[HN Gopher] How deceptive design is used to compromise your priv...
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       How deceptive design is used to compromise your privacy and how to
       fight back
        
       Author : yoaviram
       Score  : 155 points
       Date   : 2024-02-15 13:14 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | pettycashstash2 wrote:
       | Actually never thought about scrubbing my data from anywhere. How
       | many folks take an active approach to managing their "footprint"?
       | I'm sure there are fringe cases where this becomes important but
       | in general practicallly I have not done anything to wipe my data.
        
         | anticorporate wrote:
         | > How many folks take an active approach to managing their
         | "footprint"?
         | 
         | I actively manage my footprint now, but I have to admit that
         | getting started was a bit overwhelming. It's roughly on-par
         | with switching over to a password manager for someone who was
         | not using one before. It involves a lot of going through your
         | inbox to locate accounts and then navigating a slew of
         | different patterns for how to shut down your account, or at
         | least to scrub information you don't want revealed from those
         | accounts.
         | 
         | Once you get started, though, maintenance mode is fairly easy.
         | Those "terms of use update" emails are very handy in picking up
         | accounts you forgot you had and shutting them down. That, plus
         | having a couple of templates handy to copy/paste when you get
         | individualized outreach from sales teams.
         | 
         | The hardest part is that the majority of companies seem to have
         | no idea how to comply with requests, which leads me to believe
         | the number of people requesting removal of their data is much,
         | much lower than I would hope or expect. It's generally
         | incompetence, not malice. Or probably more accurately, it can
         | be a complex technical task that requires interdepartmental
         | cooperation to implement a good system, and few companies are
         | jumping up and down to fund expensive or complicated compliance
         | efforts in their sales and marketing teams .
        
           | emsixteen wrote:
           | > That, plus having a couple of templates handy to copy/paste
           | when you get individualized outreach from sales teams
           | 
           | Do you mind elaborating/sharing?
        
             | aesh2Xa1 wrote:
             | Not op, but I usually use the web form or an email address
             | provided by the company. An email is great for having a
             | "paper trail." Realistically, though, they either will
             | comply or else there's not much you can do.
             | 
             | I include a snippet like this one, which is for paper mail:
             | 
             | I'm writing to request that you please remove me from your
             | postal mailings list. I no longer wish to receive your
             | mailings. Please, also, do not rent or sell my name or
             | address to other organizations.
        
           | sillystuff wrote:
           | > The hardest part is that the majority of companies seem to
           | have no idea how to comply with requests... It's generally
           | incompetence, not malice.
           | 
           | After many experiences of broken CCPA compliance I'm
           | beginning to wonder if there is not a strategic component to
           | the widespread incompetence.
           | 
           | Last night, I tried a CCPA request against keenan.com that a
           | former employer had, apparently, "shared" my information with
           | several years ago. Keenan.com recently sent out data breach
           | announcements to let us know that they failed to properly
           | secure the personal data they collected/hoarded on us via our
           | [past] employers, and I wanted them to tell me what they
           | potentially disclosed and then delete my data. From the email
           | bounce message, they use Microsoft o356 hosted email, and
           | configured their ccpa contact email address they list on the
           | keenan.com website, "ccpa@assuredpartners.com" to only accept
           | mail from internal senders on their own domain(s). Maybe the
           | IT for keenan.com/assuredpartners.com is a clown show (they
           | did hoard data they no longer needed, and failed to secure
           | the data they collected/hoarded), but it seems unlikely that
           | every company, of the many I've encountered with broken CCPA
           | processes, would be similarly incompetent.
           | 
           | Several phone requests to other companies, using the CCPA
           | contact number on their websites were answered by folks who
           | have no idea what the CCPA even is.
           | 
           | One of the largest data brokers in the US failed to remove my
           | data following a CCPA request until I contacted the VP of
           | their legal department directly.
           | 
           | Most of my requests have either encountered (possibly
           | strategic) incompetence as the above, or malicious
           | compliance, where they make the process as time consuming and
           | annoying as they possibly can. E.g., a web form that requires
           | filling out the entire form repeatedly for each right you
           | wish to exercise under the CCPA.
           | 
           | TLDR, maybe evil companies are just being evil?
        
           | aqfamnzc wrote:
           | Related - Once I switched to using a password manager, I use
           | it as a convenient checklist to go through all my never-used
           | accounts and request deletion once every few years.
        
