[HN Gopher] A Guide for Prospective Tea Monks
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       A Guide for Prospective Tea Monks
        
       Author : edward
       Score  : 115 points
       Date   : 2024-01-08 12:35 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | selykg wrote:
       | This book is one of my favorites ever. Both it and the sequel are
       | amazing. My understanding is that Becky Chambers does not have
       | any more books planned but hasn't ruled out writing more. But I
       | really really hope we see more books. This world just calms me,
       | the characters are wonderful and reading these books is almost
       | like meditation for me.
       | 
       | It's really interesting how these books have captured my
       | attention.
       | 
       | If any of you out there have similar books you'd recommend I'd
       | love to hear about them.
        
         | schneems wrote:
         | I assume you've read wayfarers. There is more drama in that
         | series but it's still quite good.
         | 
         | I'm in other recommendations as well. Robot and monk is a quick
         | and easy read. I've already read it twice.
        
         | SamWhited wrote:
         | > My understanding is that Becky Chambers does not have any
         | more books planned but hasn't ruled out writing more.
         | 
         | Ooh, that's really sad to hear; I had assumed it would be a
         | trilogy with the city being the last one!
         | 
         | If the first book typifies the climbing-the-mountain archetype
         | (quite literally in the books case!) and the meaning crisis,
         | the second is a great exploration of neo-luddism and being
         | critical of new technologies effects on people (even if the
         | technology by itself isn't bad), and I was really looking
         | forward to her view of anti-car, utopian urbanism with a third
         | one.
        
         | SamWhited wrote:
         | > If any of you out there have similar books you'd recommend
         | I'd love to hear about them.
         | 
         | I don't know how similar they are, but someone recommended
         | "Noor" by Nnedi Okorafor recently when I asked this same
         | question and I really enjoyed it. It's less hopeful of a world,
         | and less calming, but also has a lot of similarities in terms
         | of being accepting of technology and how it can improve our
         | lives while also being critical of its impacts on people and
         | not just blindly using/creating it for the sake of "progress".
        
           | disgruntledphd2 wrote:
           | The Nine Worlds series by Victoria Goddard is pretty
           | different, but similar in prose styling (at least to my
           | untutored ear).
           | 
           | Start here I suppose:
           | https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/43525897
        
             | astrospective wrote:
             | I adore these, I'd agree there's something of a similar
             | vibe going on between them. Lots of optimism, but not in a
             | saccharine way.
        
         | aaomidi wrote:
         | This book is seriously my #1.
        
         | ryukafalz wrote:
         | I read both of them recently and agree with all of that. They
         | drew me in instantly. Something about how peaceful the world in
         | those books is, I think.
        
         | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
         | Have you considered Nghi Vo's singing hills cycle novella
         | series? Produced pretty consistently, about a monk who travels
         | and collects stories with their photographic memory bird. I
         | always found this fantasy series comfy and lush. I also
         | recommend the Birdverse series by R. b. Lemberg (The Four
         | Profound Weaves novella and The Unbalancing Novel), which is
         | all about themes of emotional connection and community.
        
       | NegativeLatency wrote:
       | There's also a good interview with Becky Chambers from the long
       | now foundation: https://longnow.org/ideas/resisting-dystopia/
        
       | FrustratedMonky wrote:
       | So glad this was posted. I have never heard of this author, and
       | literally just now at this moment I was looking for something
       | like this. Some real life serendipity . Then went down the rabbit
       | hole of checking out the author and her other books. This seems
       | so under the radar.
       | 
       | Could use some hopepunk
       | 
       | From Wired article:
       | 
       | "" Chambers' name has come to be associated with a specific type
       | of science fiction. It's known, cutesily and somewhat
       | oxymoronically, as hopepunk. ""
       | 
       | https://www.wired.com/story/is-becky-chambers-ultimate-hope-...
        
         | mtremsal wrote:
         | It sounds similar in tone to solarpunk novellas. Great to have
         | one more keyword to search.
        
       | patja wrote:
       | To each their own, but I could not finish that book. Too much
       | plodding coziness. It felt like reading something written by Cory
       | Doctorow -- a lecture wrapped in a novel. But without any of the
       | compelling momentum Doctorow employs to carry the allegory. Maybe
       | it would have picked up a bit if I stuck with it, but I quickly
       | tire of being hit on the head over and over with an author's
       | novel-length not-so-thinly-veiled self-help message that perhaps
       | should have been an opinion piece or short article.
        
         | csours wrote:
         | > I quickly tire of being hit on the head over and over with an
         | author's novel-length not-so-thinly-veiled self-help message
         | that perhaps should have been an opinion piece or short
         | article.
         | 
         | Would you like a cup of tea and a chat?
        
