-parody and not just a canned form letter
         | response.
        
       | kzrdude wrote:
       | Is the image composition fair use? The website is commercial. I
       | would argue the reagan borrow is fair while taking the whole room
       | picture is probably not.
        
         | bhaney wrote:
         | Do you seriously care?
        
           | kzrdude wrote:
           | Why not, it's a theoretical musing like much else on this
           | forum.
        
             | jader201 wrote:
             | FWIW, this mostly falls under one of the guidelines of
             | things not to do:
             | 
             |  _Please don 't complain about tangential annoyances--e.g.
             | article or website formats, name collisions, or back-button
             | breakage. They're too common to be interesting._
             | 
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
               | kzrdude wrote:
               | It's not a tangential thing, it was mentioned explicitly
               | as a point in the text by the author.
        
       | whyenot wrote:
       | The "best regards to your mother" at the end seems so innocent.
       | Nowadays, it would read like a reference to an SNL skit starring
       | Andy Samberg and Mark Whalberg.
        
         | kirubakaran wrote:
         | > Andy Samberg and Mark Whalberg
         | 
         | Andy Samberg _AS_ Mark Whalberg :)
        
           | anon35 wrote:
           | Wahlberg lampooned himself in a follow-up appearance with
           | Samberg: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xYcHxF_cO8o. So:
           | "and" is also correct.
        
         | EdwardDiego wrote:
         | I'm pretty sure Andy Samberg and Justin Timberlake did that at
         | the start of their song about threesomes they did with Lady
         | Gaga.
         | 
         | And if I recall correctly, one of their mothers was played by
         | Susan Sarandon?
        
         | pvg wrote:
         | "Word to your mother" was a thing around the time this was
         | written and the history of potentially ambiguous maternal
         | reference is probably about as long as that of language itself.
        
         | jh00ker wrote:
         | "Say hi to your mom for me." -- Biff Tannen, Back to the Future
        
       | OJFord wrote:
       | Amazing, hard not to think (if you've seen it) of the 'I declare
       | bankruptcy' scene (surely you've seen a gif if not the show?) of
       | the US remake of _The Office_.
        
       | tombert wrote:
       | This doesn't appear to be a thing you can easily do anymore now
       | that social media has sort of supplanted it, but I used to email
       | members of bands that I really liked when I was between the ages
       | of ~12-16, so this would have been around ~~2003-2007 or so.
       | 
       | The band members wrote back with a surprising frequency, and were
       | extremely polite and grateful for fanmail. I remember that I had
       | a fairly in-depth email session with Justin Pierre, the lead
       | singer for Motion City Soundtrack, where I asked him about how he
       | comes up with songs and what touring was like.
       | 
       | Now, obviously, there's reasons that kids should _absolutely not
       | ever do this_ , because there's a lot of really crappy humans who
       | might try and exploit the kids or do otherwise horrible things,
       | but I was lucky enough to where that never happened to me, and
       | everyone who wrote back to me was very professional and seemed
       | flattered that anyone liked their music enough to write a fan
       | email. I think email was still a new enough thing to where most
       | people weren't writing fan emails.
       | 
       | It's something I reminisce about occasionally, and while I don't
       | really agree with any of Reagan's policies, I will acknowledge
       | that him writing back to this kid was genuinely a kind of cool
       | thing to do.
       | 
       | ETA:
       | 
       | Before anyone goes judging them, I should point out that my
       | parents did not know I was doing that, and would likely have told
       | me to stop if they did, precisely because they would have been
       | afraid of me being coerced into something horrible as a minor. I
       | don't think they realized at the time that it was even possible
       | to directly contact band members via email.
        
         | camillomiller wrote:
         | You might like Nick Cave's newsletter, the Red Hand Files
        
         | bigstrat2003 wrote:
         | I don't think it's really that bad for kids to do this, nor for
         | parents to let their kids do this. Obviously parents should
         | supervise somewhat to make sure that the kids aren't being
         | manipulated by some predator, but otherwise I think it's fine.
         | The solution to "there are bad people in the world" isn't to
         | shut out the world, it's to watch out for bad people.
        