         | dfxm12 wrote:
         | Maybe this is a cynical, defeatist approach, but I operate
         | under the assumption that if I've ever put data out there, it's
         | already been sucked up by multiple databases & deleting it from
         | the source would be meaningless.
        
           | EvanAnderson wrote:
           | Yours is the only reasonable attitude. Given companies' track
           | records preventing data breaches you're right to assume that
           | any data about you being stored is effectively stored
           | indefinitely.
        
             | sonicanatidae wrote:
             | When the penalty barely reaches the level of "speeding
             | ticket", there is no incentive for them to comply.
        
               | gingerlime wrote:
               | the penalty can be significant under GDPR, but
               | enforcement is lacking severely
        
               | EvanAnderson wrote:
               | Malicious attackers don't have to comply with GDPR. Even
               | the best steward is one data breach away from public
               | disclosure.
        
           | Dalewyn wrote:
           | The internet never forgets, as the old saying goes.
        
           | svachalek wrote:
           | Like most defeatist attitudes, it's taking a realistic fact
           | and then drawing the wrong conclusion. No point washing the
           | dishes, they're just going to get dirty again. No point
           | wearing a seatbelt, we all die sometime. Etc etc.
        
             | kjkjadksj wrote:
             | They aren't wrong about everything being crawled though in
             | this case.
        
             | pettycashstash2 wrote:
             | How do you assume defeatist attitude? My time is more
             | valuable than to spend hours filling out removal forms.
             | Doing the removal has zero measurable perceived if not
             | actual benefit to me. If someone wants the data there are n
             | ways to get it. I spend my time on more value add
             | activities
        
               | tremon wrote:
               | _How do you assume defeatist attitude?_
               | 
               | Might have something to do with the GP's choice of words:
               | 
               | > Maybe this is a cynical, defeatist approach
        
             | dfxm12 wrote:
             | It would be helpful to learn possible _correct_ conclusions
             | in this specific case, if I 've jumped to a wrong one.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | You should not only assume that anything you put onto the
           | Internet will get sucked up by companies and become un-
           | deletable, you should assume that it will eventually be
           | freely searchable by anyone, including your spouse, employer,
           | neighbors, worst enemy, and so on... because breaches happen
           | all the time.
           | 
           | People should also understand that "put onto the Internet"
           | doesn't just mean typing something into a box and hitting the
           | "post" button. It also means:
           | 
           | - "Private" messages that go through an intermediary web
           | service
           | 
           | - All forms of cloud storage, including (especially) your
           | photos
           | 
           | - Any browsing history that can be associated with an IP
           | address that can be tied back to you
           | 
           | A lot of this stuff is one leaked password or SIM swap away
           | from being public data.
        
         | jmbwell wrote:
         | I assume taking any dispositive action at all only signals a
         | different kind of "engagement" to be tracked and eventually
         | monetized if not outright abused.
         | 
         | Like when you "Press 1 to be removed" or "text STOP to opt out"
         | -- all it does is move you to the mailing list they have for
         | people who think they're doing something that has any effect.
         | I'm sure that's valuable to a lot of marketers.
        
         | yetanother12345 wrote:
         | > "wipe my data"
         | 
         | You may be referring to "hiding your data from your own view"
         | ...
         | 
         | For SoMe and other organizations that have very large databases
         | it is a very common procedure (if not outright "best practice")
         | to NOT delete anything, but in stead "mark as deleted". The
         | data is still there, it is just no longer visible.
         | 
         | Of course such a practice means that your data (even if you
         | think you have deleted it) is still vulnerable to all the
         | standard (and non-standard) issues, from internal data mining
         | over data breaches to governmental requests, etc.
         | 
         | The only surefire way to avoid exposing yourself is to avoid
         | interacting with these services at all.
        
         | garspin wrote:
         | For many products/services I use a disposable email/login (from
         | duck.com) - the site gets some data, but it's wrong (DoB 1 Jan
         | 2000), anonymous and unrelated to any of my other disposable
         | logins.
         | 
         | Obviously doesn't work for anything that needs real phone# or
         | real physical address, but anything to reduce risk of data
         | breach, cross-referencing data, tracking helps.
         | 
         | I also use disposable digital credit card number (from
         | wise.com) for non-mainstream sites.
         | 
         | It's a lot easier than having to navigate the 'delete all my
         | data' maze.
        
