[HN Gopher] Ask HN: How do you manage your finances?
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       Ask HN: How do you manage your finances?
        
       It's a complex topic - monthly cashflows, investing, retirement,
       philanthropy, estate planning. How do you do it all?
        
       Author : mbm
       Score  : 21 points
       Date   : 2024-01-10 20:31 UTC (2 hours ago)
        
       | huijzer wrote:
       | I've read a few dosen value investing books and would advise to
       | read Richer, Wiser, Happier by William Green. It has a bit of a
       | sketchy title but is actually a very good summary. The takeaway
       | is: if you are as dedicated as these value investors and want to
       | pick stocks then go and pick stocks, but for most people index
       | funds are probably the way to go. The book also talks a bit about
       | philanthropy.
       | 
       | Most importantly it talks about the mindset that you need for
       | good financial planning. A very long-term and patient mindset.
       | People who prefer to spend more than they own, for example, will
       | not be suited for investing since they typically can't wait long
       | enough.
        
       | more_corn wrote:
       | Spend less than you make. Stack rank your expenses and optimize
       | from the top down. Take advantage of 401k match. Volunteer your
       | time and preferably your brain. Invest in index funds.
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Love it.
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | This is almost exactly what I do, as well.
         | 
         | There are only two other things that I do on top of that: I
         | practice "pay yourself first" -- that is, I take 10% off the
         | top of every dollar that comes my way and park it where it's
         | really hard for me to get at it.
         | 
         | Then, I practice "repay your neighbors" -- that is, I take 10%
         | off of the remaining money and use it for philanthropic
         | purposes primarily focused on my local community (in the form
         | of monetary donations, or the equivalent in my time). The point
         | of this is to recognize that none of the success I've had could
         | have happened without the support of my community, and this is
         | a way to repay the favor.
         | 
         | Those two things happen before anything else -- before paying
         | bills, investing, saving, etc.
         | 
         | I don't micromanage my finances, primarily because I hate
         | dealing with money and focusing too much on it makes me
         | unhappy.
        
           | mbm wrote:
           | I like that, keeps it very simple and straightforward. Have
           | you always done it this way, or was there a previous
           | iteration?
        
             | JohnFen wrote:
             | I've been doing this for over 30 years. I've iterated to
             | this. The first iteration was not managing my money at all.
             | 
             | The watershed was when I had my first real success with my
             | own business, combined with having my first child (both
             | happened at about the same time). That forced me to face
             | the reality that some sort of money management was
             | essential, and through a couple of years of
             | experimentation, I settled on this as a balance that worked
             | well for me.
             | 
             | "Pay yourself first" is something I stole from the classic
             | book "The Incredible Secret Money Machine" by Don
             | Lancaster. That, by the way, is the only business book I've
             | read that I found real value in.
        
               | mbm wrote:
               | Indeed, that mantra is a key part of Rich Dad, Poor Dad
               | as well.
        
         | eetus wrote:
         | I feel like every company I've worked at talks about
         | "exploring" a 401k match every year, but never makes it happen.
         | After a merger or acquisition, they'll bring it up again but it
         | never happens.
        
       | heartag wrote:
       | I don't. I just wing it month-to-month and hate every second of
       | it.
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Ever caused any issues or all-good?
        
       | TheCaptain4815 wrote:
       | Utilizing Personal Capital and tracking every penny I spend.
        
       | Gortal278 wrote:
       | I Will Teach You to Be Rich Book by Ramit Sethi, is a good place
       | to start. He has lots of great free content on YouTube you can
       | check that out first and decide if you wanna give the book a try.
        
       | pastacacioepepe wrote:
       | Wait, you guys manage your finances?
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | The heresy!
        
       | mikhael28 wrote:
       | YNAB.
       | 
       | ynab.com - for power users only. If you don't actually care about
       | tracking your money, don't bother.
        
         | lotsofpulp wrote:
         | If you run all your spend through BoA credit cards for the
         | Platinum Honors cash back, BoA does it too.
         | 
         | https://www.bankofamerica.com/online-banking/mobile-and-onli...
        
         | eclipticplane wrote:
         | I replaced YNAB with TillerHQ. It dumps transactions into a
         | Google Sheet/Excel and came with some standard templates. It's
         | less opinionated than YNAB but way more flexibility.
         | 
         | E.g., I have formula-driven sheets that:
         | 
         | 1) Aggregate taxable transactions across accounts that I can
         | send to my CPA to prepare my quarterly tax payments
         | 
         | 2) Aggregate account balances and period-over-period changes
         | for my living trust that I send to my lawyer every year to
         | include in the trust's documents
         | 
         | 3) Flow into calculations for FiRE
         | 
         | 4) Flow into aggregated/filtered views that I can share with
         | specific family members, like showing what's in 529s I have for
         | some relatives
         | 
         | and it's entirely in a spreadsheet in my account -- if they go
         | out of business, all I have to replace is transactions import.
         | The rest of the tool is forever mine.
        
