[HN Gopher] The Third Place
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       The Third Place
        
       Author : juliend2
       Score  : 31 points
       Date   : 2023-10-11 14:51 UTC (1 hours ago)
        
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       | itslennysfault wrote:
       | This was a core part of Starbuck's strategy. They wanted to be
       | the defacto 3rd place, and were making great progress. Before
       | Starbucks most coffee in the US was diners or togo drip in a
       | styro cup.
       | 
       | https://www.fastcompany.com/887990/starbucks-third-place-and...
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       | Unfortunately, Kevin Johnson pushed hard to maximize profits and
       | cut costs to the direct detriment of the original "3rd place"
       | vision. His focus was on pushing toward smaller to go / drive
       | thru locations. The logic is pretty obvious. Smaller places that
       | sell more units are more profitable. Large comfy coffee shops
       | where people sit sipping 1 coffee for hours aren't.
       | 
       | Laxman Narasimhan took over this year and it is unclear how that
       | will impact things, but I doubt "being the 3rd place" is even a
       | goal of Starbucks anymore.
        
       | zvmaz wrote:
       | What is a "third place" for introverts who are not very keen on
       | socializing?
        
         | denvaar wrote:
         | I'm like my cat, in that I like to be near people, but not
         | necessarily engaging. Sitting in a coffee shop doing my own
         | thing is really nice sometimes.
        
         | yunwal wrote:
         | A makerspace
        
         | hiatus wrote:
         | Online forums, libraries, bookstores.
        
           | mindcrime wrote:
           | _Online forums_
           | 
           | In terms of "virtual third places" I'd probably say that HN
           | is that for me. :-) I'm guessing I wouldn't be alone in that
           | regard...
        
         | mindcrime wrote:
         | I don't think there's any _particular_ requirement to socialize
         | when at a  "third place". So if you just go sit in a cafe,
         | coffee-shop, bar, etc., and work with your headphones on the
         | entire time, you're still enjoying a "third place". Some people
         | (count me in this bucket) get "something" from simply being
         | _around_ other people, but don 't necessarily want extensive
         | engagement _with_ those people - at least not on an ongoing
         | basis. Sometimes you just want to listen to the Youtube video
         | you 're listening to, or finish the code module you're working
         | on, or whatever. :-)
         | 
         | Me, I like sitting in the cafe at the local Barnes & Noble. I
         | get to enjoy coffee, books, wifi, and a pleasant ambiance. And
         | for the most part I can regulate how much I socialize with the
         | people around me. I say "for the most part" because I'm such a
         | regular there that I've gotten to know a lot of the employees
         | and other regular visitors and have formed friendships with a
         | number of those people, to the point that sometimes when I go
         | in there I have a lot of people coming over to chit-chat. Which
         | is OK in that they're people I enjoy talking to, but sometimes
         | if I'm really trying to get some specific task done, it can be
         | a little bit frustrating and I struggle with how to disengage
         | from them without seeming overly rude. Still, on balance, I get
         | a lot out of hanging out there.
        
         | karaterobot wrote:
         | I don't think it's really changed. There have always been
         | introverts. So: "churches, cafes, clubs, public libraries,
         | gyms, bookstores, stoops and parks", to name just a few. The
         | difference is that there's a new third place called the
         | internet that has replaced those for a lot of people, with many
         | negative consequences and a few positive ones.
        
       | hiatus wrote:
       | The diminishing availability of third places is a true tragedy.
       | It is increasingly difficult to find places where you can just
       | exist, without a prerequisite financial transaction.
        
         | unpopularopp wrote:
         | >The diminishing availability of third places
         | 
         | Are they? The Wikipedia article says "examples of third places
         | include churches, cafes, clubs, public libraries, gyms,
         | bookstores"
         | 
         | Not sure I see any of these diminishing.
         | 
         | I'd rather say that people changed not the availability of
         | public spaces. Everyone is more individualistic now, less
         | social roles. See online dating. If I can sit at home and do
         | "dating" with 0 effort then why should I go to the a cafe,
         | club, gym etc? Otoh most people would say they explicitly don't
         | want to get asked out randomly in a gym for example. So it's a
         | self feeding loop.
        
           | justinator wrote:
           | Many coffee shops in my town have closed due to high rents.
           | The ones that have stayed have had their hours shortened. The
           | one I got to is only open for 8 hours/day. My drink is now $6
           | too.
           | 
           | Libraries have to constantly prove their relevancy. My town
           | again had a huge city council fight to fund a new library
           | district - it wasn't pretty.
           | 
           | There was an announcement last week that the largest gym in
           | town is closing. My gym costs $100/month and that's one of
           | the cheaper ones.
           | 
           | Many of the bookstores in town are still open, but the used
           | bookstores are mostly long gone. A lot of them are turning to
           | be more like gift shops with books. The only used bookstore
           | left is also a coffee shop (another favorite).
           | 
           | One of the bigger outside seating, family-friendly (cringe
           | for me) bars with food trucks and all that has been run
           | through the mud lately because of their ties with an anti-
           | woman, anti-gay church that rented (well had been given for
           | free) space for worship there. It all gets messy.
           | 
           | And let's not forget Covid shut most all this down for a time
           | and people changed their daily living patterns.
           | 
           | Helps for any third space left that this is a university town
           | where PHD graduates stay as well as a training ground for
           | athletes of all types (though leaning more on endurance
           | athletes).
        
         | datameta wrote:
         | I think if anything availability increases, but may require
         | more perceived effort (despite lower bar to discovery).
        
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