[HN Gopher] I can tolerate anything except the outgroup (2014)
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       I can tolerate anything except the outgroup (2014)
        
       Author : nonethewiser
       Score  : 176 points
       Date   : 2023-09-06 15:39 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | kypro wrote:
       | This is one of the few things I like being autistic for - I don't
       | think I'm socially capable of having out-groups.
       | 
       | I have racist friends, sexist friends, homophobic friends, but
       | also antifa friends, feminist friends, homosexual friends. I get
       | on with them all just the same... I don't even like labelling
       | them as such because it's weird to categorise them in those
       | terms. I might disagree with them on things, but I don't dislike
       | them or have any negative emotional feelings towards them as
       | people.
       | 
       | If I have an out-group it's probably intolerant people. And again
       | it's not that I dislike them, but I've lost several friends who
       | won't tolerate me defending "intolerant" people. But there's not
       | much I can do about that. I get on with everyone who wants to get
       | on with me.
       | 
       | Being highly tolerant is socially difficult which is probably why
       | more socially-abled people seek groups and are susceptible to
       | group think. How do you get someone who believes women shouldn't
       | have the right to vote to hang out with a feminist? This is an
       | issue I have in my life constantly. Everyone I like hates each
       | other. To some extent our societies probably depend on group
       | think and intolerance - otherwise why form a society at all?
       | Unless your bound by some shared ingroup beliefs forming a
       | society makes no sense. And if you're born into that society if
       | you know what's good for you you'll want to adopt those beliefs!
       | 
       | It would be a weird world if we were highly tolerant, i think...
       | I question if my tolerance is moral often. To be highly moral you
       | probably need to have good intolerances which I'm not capable of.
       | If we were all like me the world would probably be a worse place.
       | I would have been fine with the Nazi's. I disagree with them and
       | I'm glad they lost the war, but I don't hate them enough to fight
       | against their views. I'd rather we try to find a way to all get
       | along.
       | 
       | My inability to form out-groups is why I don't vote anymore
       | because as much as people don't like others, embracing tolerance
       | is probably the only way to ensure people will fight and disagree
       | more.
        
         | Given_47 wrote:
         | > I question if my tolerance is moral often. To be highly moral
         | you probably need to have good intolerances which I'm not
         | capable of.
         | 
         | Don't forget the incredible subjectivity of morality. And
         | defining the intolerable things that would constitute a "highly
         | moral" person is extremely tricky because one could easily
         | argue that tolerance is innately tied to morality.
         | 
         | I would love to learn more about philosophy because I'm unsure
         | how the answer isn't always "I don't know." Though maybe it is.
         | The more I think about these things, the more I understand the
         | underlying nuances, but invariably walk away thinking "I don't
         | know." It's frustrating but fun
        
         | Aloha wrote:
         | I'm much like you, but its not just merely intolerant people
         | (everyone is intolerant, racist, has some measure of bias), its
         | only really highly intolerant people which I exclude.
         | 
         | The post 2012 era of people maximalist positions on every
         | conceivable issue also makes it really have to have reasonable
         | discussions with about difficult topics.
         | 
         | Trump made some of this harder, if for no other reason the
         | people who I might have an ideological or philosophical
         | disagreement with, simply wouldn't shut up about it.
         | 
         | I do vote however, I vote for the things I find desirable and
         | people I find honorable. Being gay has made me very well aware
         | of the fact that I cant ignore politics, I must be active and
         | encourage others to do so.
        
       | photochemsyn wrote:
       | A lot of these definitions and groupings are highly artificial
       | and more-often-than-not, mostly manufactured by media interests -
       | who certainly understand that controversy drives engagement, as
       | well as the economic necessity to have a loyal partisan base of
       | subscribers and followers in the internet media age, and that one
       | way to do that is to cultivate anger and distrust of social out-
       | groups. One conclusion of this view is that Americans get served
       | at least as much manuipulative propaganda as Soviet citizens did,
       | and possibly a good deal more effectively as it goes through many
       | different channels, instead of coming purely from the state
       | organs of information.
       | 
       | Getting an alternative view is rather difficult, but there are
       | some tactics that are used by researchers in fields like
       | economics and ecology to get a good sample of their populations.
       | For example, one approach is the 'straight line transect' - i.e.
       | draw a straight line from, say, San Francisco to Boston and
       | sample people's views and opinions from every
       | community/individual who lives within 100 miles perpendicular to
       | that transect. Then compare that to a Seattle-Los Angeles
       | transect and a New York-Miami transect.
       | 
       | This woould, I think, reveal that most people have many common
       | concerns: job satisfaction, housing/energy/food costs, crime and
       | safety, good educational systems, clean air/water/food issues,
       | etc. These topics are often ignored by the media and politicians
       | because they don't drive the kind of divisiveness and negative
       | engagement that they find beneficial.
       | 
       | One interesting question is just how much of the button-pushing
       | emotional-response-driving controversial material is the product
       | of deliberately engineered mass manipulations strategies run by a
       | shady cabal of some sort, and how much just arises naturally and
       | is then exploited by media and political figures?
        
       | bawolff wrote:
       | Fascinating article, i'll have to think about it.
       | 
       | One thing that stood out to me:
       | 
       | > When a friend of mine heard Eich got fired, she didn't see
       | anything wrong with it. "I can tolerate anything except
       | intolerance," she said.
       | 
       | > "Intolerance" is starting to look like another one of those
       | words like "white" and "American".
       | 
       | > "I can tolerate anything except the outgroup." Doesn't sound
       | quite so noble now, does it?
       | 
       | But if instead you phrase it as "i can tolerate anyone except
       | those who attack my in group", it is perhaps not noble but much
       | more understandable, as everyone protects their own.
        
         | plagiarist wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | dustincoates wrote:
           | There's an entire section in TFA before the quote that
           | explains why it's relevant (it's not what you are assuming
           | here).
        
             | zogrodea wrote:
             | Would you mind explaining what TFA means, as I've seen that
             | acronym quite a bit here? "The f-g article"?
        
               | jfengel wrote:
               | Precisely.
               | 
               | Sometimes you'll hear it expanded as "The Fine Article"
               | or just "The Article".
               | 
               | Often, it really does mean just "the article". People use
               | the acronym without expanding it out or thinking too
               | deeply about it. At one point, decades ago, it may have
               | connoted some kind of hostility (e.g. "If you had read
               | the f---ing article..."), and it's still meant that way
               | in "RTFA" (read the f---ing article, meaning "that was
               | already answered, so you clearly haven't read the thing
               | that we're supposed to be discussing")
               | 
               | But now, it's mostly just a kind of in-joke, and TFA
               | means nothing more than "the article", with the F
               | entirely silent.
        
               | zogrodea wrote:
               | Thank you for the answer. Had encountered the acronym
               | about the manual before, but this one is a first.
        
               | bawolff wrote:
               | The friendly article, if you don't like curse words.
        
               | zogrodea wrote:
               | Appreciate the answer and alternative acronym-expansion.
               | Thanks.
        
         | rovolo wrote:
         | Yeah, this line of argument is a perfect example of the "Motte
         | and Bailey" fallacy. The structure of this argument works just
         | as well if you replace "intolerance" with "segregationist" or
         | "misogynist". The only takeaway I have from this argument is
         | "it's easier to condemn things which you disagree with". There
         | isn't any discussion of whether the intolerant action is
         | actually intolerant or harmful.
         | 
         | ---
         | 
         | Digression, this is a pretty audacious way to minimize
         | Apartheid.
         | 
         | > South African whites and South African blacks ... So what
         | makes an outgroup? Proximity plus small differences.
         | 
         | Every single human conflict can be described as "small
         | differences" because humans are very similar to each other.
         | Also, it's harder to be in conflict with people far away from
         | you.
        
           | vkou wrote:
           | > There isn't any discussion of whether the intolerant action
           | is actually intolerant or harmful.
           | 
           | People towards the upper side of a social hierarchy, who are
           | not seriously discriminated against tend to find it very easy
           | to discuss discrimination in the abstract, as a kind of
           | intellectual game of chess.
        
           | matthewaveryusa wrote:
           | Yeah I'm not sure why "small" had to make it in that
           | argument. I guess it's to say that the differences _may_ be
           | small because large differences, regardless of proximity, is
           | obviously a source of conflict?
        
           | consilient wrote:
           | > Every single human conflict can be described as "small
           | differences" because humans are very similar to each other.
           | 
           | He's obviously talking about differences which are small _by
           | human standards_. The rest of the paragraph:
           | 
           | > If you want to know who someone in former Yugoslavia hates,
           | don't look at the Indonesians or the Zulus or the Tibetans or
           | anyone else distant and exotic. Find the Yugoslavian
           | ethnicity that lives closely intermingled with them and is
           | most conspicuously similar to them, and chances are you'll
           | find the one who they have eight hundred years of seething
           | hatred toward.
        
