[HN Gopher] Diamond prices are in free fall in one key corner of...
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       Diamond prices are in free fall in one key corner of the market
        
       Author : latchkey
       Score  : 46 points
       Date   : 2023-09-05 04:07 UTC (18 hours ago)
        
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       | vsskanth wrote:
       | It's been a while since I've seen someone wearing a diamond
       | ornament
        
         | threadweaver34 wrote:
         | As a single guy, I'm checking the ladies' hands for rings all
         | the time.
        
           | mellavora wrote:
           | As a married guy, I see my wife's ring every day.
        
           | sublinear wrote:
           | My experience has been that you just don't see people wearing
           | wedding bands all that often anymore. They're inconvenient
           | and unfashionable. Marriage is as unpopular as ever and only
           | the most conservative areas actually care about marital
           | status.
        
       | adolph wrote:
       | What an interesting story of pricing in a cultural market with
       | encumbant and new tech, and a cartel attempting to retain its
       | market power but slowly losing ground.
       | 
       |  _In June 2022, De Beers was charging about $1,400 a carat for
       | the select makeable diamonds. By July this year, that had dropped
       | to about $850 a carat. And there may be more room to fall: the
       | diamonds are still 10% more expensive than in the "secondary"
       | market, where traders and manufacturers sell among themselves._
       | 
       | . . .
       | 
       |  _. . . India, where about 90% of global supply is cut and
       | polished. Lab grown accounted for about 9% of diamond exports
       | from the country in June, compared with about 1% five years ago.
       | Given the steep discount that they sell for, that means about 25%
       | to 35% of volume is now lab grown, according to Liberum Capital
       | Markets._
       | 
       | . . .
       | 
       |  _About five years ago, lab grown gems sold at about a 20%
       | discount to natural diamonds, but that has now blown out to
       | around 80% as the retailers push them at increasingly lower
       | prices and the cost of making them falls. The price of polished
       | stones in the wholesale market has fallen by more than half this
       | year alone._
        
       | skywhopper wrote:
       | Makes total sense. Lab-created diamonds have been
       | indistinguishable (for the typical consumer) from natural ones
       | for years. DeBeers kept jewelry retailers in line in pushing
       | "real" diamonds, but it was just a matter of time until something
       | happened to shake that hold lose. Given the rapid switch away
       | from gold for wedding bands etc after the 2008 crisis led to a
       | major price spike, it is not surprising to me that jewelry
       | consumers are willing to question whether "real" diamonds are
       | worth the premium cost as well.
        
         | webignition wrote:
         | Might lab-grown diamonds have reached a point of being
         | indistinguishable from natural diamonds such that people pass
         | off lab-grown diamonds as natural diamonds without anyone being
         | able to tell?
        
           | zeitgeistcowboy wrote:
           | If you buy a certified diamond they will come with a laser
           | engraving that indicates it was lab grown. They can tell if
           | it was lab grown with special equipment and/or the chain of
           | purchase. So, I guess you'd have to believe the certification
           | company if they say it is NOT lab grown and that's what you
           | want.
        
           | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
           | I have read that the distinguishing feature is that natural
           | diamonds have flaws. Entrapped dirt or what have you that is
           | not found in the sterile environment of the synthetic ones.
        
             | zeitgeistcowboy wrote:
             | I bought a yellow lab grown diamond for my wife's wedding
             | ring and with a jewelers loupe you can see the flaws in it.
             | It looks like dirt.
        
             | OJFord wrote:
             | Maybe a specialist could tell a natural, formed over
             | thousands of years, flaw from a lab-grown flaw, but really
             | I think it's more like you _can get_ a better grade from a
             | lab (and especially with consistency, frequency, at a much
             | lower price due to being rare to find naturally occurring).
             | i.e. you can get flawed and coloured lab-grown diamonds
             | too. (A mix of taking less care /time, older equipment, and
             | binning the results like silicon wafers I assume.)
        
             | hinkley wrote:
             | Like honey, the inclusions are the only thing that
             | distinguish it from counterfeit.
        
