[HN Gopher] New York restaurants fight back against reservations...
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       New York restaurants fight back against reservations by bots
        
       Author : lxm
       Score  : 80 points
       Date   : 2023-11-10 16:33 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
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       | karaterobot wrote:
       | This doesn't seem like an unsolvable problem, they'd just have to
       | bite one of a number of bullets to verify that the person who
       | made the reservation is the person who showed up to the
       | restaurant: restaurants insisting on strict identity verification
       | for the reservation systems they use, or a rule that says the
       | name on your credit card or driver's license must match the name
       | of the person who made the reservation in order to be seated.
       | People would naturally complain, but if the _reservations_ are
       | going for up to $300, I assume the restaurants have some
       | leverage.
       | 
       | Or just go back to telephone reservations. If you hear the same
       | voice calling over and over, you tell them there aren't any more
       | reservations available. Imperfect, yes, but cheap.
        
         | dfxm12 wrote:
         | _they 'd just have to bite one of a number of bullets to verify
         | that the person who made the reservation is the person who
         | showed up to the restaurant_
         | 
         | Once someone shows up for a reservation, it's too late to
         | really do anything about it. No restaurant is going to turn
         | away money like that. Popular enough spots may have a line at
         | the door, but you also don't want to risk a commotion turning
         | away hungry people with money and some evidence of a
         | reservation.
         | 
         | Plus, fine dining places like some of these are as much about
         | the atmosphere and service as the meal. Being treated with such
         | suspicion would put a bad taste in my mouth before my first
         | bite of food...
        
           | karaterobot wrote:
           | I can see that argument. If it wrecks these reservation
           | scammers, it'd be better in the long run. But maybe
           | restaurants aren't in the position (or of the mindset) to
           | play a game of chicken like that (chicken is no game at a
           | restaurant...)
           | 
           | But in general, the restaurants which are most affected by
           | this scheme are the ones who are likely in the best position
           | to do something about it. They may lose some customers who
           | bought fraudulent reservations, which seems like not much of
           | a loss. They may also lose some people who get mad about
           | being questioned. But, in the long run, I think they'd win
           | more fans among people who couldn't go to the restaurant at
           | all when all the reservations were scooped up by bots.
        
             | SOLAR_FIELDS wrote:
             | Exactly. It almost feels like a non problem. You only have
             | this problem when your restaurant is in such high demand
             | that it's worthwhile to be targeted by bots. If your
             | restaurant is in such high demand, you have several tools
             | at your disposal and the wherewithal to police reservations
             | much more than some other less in demand restaurant. But
             | those less in demand restaurants will never have this
             | problem in the first place. And like you said, if you're
             | that in demand, you can afford to lose a few customers
        
       | dfxm12 wrote:
       | Instead of relying on these services like Resy, these places can
       | go back to having to call for a reservation. I'm not a restaurant
       | owner, so I'm sure what this tradeoff entails. You can also
       | charge for a reservation, but not every place will be able to get
       | away with that, as it will turn off legitimate diners, too.
        
         | SOLAR_FIELDS wrote:
         | Or just literally charge a deposit for the reservation.
         | Restaurant owners are loathe to do this due to fear that it
         | will drive away customers but if you are a restaurant where
         | bots are a problem in the first place like the subject matter
         | then you certainly have enough demand to justify doing so. The
         | most in demand (eg Michelin star) restaurants already mostly do
         | this
        
           | dfxm12 wrote:
           | What do you mean "or"? Did you read my comment? :)
        
             | bee_rider wrote:
             | I wonder if they interpreted your "charge" as more like a
             | surcharge or fee, rather than a deposit.
        
           | bee_rider wrote:
           | The system of reservations with no cost or cancellation fee
           | actually seems like it ought to provide more-or-less no
           | signal, come to think of it.
        
           | euroderf wrote:
           | I'd think that a modest fee (like, five bucks ?) would filter
           | out most of the robononsense.
        
         | well_actulily wrote:
         | AI assistants that are able to do routine phone calls are only
         | going to get better, though.
        
         | dangus wrote:
         | If you go back to phone calls only, you need a person earning a
         | wage to sit on the phone instead of doing something else.
         | 
         | And then you'll get AI bots making calls anyway (Google already
         | does this)
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Not sure what that changes? Scalpers can very easily outsource
         | making phone calls to some call center for pennies, while
         | legitimate customers will now find it harder.
        
       | crazygringo wrote:
       | I've never understood why restaurants themselves don't charge for
       | prime-time reservations. If scalpers can do it, the restaurant
       | can too.
       | 
       | Because let's be honest -- dining at certain highly exclusive
       | restaurants on a Friday night is just as much of an event as
       | going to the theater. These aren't neighborhood restaurants with
       | average food that are meant for locals that we're talking about
       | here. These are fancy. If you want to eat at 7 pm on Friday, why
       | _shouldn 't_ it be more expensive than Tuesday at 5 pm?
       | 
       | And if restaurant owners don't want to take advantage, they can
       | always offset it by lowering the food and drink prices slightly
       | the whole week long. (Not that they're obligated to -- making a
       | profit is already hard enough as is.)
        
         | richiebful1 wrote:
         | I've been to a restaurant that already does this: pay $X a
         | head, with that dollar amount applied to your bill. I want to
         | say one of the big restaurant POS providers (maybe Toast)
         | provided the infrastructure behind it.
        
           | jahnu wrote:
           | I read POS as something angry before I read Point Of Sale!
        
             | hooverd wrote:
             | If you've worked food service or retail those are
             | interchangeable.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | > with that dollar amount applied to your bill
           | 
           | that's smart, that way you get tricked into including yet
           | another line item in your tip
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | They mean the deposit to reserve goes toward purchasing
             | whatever you buy to eat.
        