       | snide wrote:
       | I'm one of those people that tries as best I can to use Google
       | products while also managing my privacy. One fun thing is
       | watching how privacy controls roll out across Google products. As
       | an example... I turn my watch history off on YouTube. That stuff
       | rolls out immediately on youtube.com, but took months to make it
       | to the Android version on my Shield TV. There were definitely gap
       | months where I'd see settings that were supposedly turn off in
       | some places, weren't actually turned off in others.
       | 
       | The design patterns can get pretty aggressive. Google right now
       | makes my youtube.com homepage blank, asking me to turn on my
       | watch history. A lot of time this is presented in a way not to
       | mention privacy, but to instead promote a "feature". "Turn this
       | feature on", not "Turn off your privacy". You get quite a lot of
       | roadblocks when you turn off settings like this, making the
       | products pretty hard to use.
       | 
       | It's nearly impossible to keep up with and figure it all out, and
       | I'm a UX designer by trade! A lot of these dark patterns are the
       | reasons I've moved more and more to alternative tools like Kagi
       | and Fastmail...etc.
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | I always search for videos on various peertube instances first.
         | There is too much stuff on youtube that isn't available
         | elsewhere at all though. (I can find a dozen fix whatever
         | problem for my car, I haven't found even one elsewhere)
        
           | lancesells wrote:
           | Piped and invidious instances are mirrors of Youtube.
        
             | userbinator wrote:
             | They're more like proxies.
        
         | blitzar wrote:
         | > Google right now makes my youtube.com homepage blank, asking
         | me to turn on my watch history.
         | 
         | Google right now fills my youtube.com homepage with what is
         | "popular" - seeing what is widely consumed crushes the last
         | hopes I have for civilization and makes me almost want to turn
         | back on my watch history so I can be oblivious to reality.
        
           | benterix wrote:
           | To make it a bit brighter for you, many of these are just
           | watched for a few seconds by bored teenagers sitting on a
           | toilet without nothing better[0] to do. I'd be very surprised
           | if people actually deliberately sat on the couch and spend
           | hours watching this crap.
           | 
           | [0] At least this is what they think/feel
        
             | twohaibei wrote:
             | I thought that too, until I visited my colleague who turned
             | on their tv on those braincell killing videos and presented
             | it as entertainment.
        
           | svachalek wrote:
           | It's weird, I've had mine go back and forth between blank,
           | popular garbage, and what seems to be inferred from
           | like/subscribe data without using watch history. I assume
           | this is some A/B testing flag they use and somehow I end up
           | in different experiments.
        
           | aqfamnzc wrote:
           | Oh man, me too. The garbage that fills the homepage of yt I
           | think is truly the least-common-denominator bottom barrel
           | stuff. We really have raced to the bottom with clickbait
           | titles, thumbnails with "WOW" faces and neon colors, etc.
           | (And that stuff really works! I find myself tempted sometimes
           | to click on one just to see if some outrageous claim or feat
           | is really true.)
        
         | temporallobe wrote:
         | If you pause your watch history in Youtube, it disables
         | suggestions in your feed and nags you to turn it back on. This
         | is definitely a dark pattern that tries to coerce users into
         | giving up some privacy. It's completely unnecessary and
         | disappointing, especially for premium users like myself.
        
           | alwayslikethis wrote:
           | The fact that you are still paying despite this shows they
           | can get away with this. Though for me, I guess it's a good
           | thing. Without a feed I am much less inclined to continue on
           | the site.
        
             | svachalek wrote:
             | There's still a subscription feed though, a chronologically
             | sorted list of only stuff you asked for. It's a beautiful
             | thing, a relic of a more civilized age.
        
             | banannaise wrote:
             | I think one of the big lessons of the last few
             | years/decades is that the wallet vote is ineffective at
             | best, in large part because many companies are doing far
             | more to entrench customer lock-in than provide customer
             | value, and you can't really move to an alternative product
             | if the alternatives are all doing the same thing.
        
         | BobaFloutist wrote:
         | > Google right now makes my youtube.com homepage blank
         | 
         | That's funny, I specifically have an add on to do that for me!
        
         | mikub wrote:
         | I have watch history turned off for long as it's possible. When
         | they started showing me the blank page with "Turn this feature
         | on" I was pleasently surprised because I prefer this to the
         | stupid preview pictures with people making happy/sad faces,
         | forming a heart with their hand or some other bullshit they can
         | come up with. God I really really hate that stuff.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | Yea, I really appreciate the bare YouTube home screen that
           | they present when you have Watch History turned off. It's
           | clean and basic, reminiscent of the main Google search page
           | before they stuffed it with animation, popups, dickbars and
           | the usual cruft.
           | 
           | The passive aggressive "Your watch history is off" warning
           | that you can't dismiss is the really the only thing bad about
           | it.
        