             | rovolo wrote:
             | How were the differences between the colonial SA Afrikaners
             | and the local SA Zulu smaller than the differences between
             | the Yugoslavs and the Zulu, other than proximity?
        
         | AnimalMuppet wrote:
         | > > "I can tolerate anything except the outgroup." Doesn't
         | sound quite so noble now, does it?
         | 
         | > But if instead you phrase it as "i can tolerate anyone except
         | those who attack my in group", it is perhaps not noble but much
         | more understandable, as everyone protects their own.
         | 
         | But that's not the same thing. The outgroup is the group that
         | is _attacked by_ the ingroup, not the group that attacks the
         | ingroup.
        
           | lalaland1125 wrote:
           | Eich was attacking the ingroup though. He worked to remove
           | rights from gay people in the state of California.
        
           | bawolff wrote:
           | Everyone always thinks the other side "attacked" first. As
           | the saying goes, it takes two to tango.
        
             | neaden wrote:
             | I mean, this is obviously untrue. To take the example of
             | homosexuals and homophobia, in what way did homosexual
             | people "attack" first or how are they one of the two
             | tangoing.
        
               | aidenn0 wrote:
               | The question isn't "did both sides attack" it is "do
               | people on both sides feel attacked." I'm sure there are
               | plenty of Russian's who feel attacked by the Ukraine;
               | that doesn't mean the Ukraine started the current war.
               | 
               | Consider this mindset (to be clear, not _my_ mindset):
               | 
               | 1. The US is, and always has been a Christian nation
               | 
               | 2. Homosexuality is unchristian
               | 
               | 3. For the past 60 years, anti-christian liberals have
               | been trying to (and in large part succeeding) in
               | legalizing many sinful behaviors, at least one of which
               | is tantamount to murder (i.e. abortion)
               | 
               | 4. Following the legalization of the sinful behaviors
               | comes normalization via indoctrination in schools
               | 
               | From this mindset, it's easy to see how e.g. legalization
               | of homosexual behaviors (and then of homosexual marriage)
               | is seen as an attack.
               | 
               | As far as attacking _first_ , well that's simple: all
               | those people who attacked, beat, or killed homosexuals
               | were isolated incidents and e.g. the raid on Stonewall
               | Inn was just the cops doing their job (these people were
               | breaking the law, after all).
               | 
               | See e.g.: https://source.wustl.edu/2021/08/cultural-
               | backlash-is-lgbtq-...
        
               | mistermann wrote:
               | [delayed]
        
         | lalaland1125 wrote:
         | > "i can tolerate anyone except those who attack my in group"
         | 
         | Yeah, this essay is misleading about why Eich was so disliked.
         | Eich wasn't just homophobic, he actually worked to help
         | eliminate rights for gay people in the state of California by
         | donating money to the corresponding political campaign.
        
           | jefftk wrote:
           | _> he actually worked to help eliminate rights for gay people
           | in the state of California by donating money to the
           | corresponding political campaign_
           | 
           | Note that 52% of California voters also worked to help
           | eliminate rights for gay people in the state, by voting for
           | Proposition 8. As strange as it seems now, this was a very
           | common position in 2008.
        
             | dragonwriter wrote:
             | > Note that 52% of California voters also worked to help
             | eliminate rights for gay people in the state, by voting for
             | Proposition 8.
             | 
             | Yes, and those that publicly and proudly done so and were
             | unrepentant about it would have been problematic for the
             | role for the same reason as Eich (and, in most cases, for
             | lots of other reasons, some more significant, as well.)
             | "The rule you propose would also rule out lots of people
             | who would never have been under consideration for the role"
             | is, here, a valid observation, but not any kind of
             | counterargument.
        
         | glitchc wrote:
         | Except those people may be overestimating (kindly) or
         | pretending (unkindly) the harm they suffer from those attacks.
         | To consider a defensive action as ethically sound, the defender
         | must show real harm. Otherwise it's vulnerable to abuse and
         | opens up lines of reasoning along the following statement (with
         | gay and straight flipped around): "As a gay person, I hate
         | straight people as they threaten my sexuality/orientation/way
         | of life."
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | Even this is difficult. There is a case to be made that Trump
           | being president for 4 years caused predictable actual harm to
           | some people. Does this mean that considering anybody who
           | voted for Trump (and especially those who voted for him in
           | 2020) is a legitimate target for hate?
           | 
           | This is a non-hypothetical because I have heard this exact
           | argument advanced without irony.
        
       | SamBam wrote:
       | > The Blue Tribe is most classically typified by liberal
       | political beliefs, vague agnosticism, supporting gay rights,
       | thinking guns are barbaric, eating arugula, drinking fancy
       | bottled water, driving Priuses, [etc. etc etc.]
       | 
       | I'm so confused as to where poorer people of color fit into all
       | of this. This seems to highlight Scott's small social circle if
       | all the members of the "non-Red Tribe" are white yuppie coastal
       | elites.
        
         | ThrowawayTestr wrote:
         | >I'm so confused as to where poorer people of color fit into
         | all of this.
         | 
         | They're told to vote blue or they ain't black
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | The article is discussing, at length, the author's view what
         | constitutes the "blue tribe's" outgroup. Poor people of colour
         | wouldn't, pretty much by his definition. be part of that
         | outgroup.
         | 
         | > This seems to highlight Scott's small social circle if all
         | the members of the "non-Red Tribe" are white yuppie coastal
         | elites.
         | 
         | This is an uncharitable reading of text. I mean, you may be
         | correct, but it isn't supported by the goal of the essay.
        
         | basch wrote:
         | Quite honestly, probably another tribe. One that is more
         | closely aligned with red and gray on distrust of government.
         | And likely even more than one tribe.
         | 
         | Although the tribes have pretty diverse subtribes. Red has a
         | very poor temporarily embarrassed millionaire quite separate
         | from the actual owners. They still align with some of the same
         | tribal calls and signaling.
        
         | munificent wrote:
         | My experience is that rural Southern Black people are similar
         | to stereotypical white "Red tribe" people except on the
         | question of race.
         | 
         | Also, there is a _lot_ more mingling between white and Black
         | poor people than a typical  "coastal elite" would expect who
         | never spent time in the South.
         | 
         | I grew up around racist people who all had friends of the other
         | race. They just consider their friends an exception to their
         | general dislike of the other race.
         | 
         | The thing I heard _all the time_ growing up was  "I don't hate
         | black people, I just hate _N-word_ s." The idea is that it's
         | not the _race_ that a racist person has a problem with, just
         | the cultural practices (laziness, lack of class, etc.) they
         | associate with people of that race. A member of that race who
         | rises above those associations is welcomed with open arms. Of
         | course, they are oblivious to the idea that _associating those
         | cultural practices with a race_ is the racist part. But it
         | makes it very easy for them to be racist and have friends of
         | the other race without feeling any dissonance.
         | 
         | It cuts both ways too. I also had Black friends growing up that
         | had no problem being friends with me or other white kids but
         | wouldn't hesitate to disparage "crackers" as a whole if they
         | were in a safe enough space to do so without being harmed.
         | 
         | I don't know what groups poor urban people of color end up
         | feeling affinity to.
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | > "I don't hate black people, I just hate N-words."
           | 
           | I have heard this exact phrase (well without the euphemism)
           | come out of _many_ people 's mouth in the Midwest.
        
         | fallingknife wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | AlexandrB wrote:
           | > The left is viciously classist
           | 
           | ???
           | 
           | Isn't this a caricature too? In what way are socialist
           | beliefs, which generally push for more unions and worker
           | power, "viciously classist"? "Eat the rich" is a "blue" meme,
           | not a "red" one.
        
             | fallingknife wrote:
             | I have never heard "eat the rich" or any of the associated
             | rhetoric from anybody lower class. It's classic struggling
             | upper class making 100k in a super HCOL and living paycheck
             | to paycheck with student loans. Core blue demographic.
             | There's a reason why Democrats want to bail out student
             | loans borrowers, but not actual poor people in debt.
        
         | pauldenton wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
           | femiagbabiaka wrote:
           | I'm not so sure, it's well covered that trust of police is
           | low because of corruption like Burke's history of sponsoring
           | unconstitutional black sites for torturing suspects. And I
           | think the history of redlining and corruption when it comes
           | to investment in education and infrastructure is well
           | known... what would be controversial to say?
        
           | justinluther wrote:
           | The main condition that you're talking about is having a high
           | population. Chicago has a lot of murders because it has a lot
           | of people. The murder rate per capita is a little above 2x
           | the national average, but not an outlier by any means.
           | 
           | Chicago is #28 on the national ranking of murder cities:
           | https://www.cbsnews.com/pictures/murder-map-deadliest-u-s-
           | ci...
           | 
           | It is ranked right in between Chattanooga and Buffalo.
        
