[HN Gopher] Ask HN: My mother is slowly losing her eyesight, how...
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       Ask HN: My mother is slowly losing her eyesight, how to prepare?
        
       Note: this is different from a few previous Ask HN posts where the
       impacted person was technically apt (if not a geek). Here this is
       for a typical older person whose technical capacities are small.
       My mother has a degenerative illness that is slowly going to lower
       here eyesight (starting from the center of the retina). We are not
       sure how far this is going to go.  She is an avid reader (several
       books every month) and this is what I would like to address in the
       first place. Then there are the other aspects that are less
       technical but are _very much_ welcome as well.  She reads on a Kobo
       (or similar device) and the fact that she can make the fonts bigger
       is already a good thing. She will probably continue to do so
       (hopefully to get to the point where she will have to spell each
       word...).  She also solves quite a lot of "literature oriented"
       quizzes (similar to crosswords) - today this is on paper but I will
       need to find a way for her to move online.  I would appreciate any
       tricks or solutions for non-technical people like her that could
       make her life easier.
        
       Author : BrandoElFollito
       Score  : 206 points
       Date   : 2023-08-28 12:31 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
       | dataminded wrote:
       | Check out Voice Dream on iOS and Macs for text to speech. I do
       | all of my 'reading' on it.
        
       | bell-cot wrote:
       | Not addressing your question...but I'd be looking for _quality_
       | second and third opinions about her underlying medical condition.
       | My mother lost all sight in one eye, after an  "excellent"
       | hospital blew through $mid_five_figures in testing and diagnosis.
       | They failed to figure out what was actually wrong (until it was
       | too late, and further symptoms made it very obvious).
       | 
       | Vs. I later mentioned a couple of mom's early symptoms to my mere
       | optometrist, and he told me the (correct) diagnosis in ~5
       | seconds. (It was something which affects ~1 in 200 older women of
       | north-west European ancestry, and is easily treatable.)
       | 
       | In retrospect - the hospital was very focused on using expensive
       | tests to look for important-sounding and expensive-to-treat
       | diseases. Vs. a "what typical disorders in this type of patient
       | would result in these symptoms?" diagnostic strategy.
        
         | BrandoElFollito wrote:
         | Thanks - out of curiosity what was the correct diagnosis?
        
           | bell-cot wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arteritis#Temporal_arteritis
        
             | bonzini wrote:
             | Why is loss of eyesight not listed among the symptoms or
             | consequences?
        
               | bell-cot wrote:
               | Because Wikipedia is a so-so source of medical
               | information?
               | 
               | Damaged to eyesight is the first bullet point here...
               | 
               | > https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15674-te
               | mpora...
               | 
               | ...and the last bullet point here...
               | 
               | https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/giant-
               | cell-ar...
               | 
               | ...and the first "if left untreated can cause" thing
               | mentioned here...
               | 
               | https://www.webmd.com/heart-disease/arteritis-giant-cell
               | 
               | ...and you probably noticed that all 3 of those prefer to
               | call it "giant cell arteritis".
        
               | whacko_quacko wrote:
               | Because no one took the time to find a high quality
               | secondary source and add this fact to the article yet.
        
             | Night_Thastus wrote:
             | My grandfather had a form of this! Luckily it was treated
             | quickly, but he also ran into issues convincing the doctors
             | that's what it was. Not sure why.
        
               | bell-cot wrote:
               | American doctors, working for a large or investor-owned
               | health-care organization?
               | 
               | In hindsight - the hospital that "took care of" my mother
               | made ~100X the revenue running expensive tests on her -
               | in just a week - compared to what an honest, competent
               | doctor would have made over the first year of
               | successfully diagnosing and treating her.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | themagician wrote:
         | Where was this? This sounds like classic US healthcare,
         | although I suppose this happens everywhere. I have come to
         | greatly distrust doctors these days because of exactly this
         | scenario.
        
       | w10-1 wrote:
       | I would step back from tricks or solutions a minute.
       | 
       | The problem with "slowly" is that it allows denial to set in.
       | 
       | The problem with getting palpably worse as you age is that it
       | reminds you that you are going to die, and soon. It's beyond
       | scary.
       | 
       | The problem with going blind is that vision is much more deeply
       | tied to our everyday experience. Losing it is like living in mud;
       | it constantly reminds you of your degeneration. Every movement
       | and many interactions require it. If you're also losing hearing,
       | it interferes with lip reading. It's very emotional.
       | 
       | The problem with not reading is that you may lose your daily
       | pattern of input, the habits that orient your mind.
       | 
       | The problem with helping an elderly parent is that you respect
       | them and want them to be happy and to be happy with you. You
       | really, really don't want to get them upset, because when they
       | get upset with you, they're cut off from the support you provide.
       | 
       | The problem with getting help from your children is that you've
       | always been the helper. You may see them as accomplished adults,
       | but still feel you need to be there for them, and guide them.
       | Often in parenting you just have to decide, and then make it
       | stick - any consistency is better than none.
       | 
       | The problem is these problems amplify each other. The elderly
       | find it hard to be wrong, and needy, and confused, and feeling
       | like you can't learn new things because you're only getting
       | worse. If you try something and you can't do it, it can make your
       | mom double down on depression and denial, to wait out death. For
       | people helping, all this emotional work can make you avoidant,
       | offering only nominal support.
       | 
       | It was a real moment when I explained all this to my mom. Denial,
       | depression, death-panic, avoidance -- these are all normal and
       | even expected. But she like all humans has to deal with her
       | actual limitations. It will take time and effort, and I will
       | help, with her guidance on how fast and what's feasible. The most
       | important thing was for her to know I would help, and wanted to
       | hear what she's feeling. Committing to being there addresses most
       | of the problems.
       | 
       | In terms of tricks/solutions, a regular phone call is huge. She
       | gathers her issues and we discuss them, or just keep tabs on the
       | world. Migrating interaction to audio and voice was more helpful
       | than trying to maintain reading in our case.
       | 
       | btw: someone at Apple TV needs to deeply grok that barely
       | enlarging the selected item is completely unhelpful to older
       | adults. Draw a bright highlight around the damn icons! It's hard
       | to explain how aggravating it feels when trying to help someone
       | elderly pick their damn show and they have no clue what's
       | happening on-screen -- let alone having to wade through media
       | upsells.
        
       | rchowe wrote:
       | This happened to my grandmother during the end of her life. Most
       | people don't realize that many blind people retain some sort of
       | vision or light perception.
       | 
       | - If you write her letters or need to write anything on paper for
       | her, buy some black roller-ball or gel pens from an office supply
       | store, ideally the 1 mm stroke width ones. These were as good as
       | the pens we got from the eye doctor. - Libraries often have
       | resources for the blind or hard of vision (large print books,
       | audiobooks, audioplayers with analog controls). HN tends to go
       | for technical solutions but it's really up to the person using
       | the solutions what they are most comfortable with. - Your local
       | society for the blind has people who have been through this
       | before, which is important both for your mother but for your
       | mental health as a caretaker.
        