       | typest wrote:
       | I just got engaged. When we looked at rings, the jeweler asked my
       | fiance if she wanted natural or synthetic, and she responded "I
       | don't want a blood diamond!!" Of course, mined diamonds aren't
       | blood diamonds, but her impression was still they were a little
       | ickier.
       | 
       | The jeweler told me that one reason to get a natural diamond was
       | that the prices of lab grown diamonds had been falling, whereas
       | natural hasn't as much, so the ring would hold more value. I told
       | her that was exactly why we wanted to go with a lab grown
       | diamond! This isn't an investment -- we aren't planning to sell
       | the ring.
       | 
       | Ultimately, for a price that didn't break the bank, we got an
       | absolutely gorgeous ring with diamonds larger and higher quality
       | than we would have been able to afford with natural. Diamond
       | rings may have started as something to resell in divorce, but for
       | us (for my fiance really), it was more about getting something
       | that was beautiful, and if it didn't cost as much, great! I
       | suspect most Americans will feel similarly.
        
       | ftxbro wrote:
       | > the kinds of stones that go into the cheaper one- or two-carat
       | solitaire bridal rings popular in the US have experienced far
       | sharper price drops than the rest of the market
        
       | gnicholas wrote:
       | I wonder what the second-order consequences will be. That is,
       | people will still want to signal their commitment/ability to
       | provide when proposing, so the drop in the price of diamonds
       | won't necessarily reduce the overall outlay.
       | 
       | Instead, it would shift the expense to another category (platinum
       | or other expensive metals) or simply lead people to buy more
       | carats (4 is the new 2!). In some ways, these moves could help
       | luxury brands like Tiffany, since their well-known price premium
       | would provide the same signaling device for folks who want to
       | spend tens of thousands of dollars when proposing.
        
         | dahdum wrote:
         | Bespoke. Allocate the savings from lab diamonds to design and
         | you can get a more meaningful ring with higher quality
         | materials for similar cost.
         | 
         | Customization has been on the uptrend for several years.
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | Rings will get bigger/more extravagant and get mixed with other
         | precious gems or metals. What is not going to happen is stores
         | selling cheaper jewelry.
        
           | 0cf8612b2e1e wrote:
           | My naive assumption is that outside of geologists and
           | jewelers, it is impossible for a layman to identify natural,
           | synthetic, or even a different gemstone.
        
             | gnicholas wrote:
             | I would agree, but I think that after some period of time,
             | it will become known that the price of diamonds have
             | dropped dramatically. This means that if a man wants to
             | signal that he's spent a chunk of change on a ring, he'll
             | either need to go with a much larger stone than before, or
             | he'll need some sort of external signifier. That could be a
             | certificate that it's a natural diamond, or that the
             | setting is somehow super fancy.
        
         | sublinear wrote:
         | > people will still want to signal their commitment/ability to
         | provide when proposing
         | 
         | Anyone over about 25 and actually mature enough to commit
         | probably doesn't care that much about the ring as long as it's
         | not literally a funyun.
         | 
         | How about a nice home, a leisurely lifestyle and solid career,
         | an amiable personality, a great social circle, track record of
         | being dependable with family, etc. You know, the things the
         | ring is supposed to actually represent.
        
       | kylehotchkiss wrote:
       | > Diamond demand across the board has weakened after the
       | pandemic, as consumers splash out again on travel and
       | experiences, while economic headwinds eat into luxury spending
       | 
       | Are people becoming more careful about such valuable purchases
       | since losing a diamond ring is so heartbreaking? It seems like
       | the concept of "throwaway" rings is increasing so you don't have
       | to worry about losing the real one which is an argument no person
       | ever wants to have with their spouse. I keep my real one locked
       | away and wear a titanium one around.
        
       | Fezzik wrote:
       | What a great opportunity to re-share one of my favorite articles:
       | https://priceonomics.com/diamonds-are-bullshit/
       | 
       | I really can't think of an example better than people buying
       | shiny rocks for absurd amounts of money that demonstrates how
       | non-advanced we are, as a society generally.
        
       | OJFord wrote:
       | It's crazy to prefer a natural diamond for anything other than a
       | collectors' item. It's not about being 'cheap' - whatever your
       | budget is, if you're picking an engagement ring say, why _not_
       | get a technically superior (or larger) stone for the same price
       | tag?
        
         | Waterluvian wrote:
         | I dunno... it seems no less crazy than people who put "three
         | months salary" on their finger.
        