             | pauldenton wrote:
             | I guess I got caught in the narrative. I still remember
             | Spike Lee's movie Chiraq. from 2003-2012. During that nine-
             | year period, 4,265 citizens were killed in Chicago, which
             | is nearly the number of U.S. soldiers who were killed in
             | Iraq. The idea you have as much risk being shot as an
             | American citizen in the war zone of Iraq as you would
             | walking the streets of the south side of Chicago.
             | 
             | The risk of a man 18 to 29 years old dying in a shooting in
             | the most violent ZIP code in Chicago -- 60624, a swath of
             | the West Side that includes Garfield Park -- was higher
             | than the death rate for U.S. soldiers in the Afghanistan
             | war or for soldiers in an Army combat brigade that fought
             | in Iraq, according to a study in the medical journal JAMA
             | Network Open. Among men 18 to 29, the annual rate of
             | firearm homicides in that ZIP code was 1,277 per 100,000
             | people in 2021 and 2022, the study found, compared with an
             | annual death rate for U.S. troops in a heavily engaged
             | combat brigade in Iraq of 675 per 100,000. The most violent
             | ZIP codes in Philadelphia surpassed the risk of combat
             | death by military service members, too, but the death rate
             | there was lower than in Chicago, the study found. New York
             | and Los Angeles didn't have any areas that were so deadly.
        
             | plagiarist wrote:
             | It is always Chicago, because of right-wing echo chamber.
             | One would think an honest economic study would try to
             | control a bit for being mere miles from Indiana. And yet it
             | is always Chicago.
        
             | bombcar wrote:
             | That may be true for some definition of Chicago, but no
             | other city I know of has websites dedicated to the murders
             | of its inhabitants. https://heyjackass.com
             | 
             | And even that shows there's lots of "barely murdering at
             | all" parts of the city that bring the averages down into
             | line.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | Karrot_Kream wrote:
         | Having grown up a poor POC, a different tribe. Each POC group
         | also will have its own set of social and political mores. For
         | example, many POC who fled from Communist countries will vote
         | for anti-Communist rhetoric. Many poorer POCs also tend to be
         | more okay with anti-feminist or anti-LGBT stances. On the other
         | hand, recent immigrant POCs often dislike groups that
         | stereotype them or are anti-immigration as they obviously feel
         | solidarity towards recent immigrants.
        
         | iskander wrote:
         | Scott's political ontology seems intrinsically limited to white
         | middle class. It doesn't really make sense in poorer parts of
         | America and really falls apart once you start trying to
         | correlate belief systems in non-white communities.
        
       | svilen_dobrev wrote:
       | check others of his top listed..
       | 
       | i had a good laugh-through-tears reading "Any human with above
       | room temperature IQ can design a utopia"
       | 
       | in this: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/07/30/meditations-on-
       | moloch/
        
       | Karrot_Kream wrote:
       | The thing is, there's already a set of concepts that unpack this
       | issue: it's called intersectionality. Intersectionality is the
       | idea that we have overlapping sets of privilege. For example,
       | while I might be a straight, heteronormative man, I'm also a
       | dark-skinned POC who grew up poor. So while I benefit from not
       | being singled out, harassed, or hurt for my choice of gender
       | expression or who I date (somewhat, people often disapprove of
       | interracial dating with darker folks, and it's come up a lot in
       | my life) I can get treated badly due to how I look and the
       | stereotypes around what people like me do. We all benefit from
       | and are hurt by a combination of our privileges and the negative
       | stereotypes surrounding us, and it helps define our experiences.
       | 
       | Intersectionality is complicated, but ingroups and outgroups are
       | a lot more fun. Humans tend to be wired into finding tribes and a
       | lot of people use social media to find their tribe and,
       | regrettably, find outgroups to isolate from and criticize. An
       | interesting manifestation of this is watching white LGBT spaces
       | debate Islam. There's generally an _obvious_ outgroup effect in
       | those discussions and it definitely adds a temperature to the
       | discussion that I think wouldn 't be present if Islamic POCs were
       | considered more part of those ingroups.
        
         | codetrotter wrote:
         | > people use social media to find their tribe and, regrettably,
         | find outgroups to isolate from and criticize
         | 
         | Yeah some people are very ridiculous in this way.
         | 
         | The other day someone responded to one of my TikTok videos with
         | a video of his own.
         | 
         | He apparently had some sort of problem with the fact that I
         | enjoyed something, that he enjoyed too, but which he thought I
         | was too enthusiastic about.
         | 
         | In his video he told me that I need to go outside and
         | experience the real world, instead of thinking my hobby was
         | important.
         | 
         | As you can tell I am annoyed by this. Otherwise I would not be
         | talking about it now.
         | 
         | Anyway. If he had taken time to visit my profile, instead of
         | going off telling me his opinions based off of one video he
         | saw. He'd have found that I am already spending a lot of time
         | outside. He'd have seen that I am traveling, visiting
         | countries, experiencing the world.
         | 
         | What an annoying moron that guy was.
         | 
         | I didn't respond to him, because I won't give him the
         | satisfaction of knowing that his rude expressions affected me
         | in any way. But I wish he'd just stay away from social media in
         | the first place, instead of coming there to shit on one of my
         | videos.
        
       | OkayPhysicist wrote:
       | This essay falls into the same trap I see among a lot of my
       | liberal (as opposed to socialist) peers: it assumes tolerance is
       | something admirable, desirable, or fundamentally good. That's how
       | you fall into the "tolerance of intolerance" paradoxical rabbit
       | hole, and IMO, it's largely performative.
       | 
       | My stance on the subject, in contrast, is that tolerance isn't
       | good enough. I'm not "tolerant" of gay people, as that suggests
       | that their sexual orientation should disqualify them from my in-
       | group, but that I would tolerate them anyway. No, I just don't
       | see sexual orientation as a qualification for my peer group. Same
       | goes for any other immutable characteristic of someone's
       | existence. People, tabula rasa, are people, and that qualifies
       | them for my respect.
       | 
       | But of course, people by the time I'm interacting with them are
       | not blank slates. They have opinions, stances, and world views
       | that they have acquired and incorporated into their identities,
       | which they then act on to form histories. These perfectly mutable
       | facets of their existence are entirely open to judgement. I'm
       | tolerant of the merely tolerant, not because it's some
       | unqualified good, but because it's just not bad enough to warrant
       | exclusion from my inclusive-by-default in-group. People willing
       | to openly state their bigotry towards people I consider my peers
       | disqualify themselves from my respect. People willing to act on
       | those bigoted beliefs cross the line into "evil".
       | 
       | In my opinion, this forms a far more consistent world view
       | compared to the "tolerance is an unqualified good" stance.
        
         | sqeaky wrote:
         | You just described yourself as tolerant. Tolerance in this
         | context isn't the casual use, rather it means that you don't
         | treat people differently for those immutable characteristics,
         | however you get there.
         | 
         | I don't think I agree with tolerance being performative. I
         | currently live in the Midwest and deal with many people who do
         | foul things because of their intolerance. People here disown
         | gay sons and daughters, then try to commiserate with me about
         | how hard their life is when they fucked someone's life who
         | wasn't hurting anyone. These people are clearly intolerant in
         | the way these "performative" liberals want to end societally.
         | 
         | Signaling to others, via things like pride flags, indicates
         | that in some context, they will be "tolerated". For being black
         | or gay, at PayPal offices you won't be attacked, fired, denied
         | financial services, but at Farm Credit you very will might be.
         | Simply waving flags is imperfect, but some signal is better
         | than none, I had to work at farm credit to see the racism first
         | hand (and quit because of it). While my peers at PayPal have
         | mechanisms to defend themselves and their peers from issues
         | around this even thought it is imperfect.
        
           | OkayPhysicist wrote:
           | The essay above was all about how there's no virtue in
           | tolerating those that you have no issue with. That requires
           | that a given individuals belief system includes two
           | overlapping sets of people, between those that you have no
           | issue with, and those that you treat with basic dignity. The
           | difference between those two sets are the people you merely
           | tolerate.
        