         | AndrewKemendo wrote:
         | They literally slow video loads based on if you have an ad
         | blocking script running on your own machine.
         | 
         | It's not even hidden, they promote this "feature"
        
         | rqtwteye wrote:
         | Same here. Kagi and Fastmail are doing exactly what they are
         | advertised as. With other platforms I feel constantly
         | manipulated into something I don't really understand but that's
         | pretty clearly against my interests.
         | 
         | Maybe there will be a backlash large enough to move away from
         | these huge ad supported platforms to more focused platforms
         | that actually have the users interest in mind. One can keep
         | dreaming
        
       | speckx wrote:
       | Also, look at the deceptive patterns of the Hall of Shame, which
       | has hundreds of examples of deceptive patterns used by companies
       | worldwide.
       | 
       | https://www.deceptive.design/hall-of-shame
        
       | foundart wrote:
       | If server is overloaded, use
       | https://web.archive.org/web/20240215135340/https://conscious...
        
       | yoaviram wrote:
       | Direct link to the guide (PDF): https://consciousdigital.org/wp-
       | content/uploads/2023/04/dece...
        
       | kls0e wrote:
       | The slides include a collection of e-mail templates on how to
       | react to different deceptive patterns - useful! Thanks.
        
       | nottorp wrote:
       | Isn't squeezing all the info in a bunch of slides "requiring a
       | disproportionate effort" ?
        
       | WaitWaitWha wrote:
       | I just watched someone complete their tax return online through a
       | commercial service.
       | 
       | At login they were asked for a phone number, which she refused
       | and chose "skip". When she got to the end of the filling, just
       | before submission, the system refused to move on without a mobile
       | phone where text could be sent. Oncethe text message was sent,
       | moved on. No way to remove the number from the account.
       | 
       | There is no need for the number. Deceptive design in the
       | beginning then extortion at the end.
       | 
       | There are people without mobile phones by choice and by force.
        
         | Liquix wrote:
         | that's a tried and true dark pattern. require little to no
         | information to begin using the service -> user invests time and
         | effort -> demand personal data AFTER they have invested ->
         | people are more likely to give up their privacy because closing
         | the tab means throwing away all the time they just spent.
         | scummy
        
       | otteromkram wrote:
       | Almost impossible to do if you are a job seeker. Either you
       | comply with a company's privacy agreement...or you don't apply
       | for the role.
       | 
       | I'm still not sure why companies want to send SMS messages to
       | candidates. Email or phone calls aren't fast enough? Come on.
        
       | kjkjadksj wrote:
       | Speaking of deceptive design, anyone know how to get apple to
       | effectively "deny and do not ask again" for things like socket
       | filters? A real pain to have to deny a cisco popup 3 times in a
       | row every time I reboot the machine. Then again this is how macos
       | handles things like itunes account prompts every time I brush
       | against the play pause buttons (ask 3 times in a row like a
       | toddler might then forget for next time).
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | Here's the link to report spam from a Google email account.[1]
       | This is for non-Google customers. Try to find it from Google's
       | help pages.
       | 
       | When you get there, you have to parse the email by hand,
       | extracting subject, header, and body, and paste those into
       | separate form blocks. That could be trivially automated, but no,
       | that would make it too easy.
       | 
       | Gmail is about as spam-heavy as Hotmail at this point. I'm
       | tempted to route everything not whitelisted from Google to the
       | junk folder.
       | 
       | [1] https://support.google.com/mail/contact/abuse
        
       | peter_d_sherman wrote:
       | _" Deceptive Design"_ -- now that phrase is going into my 2024
       | lexicon!
       | 
       | (Although, we should always consider Hanlon's Razor
       | (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanlon%27s_razor): "Never
       | attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by
       | stupidity" when levelling allegations that a given company or
       | companies have intentionally engaged in "Deceptive Design".)
       | 
       | Still, _" Deceptive Design"_ is a very descriptive phrase given
       | its terseness...
       | 
       | But there must also be a "corollary phrase" -- to describe the
       | same effect while reflecting non-malicious intent, AKA just plain
       | stupidity and/or unintentional ignorance...
       | 
       | How about:
       | 
       | "User Intent Non-Preserving User Interface" (UINPUI)?
       | 
       | Anyway, from a linguistic standpoint and used properly in the
       | correct contexts, _" Deceptive Design"_ could be a very useful
       | phrase...
        
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