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         | xwdv wrote:
         | What about an artificial meteorite instead of an actual one?
        
         | irrational wrote:
         | I purchased a 1 carat diamond ring for my now-wife in the
         | mid-1990s for $600. For our 25th wedding anniversary my wife
         | and I designed a new solid gold ring using Moissanite stones
         | that cost about $700. She loves her new ring and everyone
         | thinks the stones are real diamonds. We've even had jewelers
         | comment on her diamond ring. I truly don't understand why
         | anyone would go with diamonds these days.
        
           | gnicholas wrote:
           | Where did you get the stones, and did the jeweler who built
           | the new ring care at all?
        
             | irrational wrote:
             | We had it made in China. There are a number of online
             | chinese jewelers. They will work with you to make the ring
             | to your exact specifications. They will create a 3D
             | rendering of the ring for your approval. They will let you
             | pick out the stones you want. After it is manufactured,
             | they will create a video showing the ring (or earrings or
             | whatever) to you for approval before shipping it to you. I
             | figured that for $700 we could risk it, but it turned out
             | to be a gorgeous ring and we have had zero complaints about
             | it in the 4 years since we received it. It is rock solid
             | (pun intended) and as pretty today as the day she first put
             | it on.
        
         | throw3747874747 wrote:
         | If future wife requires diamond, another stone is not going to
         | fix root problem you have. Go with someone less materialistic.
        
           | a-user-you-like wrote:
           | If you ask her if she'd prefer a lab diamond or one from the
           | ground, and she says ground, you have your answer. If you
           | force the issue and insist on getting the lab diamond, you're
           | the douche.
        
             | OJFord wrote:
             | Why ask? Personally I just nerded out over the specs a bit,
             | filtered for colourless and unflawed as far as the naked
             | eye can see (i.e. you can get better but requires a
             | specialist with specialist equipment to tell, so who cares,
             | she's wearing it not collecting or selling it) and then
             | went with the largest I didn't think would look silly (or
             | alternatively that's within budget, whichever limit's
             | tighter).
             | 
             | I don't really think there's an unbiased way to ask. 'Lab-
             | grown or natural' makes the latter sound more 'real' and
             | better. 'Ethical or blood sweat and tears' is obviously
             | out. 'Lab-grown and technically superior for the same
             | money, or natural and more flawed' is about the best I can
             | come up with, but the former is just objectively the
             | correct answer isn't it? I don't see how anyone could
             | understand the question and answer the latter. There just
             | isn't a reason to prefer natural, all else being equal, for
             | an item of personal jewellery that you're going to wear?
        
           | organsnyder wrote:
           | Plenty of people have been socialized to expect certain
           | material things as part of the marriage process. Does it make
           | sense? Probably not. Is it a character flaw? Absolutely not.
        
             | jncfhnb wrote:
             | How is it not a character flaw ?
        
               | ethanbond wrote:
               | Because all of us want stupid shit?
               | 
               | Unless you're willing to bundle everything beyond pure
               | Buddha-tier equanimity as "character flaws."
               | 
               | it's unfair to draw the line between "useless thing you
               | were socialized to spend money on" and "useless thing
               | someone else was socialized to spend money on."
        
               | bigbillheck wrote:
               | The flaw isn't 'wanting the diamond', the flaw is 'being
               | aware of the horrific nature of the industry and still
               | wanting the diamond'.
        
               | busterarm wrote:
               | A significant volume of the world's clothes are produced
               | through sweatshop and child labor.
               | 
               | Then there's consumer electronics manufacturing... ...or
               | being a tourist to the Saudi Arabia/Turkey/Russia/UAE
               | where modern-day slavery is taking place at scale.
               | 
               | Out of sight, out of mind.
        
               | ethanbond wrote:
               | I'm sure the coffee you drink and the tshirts you wear
               | and the phone you use are all ethically sourced eh?
               | 
               | We're all deluding ourselves for the sake of sanity +
               | having nice stuff.
        
               | bigbillheck wrote:
               | Are you telling me I can get lab-grown coffee and
               | t-shirts that avoid the nastiest parts of the traditional
               | processes? As for phones, I'm on a used iphone 6. That
               | doesn't make its original sourcing any better, but harm
               | reduction is still reduction
        
               | jncfhnb wrote:
               | Eh... stupidly expensive, unethically sourced, low store
               | of value, easily substituted by superior cheaper
               | alternatives feels like the height of "bad" materialism
               | if there is such a thing.
        
               | busterarm wrote:
               | Considering how many marriages end due to finances and
               | how often couples fight over money, "wastes money" is
               | probably one of the least desirable traits in a future
               | spouse.
               | 
               | "Failure to see reason" is probably the next biggest red-
               | flag/dealbreaker for me.
               | 
               | I'm going to die alone.
        
