[HN Gopher] You Are Not the Man in the Arena
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       You Are Not the Man in the Arena
        
       Author : nickwritesit
       Score  : 35 points
       Date   : 2023-08-30 18:59 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | rexpop wrote:
       | > The valley's valorization of "disruption" -- a euphemism for
       | destruction -- allows bad people to keep winning.
       | 
       | I've spent most of my life following this religion, but over the
       | last couple of years I've started to think that we maybe can't,
       | as a species, afford to entertain this "disruption" model. We
       | need less disruption, and more resilience. You can make the
       | argument that disruptive startups play "chaos monkey," hardening
       | the economy through adversarial inoculation, but I'm not
       | convinced we're building anything useful--only exploiting local
       | optima with structures that will collapse like California's
       | aquifers as they undermine the economic sustainability of their
       | own milieu.
        
       | cjs_ac wrote:
       | TL;DR: Some venture capitalists are charlatans. Specifically,
       | while the accumulation of great wealth in the hands of a small
       | number of individuals allows those individuals to embark on great
       | projects, many of the great projects that venture capitalists
       | embark on are actually just swindles.
        
       | JohnFen wrote:
       | Very well said. It omits another point, though, which is that
       | SV's cultural failure to reject con artists and abusive methods
       | is what has led directly to the very dim view the general public
       | increasingly has toward the industry. And that dim view is well-
       | earned.
       | 
       | We as an industry really need to right this ship.
        
       | gipp wrote:
       | I (vehemently) agree with the article's points.
       | 
       | But can we stop referring to this class of delusional oligarchs
       | as "Silicon Valley" or "the tech world," etc? Rank and file
       | engineers, even most of the exceptional and high ranking ones,
       | simply do not share the worldviews of the VCs and Musks and
       | Thiels of the world. Many do, sure (probably over-represented on
       | this site), but nothing like a majority. And I'm tired of being
       | implicitly lumped in with them as part of "the tech world." This
       | is an oligarch problem more than a tech problem.
        
         | dee-bee wrote:
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         | JohnFen wrote:
         | I hear you. But on the flipside, everyone who works in the
         | industry and isn't pushing to fix the problem is helping to
         | perpetuate the problem (myself included). We are enabling them
         | to operate as they do, after all, regardless of whether or not
         | we share that worldview.
        
       | fsaid wrote:
       | When insulated elite take on the identity of some ancient
       | philosophy or pragmatic quote, these ideas also tend to spread to
       | the gestalt. Or maybe it's vice versa.
       | 
       | As a younger adult and fresh college dropout I used to cling to
       | stoicism around the time "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius become
       | popular again.
       | 
       | Super embarrassing, but I even had a picture of Elon Musk hanging
       | on my mirror. But, this also helped me ignore some painful
       | aspects about my life and move on.
       | 
       | When I could finally do something about my problems, the idea of
       | stoicism slowly outlived its utility for me. Sure as hell didn't
       | stop me from burning out multiple times afterwards.
       | 
       | I picked up Chekhov years ago and this quote from Ward No. 6
       | helped me gain some perspective:
       | 
       |  _" You should go and preach that philosophy in Greece ...
       | Diogenes did not need a study or a warm habitation; it's hot
       | there without. You can lie in your tub and eat oranges and
       | olives. But bring him to Russia to live: he'd be begging to be
       | let indoors in May, let alone December. He'd be doubled up with
       | the cold._
       | 
       | At this point I just believe that most of these high-minded ideas
       | are after-the-fact reasonings about how or why ones life went
       | well or poorly.
        
         | UniverseHacker wrote:
         | From what you wrote, it seems like you were fundamentally
         | misunderstanding Stoicism. Not unusual for a young person just
         | learning about philosophy, but still, and important
         | distinction.
         | 
         | The core idea of Stoicism is identifying what is actually under
         | your power and control, and focusing your energy on that. It is
         | in some sense, virtually the opposite of it's popular
         | perception (e.g. "little s" stoicism) of just accepting things
         | as they are and suffering quietly.
         | 
         | I think the book Thoughts of a Philosophical Fighter Pilot by
         | Jim Stockdale is a good example of how effective stoicism is
         | actual "cold weather" so to speak.
        
         | UltimateEdge wrote:
         | > When I could finally do something about my problems, the idea
         | of stoicism slowly outlived its utility for me.
         | 
         | Can you expand on that? Isn't one of the ideas of stoicism to
         | focus on the things you can do to solve your problems?
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | As far as I can tell most philosophy/thought is really
         | rationalization not reasoning. In the information age the clay
         | at your fingertips to mold the strongest and most effective
         | rationalizations to allow you to get through the day is near
         | infinite. You can pick and choose the exact ideas you need to
         | allow you to accomplish whatever goal or self-image you want.
        
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