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       Identical twins both grew up with autism, but took different paths
        
       Author : chapulin
       Score  : 251 points
       Date   : 2024-04-13 05:00 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | hiciu wrote:
       | > identical twins at opposite ends of the autism spectrum.
       | 
       | I understand this is just a figure of speech, but this wording
       | suggests that there are "two ends" of the spectrum and (as I
       | understand it) autistic communities are trying to fight that
       | myth.
        
         | kthartic wrote:
         | As a laymen, isn't the spectrum just 'less autistic tendencies'
         | and 'more autistic tendencies'? Is this a myth, or does the
         | spectrum refer to something else? I was always under the
         | impression that some people could be more autistic than others.
        
           | __s wrote:
           | There are multiple dimensions
           | 
           | https://getgoally.com/blog/autism-spectrum-wheel
           | 
           | Along with many comorbidities (adhd, ocd, depression, etc)
           | which are more likely but not requisite
           | 
           | This leads to the saying "if you've met one person with
           | autism, you've met one person with autism"
        
             | posix_compliant wrote:
             | Then the spectrum would refer to the magnitude of any
             | vector in multidimensional "autism space".
        
               | __s wrote:
               | Sure, but saying two people are the same magnitude is
               | very different from saying they have the same level of
               | touch sensitivity
               | 
               | Two complex numbers can have the same magnitude & be very
               | far apart. Assuming we stick to the positive/positive
               | quadrant it's not so bad. This metaphor _(which, the
               | spectrum itself is a metaphor, making this a metaphor of
               | a metaphor)_ is to a 2d space tho, complex numbers are
               | much more comparable based on magnitude as a result
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > Two complex numbers can have the same magnitude & be
               | very far apart.
               | 
               | Only if their magnitude is large; the maximum possible
               | distance between two complex numbers of equal magnitude
               | is double that magnitude.
               | 
               | And this limit is independent of the number of dimensions
               | in the space you're working in; no two equal-magnitude
               | vectors are ever farther apart than opposite vectors are.
               | 
               | If you stick to the first quadrant / octant / whatever
               | n-dimensional division of space where all coordinates are
               | positive... I don't think the number of dimensions makes
               | any difference there either? Any two vectors define a
               | plane (or a line, or, if they're both zero, a point), so
               | two vectors in a 500-dimensional space can't be farther
               | apart from each other than is possible for two vectors in
               | a 2-dimensional space. Those 500-dimensional vectors are
               | already embedded in a 2-dimensional space.
        
               | Tarq0n wrote:
               | The question is whether each dimension is equally
               | clinically significant, or equally impactful to quality
               | of life. Talking about magnitude is definitely taking the
               | analogy too far, as temping as it is.
        
               | kenjackson wrote:
               | I think the point is that the magnitude being the same
               | doesn't necessarily mean their distance is zero. I think
               | the rest isn't relevant.
        
               | SiempreViernes wrote:
               | "very far" is of course relative: if we have tree
               | vectors, two of length R and one of length 0.99*R, it's
               | not outlandish to call the distance 2R between the two
               | vectors of equal magnitude "very large" compared to the
               | distance 0.01R between two vectors of dissimilar
               | magnitude.
               | 
               | Your last comment is completely incorrect, for a point at
               | (1,1,1,....) each extra dimension adds a constant 1 to
               | the euclidean distance, so that in 500 dimensions a point
               | at (1,1,1,....) is around 22.4 units away from the
               | origin, while in two dimensions it is only 1.4 units away
               | from the origin.
        
               | __s wrote:
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwAD6dRSVyI 3Blue1Brown
               | on visualizing higher dimensions explains it well
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > Your last comment is completely incorrect
               | 
               | How so? Your followup makes no sense.
               | 
               | > for a point at (1,1,1,....) each extra dimension adds a
               | constant 1 to the euclidean distance, so that in 500
               | dimensions a point at (1,1,1,....) is around 22.4 units
               | away from the origin, while in two dimensions it is only
               | 1.4 units away from the origin.
               | 
               | You're comparing vectors of different magnitudes. You
               | could equally object that (200, 0) is much farther away
               | from the origin than (2, 0) is. That's true, but so what?
               | You're still in a two-dimensional space.
               | 
               | Are you under the impression that the "magnitude" of a
               | vector and its "distance from the origin" are separate
               | concepts? They aren't.
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | Consider simple two-dimensional space. A point at (1,0)
               | is 1 unit away from the origin, as is a point at (0,1).
               | But a point at (1,1) is approximately 1.4 away from the
               | origin, i.e. sqrt(1^2 + 1^2). See Pythagorean theorem.
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | Yes, what's your point? Vectors with larger magnitudes
               | have larger magnitudes than vectors with smaller
               | magnitudes do?
               | 
               | If you're going to defend the idea that something I said
               | was incorrect, maybe you should have some idea of what it
               | was?
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | You keep referring to the magnitude of the vector itself
               | rather than the magnitude of its components.
               | 
               | > Vectors with larger magnitudes have larger magnitudes
               | than vectors with smaller magnitudes do?
               | 
               | Vectors with more dimensions have larger magnitudes than
               | vectors with fewer components, for the same average
               | magnitude of the components. The distance between the
               | origin and (1,1) is less than the distance between the
               | origin and (1,1,1) even though the components in both
               | cases all have magnitude 1.
        
               | SiempreViernes wrote:
               | I think their point boils down to the fact that you can
               | _require_ that all vectors have the same magnitude,
               | irrespective of the dimensionality of the space, which is
               | of course true.
               | 
               | The next step is them doing a black knight and pretending
               | they didn't put in the requirement by hand.
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | Here's what you said:
               | 
               | > Your last comment is completely incorrect, [random
               | gibberish]
               | 
               | Here's what you were referring to:
               | 
               | >> If you stick to the first quadrant / octant / whatever
               | n-dimensional division of space where all coordinates are
               | positive... I don't think the number of dimensions makes
               | any difference there either? Any two vectors define a
               | plane (or a line, or, if they're both zero, a point), so
               | two vectors in a 500-dimensional space can't be farther
               | apart from each other than is possible for two vectors in
               | a 2-dimensional space. Those 500-dimensional vectors are
               | already embedded in a 2-dimensional space.
               | 
               | All of those statements are, obviously, true. What did
               | you think was incorrect?
        
               | thaumasiotes wrote:
               | > Vectors with more dimensions have larger magnitudes
               | than vectors with fewer components, for the same average
               | magnitude of the components.
               | 
               | Is this related to something that's been said so far?
               | 
               | >> [sidethread] The next step is them doing a black
               | knight and pretending they didn't put in the requirement
               | by hand.
               | 
               | Obviously, I didn't. It was already there before I made
               | my first comment. Look up:
               | 
               | >>> Two complex numbers can have the same magnitude & be
               | very far apart.
               | 
               | The only thing we've ever been discussing is what can
               | happen between vectors of the same magnitude. But if you
               | want to discuss what can happen between vectors of
               | different magnitudes... everything I said is still true!
               | It's easy to construct low-dimensional vectors with high
               | magnitudes, and in fact the construction that I _already
               | gave_ , of interpreting large vectors within a space
               | defined partially by themselves, will do the job.
        