         | jpn wrote:
         | > The handicap principle is a hypothesis proposed by the
         | biologist Amotz Zahavi to explain how evolution may lead to
         | "honest" or reliable signalling between animals which have an
         | obvious motivation to bluff or deceive each other. It suggests
         | that costly signals must be reliable signals, costing the
         | signaller something that could not be afforded by an individual
         | with less of a particular trait
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handicap_principle
        
         | xnx wrote:
         | Welcome to the world of Veblen goods:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Veblen_good
        
           | pjot wrote:
           | When the Apple App Store first came out there was an app
           | called "I am rich" that cost $1000.
           | 
           | It's only functionality was a button that when pressed
           | displayed the text, "I am rich!"
        
             | JKCalhoun wrote:
             | So funny.As I understand it, $1000 was the highest price
             | tier Apple provided for the App Store.
             | 
             | There must be a lesson (or perhaps even a metaphor?) in
             | that half a dozen or so copies sold. At least one or two of
             | the "marks" claimed they bought it on accident. Maybe. Or
             | maybe some people have a _lot_ more disposable income than
             | I do.
             | 
             | It still feels to me like developer performance art.
        
             | m-ee wrote:
             | It was better than that, it displayed a few sentences that
             | included a misspelling
        
         | Trias11 wrote:
         | ..and add here technically superior plastic flowers with a
         | selection of natural scent sprays :)
        
         | Xcelerate wrote:
         | I want a lab grown diamond in the shape of a giant wafer. That
         | way I can build a pan around it and use that to cook food in.
         | That incredible thermal conductivity is wasted sitting in a
         | piece of jewelry.
        
         | blacksmith_tb wrote:
         | But if we're being logical then you might as well go with
         | Moissanite (lab-grown silicon carbide) instead of diamond,
         | which is cheaper, nearly as tough, and also has better fire?
        
         | slashdev wrote:
         | I pitched this to my wife a few years back. She insisted she'd
         | rather have a smaller natural diamond. It makes no sense to me.
         | Shiny carbon is shiny carbon to me. There's no real logic in
         | it. But given it's a status symbol that derives its value from
         | its rareness, I suppose it's no different than a Luis Vutton or
         | a Rolex. It's not about the function, it's about the fact that
         | you can afford one. I hate that mentality, I refuse to buy
         | anything like that for myself.
        
           | kalupa wrote:
           | guess she prefers them to be forged by blood instead of a
           | high pressure container
        
           | scotty79 wrote:
           | It's all made up, through and through so it doesn't need to
           | make any sense.
        
           | edge17 wrote:
           | With logic like that, why buy a diamond at all? Sounds like
           | your wife gets it!
        
           | paxys wrote:
           | A good Rolex at least has a thriving resale market, and can
           | actually increase in value over time. Same for a lot of other
           | luxury goods as well as other stores of value (like gold or
           | Bitcoin). Diamonds on the other hand are effectively
           | worthless the moment they leave the store. Their high prices
           | are a product of marketing and social pressure, nothing more.
        
             | TacticalCoder wrote:
             | I agree with the rest but...
             | 
             | > Diamonds are effectively worthless the moment they leave
             | the store
             | 
             | That's not the case! You can have the stone removed from
             | the ring and, in case you don't have the original
             | certificate, sent to a certification authority (like GIA)
             | to have it graded. I think it also, once graded, gets
             | automatically laser-engraved (above a certain carat) but
             | I'm not sure about that: maybe you need to pay for the
             | laser engraving too. And it's then got a value on the
             | market: there's a worldwide market (or several) and every
             | single jeweler in the world can see which stones are
             | available at which price depending on their specs and book
             | any stone and have it shipped in a few clicks.
             | 
             | Source: I've got a good friend who's a jeweler and he
             | showed that to me.
             | 
             | Now: fancy shops (with famous names) may make fun of people
             | by selling them stones at 3x their values or more (I don't
             | doubt that) but you can also go to an independent jeweler
             | and have him model/build the ring (or he'll outsource the
             | 3D modelling) then put the stone on it and you'll pay a
             | price much closer to actual price of the stone (the jeweler
             | doesn't really work harder for a 0.5 carat stone vs a 2
             | carat one, so the bigger the stone, the less is "wasted" on
             | the ring).
             | 
             | Regarding the differing values: I think it's mandatory that
             | every lab-grown diamond above a certain carat are laser-
             | engraved so unless labs growing these diamonds are
             | cheating, it's extremely hard to make a lab-grown one pass
             | for a billion years old one.
        
