[HN Gopher] How fast should you accelerate your kid in math?
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       How fast should you accelerate your kid in math?
        
       Author : sebg
       Score  : 40 points
       Date   : 2023-07-29 17:53 UTC (5 hours ago)
        
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       | graycat wrote:
       | Early calculus in 60 seconds: Consider a car with a speedometer
       | that says how fast are moving and an odometer that says how far
       | have gone. Given the data from the odometer can find what the
       | speedometer values were. That is the first half of calculus,
       | _differentiation_. And given the data from the speedometer, can
       | find what the odometer values were. That is the second half of
       | calculus, _integration_. If start with the odometer values,
       | differentiate and get the speedometer values and integrate those
       | values, then will get back the odometer values -- that is the
       | fundamental theorem of calculus. Differentiation is related to
       | subtraction, and integration is related to addition.
       | 
       | Might be able to teach that to kids in the fourth grade.
        
       | raymondh wrote:
       | In our case, the main push to accelerate is to get more
       | knowledgeable teachers.
       | 
       | While experimenting with number sequences in Excel, our child
       | said, "I found e, 2.718281828". When he went to show off his
       | discovery, his two math teachers said that they had never heard
       | of it before.
        
         | whimsicalism wrote:
         | We pay far too little to get people who are very strong at
         | math.
         | 
         | This sort of lack of knowledge was not uncommon in my urban
         | school district, the only teachers who were truly qualified
         | were all doing it as essentially charity work after their high-
         | powered careers.
        
       | klyrs wrote:
       | As a mathematician with a kid who thinks he loves math (but
       | doesn't love effort), I try to expose him to fun math. I also
       | casually reveal upcoming concepts (currently negative numbers and
       | fractions), so he'll struggle less when his curriculum demands
       | it. But I never push. When he asks for more, I'm always there.
       | When his attention wanders, that's my cue to shut up.
        
       | ckz wrote:
       | An interesting argument I've heard recently (but haven't yet come
       | to a personal conclusion on, so don't take this as an
       | endorsement):
       | 
       | Emphasize math for older kids when their brain is better prepared
       | for abstraction (some even argue age 10+!). Emphasize language
       | and character for younger kids, especially because at _very_
       | young ages that's really what they're soaking in anyway.
       | 
       | The logic here being efficiency. An older child can learn in a
       | week what a preschooler may drill for months. Cover some math
       | facts in primary school to build a strong foundation, but strong
       | language skills compound against _all_ education and should come
       | first, with a heavier shift to advanced mathematics later in
       | schooling.
       | 
       | Again, don't know if I ascribe yet (I was accelerated in math at
       | a young age myself) or how this really looks in the real world,
       | but definitely an argument that wise people make in good faith.
       | 
       | Probably impossible in a standardized school setting. :)
        
         | jimmychoozyx wrote:
         | Some would say Math is a language. And I agree-- teach a 2nd
         | language to kids before they reach 12. But I would also want to
         | teach my own children advanced math during that time, if
         | possible.
         | 
         | From what I've read in passing, it seems some former soviet
         | countries of Eastern Europe & Russia teach advanced math to
         | students a few years earlier than the US does.
         | 
         | It seems that private South Asian-majority schools in certain
         | cities-- such as Houston-- also teach advanced math earlier
         | than public schools.
        
         | sn9 wrote:
         | Here's an old educational experiment that supports the idea of
         | literacy before numeracy:
         | http://www.inference.org.uk/sanjoy/benezet/three.html
        
       | kevinventullo wrote:
       | Going fast when the child wants to go fast and slow when they
       | need to go slow is I think most of what makes one-on-one teaching
       | superior to classroom teaching. But, yeah, homeschooling can
       | leave a big social gap.
        
         | LanceH wrote:
         | > homeschooling can leave a big social gap.
         | 
         | I've been around and tutored way too many homeschoolers to give
         | this a pass. If by "gap" you mean they behave in a more adult
         | fashion, sure. There is a gap between the independence and
         | social progression of homeschoolers and the nature of your
         | average trend following high schooler.
         | 
         | Saying that homeschooling creates backwards kids is just a form
         | of continued bullying.
        
           | firesteelrain wrote:
           | It's not bullying. Give me a break. It's a valid concern. No
           | one is picking on people for being homeschooled.
        
             | troupe wrote:
             | There are plenty of kids in public schools with and
             | creating social problems. There are plenty of kids who
             | "graduate" while being functionally illiterate.
             | 
             | So yes it is a concern, but it is a concern for kids in
             | general and acting like it is a problem for homeschoolers
             | would be like telling kids that "growing up to be stupid is
             | a risk for red head children." It is either being done with
             | intent to bully red heads or just based on ignorance..
        