         | bombcar wrote:
         | Many bars and such already basically do this - they call it
         | "happy hour" and it's often a whole afternoon until the rush.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Yeah, I often like eating earlier and in some places, happy
           | hour can be a really good deal. Just ate at my standard pre-
           | theater place a couple nights ago that has $1 oysters--which
           | I love but hate spending $3 each on.
        
         | heisenbit wrote:
         | In my city in Germany they are now doing exactly that - no show
         | must pay. While there is no flood of bots we have trade fairs
         | and too many people hosting a group guests started reserving
         | seats in Chinese, Italian, Steak etc. restaurants to later
         | offer their guest a last minute choice.
        
           | barbazoo wrote:
           | > no show must pay
           | 
           | Out of curiosity, how does that work? When making a
           | reservation do you have to provide your credit card? I highly
           | doubt that given that it's Germany :) Seriously though, how
           | do they make people pay?
        
             | ducklingquack wrote:
             | Exactly that: "Please provide your card to complete the
             | booking". I was so pissed about it I signed up for Revolut
             | (for their single-use cards). Funnily enough, restaurants
             | that force you to do this are neither the best nor
             | especially highly rated.
        
         | bradleyjg wrote:
         | Many people get mad if these things are made too explicit.
        
         | justinlkarr wrote:
         | I think this is actually common now. I'm often asked to make a
         | deposit on a reservation when using Resy.
         | 
         | I'm not aware that there is variable or dynamic pricing
         | component to it, however. That's a great idea and something I
         | bet they are considering.
         | 
         | In practice, dynamic pricing it is not a panacea. You still
         | need to beat the arbitrage market. Charge too much: customers
         | don't reserve. Charge too little: brokers snap it up.
        
           | eternauta3k wrote:
           | Auction them off :)
        
         | nurple wrote:
         | Most restaurants will have a cheaper menu for lunch than for
         | dinner. Nice places will usually have different menus, but many
         | just serve the same for simplicity and cost.
        
         | bmmayer1 wrote:
         | I can speak to this! I was "canceled" in 2014...before it was
         | cool...for doing exactly this[0]
         | 
         | A couple reasons restaurants don't do this:
         | 
         | 1) Loss of quality control over customer experience. For
         | example they provide a $100 dinner, but the client expects a
         | $200 dinner. That creates bad experience
         | 
         | 2) Desire to maintain accessibility on price point (same
         | reasons artists don't charge more for tickets) and perceived
         | inequities of charging extra for reservations
         | 
         | 3) Rewarding loyal customers who value the food / brand /
         | hospitality rather than the highest bidder which tends to bring
         | in out-of-towners, Amex centurion card holders, wannabe
         | influencers -- people that don't help create loyalty
         | 
         | There are many other reasons I'm sure as well. Most
         | chefs/GMs/owners I talked to at the time emphasized that they
         | sincerely are not in this for the money, and yes, they like to
         | make a living, but being able to build a community of food
         | lovers who are passionate about their brand is what they really
         | care about. I ended up pivoting to try to build a shift
         | management app soon thereafter...didn't work out but a good
         | entrepreneurship lesson!
         | 
         | [0]https://techcrunch.com/2014/07/03/everyone-seems-mad-at-
         | rese...
        
           | MichaelZuo wrote:
           | These reasons seem to only apply if the surcharge applied to
           | every reservation?
           | 
           | Could only charging for peak times cause these downsides?
        
             | sumtechguy wrote:
             | There is another way. It involves no money and nothing for
             | the restaurant to do. First come first serve. Basically you
             | want in. Show up and stand in line.
        
               | touisteur wrote:
               | Many places in Paris do that now with virtual waiting
               | line (show up, get a number and an ETA, get bipped when
               | it's about to be your turn...). Nice when in a walkable
               | nice neighborhood.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | One downside is that means you basically can't go to that
               | restaurant pre-theater or pre- some other fixed time
               | event. Though you're eating earlier if you're doing that
               | anyway.
        
               | rat9988 wrote:
               | Sure, that's how it works, and reservation is the
               | solution to it, not the other way around.
        
               | YetAnotherNick wrote:
               | Depends. For me, being in home is much better option than
               | standing in a queue with unknown waiting time just to get
               | the previlige of eating in a restaurant. Most people go
               | to resturant not as neccessity but a optional visit to
               | spend good time. And this solution takes away good time.
               | 
               | I agree for places like doctors visit though. Everyone
               | should stand in queue rather than a limited reservation.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | It was never cool. Popular and profitable no doubt today, but
           | literally every consumer there is hates the dynamic pricing
           | model.
        
             | kelnos wrote:
             | I think the GP was referring to "cancelling people" when he
             | said "before it was cool".
             | 
             | But I do agree with your point ;)
        
           | paxys wrote:
           | I mean yeah, doing it as a third party service without the
           | restaurant's involvement or consent will obviously get you
           | backlash. People aren't pissed with Dorsia, for example,
           | which does it right.
        
           | dylan604 wrote:
           | > 2) Desire to maintain accessibility on price point (same
           | reasons artists don't charge more for tickets)
           | 
           | since when were there not different prices for tickets based
           | on seating? if a concert is only one or two nights, then the
           | nose bleed seats could be the same as eating at the
           | restaurant on a Tuesday night, while the front row seats
           | would be eating on Friday nights.
        
           | kelnos wrote:
           | People hated your business because you brought ticket
           | scalping to the restaurant world. Many years ago, I went on a
           | couple dates with a 'professional' ticket scalper; as soon as
           | I found out what she did (which she tried to hide with
           | several all-too-transparent euphemisms), I noped right out of
           | there. These people are the worst of capitalism.
           | 
           | I don't think most people mind when a restaurant sells the
           | moral equivalent of tickets to dining slots ahead of time.
           | I've visited restaurants that do that, and had no problem
           | with it.
           | 
           | The issue is that you were taking something that was free
           | (open reservation slots), and then forcing people to pay for
           | them if they wanted to dine there... when they could have
           | just made a reservation -- perhaps farther in advance -- for
           | free.
           | 
           | I agree that most people in the restaurant business aren't in
           | it for the money (if they are, they've picked the wrong
           | industry). But scalping reservations to their restaurants is
           | making things worse, not better.
        