               | Someone wrote:
               | > I think it's mandatory that every lab-grown diamond
               | above a certain carat are laser-engraved
               | 
               | https://www.gemsociety.org/article/lab-grown-diamonds-
               | faq:
               | 
               |  _"Many lab-made diamonds have an inscription that
               | identifies them as lab-made.
               | 
               | Diamonds can also have a lab report number inscribed on
               | the girdle"_
               | 
               | I think it's very likely that, If that "above a certain
               | carat" were true, that page would have mentioned it.
               | 
               | I also cannot think of a good argument why it would be
               | reasonable to require producers of artificial diamonds to
               | add such markers.
        
               | conductr wrote:
               | Because the GEM Society is a business that wants to 1)
               | continue grading diamonds and 2) begin cataloging lab
               | diamonds. Both of which are revenue sources.
        
             | londons_explore wrote:
             | > effectively worthless the moment they leave the store
             | 
             | I hear this a lot... But where can I buy a massive diamond
             | 2nd hand for a few bucks?
        
               | nelgaard wrote:
               | Not a few bucks, but for 10 percent of the
               | valuation/retail price:
               | 
               | https://www.konkurser.dk/search/?s=diamant
               | 
               | It is in Danish, but it is bankruptcy auctions, the high
               | price is the valuation (typically the retail price before
               | bankruptcy), the low price is the final highest bid, all
               | in DKK.
        
               | paxys wrote:
               | Look at it the other way. If you have a diamond in good
               | condition, can you sell it anywhere for "market price"
               | the same way you would gold or silver? No, because the
               | rock is not rare, and there's basically no way to verify
               | its origin outside of the store.
               | 
               | Look up Craigslist or Facebook Marketplace in your area
               | and you'll find plenty of cheap listings for diamond
               | jewelry. Will you really take a chance on any of them
               | though?
        
               | RandomLensman wrote:
               | Large, good quality diamonds are rare, smaller ones not
               | so much (certain colors aside).
        
               | hammock wrote:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bid%E2%80%93ask_spread
        
           | jaaron wrote:
           | > Shiny carbon is shiny carbon to me
           | 
           | You're only considering intrinsic value. That's helpful for
           | raw commodities.
           | 
           | For nearly everything else, value is tied to perception,
           | history, etc.
           | 
           | If I have two identical baseballs, they're both "just"
           | baseballs. But one of them could have much more value due to
           | its history: maybe it was a homerun ball by a famous player,
           | or a ball that I or a family member hit/caught. Same
           | function. Could be otherwise identical, but could also be
           | worth very different amounts.
           | 
           | The stories we tell is where the primary value is.
           | 
           | In this case, your wife values the story of a natural diamond
           | that was formed through long, natural processes and required
           | the effort of finding, excavating, cutting and so on.
           | 
           | Now you could disagree with that story, or you could dislike
           | the tellers and amplifiers of that story, but the fact
           | remains that your wife and many others value that story,
           | making it more precious than merely "shiny carbon."
           | 
           | This is branding and marketing 101. Humans are storytelling
           | machines and they understand value largely via stories and
           | relationships. Misunderstanding that is a failure to
           | understand essential human characteristics.
        
             | slashdev wrote:
             | Yeah, that makes sense. It's not about the function, that's
             | for sure.
             | 
             | > Misunderstanding that is a failure to understand
             | essential human characteristics.
             | 
             | I'll add that to the list of human behavior that I don't
             | really understand.
        
             | mongol wrote:
             | Yeah this is very true. You have a painting, the artist may
             | be Picasso, but uncertain. Suddenly it is confirmed it was
             | Picasso. Same painting, different price.
        
           | brianwawok wrote:
           | The difference between a $200 and a $2000 bottle of wine is
           | mostly how expensive the thing you are drinking is. Tons of
           | industries and products work like this. Why would it surprise
           | you that gems are any different?
        
             | rbranson wrote:
             | That is how prices work regardless of industry or product.
        
             | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
             | > The difference between a $200 and a $2000 bottle of wine
             | is mostly how expensive the thing you are drinking is.
             | 
             | Yes, but the subset of people that can afford and would
             | drink a $200 bottle of wine is hardly any bigger than the
             | subset of people that can afford and would drink a $2000
             | bottle of wine.
             | 
             | It makes perfect sense to me why people would drink the
             | $2000 bottle of wine. Why not? They've got the money.
             | 
             | If you balk at a $2000 bottle of wine, you're probably not
             | casually drinking $200 bottles of wine either - and if you
             | are - you're in a very small percentage of people where the
             | price difference means something. It's maybe 2% of the
             | population.
             | 
             | The other 97.75% isn't buying $200 bottles of wine. And the
             | other 0.25% can buy $2000 bottles just fine.
        