       | DoreenMichele wrote:
       | For people with any disability, habits, routine and familiarity
       | are enormously helpful in maintaining the ability to operate
       | independently. Survey her current life and figure out what
       | routines she currently has which can be maintained as is and
       | which ones can be maintained with a small tweak.
       | 
       | Be prepared for even small changes to start taking more time and
       | repetition to successfully incorporate. Plan for this and
       | encourage her to develop a process now for accommodating this new
       | reality.
       | 
       | Giving up too quickly and not having a comfortable process for
       | this can make a disability much more impairing than it really
       | needs to be. Expect to need to introduce an idea or technology
       | and give her time to get around to it. Expect to remind her "You
       | could do just the first step on that." or "You could do just the
       | next step on that."
       | 
       | People who have been able-bodied are somewhat inclined to not
       | persist when things start taking more time and effort to
       | incorporate. This expectation that it comes easily and quickly or
       | you don't bother can rapidly curtail life far more than necessary
       | as your abilities degrade.
       | 
       | As for reading, audio books are a thing and are used a lot by
       | visually impaired people.
        
       | jph wrote:
       | My condolences. When you learn more, would you be able to send
       | tips along to me? I maintain an open source care plan template to
       | help people with aging parents.
       | https://github.com/joelparkerhenderson/care-plan
        
       | waffletower wrote:
       | My mother suffers from pattern dystrophy, similar to macular
       | degeneration but without an available treatment. Though she is
       | now legally blind, she has practical vision remaining. For
       | reading, she uses several visual aids -- large iPad for ebooks,
       | magnifying glasses, and has a very large screen television used
       | both for entertainment and as an extended computer monitor.
        
       | at_a_remove wrote:
       | Let's see:
       | 
       | * A bunch of local to regional to national groups already exist,
       | so find and enlist them.
       | 
       | * Now's the time to streamline the living environment, round any
       | sharp corners, and so on. If Braille is in the mix, consider a
       | Braille label maker.
       | 
       | * Strike while the iron is hot: balance training.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | > Strike while the iron is hot: balance training.
         | 
         | When I moved my allergies racked up two notches and I was
         | flirting with vestibular disruption on a weekly basis. Then I
         | started a new medication that had 'nausea' as a side effect,
         | and that turned out to be a lie. It's not nausea it's vertigo.
         | 
         | If it weren't for years of tai chi I would have fallen badly a
         | couple of times. Particularly in the dark. It turns out I use
         | the soles of my feet for balance now more than my inner ear.
         | 
         | The good thing about tai chi is that with the right instructor,
         | it can be literally hands-on. My first instructor would have us
         | feel how the movement went. Saved weeks of show and tell every
         | time. And corrections are done tactily, not visually.
        
       | dbcurtis wrote:
       | Just a note, it may not apply in your situation but for anyone
       | else reading the thread that may not be aware -- there is now an
       | injection for at least some forms of Macular Degeration. My
       | brother has been getting these injections and it has been keeping
       | his MD at bay for several years. Truly life-changing advancement.
       | I encourage anyone exploring MD treatments to be sure to ask
       | about it.
        
         | llsf wrote:
         | Again depends on the type of macular degeneration, but the
         | injection (even scary at first) is working well to slow the
         | loss of vision. Injection can be done every 3-4 month.
        
       | mcmcmc wrote:
       | The real answer is to get her to a rehab center for people losing
       | their vision. There's plenty of accessibility software and tools
       | out there, but the best way to figure out what will work best for
       | her is to get the knowledge from other people who have gone
       | through the same thing and to work with experts who know how to
       | handle the transition.
        
         | JieJie wrote:
         | "Our Independence Training Program (ITP) is designed for blind
         | adults (18 years of age and older). Typically students complete
         | the program in six to nine months while residing in nearby
         | McGeorge Mountain Terrace apartments, which are owned by the
         | Center. Participants not only build the skills that they need
         | to be independent, but also focus on gaining confidence and
         | belief in themselves as blind people."
         | 
         | https://cocenter.org
        
         | lief79 wrote:
         | This is what I was looking for. Look for a school of the blind,
         | ask the doctors/hospitals for local resources, etc.
         | 
         | There's a strong community of people who have already helped
         | other going through this. If you're really not finding
         | anything, just try one of the large national organizations, and
         | they can help you work down towards your local resources.
         | 
         | Based on my limited exposure to the blind community through
         | raising Seeing Eye Puppies and having a relative who was born
         | legally blind without glasses.
        
       | nextos wrote:
       | Have you checked whether you can slow down her eye issues? For
       | instance, in many cases of macular degeneration or for glaucoma
       | it is totally possible to get a dramatic slowdown with an
       | appropriate treatment.
       | 
       | These treatments are becoming mainstream, as in approved by
       | regular healthcare providers such as NHS.
        
         | malfist wrote:
         | My partner's mother is going through this as well. She gets
         | injections directly into her eyes every so often. They've not
         | halted her progression completely, but before she was getting
         | the treatment done, her doc told her she had ~2 years of vision
         | left. That was nearly a decade ago and she's still busy
         | crocheting stuffed animals for all the neighborhood's children.
        
         | throw1234651234 wrote:
         | Not much else to say other than this and "start moving to audio
         | media".
         | 
         | To elaborate though, diet, sleep, absence of stress, etc will
         | have a much greater impact on overall health than any
         | medication (except in trauma scenarios) and most doctors don't
         | focus on it. I am not talking about "wholistic" stuff - just
         | cutting all sugar / processed carbs, getting enough protein and
         | vitamins, sleeping 8 hours, clean air, low noise/stress.
        
           | malfist wrote:
           | I don't think you'll find scientific literature to support
           | your point.
           | 
           | Living the most stress free life will not prevent your
           | macular degeneration from progressing.
        
       | Waterluvian wrote:
       | Lots of great advice here. For what it's worth, mine is:
       | 
       | - Resist the urge to build bespoke technologies/solutions. You
       | need durable techs that won't leave her discouraged when she
       | feels the need to lean on you a lot for support. I've seen it
       | before: it's too easy to accidentally become her assistive
       | device. You need to be your own person, too!
       | 
       | - Encourage her to focus on changing habits now so that she isn't
       | faced with both the terribleness of losing eyesight and stress of
       | learning new habits. For example: can she start checking out
       | audio books? Does she use Siri/Alexa/Whatever regularly? Can she
       | scratch the quiz itch in other ways? Jeopardy! is great because
       | you can be blind and still follow 98% of it.
       | 
       | - Could she enable assistive modes now to get used to them and
       | use her own eyesight to help learn how to master them?
       | 
       | - What opportunities are there for this also becoming a new,
       | exciting chapter in life? How deep has she explored the enormous
       | world of music?
        
         | bluefirebrand wrote:
         | A lot of good advice here but
         | 
         | > What opportunities are there for this also becoming a new,
         | exciting chapter in life
         | 
         | I strongly, strongly advise caution with even bringing up a
         | hint of "losing your eyesight could be an exciting new
         | adventure!!"
         | 
         | It's pretty poor taste to try and find the upside of someone
         | going through something that is likely traumatic for them. If
         | they find some upside on their own you can encourage it, but
         | that's all.
        
           | Waterluvian wrote:
           | Fully agree, which makes it feel weird to re-read my own
           | comment and for it to sound so off-tone.
           | 
           | If I were to re-write the comment I'd say something along the
           | lines of, "In time, there may be new opportunities worth
           | exploring."
           | 
           | What's on my mind is that while by no means one ought to give
           | up on the things in their life that may provide a sense of
           | identity, those don't have to be your only possible source of
           | identity going forward. Even that requires the most careful
           | and gentle of touches. Identity is so important and not
           | something you can just change so suddenly.
        