             | earleybird wrote:
             | Fair to say "exploiting the commons for personal gain"?
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Plenty of high end restaurants in the city do this. The problem
         | is that it usually makes things worse. If I want to book a
         | dinner, and the restaurant has something like a $200 non-
         | refundable deposit, I'm going to think long and hard before
         | committing because my plans can always change. A bot on the
         | other hand wouldn't hesitate because they can turn around and
         | sell the reservation to anyone they want. The deposit is simply
         | a cost of doing business for them.
        
           | koolba wrote:
           | > A bot on the other hand wouldn't hesitate because they can
           | turn around and sell the reservation to anyone they want. The
           | deposit is simply a cost of doing business for them.
           | 
           | If the spot itself is actually worth $200 then the restaurant
           | was forgoing that per seat and suddenly made $5000+ per day.
           | No restaurant is going to pass up $1.8M of "free" revenue.
           | 
           | Either the seats are worth the price or they're not.
        
             | paxys wrote:
             | It isn't free revenue. The deposit is applied to the final
             | bill.
        
               | koolba wrote:
               | It's free revenue if it's not transferable.
        
               | paxys wrote:
               | If you mean restaurants need to start checking everyone's
               | ID at the door to ensure the names on the reservations
               | match then no, no one wants that.
        
               | jrockway wrote:
               | I'm fine with that. They should do it for concerts, too.
               | A little bit of inconvenience is often better than paying
               | market price; you can easily fill every restaurant in the
               | city every night with people that make more money than
               | me.
        
               | codetrotter wrote:
               | I don't have a drivers license. The only ID I have is my
               | passport. I never carry my passport except when I know
               | that I need it. I don't expect needing to bring my
               | passport to go to a restaurant. Imagine I saved up money
               | for a special restaurant visit, got the reservation and
               | paid the $200 deposit but didn't notice I would have to
               | bring my ID. I show up and.. the night is ruined and my
               | $200 is lost because I can't prove my identity to the
               | staff at the restaurant with a valid ID, since that one
               | is still at home.
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | Pretty sure you're in the minority here, to the point
               | that a restaurant that felt they needed to implement this
               | sort of thing could easily just not care about your
               | business, and be fine. Most people (in the US, don't know
               | where you're from) have at least a state-issued ID if
               | they don't have a driver's license.
               | 
               | Restaurants should of course disclose -- very clearly --
               | at reservation time that the deposit and slot are not
               | transferable, and that IDs will be checked at the door.
               | If you choose to make that reservation, knowing that, and
               | then show up without an ID, that's on you.
               | 
               | > _... but didn't notice I would have to bring my ID_
               | 
               | That would fall under the category of "that's on you".
               | 
               | Regardless, I would hope that a restaurant would try to
               | find another way to verify you are who you say you are,
               | like perhaps asking for the credit/debit card you used to
               | make the reservation, or even just asking to see
               | _something_ on your person that looks vaguely difficult
               | to forge and has your name on it. We 're not talking
               | about a high-security situation here.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | I'm basically never a no show though I do sometimes cancel
           | day-of if something comes up. I really hesitate to put down a
           | deposit that I can't cancel because stuff does come up,
           | especially when traveling.
        
         | spyder wrote:
         | One of the reason is mentioned in the article:
         | 
         |  _" When guests drop $100 or more just to walk in the door,
         | "people have [the] wrong expectation when they come" he says
         | because those expectations might be unreasonably high."_
        
         | sva_ wrote:
         | > I've never understood why restaurants themselves don't charge
         | for prime-time reservations. If scalpers can do it, the
         | restaurant can too.
         | 
         | Some do charge something like $50 for the reservation. And if
         | you can't come because there is a major blizzard in the city,
         | tough luck ...
        
         | wenc wrote:
         | I think Tock tried to do dynamic pricing for tables. (Tock was
         | founded by Nick Kokonas a former Chicago mercantile exchange
         | trader and co owner of Chicago-based Alinea). Alinea also has
         | other ways to prevent no shows like selling tickets etc.
         | 
         | Tablz from Toronto does dynamic pricing.
        
         | websap wrote:
         | Well artists do charge differently for different areas of the
         | venue. One could argue that prime time dinner is equivalent to
         | watching Louis CK from the first few rows.
        
         | NikolaNovak wrote:
         | I thought "Lunch Menu" and "Dinner Menu" were a way to
         | reasonably implement precisely that.
         | 
         | On the other hand if it gets more granular... there may be no
         | winning. Budget-conscious will feel they're being priced-out,
         | and the fancy-rich will not go to a restaurant that nickle-and-
         | dimes / seems desperate for every last cent.
        
         | mmanfrin wrote:
         | I literally built this for OpenTable.
        
       | fwungy wrote:
       | Charge a reservation fee that is can be refunded as a credit that
       | can only be used at the restaurant. It will be deducted from your
       | bill or can be used at a later date. Real customers won't object
       | to that.
        
         | toomuchtodo wrote:
         | OpenTable does this. It's easy and a great suggestion.
        
         | fvrghl wrote:
         | That fee would just be passed from the scalper to the buyer of
         | the reservation.
        
           | fwungy wrote:
           | Yes, but it makes it all the more complicated because the
           | scalper has to figure out how to process the rebate, which
           | opens up all sorts of issues.
           | 
           | The scalper also has to front the money and eat the cost of
           | unsold reservations.
        