               | dagw wrote:
               | _but the subset of people that can afford and would drink
               | a $200 bottle of wine is hardly any bigger than the
               | subset of people that can afford and would drink a $2000
               | bottle of wine._
               | 
               | I don't think this is correct. Most wine
               | nerds/enthusiasts I know (and I include myself) would
               | consider dropping $200 on one of their 'dream bottles' in
               | the right circumstance, especially if splitting the cost
               | with a couple of friends. I don't know a single person
               | who would ever drop $2000 on a bottle of wine under any
               | circumstance.
        
               | mellavora wrote:
               | And I have a friend of a friend whose entire business is
               | helping people sell wine for 20K a bottle and up.
               | Emphasis on "and up"
               | 
               | I also have a friendly relationship with a local wine
               | shop, where I usually buy bottles for 10-15 bucks. They
               | also carry (and sell) many bottles at 5K a pop and up.
               | 
               | And if you want to get all mathematical about it,
               | assuming the right kind of power law distribution, it is
               | more likely to see one person who would pay 2000 for a
               | bottle than to find 2 people who would pay 200.
               | 
               | power law stats is weird. Once you are outside of the
               | bell, the bell area has NO constraint on the observation.
               | Unlike Gaussian and similar distributions, where
               | probability falls off very rapidly as you move out of the
               | bell.
        
             | arcticbull wrote:
             | Unless I'm wrong those are considered Veblen goods. [1]
             | 
             | [1] https://www.investopedia.com/terms/v/veblen-good.asp
        
           | spiderxxxx wrote:
           | Diamonds are not that rare. They're durable, so it's not like
           | an old diamond is going to break or something. So, there
           | should be plenty of diamonds for everyone who wants one.
           | Rings made in the 1920s and up probably have some sort of
           | diamond in it, and if you don't like the ring, keep the gem
           | and craft a new ring around it. I prefer more rare stones,
           | such as a padparadscha sapphire, or Alexandrite. I prefer to
           | give my woman a gemstone as rare as she is, and as colorful
           | as she is, not something which has virtually no color, and is
           | definitely not rare.
        
             | TylerE wrote:
             | They are extremely hard, which is in most respects the
             | opposite. Doesn't take much to shatter one into a million
             | pieces...
             | 
             | Try hey will also burn readily at house firm temperatures
        
           | threadweaver34 wrote:
           | > derives its value from its rareness
           | 
           | Hah!
           | 
           | The big issue with choosing a smaller, natural stone is you
           | can't really be sure it's actually natural. The industry has
           | so many unethical practices I wouldn't be confident in any
           | "certification" that comes with a stone's origin. Even lower-
           | grade stones might just be from lab rejects, or labs
           | intentionally growing good, but not perfect stones.
        
             | paxys wrote:
             | As opposed to the diamond mining industry which is a
             | paragon of ethics...
        
               | TheDudeMan wrote:
               | "As opposed to"? Sounds like you are agreeing that "The
               | industry has so many unethical practices".
        
               | paxys wrote:
               | Mined and lab grown diamonds have entirely different
               | suppliers, supply chains and certifications. The person I
               | replied to has problems with the latter, which is idiotic
               | considering the alternative is 1000x worse.
        
               | Clent wrote:
               | You need to re-read the person you replied to, they
               | aren't saying what you think they are saying.
               | 
               | Mined diamonds may actually be lab grown diamonds
               | certified as mined.
               | 
               | The financial incentives only goes in one direction on
               | this one.
        
               | linuxftw wrote:
               | I call them 'slave stones' because the miners are often
               | times literal slaves.
        
           | failuser wrote:
           | The one from the lab does not have blood, sweat and tears
           | spent on mining it. Lab workers overtime at best.
           | 
           | Maybe if artificial diamonds are made from forsaken orphan
           | ashes they would have a similar sentimental value.
        
           | hutzlibu wrote:
           | The difference would be, that one was made artificial in a
           | human machine in a lab - and the other by raw natural forces
           | in the wild.
           | 
           | There is no practical value in jewelry anyway, it is a status
           | symbol and the context of coming from the wild extracted
           | under wild conditions (and maybe violently, ooh, blood
           | diamonds, how exiting, erm shocking) has of course a higher
           | symbolic value. So a artificial made one would be considered
           | "fake".
           | 
           | Romanticism is not attached to logic. But it is still a real
           | factor in human decision making. And to be honest, if I would
           | be into jewelry, I probably would prefer the "real" one, too.
           | But I am rather into extreme sports and any rings or alike
           | are just dangerous baggage there (a friend of mine allmost
           | lost a finger, while climbing over a fence and his ring got
           | stuck on some metal piece).
           | 
           | But if your wife happens to be into it - applying logic here
           | will be probably seen as a cheap way to save money.
        