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           | klyrs wrote:
           | You didn't tutor my cousins' kids. Fresh out of high school,
           | they can barely read and write and they get anxious if
           | they're more than 10 feet from mom. I would never imply that
           | homeschooling is uniform, but it _definitely_ has risks of
           | very bad outcomes both socially and academically.
        
             | troupe wrote:
             | Your argument would be valid if there is no risk of very
             | bad social or academic outcomes at a private or public
             | school. But there are kids in the public school system who
             | graduate without being able to read and write and it
             | doesn't take much to find students with extreme social
             | issues.
             | 
             | Perhaps the risks are just inherent in growing up?
        
         | sanderjd wrote:
         | Are there programs where kids mostly play with other kids and
         | then do the education side a couple hours a day of
         | homeschooling individually or in small groups? I feel like that
         | would be a nice structure through like middle school.
         | 
         | We have one starting kindergarten in a few weeks and honestly
         | it seems like too much school time for a five year old to me.
        
         | JoshTriplett wrote:
         | > But, yeah, homeschooling can leave a big social gap.
         | 
         | It doesn't need to. Many areas, particularly those good for
         | homeschooling, have tons of social and extracurricular
         | activities available _specifically for homeschoolers_ (such as
         | by being intentionally scheduled in the middle what would
         | otherwise be school hours).
         | 
         | And, of course, those are just the mass social activities, as
         | opposed to small groups of friends.
        
           | mock-possum wrote:
           | Public schooling has socializing built in - home schooling
           | has focused 1:1 attention built in. (In their ideal state,
           | respectively.)
           | 
           | Home schooling takes extra work to add socializing, public
           | schooling takes extra work to add one on one instruction.
           | _Generally_. There are exceptions out there, and there are
           | opportunities to hybridize the practices. But again - that
           | takes work.
           | 
           | Public school also functions as a means to take the work of
           | watching and educating a child during the day off of parents'
           | plates, so they can remain at least partially employed, or
           | even just have a small slice of their life back.
           | 
           | Homeschooling is a luxury most can't afford.
        
           | kashunstva wrote:
           | > Many areas, particularly those good for homeschooling, have
           | tons of social and extracurricular activities available
           | specifically for homeschoolers
           | 
           | During the five years I homeschooled my daughter, I found
           | that this was true but with one enormous caveat. We're a
           | secular family and homeschooling in many areas of the U.S.
           | means that these groups are often organized around non-
           | secular activities and principles. To each, their own. But
           | I'm not going to sign a "statement of faith" to participate
           | in a homeschool group. As a consequence, it really did feel
           | that we were going it alone. Larger metropolitan areas are
           | probably more inclusive; but otherwise secular homeschoolers
           | have struggles in finding the right fit.
        
             | JoshTriplett wrote:
             | In our area there were lots of secular activities
             | available, but unfortunately that's not universally true.
             | 
             | Many people select places to live based on school
             | districts; it may make sense to put the same amount of
             | weight on quality of homeschooling options. But even then,
             | that's not going to be universally available in a nearby
             | location.
             | 
             | There are also potentially online groups to connect with
             | others (even more so now than when I was that age), which
             | could help with finding and organizing groups.
        
         | xcskier56 wrote:
         | I home schooled for 2 years in middle school I wasn't a social
         | butterfly (and still am not). We were part of a home school co-
         | op where we went once or twice per week and the parents taught
         | various classes.
         | 
         | The kids there were wildly brilliant... 6th grader getting a
         | perfect SAT and ACT score, and almost all were very socially
         | awkward. But I really doubt that regular school would have
         | changed anything and may have made things worse.
         | 
         | The social issue is a chicken vs egg problem. Are the kids
         | socially awkward bc they're homeschooled, or are they
         | homeschooled bc they're brilliant and very awkward?
        