             | greiskul wrote:
             | > Yes, but it makes it all the more complicated because the
             | scalper has to figure out how to process the rebate, which
             | opens up all sorts of issues.
             | 
             | Not really. Restaurant charges 50 dollars for reservation,
             | which gets added as credit at bill. Scalper pays the 50
             | dollars and charges customer 60 dollars for the
             | reservation. Customer gets the 50 dollars from the
             | restaurant. Scalper keeps the 10 dollars of profit. No
             | rebate is needed for the scalper, they already took the
             | customer money with the deposit included.
             | 
             | Now, for unsold reservations, yes, it helps by adding some
             | risk to the scalper.
        
         | renewiltord wrote:
         | Lots of places do this. At Birdsong you pay for your table and
         | then if you've ordered the pairing with the tasting menu and
         | nothing optional it's a very "sit down, eat, visit the place,
         | leave" experience. Honestly, makes the place feel luxury. Well,
         | it is luxury and the food is great but it makes you feel royal.
        
         | j-a-a-p wrote:
         | > Real customers won't object to that.
         | 
         | They will. Either by bouncing the reservation page and/or by
         | giving a nasty review.
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | This is more of a barrier for legitimate customers than bots.
         | I'm not paying a non-refundable deposit unless I'm absolutely
         | sure my plans will not change (which is...never). A scalper
         | doesn't care because they are anyways going to find a buyer and
         | just pass the costs on to them.
        
         | kristjansson wrote:
         | Tock and Resy do this as either fully-prepaid, deposit, or
         | card-on-file. The latter two only kick in for reservations
         | canceling less than x hours in advance; policies vary the
         | other.
        
         | gsa wrote:
         | This is now fairly common where I live (Amsterdam) and since
         | COVID I notice it a lot more. Many restaurants have a
         | reservation fee of EUR10 or EUR20, sometimes even more. It's
         | flexible enough that you can reschedule till 8 or 12 hours
         | before the reservation and it's deducted as part of the bill.
         | If you are a no show, you forfeit the deposit. Definitely
         | creates a barrier for scalpers because they would have to buy
         | seats and swallow the loss if they can't sell it but if the
         | restaurant is popular enough, then it can still work in the
         | scalper's favour.
        
       | MrThoughtful wrote:
       | Are there others like me, who _never_ reserve a table at a
       | restaurant?
       | 
       | I find it much more fun to meet friends at a restaurant without a
       | reservation. Less obligation to follow through. If one of us has
       | a last minute idea to do something else, we go with the flow. If
       | none of the available tables are to our liking, we go with the
       | flow and go elsewhere. If there is no available table, we go with
       | the flow and go elsewhere. So much more serendipity and freedom.
       | 
       | One time, we arrived at a restaurant and were told that there is
       | no available table. Since I just read in a book that you usually
       | can bribe the waiter, I jumped over my shadow, said "Maybe we can
       | wait a few minutes and see if something becomes available?" and
       | put a EUR20 note into the hand of the waiter. Pointed at the best
       | table at the window and said "That one would be perfect of
       | course". 5 minutes later, we were sitting at the table at the
       | window. I was a nerve wreck and felt like a king :)
        
         | yieldcrv wrote:
         | Good tip about bribing the host, never tried that
         | 
         | I would say you are missing out on very good experiences by
         | doing noncommittal things with noncommittal friends
        
           | MrThoughtful wrote:
           | That could very well be.
           | 
           | On the other hand, I feel like others are missing out on
           | those moments where one of my friends calls and says "Hey I'm
           | in this and that part of the city and I'm hungry. What do you
           | do?". And I'm like "I'm sitting in a cafe in that other part,
           | drinking coffee, tinkering on my laptop. How about we meet in
           | 30 minutes in this and that restaurant?". And they are like
           | "Deal. I also have my laptop with me. Have you seen the new
           | OpenAI API? I just cobbled something together with it that I
           | would like to show you.".
           | 
           | Most people seem too entangled in job and family for this.
        
             | yieldcrv wrote:
             | people that reserve at restaurants also do what you just
             | described
             | 
             | this has nothing to do with the crowd that is entangled in
             | job and family?
        
             | pizzalife wrote:
             | Please don't whip out your laptop in a restaurant.
        
               | MrThoughtful wrote:
               | Restaurants are great places of adventure where very
               | different types of people come together. Please don't
               | harm these oasis of diversity by telling people what to
               | do :) It would make the world such a boring place.
               | 
               | I think visiting restaurants to meet with interesting
               | people is one of the great joys in life. And when
               | interesting people meet, there almost always comes up
               | something to try out or look up online.
               | 
               | It feels we are so near to the singularity, that every
               | moment is like a wild ride.
               | 
               | I meet people in restaurants a couple of days per week.
               | Only once did a waiter complain about the laptop on the
               | table. I just never went to that restaurant again.
        
               | yieldcrv wrote:
               | I don't think your experience is invalid, you are just
               | missing out on other experiences that accomplish the same
               | things you like about your disruptive laptop dependent
               | approach for the sake of AI and machines when the humans
               | have so much infrastructure catering exclusively to us...
               | behind reservations
        
               | Animats wrote:
               | That's what Starbucks used to be for, before they removed
               | the tables and chairs.
        
         | well_actulily wrote:
         | There are types of restaurants where reservations are
         | essentially, if not literally--mandatory. And maybe this
         | doesn't appeal to you, but I can't imagine you'll have many
         | chances to dine at a three Michelin star restaurant with this
         | kind of approach.
        
           | MrThoughtful wrote:
           | What makes you visit a Michelin star restaurant?
           | 
           | When the first startup I founded took off, I tried some of
           | the more expensive restaurants in my town. I kinda liked the
           | experience. But after a short while, it tapered off and I do
           | not get any more out of it than from visiting a EUR10/meal
           | restaurant now. So I almost never go to fancy restaurants
           | these days. There is nothing that draws me there.
           | 
           | Really curious to hear what those restaurants give you that a
           | cheap restaurant does not.
        