         | at_a_remove wrote:
         | There's a few holes in that. First, you've got sexual
         | orientation as an immutable characteristic. From some queer
         | people I know saying that they had experiences which changed
         | their mind or that there was some choice (that "lived
         | experience" people go on about, as well as some of my own) to
         | the quite obvious political stratagem of saying someone was
         | "born that way" as a way to deflect blame (which never really
         | held much water; a group willing to accept Original Sin as a
         | concept would find Born That Way to be little more than a
         | speedbump).
         | 
         | And then you bring in _tabula rasa_ , which itself contradicts
         | "born that way." But sure, let's just ignore that paradox. Can
         | we think of other born characteristics we might not find
         | appealing? Quite a lot of personality disorders appear to arise
         | from genetics, and yet you might find someone with Borderline
         | Personality Disorder less than optimal company. Must you
         | tolerate that?
         | 
         | Consistency, if anything, is a poor metric when it comes to
         | anything as complex as people. "Destroy anyone not of my ethnic
         | group" is consistent and simple. Do not fall in love with
         | either.
         | 
         | If anything, the concept of tolerance itself is a trap,
         | creating dividing lines everywhere. Worse yet, it allows
         | someone to feel "just." This is perhaps one of the more
         | dangerous emotions one can experience and consider as moral. A
         | person who thinks of themselves as just is "justfied." Examine
         | the words associated with "justified," even the television
         | show. Consider the history of those who thought of themselves
         | as justified. I feel just, I may then relent on my self-
         | examination. It's a way to sidestep the endless labor of
         | wondering, "Am I doing something right?" Observing, thinking,
         | considering: these are all weights that humans quite naturally
         | want to put down.
         | 
         | How easy, how self-satisfying it is to say "Punch that Nazi!"
         | And of course you first must _judge_ that person to be a Nazi,
         | but even before that you 're twiddling your definitions, making
         | them expansive enough to pin that label on someone, all for the
         | simple joy of feeling like it is okay to hit someone, that they
         | are evil and deserving. The ecstasy of self-righteousness ought
         | to be Schedule I.
         | 
         | Give me uncertainty and doubt. Dispel that self-assurance.
         | Going around deciding whom to tolerate invites judgment, as if
         | one were all-knowing and infallible. We are not.
        
           | OkayPhysicist wrote:
           | Sexual orientation being immutable or not really isn't that
           | big a deal. Not hating people because of their immutable
           | characteristics was chosen as relatively uncontroversial
           | manifestation of my axiomatic belief of innocence by default.
           | People are good, unless they do something bad. Probably
           | should have phrased it as the more accurate "non-harmful"
           | characteristics, in hindsight.
           | 
           | Once your philosophy is consistent, there's little room for
           | philosophical debate. Faced with someone with the philosophy
           | of "Destroy anyone not of my ethnic group", the course of
           | action isn't to debate philosophy with them. It's to shoot
           | them. That's why it's important to have a consistent
           | ideology: So you know when the time for words has ended. At
           | that point, "Punch that Nazi" is a good start.
        
         | jstanley wrote:
         | From the essay:
         | 
         | > The Emperor summons before him Bodhidharma and asks: "Master,
         | I have been tolerant of innumerable gays, lesbians, bisexuals,
         | asexuals, blacks, Hispanics, Asians, transgender people, and
         | Jews. How many Virtue Points have I earned for my meritorious
         | deeds?"
         | 
         | > Bodhidharma answers: "None at all".
         | 
         | > The Emperor, somewhat put out, demands to know why.
         | 
         | > Bodhidharma asks: "Well, what do you think of gay people?"
         | 
         | > The Emperor answers: "What do you think I am, some kind of
         | homophobic bigot? Of course I have nothing against gay people!"
         | 
         | > And Bodhidharma answers: "Thus do you gain no merit by
         | tolerating them!"
        
           | OkayPhysicist wrote:
           | My point was that you gain no merit for tolerating them even
           | if you did have something against them. Tolerance is not a
           | virtue. There is virtue in having nothing against as many
           | people as you can.
        
         | JackFr wrote:
         | > People willing to openly state their bigotry towards people I
         | consider my peers disqualify themselves from my respect.
         | 
         | That is to say, people with whom you disagree.
        
           | bittercynic wrote:
           | Openly expressed bigotry seems like a special type of
           | disagreement to me.
        
             | zogrodea wrote:
             | Some will argue that "bigotry" has suffered from concept
             | creep though. People will readily call me one for saying I
             | believe gender is immutable or that I believe intercourse
             | with the same gender is a sin, but I'm not wishing any harm
             | to those who disagree.
        
               | sixstringtheory wrote:
               | > I'm not wishing any harm
               | 
               | I just wanted to note the progression from "disqualify
               | themselves from my respect" to "wishing harm".
               | 
               | What is your definition of bigotry?
        
               | zogrodea wrote:
               | (Clarifying, because you brought up disrespect, that I
               | don't believe in disrespecting them for their beliefs;
               | they are just humans like you and me with their own
               | struggles.)
               | 
               | I don't use the word "bigot" because of the flimsy usage
               | I've observed from others. Enough people use it to mean
               | express anger/dislike (like how someone uses "ouch" to
               | express pain) that I don't associate it with semantic
               | content.
        
           | sixstringtheory wrote:
           | Bigotry is prejudice, as in, judgement without (yet) having
           | facts, or even in spite of them. That's not simple
           | disagreement, it's willful and obstinate ignorance. I agree
           | it's not worthy of respect.
        
         | galangalalgol wrote:
         | While I get the rest of it, I don't follow on using
         | immutability as the test of what you are non-judgmental
         | towards. People can have immutable qualities that are
         | completely incompatible with any form of social contract. I'm
         | thinking violent behavior attributed to various mental
         | disorders. Disorder being applied not as a judgment, but simply
         | to indicate it doesn't allow them to have what they consider a
         | fulfilling life, what with the rest of us commiting them
         | involuntarily. There may or may not be medications or
         | treatments that might modify those situations. If there are,
         | then we are asking them to modify their natural state to be
         | accepted. I think in that specific case and perhaps others it
         | is reasonable of me to demand that of my in-group. I don't want
         | to get stabbed because they were instructed by a command
         | delusion. I know the medicine and treatments are not ideal. And
         | if they fail to comply with treatment, or it doesn't work, I
         | reserve the right to judge them for their nature.
         | 
         | The parallels for orientation are clearly there, and given
         | enough clockwork orange type abuse, I'm sure you could make me
         | attracted or repelled by just about anything, but I don't
         | choose to judge people with sexual orientations that differ
         | from mine, not because it is their immutable state, but because
         | there are no valid arguments for it harming me or society at
         | large. Population seems to be managing itself. If it was
         | runaway, I might judge people who engaged in behavior that
         | might add to the population, and if there was barely a breeding
         | population of us left, I might judge those who didn't.
        
         | fallingknife wrote:
         | You could have saved a lot of words by just writing "there are
         | good people and bad people, and I, of course, am one of the
         | good people." Have you really never considered the implications
         | of the fact that your bad people also think they are the good
         | people?
        
           | OkayPhysicist wrote:
           | Other people believing in different ethical frameworks only
           | matters if you think other people can't be wrong. I fully
           | acknowledge that just about everybody says that they aren't
           | evil. Yet there are still plenty of people doing evil things.
           | 
           | That leaves three possibilities: Either people are lying
           | about thinking their actions are good (I like to think this
           | is rare, as I have a generally positive view of people), I'm
           | wrong about what is good and what is evil, or they're wrong
           | about what is good and what is evil.
           | 
           | I like to think that the fact that my beliefs are based on an
           | axiomatic framework of suffering bad, free will good, and
           | innocence by default makes them more likely to be correct
           | than a knee-jerk disgust response of "gay people are icky",
           | but maybe I'm biased.
           | 
           | Regardless, between the latter two possibilities, in terms of
           | praxis there is little difference. When two people hold
           | fundamentally contradictory axiomatic beliefs, I fully expect
           | both the fight to protect them and theirs. I don't fault them
           | for choosing to fight. I fault them for the beliefs they're
           | fighting for.
        
           | erulabs wrote:
           | I think the point being made is that there is a limit to
           | tolerance and what might be called multicultural or post
           | modernism. I took the original comments point to be: all
           | humans deserve respect intrinsically, but evil does exist and
           | should not be tolerated. Yes, evil doers think they're good.
           | Is there a way to objectively judge this? No. This is the
           | classical liberal dilemma re military action.
           | 
           | Let's be tolerant of everyone except those who belong to
           | groups explicitly making the world worse. Is that a
           | subjective measure? Yes. Does that mean we shouldn't, to use
           | a modern phrase, "punch Nazis"? No, punch away.
           | 
           | Everyone has the moral authority and responsibility to act to
           | reduce suffering.
        
             | fallingknife wrote:
             | If everyone has the moral authority, then you realize that
             | your enemies think the same way, right? And you realize
             | that you have just given them license to punch you too,
             | right?
             | 
             | How can you believe that other people can err in their
             | judgement of themselves and others and at the same time
             | assume that you are immune to the same error? It's
             | completely ridiculous.
        
               | erulabs wrote:
               | Oh but that's the entire point! I do not assume I'm
               | immune to the same error - in fact introspecting on this
               | continuously is absolutely vital.
               | 
               | What I'm arguing against is inaction in the face of
               | uncertainty.
               | 
               | The phrase "punch nazis" polluted my point. Violence
               | against the violent is justifiable. Yes, my enemies can
               | think the same way; this is why armed conflict exists in
               | our world, and why being blanket "anti-war" or "anti-
               | violence" for that matter is unfortunately naive.
               | 
               | It's not idealism, its pragmatism.
        