           | tombert wrote:
           | Yeah, fair; I guess what I was getting at is that kids
           | shouldn't do stuff like that unsupervised, especially really
           | young kids. If it's just politely interacting with a singer,
           | that's fine, but if the conversation gets too bad that can
           | shut it down.
        
             | ycombobreaker wrote:
             | If the kid CC's their parent it's usually obvious that the
             | conversation is supervised. A thoughtful and respectful
             | individual will Reply All.
        
               | tombert wrote:
               | Completely agree, I think that's a very reasonable
               | precaution that doesn't really "restrict" the kid, but
               | hedges a bit against the famous person doing anything
               | inappropriate. I also feel like nearly any famous person
               | who isn't a creep would understand as well, within some
               | degree of reason.
        
         | s1artibartfast wrote:
         | Seems OK to me and I would be fine with my kids doing the same.
         | Risk for email is very low, especially when the child seeks out
         | an adult, opposed to the other way around.
         | 
         | Ironically, my elderly father does the same thing today! He
         | cold emails ivy league professors and writers from the WSJ, and
         | I'm always surprised on how engaged they get with
         | corresponding. They send preprints, lab data, and all kinds of
         | followup.
        
           | mysterydip wrote:
           | Similarly I've done research on some of the more obscure
           | older games, and cold emailing developers when I find contact
           | info has resulted in a suprising number of successful
           | correspondences.
        
           | mturmon wrote:
           | In the 90's I used to listen to Ian Masters' radio show
           | _Background Briefing_ which was a very pointy-headed, left-
           | leaning examination of various issues.
           | 
           | At the time it was just a show run by a very competent host
           | out of a public radio station in LA (KPFK - not an NPR
           | affiliate). I think it has expanded since then.
           | 
           | Several times Ian said he was surprised to usually get a
           | "yes" when he asked some relatively high-profile journalist,
           | think-tanker, or university professor to be interviewed on
           | his show. (Typical interview was 15-20 minutes of airtime -
           | not just a sound bite.)
           | 
           | Basically, these folks seem to be surprisingly willing to
           | chat when cold-called by an interested person.
        
             | tombert wrote:
             | In 2015, I found the phone number to radio host Jesse Lee
             | Peterson's office, and around the same time had seen a clip
             | of him saying that the "biggest mistake America ever made
             | was allowing women to vote". I called the number to leave a
             | message that I thought he was an "ignorant, sexist moron".
             | [1]
             | 
             | The intern that answered the phone said "do you want to
             | tell him yourself?", to which I quickly said "yes".
             | 
             | Jesse answered the phone, and I said "hey, Jesse Lee
             | Peterson, I think you're an ignorant moron".
             | 
             | He replied back with "do you want to say this on the show
             | tomorrow?" to which I said "absolutely". A producer reached
             | out to me via email, and the next day I spoke to him on the
             | radio for about 20 minutes. I doubt I convinced him or any
             | of his listeners of anything, but at least I got to say my
             | piece, for a lot longer than I thought I was going to.
             | 
             | While I still think he's an ignorant and sexist moron whose
             | opinions have only gotten more radical and scary, I guess
             | I'll give him a little credit for being a bit open to
             | alternate arguments.
             | 
             | [1] Even if you disagree, don't try and convince me
             | otherwise here, because you will not convince me otherwise
             | in this case. If you don't know who he is, I advise that
             | you don't Google him if you don't want to get depressed.
        
           | suoduandao3 wrote:
           | Yeah, I recently got a response to a cold email to Dr. Karl
           | Friston. Definitely a fanboy moment!
           | 
           | Regarding the risk of a minor doing this kind of outreach,
           | 90% of all child abuse happens with someone known to the
           | child and/or their guardian, and I doubt many of the
           | remaining 10% are just waiting around for a child to contact
           | them first. I'd say reaching out to people you admire is a
           | useful enough skill that it's definitely worth honing as soon
           | as there's an interest, though of course involving one's
           | parents in the process is a good idea.
        