           | whimsicalism wrote:
           | > 6th grader getting a perfect SAT and ACT score
           | 
           | Almost certainly an exaggeration :)
        
           | xboxnolifes wrote:
           | > The social issue is a chicken vs egg problem. Are the kids
           | socially awkward bc they're homeschooled, or are they
           | homeschooled bc they're brilliant and very awkward?
           | 
           | This is a big annoyance for me in the homeschooling
           | conversation. If someone is homeschooled and is socially
           | awkward, it's the homeschooling's fault. If someone went to
           | public school and is socially awkward, it's their fault /
           | they're an outlier.
        
         | ckz wrote:
         | The social gap question has been pretty hotly debated for
         | decades (whether it exists and/or is even a concern). For the
         | curious, here are a couple of relevant threads:
         | 
         | 5 Days Ago: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=36842564
         | 
         | 10 Months Ago: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32746181
        
         | dbjacobs wrote:
         | Like everything else in schooling, the social gap is highly
         | child dependent. Our kids were a mix of home-school and private
         | schools and the kid who did the most homeschooling was the most
         | socially adept.
        
       | dboreham wrote:
       | My sons are both in college now, but during the K-12 years I took
       | the approach that I could not try to "accelerate" other than by
       | offering help with homework. That is, I didn't introduce any
       | concepts that would arrive later in their curriculum. Instead, I
       | introduced concepts (verbally, while driving to school and so on)
       | that would never be covered at the HS level. These included: the
       | idea that some things are provably unprovable (e.g. halting
       | problem), that some things are provably impossible (e.g.
       | constructibility of polygons), that everything in mathematics has
       | a history around why it was invented, and a story as to what it's
       | useful for, that generally doesn't get taught but can be very
       | helpful in appreciating why you might want to learn about it.
        
       | twump wrote:
       | My 6 year old is doing basic algebra and geometric proofs and I
       | worry it's going to make him bored in math class. But even if my
       | kid is a genius it's proven to me that we can be moving our kids
       | much faster than we do. I don't think kids in Singapore have
       | special DNA.
        
       | hardwaregeek wrote:
       | I had a good time at Russian math circle. It was competition math
       | but also math proofs which helped instill rigor as a core
       | concept. Which in turn helped when I started programming because
       | really a lot of programming is about invariants and proofs of
       | sort.
        
       | mattgrice wrote:
       | If your child is interested in engineering, and won't be able to
       | go to a private school, it is best to have Calc I and II done
       | before they go to college. At state schools, Calc is typically a
       | weed-out class with huge lectures and they want a certain
       | percentage of students to not be successful because these classes
       | serve as a gating function to the engineering school. Combined
       | with other freshman semester distractions and adjustment it's a
       | good idea to have it out of the way.
       | 
       | Other than that I'd say the best acceleration is enrichment.
       | Teach stuff like proofs, "how to solve it" by Polya, gain
       | intuition about linear algebra and complex numbers. Martin
       | Gardner and AK Dewdney articles in old Scientific American
       | magazines.
        
         | tzs wrote:
         | > Martin Gardner and AK Dewdney articles in old Scientific
         | American magazines
         | 
         | All of Gardner's Scientific American columns are conveniently
         | available on CD-ROM for under $40 [1].
         | 
         | [1] https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0883855453
        
           | epups wrote:
           | That's a great deal. Unfortunately CD ROMs have not been
           | convenient for like a decade...
        
             | tzs wrote:
             | Here it is as ebooks [1]. $99 ($74.25 for MAA and AMS
             | members). On sale for $59.40. I think the sale price is
             | just for MAA and ASM members).
             | 
             | [1] https://bookstore.ams.org/gardner-set/
        
       | fn-mote wrote:
       | This is such a fraught topic.
       | 
       | First point: a lot of students get "accelerated" by their parents
       | as a way of improving their academic performance and aiming the
       | toward an elite college. Of course you look outstanding in school
       | if you have covered the material a year before at the local cram
       | center. These "accelerated by rote" students memorized the
       | multiplication tables early, so they were put in "advanced
       | math"... but their rate of comprehension is ordinary. Their
       | problem solving skills are ordinary. They took "advanced math" in
       | summer school so when they take the course in the ordinary school
       | year they have a leg up. I don't think this has to be bad, but
       | it's not the "gifted acceleration" and can be tough on these
       | students if expectations are that they are "fast".
       | 
       | A second point: acceleration traditionally means moving through
       | the same material faster. If you have a gifted child PLEASE work
       | with them on a breadth of things, don't just race them through
       | multivariable calculus. Math contests are a good source of
       | broader problems. Art of Problem Solving gets a huge shout-out
       | for what is now years and years of acceleration and enrichment
       | material. Look at them if you are a parent in this situation.
       | (Actually, they are suitable for self-study.)
       | 
       | Edit: I am all in favor of kids learning new things as fast as
       | they want. I don't see racing through the standard curriculum (in
       | any country) as a route to happiness.
       | 
       | Random brain-stimulating math book: Donald Knuth, "Surreal
       | Numbers".
        