       | meiraleal wrote:
       | I spend much much less what I make (maximum 35%). So every month
       | I save at least 2 more months of living. Over the past 3 years
       | doing it regularly I have enough saved for some 10 years.
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Nice! Do you expect constant expenses for those 10 years?
        
       | nitwit005 wrote:
       | Poorly.
        
       | Mappleton wrote:
       | Lunch Money is a beautiful little independent app for personal
       | finances: https://lunchmoney.app/
       | 
       | Won't do lots of complex stuff like investment strategy and
       | estate planning, but covers all the essentials for a personal /
       | family budget.
       | 
       | Gives you a good overview of your spending, net worth over time,
       | and lots of charts and querying functionality. Made a big
       | difference for me. Before I was spread across a bunch of Google
       | sheets that I rarely updated.
        
       | Desafinado wrote:
       | - Adaptive Asset Allocation and The Intelligent Asset Allocator
       | 
       | - Define what your long term goal is then work backward, doing
       | the math
       | 
       | - Risk isn't the risk that you lose money, it's the risk that you
       | won't reach your long-term goal. Everything you do should aim at
       | the goal
       | 
       | - Prioritize your retirement fund over house and car expenses.
       | Make monthly deposits into a high interest savings account for
       | house and car maintenance. Withdraw when you use the balance.
       | Always, always contribute to your retirement fund.
       | 
       | - Save for insurance payments through the year in a high interest
       | savings account, pay a lump sum at the end of the year. This way
       | you earn, and don't pay interest.
       | 
       | - With investing you probably want a robo investor, and adaptive
       | asset allocation is the way to go
        
       | aynyc wrote:
       | Assuming your income and assets are reasonably well funded, hire
       | a hourly rate personal financial planner. Many finance books I've
       | read failed to mention INSURANCE (life, disability, umbrella,
       | etc.). In my view, insurance is paramount to secure your long
       | term future.
       | 
       | If you are still starting out, here is the general guideline:
       | 
       | 1. pay yourself (emergency fund first, then retirement funds
       | (401K, IRA), after that, special funds such as wedding, down
       | payment, etc.)
       | 
       | 2. protect yourself (term life if you have kids, medical, rental
       | or home owner insurance, etc.)
       | 
       | 3. pay your debts (pay off debts with the highest interest rate
       | first, that's usually credit cards, student loans, etc.)
       | 
       | 4. pay it forward (sponsor some worthy causes. I do children
       | international for 20 years now. Open source, etc.)
       | 
       | 5. be frugal, but enjoy life (frugal is good, but sometimes, it's
       | good to enjoy finer things every now and then)
       | 
       | 6. the remaining money goes to portfolio focus on growth
        
       | tatrajim wrote:
       | Read widely online and find a financially-oriented community that
       | matches your level of expertise and situation. Serendipity can
       | play a major role. Stumbling across early on LEAP (i.e. long-term
       | option) trading and later learning to navigate the complex world
       | of closed end funds, helped me -- after many twists and turns --
       | realize a very comfortable existence. Ruthless self-awareness of
       | one's limitations is useful. Expect to make many mistakes.
        
         | dt3ft wrote:
         | Never heard of LEAPs, will read in-depth about it! Thanks.
        
       | p915 wrote:
       | I am using firefly iii but recently testing actual budget. -
       | https://www.firefly-iii.org/ - https://actualbudget.org/
       | 
       | Quite interesting self-hosted tools with overlapping features.
       | Actual can also periodically sync with your bank to have your
       | most recent transactions on the app. it works with read-only
       | tokens.
        
       | Obscurity4340 wrote:
       | MoneyStats
        
       | xur17 wrote:
       | Everything flows into a spreadsheet I created that has a row for
       | each month, and tracks my spending, income, and net worth. The
       | data for each new row comes from a few different places.
       | 
       | Lunchmoney aggregates and categorizes my spending data.
       | 
       | My net worth is tracked in another spreadsheet that updates as
       | asset prices change. This spreadsheet also tracks my asset
       | allocation across my accounts, which is roughly based on the 3
       | fund portfolio from bogleheads (with a bit allocated to crypto as
       | well) [0].
       | 
       | In terms of cashflow, I use Fidelity's cash management account,
       | where I keep a buffer in a money market account. Income flows
       | into this account, and bills flow out. They automatically
       | liquidate the money market if I need more cash, which is nice.
       | 
       | And in terms of investing, historically I kept a 6 month
       | emergency fund, then invested the extra every few months based on
       | my desired asset allocation. More recently I have been increasing
       | my cash cushion with the intent of paying off my recently
       | purchased house in several years (since the interest rate makes
       | it less attractive).
       | 
       | [0] https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Three-fund_portfolio
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Thanks for sharing. What was it like purchasing a home in this
         | market?
        