             | well_actulily wrote:
             | I completely understand where you're coming from, and I
             | agree that the appeal of fancy restaurants can wane over
             | time. I've definitely been burned by the odd over-hyped
             | spot or two. However, for me, a lot of these restaurants
             | are like theater. They combine unique ingredients, creative
             | preparations, exceptional service, and the chance to
             | witness culinary professionals at the height of their
             | profession. It's the immersive experience and the
             | creativity behind the meal that keeps me drawn to them,
             | even though I would probably prefer a cheaper, more
             | familiar meal most nights.
        
             | IKantRead wrote:
             | Expensive restaurants, fancy restaurants, and 3-star
             | Michelin restaurants are not the same things.
             | 
             | I've eaten at a few 3-star Michelin restaurants and the
             | experience at each was worth living imho. 3-star means not
             | only is the food world class, but the service is as well. I
             | still remember fondly each thing I ate, and just as
             | importantly, the interactions I had with the chefs
             | throughout the evening.
             | 
             | It happens to be the case the excellent food and service
             | does come at a price, so Michelin 3-star places tend to be
             | expensive. Likewise people tend to dress up when they spend
             | a lot so they tend to be "fancy", but those are things that
             | happen as an artifact of the quality of experience they
             | provide.
             | 
             | I've been to plenty of places that are expensive and very
             | "meh", and I absolutely _loathe_ "fancy" restaurants that
             | pretend they are offering you some privileged experience
             | (which is usually a laughable facsimile of the experience
             | of real high-end dining).
             | 
             | I'll add that there are also diminishing returns: The
             | experience of sitting at the counter of at Masa, with only
             | two other couples why your personal chef hands you some of
             | the best sushi in the world is incredible, but there are
             | other omakase places in NYC that offer a nearly equally
             | amazing experience (especially if you go on a quiet Tuesday
             | night) for 1/3 the price, but I'm very glad I had that
             | counter experience at Masa.
        
               | lbotos wrote:
               | Michelin actually says service does not factor in to
               | their star rating.
               | 
               | I've eaten across the stars and had the same
               | misconception when we ate at 2-Star Tim Raue Wild in
               | Berlin and were surprised at the poor service.
        
             | butlike wrote:
             | I did it once. Went to Alinea in Chicago. $400/person
             | before wine pairing to give you a gist of the scale. At
             | that level the experience transcends the food. It's all-
             | encompassing. You don't worry about the valet, the
             | restaurant has that covered. You don't worry about your
             | coats; they take them for you. You don't get a jacket
             | ticket.
             | 
             | It almost feels like the servers have ESP. They get you a
             | new napkin, or fork before you even raise your finger (but
             | not after you thought about asking). The food is timed
             | perfectly. Once everyone finishes the course, the next
             | course comes. If there's a conversation about the previous
             | course, the next one miraculously waits until that
             | conversation dies down.
             | 
             | The food is ordered in a way to activate taste buds. It's
             | not just from "lighter fare" to "heavier fare."
             | Salty/sweet, temperature play, texture play; it's all on
             | the table and masterfully executed. There's introspective
             | dishes served in one course, and fun dishes (like candied
             | balloons) in the next.
             | 
             | The food itself is nutrient-complete, so while the portions
             | are ostensibly small, you leave satisfied, and each course
             | builds the hype. There's never a dish that ends up making
             | the last feel "smaller."
             | 
             | You can sit for as long as you want, then when the group
             | decides it's time to leave, the restaurant already has your
             | jackets ready, the car is ready, and everything is in it's
             | right spot. There's no mix ups.
             | 
             | The crispness of the experience made me realize food can be
             | more than just a meal, but ultimately it's hard to define
             | without trying it.
        
             | NovemberWhiskey wrote:
             | > _Really curious to hear what those restaurants give you
             | that a cheap restaurant does not._
             | 
             | ... the food is objectively better?
             | 
             | ... the ambiance is objectively superior?
             | 
             | ... the staff is objectively superior?
             | 
             | No-one wants to eat a 14 course tasting menu every night,
             | but I don't buy the idea that a $10 restaurant is going to
             | be a comparable experience.
        
               | TillE wrote:
               | 99% of people going to restaurants do not care about the
               | ambience or over-the-top service.
               | 
               | I have absolutely had the experience of an inexpensive
               | local seafood restaurant on Long Island making much
               | better food than an upscale place in Manhattan, for
               | example.
        
               | Spooky23 wrote:
               | That's ok. Others do.
               | 
               | Especially with things like seafood and steak. Honestly,
               | I can make a better steak than any restaurant at home. I
               | can shuck oysters and have fun. And as you said, with
               | seafood in particular, little places in good locations
               | often have better food!
               | 
               | But the experience of the fancy restaurant has it's value
               | as well.
        
               | pixl97 wrote:
               | Just because it's upscale doesn't mean it's good, and
               | just because it's cheap doesn't mean it's bad, but there
               | is typically a very strong correlation.
               | 
               | In upscale places that are bad go out of business, unless
               | their primary means of gathering business isn't food, but
               | instead is location/proximity to a source of near captive
               | audiences.
        
               | jmye wrote:
               | > 99% of people [...]
               | 
               | Sure, McDonalds has sold like, a trillion hamburgers and
               | a local started restaurant does like 100 covers a night.
               | That doesn't mean that they aren't packed and that the
               | reservations don't go instantly, as soon as they're
               | available.
        
               | NovemberWhiskey wrote:
               | > _99% of people going to restaurants do not care about
               | the ambience or over-the-top service._
               | 
               | 99% of people might not think think the difference is
               | _worth it_ ; but I just don't accept the idea that 99% of
               | people wouldn't think that the service and ambiance at
               | Per Se is better than Olive Garden.
        
               | BobaFloutist wrote:
               | I would replace "objectively" with "typically".
               | 
               | Michelin stars mean that a restaurant has been vetted by
               | presumed skilled experts.
               | 
               | This means that you're going to have on average a better
               | experience, but that you'll pay more for the experience
               | you get (since they're in more demand). Finding a
               | restaurant of similar quality without the stars will take
               | more digging, but will likely give you better value.
        