               | AnthonyMouse wrote:
               | > Is this related to something that's been said so far?
               | 
               | Are you considering what all of this is supposed to be an
               | analogy for?
               | 
               | Suppose autism has different components, something like
               | this:
               | 
               | https://getgoally.com/blog/autism-spectrum-wheel/
               | 
               | You rate someone on each factor using the same scale,
               | e.g. a real number from 0 to 1, or a scale of 1 to 10.
               | The scale is arbitrary but consistent.
               | 
               | Then someone whose "average" rating is 0.5 on a scale of
               | 0 to 1 can be farther away from someone else whose
               | "average" rating is 0.5 when there are more factors. On a
               | linear scale two people both at 0.5 have distance zero.
               | On a two dimensional scale, you could have one at (0, 1)
               | and one at (1, 0) and then each of their averages is
               | still 0.5 but their distance is ~1.4.
               | 
               | That's what we're talking about.
        
               | pfannkuchen wrote:
               | That name would make for a really interesting bar.
        
               | bitwize wrote:
               | Kinda like how color spectra have multiple dimensions as
               | well: RGB, HSV, YCbCr, etc.
        
               | card_zero wrote:
               | Well color spaces, not spectra, _technically._ Brown isn
               | 't in the spectrum.
        
             | AlexandrB wrote:
             | > "if you've met one person with autism, you've met one
             | person with autism"
             | 
             | Isn't this true for just about any condition? It's not like
             | people with ADHD or depression all behave exactly the same.
             | I understand the urge to avoid categorizing people too
             | broadly, but at the same time making the "taxonomy" of a
             | condition hyperspecific is contradictory to having the
             | label in the first place.
             | 
             | If saying "I have autism" has no descriptive power because
             | this could mean a million different things, it seems like
             | the term needs to be retired or narrowed to a specific set
             | of behaviors/challenges.
        
               | crisply5706 wrote:
               | Keep in mind that the current state of our knowledge of
               | autism and other neurological conditions is still
               | extremely new. Just 30 years ago, you would have been
               | told that only young white boys exhibit autism.
               | 
               | There is debate within the autism community about
               | ditching the catch-all term "autism", but I don't expect
               | it to go anywhere. Broad labels like that are useful. I
               | can tell a random person that I'm autistic and they
               | generally understand that my "abnormal" behavior is
               | innocuous. It's less useful to give a stranger a 30
               | minute lecture on my individual needs and challenges.
               | 
               | Read up on the controversy around asperger's and the
               | "high/low functioning" dichotomy. These were standard
               | measures for a long time and have only been dropped in
               | the last ten years or so.
        
               | ZeroGravitas wrote:
               | I've heard it used exactly that way for ADHD.
               | 
               | But more widely, there's a bunch of conditions of varying
               | severity that might be caused by being in a car crash.
               | That doesn't make "I was in a car crash" a bad answer to
               | "what happened to your leg/eye/speech", it's just a fact.
        
           | hiciu wrote:
           | That's exactly the issue, it is not as simple as "less" or
           | "more" "autistic". I don't think I'll be able to explain it
           | properly with my own words using english, sorry.
           | 
           | I'll just quote nih.gov:
           | 
           | > Autism is known as a "spectrum" disorder because there is
           | wide variation in the type and severity of symptoms people
           | experience.
           | 
           | and wikipedia:
           | 
           | > Autism is clinically regarded as a spectrum disorder,
           | meaning that it can manifest very differently in each person.
           | For example, some are nonspeaking, while others have
           | proficient spoken language. Because of this, there is wide
           | variation in the support needs of people across the autism
           | spectrum.
           | 
           | and maybe take a look at this list:
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spectrum_disorder#Types_of_spe.
           | ..
        
             | kthartic wrote:
             | I see, wikipedia's definition is quite informative here.
             | Thanks
        
         | astura wrote:
         | I mean... that's literally the definition of "spectrum"
         | 
         | From a few random dictionaries:
         | 
         | >2. used to classify something, or suggest that it can be
         | classified, in terms of its position on a scale between two
         | extreme or opposite points.
         | 
         | >a range of different positions, opinions, etc. between two
         | extreme points
         | 
         | ?????
        
           | burkaman wrote:
           | That is what spectrum means, and some autistic people say the
           | word is not applicable to the concept of autism.
        
           | twobitshifter wrote:
           | Yes, that's true from the dictionary and the article is one
           | place where its use makes sense. However, usually people say
           | "on the spectrum" to mean someone is a high functioning
           | autistic. That is something that isn't a helpful definition.
        
             | quickslowdown wrote:
             | This has always driven me nuts. We're ALL "on the
             | spectrum," if you just stop and think for a moment before
             | saying it. That's what a spectrum is.
        
           | crisply5706 wrote:
           | https://getgoally.com/blog/autism-spectrum-wheel
           | 
           | The naive assumption is the spectrum is a binary more/less
           | autistic. It very much is not.
        
           | plorg wrote:
           | If you tried to quantify different people's experience of
           | autism you could maybe compare people by the amplitude of
           | their symptoms (say a maximum or average), but you'd get a
           | much better idea of the range of experiences with something
           | like a Fourier transform. Imagine different symptoms are
           | different wavelengths of light. Different people experience
           | certain elements of the constellation of symptoms that we can
           | "autism" to different degrees. And the goal is not really to
           | get anyone to be "less autistic", but to help them live in
           | society (or to build a society that allows them to better
           | join in).
        
           | atombender wrote:
           | The medical use of the word "spectrum" doesn't always
           | describe a continuum, but classification criteria along
           | multiple dimensions. Autism is no longer considered a
           | "position on a scale".
        
         | quickslowdown wrote:
         | Yeah, I would read this and assume the 2 ends of the spectrum
         | are "autistic and not-autistic," considering what the word
         | "spectrum" means.
        
           | ordu wrote:
           | "autistic and not-autistic" is not a spectrum, it can be
           | described as a scalar value. A spectrum appears when you have
           | many values (maybe continuum) with different values.
           | Frequency spectrum is a good example: it shows you a lot of
           | frequencies that intermixed in a signal.
        
         | Anotheroneagain wrote:
         | Please stop spreading such lies, if anything, they don't like
         | being grouped together with obviously disabled people.
        
       | imtringued wrote:
       | Have they actually sequenced their genes and compared them? If
       | there is a genetic explanation, then any mutations or replication
       | errors during pregnancy would end up screaming into your face
       | once you do the comparison.
        
         | ipnon wrote:
         | They divided from the same oocyte, they have identical genomes.
        
           | toasterlovin wrote:
           | Not strictly true. Mutations happen and when they happen
           | early, they can affect a large percentage of the cells in the
           | body.
        
             | ProllyInfamous wrote:
             | I agree, as an identical twin (partially _inversus situ_ )
             | -- some examples: opposite hand-dominance; our optical Rx
             | was once _exactly opposite_ ; intro/extro -version;
             | engineer/stoner; life outlook/perspective.
             | 
             | We have taken completely different life pathways, and yet
             | still enjoy each others' company. Knowing that I will
             | precede as "Algernon" from "Flowers for..." makes me
             | immensely sad for "Charlie" [Twin].
        
       | drooby wrote:
       | This seems to bolster the theory that autism is modulated by the
       | gut-brain axis. Being given antibiotics at such an early age will
       | probably severely dysregulation gut microbiota. And GABA actually
       | does cross the BBB but in small amounts. Perhaps at such an early
       | age, dysregulation in GABA produced in the gut has significant
       | effects on brain health - over stimulation, learning memory
       | issues, etc.
        
         | sidewndr46 wrote:
         | Reading the article, it turns out the one twin who is "more
         | autistic" had a hole in his heart that surgery had to correct.
         | So I suspect the actual issue here is something simpler like a
         | difference in brain development because of the difference in
         | the amount of blood flow.
        