         | bradleyjg wrote:
         | _First point: a lot of students get "accelerated" by their
         | parents as a way of improving their academic performance and
         | aiming the toward an elite college.
         | 
         | ...
         | 
         | I don't think this has to be bad, but it's not the "gifted
         | acceleration" and can be tough on these students if
         | expectations are that they are "fast"._
         | 
         | Their parents don't care, on the contrary they want it to be
         | tough on their kids. They aren't interested in raising happy,
         | well adjusted kids. What they want is rich kids (that marry the
         | correct spouses.)
        
           | WalterBright wrote:
           | > Their parents don't care
           | 
           | Pretty presumptive.
        
             | bradleyjg wrote:
             | The thing speaks for itself.
        
         | pgustafs wrote:
         | I think problem solving math is definitely fun and can be a
         | huge source of confidence, but I don't see why "racing" through
         | the standard curriculum is a negative. Why should a smart kid
         | do a million multiplication/division problems for 5 years when
         | they would have a ton more fun and get a lot more long-term
         | utility from learning some stat/algebra/geometry? If a kid
         | demonstrates mastery of a concept, it's a lot more bizarre and
         | potentially damaging to force them to relearn the same material
         | over and over.
        
           | whimsicalism wrote:
           | I think it's more that there are massive large fields of math
           | that are just left out in the race to calculus.
           | 
           | I had a friend who grew up in Japan and he said he learned a
           | lot more number theory-style stuff.
        
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       | pgustafs wrote:
       | Agree, but I don't like the framing of "accelerating." Math in
       | school is for the median student. If you want a quantitative
       | career or just want to have quantitative skills, you should be
       | aiming for way above median. Aiming for median outcomes makes
       | zero sense in the current world. Find your niche and hit it hard.
       | 
       | Kids intuitively understand this -- they like doing what they're
       | good at. Unfortunately, most schools are not good at serving this
       | need. A very important part of being a parent is to encourage
       | kids to start compounding positive habits/learning early, and to
       | prevent the schools from dragging them back to the median.
        
       | gpt5 wrote:
       | I think that many parents fall into the trap of acceleration to
       | address their kids need to be challenged. While acceleration help
       | mitigate some unnecessary repetition, by definition acceleration
       | cannot go deeper than the standard curriculum, and deeper is
       | where things become interesting and where you develop
       | mathematical thinkers.
       | 
       | My children attend a school district where the norm is enrolling
       | kids in after-school math programs. According to the standardized
       | tests run by the school, about 50% of the students are pacing a
       | full grade ahead.
       | 
       | The school does offer an option to skip a grade in math, but the
       | pass rate is a mere 10%. While the skip test covers the standard
       | material, it does so with trickier questions, tripping up many
       | students. They're moving fast, but without much depth.
       | 
       | What I found works best is to pick a challenging and exciting
       | curriculum that allows talented students to immerse themselves
       | and experience the excitement and satisfaction of intellectual
       | discovery. There are a few examples of such programs. The most
       | popular of which is the curriculum offered by AoPS (art of
       | problem solving), which starts at first grade. Following this
       | path naturally offers a large advantage to learning at the
       | highest levels. If they are still moving faster with the rigorous
       | curriculum - sure, let them accelerate.
        
         | Foobar8568 wrote:
         | I am a strong believer of :
         | 
         | - There is no depth in math without understanding properly our
         | own language.
         | 
         | - One cannot master anything without actually writing stuff.
        
         | jibe wrote:
         | Accelerate is a misnomer, it is the go deeper, advanced track.
         | There might be a one time jump ahead, but that's not the heart
         | of it.
        