             | pixl97 wrote:
             | Just to adding on, when you get into Michelin star quality,
             | the ingredients out of this world.
             | 
             | I'm not big into the show of it all, and I really enjoy
             | cooking myself, but I can't even come close to the quality
             | on a single dish they produced, much less the 5 - 10 small
             | dishes you are typically presented. If you love food like I
             | do, you'll generally love the food experience on
             | presentation and taste alone. The head chefs are typically
             | artists when it comes to this stuff, they spend a lot of
             | time and effort coming up with both unique and enjoyable
             | dishes. It is not catered in any way to mass production and
             | speed of service like you see in the typical restaurant.
             | 
             | This said, if you don't enjoy food, or you don't enjoy
             | special experiences you're not going to get much out of it.
             | 
             | https://www.fearlesscaptivations.com/pasta-bar-austin/ is
             | an example of someones experience of the last place like
             | this I ate at.
        
         | hypeatei wrote:
         | > Are there others like me, who never reserve a table at a
         | restaurant?
         | 
         | Yeah, I don't really like needing a reservation or appointment
         | for everything; for specific events like birthdays or
         | graduations it's probably good to make one, though.
        
         | JohnFen wrote:
         | I always make a reservation, because it really sucks to show up
         | and not be able to be seated in time to eat while still doing
         | something else that evening.
         | 
         | There are a few restaurants in my city that don't take
         | reservations at all. I've given up on going to them because the
         | wait for a table is always at least an hour long, and you can't
         | plan any other activities around it.
        
         | buzzy_hacker wrote:
         | In New York, reservations are often necessary. A lot of
         | restaurants don't do walk-ins.
        
           | dfxm12 wrote:
           | Nah, New York is a place where you generally don't need a
           | reservation. If you want to go to a specific place,
           | especially one you just read about, sure. If you just want
           | dinner, it's hard to walk a few blocks in any direction
           | without finding a restaurant with an open table though.
           | 
           | You're also discounting the many fine places, particularly
           | downtown, that explicitly don't take reservations.
        
         | ubermonkey wrote:
         | That doesn't fly as much as it used to. Our favorite places
         | where I live mostly require a reservation; they literally stay
         | pretty well booked. We know the owners (two joints, same
         | ownership), and ONCE or TWICE we called him for help on a
         | special occasion. Sometimes he can help. But that's not a card
         | you want to play often (not in the least b/c, if you get a
         | table because you're friends with the owner, my personal ethics
         | dictate a fairly significant spend).
        
         | ulizzle wrote:
         | Most people are like you and me who would never even dream of
         | going anywhere where a reservation is required. Those folks
         | that do either have a hobby or too much time and money, which
         | is equally rare and equally annoying
         | 
         | Personally, like the vast majority of us, I think anyone who
         | calls in ahead to a restaurant is totally lame and most likely
         | an NPC, but it does depend on where you are and the current
         | culture around you
        
           | NeoTar wrote:
           | Then I guess I am lame.
           | 
           | Most of the time I am meeting friends to hang-out and we will
           | spontaneously find somewhere to eat. I really enjoy that.
           | 
           | Occasionally I am hanging out with friends from out-of-town,
           | or friends with kids who don't get out as often. Then it's
           | convenient to have somewhere booked so we don't end up having
           | to eat at a not-so-great place and 'spoil' their visit, or
           | their one evening seeing friends that month.
           | 
           | Sometimes I want to hang out with a big group. Try finding a
           | place which can spontaneously accommodate twelve people.
        
             | ulizzle wrote:
             | Well, you think I'm lame too, so don't get offended. As I
             | said, the opinion depends on the culture around you.
             | 
             | Some people have the time and money to plan ahead, some
             | don't. It's really all very random
        
         | bcrosby95 wrote:
         | I had a friend that tried that with $100 and we never got a
         | seat. He also never got his money back.
        
       | runarb wrote:
       | https://archive.is/pVN3I
        
       | forthwall wrote:
       | I wonder if this can be resolved with:
       | 
       | * Real names on restaurant, just verify their ID. Then ban them
       | from opentable/resy (might be harsh, but will disincentivize
       | behavior)
       | 
       | * No transferring reservations, if rez is cancelled, hold the rez
       | and release at a random time later
       | 
       | I know for ticketmaster, they have no incentive to put these
       | guards up because they take a % cut for every resale, but for
       | these apps; I think you can put some reasonable defenses,
       | especially since most of the restaurants that face these issues
       | have bills of a few hundred dollars anyway.
        
         | justinlkarr wrote:
         | As other commenters have shared, there are big disincentives
         | for restaurants to turn people away at the door - they don't
         | get paid, and it is negative experience for both sides (with
         | commensurate brand effects).
         | 
         | Bulk-generating accounts -- email addresses, phone numbers and
         | even credit card numbers -- is a solved problem for resellers.
         | 
         | In New York State, it is illegal to restrict transfer of
         | tickets. Expect the same for reservations as this battle
         | advances.
        