         | fsckboy wrote:
         | I found a bit of humor in this:
         | 
         | > _Does she use Siri /Alexa/Whatever regularly? ... Jeopardy!
         | is great because you can be blind and still follow 98% of it._
         | 
         | you just suggested Alexa Trebek!
        
           | Waterluvian wrote:
           | "What is an unintentional pun?"
        
       | nanopasta wrote:
       | For reading, have you considered audiobooks? Since you don't know
       | how the degeneration will progress, it might be easier to start
       | listening to books rather than magnifying and reading them.
       | 
       | Additionally, I would strongly recommend seeing a rehabilitation
       | counselor at some point. They might also be able to better tools.
        
         | nanopasta wrote:
         | You could also look at screen readers, BTW. Can recommend
         | Google TalkBack for Android. iOS has its own which is also
         | quite good based on what I've heard.
        
           | jareds wrote:
           | Voiceover on iOS is really good. I'm totally blind and have
           | been using it since 2010. One thing to consider is that when
           | using a screen reader bigger may not be better. When I've
           | used an iPad, I've had issues with spacial awareness finding
           | things on the screen because it's so large. I don't have
           | these issues on the iPhone. I realize that if someone still
           | has some vision then bigger may be better.
        
         | jareds wrote:
         | I agree about seeing a rehabilitation counceler. While it's
         | good that your concerned about her vision loss as someone who
         | isn't blind or trained in teaching blind individuals
         | independent living skills you don't know the questions to ask
         | for things as simple as how will she cook a meal on her own,
         | match clothes etc. while reading is important basic skills so
         | she can continue to have independence is also important.
        
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       | jl2718 wrote:
       | Two things:
       | 
       | 1. I experienced rapid vision loss during an acute diabetic
       | reaction to starvation re-feeding, and getting insulin
       | sensitivity back might be the best way to protect the eyes.
       | Consider metformin in addition to the obvious diet and exercise.
       | 
       | 2. I didn't actually come here to suggest metformin. I clicked
       | because of the heading typo, which smells to me like a type of
       | auto-correct error that seems to be more common in neural
       | network-based systems. That is, the suggested word is related to
       | the context, but non-sensical. I'm constantly re-correcting bad
       | suggestions now, even when I correctly type exactly what I want,
       | sometimes several times on the same word. I think it's making
       | autocorrect worse, and mistakes more common and harder to spot
       | versus the models based on closest word neighbors, or smaller
       | contexts.
        
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       | Lapalux wrote:
       | She might find a device like Alexa helpful if reading no longer
       | becomes an option - with it she can get audio books, music etc.
       | 
       | My grandfather was a avid reader (mostly history ww2 and ww1) and
       | went blind in his 70s. We got him a Alexa and he found it
       | fantastic. It was a major improvement to his quality of life in
       | his final days.
        
       | wiseowise wrote:
       | Is this something that your optometrist can easily identify? I'm
       | scared shitless of losing my eyesight and I'm already on -6
       | glasses.
        
       | ForRealsies wrote:
       | [dead]
        
       | jareds wrote:
       | If you live in the United States take a look at
       | https://www.loc.gov/nls/ They offer a decent number of books and
       | provide easy to use devices to play them. You should investigate
       | the built in screen readers on iOS and Android. Using these you
       | can use an app to listen to books from the NLS library for the
       | blind. Audible is also accessible with screen readers. Using
       | screen readers the Kindle app on iOS and Android is also
       | accessible.
        
       | awsh wrote:
       | My mother has a very similar condition and has been recently
       | declared legally blind and her vision worsens by the month. She
       | primarily uses a Vision Buddy (https://visionbuddy.com/) for
       | screens and for books, she has an audio book player that connects
       | to the Library of Congress where she gets free audiobooks
       | (https://www.loc.gov/nls/enrollment-equipment/equipment-neede...)
        
         | rawgabbit wrote:
         | Vision buddy looks very cool. This is what I had hoped Apple's
         | headset would be.
        
         | jareds wrote:
         | Have you looked into streaming devices so she can watch movies
         | and tv with audio description? I'm totally blind and the
         | availability of audio description on all major streaming
         | services has made tv watching a lot better for me.
        
           | javajosh wrote:
           | Do the descriptions interfere with the dialog? Are they
           | recorded human voices or computer generated?
        
             | jareds wrote:
             | Descriptions are read by a human narrator. Description only
             | occurs when there is no dialog. According to my sited wife
             | it's not that distracting, she got used to it after a month
             | or two.
        
       | bluGill wrote:
       | Move her to a better location now. I don't know where she lives,
       | but that is a factor. Get her someplace where she can depend on
       | public transit for everything and not miss the car. Many
       | downtowns have great transit, but there is no convient grocery
       | store, or if there is it is the high priced luxury store. Many
       | transit systems don't run on Sunday, so she won't be able to get
       | to chruch. (What other activities doea she do that are not 9-5
       | that transit does well?)
       | 
       | If you have to move her far, look for blind support in the area.
       | People and friends in her new location are important to making it
       | feel like home. Make sure you can visit, and also other family.
       | 
       | Other have addressed reading better than I could so i'm giving a
       | different food for thought.
        
       | DelaneyM wrote:
       | Vision loss runs in my family and has affected a few of my uncles
       | and grandparents, so I've seen this multiple times.
       | 
       | Braille can absolutely be learned at any age, and is a godsend
       | for an avid reader. My grandmother learned braille at 72 and it
       | changed her life - she never got into audio books, and I think
       | she also appreciated the community of her local braille library.
       | She also had a braille reader which attached to a console and
       | worked surprisingly well - perhaps ironically she became much
       | more technically capable and comfortable after losing her sight.
       | She used that to write and read email in pine (I set that up for
       | her in the early 2000's, I'm sure better options exist now.)
       | 
       | My uncles who've lost their sight both picked up braille early
       | and have barely skipped a beat. I believe learning and leveraging
       | braille while partially sighted both made it easier to adapt and
       | mitigated the emotional impact of their loss as it progressed.
       | 
       | There are other advances in tactile displays happening every day
       | now, one which I've been following is https://pad.dotincorp.com/.
       | 
       | PS. If your mother has AMD (as my family does), be aware that
       | there's a significant hereditary component. You should be sure to
       | inform your doctor and consider annual ophthalmologist checkups.
        
         | inerg wrote:
         | Interestingly Lego just announced they're releasing a block set
         | to help kids learn Braille. From what I can tell it comes with
         | 5 full sets of alphabets and numbers so you should be able to
         | form most words. But I could be misreading the product
         | description haha
         | 
         | I figure it's worth throwing out there in case anyone was
         | curious to learn it and finds having the tactile option of
         | putting the blocks together as potentially helpful
         | 
         | https://www.lego.com/en-ca/product/play-with-braille-english...
        
           | bombcar wrote:
           | This set has been out for years, but previously was only
           | available via specialty channels, and almost unheard of in
           | the USA.
           | 
           | It's good to see it get a wider distribution, even if many
           | will be snatched up by AFOLs (adult fans of LEGO) to build
           | weird contraptions.
        