         | mabbo wrote:
         | > The school does offer an option to skip a grade in math, but
         | the pass rate is a mere 10%
         | 
         | I ran into trouble with this as a kid. They put me ahead a
         | grade in math in grade 2 because I could handle it and the
         | class was a 2/3 split (half grade 2s, half 3s), so I just did
         | math with the grade 3s. This worked going forward as there were
         | 3/4 and 4/5 split classes at the school too.
         | 
         | But then after a couple years, I was reaching the point where
         | the school only went to grade 5 and the teachers didn't even
         | have books for grade 6s.
         | 
         | So they skipped me entirely ahead a grade. Into a new school
         | (since the previous school only went to 5). With none of my
         | friends.
         | 
         | My other subjects suffered because I was only really good at
         | math. My social life died- kids are assholes at that age and
         | pull each other down. And my mental health was pretty messed up
         | for a long time. I wound up taking an extra year of high school
         | just so I wouldn't be in college at 17.
        
       | lanstin wrote:
       | I took 3,4, 5 and 6th grade math in 3rd grade. taught my self
       | algebra and some easy calculus in 4 and 5th grade, then I went to
       | math camp in 7th grade where i got credit for algebra 1 and 2 and
       | took geometry and trig and precalc (passing some standardized
       | test for each module). my school let me take BC calculus in 8th
       | grade and then go to night school for math for 9th thru 12th
       | grade. i was otherwise unaccelerated and had a pretty normal
       | teenager hood.
       | 
       | i highly recommend it, especially for math where there is so much
       | to learn; even by the end of undergrad, the newest math i was
       | learning was from the 1950s and 1960s. plus it makes a lot of
       | other things a lot easier to study. and it's fun to learn hard
       | math; the years when i had to study math i already knew where
       | really dull.
        
         | geniium wrote:
         | Other than that, what's ur story?
        
       | crawfordcomeaux wrote:
       | This is very easy to answer:
       | 
       | Design toys and environments for them that promote the
       | development of infinity category theoretical intuitions. Let them
       | decide the pace from there.
        
       | viraptor wrote:
       | I really like the idea of unrestricted learning (as long as it
       | actually checks that you master the material). I remember reading
       | a university level physics book and getting lots of fun math from
       | it while in high school.
       | 
       | Currently (many years later) I'm going through the
       | https://mathacademy.com/ ML course to get good foundations in
       | that area. But the service itself starts at very basic math and
       | allows you to go as fast as you want all the way to uni courses
       | (with lots of practice and reviews), so I'm hoping to use it with
       | my kid in the future.
        
         | albntomat0 wrote:
         | What're your thoughts on MathAcademy? I heard about it here on
         | HN several months ago, and it's been on my list of things to
         | check out, once I finish my current two side projects.
        
           | viraptor wrote:
           | Love it, 4 months into math for ML with a review of some
           | earlier topics. It's actually almost entirely about practice
           | in small chunks, which is different from many other services
           | I've seen. (Means no sitting through longer videos /
           | explanations) Basically it's what I would've really liked my
           | school math to be. Each question is only a couple of minutes
           | or so, so I really appreciate being able to do it here and
           | there when possible, instead of having to dedicate full hours
           | to the course. I've been following it being developed for
           | years hoping to use it with my kid, but ended up using it
           | myself first.
        
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       | seeknotfind wrote:
       | As fast as your kid wants should be taken into account, but like,
       | if your kid is alienating themselves, maybe take them to a
       | baseball game. If your kid hates math, the answer isn't not
       | teaching them at all. :D
       | 
       | Personally, I loved math, would have loved to be accelerated, but
       | I didn't know this was something I could ask for and get.
        
         | mlyle wrote:
         | A lot of the reason why your kid might be alienating themselves
         | is being thrown into an environment where they're a couple
         | standard deviations outside the mean and have to confront
         | tedious busywork.
         | 
         | It's hard for many people to accept, but kids who are a couple
         | sigma above the mean can end up having nearly as much problems
         | in an inflexible academic environment from kids who are a
         | couple sigma below.
         | 
         | My eldest is a very high performer who had behavioral issues in
         | upper elementary. A whole lot of getting him to the point where
         | he's maximally successful with peers, in other classrooms, and
         | in sports and other endeavors was getting him into situations
         | with appropriate challenge and opportunities for expression.
        