           | Spooky23 wrote:
           | Professionally it really works well as well. If you have a
           | good rap and interesting questions you can connect with
           | interesting people.
           | 
           | Think about it, most email is a pit of despair. Interesting
           | human contact is rare.
           | 
           | Years ago I was working with a client on a really obscure bug
           | with a storage system. I emailed a dude from the manufacturer
           | who posted on an listserv about some similar-ish scenarios.
           | 
           | We emailed a few times and he ended up calling me. Turned out
           | he was on the east coast for a conference an hour away and we
           | ended up meeting up at the customer site unofficially, and he
           | realized that whatever we were doing was outside of their
           | test coverage in error. We both learned a lot and stayed in
           | touch for a few years.
        
         | EdwardDiego wrote:
         | After reading a sci-fi novel I really enjoyed, I emailed the
         | author to let him know how much I appreciated his imagination,
         | and received a rather lovely reply.
         | 
         | Absolutely didn't expect it, but it was really nice to get.
         | 
         | (Adrian Tchaikovsky, and his Children of Time series).
        
           | dekhn wrote:
           | I was wondering if he was a real, individual human being
           | because that author writes far more text in a short period of
           | time than anybody I've ever seen.
           | 
           | I really liked Cage of Souls, it was like a Jack Vance
           | revival. And it's always fun to reach Tchaikovsky and
           | Alastair Reynolds books back to back.
        
             | autoexec wrote:
             | > I was wondering if he was a real, individual human being
             | because that author writes far more text in a short period
             | of time than anybody I've ever seen.
             | 
             | I've wondered the same thing about Stephen King. I figured
             | it'd be easy enough for him to put out outlines and then
             | make edits after others he trusted to write in his style
             | wrote most of the words.
        
             | vidarh wrote:
             | Look up Georges Simenon (Maigret novels). Some people just
             | write fast. Simenon used to write his novels in a week, and
             | that isn't particularly unusual.
             | 
             | It certainly varies with genre, and the short writing
             | periods tend to be more common in genres where people write
             | series and the genre has very specific expectations (e.g.
             | romance, crime mysteries) and where huge levels of
             | originality isn't needed. NOT suggesting that is the case
             | for Tchaikovsky.
             | 
             | I've written two novels, and when I first get myself to sit
             | down and write (that's the hard part), I fairly
             | consistently write 2k words an hour. A 200 page novel is in
             | the 60k-65k word range, so 30-33 hours of writing.
             | 
             | If I could get myself to sit down and just write more
             | consistently, I could churn out a lot too (of course
             | whether it'd be good enough and/or commercial enough is
             | another matter - most authors sell peanuts).
             | 
             | That ability to make themselves sit down and write with
             | some degree of consistency is the most impressive part to
             | me with authors who produce a lot, but that probably
             | reflects what I personally find hardest (my second novel
             | took three weeks from synopsis to first draft, and another
             | four of editing; I'm now two years and 40k words into my
             | third novel despite having planned the plot out in detail)
        
             | starlight_nomad wrote:
             | I also really liked Cage of Souls. It seems like most of
             | the people I know who have read any Tchakovsky have just
             | read the Children of Time, and not any of his other
             | prolific work.
        
         | pea wrote:
         | Oh man I totally did this. I got really nice emails back from
         | Jello Biafra and Sole from Anticon as an angsty teenager.
        
         | p3rls wrote:
         | I didn't think even Justin Pierre would know how Justin Pierre
         | wrote music
        
           | tombert wrote:
           | These are like 19 year old memories, so they're a bit hazy
           | and I cannot seem to find the emails, but he mostly said he
           | took inspiration from history with drug addiction, and that
           | he usually starts with the melody.
        