           | eutropia wrote:
           | Isn't it common to be given a lot of antibiotics when you get
           | a surgery?
        
             | Rinzler89 wrote:
             | It is.
        
               | boringg wrote:
               | I think blood flow to the brain >> impacts of antibiotics
               | is the likely order of magnitude of impact - though tough
               | to tell.
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | A friend underwent operation of his aorta. Post-surgery
             | inflammation is an absolutely common complication and they
             | dumped a lot of antibiotics into him precisely to reduce
             | the risk. (If I understand correctly, it wouldn't be
             | probably fatal, but very, very unpleasant.)
        
             | idontknowifican wrote:
             | a lot and a heart artery drip for 30 days are orders of
             | magnitude different in quantity
        
             | jejeyyy77 wrote:
             | correlation causation
        
             | Retric wrote:
             | I had a fairly significant surgery at a premiere US
             | hospital including several days of recovery in the hospital
             | and didn't get any antibiotics after the fact. They could
             | have injected me with something during the actual surgery,
             | but it didn't show up on the bill.
             | 
             | I think this may be specific to Heart surgery.
        
               | amanaplanacanal wrote:
               | I was given prophylactic antibiotics for prostate
               | surgery. It might depend on the surgeon.
        
             | BrandoElFollito wrote:
             | Whenever I had (minor) surgery in France, I was given
             | antibiotics "as a shield". I obviously do not know if this
             | helped or not.
             | 
             | Now, French doctors were always very quick to prescribe
             | antibiotics (as a kid I had plenty of them) and it took
             | quite a lot of effort to change their(and parent's) mind.
             | My children got much less, though they were almost never
             | checked for virus vs bacterial infection.
        
           | twobitshifter wrote:
           | That's possible but he did get crazy antibiotics as well.
           | 
           | FTA: "The infection was from drug-resistant staph bacteria.
           | So John went back to the hospital and spent a month on
           | powerful antibiotics pumped directly into a vein near his
           | heart."
        
             | scottlamb wrote:
             | ...or just being in the hospital environment for a month.
             | The older theory they mentioned here:
             | 
             | > "The earliest twin studies really helped to debunk this
             | theory that autism was caused by parenting," Morris says.
             | Under this theory, moms took the brunt of the blame,
             | supposedly for being "cold and distant and detached from
             | their child."
             | 
             | ...might not be _entirely_ wrong. They 've since shown
             | genetics is a factor, and I'll ignore the institutionalized
             | misogyny part, but being in a hospital for a month probably
             | did mean having much less parent/care-giver
             | interaction/touch during a critical period, and who knows
             | how much of an effect that could have.
        
               | lazyasciiart wrote:
               | This has been studied a lot in child welfare and is not
               | currently believed, afaik. The diagnosis of reactive
               | attachment disorder is acknowledged to have many
               | overlapping symptoms with autism, but expressly
               | differentiated as a condition.
        
               | jrsdav wrote:
               | > Under this theory, moms took the brunt of the blame,
               | supposedly for being "cold and distant and detached from
               | their child."
               | 
               | Before the heredity nature of autism was accepted, this
               | was the school of thought ("refrigerator mothers"). But
               | in truth, it's neurodivergent parents having
               | neurodivergent children, and society punishing the
               | parents (namely mothers) for their inability at providing
               | the "expected" nurturing conditions.
        
               | cyanydeez wrote:
               | Tied back, atypical behavior.may create neurodivergent
               | conditions, but one would expect children of aurististics
               | to seek less overall care which doesnt support the
               | hypitheses that antibiotics are causing aitism as this
               | thrwad started
        
           | crisply5706 wrote:
           | My theory is that this causation is flipped. Something about
           | whatever the precursor to autism is causes the body to
           | experience more physical failures or malformed structures.
           | 
           | Something like whatever mechanisms decode structure from the
           | genome are faulty and produce slightly wrong structures
           | throughout the brain and body.
           | 
           | Anecdotally, I see a higher rate of general illness and
           | physical birth defects in autistic people.
        
             | empressplay wrote:
             | There appears to be some correlation between Ehlers-Danlos
             | Syndrome and autism
             | 
             | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7711487/
             | 
             | It makes a certain amount of sense that a collagen /
             | connective tissue disorder is going to have wide-ranging
             | effects, including the nervous system
        
               | ejstronge wrote:
               | Another way to think of this is that 'autism' is a broad
               | series of disorders where individuals do not follow the
               | social-relational cues we expect. There are many ways to
               | violate unspoken social expectations, so there should be
               | many ways to be autistic.
               | 
               | In this setting, it's not unreasonable that any genetic
               | syndrome would be more associated with autism; indeed,
               | it's more interesting to find lesions that have a lower
               | proportion of autistic carriers compared to the general
               | population.
        
               | b800h wrote:
               | Wow, I'm hypermobile and my sons have what appears to be
               | mild autism (see my other comment above). Yet more to
               | unpick!
        
             | notamy wrote:
             | There's a correlation between autism and mitochondrial
             | dysfunction:
             | 
             | https://www.nature.com/articles/mp2010136
             | 
             | > _Most ASD /MD cases (79%) were not associated with
             | genetic abnormalities, raising the possibility of secondary
             | mitochondrial dysfunction. Treatment studies for ASD/MD
             | were limited, although improvements were noted in some
             | studies with carnitine, co-enzyme Q10 and B-vitamins. Many
             | studies suffered from limitations, including small sample
             | sizes, referral or publication biases, and variability in
             | protocols for selecting children for MD workup, collecting
             | mitochondrial biomarkers and defining MD. Overall, this
             | evidence supports the notion that mitochondrial dysfunction
             | is associated with ASD. Additional studies are needed to
             | further define the role of mitochondrial dysfunction in
             | ASD._
        
             | b800h wrote:
             | FWIW, I have identical twin sons who probably have mild
             | autism. One had an umbilical hernia like the lad in the
             | story. They both had a couple of other small developmental
             | anomalies. But they were both slightly premature (like most
             | twins) and shared a womb. So what's the driver here? One of
             | the above, or possibly the hormones which they were
             | (incorrectly) given to promote lung function? There's a lot
             | to unpick.
        
           | bitwize wrote:
           | This is Hackernews, where all major health issues are
           | traceable to the gut.
        
             | adolph wrote:
             | Does that include mouth/teeth/saliva as part of the
             | extended gut or are you talking stomach down?
        
               | verall wrote:
               | All of them and also seed oils.
               | 
               | (I hope noone is taking this seriously..)
        
         | Aurornis wrote:
         | > Being given antibiotics at such an early age will probably
         | severely dysregulation gut microbiota.
         | 
         | It's extremely common for young kids to receive antibiotics. In
         | some countries, antibiotics are over the counter and many
         | parents will give their kids antibiotics for nearly any
         | infection. Antibiotic misuse is rampant in some countries where
         | they aren't gated behind prescriptions.
         | 
         | Any such link with autism would therefore be an extremely rare
         | side effect. The rate of antibiotic use in children is far
         | higher than the rate of autism.
         | 
         | I don't think this case supports the antibiotic theory by
         | itself at all. I think it's confirmation bias because
         | antibiotics are one of the current trending theories among
         | mainstream discussion.
        
           | tomstoms wrote:
           | <<So John went back to the hospital and spent a month on
           | powerful antibiotics pumped directly into a vein near his
           | heart.>>
           | 
           | This is not <<extremely common>>.
        
