[HN Gopher] How I build and run behavioral interviews
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       How I build and run behavioral interviews
        
       Author : surprisetalk
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       Date   : 2024-02-26 12:17 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | paulsutter wrote:
       | Strong recommend to use these techniques when interviewing.
       | 
       | For example: employees from large companies may claim credit for
       | substantial initiatives but when you drill in they had only a
       | tangential involvement. They don't intend to mislead, thats just
       | the language people speak inside of large companies, and
       | behavioral interviewing can help translate that into more
       | objective information.
        
       | tines wrote:
       | > To figure out whether they're real or BSing you, the best way
       | is to get them to tell you a lot of details about the situation--
       | the more you get them to tell you, the harder it will be to BS
       | all the details.
       | 
       | This is exactly the feature that allows people to distinguish a
       | genuine recording from a faked one in Iain Banks' sci-fi series
       | "The Culture"---it's impossible to fake a recording taken by a
       | (machine) Mind because there's too much detail to fabricate.
        
         | lamroger wrote:
         | I've had a few of these interviews. Some do it well by showing
         | genuine interest and maybe they have expertise in the area and
         | it's fun chatting about the project. Other's see it more like
         | cross examination or make it adversarial. I personally get
         | nervous and tense up when I feel attacked. Maybe it's a good
         | way to opt myself out of working in those environments.
        
           | athoscouto wrote:
           | This is spot on. Having shadowed my share of interviews, I've
           | found that the attitude of the interviewer is the biggest
           | factor in having a good interview experience.
           | 
           | Making sure interviewers show genuine interest, and are open
           | to different candidate background is one of the most
           | difficult things to guarantee when you have many people
           | interviewing.
        
         | dilyevsky wrote:
         | My personal experience has been that people dramatically
         | underestimate how easy it is to bs and simultaneously
         | overestimating their ability to tell if someone is bs'ing vs
         | just being nervous/forgetful. Which leads to some hilariously
         | poor outcomes...
        
       | digging wrote:
       | I've almost never been part of an interview so well thought-out,
       | but I continue to hope to be. I find this is also helpful reading
       | for candidates.
        
       | riversflow wrote:
       | From the examples section:
       | 
       | > making their reports feel psychologically safe
       | 
       | > ask how they thought their report felt after the tough convo
       | 
       | > bad answer = not sure, or saying things in a non-supportive /
       | non-generous way
       | 
       | I wouldn't feel "psychologically safe" with someone who expects
       | me to read minds. How can you _ever_ be sure about how others
       | feel as a manager? I check in with my reports and their
       | colleagues but I'm still never certain. Your reports don't want
       | to be fired and as such every interaction you have with them is
       | flavored with coercion.
       | 
       | If I asked this question and they didn't say something to the
       | effect of I'm not sure, that would be an enormous red flag to me
       | that this person doesn't give others proper agency.
        
       | sarchertech wrote:
       | This sounds like an honest attempt to be more objective, but it's
       | still so subjective that I question the value.
       | 
       | >Vague platitudes: some people have a tendency to fall back on
       | vague generalities in behavioral interviews. "In recruiting, it's
       | all about communication!" "No org structure is perfect!" If they
       | don't follow this up with a more specific, precise or nuanced
       | claim, they may not be a strong first-principles thinker."
       | 
       | I don't think that conclusion follows. I think what is usually
       | happening there is that the person is saying what they think you
       | want to hear.
       | 
       | Ironically the phrase "first principles thinker" sounds like
       | vague business speak to me.
        
         | ordu wrote:
         | The point of interview is not to be objective or something
         | like, the point is to maximize chances for a good hire. Your
         | chosen example is the one of several, and don't forget it is an
         | hour of talking. No one decides on this answer alone.
         | 
         | From other hand if it is so hard to get some kind of behaviour
         | from an interviewee then maybe it is really not their kind of
         | behaviour? Not something they would do naturally without
         | nudging?
         | 
         | Judging by my own experience, it is hard to me to hide my
         | normal way of thinking, it needs some conscious effort, and if
         | given an excuse to talk along my normal line of thought I would
         | do it. And if I was nudged to do it and I didn't because I
         | thought it is not the right time or place for it, then it would
         | be a pathetic inability to read a situation I'm in.
         | 
         | Anyway it is all probabilistic judgements, you cannot get
         | anything certain in a psychology. But if you got a bunch of
         | probabilistic signals then you can decide probabilistically.
         | 
         | And you cannot get anything "objective" in psychology.
         | Everything is subjective, even formalized tests. To this day
         | people have no test that allows to decide if there is a human
         | on the other side of a communication. The best we have is
         | Turing Test which is laughable excuse for a test, not an
         | objective measure. We cannot reliably measure a difference
         | between human and non-human, how could we hope to measure
         | reliably a difference between a good hire and a bad one?
        