           | Y_Y wrote:
           | Good, since previous sets were limited to an unusable subset
           | like "=" ("for").
           | 
           | I believe they also encourage learning to read Braille with
           | your bare feet in the middle of the night.
        
             | roflc0ptic wrote:
             | It's remarkable how much sympathetic pain the phrase
             | "stepping on a Lego at night" causes
        
         | FiddlerClamp wrote:
         | What's the best way for a sighted adult to pick up Braille?
        
         | spidersouris wrote:
         | Realistically, how much time would it take for an adult to pick
         | up Braille and to be able to read fluently?
        
         | thomastjeffery wrote:
         | It's wild that a device made for people with vision
         | disabilities decided to have one of those scroll-through-
         | animation websites.
         | 
         | That's probably the most obviously _bad_ web design ideas I
         | could imagine using.
        
       | AnEro wrote:
       | I have a condition that makes it more likely to lose my vision
       | when I get older much faster than my peers, I'm decades out from
       | this but this is how I'm getting ready. Some of this I'd probably
       | be offended if someone brought up that I ''should'' do so I'd
       | handle it with some grace but; Getting used to using audio
       | readers and navigating with accessibility technology. Getting
       | used to using shortcuts to navigate, where I don't need to see
       | what options if I know I'm triggering them. I'm learning braille
       | for fun while its just for fun.
       | 
       | All the best, not sure if it is helpful at all but its all I
       | could think up <3
        
         | ryanschneider wrote:
         | I'm in the same boat in that I'm losing my vision very slowly
         | from an inherited retinal disorder. One thing I'll add is I've
         | started going to the gym as much as I can while I can, I figure
         | I'll be much more confident once blind if I have good core
         | strength, and it's probably much easier to learn good gym
         | habits while sighted.
        
           | User23 wrote:
           | Near or totally blind persons can still get excellent
           | coaching, but the most effective method involves physical
           | contact. Some coaches aren't willing to do that though.
           | 
           | That's true for sighted persons too. There is a pretty easy
           | coaching technique to stop "butt winking" by providing
           | pressure feedback, but that means the coach is has to have
           | permission and be willing to push on the trainee barely above
           | the buttocks. Needless to say most coaches in the USA don't
           | want to risk it.
        
       | zie wrote:
       | Get her connected to the local blind community. Listen to them.
       | 
       | Smartphones are amazingly accessible, even for fully blind
       | people, so the sooner she can start getting used to the
       | accessibility features on her preferred platform, the better.
       | (Apple was there first, so many prefer Apple, but they are
       | basically interchangeable now).
        
       | stacktrust wrote:
       | _> any tricks or solutions for non-technical people like her that
       | could make her life easier._
       | 
       | PRODUCTS
       | 
       | 1. NFC/RFID stickers/buttons on objects can trigger iPhone
       | shortcuts with a single tap, e.g. custom text-to-speech audio and
       | other automation. Tape NFC tag to Autosqueeze holder for eye drop
       | bottles, to describe name and dosage. Or sew on clothes. Allows
       | "audio annotation" of places, e.g. "This is location X. Foo is on
       | the left. Bar is on the right."
       | 
       | 2. Alexa ecosystem supports streaming radio/podcasts, cable TV
       | (via Logitech Harmony IR remote), audio alerts from Google
       | Calendar, microwave control, Echo Connect for dialing landline
       | phones with numbers from cloud contact list, scripted audio (e.g.
       | "where is ABC" can trigger an audio response from a distant Echo
       | near ABC, older Echo Dots are small/cheap/mountable), big wifi
       | buttons to trigger any Alexa script, hourly time cues,
       | ThirdReality PIR motion sensors for Echo4G-with-Zigbee-hub (less
       | cloud/app creep), ultrasound motion sensing by newer Echo Dots,
       | wifi power plugs, zigbee reed switch for door open announcements.
       | 
       | 3. Be My Eyes - free, global remote volunteers help via
       | smartphone camera.
       | 
       | 4. Automated medication dispenser, loaded by caregiver or
       | delivered by pharmacy + subscription service.
       | 
       | 5. iOS 17 Apple Magnifier is adding a point-and-speak feature to
       | point at any real-world text and have the phone camera read it
       | out loud.
       | 
       | PHYSICAL                 Interior guide hand rails /w tension
       | rods + Wall Nanny       Tactile paths/guides on floor
       | 
       | PSYCHOLOGICAL                 Counseling for early training about
       | canes (folding, telescoping, rigid)       Support groups
        
       | yencabulator wrote:
       | She might not be suffering from glaucoma, but the podcast
       | associated with this site https://www.diagnosisglaucoma.com/ has
       | e.g. episode 24 talking about vision rehabilitation, which seems
       | to be exactly what you're asking about. See also episodes 29, 30.
        
       | HocusLocus wrote:
       | Mycroft.ai has a quest to produce a 'local' speaking and
       | listening AI assistant that is free of the constant tyranny of
       | cloud access and the present push to tie functionality to
       | Internet access. Its platform contains elements (like Mimic3 TTS)
       | that are functional in their own right. If you can, you should
       | attempt to build a configuration that is useable by your mother
       | and can have cheap equipment spares, works on and off the net. It
       | does not have to be a standalone widget and could be a suite of
       | software you and your mother develop.
       | 
       | Eventually it will have to be a menu driven voice steering system
       | that delivers her into existing media (like commercial
       | audiobooks), can speak from her library of text-only sources and
       | keep her place, and can read off the screen on websites (such as
       | news) for which the format is completely predictable.
       | 
       | The Cloud is host to many smooth voices for which the mechanics
       | will never be known to you or hosted on your machine, but I found
       | Alan Pope's voice as reconstructed by mimic3 (
       | https://popey.com/blog/2022/10/setting-up-mimic3/ ) to be a
       | fantastically understandable and versatile one. I've produced
       | hours-long listenable audio files from it.
        
       | adhesive_wombat wrote:
       | If you can't find accessible formats, or you want to look at
       | small physical things like a receipt, photo, notepad, crossword
       | or other small item, you can magnify things using a digital
       | overhead projector. Basically a camera on an arm that looks down
       | on the book or item, and you project the video onto a wall.
       | Sometimes used in lectures in place of an overhead projector. You
       | want to find a camera with a wide depth of field to avoid
       | fiddling with focus the whole time and a screen or wall coating
       | that looks good to the user.
       | 
       | The other advantage is it can help offset "old person neck" by
       | making you look forward, not down, and you can interact with the
       | item, for example by writing on it, without faffing about with a
       | keyboard.
       | 
       | Obviously doesn't work for full blindness, or if only near-focus
       | is possible, but magnifying something up to 8 feet across goes
       | some way.
        
       | afraidofthemoon wrote:
       | Look up "library for the blind" in your location. The one near me
       | has a lot of great resources. They have resources for anyone who
       | is visually impaired.
        