             | spywaregorilla wrote:
             | Sure, but if you want to water the claim down to the idea
             | that only extreme doses of antibiotics have noticeable
             | effect sizes then its not a relevant claim to 99.99% of the
             | population.
        
             | Aurornis wrote:
             | No it is not, but ignoring the part about the severe
             | infection require extended hospitalization and trying to
             | reduce it all to "antibiotics" is extremely disingenuous.
             | 
             | Given that antibiotics are common but extreme infections
             | and extended hospitalizations are not, why would anyone
             | focus on the antibiotics as the root cause?
             | 
             | Not all antibiotics are created equal nor do they affect
             | gut bacteria the same. There isn't a singular scale for
             | antibiotic power. Often, antibiotics are given via vein
             | because they aren't absorbed from the gastrointestinal
             | tract, for example. This doesn't tell us anything about the
             | magnitude of impact on gut bacteria relative to an
             | antibiotic that actually starts its journey in your gut.
             | 
             | This is a complicated case. Reducing the entire complicated
             | episode to "it was the antibiotics" is extremely
             | reductionist.
        
           | ipaddr wrote:
           | Antibiotics refer to a group of drugs. Eating food from the
           | supermarket will expose a child to antibiotics. Different
           | classes of antibiotics have a lifelong effects while common
           | ones are quickier to recover from.
        
         | cma wrote:
         | Wouldn't we see much lower rates in Christian Scientists?
        
           | brightball wrote:
           | Why would that correlate?
        
             | cma wrote:
             | > Christian Scientists avoid almost all medical treatment,
             | relying instead on Christian Science prayer.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_Science#Healing_pra
             | c...
        
               | adolph wrote:
               | Hmm, on the other hand, using religion for medicine might
               | also be a confounding factor due to less diagnosis.
        
               | brightball wrote:
               | Have literally never heard of that. Is there any area
               | where this is prominent?
        
         | j45 wrote:
         | It's possible but there was no explicit mention of this other
         | than one receiving treatment they couldn't avoid.
        
         | jjallen wrote:
         | Isn't autism much older than antibiotics? I mean it couldn't be
         | - I haven't actually researched it but I'm pretty sure autism
         | is older than antibiotics.
        
           | cjbgkagh wrote:
           | Severity can be modulated by the environment, it's not that
           | autism didn't exist it but we can say for sure that
           | antibiotics didn't make anyone worse before it was invented.
        
           | m0llusk wrote:
           | Pretty sure what is being asserted is that gut bacteria may
           | influence brain function and antibiotics can have influence
           | on gut bacteria. Those are both complex systems, so there
           | could be many other factors as well as wide variations.
        
         | novia wrote:
         | The gut microbiota shouldn't be affected by antibiotics
         | delivered via IV.
        
           | drooby wrote:
           | This source says otherwise:
           | 
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9896080/
        
         | fellowmartian wrote:
         | Persistent neuroinflammation seems to be a more likely cause.
        
         | Nifty3929 wrote:
         | Not really.
         | 
         | "The infection was from drug-resistant staph bacteria. So John
         | went back to the hospital and spent a month on powerful
         | antibiotics pumped directly into a vein near his heart."
         | 
         | There are so many confounding factors here. Could be no
         | connection to the episode whatever. Could be that the infection
         | that required the antibiotics contributed to the autism. Could
         | be the antibiotics contributed directly. Could be the overall
         | trauma of the surgery, treatment and recovery.
         | 
         | Seems like the gut thing is the least likely culprit and
         | requires quite a lot of creativity to even consider it.
        
       | iamleppert wrote:
       | They are not identical. Both born with different physical
       | problems. How do you call that identical?
        
         | apothegm wrote:
         | Twins can be born with the same genes (because they originated
         | as a single embryo that split), or with different genes (they
         | originated as two separately fertilized embryos). The former
         | are considered identical twins even if you can tell them apart.
         | They're genetically identical, which scientists find useful in
         | teasing out nature vs. nurture hypotheses. They especially like
         | to compare them against twins with different genes -- who are
         | called fraternal twins even if you can't tell them apart.
        
           | iamleppert wrote:
           | Isn't it obvious they aren't physically identical? They have
           | the same genes but are not identical!
        
             | SiempreViernes wrote:
             | The term is being used in reference to their genes, not
             | their appearance.
        
               | INTPenis wrote:
               | I'll mirror what someone else said, have they actually
               | sequenced them? Clearly a lot of changes happened at a
               | very early state, mutations, so why should we expect
               | their genetic makeup to be identical?
        
               | adolph wrote:
               | Also:
               | 
               |  _In animals and human chimeras, this means an individual
               | derived from two or more zygotes, which can include
               | possessing blood cells of different blood types, and
               | subtle variations in form (phenotype)._
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chimera_(genetics)
               | 
               |  _For example, in 2002, news outlets reported the story
               | of a woman named Karen Keegan, who needed a kidney
               | transplant and underwent genetic testing along with her
               | family, to see if a family member could donate one to
               | her. But the tests suggested that genetically, Keegan
               | could not be the mother of her sons. The mystery was
               | solved when doctors discovered that Keegan was a chimera
               | --she had a different set of DNA in her blood cells
               | compared to the other tissues in her body._
               | 
               | https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/3-human-
               | chimeras-...
        
               | abejfehr wrote:
               | it's almost certainly not identical now, it just used to
               | be at conception
        
             | pbhjpbhj wrote:
             | "Identical twins" is not a description of the twins
             | character, specific physical features, behaviour,
             | nurturing. Instead, 'identical twins' is a noun-phrase
             | meaning two children from a single zygote, ie
             | 'monozygotic'.
             | 
             | It does not mean "twins who are literally identical";
             | though you could think of it as twins who are genetically
             | indistinct.
             | 
             | I'm a physicist with no biology qualifications, but it just
             | sounded to me like you may have misunderstood the
             | linguistic meaning. Apologies if I was wrong about that.
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | identical means genetically identical.
        
           | pfdietz wrote:
           | Well, aside from somatic mutations arising during
           | development.
        
         | mkl wrote:
         | https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Identical_twins
        
       | mkoubaa wrote:
       | Wasn't there a theory that autism was affected by ultrasounds
       | during pregnancy?
        
         | HeatrayEnjoyer wrote:
         | Wouldn't everyone be autistic by now?
        
           | mkoubaa wrote:
           | Affected by != Cause
        
           | DaiPlusPlus wrote:
           | On the Internet it increasingly feels like that...
           | 
           | (...yeahyeah, selection bias, etc)
        
         | nradov wrote:
         | There was never such a _theory_. At one point a few researchers
         | had a _hypothesis_ that fetal ultrasounds might cause autism,
         | however multiple studies have failed to turn up any causative
         | relationship.
         | 
         | https://doi.org/10.1111/ppe.12998
        
           | mkoubaa wrote:
           | Thank you for the clarification!
        
         | reilly3000 wrote:
         | It's strongly correlated with genetics down to a handful of
         | SNPs. There is also a lot of evidence to suggest physiological
         | differences in amygdala mass as well as hormone production. No
         | exterior factor has been proven. No scapegoat is needed either,
         | autists tend to like who they are and have unique and important
         | value.
        
           | sentfromrevolut wrote:
           | Average age of death for autists is 34 due to 14x suicide
           | rate. They tend to like who they are is that right? You are
           | talking out of your arse mate. Even a child who has
           | researched these numbers for 5 minutes knows its
           | environmentally caused i.e a poisoning equivalent and can not
           | be explained by genetics.
        