             | ChainOfFools wrote:
             | > artificial in a human machine in a lab - and the other by
             | raw natural forces in the wild
             | 
             | What do you suppose is the value that distinguishes these
             | two processes? The story? Or is it the persistence of the
             | naturalistic fallacy, surfacing in all sorts of places and
             | in all kinds of minds including those one would expect are
             | habitually vigilant against what is essentially a
             | generalized form of superstition.
        
               | sethhochberg wrote:
               | "Artificial" usually isn't a positive thing when the word
               | comes up. We're often told to avoid artificial
               | sweeteners, artificially hydrogenated oils, artificially
               | enhanced flavors, artificial dyes and colorants... and
               | that's just in food and beverage, and totally ignoring
               | the luxury image of natural hardwood instead of wood
               | veneer, natural glass/crystal instead of plastic.
               | 
               | Diamonds are just about the only thing I can think of
               | where artificial and natural are encouraged to be seen as
               | equals. I'm sure some people have a naturalist/spiritual
               | angle, but I'd bet most are simply applying the wisdom of
               | so many other shopping areas to this one.
        
               | munificent wrote:
               | _> What do you suppose is the value that distinguishes
               | these two processes? The story?_
               | 
               | Of course it is the story. The value in everything is the
               | meaning we attach to it, not the thing itself.
               | 
               | With a natural diamond, it's the idea that you have a
               | unique artifact formed over millions of years, an
               | irreplaceable corner of the Earth and its history owned
               | by you and you alone, which then suggests that you
               | yourself have a certain uniqueness and irreplaceability.
               | 
               | You can argue that people _should not_ choose that
               | particular story and that particular meaning, but that 's
               | a moral argument, and not an argument about the object
               | itself. (And if you choose to make that argument, I would
               | first suggest introspecting over how much of your own
               | stories and meaning are as arbitrary as that one.)
               | 
               | I don't care a bit for natural diamonds, but I have
               | infinite respect for the stories and meaning people
               | choose to embue their lives with. Ultimately, it's all we
               | have.
        
               | ChainOfFools wrote:
               | I don't argue that stories are very important, and they
               | are in fact the only thing we have. But that does not
               | make themselves Justified categorically.
               | 
               | In fact my username, chain of fools, is the title of a
               | song whose lyrics, although very brief, are very much
               | about believing stories told with the motivation to do
               | harm - or at very least to deprive others of something
               | valuable so that the teller can have that same something
               | cheaply.
        
               | hutzlibu wrote:
               | "But that does not make themselves Justified
               | categorically"
               | 
               | Diamonds are the hardest objects found naturaly. While
               | everything around them was crushed and changed ober the
               | eons - they persisted. And if polished they shined. And
               | can cut any other known material.
               | 
               | It makes for a good story, which is why humans are after
               | them, since a long time. Kings and queens wore them.
               | Pirates stole and buried them.
               | 
               | Is the story justified categorically? I don't know, but
               | it is an old story.
               | 
               | But personally I rather would like to have the sci-fi
               | story, where diamonds are cheaply avaiable, as a very
               | strong building material..
        
           | paxys wrote:
           | I personally find the decision to buy lab grown diamonds to
           | be weirder, because if you are already thinking logically
           | rather than emotionally and can resist the social pressure
           | then why waste money on a diamond at all? There are plenty of
           | gems or metals out there that are cheaper, prettier, more
           | rare and hold their value better than diamonds (whether
           | natural _or_ lab grown).
        
             | edge17 wrote:
             | Exactly, the whole point of buying at all is to adhere to a
             | convention or tradition.
        
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             | ChainOfFools wrote:
             | Because lab grown diamonds are naturally grown, unless
             | humans are supernatural.
        
               | scottiebarnes wrote:
               | humans are natural, therefore all human creations and
               | processes are natural?
               | 
               | so my plastic bottles are naturally grown?
        
               | ChainOfFools wrote:
               | Naturally made, yes. the specific process called "grown"
               | would better apply if there was, say, a plastic bottle-
               | fruiting plant, but whether that plant was designed by
               | humans or simply found by them in the environment does
               | not change whether it is natural.
               | 
               | There is no such thing as natural versus unnatural, this
               | dichotomy is a holdover from the time when we believed
               | there was another plane of reality outside or distinct
               | from the "natural" universe, which was somehow tainted by
               | flaws unique to humans, being creatures with one foot in
               | both realities.
               | 
               | I realize it sounds like a technically correct Internet
               | argument of the nitpick variety, but I think that the
               | norm of asseting an unchallenged bias toward "natural,"
               | and against "artificial," could use a general
               | reassessment as it is constantly exploited by people
               | using this ultimately baseless distinction as a way to
               | bias opinion uncritically toward one kind of behavior or
               | another.
        