         | cm2012 wrote:
         | My wife as a teenager wrote a letter to a romance novel author,
         | sincerely asking about the fates of some characters. I thought
         | the author was a legend, she responded she just writes the
         | books for money and doesnt think about it at all afterwards.
         | Lol
        
           | pnw wrote:
           | Sounds like Gary Oldman giving an interview about any
           | character he has played in a movie!
        
         | swatcoder wrote:
         | > there's reasons that kids should absolutely not ever do this,
         | because there's a lot of really crappy humans who might try and
         | exploit the kids or do otherwise horrible things
         | 
         | I know you're just making a CYA disclaimer, but that's not an
         | effective approach to creating future adults. It just produces
         | old children.
         | 
         | Good on you for doing this and hopefully your parents would
         | have assisted you in staying safe (and polite) rather than
         | stopping you.
        
         | steve_adams_86 wrote:
         | Haha, I used to harass bands I loved as well. Like you, I got
         | mostly positive and polite responses. I suppose my emails were
         | constructive and kind so they appreciated it and reciprocated
         | to some degree.
         | 
         | I learnt a fair bit about music from some of these exchanges.
         | It was good fun. A relic of the old internet says I guess.
         | These days you'd just look for content on YouTube or something
         | instead. Still awesome in its own right, but different.
        
         | Zathman wrote:
         | I continue to reach out to at least one independent band or
         | artist each year, even now in my mid-30s. Around the end of
         | each year, I review my top artists and songs to see which truly
         | resonated with me as part of my life's soundtrack. Whether
         | through email, SoundCloud, Facebook, LinkedIn, or VK, I take
         | the time to express my appreciation for their work--sharing
         | which songs touched me and why. Amazingly, nearly every artist
         | responds. One memorable instance was when an artist, who hadn't
         | produced music in over a decade and was going through a tough
         | divorce, told me a year later that my message had inspired him
         | to return to music and embrace life anew. Your engagement with
         | musicians can have a profound impact, perhaps even inspiring
         | them to rediscover their passion. Keep reaching out and sharing
         | your love for their art--it truly makes a difference, no matter
         | your age!
        
           | drones wrote:
           | Whenever I go out to see live music, I always make it a point
           | to let the performing artists know they had a great set, even
           | if the music itself isn't for me. In a world consumed by
           | negative engagement, it's a small yet disproportionately
           | effective way to keep the human spirit alive.
        
         | randomdata wrote:
         | _> there 's reasons that kids should absolutely not ever do
         | this_
         | 
         | In the same way kids should never go outside on a sunny day
         | because there is an exceptionally small chance that they could
         | be struck by lighting? Back in my day writing letters like this
         | was part of the elementary school curriculum.
        
         | GJim wrote:
         | > Now, obviously, there's reasons that kids should absolutely
         | not ever do this,
         | 
         | And what are they?
         | 
         | FYI: Teaching children to live in fear (as you yourself clearly
         | are) and to be afraid of strangers is wrong. You should instead
         | be teaching them how to tell a good stranger from a bad one.
        
           | latexr wrote:
           | > And what are they?
           | 
           | They're in the rest of that sentence that you abruptly cut
           | off while quoting, for some reason. You're free to disagree,
           | but leaving them out then acting like they aren't there
           | doesn't feel like arguing in good faith.
           | 
           | > FYI: Teaching children to live in fear (as you yourself
           | clearly are)
           | 
           | Furthermore, this is incredibly judgemental to lob at a
           | (presumed) stranger. You shouldn't assume someone's life from
           | a snippet on a comment on a random forum.
           | 
           | You whole argument could have been distilled without attacks
           | to:
           | 
           | > Teaching children to live in fear and to be afraid of
           | strangers is wrong. You should instead be teaching them how
           | to tell a good stranger from a bad one.
        
             | Gormo wrote:
             | It's reasonable to presume that a long-term implication of
             | inculcating a "never talk to strangers" mentality into
             | young children is the gradual decline of social trust,
             | potentially leading to the collapse of civil society
             | generally.
             | 
             | I think a t least some of the intense polarization,
             | "culture war" acrimony, paranoia, and institutional
             | dysfunction we're seeing today is attributable to the
             | coming of age of people who were raised this way.
        