       | neilv wrote:
       | > _The second sentence (context /problem/solution) is important
       | for helping the candidate keep their initial answer focused--
       | otherwise, they are more likely to ramble for a long time and
       | leave less time for you to... Dig into details_
       | 
       | How about, instead of asking "Tell me about a time you...", and
       | you presuming to understand the situation so well that you can
       | make judgments about nuance based on the off-the-cuff example you
       | asked for, and trying to cut them short from "rambling"...
       | 
       | You instead ask them "Say you have a situation like X; how would
       | you approach it?" And you can change the situation by adding
       | information, "What if the report responds Y?"
       | 
       | Then both people are operating from closer to similar information
       | about the situation. (Though it's still possible that the
       | interviewee understands something about these situations in
       | general that the interviewer doesn't.)
       | 
       | This also avoids dredging up past unpleasant situations (someone
       | with more experience will have handled more unpleasant
       | situations, but that doesn't mean it doesn't invoke a somber
       | mood, if they're not acting or oblivious).
       | 
       | It also means they don't have to also think about how much they
       | can say under NDA and being discreet about personnel matters
       | (while a poor interviewer might take hesitation or choosing words
       | carefully as interviewee trying to put themselves in the best
       | light or keep a fabricated story straight).
       | 
       | An expected objection to this approach of spinning a hypothetical
       | situation is that candidates might just say what they think are
       | the correct answers. But knowing the correct answers is at least
       | half the problem. And what do you think many candidates are doing
       | in the interview anyway, if they are the kind to know the correct
       | answers, but not follow them in real life.
        
         | volkk wrote:
         | problem with hypotheticals is most people can give an ideal way
         | to handle a situation, but when the actual scenario presents
         | itself, they deal with it in a non ideal way. I'd like to find
         | out what that non-ideal way is and if the delta is small
         | enough, then that person meets the bar. i can also add
         | supplementary questions if i didn't get enough of a signal,
         | such as the one you presented (i.e what do you think you could
         | have done better)
         | 
         | should add that the more you dig, the better you can identify
         | where truth/embellishments lay. a reaaaaally good liar is rare
         | and you can somewhat tell across differing kinds of quetsions
         | where the red flags are. just need to create a robust system of
         | questioning. this all sounds dystopian as i write it, but
         | unfortunately that is the nature of interviewing
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | Both yours and the author's suggestions are great, will have to
         | give em a try.
         | 
         | So many candidates torpedo their own interview by doing that
         | "Word Salad" dump when you ask them a question. It's like they
         | have a bunch of unstructured responses prepared for any topic,
         | and if you mention one of those topics in your question, they
         | just unload the dump truck full of words and ramble until you
         | tell them to stop talking. Always looking for techniques to
         | steer candidates away from this behavior which sadly is
         | happening more and more.
        
           | JohnFen wrote:
           | That behavior is the result of nervousness and being in the
           | stressful and unpleasant situation of having to do interviews
           | at all. I'm not sure there's a lot that can be done to reduce
           | it, honestly.
        
           | neilv wrote:
           | That Word Salad dump sounds like something politicians will
           | sometimes do in a media interview. In that case, I guess they
           | want to project an image of having a response, and also hit
           | voter emotional notes and party talking points.
           | 
           | In job interviews, I guess part of the problem could be that
           | we've institutionalized "interview prep" rituals now, and
           | people train for the rituals, including things like the
           | "correct" answers to behavioral questions, and even the right
           | keywords to hit.
           | 
           | So, people not being confident of the answer they're trying
           | to get correct might kinda spam the Word Salad of keywords,
           | either as panicked flailing when they think they should be
           | talking, or because it's a conscious last-resort tactic (like
           | the standardized test prep classes that teach you what to do
           | when you don't know the answer but want to maximize your
           | score anyway).
           | 
           | One time I remember going kinda Word Salad myself, was in a
           | non-interview meeting, when I was escalating a serious issue
           | through official channels, a long time ago. The official in
           | the meeting was (unbeknownst to me, when I was going to a ton
           | of work to get this meeting) secretly misaligned with their
           | ostensible role, visibly very hostile to me from the start,
           | and misunderstanding something. There was insufficient
           | bandwidth to keep up with correcting them, and I realized
           | that the situation had just taken a very bad turn... so I
           | started desperately using rapid vague hand-waving generality
           | high-level summaries. Maybe this Word Salad-ish instance has
           | some overlap with some job interview Word Salads -- it's not
           | necessarily always that the interviewee doesn't know the
           | answer, but maybe the interviewer isn't getting something, or
           | is asking a poor question, or seems negative towards the
           | interviewee?
        