               | at_a_remove wrote:
               | Alright. Imagine a non-violent Nazi. They're not punching
               | anyone.
               | 
               | Your natural move is to claim (their) speech as harmful.
               | This inevitably descends into "My violence is merely
               | political speech, but their political speech is
               | violence," inverting the meaning of things.
        
               | neaden wrote:
               | You can't be a non-violent Nazi, violence and the idea
               | that racial groups are constantly at war with each other
               | is an inherent part of the ideology. There is at best a
               | Nazi who due to the circumstances around them is not
               | choosing to engage in violence yet.
        
               | OkayPhysicist wrote:
               | I fully expect my enemies to do worse than punch me. The
               | purpose of having a coherent philosophy is understanding
               | who I have irreconcilable differences with (such as
               | Nazis) and deciding whether the appropriate course of
               | action is to ignore them or to fight them. In the case of
               | Nazis, they pose a substantial threat to innocents, so
               | the correct answer is to fight them.
        
             | deadbeeves wrote:
             | Nazis are not monsters, they're people just like you. Their
             | existence does not cause suffering per se, and punching a
             | Nazi does not reduce suffering, it increases it. If you
             | think a particular worldview is inherently evil you're not
             | going to eradicate it by dehumanizing those who adhere to
             | it and advocating for violence against them. The only way
             | to achieve that is to get them to understand that they're
             | wrong, and to do that you need to engage with them as human
             | beings.
             | 
             | Needless to say, tolerating Nazis does not mean tolerating
             | all actions inspired by Nazism.
        
               | OkayPhysicist wrote:
               | If you choose to uphold an ideology, then you are taking
               | responsibility for its consequences. Nazism is inherently
               | violent, so resisting it is merely defending the
               | innocent. After that it boils down to tactics: Punching a
               | Nazi is a somewhat ineffective strategy, but it does tend
               | to drive them out of the public sphere where they can
               | gain legitimacy and the power to enact their evil. More
               | permanent solutions are better.
        
               | deadbeeves wrote:
               | I'm unclear on what your point is. It sounds like we're
               | more or less in agreement. Unless you're saying Nazis
               | should be executed for being Nazis.
        
               | neaden wrote:
               | "you're not going to eradicate it by dehumanizing those
               | who adhere to it and advocating for violence against
               | them. The only way to achieve that is to get them to
               | understand that they're wrong" I think you need to read a
               | history book on WW2, because that is definitely not what
               | happened to get rid of Nazism.
        
               | deadbeeves wrote:
               | Yet there are still Nazis.
        
               | mbg721 wrote:
               | In any meaningful sense?? Yeah, there are some edgy
               | attention-seekers, but no, there are no longer real
               | threatening Nazis.
        
               | jonhendry18 wrote:
               | No? Not the guy who shot up a mall in May?
               | 
               | "Texas mall shooting: gunman expressed interest in neo-
               | Nazi views - report"
               | 
               | Or the guy who shot up a dollar store
               | 
               | Or "Neo-Nazi Marine Plotted Mass Murder, Rape Campaigns
               | with Group, Feds Say While tasked with protecting the
               | nation, Matthew Belanger was plotting a killing spree
               | against minorities and to rape "white women to increase
               | the production of white children," according to federal
               | prosecutors"
               | 
               | Weird that you apparently feel compelled to downplay the
               | threat.
        
               | deadbeeves wrote:
               | If they're not threatening then there's no point in
               | punching them, beyond perhaps satisfying one's own
               | violent urges.
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Related:
       | 
       |  _I Can Tolerate Anything Except the Outgroup (2014)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25725150 - Jan 2021 (44
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _I Can Tolerate Anything Except the Outgroup (2014)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20183001 - June 2019 (169
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _I can tolerate anything except the outgroup (2014)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=18946217 - Jan 2019 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _I Can Tolerate Anything Except the Outgroup (2014)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=13248993 - Dec 2016 (2
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _I can tolerate anything except the outgroup (2014)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9948575 - July 2015 (9
       | comments)
        
       | golemotron wrote:
       | This essay is timeless.
        
         | shwaj wrote:
         | Without negating the observation of timelessness, it jumped out
         | at me how Russell Brand is now on the "conservative" end of the
         | spectrum (both how he is painted by media, as well as revealed
         | by polls of his audience on a variety of topics), all without a
         | drastic change in his own beliefs/philosophy.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | I would classify Brand more as counter-culture liberal than a
           | conservative. He's still very much a liberal in terms of his
           | views, he just hasnt reduced himself to partisan tribalism.
           | Im sure I disagree with him on many things and from different
           | directions but I think its commendable that he doesnt
           | subscribe to a mold.
        
             | hnhg wrote:
             | Another explanation is that he is just one of the many,
             | many grifters out there.
        
           | RealityVoid wrote:
           | I would qualify Russel Brand as a contrarian. And, in my
           | (perhaps personal consistency) defence, I never liked Russel
           | Brand, he always seemed to "hippy" and not at pragmatic
           | enough for my liking.
        
           | giraffe_lady wrote:
           | A north carolina segregationist who graduated college in say
           | 1940 saw their political stance go from moderate & mainstream
           | to fringe in their own lifetime. The fact that social-
           | political culture norms shift isn't a very interesting or
           | useful statement about the people it shifts around.
        
             | concordDance wrote:
             | > The fact that social-political culture norms shift isn't
             | a very interesting
             | 
             | It's a fascinating fact people should dwell on more imo.
             | Understanding how moral fashions change and why would be
             | great.
        
               | giraffe_lady wrote:
               | The rest of that sentence is important don't cut it out!
               | It's not an interesting observation about the
               | individuals; it certainly is about the cultures though.
               | 
               | Sociologists and historians both spend tremendous amounts
               | of time on this, some devote their enter careers to small
               | facets of this single dynamic.
        
             | shwaj wrote:
             | Maybe not when it shifts in a lifetime, but I beg to differ
             | when it shifts in less than 10 years. It was also not meant
             | to be an interesting statement about the person, rather the
             | shift itself.
        
               | giraffe_lady wrote:
               | Then make the statement. You're implying it and then
               | expecting us to do the work for you.
        
           | dralley wrote:
           | Ahem? https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.i
           | t%2Fm...
           | 
           | It's not surprising that he gets painted as conservative when
           | he promotes Tucker Carlson, Alex Jones and Jordan Peterson
           | while spreading conspiracy theories about Fauci, Obama, Biden
           | etc.
        
             | concordDance wrote:
             | One thing that annoys me is this tendency to judge people
             | by their associations rather than their actual beliefs.
             | 
             | Liking some things people do or say doesn't mean you
             | completely agree with them.
        
             | nomel wrote:
             | > spreading conspiracy theories
             | 
             | Do you have some specific examples? I see clickbait
             | thumbnails, but the contents are, generally, well cited.
        
           | chownie wrote:
           | Perhaps his views haven't changed but he's definitely
           | broadcasting different a different set since 2020. He's not
           | particularly right wing but he's definitely most palatable to
           | the Conservative in the American Republican sense for a
           | reason.
           | 
           | I think it's because his bread and butter content moved from
           | socialist philosophy to rugged individualism and anti-vaxxer
           | rhetoric.
           | 
           | Not that I particularly blame him, it's probably a fairly
           | easy trade-up now in 2023. Why would he retain his smaller
           | collectivist left wing audience, given he's managed a 2700%
           | increase in online viewership by talking about vaccine
           | mandates and how to circumvent them?
        
           | robertlagrant wrote:
           | Same with Bill Maher.
        
             | flangola7 wrote:
             | Maher is just a contrarian kook, always has been. His
             | criticism of Bush was convenient and not the product of a
             | serious moral framework.
        
               | slothtrop wrote:
               | He's been very consistent in his views and by all the
               | counts remains a quasi left-libertarian.
        
               | networkchad wrote:
               | [dead]
        
         | guyzero wrote:
         | Yes because the universe will end before most people finish
         | reading it.
         | 
         | The only thing Scott Alexander seems to not tolerate is an
         | editor.
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | Timeless, yes. But I must have first read it in 2016 because
         | the example I have in my mind are the people who cheered
         | Justice Antonin Scalia's death but questioned the instinct to
         | cheer the death of Osama Bin Laden.
        
           | laidoffamazon wrote:
           | I think there were a lot of people that cheered the deaths of
           | both, myself included.
           | 
           | I don't know anybody that didn't cheer the death of OBL
           | actually. I did see some morons on Twitter/X try though, but
           | they were pretty fringe even among the left.
        
           | siofgnionio wrote:
           | [dead]
        
       | naveen99 wrote:
       | My 5 year old learned to tolerate onions in his food. Plenty of
       | low level intolerance can be squashed with simple guided
       | exposure.
        