               | wlesieutre wrote:
               | Would you say soda bottle preforms grow into plastic
               | bottles?
               | 
               | https://www.teachersource.com/product/preforms-and-
               | caps/chem...
        
             | OkayPhysicist wrote:
             | If you like the shininess of diamonds, they're really hard
             | to beat on the "pretty" front. Diamonds have a crazy
             | internal refractive index, which, once exemplified by an
             | appropriate cut, gives them a pretty unique shininess. The
             | only gems that come close are substantially softer, meaning
             | they lose they lose the precise cuts that give them the
             | extra shimmer relatively quickly.
             | 
             | Don't enrich Russia by buying mined diamonds, but there's
             | definitely a compelling argument for lab-grown ones.
        
               | irrational wrote:
               | But Moissanite are shinier than diamonds, very nearly as
               | hard, but at a fraction of the price. And nobody can tell
               | the difference without training and possibly a
               | microscope.
        
               | OkayPhysicist wrote:
               | When I last researched the topic, Moissanites almost
               | exclusively came with a kinda ugly yellow tinge, but
               | apparently that's not an issue anymore. Definitely a
               | great choice. (Though I disagree that laypeople can't
               | tell the difference between doubly-refractive and singly
               | refractive gems)
        
       | causality0 wrote:
       | Frankly I'm amazed it took this long for people to realize
       | diamond isn't that special a material, at least considering how
       | easy it is to make.
        
         | silisili wrote:
         | Not just that, even natural diamonds just aren't that rare.
         | 
         | This is what happens when one company corners a market, and
         | controls supply and marketing.
        
           | jewelry wrote:
           | It's also a product that's not required for day-to-day.
        
             | TheDudeMan wrote:
             | Unless you have to cut really hard things.
        
               | londons_explore wrote:
               | Which conveniently can be done with tiny dust-sized
               | diamonds.
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | I think the geological formations that were guaranteed to
           | contain diamonds only became common knowledge in the late
           | 1990's or early 2000's, yes? I recall reading an article
           | about some researchers testing their theory by buying a chunk
           | of land in Canada, and proving they were right.
           | 
           | People thought that was the beginning of the end for de
           | Beers, and between that and better synthetics that seems to
           | be how things played out.
        
       | latchkey wrote:
       | https://archive.ph/hDBZu
        
       | arcticbull wrote:
       | De Beers basically controls the whole diamond market. They make
       | it almost impossible to resell them and strictly control the
       | supply. They were also responsible (via advertising agency N. W.
       | Ayer) for the idea that diamonds should be used in engagement
       | rings in 1938-1941.
       | 
       | This write-up from The Atlantic from 1982 explains the situation
       | well. [1]
       | 
       | Not sad to see the cartel taking an L.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1982/02/have-
       | yo...
        
         | zokier wrote:
         | Lots of things have happened in the 40 years since that article
         | was written. De Beers do not control the market anymore the way
         | they did before. Wikipedia says
         | 
         | > De Beers's market share of rough diamonds to fall from as
         | high as 90% in the 1980s to 29.5% in 2019
         | 
         | > De Beers sold off the vast majority of its diamond stockpile
         | in the late 1990s - early 2000s and the remainder largely
         | represents working stock (diamonds that are being sorted before
         | sale). This was well documented in the press but remains little
         | known to the general public.
         | 
         | > As a part of reducing its influence, De Beers withdrew from
         | purchasing diamonds on the open market in 1999 and ceased, at
         | the end of 2008, purchasing Russian diamonds mined by the
         | largest Russian diamond company Alrosa
        
           | willcipriano wrote:
           | People watch one episode of Jon Oliver and have to let us all
           | know.
        
             | woooooo wrote:
             | That's whataboutism. (/s)
        
       | another_poster wrote:
       | A good analogy is ice. We all use "freezer-grown crystalline
       | water," but prior to the invention of refrigeration, we harvested
       | natural ice from frozen lakes and stored them in ice houses for
       | use throughout the summer.
       | 
       | Sure, there's some romance from hand-harvested ice, but you can't
       | beat the price and purity of ice from a freezer.
        
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