       | swayvil wrote:
       | The autist focuses. Concentrates. Invests his entire attention in
       | a particular sliver of the experiential buffet. That's autism.
       | 
       | If it's a useful sliver then there you go.
        
         | strogonoff wrote:
         | I have not seen a better description of what autism might be
         | like at a higher (or lower, depending on whether one's
         | metaphysics align with materialism or not) level than
         | "investing entire attention in a particular sliver of the
         | experiential buffet".
         | 
         | Amazing at maths but can't keep a conversation, holed up at
         | home working out like a maniac all the time, musical genius but
         | incapable in daily life[0]--everyone probably knows one or more
         | of such people, especially earlier in life. Is that another
         | side of the same coin? Is it only when this sliver's
         | intersection with the multi-dimensional space of social-
         | cultural norms is insufficient that other people tend to get
         | weirded out?
         | 
         | [0] These are only some examples, I am sure there are many
         | other ways it can manifest that are familiar to us but were not
         | really thought of as a byproduct of autism. And, of course,
         | some of these can be caused by other factors (e.g., the working
         | out example could be a symptom of body dysmorphia).
        
         | jawns wrote:
         | That's one type of autism. The reason it's now called Autism
         | Spectrum Disorder is because there are many very different
         | manifestations, not all of which involve hyperfixation.
        
           | sctb wrote:
           | It's not hyperfixation exactly, but a requirement for an ASD
           | diagnosis is some forms of "Restricted, repetitive patterns
           | of behavior, interests, or activities" (from the DSM-V).
        
             | peterkelly wrote:
             | This is one of four criteria listed in section B, which
             | only requires two to be present. See
             | https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/hcp-dsm.html
             | 
             | So it's still possible to receive a diagnosis if you don't
             | have hyperfixation but have two or more of the other
             | section B criteria.
        
       | drooby wrote:
       | It's so interesting to see the differences in their faces.
       | 
       | I can tell from the folds and wrinkles on Sam's face that he
       | engages in more neurotypical communication.
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | Sam also now has thinner hair than John. Stress of college,
         | different diet, something else?
        
         | h0l0cube wrote:
         | Autistic individuals often have differences in muscle tone and
         | hypermobile joints
        
           | fragmede wrote:
           | there's a link to Ehlers-Danlos syndrom (EDS) there as well
           | enl
        
         | GordonS wrote:
         | I don't know that we can generalise this though - some people
         | mask their autism very well, sometimes without even knowing
         | that's what they're doing.
        
       | quickslowdown wrote:
       | I don't have much on the way of valuable insights or conversation
       | starters, I just think this story is sweet and these 2 brothers
       | obviously love the hell out of each other, made me happy to read
       | :)
        
         | vladgur wrote:
         | Thanks for saying that.
         | 
         | Reading your comment made me actually want to read the article
         | in question and I am super glad I did.
         | 
         | Emotionally, probably a best reminder of familial love in a
         | world filled with indifference and often hate
        
       | scottlamb wrote:
       | This is driving me oddly nuts:
       | 
       | > "I think there's an understanding that 'My twin isn't quite as
       | capable of communicating in the way that they need to, so I'll
       | help them with that,'" she says.
       | 
       | > That description fits Sam and John.
       | 
       | > When asked to name his favorite episode of Sesame Street, John
       | blurts out a series of words: "Abby makes the seasons change."
       | Sam understands immediately and quickly steps in to explain.
       | 
       | > "There's an episode with Abby Cadabby, Rosita and Zoe, where
       | they dance around with the seasons changing," Sam says. "I think
       | that's the one he's referring to."
       | 
       | I know that episode. It's actually called "Abby Makes Seasons
       | Change", [1] so that "series of words" is the direct answer to
       | the question. The point is probably true in general, but the
       | example sucks.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.sesamestreetguide.com/2020/02/sesame-street-
       | epis...
        
         | 1231232131231 wrote:
         | Wow, great find. That's pretty unfair.
        
         | teaearlgraycold wrote:
         | Nice. Even without that being the episode name, it's one word
         | away from being a more understandable answer - "When Abby makes
         | the seasons change". Not exactly word salad.
        
           | alpaca128 wrote:
           | How so? It's a perfectly valid and complete English sentence
           | either way.
        
         | ejstronge wrote:
         | > I know that episode. It's actually called "Abby Makes Season
         | Change", [1] so that "series of words" is the direct answer to
         | the question. The point is probably true in general, but the
         | example sucks.
         | 
         | Are the episode names of Sesame Street displayed in the
         | episode?
        
           | scottlamb wrote:
           | Not sure, but they're displayed in the episode
           | gallery/chooser/menu in the PBS Kids app that a lot of people
           | use to watch them.
        
         | gregates wrote:
         | My daughter and I happen to have just watched this episode, and
         | after reading the article I came back to make this exact same
         | comment. You beat me to it!
         | 
         | It's unintentionally a really great example of failure to
         | communicate caused by assumptions one makes about the person
         | one's talking to.
        
         | OJFord wrote:
         | Devil's advocate: it is characteristically autistic to have
         | episode names memorised like that, and it sort of is 'blurting
         | out a series of words' if you don't know that's what it is; a
         | more 'normal' answer might be more like a description of the
         | episode or 'the one called [...]'. I think perhaps you can see
         | that in Sam's assistance, he doesn't know the episode names,
         | possibly he knows or expects that _is_ an episode name, and is
         | describing one he remembers that it probably names.
         | 
         | I don't think there were necessarily saying that John just said
         | a load of nonsense that didn't answer the question, just that
         | it needed a bit of deciphering; that Sam helped explain what he
         | meant to a non-fan.
        
           | TeMPOraL wrote:
           | Is that autistic, or is that just normal for someone who
           | _cares_ , and who actually _has_ a favorite episode? I can 't
           | imagine not picking up the title after watching an episode a
           | few times.
        
             | Barrin92 wrote:
             | It's definitely autistic to name drop the title to an
             | audience of adults who likely don't remember anything about
             | Sesame Street and being too literal. It shows the
             | difference in cognitive ability between the brothers pretty
             | well. The brother who seems to be doing better in daily
             | life has a pretty good idea of what kind of answer a random
             | person would expect.
        
               | andoryuu wrote:
               | > When asked to name his favorite episode
               | 
               | > It's definitely autistic to name drop the title to an
               | audience of adults who likely don't remember
               | 
               | If someone asks me to name an episode I'll assume they
               | know the show, and that the name is sufficient. Because
               | they asked for only that. Why can questions have an
               | implicit "and tell me about it", but the answers cannot
               | have an implicit "I assume you know which one it is"?
        
               | dmurray wrote:
               | You might be more likely to pick up on some context clues
               | that this is an NPR reporter trying to make conversation
               | about the topic she's just been told you're interested
               | in, rather than a fellow obsessive fan of early-2000s
               | children's TV.
        