       | louzell wrote:
       | > There are certain theories of dark matter where it barely
       | interacts with the regular world at all, such that we could have
       | a dark matter planet exactly co-incident with Earth and never
       | know. Maybe dark matter people are walking all around us and
       | through us, maybe my house is in the Times Square of a great dark
       | matter city, maybe a few meters away from me a dark matter
       | blogger is writing on his dark matter computer about how weird it
       | would be if there was a light matter person he couldn't see right
       | next to him.
       | 
       | > This is sort of how I feel about conservatives.
       | 
       | Please excuse a touch of extremely relevant self-promo. I am
       | building a site to address exactly this. I'm calling it
       | RedMeetBlue, pairing folks from the light and dark matter worlds
       | for one-on-one chats. Link in profile. If you are interested in
       | this experiment, or want to participate, I'd love to hear from
       | you.
        
         | nkingsy wrote:
         | why does the red person have a mask on? Fringey for everyone at
         | this point but I doubt it will encourage red people to join.
         | Wasn't exactly their cup of tea.
        
           | louzell wrote:
           | Noted and good call, I'll take that out of the art.
        
       | neaden wrote:
       | "And I don't have a single one of those people in my social
       | circle. It's not because I'm deliberately avoiding them; I'm
       | pretty live-and-let-live politically, I wouldn't ostracize
       | someone just for some weird beliefs. And yet, even though I
       | probably know about a hundred fifty people, I am pretty confident
       | that not one of them is creationist." I'm guessing this is just
       | because it's never come up. Maybe it's because I live in the
       | midwest or something but I know a number of creationists,
       | republicans, people against gay marriage etc. and interact with
       | them. While my social circle is certainly influenced by my more
       | liberal politics when there are so many people around I don't see
       | how you can't interact with them as friends, neighbors, coworkers
       | etc. But unless you specifically talk about issues like
       | creationism with them it can easily not come up, we tend to
       | assume people share our politics/opinions unless proven
       | otherwise.
        
         | jandrewrogers wrote:
         | I know a surprising number of creationists in urban Seattle.
         | They hide in plain sight because everyone simply assumes they
         | don't exist, and the people that are creationist never say
         | anything unsolicited that would indicate it. It is like the
         | opposite of the meme about vegans, CrossFit, et al.
         | 
         | You see a similar pattern with gun owners, which every
         | statistic suggests exist in vast numbers even in neighborhoods
         | with politics strongly aligned with anti-gun activists, but
         | almost no one ever publicly admits to owning one. Like with
         | creationism, being a member of this group isn't nearly as much
         | of an affectation of political alignment as people assume.
         | 
         | There are many polite fictions like this in society.
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | > ... almost no one ever publicly admits to owning one.
           | 
           | Does having an NRA sticker on your pickup's bumper count? I
           | see those all the time.
        
           | mistermann wrote:
           | > There are many polite fictions like this in society.
           | 
           | Which is deliciously ironic considering how much non-theists
           | enjoy mocking theists "for their 'irrational' thinking".
        
           | zdragnar wrote:
           | Hell, two jobs ago I wouldn't even admit to being religious,
           | let alone creationist. Most places aren't like that,
           | fortunately.
        
         | travisjungroth wrote:
         | Location is huge here, and then social circles within that
         | location. Midwest is a world apart from the East Bay.
        
         | nitwit005 wrote:
         | I'm sure the polls near him would also show quite a few
         | creationists, but unfortunately, we know people lie on these
         | polls: https://www.prri.org/academic/study-know-last-sunday-
         | finds-a...
         | 
         | There's no great way to know the "real" rate of creationists,
         | when apparently people change their stated beliefs for social
         | reasons.
        
           | AlexandrB wrote:
           | The rate of creationists would also heavily depend on how the
           | question is phrased, because there's not one "creationism"
           | but several, sometimes incompatible, ideologies. Compare
           | these questions:
           | 
           | > Do you believe that a supernatural force created the
           | universe?
           | 
           | > Do believe that God created the earth 6000-10000 years ago?
           | 
           | The first is much broader and would also probably include the
           | origin stories of many non-Abrahamic religions. The second is
           | referring to a specific school of Christian "young earth"
           | creationism.
        
         | Ilverin wrote:
         | A) at the time this was written, Scott lived in the Midwest B)
         | Scott worked at a hospital at the time, which selects a bit
         | against those who are creationists. In my opinion, probably 40%
         | of the nurses in such a hospital would be creationist, but
         | maybe Scott disagrees with me about that assessment C) in terms
         | of socialization outside of work, Scott is not an extrovert, so
         | I can imagine arbitrary levels of selection and that it is
         | plausible he did have 0 creationist social acquaintances (maybe
         | the quote is only even talking about his social acquaintances,
         | not his work ones)
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | I would suspect that as an introvert he just doesn't realize
           | what his social circle really holds, even lightly.
           | 
           | Lots of it doesn't come up, and the "higher in the US
           | money/power structure you get the more you learn to be
           | quiet".
           | 
           | Another is to remember that many people may be technically
           | creationists (the protestant church they go to is young-
           | earth) but they just don't ever think about it at all.
        
         | JamesBarney wrote:
         | San Francisco and the Midwest probably have wildly different
         | base rates of creationist beliefs.
        
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           | hospitalJail wrote:
           | San Fran is a city, midwest is a region.
           | 
           | If you took San Fran and Chicago, metro Detroit, Minneapolis,
           | they would probably be similar.
        
             | arcticbull wrote:
             | Not to mention San Francisco and the very-nearby Central
             | Valley are likely quite different.
        
           | neaden wrote:
           | In the article Scott says he lives in a Republican district
           | in a state with a Republican Governor, so he wasn't in San
           | Francisco at the time he wrote this. I live in a Democrat
           | district in a state with a Democrat governor so I can't
           | imagine the political demographics of where we live are that
           | divergent.
        
         | adrusi wrote:
         | I'm quite nearby to Scott in social space, and no, I don't
         | think it's just "never come up." It's a very highly selected
         | scene.
        
           | lolinder wrote:
           | Are you quite near to where he was in 2014? He said in the
           | article that he lived (at time of writing) in a pretty
           | conservative area:
           | 
           | > I live in a Republican congressional district in a state
           | with a Republican governor. The conservatives are definitely
           | out there. They drive on the same roads as I do, live in the
           | same neighborhoods. But they might as well be made of dark
           | matter. I never meet them.
           | 
           | I agree with OP that it's much more likely that he did meet
           | them, just in contexts where it doesn't come up.
        
             | Tuna-Fish wrote:
             | I think that was because he was doing his residency in a
             | place where he would not normally choose to live.
             | 
             | As typical, during that time he was probably so overworked
             | he didn't really interact with any of the locals until his
             | time was up and he moved back out to a self-selected
             | community.
        
           | mistermann wrote:
           | Culture war topics being literally banned on /r/ssc combined
           | with that community's imperfect ability in "keeping it
           | together" when some conversation does sneak in leads me to
           | believe that it would be extremely easy to be never found out
           | if you were among them.
        
       | j7ake wrote:
       | A broader definition of blue vs red that generalises to other
       | western counties would be pro globalisation (eg pro immigration,
       | free trade) vs pro national/local focus (eg pro self reliance).
        
         | amadeuspagel wrote:
         | Isn't globalization and free trade questioned a lot even in the
         | blue tribe today, what with sanctions against russia and china,
         | with self reliance like producing your own chips, being highly
         | priced, worth billions in subsidies?
        
           | plagiarist wrote:
           | Globalization and free trade should be completely rejected by
           | left-leaning people. I guess unless imports coming from
           | countries where human rights an economic externality are
           | either taxed to death or banned.
        
         | binary132 wrote:
         | Both the GOP and Democrat parties are, in practice, dominated
         | by free-trade liberal interventionist capitalists. The actual
         | policy differences between the parties around those subjects
         | are basically a matter of finetuning.
        