               | tombert wrote:
               | I really think this is a pretty large extrapolation from
               | me saying "don't let your kids talk to random celebrities
               | on the internet", claiming that what I suggested will
               | lead to some kind of moral decay.
               | 
               | I agree that I probably should have clarified (and have
               | in a few sister threads, you can find it if curious), but
               | I don't actually think it's 100% analogous to say that
               | being cautious when talking to famous people is the same
               | as "don't talk to strangers". There's a pretty huge power
               | differential between a kid and someone that they really
               | admire vs some random stranger, and there is probably at
               | least some degree of selection bias of people who pursue
               | positions of power and have the desire to abuse it. I
               | don't have kids, but if I did I probably wouldn't let
               | them hang around a lot of people who actively pursue
               | power completely unsupervised, e.g. basically any
               | politician, religious leaders, etc.
               | 
               | You can call it paranoia if you want, but I think it's
               | just being aware of selection bias; I probably wouldn't
               | let a kid into an Incel Support Group for the same
               | reason, because there's going to be selection biases
               | towards justifying horrible stuff, even if a vast
               | majority of incels are just dorky dudes who probably
               | wouldn't do anything inappropriate to a child.
               | 
               | Most famous people are just average humans, and are
               | perfectly professional and courteous, and I feel like I
               | did at least kind of mention that in my original post
               | when I said that nothing bad happened to me, but I don't
               | think that implies you just throw caution to the wind and
               | just let kids reach out to every stranger they want. I
               | also don't think it's leading to a moral decay to think
               | that parents should supervise very young kids on the
               | internet.
        
           | drewdevault wrote:
           | Agreed. This is ridiculous.
        
           | tombert wrote:
           | > Teaching children to live in fear (as you yourself clearly
           | are)
           | 
           | Well I don't (and can no longer) have kids so there's not
           | much risk of me teaching children anything other than
           | computer science at a school, and considering that _I_ was
           | the one sending the emails before, I don 't think that I'm
           | "living in fear".
           | 
           | I mostly agree though, I shouldn't fear-monger, most people
           | don't suck. I guess I was just saying that because I've seen
           | enough true-crime and creepy Hollywood casting couch and
           | child exploitation that I just felt the need to put a bit of
           | a disclaimer. Obviously those are generally outliers (that's
           | why they're noteworthy enough to make into a documentary or
           | something), but I do think it's probably a good idea to
           | supervise/monitor kids' outgoing emails, especially very
           | young kids.
           | 
           | I don't think it's "teaching them to live in fear" to give
           | some very basic safety precautions, but I acknowledge that I
           | didn't make that clear in the original post.
        
         | michaelcampbell wrote:
         | Before even then, when Cliff Burton (Metallica bassist) died in
         | an auto accident, I wrote some physical mails to his parents
         | expressing my sympathy. I forget how I got their address, but
         | regardless they wrote back - by hand! and we had a few back and
         | forth physical mails. Nice folks, and totally genuine.
        
         | lostemptations5 wrote:
         | People should never, ever write letters? You're kidding me.
         | What is going to happen over the mail?
         | 
         | When I was a kid I wrote letters all the time to anyone I met
         | and kept up some good correspondences. I felt it really
         | enhanced me as a character and grew my literary skills.
         | 
         | Anyways the point -- I'm sure -- is moot as no one does that
         | anymore, I'll bet.
        
       | shuntress wrote:
       | It's a cute interaction for sure but it's frustrating to see this
       | sort of "I'm doing my best to make our government useless"
       | attitude from the president.
       | 
       | A better response would have been "Sorry but your mother does not
       | actually have the authority to declare federal disasters"
        
         | DennisP wrote:
         | I'm aware that Reagan maybe had that attitude in general but I
         | don't see it in this particular letter. He mentioned lack of
         | available funds due to an excess of disasters, and promotes
         | volunteerism, which I'd say is a pretty important component of
         | a well-functioning society regardless of how well your
         | government is performing.
         | 
         | Your "better" response isn't funny and violates the basic rule
         | of improv comedy, which is that you go with what the other
         | person gives you, instead of contradicting it. As an actor,
         | Reagan was certainly familiar with this.
        