           | slyall wrote:
           | It's happening more and more because interviewers are asking
           | these questions.
           | 
           | They are looking for a nice story where I had conflict with
           | my manager I used STAR to solve it and everybody was happy.
           | 
           | So interviewees have to prepare such stories, remember the
           | details and adjust things to make them look good. Because
           | saying "I don't really remember anything like that happening
           | recently to me" or "We sat in stunned silence for a minute
           | and went on with the meeting" doesn't cut it during
           | interviews.
           | 
           | Maybe managers ask these "personal conflict" questions so
           | much because that is a bigger part of their job. But for ICs
           | (mostly anyway) they are pretty uncommon.
        
         | fifilura wrote:
         | "Say you have a situation like X; how would you approach it?"
         | 
         | This is the opposite to a behavioral question, as given by the
         | context.
        
         | throwaway98797 wrote:
         | > Say you have a situation like X; how would you approach it
         | 
         | everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face
         | 
         | that's why you ask what happened historically vs. what you
         | would do
         | 
         | if you ask me what will i do if you put a cookie in front of me
         | when im on a diet, id say id turn it down
         | 
         | historically, ive never turned down a cookie
        
           | neilv wrote:
           | Highly-trained boxers have a plan until they get punched in
           | the face.
           | 
           | A bigger problem is that you have a lot of people getting
           | into fights without even being able to think of a credible
           | plan in theory.
           | 
           | Tell me what your ideal self would do, and if you have great
           | answers, you're ahead of maybe most people. Even if you don't
           | know for certain that you wouldn't freeze the next time
           | you're punched in the face.
           | 
           | Also, the fighter who can relate multiple times they got
           | punched in the face and were stunned might still be a better
           | fighter than the one who cherry-picks a time they didn't get
           | stunned and can spin a story of the plan working out well.
           | (ObSeinfeld: karate class.
           | "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nuOtsgHjdY&t=3m17s")
        
         | btilly wrote:
         | As someone who has given such interviews, and been taught to
         | give such interviews, the first version works. Your version
         | doesn't.
         | 
         | This is illustrated by my single favorite interview question
         | was someone being interviewed for a senior devops role. The
         | question was, "What was the worst disaster that you've
         | personally caused?" The purpose of the question is, "When the
         | shit hits the fan, will you be in CYA mode?" The only wrong
         | answer was no answer. Anyone who has worked with production for
         | a long time, has made mistakes that cause a disaster. You
         | should have a good example, explain how you screwed up, and
         | what you learned from it.
         | 
         | If you ask people whether they will behave defensively.
         | Everyone will say that they don't. Ask them to come up with a
         | hypothetical where they don't behave defensively, and they'll
         | give you a great answer. But ask them to remember and talk
         | about a situation which it is natural to feel defensive about,
         | and you'll get an honest answer.|
         | 
         | That particular question extreme. If you haven't worked with
         | production systems for a long time, you probably don't have any
         | major disasters. But the same idea applies. And the best tool
         | interviewing I know of to get there is the STAR method. In turn
         | you ask for:
         | 
         | (S)ituation. What was the situation?
         | 
         | (T)ask. What task were you given in this situation
         | 
         | (A)ction. What did you do?
         | 
         | (R)esult. What was the outcome?
         | 
         | People have a really hard time faking it. Seriously try it.
         | Interestingly, the converse is also true. If someone asks a
         | question, a STAR response looks good. So much so that
         | interviewees are coached to do it.
         | 
         | If the devops question is off limits, what specific questions
         | can you ask? Well here is a real example. Amazon has a set of
         | leadership principles, you can find them at
         | https://www.amazon.jobs/content/en/our-
         | workplace/leadership-..., by which they judge employees. If you
         | interview with them, the recruiter will tell you to prepare
         | examples for all of them. You'll literally get questions of the
         | form, "Tell me about a time in the last 5 years that you
         | demonstrated (principle X)." That then walk through the STAR
         | method.
         | 
         | I have many complaints about different parts of Amazon. I have
         | no complaints about the effectiveness of their interviewing
         | system.
        