       | jzb wrote:
       | One of my Mothers-in-Law has macular degeneration. Her vision in
       | the time I've known her (about 7 years) had declined
       | significantly. (She's now about 77.) She could drive during the
       | day in good conditions locally a few years ago but has given up
       | driving entirely in the past 18 months.
       | 
       | She still has some vision but would be legally blind at this
       | point, I believe.
       | 
       | A few years ago we bought her an iPad which has some assistive
       | technologies (e.g., magnifier) that she says have helped her
       | immensely. (She has an Android and prefers that but the iPad has
       | been the best option for a tablet.) I realize "buy an iPad" is
       | pretty basic, but it really seems to have made a difference.
       | 
       | She also uses an app that magnifies print, etc., via the iPad
       | camera. We also got a "3-in-1 craft lamp" that has a clamp,
       | light, and magnifying glass with a light[1]. (Can be mounted in 3
       | ways as well.)
       | 
       | Start trialing and introducing assistive technologies now before
       | the need is more profound.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0782TWR13/
        
       | pvaldes wrote:
       | apt show festival
        
       | tracker1 wrote:
       | Starting stages of retina damage myself, which started coming to
       | a head about 2 years ago... Not sure about corrective lenses, but
       | as you are already using a book reader that can change the text
       | size, that's a good start. Would also look into devices that have
       | integrated text to speach. Not sure what to offer beyond that
       | other than empathy.
       | 
       | Some critiques of what I've noticed in the past couple years.
       | Scalable UI/UX is generally hit or miss, I absolutely hate
       | applications that don't scale, and more so platforms that don't
       | scale (steam deck, I'm talking to you here). Too many apps in
       | Android don't respect font/text size settings. Too many websites
       | use tiny little font settings and don't scale at all. I've gotten
       | pretty good with triple-tap to zoom on my phone.
       | 
       | Low contrast text sucks beyond believe, it's really bad when I
       | can't read the CC# on a physical card because it's really low
       | contrast text.
       | 
       | Aside, I'm still able to work, though on a 32" 1440p display, I
       | still have to zoom in/out a lot as my vision quality varies
       | throughout the day quite a bit. I'm frankly terrified as I'm not
       | sure what I'll be able to do with work should my vision get much
       | worse... I'm working as a contract very sr/lead/staff/architect
       | level, but less productivity with many dr appts every month, and
       | current job wrapping Thursday. It's frankly hard enough to get up
       | in the morning and I'm not sure what I'm going to do.
        
       | ninju wrote:
       | Minor edit in the title...should be losing (rather than looking)
        
       | bsder wrote:
       | If she has macular degeneration, there are some "treatments" that
       | can gain you a couple years such as rotating the eyeball 90
       | degrees.
       | 
       | Unfortunately, it's just a stopgap. It doesn't stop the process.
        
       | leetharris wrote:
       | First off, I'm sorry your mother is going through all this and
       | it's great that you're doing your best to support her.
       | 
       | My one contribution is this: get her familiar with technology for
       | blind people BEFORE it gets too bad. It is so much harder to
       | learn after. There's a lot of good tech out there for
       | disabilities. But a lot of it is not intuitive and it takes a
       | while to learn.
        
       | symisc_devel wrote:
       | My company offer a custom version of the Talkie OCR app
       | (https://i2s.symisc.net) for vision impaired persons. Basically,
       | the app require minimal interaction with the end user. All he has
       | to do is: Tap a single time anywhere in the screen to launch the
       | camera, take a picture of the book page, magazine, or note, and
       | the documented shall be automatically scanned, and played back on
       | her favourite language (with built-in translation).
        
       | metal_am wrote:
       | There are some great government resources for books. Your state
       | almost certainly has something that works with the Library of
       | Congress. https://www.loc.gov/nls/ is a good starting point. You
       | can also search something like "your state" + "accessible media"
        
       | arunc wrote:
       | Can someone change the title of the post please?
       | 
       | s/looking/loosing/
        
         | abdusco wrote:
         | losing*
        
       | mwtheobald wrote:
       | My family has a genetic disorder very similar to Stargardts
       | disease which is a form of macular degeneration (loss of central
       | vision). I have it, my mother has it (who is technically
       | challenged/stubborn... lol), two of her brothers have it, her
       | father had it, etc.
       | 
       | MY mother is also an avid reader but the disease is progressed
       | much too far for her to read anything without a powerful
       | magnifier and even then she can only read 1-2 letters at a time
       | which is too slow to actually read a book. What she has done is
       | change to audio books many years ago.
       | 
       | In Canada we have the CNIB (Canadian Institute for the Blind)
       | that can facilitate purchase (at a discount if necessary) and
       | training/setup of specific readers designed for the bling/near
       | blind. They have a library of books that can be loaded (for free
       | here for people who are blind/near-blind). She will 'read' 1-5
       | books a week depending on what else she is doing. I would be
       | surprised if there was not a similar organization in your
       | country. Most libraries here also have free audio books that can
       | be rented/borrowed.
       | 
       | The device is a Victor Reader,
       | https://store.humanware.com/hca/victor-reader-stream-handhel...
       | and although is quite expensive has simple enough navigation that
       | even my mother can use it. It's quite robust, she just recently
       | replaced hers after nearly 8 years of daily use.
       | 
       | I would highly recommend you get her familiar with/using such a
       | device BEFORE she is seriously visually impaired. It's always
       | easier to learn those sort of things while you still have sight
       | and are younger.
       | 
       | As for the 'crosswordy' stuff, I see two options, 1. go digital
       | and get her TV (hopefully larger size) hooked up to some sort of
       | computer that she can access them from. 2. If they are only
       | available in print, there are CCTV magnifiers that can help
       | people read/use books. https://store.humanware.com/hca/low-
       | vision-reveal-16.html Again, crazy expensive.
       | 
       | I'm just starting my serious degeneration (still have my drivers
       | license but likely for only a few more years) but I'm using large
       | monitors (32") and handheld magnifiers (many types, here is my
       | current favourite but it's heavy
       | https://www.lighthousecanada.ca/bright-field-magnifier-with-...).
       | For me, I 'lose' the location of the mouse pointer and thus have
       | significantly increased the size and contrast of it. There are
       | many enhancements on Win10/11 for the visually impaired. You can
       | also even get specific software that will read what's on the
       | screen and, as long as you are already familiar with how
       | computers work, can still use a computer even totally blind.
       | Phones are the same. Get to know the features before losing
       | significant sight as they are finicky on something like a phone.
       | 
       | Good luck with your mom, I know the struggle with someone
       | technically challenged and, with my mom, stubbornly thinks it
       | won't help her at all so she doesn't even try... Sigh....
        
       | mbfg wrote:
       | Maybe want to fix the title "Looking" -> "Losing"
        
       | iAm25626 wrote:
       | Instead learning the "new norm" every couple of years. Which can
       | be discouraging. Just prepare for the end, total blindness. Aka
       | pay the toll once.
        
       | CoastalCoder wrote:
       | If she's traditionally used toilet paper, perhaps install a bidet
       | attachment?
       | 
       | Not to be gross, but it could make her require less help after
       | using the bathroom. It also means she won't be dependent on
       | someone hunting down a roll of toilet paper if she runs out.
       | 
       | Caveat: I have no experience dealing with eyesight-related
       | disabilities. So I'm just guessing.
        
       | mxvanzant wrote:
       | I'm not sure these nutritional approaches are relevant for your
       | Mom's condition, but they may be worthwhile looking into if they
       | can possibly help stop or delay the progression:
       | 
       | http://doctoryourself.com/eyesight.html
       | http://doctoryourself.com/eyesight_II.html
        
       | pomian wrote:
       | Two ideas from similar experiences, with macular degeneration 1.
       | Stronger magnifying glass with flashlight, so can read from the
       | side of the eyes easier. 2.We noticed that when we switched from
       | the modem tv, digital displays, etc to an old fashioned (cathode
       | ray tube) massive tv, it was much easier to see and watch.
        