               | andoryuu wrote:
               | I would probably explicitly ask if they want to know what
               | the episode is about. But only after seeing their
               | confused reaction to the silence after the first answer.
               | And that's a maybe.
               | 
               | If you want to know something, ask it. Not everyone wants
               | (or is able) to bother with deciphering what you think
               | internally.
               | 
               | The person in the article has many issues. But I don't
               | consider giving straight answer to a straight question
               | being one of them.
               | 
               | People expecting others to conform to their way of
               | communication without making an effort to meet others
               | halfway are the main issue.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | If you just care, you'd probably say the "the episode
             | called..." and maybe describe it for the person _if you
             | interpret their reaction_ as not understanding or
             | recognizing it.
             | 
             | Edit: why disagree? Not recognizing that someone wants more
             | information, or that your communication doesn't carry
             | enough context for a person to know what you're talking
             | about is classic autism. If you're someone without autism
             | and just care about the subject, you're more likely to
             | recognize the social cues and add more context.
        
               | yterdy wrote:
               | Because the explicit query was, "What's your favorite
               | episode?". It's frustrating to be accused of disordered
               | thinking on your part when the actual issue is disordered
               | expectations from the other party. What they actually
               | should have asked was, "What happened during your
               | favorite episode?", which might have produced the
               | response given by the sibling.
               | 
               | It's not like neurotypical people don't also experience
               | this frustration with having to divine what people
               | actually desire in any given quantum of communication. I
               | would even offer that people speaking with those on the
               | spectrum might be primed to be _less_ generous and
               | forgiving with that anticipatory instinct; they jump to,
               | "This person is weird," instead of considering the ways
               | in which their own communication style is wanting. The
               | reason they can get away with it, and autistic people
               | can't, is simply a matter of how many people like them
               | are around to validate their subjective experience. See
               | your given CS department/TTRPG club for the flipside of
               | this dynamic.
               | 
               | EDIT: Might also explain the phenomenon of smug, "What
               | you ACTUALLY wanted was-" responsed on SO. We've trained
               | people with precise thought to assume that anyone coming
               | to them with questions doesn't actually know what they're
               | trying to accomplish. We've created monsters.
        
               | notahacker wrote:
               | The query _explicitly didn 't_ include "Despite asking
               | you about your preferences, I have no interest in _why_
               | you prefer it so please refrain from commenting on that.
               | Please don 't waffle or ask me anything back, simply
               | provide me with the title, and I will have all the
               | information I need", so I don't think it's "disordered
               | expectations" to assume that message wasn't conveyed by
               | the question...
               | 
               | Neurotypical communication 101 is that a casual
               | conversation question about your _favourite things_ is
               | probably a cue for you to be enthusiastic and effusive
               | about things you care about rather than a prompt for you
               | provide names only, especially if the interlocutor is
               | unlikely be evaluating your preferences using their own
               | expert knowledge of the field. Sure, if nobody else steps
               | in to provide further context any [neurotypical]
               | interlocutor ought to be able to continue /rescue the
               | conversation by asking followup questions about what
               | happened in an episode and what is it about that episode
               | that you like, but staccato answers offering a bare
               | minimum of information is a communication preference
               | (occasionally appropriate, more often not) rather than
               | something inherently demanded by the question.
               | 
               | (I'd agree that people probably judge responses slightly
               | differently if they already know the person on the other
               | side of the conversation is autistic, but in a situation
               | like this it can work in their favour, since if I assume
               | the person providing only names, titles and one word
               | answers to my open and friendly questions is
               | neurotypical, I'm going to assume they're subtly
               | signalling that they dislike me...)
        
               | yterdy wrote:
               | No, I do think this is still an example of disordered
               | expectations. What you're pointing out doesn't strike
               | that notion as valid; it expands it from "an expectation
               | of a response to an entirely different question, " to,
               | "an expectation that you will pretend to be and behave as
               | a neurotypical person to suit my comfort even though I
               | know that you're not."
               | 
               | Which is probably worse.
               | 
               | As the other reply mentioned, there is an empathy (double
               | empathy) problem, but the answer is not for one party to
               | have to assume responsibility for the other's comfort
               | entirely by having to guess all of their unspoken
               | emotional desires for the conversation. "The query
               | explicitly didn't include [...]" is kind of a ridiculous
               | thing to expect someone to respect or even predict.
               | 
               | Also, I don't mean to pick apart your comment, but:
               | 
               |  _> Neurotypical communication 101 is that a casual
               | conversation question about your favourite things is
               | probably a cue for you to be enthusiastic and effusive
               | about things you care about rather than a prompt for you
               | provide names only_
               | 
               | I don't know that this is true. If anything, doing this
               | seems to get on their nerves.
        
               | notahacker wrote:
               | > What you're pointing out doesn't strike that notion as
               | valid; it expands it from "an expectation of a response
               | to an entirely different question, " to, "an expectation
               | that you will pretend to be and behave as a neurotypical
               | person to suit my comfort even though I know that you're
               | not."
               | 
               | No, it changes it from "if you would be interested in
               | hearing anything other than the briefest and least
               | informative answer, it's your responsibility to
               | explicitly state how much information you expect and in
               | what form" to "of the vast set of theoretically possible
               | answers, those which take into account what will be
               | meaningful to the other person are generally better,
               | although it's entirely understandable and expected that
               | autistic people might not be able to do this".
               | 
               | And the article here wasn't insisting autistic people
               | should make conversations flow or that neurotypical
               | people shouldn't ever modify their expectations or
               | followup questions, it made the simple observation that
               | the high-functioning autistic twin has actually learned
               | to do this, pattern matching well enough to provide
               | additional context on behalf of his brother (who
               | apparently regularly struggles to form sentences,
               | presumably even when the question explicitly demands it).
               | I think the conclusion that this is because one of the
               | autistic identical twins has developed better
               | communication skills than his brother (who quite possibly
               | has other learning difficulties) is correct, and it
               | definitely _isn 't_ an example of his brother being
               | trapped in a world where all human communication except
               | children's TV is just too imprecise for him.
               | 
               | > I don't know that this is true. If anything, doing this
               | seems to get on their nerves.
               | 
               | There _is_ a happy medium between staccato answers and
               | relating the entire plot of the episode or insisting that
               | all other shows pale in comparison with it, and a
               | difference between bringing up $nichepursuit _because
               | someone asked_ and bringing it up because they were
               | talking about something else. And yes, this happy medium
               | is going to be more difficult for people on the autistic
               | spectrum to recognise. But even excessive enthusiasm
               | about something most people find extremely boring is more
               | endearing than repeated one or three word responses that
               | _technically_ answer the question.
        
               | roywiggins wrote:
               | > the actual issue is disordered expectations from the
               | other party.
               | 
               | There is something called "double empathy problem",
               | referring to the idea that there is a _mutual_ difficulty
               | communicating across neurotypes. Neurotypical people
               | struggle to understand autistic people because of a sort
               | of  "language barrier" even without a deficit in
               | neurodivergent communication skills per se.
               | 
               | After all, if neurotypical people are universally great
               | communicators, they would be better at communicating with
               | autistic people than autistic people are, but that's not
               | how it works at all.
               | 
               | https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/double-empathy-
               | explained/
        
               | yterdy wrote:
               | Here is me encountering the pitfalls of speculation as a
               | layman: the phenomenon I stumbled upon is already well-
               | documented.
               | 
               | Thank you for the link and explanation.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | It _wasn 't_ well-documented until recently: afaik, it's
               | largely due to Dr Damian Milton that academia takes this
               | idea seriously. Most academic research about abnormal
               | people is just the rampant pseudoscientific speculation
               | of a respected academic, which has become Accepted Truth
               | because it's published in a serious scientific journal.
               | 
               | This has been getting better over the past decade: I
               | think increased access to science is making it easier for
               | the subjects to learn about the "research" and say "hang
               | on, this is nonsense". On the flipside, though, bigots
               | have increasingly been picking the worst theories from
               | the literature and using them as an excuse to do bigoted
               | stuff. (e.g. you still see lots of people claiming that
               | autistic people "have no theory of mind", because they
               | don't understand that ethics are suspended when nobody's
               | looking)
        