         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | I disagree. You're talking about neoliberal versus xenophobic
         | conservative but even then, mainstream conservative politicians
         | love free markets spoitting cheap labor and illegal
         | immigration.
         | 
         | And then you have a particular left wing contingent that
         | understands the issues with unlimited export of labor to lower
         | income countries, which is why unions and some left-wing
         | politicians opposed NAFTA and the trans-pacific partnership.
         | 
         | Trump might be the only Republican leader in recent history to
         | explicitly desire a crackdown on global supply chains.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | > You're talking about neoliberal versus xenophobic
           | conservative
           | 
           | I dont think you are even attempting to be fair towards
           | critics of globalism. This sounds like cheerleading and makes
           | me think you've never thought through the dynamics of
           | globalism.
        
             | unethical_ban wrote:
             | It looks like you didn't read my second paragraph.
             | 
             | My point is that few if any Republicans want to do anything
             | about the labor impacts if globalism, until signing onto
             | chip factory subsidies.
             | 
             | (Well, that and domestic oil production, which contributes
             | to destroying the goddamn planet. But I get the idea that
             | if we're gonna burn it we might as well burn ours. Unless
             | we're playing a long game of exhausting global supplies and
             | sitting on a rarer resource.)
             | 
             | Yes, conservative voters are probably more sympathetic to
             | domestic production, but so are progressives in some
             | instances. Cheap foreign factories and illegal immigration
             | drags down wages and weakens unions.
        
               | hash872 wrote:
               | >Cheap foreign factories and illegal immigration drags
               | down wages and weakens unions
               | 
               | But you can't outlaw foreign competitors from being
               | cheaper than you, any more than you can pass a law
               | against the tide coming in tomorrow
        
               | chihuahua wrote:
               | Aren't import tariffs a means to raising prices of
               | foreign competitors?
        
               | unethical_ban wrote:
               | You can demand domestic companies and importers document
               | and attest to domestic standards of living and welfare
               | (health plans, etc). You can tariff items which are made
               | by slave/subpoverty labor. You can subsidize critical
               | industries.
               | 
               | Or, if the concerns are less about "how bad things are
               | there" and more "what about jobs here", we could be
               | spinning up more government jobs programs, more free
               | college, more welfare here so that it doesn't matter if
               | we lose textiles or manufacturing.
        
               | hash872 wrote:
               | >You can tariff items which are made by slave/subpoverty
               | labor
               | 
               | What are 'normal', middle-class wages in developing
               | countries are 'extremely cheap' by US standards. You
               | can't really solve that problem unless you tariff
               | literally everything.
               | 
               | Subsidizing critical industries- sure, I guess. What's
               | the definition of that? Does it include cars? Clothing
               | and shoes? Appliances? Vacuum cleaners? I don't think
               | anyone's disputing that like military goods need to
               | manufactured domestically, but kind of by definition 95%
               | of goods are not 'critical'
        
           | slothtrop wrote:
           | > mainstream conservative politicians
           | 
           | This is more about the voters. But actually neither side of
           | the aisle is completely enamored with immigration.
        
         | pauldenton wrote:
         | David Goodhart would break it down to "Somewheres" and
         | "Anywheres" The Somewheres attribute a large part of their
         | identities to their place of origin or local communities and
         | are less likely to move. The Anywheres, on the other hand, form
         | an identity based on their life experiences rather than a place
         | of origin; they are a highly mobile population usually
         | congregated in large urban cities like New York, London, or
         | Tokyo. David talks about this in the context of Brexit, but it
         | is a split everywhere
        
         | bee_rider wrote:
         | I don't think it is possible to come up with a definition of
         | "blue vs red" that generalizes to other countries.
         | 
         | The fact that our left wing movement in the US is so tiny that
         | it somehow got gobbled up into our liberal party makes it very
         | difficult to compare to other countries.
        
           | macinjosh wrote:
           | "Vote blue no matter who" attitudes can be thanked for this.
           | People have been scared into never taking a 3rd party
           | seriously. The Republicans are unthinkably bad so it is too
           | risky to split the vote on the left. The only option is the
           | Democrats. Corporations simply migrated their lobbying
           | efforts slightly further over to the left side of Congress
           | during the Obama admin. With strategically placed Senators
           | like Gilibrand for Wall Street and Manchin for the
           | coal/energy industry the corporate oligarchy has pretty good
           | control over things now, the actual political desires of the
           | electorate be damned. Notice how the democrats are
           | politically leading the war/defense efforts now as well,
           | something that used to be a more conservative aim.
        
             | plagiarist wrote:
             | I think we could more comfortably vote for a third option
             | if failing to elect the least bad of two did not result in
             | using women as medical equipment and insurrection against
             | the federal government.
        
             | cmh89 wrote:
             | People aren't scared into not taking 3rd parties seriously,
             | our system is just fundamentally designed to only have two
             | realistic parties. It's just inherent in a first past the
             | post system.
        
       | howinteresting wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | edit: I did not RTFM the entire way and misunderstood.
         | Preserved text below.
         | 
         | ===
         | 
         | You might be getting downvoted for bringing up Brandon Eich in
         | a conversation unrelated to him or to prop 8 in particular, and
         | continuing to do so in every comment. You can make your point
         | with the same force by using a general example.
         | 
         | ===
         | 
         | What you're describing is the paradox of tolerance, which I
         | don't think is particularly controversial or fringe.
        
           | rovolo wrote:
           | From section IX of the article:
           | 
           | > ... Sure enough, if industry or culture or community gets
           | Blue enough, Red Tribe members start getting harassed, fired
           | from their jobs ( _Brendan Eich_ being the obvious example)
           | or otherwise shown the door.
           | 
           | > Think of _Brendan Eich_ as a member of a tiny religious
           | minority surrounded by people who hate that minority.
           | Suddenly firing him doesn't seem very noble.
           | 
           | > ... When a friend of mine heard _Eich_ got fired, she
           | didn't see anything wrong with it. "I can tolerate anything
           | except intolerance," she said.
        
           | howinteresting wrote:
           | I used Eich because he was cited in the essay:
           | 
           | > Think of Brendan Eich as a member of a tiny religious
           | minority surrounded by people who hate that minority.
           | Suddenly firing him doesn't seem very noble.
        
             | unethical_ban wrote:
             | Fair.
             | 
             | I agree that tolerance of intolerance is bad, but you and I
             | disagree a bit on moral relativism. Anyway, sorry for not
             | reading the entire article.
        
         | drak0n1c wrote:
         | That inherently arbitrary logic can be wielded against any
         | regulation or ideology. Nearly every policy disadvantages some
         | person or group's preferences/freedom to purportedly better
         | enable a greater good.
         | 
         | This slippery slope reasoning would not only apply to your
         | chosen target of "modern conservatism" but to anything under
         | most ideologies and religions. As long as their implementation
         | attempts probabilistically/historically led to a form of
         | intolerance, suppression, and atrocity. Is Bernie Sanders also
         | deserving of our intolerance because of the history of
         | intolerance under socialism?
        
           | howinteresting wrote:
           | > That inherently arbitrary logic can be wielded against any
           | regulation or ideology. Nearly every policy disadvantages
           | some person or group's preferences/freedom to purportedly
           | better enable a greater good.
           | 
           | And we use evidence to figure out who's right.
           | 
           | I believe very firmly in objective reality and I think moral
           | relativism is bad.
           | 
           | > This slippery slope reasoning would not only apply to your
           | chosen target of "modern conservatism" but to a wide array of
           | most ideologies and religions.
           | 
           | Some ideologies are better about it than others, and it is
           | our job on this earth as moral agents to figure that out. But
           | once we have figured that out (and modern conservatism is an
           | easy example of an ideology that most intelligent people
           | think is object-level intolerant) then we can apply this very
           | straightforward model to it.
           | 
           | As far as religion goes, yes, most religions tend to be
           | pretty high up on the object-level intolerance scale.
           | 
           | > Is Bernie Sanders also deserving of our intolerance because
           | of the history of intolerance under socialism?
           | 
           | I don't know, did Bernie Sanders donate money or campaign for
           | prop 8 or any other equivalent? I have my issues with Sanders
           | but I don't think anything he did rises to that level.
           | 
           | I'm not just applying intolerance to anyone I disagree with.
           | For example, there are people who believe that the US should
           | be actively trying to reduce its deficit at this time. I
           | disagree with them, but I don't think they're object-level
           | intolerant. I'm a generally reasonable person. I simply have
           | no patience for the sorts of object-level intolerance that
           | people like Eich engage in, nor the intolerance^3 that Scott
           | is doing here.
        
             | deadbeeves wrote:
             | >And we use evidence to figure out who's right. I believe
             | very firmly in objective reality and I think moral
             | relativism is bad.
             | 
             | Are you saying morality is a physical magnitude that can be
             | studied and/or measured? Because if we can't then I don't
             | see how objective reality relates to morality. I would
             | think morality exists only in the minds of people and is
             | therefore not objective, even if it's possible to agree
             | that some universals exist.
        
           | travisjungroth wrote:
           | You're bouncing back and forth between "all" and "nearly
           | all".
           | 
           | Some reasoning applying as criticism to a wide array of most
           | ideologies and religions doesn't disprove it. If anything, it
           | seems like a positive heuristic.
        
         | alexashka wrote:
         | Does your model still hold if we replace 'trans people' with
         | 'rapist' or 'pedophile'?
         | 
         | In other words - 'intolerance of pedophiles is bad while
         | intolerance of people who are intolerant of pedophiles is
         | good.'
         | 
         | Does that sound alright to you?
        
           | nomel wrote:
           | How are those things logically comparable? Or is that your
           | point, that it's all rooted in morality?
        
             | deadbeeves wrote:
             | No reason is given why being intolerant of trans people is
             | bad, it's just asserted. If the reason why being intolerant
             | of trans people is bad is because trans people are a subset
             | of people, then it follows that it's bad to be intolerant
             | of any subset of people. If this is not the case then it
             | needs to be argued why only certain subsets of people are
             | protected from intolerance but not others.
        