       | interestica wrote:
       | Learn to touch-type. Be open to new interests that can emerge
       | even if things tend to be text-focused right now.
       | 
       | I'm going to suggest something like and iPad + Kybook3 app for
       | ebooks. It'll let her read ebooks at whatever size makes her
       | comfortable, and then easily have it switch to speaking the text.
       | Get her used to text-to-speech in a way that still lets her go
       | back and forth. You have to enable and play around with a few iOS
       | settings to make it all ideal. Speech is surprisingly good now
       | and will only get better. Respond to this if you want more info
       | on my suggested settings for it.
        
         | javajosh wrote:
         | _> > I'm losing my sight. How should I prepare?_
         | 
         |  _> Learn to touch-type._
         | 
         | What a quintessential hacker news response! Losing your sight
         | is a profound loss, involving grief and other emotions, not
         | just the facility but all the people, places and things that
         | gave you joy to see. You are losing your independence, the
         | ability to move around your own house, to cook things safely
         | (and to see when they are done). You lose the ability to drive.
        
           | interestica wrote:
           | ? I think my comment offered a bit more than that.
           | 
           | I suffer from Keratoconus and have had to deal with the
           | diagnosis that "you may be blind before 30". What I offered
           | are two of my personal ways of dealing with that very same
           | reality. Touch typing has meant that I can write confidently
           | even if I can't see what I'm writing. And using devices +
           | text-to-speech in a way that expands on existing reading
           | habits seems like a reasonable way for their mother to adapt
           | to the use of speech as a replacement for reading.
           | 
           | > Losing your sight is a profound loss, involving grief and
           | other emotions,
           | 
           | The OP was specifically looking for "any tricks or solutions
           | for non-technical people like her that could make her life
           | easier" not psychological assessments and suggestions.
        
       | trashface wrote:
       | For readers, obligatory reminder that if you haven't had a
       | dilated eye exam in a while you should get one, especially if you
       | have a family history of eye disease such as glaucoma. I was
       | diagnosed with open angle glaucoma in my mid 40s and now take
       | drops. Turns out my grandmother had it, though only one person in
       | the family (my aunt) knew this. Open angle otherwise has no
       | symptoms and if untreated can lead to blindness. There is another
       | form, closed angle, which is painful.
        
       | twobitshifter wrote:
       | I am in the same situation. My dad lost his vision recently and
       | can't interact by touch screen due to nerve damage from a life of
       | physical labor. I tried a game controller with switch control on
       | a iPhone but that was too complex, so now he's focused on things
       | Siri makes possible. What got him recently is a phone menu asking
       | to dial digits. We solved this by programming the number into his
       | phone to automatically pause and then dial the right numbers to
       | get to the operator. I now think a t9 keypad accessory for iPhone
       | would be the best for him but I haven't been able to find one. I
       | am hopeful about the new simplified interface on iOS being
       | released in iOS 17. Design for voice isn't present in many apps
       | and the complex layouts aren't easy to map in your mind.
       | 
       | I think some Siri Shortcuts could be helpful for your mom. My dad
       | is diabetic so he uses a 'hey siri check my blood' to know what
       | he's at. In his case he needs full time care at this point. For
       | entertainment, he listens to books on tape from a tape player
       | with giant buttons he got from the association for the blind. He
       | got an audible subscription as a gift, but uses the tape player
       | instead of trying to figure out the tech.
        
       | Projectiboga wrote:
       | There are injections available every 6-8 weeks that can stop
       | progression and maybe heal the damage to some extent. The big
       | question is will Medicare cover it. My mom has triple coverage so
       | she might not be the typical case.
       | https://www.verywellhealth.com/macular-degeneration-emerging...
        
       | mwtheobald wrote:
       | My family has a genetic disorder very similar to Stargardts
       | disease which is a form of macular degeneration (loss of central
       | vision). I have it, my mother has it (who is technically
       | challenged/stubborn... lol), two of her brothers have it, her
       | father had it, etc.
       | 
       | MY mother is also an avid reader but the disease is progressed
       | much too far for her to read anything without a powerful
       | magnifier and even then she can only read 1-2 letters at a time
       | which is too slow to actually read a book. What she has done is
       | change to audio books many years ago.
       | 
       | In Canada we have the CNIB (Canadian Institute for the Blind)
       | that can facilitate purchase (at a discount if necessary) and
       | training/setup of specific readers designed for the bling/near
       | blind. They have a library of books that can be loaded (for free
       | here for people who are blind/near-blind). She will 'read' 1-5
       | books a week depending on what else she is doing. I would be
       | surprised if there was not a similar organization in your
       | country. Most libraries here also have free audio books that can
       | be rented/borrowed.
       | 
       | The device is a Victor Reader,
       | https://store.humanware.com/hca/victor-reader-stream-handhel...
       | and although is quite expensive has simple enough navigation that
       | even my mother can use it. It's quite robust, she just recently
       | replaced hers after nearly 8 years of daily use.
       | 
       | I would highly recommend you get her familiar with/using such a
       | device BEFORE she is seriously visually impaired. It's always
       | easier to learn those sort of things while you still have sight
       | and are younger.
       | 
       | As for the 'crosswordy' stuff, I see two options, 1. go digital
       | and get her TV (hopefully larger size) hooked up to some sort of
       | computer that she can access them from. 2. If they are only
       | available in print, there are CCTV magnifiers that can help
       | people read/use books. https://store.humanware.com/hca/low-
       | vision-reveal-16.html Again, crazy expensive.
       | 
       | I'm just starting my serious degeneration (still have my drivers
       | license but likely for only a few more years) but I'm using large
       | monitors (32") and handheld magnifiers (many types, here is my
       | current favourite but it's heavy
       | https://www.lighthousecanada.ca/bright-field-magnifier-with-...).
       | For me, I 'lose' the location of the mouse pointer and thus have
       | significantly increased the size and contrast of it. Dark mode is
       | also very very useful for me as white text on black is readable,
       | where the black text on white overloads my vision and I can't see
       | anything. There are many enhancements on Win10/11 for the
       | visually impaired. You can also even get specific software that
       | will read what's on the screen and, as long as you are already
       | familiar with how computers work, can still use a computer even
       | totally blind. Phones are the same. Get to know the features
       | before losing significant sight as they are finicky on something
       | like a phone.
       | 
       | Good luck with your mom, I know the struggle with someone
       | technically challenged and, with my mom, stubbornly thinks it
       | won't help her at all so she doesn't even try... Sigh....
        
       | kylehotchkiss wrote:
       | Sorry to hear about your mother.
       | 
       | PJ Vogt (of former Reply All podcast) recently did a really
       | thoughtful podcast about "What's it like to slowly go blind?" He
       | interviewed Andrew Leland who shared his own experience with
       | slowly losing his eyesight. I really appreciated the discussion
       | in this podcast and it helped me gain better respect for the
       | challenges that blind people may face.
       | 
       | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/search-engine/id161425...
        