               | giantg2 wrote:
               | "It's frustrating to be accused of disordered thinking on
               | your part when the actual issue is disordered
               | expectations from the other party."
               | 
               | The expectation isn't disordered, it's carrying with it
               | implied social expectations (technically it would need to
               | go against these to be disordered). The problem is that
               | neurodivergent people tend to not pick up on the implied
               | expectations and neurological people don't tend to notice
               | that they need to be more explicit with thier
               | expectations.
               | 
               | "What they actually should have asked was, "What happened
               | during your favorite episode?", which might have produced
               | the response given by the sibling."
               | 
               | Why is that what they should have asked? The initial
               | exchange is technically correct. The asker should have
               | said they didn't know that one and asked a follow-up
               | question of what happened in it. Asking what happened in
               | their favorite episode as the first question isn't
               | necessary and isn't the general social flow of
               | conversation.
               | 
               | I do agree on the second paragraph.
        
             | OJFord wrote:
             | It's the expectation that that's a sufficient answer to the
             | question I suppose. Yes it _literally_ is, but... that is
             | many people 's autism in a nutshell really isn't it.
             | 
             | Even if talking to another fan, a 'less autistic' dialogue
             | might be like:
             | 
             | B: Oh, me too, do you have a favourite episode?
             | 
             | A: _Abby Makes the Seasons Change_ , hands down, do you
             | remember that one?
             | 
             | B: Hmm, I'm not sure..
             | 
             | A: Oh, it's the one where [...]
        
           | tialaramex wrote:
           | > it is characteristically autistic to have episode names
           | memorised like that
           | 
           | One of my colleagues recommended that our department invite
           | somebody from outside to explain to us about "neurotypical"
           | people so we can better accommodate their special needs at
           | work. We don't seem to have many "neurotypical" people so
           | hence the idea to get an outsider to do a talk.
           | 
           | Maybe one of the things it would be good to understand is,
           | are there actually lots of these "neurotypical" people or are
           | they just bad at counting ?
        
           | scottlamb wrote:
           | I think you're right in that when the reporter asked "What's
           | your favorite episode?", the more autistic brother
           | interpreted it literally as "What's the name of your favorite
           | episode?" where other people typically re-interpret the
           | question as "Could you describe your favorite episode in a
           | few sentences?"
           | 
           | But the autistic version seems perfectly valid, and shouldn't
           | a _reporter_ recognize a direct answer to his question and
           | ask a follow-up if needed? I get the feeling instead he just
           | stared blankly until someone else translated for him...why
           | blame the autistic person for the reporter 's poor
           | communication?
        
             | spongebobstoes wrote:
             | > why blame the autistic person for the reporter's poor
             | communication?
             | 
             | this specific sort of difficulty communicating is a daily
             | reality for many autistic folks
             | 
             | I believe that communication can often be fixed by either
             | party, but is usually fixed by neither
        
         | scotty79 wrote:
         | The thing is that for effective communication you need to
         | adjust to the recipient. So even though the answer was correct
         | and concise the communication failed because sufficient context
         | was not provided to the recipient.
         | 
         | The other person also failed in communication by not informing
         | that the title of the episode mentioned was exactly that, while
         | providing the necessary context.
        
         | OscarCunningham wrote:
         | This is the genius of the episode naming for 'Friends'. They're
         | each called the thing you would actually say to describe them,
         | like 'The One with All the Cheesecakes'.
        
         | impendia wrote:
         | Apparently John wasn't even off by a "the":
         | 
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n8d-SQF-F90
        
         | donalhunt wrote:
         | Some autistic people are gestalt language processors so they
         | think and use words / sentences in a different manner to the
         | general population.
        
       | giantg2 wrote:
       | He spent a month in a hospital as a small child. Of course this
       | impacted his autism. We know that social interaction, play
       | therapy, etc can be effective at reducing the severity and impact
       | of autism and this is the direct opposite. How do you think a
       | small child is going to learn about social interaction if they're
       | stuck in a hospital without as much interaction and with much of
       | the interaction being to the point? They're likely bored and
       | witnessing the dry, clinical interactions of many of the staff.
       | Neither of which are helpful.
       | 
       | Even staying a few days as a toddler is highly impactful on
       | normal kids. They often don't understand why people are hurting
       | them (IV, blood draws, ecg stickers, etc). They hate being stuck
       | in the bed or their room for days with just toys and screens to
       | play with - no running of course. In my experience it seems that
       | fears and nightmares are common. The way the kid interacts can
       | change for a short time after getting home (not as interested in
       | the same type of play as before, happier with screen time, not as
       | trusting of others, etc). Staying in a hospital is rough for
       | someone who is fully developed and knows what's going, it's way
       | more impactful for those who aren't.
        
         | detourdog wrote:
         | The number of words young minds hear during the early stages of
         | development has a great impact on future language skills. The
         | studies I'm aware of mostly focusing on developing reading
         | skills. I find it plausible that spending one's first month in
         | a hospital could have a long term communication development
         | gap.
        
         | p3rls wrote:
         | I once was hospitalized for depression and drug use when I was
         | a teenager and my warcraft 3 stats never recovered after that.
         | I always wondered if there were studies on that sorta thing.
        
           | ycombinete wrote:
           | My Counterstrike rank was always inversely correlated with my
           | general happiness.
        
             | nickpeterson wrote:
             | I remember being a young teenager (25 years ago now, yikes)
             | playing counter strike and StarCraft all the time and being
             | pretty good at both. I started playing with others who were
             | in really good leagues (back then it was called cal-i for
             | cs, not sure what exists now), and I realized the level of
             | dedication and time necessary to compete at that level and
             | I basically gave it up. Once you start thinking, "becoming
             | better at this is going to take 6-10 hours of my life
             | everyday" I checked out. In hindsight, I wish I had known
             | it sooner.
        
               | smogcutter wrote:
               | "The ability to play chess is the sign of a gentleman.
               | The ability to play chess well is the sign of a wasted
               | life." - Paul Morphy
        
               | ycombinete wrote:
               | I had the exact same experience, when I went to a chess
               | club for the first time. I realised that to keep pace
               | with those guys I'd have to spend more time than I was
               | willing to on getting better.
               | 
               | Especially with MMR based systems. No matter how good you
               | get your win/loss ratio will end up around 50%.
               | 
               | So you have to ask yourself why you need to keep getting
               | better. To me It's really about finding a level of "good"
               | that you can maintain comfortably, while maintaining
               | interest.
               | 
               | And also realise that games aren't vocations. It's fine
               | to play a game until you stop having fun, then stop
               | playing the game.
        
               | kelipso wrote:
               | I play chess at a nearby place and they just split people
               | into self selected newbie/intermediate/advanced groups.
               | There is just no limit to how much time you can spend
               | training in chess is the thing, applied to most games
               | really. I used to be more into it during the pandemic but
               | now I just play casually without practicing everyday,
               | which is fun enough for me.
        
               | kjkjadksj wrote:
               | Those sorts of guys have ruined all the games I grew up
               | with. I can't just casually play anymore. It doesn't
               | exist. Every lobby left is a sweatfest from people who
               | have been playing the game nonstop since it came out
               | 10-20 years ago sometimes. You have to swing vine from
               | vine to whatever crap game is currently popular to get a
               | chance at pwning noobs again.
        