         | lend000 wrote:
         | Intolerance of ideas and opinions (or people based on those
         | opinions) is inherently bad, if it means excluding people from
         | a debate or public discourse, or denying them other rights in
         | public society (which should be obvious). But if you are
         | consistent in your application of said framing, other forms of
         | intolerance (like how you pick your social circle) seem morally
         | practical. The problem is that almost no human seems to be
         | capable of the consistency.
         | 
         | For example, do you invest the same emotional energy being
         | intolerant of Brandon Eich as you do toward people who say
         | "ACAB"?
        
         | nonethewiser wrote:
         | > It is, of course, morally just to be intolerant towards
         | intolerance.
         | 
         | This is non-sensical because this morally just thing you
         | describe (intolerant of intolerance) should not be tolerated.
         | By your definition.
        
           | emodendroket wrote:
           | I don't quite agree on the principle. Maybe Eich isn't beyond
           | the pale but I think there are very few people who can't
           | think of ANY a belief someone would have where they wouldn't
           | be willing to associate with them (say, neo-Nazism or
           | advocating for a return of chattel slavery). I don't think
           | this is necessarily contradictory with the notion of being
           | "tolerant" since some of these views would essentially make
           | other forms of tolerance impossible if they were adapted by a
           | majority. "I'm equally tolerant of minorities and people who
           | believe those same minorities should be enslaved" seems like
           | a muddled and nonsensical position.
        
             | rightbyte wrote:
             | If we can't debate against nazism or slavery and win in the
             | eyes of the audience, on democratic terms, I guess it is to
             | late to be "intolerant of intolerance" and democracy has
             | already failed.
             | 
             | So what if one in a thousand (or whatever the number is)
             | want to reinstate slavery?
             | 
             | It seems like a nonsensical position to limit freedom of
             | expression of everyone to quench a hypothetical Nazi
             | takeover.
        
               | emodendroket wrote:
               | As I recall democracy did fail to settle both of these
               | questions and instead they were settled by force of arms.
        
               | rightbyte wrote:
               | I guess the point I am trying to make is that the "out
               | group" would have been abolitionists in the 1700s. I also
               | didn't say that a democracy can't fail.
        
           | dbt00 wrote:
           | Tolerance is not a moral position, so reasoning about it in
           | moral terms is nonsense.
           | 
           | Tolerance is a social compact and it requires mutuality. "My
           | preference is to punch you in the face, if you claim to be
           | tolerant you must accept that" is obviously foolish, no
           | matter how much you dress it up.
        
             | concordDance wrote:
             | "Tolerance of intolerance" just kicks the can down the
             | road.
             | 
             | A Conservative might argue that Muslims are intolerant and
             | thus should not be allowed in the country or that trans
             | people are intolerant of people using the correct pronouns
             | for them.
             | 
             | You can phrase pretty much any side of a political question
             | as being either tolerant or intolerant with a bit of work.
        
             | nonethewiser wrote:
             | To be clear, I wasnt the one who framed it in moral terms.
             | And you are exactly right - intolerance isnt always bad,
             | nor good. Which is another reason why this is non-sensical:
             | 
             | > It is, of course, morally just to be intolerant towards
             | intolerance
        
           | howinteresting wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
           | mholm wrote:
           | The idea you're looking for is the paradox of tolerance, and
           | a solution to it is that by engaging in intolerance, one has
           | broken a social contract, and thus no longer benefits from
           | it, and others can be intolerant to them without violating
           | this social contract.
        
         | dimal wrote:
         | This kind of thinking leads to wars. Totally "justified" wars.
        
         | golemotron wrote:
         | I think the timeless bit is that there is always an out-group.
         | It's worthwhile to be aware of yours and whatever subconscious
         | position you've taken regarding them.
        
           | nonethewiser wrote:
           | Thats a good question. Probably, to some extent. I think
           | social media has certainly made this worse. Which is
           | interesting because this was written in 2014 before this was
           | a well understood phenomenon and a familiar narrative (social
           | media silos radicalizing people).
        
           | thimkerbell wrote:
           | I think expounders are my biggest outgroup. Unfortunately,
           | it's pretty big.
        
           | howinteresting wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
             | pauldenton wrote:
             | Maybe instead of tolerance or intolerance, you should look
             | into what Jesus talked about. Loving your enemy. Tolerating
             | people is one thing. Loving them is a far greater thing
        
             | ctoth wrote:
             | > I've spent basically my entire teenage and adult life
             | fine-tuning the definition of my outgroup and becoming ever
             | more confident that intolerance of it is just.
             | 
             | And this is how an algorithm feels from inside.
        
       | slothtrop wrote:
       | A classic.
        
       | zzzeek wrote:
       | [flagged]
        
         | Ensorceled wrote:
         | > I tried to read several sections of this garbage post (it
         | goes wrong right from the get-go. There are no "virtue points".
         | There is human decency).
         | 
         | He is talking about utils and virtue points as philosophical
         | constructs.
         | 
         | This entire essay went over your head.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | siofgnionio wrote:
           | Never in the history of the universe has something written by
           | Scott Alexander gone over someone's head. Maybe that means he
           | writes clearly, or maybe it means he pontificates at great
           | length about things everyone else has considered obvious
           | since childhood. You be the judge.
        
             | Ensorceled wrote:
             | I get that you hate the guy, but c'mon.
        
       | brindlejim wrote:
       | Curious to know how Scott's ingroup deals with the e/acc
       | outgroup, which is all the more "out" for being adjacent to EA.
       | Or the gender critical, considering EA/post-rationalism's
       | commitment to gender ideology.
        
         | consilient wrote:
         | e/acc is an internet meme. The underlying ideological group, to
         | the extent that there is one, is the "reactionary
         | modernism"/"Californian Ideology"/"New Right"/"neoreactionary"
         | cluster.
         | 
         | My impression is that for Scott they're what he calls a
         | "fargroup": weird and bad in theory, but not salient enough to
         | provoke a real response in practice. The way modern people feel
         | about Genghis Khan. But I have very mixed feelings about Scott
         | and extremely negative feelings about neoreactionaries, so take
         | that with a grain of salt.
        
           | giraffe_lady wrote:
           | My impression is that they're what scott calls "my dinner
           | guests." Seriously I cannot find anything in his writing that
           | is incompatible with those movements and beliefs. If one of
           | them wanted to get as much "mainstream" acceptance as
           | possible they would write carefully about exactly the things
           | he writes about, leaving out exactly the things he leaves
           | out. I am completely convinced this is his project.
        
         | lsaferite wrote:
         | e/acc?
         | 
         | EA?
        
           | reducesuffering wrote:
           | EA is effective altruism. A group that spends their $ and
           | effort trying to do the most good in the world, and is
           | adjacent/overlaps with many of the author's group,
           | rationalists. They are pro-technology, but existentially
           | concerned about AGI.
           | 
           | e/acc is effective accelerationism. A more recent "spin" on
           | EA, more loosely associated moniker, for people who are
           | extremely pro technology, more tech = always good, and wish
           | to herald in AGI asap. Their "founder", is on record saying
           | that it's ok if AGI reigns supreme and humans die, as it
           | would be our progeny.[0]
           | 
           | [0] https://twitter.com/AISafetyMemes/status/1683462000360280
           | 065...
        
             | lsaferite wrote:
             | Thanks for the explanation. It's frustrating when people
             | use acronyms and you don't know what they mean. Better to
             | always be explicit on the first usage. I'm only marginal at
             | following that ideal though.
        
         | mitthrowaway2 wrote:
         | > Curious to know how Scott's ingroup deals with... the gender
         | critical, considering EA/post-rationalism's commitment to
         | gender ideology.
         | 
         | Perhaps you will find one answer here?
         | 
         | https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/11/21/the-categories-were-ma...
         | 
         | As for e/acc, I have no idea what that means.
        
           | brindlejim wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
             | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
             | > His comments-section ban on people who engage in so-
             | called dead-naming is a good indicator.
             | 
             | I think that if enough people engage in a sort of behavior
             | to be mean assholes to others, they wil rightfully get
             | banned whether there exists a coordinate system in which
             | they are "correct" or not.
        
               | brindlejim wrote:
               | I'm not sure what science and "being mean" have to do
               | with each other. But I would note that you have not made
               | any argument except ad hominem, and raised the specter of
               | cancellation, which is typically frowned upon on this
               | site.
        
               | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
               | "Ad hominem", "cancellation". You keep using those words,
               | but I don't think they mean what you think they mean.
        
           | consilient wrote:
           | > As for e/acc, I have no idea what that means.
           | 
           | It's just the latest rebranding of Nick Land's
           | ideology/performance art/shitposting. "Capital will devour
           | human civilization: here's why that's a good thing."
        
           | marsa wrote:
           | effective accelerationism apparently
        
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