       | yoz wrote:
       | TL;DR: Accessibility settings can be super powerful but so hard
       | to learn that, without either an experienced trainer or a
       | determined learner, they're useless. Does anyone have
       | recommendations for learners and amateur (family) trainers?
       | 
       | To the OP: I've been in a similar situation with my mother.
       | Unfortunately her loss of eyesight happened so suddenly that we
       | weren't able to follow the excellent advice to get her started on
       | the technology adaptation before her eyesight (mostly) went.
       | 
       | I'm hoping that our negative experiences here can be a warning to
       | others. The primary lesson is this:
       | 
       | Apple products, especially the iPhone, have the best
       | accessibility features for vision-impaired users. Unfortunately,
       | getting fluent with those features requires lots of time and
       | training. If your mother isn't able to reach that fluency, she
       | may end up not using the devices for more than a couple of basic
       | tasks.
       | 
       | I recommend finding videos of experienced people with impaired
       | vision using their iPhones, because it's quite amazing: they can
       | feel their way around the UI with tactile feedback, and read via
       | text-to-speech that's often running so fast that it sounds like
       | brief bursts of noise if you aren't used to it. We're used to
       | Apple devices being super-constrained in customizability, but the
       | Accessibility settings provide far more flexibility than the rest
       | of the UI settings. (This is a double-edged sword, which I'll get
       | to.)
       | 
       | We were hoping to give my mother that ease of use with her phone,
       | but first we had to move her to a new iPhone from an old Samsung.
       | We (her family) were very time and energy constrained, so didn't
       | complete the first and most basic step: moving her fully from one
       | phone to the other. This meant that she kept using the Samsung by
       | default, and effectively got no experience with the iPhone.
       | 
       | Even with the iPhone in hand, there's a bigger problem: no
       | obvious route to go from a standing start to a trained-up user. I
       | found very few good guides to using the low-vision features, and
       | even when I had them, I didn't know how to start training my
       | mother. The double-edged sword I mentioned earlier is that the
       | Accessibility settings are copious and complex, and if you don't
       | know what you're doing, it's easy to accidentally switch the
       | device into a usage mode that's hard to understand and even
       | harder to turn off.
       | 
       | If your mother is sufficiently motivated and downright brave
       | enough to experiment with the settings and learn them for
       | herself, it _might_ be possible. But I can see a hundred reasons
       | why that might not be the case. Modern technology is terrifying
       | enough for seniors as it is. So I'd start by looking for in-
       | person training help in her area.
        
         | lief79 wrote:
         | Going for practical advice:
         | 
         | Did you try to find those in person resources for your mother?
         | 
         | If so, how did you locate them?
         | 
         | Obviously those details are going to vary by area.
        
       | cascades42 wrote:
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       | paul7986 wrote:
       | Not sure if it's eye disease alone or something else.. but my
       | friend has Keratoconus and after getting super strong contacts
       | her vision is no longer blurry and nor is poised to lose per
       | diagnoses she was given years back.
        
       | gdcbe wrote:
       | Recently there was an episode of 99% that touched on this.
       | https://99percentinvisible.org/episode/the-country-of-the-bl...
       | In it they refer to country of the blind
       | (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/635964/the-
       | country-...).
       | 
       | Consumed them both and found it pretty interesting. I'm not going
       | blind though, so not sure how helpful it is for someone so is,
       | but at least it will show how Andrew dealt with it and still is.
        
       | Gncl wrote:
       | Just sharing this for general information. But there's studies
       | involving red light therapy for slowing macular degeneration.
       | Seems unclear if it works-
       | 
       | https://www.aao.org/eye-health/news/red-light-protect-aging-...
        
       | Gncla wrote:
       | Just sharing this for general information. But there's studies
       | involving red light therapy for slowing macular degeneration.
       | Seems unclear if it works-
       | 
       | https://www.aao.org/eye-health/news/red-light-protect-aging-...
        
         | lambdaba wrote:
         | Conversely, blue light is harmful. Worth looking into it. Red
         | light is absolutely safe for the eyes IME at any dose. It does
         | feel very good and healthy, for whatever it's worth.
        
       | probably_wrong wrote:
       | My mom went through a similar path, so here are some details I
       | haven't seen already mentioned:
       | 
       | * Not too many people know that losing your eyesight is often
       | followed by nightmares. The moment I told my mom this fact she
       | stopped having them.
       | 
       | * The "problem" with suggesting Braille is that it requires an
       | acceptance that one has lost their eyesight for good, which is a
       | difficult step for many. So audio solutions could be better in
       | the short term. The same goes for training for how to move around
       | using a white cane.
       | 
       | * iPhones have a feature called VoiceOver that lets you use your
       | phone without looking. My mom never really got the hang of it too
       | much, but she definitely uses Siri a lot. Android has something
       | too, but last time I checked it was not as good. Being able to
       | take short and long notes (voice notes, small recorder, whatever
       | works) should be a priority.
       | 
       | * If you install a screen reader, I encourage you to use a Linux
       | laptop. Windows has a tendency to move things around for no good
       | reason (and God have mercy if your OS auto-updates), which breaks
       | my mom's muscle memory of how to open this or that program.
       | 
       | * Audiobooks: I typically convert EPUB/MOBI books with Calibre to
       | DOCX, put them in a shared folder, and she uses the screen reader
       | to hear them. I also use the same shared folder to download
       | podcasts. Alexa didn't work well here at all, but that's because
       | Alexa in South America sucks. Your case may be different.
       | 
       | * Be ready to curse whenever some clueless news anchor talks
       | about a "miracle bionic eye" while praying that your mom doesn't
       | hear about it. Having to be the one who's constantly shooting
       | down someone's last hope is not cool.
       | 
       | I submitted a similar question here 8 years ago. You can check
       | the answers here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9546311
        
         | gahikr wrote:
         | My mom has macular degeneration and she loved to read.
         | 
         | At first I bought her an e-reader and a subscription to a
         | library that had more ebooks than our local library. That gave
         | her access without driving and she was able to adjust the font,
         | font-size, contrast and brightness to her satisfaction. That
         | worked for several years.
         | 
         | My backup plan for things getting worse was to move to
         | audiobooks which she refused to try earlier because it felt
         | like giving up to her. Braille was out of the question.
         | Unfortunately vision loss is often, but not always, a precursor
         | to dementia which I now know. She slowly stopped most
         | activities she enjoyed entire life.
         | 
         | In some ways, attitude it the most important tool. Acceptance
         | of things you cannot change, adaptability and creativity to
         | handle unexpected events along the way, and compassion to
         | support her in her journey.
        
         | User23 wrote:
         | Also see if she is or will be eligible for the NLS Bard. It
         | provides a wide selection of audio books and periodicals gratis
         | for the blind.
        
         | gochi wrote:
         | You can slowly work towards braille without overtly using
         | braille. Adding some sort of unique tactile feedback to spice
         | jars for example. While you can certainly add a braille label
         | to them, you can also just use embossed jars/lids, or stick
         | multiple nibs to the top (1 nib = salt, 2 nibs = pepper, etc).
         | Getting them used to tactile feedback being a good thing to
         | look for can go a very long way to accepting that braille is an
         | enjoyable next step.
        
         | arijun wrote:
         | The iPhone also has a speak screen functionality (separate from
         | VoiceOver) that's great if you want your phone to read a
         | website or book to you.
        