         | zeroCalories wrote:
         | Yeah I don't always buy it when people advocate for very lax
         | education. I was part of the upperclass-hippie parenting
         | experiment, and in retrospect I suspect it hurt me far more
         | than it helped. Given the choice I would always watch cartoons,
         | play video games, and cheat the system all I could. It clearly
         | works for some kids though.
        
       | markoutso wrote:
       | I keep wondering how articles make it up to the first page. This
       | one, for example, an article hosted by substack. A service with
       | terrible user interface, that tries to make you think that
       | someone is doing you a favour for letting you read their
       | literature without paying, whereas... the opposite is true.
       | 
       | The article itself is irrelevant but since I read it, I can tell
       | that it is a classical nonsensical piece on the benefits of
       | listening to children. The author lacks any formal qualification
       | on teaching from what I could also find.
       | 
       | In other terms a complete time waster.
        
       | doix wrote:
       | When I was a kid (elementary school) I ended up in the remedial
       | maths class. My parents were shocked because at home they were
       | teaching me things far beyond what was taught at school.
       | 
       | I have no recollection of any of this, but apparently I was just
       | a little shit and refused to answer questions at school because
       | they were "too easy" and "boring".
       | 
       | Not sure what the moral of the story is, but consider the second
       | order effects of accelerating your kids.
        
         | noelwelsh wrote:
         | I don't think you were being a little shit. I think that's a
         | perfectly reasonable reaction to being asked to jump through
         | arbitrary hoops that were meaningless to you.
        
         | r00fus wrote:
         | LOL I was in remedial math in 5th grade in one (red) state and
         | winning math competitions by grade 7 in another state.
         | 
         | Bored to tears and misdiagnosed capabilities...
        
       | stuaxo wrote:
       | I was really impressed at Number Blocks, which my daughter and
       | friends were all watching from Nursery age on BBC iplayer at
       | home. By age 4 she already had an idea about square numbers and
       | infinity. I honestly wish Number Blocks went all the way up to
       | university level.
        
         | MandieD wrote:
         | Oh, glad to hear that - my nearly-three year old is obsessed
         | with the Alpha Blocks right now, and we saw the Alpha Blocks
         | meet Number Blocks episode a few days ago.
        
       | WarOnPrivacy wrote:
       | I spent 2nd and 3rd grade in a grade 1-6 environment (public
       | school). Every student got the same series of math tests and
       | instruction began at the level they failed a test. Kids could
       | retest whenever they wanted. Older kids were assigned younger
       | kids to broadly mentor.
       | 
       | This was the early 1970s. It was by every measure a success. I
       | haven't seen it's like since.
        
       | darkclouds wrote:
       | Keep it fun, broaden their horizons so rather than just teach
       | this is how you do x and how you do y, give them some examples of
       | where they might expect to find x being used or where you might
       | find y being used in real life so they having something relate
       | to. Once you get past basic maths, a lot of it isn't instantly
       | recognisable in the real world, partly because its behind closed
       | office doors, so explain that some maths might be found in
       | banking, some in mapping, some in hedge funds, physics, computer
       | games, gambling, detective work etc etc.
       | 
       | Dont force anything because no one can predict the future and if
       | things dont work out in the future, you dont want them looking
       | back at this time as lost opportunities to have done other
       | things, even socialising or learning something else, even though
       | I doubt the demand for maths skills will ever die out apart from
       | maybe WW3 breaking out.
        
       | gnicholas wrote:
       | Article wasn't great IMO, but looking forward to the comments.
       | 
       | We found that our kid was excited about math until she started
       | doing it in school, where they just assigned busywork (zero times
       | tables? Check!) and refused to let her learn with other kids at
       | her level. We just kept doing math outside of school, for two
       | reasons. In part, it was so she could learn more math, but
       | equally important it was so she could see how to handle problems
       | where the answer wasn't immediately apparent to her. Otherwise
       | she would just skate through elementary school, never being
       | forced to persevere or really apply herself.
       | 
       | Our schools like to talk about perseverance/grit/etc. a lot, but
       | when it comes down to it they don't care enough to give students
       | work that requires it.
        
         | whimsicalism wrote:
         | > Our schools like to talk about perseverance/grit/etc. a lot,
         | but when it comes down to it they don't care enough to give
         | students work that requires it.
         | 
         | Your... elementary schools?
        