           | stevenAthompson wrote:
           | I liked the vibe, but I felt like it was either poorly
           | written or my reading skills need help.
           | 
           | The pronouns were very confusing. The author used "they" to
           | replace he/she, and I often couldn't tell if a sentence
           | referred to the main character or a group.
           | 
           | I became frustrated and put the book down.
        
             | csours wrote:
             | I had a similar experience when writers started using 'she'
             | as a default pronoun. It would catch in my brain and I'd
             | have to think about it, because it was different. I think
             | it's fine to feel that way.
             | 
             | I feel like it's very easy on the internet to misunderstand
             | discomfort and misattribute feelings.
        
               | zellyn wrote:
               | Same here. As someone who went through every available
               | golden-age SciFi book in any library near me as a kid, I
               | think the modern crop of diversity in Science Fiction is
               | a welcome relief. It's not all good, naturally, and it's
               | hard to compete with that early profusion of new ideas,
               | but it sure feels less barren.
        
               | margalabargala wrote:
               | The very real ambiguity of using singular-vs-plural
               | "they" is something that can be commented on and
               | discussed, and is a linguistic weakness of that pronoun's
               | increasing popularity. The english language already has
               | that ambiguity surrounding "you", but since the
               | reader/listener is included in a plural "you" it's easier
               | for them to discern singular/plural.
               | 
               | It's not quite the same as the catch in one's brain of
               | encountering something that is unusual but information-
               | complete; there can be truly ambiguous situations where
               | the meaning of a sentence is fully changed depending on
               | whether the author intends a singular or plural "they".
               | Thus its use is a valid criticism one can have of a book,
               | where understanding the author's meaning is kind of the
               | point.
               | 
               | Of course, introducing that ambiguity intentionally, or
               | getting people used to the use of singular-they and
               | getting better at distinguishing singular-vs-plural
               | through practice and context can itself be part of the
               | author's point :)
               | 
               | It's still probably the best non-gendered singular
               | pronoun we have in english.
        
             | at_a_remove wrote:
             | The reason you were confused is that pronouns, _correctly
             | used_ , can somewhat help de-obfuscate which person is the
             | subject, which is the object, and so on.
             | 
             | Imagine you have a man, another man, and a woman.
             | 
             | "He hit her" tells you the subject and helps narrow down
             | who was doing the hitting, and that there was one witness.
             | "She hit him" tells you who did the hitting and narrows
             | down who was hit, and that there was one witness.
             | 
             | "It hit it" (using "it" as a pronoun, _Blindsight_ -style,
             | as well as others) only lets you know that hitting has
             | happened and that one person was a witness.
             | 
             | "They hit them" tells you that hitting has occurred. No
             | indication if it was a group thing or not, if there was an
             | uninvolved witness.
        
         | zellyn wrote:
         | "Too much plodding coziness" -- I mean, you're not wrong! The
         | coziness (and the literal plodding) are kinda the point.
        
         | ElevenLathe wrote:
         | On the other hand, it's /very/ short. Wasn't totally my cup of
         | tea (picked it up because I LOVED her "Wayfarers" books -- /The
         | Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet/ and the two sequels) but I
         | finished it in just one cup of tea.
        
         | lmm wrote:
         | It's pleasant and cosy, sure. I didn't feel it had or needed a
         | "message"; it felt more like an "Iyashikei" (or "Cute Girls
         | Doing Cute Things") story. (Interesting how those have come to
         | be perceived as somewhat alt-right aligned, whereas Chambers is
         | coming from the other side politically).
        
       | csours wrote:
       | I enjoy exploring different perspectives - something Sci Fi often
       | does for me.
       | 
       | I especially enjoy when I find a book that enables a new
       | experience. Becky Chambers has done this for me.
       | 
       | You can read Philip K Dick's Ubik for a real head trip, and then
       | come back to Psalm to mellow out.
        
       | azeirah wrote:
       | This has a lot of overlap with the volunteer work I do. It's a
       | charity for people with autism
       | 
       | Once or twice a month me and a colleague gather and a couple of
       | people are invited to talk about themselves, their lives and
       | usually their problems. We have no professional experience, the
       | only requirement is that you're "familiar" in some sense with the
       | problems and/or life of people with autism.
       | 
       | Practically all we do is listen, and guide the conversation when
       | it doesn't flow naturally. We're not bound by any therapeutical
       | distance guidelines, we're allowed to become friends with
       | visitors if it makes sense or if we wish to do so.
       | 
       | It is in a group setting, so it's not one-on-one like the tea
       | monk. We do serve (very basic!) tea and coffee though.
       | 
       | Most of the time, visitors leave feeling better :)
        
       | caseyf wrote:
       | this is a short story (the audio version is 4 hours long) and i'd
       | recommend it to anyone who is feeling lost, rudderless, burned
       | out...
        
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