         | yencabulator wrote:
         | > If you install a screen reader, I encourage you to use a
         | Linux laptop.
         | 
         | For what it's worth, the ChromeOS built-in screen reader seemed
         | surprisingly powerful (to me experimenting as a non-blind
         | person curious about the space; no idea if it's actually useful
         | to a blind person). The UI is also pretty simple, so it could
         | be great for basic web browsing needs.
        
         | Natsu wrote:
         | Grandma had a terrible time using the microwave. I eventually
         | found out that there are microwaves that have only two dials,
         | one for power on top, which we left alone, then the bottom one
         | was time. Knowing how far a quarter turn of the dial was in
         | minutes allowed her to still cook things when she wanted to.
        
         | darknavi wrote:
         | +1 for audio books in general. Proper audio book recordings
         | with good narrators are so freaking awesome.
         | 
         | My favorite narrators (that I follow more than authors them
         | selves):
         | 
         | - Ray Porter
         | 
         | - Jeff Gurner
         | 
         | - Tim Gerard Reynolds
         | 
         | - Carl Prekopp
         | 
         | Plex (media server) and Prologue (audio book front end) on iOS
         | is a magical combo.
        
           | theshrike79 wrote:
           | Also:
           | 
           | - Neil Gaiman (especially stuff he's written)
           | 
           | - Stephen Fry (could listen to him read a phone book)
           | 
           | - Wil Wheaton
        
           | scott-smith_us wrote:
           | I joined Audible a few years back and although most narrators
           | are OK, I noticed very quickly how a bad narrator could ruin
           | an audio book. I started paying attention to who the narrator
           | was, and Ray Porter immediately stood out as one of the best.
           | Someone else must have noticed too, because he's narrated a
           | surprising number of the books I've read so far.
        
       | benrutter wrote:
       | My grandad lost his vision suddenly, and was a big reader. I live
       | in the UK, so YMMV but there are some brilliant charities and
       | national schemes providing access to audio books for registered
       | blind people. I'd recommend those hugely as they where brilliant!
       | 
       | Also, there are a fair few "gadgets" around every day tasks that
       | become tricky or dangerous when your vision is impaired (such as
       | pouring a cup of tea from the kettle). If your mother knows she's
       | losing her sight, she has a good opportunity to learn to use
       | those in a risk free environment and be confident when she needs
       | to use them. It sounds like you're already pretty organised,
       | which is great! Its definitely worth thinking about the everyday
       | tasks that give your mother independence, and thinking about his
       | to perform them without sight.
        
       | zikduruqe wrote:
       | Here is a good podcast from 99 Percent Invisible -
       | https://99percentinvisible.org/episode/the-country-of-the-bl...
       | 
       | And his book - https://www.amazon.com/Country-Blind-Memoir-End-
       | Sight/dp/198...
        
       | bastawhiz wrote:
       | My mom is mostly blind. If your mom is in the US, The American
       | Council for the Blind is a really great organization. You can
       | give them a call and they'll set you up with someone to get your
       | mom evaluated for her needs. They can put you in touch with
       | professionals to get her assistive devices that are often
       | available at little to no cost, connect her with resources, and
       | more. I'd definitely recommend going that route, because they
       | have the process pretty well streamlined and have a ton of
       | experience working with folks with very different needs.
       | 
       | I'll also note that there are a bunch of great podcasts from
       | blind folks that have tutorials and other information. There is a
       | huge and vibrant community of blind podcasters; if she's into
       | that, I'd definitely point her their way.
        
         | lhamil64 wrote:
         | I'll echo this. I've been legally blind my whole life, and I
         | received a ton of assistance throughout school and college.
         | This was mostly via my state's Commission for the Blind but I
         | think most states have something similar. They not only can
         | provide assistive technology devices, but also things like
         | Orientation & Mobility (O&M) training to help with navigation,
         | life skills (like cooking), etc.
        
       | chedoku wrote:
       | Buy her a smart speaker or teach her how to use Siri, Google
       | Assistant or Alexa on her phone. MyCroft is also an open source
       | alternative. If she can speak english he is in luck . I am
       | hopeful that there will be chatGPT integration and support for
       | other languages too. Please give love to Mycroft's opensource
       | github page: https://github.com/MycroftAI
       | 
       | Teach her how to text you and listen to audiobook and podcast
       | using smart speaker.
        
       | glitchc wrote:
       | If ARMD, that can be a serious condition.
       | 
       | Removing physical barriers is the one that requires the most
       | effort, and should be done as early as possible. Replacing stairs
       | with ramps, moving or removing furniture that's hard to navigate
       | around, adding hand supports and guides, removing any flooring
       | transitions or lips that a person could stumble on. Those should
       | be top priority as they have an adjustment period which is much
       | faster while still visible. She will have a mental model of her
       | home prior to loss of sight, makes it much easier to continue
       | living and functioning in the same space after losing eyesight.
        
       | jaclaz wrote:
       | There are electronic magnifying lenses that help in using paper
       | (but seen on a screen) which are simple enough to operate
       | (basically they are a camera and a screen).
       | 
       | The small "portable" ones are fine for spot/occasional use, but
       | ot read a book one of the large "desktop" devices is usually
       | working better, though it is inconvenient as the user needs to be
       | sitting at a table.
       | 
       | These help a lot when the (I have to presume the illness is a
       | maculopathy) visual impairment is at a stage when there is a need
       | for high contrast (BTW most of these can change colours of text,
       | as every person might have a different capability with different
       | colours for text and background).
       | 
       | Unfortunately often what the patient sees is also somehow
       | "garbled", horizontal lines may start being not look straight
       | anymore and then reading becomes very difficult as some letters
       | may be "jumped over", the common test is with a "Amsler grid":
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amsler_grid
       | 
       | the wikipedia article also shows how a patient might see it.
       | 
       | In a further stage, the patient might develop "holes" or black
       | areas right in the middle of the visual field and reading becomes
       | even more difficult, as it is needed to move the eyes and try to
       | catch the letters on a more peripheral area.
       | 
       | That is called "eccentric fixation", and it is part of "visual
       | rehabilitation" programs that attempt, through specific
       | exercises, to train the patient to use their eyes in a
       | "different" way to overcome, at least partially, the central
       | sight issues.
       | 
       | Of course it all depends not only on the specific kind of
       | illness, but also on the specific patient and patterns of vision.
       | 
       | To give you a single personal anecdata my mother for some time
       | had a very good response to simply using specific filter lenses
       | (yellow-red).
       | 
       | Here:
       | 
       | https://www.intechopen.com/chapters/72559
       | 
       | you can find an introduction to the matter, but of course you
       | need to find in your area appropriate medical structures.
        
       | _hush_ wrote:
       | I don't want to say something too controversial but I know some
       | people seem to have gotten their eyesight better after switching
       | to a carnivore diet. Eyesight is linked to vitamin A, I'd at
       | least try giving her a multivitamin that is correctly dosed in
       | vit A Example:
       | https://www.reddit.com/r/carnivore/comments/f41hww/eyesight_...
       | 
       | Eyesight can be improved by tailored exercises:
       | https://zhealtheducation.com/product/the-vision-gym/ I've seen
       | these ones recommended by a personal trainer, I haven't tried
       | myself
       | 
       | Hope it helps!
        
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