         | troupe wrote:
         | "No child left behind" is another way of saying, "no child
         | pulls ahead." The cost of a set of children not achieving what
         | they are scheduled to achieve is infinitely more expensive to
         | the school than the value of some kids doing much better than
         | what they are expected.
         | 
         | Maybe this isn't bad for a public school system. Maybe the goal
         | should just be to try to make sure no one falls below the
         | floor. But the schools interests aren't well aligned with the
         | needs of any student that is above that line, much less above
         | average.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | I will say it took us a long while to figure out that
         | multiplication and addition were commutative, and the times
         | tables helped drive that home.
         | 
         | It took me a long time to figure them out, and when it finally
         | came to a parent-teacher conference to discuss why I was having
         | trouble with math, I count that as the beginning of my
         | adventure in self-directed study. I took teachers entirely at
         | their word at 8 years old, and it simply did not occur to me
         | that they were just another human with ideas that might or
         | might not be universal. "This is how you learn this" became an
         | opinion, not a fact, and it was off to the races for me. I also
         | found myself from time to time playing ersatz tutor because
         | some other kids also didn't understand the teacher, and
         | occasionally they liked my re-interpretation better.
         | 
         | There is something about realizing you've been sweating bullets
         | for something that is actually easy. Few lessons stick around
         | like that, but the attendant feelings are complex and often not
         | fun or helpful.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | > Our schools like to talk about perseverance/grit/etc. a lot,
         | but when it comes down to it they don't care enough to give
         | students work that requires it.
         | 
         | Well, they care, but just not about the students who are
         | already excelling (and already bringing up test score
         | averages). I've got a kid in elementary school, and it's pretty
         | evident most of the school's resources are spent on the worst-
         | performing kids, leaving the smarter ones bored and
         | unchallenged. Yea, it was like this too when I was in grade
         | school in the '80s, but it seems much worse today.
         | 
         | If your kid is reading or math-ing beyond grade level, they're
         | just going to get ignored and handed straight-A's while the
         | teachers desperately spend all their time getting Donny Dumbass
         | to at least stop screaming all day and eating crayons. There's
         | no gifted program or tracking/segregating by ability anymore. I
         | guess those are bad for "equity".
        
           | spamizbad wrote:
           | > Well, they care, but just not about the students who are
           | already excelling (and already bringing up test score
           | averages). I've got a kid in elementary school, and it's
           | pretty evident most of the school's resources are spent on
           | the worst-performing kids, leaving the smarter ones bored and
           | unchallenged. Yea, it was like this too when I was in grade
           | school in the '80s, but it seems much worse today.
           | 
           | This is basically the education reform movement of the 90s
           | and aughts getting their wish via the monkey-paw. Schools and
           | teachers are measured and judged on how kids perform on
           | standardized tests. Your kid is likely in the 95%+ percentile
           | so there's not much room for "growth" as far as the metrics
           | are concerned. So their efforts are on pulling up kids from
           | the 5th percentile up closer to the median.
           | 
           | Also, it's not uncommon for low performing students parents
           | to sometimes freak out at the school if their kid starts
           | falling behind, so everyone scrambles to get these kids back
           | on track so the parents don't pull their kids from school
           | (which will only make things worse for the kids academics)
        
             | twump wrote:
             | But won't it make it better for everyone else? Not even
             | sure that bottom 5% should be in school. Just train them
             | for a role that they can be competent in or decide that
             | they will be a future ward of the state.
        
               | turzmo wrote:
               | The bottom 5% is hopeless. Yeah it would be better if we
               | did that, but people think about education as a means to
               | provide the individual the chance for success in life
               | rather than thinking about the broader impact of
               | individuals on society and the disproportionate effect
               | that the top has.
               | 
               | As far as most people are concerned, a kid that is acing
               | everything is going to be fine in life and they don't
               | worry about anything that could be going wrong there.
        
           | bradley13 wrote:
           | You're right: low performing kids get the attention and
           | resources. The kids doing well "don't need help."
           | 
           | Which is just wrong. The gifted kids are far more likely to
           | contribute significantly to our future. Boring them, stunting
           | their potential, ruining their education is the worst thing
           | schools can do.
           | 
           | Kids need to be in different tracks. You need at least three
           | tracks. Obviously, it should be possible to move between them
           | as appropriate.
        
             | lexandstuff wrote:
             | "gifted kids are far more likely to contribute
             | significantly to our future"
             | 
             | Citation needed.
        