           | totetsu wrote:
           | Richest country on earth and still there not enough money to
           | clean up this child's bedroom.
        
           | vidarh wrote:
           | I'm pretty much the opposite side of the political spectrum
           | to Reagan - as a European left winger he was pretty much the
           | bogeyman for us in the 80s - and I still found it funny.
           | 
           | It's pretty much what people would expect Reagan to write if
           | it had been a serious request warranting a reply. What isn't
           | expected, and makes it funny, is the humour of actually
           | replying and pretending to take the letter seriously.
           | 
           | I think it'd lose its humour if it was markedly out of
           | character and didn't sound like a serious reply.
        
         | UberFly wrote:
         | This is a strange take on a very light-hearted interaction. Non
         | of it was all that serious.
        
           | wordsinaline wrote:
           | The left has let go of humor. Every day for them is a deadly
           | serious struggle against the forces of far right wing
           | nationalist theocratic fascism. Reagan triggers. Humor goes
           | out the window.
        
       | paganel wrote:
       | I wouldn't have expected pro-US government propaganda coming from
       | lettersofnote.com, but it is what is, this New Cold War demands
       | sacrifices.
        
       | pantulis wrote:
       | It would have been so cool if the mother had subsequently written
       | a letter to Reagan _requesting_ the funds!
        
       | blueflow wrote:
       | What tf did Reagan do that every other comment has a "Reagan bad"
       | section?
        
         | anewhnaccount2 wrote:
         | Okay, I'll bite, although I'm afraid it's unlikely this will
         | lead to much substantive discussion.
         | 
         | * "Trickle Down Economics": Large tax cuts for the wealthy
         | while simultaneously dismantling social programs which benefit
         | everyone else
         | 
         | * Arming authoritarian and far right militia in South America
         | 
         | * Environmental deregulation
         | 
         | * Giving a voice to the religious right and their anti-
         | gay/anti-woman agenda
        
           | blagie wrote:
           | The basic problem is that everyone makes mistakes. I feel bad
           | if people do things maliciously or in bad faith. None of
           | those, as bullets, feel that way. He did a lot of big things,
           | some of which will invariably be big mistakes.
           | 
           | Expanded from bullets (e.g. Iran-Contra) there was badness,
           | but what would be helpful would be to:
           | 
           | 1) Expand those out a little bit, to where we can see the
           | bad.
           | 
           | 2) Compare to other presidents for level of bad.
           | 
           | On the whole, I have complex feelings here. The quality of
           | recent presidents and presidential candidates has been very,
           | very low. I think I'd take Reagan over Hillary Clinton,
           | Trump, or Biden. On the other hand, I think I'd take Obama,
           | Romney, and probably McCain over Reagan.
        
             | hobs wrote:
             | The right's obsession with trickle down economics alone and
             | the no new tax pledge is enough to think Reagan was a bad
             | president.
             | 
             | We see an entire portion government apparatus effectively
             | obsessed with killing the government, but only
             | performatively. This is what I see as a Reagan special.
        
               | blagie wrote:
               | I agree about the harm that caused by that movement, but
               | as much as Reagan was part of it, I have a hard time
               | attributing the whole movement to him.
               | 
               | FWIW, as much as a president has a soapbox to advocate
               | from, budget and tax policy are set by congress.
        
           | r00fus wrote:
           | Reagan's administration did all that, and not to mention they
           | side-channelled with Iran to not release the hostages so
           | Carter couldn't have the win. Just pure machiavellian thought
           | process.
           | 
           | Also: regulating ketchup as a "vegetable serving" (so school
           | lunches didn't need to have fresh veggies).
           | 
           | Just thinking outside the box on how to completely F up
           | government to serve their agenda.
        
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