       | justinlkarr wrote:
       | From your friends in event ticketing: welcome to the struggle,
       | and we're sorry.
       | 
       | I hope Resy figures this out, and I hope we're able to learn from
       | (or license) their solution.
       | 
       | I expect their approach will look similar to our path: fight the
       | secondary market with every legal tool, work with them when you
       | can't, improve pricing algorithms to reduce arbitrage
       | opportunity.
       | 
       | Customers on both sides of their market will probably be
       | frustrated with each effort. They want to cook and eat, not "be
       | in a marketplace". They will probably blame Resy.
       | 
       | The secondary market will probably engage legislative resources,
       | attempting to tailor the law to protect their practices. They
       | will probably do this "in the interest of diners". It will
       | probably become illegal to restrict transfer of reservations,
       | among other things.
       | 
       | Good luck y'all. Reach out if you need support. Love, Broadway
        
       | pradn wrote:
       | There's an app called Dorsia, which lets you purchase seats at
       | sought-after restaurants. The purchase is usually in the form of
       | a per-seat minimum spend. They start at $75 per seat, but some go
       | into the hundreds. This app solves a few problems at once:
       | customers get to buy their way out of the seat-scouting process
       | (keenly watching the apps for open reservations, walking in and
       | putting their name on the waitlist, bribing the host, knowing
       | someone with pull, etc), restaurants guarantee some of their
       | seats go to high-spending clients (you could walk out with
       | spending $35 at a good number of these spots), and companies have
       | something to offer to their customers as a perk - Dorsia
       | membership (the fancy gym chain Equinox gives their customers
       | Dorsia access, for example). None of this is democratic, but
       | that's the nature of luxury.
       | 
       | https://www.dorsia.com/
        
         | renewiltord wrote:
         | That's pretty cool. If it were an auction it could do price
         | discovery even better.
        
         | well_actulily wrote:
         | Jesus. Dorsia? On a Friday night?
        
           | gosub100 wrote:
           | I wondered about this, or Big Kahuna Burger. Can someone
           | trademark the brand if the brand appeared in the movie first?
        
           | SCUSKU wrote:
           | Great movie, never gets old
        
         | lotsofpulp wrote:
         | > None of this is democratic, but that's the nature of luxury.
         | 
         | What does democracy have to do with allocating a scarce
         | resource?
        
           | kuschku wrote:
           | Why should a rich person be able to experience luxury more
           | often than a poor person? Wouldn't it be more fair to
           | allocate the seats randomly between all people that'd like to
           | be there?
           | 
           | Allocating a scare resource so that some people can use it
           | multiple times while others can never use it isn't exactly
           | democratic.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | Democracy is a system of governance, attempting to use
             | votes to provide equal representation to people. The
             | mechanism for allocating resources is a different topic, as
             | is determining what is and is not "fair".
             | 
             | >Why should a rich person be able to experience luxury more
             | often than a poor person?
             | 
             | Because that is the benefit of being rich. Perhaps this
             | question is better phrased as "Why should there be a
             | wealth/income gap greater than <$x>?"
        
             | jmye wrote:
             | Why should everyone have perfectly equal access to non-
             | necessities? What, specifically, is "democratic" about
             | making sure poor people can also get reservations at
             | restaurants? Should everything in limited quantity be given
             | away in a pure lottery?
        
             | vasdae wrote:
             | >Why should a rich person be able to experience luxury more
             | often than a poor person?
             | 
             | Why would you work harder to get rich if you don't get
             | anything for it?
        
             | YetAnotherNick wrote:
             | Why are linkedin posts spreading everywhere.
             | 
             | Why does a rich person only has access to any asset you are
             | selling. Could I get it for free?
        
         | jareklupinski wrote:
         | every time i heard about this app, i thought it was a prank,
         | because i saw the movie
        
           | pradn wrote:
           | Ok wow, I didn't know the name comes from American Psycho!
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Dorsia is fine for what it is, but doesn't really solve the
         | problem at hand. High rollers can always find a reservation
         | regardless of scarcity, and similar services like Amex
         | Concierge have existed for a long time now. Restaurants however
         | also have to care about the other 99% of their clientele.
        
       | grumple wrote:
       | High end restaurants in my city and a few European cities I've
       | been to recently required reservations with payment up front. At
       | worst, the restaurant still gets the money if someone (like a bot
       | account) no shows. This would be a pretty high risk endeavor to
       | use a bot to reserve at these restaurants.
       | 
       | Maybe restaurants should go back to requiring reservations over
       | the phone or in person. Or require an ID to match the name on the
       | reservation.
        
         | kristjansson wrote:
         | Starts to look like the venue-artist-scalper relationship. The
         | provider gets to hand off some of the risk in exchange for the
         | peaks of profit.
        
       | jrockway wrote:
       | So, there are a lot of comments saying that reservations should
       | charge an up-front fee and apply that to the food, but I don't
       | think that will work. First off, plenty of restaurants in New
       | York do that and the problem persists. The underlying problem is
       | that with scalpers buying reservations, they are proving that the
       | market will bear a higher price. People that buy scalped
       | reservations are paying the scalper a fee which WILL NOT be
       | applied to their bill. That means the restaurant is
       | undercharging.
       | 
       | The solution to this problem is to handle restaurant reservations
       | like airline reservations. They check your ID before you can
       | board the plane. No reason that restaurants can't do the same.
       | People would be mad, of course, but that's the only way you can
       | prevent a secondary market from setting the price. (They should
       | do this for concert tickets and things like that as well. Artists
       | intentionally sell tickets below market price so that their fans
       | don't get mad at them, but economics simply doesn't all this to
       | exist; someone will always step in to take the profit that you
       | left on the table. By requiring ID, you can prevent the market
       | from stepping in, because the pool of buyers goes down; only
       | people that can get a government ID with your name on it can buy
       | your ticket on the secondary market. John Smith is probably out
       | of luck, but everyone else is fin.)
       | 
       | Overall, I don't think the restaurants have a particularly strong
       | incentive to solve this problem. At the end of the day, they are
       | made or broken based on filling up their tables. They do fill all
       | their tables with the current system. So the next remaining
       | hurdle is increasing "fairness". There isn't a way to do this
       | without annoying someone. If they check IDs, someone will be mad
       | that they had their ID checked. If they charge an entrance fee
       | (i.e. a cost for the reservation that isn't applied to your
       | meal), then someone is going to be mad. (The staff will also
       | probably be mad; if you pay $100 for your seat, that's $100 less
       | to tip with.) At the end of the day, I think charging market
       | price on everything is the most fair. If people will pay $100
       | just to get in the door, they should take the $100. I would
       | definitely pay it for special occasions; you can do it 6 times a
       | year and still pay less than the annual fee on your Amex Plat
       | card!
        