           | xur17 wrote:
           | It was a mixed bag. Interest rates were higher, but I also
           | had a lot more negotiating leverage than I normally would
           | have had. The house I bought had been sitting for a few
           | monthd, which allowed me to get it for what I found to be a
           | fair price.
           | 
           | And interest rate wise, I figure I plan to pay it off early,
           | so I'm less concerned a out the rate.
        
             | mbm wrote:
             | Good deal. Yeah, we recently did a small search and had a
             | similar impression, but prices simply hadn't fallen enough
             | in our market to justify moving forward.
        
       | skydhash wrote:
       | After a few years managing my finance after learning that I
       | should do it (review of my first year of full time work), what I
       | retain is two things: Envelope budgeting, Every dollar is used,
       | and don't sweat the small stuff. I have an envelope for each
       | category of spending, each goal and one for saving. My income is
       | split between these everytime I get it. I don't bother tracking
       | small expenses (less than 10$) if it's not done automatically
       | (credit card). I used Ynab first, then banktivity, now I use
       | Ledger.
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       | My goal is only to track If I'm not spending more than necessary
       | and my runway if I have no income.
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Just to clarify, you primarily use cash for day-to-day
         | spending? And does that extend to bill pay as well?
        
       | tombert wrote:
       | Obviously there's an infinite rabbit hole you can go down, but
       | what I do is pretty straightforward.
       | 
       | Short term money: stored in a relatively normal checking account.
       | 
       | Mid term money: United States Treasury Bills. They typically beat
       | bank interest, are just as safe (if not safer) as an FDIC bank
       | account, and depending on where you live have a lower tax burden
       | than regular bank interest.
       | 
       | Long term: Vanguard ETFs. I don't have a ton of interest in
       | spending hours every day trying to beat the market. I figure that
       | as long as I can wait out bad economies, it's better to invest in
       | the total market than basically anything else. If you're willing
       | to hold onto the ETF longer than a year, typically the capital
       | gains tax burden is lower than the income tax you'd pay in bank
       | interest. Something like VOO or VTI are fairly low risk and since
       | they're not human-managed they have really low fees.
       | 
       | I am unemployed right now, but typically when I get a paycheck I
       | immediately put 10%-15% of it into some form of the above
       | savings, before I pay any bills. For psychological reasons I
       | don't really understand, if I pay my bills right away I never
       | have any money left, but if I put 10%-15% aside immediately I
       | still manage to pay my bills while also having savings.
        
         | mbm wrote:
         | Awesome feedback, thanks for sharing. I like the Vanguard ETFs
         | as well, keeps the long-term investing very simple.
        
       | fjd wrote:
       | This is not financial advice but here's what I do:
       | 
       | High level - "Earn, Save, Invest"
       | 
       | In order for your money to make more money you need to execute
       | all three steps: Figure out how to make money, manage not to
       | spend it, and produce a return from that money.
       | 
       | Try to optimize each step. Make more money if you can / are
       | comfortable (deserve a raise? change companies/jobs? start a side
       | hustle?). Spend less (make and live by a budget, cook your own
       | food, buy used, get cheap hobbies, stop keeping up with the
       | Joneses). Understand the tax efficiency, risks, potential
       | returns, and effort required from different types of investments.
       | 
       | I take credit for none of the ideas above, they are cobbled
       | together from various online sources. Some things to search /
       | places to start: Reddit personal finance flowchart, The
       | Millionaire Next Door, Index / Boglehead investing.
        
       | rubberband wrote:
       | I check my bank account every week or so. If it's above 0, I
       | consider it a win.
       | 
       | Wish I was kidding :/
       | 
       | I tried YNAB and it was too cumbersome. If I were to try again,
       | I'd go for some low-tech Exel option.
        
       | AdilZtn wrote:
       | I use finary, I can monitor in one app my finances
        
       | vehemenz wrote:
       | It's as conplex as you want it to be.
       | 
       | My household has a high savings rate, around 50-60%, so I don't
       | actively monitor anything monthly. A few times a year I will dump
       | excess savings into retirement, college funds, etc.
        
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