               | throw9away6 wrote:
               | We live in a winner takes all society in the USA. So if
               | only the cream of the crop is allowed to contribute it's
               | where you want to put your resources.
        
           | ForOldHack wrote:
           | Pretty much it was that way in the late 1960s... until... we
           | got a computer programming class, but this is about math: In
           | Berkeley, they had a program called 'Seed' that had a great
           | idea, give middle school students access to PhD math
           | students. It was going fairly well, until Dr Steven Giavant
           | stepped into a classroom and wanted to teach the students the
           | frontiers and history of math. ( look this guy up! Genius at
           | Math, Super genius at education. ) I know that besides me, 6
           | other students got degrees in math, and we suspect 2 more.
           | Absurd. The norm was 1.2, even for Berkeley. He shared his
           | enthusiasm for math, and the children got it. We only found
           | out about it by accident, when my Abstract Algebra professor
           | said that they were in Berkeley Math at that time. ( 15+
           | years later ). And the second influence was Michael Griffin,
           | who taught computer programming, when I asked him "How do I
           | get to actually learn Calculus?" he basically laid out the
           | curriculum that led to my degree. With two more break
           | throughs, I now can use this to inspire sucess in math.
           | Thanks Steven, and thanks Mike.
           | https://www.facebook.com/MillsMCS/posts/1920193231575804
        
           | twump wrote:
           | [flagged]
        
           | brailsafe wrote:
           | Grade school is less a place for learning as it is a
           | socialization experiment. Did you actually advance your level
           | in any subject during grade school? Did your kid advance
           | above their grade because of the grades that came before it?
           | What's the utility in the school servicing your special
           | child's aptitude when the school had nothing to do with
           | either their current level or the lack of others'? But there
           | are advanced level classes in some cases
        
             | twump wrote:
             | If grade school is for socialization than it should be
             | focused on socialization. Group activities, athletic
             | competitions, creative projects, theater performances, etc.
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | Yes, it should be!
        
           | gnicholas wrote:
           | > _There 's no gifted program or tracking/segregating by
           | ability anymore. I guess those are bad for "equity"._
           | 
           | The CA Dept of Education used to require GATE programs. In
           | 2014, they made them optional, so schools stopped offering
           | them. What's shocking to me is that this happened even in
           | districts where there are lots of high-performing kids, with
           | families that care about advanced learning. When we moved to
           | Menlo Park, we were surprised that our highly-rated school
           | doesn't have any programs for kids who are advanced in
           | learning. They just talk about how all their lessons have a
           | "low floor and high ceiling" which sounds nice in theory but
           | doesn't work very well in practice (at least when you have a
           | mix of kids who range from 1-2 grades below grade level to
           | 2-3 grades above grade level).
        
         | sublinear wrote:
         | > Otherwise she would just skate through elementary school,
         | never being forced to persevere or really apply herself.
         | 
         | This really resonates. I rarely felt challenged until around
         | high school when I accidentally tested my way into some
         | advanced classes taught by teachers who demanded much more. It
         | felt awful and my self esteem was shot, but I was grateful in
         | the end. I had the same issues applying myself again in
         | college, but for the opposite reason.
         | 
         | Nobody should have to stumble through school like that.
         | 
         | I do think it's important to diversify the experience of
         | perseverance though. Math isn't everything.
        
         | loxs wrote:
         | [flagged]
        
       | lordnacho wrote:
       | At the moment the plan is just AoPS. Looks good to me, I bought
       | all the books. Seems to be roughly up to what I learned in high
       | school, starting towards the end of primary school.
       | 
       | My kid plays around with math a lot. Asks interesting questions.
       | Nothing has taken shape yet, so I just try to answer. But also
       | try to get him to work through the AoPS. He likes it actually,
       | there's always a question in there that he doesn't get and he
       | likes the challenge.
       | 
       | What I don't really hear anything about is how to get the kid to
       | self-ignite. He did this with chemistry. He knows the periodic
       | table, he knows what the electron shells are, what acids and
       | bases are. He asks interesting questions. I even hooked him up
       | with my friend who is a PhD so he can ask his weird questions
       | about molecules. On the math side, he just needs a little nudge.
       | Same with programming. I just get the feeling he's not far from
       | simply studying everything himself, I simply don't know what to
       | do to spark it.
        
       | fn-mote wrote:
       | [dupe]
        
       | MrMan wrote:
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