[HN Gopher] "The Girls in Their Summer Dresses" - Irwin Shaw (1939)
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       "The Girls in Their Summer Dresses" - Irwin Shaw (1939)
        
       Author : bookofjoe
       Score  : 73 points
       Date   : 2024-01-15 19:48 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
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       | bell-cot wrote:
       | A nice short story.
       | 
       | Some things never change -
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend
        
         | shagie wrote:
         | Charlie Chaplin - Clip from Pay Day (
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_Day_(1922_film) )
         | https://youtu.be/evU2Hbs9JJM
        
       | dxbydt wrote:
       | Huh! Did not expect to see Irwin Shaw on HN in a million years.
       | Bread Upon the Waters is arguably his best work. Please give it a
       | read if you have plenty of time to kill. Very long & engrossing.
       | Basically, its a novel-length version of rayiner's rants, but way
       | more entertaining. You realize why family-first is good,
       | individualism bad, what happens if you substitute material
       | success for family stability, etc. etc. - old fashioned
       | moralizing in a convincing package. Cast your Bread Upon the
       | Waters, for you will find it after many days. Not.
        
       | Jun8 wrote:
       | A beautiful "battle of the sexes" themed story, all dialog,
       | similar to "Hills Like White Elephants" (that one was published
       | in 1927, maybe Shaw was influenced by it? Or it could be the
       | influence of his theater background).
       | 
       | This being 1939, one shouldn't visualize the women Michael was
       | ogling similar to the Distracted Boyfriend meme, luckily there's
       | a movie called "The Fifth Avenue Girl" from 1939 that gives an
       | idea what they were wearing at the time,
       | https://www.tcm.com/tcmdb/title/1222/fifth-avenue-girl/#over....
       | 
       | I read this story for the first time; another story that he
       | published in 1939, "Main Currents of American Thought" is widely
       | anthologized (I personally found it dreadful).
        
         | Jensson wrote:
         | Looked up clips from that movie, and they look like the
         | distracted boyfriend girl but with longer sleeves, so I don't
         | think it is such a big difference.
        
       | Wistar wrote:
       | Here is a great 1989 recording of "The Girls in Summer Dresses"
       | read by Canadian actor Jonathan Frid who played the reluctant,
       | guilt-ridden vampire Barnabas Collins on the TV soap opera "Dark
       | Shadows."
       | 
       | https://youtu.be/qI2Fe1f3BGU?si=1xPO-ISTyGzIyhvb
        
       | kwhitefoot wrote:
       | Wow. That was quite something.
       | 
       | I too looked at the pretty women. But in forty years of marriage
       | I never once took it even half a step further. I think my wife
       | was secure in the knowledge that I really was only looking.
        
         | arghwhat wrote:
         | Women also look at the pretty men.
        
           | all2 wrote:
           | Desire does run both ways. Ask any woman about Chris
           | Hemsworth or Dwayne Johnson or any number of other affluent
           | men.
        
       | whalesalad wrote:
       | How is this relevant to the audience here on HN?
        
         | 9dev wrote:
         | The audience of mostly-male, mostly-white, mostly-young,
         | mostly-affluent, readers? Those with a plausible interest in
         | historical details, for example how men almost a hundred years
         | ago felt the exact same about women as they do now?
         | 
         | Also, it's really a neat little story. Believe it or not, there
         | are people here appreciating that too.
        
           | bluishgreen wrote:
           | I doubt it's mostly white. The other filters might hold. But
           | that I suspect might not.
        
             | all2 wrote:
             | GP did say white. I'll acknowledge it.
             | 
             | Tbh, I don't think "white" matters in this context. Young,
             | male, (msotly) single, affluent, all have a similar
             | outlook, especially if their pride and drive are intact.
        
         | acchow wrote:
         | HN Sundays is a bit of a subculture within a subculture.
        
       | smackeyacky wrote:
       | Reading this I thought it was a very elaborate version of this
       | old joke:
       | 
       | A young married couple are lying in bed after making love. The
       | young wife turns to her husband and says "Darling, if I died,
       | would you marry again?"
       | 
       | The husband frowns and responds "Well, I've not thought about
       | that, but I expect after a suitable period of mourning I may
       | marry again".
       | 
       | The wife is less than pleased with his answer. "I see. Would you
       | move into this house?"
       | 
       | "Why, probably. Yes"
       | 
       | Further incensed the young wife says "Oh! Would you let her sit
       | in my favourite chair? Would you let her sleep on my side of the
       | bed? WOULD YOU GIVE HER ALL MY THINGS, EVEN MY GOLF CLUBS?"
       | 
       | He replies "Not your golf clubs, she's left handed"
        
       | goethes_kind wrote:
       | I cannot relate to this Michael. When I am in a relationship I
       | have tunnel vision. Prettiest girl in the world could come up to
       | me and I would walk right past her to go spend time with the girl
       | of my obsession. Ironically I feel as though this attitude of
       | mine tends to be detrimental during the dating phase. I give them
       | way too much attention and they lose respect for me.
        
         | all2 wrote:
         | I've got tunnel vision as well. I cannot say I obsess, but I
         | don't have eyes or desire for anyone but her.
         | 
         | > I give them way too much attention and they lose respect for
         | me.
         | 
         | I've done this. There's a balance in remaining an individual
         | and committing fully to a relationship. I think there's a lie
         | in the idea of being subsumed by a relationship. You have to
         | maintain your heading and keep the winds of purpose at your
         | back. Don't lose speed just because your heart is full. If
         | she's game, she'll be more than capable of keeping up.
        
         | danenania wrote:
         | How long of a relationship have you been in? I think your
         | experience is common early on during the honeymoon phase but
         | it's rarer if you're talking about multi-year, cohabiting long
         | term relationships or marriages.
        
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