       | purpleblue wrote:
       | Any guide or blog post on how to interview that doesn't compare
       | interview notes to performance reviews after hiring someone is
       | basically bullshit.
       | 
       | Anyone can write a blog post about what they think is a good
       | interview but there's no empirical proof that their interview
       | technique works.
        
         | louwrentius wrote:
         | True to the extend that you'll never get a real evaluation,
         | because you'll never know how the people who were turned down,
         | would have fared.
        
       | khokhol wrote:
       | Good advice overall, and definitely an improvement over the usual
       | interview boilerplate that candidates have to trod through.
       | 
       | However, in some places it seems to be too cavalier -- in the
       | sense that it suggests we now have a magic prism with which we
       | can "diagnose" the candidate's shallowness or lack of candor.
       | When really they're just saying something basically innocuous.
       | Cause it's like, been a long and mostly boring interview process
       | so far, has it not, and they're trying to slog their way through
       | the canned / pre-programmed (if arguably necessary) part of the
       | process like you are.
       | 
       | For example, under "Things to watch out for":
       | 
       |  _High standards: if they say there's nothing they wish they'd
       | done differently, this may also be lack of embarrassing honesty,
       | or not holding themselves to a high standard_
       | 
       | Or they had a genuinely shitty experience (with high costs to
       | finances, relationships and/or health) that was 80 percent out of
       | the blue and beyond their control. And they'd really rather just
       | move on. Or if they did tell you the real context and their real
       | reasons for doing X -- you'd very likely ding them (quite likely
       | fatally) for doing so.
        
       | louwrentius wrote:
       | The hubris of those hiring tips & tricks posts never cease to
       | amaze me.
       | 
       | Hubris in the sense that they really think that they are doing
       | something right, so much so that they blog/post about it.
       | 
       | Yet, if I take this post as an example, I notice a lack of self-
       | reflection about bias en why you would interpret behaviour a
       | certain way and not another.
       | 
       | In the end, it's all subjective, and everybody is doing their
       | best, but how valuable is it really?
       | 
       | Especially, if you don't know anything about the
       | company/organization that this person is hiring for?
        
       | paulcole wrote:
       | One thing that I've noticed makes a difference is to be positive
       | and complimentary to the candidate at the start of the interview.
       | Make it clear that you're excited to talk to them and that you
       | are genuinely excited to hear what they have to say.
       | 
       | I've missed out on hiring good people who were nervous or worried
       | about doing a bad job in the interview. I'm sure I still do miss
       | out on some but I've found a method that lets some people feel
       | more comfortable without being overly difficult on me and can
       | live with that.
        
       | nitwit005 wrote:
       | > Ask how big of an effect something had and how they know.
       | (Example: I had a head of technical recruiting tell me "I did X
       | and our outbound response rate improved;" when I asked how much,
       | he said from 11% to 15%, but the sample size was small enough
       | that that could have been random chance!)
       | 
       | Where is this evidence in this post? What beneficial effects did
       | your new behavioral interviewing technique produce?
        
       | VincentEvans wrote:
       | Maybe it's just me, but whenever I hear a question like "tell me
       | about a time..." - I simply can't remember. These routine job-
       | related things just don't stick out in my mind as something to
       | catalog for some future contrived performance and disappear out
       | of my mind together with other uninteresting and unimportant
       | noise, like a name of the clerk at the DMV or what was advertised
       | during the commercial break when I turned on the TV in my hotel
       | room.
       | 
       | I suspect that people who readily jump in with an answer - are
       | the ones you claim to guard against, those who drilled and
       | trained for giving responses to these interviews.
        
         | slyall wrote:
         | I can still remember an interview that consisted of nothing but
         | those questions and I hadn't prepared answers so I either
         | answered "I can't think of a time sorry" or tried to recall one
         | on the spot. Interview was a train-wreck.
         | 
         | Since then I have a bunch written down that I review before I
         | interview. It's like leetcode questions, if you are going to
         | get them during the interview you study for them. You don't
         | expect to naturally solve them without prep.
        
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