               | Der_Einzige wrote:
               | There's an easy fix for this one!
               | 
               | AI literally made game hacks undetectable. It's never
               | been easier to cheat on videogames in a way that poses
               | literally zero risk of getting banned.
               | 
               | Here's an example of a tool that has made my "The Finals"
               | experience about 10000% better:
               | https://github.com/Babyhamsta/Aimmy
               | 
               | I'm having fun with my buddies, leasiurly talking on
               | discord while yet another diamond sweat-lord who tries to
               | gank me gets destroyed.
               | 
               | Also related, but botting on games like runescape has
               | made my desire to play MMORPG's go way up too. Now I too
               | can play the fun end game content without wasting my damn
               | life on it.
        
               | jdhendrickson wrote:
               | you shouldn't be proud of this. people like you ruin
               | games.
        
               | dgfitz wrote:
               | The most fun I had playing video games in the past 10
               | years was when the PokemonGo api wasn't locked down.
        
               | kelipso wrote:
               | Chess is super old but reason it's fun is because of the
               | rating system that matches equal-ish players against each
               | other. I'm guessing these games don't have that, I
               | thought Starcraft had something like that but it's been a
               | while since I played it.
        
       | Anotheroneagain wrote:
       | One possibility (strongly supported by cases like this one) is
       | that "severe" autism is caused by severe neglect, when the child
       | gets essentially abandoned once labelled as "autistic". Has
       | anyone tried to expose John to anything else than his "favorite"
       | show? Was he even exposed to enough language?
        
       | djhope99 wrote:
       | My 8 yr old identical twin daughter's have severe autism but one
       | is definitely worse than the other, one of them can use some
       | words but the other is completely unable to communicate.
       | 
       | I have absolutely no explanation for this, I cannot think of
       | anything different that happened to them. They didn't have
       | antibiotics or surgery at a young age like in this story either.
        
         | burnte wrote:
         | There's genetics, but then there's gene expression which is
         | affected by the world, so they clearly grew differently.
        
           | djhope99 wrote:
           | Thank you this is helpful. The genetic part makes sense to
           | me, my wife has PCOS and they have a history of ovarian
           | problems in their family. There are studies linking PCOS and
           | autism and to high levels of testosterone.
           | 
           | The mystery to me was why they are so different.
        
             | burnte wrote:
             | Yep, for decades thought genes were everything, then we
             | started to realize epigenetics and proteomics are even more
             | important. DNA is the code, and as we all know code can run
             | differently in different environments.
        
             | wizzwizz4 wrote:
             | Those studies were designed to confirm Professor Sir Simon
             | Baron-Cohen's "extreme male brain" theory (which, by the
             | way, is a crock of shit). High androgen levels _and_ high
             | oestrogen levels are associated with autism (ref:
             | https://doi.org/10.1038/s41380-019-0454-9) and there's no
             | reason to believe the arrow of causality points in any
             | particular direction.
             | 
             | I recommend you not focus overmuch on _why_ your kids are
             | autistic. (The most likely reason is that one or both of
             | the biological parents are autistic.) Disabilities are
             | contextual, and autism can be a significant disability if
             | you want to  "live a normal life", so the best approach is
             | not to impose arbitrary constraints and unrealistic
             | expectations on them. (And really, who _wants_ to keep up
             | with the Joneses, anyway? https://xkcd.com/308/)
             | 
             | If you're interested in the topic generally, by all means
             | learn about it, but none of this will help your daughters.
             | There's no way to "cure" autism, because there's nothing
             | _to_ cure: it 's just a way to describe a way that some
             | people _are_. (Though some associated conditions, such as
             | difficulty focusing can be treated with medication (I 'd
             | recommend not putting kids on ADHD drugs, because it's hard
             | to distinguish between a genuine problem with cognition and
             | mere excitable boredom from the outside.), others (e.g.
             | hypermobility, coordination issues) can be mitigated with
             | physiotherapy, and yet others (e.g. social anxiety,
             | miscalibrated hunger / thirst detectors) can be alleviated
             | with explanation, strategies, and practice.)
             | 
             | A good part of the differences in "severity" of their
             | "autism symptoms" will be the extent to which they grok the
             | things in question. For example, if you're not interested
             | in verbal communication, you're not going to study it
             | intensely to pick up on how other people instinctively
             | behave, so you won't learn to imitate it. No amount of
             | wanting what verbal communication can _get_ you will give
             | you the _intrinsic_ motivation you need for (years of)
             | extended, generalisable study - at least, not unless you
             | happen to be good at long-chain motivation. If, however,
             | there 's a fun game you like, and playing that game
             | involves developing proficiency in the (inherently boring)
             | skill... well, there's a reason so many kids learn English
             | by playing competitive video games.
        
               | djhope99 wrote:
               | Thanks for taking the time to write this. I appreciate
               | it, I read it to my wife and she agrees we should stop
               | thinking about the why.
               | 
               | It's not so much that we want them to be normal or are
               | particularly worried about that, we are very anxious
               | though about what happens to them when we die and what
               | abuse they might face.
        
         | abj wrote:
         | Some papers on a possible explanation.
         | 
         | https://childrenshealthdefense.org/wp-content/uploads/thimer...
        
           | tail_exchange wrote:
           | As a word of caution to the readers: the Children's Health
           | Defense is a group known for antivax, water fluoridation, and
           | 5g disinformation.
        
       | ChiperSoft wrote:
       | This article annoys me to all ends. It started out badly by
       | referring to autism as a disability, but it got worse in the fact
       | that they're assuming all of John's symptoms are because he's
       | autistic. All of his disabilities can much easier be ascribed to
       | brain damage post-partum. That hole in his heart meant he was
       | getting less blood flow and less oxygen at a critical time in his
       | brain development.
       | 
       | The fact that both twins are autistic has nothing to do with it!
        
         | genericresponse wrote:
         | Definitionally, at least in the US, Autism is a disability.
         | It's a qualifier for the Americans with Disabilities Act.
         | 
         | The specific definition: "A disability is a physical or mental
         | impairment that makes it harder for a person to perform certain
         | activities or interact with the world around them." For many
         | ASD makes it harder to interact with the world around them,
         | whether that's overstimulation, communication challenges, or
         | something else.
         | 
         | It's reasonable to wonder if the disabilities were caused by
         | brain damage post-partum or are symptomatic of his autism. At
         | the same time we shouldn't forget the many others with ASD and
         | similar disabilities who lack another explanation. Some of the
         | population with ASD have limited communication skills and
         | cannot pass as neurotypical.
        
           | rpmisms wrote:
           | That's an over-broad definition. I really hate ASD as a
           | monolith, because there's a harsh difference between brain
           | damage and brain misconfiguration.
        
       | tomasGiden wrote:
       | One of my sons had a heart defect needing open heart surgery when
       | he was 5 days old (it went fine!). In connection to that he was
       | enrolled in a scientific study. Apparently when you are in a
       | heart and lung machine as an infant (<1 month old) the pressure
       | in the machine is so great compare to the normal pressure that
       | the blood cells break creating free radicals. These free radicals
       | can in turn create damage in the brain which can later on cause
       | problems with executive functions and complex reasoning. Autistic
       | people also have problems with executive functions (my other son
       | has Asperger's). Now I'm not saying that free radicals cause
       | autism but maybe they modulate it when the same parts of the
       | brain are affected by them during infancy.
        
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