         | taurusnoises wrote:
         | Seems to me the real fix is to take reservations over the
         | phone, not rely on apps and intermediaries to handle stuff that
         | can easily be handled by humans, and move on.
        
           | jrockway wrote:
           | I'm not sure that makes sense. You now have to pay someone to
           | maintain a reservations book and be available at any time to
           | receive the phone call. Meanwhile, the reservation companies
           | can just have ChatGPT make the phone call for you; do you
           | think that restaurant employees can administer a Turing test
           | or that ordinary customers could pass a Turing test?
           | 
           | Meanwhile, anyone that cares about this can still delegate it
           | to a human. Call the Amex concierge, "can you get me into
           | FooBar at around 7PM any night next week" and they take care
           | of it. The phone adds no fairness; it opens up a way for
           | middlemen to offer a service that you pay for but that the
           | restaurant never sees.
           | 
           | While maybe a rare situation, software to handle reservations
           | is a great idea. You instantly save one employee's worth of
           | work for a tiny amount of money.
           | 
           | The other option is to only take walk-ins, but then you risk
           | having empty tables when people are tired of waiting in line.
           | I am sure many places have tried walk-in only, only to be
           | disappointed about not making enough money. Restaurants like
           | reservations.
        
           | kelnos wrote:
           | Online reservations are _so_ much better than phone
           | reservations, both for the restaurant and customer.
           | 
           | As a customer, I see exactly what all my options are,
           | immediately, and can easily switch days to see what else is
           | available. Needing to manually tell a human what I'm looking
           | for (which I might not even know yet, without seeing all the
           | options), and have them read something off a screen or book
           | to me, is a waste of time.
           | 
           | And for the restaurants, they don't have to pay someone to
           | answer the reservations phone number when they're not open.
           | And they don't have to distract staff from their hospitality
           | duties when the restaurant _is_ open. Also I 'm sure all of
           | us have called a restaurant while they're busy, and have had
           | to repeat what we've said to busy, overworked restaurant
           | staff member who can barely hear us on the phone over the din
           | of the restaurant behind them.
        
         | justinlkarr wrote:
         | _Overall, I don 't think the restaurants have a particularly
         | strong incentive to solve this problem._
         | 
         | This is the identical to early perspective on the secondary
         | market in event ticketing: a sale is a sale, our work is done.
         | 
         |  _That means the restaurant is undercharging._
         | 
         | Then you realize how much money you are losing to arbitrage and
         | the work begins.
         | 
         | A couple of decades later, you have variable pricing, dynamic
         | pricing, distribution to expedia, official secondary market
         | partnerships, conferences, niche-y saas products, competing
         | enterprise products, revenue managers, specialized masters'
         | degrees, papers at INFORMs, revenue directors, VPs of sales and
         | revenue,
         | 
         | and a bunch of people who just want to cook and eat
        
       | hn72774 wrote:
       | > It also sparked the idea of adding the admission charge to the
       | food bill, so customers would not be asked for money at the door.
       | (In his early years, Dimitriou had encountered profound
       | resistance to a cover charge and he often operated Jazz Alley
       | without one, feeling it set the wrong tone for the kind of fine
       | dining establishment he was trying to create.) It worked, and
       | music lovers in general began to view the club as an upscale
       | destination for special occasions. By 2015, the Alley was taking
       | in more than $3 million in admissions.
       | 
       | This is about Jazz Alley, in Seattle WA.
       | 
       | https://www.seattletimes.com/entertainment/music/how-seattle...
        
       | alexpotato wrote:
       | I remember a popular restaurant in NYC in the late 2000's had a
       | "in person request for reservation only" policy.
       | 
       | The thought was that if you lived in the neighborhood, you would
       | walk down to the restaurant around 4pm, make your reservation, go
       | home and then come back for dinner.
       | 
       | In practice, this meant that if you wanted a spontaneous "let's
       | go eat there" type of evening and you didn't live in the
       | neighborhood, you wouldn't be eating dinner till after midnight.
        
       | mettamage wrote:
       | Wait, is this even legal? I made a bot one time for a group of
       | people I know to go to Noma. They invited me to come with them
       | out of gratitude. They told me I could resell that. Other than
       | personally finding it unethical, I also thought it'd be illegal
       | to do so.
       | 
       | In any case, writing such a bot for a one time use-case (and just
       | one reservation of which I was a part of) was fun!
        
       | tlonny wrote:
       | On the subject of scalping, I've never understood why tickets
       | can't be bound to a particular identity. I.e. if you buy tickets
       | as "John Smith", only someone who can prove they are "John Smith"
       | is let through the door.
       | 
       | In my head, this completely decapitates scalping as a business.
       | Why can't this also be applied in other sectors (i.e. restaurant
       | reservations)
        
       | mmanfrin wrote:
       | I worked at OpenTable and this was a problem we also encountered,
       | and it was one of my own projects that was an attempt to combat
       | this. This is one of those posts where I feel like I might
       | actually be an expert but I also feel I can't really talk about
       | specifics of projects for fomer employers :(
        
       | standardUser wrote:
       | I don't dine at places expensive enough to have encountered this
       | issue. But I do like to dine frequently at high-demand
       | restaurants. The issue I've noticed in NY is that the online
       | reservation platforms have made it trivial for restaurants to
       | require a credit card and charge massive cancellation fees. I've
       | seen mid-range places with $50 fees _per person_ if the
       | reservation is cancelled with less than 24 hours notice.
       | 
       | The solution to the above shitshow is the same as the solution to
       | these scalpers. The telephone. Few places will collect your
       | credit card information over the phone for a reservation. And
       | places dealing with scalpers can take names and inform guests
       | that they will need to present ID on arrival. Not an entirely
       | frictionless solution, but I think most people won't mind showing
       | their ID if they are given advanced notice.
        
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